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Discover the Top 3 Shocking Reasons Narcissists Block You! · The Mental Healness Podcast

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  What is going on beautiful folks?
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  Today we're going to be talking about 3 different reasons 123 I
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  got to watch your hand signals today.
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  Don't we? Don't misinterpret this one.
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  I'm not saying that y'all not in real life, but you know what I'm
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  talking about. 3-3 different three different reasons that a
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  narcissist or a toxic person will block you.
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  If you're new here, my name is Lee Hammock.
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  I'm a diagnosed narcissist. Welcome to another episode of
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  the Narcissist Code. Let's get it.
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  Boom. Welcome back folks, welcome
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  back, welcome back. Yes y'all 3 glorious different
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  reasons why narcissistic or toxic people will go ahead and
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  get your ass on the bottom here with a block block gang.
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  Serious right? Why would they go ahead and
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  block you and get you out of here, you know?
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  So before we hop deep in today's episode, y'all make sure you hit
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  that subscribe button, y'all, please, I don't ask for much.
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  I just ask that you subscribe to the channel, please, wherever
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  you're watching this at, hit that subscribe button because my
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  podcast is releasing next week, The Middle Hill.
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  This podcast is coming soon. But yes, y'all, narcissistic,
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  toxic abuse of manipulative people are almost always going
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  to block you for one of these three reasons.
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  OK, one of these three reasons they're going to block you.
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  The first one, let's get it. Let's get this one out the way.
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  The first and more most obvious reason is they might be done
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  with you, right? They absolutely, unequivocally
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  might just be done with the relationship.
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  This might be the final discard from their side.
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  You know, normally watch my videos, I say the final discard
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  is up to you. But when it comes to
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  narcissistic people, sometimes on their side of things, they
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  might be want to be the ones to break up with you.
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  So sometimes they'll break up with you just because they want
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  to be the last ones to do it. So they'll block you to go and
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  get you open up out of here like they are done with you, you
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  know, and guess what happens, y'all?
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  There's so many people who I do want my one-on-one coaching with
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  over at mentalmentalillness.net that absolutely get broken by
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  this, right? And rightfully so.
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  Like you go from talking to somebody every single day,
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  dealing with them every single day to now they blocked you and
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  you just like, I don't know what happened, like what's going on
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  here. Like what, what, what could have
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  happened here? Like you're confused as hell
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  because you don't understand why they blocked you.
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  Like one of the main reasons is because they could be done with
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  you and that could hurt because it can make you it can make you
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  as a survivor thrive or whatever starting to feel worthless.
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  You can start be like, damn, I must not be worth nothing to
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  this person if they can just so easily block me.
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  I must not mean much to them, right?
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  Sometimes they're just trying to protect themselves.
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  Y'all, they're done. They just want to be done with
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  you. They want to just gallivant off
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  into the darkness, right? They want to just go into their
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  little narcissistic slumber like a damn vampire bat, like a
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  little narcissistic vampire bat. Go hang upside down in a little
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  narc in a little narc cave and just hang upside down.
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  Wait for the sun to go down. It would not, but yeah, this
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  does happen. They will hang up.
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  They might not be hanging upside down.
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  Y'all? Y'all get what I'm saying
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  though? It might might not absolutely be
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  hanging upside down, but they're doing something.
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  They're not just sitting out there and allowing you to be
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  peace, be be at peace or nothing like that though, you know what
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  I mean? So this happens too.
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  This is what we can fall into. This is what happened to so many
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  people. Like they might block you and
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  just cut off all contact with you.
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  They might go no contact with you, block you and disappear on
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  you. And because they're done with
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  you and guess what happens? You might start feeling like the
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  narcissist. Well, Lee, am I the narcissist
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  because they blocked me? I wasn't done with them yet.
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  I wanted to finish. I want to close you.
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  It doesn't mean make you a narcissist who abused who, who
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  was toxic, who was manipulative, who was lying, who was cheating,
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  who was doing this, who's financially abusing.
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  Get clear, get clarity on it, right.
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  I hope, I hope that bring you some clarity right there.
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  The next reason that I have written down right here, y'all
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  in my handy dandy notebook is they want to control you.
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  They want to absolutely have control over the breakup
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  process, right? They want to control every
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  aspect of what is going on, of what is happening, how things
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  have went down. They absolutely want to have
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  control over that. So you as a person that's
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  healing and trying to grow have to understand that this is the
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  goal. Sometimes they absolutely just
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  want to control you. Like they're blocking you, not
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  because they're done with you. They could block you to control,
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  right? They could be blocking and be
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  done to control it, right? But if they want to control you,
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  typically they're not done right.
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  Sometimes they block you first just so they can have the
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  ability to unblock you. Like they go ahead and block you
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  first, get you on up out of there, block you on everything.
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  And so they can unblock you at any time and like and throw.
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  I call these narcissistic grenades, right?
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  I call these little narcissistic grenades.
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  They can block you and then all of a sudden I don't know where
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  they could unblock you. Pull the pin on a little toxic
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  grenade of this is BBQ sauce, the core show.
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  Pull the pin on it, Throw it like this is Adm.
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  This is Adm grenade. They can DM you or instant.
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  It'll inbox you or just text you or whatever or just call you and
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  then they can block you again. They like to play this blocking,
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  unblocking game. Yeah, it it's fun.
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  It can be fun to block you unblock you, block you peek at
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  your stuff if you have a public profile and then block you
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  again. You know I get so many messages
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  and this is so many comments and messages are like why would they
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  block you to unblock you? This is why y'all share this
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  video so other people can see it just hit the share button yo
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  share it on YouTube, share it somewhere read it go somewhere
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  share it on Facebook, your Facebook group, your friends
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  group or whatever, because this can help so many people right?
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  Because they can block you to just be able to unblock you.
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  They want to have control over all the situations and whatnot.
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  They want to have control. They want to have power.
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  They want to have they want to just narcissists like to have
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  control right? They love it.
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  We love it. I like control too, right?
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  To the point where they will become damn near
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  self-destructive or what I refer to as other destructive.
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  Narcissistic people are very rarely just self destructed.
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  They are other destructed. They are destroying everybody
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  else around them as well. So it's not just one thing that
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  they're taking out with them. They're destroying everything in
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  their sight, like a dam in their pathway, like a raging flat fast
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  flood, a little fast flood of north, flash flood of
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  narcissistic toxic behaviors, right?
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  This could happen too. So you have to be very, very
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  careful. Be very big.
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  Be very, very careful. I'm honey Wabbit, like Elmo,
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  Elmer Fudd, right? You have to be very careful in
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  the situations. Well, Lee, how do I get them to
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  stop doing it? If you notice, if you look on
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  that profile, like if they blocked you originally, right?
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  If they originally blocked you and now you notice that you're
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  unblocked, all of a sudden you need to go ahead and block them,
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  right? You need to go ahead and you
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  need to hit that block button on them in order to protect your
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  peace, right? In order to protect yourself, in
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  order to protect your peace, you need the one to go to be the one
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  to hit that block button. So now you're in control of it,
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  right? Because if you block them first
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  and you don't plan on unblocking them, you win.
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  Of course, today's day and age, today's society, you said
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  today's society, you won't believe.
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  Like I said, you will not believe it.
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  But there's ways around blocking, right?
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  You can block them everywhere, but they'll out damn near
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  because of social media exists, because these fake, these apps
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  exist, because all this stuff exists.
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  They could still possibly find a way to reach around, find a way
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  to circumvent being blocked on your end.
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  They can create a fake number, fake page, whatever it is.
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  They can go out of their way to be unblocked on your page and in
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  your situation and whatnot. So you have to protect yourself
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  in here too, y'all? Because like, if you don't,
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  they'll come and get you. I promise you, they will come
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  get you. They will mess with you, they
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  will antagonize you. They'll do all of these things
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  to just get in to try to get over on you right now, right?
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  So you have to be ready for this or otherwise.
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  I mean, you don't have to be ready and you just be a Privy to
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  manipulation. This this back and forth game,
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  Lee, I'm just tired of the blocking unblocking game didn't
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  block them. You got to be one that block.
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  You have to be the one that blocks them in order to get your
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  peace. Your peace does not help a
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  narcissist. You being at peace does not help
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  them moving forward. They won't control.
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  They won't power. Your peace does not mean that
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  they're in any have any type of power.
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  Your peace is you being in power.
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  Your peace is you being in control.
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  They want to control the narrative.
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  They want to be able to get out there and lie.
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  Sometimes, yeah, sometimes they just want to get there and lie.
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  They want to block you so they can go there and lie, lie their
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  asses off. They can control not just you.
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  They control the narrative of what people think went down,
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  right. Yeah.
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  So it just like they want to control the flow of information.
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  They want to control what is said and what is happening.
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  They absolutely want to control this type of stuff.
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  So they will block you in order. So you don't know what they're
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  posting. You don't know what they're
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  saying. You don't know what's going on.
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  I'm a go into greater detail my next one, but it's just like
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  until you understand it and see it for what it is, this type of
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  stuff will absolutely keep happening.
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  Like you have to get ahead a hold of the block and then the
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  the control for the blocking in order to power yourself up in
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  order to get past this last blockage.
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  Because they want to control the narrative.
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  They want to control what's said, and they also want to
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  control whether or not you reach out to them.
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  They this is how they test you too, right?
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  They'll test you by blocking you to see if you will reach out to
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  them to see if you will contact them to see if you will find a
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  way to go around the block and they want to see it.
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  If you still care right. They want to just give this test
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  to see if you how much you care and what you're willing to do to
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  get in contact with them. So watch out for the game.
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  Y'all. If they block you and they keep
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  they keep blocking you and unblocking you, you're going to
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  have to be the one that ended. You got to stop playing the
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  game. You got to just like you know,
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  and when they hand when they hand you the proverbial
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  controller when they hand you the controller like you want to
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  play going to play the block game with me, you have to say
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  no, I'm out. If not y'all, I'm just telling
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  you this could go on for a very long time like like Lee, when
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  does it end? Sometimes it doesn't.
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  Sometimes you have to be the one that ends it because if you
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  don't, that's when things will get.
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  Things will start to kind of get wicked as Zebby be saying, you
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  know what I mean? And the last last but not least,
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  the last reason I have right here y'all the last reason that
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  I have written down right here, the last reason that I feel like
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  they could block you. Of course, there could be
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  reasons outside of this. Make sure to drop it in the
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  comment section right? But there's a new supply that
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  they don't want you to know about.
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  A lot of times narcissists talk to people will block you because
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  they have a new supply that they do not want you knowing about.
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  They do not want you knowing of or about this new supply because
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  that doesn't benefit them in any way, right?
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  How would you find it out about their new supply benefit them
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  anyway? Sometimes, right?
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  Unless they're trying to intentionally hurt you, unless
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  they're trying to show you that they've moved on or whatever the
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  case may be, you learning about or dealing with or encountering
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  their new supply does not benefit them in any way, shape
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  or form. So typically, they're going to
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  try to hide them from you, right?
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  They're going to try to hide them from you.
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  This is what happens. So you in preparation for this,
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  you have to keep empowering yourself, right?
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  Like they don't want to believe. Why would they hide the new
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  supply? If they're so happy, why would
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  they hide them? Sometimes, y'all, you might know
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  the new supply, right? You might know this person.
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  So they don't definitely don't want you to know who they are,
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  right? So you might know who their new
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  supply is and they don't want you to see it or have proof.
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  So they hide them. They might be like I said, it
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  might be one of your friends or your family members and White
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  might be one of their own friends that they told you not
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  to worry about. This guy or gal that they say
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  don't worry about. This is just my friend now they
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  might be sleeping with them. They might be the new Boo, You
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  know what I'm saying? They might absolutely be the new
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  Boo in this situation and that would mess you up too.
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  So I'm just saying like, you have to protect your peace in
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  this situation because sometimes they will absolutely go ahead
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  and block you just to hide their new supply.
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  Plausible deniability believe. Why is there another reason why
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  they hide it? To hide A new supply?
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  Yeah, because they're not done with you just yet.
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  If you can't prove that I have a new supply, sometimes it keeps
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  me and you rolling around, right?
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  Sometimes me and you will roll around and keep messing around.
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  We just friends with benefits. Right now.
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  We just clapping cheeks. You you could tell me.
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  It's like you let me know if you get somebody else so I can stop
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  sleeping with you, OK? I don't want to be a bad person,
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  OK? I'll tell you.
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  And they don't tell like the whole time they got somebody
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  new, they just won't don't want to divulge you to you because
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  that would ruin their their setup.
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  So yeah, they don't want, they're not done with you yet.
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  They don't want you to know. So they'll hide the new supplies
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  sometimes, like divorce proceedings or whatever the case
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  may be. So they'll block you on social
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  media. So you can't prove infidelity.
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  You can't prove certain things. Like, of course, of course,
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  y'all, there's ways around it. Oh, damn near every site there's
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  ways around figuring out whether or not they have a new supply,
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  figuring out there's somebody else in the picture.
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  There's always, there's always ways around it, aren't they?
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  You know, So they could block you because they done with you.
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  They could block you because they want to control the
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  narrative. They want to control the
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  finances. They want to hide certain things
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  online. They don't want you to see it
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  yet or ever. And also they could block you
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  because they wanted to hide the new supply.
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  They're not ready to expose the new supply yet.
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  They're not ready for you to see who the new supply is or what
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  they're going on. Because again, it could be
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  somebody you've caught them with before.
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  It could be a person from YouTube or TikTok or Instagram
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  or whatever my case to be case ends up being.
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  It could be somebody that really grinds your gears, so to speak.
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  So be very careful. Any of these three reasons is
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  enough for you. You know is you know is it
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  should give you enough in your mind justification to bounce on
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  them right? They keep blocking you playing
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  this game 'cause there's so many people I talk to who y'all live
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  together. Y'all be blocked.
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  Y'all still be together like it's not just living together.
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  Y'all be cohabitating, raising kids, married, but be blocked on
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  be have each other blocked on social media.
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  You know what I mean? This happens to y'all, but it
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  was y'all think I'm reaching to the end of my video.
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