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Two Ts Presents: The Eds: What is Sexy · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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  Speaker 1: This is the Eds with Eddie Judge and Edwin ado
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  Speaker 1: Yave the husband's know best at two Tease Production. Welcome
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  Speaker 1: to the EDS podcast. My name is Eddie Judge.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm Edwin Ariabe.
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  Speaker 1: How are you, Edwin?
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  Speaker 2: I'm doing all right, man, Good to see you again.
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  Speaker 1: Good to see you too. Anything new?
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  Speaker 2: Not much, just getting ready for the birthday and excited
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  Speaker 2: to have a good time.
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  Speaker 1: What's the what birthdays is?
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  Speaker 2: Oh? This is forty seven years old?
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  Speaker 1: Forty seven?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: Are you at all worried about getting to fifty?
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  Speaker 2: I want to have a big fiftieth bash I haven't had.
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  Speaker 2: I haven't had like a true birthday. Well, my last
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  Speaker 2: six birthdays we've been celebrating at Coachella, which is always
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  Speaker 2: a fun time. But I haven't had like a grand
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  Speaker 2: birthday since I think I was thirty two, So right
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  Speaker 2: before I found out that I was having a daughter,
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  Speaker 2: I decided to go all out on it. And it
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  Speaker 2: was right before I met Teddy, because I met Teddy
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  Speaker 2: eight months after that. But I was thirty two and
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  Speaker 2: I just threw this big bash red carpet. Teddy always
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  Speaker 2: makes fun of me because she says I paid for
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  Speaker 2: the models that were there and I not paid for them.
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  Speaker 2: I knew them. What I did get I actually did though,
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  Speaker 2: to get free tequila. I was posing with the tequila,
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  Speaker 2: taking pictures with a bunch of girls around me. So
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  Speaker 2: when you're walking through my birthday, you're just seeing me
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  Speaker 2: with my arms open. I got a white suit, no
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  Speaker 2: shirt under, and I'm taking pictures with this tequila company
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  Speaker 2: just so I can get free tequila for my birthday.
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  Speaker 2: So she's always making fun of me about that bash,
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  Speaker 2: But that was my last birthday bash, So I might
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  Speaker 2: do it for my fiftieth, and I probably just invite
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  Speaker 2: everybody I know.
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  Speaker 1: Awesome.
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  Speaker 2: So you love dividing people from all walks of life
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  Speaker 2: and then just seeing them get together and end up
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  Speaker 2: having a good time.
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  Speaker 1: Oh I love that. I love that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Like you bring all your affluent friends, I bring
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  Speaker 2: all my friends that I'm still very good friends with,
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  Speaker 2: like everybody that I grew up with in junior high.
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  Speaker 2: Oh wow, and uh, and just mix them all in
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  Speaker 2: and just have a blast. You know.
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  Speaker 1: That's awesome.
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  Speaker 2: Work people and you know, just everybody street people and
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  Speaker 2: let them figure it out. You know, I'm just like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: they'll figure it out. You know. Sometimes you get in
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  Speaker 2: your end, You're you're in your head too much, Like
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  Speaker 2: are these people gonna be able to hang with these people?
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  Speaker 2: And it's gonna be weird. What I've always found is
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  Speaker 2: when you do that mix, the whatever we want to
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  Speaker 2: call them, the real affluent people end up having the
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  Speaker 2: time of their life.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, because the other.
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  Speaker 2: People just make them get loose and it's just a
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  Speaker 2: big party. I love it. Yeah, they're not when you
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  Speaker 2: go to these like very like freaking I don't know,
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  Speaker 2: fundraisers or those type of parties where it's just very
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  Speaker 2: uh to what I'm looking for.
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  Speaker 1: Stuffy, stuffy, Yes, yes, I hate.
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  Speaker 2: It's just like you know, you bring everybody together, you
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  Speaker 2: get those stuffy people to get loose, that's when it
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  Speaker 2: becomes fun. Totally get it.
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  Speaker 1: Well, let's get into our fourth episode. Yeah, we're going
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  Speaker 1: to talk about something very interesting today. To get the
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  Speaker 1: mail perspective, we would like to talk about a topic.
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  Speaker 1: The topic is going to be what are your thoughts
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  Speaker 1: on beauty agent habits and lifestyle choices that stay that
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  Speaker 1: keep you young or looking young, such as plastic surgery,
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  Speaker 1: antip aging creams, and all these procedures in the world
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  Speaker 1: which I'm not totally well versed on I don't know
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  Speaker 1: how much you know about all the things out there
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  Speaker 1: available to help you stay young, But let's talk about that.
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  Speaker 1: What are your thoughts on our Wivee's gating plastic surgery?
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  Speaker 1: Let's start with that.
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  Speaker 2: So boatox, I have no problem with I've actually done botox, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I have.
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  Speaker 1: When did you start that?
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  Speaker 2: I started pretty young? Actually, I want to say I
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  Speaker 2: started doing botox, but not like crazy, just in my forehead,
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  Speaker 2: and you know, because I didn't want those crazy lines.
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  Speaker 2: I want to say I started at maybe thirty two.
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  Speaker 2: I think I started pretty young, right, but not like
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  Speaker 2: every three months like I sucked at that. Maybe like
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  Speaker 2: every eight months I'd go and do it, right, But
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  Speaker 2: like I never had a problem with that one, right,
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  Speaker 2: I sobs. I don't have a problem with Teddy doing it.
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  Speaker 2: It's funny the first time Teddy caught me doing it
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  Speaker 2: because I didn't tell her for a while. Right. I
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  Speaker 2: come home and I'm thinking she's not going to notice,
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  Speaker 2: and she's all like, what's all that red shit on
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  Speaker 2: your forehead? And I'm like, what are you talking about?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what you're talking about. She's like, no,
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  Speaker 2: did you get both talks. I'm like, no, what you
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  Speaker 2: what are you talking about? Red ended? But anyway, so
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  Speaker 2: that I don't have a problem with I do have
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  Speaker 2: a problem right now with women injecting their lips to
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  Speaker 2: an extreme, and I think that's happening more and more
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  Speaker 2: and more. And I always tell Teddy, like, do not
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  Speaker 2: do this extreme thing on your lips, because it's just
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  Speaker 2: to me, it is not sexy. Like, I love big lips.
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  Speaker 1: Does she do that? Does she put on her in jail?
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  Speaker 2: I got a reminder, don't you get any of those ideas.
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  Speaker 2: Teddy's always had great lips. It's why it's one of
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  Speaker 2: my favorite features about her. Yeah, but you know it's
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  Speaker 2: scary because I see like people are just getting overboard
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  Speaker 2: with that. Yeah, right, Like I love big lips, but
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  Speaker 2: I don't like stuff that looks fake. Yes, you know
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  Speaker 2: what I mean, Like the boobs that are just too
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  Speaker 2: gigantic where it's just obvious that they're fake. Like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I don't like that. I'm a so I've always been
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  Speaker 2: a big booty guy. Yeah, I've always liked the small
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  Speaker 2: waist and the big booty, Like that's always been my
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  Speaker 2: my thing as a man that I like about women.
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  Speaker 1: And now like like Kardashian big booty or big booty
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  Speaker 1: like athletic.
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  Speaker 2: Athletic like natural big booty. Right, So, like, I think
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  Speaker 2: the reason I never was into boobs as much is
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  Speaker 2: because once I kind of felt everybody had fake boobs.
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  Speaker 2: I kind of didn't really find it that appealing, right,
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  Speaker 2: because it was kind of like in my head, it's fake.
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  Speaker 2: Now it's happening with booties, where like everyone's getting fake booties.
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  Speaker 2: And now I can't tell a real one from a
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  Speaker 2: from a fake one.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, you have to touch it?
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  Speaker 2: Well, yeah, but only the only tipe I can touch
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  Speaker 2: is my wives, and that one's real. But but yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I can't, Like I can't. I don't know what's a
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  Speaker 2: good one, what's a bad one?
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  Speaker 1: So what about antilists or you.
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  Speaker 2: Know those scary as well? So I always liked the
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  Speaker 2: natural look. I think women that age naturally look very
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  Speaker 2: I mean, and again, you could tune it up, but
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  Speaker 2: I think what ends up happening is when people go
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  Speaker 2: overboard with it and they all start looking the same. Right,
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  Speaker 2: So for since like in the ear, I don't know
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  Speaker 2: if it was the late nineties or early two thousands,
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  Speaker 2: maybe it was in the nineties, Remember all the women
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  Speaker 2: were looking like lions. Yes, that was the thing. They
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  Speaker 2: were all like this right, so and they all started
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  Speaker 2: to look the same right now and again for all
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  Speaker 2: I know it's an app but I feel like they're
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  Speaker 2: all starting to look like Kim Kardashian. Yeah, and I
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  Speaker 2: see the most beautiful women and I'm like, what the
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  Speaker 2: hell did you just do to your face? What did
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  Speaker 2: you do to your lips? What did you And I'm
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  Speaker 2: just like, now it looks fake, which is even worse. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: So I think if you could do it subtly and
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  Speaker 2: you can't tell all for it, but when people go
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  Speaker 2: and I do think that people don't even realize that
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  Speaker 2: they're doing it, and before you know it, they're like
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  Speaker 2: looking very you know, aggressive with their work. Let's just
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  Speaker 2: put it to you that way.
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  Speaker 1: Do you think if your thoughts on Teddy was not
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  Speaker 1: on the show, do you think she still do anything?
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  Speaker 2: Like? You know, she.
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  Speaker 1: Does the lips, the what does she do? No?
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  Speaker 2: She she I know she got a something with her chin.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so she did ch Is that what it's called
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  Speaker 1: chin lift?
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  Speaker 2: I think? So? Yeah? Which that one I didn't mind.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't think she needed it. I was like, dude,
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  Speaker 2: what are you doing? You don't need it. She does
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  Speaker 2: the botox okay, and she doesn't inject her lips. She
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  Speaker 2: does this whole thing that I think pumps the lips. Yeah. Right.
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  Speaker 2: But sometimes I'll see a picture and I'm like, hey, Teddy,
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  Speaker 2: you didn't do any of your lips, right, Yeah, that's
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  Speaker 2: my thing. Do not touch the lips. I like lips
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  Speaker 2: the way they are.
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  Speaker 1: Speaking of lips, there is something out there that my
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  Speaker 1: wife uses on her lips that stimulates a little bit
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  Speaker 1: of plumpiness. I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I think that's what Teddy uses.
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  Speaker 1: Is that what it is? Because every time I kiss her,
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  Speaker 1: I might lips start to swell, like what did I
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  Speaker 1: just get stung by a d What the I don't
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  Speaker 1: like it? So I don't know what chemicals are in there,
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  Speaker 1: but swell. No. I make sure she definitely cleans it
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  Speaker 1: up because I don't want to be itching for a
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  Speaker 1: couple of days. Do you think that they feel a
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  Speaker 1: lot of public pressure to be, like, you know, doing
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  Speaker 1: these things because they're on TV? Or is it just
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  Speaker 1: like them.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I don't even know. It's I think it's just
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  Speaker 2: women in general. Right now, there's a lot of pressure
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  Speaker 2: with just Instagram and everyone looking good all the time,
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  Speaker 2: or seemingly like they're looking good. You don't know what's
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  Speaker 2: real and what's not anymore, right, So I think that's
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  Speaker 2: the dangerous part, is you're seeing these pictures of other women. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: but they don't exactly look like that, right, So you know,
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  Speaker 2: it's it's it's figuring out what's real what's not. And
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  Speaker 2: I think it's making sure that you're still seeing it
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  Speaker 2: from the right lens. I mean this might be off topic,
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  Speaker 2: but kind of the same thing. So I've always been
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  Speaker 2: about my abs, right, And in fact, when I when
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  Speaker 2: I was growing up, I would always do my AB
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  Speaker 2: workout and I always had to talk about visualization. I
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  Speaker 2: always at a Calvin climbox in my closet, so every
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  Speaker 2: time i'd get dressed, i'd see that Calvin climbox, you know,
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  Speaker 2: the one with the ripped abs, right. And then when
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  Speaker 2: Fight Club came out, that was like my poster that
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  Speaker 2: I would hang and I would just see that thing
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  Speaker 2: all the time, right, Like, I'm a little obsessed with abs, right,
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  Speaker 2: And there are times where I'll look and I'll tell Teddy, like,
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  Speaker 2: am I losing my abs? And she's like, I don't
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  Speaker 2: know what the hell you're talking about, Like you look,
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  Speaker 2: you look pretty shredded. I'm like, yeah, no, I don't
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  Speaker 2: think so like I'm and it's like in my head,
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  Speaker 2: I have to remember maybe it's I'm seeing something that
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  Speaker 2: is not real, which is I'm I'm gaining what I'm
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  Speaker 2: losing my ass, But I wanted so. I know it's
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  Speaker 2: happened to me and it could happen to women too.
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  Speaker 2: But they're seeing something that is not real. Does that
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  Speaker 2: make sense?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, like it's fake.
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  Speaker 2: I mean like they're thinking I need to look this way,
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  Speaker 2: but they're they're actually beautiful.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I mean what I know is that some
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  Speaker 1: of the most beautiful women and men are the most
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  Speaker 1: insecure because they base their personality and their their confidence
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  Speaker 1: on their looks. And to answer your question personally, I
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  Speaker 1: I never ever thought I would be, you know, married
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  Speaker 1: to a woman that has done Plaska surgery, that does
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  Speaker 1: botogs and does you know some limp lip plumping. I'll
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  Speaker 1: never forget she's only done you can count the.
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  Speaker 2: Lip plumping though, right, or maybe you at it well
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  Speaker 2: my wife.
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  Speaker 1: I think it was probably five years ago. My wife
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  Speaker 1: came home one day and she literally looked like Daffy
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  Speaker 1: Duck and I could not stop laughing, and I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: what the hell did you do to your lips? And
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  Speaker 1: she was just miserable and pissed and you know, embarrassed,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like, don't ever, please, don't ever do that
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  Speaker 1: to your lips again, because it looks silly.
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  Speaker 2: You know.
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  Speaker 1: But I've always been anti I call it fake, you know,
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  Speaker 1: anti fake when it comes to plastic surgery. If you
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  Speaker 1: if you're not secure with who you are and how
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  Speaker 1: you are, and it's it's it's a problem because eventually
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  Speaker 1: there's going to be a day where you can't do
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  Speaker 1: anything to change who you are, right, So you have
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  Speaker 1: to start with yourself and be confident and comfortable with
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  Speaker 1: your own skin and where you're from, your culture, and
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  Speaker 1: you know, the color of your hair if you have it,
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  Speaker 1: you know, all these things that I was like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: if you're going to be to me, sexy is staying
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  Speaker 1: in shape, doing the work at the gym, you know,
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  Speaker 1: sweating it out, eating healthy, and really showing the real
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  Speaker 1: trueness of who you are. Doesn't matter what color skin
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  Speaker 1: you are, how tall you are, and how short you are.
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  Speaker 1: This is who you are, and if you put the
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  Speaker 1: work in, I can almost guarantee you you're gonna look
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  Speaker 1: dirty damn hot.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 1: And there's you know, been some exceptions where I've seen
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  Speaker 1: women who have the most incredible physiques ever, naturally right,
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  Speaker 1: without drugs and all that, but their face is not
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  Speaker 1: so much, you know, that attractive, and vice versa. I've
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  Speaker 1: seen some women that have just the most beautiful face
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  Speaker 1: and the body is very like jelly soft and you know,
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  Speaker 1: not very attractive. So I've always struggled with finding the
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  Speaker 1: right woman, and I thought I did, and I think
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  Speaker 1: I did with my wife. The only difference is that
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  Speaker 1: she has had plastic surgery. She had a little facelift
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  Speaker 1: where she just did very subtly about years ago.
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  Speaker 2: Well you can't even tell, so like like Tamra, I
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  Speaker 2: think she's a natural, natural beauty. Like that's like there's
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  Speaker 2: some women you look at and you're like, she got
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  Speaker 2: plastic surgery, Yes you do.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, And I've learned that there's a right and wrong
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  Speaker 1: way of doing it right exactly. And I learned this
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  Speaker 1: from my wife when she went in to get this
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  Speaker 1: this facelift, I'm like, oh great, her forehead. You know,
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  Speaker 1: it's going to be big and her eyes are going
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  Speaker 1: to be in the top of her head, and I
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  Speaker 1: want to do this. So when she did come out
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  Speaker 1: of it, I was very impressed with it, and I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: so a little bit of here tuck nim here that
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  Speaker 1: I'm okay with. Now, I'm also okay with you know,
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  Speaker 1: non surgical procedures like face scrubs or face massage and
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  Speaker 1: stuff like that. I've done one of those. It was
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  Speaker 1: pretty amazing. But personally, I've never done both talks. I've
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  Speaker 1: never done any of those things. I personally have always
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  Speaker 1: been afraid of needles until recently, until you know, I was,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I had my heart issue.
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  Speaker 2: But you look pretty good without any boatoks.
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  Speaker 1: Dude, no boat talks nothing yet.
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  Speaker 2: Wow.
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  Speaker 1: I I think that's what it is. Because even my
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  Speaker 1: wife and other people that you know have seen me
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  Speaker 1: in the sun and have all this, you know, some
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  Speaker 1: block caked on them. They're like, how come you don't
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  Speaker 1: wear any sunblock. I'm like, well, you know, I have
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  Speaker 1: a pretty dark pigment skin, and yeah, sometimes I sunburn,
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  Speaker 1: but not all the time because I don't in the
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  Speaker 1: sun all the time. But my son, my skin can
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  Speaker 1: handle it.
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  Speaker 2: Right. Oh, don't say that in front of Teddy. She'll
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  Speaker 2: tell you she'll kick your bed. Now I'm actually I'm
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  Speaker 2: actually putting, which I never did before. I was like, you,
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  Speaker 2: I go out, never put sunscreen. But after what happened
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  Speaker 2: to Teddy, I'm like, all right, I'm putting sunscreen every time.
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  Speaker 2: I'm now I'm all about it. Yeah, well, you know what.
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  Speaker 2: The other thing I've noticed, Eddie is what happened at
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  Speaker 2: least what's happening to me like I wouldn't. Now that
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  Speaker 2: I'm getting older, I'm geting all these spots in my
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  Speaker 2: face that were from what I'm learning, it was from
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  Speaker 2: all those years that I never put any damn sunscreen
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  Speaker 2: on my ada.
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  Speaker 1: How often on a daily basis do you get sun.
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  Speaker 2: I'm being I'm trying to be more intentional because I'm
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  Speaker 2: trying to get my vitamin D going. I'm even taking
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  Speaker 2: some vitamin d's. The doctor says it's good. So I
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  Speaker 2: tried it in the mornings. I try to get some
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  Speaker 2: sun now because I want to look tanned, but it
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  Speaker 2: just puts me in a good mood, like vitamin D
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  Speaker 2: is important for that, and uh yeah, so I try
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  Speaker 2: to throughout the day, go out for a little walk
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  Speaker 2: here and there, take a phone call out in the
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  Speaker 2: sun before I get on the cold plunge. I'll spend
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  Speaker 2: like ten fifteen minutes in the sun, but I normally
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  Speaker 2: like doing it in the morning.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll never forget this. When I was working at
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  Speaker 1: the firm, and I was wearing a suit every day,
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: you know, because that was one of my goals is
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: to look sharp and go to work and be dressed
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: up and look important. It was probably two years of
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: that and I came home one day and I looked
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: at my skin and I was bright white. Like, wait
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: a minute, I thought I was Mexican. Why am I
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: turning white? You know, because I had not seen the
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: sun for so long because I was working my ass
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: off and you know, working through lunch, and if I
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: did go outside, I'm covered, you know, I'm in a
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: nice suit head to toe, and I'm not getting enough sun.
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: And now I really wasn't spending a lot of time
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: outdoors either. So it made me realize, this is why
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: I feel like shit, this is why my energy levels
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: are not good. And when I started getting sun again,
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: I started feeling normal again, and I'll never forget when
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: I was younger and I had all this time to
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: work out and ride my bike. I used to tell
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: people I get solar energy when the sun hits me
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: on the bike. When I'm out there, I get so
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: energized I'm bouncing off the walls. And now as I
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: gotten older, you know, we spend so much time indoors
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: that I hardly get sun. I have to intentionally, like
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: you like, make an effort to go out and get
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: some sun. And if I don't, I feel it. I
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: feel like I'm losing energy. So Son, I wanted just emphasize,
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: don't be afraid of it, but be careful how much
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: you get right, because like anything too good, too much
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: of a good thing is it's ultimately about it. Back
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: to these procedures. I you know, the only thing I've
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: ever considered doing, because my wife has just been harping
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: on me and harping on me and harping me on
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: this is getting new teeth, you know, getting fake teeth.
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: Say you know you're on TV, you would better. I
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: don't think I have crooked bad teeth. Maybe I have
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: one little crooked one, but again, I don't want to
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: have fake teeth. I don't want to have fake anything
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: because one day I'm going to be like eighty years old,
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: and I don't want to be insecure about it. You know.
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: I want to age gracefully and I want to be
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: able to go like, yeah, you know, I gotta I
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: gotta wrinkle there, and I got another wrinkle there, and
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: I got faking gray hair. You know, I'm not gonna
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: got my hair.
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: No, that was the same because I same thing with
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: with teeth, Like I'm like, yes, we have to shave
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: your entire teeth. I'm like, oh, I think I'll wait
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: till I start losing some teeth to do that. Like
• 19:01
  Speaker 2: if I go, if I started losing like six of
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: my teeth, which hopefully that doesn't happen, then I'll do it.
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: But I don't know if I want to take my
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: natural stuff out yet. You know, you know what I
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: have been messing with, which Teddy's gives me a hard time, which,
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: by the way, I just did it yesterday, which is
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: probably why I looked weird as hell is. I started
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: dying my beard. Really I never did before. I'd never
• 19:21
  Speaker 2: died my beard before. And then about month and a
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: half ago, Yeah, I saw a picture of Teddy and
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: I with my beard and it was like dark black.
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: Must have been like thirty four thirty five at the time,
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: and I'm like, let me try this beard thing. And
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: I've try to die go back to the dark because
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: I used to love my beard dark before, right, And
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: so I did it about a month and a half ago.
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: Teddy hates it for the first week, which again, I
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: just did it last night. I actually go to someone
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: that does it. I don't like it the first two days,
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: but I did it a week prior to my birthday,
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: so on my birthday it looks better, so damn fake.
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: But I started doing that lately just to change it up.
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: I've always liked changing my look though I did long
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: hair Geordie hair, even though Teddy hates when I go along,
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: but I like messing with just different looks. Yeah, I
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: think that's kind of fun. I think it's fun when
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: when the girls do it too. I think that's what
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: I love about them being on the show and the
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: different looks they pop up with. That's, you know, one
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: of the one of the great things that women do
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: that I love is just what they're well makeup artists
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: and and people that do the hair they have. They
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: could have so many different looks, and you know, not
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: that they look that much different, but it's almost like
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: a different girl. Like, Wow, that's sexy. That's sexy. That's sexy.
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: So I love when they get all done up. And
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: but I also like the natural look. Like I always
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: tell Teddy when we're gonna take pictures, I'm like, just hair, flat, yeah, flat, simple, straight.
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: I don't like. I don't like a lot of the
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: curls and the big hair. I've never been in a
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: big hair.
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: I like the to the side every day, every day,
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: like every day when you see her, would you like,
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: do you rather like to see her all decked out
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: dressed up makeup looking pretty or just you know, baseball
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: caps wets or shorts and lounge e what do you prefer?
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: Like both? I like when she's natural on the makeup
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: because I think she's very beautiful. I don't. I mean,
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: I'll take it when she does it once in a while,
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: but I don't like the makeup all over where you're like,
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: you can tell you just put on a ton of makeup, right,
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: the long crazy eyelashes, right. I like a more subtle,
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: natural look, Yeah you do. But you know, on those
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: days where she's got to get a little crazy, I
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: guess it's a it's a that's good too. Yeah, I
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: mean that's that's a different that that's a different look. Well,
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: we'll role play when she's when she's uh, she's got
• 22:04
  Speaker 2: that look on.
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: And because we're faming, maybe I won't hear.
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: As much as my wife. There might just be more
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: role playing on that one when she's all.
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: I love seeing my watch. My wife's just relaxed because
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: most of the year when she's filming, she's you know, different, different,
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: you know, outfits and all that, and it's very stressful
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: for her. But the good thing is is that she
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: is naturally beautiful. So I'm just telling her recently, I
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: just still love waking up to you in the morning
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: when you have no makeup and anything. You're beautiful, right.
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: I've only met maybe one other woman, not in a relationship,
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: but I saw her without makeup and it was scary
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: as hell. I would not be happy waking up to her.
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: You know, that sounds really fucking scary. So she was like, oh,
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: thank you, honey, But it's true. You know, I really
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: like the natural look. But while she's filmeding. She's got
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: different hair on, different makeup styles, different outfits. She always
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: has different styles and she always looks super super cute
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: and I love that, and it's it's great because she's
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: not into all these super expensive brands. I mean, she
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: likes s Gucci and now she's all into Aloe. You know,
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: she's she used to be into I like it. I yeah,
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: it's actually one of my favorite brands. Now it's a
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: really cool brand. Yeah you know it was what was
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: that last one, Lululemon that was that's out now you
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: know that's alos in. But yeah, you know, she has
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: those little brands that she likes here and there, but
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: they're never like super expensive, like ten thousand dollars her
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: mess purses or whatever they're called. Do you like brands?
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: Do you wear brands?
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: I like, well, I've always loved brands, But I love
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: the Aloe stuff. I love the vory stuff, Like that's
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: kind of my thing now. I love that. You know.
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: It's if I ever, when I'm ready to retire from
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: my businesses, I think I'd love to be a fashion designer,
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: like the stuff that Alo comes up with. I literally
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: was thinking back in two thousand and four, like two
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: thousand and three, I would design this in sportswear, like
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: this is how I would do it right, And now
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: I'm seeing it, I'm like, shit, you know that could
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: have been my idea, but I think it'd be so
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: fun to do. So. I've always been a big fan
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: of fashion. It's always I don't know, it's just always
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: kind of called me to it. I've always just been
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: drawn to it. But you know what I do love
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: on my wife is when she's tanned, like a even
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: even a spray tan, just something it's just uh, let's
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: just say, it makes the body look curbier, you know, so,
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: and you know I'm in the curves, so.
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: It definitely enhances the curves.
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: When Teddy's uh, when Teddy's tanned, Depp, we're deaf and
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: the only gonna make her go to work?
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: What kind of grooming practices? Yeah, do you do? You wax?
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: I don't wax. I shave. Funny story, back in the day,
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: I had a friend of mine that convinced me. He's
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: actually one of my best friends growing up, and we
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: were cycling and he's like, dude, why don't you shave
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: your legs? Like it? It's what you need to do
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: for cycling, right exactly, So like a dumb ass, just
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: not knowing anybody, I'm like, I want to be freaking
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: shaving this thing every day, right or every three days.
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: So I tried laser on my hair on my legs.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: Holy shit, was that painful.
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: That sounds painful.
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: That's one of the most painful things I've ever done.
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: And the shit didn't even work. So anyways, now I
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: got hair all over the damn place except for my
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: private I like to keep that one clean, okay, but
• 25:56
  Speaker 2: I usually get the razor for that one.
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: I don't. The only thing I whack sometimes and it's
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: that and I usually go when it starts getting crazy.
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: But between my eyebrows, my nose, and my ears, I
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: don't know when I started that habit, but I like
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: to be clean in those areas, and I do shave.
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: I used to shave my legs a lot when I
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: rode my bike all the time. In fact, my wife
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: used to make fun of me because you know, i'd
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: had smoother legs and hers sometimes. But yeah, and then
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: I like to keep my private parts, you know, trimmed
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: and clean as well. But that's about it. You know,
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: when it comes to waxing. Even I've thought about waxing
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: my legs. I don't know. I have a friend that
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: did it, and he says, it's amazing that last three
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: months and you don't have to do it for three months.
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know. I'm good with just my
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: brow and my nose.
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: And my ears. Yeah, it's it's like that sounds painful.
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: Do you like Teddy having, you know, manicured nails all
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: the time or is that not important to you?
• 26:57
  Speaker 2: Not that important? Yeah, I mean yeah, not that big
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: of a deal for me. Yeah, definitely nice and shaved
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: and not Billien hair is important. Yeah.
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: I don't like hair. I mean honestly, I love it
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: when she's clean and hairless. Definitely don't like her. Do
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: you shave your chest?
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: I don't.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: You don't, Okay. I used to, and it's probably because
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: when I was doing a lot more bodybuilding. It was
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: one of those things like you got to show off
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: the packs, you know, the lions and the cut and
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: all that. But lately my wife's been going, what's that
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: gray bush on your chest?
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: I've never seen that before.
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: That's baby. Another thing I wanted to ask you about.
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: You know, when it comes to your cell phones? How
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: private are you?
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: Do you? Guys?
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: I have a friend that has him and his wife
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: pretty much are on the same phone, Like she knows
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: everywhere he's at, he knows everywhere, or she's that when
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: a text message comes in, she gets a copy of it.
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: That's a good one.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: Where are you on your on your phone?
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: Like?
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: How private are you?
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: So two different times. At one point I hated her
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: going through my phone. Yeah, and I had a big
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: problem with it. But I was probably doing some things
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: I shouldn't have been doing anyway, right, And uh, ever,
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: since kind of those days have been gone, I have
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: no problem with her checking my phone. I have no
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: problem with her. She's got which before I had a problem.
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: What is that thing where they could keep track of you?
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: Or she knows exactly where I or no, not like
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: three sixty on your phone? It just it tells you.
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: It tells her exactly find my phone. Oh yeah, yeah,
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: she's got me on find my phone? And I have
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: no problem with it. Before I had a freaking problem
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: with it. I was like, why do you want to
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: know where I'm at? I need you know, blah blah
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: blah blah blah, and uh, after her just some of
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: the stuff that I did, I was like, all right,
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: you got you got full rain on me. Just that
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: it's it's it's pretty cool not to have to worry
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: about someone going through your damn phone. Yeah, Like like
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: for me, I just like I remember those days. Back
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: in those days, it was just like, oh like take
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: my phone with me to the freaking shower, you know,
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: take it everywhere I went, you know. And now like
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: not even have to worry about that ship. You know.
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: It's just like I got nothing to hide, Okay, knock
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: yourself out. And so with the reason my Instagram is
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: ted one Natter is because we used to share an Instagram, right,
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: this is before she became famous. It was ted Headwind
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: was taken. So she went with tedwin Nater and so
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: she would see like women like would DM me and
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: even though they knew it was a couple's one, right yeah.
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: And with Facebook kind of the same thing with my
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: kind of the same thing, right yeah. So she's like,
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: you can't have your own Instagram, I mean Instagram account.
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: So I'm like, okay, Well, but then she became Teddy
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: Mellencamp after she was on the show, and she says, Okay,
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: you can keep the ted one ador one. You can't
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: change the name. So that's why I roll with tedinator.
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: Okay, all right, and I'm actually working.
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: I'm actually working now because it's been so long now
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: changing it to edwin Ariabe you just reminded me. I
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: got to call my guy to say, hey, are we
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: going to change this ted one aador thing? Yeah, I'm
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: kind of done with tedator. I think it is confusing.
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, whenever I looked for you, I type in your name,
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: like it's not coming up tedinador. I personally, I don't
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: like being tracked every day, the every minute. And I
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: understand there's you know, a level of comfort from your spouse,
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: you know, to know that you're okay and that you're
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: somewhere right. We went through a spurt of about three months.
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: I want to say, by the way, I would just
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: say if if you don't have a reason, then yeah,
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: I think it's perfect, right, Like, no one needs to
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: be looking at your phone if you don't have a reason, right, right,
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: do right? Like you I get the private that's the
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: privacy part. Like for me, it was like dude, like
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: give me a break, right, And uh, but I do
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: think at some point if you mess, if you get
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: caught slipping.
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's it's part of it. You know how
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: long ago was that?
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: I was a while back.
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, we'll bellieve it.
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: Well, we'll leave it as it was a while back. Okay.
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want to more than that, more than
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: eight years. Yeah, I was trying to avoid unboxing that one.
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: You do you track her?
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: You?
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: Okay? No, I mean I guess I could, but I
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: never looked for it.
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: Do you guys know each other's passwords for everything?
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: Mmm? I well her password is easy, so yes. But
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: I I've never in any relationship have I ever been
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: snooping around or you know, that was kind of part
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: of why I didn't ever want anybody going on my
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: phone before. But I was also doing some stuff right Yeah,
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: but I'd never have ever cared about, you know, going
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: into because I've always felt like, you're looking to find
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: some shit, and you will find some stuff, right, Like,
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: it's just that I've never wanted to go there, like, yeah,
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: don't look for me, you don't want to find But
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: no one's ever really given me and I'm now talking
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: during my previous relationships, no one ever really gave me
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: a reason to want to want to do that. I
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: just think it's a big mind f.
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: Well, you know, I have a new perspective nowadays, now
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: that I've been married, you know, ten years, and been
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: with her thirteen years, and I feel like she's going
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: to be the one for the rest of my life.
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: I handle all the all the finances, and I do
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: it all electronically, and it's all in my computer, and
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: frequently I update her with the list of all the
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: passwords and everything. So I think it's important for her
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: to have my password to my phone and everything, and
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: I know her passwords for her phone as well. And
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: the only reason I would look is if there's something wrong,
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: you know, going on, and I need to investigate, like
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: something's wrong with her phone, or something hacked into her phone,
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: or something hacking to her computer. But never really like
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: looking for anything. Like you said, if you start looking
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: for something, you might find something you don't want to see,
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: you know. I'm sure I don't know if you experienced this,
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: but I'm sure she has, and she's shared with me too.
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: I'm sure there's been people that guys that reach out
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: her to her on social media and send her pictures
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: of them and said, you know, what are you doing
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  Speaker 1: with this deadbeat or whatever? Or I'm so much better
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: than him, And they send pictures of themselves and I
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: know that because I get those as well. You know
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: these girls and you know these Yeah, I think it's
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: it's straight when you're on when you are on a
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: platform and you have this, and I don't even know
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: if you have to be on a platform, but that's
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: just kind of like what people do to get people's
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: attentions right. And I can't tell you how many times
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: I've had to say, look, i'm married, block them, delete them,
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: get rid of them.
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  Speaker 2: You know.
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  Speaker 1: I just don't think it's appropriate, not just them sending it,
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: but me, you know, looking at them and and and
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: having a conversation with them because I'm married, you know,
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: I love my wife. I don't need that level of distraction.
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: But is it going to happen?
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: Yes?
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: And is it always going to happen? I don't know.
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: Maybe I'll get, you know, to a point in my
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: life one day where I won't be you know, popular,
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: nobody will know me and I won't get those those videos,
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: and that's okay, but that is part of you know,
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: trust in your partner, like this is gonna happen, this
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: is this is the kind of shit. I know she
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: gets those too. So do you ever read her text messages,
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: Bernie Resa, Yeah, I only read them accidentally when I'm
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: working on her phone or you know, I'm sitting next
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: to her and she's having I mean, she gets like
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: a text message a freaking minute. I don't know how
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: she keeps up with all these different conversations. But I
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: never feel like I have to read her text messages,
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: you know, I've I've also always been the believer of
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: if you if I have to read your text messages,
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: then there's something wrong with this relationship, right, right, If
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: you don't trust me, there's there's something wrong with this relationship.
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: So I do know that, you know, she sometimes tells
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: me a little bit of the truth, not the whole truth. Yeah,
• 35:48
  Speaker 1: and it's usually pertaining to what she did on the show.
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: But that's about the extent of it. I I don't
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: have any insecurities about her, you know, doing something nefarious
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: or or you know, in that relationship, right because the
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: connections there, just like you and Teddy, you have that
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: connection and you know it's always.
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: Well and I think, and I think what's important I
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: think that I've seen too, is if someone's very insecure
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: about themselves and they bring in a problem from a
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: previous relationship. Right. So, like let's say your ex was
• 36:22
  Speaker 2: cheating on you all the time. Right now you come
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: into a new relationship, and now you bring in all
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: the doubt into this new relationship and you're constantly bugging
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: the guy about his phone. Let me see your phone,
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: let me read your text, let me do all this.
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: Eventually you're going to push that guy or girl away,
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: right because they don't want to deal with that, right.
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: So there's also that healthy balance where you can't bring
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: your past into a new relationship because you're going to
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: push that person away, and you're you know, it's there's
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: a there's also that bind line that you have to
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: walk from a previous relationship to a new one.
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: I have a friend that has the exact situation you're
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: just explained, and in order for her to avoid it,
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: she just doesn't date. So now she's alone, you know,
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: and she's she's just not going to trust anybody else.
• 37:18
  Speaker 2: And it's tough because you're gonna push some good people away.
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: At some point, you have to trust. Yeah, like after
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: a while, like it's, you know, no big deal, like
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: I said, But like if I start dating you and
• 37:32
  Speaker 2: right away you're like I need to see your phone,
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: I'm like, man, you're freaking crazy. Yeah, like I'm running.
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: From you for sure, like next you know, Yeah, Fortunately
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: we don't have to be in that situation.
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: Don't we have to be in that situation anymore, But
• 37:46
  Speaker 2: like you have to sort of gain that trust before
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: you start just asking for stuff.
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: Right, do you have friends that are around your age
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: right now that are going through that or like they're
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: they've been married for a long time and now all
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: of a sudden they are freaking single and there out there,
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: you know, dating at this age.
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: Not that I've talked too lately, okay.
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: But I have some of and it's it's just I
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: thank God every day that I don't have to date
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: in this era right now. Anyways, all right, always great
• 38:18
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