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A Life of Significance | Episode #346 · Legacy Living with Dr. Gloria Burgess

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Hello, and welcome to today's show, Legacy Living, Make Your Life Count.
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I'm your host, Doctor Gloria Gloria Burgess, international leadership expert and trusted
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adviser. Welcome to Legacy Living, Make Your Life Count. I'm so delighted
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that you join me today. I have a very special guest with us today.
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Her name is Mary Bess Johnson. I hope you will be inspired by
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our conversation. Mary Bess is joining us today from her home in beautiful upstate
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South Carolina, where she lives with her husband, Chris. Mary Bess is
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an amazing person and most importantly, she is an inspiring woman of God.
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I can't wait for her to share her remarkable journey and story with you.
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In her own words, Mary Bess is on a journey, a journey of
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self growth. In two thousand and sixteen, she gave up retirement to join
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the John Maxwell team. At that time, her singular thought was all about
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helping others grow and fulfilling God's purpose for her own life. Now, Mary
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Bess has been helping individuals and organizations improve for decades, and she is passionate
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about encouraging and helping new team members on the John Maxwell team. There,
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she serves as a peer teaching partner and team leader on the President's Advisory Council.
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She says, this is the perfect way to live out my heart's desire
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to serve others. Mary Best not only enjoys serving on the John Maxwell team,
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she also enjoys being an entrepreneur, serving her clients, serving as a
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community volunteer, and offering humorous wisdom to her grandchildren, all seven of them.
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Today's topic is living a life of significance. Now that's a topic that
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is near and dear to my heart and I can't think of a better person,
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a better leader, a better human being to address this topic than Mary
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Bess. I met Mary Best several years ago when I was attending the International
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Maxwell Certification Conference in Orlando, Florida. When I met Mary Bess, I
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just knew there was something very special about her. And when I had an
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opportunity to have a conversation with her, she spoke so passionately about her life,
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about her purpose. I mean, she was just glowing. So I
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can't wait to host this incredible, amazing and lovely human being, my friend,
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colleague and mentor, Mary Bess Johnson. Now, before I bring her
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on. I just want to take a moment to connect the dots between today's
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topic on living a life of significance and legacy living. Now, there are
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many ways that living a life of significance connects to legacy living, which you
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will hear more about later. For now, just let me say that legacy
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living is a way of being, a way of living and moving through the
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world so that we make the conscious choice to be the difference we want to
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see in the world. We make that conscious choice right here and right now,
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not in some distant future way out there. Right We make that conscious
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choice day in and day out, three sixty five, twenty four seven.
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Now, I'll say more about that later. Now, let me introduce you
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to my friend and colleague and mentor, Mary Bess. Hello, Mary Bess,
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I want to welcome you to my show and thank you so much for
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agreeing to be a guest. Could you just please say your name and where
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you're from for us. Yes, my name is Mary Bess Johnson and I
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live in Pendleton, South Carolina. It's an upstate Carolina all right, excellent,
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Thank you and Mary best. I know that you have just a lot
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to share with us today, but I want to begin by asking you what
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does it mean to live in God's will for your life? For me,
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it means that that I want to see God's will for every move that I
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make and everything that I do, and knowing that I am just living to
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be the person that He intended me to be for one thing and to always
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us. It's not approval that I see, No, no, it's not.
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It's just just just to be just to walk with the Lord and to
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be in his will. And because his will is perfect and it's timing is
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perfect, and as long as I am staying in that place, then it
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keeps the stress out and the strife and and everything that that can you know,
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come from that that place of indecision or not knowing. There's so I
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find so much peace in knowing the Lord and having a personal relationship with Jesus.
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There's first of all, there's so much peace in that. And then
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because I want to live in God's will and being God's will, then it's
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just it's kind of like simple. I think sometimes we complicate it, but
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for me sometimes it's just like a simple thing. It's just like, hey,
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maybe you love the Lord, he loves you. Just walk with him.
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Yeah, yeah, and Mary Best. It is simple. It's very
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simple because we're strong Christians, were very firm in our faith, and you
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know, sometimes people who are new to the faith, they really don't have
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a clue about what we're talking about. So can you just say a little
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bit more about what God's perfect timing is and being the person that God intended
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you to be? You know, don't worry. I really appreciate that that
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you mentioned that, because I can remember many years ago if you had said
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those same words to me, I didn't wouldn't have a clue as to what
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you meant, not really, So until I really had started this personal relationship
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with Jesus, not just knowing about God, not just going to church,
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not all of that routine like I grew up doing, but when it really
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got down to that real relationship and I realized that that God was just such
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a such a friend to me and that he had my best interests. Of
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course, you know, I was. I'm I'm created in his image.
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And even that's hard for some folks to understand, especially those who who maybe
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are new believers, and they're saying, how in the world can I be
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created in God's image? Well, you know what, because scripture tells us
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that, and that's how that's that's another part of the simplicity of it.
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But but for me, when when I have that love relationship that I feel
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with the Lord, I I just want it's like, well, let's see,
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I know, it's like parent child relationship. Maybe when the the child
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and wants to please the parent. No, the child loves the parent.
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The child doesn't even have to think about whether they please the parent or not.
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I don't have to think about whether I please God or not. I
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love him, He loves me, and so staying close to him, I'm
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just so comfortable in knowing that, and then in staying in his will.
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Typically for me, if I'm getting out of God's will, oh I know
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it. I mean I'm going to start feeling really uncomfortable. And you know
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that's just that that Holy Spirit in me speaking to me. Yes. So
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you know, when you're in God's will, because you're walking in joy,
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you're walking in peace, and when you get out of it, out of
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his well, you get something inside of you, yeah, beside you.
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However that shows up for you, the Holy Spirit talking to you. Yeah,
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Yeah, very uncomfortable. It's just that it's that intuitive, that conviction
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that that I just no now that has developed over the years too. I
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mean that was not an instant thing with me, but I think just staying
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staying in God's word and even you know, music, um, any kind
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of praise, any kind of Christian music, um, from the old hymns
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that I've been singing all my life to contemporary Christian music. It's all.
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It all has saturated me through the years with God's word and the goodness and
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his girl Amen hallelujah. You know, I often think about where would we
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be without the Lord, and where will we be without his grace and mercy,
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And so knowing that you are walking with the Lord and listening and you
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know that He's ordering your steps is so significant. And we have been in
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the same organization, the John Maxwell Team, for a number of years.
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That's how we met. And I'm wondering, Mary Best, if you could
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just share a little bit about what living a life of significance means to you.
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Well, first of all, I've got to tell the listening audience that
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Gloria was my table host when I attended my very first John Maxwell Team International
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Certification event, and that was in August of twenty sixteen, and so I
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met her that day and just absolutely loved her from from day one. But
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the really wonderful thing that has been such a lesson to me is that we
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were doing our five minute table talk, and my five minutes went over.
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And so when the buzzer goes off, those of you are listening. When
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the buzzer goes off, you stopped talking. Okay, So I stopped talking.
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And when everybody around the table finished with their their table talk, the
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first thing Gloria said to me was, now, Mary, Bess, would
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you like to finish and tell us that last little piece of your story.
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Oh that meant so much to me, so very much, And that's just
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been that's a huge lesson to me, and listening and knowing that even with
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a time frame like that, at a time constraint, that we still have
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important things that we want to say, and for some of us, it
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just takes us longer to saying, oh, my goodness, but living a
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life of significance, oh yes, hey, I have as long as I
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can remember, my whole life, just wanted to just feel like I was
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making a difference and changing the world, and this and that and I kind
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of used to think of it in such broader terms until I joined the John
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Maxwell team in twenty sixteen. I came out of retirement. I had had
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a long, successful Mary Kay Cosmetics career and I had been retired for a
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number of years and started feeling that nudge. And what the nudge was was
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God saying, all right, all right, when I'm not done with you
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yet, you know, it doesn't matter tired. I've got more I want
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you to do. And you know, Gloria, that's that is humbling for
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me to say that. That is not an ego or an eye thing like
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oh, I've got so much I could no, no, no, no
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no. That is a very humbling thing to know that you have been used
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in some way or another in the past, that God has used you to
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influence others. And so when you know that there's still room for that,
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oh my goodness just stirred within me and I just knew something was like,
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oh, I got to get back out there. So that's when I joined
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the team. And for me, living a life of significance is not about
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me. Although I am on the disc personality disc I'm an eye personality and
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a d SO. But it's not about me, it's about the other person.
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And everywhere I go, I just want to add value to other people.
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I just want to smile, I want to cut a joke. I
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want to do something that makes that person feel better, makes that person feel
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important. And it's not that I have to do big, huge things at
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all. But I know that, I know that, I know that one
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little ripple can just create an ocean of wave and change, and that if
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just one person is influenced by something that I have said or help them with,
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oh that's that's a that's a wonderful. So it's it's just living living
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life to its fullest. It doesn't matter my age. Does it matter that
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you know I'm oldest dirt, I'm not. Really, no, you are
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not, But you know it, really that does not matter m all all
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ages. Children can live a life of significance. Children can have a positive
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influence. Yes, yes, I really believe that too, Mary Best.
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And I know that you have added so much value to me personally and so
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much value to the people in your community. And I'm sure folks that I'm
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not even aware of. And so I wonder if you could tell us a
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little bit about your own journey with your self growth, maybe with the John
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Maxwell team or beyond, and talk a little bit about your career journey as
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well. Yeah, the the self growth really and intentional self growth started gosh,
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you know, in the seventies eighties, and I guess well, really
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probably more into the eighties when I read Stephen Covey's Seven Habits of Highly Effective
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People. That was one of the first things that really got got me going
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on self growth and thinking into other areas like that. I tell you,
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I've always kind of been been a deep thinker. I remember even as a
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as a teenager, you know, really just getting to thinking about all sorts
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of things that some people didn't have a clue with what I was talking about,
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but I could really get into some some some thoughts. And I still
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I still am very much a deep thinker. I'm also very curious. So
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when when I was in my Mary Kay career is when John Maxwell first came
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in alone. He was doing leadership training for us with Mary Kay when he
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was still at his church in San Diego, when he was still pastoring there
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back in the nineties, and I became very interested in everything he said.
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I joined the tape of the month club and you know what, I've got
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a block it load of cassette tapes and but just really really really loved him
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and I used his leadership lessons every month at my sale I've had a sales
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meeting every single week for the Mary Kay Consultants, and once a month we
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had leadership night, and so I would have a leadership lesson. And mind
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you now this is back in the late nineties and two thousand and I would
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present that leadership lesson and the and the my team would would participate in it.
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And then, um, the actual John Maxwell team was started ten years
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ago in twenty eleven. So back in the day when I was following John,
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I didn't you know, there was no such thing as being certified.
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But I remember thinking it's so funny. You know, here I am in
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South Carolina. He's on the West coast in San Diego. And I can
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distinctly remember him thinking, oh, I would love to work with John Maxwell,
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wow or for him or you know. Then I said, but Mary
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best, you know he's on the West coast. Did you live in South
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Carolina? And you're you're not you know, you're not twenty five and just
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charting off on a new job. So um, but that scene was planted
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Gloria. Absolutely. And so then the years went by, and in twenty
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sixteen I looked more into joining the team and so that's that's when I decided
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to become certified and absolutely have just adored it. Well, it seems like
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you have been around a lot longer than four years, five years, four
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and a half years, whatever that is, yeah, five and may yeah,
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yeah, I mean it seems like you are just one of the founding
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people and you know, no really yeah, yeah, you you add such
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value, like I said, not only to me, but to so many
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other people on the team. Mary Bess, you are just a giver.
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Well, thank you, and you know it. It's funny when you say
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that because it really hadn't thought about it. But it could be that because
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John Maxwell and his teachings and books, readings, everything have been such a
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big part of my life that when I transitioned into the being a team member,
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that I just brought a lot of that with me. I mean because
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really, even when you think about I've talked to Mark Cole about it before,
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and you know, he's been with John for twenty years something and he
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remembers those days that he and John would go to the Mary Kay training,
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so he was going with him then, so he remembers all of that.
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And I don't know, maybe if that didn't, I just felt so at
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home, so very much at home. Yeah. Yeah, well, you
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know, I remember when I joined. I'm one of the founding partners,
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as you know, and it just felt like I found my people like mind
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at people but totally different than than me. And I brought a lot of
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things along from my early exposure to John Maxwell as well. So maybe that's
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it. I don't know, Yeah, but I but I so appreciate you
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saying that, Um, you know, I'll I'll always be one who will,
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you know, raise my hand and say, you know, send me,
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I'll go, I'll do or whatever. I'd love to help. But
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I always want my humility. I want to be humble about it. Always
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that I have the confidence to raise my hand and say send me, I'll
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go. I'll try. Um, And I do want to, but I
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do want to do it in a humble way. So I certainly wouldn't want
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to be you know, I wouldn't want it to be perceived as, oh,
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you know, you just busting in and trying to be part of the
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No, I just I just feel at home. Well, thank you for
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saying that, though, Oh, yes, you're You're so welcome. So
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Mary best. I know that sometimes many people start the year with a particular
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word that influences them, that guides them, that grounds them in whatever way.
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And I'm wondering, do you have a word for your year? Oh,
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I'm so glad you asked. Actually, I chose this word for twenty
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twenty, and it was towards the end of twenty nineteen that I was thinking
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on it. And I think I was on a call with Mark Cole one
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day actually, and he was talking about it too. So I I really,
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for the last two or three years, I've had this sense of urgency
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about wanting to really really want to live a life of significance and to just
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do whatever I could. I'm sure that age has something to do with it,
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for Heaven's sake, you know, but never the less, I've had
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that sense of urgency. So I was. I was sitting there the day
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thinking through it that that day and I wrote down the word now. And
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you know, commonly, like with with Nike or whoever it is, you
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know, do it now, but it wasn't quite that for me, and
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I kept looking at it. I had written it out in OW and I
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looked at it and I went, oh, my goodness, not over with,
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m mercy. Yeah, and I I felt this confirmation and this peace
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of that is exactly what I had been feeling. It's not over with,
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and I it had. That word has motivated me. So so it's my
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word for this year or two as well from twenty one. So what it
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really means to me is exactly what it says. Here here we go back
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to simplicity. I just love to see things simply and to not complicate things.
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And so now to make that means not over with, it's it's not
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over with. That's basically right it. And so you say what's not over
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with? Well, the fact that I want to live a life of significance
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that's not over with, or whatever I'm wanting to achieve, it's not over
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with. So really I can apply that to anything. Um it gives It
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gives me a sense of like another moment, another chance, and it could
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be literally that I you know, I die to night and so but even
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still I want to live up until I take my last breath with that feeling
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of it's not over wreath, and it's you know, it's it's not a
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driven thing at all. It's not like I strive for this. It's just
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it's just how I feel. But um, I had not quite been able
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to put my my finger on what all what all I've been chewing on for
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the last two or three years. But but you know, the Lord just
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gave me that word. And then when I when I looked not over with,
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I went, that is exactly That's exactly how I feel. So I
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just believe that we all, um can have that attitude, whether we choose
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to or not. It defol yes. And so you you talked about significance,
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you talked about the urgency to live your life, and you also talked
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about humility. And I'm wondering, so not over with to me says that
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God has his hand on you, that he has more for you. And
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in my way of thinking, you know, it's not your business to know
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what that is. You know, just just pay attention and walk and walk.
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Yes, you'll you'll keep ordering yourself, that's right. I often think
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of it with your your John, your sweet husband, as a as a
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maestro conductor. I just every time I think about God ordering my steps,
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I see him well, even sometimes in the black tooks, orchestrating our steps.
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Yes, oh my, I'll never think of God the same way,
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and I know it. Can you imagine? Oh gosh, but I do,
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I really do. I couldn't tell you how many times I thought,
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you know, when I think about God orchestrating our steps and when I think
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about your John. So um, I really do believe that. And of
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course, as as the years go by, I can look back now and
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see, oh my goodness, how things unfolded. You know, it's turned
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into this, and then this happened, and this happened, and that.
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An encouragement from me on that to listeners would be just to trust. And
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like Gloria just said, take that one foot in front of the other and
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keep stepping forward. As you step forward, when you take enough steps,
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you're going to be able to look back and see how things are unfolding.
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Absolutely, And I know when I'm in the middle of something it sometimes doesn't
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make sense, but when I look back, it looks like a straight line.
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Oh yeah, exactly, yes, exactly. So Mary Best, can
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you talk to us a little bit about you know, I just know just
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a teeming little bit of the kinds of things that you're doing in your community
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and how you're helping women, and can you just talk to us a little
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bit about that as well? As I see you as a very I'm going
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to say creative and generative person, if you could talk to us a little
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bit about your creativity, your interests, and again how that's flowing out of
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you and into the community as well. Oh my goodness. Well, I've
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always been very, as I said earlier, very curious. I love to
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learn new things. I love to try new things. I am pretty much
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a risk taker with something. So you know, when I was sixty nine
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years I did a tandem jump skydive and I loved it and that was so
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and I wouldn't I yeah, I would not mind doing it again at all.
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But so I'm interested in things like that. I am very creative.
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I'm creative as far as stitching and anything like that, or I'm resourceful.
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I can think of odd ways to fix something maybe you know, to make
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it do or whatever. And as far as in the community here, well,
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no one thing that I did that's interesting to me that I haven't involved
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in the past. I am not right here in this community. We've moved
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here four years ago. But for a number of years where I lived before,
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I was involved in a quilt program at our church, prayers for squares
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for squares for pray. I can't remember which way, but we we would
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make quilts and uh just lap quilts and give those two folks who were really
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going through a hard time and um so that program was was very meaningful to
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me. And because I did know how to sew and stitch and all that,
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I could do that kind of thing. But even when I when I
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don't know, I'll take a stab at it to learn. You know,
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I'm always one to say, hey, I don't know, but I'll find
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out, or I don't know how to do that, but I'll figure it
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out. Anybody taking a tandem jump at sixty nine saying you think I know
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it and at the truth, to me, that just seemed like, you
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know, okay, well everybody does that, but I guess not really,
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Oh my goodness. So I'm always just I'll look for ways of doing something
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really in a fun way to do. I love to laugh and I love
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to have fun as far as what I'm doing here in the community with women.
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For one thing is I'm involved with a really beautiful nonprofit organization here who
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offers a hand up and not a hand out. And so their clients who
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come to them have the opportunity to take classes at their center, which are
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all volunteers. So they can take classes in money management, anger management,
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diet, nutrition, parenting, basic skills, real anything, just anything.
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And when they take the course the class and show up and do it,
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they can earn dream dollars. And then they can take those dream dollars and
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they go to one of the resale stores you know, it would be like
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habitats resale, that sort of situation, and they can purchase goods because most
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of these people are very very low income. And also one thing that was
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really so much fun at Christmas, they have this huge Santa Shop program.
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So all year long, businesses all of the area donate Christmas skips, brand
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new toys and things for the Santa Shop. It's really a very large of
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my life stuff. And so the people can go shop in the center shop
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when they earn the dream dollars, they got to earn them, yeah,
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not cool. And then what they do is they provide them ways to earn.
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So I've been doing classes zoom classes with them now since about October and
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we still have one going right now. But I love to do that,
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and you know, it's just it's volunteer, absolutely volunteer. And I do
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have a financial relationship with them too, because I've done a lot of their
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leadership training and within their staff. It's a pretty large organization, but that
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that's how I serve here. I've I'm involved in our church, love that
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and in the community here. I'm a board member of the Pendleton Historical Society
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Foundation. It's been around a lot of history here where I live. And
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I'm excited about to get involved with a program at Columson University which is right
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here that Professor Thomas, Ronda Thomas has started a number her of years back,
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slowly but surely she's making headway on it. And it's called the name
35:06
of the program is called my name. She has learned when she came to
35:14
Clemson to be a professor that many back in the late eighteen hundreds, most
35:21
of the people who built Clemson University were African Americans who were the children of
35:28
slaves or they were in prison and they were allowed to help build and so
35:35
many many of them have been when they died, they were buried here and
35:42
she has been discovering their grave sites. So she absolutely has a full blown
35:50
program going now. It actually is hiring someone to head it up. And
35:57
I am tapped to volunteer in the program. So that's something else that's really
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near and dear to my heart right here in the back door. Yes.
36:08
And then my husband, Oh my goodness, oh I love, Oh my
36:14
goodness, my husband. Yeah. And we have seven grandchildren, with three
36:17
daughters and seven grandchildren. Mercy, Well, you know you, I want
36:22
to be like you when I grew up. I mean you are so involved
36:29
and so engaged, and you find places you know, not only that's a
36:34
right fit for you, I mean God places you there, but you also
36:37
find a way to pour just to pour blessings into into so many people.
36:45
And you know, the people that we impact, like right in front of
36:47
us, they're gonna share and they're gonna share and they're gonna share it and
36:52
it just keeps on rippling out. So I mean, your your footprint,
36:55
your fingerprint, your impress is just remarkable, very best. You know,
37:01
glory one time men and many years ago I heard in a message one day.
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The person said something like, I don't want I don't want to stand
37:15
before God when I die. I don't want to stand before God and hear
37:21
the words, oh, welcome home, my child, good and faithful servant.
37:29
Oh, but I had so much more I wanted you to do.
37:35
Yeah, and you know that's almost kind of like negative motivation, but but
37:40
not really, not really, because that hit home with me. Yeah,
37:49
I do have We do have responsibility on this earth. Yes, we do,
37:57
not only responsibility for ourselves and our families, but to serve others.
38:05
Yes. So I have a question for you. I know you've talked a
38:09
lot about the work that you have done on your intentional growth and your career
38:14
with Mary Kay. Were you ever a teacher in your life beyond like teaching
38:19
your kids, which is a huge responsibility. Yeah. I mean, that's
38:23
interesting that you asked me that. It's and that's really strange because yesterday I
38:32
was thinking something made me think about I remember years ago when people would say
38:39
to me, now, are you a school teacher? And I would say
38:45
no, because I was in the corporate I was working in the corporate world.
38:47
I'm doing Mary Kay in nineteen ninety one. I mean, yeah,
38:53
I was. I was doing that and had been in that area for many,
38:58
many years and really just joined mary Kay did and relieved some stress on
39:07
my job and just have some fun and make a little extra money. Hey,
39:10
that was fun. And so that was back in nineteen ninety one,
39:15
and I quit my job a year and a half later to pursue mary Kay
39:19
full time. So it did turn into a full time career for me.
39:22
But that's funny that you ask about teaching. I don't know what it is,
39:28
but but I do like I do like to teach. I mean,
39:32
yeah, I mean, and that's that's one of the things I like about
39:37
training in leadership. Yeah, is the teaching part of it, Well,
39:44
you're very good at it. And uh so maybe maybe the trick is not
39:47
thinking about yourself as a teacher. Yeah, I know, I know that's
39:53
weird. I love teachers. I think they have the most wonderful job on
39:59
the at it and we don't give them nearly enough credit and respect. So
40:05
I just think the world of teachers very best. We are just about at
40:08
the end of our conversation this day, which is a shame because I would
40:13
love to just keep listening to you and learning from you. Is there anything
40:16
that you wished I would have asked you that I haven't asked you. M
40:22
not that I can think of right now, not at all. As far
40:28
as things that are coming up. My plate is full with family and my
40:35
business and my volunteer time and then global youth initiatives. And you know your
40:44
listeners might not, but you know that I absolutely love your book. Pass
40:51
it on. And that's another thing. You know that that book means so
40:57
much to me. There's there's just it just strikes my heart. It just
41:06
hits my heart. And I think because I grew up in the South in
41:10
that era, and I knew then when I was a little girl, I
41:16
knew it was wrong, but I didn't know why, but I just knew
41:22
it was wrong. When I'm in the department store when the water fountains were
41:30
in two different places, I just didn't get it, and I just knew
41:36
in my heart that that it was it was, it was wrong. And
41:40
so your book has just it's meant so much to me. I'll tell you
41:45
what glory. It's given me an opportunity to express what I just expressed to
41:50
you two. Someone that I don't know to be able to share the book
41:59
with them, read the story to them, and then to be able to
42:05
to just share of that how much it means to me and had hoardant I
42:10
think it is, so I think, yeah, that's that's one thing before
42:19
we haven't talked about. But and I know that's about you and your bullet,
42:22
but still it's it's our story. Yeah, it is our story.
42:28
It is Mary Best. I'm really glad you brought it up. I did
42:30
not want to bring it up because this is about you, and you know,
42:35
I also just want to thank you because you have been such a powerful
42:39
ambassador for this book and and you know, not only about the book.
42:45
It's really about I'm hoping, you know, somebody listening will hear that it's
42:51
our story. Is it is not my story? It is our story,
42:55
right, And some time we keep saying this, but sometime, you know,
43:02
and maybe this podcast is a vehicle for it. I don't know,
43:06
we could talk about it, but I would love to just have a deeper
43:08
conversation with you about the our story piece of it. It is our story,
43:14
yes, and this is a story that our nation and I'm going to
43:16
say the world is involved in right now, right now in a way that
43:22
we really have not been together in this conversation before. You know what I
43:27
mean, And it's so important. So thanks for all that you do and
43:31
all that you are, and thank you again for bringing it up. Aprecire.
43:35
Oh yeah, I'm glad that I did bring it up. It's interesting
43:39
that I don't know that I've articulated it that way before, even in my
43:45
mind just then, by the what I said about our story. But I'm
43:52
just telling you, Gloria, I can just I'm five years old, and
43:55
I'm in the department store, you know, in Anderson, southdo Rolina,
44:00
and I'm looking up at that the two war fountains, one that says white
44:05
and one that says colored, and I'm going, no, what, No,
44:10
my neighbor. I play with my neighbor. Yes, she's a beautiful
44:15
little brown skinned girl. I lived out in the country. And so it
44:21
is our story. Yeah it is. Yeah, yeah, all right,
44:29
my friend. Well, thank you again. Thank you if you are and
44:32
do, and thank you for just pouring life and you know, giving life
44:37
giving words. You know, they're like oxygen for people and we need we
44:42
need that oxygen. I'm so I'm so grateful, and I'm so humbled to
44:46
have been invited to just chat with you. Of course, you and I
44:51
could talk till the cows came in. I know we could m so uplifting,
45:01
so inspiring, so many pearls of wisdom. I feel so blessed to
45:08
know Mary Bess Johnson. Clearly, she is a leader's leader. She makes
45:15
a difference in her own life and in the lives of so many others,
45:19
in her own family and throughout the world, in her work as a leader,
45:24
as a certified John Maxwell coach, as a grandmother, and as a
45:29
community servant. To learn more about Mary best and her work, you can
45:35
go to her website and that's www dot Mary Bess Johnson dot com. Www
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dot Mary Bess M A R Y B E. S. S. Johnson
45:50
j O h N S O N dot com. Now, if you are
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just joining us, I'm doctor Gloria and this is Legacy living. Make your
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life count. We just heard from my very special guest, Mary Bess Johnson,
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47:04
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47:08
We are the ones we have been waiting for. Now what do I
47:13
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47:19
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47:22
they might not step up. In fact, they might not even know you're
47:27
there waiting for them to do something for you. But you can be the
47:31
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47:37
one. You are the one who can make a difference in your own life
47:42
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49:49
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