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- 0:00Speaker 1: We got a question for American mama's to your mama's,
- 0:02Speaker 1: we are conservative, but our grown children have bought into
- 0:05Speaker 1: the leftist nonsense full force.
- 0:07Speaker 2: Help.
- 0:07Speaker 3: Oh my, well, let's ask our American mama's.
- 0:12Speaker 1: Mama Mama, and joining us now are American mamas Terry
- 0:26Speaker 1: Edville and Kimberly Burlson. I don't think my kids have
- 0:29Speaker 1: bought into the left full force. I do know that
- 0:32Speaker 1: there's some kids that I've worked with on different things
- 0:35Speaker 1: in the past, and I see their Facebook posts and
- 0:39Speaker 1: I'm just like, oh, no, you're believing lies. How do
- 0:47Speaker 1: you help those parents that are dealing with that? How
- 0:51Speaker 1: do you help the kids that have bought into things
- 0:54Speaker 1: that simply aren't true?
- 0:55Speaker 3: You know, when we got this question, I thought about
- 0:58Speaker 3: one particular friend of mine on Facebook. We've been friends
- 1:01Speaker 3: for years. I've watched her children grow up, My kids
- 1:04Speaker 3: have all been in school with her. Her son is
- 1:06Speaker 3: as far left as you can possibly get, and he
- 1:10Speaker 3: is spewing things online all day, every day, and my
- 1:15Speaker 3: friend is completely opposite. So I decided to call her
- 1:18Speaker 3: because I just wanted to have a conversation with her,
- 1:20Speaker 3: because I wanted to ask her, like, what do you
- 1:22Speaker 3: do because she's so loving, she's so wonderful. So I
- 1:25Speaker 3: called her and it was a very interesting conversation, and
- 1:29Speaker 3: she gave me a little background. She said, he married
- 1:32Speaker 3: an atheist. That's the first thing that happened. Oh, but
- 1:35Speaker 3: she's loving. She said, she's the most wonderful girl. She's
- 1:38Speaker 3: the most wonderful girl. But she's an atheist. Her parents
- 1:42Speaker 3: are atheists, and they're not as wonderful. And she said,
- 1:46Speaker 3: what I've noticed is my son grew up Christian with
- 1:48Speaker 3: Christian values. He is now his idol, is now his wife,
- 1:53Speaker 3: and she feels like he is posting things to make
- 1:56Speaker 3: her happy, to make her feel seen and to be loved.
- 2:00Speaker 3: And she said, all I want is relationship with my child.
- 2:03Speaker 3: Because I love my child. I'll never turn away from him.
- 2:06Speaker 3: I will never shame him. She said, the problem is
- 2:09Speaker 3: he wants to debate me all the time, and I
- 2:12Speaker 3: want to And she said, I'm very clear, let's not
- 2:15Speaker 3: go there, let's not have this conversation. But yet he's
- 2:18Speaker 3: his desire is to win. He wants to win arguments,
- 2:21Speaker 3: and he's never going to win an argument with me
- 2:24Speaker 3: because we think so fundamentally differently. And she said, so
- 2:29Speaker 3: what I do is I when I have my grandchildren,
- 2:32Speaker 3: he told me, do not ever bring up God, you know,
- 2:35Speaker 3: And she said, God's a part of my life every day,
- 2:37Speaker 3: all day. So sometimes it slips, she says, I really
- 2:41Speaker 3: try to be mindful of what he wants, but he
- 2:44Speaker 3: is who I am, and so she said, I pray.
- 2:48Speaker 3: That's what I'm doing. I am praying all the time
- 2:50Speaker 3: because his foundation is the Christian values that we raised
- 2:54Speaker 3: him with. I believe that he will come back to that,
- 2:57Speaker 3: and I believe she will too, his wife.
- 3:00Speaker 1: So that is actually very good advice that if you're
- 3:04Speaker 1: dealing with kids who have become prodigal, right, that the
- 3:11Speaker 1: appropriate response to that is prayer. That there really is.
- 3:14Speaker 1: I mean, look, Christians believe there's power in prayer, then
- 3:17Speaker 1: let's put that into practice. I think that's wise advice.
- 3:21Speaker 2: Terry Well, I you know, do you I remember that
- 3:24Speaker 2: eighties show Family Ties, Oh yeah, where Michael P. Keaton
- 3:28Speaker 2: was the Republican of the family and they were all
- 3:30Speaker 2: like the hippie liberals exactly.
- 3:31Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 3:32Speaker 2: I think how brilliant that show was because they allowed
- 3:36Speaker 2: each other to be each other and love each other right,
- 3:38Speaker 2: no matter what the problem now is that things have
- 3:42Speaker 2: gotten so heated between the two parties. They're so different
- 3:46Speaker 2: from each other in so many ways. And you can't
- 3:49Speaker 2: blame the kid because he's hearing this news from the
- 3:52Speaker 2: left and they're given misinformation and they are spinning stories,
- 3:56Speaker 2: and so they truly firmly believe that what they're saying
- 3:59Speaker 2: that hates all black people are Trump.
- 4:02Speaker 1: You know all the news about the shutdown, that the
- 4:05Speaker 1: big media which is completely lying overnight, over and over.
- 4:09Speaker 2: All you can say is what I said to a
- 4:10Speaker 2: friend that got into it with me is, look, I'm
- 4:14Speaker 2: not going to blame you for believing what you believe
- 4:17Speaker 2: because you believe what you believe because of who you're around,
- 4:21Speaker 2: what you're exposed to, who you listen to on the
- 4:23Speaker 2: radio or whatever. And same with me. So you know,
- 4:27Speaker 2: I would hope that you'd give me the same respect.
- 4:28Speaker 2: But all I can say is I love you no
- 4:31Speaker 2: matter what. I will not let politics override our friendship.
- 4:35Speaker 2: In this case, your son, I will not let politics
- 4:37Speaker 2: override my love for you. So we'll stay off the
- 4:40Speaker 2: topic and know that I'm here for you and that
- 4:43Speaker 2: we'll just respect that each other feels differently, and it's
- 4:46Speaker 2: simply because of what rings true in our heart, what
- 4:49Speaker 2: we hear that feels right, what we hear that feels wrong,
- 4:52Speaker 2: And then I feel like eventually you just that that
- 4:56Speaker 2: respect comes through and you're able to maintain those relationships.
- 5:00Speaker 1: And I do think that a foundational worldview is so important.
- 5:05Speaker 1: If you don't have the rooting in God is actually real,
- 5:09Speaker 1: God is in control, then you can spin out of
- 5:11Speaker 1: control very quickly. And if you start thinking that, well,
- 5:15Speaker 1: all people are good and well, that's starts leading to
- 5:20Speaker 1: another problem too, because we're not. And then you start
- 5:23Speaker 1: blaming society for why people are bad. When people are
- 5:26Speaker 1: bad because we're in a fallen world, and so you
- 5:30Speaker 1: can get things upside down very very quickly if you
- 5:33Speaker 1: don't have a solid foundation to your worldview. I agree,
- 5:36Speaker 1: prayer is so important.
- 5:38Speaker 2: I cannot think of anything else that gets me through.
- 5:41Speaker 2: It gets us through.
- 5:43Speaker 3: And this particular mother, she'll she'll win in the end
- 5:46Speaker 3: because of that, He'll know that he's loved absolutely.
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- 5:56Speaker 1: Terry Netib Kimberly Brother listen. Thank you so much,