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Romeo In The Morning 6-8-26 · Romeo In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: All right, what did you text me here? A four, two, five,
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  Speaker 1: four or seven to seven?
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  Speaker 2: Hey?
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  Speaker 1: Rome, what do you think about single moms? I met
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  Speaker 1: a single mom the other day. I thought she was
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  Speaker 1: kind of cool. I was thinking about going out with her,
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  Speaker 1: but she has a kid. I'm just not sure what
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  Speaker 1: to think. What do you think Rome, single moms? What
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  Speaker 1: do I think? I think?
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  Speaker 3: Uh?
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  Speaker 1: I think a single mom can be the best relationship
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  Speaker 1: of your life and the worst relationship of your life
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  Speaker 1: depends on what type of single mom you got. You said,
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  Speaker 1: not all single moms are created equal. Okay, there are
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  Speaker 1: different versions of the single mom. You got the and
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  Speaker 1: I think this is the version you're talking about. You
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  Speaker 1: got the single mom who got pregnant, young h with
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  Speaker 1: the wrong guy. So now she's working her ass off
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  Speaker 1: to take care of her and her child, and she
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  Speaker 1: wants to meet some guy who's going to She's not
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  Speaker 1: going to settle for some loser. She wants to meet
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  Speaker 1: some guy who's going to you know, work as hard
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  Speaker 1: as she is. And those are I've told you, those
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  Speaker 1: are the best, probably the best women you can get
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  Speaker 1: with because she knows she she knows where her life
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  Speaker 1: has to go because of this child, and if you're
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  Speaker 1: on her level and you she'll do whatever you want
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  Speaker 1: and be right there with you. You also got the
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  Speaker 1: single mom who's out there just looking for a baby
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  Speaker 1: daddy to pay for everything, right, And those come in
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  Speaker 1: different versions, by the way. Okay, they come in the
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  Speaker 1: version where she's not really she doesn't have nothing going
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  Speaker 1: for her. She's just kind of desperate for a man
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  Speaker 1: and needs someone to take care of her kids. Her
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  Speaker 1: and her kids. Maybe she's not financially straight. But then
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  Speaker 1: you got the Seven Oaks Rosedale single moms who got
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  Speaker 1: cheated on by their husbands. They got the yukon the
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  Speaker 1: house and the kids. But yet they're running around in
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  Speaker 1: there Lulu Limon, still trying to grab a guy who's
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  Speaker 1: gonna keep up their lifestyle, you know. So there's one
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  Speaker 1: who So you got two types of those, the one
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  Speaker 1: who wants to keep up their lifestyle and the one
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  Speaker 1: who's trying to get a lifestyle or survive. So what
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  Speaker 1: single mom did you meet? But there is, like I said,
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  Speaker 1: I think the single mom who knew she she had
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  Speaker 1: a child young or younger, and knows she has to
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  Speaker 1: work her ass off to raise that child and take
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  Speaker 1: care of them is the single mom that you want
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  Speaker 1: to look for because she's the one that will She's
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  Speaker 1: the one that will do everything for you as long
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  Speaker 1: as you're on the same level as her. So that's
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  Speaker 1: my opinion on single mom. Which one did you find?
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  Speaker 1: The guy was asking about single moms? What I thought
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  Speaker 1: about single moms? Well he must have met one. Apparently
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  Speaker 1: he met one. So he's asking my opinion. And there's
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  Speaker 1: good ones and there's bad one. She's got to know
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  Speaker 1: which one you get. Good morning? How what's going on?
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  Speaker 4: Romeo?
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  Speaker 2: Up?
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  Speaker 5: You know you're right man, You got to get the
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  Speaker 5: right single mother. You know, you don't want to get
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  Speaker 5: the one they got four kids. She won't get the
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  Speaker 5: one that got one head.
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  Speaker 4: You know.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I mean, you know, what if you four
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  Speaker 1: kids aren't bad. I mean, I'm just.
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  Speaker 3: Saying, that's a lot to carry on.
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  Speaker 1: It depends on when you get them, you know what
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  Speaker 1: I mean. It's it's I think it's more about the
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  Speaker 1: what single mom do you get than it is about
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  Speaker 1: the one with four kids? Because what if you what
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  Speaker 1: if you get the what if you get the rooms
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  Speaker 1: to one who just got divorced because her husband cheating
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  Speaker 1: on her she's getting alimony, child support, the house, the suv,
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  Speaker 1: and the.
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  Speaker 5: Four kids there everywhere.
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  Speaker 1: I saw three of them this morning.
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  Speaker 5: Oh man, I need to take your route, whatever route.
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  Speaker 1: They're they're all at the gym right now, trying to
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  Speaker 1: get their body back so they can get you. But
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  Speaker 1: they do.
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  Speaker 5: They do for you, almost like you wanted the kids too.
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  Speaker 3: You know, it feeds you.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, clothes, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 3: Make sure everything is the way it needs to be.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't wrong with it, but that's what I know.
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  Speaker 1: We're joking about it. But that is why you got
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  Speaker 1: to get the one that knew she she was young,
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  Speaker 1: made a mistake, not a mistake to have the kid,
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  Speaker 1: but with the wrong guy, and now she's working her
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  Speaker 1: ass off to make sure that everybody's provided for. That's
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  Speaker 1: the one you really want to get.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, make sure it's not the one that has too
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  Speaker 5: crazy guys still trying to you know, two different baby daddy.
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  Speaker 3: What's going on?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't want to.
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  Speaker 6: You don't want the.
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  Speaker 1: Single mom and multiple baby daddy. You don't want that.
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  Speaker 3: So if they all have the kids by the same
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  Speaker 3: bad man, well changed.
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  Speaker 1: That changes the parameters. I mean, you got there's so many.
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  Speaker 1: It's just there's so many things you got to think
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  Speaker 1: about when it comes to the single mom. That's why
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  Speaker 1: we say the best one is the one who knows
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  Speaker 1: that she chose the wrong man young, and now she's
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  Speaker 1: working her ass off to make sure that they're provided for.
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  Speaker 1: That's the one you want. Man.
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  Speaker 2: That happens semester in college. It really helps.
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  Speaker 1: That was asking me about single mom. Apparently he met
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  Speaker 1: a single mom. He's kind of questioning whether he should
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  Speaker 1: go out with her or not. And you should because
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  Speaker 1: there are different versions of they're they're not all created equal. There.
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  Speaker 1: You you have a few different versions of single moms. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: the one that you want is the one who knows
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  Speaker 1: she had a baby young with the wrong guy, and
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  Speaker 1: she's working her butt off to make sure that her
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  Speaker 1: and her child are taken care of and she's trying
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  Speaker 1: to give everything, uh, make sure her child has everything right.
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  Speaker 1: That's the single mom you want. And then if you
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  Speaker 1: got the same energy as she does, you're gonna have
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  Speaker 1: whatever you want from her, as long as you're a
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  Speaker 1: good man and you know what you're working with and
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  Speaker 1: you want to work as hard and reach the same
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  Speaker 1: goals as she wants. Uh, she'll do whatever you want
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  Speaker 1: for her. They're the best, They're the best. That's probably
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  Speaker 1: the best woman to date because she's already gone through
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  Speaker 1: a little bit of you know, trials and tribulations with
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  Speaker 1: the baby, and now she knows what she wants and
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  Speaker 1: what her goal is in life. And normally, yeah, she'll
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  Speaker 1: she'll do whatever you want. The other ones, you know, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know about that. They got It just depends.
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  Speaker 3: You know.
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  Speaker 1: Alrighty four two five four seven seven. What are we
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  Speaker 1: doing here? I think he used to always send me
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  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, somebody sent me something that had to do
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  Speaker 1: with I guess going out drinking? All right? On the
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  Speaker 1: all right, hey Roan, what about single dads? And we're
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  Speaker 1: not talking about single dads? What about them? Do what
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  Speaker 1: you're supposed to raise your kids? What do you want
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  Speaker 1: me to tell you? All right? He four two five
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  Speaker 1: four seven seven Single moms man could be the best
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  Speaker 1: relationship of your life. Okay, So a guy was asking
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  Speaker 1: me about single moms when I thought about single moms,
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  Speaker 1: and apparently he met one. He's kind of questioning whether
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  Speaker 1: he should date or not. But it depends on which
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  Speaker 1: one you got. You want the one that you know
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  Speaker 1: knows she chose the wrong man from the get go,
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  Speaker 1: got a kid, She working her ass off to take
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  Speaker 1: care of that child. That's the one you want. You
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  Speaker 1: don't want the you won't want, the rosedale one in
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  Speaker 1: her Lululemon driving the suv whose husband cheated on her.
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  Speaker 1: She got three kids, a house, and a suv because
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  Speaker 1: she's just looking for a guy to take care of
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  Speaker 1: her again, you know, I mean, yeah, already four tupapa
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  Speaker 1: or seven a seven. Hey, Romeo, I just wanted to
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  Speaker 1: tell you about the single moms. You're absolutely right. I'm
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  Speaker 1: a hard working guy, got a good job. I met
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  Speaker 1: my wife when she was a single mom. She knew
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  Speaker 1: she married the wrong guy at first, she was young.
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  Speaker 1: They had a baby together. After they divorced. I actually
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  Speaker 1: met her. She was working pretty hard. I work real hard.
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  Speaker 1: Now we have a great life together. She does everything,
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  Speaker 1: rome She cooks, he cleans. We have two other children now,
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  Speaker 1: and she takes care of all of us, all of us.
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  Speaker 1: She's an amazing woman. Well that's because, yeah, I'm right.
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  Speaker 1: You want to find the one that's working her ass
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  Speaker 1: off to raise your kid. And as long as you're
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  Speaker 1: ready to work your ass off, She'll do whatever you want.
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  Speaker 1: There you go. There's an example of how it plays out.
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  Speaker 1: Somebody was asking me about single moms. He texted. I
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  Speaker 1: guess he must have met a single mom, he says,
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  Speaker 1: and he was wondering when I thought about him. I
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  Speaker 1: think they could be the best. It could be the
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  Speaker 1: best relationship in your life if you find the right
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  Speaker 1: single mom. Single moms are. They're different. There's different categories
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  Speaker 1: of single mom. They're really only two. Right. There's the
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  Speaker 1: one that's working her ass off to raise her child
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  Speaker 1: because she knows that's who comes first. That's the one
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  Speaker 1: you want, because that's the one that's going to when
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  Speaker 1: you match your energy. That's the one that's going to
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  Speaker 1: give you everything that you want as well. And then
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  Speaker 1: there's the other group that feel kind of entitled or
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  Speaker 1: you know, they got there. They're owed that child support,
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  Speaker 1: they're owed that alimony, they're owed that, they feel like
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  Speaker 1: they're owed everything. Yeah, you don't want those those are
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  Speaker 1: came to me asked. Somebody did say something about what
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  Speaker 1: about single dads? And I kind of dismissed it, but
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  Speaker 1: I guess I should say something about that. Considering father's
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  Speaker 1: days a couple of weeks away. And that is this.
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  Speaker 1: The single dads that I have met, for the most part,
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  Speaker 1: they feel like they're owed something like they should be.
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  Speaker 1: They they deserve more credit than they actually deserve. And
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  Speaker 1: I don't know why that is. Maybe it's because in
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  Speaker 1: society we give single moms so much more leeway and
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  Speaker 1: so much more credit than we do single dads. Like
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  Speaker 1: you know, you look at the single mom and you go, hey,
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  Speaker 1: well look how hard she's working, Look how she's doing
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  Speaker 1: it all and taking care of it. And you look
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  Speaker 1: at a single dad and they just go, on, he
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  Speaker 1: can handle it. You know, it's kind of dismiss it.
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  Speaker 1: You don't give him the credit that you he thinks
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  Speaker 1: he deserves because we give the credit to the single
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  Speaker 1: mom and I and I agree with that. A man
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  Speaker 1: be a man, you know, do what you gotta do.
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  Speaker 1: But I will say this about not just single dads,
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  Speaker 1: but in Bakersfield. I'm gonna tell you a great story.
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  Speaker 1: So any man in Bakersfield that's ever walked with a stroller,
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  Speaker 1: married or single, right with a stroller with his kid,
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  Speaker 1: didn't have his wife with him or the baby mama
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  Speaker 1: with him, or is legitimately a single man with his
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  Speaker 1: kids on the weekend. I can almost one hundred percent
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  Speaker 1: guarantee that man has been hit on by somebody. I
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  Speaker 1: can guarantee a door has been opened for him by
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  Speaker 1: a woman. I can guarantee that's Bakersfield. We went out
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  Speaker 1: the other day, buddy of mine. He's got a six
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  Speaker 1: year old, six year old little girl and he's happily married.
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  Speaker 1: But I was going to have I was gonna go
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  Speaker 1: stop by. I was around his house going to have
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  Speaker 1: a couple of beers at a restaurant, and I called
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  Speaker 1: him and said, Hey, I'm around the corner. You want
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  Speaker 1: to come, You want to come have a beer with me.
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  Speaker 1: He goes, well, i'm watching I'm watching my daughter right now.
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  Speaker 1: It's just me and her. But if you don't mind
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  Speaker 1: getting a table, yeah, we'll come. So we come, We go,
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  Speaker 1: we get a table, and two waitresses hit on him
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  Speaker 1: because he was just a dad with this little girl
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  Speaker 1: and we're sitting there hanging out, having a good time,
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  Speaker 1: and two waitresses hit on him. Now, he's just a
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  Speaker 1: regular dud. It's not like he's Bobby or anything. He's
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  Speaker 1: just a regular looking dude, you know. But that's Bakersfield.
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  Speaker 1: So for you. Single dads, you should be you should
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  Speaker 1: be in heaven in Bakersfield because even dudes even married
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  Speaker 1: you with their wedding rings on, we're walking around with
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  Speaker 1: their kids. They are they're getting hit on, they're getting
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  Speaker 1: they're getting help like they can't handle it. So I'm
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  Speaker 1: just saying, single dad, you should have a maid. You
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  Speaker 1: should be pulling everything from here to Wasco and back again.
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  Speaker 3: It was going on Romeo the Angel Angel Man, Man,
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna I got a little situation man. So oh,
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  Speaker 3: you know, David started getting hot a little bit, you
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  Speaker 3: know here and there. Now you know, okay, and and
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  Speaker 3: the neighbor can buy it a swimming But I feel
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  Speaker 3: when you go there, I mean, I don't know if
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  Speaker 3: it's just mean that you're your side up everybody. I mean,
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  Speaker 3: you're you're one way step about being with your goes off,
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  Speaker 3: you know, beginning your next steps, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 3: So we go, we go swimming, We go swimming, and uh,
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  Speaker 3: the lady breaks. The lady the to his wife brings
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  Speaker 3: out a pineapple bomb tripping. I'm like, they're swingers.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, nobody just brings out you know, my wife's there
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  Speaker 7: and and she goes oh this is I tell you,
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  Speaker 7: it was just you guys.
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  Speaker 1: You know I brought the kids.
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  Speaker 3: A Romeo and she was like, oh you know this
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  Speaker 3: is you know what. We were just going to be
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  Speaker 3: on Romeo. She had one of those bikinis that she
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  Speaker 3: might have well not had nothing. My wife's seen her
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  Speaker 3: and she grabbed being the kids and we haven't been
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  Speaker 3: back there since.
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  Speaker 2: Man, what do you think is happening here?
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  Speaker 1: Why why you haven't been back since or what? What
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  Speaker 1: do you mean?
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  Speaker 3: We basically seen her flower and she had one of
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  Speaker 3: their little line things.
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  Speaker 1: I mean she probably Why why haven't Why haven't you
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  Speaker 1: been back since? Because your wife would.
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  Speaker 3: Want to go her ball? Been a fight?
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  Speaker 1: Well yeah, because they're swingers. They're trying to have they're
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  Speaker 1: trying to have sex with you and your wife. First
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  Speaker 1: of all, First of all, Angel the pineapple wasn't you
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  Speaker 1: know you know when adult, when adults have pool parties,
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  Speaker 1: that's one step away from an orgy. Okay that that's
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  Speaker 1: basically an invitation to a sex party. Adults. Adults do
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  Speaker 1: not have pool parties. Okay, that is not how that works.
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  Speaker 1: If people invite you over for a pool party, they
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  Speaker 1: want to have you know, something's going to happen. Clothes
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  Speaker 1: are coming off, people are getting naked. Things are going down.
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  Speaker 3: Man, Rome, don't hey, man, you need you need to
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  Speaker 3: get paid.
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  Speaker 6: Double from.
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  Speaker 3: Man.
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  Speaker 4: Make you no le.
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  Speaker 3: Dropped. I just wink at her off, but thank you.
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  Speaker 1: All right, Well there you go later. Oh he's always
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  Speaker 1: into something already four two five, four, seven to seven.
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  Speaker 1: Look like I said, you know, kids have pool parties.
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  Speaker 1: Adults they have pool orgies. Okay, it's it's if you,
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  Speaker 1: if you, if you ever get it, and no, let
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  Speaker 1: me rephrase that, if you ever get invited, yes, just
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  Speaker 1: adults to a pool party, it's going down. Okay, you
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  Speaker 1: better be prepared now if somebody invites the entire family,
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  Speaker 1: kids at all, Okay, that's just the party for the
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  Speaker 1: kids to go swim it. Adults do not have pool parties.
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  Speaker 1: They have adults swims. Okay. So my guy, our guy Angel,
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  Speaker 1: calls up and he says him and his wife got
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  Speaker 1: invited to a pool party, neighbor's pool party. And I
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  Speaker 1: guess he got to see her who you know, I
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  Speaker 1: guess things got a little crazy. She came out with
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  Speaker 1: a pineapple. He didn't know what was going on. So
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  Speaker 1: we got to explain to him the pineapple really though,
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  Speaker 1: has nothing to do with it. If a bunch of
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  Speaker 1: adults are having a pool party, that's code for nudity,
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  Speaker 1: alcohol and yeah, it's going down, Okay, it's swinger swinger.
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  Speaker 1: Swingers have pool parties, all right. Adults do not have
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  Speaker 1: pool parties. Families have pool parties. Kids have pool parties.
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  Speaker 1: Adults have pool orgies. All right, Good morning out what's.
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  Speaker 4: Going on out of soccer? I was just I was
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  Speaker 4: hearing you about your adults.
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, definitely, got no friend, Just buy my own pool
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  Speaker 8: to them my own pool.
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  Speaker 1: Well, there's not the wrong with it if you're into it.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just saying, and that's just the way it is.
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  Speaker 2: I'm I don't share my man.
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  Speaker 1: Already four by four seven to seven. Yeah, when it
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  Speaker 1: comes to swimming, when it comes to uh, pool parties,
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  Speaker 1: right and yo, man, if you get invited to a
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  Speaker 1: pool party and it's only adults, something about to go down.
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  Speaker 1: I'm just gonna let you know right now, if kids
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  Speaker 1: aren't invited, something about to go down. That's that's why
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  Speaker 1: Angel said when the pineapple came out, he should have
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  Speaker 1: already known the pineapple coming out is not you should
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  Speaker 1: have known before that. You know. Luckily, I guess he
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  Speaker 1: took his kids, so nothing went down. But a pineapple
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  Speaker 1: is a sign of swinger, so you guys know that.
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  Speaker 1: But adults don't have pool parties, man, adults have sex parties.
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  Speaker 1: They just happened to be out by the pool, all right, already?
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  Speaker 1: Four two five four seven is seven. Angel. Angel's been
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  Speaker 1: a fan of the show for years now. So Angel
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: calls up and he says that him and his wife
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: got invarted to the neighbor's house for a pool party.
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: You know, it's been hot out lately, right, so got
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: invited to full part. It doesn't matter what the temperature is.
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: You get invited to a pool party. That is code
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: for sex. That is code for swinging. Okay. Now, if
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: the whole family had been invited, it's a legitimate pool party.
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: But the whole family wasn't invited, just the adults. That's
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: code for we're gonna get busy, okay, or we want
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: to try. So he didn't realize it until a pineapple
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: came out. Then he was like, well, she brought out
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: a pineapple, and well, you know what that means. That's
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: code for swinging. But you should know that ahead of time.
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: You know already four two four seven to seven A Romeo.
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: Everybody knows the pineapple's code for swingers. How did he
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: not know that? Well, Angel's kind of dumb, he's a
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: little nai. He's naive to some things. But the pineapple
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: has nothing to do with it. You should have known
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: when you got invited. Once somebody invites you to a party, well,
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: let me rephrase that. Once somebody invites you to a
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: pool party and it's only adults, Yeah, that's code. Adults
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: don't have pool parties, Okay, adults have you know, swinging
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: parties in the pool. That's what you get. You get
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: everybody down to the least amount of clothes and that
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: way you start getting some alcohol. And it's funny when alcohol,
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: when you get by a pool with a bunch of
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: adults and alcohol, somehow tops keep coming off. I don't
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: know if it's the alcohol. I don't know if it's gravity,
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: but whatever it is, adults don't have pool parties. Man,
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: I'm just gonna let you know right now already four
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: two five four seven to seven. So if you ever
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: get invited to one, you need to understand what you're
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: getting involved in. All righty four two five, four seven
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: to seven. So Angel, he's a listener. He texted about
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: the fact that he got invited to him and his
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: wife got invited to the neighbor's house for a swim party. Right,
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: and pineapple came out, and he didn't realize what he
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: was really invited for was a swingers party. Okay, Adults
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: don't have swim parties. Kids, families, they have swim parties.
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: Adults have orgies. Corny, how what's going on? Hello? Oh,
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: nobody's there already four two five, four seven seven. Would
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: you send me here? No, Angel, that's not a fruit tray.
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: Oh when the pineapple came out, yeah, Angel thought he
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: was gonna get fruit. He was gonna get a dak
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: or you No, Angel, the pineapple means swingers okay. And
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: but before that, you should know, adults don't have swim parties, bro,
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: they just don't. That's not what adults do. If they
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: invite the whole family, kids and all, now you're going
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: to a swim party, they're inviting just adults. Yeah, that's
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: not a swim party already four two five, four seven
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: to seven. Yeo, roam. Adults absolutely can have normal swim parties.
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: I've literally gone to one, and since we all took food,
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: I took pineapple and watermelon cut up, amongst other things,
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: and I was the joke of the night. Well, adults
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: don't have swim parties, okay, Unfortunately, you were probably invited
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: to the PG portion of the swim party, and nobody
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: wanted to sleep with you. They didn't want you involved
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: in swinger time. So that's why you weren't. You weren't
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: there for that. They probably all happened after you left.
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: So yeah, that's not true already four two, five, four
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: seven to seven yeo, roam. How does one get invited?
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: You gotta no swingers. I don't know. Angel and his
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: wife got invited by the neighbor, but they got a
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: freaky ass neighbor. I've been talking to Angel for years.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: He's got this crazy ass neighbor who think I want
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: I think she wants to have sex with either him
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: or her Him or the wife, I don't know. I'm
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: not sure which one yet, but that's why he got invited. Now,
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: once again, adults do not have swim parties. Families and
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: kids have swim parties. So you get invited to a
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: swim to somebody's house to go swimming, and it's just adults.
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: Something's about to go down. So a long time listening
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: to the show, Angel said him and his wife got
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: invited to the neighbor's house for a pool party, which
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: unless they're inviting families with kids, it's it's it's not
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: a pool party, Okay, it's a swinger party. Adults do
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: not have swim parties. Okay, kids and families have swim
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: parties already. Four two point four seven to seven. Good morning,
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: Hot what's going on?
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: Romeo? You're completely right, and I never knew all that
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: until this morning. And the reason I say you're right
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: is because this past summer, me and my friend who
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: go out like everywhere, we were out at some bar
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: in Rosedale and this couple was like, we're going to
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: after party at our house and we're like, okay, let's go.
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: It's a swim party. So we were like, well, we
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: don't have bathing suits, and the wife's like it's okay,
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: I got extras. I got extras, and we're like, okay.
• 22:30
  Speaker 6: Let's go.
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: The worst women and whatnot. And now they're swimming. We're like,
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: I'm getting weird vibes. We're like, yeah, I think these
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: people are swingers. We're like, oo a little weird. And
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: then come around, you know, three am. They're fighting because
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: the husband doesn't want to stop swimming with us, and
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: it was just a commotion and I was like, oh
• 22:47
  Speaker 2: my god. Once I heard your segment this morning, I
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: was like, it made sense.
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's went off.
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: Never go to somebody's house to go swimming.
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: Well, unless you want to swing.
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, yeah, now, I know. Thanks, Now, I know, all.
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: Right, thanks for colling. But I mean I think I
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: just make stuff up. And what do you guys think
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: of just over here winging it? I know exactly what
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about already four two five, four seven to
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: seven year room. You ever been invited to a swingers party? Yeah,
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: a couple of times. I've run into people or I
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: know people, but I know swingers. I'm not. They don't
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: bother me. I mean, I'm okay with swingers. That's their lifestyle,
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: that's what they want to do. That's fine. But yeah,
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: I've been invited. But swingers parties you don't have to do.
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: You can go to a swingers party and not do
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: anything but watch if you want. By the way, they're
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: okay with that as well. All right there, Actually, swingers
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: are really respectful to each other, to be honest with you,
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: already four two five, four or seven to seven? Going
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: to Rome. It's funny you're uh mentioning pool parties. Women
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: are haters are very competitive. My wife at the time,
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: her and her co worker got invited to a pool
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: party by one of their friends who just had a
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: pool installed. It was women only. All the women were
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: hesitant to accept her invitation, her invite till one of
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: them said, okay, well we will go, but you can't
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: wear a two piece. The host was very good looking,
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: her coworkers were not, including my ex wife. Okay, I
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: don't think that's breaking news that women are competitive with
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: each other, is it? Already? Four two five four? Seven
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: to seven? All right? So Angel calls up and he
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: says that him and his wife got invited to the
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: neighbor's house for a swim party. Right, wasn't families, it
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: was all adults, and then the owner of the house.
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: She came out with a pineapple. I think some clothes
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: came off at some point. He got to see some
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: of her lady parts, but he didn't know what was
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: going on. Now, obviously the wife figured out what was
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: going on, but the wife didn't know what was going
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: on in the first place. But if you get invited
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: to a pool party, it's all adults. Yeah, that's a
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: swim Okay, it's not. It's it's it's not a family,
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: it's not kids. It's a swingers party. Okay, you should
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: have known that before they pulled out the pineapple. It's
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: just like if you ever get invited to an after party, Hey,
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: let's go swim in. Uh yeah, there, that's a swingers party. Okay,
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: already four two, five, four, seven to seven, Now what's
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: going on?
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: Good morning or omeal? I gotta agree with you.
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: Oh.
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: I've been invited to two pool parties as an adult
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: and that's just recently in my life, and all times
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: they're actually not swingers.
• 25:32
  Speaker 4: It was just single people. But both times I end
• 25:35
  Speaker 4: up in either the bedroom or the bathroom with the
• 25:37
  Speaker 4: same guy.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: So, yes, that's what you do at adult pool party.
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they're usually sex parties there.
• 25:47
  Speaker 4: And yeah girls I hater.
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: Because one time he is I don't know if it
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: was his girlfriend or what, but.
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: She came downing on that bathroom door.
• 25:54
  Speaker 3: It's directing and hating.
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: So yeah, whoa, she was mad.
• 25:59
  Speaker 7: Yeah, she was looking for him.
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: Oh, because you said it was it was just singles,
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: not swingers.
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: Okay, it was no twingers. She was new to the
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: game though.
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: I was just like, okay, heldo, what game is that
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: that she was new to that?
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: What game are you playing? All right? Fair enough, thanks
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: for calling. I mean that girl's playing chess man? All right,
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: what is the latest you've texted me? It says, good morning, Romeo.
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: Maybe this could be the dilemma of the day. We
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: always have a dilemma. You're right, I like that dilemma
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: of the day. I'm currently going through some issues, so
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: I'm just trying to figure it out. What am I
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: supposed to do? So my dad cheated on my mom
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: a few years ago and he got the girl pregnant.
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: My mom decided to stay with him, and now after
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: a few years, I'm assuming the I'm assuming mom must
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: have gotten into some problems. Oh, them all must have
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: gotten to some problems with the law, because the little girl,
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: they're twins by the way, got taken away from the mom. So,
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: as far as I'm concerned, the state has them until
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: they decide if the mom's gonna get them if my
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: dad gets them, or if they just stay in foster care.
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: The problem is now that my dad is my dad
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: is getting me and my kids involved. I currently live
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: at home with them. I had recently opened a shop
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: about a year and a half ago. My plan was
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: to get the business going to make enough money to
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: be able to buy a home and move out with
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: my kids. But with this whole situation going on, I'm stuck.
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: I'm stuck on closing my shop. Okay, I wait, okay,
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: and just renting a home or stay with or stay
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: Oh I'm stuck. Okay, So just rent a home or
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: stay with my shop and just deal with the situation.
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: We also we also got into it because he had
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: He got mad because I told the social workers they
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: weren't allowed to question my kids or get them involved
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: in this situation because they have nothing to do with
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: the situation. It got so bad that he told me
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: he was going to be seeing me in court because
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: according to him, it's a court order. But I had
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: spoke to social workers and they said they have no
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: right to do court order on my kids because they're
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: not part of the of the issue. So if it's
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: already going like this. I can imagine how it's going
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: to be if those little girls do end up moving
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: into the home. Wow, So your dad knocks somebody up
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: your mom's stage. You're living at home with your mom
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: and dad and your kids, And why does he want
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: to get a court order against you and the kids?
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: Your kids? I'm not really sure how that. I don't
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: understand how that comes into play. But man, I mean,
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: what is your option? What do you do? Especially if
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: these twins move in? And where's mom at in the
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: whole situation? Does she does she have a say in anything?
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: I mean, where do you and your moms? Do you talk? Already?
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: Fourteen five, four or seven to seven? It's we're not
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: what's going on?
• 29:16
  Speaker 2: Good morning, Romeo?
• 29:17
  Speaker 4: How are you?
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: I'm doing great? What's going on?
• 29:19
  Speaker 6: I just jump in my vehicle and I put in
• 29:21
  Speaker 6: my college. Man, what's the cost of the day. Who's
• 29:23
  Speaker 6: cheating on?
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: Who?
• 29:24
  Speaker 4: Well?
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: I was just looking at this story somebody sent me.
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: Apparently Okay, so apparently this woman her dad cheated on
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: her mom and got the other woman pregnant with twins.
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: Oh wow, and the mom decided to stay. So now
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: apparently the mother of the two twins got into some
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: legal problems. So the kids are in the system. And
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: I guess the daughter who sent me this lives at home,
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: started a business shop, lives at home right now with
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: her kids. Was gonna was going to do, you know, save
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: up to get a house and move out. But now
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: the dad, they don't know what's gonna happen with the twins.
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: The twins are anything going to end up in foster care,
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: go back with the mom when she gets straight, or
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: go to the dad. And I guess they're having issues
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: at home right now. So she's talking about renting a
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: home or staying with or staying with the shop and
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: just deal with the situation she has at home right now.
• 30:24
  Speaker 6: She doesn't know what to do, So if you I
• 30:26
  Speaker 6: would just leave the coup. I mean, that's that's her
• 30:31
  Speaker 6: dad's bad. I mean, that's his problem. I hate to
• 30:34
  Speaker 6: say it, but if for any reason the dad is
• 30:38
  Speaker 6: you know, all around bad, drunk himself, or it's an addict,
• 30:42
  Speaker 6: then hey, I would understand her stepping in.
• 30:45
  Speaker 8: But at one point or another, your parents.
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: Have to deal with what they sell, right, Yeah, but
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: the mom stayed. Oh now she's yeah, she thinks that
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: the twins. There's a chance the twins may move into
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: the dad's home because.
• 31:00
  Speaker 8: The moments politically true, they will ask the father.
• 31:04
  Speaker 6: Well, you know, that's a tough situation because I look
• 31:08
  Speaker 6: at it like.
• 31:09
  Speaker 8: It's one thing when you're growing up and you know,
• 31:12
  Speaker 8: your parents get into things and the family still stays
• 31:15
  Speaker 8: together for whatever reason. Yeah, but then you have this
• 31:18
  Speaker 8: dilemma where now it's going to be two little ones,
• 31:21
  Speaker 8: yet me be without a home.
• 31:22
  Speaker 6: Because of the parents. I mean, that's a sad situation
• 31:25
  Speaker 6: because if the woman decided to stay with her husband
• 31:29
  Speaker 6: after that affair, she decided to stay with whatever comes.
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: That way, well I would you know, I thought that too.
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: But I actually have a aunt who her husband cheated
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: on her and had a kid, and she told him
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: straight up, if you if you want me to stay,
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: and you will never talk to that child again. And
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: lo and behold, he never taught had anything and or
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: talk to that child at any point in his life.
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: And this was Jesus, this happened forty years ago. Yeah,
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: that's insane.
• 32:03
  Speaker 6: It is very much insane.
• 32:05
  Speaker 8: But you know, men will change for the woman they want,
• 32:09
  Speaker 8: not for everyone, and have a say.
• 32:12
  Speaker 6: Token I'm like you. You know, I've been listening to
• 32:14
  Speaker 6: you for years. Then, I mean, I've met you before
• 32:18
  Speaker 6: a couple of times, will pop by, sure, But my
• 32:21
  Speaker 6: thing is that if you have to cheat on someone,
• 32:24
  Speaker 6: what is the point of being with that other someone? Like,
• 32:29
  Speaker 6: there's no sense to cheat. If I don't want to
• 32:32
  Speaker 6: eat a taco I'm going to drive to McDonald's. I
• 32:35
  Speaker 6: don't want Donald's going to drive the rescue. You know,
• 32:38
  Speaker 6: I'm going to and choose what I want.
• 32:40
  Speaker 8: But a lot of these people make these bad decisions
• 32:43
  Speaker 8: and then look what happened.
• 32:45
  Speaker 6: Always something always happens after a bad decision.
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, all right, we take care. You took
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: to calling this morn all.
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: So I don't know what this daughter is going to do.
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: She's living at home with her kids at mom and
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: Dad's house. Dad noted up another woman. Now he might
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: have two more kids moving in. What does mom have
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: to say about it? Doesn't mom have a say on
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: whether these kids move in or not? Already four two, five,
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: four or seven to seven? Got this dilemma, so to speak.
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: I like how she says the dilemma, La day, Okay,
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: She's currently going through a situation she says she doesn't
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: know what to do. Her dad cheated on her mom.
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: My dad cheated on my mom a few years ago,
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: got a girl pregnant. Now my mom decided to stay
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: with him. Now after a few years, I'm assuming the
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: mom must have gotten into some problems with the law
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: because the little girls, they're twins, are being taken away. Okay,
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: the side pieces the mom, so far as I'm concerned,
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: the state has them until they decide if the mom
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: gets them, if my dad gets them, or if they
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: just stay in foster care. The problem is now that
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: my dad is getting me. The problem is that my
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: dad is getting me and my kids involved. I currently
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: live at home with them. How is he getting you involved?
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: By the way, I currently live at home with them.
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: Recently opened a shop about a year and a half
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: ago to get the business going to make some money
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: to be able to move out. Okay, so that's good.
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: So your parents are letting you stay with them, or
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: you're staying with them while you get your business going.
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: Excuse me and you so now you're stuck right move
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: out with kids? But the whole situations going on, I'm
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: stuck on closing the business. Stuck must be not stuck,
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: must be the autocorrect, just renting a home or staying
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: with my shop and just deal with the situation. We
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: also got into it because he got mad at me
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: because I told the social workers they weren't allowed to
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: question my kids or get them involved in the situation. Oh,
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: I see, because the social workers are probably trying to
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: talk to everybody in the house. Now. I think I'm
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: starting to understand what's going on here. So what do
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: you do? Huh? What's next? If the kids? If you're
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: having a problem with your dad and the kids? Right
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: morey out it's going on.
• 34:53
  Speaker 4: And that whole situation were the young lady living at
• 34:57
  Speaker 4: home and her twin brother instance her, Yeah, possibly come
• 35:02
  Speaker 4: to that. Yeah, for mom, I wouldn't say he had
• 35:06
  Speaker 4: twins on you. I'm sorry, I just.
• 35:11
  Speaker 5: You know, yeah, I just couldn't have done it.
• 35:17
  Speaker 4: And the young lady, to be honest, is detached because
• 35:21
  Speaker 4: she's saying her father's kids instead of her. Yeah, yeah,
• 35:25
  Speaker 4: your brother and sister.
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're making a very good point. You're making a
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: very good point. Absolutely. Yeah.
• 35:35
  Speaker 4: So I don't know, the whole situation is kind of
• 35:37
  Speaker 4: messed up. I think everybody is mad at dad, but
• 35:40
  Speaker 4: dad may be the brand winner that everybody's depending on,
• 35:44
  Speaker 4: so they stay.
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: Ah, good point, very good point. Yeah, there's a lot
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: of holes in the story about where were like mom,
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: we don't know what mom's side of the story is.
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: You know, what's her mom saying? There's her mom just
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: accepting everything now, I mean, there's her mom. Can can
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: be his kids move in if his wife doesn't want
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: them to.
• 36:06
  Speaker 4: Technically because they're they're married.
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so.
• 36:13
  Speaker 4: It's like they're his kids at DNA.
• 36:16
  Speaker 8: I don't know if it's on.
• 36:18
  Speaker 4: Us that's to send up, but yeah, I just believe
• 36:21
  Speaker 4: the situations where I hear women stay with their houses
• 36:25
  Speaker 4: after that financial stability is one of the main reasons.
• 36:30
  Speaker 8: Why they stay.
• 36:32
  Speaker 3: Take that.
• 36:33
  Speaker 8: So I don't know if that's true.
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Well, I appreciate your intake or your input.
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: Thank you. Uh huh, have a good Yeah, I don't.
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: I mean, if I'm just going to give you advice
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: as I'm looking over it again, I would say I
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: would write it out and accept it and just you know,
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: until your business is going and you can move out.
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: I mean, you don't want to shut down your livelihood
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: over this, Yes, right? The woman sent me this. She
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: says that she's trying to figure out what's currently going
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: on in her house.
• 37:05
  Speaker 6: Right.
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: She says her dad cheated on her mom a few
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: years ago he got to grow pregnant with twins. Now
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: I guess the mom is having some legal problems because
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: the twins have been taken from her. So now they're
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: trying to figure out what to do with the kids,
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: whether they go back to the mom, whether they're going
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: to go in to the dad, to her dad and
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: live with them, or go to foster care. Now she
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: lives at home with her mom and dad and her kids.
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: You know, she's trying to get her business going, and
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: she was going to make enough money to move out,
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: buy a home and get straight. Right. Well, now what
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: it looks like to me is Social Social Services and
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: the SCHROCAL workers are coming in and interviewing everybody that
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: lives in the house to see if the twins can
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: move in. I guess that's kind of what it sounds like.
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: And she was upset because they must have been talking
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: to her kids and she said they have nothing to
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: do with it, and the dad's already causing there's there's
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: causing it. Some tension between her and her dad. Don't
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: know what the mom's doing yet, she says, I don't
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: know what's gonna happen. So she's either thinking maybe she's
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: gonna have to move out, rent a place, closed down
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: her shop, or you know, uh, deal with the situation
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: in the house. And then what if these twins move
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: in already four four or seven to seven room? If
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: there's not enough rooms for the twins, the county will
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: consider placement. Oh, keep them in foster care. Okay, Well,
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: I don't know what. I don't know how the dad
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: feels about that. I mean, that's that's a rough situation, right,
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: do you want to put your kids in foster care?
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: How much contact has he had with these kids since
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: the affair? And what does the mom think?
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: How?
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: What does your mom think about all this? Already? Four two, five,
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: four or seven to seven? Yeah, I got the situation
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: this lady sent me. I think I'm understanding it right. Okay,
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: So her dad, this lady, she lives with her parents. Okay,
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: she with her parents and her kids. The reason she
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: lives with them is because she started at business. She's
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: trying to get it going, start making a little money.
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: So she her and her kids can move out of
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: her parents' house and get their own spot. Right well,
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: apparently the dad, her dad, cheated on her mom. Her
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: mom decided to stay. Now the dad had twins with
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: the woman he slept with, the woman he cheated on
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: their mom with, and apparently the mom of the twins
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: got into some sort of legal trouble because now the
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: kids are in the system, and so they're trying to
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: figure out what to do with the kids right now.
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: Either take them back to the mom, maybe the dad's
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: going to get them and so a law of tension
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: in the house right now, or maybe they'll end up
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: imposter care. Apparently she had an issue with her dad,
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: because what I if I am understanding this correctly, the
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: social worker came into the house and wanted to talk
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: to her kids. She didn't want that to happen because
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: she said her kids have nothing to do with it.
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: I'm guessing, and I don't know, you guys would know
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: better than me. I'm guessing that the social worker had
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: to come into the house and talk to everybody who
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: lives in that house to find out if it's okay
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: for the twins to live there. Right that must be
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: what's going on, So she doesn't know what to do.
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: Should she close her shop and move out or should
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: she you know, keep her shop. What's going to happen
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: if the if these twin girls move in, she doesn't
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: know what to do. Well, it's a tough situation, right
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: already four two five four or seven to seven? Here
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: we go, yo, Rome. Above all, the right thing to
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: do is give these kids a home and a fighting
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: chance at a good life. Don't put them in the system.
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: I know it's a tough situation for the for the
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: wife at home and the daughter. However, these are siblings,
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: no matter what they are. Let's see, they are her
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: family by blood. Do what's right and have these children,
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: let's say, and save these children. The daughter should still
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: stay at home and focus on her future with her business.
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: Don't let this situation ruined her potential future and then
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: she'll always hold resentment towards her father and those innocent kids.
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: Do what's right, Just be a big sister. Ah, yeah,
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: that's what the one ladies that called said the same thing.
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: They're your siblings. I mean, really, let me ask you
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: this question, and maybe you're right. Really, the only one
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: that should have the biggest problem with it is the wife, right,
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: he cheated on his wife. Now I'm guessing the big
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: sister or the woman who sent me this is mad
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: because that's her mother. Her father cheated on her mother,
• 41:51
  Speaker 1: so I can see her having a problem with it.
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: But I don't know, man, I mean, I don't know.
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: I I.
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: Agree with you from the standpoint of the woman who
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: sent the text message. She needs to not give up
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: her future if she has to deal with a tense
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: situation for the betterment of her and her kids by
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: staying in the family home until her business is solidified
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: enough that she can move out. I think you got
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: to do that for your kids, and just as an adult,
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: suck it up and set your ego, pride, whatever, you
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: set your feelings aside with your dad with these two
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: twin daughters or two twin girls and your mom, because
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: maybe that's the best way to look at it. You
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: got to do what's best for your children, because once
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: you're out of that house, you can choose not to
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: be involved anymore. Right, crazy man, the story we got
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: this woman she texted me. Now she is okay, So
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: let me try to figure this out for you guys
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: and make it simplistic. Okay, She and her kids live
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: at home with her mom and dad. She started a business.
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: She's staying with her mom and dad while she tries
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: to get her business going so that she can move out,
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: you know, by a house, move out, all that good stuff.
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: The mom, I mean, I'm sorry, the dad ended up
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: having an affair on the mom and had twins, got
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: the other woman pregnant, she had twins. Well, apparently the
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: other woman got in some troubles and now the kids
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: are you know, the kids are in the system. So
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: now they're trying to figure out what to do with
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: the twins, whether they live with the dad, stay in
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: the foster care system, or go back to the mom,
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: depending on what kind of trouble or how she gets
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: out of it. So apparently I think that a social
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: worker tried to talk to her children and she got
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: upset about that. Obviously, a social worker must have come
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: into their house and had conversations with everybody that lives
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: there to see if the twins should live there or
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: foster care or whatever. So there's a lot of tension
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: between her and her dad right now. She doesn't know
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: what to do. She's thinking she might have to close
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: her business and go rent someplace, or you know, kind
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: of stay with the shop and deal with the situation
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: at home. Yeah, stuff, situation already four two five four
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: or seven to seven? Rom How can the dad put
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: the daughter in his cheating mess? To begin with? I
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: agree with the daughter. I wouldn't want me or my
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: kids involved in this mess. I personally know I couldn't
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: accept the kids, and I wouldn't put those kids in
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: that situation with me. It's not like that, it's not
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: the kid's fault. But this, this is awful, Romeo, what
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: a mess. If I was the wife and daughter, i'd
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: kick the dad out with his twins. Sure, I don't
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: you know, I don't you know? That sounds reasonable? Right,
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: sounds reasonable? Who knows why the mom stayed? The mom
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: decided to stay after the affair. Who know, we don't
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: have that answers, and we don't know what's going on.
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: We don't know. A woman called up and said that
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: maybe the dad's a sole provider makes them, you know,
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: financial financially, he handles it. So it's tough a lot
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: of women when they when they don't have, when they
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: have a financial stability with their husband, they and he's
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: the one that takes care of everything. A lot of
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: times they have to accept some of the things that happened.
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: Or I don't know, maybe they're afraid. I don't I
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: don't know, And I'm sitting even after saying that out loud,
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: I think, well, can't you just take half? Isn't that
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: the way it works in California already? Four two five,
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: four seven seven, Hey, roam, the mom and daughter should
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: get a house by themselves and leave dad with the twins.
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: He got his cake and gets to eat it too.
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: The wife is better than me? Well, who knows?
• 45:54
  Speaker 4: Right?
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: Makes that would be make a lot of sense. But
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: like I said, we don't know what the financial situation
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: is for the mom or the wife. Yeah, I got
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: a little dilemma here. This lady says what happened was basically,
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: this woman she lives at home with her mom and
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: dad and her kids. Right, she started a business. She's
• 46:14
  Speaker 1: trying to get it going started so that she can
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: get on her feet. Mom and dad seemed to be
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: supporting her. So she can do that and move out.
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: Turns out dad had an affair with another woman. Mom
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: decided to stay, and now there was twins that came
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: out of that affair. Now, the mother of the twins
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: apparently got in some legal trouble, So the twins now are.
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: Where they're going to stay is kind of up in
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: the air, and I guess could possibly move in with
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: dad or go the foster care system, or maybe the
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: mom gets out of trouble, or I don't know, but
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: the woman who sent me the text message is living
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: in a tense situation right now, and apparently her and
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: her kids are brought into this situation because it brought
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: into dad's situation. But it looks it's like they're brought
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: into dad situation because they might be the county might be,
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: or whoever deals with it might be trying to figure
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: out if these girls can be placed in this home
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: with the father.
• 47:10
  Speaker 6: Now.
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: I don't know what the mother thinks that his wife
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: that he cheated on. I don't know how she feels
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: about it, but she didn't want to throw her husband out,
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: So I don't know what the daughter's going to do.
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: Come on your hot what's going on on?
• 47:21
  Speaker 4: How you doing this morning?
• 47:22
  Speaker 6: Your girls should do?
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: But hey, what she's even doing? Great? How are you?
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: I'm good? I'm good.
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: I'm just calling in on the topic this morning.
• 47:29
  Speaker 3: You know, this can be a real difty situation.
• 47:33
  Speaker 9: It sounds like to me if the daughter needs to
• 47:37
  Speaker 9: really kind of if mom took her husband, that that
• 47:41
  Speaker 9: means you wants her there.
• 47:42
  Speaker 5: So kind of support MoMA what she want to do
• 47:45
  Speaker 5: with the situation.
• 47:46
  Speaker 9: And everybody said her out.
• 47:48
  Speaker 3: Evidently she don't want to go.
• 47:50
  Speaker 9: Yeah, exactly, because if she accepted the situation, you know,
• 47:55
  Speaker 9: maybe she's one of those people with family and her
• 47:57
  Speaker 9: daughter has to realize all of this is a teacher situation.
• 48:00
  Speaker 9: When you needed your parents to go back home with
• 48:02
  Speaker 9: your kids, you to do that now you little kids too.
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, the yeah, yeah, that's gonna be it's uh yeah, yeah,
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: I don't know, you know.
• 48:16
  Speaker 5: I mean, he's an adult and have to go back
• 48:20
  Speaker 5: home with her kids.
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: These are kids. You can't don't think that's I mean,
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: that makes a great point of the people who brought
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: that at you, honestly, right. I mean, these little girls
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: don't know, you know, they just got to get a chance.
• 48:30
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: I don't know what the mom did, but I.
• 48:32
  Speaker 5: Think the whole situation, everybody should make it as easy
• 48:34
  Speaker 5: as possible for mom. So if if mom took him back.
• 48:37
  Speaker 3: And if mom is okay with its school over some
• 48:40
  Speaker 3: move beds and hey.
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: You got my bed.
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: All right? Thanks you calling. Yeah, it looks like everybody's
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: bumping up, bunking up alred they four two five four
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: or seven to seven party four two five four seven
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: to seven yo Romeo. Hey, as far as the wife
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: goes in the situation, she has two choices. One deal
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: with the kids moving in and treat them right, because
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: it isn't the kid's fault that the dad messed up,
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: and because she already forgave the dad, those kids are
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: part of that forgiveness?
• 49:21
  Speaker 4: Uh?
• 49:22
  Speaker 6: Is it?
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: Is it? You guys think so? I mean, that makes
• 49:25
  Speaker 1: a good point. The dad cheated on his wife, had
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: he had twins with the with Sancha. Now Sancha got
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: into some legal trouble, and now the mom wanted to
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: stay with the dad. The wife wanted to stay with
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: her husband. Now the kids are either going to go
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: in foster care to live with the dad, or I
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: figure out what the mom's gonna do. I don't know
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: how much trouble she's in. Is it part of that forgiveness?
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: Can you forgive your husband for an infidelity and there's
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: a child because of it, you have to accept the
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: child as well. Bro Number two. She can file for
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: the worse and move out, move out, or make the
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: dad move out with the twins. Either way, don't hold
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: these innocent kids accountable for the mistakes of the father
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: and mother. Boy, it sure is easy to say, right,
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: It sure is easy to say. Gosh, already four two
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: five four or seven to seven rome for me as
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: a father, that that man needs to be there for
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: his kids and that daughter needs to understand those are
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: his kids just like she is. That's a good point
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: at the wife stage. She needs to overlook the things
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: that happen because she wants to stay. Those kids have
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: a dad and need their dad in their life. Well,
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: here's the question. Was he in their life before this happened?
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: How long? And we don't have that answer, So you
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: make you guys all make valid points. It's a rough
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: situation for this woman to be in, especially since she
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: has her own kids who are now involved in dad's mess.
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: But how much much time was the dad spending with
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: his kids that he had that he had out of
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: an infidelity? Was you know, I don't know already four
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: two five four or seven to seven. It's out of
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: the Excuse me already four two, five, four or seven
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: to seven. About the infidelity Romeo, I was in the
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: same situation with my ex husband now, but at the
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: time he was my husband. He had a baby while
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: we were together. I expected the baby because it wasn't
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: her fault. My husband is a hope. Uh together, I accepted,
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: Oh you accepted the baby because I mean, yeah, that's
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: it's your ex now, I mean that's I guess. Yeah,
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: I don't know you stayed you did you stay with
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: him through the infidelity for a while and then you
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: ended up breaking up later or what I'm gonna just guess. Well,
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: I can't even guess because I don't know what the
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: situation is. The guy cheated on his wife, had twins
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: with the other woman. Now the other woman is in
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: trouble with the law or something, and now the twins
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: are up in the air and where they're going to live.
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: So it sounds like the dad is a possibility. Now.
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: The dad also has a daughter that stays at home
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: with her kids, who's getting her business together, trying to
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: get her life straightened out so she can move out
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: and start And now there's this big tension and drama
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: going on in the house with these two twins. Jeez,
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, I just I don't know.
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: I mean, as far as the daughter's concerned with the kids,
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: she needs to do what's best for her and her children,
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: not what's best for her mom and dad. The dad
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: probably needs to do what's best for him and the
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: twins he had with the side piece, and we don't
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: know where the mom stands and all this. Lebody send
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: me a text mess said, hey, rom I got a
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: situation here. So I've been messaging a girl on Instagram
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: and it seems like we hit it off sorta. We
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: flutered back and forth and we talked about meeting up
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: on a date. But she's a business owner, owns her
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: own nail place. She's always working, never has time. I
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: really want to take this woman out. I should? Should
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: I just pay for an appointment slot just to see
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: this woman? I man, you know eighty four two five
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: four seven to seven. I know it sounds great, and
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: it really does. Oh it's a movie. It's a movie scene.
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: You you paid for the slot, you got the you
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: got your girl, right. That shows how much you really
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: want to go out with her. Well, she's still too
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: busy to go out with you, And what does that
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: say already? Four two five four or seven to seven? Hey, roam,
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: you shouldn't have to jump through hoops to date somebody
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: when it comes to dating. They should want to go
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: out with you just as much as you want to
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: go out with them. Yeah, you're right, dating should not.
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: You should not have to jump through a bunch of
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: hoops to get to date. To go on a date
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: with somebody, if they're attracted to you, and you know,
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: for however they determine who they're going to date, they
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: should want that just as much as you do. And
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: that's where you, guys think dating should be hard. It
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: shouldn't be should be easy. Guys. Send me a text
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: message which is interesting. He says, Hey, rom I got
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: a situation. So I've been messaging a girl on Instagram
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: and it seems like we hit it off sorda. We
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: flirt back and forth. We talk about meeting up on
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: a date, but she's a business owner, owns their own
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: nail tech place, so she's always working and never has time.
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: I really want to go out with this woman. Should
• 54:37
  Speaker 1: I just pay for one of her appointment slots. Now, see,
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: the more I start thinking about this, and especially since
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: what that guy just said was or whoever texted me said,
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: dating shouldn't be hard. Getting a date shouldn't be hard.
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: If somebody wants to go out with you, they'll go
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: out with you. If they're making you jump through hoops,
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: there's a reason for that. Do you really want that
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: in your life? I mean, dating should be the easiest
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: part of the relationship. You're both into each other, or
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: you're into someone, he she should be into you and
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: they should want to go out on a date with you. Now,
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: if the day doesn't work out, that's different. Okay, maybe
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: you're not compatible, maybe you're not. But just the first initiating,
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: the first part of initiating something to where it gets to, hey,
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: let's go out on a date. If they got to
• 55:29
  Speaker 1: make you jump through hoops, regardless of the reason, then
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: they don't really want to date you. People will find
• 55:37
  Speaker 1: a way. If they like somebody, they will find a
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: way to see that. That's just human nature already four two, five,
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: four or seven to seven Romeo's Paulina. And to be
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: honest with you, going out going about it, this man
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: shouldn't bother. There's no one in this world that is
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: too busy. Everyone has time. It's just a matter of
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: importance that person us to make time for. Honestly, paying
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: for the time slot just to see the woman will
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: probably make him seem desperate. That's you make a great point, Paulina,
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: and I agree with that. Everybody has time. Okay, everybody
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: makes time. It's funny, we used to Uh, it's funny
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: that Paulina says that because you guys know Joey Porter
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: used played for the Pittsburgh Steelers. Factor Sun plays for
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: the Pittsburgh Steelers. Joey told me years ago he goes
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: whenever anybody tells you. And this was when, you know,
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: at the time Joey was a Super Bowl athlete, wants,
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: you know, just all Star, all Pro, everything right, And
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: he told me, whenever an athlete tells you to call
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: their agent, that just means they don't want to talk
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: to you. Because it doesn't matter how busy, it doesn't
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: matter who you are. You have enough time to talk
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: to who you want to talk to. You have enough
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: time to You have enough time, especially if you're in
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: your own business, to make time to go out on
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: a eight if that's what you really want. So Pauline
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: is not wrong about that already four two five four
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: seven is something I don't know. I will say this
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: about the desperate part. That could go either way. You
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: can look desperate or you can look extremely romantic. But
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: even if you do look extremely romantic, does that mean
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: all of a sudden she's gonna make time to date you?
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: And then what does that say if you get into
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: a relationship with her? You know already four two five
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: four seven to seven year old, she's probably married. Maybe right,
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: you're right, it is Bakersfield.
• 57:33
  Speaker 3: Hey, Romeo, good morning.
• 57:35
  Speaker 5: First of all, Secondly, there's a couple of things wrong
• 57:38
  Speaker 5: with this whole situation that you are.
• 57:42
  Speaker 3: Currently discussing right now.
• 57:43
  Speaker 2: From the first one, is he met.
• 57:46
  Speaker 3: Her through Instagram?
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: Well, no, that's how people meet nowadays. That's not as
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: big a problem as you think.
• 57:53
  Speaker 5: But okay, well I feel like I feel like it's
• 57:56
  Speaker 5: a problem that we're not we're all overlooking.
• 57:59
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's how for me nowadays, but that's also how
• 58:01
  Speaker 3: people get catfish. That might not be a check.
• 58:04
  Speaker 6: If he hasn't met her and they've only been talking,
• 58:05
  Speaker 6: that might just.
• 58:06
  Speaker 3: Be somebody else who knows who's gonna be. That's one. Secondly,
• 58:10
  Speaker 3: if he's paying for her time, that's just an escort.
• 58:14
  Speaker 4: Well is he paying for an appointment to hang out
• 58:19
  Speaker 4: with there?
• 58:20
  Speaker 2: Regardless of the.
• 58:21
  Speaker 3: Nails, he's hanging out with her, he's paying for that
• 58:23
  Speaker 3: hour or whatever.
• 58:25
  Speaker 2: That's an escort.
• 58:25
  Speaker 3: Bro just getting medicure from it.
• 58:28
  Speaker 2: An course, I there's a ton of things.
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: Wrong with that.
• 58:33
  Speaker 3: It already started wrong.
• 58:35
  Speaker 2: People.
• 58:35
  Speaker 5: If you want to meet somebody, talk to them, meet.
• 58:38
  Speaker 3: Them, say hello, be interactive.
• 58:41
  Speaker 6: Go to the grocery store.
• 58:42
  Speaker 4: Hey, you know what, go where moms hang out? Target,
• 58:46
  Speaker 4: you know the other single mom's right.
• 58:47
  Speaker 3: There, dude, you'll find one Kersfield, especially East Bakers your fright,
• 58:54
  Speaker 3: Aisle seven in the gerber section.
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: Single moms are the easiest praying huh.
• 59:00
  Speaker 2: You?
• 59:03
  Speaker 1: Oh my god. Anyway, to be clear, nobody says he's
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: gonna pay for her time. He might just put a
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: dinner together, go show up, you know, get the time slot.
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: But no one says she's gonna charge him. She might
• 59:17
  Speaker 1: find a romantic We don't know. I'm just saying that
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: the time, the time is the major factor there, not
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: when somebody tells you they don't have enough time to
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: go out on a date with you. Then I think
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: that means they don't really want to go out with you,
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: or why would you want to date somebody who doesn't
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: have time for you? In the best part, best part
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: of the relationship, the dating, the guy sent me a
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: text message which I think is interesting and says, Hey,
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: rom I got a situation here. So I've been messaging
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: this girl on Instagram and it seems like we hit
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: it all sort of. We full her back and forth.
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: We talk about meeting up on a date. But she's
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: business owner, owns her own nail's place, She's always working
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: and never has time. I really want to take her out,
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: But should I pay for one of her appointments just
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: to see now? I don't think you should. But I'm
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: the more I read it over and over again is
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: the more I think people make time when they want
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: to be Good morning, how what's going on?
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 2: Hey, good morning Romeo?
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: Hey what's up?
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 2: Well?
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 9: I get how every it's you know, talking bad about
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 9: this lady.
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 3: But maybe she death.
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 4: Started her business if she doesn't have time.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 3: Okay, like you know, let's.
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 1: Say you know less it is done in the business.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 5: Let's just say let's given the benefits.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 2: Down and let's say, you know, she just does her
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 2: business like.
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 7: He should give him some time because honestly, with me
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 7: and my.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 2: Husband when we first met, it's still give me.
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 4: Two or three weeks to ask me.
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 9: Now after he asked for my number, you know, because
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 9: he was working to a job, but he's still asked
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 9: my number.
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: And now, let me ask you this question. Let me
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: ask you this question. Was there any point when you
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: were dating that your husband had to be a word
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: and didn't care and stayed out late with you?
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 2: That's true, he did.
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, thanks for calling and yeah, okay, thanks
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 1: for calling.
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 2: If you have a business, so you know, could you
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 2: take on responsibilities.
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 8: That normal people would.
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: I don't. I'm sorry, but you have that and I.
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 2: Mean she should make time and she wants to, but
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 2: mostly I mean I just want to be a little optimistic.
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 4: But honestly, it sounds more like she doesn't want to
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 4: go out with him.
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 2: But in kse is a burning business.
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 3: You should give her time.
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 2: But if you can established, it's an established business. Yeah, dude,
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 2: you a one boy.
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: Also check it out. Hey, roam, I got a situation
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: so I've been uh messaging this girl on Instagram. Seems
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 1: like we hit it off, sort of, we flirt back
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: and forth. But she owns a business. It's a nail
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: salon or nail tech place. She always working. She she
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: didn't have time. Should I should I reserve a spot
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: to see her? No, you shouldn't. All right, Hey, roal,
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: next girl doesn't want to go on a date with him.
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: He should know he should not have to pay for
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: the time for her to go on a date with
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: the dude. Well, here's what you're you're saying. He's saying
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: pay for the time. We're assuming that she would make
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: him pay for it. But you never know. You show
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: up a dinner. It's kind of a romantic idea, you know,
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: some sort of movie, you know, movie scene idea. We're
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 1: all take your dinner, all all, reserve spot. I'll go
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: to her work, I'll bring your dinner. Hi, nice to
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: see you, you know, but you never that can go
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 1: either way. There's no way she doesn't have a few
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: hours to spare it. Even if she is a business owner.
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: The reality is she just doesn't want to date it.
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: And that's what I'm kind of thinking. Good morning. Help's
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: going on, Hey, I'm calling about the Yeah, what I
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: I agree with you.
• 1:02:48
  Speaker 8: If a person like you or they're feeling you, they're
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 8: gonna make time, whether it's fifteen minutes to go grab coffee.
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 4: A star bus or hey, let's just meet up somewhere
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 4: and say.
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 5: Hire all right, yeah, you know, and.
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 4: Life, you gotta have somebody, even if you're creeping.
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 1: Around or a littleboddy or something.
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 4: You gotta have something going on.
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, I agree. All right, thanks for calling.
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: I appreciate it.
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 3: You walked, all right?
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: I mean, I remember, I remember I used to work.
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: I used to do a radio show before I moved
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: to Bakersfield, and I worked from two Well, what was
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: my shift?
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 6: It was?
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 1: It was, uh two to six. I worked at two
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: am till six am in the morning. Was that my
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 1: first shift? I think that was my first shift or
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: was it? Yeah, it was two am to six am.
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 1: And this girl I went to college with at the time,
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: because I was still in college, she wanted to go
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: out with me, and she wouldn't make time, you know,
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: whether it was at ten o'clock at night or midnight,
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 1: because I had to be a work at two and
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: I you know, I slept during the day. And I
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: also went to college, so I had schools. So no,
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 1: someone will make time for you if they want to
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: date you. Now, whether the dating works out or not,
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: that's a whole different story, but they will make time
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: for you at least to see what's going to happen
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: if they really want him. So I got this message right,
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: guy says, Hey, Rome, I got a situation. I've been
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: talking to this girl on Instagram. We've been hitting it off,
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: sort of back and forth flirting. She owns her own business,
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: it's an ail place. She's always working, never has time.
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: I really want to take this woman out. Should I
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: just pay for a time slot to see her? Yeah? No, No,
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: Hey room. In regards to the topic, if she's really interested,
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: she would make time to spend with him. Women don't
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: go out with guys they're not into.
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: Hey, there's more to it, rome.
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 2: Is.
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: It's a wall she's using. Could be as simple as scared,
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: or could be more. Because if you really want to
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: make it, you will, That's what I'm saying. That's why
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: I say. The more I think about it, the more
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: you guys bring it up. If somebody wants to see you,
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: they will. They'll always find time. Even if it's at
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: two am and you got to be at work at four,
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: doesn't matter a room. I think the dude should move on.
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: He definitely should not go to her business. It's gonna
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: make him look desperate. She belongs to the streets. Well,
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: I don't know if it'll make you love or it
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: could be the most romantic thing ever, you know, So
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: I see how it could play out. But my my
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: only thing is if she doesn't have time for you now,
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: does she really want to have time for you? And
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: will she have time for you later?
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 2: You know?
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: And that's but don't miss the fact that this, okay,
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: he may be the guy for her, and she may
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: win him over. If he actually goes and makes and
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: gets one of those times in her business, she may win.
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 1: He may win her over to the point that she
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: now wants to make time for this man. Maybe the
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 1: odds are not in his favor, but possible, I guess.
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: But I just don't think she wants to date you already.
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: Four two, five, four or seven seven. It's got a
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: text message from a guy said he's been instagramming this
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 1: woman who's a business owner. I guess she owns a
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 1: nail tech salon or something like that. Right, Well, she
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 1: says she doesn't have time to go out with him,
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: so his plan is to go, you know, set an
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 1: appointment at her nelslon to see her. Which it's a
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: risky it's a risky plan. It could go go very
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: well and you want her over, or it can be embarrassing.
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 1: But the more important thing is she doesn't have time
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: to go out with you. She does, especially if she
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: owns the business. Okay, she has the time. Everybody has
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: time to see somebody there into It might not be
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: a lot, it might not be It might be at
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: a weird time of the day, but everybody is time
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: if they really want it. Come morning. Hell, what's going
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 1: on from me on.
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 3: That lady right now?
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: Who just called?
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 3: The woman was a single mom or not called? She
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 3: texted you the single mom with all that stuff happening. Yep,
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 3: I bet you sheld goes to Target. Hey, I'm telling you, Hey,
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 3: did all right? I guarantee you should go to Target.
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 3: You're talking about paying for an hour or going and booking.
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 6: An hour with her.
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 3: You don't have to do that at Target.
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: You shop in the same aisle.
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 3: Boom communication.
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 5: Guys, it's a date said, thank you very much.
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  Speaker 1: You're welcome right by. Bruh. Can someone tell this guy
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  Speaker 1: she's not into him? Ig is the furthest he's gonna get.
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: Maybe maybe you're right, hey, room, Let's see what did
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  Speaker 1: you say here? When I started dating my wife now,
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: I made time to drive thirty to forty minutes just
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  Speaker 1: to see her at night, and two o'clock booty call
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: I was there. So you will make time if you
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  Speaker 1: really want to. And don't forget, hairstylists are the biggest hose.
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: Are the biggest hose that's there? Are Romeo, Well, she's
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: a nail girl, not a hairstylist, all right, and I
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: the hairstylists and the nurses. There's a there's a tie there,
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: I think already four two five four seven to seven.
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  Speaker 1: But you're right they You will find time. If you
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 1: really want to see someone, you will find time. And
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: I would even venture to say that's probably one of
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: the most important things you will find time for is
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 1: to see another person's if you're into them. Already four
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: two five, four is seven seven. This guy sent me
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 1: a text. Man, I don't know what to do about it,
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 1: he says he didn't talking to this girl on Instagram
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: flirting a little bit. She owns a business. She says
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: she ain't got time to date him, So he's thinking
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 1: about going to her business a scheduling appointment. Yeah, I
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: don't know. It's gonna go one or two ways, really
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: really bad or great? I guess good morning. Not what's
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: going on?
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  Speaker 4: Whatever happened to give him love a chance?
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: Given love a chance? What do you mean by that?
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 8: Well, I mean that lady.
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 9: You know, she's not gonna get younger. I mean none
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 9: of us are, right, not if that matters, right, because
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 9: there's someone for everyone.
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  Speaker 4: But if she don't ever step out there.
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  Speaker 9: And take a risk on love, okay, it's gonna it
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 9: could slip by her. I mean all that time and
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 9: energy too, that this guy is putting into this for
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 9: a lady that doesn't really want to hold on, lady
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 9: that wants to hold on.
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you, and I know you probably old school,
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: like I'm how much energy is he really put he's
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: talking to somebody through a social media out, You're not
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: really putting a lot of energy into it, you know
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 4: So I mean time with it.
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  Speaker 1: Well, that time.
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  Speaker 5: There's plositive time.
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  Speaker 2: There's negative time.
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 4: Why put it negative?
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: Diving into somebody? Right, gotcha?
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 9: Don't really want them?
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm with you to take a.
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  Speaker 9: Champ on, That's all I'm saying. If you don't, they're
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 9: gonna come at your door.
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: All right, She's right, But I'm gonna tell you right now,
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 1: and this is for for all of you out there,
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: who are these social media warriors? Right, how much are
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 1: you really putting in to sending somebody a text or
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 1: to talking through an app? You're not really a little
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: bit of time. I mean, come on, you're not really
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: doing effort. You know what effort is when it comes
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 1: to giving love a chance, like she said, when it
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: comes it's getting dressed up every Friday Saturday night, putting
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: your best foot forward, getting your haircut, going to the clubs,
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: spending a little money, you know, putting yourself out there
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: talking to people trying to get you a phone number. Right,
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: So you're not really I'm I don't I disagree with
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: her saying that how much effort you're not putting? No,
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 1: it takes no effort whatsoever to hashtag something. You know,
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: that's no effort and it really means nothing. That's why
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: I think it's so funny when these people talk about
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: how much they care about something, yet the only effort
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: they have to put in is hashtag something that's dope.
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: So effort is, you know, making sure your outfit looks right,
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 1: you know, making sure you got a little change in
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: your pocket so that you can go out that night
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 1: and try to get you a number, get you something right.
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: That's putting an effort, putting yourself out there every weekend,
• 1:11:36
  Speaker 1: all right, eight four to two, getting actually leaving your house. Hey,
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 1: good morning, rome Okay, there's three reasons she's shy or
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 1: embarrassed because she looks nothing like her picture. Other two
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 1: she's married or in a relationship. And three she just
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: makes that that of as an excuse to not be
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: rude and hurt his feelings. As a business owner, I
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 1: have done that where I don't want to hurt a
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 1: girl's feelings, so I just tell her I'm busy with work,
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 1: and eventually, over time they will get fed up and stop. Okay,
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 1: baby Romeo. Don't you think if she didn't have time
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 1: then she wouldn't be on Instagram? It takes it's a
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: great point. How does she apparently, but here's what you
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 1: got to understand about social media apps. It's just like
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 1: all these people who don't take the time. They just
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 1: go on an app and hashtag it, and everybody praises
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: them for being so concerned about something or care about something,
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: when the reality is, you don't have to care. It
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: takes nothing. It's no time. It takes nothing out of
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: your day to Instagram. It takes nothing out of your
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: day to text somebody. It takes no effort whatsoever to
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: do that. But yet you get all the praise like
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: you just you know, help them move a couch already
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: four two, five, four, seven to seven Romeo. Dating should
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 1: be like the target slogan, expect more, pay less. Okay,
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: all righty four two or seven to seven Romeo. I've
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: been messing this woman back and forth since July, and
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 1: sometimes I don't worry about it. But we got a
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 1: lot in common. Rome I work decent job that makes
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 1: quite uh, that makes quite a both bit of money,
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: have my own house, on three cars. I'm not fit,
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: but not fat either. She has on me. She's flaked
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: on me a couple of times. And sometimes we set
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: a time to actually date. She tells me last minute
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: that she can't make it. Do you think I should
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: continue to pursue her or just let it go. I
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: haven't spent money on her or don't even know where
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: her place of business is. What's your thoughts? A Romeo? Also,
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: she's twenty two. I'm twenty five. If that matters, Uh,
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: I think that you should move on. It goes to
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: the same thing as time. If somebody really wants to
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: spend time with you, they will find time. Nobody's ever
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: too busy, ever too busy, and whatever hoops you, she, him, her, whatever,
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: have to jump through to be with each other. If
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 1: people really want to be with somebody, they'll do it.
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 1: There's just there's no debate. So this guy was talking
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 1: about He sent me a text message, Hey, Roham, got
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 1: a situation. I'm on Instagram talking to this girl flirting
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 1: back and forth. I really want to take her out,
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 1: but she's a business owner, owns a nail tech place.
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 1: She's always working, never has time. I really want to
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 1: talk to this one or take this woman out. Should
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 1: I just pay for an appointment? No, you shouldn't, because
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 1: the more and more we're talking about it, the more
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: and more we think she just doesn't want to go
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 1: out with you. But I do want to say something
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: about putting in a little effort. By the way, Okay,
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: I go to quite a few high school football games
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 1: because I have friends that have high school kids that
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: play football, and I like to support my friends and families. Man,
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: you remember going to high school football? Man, When I
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: was a kid, I played high school football, and my
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 1: dad still made me get you know, are not men, dad,
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: But well he part of it. But we still, you know,
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 1: got dressed a little bit. You look like a bunch
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 1: of slobs running around them? What what happened to getting
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 1: you know, fitted up a little bit to go to
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 1: a go to a high school game because maybe you
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 1: might want to talk to the girl.
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  Speaker 6: Damn?
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  Speaker 1: What is wrong with these kids today? No no effort.
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 1: Do people still get dressed up anymore to go try
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: to hit on somebody put their best foot forward? Does
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 1: that even happen already? Four? Two, five, four or seven seven? Romeo?
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 1: There's no debate here. Everyone has time. The man should
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: just move on to the next woman that would give
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 1: him time he's looking for and it's and it's women
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 1: like that men need to stay away from because maybe
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: that woman is telling the truth. But she's showing that
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 1: she cares more about our business than creating a relationship
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: with another person. Romeo. Just remember this. The wall is
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: undefeated and there's nothing. Just to be clear, there's nothing
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 1: wrong with her focusing on her business, nothing wrong with
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 1: that whatsoever. But don't be Why are you playing games
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 1: on social media? Do you know why? Because she has
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 1: time for that, because that takes no effort whatsoever. So
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 1: she has time to flirt on Instagram, which is a
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 1: point we now and we're just forgetting. She has the
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 1: time to flirt on Oh that last woman brought it up.
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: The time she has the time to flirt on social
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 1: media because that takes no effort whatsoever. Already four two, five,
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 1: four or seven to seven wrong. If the guy goes
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 1: to the nail salon, it should be to see someone
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 1: else there and just put on a put on the
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 1: charm and let her see that. Oh, now, we're playing high.
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 7: School games in the morning every morning morning.
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  Speaker 4: Four point one