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Have men just found a way to be even creepier online? | Maintaining Frame 77 · Honey Badger Radio

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Hello everybody, and welcome to Honey Badger Radio. My name is Brian and
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this is maintaining frame number seventy seven. Have men just found a way to
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be even creepier online? Where? Well, we're going to be going through
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an article from The Independent that I think you guys will have feelings about.
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There will be a feeling or two about this article. People will have opinions
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and they will share them. Yes. Oh, this is a reaction show
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in which we read an article and have feelings and even and speak about them.
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So there you go. That's the general gist of what we're doing here
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exactly. I just I want to understand, like, there seems to be
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a big genre in a lot. It covers a lot of different media.
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You have academic dissertations, you have entire conferences. It seems an ideological movement.
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So it comes through in very different I guess genres. But we have
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this huge there were sorry, different mediums. We have this genre. It's
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basically, how can we shit on men today? Yeah? How can we
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a big no, a big steaming liquid poop all over the men today?
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And this is the latest, one of the latest installments. I don't know
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if it's the most recent, but it is, like, I guess,
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reasonably recent. When when did this come out? When did this article three
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days ago? Three days ago? Oh, so it is actually very very
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recent, three days ago, another installment of our society's favorite pastime, which
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apparently is shitting on men. And it's funny because you read this, you
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look at this, and it's constant, like there's this constant drumbeat of negativity
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towards men. Uh, starting with the whole idea that the primary definition or
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the primary description of men's attitude or relationship with women is oppression. So we
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start with that, and then we get all the other various some additions to
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that particular genre. And what still surprises me that we can go online and
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find people who think that this has no effect on nothing. Mm hm,
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you know, and they're like, well, you know, men just got
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a man up. I mean, I know, our society is basically saying
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men are horrible, demonic, worthless and really should be shoved in a hole,
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and women are the worst possible decision a woman can make in our life
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is to share it with a man. But men should still be able to
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overcome all of that messaging, all the messaging of society on how awful they
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are and somehow sell them, to sell them as a man to a woman,
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so that we can continue to exist as a civilization. It's like it
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seems like that's a really big ask, you know, because not only does
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a man have to sell himself, he has to also somehow counter all of
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this crap like the article that we are going to be real eating today?
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Now, why why are why are people not pair bonding and having children in
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the West? Oh jeez, I wonder, I wonder. But let's blame
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men some more. That'll surely fix it. Yeah, I mean somehow if
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we keep doing it, so there must be something to it. Yeah,
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we just keep doing it, all right? Okay? Well I think laziness
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is the something that's to it. Fear embarrassment, yep, you know,
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he try something new, It might work, and then where are you you
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know, if we try not blaming men, you know, that might actually
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work, and then where are we with a functional society? What would we
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do with that? What would we have to complain about? Brian? What?
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Like? Seriously, could you imagine just you know, a chilling in
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our crystal spires? Being like, wow, we've brought life to Alpha Centauri.
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We've discovered the philosophical mysteries of the of the universe, you know,
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but we have nothing left to blame. Jeez, we're really verklemped. All
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right, Sorry, I just going a little weird tangent. That's okay,
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all right, Yeah, I guess I'm good for weird tangents. If you
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guys didn't know this by now, I can be here. I think that's
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why people come here, right, I mean seems that way. So I
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got a couple of new little toys running right now that I thought you guys
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might like and be able to take advantage of. For one, I have
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figured out a way to get a super chow. So if you send a
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super chow, it will show on the screen and I can feature it as
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a featured chat. So please consider setting a super chow so I and test
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this feature. Yes, yeah, actually, guys, I want to see
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this happen. Make this happen. Go to let me show my screens.
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You can see the chat is moving. I also have Rumble showing on the
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screen too. The Rumble chat is showing, but it's only showing in the
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obs not so people on YouTube still can't see the rumble chat. But if
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you look at the screen, you can see the rumble chat, the Twitch
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chat, the YouTube chat, the Twitter chat, the Facebook chat, and
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the d live chat. If there are people, you know, messaging those
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platforms. So I don't mean to be critical, but you got some anti
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anzy analyzing anti alias. Yeah that you got that. It might just be
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because of the resolution. It also looks like you're your animated avatar. Yeah,
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it needs to be moved over, like one pixel to the left.
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Yeah. Maybe, I mean there's a little outline. I don't know.
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That seems to be like, yeah, actually it's artifacting. It's artifacting,
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I guess. I guess it's got that eighties feel. Yeah, I mean
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yeah, yeah, only autists like me. But maybe like spontaneously combust into
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like an eight bit character boom, that would be interesting. Yeah. And
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I see my my lips are moving now. It looks like I'm chewing gum.
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Yeah, yeah, I know. It's it's cool and yeah, send
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send in a super chow. Guys, do it? Do it now?
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Feed the Badger dot com slash just a tip, let's find let's watch this
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this voodoo black magic in action let's see it. Feed the Badger dot Com
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slash just a tip. All right, Yeah, so you want to start
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looking at the article. No, no, I'll do the things, you
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know, and then we'll yeah, all right, So if you want to
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send us a message, and certainly do so so we can see the super
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chow appear as if by magic on the screen. Feed the Badger dot Com.
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Oh my goodness, there's something there. No, that's a comment from
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rumble right. I've made I've made that a featured featured message, that's all.
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Oh okay, I'll I see. Oh my, you have you have
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all the balls, all the buttons and knobs and sliders. I'm powers exactly,
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yeah, secret but behind the scenes powers. Oh look they have.
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Now now we got some Jojo references coming in, some me some animated gifts.
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All right, okay, yeah, gotta reorientate what I need to be
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doing. Okay, So feed the Badger dot Com slash just the tip.
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If you want to send us a message and we will read it. You
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send us a message and be like you're not crying into the void, and
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by crying I mean outright you know, like sobbing hysterically. Where is there
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anyone else out there? Is there anyone? It's there anyone in the darkness.
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Anyway, if you want to call back to us, you can do
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days left, and we have a ways to go, like three hundred and
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for three hundred and three thousand, three hundred and ninety, we've just had
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three hundred. I wouldn't be at all panic, but it's it's three thousand,
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three hundred and ninety, so please please please help out. I might
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do some arm twisting at the hour if we get to the hour, because
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this isn't this is not all this is. This has a virtue of not
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being a long article. I think I think it. I'm I I have
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this vague memory. I have a vague memory that there may have been more
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article after a AD. So I read up to a certain point and then
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there was an AD and I was like, oh, okay, this is
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Oh wait, wait is that more article? So I think it's a short
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article, but but it might be wrong. So I guess we'll find out.
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It depends on whether or not she gets paid by the word. I'm
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ill. I think that she gets paid by the man hatred, like the
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unit of man hatred. Like maybe maybe our society basically just runs on man
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hatred, Like we all have these man hatred bars instead of man of bars.
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Yeah. Sure, we need to top it up in order to be
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able to function miss inry bars. Yeah, there you go. I was
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going for the coat more cloaqui miss in meter, missingry meter yet perfect perfect,
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let's patent that we should we should have, Like we put it out
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like a fitbit, like have a little meat missingry meter. Have you gotten
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your myss injury in today? You know, you know you're supposed to do
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like ten thousand steps, do at least at least five or six mess injuries
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a day. Yeah, there you go, there you go. Somebody get
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on that. I bet that's gonna be the next big thing. All right,
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I got a super chow. Hold up, I got a super chow.
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Ooh, Google cad tell Tella naar Bot gives us looks like three different
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donations fifty fifty Can I can? I can extricate meaning from yeah, do
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you want to read it? Can you see it on the I can?
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I can see it? I can, I can read it, and I
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can articulate what's going on because he's oh, okay, so all right,
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So he gives us fifty dollars to the fundraiser at feedbadger dot com slash the
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port, thank you, thank you, and then he gives us fifty dollars
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for super and then he gives us another ten dollars. So I'm guessing he
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wanted to give a sixty dollars super chow. Oh perhaps, but no he
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perhaps he was foiled by the the the set amounts that I set up,
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which you know, it makes it easier for me to make the product.
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Anyway, So this is a sixty dollars super chow from tell him nar bought
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testing testing one, two, three, Hello you two? Is this super
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chow working? Will you ever get around to starting the show or will there'll
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be an amount of waffling that would be suitable for a brunch rather than a
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radio show. While would it be HBr without the lavish amount of waffling of
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waffles? Like, we got it, we got it, We got where
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we have more waffles than an English breakfast. There you go, don't maybe
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Belgium, Belgium. Oh yeah, maybe you're right, like a continental breakfast,
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that's what. Yeah, the continental Europeans. They're the ones with the
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waffles. All right, there you go. All right, Well, thank
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you for testing it. It looks like it works. Here's a thank you
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for the uh for that donation. So of course you saw it, you
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set it up. That's amazing. Oh when I put it on the screen,
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I know, yes, I know, I worked. I worked on
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that. The only thing I need to figure out now is uh because restream
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bot re messages other people's messages and other chats, and that's coming up so
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sometimes when people post on YouTube, it'll also pop up on twitch uh and
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I don't want that. So I kind of want to get rid of restream
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bot so that it only displays the chat. But I'm afraid that if I
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like block this user, it'll block the person that restream bot is I'm gonna
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try it. Yeah, somebody says, waffle house without the fighting. I
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think I blocked restream bot. Test it out, see see if it see
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if that worked? Yeah, well I was gonna say that. I think
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there was a restream brought from Free Cat and it said yeah, but then
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you got rid of the free free the the restream bought stuff. And now
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but now I see there's see there's restream Cat's message without the fighting. So
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it worked. It worked. Okay, that's exactly. This is so much
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cleaner now. All right, we're just waffles everywhere. Just do you imagine
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coming to the Badger Cave and it's just like waffles flying around like that.
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You remember that episode of of Star Trek where they had the brain slugs but
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they sort of look like eggs, like fried eggs. Yeah you don't remember
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that, do? You're just saying yeah, because you're trying to No,
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I don't know what you're saying. Yeah, you're just like, yeah,
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yeah, I'm doing too much work over here. Okay, so I got
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I had another Superchow from Real Raven It says Real Raven Bot. But that's
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just because the Superchow posts in Discord and the superchow is a bot, So
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thank you real Raven for that, all right, all right, all right,
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and he gives us twenty two dollars in twenty two cents and says second
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on screen. So it's a bunch of twos. So if any of you
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guys are into numerology, that probably means something. Okay, maybe we should
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take a look. I mean, after all, part of the fun is
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to discover what secret thing you guys are actually telling us through the what dog
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whistles you're you're attempting to give us through the superchows number two numerology. I
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have no idea or twenty two. Uh okay, Now, I don't want
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traits of people who are number two. Who is number twenty two numerology?
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Oh okay? Soul number twenty That sounds like a lot of WU. I
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feel like I just I just had a critical a critical dose of WU.
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It's just soule number twenty two. Soul number twenty two is seen as the
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most powerful and creative number of all. Oh my god, oh goodness,
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well, thank you. I guess we are kind of creative. Yeah we
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are, I would say so. I mean, look at what Brian has
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created this amazing way for you to communicate directly to us in our little infinite
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plane of space. You know, mm hmm, it is cool, you
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know what, I think you know what it is. I'm pretty sure that
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he took it as a personal challenge when I said that there were standard amounts
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that you could donate through or support through super chat, and he's like,
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yeah, woman, I'm going to do a non standard amount. Yeah,
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well, I appreciate it, real Raven, no problem, give it.
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Give whatever non standard amounts you want, yep, and then we will scratch
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our heads over what you what the meaning of them are? Okay, so
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shall we actually start? Yeah, let's start the article. So I am
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still displaying the chat. I hope that doesn't make things way too crazy.
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But there isn't much to see in terms of the article anyway, so we'll
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we'll just go through that, all right. Would I hate this shit?
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Uh? A lot of ads and stuff, you know, windows, and
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we're really going like retro nineties websites, you with the clipping and the overlays,
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and it's getting a little busy here. It's a little busy. It's
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a little busy. I could always I could always just like you know,
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put like a black screen up and just have the chat and just read through.
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Because it's not like the article has like graphs, it's just text.
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So would you guys put through that? You know, honestly, I think
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maybe we should read the article and just bring up the chat when it's relevant.
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Leave this. Oh you mean like make it visible when it's relevant.
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Yeah, yeah, like just yeah, when you want to feature comment of
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interest. Yeah, that's fine. Okay, that way people can know when
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we actually started reading the article. You see it's like, yeah, it's
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pro tip. Oh I see. Yeah, all right. So this is
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from The Independent and is written by Victoria Richards and it is entitled have men
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just found a way to be even creepier online? It's no secret that toxic
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men will go to extraordinary lengths to be rate bore and belittle women on the
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internet. But that doesn't mean I wasn't shocked to find one man taking things
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to another level. How is this published? You say? What? Done?
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Done? Done? I heard? You know. Part of the problem
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is I don't hear those, so I don't know when to shut up.
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Oh really, yeah, I can't hear them. You're supposed to because it's
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playing out of my microphone. I don't know why you're not hearing it.
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It's like it would be the same as me talking into the mic. It's
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okay, go ahead. What we're gonna say, Well, what I was
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gonna say is this is this is news, Like this is news, this
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is this is something that they feel is fit for public consumption that they put
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out there, and they're like, yeah, this is we need to talk
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about this. What No, this is just another day. This is another
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moment of just shitting on me. What motivates content like this? Like really?
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And also, why does this woman look like Mortitia Adams? Right?
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Yeah, it's I mean, I'm not actually she looks more like it seems
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it seems appropriate for the for the time of year. Yeah, it seems
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appropriate for the time of year. I mean, honestly, I think Morticia
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Adams is more attractive and has better taste. But you know, like honestly,
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like, do you what is this for? I don't know, why
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are we why? How did this go through many layers of presumably quality control
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to land like a cow platt on people's screens? Mm hmmm, doesn't know
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nobody else just be like why is this? Why? What? What?
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Is wrong with our society that this is something that people spend time on.
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Uh not, not really not opposing, because I think people need to realize
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that this is stupid, It is ideologically driven, It doesn't reflect reality,
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This is nonsense. I mean, I think people need to respond to it.
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I don't know why it exists in the first place. No, I
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do know why it exists in the first place. But yeah, I'm just
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I'm just expressing, you know, a rhetorical confusion. Shall we say?
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Yeah, yeah, okay, I got another super chow, so I'm gonna
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put it on the screen. Tell i'mnar bought give us ten dollars, thank
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you, Tell mnar bot all right, all right, all right, and
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he says ten dollars. Continental breakfasts are more French and are for people who
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don't do not want to eat breakfast. They are tragically waffleless, unlike the
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Badgers, oh, unlike us, throwing shade, throwing shade. Yeah,
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well, thank you for that. Okay, let's get into the meat of
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this thing. Ask any woman if she's been the recipient of unwanted, unsolicited
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contact from men, and you'll get I would hazard a universal yes. Yeah,
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in so far as we live in a free world and men have the
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ability to speak like, what kind of Victorian nonsense is this? The men
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are not giving us their calling card? And yeah, I don't remember throwing
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my handkerchief on the ground to see if you could pick it up. But
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yes, I have had men come up to me and talk to me unsolicited.
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You know, uh, for some reason, I look like I know
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where things are, So skys have come up to me and said, hey,
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do you know where this thing is? And I'll be like, no,
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I don't, and they'll be like, gosh, well I'll go find
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someone else looks like actually has a clue. So yeah, men have approached
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me unsolicited. What the fuck? Unsolicited, unwanted, and unsolicited, because
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it's a really wide net if you think about it, like if a man
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has ever come up to a woman for any reason ever, it's unsolicited.
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Yeah, I mean, I think it's just I think that what it's what
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it says is something more about women than the men that do that, because
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I think that men. It says unsolicited contact from men, unwanted, it
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unsolicited. So what that means is that if it's true, and I'm not
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sure that it's true, that you know, most women are all women,
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because she just says, ask any woman. I don't think it's that true
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to that degree, but I think that you'll probably find a lot of women
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that would say that they received unwanted contact. But that's only because the contact
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or you know, let's say, conversation or approaches that they want are from
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men that are basically at the top of the food chain, like they don't
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want normal men approaching them. And again, it's it's not about like there's
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nothing necessarily romantic suggested, Like you know, if you're a man and you're
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like asking for directions and you go to a woman, she could consider that
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unwanted. That doesn't mean anything. That means that she's a bitch. I
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mean, you know, like because she could like instead of walking away going
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why did he approach me, she could just answer his question and then get
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on with the rest of her day. But it seems like this woman obsesses
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over every interaction and yeah, but she couldn't she It would seem that way
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because again, like if it was a man she wanted to have talked to
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her, this article wouldn't exist because she wouldn't complain. So this is clearly
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about men that are not of the caliber that she wants approaching her. This
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isn't a dating article. This is this is actually sort of well, I
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know, I know, but I'm saying, uh, you know, I
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think it boils down. You know. I heard this today and I thought
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it was kind of interesting and I think it's apt. In most interactions between
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men and women, men are salesmen. Women are marketers. That means that
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men are the ones that have to like be like the salesperson that are approaches
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they're expected to be. I'm not saying this is the you know, set
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in stone, but this is just the norm that we live in. Men
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are expected to approach women and sell themselves to them. They are salespeople.
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Women are marketers. They just put the merchandise out there and then they just
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wait for people to approach the problem is is that women want certain salesmen trying
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to sell their product or buy their product. I guess you could say making
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offers, whatever it is. And I think that this woman doesn't understand that
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about men because she seems to live in a world where the only way a
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man a woman, I'm sorry, the only way she's going to end up
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talking to a man is if he approaches her, but she automatically assumes that
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most men who approach her are a danger to her or are up to something.
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There's something sinister happening. Do you see what I'm saying? Yes?
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I do. Yeah, But I honestly I think it's even simpler because it's
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right in the word unsolicited contact. Okay, ask any woman she's ever been
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the recipient of unsolicited contact from men. So, in other words, a
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man goes up to a woman without her permission and speaks to her. Think
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about that. That's that's this is what she's calling out. Guys, a
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man goes up to a woman. There's no other qualification here. A man
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goes up to a woman and speaks to her. Now, I mean she
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does say also unwanted, So it could mean unwanted and unsolicited contact for men,
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but yeah, it could. But but the unsolicited really throws a wide,
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wide net because how many times do men in their life talk to women
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without first having gotten their permission to do so? How the hell do you
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talk to somebody without first getting their permission to do? Like? How do
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you? How do you not? How do you contact someone prior to getting
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their permission? You know, I'm feeling like that that that feeling I had
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at the the aborter no offense to the Americans where I had to have a
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visa before I could apply for the visa that I had to have before I
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applied for that visa, you know what I mean, Like I had to
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have I could only go to the border to apply for this visa. But
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I was I was caught or they they accused me of being undocumented because I
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didn't have the visa that I had to be at the border to apply for.
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Mm hmm. It's a bunch of khui. Okay, yeah, right
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right, stop, Like is she expecting people to actually swallow this? Who
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does? And if you're swallowing this, ladies, you really have no excuse.
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You really have no excuse for spitting and not swallowing. This is much
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much worse than anything any lover could ask you to swallow. All right.
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Yeah, I think that there is there. I think that women do have
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this thing where they do they do. I think that this is actually kind
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of normal. I wouldn't say it's like the average woman, but I think
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it's normal to find any unsolicited actions that men take, specifically just conversation or
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whatever to be at first off putting, off putting at least, so something
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to be suspicious price considering that our culture is inundated with you know, this
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crap where we just basically caspas versions on men and just assume bad faith and
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the worst possible motives of men. Yep, that was the point. Yeah,
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Like, and what I'm getting at is like when you look at it,
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this enormous tsunami of missionry and articles like this, and it's and it's
27:37
not just this article, it's like the whole field of it. I mean,
27:41
there's so much of it, so much and so much you can't even
27:44
respond to all of it. I mean, if me and Brian worked I
27:48
don't know, sixteen hour days, we still couldn't respond to all of the
27:52
missionry that's out there. We couldn't be impossible. And this is something that
27:59
our society really loves doing. And the question is what is it? What
28:04
is it that makes this so appealing to us that we just really just really
28:10
a day is not complete without shitting on men. Yeah, and I people
28:17
say that, you know, I don't know, like I'm exaggerating or but
28:19
ami, I like, this is what I observe, Like, This is
28:26
a constant, endless drum beat m and all I think I'm doing is pointing
28:33
it out and just being like flabbergasted by it. Maybe I have an alien
28:37
life form coming on. I'm like, well, they seem to love eggs
28:41
and shitting on men. Yeah, there are strange species and cats, you
28:47
know, they like very very selfish, small furry animals that don't communicate well,
28:56
and eggs and shitting on men. It's like the encyclic Galactica in the
29:03
Encyclopedia Galactica entry on humans. Oh yeah, yeah, all right, I
29:10
got another superchow, so I'm gonna put it on the screen here, so
29:15
tell emnar Bot gives us ten dollars. Thank you, sir, excellent,
29:26
okay, and he gives us ten dollars and says, I too, look
29:30
like I seen the know things get asked for directions in such fairly regularly,
29:34
once by a woman from Kansas, you had better believe I worked a Wizard
29:38
of Oz reference into that encounter. All right, thank you so much for
29:42
the superchow. I think these work pretty well. Yes, they're really cool.
29:49
Yeah, I wonder if people are enjoying that send more. It's sort
29:53
of fun. To see them pop up. I know, I like having
29:57
that kind of power over the chat. Okay, back to the article from
30:02
d picts on the Tube and the sinister viral video of the man who cross
30:07
railway tracks to hassle a woman? What sinister viral video on the two?
30:15
I think she means the train. This is like a UK thing. So
30:18
I guess there are men sharing d picts on the tube on the train.
30:23
I don't. I don't know. Seems a little implausible. I mean,
30:27
unless you're talking about some weird homeless guy. I don't know if well,
30:32
I'm sure London has characters. But anyway, UH doesn't matter. She's just
30:38
assuming stuff. So two and the sinister viral video of a man or the
30:42
man who cross railway tracks to hassle a woman to the average man who just
30:48
wants to know your name and what you're reading? Past ten since he interrupted,
30:52
nobody's reading anymore. Male to female harassment comes in many murky misogynistic forms,
30:59
particularly on social media. But ladies, brace yourselves. There's a new
31:03
one in town. O MG. You thought it was bad when men said
31:07
hello to you on the street? Oh good lord? And you know what's
31:12
really freaking hilarious is once again you know my altercation with that guy date psych
31:19
and oh yeah yeah, one of these dating coaches. Yeah, he was
31:26
the one who's like, yeah, they're not approaching what problem is they're not
31:30
approaching women. Yeah, men aren't approaching women because they're cowards. Just just
31:34
take the just take the creep allegation and the police come into your house,
31:40
bro, just deal with it. Yeah, just just man up. And
31:45
it's like, do you see what is continually being pushed out by media about
31:52
men. We gotta like it's just just an empty screen here. Yeah,
32:00
yeah, let's yeah, give them a preview, I guess. Yeah.
32:05
But it's like, do you not notice this stuff? I don't think it's
32:13
women constantly constantly talking about how awful it is to be approached by men like
32:20
you did. I never see these women who tell men how awful it is
32:22
to be approached by them, going after the date psychs of the world and
32:25
saying, shut up, why are you encouraging men to traumatize us with with
32:30
this behavior of approaching us in public? So funny that you know, instead
32:38
they go after people like us who are like, yeah, you know,
32:40
maybe if they say they don't want it, and why not just considering all
32:46
of the potential negative things, like why why is it that feminists are proposing
32:54
all of these negative outcomes for women approaching women if they don't want to,
33:00
like, and we get called misogynists because we're like, well, dude,
33:04
you know, like they have all of these negative outcomes. Now for men
33:07
approaching women, maybe prioritize your own safety and just don't approach women. Oh,
33:12
are you misogynists? Wasn't that what she intended by creating these negative outcomes
33:16
in the first place. Mm hmm, I don't get it. It's so
33:24
bizarre. Okay, yeah, all right, let me go back to the
33:28
article. Yep, last night I received an unsolicited message from a man on
33:35
eBay. Yes you heard that right, the online shopping portal, the one
33:40
you might find yourself trawling at midnight on a Tuesday, doom scrolling to distract
33:46
yourself from the dread of the nine to five. OMG, how hard it
33:51
is to work a nine to five job, which, by the way,
33:54
is a job that most a lot of people that I know, like that
33:58
are lower income, would love to work. By the way, When you
34:02
are suddenly struck by the desperate desire for a three piece vintage suit, or
34:07
inquiring after the shipping cause of buying red Panda plushies in bulk because they're just
34:12
so goddamn cute and would make such good Christmas presents for all the kids,
34:15
you know, look them up if you don't believe me, this is she's
34:20
writing about herself, hence the uh course of course she's writing about herself.
34:23
But this news, This is news, and people read this shlock and aren't
34:29
like, wow, this really makes me think The Independent is a worthless outlet
34:34
for information, Like you don't you don't read this and be like why this
34:38
this actually discredits the people who would even publish this. Yeah, this is
34:44
this is just And also is it like is it like an advertisement for red
34:50
Panda plushies like what? Or is this like a written by the ai like
34:55
the Missingry ai so just see it feels like it's just idea. Yeah no,
35:00
I think you know, and popular items but and and then missingry because
35:10
you know humans love Missingry. All right, let's keep going. All right,
35:14
I got another super chow okay Urushima. It gives us five dollars,
35:21
thank you, And he says halfway through the Pluto anime and once again reminded
35:27
Helena is a real gem of a wife, smart, understanding, pretty,
35:30
a robot woman who has better character than any I r L female meatbag.
35:36
Thank you for that, excellent all right, Yeah, yeah, Helena is
35:43
a is a is a good character. Of course, you know. There
35:47
was also Brando's wife, who's a bit of a bit of a herodin but
35:52
presumably loyal. Uh. These are references you probably don't know. Brandon is
35:58
Yeah, Brandon Brando. Brando is one of the the seven great robots that
36:05
are part of this robot murder mystery called Pluto. It's a really good,
36:08
good anime, by the way, I really recommend it. Good manga.
36:13
Yeah, real tear jerk. It, real tear jerker. I have cried
36:17
every single episode. Okay, all right, back to the article. So
36:23
what could the man who tracked me down on eBay hope to find out about
36:27
me? Is it? Mike ponchant for mismatched China all the better to poor
36:30
Hendrick's gin from at ill advised Sunday afternoon tea parties. Perhaps it's my obsession
36:37
with the exact shade of lipstick flavored by Sylvia Plath. Yeah, I know,
36:42
I'm like, what you're this sounds like it sounds like an application or
36:46
a man but obviously you don't want one, and I wouldn't recommend any for
36:52
you. But it just sounds like, Look at how quirky and interesting I
36:55
am and how alone I am. You're like, if you're prowling eBay at
37:01
three a m. You know you're you're pro I'm sorry I should not assume,
37:07
but I do. You going okay, but I can't help it.
37:17
What he was actually doing, in fact, was going out of his way
37:21
to contact me to tell me how wrong and stupid I was. How I
37:25
quote don't understand capitalism? End quote. Well she probably doesn't. She well,
37:30
she doesn't seem to understand eBay. How are you supposed to find your
37:34
interest in China patterns from? And how the heck it? So you just
37:37
used your name on your eBay freaking store? Like okay, all right,
37:45
all right, lady, okay. In the past, when people wanted to
37:50
send you a grievance, they would send it to your home or to your
37:53
workplace. Technically, eBay is your workplace if you have a store. So
37:58
you're saying, oh my god, this guy sent me a meanly worded letter
38:02
to nice my workplace. Yeah, and if you're a public figure making public
38:08
commentary on things that are accessible to the public, you're gonna get the occasional,
38:15
mean, harshly worded missif in whatever way that you can be contacted.
38:23
None of this is creepy, Okay, Yeah, maybe it's a little bit
38:29
weird. He tracked you down on eBay, but one assumes that it's because
38:32
it's the only way to get in contact with you. And also it's not
38:37
really that threatening. You got an eBay store, It's not like you can
38:42
find your personal address. It's not like it's a real life work area,
38:46
which would be the other way of getting in contact you in the past.
38:51
Right, you put your public opinions out there, and you will get people's
38:54
opinions back. Right, I'm I am. It's interesting how how much you
39:00
must have riled him. I guess that that'll be in the next few sentences
39:05
the explanation, I guess so okay, uh so incense was this stranger by
39:13
a tongue in cheek piece I'd written sympathizing with a gen z gen z TikToker
39:17
who went viral for crying about her first job after graduation that he went all
39:22
out to track me down. Oh, I know, I think I know
39:24
the video she's talking about. Okay, give us a rundown. Well,
39:29
let me let me open it in a new tab, just to make sure
39:31
that I'm talking about the correct one. Prisee about her job. I think
39:36
I think I know who it is. Hey, guys, oh no,
39:39
this is That's not the one. This is. This is this is the
39:43
one right here. Yeah, so this it's not it's whatever this is.
39:47
I got to I don't know how to close this, but it's not this
39:50
one. It's the one in the background. It's not the one that popped
39:52
up in my brain. So anyway, the short version is this girl.
39:58
She's a college grad. She's working a job, a nine to five.
40:01
She her commute is long. She's very upset because it's like, you know,
40:08
essentially, life isn't working the way that she thought it would, and
40:14
she has she's not sure what to do now. She does also say that
40:19
her period is starting soon, so she might just be like emotional in the
40:22
moment. I'm not saying that she said that. I'm just you know,
40:27
adding that additional context. But essentially it went viral because it started a conversation
40:31
about like, oh, you know, should I don't know, pete women,
40:37
I mean because it did you know, men have been working like twelve
40:39
fourteen, sixteen hour days for like I don't know, hundreds of years.
40:45
Like no one's ever said we got to do something about that. But this
40:49
woman, this young woman is working at nine to five and she's like unable
40:53
to find time for anything else she has. It takes her like an hour
40:58
an hour and a half to commute back and forth, and she has to
41:00
go right to bed, and she's like, how do you how does anyone
41:02
have time for friends? How does anyone have time for uh, you know,
41:06
finding a significant other, et cetera. And it's just all this regret,
41:10
and of course she feels like she should be doing something greater because she's
41:15
working, like you know, she got a degree and she's not using the
41:20
degree. So it's all it's like, okay, very it's I get it.
41:23
It sucks, but that's like most people's experience, Like that's a lot
41:28
of people's experience and it's not unique to women at all. And and maybe
41:34
you know, if like I don't know, if we did something to like,
41:40
well we could, if we could live within our means. We can
41:44
probably do better, but I don't think she'd be willing to make that compromise.
41:46
Like I think it comes down to, like, you know, you're
41:49
gonna have to you can't have it all. You're gonna have to balance some
41:52
shit out, You're gonna have to give some things up, you know,
41:55
and you're gonna have to work with someone like maybe I don't know what to
42:00
tell you, like there, this is just this is the world that we're
42:04
living in. And I hate to say it, but you know, women
42:07
are a big reason why we're in this place. I mean, your your
42:12
women are they hold they have at least half the blame. Yeah, okay,
42:20
but all right, so let's find out the dread horrible thing that this
42:23
guy did. All right, So, uh, email easy enough to find
42:29
out, wasn't enough for him. A message request on Twitter slash x,
42:32
which I would have righteously ignored for who wants unsolicited abuse would have been eye
42:37
rollingly predictable. But eBay. Oh, so she's saying if he had done
42:42
it through email, that would have been one thing. Twitter would have been
42:45
another thing. But this is eBay, I guess this is like email was
42:50
easy enough to find out. But and how do you know that he found
42:53
that out? No, she's saying that she's saying that if he reached out
42:59
to her email, she wouldn't be surprised because she probably her email is easy
43:07
to get. That's what she's saying. And then she says, if if,
43:12
if she, if he had sent her a message request on Twitter,
43:16
that would have been predictable. Right, but eBay is like a new level
43:22
of creepy, That's what she's saying. She's not saying that he tracked her
43:25
email down. He's actually saying that her email is accessible, probably someplace because
43:30
she writes for the Independent, right. So, but what she's cringing or
43:36
what upsets her is that he found her in eBay, which is her safe
43:38
haven where she can be the material consumerist that she always wants to be while
43:44
complaining about the existence of stuff. So, okay, yeah, but the
43:49
thing is that eBay is like a platform where people might be able to send
43:52
you messages, but they don't get any more personal information than that. I
43:57
don't see why this is more threatening than e mail in any way. It's
44:01
a little bit odd. Perhaps he didn't wasn't able to locate her email maybe
44:07
sure, Yeah, what we're gonna say, Well, I'm sure if he
44:10
did that, this would well, I guess it's not. It's passe to
44:15
complain about email mail. Now you're complaining about eBay messages. Yeah, the
44:21
woman receives eBay message and here we are and here we are yep, women
44:28
most affected. I got another super chow, kind of a long one.
44:34
I oh, yeah, here it is. Oh it's it's so long.
44:37
I can't fit the whole thing. Okay, I'll have to read what's here.
44:39
I don't know why it's doing that, but UH tell him. Our
44:43
bot gives us ten dollars and says negative outcomes for approaching are for men who
44:47
cause him to feel negative emotions by approaching them for whatever reason. If a
44:52
man approaches her and causes positive emotions, he will get positive outcomes. However,
44:57
it is increasingly difficult to know what a woman's reaction is gonna be ahead
45:00
of time, since their taste, mood, and situations vary so much,
45:05
so that's just not helpful. Also, this article is at the level of
45:07
a glorified blog post, not a serious journalism. Well, what is serious
45:12
journalism these days? I have a book of old letters written to the Times
45:15
by members of the public, which are more adult and serious or more funny
45:20
than this junk. Yeah, this is just a state of modern well modernity
45:27
itself, really, I mean sadly. Well, let's say she gets to
45:30
a point where something let's get back to this. Then thank you tell them
45:35
get the I mean, this is, after all the spooky speason And what
45:37
could be more spooky receiving a message on your eBay? Yeah? No,
45:42
then somebody messaging on eBay? Oo? Okay, but eBay. I'll admit
45:50
I didn't see that coming. It was like a jump scare. Is the
45:52
man who contacted me, the one who signed off is his lengthy, ranty,
45:57
intrusive, missive with regret yours really interested in the sofa I sold in
46:02
two thousand and five. I'll tell you what, what did she think that
46:07
women don't do stuff like this or something? Because that's the presumption of this.
46:09
It's like, oh, only men, only men send messages through eBay
46:14
that are RANTI you know, only men do this thing. And if you
46:19
could track down her email so easily, like I'm just curious, like if
46:23
she her email is out there and he chose to go through eBay, which
46:28
is a strange choice admittedly, but still like, why would you assume that
46:32
there's some kind of huge malfeasance behind this versus just he just happened to find
46:37
your eBay thing first, you know, Yeah, you know somebody in the
46:43
Tyler Preston said something. I I'm gonna put it up here. Matthew Perry
46:47
died drowning in his jacuzzi. I think a hockey player died because of ice
46:52
skates. I don't know if you heard about that horrible story. Well,
46:57
a woman gets a message from eBay and it's more serious. Yes, stop
47:00
the presses, guys, stop the presses. I received a message from eBay.
47:05
Yeah. I know we're on the verge of World War three, but
47:08
this guy, unsolicited guy by the way, sent me a message on eBay.
47:16
Maybe we need a war when people get some perspective, all right for
47:22
me? Yeah, oh, I gotta get them. But there are some
47:25
funny little TikTok videos about women like and and their thoughts on a draft that
47:36
will draft women. It's pretty funny. I have to find them and get
47:39
back to you, though. I saw them like last night. They're against
47:45
a draft of women. Well, they're kind of making light of it because
47:50
I think some of them don't think it will actually happen, but there is,
47:53
like some a lot of women. There was one video that was really
47:55
funny where you know, there was a saying it was like, oh,
47:59
it looks like they're gonna drafting women, and all the women in the comments
48:01
were like, I don't know what you're talking about. I'm in the kitchen,
48:05
you know, like like they're they're just like all the feminism's out the
48:08
window. It's pretty funny. Of course they will though, they'll twist their
48:12
hair into ponytails. Feminism is out the window. I think what is really
48:19
about getting what you can out of society and giving nothing. So of course
48:23
they're going to be like, oh, we don't want to get drafted.
48:25
We're women's with the women's we don't we don't have to pay for anything.
48:30
We have got things paid for us. Yeah, you have to pay for
48:32
history, all right, okay, anyway, anyway, so, uh,
48:40
I'll tell you what's regrettable men invading women's personal spaces as as happens at just
48:46
about any bar. Uh huh no, it's it is not a personal space,
48:51
but continue neither is well as happens at at just about any bar,
48:55
pub, workplace, or park bench, and even on Tinder. Wait wait,
49:00
wait, isn't why you're supposed to meet men? What are you using
49:04
it for? Jesus, she's using it for not meeting men. Brian,
49:12
she's there and she's like, I dare you to swipe right on me?
49:15
I dare you or whatever the swiping is if you swipe right on me?
49:20
So help me, God, Jesus, Oh my god, oh man,
49:28
this has got to be a Poe's At what point are we like this?
49:30
Mortitia Adams is trolling us. I know. I think she has this delusional
49:38
mindset. I think so. All right anyway, the trangers, the strangers
49:44
who tell you to smile darling, or to cheer up love it might never
49:49
happen. The ones who motion for you to remove your headphones in the park
49:52
when you're quite content listening to Taylor Swift. Oh God, this woman is
49:55
like, it's like, is this a parody of a That's what I was
50:00
saying very much, and the lyrics do this is why we can't have nice
50:05
things? Have never felt quite so apt. God, It's I'm sorry,
50:12
It's just I really doubt that men spend this much time on her. No,
50:16
I don't think they spend this much time thinking about the opposite sex.
50:21
And why can't I just say this, guys, if you are one of
50:24
these men who is engaging with women like this, just stop. Have some
50:29
dignity. Yeah, walk away from this. It's entire thing. And I
50:36
know you know that guy date psych is probably like, oh, you're just
50:40
encouraging them. It's like, at what point do men have the right to
50:45
expect a minimum level of some kind of respect as being humans. I don't
50:51
mean like, I don't mean like, uh, I don't know what respect
50:55
women kind of respect, but just like I don't know. Yeah, all
51:05
right, all right, I got a super chat from Albert Nata Retro and
51:09
he gives us two dollars. Thank you Albert and says, like Burr said,
51:13
no feminists in a house fire, thank you for the super chat.
51:17
Okay, Well back to the article, all right, And when you do
51:24
remove your headphones when you are jolted out of simply minding your own business,
51:29
the man in question thinks he has a right to know what you are listening
51:32
to. What he really wants to know, it seems to me, is
51:36
what on earth you think you are doing here? A woman alone on a
51:39
bench? How very dare you? The audacity of solitude? It is offensive
51:44
to men like this, Wow, she's got psychic powers. We need the
51:47
X Men theme and air like she can lead men's minds like Professor X.
51:53
You know, it's like she knows what men are thinking. Guys, And
52:00
when you tell them that actually you're fine, thanks, and you'd like to
52:04
be left alone, nine times out of ten they become aggressive, call you
52:07
a bitch, act hurt and wounded, because why wouldn't you want their attention?
52:13
How could you possibly defer to be or prefer to be so lonely and
52:16
unaccompanied, so a drift and damsel hood, so achingly eye wateringly solitary?
52:22
What is a quiet park jaunt without the interjection of a penis? My god?
52:30
Like that that? I think hers broke my head? Why? I
52:43
mean this is like literal like political lesbianism. I think that's what it looks
52:47
like. I don't know. Okay, why don't you just just wear a
52:52
shirt that says I hate men? Yeah? I mean, just oh yeah,
53:00
the UK? I don't Sometimes I wonder if the UK's feminism isn't worse
53:04
than and then and then like again. I know I keep repeating this guy
53:07
like the date dating coaches. He say, yeah, just keep doing it.
53:10
Men. You don't need to talk to men. Dear, you need
53:15
to get on Twitter and start talking to to date psych. You need to
53:19
get on his ass and start telling him stop telling men to approach you in
53:23
public or to approach women in public, because that's what he counsels. Just
53:28
stop. That's what you need to do, because you writing this article isn't
53:32
doing anything. You need to start targeting the dating coaches and start, you
53:37
know, spamming them. No, just send your swarm of hornets after them,
53:44
telling them that they need to stop telling men to approach women. Need
53:47
to stop shaming men into approaching women. You know, like you're not doing
53:52
much here. You need to go. You need to go to the source.
53:55
Yep, okay, let's see where was I? Okay? And when
54:07
you tell them not that actually you're fine, thanks, and you'd like to
54:09
be left alone? Oh no, I already read that part right. Yeah.
54:14
If you're wondering why we might seem hostile, well no, just I'm
54:17
not even wondering about it. But I think you're the only one really wondering
54:22
how we went from an eBay message to this shit. But yeah, everywhere
54:27
on the streets. I'm sure the escalation is not complete. So let's let's
54:31
just ride the ride the roller coaster up. Yeah, you know that knocking
54:37
that they have as you're wound up to the top. Yep, we're in
54:42
that process here. I'm pretty sure there's gonna be more escalation, so let's
54:46
do it. If you're wondering why we might seem hostile, consider this.
54:52
Men's intrusions into women's lives aren't always so harmless. Examples like the one above
54:57
are irritating, certainly, but not dangerous. I have friends who have been
55:00
date raped and sexually assaulted, and have even experienced that myself. With a
55:06
link to another article, I'll just take a care. I'll just peek at
55:09
it. Okay, you peak at it. I'm oh why, I'm not
55:13
surprised by the Russell brand allegation. So she's using that to talk about something
55:19
else perhaps, or she's like kind of bragging that she was one of his
55:23
victims. I don't know, I don't cared. Okay, Okay, let's
55:30
let me let me unpack this. Ye, this is this is why I'm
55:35
gonna tell you guys something. We're not gonna get anywhere until you until we
55:39
kick out the pillar of sexual assault. Now, first of all, in
55:45
the UK, it is not considered like men can't be raped by women.
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So she lives in a in a society in which one group's being raped is
55:53
not even recognized as rape. So right off the bat, her victimhood is
55:59
less, honestly or at least less marginalized. But this is one of the
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big pillars that feminism is situates itself on, and that is sexual violence.
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And the only way we are going to move forward is if we kick that
56:15
one out, and we have to do it by forcing people to recognize that
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there are two legitimate positions when it comes to the relative rate of sexual assault.
56:28
One we don't know how much men rape women versus women rape men.
56:34
We don't know, or two it's close to parody. Those are the two
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legitimate responses based on the data that we have. Now, full stop,
56:43
anything else is a con anything else is trying to sell you something, anything
56:47
else is demonizing men, and that pillar has got to go. And this
56:52
is why I think that conservatives, and I'm not talking about all conservatives because
56:57
there are some individual conservatives who understand this and are open to talking about this
57:02
problem. Sure, but as long as feminists have this lie, they have
57:08
everything else right, they can always escalate and default. And you see this
57:15
in this article. We've gone from receiving a goddamn eBay comment to rape.
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They will always do this, They will always retreat and justify everything based on
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well, men rape women, and until they until that weapon is removed,
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they win. And and conservatives are not prepared to recognize the epidemic of women
57:45
sexually assaulting men and the fact that we don't talk about it, we don't
57:50
recognize it, we don't want to do anything about it. And unfortunately,
57:53
because we don't, we're never going to be able to do about anything about
57:57
the prevalence of sexual assault overall, period, because we're ignoring half of the
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data and half of the victims, all right. So, and also we're
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giving feminists a weapon to continue to control the discourse. So this has to
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go. And if you are not able to accept it and not able to
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hold people to the fire on this one issue, you lose them all.
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And unfortunately, the general average massive conservatives is not prepared to do this.
58:31
Women rape men. It is entirely within the realm of possibility that women rape
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men as much as men rape women. Okay, women's sexual violence towards men
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is massive. It is unspoken about, it is unrecognized, and also the
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lies about this reality are used to further demonize men. I mean, think
59:07
about it. We live in a society where women can basically rape men with
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impunity, get away with it, and really get away with it, as
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in there is almost no conviction and it is a significant issue. And then
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they turn around and they say rape is a male action. Therefore I'm going
59:30
to demonize you. Therefore somehow eBay comment something something something rape. So this
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this is and this is like the sheer level of perfidity of this is gobsbacking.
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It's one of the things that just horrifies me on the face, so
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that we that that this is the situation that we live in. Not only
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do is this something that men face and have to live with, they're also
1:00:00
condemned, condemned as being uniquely rape. I don't know, like maybe the
1:00:07
people that have played an instrumental part in not recognizing the rape of men,
1:00:15
not treating it as serious, minimizing it creating narratives that minimize it, that
1:00:20
make it somebody else, you know, like make it their men's own problem.
1:00:23
You know. Maybe they're the rapey ones. Yeah, maybe they're the
1:00:29
ones who are responsible for this in a way that other people aren't. Oh
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all right, I've spent Oh yeah, I'm go go back to the article.
1:00:42
Uh, no more super chats or anything yet. So I've spent far
1:00:46
too many evenings feeling forced to play nice with strange men in bars who wander
1:00:52
over when I'm with my female friends because they can't abide seeing women having perfectly
1:00:57
nice evenings without them. I have bitten my tongue during inane conversations and humor
1:01:04
transparent attempts to nag us. Why don't we just tell men like this to
1:01:12
fuck off? Simple because they might turn nasty, and when you're a woman,
1:01:17
you always have one eye out for men turning nasty. Margaret Atwood was
1:01:22
right. And to the predictable hordes who will say, but this was just
1:01:28
one man. We don't all contact women online, I will say this,
1:01:31
It's never just one man. Never to deny our reality makes you complicit.
1:01:37
Women are tired of your harassment. We want you on the whole to leave
1:01:42
us alone, and we definitely don't want you sliding into our DMS while we're
1:01:45
doing some secret late night shopping. Wait, that's not how EBA works.
1:01:51
She's so pathetic. This is the most pathetic person. I'm sorry, but
1:01:55
it's pathetic. You're sad, you're sad, and you're lonely, and you're
1:02:00
mad at the world. And yeah, that's true. And unfortunately she controls
1:02:06
a lot of the discourse, so I can't She is personally sad and pathetic.
1:02:10
But in our societies, sad and pathetic people have a lot of reach.
1:02:15
After all, she's published by the Independent. Women are tired of harassment,
1:02:21
okay that the men are like, honestly, lady, men are you
1:02:25
know? And when we read articles like this, like let's let's let's throw
1:02:30
it to the crowd, because you've got a lot of guys probably listening.
1:02:34
Do you want to continue to approach women when you hear articles like this,
1:02:38
when you hear these kinds of articles, do you want to run the risk
1:02:43
of rejection in order to strike up a conversation and maybe maybe get a relationship
1:02:50
out of it. You know that thing that's critical for the long term survival
1:02:53
of our civilization, that people get together and pair, bond and produce children.
1:02:59
Oh, okay, there you go. No, I mean at this
1:03:02
point like like not a chance in hell. Tw the wanderer, keep going,
1:03:07
keep telling me she can get bent. Right at this point, this
1:03:12
is like, this is the woman and more than anyone else, nor any
1:03:17
any other woman, she's the one who's been anointed to be the loudest voice
1:03:22
for what women think. Right, She's been given the podium. She is
1:03:29
the loudest voice in the room. Right. Other women aren't getting to aren't
1:03:34
getting up on the podium and saying, oh no, this woman is wrong.
1:03:37
I actually like approaches, you know, presumably if they're polite, right,
1:03:43
I don't. Actually, I'm not actually afraid of men turning nasty,
1:03:45
So you don't have to worry about me me being scared of you, or
1:03:50
you're creating a horrible situation for me that I feel like I'm being harassed.
1:03:53
We don't have that. We just have this woman telling us Paul what she
1:04:00
wants. And honestly, I don't see the problem if men listen to this
1:04:04
woman who's telling them what they want and gives it to her, because it's
1:04:09
not like other women are contradicting her. They're not on the podium saying what
1:04:14
they want, not to any great degree. I mean, occasionally you have
1:04:18
one woman saying, well, where why aren't the men approaching us? But
1:04:21
she never counsels other women, well maybe we should, you know, just
1:04:26
they'll pull back a bit on this kind of stuff, like the condemnation,
1:04:30
the presentation of even just being approached to some kind of horrible trauma. I
1:04:34
mean, you read this and you're like, oh, wow, geez,
1:04:39
if a man approaches a strange woman in public, she might be causing her
1:04:43
tremendous personal distress. Like who the hell what men are going to approach women?
1:04:48
After you frame it that way? Yeah, okay, like the psychos
1:04:54
basically like the men who don't care, or maybe the men who laugh this
1:04:59
stuff off. But boy, you have to sort of be a little bit
1:05:02
of a psycho to laugh this stuff off with. This is the only thing,
1:05:06
the only female voice in the room telling you what the experience is like,
1:05:12
you know, like you have to be a bit of a psycho to
1:05:16
just laugh this off, you know. And I take what you mean,
1:05:19
Brian, this is pathetic. She is pathetic, but on the other hand,
1:05:24
I can see I can totally understand why if this is the only voice
1:05:29
in the room, men are choosing to just just be like, well,
1:05:32
you know, I don't want to give women bad experiences. I don't want
1:05:35
to be also accused. I don't want to be falsely accused. Like what
1:05:39
is the benefit here? I'm gonna risk false accusation and the most likely outcome
1:05:44
is that I'm gonna traumatize some woman, Like and is there any wonder In
1:05:49
the last two years, the number of men approaching women has gone down ten
1:05:54
percent, and I'm pretty sure they're probably not gonna look at it anymore because
1:05:58
it's gonna I'm I'm pretty sure that's gonna just go down further and further.
1:06:03
Yeah, it's just it's I don't think that's getting better, I'll put it
1:06:09
that way, And it's not. It's not going to get better from from
1:06:13
the commentary like this. And what really astounds me is the is the dating
1:06:17
coaches refuse to acknowledge the influence of this crap. Yeah, well, I
1:06:24
mean, as somebody pointed out that didn't come to this conclusion myself. Someone
1:06:28
pointed out, it's like, well, but that would mean losing, losing
1:06:30
customers like that that they don't want to lose. I mean, what I've
1:06:36
seen through my ten years doing Honey Badger Radio in twenty years talking about these
1:06:42
issues is that there are certain narratives that really sell and really get a lot
1:06:46
of attention. Okay, women are victims. Gets really sells, gets a
1:06:51
lot of attention. And hey, guys, I can you can learn my
1:06:58
fool proof method of attracting women. Just three easy payments of nine hundred and
1:07:03
ninety nine dollars each and you'll get my seminar of supersduction. That sells tells
1:07:10
a lot, It sells tremendously. Of course, there's a lot of turnover
1:07:15
in that particular industry, but it really does sell. So for women,
1:07:20
condemnation of men is what is the big big chitchener And for men, all,
1:07:27
well, i'll teach you. I'll teach you the secrets of seduction so
1:07:30
that you can actually attract a woman. That's the big chitching. And if
1:07:35
you don't do either of those things, you're not going to get a hell
1:07:39
of a lot of attention. But honestly, I don't know what to say,
1:07:44
Like, I can't honestly sit here and say yeah, I got a
1:07:46
fool proof method. Yeah you can. You can approach women and not get
1:07:50
a sexual harassment charge and eventually be successful. And you know, the only
1:07:56
thing I can do is maybe say, hey, if she does reject you,
1:07:59
it's not it's probably not because you're a bad person, right, it's
1:08:03
it's probably not you. Who knows. Maybe it's the freaking pervasive narrative that
1:08:09
when men are are useless as partners. So, yeah, they don't have
1:08:15
easy answers to this. I don't have, like, I can't. I
1:08:19
don't see an easy answer to this. This is a we have really fucked
1:08:25
ourselves, like the human race has fucked itself into a pretzel, and any
1:08:31
solution is gonna require a hell of a lot of elbow grease and and honesty
1:08:38
and questioning. Yeah, it is scary, it is appropriate. Oh yeah,
1:08:45
there's your Halloween message for Halloween. On Halloween, all right, So
1:08:51
I got some to do. I got a super chat real quick I want
1:08:56
to put on the screen, and it came up as an announcement through Spot.
1:09:00
I can give it like the proper the proper recognition. So Derek Workman
1:09:04
gives us ten dollars and says they treat men worse than women's the whole they
1:09:10
are afraid of men turning nasty is a lie. Yes, true, Thank
1:09:15
you, Derek. Actually that is really interesting because she's she's actually justifying treating
1:09:20
men badly by saying that men will turn nasty. Really mm hmm, okay,
1:09:27
yeah, she's nasty to men because she thinks they might become nasty.
1:09:31
I guess it's I guess, well, that is a logic. That is
1:09:34
a logic. Well, no, I don't even want to say that is
1:09:36
a logicoid you know, it resembles a thought self contradicting there though. Maybe
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Oh, men are men are horrible. Men are constantly out to get
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looking at things. What a shocker. We do have to we do have
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to actually pair bond to have a future, because we're a pair bonding species.
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And we also got to take care of men since they do a lot
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of the work that's required to keep society running. And women do like this
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do not help to not help at all, they help nothing. Okay,
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all right, back to you, Brian. Did you have some final words?
1:14:27
Uh? No, I said the word final. Damn it. It's
1:14:30
okay. We're at the end anyways. Well, I still working on like
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the ultimate setup for this chat thing. But I think this will be a
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much very useful to us because it lets us acknowledge the Superchows in particular and
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the Rumble Gang. Shout out to the Rumble Gang. Give us some dual
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cool doges in the chat before we close it out. That will allow you
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to be like a little bit closer to the rest of the people who haven't
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caught up, haven't caught up to the to the af someeness that is Rumble
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all right, But anyway. But with that said, we're gonna wrap it
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up here. I guess we're not doing a news show tomorrow. We're doing
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a Halloween thing that, right, Alison, Yeah, I guess in the
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day. Yeah, I guess you guys could do a news show since the
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what we're doing is have to be really early. No, that's okay because
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I've already said we're gonna do the new show on Wednesday. And also that
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will also be a little bit earlier too, because I gotta pick Lindsay up,
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