Latest / Radio 831: A Romance Podcast / Monster Romance 101, Rosie Danan on Vampires in Villain Edit, and SeaWorld Goes Dark Romance
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- 0:06Speaker 1: Hi, and welcome to the Radio 831 podcast.
- 0:09Speaker 2: We're your hosts, Sanjana Bhaskar and Tyler McCall. And we're
- 0:13Speaker 2: so excited to talk everything romance from the novels and
- 0:16Speaker 2: the tropes to the book to screen adaptations. And of course,
- 0:20Speaker 2: the drama of it all, you know, unpacking what the
- 0:23Speaker 2: genre says about who we are and how we love.
- 0:26Speaker 1: It is the middle of October. It is spooky season,
- 0:30Speaker 1: as the people say. And the reason for the season,
- 0:34Speaker 1: I feel, when it comes to romance this time of
- 0:36Speaker 1: year is monster romance, which I know is a subject
- 0:39Speaker 1: that you are very, very passionate about.
- 0:42Speaker 2: I am indeed.
- 0:43Speaker 1: And a subject that I know next to nothing about.
- 0:46Speaker 1: I have never read a monster romance. I am aware
- 0:48Speaker 1: of it as a concept. It bubbles up into my
- 0:51Speaker 1: universe every now and then. But it is not something
- 0:53Speaker 1: I've dabbled in. And I know that we have planned
- 0:56Speaker 1: a very exciting couple episodes revolving around topics in monster romance.
- 1:01Speaker 1: But I want to kick it off by giving you
- 1:03Speaker 1: the opportunity to sell me on monster romance.
- 1:06Speaker 3: You have the floor.
- 1:07Speaker 1: And this is something that you have dabbled in with
- 1:09Speaker 1: me via text message and TikTok DM.
- 1:12Speaker 3: And I have.
- 1:13Speaker 1: Played coy about it, but I'm playing coy no longer.
- 1:15Speaker 1: I have my wallet on the table. I am prepared
- 1:19Speaker 1: to buy. I am prepared to purchase today. Sanj, do
- 1:23Speaker 1: you want to sell me on Monster Romance today?
- 1:25Speaker 2: I do indeed. I want to start by asking, what
- 1:27Speaker 2: do you define as a monster? And this is a
- 1:31Speaker 2: really hard question, actually. It may not seem like it,
- 1:33Speaker 2: but it really is.
- 1:35Speaker 1: Like a fictional creature, like a non-human fictional creature.
- 1:39Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 1:39Speaker 3: Does that feel right?
- 1:40Speaker 2: Mm-hmm. Do you have examples of what they might be? Vampires.
- 1:44Speaker 1: I want to say werewolves, but I'm worried our werewolves
- 1:48Speaker 1: and our omegas, you know what, that's a different, we're
- 1:50Speaker 1: going to have to get into that another day. But
- 1:52Speaker 1: like werewolves, Frankenstein monster, ghosts, but is ghost paranormal? Like
- 1:58Speaker 1: what's the overlap between paranormal and monster?
- 2:00Speaker 2: Here's the thing, right? Monstersness is a slippery, uncertain, ambiguous
- 2:05Speaker 2: quality by nature. It's not just a fixture of like,
- 2:10Speaker 2: No one has quite figured it out yet. That is
- 2:11Speaker 2: what it is. It is slippery. It is hard to define.
- 2:14Speaker 2: It is ambiguous in nature because monsters themselves are cultural products,
- 2:19Speaker 2: like exports of certain human anxieties about how we are
- 2:23Speaker 2: in the world. And they can be the way that
- 2:26Speaker 2: we think about monsters in the real world, right? Like
- 2:28Speaker 2: predators and violent people and people we find to be
- 2:31Speaker 2: threatening and scary. And they can also be these like
- 2:34Speaker 2: fictional beasties. In the context of monster romance, we're often
- 2:38Speaker 2: looking at fictional beasties. But those beasts themselves symbolize and
- 2:43Speaker 2: have long symbolized our very human anxieties about other things, right?
- 2:48Speaker 2: Like aliens, for example, are a product of a cultural
- 2:52Speaker 2: fear of the outsider invading our home, occupying our bodies,
- 2:57Speaker 2: taking up our space. Like it captures all of these
- 2:59Speaker 2: like xenophobic anxieties our culture has about the invading immigrant
- 3:04Speaker 2: other or orcs and minotaurs as symbols of this like
- 3:09Speaker 2: racialized other or we can keep going on with different
- 3:13Speaker 2: species and I don't think this is like a one-to-one
- 3:16Speaker 2: of like this symbolizes X. This is just a series
- 3:18Speaker 2: of convenient examples but I think part of the reason
- 3:20Speaker 2: why it's so challenging to define what a monster is
- 3:24Speaker 2: is because they resist tidy description and That's partially why
- 3:29Speaker 2: I think that they are worth writing about and reading
- 3:32Speaker 2: about in the context of romance, because I find them
- 3:35Speaker 2: to be such rich sites of cultural excavation. And we've
- 3:39Speaker 2: talked a lot about romance as a cultural product. When
- 3:42Speaker 2: you are telling a story about a monster, you are
- 3:44Speaker 2: telling a story about a human, about a monster, about
- 3:47Speaker 2: a world, about a culture. And so I find that
- 3:50Speaker 2: the monster romance that I've read has become so.
- 3:55Speaker 2: Intellectually generative for me in a way that I wasn't
- 3:58Speaker 2: expecting when I first started. I mean, maybe I should
- 4:00Speaker 2: have expected it. Frankenstein by Mary Shelley is one of
- 4:03Speaker 2: my favorite books of all time. Wuthering Heights is like
- 4:06Speaker 2: one of the books that formed me as a person.
- 4:08Speaker 2: When Robert Eggers wrote Nosferatu, which is one of my
- 4:11Speaker 2: favorite movies of all time, he talked a lot about
- 4:14Speaker 2: how he read Wuthering Heights in preparation for the movie
- 4:17Speaker 2: because Wuthering Heights is the original demon lover romance which
- 4:21Speaker 2: yeah that is a pretty astute observation of how Heathcliff
- 4:24Speaker 2: works in that both as a racialized other and as
- 4:27Speaker 2: a person I think on the sort of surface level
- 4:31Speaker 2: monsters are interesting because they are such rich capacious symbols
- 4:37Speaker 2: and when you read a monster story it is hard
- 4:40Speaker 2: not to sit with the messaging of it for a
- 4:43Speaker 2: long time But I wanted to start there by being like,
- 4:48Speaker 2: we can't define what monsters are because we both make
- 4:50Speaker 2: them and we feel that they come from outside of us.
- 4:53Speaker 2: And to get a little bit more specific about defining terms,
- 4:56Speaker 2: when I talk about monster romance, I am often talking
- 4:59Speaker 2: about creatures that have uncertain bodily properties. So I don't
- 5:05Speaker 2: generally speaking include witches, werewolves, and vampires within the category
- 5:10Speaker 2: of monster romance. I'm more likely... This is more of
- 5:13Speaker 2: a personal definition than like an academic one, because the
- 5:17Speaker 2: body of the werewolf, the vampire and the witch is
- 5:20Speaker 2: so familiar and humanoid. But I think a huge part
- 5:24Speaker 2: of the appeal of the monster, especially in monster romance,
- 5:27Speaker 2: which is interested in exploring how the body moves, is
- 5:31Speaker 2: the uncertainty of it. The uncertainty of the physical form,
- 5:34Speaker 2: the malleability of the physical form. I'm more likely to
- 5:37Speaker 2: say Krakens and orcs and what else? What other?
- 5:41Speaker 3: I didn't even know Krakens was an option.
- 5:44Speaker 2: Oh, Krakens are totally an option.
- 5:45Speaker 3: I forgot about Krakens.
- 5:46Speaker 2: There's a Katie Robert Kraken romance.
- 5:48Speaker 3: I totally forgot that was an option.
- 5:50Speaker 2: There's something about the strangeness that is like the vehicle
- 5:52Speaker 2: for interest. You watched the animated Beauty and the Beast
- 5:56Speaker 2: as a child? I'm guessing. Oh, yeah.
- 5:58Speaker 3: Yeah, that thing got worn out.
- 5:59Speaker 2: Were you among the scores of women who were like, man,
- 6:02Speaker 2: he looked better as a beast than he did as
- 6:04Speaker 2: a human prince? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, dog. For me, the
- 6:08Speaker 2: appeal is, one, as Gemini, I love a slippery, uncertain,
- 6:11Speaker 2: ambiguous creature. Two, I think that oftentimes when women read monsters,
- 6:17Speaker 2: they see in them a capacity for freakishness that we
- 6:21Speaker 2: crave in ourselves. Not to be self-insert about it, but
- 6:24Speaker 2: I think that's often the case. And I also think
- 6:26Speaker 2: that it's really interesting to think about how our own
- 6:30Speaker 2: ideas of desire and pleasure can be divorced from traditional
- 6:33Speaker 2: humanoid forms that Our capacity for desire far extends beyond
- 6:38Speaker 2: such like simple rules of like penis is hot. Like
- 6:41Speaker 2: there's the bodily strangeness is like a huge feature of
- 6:47Speaker 2: what I think makes monstrousness so interesting to me. Yeah.
- 6:51Speaker 3: Damn. See, I wasn't prepared for all that.
- 6:53Speaker 2: Look, one thing about me, I'm going to get a
- 6:55Speaker 2: little theoretical with it.
- 6:57Speaker 3: And I love that about you.
- 6:59Speaker 1: Like my instinct as someone who lives in the world
- 7:01Speaker 1: is like, well, I think about people as being monstrous
- 7:04Speaker 1: as well. And like I sort of immediately kind of
- 7:06Speaker 1: drew a connection to dark romances where you have people
- 7:09Speaker 1: who are fully human who are doing terrible, horrible things
- 7:12Speaker 1: to each other in some way. And that feels monstrous.
- 7:15Speaker 1: I know like it's not quite the same, but they're
- 7:17Speaker 1: close enough. They're like touching enough for me that it's
- 7:20Speaker 1: like sort of a different scenario where it's interesting that
- 7:24Speaker 1: in actual monster romances, you have these very cozy, very safe,
- 7:27Speaker 1: feeling settings for these sort of extreme versions of bodies.
- 7:33Speaker 1: And then you have normal human bodies in these sort
- 7:35Speaker 1: of extreme dangerous situations. And it's not to say that
- 7:38Speaker 1: like monster romance can't be without a certain flavor of fear.
- 7:42Speaker 2: I'm also even thinking about books like Sing Me to
- 7:44Speaker 2: Sleep by R.M. Virtues, which is a sleep paralysis demon
- 7:48Speaker 2: and the woman who's dreaming of him. Incredible premise. Or
- 7:52Speaker 2: there's also a similar setup between a succubus and a
- 7:56Speaker 2: human woman in Demon Lover by Heather Gare. Also, I
- 8:01Speaker 2: think you would be surprised by how the sweetness and
- 8:04Speaker 2: tenderness of the characters being written about can at times
- 8:07Speaker 2: offset the like uncanny strangeness of the body. Yeah. It's interesting.
- 8:15Speaker 2: Or even like, turn that uncanny strangeness of the body
- 8:18Speaker 2: into a desirable property. I'm thinking about Found by the
- 8:21Speaker 2: Lake Monster by Lillian Lark, in which there is fully
- 8:24Speaker 2: an aviposition scene for the uninitiated. It's egg implantation. And
- 8:29Speaker 2: I'm actually not going to say anything more than that.
- 8:31Speaker 3: You don't need to know more than that.
- 8:32Speaker 2: Because I think you should just read it. It's a
- 8:34Speaker 2: great book. It's really sweet. It's very, it's really lovely.
- 8:37Speaker 2: I would highly recommend it. And also, it's a little
- 8:40Speaker 2: strange and weird and freaky.
- 8:42Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 8:43Speaker 1: Well, I'm really excited to get into all this over
- 8:45Speaker 1: the next couple of episodes.
- 8:48Speaker 2: And actually, we're going to start by getting into it
- 8:51Speaker 2: with the really lovely Rosie Dannon. We're not talking strictly
- 8:55Speaker 2: speaking about monsters. We're talking about vampires. But it is
- 8:58Speaker 2: October and it is vampire season. It would be irresponsible,
- 9:02Speaker 2: dare I say, for us not to be discussing the
- 9:05Speaker 2: cultural impact of vampires in this time. Rosie Dannen is
- 9:09Speaker 2: the author of several books that you've probably read, like
- 9:13Speaker 2: The Roommate, Do Your Worst, Fan Service, All Wrapped Up
- 9:17Speaker 2: in You. My favorite is The Intimacy Experiment and The
- 9:20Speaker 2: Villain Edit, which I thoroughly adored. It is a romance
- 9:24Speaker 2: novel about a vampire crown prince in exile in a
- 9:28Speaker 2: retirement community in California who has been tasked with controlling
- 9:32Speaker 2: his thirst and his love story with the granddaughter of
- 9:37Speaker 2: the woman whose house he's subletting from, who is an
- 9:40Speaker 2: ex-reality TV producer who sees him and thinks, hmm, he'd
- 9:44Speaker 2: be a perfect candidate for my Bachelor-esque TV show and
- 9:49Speaker 2: maybe will get me back in the good graces of
- 9:51Speaker 2: my boss. So it's a really fun setup. And I
- 9:54Speaker 2: also just like really love Rosie's writing. So I'm excited
- 9:58Speaker 2: to talk to her about vampires in our world. culture
- 10:00Speaker 2: and outside of them. Rosie, welcome to the pod. I'm
- 10:13Speaker 2: so excited to be talking to you about vampires today.
- 10:17Speaker 2: Vampires and monsters, but vampires specifically because of your upcoming book,
- 10:21Speaker 2: Villain Edit, which is like, first of all, such a
- 10:23Speaker 2: spectacular premise. Okay, can I just start by doing a
- 10:26Speaker 2: little bit of light fangirling? I think one of the
- 10:27Speaker 2: things I love best about your work is your capacity
- 10:30Speaker 2: for writing about kind of a crazy premise with like
- 10:33Speaker 2: so much tenderness and specific intimacy. And when I saw
- 10:38Speaker 2: the pitch for Villain Edit where I was like, okay,
- 10:42Speaker 2: reality TV, wild, check. Vampire Crown Prince, wild, check. The
- 10:47Speaker 2: set up for it feels like it should be something
- 10:50Speaker 2: so outrageous. And it's not that you don't make use
- 10:53Speaker 2: of those elements, but ultimately you tell such a loving
- 10:58Speaker 2: story about a vampire crown prince and an ex-reality TV producer.
- 11:03Speaker 2: And I just, I got to start with, how did
- 11:05Speaker 2: you do that?
- 11:06Speaker 4: I love this question because I think that you really
- 11:09Speaker 4: have summarized me as a writer. Like, I think those
- 11:13Speaker 4: are sort of the hallmarks that I think of when
- 11:16Speaker 4: I I'm trying to put together a project. And when
- 11:19Speaker 4: I walk away from a project and see what I'm
- 11:21Speaker 4: left with, it's like, I like a wild premise. Like,
- 11:25Speaker 4: I like for it to feel kind of like a
- 11:28Speaker 4: bad idea. Like, oh, maybe nobody should do that. Like,
- 11:32Speaker 4: that's the one we're going to take. But then I
- 11:34Speaker 4: do think, ultimately, that execution ends up being softer than
- 11:39Speaker 4: even I imagined. Like, every time I think I've reached
- 11:42Speaker 4: the depth of, like, okay, well, this one can't be, like,
- 11:45Speaker 4: more tender. We can't have, like, new depths of, like,
- 11:48Speaker 4: feelings to plumb. I think we get there. Like, I
- 11:51Speaker 4: think villain edit, which I thought was going to be
- 11:54Speaker 4: a lot more, like, sarcastic in tone when I originally
- 12:00Speaker 4: pitched it and darker, ends up being... very full-hearted. And
- 12:07Speaker 4: I think the reason it happens is I think that
- 12:10Speaker 4: my characters end up representing for one another the thing
- 12:16Speaker 4: that the other character fears most. So each love interest
- 12:20Speaker 4: is sort of the personification of the main character's worst
- 12:25Speaker 4: fears come to life. And I think that contributes to
- 12:29Speaker 4: the plot in the sense that it feels very like
- 12:34Speaker 4: loud and aggressive and makes the main character very uncomfortable.
- 12:38Speaker 4: So for villain edit, for example, Gabriel is a crown prince.
- 12:43Speaker 4: He is prophesied to lose control. His prophecy is that
- 12:47Speaker 4: his thirst will be his undoing, which I felt like
- 12:50Speaker 4: was like properly ceremonial and big. So the thing that
- 12:54Speaker 4: he fears is one, humans, because they thirst for human blood.
- 13:00Speaker 4: And then two, this idea that he could meet a
- 13:04Speaker 4: human that would make him lose sight of all the
- 13:07Speaker 4: responsibilities and all the training that he's had his whole
- 13:11Speaker 4: life to assume the vampire throne. And then for Harper,
- 13:14Speaker 4: who's our reality TV producer, her fear, and it's a
- 13:17Speaker 4: little bit more recently seeded, is that she is going
- 13:22Speaker 4: to lose everything because she gets too close to someone.
- 13:27Speaker 4: And I think her fear there is, She has internalized
- 13:30Speaker 4: this idea that she is so manipulative that she can
- 13:33Speaker 4: actually turn people so bad that they become true villains.
- 13:41Speaker 4: And again, I think that contributes to a lot of
- 13:43Speaker 4: plot scaffolding, that they have to confront those things and
- 13:46Speaker 4: they have to navigate getting close to someone that represents
- 13:49Speaker 4: both what they want and what they fear. But then
- 13:52Speaker 4: I think ultimately the output is very soft because... the
- 13:57Speaker 4: real work of confronting your fears is very like quiet
- 14:01Speaker 4: and intimate and vulnerable more than anything. I think so
- 14:06Speaker 4: much of my work is being interested in vulnerability. And
- 14:11Speaker 4: I think that's where a lot of the softness comes from.
- 14:14Speaker 4: So even when I tried to make it dark, that
- 14:17Speaker 4: ends up being the underbelly and that ends up being
- 14:21Speaker 4: the execution.
- 14:22Speaker 2: I guess I'm curious why pick vampires? What is it
- 14:26Speaker 2: about their lore specifically that interests you? And like, are
- 14:29Speaker 2: you like a paranormal romance reader outside of this?
- 14:33Speaker 4: I am a paranormal romance reader. And I think it's
- 14:36Speaker 4: very paranormal stories were very foundational for me. Like when
- 14:41Speaker 4: I think about like being young and developing my media tastes.
- 14:47Speaker 4: there were a lot of, like, paranormal stories. And I
- 14:48Speaker 4: don't know if that's just because that was, like, what
- 14:50Speaker 4: was popular, but I was watching Buffy the Vampire Slayer.
- 14:53Speaker 4: I was watching Charmed. I was watching Lena. Like, I
- 14:56Speaker 4: was in, like, The Mummy 1999.
- 14:58Speaker 2: The good stuff.
- 15:00Speaker 4: So when I, as a writer, think back to, like,
- 15:03Speaker 4: some of my core influences, because I think our childhood tastes, like,
- 15:07Speaker 4: end up coming in our work no matter what. Those,
- 15:10Speaker 4: I'll have, like, a touch of magic, a lot of them.
- 15:13Speaker 4: But I think particularly... I'm attracted to the tension between
- 15:19Speaker 4: supernatural elements and then very human.
- 15:22Speaker 3: Problems, which I think a lot of those works were.
- 15:25Speaker 4: More of the grounded paranormal versus total high fantasy or something,
- 15:29Speaker 4: which feels more escapist in some ways. I'm interested in
- 15:33Speaker 4: the ways that supernatural, either monsters or powers, however it
- 15:39Speaker 4: influences the world, forces us to confront our humanity more.
- 15:44Speaker 4: In terms of like picking vampires, honestly, not something I
- 15:48Speaker 4: necessarily set out to do. My last book, Fan Service, had.
- 15:54Speaker 2: A werewolf hero.
- 15:55Speaker 4: And that was sort of like a one-off idea. Like
- 15:59Speaker 4: it was not this super conscious decision of like, I'm
- 16:02Speaker 4: going to write monster romance now. I just had the
- 16:06Speaker 4: premise for that of like an actor who used to
- 16:09Speaker 4: play a werewolf on TV and starts becoming one years
- 16:12Speaker 4: after the show went off air and no one believes him.
- 16:14Speaker 4: And I thought that was so funny that I just like,
- 16:17Speaker 4: was like, please let me write this. And it's after
- 16:21Speaker 4: that book is done that I'm, you know, I'm talking
- 16:24Speaker 4: to my editor about like, what's, what's my next project.
- 16:27Speaker 4: And it was from that perspective, I think sort of
- 16:29Speaker 4: a foregone conclusion that I would write more monsters and
- 16:33Speaker 4: that like, okay, well we did a werewolf. So now
- 16:35Speaker 4: we'll do a vampire. And I originally was like, I
- 16:41Speaker 4: don't think I have anything new to say about vampires.
- 16:47Speaker 4: And while I was on maternity leave, I had like
- 16:49Speaker 4: sold the book, but I hadn't really started working on
- 16:51Speaker 4: it yet. I was watching a lot of reality TV
- 16:53Speaker 4: and I was like, villain edit, like, oh damn, like
- 16:56Speaker 4: that's so good. Somebody should make a paranormal called villain edit.
- 17:02Speaker 4: And then I was like, wait, like, it could be me. Yeah.
- 17:07Speaker 4: And that's where like the whole reality TV and like
- 17:09Speaker 4: making the first supernatural sort of Bachelor, if you will,
- 17:14Speaker 4: came from. And that I fell in love with. Like,
- 17:17Speaker 4: that was like the unlocking for me of like... oh,
- 17:20Speaker 4: there is something really interesting about the idea of a
- 17:23Speaker 4: vampire that's like conscious of his image and like sort
- 17:27Speaker 4: of knowingly marketing himself to be appealing. Like I got
- 17:32Speaker 4: really into the meta of that.
- 17:35Speaker 2: I think it's also that, yeah, you're telling a really
- 17:37Speaker 2: human story. And also I got to ask you about
- 17:40Speaker 2: the blood play scene, which is so personally important to
- 17:43Speaker 2: me personally for totally academic and intellectual reasons and no
- 17:49Speaker 2: other ones. Gabriel's in a knitting circle and he lives
- 17:52Speaker 2: in a retirement community and he's the sweetest ever. And
- 17:55Speaker 2: also he thirsts for blood and it's really hot. So, like,
- 18:00Speaker 2: you're making use of monstrosity in really useful ways.
- 18:04Speaker 4: I want the hallmarks of the genre that I love.
- 18:07Speaker 4: I need to feel like the promise of the premise
- 18:10Speaker 4: is being paid off, right? So, like, there needs to
- 18:12Speaker 4: be a bite. There needs to be something sexy with
- 18:16Speaker 4: blood happening. Like, why else are we doing this? It
- 18:19Speaker 4: was a fun challenge, I personally found, because regardless of
- 18:24Speaker 4: whether it's a supernatural love interest or not, anytime you're
- 18:27Speaker 4: writing a sex scene, you're like, how do I write
- 18:30Speaker 4: this so that it's hot and not, like, gross? But
- 18:34Speaker 4: I do think it helps that the craving for blood
- 18:38Speaker 4: is a very physical sensation, right? So it's like, we've
- 18:42Speaker 4: got the scent situation happening, we've got visual markers, so, like,
- 18:48Speaker 4: Gabriel's obsessed with cataloging Harper's blushes. And we've got like
- 18:55Speaker 4: sound you can hear like heartbeat escalation. So I think
- 18:58Speaker 4: all those things sort of, I mean, they do, they
- 19:00Speaker 4: mirror desire signals. And then I think at the end
- 19:05Speaker 4: of the day, what will we allow this man to
- 19:08Speaker 4: get away with because he is a vampire? Because I
- 19:10Speaker 4: think the blood boy scene in particular, if that's a
- 19:14Speaker 4: human character... and you walk in and see what's happening,
- 19:19Speaker 4: I think you're, like, calling the cops. Like, I don't
- 19:22Speaker 4: think you're getting away with it, right? But because he's
- 19:26Speaker 4: a vampire, we allow for a little grayness in our judgment, right?
- 19:33Speaker 4: Between what is sexy and what is potentially disturbing. Or
- 19:38Speaker 4: maybe it's disturbing because it's hot. Or hot because it's
- 19:42Speaker 4: disturbing a little.
- 19:43Speaker 2: Yeah. Also, can I just say, thrilled that you made
- 19:46Speaker 2: use of menstruation as a real feature of the text
- 19:50Speaker 2: because it's been like Chekhov's period in every vampire romance
- 19:53Speaker 2: I've read in a long time where I'm like, everyone's
- 19:56Speaker 2: talking about a period, but no one's doing anything about it.
- 19:58Speaker 2: Can we get on that?
- 19:59Speaker 4: I had to. I was like, There's no way we
- 20:02Speaker 4: can't get into it. I don't know. They had to
- 20:05Speaker 4: at least talk about it, right?
- 20:06Speaker 2: Honestly, it's another case of like, you can't be squeamish.
- 20:09Speaker 2: We're here to have a good time.
- 20:11Speaker 4: Right.
- 20:12Speaker 2: I know.
- 20:12Speaker 4: It's like you signed up for this a little bit.
- 20:15Speaker 4: If you're doing something interesting, it's probably not going to
- 20:17Speaker 4: be for everyone. It's sort of like a piece that
- 20:19Speaker 4: I've had to make with myself as a writer.
- 20:21Speaker 2: I've seen enough memes post-Twilight of people being like, Edward
- 20:25Speaker 2: yanked Bella's tampon out with his teeth to be like, well,
- 20:29Speaker 2: show it then. You know, which it doesn't get there specifically,
- 20:34Speaker 2: but I wouldn't mind. You know, I think we've got
- 20:36Speaker 2: to be open to being a little bit like, huh,
- 20:39Speaker 2: question mark. I'm interested.
- 20:40Speaker 4: And it feels very like patriarchal that even in romance,
- 20:44Speaker 4: which we think of as being progressive a lot of
- 20:46Speaker 4: the time, like periods are sometimes like off limits or
- 20:50Speaker 4: like pause your sexuality or like that part of your
- 20:53Speaker 4: connection with your partner. And it felt like vampire is
- 20:56Speaker 4: a great time to be like, oh, you're on a period? Like,
- 20:59Speaker 4: I'm double interested.
- 21:01Speaker 2: I'm going to be so helpful. So good. It's so good.
- 21:06Speaker 2: I just will never get tired of reading about a vampire.
- 21:09Speaker 4: And there's like so many different types of monsters. And
- 21:16Speaker 4: I do think there's like kind of like a popularity hierarchy, right?
- 21:20Speaker 4: With like vampires and the clear leaders. And then you've
- 21:24Speaker 4: got werewolves. And then you've got what? Like witches get
- 21:28Speaker 4: like maybe a little bit in there. But I think
- 21:31Speaker 4: there's like a lot of room for these like lesser known,
- 21:34Speaker 4: like we're seeing more krakens and mermen. And also I
- 21:39Speaker 4: think like vampires, a pro and a con is that
- 21:42Speaker 4: it's been done so much that there's a lot of
- 21:44Speaker 4: like more ironed out lore that you either like choose
- 21:49Speaker 4: to opt into or not. Whereas I think about a
- 21:52Speaker 4: merman and I'm like, I still don't actually understand the
- 21:55Speaker 4: mechanics of there at all. It's open-ended for me.
- 22:00Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that. I love that. What monster would
- 22:04Speaker 2: you write next?
- 22:06Speaker 4: Okay, so I am writing another monster currently. I will say,
- 22:11Speaker 4: this is a pretty big spoiler, but I will say
- 22:13Speaker 4: that our ideas about gender and how they intersect with
- 22:22Speaker 4: monsters I think is something worth digging into.
- 22:25Speaker 2: I love that Thank you for coming on, Rosie. This
- 22:28Speaker 2: was so lovely. I'm so excited for people to get
- 22:30Speaker 2: Villanetta in their hands. Gabriel is, oh my God, I
- 22:33Speaker 2: want to pinch his cheeks and also more nefarious things,
- 22:36Speaker 2: but mostly I find him to be the sweetest and
- 22:38Speaker 2: I love him. And I so appreciate you coming on
- 22:41Speaker 2: and sharing your time and your brain with us. Yes.
- 22:44Speaker 4: Thank you for having me.
- 22:54Speaker 2: Tyler, I had such a lovely time with Rosie. She
- 22:58Speaker 2: is truly so special, so wonderful. I had such a
- 23:01Speaker 2: fangirl moment. Speaking of fangirls, I have some interesting stuff
- 23:05Speaker 2: to send you today. I'm scared. And I would love
- 23:07Speaker 2: to solicit a live reaction from you. If you could
- 23:10Speaker 2: check your phone and watch the two TikToks that I've
- 23:13Speaker 2: sent you.
- 23:13Speaker 3: Okay. What have you slid across my desk today?
- 23:18Speaker 2: I've slid something really interesting across your desk today.
- 23:21Speaker 4: Okay.
- 23:23Speaker 2: Of the SeaWorld Dark Romance Book Talk Girly Scare Zone,
- 23:27Speaker 2: as it is called. I... Okay.
- 23:31Speaker 3: I'm very flustered.
- 23:32Speaker 2: In a this-is-working-for-you way?
- 23:36Speaker 1: This better not awaken anything in me. Yeah, listen, I
- 23:38Speaker 1: am in some ways very easy to impress, I guess.
- 23:43Speaker 3: Tyler, this is not the.
- 23:44Speaker 2: Reaction I was expecting from.
- 23:47Speaker 4: You at all.
- 23:48Speaker 1: Okay, so actually, now that you mention it, I have
- 23:51Speaker 1: a very serious question, which is why the fuck is
- 23:53Speaker 1: this at SeaWorld?
- 23:54Speaker 4: Correct.
- 23:55Speaker 3: Why is this at SeaWorld?
- 23:56Speaker 2: Let me explain really quick what this is. SeaWorld... yes,
- 24:00Speaker 2: of Shamu fame, has opened a book talk girly dark
- 24:04Speaker 2: romance scare zone. I don't know if that's the exact,
- 24:07Speaker 2: every person I've said this to has been like, I
- 24:08Speaker 2: know those words separately, but not together. And not together.
- 24:11Speaker 2: I understand. I was also stunned when I first saw it.
- 24:14Speaker 2: It is an exhibit of scare actors who are carrying
- 24:18Speaker 2: out some dark romance-y kind of vibes. They've got like
- 24:21Speaker 2: Phantom of the Opera masks on. They have spray painted
- 24:25Speaker 2: abs on. Those are not real human abs. They have
- 24:29Speaker 2: fluttering black shirts. They're doing the come hither beckon with
- 24:34Speaker 2: your fingers. It's a really dubious setup all around. And
- 24:40Speaker 2: it is intended to be like a scare zone that
- 24:43Speaker 2: draws in tourists. The connection to SeaWorld is tenuous, besides
- 24:47Speaker 2: the fact that it's taking place there.
- 24:49Speaker 3: So we should we should talk about scare actor phenomenon
- 24:51Speaker 3: in general.
- 24:52Speaker 1: I am aware that scare actors are a thing because
- 24:58Speaker 1: every September the 1st, my TikTok algorithm starts trying to
- 25:04Speaker 1: serve me scare actor content because it is. Listen, it's
- 25:08Speaker 1: not wrong that I fit the demographic.
- 25:10Speaker 4: Right.
- 25:10Speaker 1: I am a millennial white lady who reads romance online.
- 25:13Speaker 3: I have watched scare actor content. There is one at some,
- 25:17Speaker 3: I think it must.
- 25:18Speaker 2: Be like, I know which one you're talking about. I'm
- 25:20Speaker 2: unfortunately so locked into him. Yeah, I think so.
- 25:22Speaker 3: Fry boy is really hot. Fry boy really works for me.
- 25:25Speaker 3: I don't, I don't understand it conceptually. I don't understand
- 25:28Speaker 3: what the point is.
- 25:29Speaker 1: So fry boy, for those who don't know, I think
- 25:31Speaker 1: it's fry boy for those who don't know for like,
- 25:34Speaker 1: like 45 days out of the year. This man is
- 25:36Speaker 1: employed to wander about a theme park with like knee
- 25:41Speaker 1: pads and like some kind of hand brace on that
- 25:43Speaker 1: have like a coating on them that when he runs
- 25:45Speaker 1: at a fast speed, he can drop to his knees
- 25:47Speaker 1: and he slides across the ground really fast. As I'm
- 25:51Speaker 1: explaining this, it sounds so profoundly unsexy. I actually don't
- 25:55Speaker 1: think I could have found– a less sexy way to
- 25:58Speaker 1: describe the action of what this is.
- 26:00Speaker 3: And the other thing that happens to me, and.
- 26:02Speaker 1: Again, I fit the demographic, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera,
- 26:05Speaker 1: is that Universal Studios has caught on to the dark
- 26:08Speaker 1: romance girlies and they have, you know, famously they have
- 26:13Speaker 1: Halloween Horror Nights. This is a huge, this has been
- 26:16Speaker 1: a thing for many, many years.
- 26:17Speaker 3: I grew up in Florida. I've been to Halloween Horror Nights.
- 26:19Speaker 1: I can't go anymore because it gives me heart palpitations
- 26:21Speaker 1: because I'm 40.
- 26:22Speaker 3: But in my youth, it was fun.
- 26:24Speaker 1: And the thing that they have caught on to is
- 26:26Speaker 1: having Death Eaters in the Harry Potter section makes certain
- 26:30Speaker 1: types of girlies go nuts.
- 26:32Speaker 3: That's one that doesn't work for me because... No. Have
- 26:35Speaker 3: you not caught and served the Death Eater thirst content? No,
- 26:38Speaker 3: not the Nazi.
- 26:39Speaker 2: I actually.
- 26:39Speaker 3: They're the Nazi wizards.
- 26:43Speaker 2: It's just.
- 26:44Speaker 1: Because it is adjacent to this. It's adjacent to scare actors. It's, like,
- 26:48Speaker 1: men in masks with, like, flowing black cloaks.
- 26:50Speaker 3: Like, I actually think Universal had to hire.
- 26:53Speaker 1: Like, security for, like, the Death Eaters because women were
- 26:55Speaker 1: getting too thirsty for them. You could draw a direct thread,
- 26:59Speaker 1: to me, between the rise in popularity of dark romance
- 27:02Speaker 1: on social media, specifically, and then Fry Boy, I feel like,
- 27:06Speaker 1: started popping up, like.
- 27:08Speaker 3: I think maybe two years ago, but I could be wrong.
- 27:10Speaker 3: For me, anyway.
- 27:11Speaker 1: He started popping up two Halloweens ago. I need to
- 27:14Speaker 1: meet the girly pop at SeaWorld who saw Fry Boy
- 27:18Speaker 1: and said, we could do this.
- 27:19Speaker 2: SeaWorld! At SeaWorld.
- 27:23Speaker 1: I don't want to be thirsty at SeaWorld. I don't
- 27:25Speaker 1: want to be at SeaWorld, period. I don't know how
- 27:27Speaker 1: that business model is still going, to be honest. Love
- 27:30Speaker 1: and light to the fine folks at SeaWorld who will
- 27:32Speaker 1: never sponsor this podcast now. But, like, listen, I don't
- 27:36Speaker 1: need to go to SeaWorld to be thirsty.
- 27:38Speaker 2: Horror night is one thing or Halloween night is one thing. But, like,
- 27:42Speaker 2: SeaWorld is like a family establishment.
- 27:46Speaker 3: So I'm about to say a series of crazy things.
- 27:49Speaker 3: I did a student film.
- 27:50Speaker 2: On this show? Never.
- 27:51Speaker 3: On this show.
- 27:53Speaker 1: I did a student film last year. And my co-star
- 27:57Speaker 1: in the student film was an older gentleman who spent
- 28:01Speaker 1: like a month every year in Florida working at a
- 28:04Speaker 1: haunted house. Because he's a scare actor. He's not a
- 28:07Speaker 1: scare actor in this way. Like not a thirst scare actor.
- 28:10Speaker 1: Just like the normal kind that like wear like Jason
- 28:13Speaker 1: masks and whatever.
- 28:14Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 28:14Speaker 1: But, like, I do think this is a huge industry
- 28:16Speaker 1: for actors this time of year. So I should also
- 28:18Speaker 1: just say, like, much love and respect to actors getting
- 28:20Speaker 1: paid to do acting work. I love that for you guys. Also,
- 28:23Speaker 1: I've been reading some really great scare actor romances.
- 28:26Speaker 4: Really?
- 28:26Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. I try to keep up with, like, Halloween romances. Weirdly,
- 28:31Speaker 2: my appetite for them is mostly in the spring. But I...
- 28:34Speaker 2: That is really funny. I really... I think Chelsea Curdo
- 28:37Speaker 2: had a, like, dark scare actor romance. That I was
- 28:41Speaker 2: totally tickled by.
- 28:42Speaker 3: Oh, Holly June Smith has one, too.
- 28:44Speaker 2: I think I've read that one as well. Really hot.
- 28:46Speaker 2: They're fun. The, like, fry boy economy of romance is real, right? Unironically,
- 28:52Speaker 2: it is real. Vanessa Allen's Lights Out, that came from
- 28:57Speaker 2: Masked Men on BookTok. There's a lot of awareness of
- 29:00Speaker 2: Masked Men on BookTok. there are a lot of dark
- 29:02Speaker 2: romances that are like doing a sort of reciprocal thing
- 29:05Speaker 2: with this economy of like erotic horror content in real
- 29:11Speaker 2: life and vice versa. You know, they are like reciprocal
- 29:14Speaker 2: systems of wish fulfillment, which I mean, I find the
- 29:18Speaker 2: book stuff more successful than the in-person performances, but that's
- 29:21Speaker 2: just because I'm just Gen Z enough to experience profound cringe.
- 29:26Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean? Like I'm just Gen
- 29:28Speaker 2: Z enough to be like, I, I'm experiencing immediate ick.
- 29:32Speaker 1: For me, it's more like I totally respect that this
- 29:34Speaker 1: is a thing for women, but I want to usher
- 29:36Speaker 1: them out of that space and be like, no, no,
- 29:37Speaker 1: you deserve better than this. this we can do better
- 29:39Speaker 1: than this like we can we can find better like
- 29:42Speaker 1: do you know what I mean it's more that it's
- 29:44Speaker 1: more like.
- 29:44Speaker 2: And these videos kind of worked for you Tyler.
- 29:47Speaker 1: Yeah I could it was more it was let me
- 29:49Speaker 1: let me be clear it was more than I could
- 29:52Speaker 1: see how it would work for me Do you know
- 29:54Speaker 1: what I mean?
- 29:55Speaker 3: It was not an immediate, like, this works for me.
- 29:58Speaker 3: It was more of like there were moments. It was
- 30:00Speaker 3: like concepts of a plan. Concepts of a plan.
- 30:02Speaker 2: Also, if you guys have ever been having thoughts about
- 30:05Speaker 2: scare actors, about Halloween romance, we'd love to hear them.
- 30:08Speaker 2: And you can send them to us at 833-831-LOVE. We
- 30:13Speaker 2: do listen to those voicemails and we love to hear them.
- 30:15Speaker 2: I think that's the show. That's the show.
- 30:18Speaker 3: I don't think we can top any of what I
- 30:20Speaker 3: just said. That's the show.
- 30:21Speaker 2: Oh, my gosh.
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