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- 0:03Speaker 1: You get you are, I'm gonna fatten all that around
- 0:15Speaker 1: your Manton blowers. Many wait for Charlemagne. They had to
- 0:20Speaker 1: make a judgment who was gonna be on the Donkey
- 0:22Speaker 1: of the Day. They chose you as the breakfast club bitches.
- 0:26Speaker 1: Who's Donkey of the day to day? Wow? Donkey to
- 0:29Speaker 1: day for Tuesday, January seventeen goes to ex Alabama basketball
- 0:32Speaker 1: player Darius Miles and his friend Michael and Davis. Let's
- 0:36Speaker 1: get right to it. On this Tuesday, Darius Miles allegedly
- 0:39Speaker 1: killed a woman because she wouldn't talk to him. Rest
- 0:42Speaker 1: in peace to Jamaya Johnay Harris, twenty three years old,
- 0:45Speaker 1: mother of a five year old no longer here. Uh
- 0:48Speaker 1: because of a man's fragile ego. That's one of those days.
- 0:50Speaker 1: Why I know Donkey of the Day isn't strong enough
- 0:53Speaker 1: Because Donkey of the Day is when someone gets the
- 0:55Speaker 1: credit they deserve for being stupid. But most of the time,
- 0:57Speaker 1: stupid is just temporary, you know what I mean. But
- 1:00Speaker 1: in a situation like this, Darius Miles led temporary feelings.
- 1:03Speaker 1: Temporary stupidity caused him to make a permanent decision. Okay,
- 1:07Speaker 1: one night left with young Queen dead forevly and we'll
- 1:09Speaker 1: cause just twenty one year old to go to jail
- 1:11Speaker 1: probably the rest of his life for capital murder. Would
- 1:13Speaker 1: you like to hear what happened? Well, let's go to
- 1:15Speaker 1: NBC thirteen for the report. Police. A story that's getting
- 1:22Speaker 1: a lot of attention tonight. A University of Alabama basketball
- 1:26Speaker 1: player one of two suspects charged in an overnight homicide. Now,
- 1:30Speaker 1: police say a Birmingham woman was killed in that shooting
- 1:33Speaker 1: on the Tuscaloosa Strip. W VTM thirteen Chip Scarborough is
- 1:37Speaker 1: live in Tuscaloosa tonight with more on a possible motive
- 1:41Speaker 1: for this case. Chip while Jarvis, the Tuscaloosa Violent Crimes
- 1:45Speaker 1: Unit says the shooting appears to be the result of
- 1:48Speaker 1: some sort of argument between the victim and the suspects
- 1:51Speaker 1: here along the strip about two o'clock this morning. Now,
- 1:53Speaker 1: former University of Alabama basketball player Darius Miles being taken
- 1:57Speaker 1: to jail late this afternoon. Authorities say Miles and Michael
- 2:01Speaker 1: Davis are charged with capital murder. Investigators say the victim,
- 2:04Speaker 1: Jamia Jane Harris, later showed up to the Walk of
- 2:07Speaker 1: Champions at Bryant Denny Stadium, where a you. A police
- 2:10Speaker 1: officer was stationed, the car she was in had been
- 2:13Speaker 1: shot into, and both suspects are in the Tuscaluse of
- 2:16Speaker 1: County jail tonight, charged with capital murder. Jamia Johnai Harris,
- 2:20Speaker 1: Rest in peace. Man. Stories like this make me terrified
- 2:22Speaker 1: for the women in my life, not just my wife
- 2:24Speaker 1: from my four daughters, but every single woman in my
- 2:26Speaker 1: orbit that I love and to do, women that an't
- 2:28Speaker 1: in my orbit, women that only I don't even know.
- 2:30Speaker 1: I feel sorry for y'all because this is an experience
- 2:33Speaker 1: that men don't have to deal with too often. Yes,
- 2:35Speaker 1: they have absolutely been men who have been killed by
- 2:37Speaker 1: women who couldn't let go, but it's rare, and by
- 2:39Speaker 1: rare personally, I mean I've never heard it, you know.
- 2:43Speaker 1: I mean, I've never heard a story of a man
- 2:44Speaker 1: rejecting a woman and a woman killing him. Yes, I've
- 2:47Speaker 1: heard stories and men being in relationships with women and
- 2:49Speaker 1: breaking up with them and the woman attempting to you know,
- 2:52Speaker 1: kill him, you know, attempting you know, the killing him,
- 2:55Speaker 1: are attempting to kill him on some thin line between
- 2:57Speaker 1: love and hate stuff. But far too often we of
- 3:00Speaker 1: these stories of men killing women simply because the women
- 3:02Speaker 1: didn't want to highlight him simply because simply because the
- 3:05Speaker 1: man got rejected, Like I literally just went to go
- 3:08Speaker 1: see a top dog underdog this weekend. A Broadway play
- 3:12Speaker 1: Phenomenal by the Way, and it explores that. But in
- 3:15Speaker 1: that situation, the person who ends up committing the heinous
- 3:18Speaker 1: act of killing a woman is basically a bump. Like
- 3:22Speaker 1: dude really didn't have much to live for in the play.
- 3:24Speaker 1: You know, so I understand why he had a fragile ego.
- 3:26Speaker 1: But Darius Miles man, not only is this real life,
- 3:30Speaker 1: but you was playing basketball for the University of Alabama.
- 3:32Speaker 1: He had a future. I don't know how he ends
- 3:34Speaker 1: up in this situation, but that's what makes this stuff
- 3:36Speaker 1: scary because you never know. You know, the constructing durability
- 3:40Speaker 1: of male egos. Okay, they are all different for each
- 3:43Speaker 1: person with a penis, meaning that what affects them and
- 3:46Speaker 1: how they're affected difference from person to person. But if
- 3:48Speaker 1: your ego is that fragile, please recognize it and find
- 3:52Speaker 1: a way to fix it. It's several ways you can
- 3:54Speaker 1: script in a fragile ego, but it's gonna take some
- 3:56Speaker 1: insight developing activities. What are insight development at activity as well.
- 4:01Speaker 1: You can't know what those are without knowing what insight
- 4:03Speaker 1: development is. Okay, the recognition that you know, one has
- 4:08Speaker 1: a mental illness, you know, or suffering from some type
- 4:11Speaker 1: of mental health issues. Awareness basically the ability to relabel
- 4:15Speaker 1: unusual mental events, you know, delusions and hallucinations is pathological.
- 4:20Speaker 1: And the recognition of the need for treatment. That's the
- 4:23Speaker 1: most important part, The recognition of the need for treatment
- 4:25Speaker 1: once you're aware that something is wrong. Now, how do
- 4:27Speaker 1: you do insight development activities? How about start with some
- 4:30Speaker 1: positive self talk? How about start with some self reflection.
- 4:32Speaker 1: How about journaling? How about positive affirmations? How about what
- 4:35Speaker 1: I've been telling y'all to do for years, Go to therapy,
- 4:40Speaker 1: sit down with a therapist or psychiatrists and deal with
- 4:42Speaker 1: your trauma before your trauma ultimately deals with you. What
- 4:44Speaker 1: makes this situation with Darius Miles so sad as he
- 4:48Speaker 1: was actually doing great things with his life. He was
- 4:51Speaker 1: playing basketball for the Universe, for the University of Alabama.
- 4:54Speaker 1: He just played this past Saturday when they beat LSU.
- 4:56Speaker 1: This man, at the least was going to graduate from
- 4:59Speaker 1: the University of Alabama, but he threw his whole future
- 5:01Speaker 1: away for what for lack of emotional intelligence because of
- 5:05Speaker 1: a fragile ego. Not listen, it's still allegedly what the
- 5:09Speaker 1: young lady's mother said. It was because she rejected his advances.
- 5:12Speaker 1: I must say salute to the young lady's boyfriend who
- 5:16Speaker 1: defended himself and shot back and hit one of the suspects.
- 5:19Speaker 1: But I wish he wasn't even in that position because
- 5:21Speaker 1: he only had to return fire because someone's fragile ego
- 5:24Speaker 1: decided to shoot at a young lady in the first place.
- 5:27Speaker 1: What happened to back in the day when you got
- 5:30Speaker 1: rejected by a woman, you just said to yourself, I'm
- 5:33Speaker 1: gonna put myself in a position financially where no woman
- 5:36Speaker 1: is gonna want to reject me. That's what it used
- 5:38Speaker 1: to be. You got this by a chick, You got
- 5:40Speaker 1: your weight up, okay, became successful. Mike Jones wrote a
- 5:43Speaker 1: hit song about it. Back then, they didn't want me.
- 5:45Speaker 1: Now I'm hot, they all ow me okay. Jay Zons
- 5:47Speaker 1: song cried, I said, woman used to tell their friends
- 5:49Speaker 1: I was ugly and wouldn't touch me. Then I showed
- 5:50Speaker 1: up in that dubbed out buggy getting disc used to
- 5:53Speaker 1: motivate men the greatness. Hell, if you believe the Facebook movie,
- 5:57Speaker 1: what was it called the social network? Mark Zuckerburke create
- 6:00Speaker 1: a Facebook because the woman he wanted didn't want him.
- 6:02Speaker 1: All I'm saying is I come from an era or
- 6:05Speaker 1: for the most part, men turned rejection in the revenue. Okay,
- 6:08Speaker 1: getting rejected was exactly the motivation they needed to be successful.
- 6:11Speaker 1: But this era seems to use rejection as motivation to
- 6:15Speaker 1: be murderous. Please, my brothers, please, I'm begging you, go
- 6:18Speaker 1: to therapy, do the work on yourself. The life you
- 6:21Speaker 1: say will be your own and it will absolutely save
- 6:25Speaker 1: the life of brothers. Please give Darius Smiles and Michael
- 6:27Speaker 1: Lynn Davis the biggest he hull. So damn sad sad
- 6:34Speaker 1: man rest in Pieter, Jamey john Nay Harris. Ye that
- 6:38Speaker 1: mercy donkey today is brought to you by the law
- 6:41Speaker 1: office of Michael s Lammon Saft. Don't be a donkey.
- 6:44Speaker 1: Dive pound two fifty on your cell and say the bull.
- 6:47Speaker 1: If you've been hurting a construction accident, that's pound two
- 6:49Speaker 1: five old from your cell and say the bull.