Your Dealbreakers Are Fear In A Blazer (And You Know It)
In this episode I'm unpacking the fear dresser, the version of you who mistakes her nervous system alarm for her own good judgment and calls it standards. You've done the inner work, you know what you don't want, you've got the list and you're proud of it. But if every new dealbreaker seems to arrive right when something good gets close, it might not be discernment doing the talking. It might be protection wearing very convincing vocabulary. We get into how your nervous system was trained on early emotional experiences and why steady feels suspicious, how a protector part turns fear into a…
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