Latest / Reformed Thinking / The Rich Young Man and the Cost of Following Christ: Self-Righteousness, Idolatry, and Eternal Life (Matthew 19:16–22)
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- 0:00Welcome to Reform Thinking, where we take your sources and
- 0:03uncover the truth within. So imagine you have the absolute
- 0:09ultimate spiritual resume. Right.
- 0:11The kind of resume that just looks flawless to everyone
- 0:13around you. Yeah.
- 0:14Absolutely flawless. You possess perfect morals.
- 0:17You have immense wealth, you hold unquestioned social
- 0:20authority, and, you know, a completely spotless public
- 0:23reputation. The kind of person who gets the
- 0:25best seat at any dinner party. Spot on.
- 0:28Now imagine you walk right up to the gates of the Kingdom of
- 0:31Heaven, and you hand that flawless resume to the one who
- 0:34holds the keys. And you just expect him to usher
- 0:36you right in. But instead, you watch as he
- 0:39takes that resume and just tears it to pieces right in front of
- 0:42you. It is a shocking image, I mean
- 0:44truly jarring for most people to consider.
- 0:46It really is. Today we're looking at why the
- 0:49Creator of the universe rejects the most qualified people on
- 0:53Earth. We're going to examine a
- 0:55historical account from the 19th chapter of Matthew's Gospel.
- 0:59Yes, the account of the young, affluent man who approaches
- 1:02Jesus Christ. Right.
- 1:04And on paper, this individual looks like the absolute ideal
- 1:07candidate for eternal life. By all human metrics, he is
- 1:12completely blameless. He is the guy every single
- 1:15religious institution would want on their board of directors.
- 1:19So our mission for today's discussion is pretty
- 1:21straightforward, yet it cuts right to the bone.
- 1:24We are going to dismantle the illusion of human merit.
- 1:27And we are going to look at the crushing weight of the divine
- 1:29law too. Yeah, and finally, we are going
- 1:31to look at the absolute necessity of Christ's sovereign
- 1:35grace. Now, if you were listening to
- 1:37this right now, you might assume this is just a simple financial
- 1:40lesson about the dangers of possessing too much money.
- 1:43Oh, people make that mistake all the time.
- 1:45They reduce it to a budgeting seminar.
- 1:46They really do. But as we pull back the layers
- 1:49today, you are going to see how this historical encounter
- 1:52exposes the hidden idols residing in every single one of
- 1:56our hearts. That is the essential context we
- 1:58must hold in our minds as we approach this text.
- 2:01We are not looking at a scandalous rebel here.
- 2:03Right, she is not a criminal. No, not at all.
- 2:05We are not looking at a tax collector, a thief, or, you
- 2:09know, some notorious public center.
- 2:11We are looking at highly respectable lostness.
- 2:15Highly respectable lostness. Wow, that is a striking phrase.
- 2:18Well, it fits him perfectly. This man is morally serious, he
- 2:22is outwardly disciplined, and he is genuinely spiritually
- 2:26curious. He represents the absolute
- 2:28pinnacle of human achievement. Yet he gets turned away.
- 2:32So to grasp his fundamental error, we have to look at who
- 2:35Jesus was speaking to right before this encounter.
- 2:38The literary placement in Matthew's Gospel gives us the
- 2:41interpretive key. Just a few verses earlier, in
- 2:44Matthew 19, verses 13 through 15, little children are brought
- 2:48to Jesus. And the disciples try to turn
- 2:51them away. They do.
- 2:52The disciples are operating under the assumption that the
- 2:54Messiah's time is far too valuable for societal
- 2:57nonentities. They actually rebuke those
- 2:59bringing the children. Because in the 1st century Roman
- 3:02and Jewish world, children possessed 0 status, didn't they?
- 3:05Absolutely zero. They were not cherished in the
- 3:08way modern society cherishes them at all.
- 3:10Under Roman law, they lacked any legal or social standing until
- 3:14they came of age. They were essentially just
- 3:16property. Pretty much, but Jesus
- 3:18forcefully corrects his disciples.
- 3:21He blesses the little children, stating that the Kingdom of
- 3:24heaven belongs to such as these. So what is the connection there?
- 3:28Why point to the children right before the affluent man shows
- 3:32up? What we must understand about
- 3:34children in this specific context is that they bring
- 3:36absolutely 0 moral resume to the table.
- 3:39They have no accumulated merit whatsoever.
- 3:42They cannot offer any religious achievements.
- 3:44Exactly. I mean they come in total
- 3:46helplessness. They are receivers, not
- 3:48achievers. The Kingdom of Heaven is given
- 3:50exclusively to those who come completely empty handed.
- 3:53You have to possess nothing to offer in exchange for divine
- 3:56favor. I want to build on that dynamic
- 3:59because it sets up the entire conflict for the rest of the
- 4:01text. Go ahead.
- 4:02It is a crucial contrast. Think of a highly exclusive
- 4:05event. Picture the most restricted gala
- 4:08in the entire world. There's a velvet rope, a
- 4:11towering security presence and an admission standard that
- 4:14nobody seems to fully grasp. A completely impenetrable guest
- 4:18list. Right now imagine a group of
- 4:20toddlers wandering up to the entrance.
- 4:22They have no VIP pass, they have no social status, no bank
- 4:26accounts, and they have absolutely nothing to offer the
- 4:29host of this gala. Yet the doors swing wide open
- 4:32for them, Yes. They are ushered right in and
- 4:34given the absolute best seats in the house.
- 4:37Then the absolute young man walks up and he is holding what
- 4:41he considers to be the ultimate VIP pass his.
- 4:44Flawless moral record. Yeah, he possesses unblemished
- 4:47morality, top tier education and massive social standing.
- 4:51He assumes he is an absolute shoe in he.
- 4:54Assumes the host will take one look at his credentials and just
- 4:56roll out the red carpet. But instead his pass is totally
- 4:59rejected. So if you are listening to this,
- 5:01you have to ask yourself, why do we instinctively side with the
- 5:05VIP? That is the $1,000,000 question.
- 5:07Right. Why do we, as readers and as
- 5:10human beings, naturally assume that the guy with the polished
- 5:13resume is the one who deserves to gain entry?
- 5:16Well, we instinctively side with the VIP because fallen humanity
- 5:21naturally misjudges spiritual reality.
- 5:24We operate entirely under a system of visible metrics.
- 5:27We really do. It is how our whole society
- 5:29works. Think about how we are
- 5:31conditioned from infancy. You cry, you get fed.
- 5:35You get excellent grades on a test.
- 5:36You receive praise from your parents.
- 5:38You work hard at your job. You receive a promotion and a
- 5:41salary increase. Precisely our entire
- 5:44neurological reward system and the structure of human society
- 5:47is wired for transactional merit.
- 5:49So we did project that unto God. Yes, because these visible
- 5:52attributes like competence, wealth, morality, success, they
- 5:56win favor in human societies. So our natural instinct is to
- 6:00project that exact same meritocratic system onto the
- 6:03courtroom of God. We assume that if a person is
- 6:05respected in the community, if they pay their taxes, if they
- 6:07abstain from public scandals, then they must surely be
- 6:10acceptable to the Almighty. But the contrast Matthew sets up
- 6:13here completely obliterates that assumption.
- 6:16The contrast is between helpless dependence and religious self
- 6:19assurance. The children versus the affluent
- 6:22man. Right.
- 6:23The children are brought to Jesus.
- 6:25They do not negotiate their standing.
- 6:27The young man, however, approaches Jesus with incredible
- 6:30religious self assurance, believing he can negotiate his
- 6:33eternal standing. He believes he can negotiate
- 6:36based on his personal competence.
- 6:38He believes he can qualify. This highlights a massive
- 6:41theological reality. The Kingdom of Heaven is not
- 6:44entered through visible competence.
- 6:46It is received exclusively by those who recognize their total
- 6:49spiritual bankruptcy. So when we admire the young
- 6:52man's resume, we are really just betraying our own inherent
- 6:55legalism. Yes, our brains literally lack a
- 6:58natural category for unearned grace.
- 7:00So with that self assured not sure in mind, the man finally
- 7:04speaks to Jesus and his opening words pretty much give away his
- 7:07entire theological framework, don't they?
- 7:09They absolutely do. In verse 16, he asks teacher,
- 7:12what good deed must I do to have eternal life?
- 7:15I want to highlight the Greek focus here because the
- 7:17vocabulary is incredibly revealing.
- 7:20He uses the verb poyosho, which translates to Must I do right?
- 7:25Correct, and he uses the adjective agathon meaning good.
- 7:29So his entire question is structured around his own agency
- 7:33and his own inherent capacity to produce a specific superlative
- 7:36action. He is entirely focused on his
- 7:38own performance. He is not asking for mercy.
- 7:42He is not throwing himself at the feet of the judge asking for
- 7:45a pardon. He is asking for a task.
- 7:47He assumes that eternal life is a wage to be earned, a reward
- 7:51for sufficiently impressive action.
- 7:53He is treating salvation like a commercial transaction.
- 7:55OK, let's unpack this with an analogy.
- 7:58It is like a man trying to fix a house with a completely
- 8:00shattered foundation by asking the inspector what color he
- 8:03should paint the front door. I love that analogy, it captures
- 8:06his blindness perfectly. Right.
- 8:08Imagine you buy a house and the inspector tells you the concrete
- 8:10slab is cracked down the middle, the structural beams are rotting
- 8:13away, the ground underneath is a sinkhole, and the entire
- 8:16structure is moments away from absolute collapse.
- 8:19Total structural failure. Yeah, And your response to the
- 8:22inspector is OK, I hear you. But what if I put a fresh coat
- 8:26of eggshell white on the front door?
- 8:28Will that fix it? He is asking for a cosmetic
- 8:31supplement when he desperately needs a structural resurrection.
- 8:35Exactly, he thinks he just needs a minor touch up.
- 8:37And to take your house analogy a step further, the young man
- 8:40isn't just asking about paint colors, he is asking the
- 8:43inspector to praise him for mowing the lawn while the house
- 8:46burns down. Oh man.
- 8:48That is devastating. It is that transactional view of
- 8:51religion is the very heartbeat of the Pelagian instinct.
- 8:54Pelagianism. We should probably define that
- 8:56for those listening who might not be familiar with the term.
- 8:58Right. To give some historical context,
- 9:00Pelagius was a British monk in the late 4th and early 5th
- 9:03centuries who argued against the teachings of Augustine.
- 9:07And what did Pelagius teach? Pelagius taught that human
- 9:10beings are born basically good, or at least morally neutral, and
- 9:14possessed the inherent free will to choose God and achieve
- 9:17salvation through rigorous moral effort.
- 9:20So he completely denied original sin.
- 9:22Completely. Now, the young man's question
- 9:24obviously predates Pelagius, but it shares the exact same
- 9:28synergistic core. He believes salvation is a
- 9:31cooperative venture. A trade of human effort for
- 9:34divine acceptance. Yes, he brings his Agathon, his
- 9:37good deed, and God gives him eternal life in exchange.
- 9:42This mindset violently opposes the Reformed doctrine of total
- 9:45depravity. And total depravity as
- 9:48articulated in the Westminster Standards doesn't mean a person
- 9:51is as evil as they could possibly be in their outward
- 9:53actions, does it? No, not at all.
- 9:55That would be utter depravity. Total depravity means that the
- 9:58corruption of the Fall has extended to every single part of
- 10:01our being. Our mind, our will, our
- 10:04affections. Precisely, therefore, we are
- 10:06completely incapable of producing any spiritual good
- 10:09that can merit salvation. So the young man thinks his
- 10:12spiritual gas tank is just a few drops low and can be topped off
- 10:16with one more good deed. He fails to realize that he does
- 10:18not have a slightly deficient engine.
- 10:20He is suffering from total spiritual death.
- 10:22He is a corpse asking what exercise routine will bring him
- 10:25back to life. Hold on, I have to push back
- 10:27here. I am trying to put myself in the
- 10:29shoes of a skeptic listening to this.
- 10:31OK, let's hear it. If this doctrine of total
- 10:33depravity is true, and this man is completely spiritually dead,
- 10:38entirely incapable of producing any good thing, then why does
- 10:42Jesus engage him on this level? That is a very fair question.
- 10:46Isn't it a bit cruel? I mean, if I see a man who is
- 10:48paralyzed from the neck down and I asked him to run a marathon
- 10:52just to prove he cannot do it, that seems mocking.
- 10:55It does seem that way on the surface.
- 10:57Right. So why would the Savior of the
- 10:58world play this kind of theological game with a man who
- 11:01is blind to his own condition? Why doesn't Jesus just
- 11:04immediately tell him you are totally depraved?
- 11:06You can do nothing. Stop trying.
- 11:08That is a brilliant challenge, and it cuts to the heart of how
- 11:11Jesus operates as the Great Physician.
- 11:14Jesus does not mock the man. Rather, he employs A pedagogical
- 11:18method designed to shatter the man's illusions.
- 11:20So Jesus is diagnosing him. Yes, if a physician has a
- 11:24patient who vehemently denies being sick, handing them
- 11:27medicine will accomplish nothing.
- 11:29The patient will simply throw the medicine away because they
- 11:32do not believe they need it. They have to see the proof of
- 11:34the disease first. Exactly.
- 11:36The physician must first use diagnostic tools like an X-ray,
- 11:40an MRI, a blood test to prove the existence of the terminal
- 11:43disease. Jesus is preparing to use the
- 11:46divine law as that MRI but. Before he administers the
- 11:49diagnostic test, he must first define the terms of the
- 11:53examination, right? Yes, because the man is asking
- 11:55about the paint color Jesus strikes at the shattered
- 11:58foundation itself in verse 17. Jesus replies, Why do you ask me
- 12:03about what is good? There is only one who is good.
- 12:05Christ establishes a massive theological boundary here.
- 12:08He really does. The young man use the word
- 12:10Agathon as if goodness were a manageable human commodity.
- 12:14Jesus stops him immediately. He strips away the man's
- 12:17relative grading curve. Oh, we all love to grade on a
- 12:21curve. Human beings absolutely love it.
- 12:23We love to compare ourselves to other sinners, to feel
- 12:25acceptable. The sociology of comparative
- 12:27morality is fascinating. We say things like, well, I
- 12:31might have a terrible temper, but at least I've never robbed a
- 12:33bank. Or I might be greedy, but I
- 12:36donate a portion of my income to charity.
- 12:38We always find someone worse to make ourselves look better.
- 12:42But by pointing to God as the sole standard of absolute
- 12:45goodness, Jesus destroys the curve entirely.
- 12:48Entirely If God alone is the standard of agathos, then any
- 12:53deed offered by a rebel Sinner is, as the prophet Isaiah
- 12:56declares, filthy rags. Jesus forces the man to lift his
- 13:00eyes from his horizontal comparisons with other fallen
- 13:02men and look vertically at the blazing, unapproachable holiness
- 13:05of God. And that vertical look changes
- 13:07everything. When you set the standard at
- 13:09absolute unblemished divine perfection, every single human
- 13:13achievement turns to dust instantly.
- 13:15It leaves zero room for boasting, but looking at Jesus's
- 13:18statement, there is only one who is good.
- 13:21I have to ask about the implications of who is speaking.
- 13:23The Christological implications. Yeah, if Jesus is the one
- 13:26telling the man that God alone is good, isn't he also making a
- 13:29massive claim about himself? It seems like Jesus is backing
- 13:32the man into a logical corner. He absolutely is.
- 13:35He is basically saying if you are calling me good and you
- 13:38acknowledge that only God is good, do you have any idea who
- 13:42is standing in front of you? Yes, the Christological angle
- 13:45here is staggering and unavoidable.
- 13:47Jesus is not denying His own goodness, rather He is pressing
- 13:51the man to recognize the logical conclusion of his own
- 13:54vocabulary. If only God is good and Jesus
- 13:57embodies perfect goodness, then Jesus is God Incarnate.
- 14:01Precisely. Jesus is the very embodiment of
- 14:03the divine goodness the man is asking about.
- 14:06By setting up this absolute standard, Jesus is preparing to
- 14:09show that human goodness is entirely bankrupt.
- 14:12There is no moral ladder a human being can climb to reach heaven.
- 14:16The ladder is completely broken. By establishing God's perfect
- 14:20holiness, Jesus leaves room for only one possible solution for
- 14:24humanity. Imputed righteousness.
- 14:26Yes. Inherent righteousness is the
- 14:28goodness we produce ourselves. Imputed righteousness is the
- 14:31goodness credited to our account by a substitute.
- 14:33So if we cannot produce the required goodness, it must be
- 14:36credited to us by someone who possesses it inherently.
- 14:39Spot on. A high view of God's holiness
- 14:42instantly silences human boasting.
- 14:45Before the man can understand his desperate need for a Savior,
- 14:48he must understand the impossibility of the standard.
- 14:51So once that absolute standard of God is established, Jesus
- 14:55decides to hand the man the X-ray you mentioned earlier.
- 14:58He wants to show him exactly how far he falls short of this
- 15:01divine perfection. Right.
- 15:02Jesus points him directly to the law.
- 15:04In verses 18 and 19, Jesus lists specific commandments.
- 15:08He says you shall not murder, you shall not commit adultery,
- 15:12you shall not steal, you shall not bear false witness, honor
- 15:15your father and mother, and you shall love your neighbor as
- 15:18yourself. Notice the specific selection of
- 15:20those commandments. That is what is fascinating to
- 15:22me Here. Jesus deliberately pulls from
- 15:25the second table of the law. These are the commandments that
- 15:27govern human relationships, horizontal interactions.
- 15:31Outwardly, these are the areas where a respectable affluent
- 15:34citizen would appear to excel. He is giving the man a test he
- 15:38thinks he has already aced. The surgical precision of
- 15:40Christ's response here is breathtaking.
- 15:43Jesus is operating firmly under the Mosaic covenant.
- 15:46In this interaction. He is using the law lawfully.
- 15:49Like it says in the Westminster Confession of Faith, Chapter 19,
- 15:52Section 6. Exactly.
- 15:53The law is of immense use to unregenerate men, to awaken
- 15:57their consciences and show them their utter inability to fulfill
- 16:00its demands. The Apostle Paul later describes
- 16:03this specific function in his Epistle to the Galatians,
- 16:06calling the law a schoolmaster. Or a strict tutor designed to
- 16:10shut us up under sin and drive us to Christ Jesus meets the man
- 16:13on his own chosen battleground. The man wanted to discuss human
- 16:17deeds, so Jesus provides the ultimate divine metric of human
- 16:21deeds. But notice the intentional
- 16:23glaring omission in that list. Yes, Jesus lists the horizontal
- 16:27commandments, but he leaves out the 10th commandment.
- 16:30You shall not covet. He sets a diagnostic trap.
- 16:33He presents the external boundaries of behavior to see if
- 16:36the man understands the internal spiritual nature of God's
- 16:39demands. Jesus is testing whether this
- 16:41young ruler grasps the the law requires internal purity, not
- 16:45just external compliance. And the man walks right into the
- 16:49trap. Without a second of hesitation,
- 16:51he replies. All these I have kept.
- 16:53What do I still lack? I want to focus on the Greek
- 16:56word used here for kept. It is ethyl AXA which translates
- 17:00to I have guarded or I have strictly observed.
- 17:04It is actually a military term. Really.
- 17:07So the man thinks he has built a defensive perimeter, A fortress
- 17:10against sin, Yes. He thinks he has stationed armed
- 17:13sentries at the gets of his life to keep murder, adultery and
- 17:16theft out. But if you are listening to this
- 17:19and analyzing his response, you have to notice the massive
- 17:22contradiction. Here, it's a glaring
- 17:24contradiction. If he truly believes he has
- 17:27guarded the law perfectly, if he really thinks his moral fortress
- 17:30is impenetrable, why is his conscience still bothering him?
- 17:33Why does he immediately ask, what do I still lack?
- 17:36Right. A person who has achieved total
- 17:38moral perfection should be at absolute peace.
- 17:40They should be resting in their achievement.
- 17:43But he is restless. He feels a void.
- 17:45You have hit upon the fundamental restlessness of the
- 17:47legalistic heart. Outward morality cannot quiet
- 17:50the soul before a holy God. The man treats the law as a
- 17:53checklist of external behaviors. He views his perimeter as secure
- 17:57because his physical hands have not shed blood, his physical
- 18:00body has not committed adultery, and his physical pockets hold no
- 18:03stolen goods. But he totally misses the
- 18:07spiritual standard Jesus set forth earlier in the Sermon on
- 18:10the Mount. In Matthew 5, Jesus clarified
- 18:12that unjust anger is equated with the guilt of murder and
- 18:16internal lust is equated with the guilt of adultery.
- 18:19The law is not a superficial fence meant to keep behavior in
- 18:22check. It is a blazing fire that
- 18:24consumes the hidden motives of the heart.
- 18:27The man's conscience is restless because deep down the image of
- 18:30God within him knows that a checklist is insufficient.
- 18:33He feels the incompleteness. His wealth, his authority, and
- 18:37his strict observance of societal rules have not
- 18:40purchased peace for his soul. His question what do I still
- 18:43lack? Proves that self righteousness
- 18:45is a cruel, unrelenting taskmaster that never ever says
- 18:49it is finished. Now the tension in the narrative
- 18:51reaches its absolute peak. The trap is set.
- 18:54The man has claimed moral perfection.
- 18:56He has admitted his internal restlessness.
- 18:58And Jesus springs the trap. He moves the crosshairs from the
- 19:01second table of the law, the horizontal human relationships,
- 19:05straight to the first table of the law, the vertical
- 19:07relationship with God. In verse 21 Jesus says, if you
- 19:11would be perfect, go sell what you possess and give to the
- 19:15poor, and you will have treasure in heaven and come follow me.
- 19:18Jesus uses the word tileos for perfect meaning, complete or
- 19:22whole. He is telling the man you want
- 19:24the final piece of the puzzle. You want to know what you lack
- 19:27to be whole. Here it is.
- 19:28The Greek syntax here is devastating to the young man's
- 19:31worldview. Jesus issues 5 rapid fire
- 19:34imperatives, five of them. Yes, hypeage, which means go
- 19:38puliosong, which means sell, dos give, Duro come and Akulu say
- 19:44follow. This is a demand for total
- 19:46absolute divestment of his earthly security.
- 19:48We need to be very clear here. Systematically, though, Jesus is
- 19:51not instituting a new universal requirement that every every
- 19:54single Christian must embrace absolute poverty to be saved.
- 19:57No, if that were the case, he would contradict other parts of
- 20:00scripture where wealthy believers like Abraham, Job or
- 20:02Joseph of Arimathea are commended for their faith.
- 20:05So Jesus is targeting the specific cherished idol of this
- 20:09specific man. Precisely.
- 20:10He intentionally omitted the commandment against coveting
- 20:13earlier so that he could expose it.
- 20:15Right now the issue is covetousness.
- 20:18The man is breaking the first commandment.
- 20:20You shall have no other gods before me, because his bank
- 20:23account is his functional. His wealth provides his
- 20:26security, his identity, and his comfort.
- 20:29Jesus demands the wealth, not because God needs the money, but
- 20:32because the man's heart is chained to it.
- 20:34This proves that sin is fundamentally doxological.
- 20:37As John Calvin famously stated, the human heart is a perpetual
- 20:41factory of idols. We are worshipping creatures.
- 20:44We cannot exist without worshipping something.
- 20:46Sin is not just breaking an arbitrary rule, it is an issue
- 20:49of worship. It is taking the supreme
- 20:51allegiance, love and trust that belongs to the Creator alone and
- 20:55giving it to a created thing. I want to pause and consider how
- 20:58shocking this would be to the original audience.
- 21:01Wealth was seen as a direct blessing from God.
- 21:04OK, here's where it gets really interesting.
- 21:06I want to contrast this moment with modern church culture for a
- 21:10second, because the application here is massive.
- 21:13Oh, this will be good. Let's hear it.
- 21:15Imagine this wealthy, young, highly influential leader
- 21:19walking into a typical market driven, seeker sensitive mega
- 21:24church today. The leadership would likely fall
- 21:27over themselves trying to accommodate him.
- 21:30They would put him on the Finance Committee immediately.
- 21:32Right. They would ask him to speak at
- 21:33the Young Professionals Conference and they would
- 21:35certainly never say anything to offend him or risk losing his
- 21:38tithe. They would try to find a
- 21:39comfortable middle ground. They would say just give 10%,
- 21:43keep your portfolio growing, maintain your lavish lifestyle
- 21:46and let's partner together for the Kingdom.
- 21:48But Jesus does absolutely none of that.
- 21:51He looks at the ultimate cultural influencer and tells
- 21:54him to liquidate everything, give it to people who can offer
- 21:57him nothing in return, and become a homeless itinerant
- 21:59follower. It is shocking.
- 22:01That contrast exposes the absolute bankruptcy of the
- 22:05modern prosperity gospel and pragmatic church growth
- 22:08strategies. The prosperity gospel views
- 22:11wealth as a sign of God's favor, a reward for sufficient faith.
- 22:15It teaches that God wants you wealthy, healthy and successful
- 22:19by worldly standards. But Jesus views this man's
- 22:22wealth as the very idol that is damning his soul to hell.
- 22:26Christ does not lower the bar to boost attendance numbers.
- 22:29He does not negotiate the terms of discipleship to keep a high
- 22:32net worth individual in the congregation.
- 22:34He demands total surrender. This demonstrates a core tenet
- 22:38of Reformed theology regarding the nature of saving faith.
- 22:42Justification cannot coexist with cherished idolatry.
- 22:45You cannot hold the hand of Christ while your other hand is
- 22:48tightly gripping a false God. Christ demands the throne of the
- 22:52heart. The modern church often tries to
- 22:54sell Jesus as a helpful additive, a way to make your
- 22:57already successful life just a little bit better, a little more
- 22:59peaceful, a little more fulfilled.
- 23:01But Jesus presents himself as the sovereign Lord who demands
- 23:04the absolute death of self. He exposes the idol not to be
- 23:08cruel, but to show the man that his hands are far too full of
- 23:11earth to grasp heaven. Faced with this absolute demand,
- 23:14faced with the requirement to surrender his functional God,
- 23:18the man makes a devastating choice.
- 23:20It is a heartbreaking conclusion to the encounter.
- 23:23Verse 22 says when the young man heard this, he went away
- 23:26sorrowful, for he had great possessions.
- 23:29He does not argue, he does not yell, he does not try to debate
- 23:33theology or negotiate a lower percentage.
- 23:36He just walks away. The phrase Matthew uses is
- 23:39apulthan lipomenos, which translates to He went away
- 23:42grieving. This is a vital moment for us to
- 23:44understand the severe difference between conviction and
- 23:47conversion. The man was convicted.
- 23:49He felt the heavyweight of Christ's demand, he understood
- 23:52exactly what was being asked of him, and it caused him genuine
- 23:55emotional pain. But his sorrow was worldly
- 23:58sorrow. In Second Corinthians Chapter 7,
- 24:00the apostle Paul distinguishes between godly grief that
- 24:03produces A repentance leading to salvation and worldly grief that
- 24:07produces death. We see worldly grief in figures
- 24:09like Esau, who wept bitterly after losing his birthright but
- 24:13never truly repented. This man had worldly grief.
- 24:16He was sad because he realized he could not have both his
- 24:19cherished idol and eternal life. But when the decisive moment
- 24:23came, he loved his gold more than the King of glory.
- 24:26He was pierced by the truth, but he remained unchanged by it.
- 24:31His sorrow is tragic because it shows a man standing on the very
- 24:33threshold of the Kingdom, looking directly into the eyes
- 24:36of the Savior of the world and deciding that the price of
- 24:39admission is simply too steep. The brutal irony of that final
- 24:43phrase for he had great possessions is staggering.
- 24:46He thought he possessed great things, but in reality his
- 24:49things possessed him. He was an absolute slave to his
- 24:52portfolio. If you examine your own
- 24:54surroundings, you have to ask, how often do we see this exact
- 24:57same scenario play out today in our own pews?
- 25:00We see people who desperately want the benefits of Jesus.
- 25:03They want the support of community, they want the
- 25:05psychological Peace of Mind. They want the assurance of
- 25:08heaven when they die. But they absolutely refuse the
- 25:10Lordship of Jesus. They want a savior to rescue
- 25:13them from hell, but they do not want a king to dictate how they
- 25:17spend their money, how they conduct their careers, or what
- 25:19they view on their screens in private.
- 25:21They want grace without obedience.
- 25:23We see it constantly because it is the natural default condition
- 25:27of the unregenerate heart. We willingly trade invisible
- 25:31eternal realities for visible perishing metals.
- 25:34We trade the immortal glory of the Triune God for the fleeting
- 25:38comfort of a retirement account, social status, or personal
- 25:43autonomy. This man's choice highlights the
- 25:45absolute blindness that sin causes in the human intellect.
- 25:49He was offered treasure in heaven.
- 25:51He was offered intimate fellowship with the Incarnate
- 25:53Son of God. And he chose dirt.
- 25:55He chose metal that rusts and garments that moths destroy.
- 25:59It is spiritual insanity, but it is the insanity that governs
- 26:02every human being apart from the regenerating grace of the Holy
- 26:05Spirit. He preferred what he could see,
- 26:08count and control over a life of helpless dependence on Christ.
- 26:11This is the tragedy of a highly moral life without a regenerated
- 26:16heart. You can keep all the rules of
- 26:18civil society, you can be respected by everyone you meet,
- 26:21you can be a pillar of your community, and you can still
- 26:23walk away from Christ because your heart is captured by a
- 26:26rival lover. As the disciples watch this
- 26:29affluent, upstanding, morally impressive man walk away, they
- 26:33are completely terrified. They watch the guy with the
- 26:35ultimate VIP pass get turned away the door and they asked the
- 26:38most logical question possible in verse 25.
- 26:42Who then can be saved? If this guy, who has the vast
- 26:45resources, the intense moral discipline and the clean public
- 26:48record cannot make it into the Kingdom, what hope do a bunch of
- 26:52uneducated, impoverished Galilean fishermen have?
- 26:55This reaction from the disciples leads us directly to the sole
- 26:58remedy for the human condition. Jesus looks at them and says
- 27:01with man this is impossible, but with God all things are
- 27:04possible. That specific statement is the
- 27:06hinge upon which the entire gospel swings.
- 27:09The disciples understand the terrifying implications of what
- 27:12just happened. If salvation requires a purity
- 27:14of heart that detaches completely from all earthly
- 27:18idols, then no human being can save themselves.
- 27:21Every human heart harbors idols. Jesus confirms their terror with
- 27:25man. It is completely impossible.
- 27:27You cannot earn it. You cannot buy it.
- 27:29You cannot guard your behavior well enough to achieve it.
- 27:32Your resume is useless. Where the young man failed, and
- 27:35where every single one of us fails, Christ triumphed.
- 27:39This is the Christological resolution of the text.
- 27:42Jesus is the true Agathos, the only one who is truly good.
- 27:45He is the true Telios, the only one who is perfectly complete.
- 27:49The young man refused to sell his earthly possessions.
- 27:52But consider the reality of Christ described in Philippians
- 27:552. Christ actually did what the
- 27:56young ruler refused to do. Christ emptied himself of
- 28:00heavenly glory. He did not consider equality
- 28:02with God a thing to be grasped, but made himself nothing, taking
- 28:06the form of a servant. This touches on the Reformed
- 28:08doctrine of Christ's active and passive obedience.
- 28:11In his active obedience, Jesus lived the life of perfect
- 28:14adherence to the law that we could never live.
- 28:16He loved God perfectly and loved his neighbor perfectly.
- 28:19And in his passive obedience, he went to the cross to endure the
- 28:23wrath of God, paying the penalty for our covetousness, our
- 28:27idolatry, and our self righteousness.
- 28:29Salvation is possible with God because God the Son accomplished
- 28:33it on our behalf. So what does this all mean for
- 28:35our worship? I am curious about how this
- 28:38historical encounter impacts the physical practices of the
- 28:41Church. That is a brilliant transition.
- 28:43How do we take this crushing theological weight, the
- 28:45impossibility of human merit, and the necessity of Christ's
- 28:48perfect obedience, and apply it to how we gather and worship as
- 28:53believers today? How does this text shape our
- 28:56actual liturgy? We connect this directly to the
- 28:58Sacrament of the Lord's Supper in Reformed Theology following
- 29:01the Westminster Confession, chapters 21 and 29, Section 7.
- 29:05The Supper is the visible word. The preaching of the gospel is
- 29:08the audible word declaring the promises of Christ to our ears,
- 29:12and the sacrament is the visible confirmation of those promises
- 29:15to our eyes, our taste, and our touch.
- 29:17Think about the stark contrast between the affluent young man
- 29:21and the communion table. The affluent man was commanded
- 29:24to give his wealth to the poor and he refused, walking away in
- 29:27sorrow. At the Lord's Table we see
- 29:29Christ, who freely gave his very body and blood.
- 29:32For the spiritually bankrupt. Jesus is the host of the meal,
- 29:36and he provides himself as the feast.
- 29:39This brings us to the practice of fencing the table, which is a
- 29:42necessary and loving practice in our churches.
- 29:44Fencing the table is the pastoral act of warning those
- 29:48who are clinging to their idols. Those who are cherishing secret
- 29:51sins, trusting in their own righteousness, or living in
- 29:54unrepentant rebellion. Right.
- 29:56Warning them not to partake lest they eat and drink judgement
- 29:59upon themselves. It is a pastoral warning to not
- 30:02be like the young ruler trying to hold onto your gold while
- 30:05simultaneously reaching for the bread of life.
- 30:08You must drop your idols to receive the bread.
- 30:11But for the true believer, for the one who recognizes their
- 30:13spiritual poverty, who comes like the helpless children we
- 30:16discussed in the beginning, resting entirely in the imputed
- 30:19righteousness of Christ, the sacrament is an immense comfort.
- 30:23It confirms the promises of the gospel through the real
- 30:26spiritual presence of Christ and the sacrament.
- 30:29The Holy Spirit nourishes our faith.
- 30:31Assuring our doubting hearts that his perfect obedience is
- 30:35fully credited to our account, and His death has fully
- 30:39satisfied the wrath of God against our specific idolatry.
- 30:43We come to the table not as achievers presenting a resume,
- 30:46but as helpless children receiving a free gift.
- 30:49That brings us to the core lesson of everything we have
- 30:51discussed today. Salvation is never a cooperative
- 30:54venture of human merit. It is never God doing his part
- 30:59and us doing our part to meet in the middle.
- 31:01It is an act of sovereign grace from beginning to end.
- 31:04It requires the absolute surrender of our false gods, our
- 31:06functional saviors, to the exclusive Lordship of Jesus
- 31:10Christ. You cannot buy your way in, you
- 31:12cannot behave your way in, and you cannot negotiate your way
- 31:15in. You can only come empty handed.
- 31:17Before we finish, I want to leave you with a final thought
- 31:19to ponder an angle we have not fully examined yet.
- 31:22We spent all our time looking at the wealthy man who walked away,
- 31:26but consider the disciples who stayed.
- 31:28They had already given up their Nets, their boats and their
- 31:30livelihoods to follow Jesus. They had achieved the physical
- 31:34poverty the man rejected. Yet when Jesus warned them about
- 31:37the difficulty of entering the Kingdom, they were still
- 31:40completely terrified it. Forces you to wonder.
- 31:43If you have already sacrificed your material wealth or your
- 31:47earthly comforts for God, what invisible spiritual resumes are
- 31:51you secretly building in their place?
- 31:53Are you trusting in your own sacrifice rather than the
- 31:55sacrifice of Christ? Take a hard look at the things
- 31:58in your life you are terrified God might ask you to give up.
- 32:01Is your fear of losing them the very proof that they already own
- 32:04you? Thank you for joining us on this
- 32:07deep dive on Reformed thinking.