Latest / The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast / A Criminal Defense Attorney Breaks Down The Case of Taylor Frankie Paul
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- 0:00Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast
- 0:03Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.
- 0:06Speaker 2: Hello, everyone, welcome to the Almost Famous Podcast. Today, we
- 0:09Speaker 2: are continuing to break down all the court hearings and
- 0:12Speaker 2: allegations pertaining to Taylor, Frankie Paul, and we've been we've
- 0:16Speaker 2: been saying that we've wanted to chat with a legal
- 0:18Speaker 2: expert on all of this because there's so many times
- 0:21Speaker 2: or Ben and I are saying something like we're like,
- 0:22Speaker 2: you know what, I don't know the legality of that. Well,
- 0:25Speaker 2: today we have Allison Treeslam. She is a criminal defense
- 0:29Speaker 2: attorney and she's the illegal correspondent for Access Hollywood. Throughout
- 0:34Speaker 2: the course of her twenty five year career, she has
- 0:37Speaker 2: represented over a thousand clients charged with committing serious crime,
- 0:41Speaker 2: and she has worked on a number of high profile cases.
- 0:44Speaker 2: She's also currently the host of Legal Smart on KTLA,
- 0:49Speaker 2: where she provides insight and advice on a wide variety
- 0:52Speaker 2: of practical and relevant legal issues. So she is truly
- 0:57Speaker 2: perfect to be talking to us about Taylor, Frickey, Paul
- 1:01Speaker 2: and Dakota's issues.
- 1:04Speaker 1: Hi, Alison, welcome you a podcast.
- 1:07Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you for having me on.
- 1:09Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, you are the perfect person to be
- 1:12Speaker 2: talking to today about this.
- 1:15Speaker 3: There's a lot going on here.
- 1:17Speaker 2: And because you are kind of an expert in high
- 1:20Speaker 2: profile entertainment cases, you do it for Access Hollywood and KTLA.
- 1:26Speaker 2: You must have followed this pretty closely.
- 1:29Speaker 3: Yeah, And I have to tell you I am not
- 1:31Speaker 3: because I'm a crime junkie.
- 1:32Speaker 1: S right.
- 1:32Speaker 3: So I'm a criminal defense attorney. I do legal commentary
- 1:37Speaker 3: on all things criminal. I'm not necessarily someone that would
- 1:41Speaker 3: watch The Bachelor's Secret Lives of Mormon Wives until now,
- 1:46Speaker 3: because you guys got more stuff going on than so
- 1:50Speaker 3: many of the criminal cases that I handle. I mean,
- 1:52Speaker 3: it's just it's just shocking to me what I've been missing.
- 1:57Speaker 3: I mean, I mean, is this something that I did.
- 2:00Speaker 3: Its just passed me by because I can't believe what
- 2:02Speaker 3: goes on with all these shows. It's incredible.
- 2:08Speaker 1: That's why we need you here, because I think Ashley
- 2:12Speaker 1: and myself can come at it from a place of
- 2:14Speaker 1: shock and awe. Okay, but we need help not only
- 2:20Speaker 1: shocking and eyeing, but breaking this all down. I want
- 2:23Speaker 1: to start kind of before we even dive into the
- 2:26Speaker 1: the situation that unfolded in February and then with the
- 2:31Speaker 1: postponement of The Bachelorette. In all of your years of
- 2:35Speaker 1: breaking down these stories and doing it in a high
- 2:39Speaker 1: profile way, how common is it that a person would
- 2:44Speaker 1: get chosen as the lead of a reality television show
- 2:49Speaker 1: with is it? I guess the question is is it
- 2:52Speaker 1: normal for somebody I want to know as the lead
- 2:58Speaker 1: of the show with the previous violent acts that you know,
- 3:03Speaker 1: Taylor Frankie Paul had been a part of.
- 3:06Speaker 3: Well, something went really wrong here in their vetting process. Okay,
- 3:10Speaker 3: So this is someone who had actually pled guilty to
- 3:15Speaker 3: an aggravated assault as a felony and is currently on probation. Okay,
- 3:19Speaker 3: So and that's one of the buckets that I want
- 3:22Speaker 3: to discuss in this case. But to thoroughly understand all
- 3:27Speaker 3: that's going on and to really explain it to your audience,
- 3:32Speaker 3: I thought it was best if I break it into
- 3:34Speaker 3: kind of three buckets of discussion, one being the child
- 3:39Speaker 3: custody and the protective orders, because there are a bunch
- 3:44Speaker 3: of them flying around and what that really means. And
- 3:49Speaker 3: then the other being the prosecution and the the investigations
- 3:55Speaker 3: and whether there'll be prosecutions, whether her probation will be
- 3:59Speaker 3: violated as a result of this. And then the last
- 4:02Speaker 3: one is that what is it? What are the ramifications
- 4:07Speaker 3: because the bachelor the Bachelotte was canceled or was pulled
- 4:10Speaker 3: for now and will there be lawsuits and who will
- 4:14Speaker 3: they be against and can they be successful? There is
- 4:18Speaker 3: a there's a side to it also where there's some
- 4:21Speaker 3: type of d c FS investigation, but not much about
- 4:25Speaker 3: that has really been shared.
- 4:28Speaker 1: D c f S, what is that? What is that?
- 4:31Speaker 3: So the Department of Family and Social Services, So that's
- 4:33Speaker 3: that would be like the the organization that comes in
- 4:38Speaker 3: to determine what the best welfare what is then the
- 4:40Speaker 3: best welfare of the children. So and that that is
- 4:44Speaker 3: something that that will remain h more that that they'll
- 4:48Speaker 3: all they'll remain much more tight lipped about because it's
- 4:51Speaker 3: really just dealing with what's in the best interest of
- 4:56Speaker 3: minor children. So they really keep that as confidential as possible.
- 5:01Speaker 3: But in terms of explosive allegations, and I do believe
- 5:07Speaker 3: that this video was a watershed moment, not just for Taylor,
- 5:14Speaker 3: Frankie Paul and for the Bacherette, but just in general
- 5:19Speaker 3: the idea that a person would act so violently right,
- 5:25Speaker 3: and was this available to ABC and Warner Brothers prior
- 5:31Speaker 3: to casting her as the Bacheorette. Should they have known
- 5:35Speaker 3: about it? Did they do enough homework to learn about it?
- 5:39Speaker 3: And did they tell the contestants that the person that
- 5:44Speaker 3: was going to be on has had this violent and
- 5:48Speaker 3: we can call it a violent, volatile relationship with a
- 5:51Speaker 3: male counterpart in the past. Is that something that they
- 5:54Speaker 3: should have been told about?
- 5:56Speaker 2: Well, they definitely knew about it because they made it
- 6:00Speaker 2: episode one of Secret Lives and Mormon Lives.
- 6:03Speaker 1: Correct. Did the contestants now and when you say that,
- 6:06Speaker 1: you mean were they communicated directly with because yes, they
- 6:10Speaker 1: could know through watching the show. Yes, they could do
- 6:13Speaker 1: by a Google search. But is that enough right?
- 6:16Speaker 3: Correct? So it was it negligent right of the production
- 6:19Speaker 3: company not to share that information because they wanted the ratings.
- 6:23Speaker 3: They wanted someone who had this really kind of spicy
- 6:27Speaker 3: backtor story that would bring in viewers, right, bring in
- 6:30Speaker 3: viewers because traditional TV is losing viewership. So you've got
- 6:35Speaker 3: to find someone that's entertaining. I'm telling two of you that, No,
- 6:38Speaker 3: you've got to find someone that's entertaining and fresh and
- 6:41Speaker 3: new and has a big social media presence. And was
- 6:45Speaker 3: that negligent of them. So that's sort of the one
- 6:49Speaker 3: of the last things if you'd allow me to discuss,
- 6:52Speaker 3: because in terms of the law, what is what is
- 6:56Speaker 3: so interesting is that you've got many things going on
- 7:00Speaker 3: in different courthouses here. So there are currently essentially three
- 7:06Speaker 3: protective orders that are temporary and they are being handled
- 7:14Speaker 3: by a judge and a full blown hearing will be
- 7:19Speaker 3: held in that case in those cases on April thirtieth,
- 7:24Speaker 3: but in the interim, this judge has decided there is
- 7:28Speaker 3: a temporary protective order. And for those unfamiliar with protective orders,
- 7:33Speaker 3: they're essentially stay away orders or orders of temporary custody arrangements,
- 7:38Speaker 3: and they are the same as a restraining order in
- 7:41Speaker 3: some states. That's they're they're the equivalent. And there is
- 7:45Speaker 3: one where Dakota has taken out a protective order against
- 7:50Speaker 3: Taylor Taylor and then has taken out a protective order
- 7:55Speaker 3: against Dakota, and then there is also one pending for
- 8:00Speaker 3: Taylor's ex husband regarding their child that was the witness
- 8:06Speaker 3: and was the victim to the twoenty twenty three incident
- 8:11Speaker 3: where that we've all seen or most of us have
- 8:14Speaker 3: seen the video.
- 8:15Speaker 2: Oh I have not been aware of that is that recent?
- 8:18Speaker 3: Well, it was done. What's interesting is my reports indicate
- 8:23Speaker 3: that Dakota and the ex husband essentially took out protective
- 8:28Speaker 3: orders either on the same day or within a very
- 8:31Speaker 3: short period of time.
- 8:32Speaker 1: Now there's a picture of the two of them at
- 8:35Speaker 1: the courthouse at the same time. Nobody knows if it
- 8:37Speaker 1: was planned or coordinated, but they ran into each other
- 8:41Speaker 1: nonetheless at the courthouse.
- 8:43Speaker 3: Right And by the way, that would make sense if
- 8:46Speaker 3: you're getting a protective order, not that they would coordinate
- 8:48Speaker 3: efforts and do it at the same time. But because
- 8:52Speaker 3: the twenty twenty three incident involves one child, okay, where
- 8:57Speaker 3: Dakota is not the father, so he can't take out
- 9:00Speaker 3: the protective order for that child because it's not his
- 9:03Speaker 3: biological child. And then Leak's husband would take out one
- 9:08Speaker 3: because that was his child that was involved. So he says, look,
- 9:11Speaker 3: I saw this video. It is so disturbing. I actually
- 9:15Speaker 3: saw it's I guess it was different for him than
- 9:18Speaker 3: reading about it knowing that she was charged, than to
- 9:20Speaker 3: see it that she is still posing a danger because
- 9:24Speaker 3: of these February twenty third, twenty fourth allegations of abuse
- 9:32Speaker 3: against Dakota where a child is present, so there is
- 9:36Speaker 3: an ongoing danger. And then Taylor says, wait a minute,
- 9:42Speaker 3: I'm the victim of abuse here, so I want a
- 9:45Speaker 3: protective order. So there's three competing orders. There's three competing orders,
- 9:51Speaker 3: there's different children involved, and this judge essentially said, look,
- 10:00Speaker 3: I know that there are several sides to this story,
- 10:04Speaker 3: but my main interest is in protecting children in this case.
- 10:10Speaker 3: And the guardian ad litem that was that was appointed
- 10:16Speaker 3: to the minor child acts as the attorney for the
- 10:19Speaker 3: child and they have a lot of say. So the
- 10:21Speaker 3: guardian ad litem is somebody who their sole interest is
- 10:26Speaker 3: the protection of the child, and so their testimony or
- 10:30Speaker 3: their opinion carries a lot of weight in a courtroom.
- 10:33Speaker 3: And a judge is going to say, does the guardian
- 10:36Speaker 3: ad litem at this point feel that the child would
- 10:41Speaker 3: be unsafe if unsupervised and in the care and custody
- 10:46Speaker 3: of Taylor. And at this point the guardian ATLTEM said yes,
- 10:51Speaker 3: for now, I am going I have no problem with
- 10:55Speaker 3: eight hours of supervised visits. Supervised means that you can eat,
- 11:00Speaker 3: or have someone as a third party who you can
- 11:04Speaker 3: hire to be present or in this case, they're allowing
- 11:07Speaker 3: a family member of Taylor's, but she cannot be alone
- 11:12Speaker 3: with the child. She gets eight hours of supervised visits.
- 11:18Speaker 1: Just to be clear here, who is the guardianem So.
- 11:22Speaker 3: The guardian ad litem would be an attorney appointed by
- 11:28Speaker 3: the court to represent the interest of the minor child.
- 11:33Speaker 1: So who who is the child living within right now?
- 11:37Speaker 1: Not the guardian?
- 11:39Speaker 2: No?
- 11:39Speaker 3: No, no, The child is with Dakota. One child is
- 11:43Speaker 3: with Dakota, and then Taylor's other two children are with
- 11:47Speaker 3: her ex husband.
- 11:48Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So I think that her attorney is trying
- 11:53Speaker 2: to argue that she is not at all a threat
- 11:56Speaker 2: to her children as long as Dakota is not in
- 11:58Speaker 2: the picture.
- 11:59Speaker 1: Is that Is that right?
- 12:00Speaker 3: Correct?
- 12:01Speaker 2: Because it's because they were like, yeah, she's only violent
- 12:03Speaker 2: when he's around.
- 12:05Speaker 1: Okay.
- 12:05Speaker 3: So what their argument is is that this was not
- 12:12Speaker 3: violence directed at any minor child. That yes, the child
- 12:17Speaker 3: was present and that is a problem. But if you
- 12:22Speaker 3: remove Dakota from the picture, Taylor alone has no ill
- 12:29Speaker 3: will toward her children. She's not going to be violent
- 12:32Speaker 3: toward the children. It was all when the two of them.
- 12:36Speaker 3: Who I don't know what the legal definition of this is,
- 12:40Speaker 3: but I can tell you, what I would call it
- 12:42Speaker 3: in my office is a complete cluster. These two are
- 12:47Speaker 3: so toxic, so vital, They're so volatile. This is not
- 12:52Speaker 3: a if I'm a judge or a mcguardian at letam,
- 12:56Speaker 3: I'm saying, these two can never be in the same
- 12:58Speaker 3: room together. They should have never been filming a show together.
- 13:02Speaker 3: By the way, while she was on probation, they don't mix.
- 13:06Speaker 3: Bad things happen. Both sides are saying that they're physically
- 13:11Speaker 3: that there's physical abuse on either side. What does that
- 13:14Speaker 3: tell me as a judge? What does that tell me
- 13:16Speaker 3: as an attorney for the miner? Well, they should never
- 13:19Speaker 3: be together. They should never be together. So yes, it
- 13:22Speaker 3: helps her in the sense that she's saying, Look, obviously
- 13:27Speaker 3: I can't be in the same room with him. Obviously
- 13:30Speaker 3: there's problems, but I've never directed any violence toward my children.
- 13:35Speaker 3: Ashley is not going to carry the day. Is that
- 13:37Speaker 3: going to carry the day? Well, judge's going to say,
- 13:40Speaker 3: and they're going to take that into account. But they
- 13:44Speaker 3: are going to say, but it looks as though you
- 13:47Speaker 3: were intoxicated. It looks as though you have these violent tendencies.
- 13:51Speaker 3: So it's not just her saying remove him and I'm.
- 13:55Speaker 1: Good, Okay, Ashley. Can can I get like two minutes
- 14:01Speaker 1: here to run down some rapid fires to get some
- 14:03Speaker 1: clarity to where we're at? Of course? Yes, okay, a
- 14:06Speaker 1: couple train of thoughts here as we make sense of
- 14:09Speaker 1: all this. If the protective order goes through against Taylor,
- 14:17Speaker 1: does that have any does that mean anything in terms
- 14:22Speaker 1: of her probation that was set in twenty twenty three.
- 14:25Speaker 3: Okay, So I'm going to answer that. I'm going to
- 14:27Speaker 3: answer that because and we can't We'll do a deep
- 14:30Speaker 3: dive in a bit. But the answer is they've already
- 14:33Speaker 3: made a decision. It appears the District Attorney's office has
- 14:36Speaker 3: already made a decision that they're not going to violate
- 14:39Speaker 3: her probation. Okay, that's what it appears, if we're.
- 14:42Speaker 1: Going to violate her probation with okay, okay.
- 14:46Speaker 3: So in addition to the the probation, the protective orders
- 14:53Speaker 3: that are going on in one courtroom, the district attorney
- 14:57Speaker 3: is investigating these allegations from February where they say there
- 15:04Speaker 3: was other instances of domestic violence. What the district attorney
- 15:10Speaker 3: just came out with, just came out with is that
- 15:14Speaker 3: they either found that there was not enough corroboration or
- 15:20Speaker 3: they could not prove those allegations beyond a reasonable doubt
- 15:27Speaker 3: to file any new charges against her. They also said
- 15:32Speaker 3: that some of those allegations were so old that the
- 15:37Speaker 3: statute of limitations had passed on filing those charges. So
- 15:42Speaker 3: the statement that they've made right now is that they
- 15:46Speaker 3: are not pursuing charges any new charges against Taylor. And
- 15:51Speaker 3: then they even went further than that and said, and
- 15:54Speaker 3: we don't believe at this point that those constitute any
- 15:59Speaker 3: violations of her probation. So Ashley, let me just go
- 16:03Speaker 3: back and explain that a little bit. In twenty twenty three,
- 16:08Speaker 3: she gets charged with five counts. One is a felony
- 16:13Speaker 3: aggravated assault to her domestic violence. There's some other charges.
- 16:18Speaker 3: She pleads to it, and she takes a plea in abyance,
- 16:23Speaker 3: which means that she's essentially put on diversion, which was
- 16:27Speaker 3: really a sweetheart deal for her, really a sweetheart deal.
- 16:31Speaker 3: They put her on probation for a period of three
- 16:34Speaker 3: years that doesn't expire until August of twenty twenty six,
- 16:39Speaker 3: so she's currently still on probation. In what there were
- 16:45Speaker 3: conditions placed on her there was parenting, anger management, abstained
- 16:50Speaker 3: from alcohol, you can't pick up any new offenses, can't
- 16:54Speaker 3: pick up any new offenses. So here, if let's just
- 17:00Speaker 3: say something like if she's drinking on the show of
- 17:03Speaker 3: the Bachelor when they're taking the Bachelorette when they're taping it,
- 17:07Speaker 3: that would technically be a violation of her probation because
- 17:11Speaker 3: she has to abstain from alcohol. When you have a
- 17:18Speaker 3: potential new case, the burden to you don't have for
- 17:23Speaker 3: a probation violation. The standard of proof is much lower
- 17:27Speaker 3: than can we prove this beyond a reasonable doubt. So
- 17:30Speaker 3: the fact that they are deciding at this point not
- 17:33Speaker 3: to charge her with any new offenses is one thing.
- 17:37Speaker 3: But the fact that they're not even violating her probation
- 17:41Speaker 3: speaks volumes. And if I'm her lawyers, I take that
- 17:47Speaker 3: information and I use it in our protective order case
- 17:51Speaker 3: because anybody in the court system knows that, hey, not
- 17:55Speaker 3: only are they not charging her with any new offenses,
- 17:58Speaker 3: they're not even violating her probation at this point.
- 18:01Speaker 1: Okay, So I want to continue down this line of
- 18:04Speaker 1: questioning to get some clarity here. If new evidence, though
- 18:08Speaker 1: is presented, they've left that door open, then they can
- 18:11Speaker 1: reopen this back up, right, not.
- 18:14Speaker 3: As to the ones where the statute of limitation is passed.
- 18:17Speaker 3: So that so those charges, whatever those were, once the
- 18:23Speaker 3: statute of limitations is passed. And the reason that that
- 18:27Speaker 3: matters is because you know, if charges are years and
- 18:32Speaker 3: years old and you're just being charged with them, potential
- 18:36Speaker 3: witnesses that you may have had to defend yourself may
- 18:40Speaker 3: not be available. Digital evidence, forensic evidence, things that you
- 18:46Speaker 3: could use in your defense are maybe no longer available.
- 18:49Speaker 3: So that's why you have statute of limitations in certain cases.
- 18:53Speaker 3: In sex case, in certain sex cases it's much longer
- 18:57Speaker 3: statute of limitations, and murder cases there is no status limitations.
- 19:01Speaker 3: But in these charges there was a statute of limitations
- 19:05Speaker 3: and that has passed. But for things that would be
- 19:09Speaker 3: let's say the February alleged incident, if new information comes
- 19:15Speaker 3: to light, yes they can revisit it.
- 19:18Speaker 1: I loved your and this is my final kind of
- 19:21Speaker 1: thing to get clarity. I love your bucket deal because
- 19:26Speaker 1: we need some type of linear path to make sense
- 19:28Speaker 1: of this all. Yeah, and so as we sit in
- 19:31Speaker 1: the bucket of the protective orders, and as you've mentioned,
- 19:36Speaker 1: Tate has one out there, the Coda has one out there.
- 19:39Speaker 1: Now Taylor, Frankie Paul has one out there. If all
- 19:42Speaker 1: three of those get I don't know the right word
- 19:45Speaker 1: to premt it grant granted, what happens because then all
- 19:49Speaker 1: three of them have protective orders against each other.
- 19:51Speaker 3: So they'll have to stay away from each other. They
- 19:53Speaker 3: have to stay away from each other, which you know
- 19:56Speaker 3: when there's when there's vallatle situations, that's not necessarily a
- 19:59Speaker 3: bad thing, right, So they stay away from each other,
- 20:02Speaker 3: they get film together, and then for custody, they then
- 20:08Speaker 3: have to use a third party for the exchange of
- 20:11Speaker 3: the children. Right, So on one extreme, I've seen where
- 20:16Speaker 3: the custody swap occurs literally in the parking lot of
- 20:23Speaker 3: a police station. Okay, But on another extreme is you know,
- 20:28Speaker 3: when they're really young kids and that's sort of really
- 20:33Speaker 3: scary for them. It's a person who they both know
- 20:36Speaker 3: and trust, you know, maybe it's Taylor's parents, maybe whoever
- 20:40Speaker 3: that is, they do the custody swap.
- 20:44Speaker 2: So like you can't drop them off in the driveway,
- 20:47Speaker 2: not at this age, Like you can't watch them go
- 20:50Speaker 2: to the door.
- 20:52Speaker 3: You know, this is if they were fourteen fifteen. That's
- 20:56Speaker 3: one thing.
- 20:56Speaker 1: This is two yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 21:00Speaker 3: And you know for the other one, it's five, not five,
- 21:02Speaker 3: it's older now seven or whatever, you know, whatever the age,
- 21:06Speaker 3: it's too young. So you'd have to have a mutual party.
- 21:10Speaker 3: Uh you know, I mutually agreed upon party. Do the
- 21:13Speaker 3: cost Tody swap?
- 21:15Speaker 1: Okay, so hard for the kids. I know you're not
- 21:17Speaker 1: an expert in that, but I'm like, goodness, gracious, that
- 21:19Speaker 1: seems hard.
- 21:20Speaker 3: Look, you know you're right, you are absolutely right. And
- 21:27Speaker 3: one of the things that courts always consider, and especially
- 21:31Speaker 3: in these cases, is what is in the best interests
- 21:34Speaker 3: of the child. But in this case, Ben, I have
- 21:37Speaker 3: to tell you, the best interest of these children right
- 21:40Speaker 3: now is for these parties to separate. They seem addicted
- 21:46Speaker 3: to each other, if I may say so, and they
- 21:49Speaker 3: need a court to say no more, no more.
- 21:54Speaker 1: This is not.
- 21:55Speaker 3: Working, This is not healthy for these children, and perhaps
- 22:00Speaker 3: a court imposed separation is in the best interest of
- 22:04Speaker 3: these children.
- 22:05Speaker 2: So if they were two years beyond, want to is
- 22:13Speaker 2: this temporary?
- 22:14Speaker 1: Would this be temporary?
- 22:15Speaker 3: So right now, it's only until April thirtieth, when there's
- 22:19Speaker 3: supposed to be a hearing on a full blown evidentry hearing. Now,
- 22:24Speaker 3: I don't know if the judge is going to be
- 22:27Speaker 3: ready to hear or the attorneys are going to be
- 22:31Speaker 3: ready to present their cases. Right so, either side can
- 22:37Speaker 3: ask for more time. The judge can say I want
- 22:41Speaker 3: I want more evaluations, I want more information. But right
- 22:45Speaker 3: now it is set for April thirtieth, and if that
- 22:49Speaker 3: goes forward, then the judge would make permanent orders, and
- 22:54Speaker 3: those permanent orders can be three years, they can be
- 22:56Speaker 3: you know whatever. Sometimes the party ease will separately agree
- 23:03Speaker 3: to an amount of time, and if the judge approves,
- 23:07Speaker 3: then that's what the order of protection will be.
- 23:11Speaker 2: So like, can they can't? Will they ever get to
- 23:12Speaker 2: the point where they can do phone calls and be like, hey,
- 23:14Speaker 2: I'm going to take the kids these days.
- 23:17Speaker 3: Not if orders of protection are are granted. Okay, And
- 23:26Speaker 3: a lot of parents make this mistake just because you
- 23:31Speaker 3: think it's all good. Now you know it's all good.
- 23:33Speaker 3: We're doing so much better. I'm just going to reach
- 23:36Speaker 3: out to that, you know, to to my ex husband,
- 23:40Speaker 3: my ex boyfriend, and we're just gonna, you know, forego
- 23:42Speaker 3: court interference or attorney interference. We're going to start communicating directly.
- 23:47Speaker 3: That's a violation that that is a violation. You text someone,
- 23:51Speaker 3: it's a violation of a protective order. So there are
- 23:55Speaker 3: times where courts will say you're only going to communicate
- 23:59Speaker 3: on something called a Family Wizard, which is a app
- 24:04Speaker 3: that is monitored by the court that everyone has access to.
- 24:08Speaker 3: But if you're texting each other or calling each other,
- 24:12Speaker 3: you are in violation of that protective order.
- 24:25Speaker 1: Alison, I could sit here for six hours and still
- 24:29Speaker 1: probably not get to the bottom of No wonder. Attorneys
- 24:32Speaker 1: get paid so much do what you do recently? I mean,
- 24:35Speaker 1: I want to dive into this bucket. Now. Recently, the
- 24:38Speaker 1: evidence or I guess I don't even know if it's
- 24:41Speaker 1: considered evidence. Photos of Dakota have been shared publicly. There's
- 24:45Speaker 1: also a nine to one one call from Dakota's friend
- 24:49Speaker 1: and all this is now open to the public. Why
- 24:51Speaker 1: am I seeing this? I'm not like mad about it?
- 24:54Speaker 3: So okay. So this is interesting that you're saying that,
- 24:57Speaker 3: because there is a fine line between what is in
- 25:01Speaker 3: the public record. So any court filings, right, well, not
- 25:06Speaker 3: any certain court filings that are in the public record, okay,
- 25:10Speaker 3: And you make a public record a media company or
- 25:12Speaker 3: whoever makes a public record demand for it, and they're
- 25:16Speaker 3: supposed to keep confidential, social security numbers, anything involving children,
- 25:24Speaker 3: anything involving children, and especially with this protective order business,
- 25:31Speaker 3: all of that involving the children should remain confidential. Okay,
- 25:36Speaker 3: that is what is in the best interest of the child.
- 25:39Speaker 3: But the nine to one one call is part of
- 25:42Speaker 3: the public record, and it's not just limited to these people.
- 25:47Speaker 3: It's not as though they're being treated more unfairly because
- 25:53Speaker 3: they're in the public eye. Nine one one calls are
- 25:56Speaker 3: available to the public. You make a public record request,
- 26:00Speaker 3: can ask for bodycam fit footage. Now they have to
- 26:04Speaker 3: remove any personal information, but all a lot of this
- 26:09Speaker 3: stuff is available to the public because they want transparency
- 26:14Speaker 3: in the criminal justice system.
- 26:16Speaker 2: You would talked earlier about how you said it spoke
- 26:20Speaker 2: volumes that they didn't violate probation. Oh, could you explain
- 26:26Speaker 2: what you mean by that? Because my interpretation, and maybe
- 26:30Speaker 2: I'm just making drama here, is that you're like, oh,
- 26:34Speaker 2: there must be something telling on his side, or like
- 26:37Speaker 2: she really didn't do anything in Tebuary.
- 26:39Speaker 3: I don't think that's no. I don't think that's my position.
- 26:42Speaker 2: I'm in drama.
- 26:43Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I don't think that's my position. My position
- 26:47Speaker 3: is that if I'm if I'm sitting with a RoboN
- 26:49Speaker 3: as a judge, okay, and I say, one side is saying,
- 26:55Speaker 3: you know, there's the all of these prior incidents, there's
- 26:59Speaker 3: the new ones in February, and she's clearly not it's
- 27:05Speaker 3: unsafe for her to be around her children. That's their allegations, right,
- 27:08Speaker 3: that she cannot be left alone with the children. What
- 27:12Speaker 3: I'm saying is that on her end of that, on
- 27:16Speaker 3: her for her defense, she says, well, I'm not She's
- 27:23Speaker 3: not only saying and actually you touched upon this before.
- 27:26Speaker 3: She's not only saying that the only times there's been
- 27:30Speaker 3: an issue is when Dakota is around, right, I'm only
- 27:34Speaker 3: there's only an issue with my children when Dakota is present.
- 27:38Speaker 3: She also can argue, well, no criminal charges were filed
- 27:43Speaker 3: against me, and even if they decided that they didn't
- 27:49Speaker 3: have enough to because of statute to limitations, because of
- 27:52Speaker 3: insufficiency of the evidence, because they couldn't corroborate that, probation
- 27:57Speaker 3: violations require much a much lower standard of proof. And
- 28:03Speaker 3: so if I'm her attorneys, I'm saying, wait a minute,
- 28:08Speaker 3: they are not even violating her probation, so that works
- 28:13Speaker 3: in her favor, am I saying? And I don't know.
- 28:16Speaker 3: And one of the things that I dislike when attorneys
- 28:19Speaker 3: go on any show is I wasn't there. I wasn't there,
- 28:25Speaker 3: So I'm not going to pretend like I know what
- 28:28Speaker 3: the ultimate outcome is going to be, what the facts
- 28:30Speaker 3: are ultimately going to bear. I wasn't there. But what
- 28:34Speaker 3: I can tell you is what the law is, how
- 28:37Speaker 3: it comes into play in certain cases, and what each
- 28:40Speaker 3: side is going to argue. And I'm also going to
- 28:45Speaker 3: be able to tell you that a judge sees a
- 28:48Speaker 3: case like this when they're talking about incidents where children
- 28:52Speaker 3: are present and they see a violent video where a
- 28:57Speaker 3: child is not only present but gets hurt and has
- 29:01Speaker 3: a goose egg on their head, and then there's another
- 29:04Speaker 3: incident where it's done in a child's presence. They don't
- 29:08Speaker 3: look very favorably on that because their concern is what
- 29:13Speaker 3: is in the best interests of the child and is
- 29:16Speaker 3: this child safe? And they're always going to side with
- 29:21Speaker 3: what is the safest thing for these children? And Ben,
- 29:26Speaker 3: you said, oh my goodness, this is so horrible for
- 29:28Speaker 3: the children and it absolutely is right being separated from
- 29:32Speaker 3: So my understanding was the original custody agreement is that
- 29:36Speaker 3: Taylor had seventy percent and Dakota had thirty. So with
- 29:41Speaker 3: her child right with ever, she was the primary caretaker.
- 29:46Speaker 3: She has been the primary caretaker in his life, and
- 29:50Speaker 3: what a judge is being asked to do is to
- 29:52Speaker 3: strip her of that and not just strip her, strip
- 29:55Speaker 3: her child being with the person who he's spent the
- 29:58Speaker 3: most time in his life with. And that is awful
- 30:01Speaker 3: and it's tragic and it's hard to think about, and
- 30:03Speaker 3: it's painful for the children. But the judge also has
- 30:07Speaker 3: to balance that against is it safe for this child
- 30:11Speaker 3: to be with her right now.
- 30:13Speaker 1: And him right I mean, that has to be the question.
- 30:16Speaker 3: Of course.
- 30:16Speaker 1: Of course, in cases like this, there's been a lot
- 30:32Speaker 1: of theories out there, and you just kind of mentioned
- 30:34Speaker 1: that nobody knows how this is going to play out,
- 30:36Speaker 1: and there's a lot going on. There is this video
- 30:40Speaker 1: that was released and obviously was kind of in a
- 30:42Speaker 1: lot of ways, at least from our understanding, the catalyst
- 30:45Speaker 1: to the season being postponed and things kind of getting
- 30:49Speaker 1: shift around, and then I believe from somebody in Taylor's camp.
- 30:54Speaker 1: I don't think it was directly her, but maybe a
- 30:55Speaker 1: friend or an anonymous source said there's more to this
- 30:59Speaker 1: story here, that video was released on purpose, it's been
- 31:02Speaker 1: cut down, or it was taken at the right moment
- 31:05Speaker 1: at the right time, and Taylor saying, there's more to
- 31:07Speaker 1: this story here, but we have the video. So in
- 31:10Speaker 1: court cases like this, when it comes to the evidence
- 31:14Speaker 1: that's being presented, do the videos have more weight than
- 31:17Speaker 1: the word of mouth that Taylor's saying, Hey, but before
- 31:20Speaker 1: this video is taken four minutes before it was actually shot,
- 31:23Speaker 1: he was doing this to me and that's why I
- 31:25Speaker 1: did what I did back, like, Okay.
- 31:28Speaker 3: I love that you're asking this question, and she is saying, look,
- 31:31Speaker 3: this was taken out of context, this is edited down,
- 31:33Speaker 3: this doesn't show the full picture. And you even have
- 31:36Speaker 3: Dakota on the police bodycam video saying this went on
- 31:39Speaker 3: for an hour and a half. Okay, So we do
- 31:41Speaker 3: have a we have a small portion of a much
- 31:47Speaker 3: greater story that evening. Okay, However, it is not just
- 31:53Speaker 3: the video. It's not the judge is not just going
- 31:56Speaker 3: to look at the video. Okay. Apparently there is another
- 32:00Speaker 3: video that the Guardian at LTAM has that is that
- 32:05Speaker 3: was to the Guardian at LTUM disturbing that the judge
- 32:08Speaker 3: has seen.
- 32:09Speaker 2: From twenty twenty three or from recently recently. Okay, so
- 32:13Speaker 2: there's a video from recently.
- 32:14Speaker 3: That we don't have that is not made available to
- 32:19Speaker 3: the public. Okay, but the guardian, the guardian explained that
- 32:25Speaker 3: to the court and that was concerning because a child
- 32:29Speaker 3: was present. So Ben, when you're asking just because there
- 32:34Speaker 3: may have been a build up, a build up, a
- 32:39Speaker 3: judge can still look at that video and say, yes,
- 32:45Speaker 3: there may have been other things that led up to it.
- 32:48Speaker 3: And the judge did say, there's two sides to this story.
- 32:52Speaker 3: There are two sides to the story, no question. But
- 32:56Speaker 3: the child was hit in the head by a chair,
- 33:01Speaker 3: by a metal chair that Taylor had thrown, and she
- 33:07Speaker 3: pled guilty to it, right yeah, And I not only
- 33:13Speaker 3: am I not taking sides, I don't know these people.
- 33:17Speaker 3: I have no horse in the race, you know. I
- 33:21Speaker 3: really hope for the children and for them that they
- 33:25Speaker 3: get the help that they need, because it seems that
- 33:27Speaker 3: both of them are really, as I said, sort of
- 33:31Speaker 3: addicted to each other, and they've got each work on themselves.
- 33:37Speaker 3: You know because this is this is there are children
- 33:41Speaker 3: who are affected by this and also for their own
- 33:45Speaker 3: mental health. But courts are going to look at those
- 33:49Speaker 3: videos and it's something like something it's it's one of
- 33:52Speaker 3: those things in life that you can't unsee, right, So
- 33:56Speaker 3: you ask a jury to you ask a jury to
- 34:00Speaker 3: sit on a trial and to listen to the evidence
- 34:04Speaker 3: and only focus on the evidence. Only focus on the evidence.
- 34:07Speaker 3: But it is impossible for you to ask them to
- 34:11Speaker 3: throw out every single one of their life experiences. It
- 34:15Speaker 3: is impossible for you to say, I want you to
- 34:18Speaker 3: only think about, Well, you're going to think, well, how
- 34:20Speaker 3: did that affect me? You know what? What did I
- 34:23Speaker 3: learned when I was growing up? Certain videos can't be unseen.
- 34:27Speaker 1: That's one that can't. I mean, it's it's I mean,
- 34:31Speaker 1: it's it's one of the ways. And as we close here,
- 34:33Speaker 1: I do want to transition a little bit because it
- 34:35Speaker 1: did stick with us, and it did stick obviously with
- 34:38Speaker 1: the public, and the show was postponed. I think that's
- 34:42Speaker 1: a proper language around what the announcement was that the
- 34:44Speaker 1: network gave was that this season of The Bachelor at
- 34:47Speaker 1: was being postponed or put on pause. We could spend
- 34:51Speaker 1: another six hours talking about what that even means obviously
- 34:54Speaker 1: for the show go forward at this time? Will not
- 34:57Speaker 1: go forward at this time? Was the language use? But
- 34:59Speaker 1: you have a ca out there, Alison, and you mentioned
- 35:02Speaker 1: at the beginning. Were they privy to this information before
- 35:06Speaker 1: the show? Were they not?
- 35:08Speaker 3: Okay, I'm gonna I'm gonna touch on this because this
- 35:12Speaker 3: is really really interesting to me, very very interesting from
- 35:16Speaker 3: a legal perspective. So there have been articles written that
- 35:23Speaker 3: there may be five contestants that are considering suing, and
- 35:29Speaker 3: my first reaction to that was, in most agreements with
- 35:38Speaker 3: reality that with with reality show contestants, there's always some
- 35:45Speaker 3: clause in there that says, this is no guarantee that
- 35:49Speaker 3: it will be aired, right, there's no you don't have
- 35:51Speaker 3: a guarantee that you're going to be on TV that
- 35:54Speaker 3: it's going to be like every back you know, there's
- 35:57Speaker 3: some kind of backout clause. So I thought, well, what
- 36:02Speaker 3: can they really do about it? However, there is something
- 36:06Speaker 3: if the show and the production company were negligent and
- 36:12Speaker 3: they put these people in a toxic, unsafe, dangerous relationship
- 36:18Speaker 3: with someone that they knew had all of this background,
- 36:23Speaker 3: that they knew had violent tendencies propensities. Could they could?
- 36:32Speaker 3: And when I say that, by the way, when I
- 36:34Speaker 3: say that, this is not allegations, she pled guilty to
- 36:38Speaker 3: an aggravated assault, right, So this is something that they
- 36:43Speaker 3: knew about. They knew that she had this. She Ashley
- 36:48Speaker 3: brought it up. They talked about it all right in
- 36:51Speaker 3: the season of Secret of the Mormon Wife Show. So
- 36:56Speaker 3: this is not something that Warner Brothers ABC didn't know about.
- 37:01Speaker 3: So could they be held liable by those contestants because
- 37:07Speaker 3: they're saying, well, you needed to share that with us,
- 37:12Speaker 3: and you needed to do a better job betting. And
- 37:14Speaker 3: it's not just about numbers, and it's not just about
- 37:18Speaker 3: how many sponsors you can get or how it is.
- 37:21Speaker 3: Our safety is paramount here.
- 37:25Speaker 1: I mean, but what I mean two, For the contestant's sake,
- 37:28Speaker 1: the show would just have to have proof that they
- 37:30Speaker 1: communicated it to them, right, I mean, this is only
- 37:33Speaker 1: a there's only a case here if they have no
- 37:37Speaker 1: proof did they ever told the contestants or had them
- 37:42Speaker 1: sign something saying, hey, this is her background.
- 37:45Speaker 3: I think that there will be a lot if they
- 37:49Speaker 3: if they proceed with a lawsuit. And again I can't
- 37:53Speaker 3: forecast the future. But I think in the discovery and
- 37:57Speaker 3: the contestants' attorneys, if they sue, they're going to say,
- 38:01Speaker 3: we want to know what you knew about her background,
- 38:06Speaker 3: what you shared with the production team, what you shared
- 38:10Speaker 3: with the contestants, How open and honest were you about
- 38:15Speaker 3: what has gone on with this woman in the past.
- 38:18Speaker 3: And if you don't know, we need to explain it
- 38:21Speaker 3: to you.
- 38:22Speaker 2: From your point of view, what's your opinion on the
- 38:25Speaker 2: show ever airing in any capacity?
- 38:27Speaker 3: My cynical view is it will air at some point
- 38:30Speaker 3: on some platform. It will air, okay, because all the
- 38:35Speaker 3: buzz around it has made it, you know, the forbidden fruit, right.
- 38:42Speaker 3: I mean that now everybody, of course wants to watch it.
- 38:44Speaker 3: Where does it air? Does it air on HULA, does
- 38:46Speaker 3: it air on ABC? Does it make a difference by
- 38:49Speaker 3: the way that no new charges have been filed against her?
- 38:53Speaker 3: Does that help? Does that? That may very well help.
- 38:56Speaker 2: That's why if you would like to come back around
- 38:59Speaker 2: a thirtieth or the week following, we would love to
- 39:03Speaker 2: have you, because we're going to get an influx of news.
- 39:06Speaker 3: Then there's gonna there's gonna be a lot happening, and
- 39:10Speaker 3: I don't know What's interesting about that is because as
- 39:15Speaker 3: I've just sort of laid out for you, you know,
- 39:17Speaker 3: in a cliff note version, there's so many competing stories.
- 39:22Speaker 3: There's so many different legal actions taking place. I don't
- 39:26Speaker 3: know if this hearing will actually proceed on the thirtieth
- 39:30Speaker 3: or one side will say I need more time, or
- 39:32Speaker 3: the judge will say, wait a minute, let's let's just
- 39:36Speaker 3: continue it. Every all the orders stay in place because
- 39:39Speaker 3: you know that Taylor doesn't want to continue this eight
- 39:44Speaker 3: hours of supervised visitation.
- 39:47Speaker 2: No, why do I feel like everything's always delayed, like
- 39:50Speaker 2: especially like celebrity cases.
- 39:52Speaker 3: Actually it's not celebrity cases.
- 39:54Speaker 1: It's not celebrity And who's the only ones I know?
- 39:56Speaker 3: I mean, No, I'm telling you the criminal justice system
- 40:00Speaker 3: moves very very slowly. As we come on air, because
- 40:03Speaker 3: I'm going to cover this after David was just arrested
- 40:07Speaker 3: for the murder of Celestrevus and Los Angeles, the rapper.
- 40:11Speaker 3: David was arrested and it was a seven month investigation,
- 40:15Speaker 3: and LAPD was getting tons of pressure. Why aren't you, you know,
- 40:19Speaker 3: in the DA's office, why aren't you filing? Why aren't
- 40:21Speaker 3: you filing? Well, seven months on a murder case is
- 40:23Speaker 3: not that long at all.
- 40:27Speaker 1: Hey, to close up here, I just want to bring
- 40:30Speaker 1: a little bit clarity. On April thirtieth obviously, and we
- 40:32Speaker 1: talked about me possibly if you're free, your time is valuable,
- 40:36Speaker 1: I know. But if you want to come back, gone
- 40:38Speaker 1: and maybe help us break down all this stuff we
- 40:40Speaker 1: find out then. But what exactly is being done on
- 40:45Speaker 1: April thirtieth? Is it the protective order cases or is
- 40:48Speaker 1: it the like? What exactly is been all?
- 40:51Speaker 2: Right?
- 40:52Speaker 3: So the protective order and then the the custody issues, right,
- 40:58Speaker 3: the custody issues will also be dressed.
- 41:00Speaker 1: In the same hearing. Yes, okay, but now.
- 41:04Speaker 3: The question is, right, even though Taylor filed her protective
- 41:09Speaker 3: order after the two men filed theirs, will all three
- 41:16Speaker 3: be heard on the same day in the same time
- 41:19Speaker 3: for judicial efficiency and for continuity, it makes sense that
- 41:24Speaker 3: it would, right, So she's because it is going to
- 41:28Speaker 3: be duplicitous for them to have testimony in repeated court
- 41:34Speaker 3: hearings when the testimony is essentially the same.
- 41:36Speaker 1: So, but we don't know yet if all three of
- 41:38Speaker 1: them are going to be We do not know.
- 41:42Speaker 3: If we don't know if they're going to go forward
- 41:45Speaker 3: fully Okay.
- 41:46Speaker 2: I know that a lot of people are out there,
- 41:48Speaker 2: even though we've touched on this in a previous episode,
- 41:50Speaker 2: are thinking why did she get a protective order against
- 41:54Speaker 2: them if she already couldn't be any in any like
- 41:58Speaker 2: close quarters to that life.
- 42:00Speaker 3: Love that you asked that, because I have an answer. Yes,
- 42:03Speaker 3: I have an answer. And her answer was that he
- 42:07Speaker 3: is stalking her, allegedly, that he is harassing her, and
- 42:15Speaker 3: so she believes that she is also entitled to a
- 42:18Speaker 3: protective order. And by the way, that may be true. Right,
- 42:22Speaker 3: that may be true because just because you have a
- 42:27Speaker 3: protective order against you, right, if the person calls you
- 42:33Speaker 3: and you're the one with the protective order, you're the
- 42:35Speaker 3: only one that gets in trouble. But if you both
- 42:37Speaker 3: have them and he initiates that call or he texts you,
- 42:42Speaker 3: he's in violation as well.
- 42:44Speaker 1: Okay, Allison, thanks for joining us today. There's so much
- 42:47Speaker 1: you break down here, and it's helpful to have somebody
- 42:50Speaker 1: like you on too. Instead of the rumors and opinions
- 42:53Speaker 1: and speculations that we would give between the two of us,
- 42:56Speaker 1: we have somebody on here to make bring clarity and
- 42:59Speaker 1: expertise to it. And you definitely did that today, So
- 43:01Speaker 1: thanks for joining us.
- 43:02Speaker 3: And I kind of I'm not sure. I'm not sure
- 43:04Speaker 3: if I want to thank you or curse you that
- 43:05Speaker 3: you've sucked me in my goodness.
- 43:10Speaker 1: I mean, I had to bring in The Bachelor.
- 43:12Speaker 3: I guess I'll have to take a break from all
- 43:14Speaker 3: my crime shows.
- 43:15Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, well, Ashley, you can watch Ashley
- 43:19Speaker 1: season on Apple TV and season twenty of The Bachelor
- 43:21Speaker 1: somewhere out there as well if you ever want to
- 43:23Speaker 1: dive back in again. Yeah.
- 43:25Speaker 3: Break, guys, thank you so much for having me. Thank
- 43:28Speaker 3: you bye.
- 43:30Speaker 1: And this has been the breakdown of the upcoming court
- 43:34Speaker 1: hearing on April thirtieth. Allison was amazing. It's always helpful
- 43:39Speaker 1: to have somebody like that on here. We'll be back
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