104 - You Are Not Responsible for Everyone's Feelings

You Are Your Greatest Gift · Mar 25, 2026 · 8m

“It’s not my job to keep everybody comfortable.”

Leadership doesn’t mean carrying everyone.

In this episode, Carmen explores the difference between caring about others and taking responsibility for their experience—and how that distinction changes everything.

✨ Why over-caring can lead to shrinking

✨ The difference between leadership and emotional responsibility

✨ What happens in the body when you try to manage everyone

✨ A grounding question: What would I do if I weren’t trying to keep everyone happy?

A quiet reminder as you head into your day: you are your greatest gift.

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