Latest / Chief in Tech Deep Dive Shortcast / Chief in Tech S1E47 - Hindoli Roy : From Loud to Legendary – My Story of Reinventing Inclusive Leadership
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- 0:00I want you to imagine just for a second that
- 0:02you are sitting in one of those incredibly high
- 0:05stakes corporate meetings. Oh, yeah. We've all
- 0:08been there. Right. Like, you know the exact environment.
- 0:12The air conditioning is always freezing. The
- 0:14tension is just thick in the room. And everyone
- 0:16is staring at this complicated dashboard that
- 0:18isn't really making any sense. And no one wants
- 0:20to admit they don't understand it. Exactly. But
- 0:24you, out of everyone sitting around that massive
- 0:26table, you actually have the solution. you see
- 0:29the exact bottleneck. So you gear up to say something.
- 0:32Yeah, so you take a breath, you lean forward,
- 0:35you speak up, and you lay out your idea. And
- 0:38the moment you finish, instead of the room acknowledging
- 0:40the solution, the conversation just awkwardly
- 0:43moves on. Yeah, the classic brush off. Or, I
- 0:46mean, perhaps even worse, you get pulled aside
- 0:48by a manager afterward. And you're explicitly
- 0:50told that you were coming across as, quote, too
- 0:53loud. Ugh, it is just an incredibly deflating
- 0:56experience. It really is. Because you bring your
- 0:59passion and your technical expertise to the table,
- 1:02and the feedback you receive has absolutely nothing
- 1:05to do with the quality of your idea. Right, nothing
- 1:07about the actual merit. Exactly. The critique
- 1:10is entirely about your delivery. And it is usually
- 1:13aimed at just making you take up less space in
- 1:16the room. Well, that specific scenario is the
- 1:18jumping off point for our deep dive today. We're
- 1:21looking at a really compelling address titled
- 1:23The Architect of Inclusion Leading with Voice
- 1:26and Vision. Delivered at the Women in Tech Global
- 1:28Conference in 2025. Yes, exactly. By a tech leader
- 1:32named Hindoli. And it serves as a fascinating
- 1:35piece of source material because she isn't operating
- 1:39in the realm of abstract leadership theory here.
- 1:41No, not at all. She is giving us a strategic
- 1:43breakdown straight from the trenches of the tech
- 1:46industry based on real lived experiences. Right.
- 1:49And our mission for this deep dive is to basically
- 1:51extract the actionable mechanisms from her 15
- 1:55-year. It's quite a journey to trace. It really
- 1:59is. We are tracing a journey that starts with
- 2:01a software engineer fighting just to get her
- 2:03voice heard, and it ends with a VP who actively
- 2:07shapes the culture of her entire domain. Yeah.
- 2:10Okay, let's unpack this, because before we can
- 2:13really analyze the strategy she used to overcome
- 2:15those workplace barriers, we have to look at
- 2:18the raw materials she was working with. Her background
- 2:20is definitely unique. Yeah, it's this unique
- 2:22blend of skills, and that blend directly informs
- 2:25how she eventually learned to deploy her voice.
- 2:27Well, if you want to understand someone's operational
- 2:29style, you have to look at their foundation first.
- 2:31Right. Her 15 -year journey begins with a Roops
- 2:34in India, starting out as a software engineer.
- 2:38And over that time, she worked globally. for
- 2:41massive, incredibly complex organizations. Like
- 2:44Accenture, Deloitte, and JP Morgan. Heavy hitters.
- 2:47Oh, absolutely. And her technical breadth is
- 2:49just constantly expanding through all of this.
- 2:51Yeah, the text notes that she worked on traditional
- 2:54AI, then moved into mobile applications, and
- 2:56eventually landed in her current role in the
- 2:58FanOps domain. Managing really large -scale products.
- 3:01Right. But hold on. Let me make sure I'm understanding
- 3:03this progression, because tech moves so fast.
- 3:06When the source mentions traditional AI, what
- 3:09does that actually mean in the context of her
- 3:12early career? Like, compared to the generative
- 3:14AI models we see today, it's a really vital distinction.
- 3:19Traditional AI, in the context of her earlier
- 3:21engineering days, refers to highly structured,
- 3:25rule -based machine learning. OK. So more about
- 3:27numbers than generating text. Exactly. Think
- 3:30of predictive algorithms. It's about taking massive
- 3:33data sets, finding patterns, and making statistical
- 3:36predictions. Like forecasting user behavior or
- 3:39maybe detecting fraud? Spot on. And doing that
- 3:42requires a rigid, highly mathematical mindset.
- 3:46You are building models with very, very strict
- 3:48parameters. OK. And from those rigid models,
- 3:51she eventually transitions into phenops. Right.
- 3:53Just so we don't leave anyone behind, because
- 3:55I hear that term thrown around a lot lately,
- 3:57what does the intersection of finance and DevOps
- 3:59actually look like in a day -to -day corporate
- 4:01environment? Well, let's break it down. DevOps
- 4:04is the practice of merging software development
- 4:07with IT operations. Right. So a company can continuously
- 4:11update and deploy applications quickly. Yes.
- 4:14But when a massive company like JPMorgan moves
- 4:16all that rapid development to the cloud, the
- 4:19costs can just spiral out of control instantly
- 4:21if you aren't paying close attention. Oh, I can
- 4:23imagine. Yeah. Like someone leaves a massive
- 4:25server running over the weekend, and suddenly
- 4:27you burn through $100 ,000. Wow. So Phenops is
- 4:30the leash on that. Exactly. Phenops brings financial
- 4:34accountability to that cloud spend. You are optimizing
- 4:37massive scale products in real time. It sounds
- 4:41stressful. It is a rigorous, deeply analytical
- 4:44domain. I mean, a tiny coding error literally
- 4:47translates to a massive financial loss. Which
- 4:49makes the next detail in her address stand out
- 4:52so starkly to me because alongside all of this
- 4:55intense, analytical, high -stakes engineering
- 4:58work, she is deeply passionate about dance and
- 5:02creativity. It's such a striking contrast. Yeah.
- 5:04She explicitly mentions that she wrote this very
- 5:07address for the tech conference while she was
- 5:10actively preparing for a dance performance in
- 5:12Greece. You have the highly structured world
- 5:15of managing cloud computing costs on one side,
- 5:17right? Yeah. And then the fluid expressive world
- 5:20of a stage performance completely on the other.
- 5:22It honestly makes me view her entire career trajectory
- 5:26through the lens of choreography. Oh, how so?
- 5:29Well, to succeed in something as technically
- 5:31unforgiving as fine ops or to succeed as a high
- 5:34-level dancer, you absolutely must have a foundation
- 5:38of rigid technical precision. Right. You have
- 5:40to know the code, the math. Exactly. Or the physical
- 5:43steps in dance. But to truly stand out and lead,
- 5:46to become a VP or a lead performer, you need
- 5:49to create a flexibility to express yourself.
- 5:51To read the environment. Yeah. And to adapt to
- 5:53the music or, in her case, adapt to the market
- 5:56and the executive team. What's fascinating here
- 5:58is that we see this pattern consistently among
- 6:01the most innovative leaders in highly technical
- 6:04fields. Really? Like it's a common thread? Oh,
- 6:06for sure. The executives who can truly problem
- 6:10solve at a VP level rarely draw their inspiration
- 6:13solely from the technical manuals of their industry.
- 6:16That makes total sense. They need outside inspiration.
- 6:19Right. The spatial awareness, the rhythm, and
- 6:22the emotional intelligence required for dance,
- 6:25those are the exact same abstract mechanisms
- 6:27you need to manage a large -scale product team.
- 6:30Because you're dealing with people, not just
- 6:31machines. Exactly. You have to know when to push
- 6:35an initiative, when to yield, and how all the
- 6:38different moving parts of your organization harmonize.
- 6:40So that really paints a picture of a vibrant
- 6:43you know, multi -dimensional professional. But
- 6:45that vibrant background is exactly what crashed
- 6:48directly into a very rigid corporate wall early
- 6:51in her career. It did. The passion that fueled
- 6:54her creativity and made her a driven engineer
- 6:56became a sudden liability when she stepped into
- 6:59male -dominated meeting rooms. Yeah, and she
- 7:02details this early struggle very transparently.
- 7:04I mean, she had the technical foundation from
- 7:06places like Deloitte. She had strong ideas for
- 7:08optimizing projects, but she felt constantly
- 7:10shut down. Overlooked, yeah. And then came...
- 7:12the reprimand. She was formally told that her
- 7:15communication style was too loud. Which is just
- 7:18devastating to hear. The text notes this caused
- 7:20intense self -doubt, making her question how
- 7:23she operated at a fundamental level. But I have
- 7:26to push back on the corporate logic operating
- 7:28in that room for a second. Okay, lay it on me.
- 7:30Wait, in a competitive meeting at a major financial
- 7:32institution, aren't you supposed to speak up?
- 7:34You would certainly think so. Right. If you are
- 7:37trying to convince a room of skeptics to change
- 7:40a product roadmap, are you supposed to project
- 7:42confidence, assert your ideas, and essentially
- 7:45be loud enough to break through the noise? Why
- 7:48is volume suddenly treated as a penalty? This
- 7:51raises an important question about the hidden
- 7:53mechanics of workplace dynamics. Why is the exact
- 7:57same assertive behavior rewarded in one demographic
- 8:00and penalized in another? Yeah, why the discrepancy?
- 8:04Well, Hindley points directly to the answer in
- 8:06her address. Unconscious bias. Ah, the invisible
- 8:10filter in the room. Yes, unconscious bias fundamentally
- 8:13skews how assertiveness is decoded by an audience.
- 8:16And the source material outlines this double
- 8:19standard pretty clearly, right? It really does.
- 8:21When a man in a highly technical meeting speaks
- 8:24forcefully and passionately, the unconscious
- 8:27bias of the listeners often automatically codes
- 8:30that behavior as leadership. Like, oh, he's a
- 8:33real go -getter. Exactly. It's perceived as taking
- 8:37charge of the situation. But when a woman, particularly
- 8:41a woman of color in a male dominated engineering
- 8:43space, exhibits that exact same volume and passion.
- 8:47It's seen differently. Completely differently.
- 8:50The unconscious bias codes it as aggressive or
- 8:54disruptive. The message is lost. because the
- 8:57audience is entirely focused on policing the
- 8:59delivery. Man, if the rules of engagement are
- 9:01completely different depending on who is speaking,
- 9:03that could easily cause someone to just shut
- 9:05down entirely. Oh, without a doubt. I mean, if
- 9:07the system is wired to reject your frequency,
- 9:09why bother broadcasting at all? And that is the
- 9:12exact trap of self -doubt she found herself in.
- 9:15She was seriously considering shrinking her presence.
- 9:17Just blending into the background. Right. But
- 9:20she received a piece of advice from a mentor
- 9:22that shifted her entire perspective. Oh. What
- 9:26did they say? The mentor told her she didn't
- 9:29need to change her volume. And she didn't need
- 9:32to lose her passion. She needed to rewire her
- 9:35communication approach. OK, I love that phrasing.
- 9:37You don't throw out the machine. You just change
- 9:39how the circuits connect. Exactly. Once she understood
- 9:42that the game was complicated by this invisible
- 9:44layer of unconscious bias, she stopped trying
- 9:47to just push harder against a locked door. She
- 9:51got strategic. Yeah. Instead, she developed specific
- 9:54strategies to navigate the room. And the first
- 9:56step in that rewiring process was learning the
- 9:58art of reading the room. Which is a phrase we
- 10:01hear all the time. Right, and I want to pause
- 10:03here because I think a lot of professionals hear
- 10:04the phrase read the room and roll their eyes.
- 10:07Sure, it's on every generic leadership blog on
- 10:10the internet. Exactly. We all know what it means
- 10:12to generally gauge the mood of a meeting, but
- 10:15how do you actually execute that strategy when
- 10:19the room is inherently biased against you? It
- 10:22requires shifting from basic observation to strategic
- 10:26empathy. Strategic empathy? Say more about that.
- 10:29Well, Hindley realized that Having the mathematically
- 10:32correct answer in a Phinox meeting isn't enough
- 10:36if the delivery mechanism triggers the audience's
- 10:38biases. Right. Reading the room, in her context,
- 10:42meant diagnosing the communication styles, the
- 10:45risk tolerances, and the hidden agendas of the
- 10:48people sitting across from her before she spoke.
- 10:50Okay, here's where it gets really interesting
- 10:52to me. I think some people hear... tailor your
- 10:55message. And they interpret that as I have to
- 10:59compromise my identity and water down my personality
- 11:02to make other people comfortable. Which is a
- 11:03huge fear for a lot of people. Right. But reading
- 11:06the room isn't about compromising your identity.
- 11:08It is the fundamental difference between just
- 11:10broadcasting data and actually communicating
- 11:13a message. Let's look at the mechanics of that
- 11:15difference because it's key. Broadcasting is
- 11:17standing in a room and shouting your truth or
- 11:20your technical data regardless of whether anyone
- 11:22is equipped to hear it. It's a one way street.
- 11:24Yes. Communication, however, requires the sender
- 11:29to encode the message in a way that the specific
- 11:32receiver can accurately decode. OK, but how does
- 11:35that actually play out in a highly technical
- 11:37meeting? Like, how do you encode passion into
- 11:39data? Let's use a hypothetical phenom scenario
- 11:42based on her background. OK, let's hear it. Suppose
- 11:45she spots a massive inefficiency in how an application
- 11:48is drawing cloud computing power. A broadcast
- 11:51approach fueled by her natural passion. might
- 11:54be to go into a meeting and say, this architecture
- 11:57is broken, it's incredibly inefficient, and we
- 12:00need to overhaul the deployment pipeline right
- 12:02now. Which, because of unconscious bias, just
- 12:05gets coded as too loud or disruptive. Exactly.
- 12:07The message is completely rejected. So strategic
- 12:10empathy means reading that the room is full of,
- 12:13say, risk averse financial managers. OK, so you
- 12:15pivot. Right. You encode the exact same urgency
- 12:18into their language. You say, the current deployment
- 12:20pipeline is generating a $10 ,000 a minute cost
- 12:23overrun during peak hours. I have a risk mitigated
- 12:26plan to optimize the architecture and recapture
- 12:28that capital. Oh, wow. That is brilliant. Notice
- 12:31how you haven't lowered your ambition. You haven't
- 12:34changed your ultimate goal at all. No, you've
- 12:36just adjusted the frequency of the message so
- 12:39the audience can actually hear the solution instead
- 12:41of reacting to the volume. Exactly. That is just
- 12:43a master class in execution. But, I mean, reading
- 12:47the room only works for the people actually sitting
- 12:49in the meeting. How do you ensure your ideas
- 12:52have weight before you even open your mouth?
- 12:55Her second major strategy highlights the absolute
- 12:58necessity of developing strong alliances. Finding
- 13:01mentors and securing advocates within the organization.
- 13:04Yeah. But again, I'm trying to picture the real
- 13:07-world mechanics of this. How does a single software
- 13:10engineer who's already fighting self -doubt actually
- 13:13build a chorus of advocates. Well, you don't
- 13:16build advocates by pitching ideas cold in a high
- 13:18stakes environment. That's way too risky. Right.
- 13:20You build them through intentional localized
- 13:23socializing of your ideas beforehand. Meaning
- 13:25what exactly? If you know a major architectural
- 13:28decision is coming up, you seek out a senior
- 13:31engineer or a manager individually. Just a one
- 13:33on one. Yeah, you ask for their perspective on
- 13:35your data. You integrate their feedback. By the
- 13:38time the formal meeting actually occurs, you
- 13:41aren't a lone voice introducing a radical idea.
- 13:43You already have backup. Exactly. You have intentionally
- 13:47created a network of people who understand your
- 13:49value and your vision. When you speak, You have
- 13:53their implicit backing. You've pre -wired the
- 13:56room. Perfect way to put it. And this combination
- 13:58of tailored empathetic communication and strategic
- 14:01alliances is what propelled her rapidly up the
- 14:04ranks to a VP position. It really works. It proves
- 14:08her core thesis, honestly. Inclusive leadership
- 14:10isn't just a title. It's about someone who has
- 14:13fought through bias, ensuring that the voices
- 14:15of their team members are heard too. It creates
- 14:17this amazing compounding effect. When a leader
- 14:20understands the mechanics of how ideas get silenced,
- 14:23they become hyper aware of making sure they don't
- 14:26replicate those same rigid structures for the
- 14:28engineers working under them. Totally. But to
- 14:31reach that VP level at companies with the scale
- 14:33of JPMorgan or Deloitte, I mean, you have to
- 14:35scale your influence. One -on -one socializing
- 14:38only gets you so far in an enterprise that big.
- 14:41Exactly. Hindley outlines two specific ways she
- 14:43scaled her visibility and they sit on totally
- 14:46opposite ends of the spectrum. One is very old
- 14:48school and one is very new school. Right. One
- 14:51is a deeply traditional human approach and the
- 14:53other relies on cutting edge technology. Let's
- 14:56start with the human element. She advocates for
- 14:59the immense power of a simple coffee chat with
- 15:03senior leadership. It sounds deceptively basic.
- 15:05but it is an incredibly potent mechanism for
- 15:08disarming the corporate hierarchy. I'm struggling
- 15:11to see how a simple coffee chat breaks through
- 15:13deeply ingrained unconscious bias, though. Like,
- 15:16if an executive has a preconceived notion of
- 15:18who you are, does a 15 -minute coffee really
- 15:21change that? It actually can. Can we dig into
- 15:23the psychology of why this works? It works because
- 15:26it fundamentally changes the environmental context.
- 15:29A formal presentation has stakes, It has an agenda,
- 15:33a strict timeline, and it triggers a professional
- 15:35threat response. Like executives are listening
- 15:37just to find the flaws in your pitch. Yes. A
- 15:41coffee chat strips away that corporate armor.
- 15:43When you invite a senior leader for a brief informal
- 15:46conversation, you are removing the immediate
- 15:49business stakes. You're just two people talking.
- 15:52Exactly. You are no longer just an engineer demanding
- 15:54resources. You are a human being asking about
- 15:58their career trajectory or seeking perspective
- 16:01on an industry trend. It humanizes you. It makes
- 16:04it much harder for their unconscious bias to
- 16:07rely on a two -dimensional stereotype because
- 16:09you are forcing them to interact with your multi
- 16:12- dimensional reality. It is a really targeted
- 16:15way to build alliances right at the very top.
- 16:17But I mean, taking that step requires significant
- 16:19courage. You are actively choosing to take up
- 16:22space on an executive's calendar. That can be
- 16:24very intimidating. Yeah. And while she is navigating
- 16:27these highly nuanced interpersonal human connections,
- 16:30she is simultaneously employing the exact opposite
- 16:33strategy to scale her influence. The tech side.
- 16:36Right. She advocates using AI as a strategic
- 16:38ally. This is where her engineering background
- 16:41truly shines. She doesn't just view AI as a utility
- 16:44for writing code or automating DevOps tasks.
- 16:46No, she takes it much further. She advises using
- 16:49artificial intelligence to actively refine human
- 16:52communication and navigate those biased environments.
- 16:56It is exactly like having a secret digital career
- 16:59coach sitting right on your desktop. That's a
- 17:01great analogy. Think about the mental friction
- 17:04of the two -loud paradox. If you have been penalized
- 17:07for your tone in the past, drafting an email
- 17:10to a difficult stakeholder becomes an exhausting
- 17:13exercise in second -guessing yourself. Oh, absolutely.
- 17:16You sit there rewriting the same paragraph for
- 17:18an hour. Yes. Hindoli realized you can literally
- 17:21feed that communication into an AI model to remove
- 17:24the emotional guesswork. The prompting process
- 17:27is what really makes this effective. You don't
- 17:29just ask the AI to write the email for you. Right.
- 17:32It's not a ghostwriter. You write your natural
- 17:33passionate thoughts, and then you prompt the
- 17:36AI with specific parameters. You ask, review
- 17:38this project proposal. Is the tone assertive
- 17:41but collaborative? Does the language convey urgency
- 17:44without sounding accusatory? How might a risk
- 17:47averse financial executive interpret this opening
- 17:49paragraph? Wow, so you are using the machine
- 17:52to test the encoding of your message before you
- 17:55broadcast it to a human. Exactly. It is absolutely
- 17:58fascinating that, in a deeply vulnerable struggle
- 18:01to be heard by other people, she recruited an
- 18:04artificial intelligence as a shield against their
- 18:07biases. If we connect this to the bigger picture,
- 18:10it perfectly encapsulates what modern leadership
- 18:13in the tech industry requires today. You need
- 18:15both sides. You cannot rely solely on raw technical
- 18:19output, and you cannot rely solely on networking
- 18:22charm. You have to master both ends of the spectrum.
- 18:25The human and the machine. You have to be brave
- 18:28enough to sit down for a highly personal informal
- 18:31coffee chat to disarm a senior executive. And
- 18:33you have to be savvy enough to use the latest
- 18:35AI models to meticulously refine your strategic
- 18:38messaging. It is that synthesis of the highly
- 18:40personal and the highly technical that creates
- 18:43true influence. Absolutely. So from the rigid
- 18:46precision of her software engineering roots to
- 18:48the creative expression of her dance performances,
- 18:51she took all those raw materials and built a
- 18:53leadership style that just refused to be silenced.
- 18:56She really did. She didn't lower her volume.
- 18:59She just figured out how to make her frequency
- 19:01undeniable. Undeniable is the perfect word for
- 19:03it. So what does this all mean for you? As you're
- 19:07listening to this deep dive, I want you to think
- 19:09back to that corporate meeting we visualized
- 19:11at the very beginning. The freezing cold room.
- 19:14Yeah. When you have the solution, are you just
- 19:17broadcasting your data and hoping the room is
- 19:19equipped to hear it? Or are you diagnosing the
- 19:23room, encoding your passion into their language,
- 19:26and relying on the advocates you've already built?
- 19:28It's a huge difference. Take a page out of Hindoli's
- 19:31playbook and audit your own mechanisms. And more
- 19:34importantly, challenge yourself this week. Find
- 19:37a senior leader in your organization whose trajectory
- 19:39you admire, push past the self -doubt, and send
- 19:42that daunting calendar invite for a coffee check.
- 19:45Just do it. You might be surprised at how much
- 19:47the room changes when you simply choose to take
- 19:50up space. And as you think about how to elevate
- 19:52your own voice, I want to leave you with a final
- 19:55thought to mull over regarding her use of technology.
- 19:58Okay, let's hear it. There is a pervasive anxiety
- 20:00right now. that artificial intelligence is going
- 20:03to make the workplace colder, more robotic, and
- 20:06fundamentally less human. Oh, you hear that everywhere.
- 20:09Right. But Hindley successfully used AI to navigate
- 20:14unconscious bias, to refine her emotional intelligence,
- 20:17and to ensure her empathy landed perfectly with
- 20:20her audience. That's a wild flip. It presents
- 20:22a fascinating paradox. Will the integration of
- 20:25AI in the workplace actually force us to become
- 20:28more empathetic, thoughtful, and inclusive communicators,
- 20:31rather than making us more robotic? That is a
- 20:33brilliant question to end on, because if a machine
- 20:35can help anyone perfectly encode their data,
- 20:38then the only very that truly differentiates
- 20:41your idea is the humanity and the conviction
- 20:43driving it. Never be afraid to let them hear
- 20:45it.