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Love is luck, and less about intelligence · Talk to Prince Show - Solving World's Problems

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  The the challenges of life sometimes is uh very enormous and a burden. Mostly
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  sometimes for the woman is finding somebody to laugh and being loved and uh it's
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  uh it's sometimes it's a paradox and sometimes a very tricky situation. And I
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  always pray that when women do find that love and uh that you have it
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  and that you deserve it and should be treated for it. And uh and
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  yeah, cause some some women go through a lot. Most relationships don't go
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  well. And uh sometime the the woman uh trust the wrong person and get
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  married or engaged or in love for their own person and uh, sometimes it
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  doesn't go well and uh and it becomes a burdon and uh a struggle to
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  find new love and uh sometimes it's amount of time, the pressure from friends
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  and the fear that time is ticking. You know that Mostly sometimes women start
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  look kind of age because of pressure, and uh it gives some self doubt
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  and and especially from a broken relationship. You know it it takes heart for
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  a woman to to do everything right. And maybe being dumbed by the guy
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  or maybe being disrespected, or it takes them to hear you know, the
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  feeling like something is lacking when there's nothing lacking, and uh, it becomes
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  so challenging and and the woman needs to regroup herself and may go back to
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  her own connections or friends for her girl friends to motivate her, in courage
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  her, and and she's back in the dirty it's fair. Uh not.
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  Some try online and uh, you know, go back to places that they
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  thought they want not go anymore. And some not careful that that that it
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  Sometimes it's gives them doubt no matter how beautiful they are. And sometimes the
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  US is retrospective and sometime er in the negative or self defeating questions of insufficiency
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  or inadequacy, and in scharities that they they try to to feel that hole
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  of trying to know what do I do wrong? Where did he go?
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  Or why was that treated like that? And why did he do that?
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  And where do I start? Right? It's always better to start a knew
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  than the way you're not happy and you know, let's says it's uh,
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  it's always start with a woman to find out the true because the woman isn't
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  one making the decision and the choice, and the men sometimes are just jerks,
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  you know, no good cruel, wrong, abuse, if dumb not
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  smart and careless, flat, lostful and cheerless. And sometimes someone drugs,
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  someone just arrogance, and some never loved and they don't know how to love
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  somebody. And women need to be with all this right, and a woman
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  needs to subdue and lose a lot to build a guy because a woman always
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  aimed that high, but because of compassion sometimes and I just laugh, they
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  sat to for less and when the less goes wrong, you know, their
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  ego takes a bidding and they just it's a tough time for a woman to
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  separate from someone, the one's laugh or the abandoning love or rejected or mistreated
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  or disrespected or abouse. It's difficult. That's why you s You see some
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  goes. Some will go back to the club, you know, drink and
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  trying to force themselves into dates they don't like and to try the first it
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  doesn't work, try the second, and and sometimes becomes so difficult or stressful,
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  so demanding, and sometimes they just feel that it's so embarrassing if you're
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  not carefully again they started for something else. It's upon the man to always
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  treat the woman. And we love you, guessn't disagree and quarry and you
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  be for the basis of love. You cannot compromise love. You can't disagree
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  on so many things, but disagree out of love, out of affection.
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  Man, if you disagree with a woman, how to make things better,
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  not to demean or disregard or disrespect or denycrite, or it's not not good.
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  Uh. Men must tr struggle to overcome that. Cause when I see
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  many ladies out there and I talk to some of them, when they want
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  me to, Donna express what they are going through. You see, they
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  need love, love, l ov not lust for man right and need somebody
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  to love, to set her down with, to call home, somebody that
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  they can have their family, have children they want or have their pets together.
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  Somebody for warmth, for care, for attention, you know, attend
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  to that needs unnecessities, and some kind, kind heart, kind person to
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  talk to. You know, it's always very important. And when they do
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  s find his love when they should have it, they should deserve it.
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  You know, many men should learn to be funny, you know, to
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  make jokes, and to to be warm, you know, to be warming
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  and friendly. And you know, romantic is not a world. It's a
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  thing to be caring. It's just a cliche. It's not a cliche.
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  It's a thing like you know, we need to laugh and care for one
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  another. When a woman it's going through uh divorce uh sepression, it takes
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  her time to hear. Some stay for a long time before the date,
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  and some don't do it at all. And all the wish to do is
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  not to go through that again and me and to start a journey by yourself
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  again and risk your your autonomy, agency and control to share your life again
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  with somebody after a better relationship with uh stuff, you know. But I
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  always surprised that UH need courage and confidence and assurance to all myself and you
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  need to love love for ourselves and spend time with you and just figure out
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  what is good for you. Then ask yourself, why should like date?
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  Why do I need somebody? You know? And sometimes it's a much better
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  to be by yourself. I have a hobby, or I try it or
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  recreshon a leisure, a devotion or invocation that you that you like. You
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  know, just view yourself a why and learn to love yourself, learn to
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  live by yourself, and learn to forgive yourself and learn to let go and
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  try to love again. If you want to be loved love it's uh luck.
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  It can be the most beautiful woman on plan on earth and be struggling
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  to have love, uh somebody that cares for you, and you can be
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  a woman without less not so much good futures, but have the love of
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  your life out the blessings of a good relationship. And so the the the
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  d the dynamicism of love. It's very tricky. So when you don't have
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  it, don't follow yourself. Just pray to be at the right place at
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  the right time or to meet the right person and that cares for him.
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  And it equally depends on what uh where you're looking in the man, and
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  you're looking for happiness, for love or confidence, for security, for pleasure,
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  for the future, for marriage, to build a home, casual relationships.
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  You must uh seek to know what you want in the man and what
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  type of man you want. Job oriented, you a futuristic looking, creative,
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  f family person, good looks, good genes and elegance, you know,
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  esthetics or class. And it depends on what you want. But don't
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  compromise love, care for that and don sick emptiness, try to be fulfilled
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  and uh don't make your happiness to be dependent on a man, because sometimes
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  you not have it, because men are sometimes try this just like they were
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  kids. You know. Sometimes the childiness of man doesn't go away. You
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  might think that they are not loving and that they're not caring. Someone just
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  try this. And and in lack who they're social accused to feelings. And
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  some men don't know what to say. They say the wrong thing at the
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  right time and the right thing at the wrong time. And you teach them.
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  And and it's for the woman to look the man he wants and fashion
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  and shape the man to do what they want. Women have that power because
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  they women have that intelligence, and they are more smart, intelligent than men.
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  And women live longer than men. Women are better, are managers,
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  better, leaders, better us charges, and women look into the future.
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  They are they got false sight. And the woman knows what she wants in
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  the man. And the man sees the flesh at first sight, but the
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  woman looks into the heart, the kindness and the goodness and loving care,
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  the courage, hard work, carry out rentent then tough and you know,
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  and it depends on the woman or they want Some women one artist, you
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  know, scientists, engineers, you know, philosophers, you know, and
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  you know career oriented people, developers, makers, engineers, you know.
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  It depends on you know you want, depends on what you want inventors,
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  your it's your choice. But you remember that if you get married to Armstein
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  just an example, Uh, you are not Armstein, just want Armstein.
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  M you know you can only be you don't what gage your life for a
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  man, and don't risk everything for a man, because a man might be
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  stupid, it might be foolish, the the man might be arrogant, it
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  might be narcissistic, apathetic, psychopathic. You know, a man might be
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  anti antisocial, it might be cruel, it might be mean, you might
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  you know, don't don't count on a man for your happiness, for your
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  independence, for your freedom, for your pride, for your entrisic individuality.
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  You must seek that for yourself. And a man is more of a partner,
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  something or somebody you need and things can work out, things might fall
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  apart at the end of the day. You should not destroy yourself for somebody
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  else, alright, if you'd not be desperate, and you should not be
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  so savvy in relationship. It's not it's less about intelligence but more about human
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  understanding about emotions, feelings, compassion and empathy, right, rushing to go
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  home to see the one in love, and just being able to to chill
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  and express yourself without fear. And it's good to have somebody to share her
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  life with it and take your time to find the right person. You might
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  not know the right person until you try. If you try and it's working,
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  you can go for it. If you try it's not working. Don't
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  cry for spill milk. Why if something's wrong, it's wrong. You cannot
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  make something wrong to be right when it's wrong, as you're lying to yourself.
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  Don't the way you don't like, especially in a relationship, because of
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  anything. Again, Love, beauty, satisfaction, and happiness are subjectivities seeking.
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  Seeking meaning, purpose and fulfilling are the subjectivities seeking which just wealth and
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  class or status or power or influence are all subjectivities. It depends on the
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  individual. It depends on what you want. If Prince Jelly, it's an
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  illusion settled for for the Jew, you know, it's good to have somebody
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  with less that gives you happiness, respect, meaning, and then have somebody
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  and that has the whole horle and does not respect you or distract out you.
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  You cannot settle for poverty. Man, you cannot compromise yourself for wealth.
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  Those ambiguities that affects our relationships. If you can, If you can't
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  get the person that you dream of it, do stay by yourself and be
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  happy. Oh you know, that's a matter of skill, of preference.
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  You do the math. Don't aks too much from yourself that you can give
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  to yourself. Men. Men are just men, mostly no good, grossly
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  miscalculated, misjoged, or overestimated. Remember, there are no two human beings.
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  Intrinsic individuality, projection, perception, perspective are different. There are no
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  two men. Each human being has a mind of its own. Don't fall
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  in the mistake of categorizing men or ranking men. Oh, no, know
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  the one you have. Fix what you have, believe in problem serving before
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  you you live what you have trying to fix it. First. The problem
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  might be you, oh, both of you. There are three types of
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  people. Those who create problems they cannot solve, those who solve the problems
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  they create, and those who solve problems they didn't create. There is no
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  book, oh some super intelligence for love. There is no guru. No,
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  there is no just you're understanding yourself and finding yourself in the person that
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  you are with something in common, something you guys can build together, something
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  you can sacrifice for. Somebody can call home, can call love. But
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  that I will love you for who you are, not what you are.
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  Somebody will be there for you when the whole world is against you. Somebody
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  that I will love you unconditionally and will be there to help you grow.
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  That's what we all need. I wish the same for you as I wish
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  for myself. I'm bit negative and feel so less about yourself. You'll not
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  help you. Only you can solve your own problem. Only you have friends.
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  Determine the choice of who you're supposed to be with. Be with a
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  person of your dream. I say two for what is real? Illusions and
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  reality is different. Right it real? Be practical. I'm pragmatic in your
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  relationship. I'll let little things make you happy. Don't sacrifice your happiness on
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  one single person if it doesn't work with one person, and that I'm more
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  eight billion people in the world. Just pray to get somebody better. But
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  don't be lucky bird lucky perching from tree to tree. They might not have
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  the last tree to go to. Don't set it for less, un sacrifice
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  your happiness relationship. Don't be desperate in a relationship. It's better to be
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  with yourself and how to be happy than to force yourself in a situation where
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  you don't come up on top no matter what you do. Life is one
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  time is one just one you and the world. It came from a womb
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  of a woman with love. Remember the day you were born, the hopes
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  you brought to your family. We can go into a relationship, don't forget
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  that people love you. If it doesn't work out, come back home and
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  you still find love on conditional love. It takes some time to heal,
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  take some time to be yourself before you go out out there to adventure.
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  Life is all about making mistake, trying things, see what works, what
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  doesn't work, and end of the day, it's just an experiment. Be
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  just on stage, having fun, learning as we go, trying to be
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  better, trying new things or being will find the love of all life.
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  Humans are not perfect. There is no Jesus any human being. Though I
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  expect to sign. Humans come with their flow. It's a package, the
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  good, the bad, and the ugly. M p be measurement proportionality and
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  balance. It all depends on you. T DQ, think, doubt and
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  ask questions. It's all about PPP, projection, perception, and perspective.
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  All these things are subjectivities. It depends on you. At the end of
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  the day, it's about you, your life, your safety, your security,
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  your peace, and the place to call home. That home should be
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  your happiness, should be your happiness. What is happiness depends on you.
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  Depends on you. Just be positive, work. We ae give yourself some
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  time. Sometimes disappointments are good things to come. I believe in that.
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  I believe in that. Stop crying and crying for spil milk. If a
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  guy let you go, shame on him. Sometimes we don't know what we
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  have until it's gone. We'll move on. Life is much about moving on.
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  If you don't move on in life, this life can become very painful.
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  It can become stressful, depressing, and even suicider. Why because you
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  don't let go and move on, somebody must not be with you. It's
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  one thing's true. You must be with yourself. So if somebody choose not
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  to be with you, so be it. Because the being of your being
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  is all on you. The being of the being is a being itself and
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  nothing else intrinsic individuality. Remember, the human being is not an island.
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  With the community. You cannot lie to yourself, and if you stay by
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  yourself all the time, you will be happy. No. No, A
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  human being is a social being. It's a friendly being. It's a community
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  being. It's a being that like to like to go places, to the
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  movies, to the club, sometimes to the bars, to the restaurant,
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  to the park, to the museums. Like to travel and see things around
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  the world. And make yourself I renaissent ir renaissance person. Seek new knowledge,
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  find new friendship, try new travelers. At the end of the day,
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  give yourself happiness. Live your life. There is just one physical life
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  to live. There is no life in the grave. Live life now.
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  Stop the stop the self blaming, on the regrets and all those things.
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  Go out there. Live your life. And if you get relationship, try
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  to make it work. If it doesn't work, let it go and move
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  on. Cet new things, go to work. You know, do your
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  own life, do your own stuff. I can't I wish you the best,
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  but you need to wish it for yourself more. I can only give
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  you advice who am I and make my own mistakes? Why can't they share
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  my wisdom with you? That is not perfect human being. We have flawed
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  human being. We got the left hand, the right hand, the right
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  brain, the left brain, ten fingers know how design? The human being
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  is a complicated being. How can the human being the left brain and the
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  right brain opposite? Think about it? So, don't expect perfection, not
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  of imperfection. Trust you like you, amer you, like to be with
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  you, Spend time with you, be happy being you. When you learn
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  the love of self, it's easy to love orders. And when the love
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  of orthers falls apart, you can still love yourself. It becomes difficult for
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  you when you don't love yourself and somebody doesn't love you. That's when you
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  get into crisis. Remember, be sufficient in yourself, be adequate in yourself,
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  and be secured in yourself.