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You Live and You Learn · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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  Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast. Hello everybody,
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  Speaker 1: we are scrubbing in that we are.
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  Speaker 2: In the o R.
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  Speaker 3: WHOA long to come with that one?
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  Speaker 1: That's what happens, baby, give me a little time in
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  Speaker 1: the sand.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, how was the trip? Let me tell you
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  Speaker 4: it looked incredible.
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  Speaker 1: I also want to shout out the Waldorf Astoria Los
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  Speaker 1: Cabos Petrogal because they really took such good care of us.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. I felt like ya were royalty.
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  Speaker 1: I felt like we were royalty like, and then ending
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  Speaker 1: it with like our you know, I love a bathroom
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  Speaker 1: with my new name on it.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I was just really like I actually like texted my
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  Speaker 1: in laws because they're asking us how to trip was.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, I literally feel like they're treating us
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  Speaker 1: like royalty.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, it felt that way via your stories.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was too short, but nonetheless very much needed.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, a great trip, A really great trip.
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  Speaker 1: We read our vowels to each other and cried again,
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  Speaker 1: not sobbed like I made it through, but like definitely
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  Speaker 1: we both had tears.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah that's sweet. Yeah that makes sense.
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  Speaker 2: You loved your vowels, that your bewls were.
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  Speaker 4: So emotional, but like so you they were so funny.
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  Speaker 4: You were so funny delivering them, but it was also
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  Speaker 4: so emotional. It was it had all the things that
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  Speaker 4: you want.
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  Speaker 1: I wanted to make them like a little bit funny. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I didn't want to be like so serious.
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  Speaker 4: Right, because that's not you correct.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, So happy, happy one year anniversary, y'all? Did it?
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  Speaker 1: Did it?
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  Speaker 4: How about your what's your takeaway from one year of marriage?
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  Speaker 1: It feels like every other year in the relationship, but
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  Speaker 1: like to honest, it did feel it felt more special.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it does.
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  Speaker 1: I think right after you get married you have this
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  Speaker 1: like feeling of like the relationships on another step, like
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  Speaker 1: another level, and that's just like a nice feeling all
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  Speaker 1: in all. Day to day it's the same.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah, thank you for that, beautiful, beautiful words forward
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  Speaker 4: to Yeah, thank you. I can't wait for it to
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  Speaker 4: feel like every other day every other year. Yeah. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: We went to a wedding this past weekend and it
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  Speaker 4: was in Palm Spring. It was in the desert in
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  Speaker 4: Palm Springs, and it was incredible. It was at this
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  Speaker 4: estate and so a bunch of the wedding party and
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  Speaker 4: family stayed at the house and they had been there.
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  Speaker 4: They had like multiple pools. It was insane. And at
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  Speaker 4: the reception they had a drag show and I've never
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  Speaker 4: been to a drag show. So it was two grooms at.
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  Speaker 1: The reception, so like after the ceremony, Yeah, so we
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  Speaker 1: instead of their dancing, huh, instead of the like the
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  Speaker 1: dances in addition to yeah, yes, so we like went
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  Speaker 1: and said we had cocktail hour and then sat down
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  Speaker 1: for dinner, had dinner, and during the dinner they had
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  Speaker 1: a drag show because it was out on the lawn
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  Speaker 1: and I've never been to a drag show.
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  Speaker 4: Oh my gosh. It was so fun. And I also
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  Speaker 4: was like, this is what everyone's making like right, made
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  Speaker 4: me go, whoa, people have really made a big deal
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  Speaker 4: out of drag ones because it's just they're just lip
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  Speaker 4: syncing to songs, going around dancing. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I thought it's like a runway Like they're like like
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  Speaker 1: a like a runway model like singing.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. So they were singing like pop I caught like
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  Speaker 4: Whitney Houston, Lady Gaga, and they were just dancing around,
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  Speaker 4: you know, weaving in and out of the tables, but
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  Speaker 4: it was really fun.
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  Speaker 3: Did you get their names because the drag names are
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  Speaker 3: so fine.
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  Speaker 4: One of them was jazz I think it was jazz Man, uh,
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  Speaker 4: Jazmin or something, and I can't remember the other one's name,
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  Speaker 4: but they were both really amazing and funny. Like the
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  Speaker 4: banter in between the dancing was really funny.
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  Speaker 2: What notes did you take away?
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  Speaker 4: Man they had? I mean it was just so beautiful.
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  Speaker 4: It made me want to be somewhere where everyone gets to,
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  Speaker 4: which we already kind of envisioned because we're playing a destination,
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  Speaker 4: so like whether everyone's at a hotel or I mean,
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  Speaker 4: being in a house together would be so fun. But
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  Speaker 4: you know, you're limited on how many people can fit comfortably,
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  Speaker 4: whereas a resort or hotel, you know you have more
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  Speaker 4: more space in that regard. But yeah, we loved that
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  Speaker 4: aspect of it. The food was great. They had you know,
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  Speaker 4: different options for that they didn't do I don't think
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  Speaker 4: they did a first dance or anything. They had a
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  Speaker 4: photo booth which is really fun. Yeah, but the music
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  Speaker 4: the DJ was really good so that we were like,
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  Speaker 4: that's key. And then they did a cake cutting right
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  Speaker 4: when they so they got announced while we were all
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  Speaker 4: first sitting down and they just immediately went and cut
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  Speaker 4: the cake. So it's like, oh, if we do a cake,
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  Speaker 4: it's nice because everyone's kind of freshly on you. So
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  Speaker 4: you do it, have that moment and then it's just
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  Speaker 4: kind of done. Then they can serve the cake. Yes,
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  Speaker 4: So but it was amazing. They also had merch They
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  Speaker 4: both had their own candle scent that everyone got, so
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  Speaker 4: it was like both of their signature sense. We were like,
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  Speaker 4: oh that's a cool idea.
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  Speaker 3: Wow, not your cheese, all right.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, but it was just it was visually beautiful. But
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  Speaker 4: I think there was a heat wave. It was one
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  Speaker 4: hundred and seven.
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  Speaker 2: Degrees in Palm Springs and.
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  Speaker 4: I think it was probably this time of year. Was
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  Speaker 4: probably when they chose to do it because it wasn't
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  Speaker 4: so hot yet.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, really threw people for a loop.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, so they had moved the ceremony later. It was
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  Speaker 4: supposed to be earlier in the day, and thank god
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  Speaker 4: they moved it because it was still hot. They had
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  Speaker 4: fans on everyone's seat, so it was just like everything
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  Speaker 4: was very thoughtful.
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  Speaker 2: I know.
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  Speaker 1: It's really the temperature is a really really finicky thing
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  Speaker 1: that you have to be so careful about because you
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  Speaker 1: don't want people cold, but then you don't want people hot.
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  Speaker 2: So it's a.
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  Speaker 1: Fine line of like because if you're doing it summer,
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  Speaker 1: tropical and warm, you have to time it in a
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  Speaker 1: way where it's not like a peak.
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  Speaker 4: He couldn't. Like they were like in the middle of
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  Speaker 4: the heat.
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  Speaker 2: Wave, Like, how do would you predict this six months?
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  Speaker 4: If you can't? And I told Hayla that I go listen,
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  Speaker 4: we just have to be prepared that the weirdest thing
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  Speaker 4: could happen if we choose to do it outside. Like
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  Speaker 4: that's just the reality of a situation.
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  Speaker 2: Where it's always comfortable where Mexico.
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  Speaker 4: They can give quite hot in Mexico.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, depending on the time of year, depending on the
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  Speaker 1: top of year, and you don't want to do it
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  Speaker 1: like what's their hurricane season June through November. Hard to
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  Speaker 1: say it's something like that. Yeah, yeah, but there was
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  Speaker 1: a good solid six months. I'm just like bliss weather.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah, no, you're you had great weather for
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  Speaker 4: your wedding, But I just yeah, you've al.
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  Speaker 1: Between March and May, and we were like May might
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  Speaker 1: be scorcher, might be toasty.
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  Speaker 4: Mm hmm. Yeah, No, it was. It was a fun
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  Speaker 4: first wedding to go to and just and oh my gosh,
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  Speaker 4: the way I couldn't even I could barely watch them
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  Speaker 4: look at each other at the altar because they they
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  Speaker 4: would both start crying or like starting to get emotional,
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  Speaker 4: and then I would start again and I was like sweating.
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  Speaker 4: I was like, this is too much. Yeah, it was
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  Speaker 4: really really sweet. So it made me feel excited for,
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  Speaker 4: you know, when when the time comes for us.
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  Speaker 2: I'm so excited for when the time comes for you.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and then you just like live it, relive it
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  Speaker 1: over and over and over again.
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  Speaker 2: Mm hmmm.
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  Speaker 4: Is that what you do?
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  Speaker 2: That's what I'm trying to like, you know.
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  Speaker 1: What's so funny is after we got all our wedding
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  Speaker 1: photos back after our wedding, I got so many photos
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  Speaker 1: that it was like overwhelming. So you obviously, like you
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  Speaker 1: look through you look at the ones of like you
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  Speaker 1: and your husband, and like there's a handful, you know,
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  Speaker 1: but then there's like all these pictures of your guests
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  Speaker 1: and like so I was like, Okay, I'm gonna sit down.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to send everybody like all their photos. And
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  Speaker 1: I just never did it until our year anniversary came
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  Speaker 1: up and I started looking at the photos again. I
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  Speaker 1: was like, oh my gosh, there's so many pictures of
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  Speaker 1: our guests in here, and I was like sending them
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  Speaker 1: left and right, like I.
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  Speaker 3: Got a couple of nice ones of me.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm like there was so many of like
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  Speaker 2: I still have to send a couple.
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  Speaker 1: There's still like a couple chunks of couples that we
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  Speaker 1: had that like, they're.
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  Speaker 2: Really nice photos. And I'm like, one year later.
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  Speaker 4: They've been waiting for them. They're like, maybe I don't
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  Speaker 4: want to bother her, but maybe she'll just send them.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, my system, I feel like really broke down, Like
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  Speaker 1: I think I said, like the whole like I figured,
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  Speaker 1: like you would send to like Jojo and who you know,
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  Speaker 1: And then I know Robbie was like, why would you
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  Speaker 1: expect Becka to do that?
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  Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: I didn't know. I was in charge of delegate photos.
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  Speaker 1: I sat like the big lump of them to like
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  Speaker 1: a handful of people, thinking that they would like, you know, disperse,
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  Speaker 1: disperse amongst the families and the friends.
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  Speaker 2: No, it didn't happen.
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  Speaker 4: You just got to send the album to everyone to
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  Speaker 4: the wedding. Here everybody at the wedding look through the
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  Speaker 4: photoshoos what you want?
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  Speaker 2: I know, Yeah, you're right.
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  Speaker 4: One of the main events this weekend though, was the
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  Speaker 4: Easty Awards, and I've been dying to hear because we
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  Speaker 4: had it kind of a crazy we did. We had
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  Speaker 4: like a birthday part in Taylor Bank's birthday on Friday night,
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  Speaker 4: and then we had the wedding and then Sunday. I
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  Speaker 4: was like, ready for content, and you've been a little
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  Speaker 4: quiet with the content showing, the showing, the ward show.
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  Speaker 3: Uh, I have a lot.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Content. First of all, I want to think everybody that came.
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  Speaker 3: We had so much fun, so many scrubbing and fans
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  Speaker 3: in the audience at the Allegiant Theater over the weekend.
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  Speaker 3: It was just sad and they're the coolest people in
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  Speaker 3: the world.
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  Speaker 4: Uh.
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  Speaker 3: Something I thought was funny is before we started, there
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  Speaker 3: was a we did a stream, a live stream of it,
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  Speaker 3: and I was talking to the guy. I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 3: was there like a chat feature because we just on
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  Speaker 3: Instagram live and the past people like to talk to
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  Speaker 3: each other. And he's like, yeah, but we don't really
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  Speaker 3: have the staff to like moderate it, you know, And
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  Speaker 3: I'm like don't worry. There's not gonna be any no
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  Speaker 3: one's gonna say anything bad. Yeah, this is the most kind,
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  Speaker 3: respectful group of people watching this. But uh, yeah it was.
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  Speaker 3: It was an absolute blast. I had Easton Burningham, who
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  Speaker 3: is La La Kent's brother from Man and Front Brules.
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  Speaker 3: He came and presented an award that was to Easton's
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  Speaker 3: on stage for the first time in history. It was
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  Speaker 3: pretty exciting. Wells Adams helped me present an award. H
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  Speaker 3: and we shrunk the theater by accident. That was You'll
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  Speaker 3: see that on I'll post that. That was a trip.
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  Speaker 3: Haley presented movie the year. She did an incredible job.
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  Speaker 3: Everyone was so excited to see her. Tanya did gave
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  Speaker 3: a lifetime and she been award a sweet potato.
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  Speaker 2: Wow actually has potato last night?
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  Speaker 4: Wow?
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god. We again. People but nuts when they
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  Speaker 3: saw you on screen.
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  Speaker 4: It was so much fun.
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  Speaker 3: It was it was everything I wanted. It was so
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  Speaker 3: much fun. Uh and the theater was just great. I
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  Speaker 3: had such a blast. I kept saying, I'm like, I
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  Speaker 3: don't know if I'm gonna do this again because it's
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  Speaker 3: just like so much, it's so much money, it's so
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  Speaker 3: much time. Yeah, I got it, I got it. I
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  Speaker 3: gotta do it again. It's just it's so much fun.
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  Speaker 4: What were your takeaways like, because you know, you did
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  Speaker 4: the smaller theater of the year before and then you upgraded,
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  Speaker 4: so like where what were your takeaways after doing this one?
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  Speaker 4: Because I feel like you went like you had a
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  Speaker 4: big leap from the first one. To know someone it
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  Speaker 4: was well double. But also like the effort and like
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  Speaker 4: the the activations, all the things activation, hardboard cutout. He
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  Speaker 4: had a lot of merch.
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  Speaker 3: We had a red carpet experience. Walked in the red carpet,
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  Speaker 3: take picture with me. We had a photo booth, people
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  Speaker 3: a photo booth. My friend Win was so kind to
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  Speaker 3: take everyone's photos. She set up the photo booths, she
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  Speaker 3: set up the red carpet. That was all her idea.
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  Speaker 3: She took these incredible photos of everybody. And if you're
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  Speaker 3: in southern California and you want incredible family photos, you
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  Speaker 3: should check out b Family Photography on Instagram. She's she's
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  Speaker 3: just the best. And she made it such a cool
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  Speaker 3: event for everybody. Yeah, you know, that place was perfect.
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  Speaker 3: The Allegian Theater was Their staff was just so great.
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  Speaker 3: I think I want to do it there again next
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  Speaker 3: year if we do this again. There's a few things
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  Speaker 3: I was just talking to Mark about this. There was
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  Speaker 3: a few things I would do differently.
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  Speaker 2: You learn living, you learn.
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  Speaker 3: There was a lot of stuff I remember from last
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  Speaker 3: year that I fixed for this year, and I'm really
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  Speaker 3: happy with how that came out. Like I made videos
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  Speaker 3: for each of the nominees like they do with the Oscars,
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  Speaker 3: And one year I did that and everyone's like, it's
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  Speaker 3: too much, too much stuff. But I did it again
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  Speaker 3: this year and everyone's like. I really liked having the
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  Speaker 3: visual aids. I could visualize what the Buenavista Street off
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  Speaker 3: ramp looks like when it did best Freeway off Ramp.
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  Speaker 4: Uh.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it was so much fun. When I got to
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  Speaker 3: go on KTLA and promote that.
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  Speaker 4: Goes Wait did Eastern really go promote the Easts? And
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  Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, that was real.
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  Speaker 2: She thought I was fake.
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  Speaker 4: I think she was just like, wasn't for something else
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  Speaker 4: for iHeart? Or was the Awards? I was like, it's
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  Speaker 4: for the Easty Awards.
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  Speaker 3: My mom came down from Santa Cruz to see the show,
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  Speaker 3: which was awesome. She surprised me and she got I
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  Speaker 3: was like, hey, I'm going to do uh, I'm going
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  Speaker 3: to a TV station talk about the show. Do you
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  Speaker 3: want to come with me? And she can't. She thought
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  Speaker 3: I was She's like, you're doing like an entertainer report
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  Speaker 3: for iHeart right, Like this is like you're talking about
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  Speaker 3: the Kate Taylor Swift or something. And I'm like, no,
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  Speaker 3: do east the awards. That's what she could not believe
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  Speaker 3: that I She thinks I tricked them, which I kind
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  Speaker 3: of did. Uh, but yeah, that was the weekend anchors.
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  Speaker 2: Are really sweet. Yeah, they're really the best. They're really sweet.
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  Speaker 4: Wow.
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  Speaker 3: Cool uh Yeah, And it's it just I was filled
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  Speaker 3: with so much love from the audience or from you guys,
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  Speaker 3: everyone who helped out and did something for this. It
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  Speaker 3: just made me feel so much love. Yeah, it just
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  Speaker 3: everyone like comes. Alson keeps saying this is like your
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  Speaker 3: birthday party. This is your birthday party, because like and
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  Speaker 3: everyone comes through for me and I just it may.
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  Speaker 3: I'm so grateful to like all of our friends that
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  Speaker 3: across the different podcast we do. And it's just it's
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  Speaker 3: so much fun. I had a best time. So everyone,
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  Speaker 3: thanks for coming out.
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  Speaker 4: You know what, Easton, you come through for a lot
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  Speaker 4: of people. It's that people can do for you. What
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  Speaker 4: was that new gen?
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  Speaker 2: I think I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe you know, you would know I was a woman
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  Speaker 4: in radio.
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  Speaker 2: It's not a current song. I think it's like to say,
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  Speaker 2: it's like something old.
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  Speaker 4: Well, there have been some hot topics that have happened
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  Speaker 4: whilst we were gone, but I have a few of
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  Speaker 4: those that I want to get to because there's things
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  Speaker 4: to talk about after the break. We're back, Ah.
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  Speaker 2: Thought off guard. Yeah, I was reading our notes.
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  Speaker 4: So while we were gone, the Bachelorette season was canceled.
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  Speaker 2: Three days before the premiere.
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  Speaker 4: I thought it was a day before.
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  Speaker 1: No, this was it was on Thursdaursday, and it was
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  Speaker 1: premiere on Sunday.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, okay, yeah, So the news came out that it
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  Speaker 4: was canceled a few days before. And I don't even
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  Speaker 4: know where to begin on this, but you can start
• 15:50
  Speaker 4: if you want to share your Do you have an
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  Speaker 4: opinion on this?
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  Speaker 5: Well?
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  Speaker 1: I have many opinions. Okay, yeah, I have a lot
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  Speaker 1: of opinions. However, I've been seeing maybe Sam Sam's listening right, Yes,
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  Speaker 1: maybe she can do a little digging. But I saw
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  Speaker 1: something I think I sent it to her this morning
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  Speaker 1: that like the show might just be shelved, but not
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: like pulled, like they might air it at some point,
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: which infuriated me.
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: Infuriated me, do you know.
• 16:18
  Speaker 4: How much like, all, okay, this is we have to
• 16:21
  Speaker 4: be realistic about these networks in these shows. I was
• 16:26
  Speaker 4: listening to Rachel Lindsay's podcast and she was taught which
• 16:29
  Speaker 4: this was a perspective I hadn't even considered. Oh, but
• 16:32
  Speaker 4: she was talking about how when she was a bachelorette,
• 16:37
  Speaker 4: it took them I think fifteen years to have a
• 16:39
  Speaker 4: black bachelorette and they had to make sure it was
• 16:42
  Speaker 4: the perfect candidate, someone that was digestible for the all.
• 16:45
  Speaker 4: Like it was a huge deal for them to have
• 16:47
  Speaker 4: a black bachelorette, which in hindsight is crazy to me.
• 16:52
  Speaker 4: ABC and The Bachelor chose Taylor Frankie Paul knowing the
• 16:56
  Speaker 4: allegations that we're against. So this happened, you know, in
• 16:59
  Speaker 4: twenty twenty three. They knew that she had been married,
• 17:03
  Speaker 4: but like, there were several things that they knew about
• 17:05
  Speaker 4: her that would have never like, it just made it.
• 17:11
  Speaker 4: It put into perspective of how long it took them
• 17:13
  Speaker 4: to get a black bachelorette, and yet they were just
• 17:16
  Speaker 4: so easily going to have this person who clearly had
• 17:20
  Speaker 4: a lot going on in her life that was not
• 17:23
  Speaker 4: what digestible for the audience of The Bachelor, just because
• 17:27
  Speaker 4: they cared about viewership and ratings and so and from
• 17:31
  Speaker 4: the perspective of a TV show, I get that, like
• 17:33
  Speaker 4: you want to build it up.
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: My issue was from the beginning, if you will recall
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: I said when they casted her, I don't like, oh cast.
• 17:43
  Speaker 4: Haley just taught me that, so it's not I know.
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: Cat just cast and they cast. It sounds wrong actually,
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: but I didn't know it.
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: Was just cast. Okay, so cast it does.
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: Sound wrong when I say it okay, but Cass also
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: sounds wrong.
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: So I'm just gonna whatever.
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: I had major issue when they cast right Taylor Frankie Paul.
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: Initially I thought it was total bs. I thought it
• 18:10
  Speaker 1: was garbage. I had issue with them casting her in
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: the very beginning. People were very much like, Yeah, this
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: is gonna be so good, popcorn, popcorn, popcorn, and I
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: was like, this is disgusting. I also find it disgusting
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: that Chris Brown still has a platform and a touring
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: success and like, don't get me started. So like people
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: are like, why are you so upset with Taylor. I'm like, no,
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: I'm a I don't the whole I don't. Domestic violence
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: is domestic violence to me, it's not about girl guy.
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: It's about this specific situation that's going on. I don't
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: like the guy either. What's his name, Dta Coda. I
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: think he's disgusting too, you know, like I'm not. It's
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: not just like a her thing. It's a them thing.
• 18:48
  Speaker 4: Right, But I think it's one of those things to
• 18:50
  Speaker 4: me that it it's they chose, so it happened. It
• 18:55
  Speaker 4: shows on Mormon Wise. The one episode I watched was
• 18:58
  Speaker 4: the season one, episode one, and it's show this incident. Like,
• 19:01
  Speaker 4: So it really.
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: Bothers me too that this Mormon Wives show is so
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: popular as well, Like I've never watched a single episode.
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: I know it's wildly popular, but it also disturbs me
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: that it's so popular and these are the people that
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: they're praising and watching, Like it really deeply disturbs me.
• 19:17
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it's entertainment, and that's what I mean.
• 19:20
  Speaker 4: People watch reality, don't.
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: They don't go to find entertainment on like people getting
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: into a bed full of strawberries do you know what
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: I mean?
• 19:29
  Speaker 4: Well, that's a different type of entertainment. But I think
• 19:34
  Speaker 4: the thing is because I met Taylor, and I really
• 19:38
  Speaker 4: I liked her the short amount of time we spent together,
• 19:40
  Speaker 4: and I feel like she has, you know, tried to
• 19:43
  Speaker 4: work on being better and her mental health. But I
• 19:47
  Speaker 4: also think that she posts about how hard the attention
• 19:51
  Speaker 4: and opinions and social media, how hard it's been for her,
• 19:55
  Speaker 4: and I'm like, I can't think of someone worse that
• 19:59
  Speaker 4: they could and it not Taylor's specifically, but as a
• 20:02
  Speaker 4: person who struggles with their mental health to put them
• 20:04
  Speaker 4: on a show like The Bachelorette as the lead who's
• 20:08
  Speaker 4: never been on the show before, has no idea the
• 20:10
  Speaker 4: way it works, the system, and just like be like
• 20:15
  Speaker 4: here we go for views. It's just all bad. It's
• 20:19
  Speaker 4: all bad in my opinion. And the thing is is like,
• 20:21
  Speaker 4: you can't really praise ABC for pulling it because they
• 20:25
  Speaker 4: chose to have her in the first place.
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: I did praise them for pulling it because I do
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: feel like even.
• 20:29
  Speaker 6: Though Tanya, they only I know, because the video came
• 20:33
  Speaker 6: out and they had no choice, but still no, but
• 20:35
  Speaker 6: still there are networks that like they don't care like
• 20:38
  Speaker 6: these There are networks and people that would just air
• 20:40
  Speaker 6: this stuff for the facade.
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: Of it all or for the parade the charade of it.
• 20:45
  Speaker 4: They still might because it's money.
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: The fact that they still might air it, I.
• 20:49
  Speaker 4: Think you might have to delete your comment if they
• 20:51
  Speaker 4: do that.
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: Well, I mean it's gone now. It's like it was
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: on my story, but like in my opinion, it was
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: like better late than never. I was like grateful that
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: they just ended up pulling it, but I also was
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: so upset that they cast it cast her in the
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: first place. Right, I mean, I'm very wound up about
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: it because I just feel like, let's stop giving platforms to.
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: This, do you know what I mean?
• 21:20
  Speaker 4: Well, yeah, I mean it's rewarding behavior that actually and
• 21:24
  Speaker 4: in the.
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: Thing actually disgusting. Like it's not like drama, Like you
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: can get drama. You can watch housewives people yelling at
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: each other. There's drama, and then there's disgusting and like
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: this is this is this is disgusting.
• 21:34
  Speaker 4: Well, the people who are suffering the most are the kids.
• 21:37
  Speaker 4: And it sucks because this is all documented and you
• 21:41
  Speaker 4: know it's it. They didn't sign up for it, and
• 21:44
  Speaker 4: it's just I don't know what the future of the
• 21:46
  Speaker 4: show is gonna be. It's if anything, it's there if
• 21:50
  Speaker 4: they air it, and they know it will be watched,
• 21:54
  Speaker 4: maybe more than ever before.
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: Which is so upsetting.
• 21:58
  Speaker 4: But the world loves drama. The world loves to tune
• 22:01
  Speaker 4: in to chaos because it distracts from their own lives.
• 22:05
  Speaker 4: You know, you watch someone else's life falling apart and
• 22:08
  Speaker 4: you feel better about yourself.
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: Which is so weird because I'm like, I try and
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: think of what I actually like, what I consume, and like, yes,
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: Love Island can be a bit.
• 22:18
  Speaker 4: Yeah, like you're just watching wholesome Strawberry shortcake shows over there.
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: The Next Level Chef is so wholesome, and I find
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: it wildly entertaining. Next Survivor is a little cutthroat, but
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: like still majority wholesome, and I find it very entertaining,
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: Like you don't need to be disgusting to be entertaining.
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: No, that's kind of where I feel like we should
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: just draw the line.
• 22:44
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's just a really bad situation for
• 22:49
  Speaker 4: the kids, and I think that I'm curious to see
• 22:52
  Speaker 4: what happens in terms of what they end up doing
• 22:56
  Speaker 4: with the season.
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: I heard more Higgins and talks to be the new
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: bach Threat really perked me up because she is my
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: absolute queen and I would love she would be classy,
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: she would be hilarious, and she would be so just
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: like fun to watch.
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: I've seen a lot of pitches for her and like
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: how they can like change the show to make it.
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: Live or something like they're going to do a lot over.
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: The audiences to choose yeah, yeah, yes, exactly, the votes
• 23:26
  Speaker 3: on it, which I think would be wild.
• 23:28
  Speaker 4: Well because her whole thing on Traders trusting Rob, she
• 23:31
  Speaker 4: was like, I can't.
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: Trust myself, so I was like, I would hate to
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: have the audience vote for me.
• 23:38
  Speaker 4: The log yeah yeah yeah.
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: So the state or the language that ABC used in
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: their statement says that they are they chose specific language
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: to leave it open for a possibility to air it
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: at some point, which is wildturbing. And also, I don't
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: know if you guys have seen this yet, but Taylor
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: Frankie Paul is being investigated for a third allegation of
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: domestic violence. The police are investigating right now. That's that
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: broke this morning.
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: So there's also at the end of the day, like
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: ABC is Disney, Like I'm sorry but Disney needs to
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: hold themselves to a little bit of a higher standard
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: in terms of entertainment.
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean?
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: Like Disney is family friendly? Did that is like Disney?
• 24:22
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but ABC isn't necessarily family friendly.
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: It's under the umbrella of Disney. Yeah, so they need
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: to get it together.
• 24:32
  Speaker 4: Yeah. I mean, I think this is a lesson of
• 24:34
  Speaker 4: like not platforming someone who is already struggling in their
• 24:39
  Speaker 4: mental health and needs help as opposed to being put
• 24:42
  Speaker 4: on a dating reality show. And I think it to
• 24:45
  Speaker 4: be a wake up call that they could have They
• 24:47
  Speaker 4: could have chosen one of the other girls from if
• 24:49
  Speaker 4: they wanted someone from Mormon Wives and the popularity of
• 24:51
  Speaker 4: that show, there could have been another one, But they
• 24:53
  Speaker 4: chose Taylor Frankie Paul because they wanted the chaos.
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: Miranda would have been great. I'm just saying as someone
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: who has watched the show, I think Randon would be that.
• 25:02
  Speaker 4: I haven't watched it, but everyone seems to love her.
• 25:05
  Speaker 4: But yeah, I mean all.
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: For Maura, she's got morals.
• 25:10
  Speaker 3: I think it was in our I think it was
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: in our work group chap and some on Twitter was like, uh,
• 25:14
  Speaker 3: they should have Ryan Seacrest on there like Ryan should
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: be the Bachelor and should be live like, oh yeah,
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: you'd be able to handle it. He's squeaky clean. Yeah,
• 25:23
  Speaker 3: he's allegedly on tender looking for a mate.
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: He's not actually on confirmation on that. Oh yeah, a
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: joke he said on like wheel Fortune and the they
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: ran with it was like every headline that's actually funny.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 25:41
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know. I don't know. All I know
• 25:44
  Speaker 4: is I'm watching Bachelor Mansion Takeover to and it.
• 25:48
  Speaker 7: Makes me feel like, man, I'm really yearning for a
• 25:50
  Speaker 7: Bachelor season because I am watching.
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: But also like I think, like the Bachelor could really
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: you know, ham up their paradise show. You make it
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: a little more Love Island e vibes, because like obviously
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: Love Island is doing well, so like make it a
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: little bit more about like make it, you know, lean
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: into that whole thing, and then put a spotlight on
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: their mansion takeover things.
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: And maybe they just like pivot.
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: The Bachelor franchise away from this like one guy, twenty
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: five girls, one girl, twenty five guys, and they just
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: like pivot, so it's not like over over, it's just shifting.
• 26:22
  Speaker 4: So they could the concept has worked for so long,
• 26:26
  Speaker 4: So what they did is they straight away from it
• 26:29
  Speaker 4: and they weren't choosing like I don't know what was happening,
• 26:32
  Speaker 4: but it felt like when they chose Joey, there was
• 26:34
  Speaker 4: like a resurgence in the show because it felt like
• 26:37
  Speaker 4: it felt like the old Bachelor seasons and everyone was
• 26:41
  Speaker 4: like invested in the girls and invested in Joey and
• 26:45
  Speaker 4: it was like just finding the right person because the
• 26:47
  Speaker 4: concept has worked for so long. I mean, a tale
• 26:50
  Speaker 4: as old as time, a tale as old as time,
• 26:52
  Speaker 4: and as silly as it is, one person trying to
• 26:55
  Speaker 4: date twenty five people and it feels crazy. It's not
• 26:59
  Speaker 4: like it's this like morality show. You know, you're not
• 27:03
  Speaker 4: watched like they're all drama lose their self worth over
• 27:07
  Speaker 4: a rose like you have. And as someone who's been
• 27:09
  Speaker 4: on there, I remember that feeling of being like I
• 27:11
  Speaker 4: can't believe I'm standing here feeling anxious on if I'm
• 27:14
  Speaker 4: going to be validated by someone's rose.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: So people kept asking me. They were like, does Becca
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: have any tea? Since she was on the Bachelor, So
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: I'm just gonna ask you, now, do you have any
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: tea about this? Yeah?
• 27:25
  Speaker 4: No, I'm so far removed.
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: I didn't that because I was like, I feel like
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: if there was.
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: Tea, she would have told me. And it's been cricky.
• 27:32
  Speaker 4: No, I haven't. I like am not associated, Like I
• 27:35
  Speaker 4: don't even get invited to stuff for The Bachelor because
• 27:38
  Speaker 4: I have been like so far removed from it, But
• 27:41
  Speaker 4: I've never had an issue with it. And my thing
• 27:43
  Speaker 4: with them casting casting Taylor Franky Paul was just casting cast.
• 27:50
  Speaker 4: Casting is also a word sense of cast is cast
• 27:59
  Speaker 4: them choose her. I was just like, I think this
• 28:02
  Speaker 4: is gonna be I didn't realize there was gonna be
• 28:06
  Speaker 4: this chaos, like this type of chaos, but I knew
• 28:09
  Speaker 4: it was not gonna be what the show has been
• 28:11
  Speaker 4: for so long, which I think is what they wanted,
• 28:13
  Speaker 4: but it went awry.
• 28:15
  Speaker 3: Do we think though, that the season is even that
• 28:18
  Speaker 3: crazy like with her, Like, how funny would it be
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: if it was just a regular, you know, just boring.
• 28:23
  Speaker 4: Stuff I saw, which obviously Chris Harrison used to do
• 28:27
  Speaker 4: this and Jesse Palmer They're like ham it up for
• 28:30
  Speaker 4: like the drama. But he was like, I've never experienced
• 28:35
  Speaker 4: some of the things that I've experienced, like that this
• 28:38
  Speaker 4: is the craziest season. Of course he has to say that,
• 28:41
  Speaker 4: but I do believe it. But I do have to say,
• 28:44
  Speaker 4: is it not crazy? And I imagine if you're a
• 28:46
  Speaker 4: person of color seeing that, knowing how hard it was
• 28:50
  Speaker 4: to get someone who was black, Asian, someone who just
• 28:53
  Speaker 4: wasn't white, and the links they had to go through
• 28:57
  Speaker 4: to like prove that they were. Rachel is a lot lawyer.
• 29:00
  Speaker 4: She was from text, like just like all these things
• 29:03
  Speaker 4: had to line up for them to be like, Okay,
• 29:05
  Speaker 4: let's see if America likes this, and then to watch
• 29:08
  Speaker 4: this person who has literal allegations get cast as the lead.
• 29:13
  Speaker 3: A felon, a felon served time.
• 29:18
  Speaker 4: But I my main thing is I hope that both
• 29:22
  Speaker 4: of those people. I hope Taylor, Frankie, Paul and Dakota
• 29:24
  Speaker 4: and really the whole cast goes and like has some
• 29:30
  Speaker 4: deep therapy and like realizes that their life doesn't have
• 29:33
  Speaker 4: to be chaos for it to be successful, because what's
• 29:35
  Speaker 4: happened is they've been praised and rewarded for this like
• 29:39
  Speaker 4: drama and trauma, and I just they're all young, and
• 29:43
  Speaker 4: I'm like, your life doesn't have to be this for
• 29:45
  Speaker 4: the rest of it, just because it's been rewarded like this,
• 29:50
  Speaker 4: yet they all find peace and happiness off the TV. Yeah,
• 29:56
  Speaker 4: until they come back. Speaking of reunion Hannah Montana, Oh
• 30:02
  Speaker 4: my god, Laguna Beach.
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, twenty years I know.
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: But like I'm like, what is that saying about us
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: now that like we can't watch original content, Like we're
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: constantly just doing like reboots, reunions, reboots, red shoots.
• 30:17
  Speaker 3: I thought about this a lot.
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's interesting, right.
• 30:20
  Speaker 3: I read a thing a few years ago that one
• 30:23
  Speaker 3: of the first signs that a civilation is about to
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: crumble is the loss of novelty. And I was thinking
• 30:27
  Speaker 3: about how like every movie is like based on it.
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: I you know, I was like, oh god, we not
• 30:32
  Speaker 3: come up with new ideas. That means like the Western civilizations.
• 30:35
  Speaker 3: That's a broadway of looking at it. But when we
• 30:38
  Speaker 3: were kids, I mean there was like there's always like
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: you know, Brady Bunch Reunion and stuff like that. I
• 30:41
  Speaker 3: feel like this is just something to do. Yeah, we're
• 30:44
  Speaker 3: just at that age.
• 30:46
  Speaker 4: Age for like you dress up for a Y two
• 30:49
  Speaker 4: bay theme. It's a theme now, yeah, you know, like
• 30:51
  Speaker 4: the seventies when you were younger or that, right. And
• 30:55
  Speaker 4: I also think that there is something to be at
• 31:00
  Speaker 4: about the early two thousand's rom coms, and it's been
• 31:03
  Speaker 4: hard to capture the essence of those with like new
• 31:06
  Speaker 4: concepts and ideas. So I think they're like, let's just
• 31:09
  Speaker 4: take it and add some new faces.
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: The Laguna Beach Reunion being on Roku is so random
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: to me, like the Netflix.
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: I want to buy that, Like, this is our moment
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: is on Roku.
• 31:22
  Speaker 3: Had the Charlie Pooth Show to.
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: What Charlie poos show.
• 31:27
  Speaker 4: Some friend?
• 31:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it was just he came on the
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: morning show to promote it.
• 31:32
  Speaker 4: Oh, you're right.
• 31:33
  Speaker 3: I think it's just called the Charlie Pooth Show. But
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: like they had that ed the Weird Al movie with
• 31:36
  Speaker 3: Daniel Radcliffe.
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: Yes, yeah.
• 31:37
  Speaker 3: I was like, I'm sorry, it's gonna take so much
• 31:39
  Speaker 3: for me to take the Roku channel. Seriously, it's like
• 31:42
  Speaker 3: a fixed you know, it's like Acorn TV or something.
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: I was like shocked because to me, this Laguna Beach
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: Reunion is like a big deal, Like I'm excited to
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: watch it. Yeah, So when I found out it was
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: on Roku, was like, huh.
• 31:55
  Speaker 4: They said, we got a lot of money to spend,
• 31:58
  Speaker 4: let's just throw it all onto this.
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and the Laguna Beach Cast was like.
• 32:02
  Speaker 3: You, they said, I love Laguna Beach seasons one and two.
• 32:07
  Speaker 3: I watched those on DVD so much.
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: ILL watched any of them since they like aired in
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: real time, so like, I forget a lot. I mean obviously,
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: you know, like the the the Core drama, you know,
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: Elb and.
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: Kristin or whatever.
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, I know the beats. I'm excited to
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: tune in. I feel like my my TV days are
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: are really good right now.
• 32:31
  Speaker 4: They're good.
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: I'm just like feeling really like say shaded.
• 32:34
  Speaker 4: Okay, good. Yeah, speaking they're doing another They're doing a
• 32:37
  Speaker 4: thirteen going on thirty reboot, which wow, I have mixed
• 32:41
  Speaker 4: feelings about because that's just a classic and it's like,
• 32:44
  Speaker 4: do we really need a new one? Already? Still feels
• 32:47
  Speaker 4: fresh to.
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: Me, you know, but that was like almost one of
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: the twenty years ago two years.
• 32:51
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's fresh in my mind, okay. But Emily Bader
• 32:57
  Speaker 4: was on. She was in the movie People. We met
• 32:59
  Speaker 4: on vacation and I loved her, Like I was like,
• 33:02
  Speaker 4: you didn't like her?
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: I know that movie didn't do it for me.
• 33:05
  Speaker 4: That's so crazy, the things that you love that that
• 33:09
  Speaker 4: one didn't do it for you.
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: I know, I've actually shocked myself that I didn't like
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: that one.
• 33:15
  Speaker 4: I loved it, and I loved her. I found her
• 33:17
  Speaker 4: so cute and charming. So I am excited to see
• 33:19
  Speaker 4: her in a another a rom com reboot.
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: So you know what show came back? Speaking of reunions,
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: it's not a reunion. Actually, it's just like the second
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: season Jury Jury Duty. Do you remember when Jury Duty
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: Cannot Robbie and I thought that was like the greatest
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: show of all time, Like we literally like almost pete
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: our pants laughing watching that show.
• 33:42
  Speaker 3: Brilliant concept, so funny.
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, brilliant concept, and so we were so thrilled for
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: the second season of it. Basically, so it's Jury Duty
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: Presents Corporate Retreat. So it's like the same concept where
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: like the one guy doesn't know and then they're all actors,
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: but they're going on a company retreat.
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: So he's like a temp.
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: He thinks they're shooting a documentary for this like hot
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: Sauce brand. And we started watching it and I was
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: like not laughing like I did in Jury Duty, Oh no,
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: And so I was like, I think I'm off, Like
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: I think I'm done after two episodes. I was like, yeah,
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: so last night, so I had to get up at
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: three o'clock this morning, so I put myself into bed
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: at seven and we watched Paradise.
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: And then after Paradise, I said, I'm gonna go to bed.
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: You can watch whatever you want.
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: Feel free to watch Jury Duty, Couple's Retreat or whatever,
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: or for a retreat. So Robbie puts it on volume
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: down respectfully for me, and all of a sudden, I
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: hear him.
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: The bed's shaking because he's laughing so hard.
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: And I was like, I told him to watch this
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: because I didn't think it was as funny. So I
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: didn't think this would elicit such a cackle for an
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: hour and uproar, And I was like, this would be
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: one of those nights if we had a spare bedroom
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: that I would have like slept in the spare bedroom.
• 34:59
  Speaker 4: Wow. Yeah, Well, I told Tanya it's a little hypocritical
• 35:04
  Speaker 4: because I've been on planes where we're not sitting by
• 35:06
  Speaker 4: each other. Tanya's like, I would say, six rows behind me,
• 35:10
  Speaker 4: and I can hear her cackling out loud. It's dead
• 35:14
  Speaker 4: silent on the plane. Tanya is like doing her boisterous
• 35:17
  Speaker 4: laughing friend A million times. I love every night watching it.
• 35:26
  Speaker 4: But she was talking about Robbie laughing out loud, and
• 35:29
  Speaker 4: I go, well, I mean, at least it was in
• 35:31
  Speaker 4: the privacy of your own home like you did it
• 35:33
  Speaker 4: on a plane when everyone was quiet. She goes, no,
• 35:35
  Speaker 4: it's not as bad.
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: And I was like, it's very different to laugh out
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: loud in public with on a plane of people around.
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: It was not like a nighttime flight.
• 35:45
  Speaker 4: It wasn't nighttime.
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: No, it was not. It was three pm.
• 35:48
  Speaker 4: No, it was not. They were coming back from somewhere
• 35:51
  Speaker 4: and it was dark outside three pm.
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: It was darkish on the down.
• 35:58
  Speaker 4: It was quiet. It was quiet.
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: No, it was not like a sleepy time plane like
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: it was not like overnight.
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: Very nice.
• 36:06
  Speaker 4: Plane can be a sleepy time plane if you need
• 36:08
  Speaker 4: it to be.
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: All I'm saying is I think it's much worse when
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: you're in bed with your partner to laugh out loud
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: than on a plane.
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: I think I'll win this.
• 36:18
  Speaker 3: We we love Robbie, we appreciate and admire every choice
• 36:21
  Speaker 3: and decision he makes. But do you not have a
• 36:24
  Speaker 3: TV in your living room or did this have did
• 36:27
  Speaker 3: you have to watch this in bed, so when you
• 36:31
  Speaker 3: were going to bed early.
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: So you're right, he could have watched it downstairs. But
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: we fall asleep to the TV every night. We like
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: put on a timer and like it turns off. So
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: in my mind, I was like, it's fine because.
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: It'll just be like that. No, you know what I mean, Like, Okay,
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: I didn't.
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: Anticipate him like shaking the bed, laughing so hard the show.
• 36:49
  Speaker 3: Okay, I apologize.
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: It did not mean yeah, it's fine. Yeah.
• 36:54
  Speaker 4: Did it make you want to watch it again? With
• 36:55
  Speaker 4: how hard are you? Yeah?
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: I was like wow, Like I like pieced out and
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: now I'm like, and maybe I should get back in.
• 37:01
  Speaker 4: I love that y'all do that with each other shows
• 37:04
  Speaker 4: what you're like. I'm not. He's out on Love Island
• 37:06
  Speaker 4: and then he's like, don't watch it without me.
• 37:09
  Speaker 3: Allison an idea, I too, Like I was out on
• 37:11
  Speaker 3: Love Story and she she want, wait.
• 37:13
  Speaker 4: I am kind of out on Love Story.
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: I never started.
• 37:17
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna watch it till but look, the last episode
• 37:19
  Speaker 4: was kind of tough. It was just like an hour
• 37:21
  Speaker 4: of them fighting.
• 37:24
  Speaker 3: Allison loves it. She's in, but not me. I watched
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: a little bit of it just because I wanted to
• 37:30
  Speaker 3: see the clothes.
• 37:33
  Speaker 4: The fashion Oh yeah, fashion guy, the fashion guy.
• 37:36
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: I also incorporated a new item into my bedtime routine.
• 37:43
  Speaker 4: Oh I cannot wait to hear about.
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: But I'm gonna get it because of my purse.
• 37:47
  Speaker 4: Okay, well let's talk about it.
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: We'll get back.
• 38:09
  Speaker 4: We're back, We're back. So Tanya just has come over
• 38:13
  Speaker 4: and pull the contraption out of her bag.
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: So I'm nothing if not a student of life, you know,
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: just trying to be better, better version of myself. So
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: I saw some people on Instagram and maybe TikTok, I'm
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: not sure, post this contraption. And this is a breast pillow.
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: So if you're a side sleeper such as myself, when
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: you wake up in the morning, I have wrinkles that
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: look like they're deeper than the rocky mountains that have
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: formed on my chest when I wake up in the morning.
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: So I saw people using this apparatus.
• 38:50
  Speaker 4: Who are the said people? I give them their no
• 38:53
  Speaker 4: because I.
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: Don't know their names. Unfortunately I wish I could.
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: Okay, but there are people that are like in my
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: They're not like people that I know that I follow.
• 39:03
  Speaker 3: Tony's putting this contraption over her man and she's got
• 39:08
  Speaker 3: to get it dry cleaned. Yeah, in the wash, it
• 39:11
  Speaker 3: looks like a like you're putting on a bulletproof vest
• 39:13
  Speaker 3: or something.
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: So it's a pillow and it sits right in between
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: your breasts. So I would in theory, if I was
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: like going to bed, I would have Robbie tight in
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: the bottom, so it's like tighter here. But to get
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: it over my head, I have to like loosen it
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: up a little, so it basically sits in between your breasts.
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: And I guess it's supposed to just like stop the uh,
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: it's supposed to stop the.
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: Wrinkles from happening. So I wore it last night. I
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: wore it.
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: I wore a T shirt and I put this over it.
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: It didn't work. I woke up and I still had
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: some like line. So I think I think I'm supposed
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: to wear it on my skin. So tonight I will
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: try it on my bare skin and I'll report back fully.
• 39:53
  Speaker 4: Okay, So okay, where do I start with my questions?
• 39:58
  Speaker 4: Do this strap's not? I feel constricting, like I feel
• 40:01
  Speaker 4: like those would bother me sleeping. I like, I don't
• 40:04
  Speaker 4: like anything. I think I'm different than you in that way,
• 40:07
  Speaker 4: like I have to be in a big T shirt
• 40:08
  Speaker 4: oversized thing because I don't want anything like tight on me.
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so I usually don't have anything on me, so
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: this I didn't feel difference last night.
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: Actually.
• 40:19
  Speaker 4: So you know they have these like silicone pat paths
• 40:22
  Speaker 4: that you can put there that prevents you from wrinkling
• 40:25
  Speaker 4: like that.
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: Can you send me LinkedIn because I'll find one.
• 40:29
  Speaker 4: You're giving a little action. I thought it was a
• 40:32
  Speaker 4: back supporter. I was like, huh, that's cool, like spine support.
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: No, No, it's to keep the boobs.
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: I don't even know what it's supposed to do, to
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: be honest, my booms aren't big to be like flopping around.
• 40:44
  Speaker 4: First of all, Yeah, well I've seen a lot of people.
• 40:47
  Speaker 4: I've been really paying it. I've been targeted, but also
• 40:50
  Speaker 4: really paying attention to like creams and stuff for your
• 40:53
  Speaker 4: chest and neck because I feel like I take really
• 40:56
  Speaker 4: great care of my face skincare, but I then neglect
• 41:01
  Speaker 4: the neck and.
• 41:01
  Speaker 2: Chest and that it really shows off fruit.
• 41:04
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you can do all the things on your face,
• 41:07
  Speaker 4: but if you're not taking care of your neck and
• 41:08
  Speaker 4: wearing sunscreen and doing all those things, you're gonna, you're
• 41:12
  Speaker 4: gonna they're gonna know, they're gonna know, they're gonna, they're
• 41:15
  Speaker 4: gonna same with your hands. Krishelle got this Krishelle Stoles
• 41:18
  Speaker 4: got this thing done where it's like injections in your
• 41:20
  Speaker 4: hands to make them look young. And I was like,
• 41:23
  Speaker 4: that's so extra and I'm interested. She was like, I
• 41:28
  Speaker 4: know it's a lot, but it's what I do and
• 41:30
  Speaker 4: I love it.
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: I actually saw these like they're like little mittens that
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: you put your hands in to like work on your hands,
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: like kind of like a red light therapy for your hand.
• 41:38
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: I didn't purchase them because I have my breast.
• 41:42
  Speaker 4: Something at a time.
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I can only try one thing at a time,
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: because you know, I tried that vibration plate that everybody
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: was like, this is the best thing since sliced bread.
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: Turns out not for your discs in your back, thank you.
• 41:54
  Speaker 4: So it doesn't mean that you just need to like
• 41:55
  Speaker 4: tighten your core. It's actually not good for your spine
• 41:59
  Speaker 4: over time.
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because of my situation.
• 42:02
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, my newest thing that I got because I
• 42:05
  Speaker 4: had gotten a massage and she said I had a
• 42:07
  Speaker 4: lot of Fasha build up on this Fasha Fasha. I
• 42:11
  Speaker 4: don't really know, but it's basically when I guess like
• 42:14
  Speaker 4: a group of I don't want to misspeak, but like
• 42:17
  Speaker 4: fat cells or something like bunch up and you yeah,
• 42:21
  Speaker 4: and it causes cellulite, okay, which cellulates natural And she
• 42:24
  Speaker 4: was like, you know, as you ate whatever, it's just
• 42:26
  Speaker 4: that's natural. But she was like, you have a build up,
• 42:29
  Speaker 4: so you can get this thing called a fasha blaster
• 42:32
  Speaker 4: and it's just this little plastic tool and you just
• 42:35
  Speaker 4: like rub it out. It's like kind of painful.
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm.
• 42:39
  Speaker 4: Gonna try to do that regularly.
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: So much upkeep I mean, the stay at the brass pillow,
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: like I th.
• 42:47
  Speaker 4: Thing is like I know a lot of people, it's
• 42:49
  Speaker 4: like society is always like you gotta do this, you
• 42:51
  Speaker 4: gotta do this. My thing is do you Because I
• 42:53
  Speaker 4: love trying new things. I love doing new things. I
• 42:56
  Speaker 4: love trying new facial things. I have no issues with
• 43:00
  Speaker 4: trying it and if I don't like it, then never
• 43:02
  Speaker 4: doing it again. Yeah.
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: Let me tell you.
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: The mouth tape has like literally changed my life. Like
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: I'm so happy that I started taping in my mouth
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: shut at night, Like I can't even explain to you
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: and I never never would have tried that if I
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: was just not wanting to try things.
• 43:14
  Speaker 4: Yeah, And it's like, yeah, you can not have to
• 43:17
  Speaker 4: try anything or do things that you're seeing on TikTok,
• 43:20
  Speaker 4: But if it's not dangerous, why not.
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you know it's so funny.
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: So Robbie posted this video of me like whale watching,
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: like watching Cabo. I was in like a bathing suit,
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: and somebody like sent me a DM and they.
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: Were like, I just like applaud you for.
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: Being I'm like a whale watch and I'm not gonna
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: interpolate them the DM, but it was basically like I
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: I applaud you for being so confident in your own
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: skin and showing us what real women look like and
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: like not being ashamed of your cellulite and like you know,
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: just like.
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: Going on and on.
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, thank you so much. I
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: thought I would good in that video. Like I'm not
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: trying to like prove I'm just me, you know what
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: I mean, like like me, that's what I like.
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Like that's just that's just that's just your girl.
• 44:12
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean yeah, I feel like you look amazing
• 44:17
  Speaker 4: any sort of you're trying to be brave.
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: No, I'm just like being me watching whales.
• 44:24
  Speaker 4: No you are, I mean in general, like you are
• 44:26
  Speaker 4: so like authentically yourself.
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: Well, I wasn't remember there there was days when I
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: would face tune and yeah, yeah, sension the waves.
• 44:38
  Speaker 4: Every now and then if I just get one photo
• 44:40
  Speaker 4: and I'm like, needs a little work, I'll I'll go
• 44:43
  Speaker 4: in yea'll dabble, but dabble.
• 44:45
  Speaker 2: I don't do it anymore.
• 44:46
  Speaker 4: And I think it's amazing because I think that without
• 44:50
  Speaker 4: you saying like needing to be like you're so brave,
• 44:52
  Speaker 4: I think it just is like we're in a world
• 44:54
  Speaker 4: where everything's so heavily filtered. I just my biggest viewer
• 44:58
  Speaker 4: is someone meeting me and being like, whoa, she looks
• 45:02
  Speaker 4: so different online. That's just not what I'm looking for.
• 45:07
  Speaker 4: So I have to you know, you know, you can't.
• 45:10
  Speaker 4: You can't be posting things if you're gonna meet people
• 45:12
  Speaker 4: in the wild.
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: No, I've had a couple of those encounters, and it's
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: like with other people, yes, and I'm like I never
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: want that to be me with somebody else, you know.
• 45:22
  Speaker 4: But even like on TikTok, they have the beauty filter,
• 45:24
  Speaker 4: which I always have one, but people will be like,
• 45:27
  Speaker 4: I'll see other people's videos where they clearly have it
• 45:30
  Speaker 4: on because you don't have pores in that video. I'm like, people,
• 45:33
  Speaker 4: real people have pores, Like that's just no matter how
• 45:36
  Speaker 4: good their skin is. Right, And people in the comments
• 45:40
  Speaker 4: be like, please drop the skincare, and I'm like, girl,
• 45:43
  Speaker 4: just put on the little filter and you'll feel great
• 45:45
  Speaker 4: about yourself if that's what you're looking for. Yeah, I
• 45:49
  Speaker 4: was gonna talk about something else that you had said
• 45:52
  Speaker 4: that you mentioned you're talking about whale.
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: Watching, bathing suits, trying new things, mouth tape.
• 46:01
  Speaker 4: No, I don't know. I'll try to think about it.
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: Oh.
• 46:08
  Speaker 4: I feel like our scrubbers loved the longer episodes, yes,
• 46:12
  Speaker 4: which made me feel it just made me feel like
• 46:14
  Speaker 4: kind of old school vibes. Also, I know you don't
• 46:17
  Speaker 4: care because you're not watching, But Teddy and Owen are
• 46:20
  Speaker 4: leaving Grey's Anatomy, Kim Raper and uh Kevin McKidd.
• 46:24
  Speaker 2: Where are they going?
• 46:26
  Speaker 4: I'm not sure. I think just gone. You can't get
• 46:30
  Speaker 4: her test played off you guys, right, it.
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: Felt weird just having it on while we're chatting right
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: right right.
• 46:38
  Speaker 4: It says Gray's Anatomy is shocker Kim Raver and Kevin
• 46:40
  Speaker 4: McKidd leaving Grey's Anatomy. It says there will be a
• 46:44
  Speaker 4: nice payoff for those who've been invested in the Owen
• 46:46
  Speaker 4: and Teddy relationship, which the payoff would be for them
• 46:51
  Speaker 4: to not be.
• 46:51
  Speaker 2: Together, right, be in separate relationships.
• 46:54
  Speaker 4: Yeah, And I saw this thing where this girl is saying,
• 46:57
  Speaker 4: how when I don't know if you remember that episode,
• 47:00
  Speaker 4: but it's when Teddy, I mean, Christina and Owen are
• 47:04
  Speaker 4: together and Teddy's in love with Owen and you know,
• 47:06
  Speaker 4: there's kind of like a love triangle. Yeah, And Teddy's like,
• 47:09
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna leave. I can't do this basically because I'm based,
• 47:12
  Speaker 4: I'm in love with Owen and I can't be around this.
• 47:15
  Speaker 4: And Christina chases her out and she's like, where are
• 47:17
  Speaker 4: you going? You can't go, and she was like I
• 47:20
  Speaker 4: have to go, and and Christina's like, you're You're everything
• 47:23
  Speaker 4: I need to be the best surgeon I can be.
• 47:25
  Speaker 4: Like i'll give you, I'll do anything. What do you
• 47:27
  Speaker 4: want And she's like I want Owen And Christina's like
• 47:29
  Speaker 4: that's fine, happened.
• 47:31
  Speaker 2: I really forgot about that.
• 47:33
  Speaker 7: And she's like, I can't think of anything more powerful
• 47:37
  Speaker 7: as a woman to be like, I need you for
• 47:40
  Speaker 7: my career taking command the sacrifice Christina was O g
• 47:47
  Speaker 7: it was just so good.
• 47:49
  Speaker 4: It was peak.
• 47:50
  Speaker 8: Yeah yeah, well.
• 48:08
  Speaker 4: You missed it Easton. But Tanya, we decided that there's
• 48:12
  Speaker 4: actually these chest patches that she could get that may
• 48:15
  Speaker 4: limit the stress and trials and tribulations of the I
• 48:20
  Speaker 4: just need to know who has that that you were following,
• 48:23
  Speaker 4: is what I really need to know.
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: Well, what's really funny is because I posted on my Instagram,
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: I got a lot of d ms about from people being.
• 48:28
  Speaker 2: Like, oh my gosh, I've been using this for ten years.
• 48:30
  Speaker 2: It works. I swear by it.
• 48:32
  Speaker 1: Someone said they rolled up like big socks and put
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: it in between their boobs and that helps.
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: But I don't.
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: I fear that my wrinkles are not boob related because
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: my boobs are quite small.
• 48:43
  Speaker 4: You know. Well, I think if you're sleeping on your side,
• 48:46
  Speaker 4: you're just screen squishing up.
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: But how it's preventing it, I don't know.
• 48:51
  Speaker 4: I don't know. I can't tell you that I think
• 48:54
  Speaker 4: might be a little more effective. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 48:58
  Speaker 3: I don't think I'm speaking out of school here, but
• 49:00
  Speaker 3: are very own Mark Molnitsky, he uses one of those
• 49:03
  Speaker 3: for his boobs, but he he has a sensory thing
• 49:07
  Speaker 3: he doesn't like.
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: He was like his knees a pillow around there.
• 49:11
  Speaker 3: And he has told me that his sister has the
• 49:13
  Speaker 3: same thing, and she uses an apparatus for her breasts
• 49:18
  Speaker 3: to keep him from touching. And maybe exactly that. I
• 49:20
  Speaker 3: don't know, I haven't seen it.
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: I just need to have as many his sisters boo,
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: not know. I need to have like more steps in
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: my bedtime routine.
• 49:32
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you need a few more. Yeah, you're limiting yourself.
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: You know what I actually like thought of this week too.
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: You know, We've been wanting to do the Artist's Way
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: this book, this work book, and I've just been putting
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: it off because I'm like, you absolutely have to journal
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: first thing in the morning. Like it's not because I
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: was like, oh, it's for ten minutes, and I was like, oh,
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: I could just do it like any other time of
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: the day. But it's really about doing it right when
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: you wake up and getting.
• 49:54
  Speaker 2: All that out of you.
• 49:55
  Speaker 1: So it's like it's imperative that you do it first thing.
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh, I just wake up too early. Blah,
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: I'm no more excuses. Oh wow, I'm starting. Wow Wow,
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna wake up forty minutes before my alarm to
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: give myself time to sit ten minutes to write. Oh
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: so really, I had just need twenty more minutes. Okay,
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna give up twenty more minutes before my alarm.
• 50:17
  Speaker 4: Wow to do this.
• 50:20
  Speaker 2: That's beautiful to start the artist's way. Yeah.
• 50:23
  Speaker 4: I was debating, like, oh, I can just do the
• 50:26
  Speaker 4: three pages whenever, but I think the main thread of
• 50:30
  Speaker 4: the artist's way is doing the pages right when you
• 50:33
  Speaker 4: wake up, yes, because you get everything out. And to
• 50:35
  Speaker 4: be honest, I did it for like a week one
• 50:37
  Speaker 4: time I started, and I really do feel like it
• 50:39
  Speaker 4: made a difference with like my mental state. Speaking of yesterday, Okay,
• 50:45
  Speaker 4: I have a I last year did a lot of construction.
• 50:48
  Speaker 4: We did a lot for the house, like we converted
• 50:50
  Speaker 4: the garage, we did the backyard, and in that time,
• 50:52
  Speaker 4: I thought, why not convert one of the rooms into
• 50:55
  Speaker 4: a closet and have that situation too, So I did it,
• 50:58
  Speaker 4: and then I moved all my stuff in and I
• 51:00
  Speaker 4: just never like really went through and got rid of
• 51:02
  Speaker 4: stuff that I needed to get rid of. And there
• 51:04
  Speaker 4: was still stuff on the ground, and so yesterday you
• 51:09
  Speaker 4: couldn't walk into my closet. You had to like step
• 51:11
  Speaker 4: around things. There was so much like port you saw.
• 51:13
  Speaker 2: It, not the specific closet, but just kind.
• 51:15
  Speaker 4: Of yeah, you've seen the damage. I can.
• 51:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 51:19
  Speaker 4: So for whatever reason, my ADHD gave me a moment
• 51:24
  Speaker 4: of peace and I locked in. And the first day
• 51:28
  Speaker 4: I went through our drunk room and I put the
• 51:31
  Speaker 4: it impiles of what was a giveaway, what we're keeping.
• 51:33
  Speaker 4: I separated everything. I had someone come pick it up
• 51:36
  Speaker 4: from me. So it was like that stuff was cleared,
• 51:38
  Speaker 4: and then I go, I'm going to do my closet
• 51:40
  Speaker 4: tomorrow because it's just been lingering on my mind. And
• 51:42
  Speaker 4: even though it probably wasn't really affecting me, I think
• 51:46
  Speaker 4: it was always it like was taking up space in
• 51:49
  Speaker 4: my brain that I needed to do that, and I
• 51:51
  Speaker 4: wasn't doing it, and it was clutter. So I locked
• 51:54
  Speaker 4: in yesterday. And you know when you get halfway through
• 51:57
  Speaker 4: doing something like that, and it looked towers and you're like,
• 52:00
  Speaker 4: I'm halfway and I want to quit, but like now
• 52:04
  Speaker 4: it's a bigger mess than it was. I just said, Becca,
• 52:07
  Speaker 4: you have to get it done. So I got it
• 52:09
  Speaker 4: done and it is pristine. But do you know what
• 52:13
  Speaker 4: the sick part is? I hired someone to come and
• 52:16
  Speaker 4: do like a deep clean on our house because we
• 52:17
  Speaker 4: have Haley's families coming. Some of her family members are
• 52:20
  Speaker 4: coming to visit, and I wanted the house to be
• 52:22
  Speaker 4: like really nice and clean. And I have that disease
• 52:26
  Speaker 4: where I need to clean things before. The cleaning is
• 52:29
  Speaker 4: so weird because I'm like, I don't want them to
• 52:32
  Speaker 4: care about how I'm perceived.
• 52:34
  Speaker 3: I'm slav you know, I don't have that at all.
• 52:38
  Speaker 4: That's such a gift. I like literally, I.
• 52:40
  Speaker 2: Also like, don't leave dishes in the sink, like no, no.
• 52:42
  Speaker 4: No, I don't like dishes in the sink. But I
• 52:44
  Speaker 4: was like cleaning the base boards.
• 52:46
  Speaker 2: That is so weird.
• 52:48
  Speaker 4: I was like, I have to clean this dusty room
• 52:51
  Speaker 4: because they're gonna think I'm disgusting. So that's why I
• 52:55
  Speaker 4: did it.
• 52:56
  Speaker 2: Do you feel better now?
• 52:57
  Speaker 4: So much better? Yeah?
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: They say if you're feeling clustered, like frazzled or whatever
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: in your life, to like take a just even a
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: junk drawer like in your kitchen and organize it and
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: it'll like make you feel better.
• 53:08
  Speaker 2: Maybe I should do that today.
• 53:09
  Speaker 4: Well, we are making the extra room in the house
• 53:13
  Speaker 4: a guest bedroom, and I've been talking about it forever
• 53:16
  Speaker 4: and I'm like, we do. I just need to get
• 53:17
  Speaker 4: it done. I need to clear this out. I want
• 53:20
  Speaker 4: to organize all the closet space in the drawers and
• 53:23
  Speaker 4: I'm just in it right now.
• 53:25
  Speaker 2: You and me, both sisters, sister, You and me, both sister.
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: I told Robbie two, I said, enough enough with the stagnation.
• 53:34
  Speaker 2: We are forward focused felines.
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: Whoa yeah, feelings, future focused, forward focused momentum.
• 53:45
  Speaker 4: Yeah. So if you need to clean, if you have
• 53:47
  Speaker 4: something in your house that you're like, I've been meaning
• 53:49
  Speaker 4: to do it, just to do it. It'll feel so good.
• 53:52
  Speaker 4: The thing is, you're not going to feel worse if
• 53:54
  Speaker 4: you do it, You're only going to feel better. Well,
• 53:57
  Speaker 4: we do have to do in the podcast, but we have
• 53:59
  Speaker 4: iHeart Awards. We're going together.
• 54:02
  Speaker 2: So cute.
• 54:04
  Speaker 4: That's right.
• 54:05
  Speaker 3: Oh before, sorry, one last thing. I forgot to say
• 54:07
  Speaker 3: this earlier. I want to make sre I say it.
• 54:09
  Speaker 3: When Lassie Seward's thing I opened the show with the
• 54:13
  Speaker 3: Sabrina Carpenter towel. I don't know if you've seen. She
• 54:17
  Speaker 3: starts her show coming out in a towel and she
• 54:19
  Speaker 3: opens it up and it's glittery and I had the same
• 54:21
  Speaker 3: one that says a high la and Allison made that
• 54:23
  Speaker 3: towel for me and it was her idea but.
• 54:25
  Speaker 2: An Etsy shop, honestly, it was so good.
• 54:27
  Speaker 3: People were selling this for like seven hundred dollars, like
• 54:30
  Speaker 3: to buy one that was honestly not didn't look as
• 54:32
  Speaker 3: good as the way Alison made. So I told her
• 54:34
  Speaker 3: that I'm like, you could make a lot of Medea
• 54:36
  Speaker 3: in this, but it was her idea to do that
• 54:38
  Speaker 3: at all. And then she made it the towel like
• 54:40
  Speaker 3: from scratch basically, and uh, I'm just so grateful and
• 54:43
  Speaker 3: I want to make sure I said that before we
• 54:44
  Speaker 3: end the show.
• 54:45
  Speaker 4: I hope everyone finds a girl like Allison. Yes, a partner.
• 54:49
  Speaker 2: I could be a girl like Allison. I wish I
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: had that.
• 54:52
  Speaker 4: You got bigger fish, you got Boo pillows, research to do,
• 54:57
  Speaker 4: like you don't have time.
• 54:58
  Speaker 2: For towel arts and craft.
• 55:00
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but yeah, Allison is amazing. We love you, Allison.
• 55:07
  Speaker 4: So tomorrow we'll be in the same room as.
• 55:11
  Speaker 5: Ray Race performing Ella Langley, Alex Warren, Alex Warren and and.
• 55:24
  Speaker 4: Taylor sw Yeah. I was like, Tony goes, Taylor's coming
• 55:28
  Speaker 4: to iHeart Awards. I was like in person, like yeah,
• 55:32
  Speaker 4: that's all I have to say.
• 55:33
  Speaker 2: And then Becca said, sure, I'll go with you.
• 55:35
  Speaker 4: That wasn't true.
• 55:37
  Speaker 2: You're gonna go regardless.
• 55:38
  Speaker 4: Yeah, before you told me Taylor Swif was gonna be there,
• 55:41
  Speaker 4: it was just a bonus.
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: I was like, I know how to get Becca here
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: with me, am Miley Cyrus Taylor Swift.
• 55:48
  Speaker 4: Yeah, well, Amiley Cyrus is gonna be there, so it's
• 55:51
  Speaker 4: gonna be fun night. It's just a girl night. Yeah,
• 55:53
  Speaker 4: good night, all right, everybody. We love you so much.
• 55:56
  Speaker 4: I love you, and we'll be back next week.
• 56:00
  Speaker 2: Bye, love you, Crystal.
• 56:10
  Speaker 3: Mm hmm