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Middle of Mac and Cheese · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: We're just two unapologetically Black women with an opinion who
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  Speaker 1: talk back. What's up, y'all? Thank you for tuning in
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  Speaker 1: for a new episode of.
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  Speaker 2: We Talk Fat, a show dedicated to... Happy Thanksgiving, a
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  Speaker 2: show dedicated to... Gamma Gamma, my niggas. Gamma Gamma. What's up, y'all?
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  Speaker 2: It's your co-host, AJ Holiday. What's up, Tam?
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  Speaker 1: Hey, y'all.
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  Speaker 2: It's me, Tam Bam.
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  Speaker 3: I especially love y'all on this beautiful turkey day.
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  Speaker 2: You full or something? You especially love them. No, it's early.
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  Speaker 3: It's early in the morning right now, so I ain't
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  Speaker 3: full yet.
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  Speaker 2: Well, it's early for y'all. How was your weekend? Oh, girl.
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  Speaker 1: My fucking weekend. I attempted to go out on Friday night.
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  Speaker 1: I can't speak about exactly what happened to me. I'll
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  Speaker 1: tell you offline because I haven't talked to you, bitch.
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  Speaker 2: But when I tell you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not dating no more, like I'm literally getting married
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  Speaker 1: in 2024. I already know that. Like I know I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to meet no new niggas.
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  Speaker 2: That shit is over with. That shit is dead. I
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  Speaker 2: already got my husband.
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  Speaker 1: As far as I'm concerned, I'm going to just pick
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  Speaker 1: one of these niggas and this is going to be over. Period.
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  Speaker 1: Because I can't, I can't, I can't do no more
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  Speaker 1: new niggas. Like a nigga literally asked me if I'm
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  Speaker 1: fucking or not. And when I said no, the date
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  Speaker 1: was over. Damn.
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  Speaker 2: Damn, you cold as hell.
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  Speaker 4: Cold as ice.
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  Speaker 2: We're letting you sacrifice. Yo. Well, well then.
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  Speaker 1: Such is life.
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  Speaker 2: And I almost got into a fight.
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  Speaker 1: Well, a verbal altercation with a bitch name. I ain't
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  Speaker 1: even gonna call the girl name, but I can call
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  Speaker 1: her name. Nobody know her anyway. She was sitting next
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  Speaker 1: to me at the bar at Cheesecake Factory. I literally
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  Speaker 1: got Cheesecake Factory. Yes, I was there.
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  Speaker 2: Literally got into a verbal altercation. She don't love herself.
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  Speaker 1: She with the Cheesecake Factory. No, but listen, why the
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  Speaker 1: verbal altercation with this woman's husband was because he started
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  Speaker 1: talking about the list. I said, listen, I don't think
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  Speaker 1: a woman came up with that list. I really feel
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  Speaker 1: like that's some shit somebody created to start controversy online.
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  Speaker 1: And here you are drunk in a fucking cheesecake factory
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  Speaker 1: questioning me about why I'm in a cheesecake factory.
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  Speaker 2: Bitch, are you dumb? The man. He asking you about
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  Speaker 2: why you're there?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah well how you feel i said just like like
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  Speaker 1: what i just said i think it's something that somebody
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  Speaker 1: created and i was like furthermore i like cheesecake factory
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  Speaker 1: i drank a mai.
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  Speaker 2: Tai i either get a salad or.
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  Speaker 1: The miso salmon and crab wontons every time i come
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  Speaker 1: here when i do eat at cheesecake factory it's.
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  Speaker 2: One of my favorite places it has a very vast.
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  Speaker 1: Menu i don't have a problem with a date to
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  Speaker 1: the cheesecake factory right me neither Girl, but when I
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  Speaker 1: tell you this woman's husband, I'm like, oh, girl, you
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  Speaker 1: need to leave him because he is jealous of you.
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  Speaker 1: That's really the energy I'm getting from him.
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  Speaker 2: I mouthed to her. I say, you need to leave.
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  Speaker 2: I mouthed that to her for sure.
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  Speaker 1: That's not nice. Girl, let me tell you, I can
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  Speaker 1: see him transform into somebody else as we're sitting there.
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  Speaker 1: So imagine the type of shit she go through at
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  Speaker 1: the house. Why is she all over? You wasn't minding
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  Speaker 1: your business.
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  Speaker 2: He started that shit.
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  Speaker 1: I was minding my business. I was minding my business.
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  Speaker 1: He started that shit. And he wasn't even sitting next
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  Speaker 1: to me. She was sitting next to me. So you
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  Speaker 1: are on the other side of your woman directing questions
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  Speaker 1: at me.
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  Speaker 2: He was trying to eat that delicious brown bread.
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  Speaker 1: I ain't even.
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  Speaker 2: Get no bread. I'm trying not to do no carbs.
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  Speaker 2: I don't even get the bread. And I like the bread. Girl,
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  Speaker 2: he started going on and on about.
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  Speaker 1: her buying him some $ 5 oils or some shit and
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  Speaker 1: how he wanted some fucking gift set from Macy's.
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  Speaker 2: Like with different fragrances, different colognes. I'm like, do you
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  Speaker 2: want flowers also?
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  Speaker 1: Do you want to be wine and dine? It sound
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  Speaker 1: like you want to be a woman.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my God.
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  Speaker 1: That was the beginning of my night. And then I
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  Speaker 1: linked up and hung up. It wasn't even a date.
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  Speaker 1: I just met somebody out right quick.
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  Speaker 2: And yeah, Never again.
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  Speaker 1: I really thought y'all niggas only existed on the internet,
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  Speaker 1: but y'all really be out here real life wreaking havoc
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  Speaker 1: on the community.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all niggas are bad for the ecosystem.
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  Speaker 1: Some of y'all. Not all of y'all.
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  Speaker 2: Some of y'all. Some of y'all.
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  Speaker 1: Girl, these niggas exist. These internet podcast niggas exist.
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  Speaker 2: In real life.
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  Speaker 1: People might say we are them.
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  Speaker 2: No, man. I'm talking about the bad bitch niggas. They
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  Speaker 2: really exist.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: There's a whole manosphere for them. Girl. You know what?
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  Speaker 1: Listen, in the animal kingdom, there's a lot of male
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  Speaker 1: animals that die having never mated. That is supposed to
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  Speaker 1: happen amongst humans.
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  Speaker 2: I think that does happen. There are some males.
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  Speaker 1: And that's where these people are, right? So the ones
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  Speaker 1: who really don't have access to pussy be the ones
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  Speaker 1: that really want women to collectively lower their standards so
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  Speaker 1: they can have access to coochie.
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  Speaker 2: Bitches, don't do it.
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  Speaker 1: Somebody's nigga's supposed to die, never have made it, okay?
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  Speaker 2: That's just what it's supposed to be at this point.
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  Speaker 1: It's Thanksgiving, AJ. Good grief.
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  Speaker 2: Well, thank you.
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  Speaker 1: Good grief, guys.
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  Speaker 2: Gee whiz. You asked me what my weekend was like,
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  Speaker 2: and that was it, okay? I had it. Other than that,
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  Speaker 2: I didn't do much. That was stressful. I tried to
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  Speaker 2: do some shit Friday night, and it just... I decided.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I'm proud that you didn't give him none, because
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  Speaker 1: he didn't deserve it.
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  Speaker 2: Ooh, girl. I was never even a thought in my mind.
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  Speaker 2: That's why I was so offended.
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  Speaker 1: Like, I'm just.
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  Speaker 2: Here to eat and drink.
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  Speaker 1: And get to know you.
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  Speaker 2: And that's it. That part, or just hang out.
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  Speaker 1: Like, you can't even do that anymore. You know what
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying? And I was even offering to pay for
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  Speaker 1: some shit. I was like, hey, man, I got the
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  Speaker 1: next rounds. Just so he wouldn't think of some shit.
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  Speaker 1: But he insisted. And then he was like, just tell
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  Speaker 1: me now. Just tell me now if I don't have
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  Speaker 1: a chance. That's really how it went.
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  Speaker 2: If he have a chance with you or a chance
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  Speaker 2: with you? To smash.
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  Speaker 1: And I was like, and then the place where we went,
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  Speaker 1: the place I met him at, I literally ended up changing.
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  Speaker 2: Clothes to match this guy's fly.
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  Speaker 1: I came out the house with one thing on, saw
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  Speaker 1: what he had on, and I was like, hey, let me,
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to run back to the house real quick.
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  Speaker 1: He didn't see me see him. And I literally ran
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  Speaker 1: back to the house, changed clothes, and put on Jordans, okay,
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  Speaker 1: to match what he was looking like.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, so you had to downgrade it. Yes.
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  Speaker 1: We ended up going to a place where what I
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  Speaker 1: had on was good, you know, because people was in
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  Speaker 1: there with sneakers on.
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  Speaker 2: You didn't take me no place to be looking extra cute.
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  Speaker 1: Right. And, yeah, I was like, you know, after he
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  Speaker 1: made the comment about sex or whatever, I'm like, I'm
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  Speaker 1: pretty sure there's somebody in there who will fuck you.
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  Speaker 2: It ain't going to be me, though. I was like,
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  Speaker 2: you want me to leave? You want me to leave?
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  Speaker 1: He said, yeah. No, he basically was like, I'm sure.
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  Speaker 1: I'm sure somebody would, but it won't be me, sir.
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  Speaker 2: It won't be me.
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  Speaker 1: Sorry.
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  Speaker 2: These niggas exist.
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  Speaker 1: It happened to me.
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  Speaker 3: Well, my weekend was better than yours, apparently. It was
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  Speaker 3: my sister's birthday. She turned 30-something. And we surprised her.
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  Speaker 2: So are y'all be lying about y'all age?
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  Speaker 1: No, I just had to.
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  Speaker 3: I can't tell hers now because she's my baby sister, so.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I can't tell her shit. So.
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  Speaker 1: You ain't gonna get a ballpark on what I am
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  Speaker 1: by telling this bitch age. I'm not doing that.
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  Speaker 2: So anyway.
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  Speaker 2: Shame.
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  Speaker 1: She'll tell you, ask her.
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  Speaker 2: I surprised her.
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  Speaker 3: It was so funny because I act like none of
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  Speaker 3: her friends... I was like, where your friends at? I
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  Speaker 3: was like, your friends ain't shit.
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  Speaker 1: I'm the only one here. Damn. But they was all there.
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  Speaker 3: They was all there waiting on her to get there,
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  Speaker 3: but I was just playing it like they wasn't shit.
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  Speaker 2: It was so funny. And we all went to this
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  Speaker 2: place called.
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  Speaker 1: We started at.
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  Speaker 3: Me and her started at Tsunami's, so we could let
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  Speaker 3: all her friends gather at The Grand, this place in Columbia.
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  Speaker 1: It's like a bowling bar.
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  Speaker 2: The Bowling Alley. Yeah, I like that place.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and... It's not a bowling alley, is it? It's
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  Speaker 1: like a bar with some lanes in it.
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  Speaker 2: It's a restaurant. They used to have games downstairs. Remember?
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  Speaker 2: They used to have a pool table and all that stuff.
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  Speaker 2: It's like a really nice date spot. Right.
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  Speaker 3: So I waited for all of them to gather there,
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  Speaker 3: and then we left there. And we got into this
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  Speaker 3: Uber from Tsunami to the Grand.
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  Speaker 1: This man pulled up. As soon as we got in,
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  Speaker 1: he passed us microphones. What?
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  Speaker 2: That's lit.
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  Speaker 3: He had the disco ball in there, and he had
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  Speaker 3: the iPad where you could pick your song.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, my God. We had so much fun. Not karaoke
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  Speaker 2: in the Uber. It was so lit.
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  Speaker 3: I was like five-star experience, and Tanya was just singing
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  Speaker 3: so loud off-key.
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  Speaker 2: We just had so much fun in there.
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  Speaker 3: I wanted to spin around the block a couple times,
• 9:31
  Speaker 3: but he dropped us right off. And then she saw
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  Speaker 3: all her friends and we got really drunk, ordered some champagne,
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  Speaker 3: a few bottles, and we had a great time.
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  Speaker 1: It was so much fun.
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  Speaker 3: But at Tsunami, I was sitting at the bar minding
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  Speaker 3: my business and the bartender came over with a shot.
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  Speaker 3: He was like, the young lady over there says she
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  Speaker 3: listens to your podcast and she love you too.
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, nice.
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  Speaker 3: So I waved at her and I thanked her for
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  Speaker 3: the uh shot so uh LaShawn Harris girl thank you
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  Speaker 3: girl I appreciate you and I love you so much
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  Speaker 3: for sending me some liquor and making me feel like
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  Speaker 3: bossed up and shit so.
• 10:09
  Speaker 1: That was nice wasn't that so nice what you said
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  Speaker 1: her name was.
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  Speaker 3: LaShawn LaShawn Harris Labella Bear. She's Labella Bear on Instagram.
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  Speaker 3: So shout out to you, girl. I hope you're having
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  Speaker 3: a happy Thanksgiving, and I appreciate you for sending me
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  Speaker 3: my flowers at the bar.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. I know that username. I don't know the person. Well,
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  Speaker 2: she's a sweetheart, y'all. If y'all see me out, please
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  Speaker 2: send me shots. Everybody.
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  Speaker 1: Because I wanted that. She helped me get my night
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  Speaker 1: to start. I never know where people be from who
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  Speaker 1: be DMing. She be DMing me.
• 10:43
  Speaker 2: Hey, girl. Yeah, hey, girl. I'm like, wait, I know
• 10:46
  Speaker 2: that username from someplace. That's crazy. We be really out here, like,
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  Speaker 2: not using our real names no more. LaBella Bear.
• 10:54
  Speaker 1: Right. So that happened. And then I came back and
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  Speaker 1: I've been working ever since. Like, nonstop. Go, go, go, go, go, go.
• 11:04
  Speaker 2: Well, your hair looks nice.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you.
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  Speaker 3: I watched it last night so I could go to
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  Speaker 3: this class. I went to Arrogant Tay's Flawless Experience class.
• 11:13
  Speaker 2: His lace melting class. It was really good. We got
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  Speaker 2: some good information.
• 11:17
  Speaker 1: I'm going to be busting out some wigs for you
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  Speaker 1: guys if you want to buy one from me. I'll
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  Speaker 1: post where you can get it.
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  Speaker 2: I got a good vendor for you, girl. Send me that, bitch.
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  Speaker 2: Send me that.
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  Speaker 1: Because that's what I need.
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  Speaker 2: Low 10%. Look at her. Low 10%. Listen, it's hard
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  Speaker 2: to find good hair vendors.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Okay, and I done spent thousands and thousands of
• 11:43
  Speaker 1: dollars on bad fucking weave.
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  Speaker 2: So I understand when these girls be selling their vendor
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  Speaker 2: list and stuff like that. Because it's hard. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Bitch, I even went to China looking for a good... Now,
• 11:55
  Speaker 1: I do use... My closures come from this good-ass woman
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  Speaker 1: in China. Other than that, I got some Indian vendors
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  Speaker 1: if you want a little 10% a little 10% let's
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  Speaker 1: get into the you know what let's go to a
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  Speaker 1: fucking commercial after that and then we'll be back with
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  Speaker 1: the sins of the week who is the biggest sinner
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  Speaker 1: of 2023 Tammy I would go with Sean Puffy. Diddy Combs.
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  Speaker 2: Dum, dum, dum, dum.
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  Speaker 1: Damn, Diddy. That nigga had the fucking internet on fire.
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  Speaker 1: On fire. Y'all, on Thursday, I was sitting in Hunger Games.
• 12:46
  Speaker 1: You know, Hunger Games came out with the fourth film. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I think this was actually a prequel, though. You know,
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  Speaker 1: it was like before the other Hunger Games. I love
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  Speaker 1: Hunger Games. I went to the movies by myself on Thursday.
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  Speaker 1: I missed an intricate part of the fucking movie because
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  Speaker 1: I got an alert on my phone, ended up on Instagram,
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  Speaker 1: and the fucking internet was on fire with this shit
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  Speaker 1: going on with Diddy, man. Yo.
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  Speaker 3: You know, I used to love Diddy.
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  Speaker 1: You know that, right?
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  Speaker 2: Why? I never loved him.
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  Speaker 1: I just thought that he was.
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  Speaker 3: A powerful black man who followed his dreams and made
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  Speaker 3: things happen. For him and others. So I just love
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  Speaker 3: that about him. But this shit. So if you were
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  Speaker 3: under a rock, Cassie Ventura popped out and said, Diddy,
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  Speaker 3: been doing all this bullshit to me.
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  Speaker 1: And I want $ 30 million from his ass. And the
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  Speaker 1: lawsuit alleged that he was abusive. He made her have
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  Speaker 1: sex with other men. He raped her.
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  Speaker 3: All these horrible, horrific things. This is from the Neighborhood Talking.
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  Speaker 1: It says, Ms.
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  Speaker 3: Ventura was eventually instructed to use websites and escort services
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  Speaker 3: to find male sex workers to participate in sexual acts.
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  Speaker 1: Ms. Ventura, Mr. Combs told Ms.
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  Speaker 3: Ventura to search for large, black, I don't know what
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  Speaker 3: that word is, because it's covered up, but on the website.
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  Speaker 3: But I'm thinking it's dick.
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes Mr.
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  Speaker 3: Combs would pay to fly male sex workers to his
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  Speaker 3: location including to multiple cities in the United States as
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  Speaker 3: well as abroad he required Ms. Ventura and his staff
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  Speaker 3: to help him make these arrangements Mr. Combs assistant would
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  Speaker 3: help to set up the FO's including by setting up
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  Speaker 3: the hotel suites with baby oil and astroglide oh she
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  Speaker 3: was getting anal Mr.
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  Speaker 2: Combs always he was doing some anal Mr.
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  Speaker 3: Combs always supplied Ms. Ventura and the sex worker with
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  Speaker 3: copious amounts of drugs before and during the FO.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what that means. FO? Whatever. Ms.
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  Speaker 2: Ventura was given.
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  Speaker 3: Ecstasy, cocaine, GHB, ketamine, marijuana, and alcohol in excessive amounts
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  Speaker 3: during FOs, which... Oh, that's the freakouts. Which allowed her
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  Speaker 3: to dissociate during the horrific encounters. It became commonplace to
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  Speaker 3: get IV fluids in the days after and freak out
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  Speaker 3: to recover from the excessive substance pushed upon her.
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  Speaker 1: Ms.
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  Speaker 3: Ventura was required to dress up in lingerie for freak outs,
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  Speaker 3: and Mr. Combs insisted she wear white nail polish to
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  Speaker 3: contrast her nails with the skin of the black men
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  Speaker 3: he hired to.
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  Speaker 2: Have sex with her.
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  Speaker 1: Listen, people on the internet was pointing out how young
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  Speaker 1: Miami always got white polish on, honey. Well, all of
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  Speaker 1: us got on white polish, though. Don't we all wear
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: that shit?
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  Speaker 2: I don't. No. But you don't wear polish, period, though.
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  Speaker 2: But associated with him, that's some shit he like.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: During the freakout, Mr. Combs would instruct Ms. Ventura to
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  Speaker 3: pour excessive amounts of oil over herself.
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  Speaker 1: Mr.
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  Speaker 3: Combs would then instruct Ms. Ventura and the sex workers
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  Speaker 3: to speak to each other and then would specifically tell Ms.
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  Speaker 2: Ventura where to touch the sex workers.
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  Speaker 1: Mr.
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  Speaker 3: Combs would say things like grab his big black dick
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  Speaker 3: and ask her how does it feel as he directed
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  Speaker 3: her to perform for him.
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  Speaker 1: Ugh. This is some Roman shit, dog. This is some
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  Speaker 1: real Roman shit. I'm just thinking about the medieval movies
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  Speaker 1: I've seen. Movies from the medieval times. It be this
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  Speaker 1: type of shit right here. They be having those wild
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  Speaker 1: sex orgies and stuff like that.
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: Some people be into that shit. Clearly, she was not. Right.
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: A lot of people are coming out like Slim Thug,
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: for instance.
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: Right. And they're asking, you know, why does she wait
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: so long to speak up? Oh, she just won a payday.
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: You know, she deserves a payday. You got to hit
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: certain type of people where it really hurts.
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: Right. You know what I'm saying?
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: And this is a this is a billionaire. They said
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: he's worth about nine hundred something million dollars. So he
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: got 30 M's to give her. The thing is, she
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: wasn't even trying to take this shit to court. They
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: were calling it a shakedown because she did come, you know,
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: send a demand for the $ 30 million, well, eight figures.
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: So he offered her eight figures not to go public.
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: He didn't deliver on it. So she went public. It's
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: almost like he was calling her bluff.
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: He really thought he still had control of her as
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: far as I'm concerned. And Cassie called that nigga bluff and.
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: Filed a lawsuit.
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: So.
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: Diddy can't be prosecuted in criminal court, but in the
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: state of New.
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: York, they have this Survivors.
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: Act or something where victims of sexual assault can sue
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: the assailants in civil court. She had one week left
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: on the statute of limitation to file this lawsuit. And
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: that's what she did. And that nigga settled within 24 hours.
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: That might be like the fastest. And then now him
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: and the lawyer is trying to say, oh, it wasn't because,
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: you know, he's not trying to, it's not because he's guilty. No,
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: he's definitely guilty because nobody that knows him, he's been
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: in the industry for how long?
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: Forever since I've been alive.
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: And I, and maybe, maybe.
• 18:22
  Speaker 3: Before I was born and nobody, not one person, not
• 18:28
  Speaker 3: one person came forward and said not to shine puffy cones.
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: I know.
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: Exactly. Not even his mama.
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: Not even his mama came forward and said that because
• 18:37
  Speaker 3: they knew it was true. Did you see, did y'all
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: see that picture of him sitting out by the pool
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: with an Asian lady looking like.
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: He about to cry? He definitely was looking stressed out.
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: He looked real stressed out. He looked like he was shivering.
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: He ought to be stressed.
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: You know, a lot of these people think they untouchable.
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: You know, it's cool. Like, you could have a God complex,
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: but you aren't.
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: You can't just go around here violating people and thinking
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: that shit ain't going to never catch up with you.
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: And calling people yourself love. I don't like... Exactly. Exactly.
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: False idols, man. Y'all gotta be careful who the fuck
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: y'all be worshiping. These people do not be good people, man.
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: And the thing is, it's not my place to condemn people.
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: Even when people do the worst shit. The people I
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: don't fuck with is like child molesters and people who
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: just be out here murdering for no reason.
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: And just serial killers and shit. Let's be clear.
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: He was 37 and she was 19 when they got together.
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: Absolutely. So manipulation at its finest.
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: Girl, I was in a clubhouse room and they were
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: in there arguing the difference between manipulation and a predator,
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: like predators manipulate.
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: What are y'all talking about? You know what I'm saying?
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: That's one of their greatest tactics. Exactly.
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: Yes, she was an adult in some people's eyes. I
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: don't think 19 years old is an adult. I'd question
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: where were her parents at the time, but this is
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: a man who's at that.
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: How many years ago now?
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: 13 years ago or so? Diddy was at the height
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: of his career for sure at that time. I would've went...
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't show it if I was her.
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: If he slid into my MySpace at 30, he 37,
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: I'm 19, and I see him diddy-bopping all over the TV,
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: I'm going. Most young girls would have gone.
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess, man. That's unfortunate.
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: It really is sad what happened to her.
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: But here's the crazy part is this is just one
• 20:31
  Speaker 3: story of many that never get told, you know?
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: And that's why he paid the money. He paid the
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: money because if they would have went to court, In deposition,
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: there would be way more evidence presented to the public
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: for people to really see who he was.
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: The best bet was to pay that money.
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he got on the phone with the lawyer.
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: That's the part that people, exactly.
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: Give her what she want.
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: Period.
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: Give her what she want so she can shut up.
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: And niggas like Slim Thug, he came back out saying
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: he's never been violated, but there are a lot of
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: men who have been violated by men as children, or
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: even in prison, who still to this day can't find
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: the words to come out and tell somebody that that
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: happened to them. But here you are having zero empathy
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: for Cassie because she wants at least a payday. I'm
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: pretty sure she's still in the process of healing. That
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: money will help.
• 21:23
  Speaker 2: Pay that bitch, okay?
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: Pay her.
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: You actually owe her more.
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: I feel like all of us need a little piece.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: To have him witness you.
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: Now we need reparations from Diddy.
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: All of us do, God damn. Because if they cancel
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: Diddy music, we ain't going to have nothing left to
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: listen to. He done produced all the biggest songs of
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: our life.
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: That shit was samples. They was all samples. You don't
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: got no original beats for real. Remixing era. Mary J.
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: Blige whole catalog of samples. I love, I love, I
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: love Mary J.
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: Blige.
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: Okay. I'm listening.
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: I love, that's one of my favorite artists, but let's
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: be very fucking clear.
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: Diddy and Kanye are the sample Kings. I think it's
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: a sample in everything. Shit you wouldn't even know was
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: a goddamn sample.
• 22:14
  Speaker 3: Yo, I see some, uh, there was this, um, What
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: do you call them? A psychic who came out and.
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: Said that- Oh, yes. Sloan. That's her name. Yeah. Oh,
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: that was good.
• 22:27
  Speaker 3: That this was going to happen. And she said it
• 22:29
  Speaker 3: months ago.
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: In June. June. In June, she predicted.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: She said that Kim Porter came to her. Kim Porter
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: was describing what happened to her the day she died.
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: That's the thing I think that would have came out
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: in court. I don't think that 47-year-old woman just dropped dead.
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: And the psychic was saying how Kim died so abruptly,
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: she just hopped out her body, and then she went
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: immediately to look at her nose. Because she was sick,
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: she had some type of congestion, and she was using
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: some type of inhaler. She was living in a home
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: that wasn't her permanent resident, and she wasn't really in
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: control of the mechanics of the home, but somebody came
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: and installed cameras there that.
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: She didn't know about.
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm. And something, she's passed something on to a lawyer.
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: It's some other shit about to come out. I feel
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: like the year 2024 is about to be way more
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: revelations and retribution.
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: It's a lot of shit going on in the.
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: Next couple months.
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: Aren't they saying like it's the 8th? 2024 is like
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: some life path 8th or some shit. One of my
• 23:38
  Speaker 3: clients was telling me. And if you turn the 8th
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: to the side, it's an affinity symbol. So what you
• 23:43
  Speaker 3: sow is going to happen this year in 2024.
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: It's coming back around. It's coming back around.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: So I hope y'all put goodness.
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: You know, I encourage you to spend these last months
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: putting nothing but goodness out so you get goodness back.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: Listen, I do not believe in karma, but I am karma.
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: I do the coming around. You do the coming. I
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: do the come. I do both. Okay? I make sure
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: I do right by people. That's all you got to do, man.
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: I don't know if you can reverse bad karma in
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: three months, but.
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: Y'all can try.
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: I mean, it'll help.
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: You got 30 M's? You got $ 30 million?
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: Most of us don't. All right, so can we move
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: on to 50 Cent?
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: Yes, move on to 50 Cent.
• 24:33
  Speaker 3: So 50 Cent is walking away scot-free from an incident
• 24:36
  Speaker 3: that left a woman with a severe laceration to her
• 24:39
  Speaker 3: head back in the August 8th show. Now, I don't
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: know if y'all remember this, but in LA at the
• 24:43
  Speaker 3: Crypto.com Arena... 50 was on stage and he was experiencing
• 24:48
  Speaker 3: some technical difficulties and in a fit of rage he
• 24:52
  Speaker 3: furiously flung a microphone into the crowd and harmed Power
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: 106 radio host Brianna Mo- Negan I hope I pronounced
• 25:01
  Speaker 3: that right if I didn't I apologize the woman's injuries
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: were so severe that she required immediate medical assistance After
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: she filed a police report on August 30th, the case
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: jumped through the hands of multiple agencies until being brought
• 25:14
  Speaker 3: to the L.A. City Attorney's Office. And according to TMZ,
• 25:17
  Speaker 3: the city's attorney's office said no criminal charges will be
• 25:20
  Speaker 3: filed against 50 as long as he remains out of trouble.
• 25:23
  Speaker 3: The case will remain open one year from the date
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: of the incident is open to reevaluation.
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: That's terrible.
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: Further issues transpired between both parties. That was definitely an accident.
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure he didn't pick her to hit with
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: the thing. He probably just enraged.
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying?
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: Like you performing, you look stupid. Your audio messed up.
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: He did not target her to hit her. It could
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: have been anybody. Okay.
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: But when you, if you're in a car accident and
• 25:48
  Speaker 3: you didn't target nobody to hit him, you can still
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: get a man.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure she was compensated. I'm pretty sure she
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: was compensated. Okay. They left that part out. Yeah, I'm
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: pretty sure she was compensated. At least medical bills, I'm
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: pretty sure.
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: Okay, criminal charges, yeah, no.
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a bit much. Yeah, that was definitely an accident.
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so I'm not mad at that. But he did
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: kind of have a little temper tantrum on stage. You're
• 26:13
  Speaker 3: a grown man. Why you threw that out there like that?
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: But he's a cancer. Oh, yeah.
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: I might have did it, too.
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: What y'all think about Party Diss track from Magda Stallion?
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: The rapper slash writer dropped a new song called The Person.
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: T-H-E-E. Okay. And it's obviously aimed at Mag. Right.
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: With the lyrics explicitly mentioning her by name. Because, you know,
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: she came out with her song recently. Yeah. And she
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: didn't say any names. She said, you fucking on a
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: bitch in the same bed I lay my head in.
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: She didn't really say any names, but he was very direct.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: He said, I'm not talking to Meg the Stallion. I'm
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: talking to Megan the person. When I tell you this
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: was some ether in a very nice and loving way.
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: He flamed her ass up.
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: He did. And I'm confused by the response from women.
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: They're calling him a narcissist. It's really weird. It's given
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: like no accountability at all.
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: So now we be dragging men.
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: Okay. We help other women drag men.
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: You be dragging them. You be dragging them.
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: Bitch, shut up. Listen, y'all.
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: Tam may not drag them on this podcast. We definitely
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: drag niggas in our fucking private conversation. I don't know
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: what she's... I'm appalled. I don't know what she's talking about.
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: And that man, he mentioned her and.
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: Y'all got to listen to the lyrics of the song.
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: I know a lot of people only listen to like
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: the little snippets online. They listen to the chorus of
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: the song, but it was very tasteful, his response to her.
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: I do think there's a lot of like there's a
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: lot of things we don't be knowing about people like
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: he know her personally. Read the lyrics.
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: Oh, go ahead. All right. This the girl that I'm
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: trying to propose to. Ask Greg Una. I picked out
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: a ring. Then you lied to my face.
• 28:09
  Speaker 3: Went on TV and then lied to Gayle King.
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: Party raps.
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: I found out with the rest of the world. God,
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: I treated you like a queen. Whole time I'm a
• 28:16
  Speaker 3: clown in your circus. I tried to pull you up
• 28:19
  Speaker 3: out the mud. Here you are trying to drown me
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: on purpose. You know the devil was a serpent. For
• 28:24
  Speaker 3: some streams and views, girl, I hope it was worth it.
• 28:27
  Speaker 3: This ain't for Megan Thee Stallion. This is for Megan
• 28:29
  Speaker 3: Thee Person.
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: He continues.
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: The way you painting this picture is a shame. How
• 28:33
  Speaker 3: many times did I catch you texting the niggas?
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: You did. You first.
• 28:36
  Speaker 3: I just did me bigger. You flew out the country,
• 28:39
  Speaker 3: ain't called for days. In my mind, we had parted ways.
• 28:42
  Speaker 3: You was back moving awful strange in an effort to
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: fix it. I took all the blame like I always do.
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: Apologize for shit that I know I ain't do. Damn.
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: I believe him.
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: I don't feel like he lying.
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: Mm-mm.
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: I don't feel like he's lying.
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: Because you know why?
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: Because I remember, I remember Meg Thee Stallion doing an interview.
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: I forgot who it was with. And she was talking
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: about like how good he is for her mental health.
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: How, you know, in her.
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: Previous relationships, it really just was like physical, just sex
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: and all this stuff, like physical attractions. But he was like, man,
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: she was like, my boyfriend, she's so excited about him
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: and how good he is for her mental health.
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: Like I can't, everybody can't be in the wrong, Meg.
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah. You know what I'm saying? Everybody else can't be
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: the problem. At some point, we got to look in
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: the mirror. Accountability, self-awareness. Right.
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: Where is it? Listen to our last episode. You know
• 29:43
  Speaker 2: what I'm saying?
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: And everybody calling him lame for defending himself. What is
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: wrong with y'all?
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because she called him out first. Yeah, y'all think.
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: These are the women who be in relationships and think
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: that they have no... Y'all perfect in a relationship. The
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: only reason why you think you perfect is because your
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: nigga don't never say nothing to you. We are just
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: more boisterous about our grievances with men.
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: A lot of times men just suffer in silence. They
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: don't say shit.
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: And even on one part of the lyrics, he was like,
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: you know, we basically like the relationship ended quietly or
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: we had a clean break.
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: But now you want to make shit messy. I believe that.
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: Don't put me in your lyrics.
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: Right. Don't put me in that shit. Because she definitely
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: was dating a new nigga in 2.2 seconds. Right. And then,
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: all right, so, because I love Megan Thee Stallion.
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: I'm a fan of her music.
• 30:32
  Speaker 5: Me too.
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: Obviously, I don't know her personally. But I did side-eye
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: when her best friend was no longer her best friend. Like,
• 30:38
  Speaker 3: this your best bitch. And y'all fell out, but wow,
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: what happened, you know? What happened so big that y'all
• 30:47
  Speaker 3: can't come back as best friends?
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know.
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: Now we're going back into the case. And listen, I
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: believe Tory Lanez is guilty.
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: He did not shoot her. He did shoot at her.
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: He is guilty of that. Did he deserve 10 years?
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: Maybe not.
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: And then now what Pardee is saying, Pardee, you was
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: just defending her and the situation just a few months ago.
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: What are we saying now?
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: What are we saying now? Why are you murky in
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: the water again? Well, he sound like he's saying he
• 31:20
  Speaker 2: was deceived. With everybody else.
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: That's what it sound like. I don't know, child. I
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: don't know. Y'all better get right with God. Child, I
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: can't wait till the... Fuck y'all got going on.
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: I can't wait till she write a book.
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: Oh, he write a book.
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: Right. Whoever. She should have known better because that nigga
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: is very eloquent with words.
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: I'm going to use audible credit for that motherfucker shit.
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: Well, I want to hear it.
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: So, this is not stupid internet news. This is actually
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: very sad. 23-year-old Ana Clara Benavides tragically passed away as
• 32:07
  Speaker 3: Taylor Swift's Brazil Eras Tour show began in Rio de
• 32:12
  Speaker 3: Janeiro on Friday, November 17th.
• 32:15
  Speaker 2: Who was that?
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: Taylor Swift's show.
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but who is Ana Clara?
• 32:20
  Speaker 3: She was just a concert goer. She was the front
• 32:24
  Speaker 3: row of the show. And apparently the stadium was 140
• 32:28
  Speaker 3: degrees inside.
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: What?
• 32:32
  Speaker 3: And that thousands of people, there were a thousand phantoms
• 32:37
  Speaker 3: in the building because of how the temperature inside the building.
• 32:40
  Speaker 3: But they kept the show going, which is weird to
• 32:43
  Speaker 3: me why they would keep the show going at this temperature.
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: Was it an indoor arena? Yeah, clearly it was inside.
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: It's a stadium.
• 32:57
  Speaker 3: It was reportedly over 100 degrees Fahrenheit inside and caused
• 33:01
  Speaker 3: a thousand faintings during the show. And after being resuscitated
• 33:05
  Speaker 3: at the stadium for about 40 minutes, the woman had
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: a second cardiac arrest en route to the hospital.
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: So out of all the people that were there, because
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: Taylor Swift shows are really big.
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: This is the only person who passed?
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: Well, this is the one that was reported on.
• 33:20
  Speaker 3: I can't say this only, but they said it was
• 33:21
  Speaker 3: 1,000 Phaetons. And then this young, she was only 23
• 33:25
  Speaker 3: years old, very young girl, in the front row seat
• 33:28
  Speaker 3: and passed away. And her father says, I lost my
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: only daughter, a happy and intelligent girl. She was about
• 33:34
  Speaker 3: to graduate in psychology next April, saving money. I have
• 33:39
  Speaker 3: no words to express my pain. She left home to
• 33:41
  Speaker 3: fulfill a dream and came back dead. I wanted to
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: be found out whether they were in fact prohibited from
• 33:46
  Speaker 3: bringing water, whether there was negligence in providing her assistance.
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: Rest in peace to the young girl. Yeah, man. This
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: sounds like some Astroworld shit.
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: Interesting.
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: I'll keep my comments because y'all already be calling me crazy.
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: But yeah, interesting. It's Thanksgiving. It's Thanksgiving.
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: Right. Dad, this ain't my holiday. I'm a Native American.
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: Thanks.
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: The only Christopher we acknowledge is Wallace. Period.
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: Girl, did you see Tommy out with Tamar's ex-boyfriend? Petty?
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: Petty. She petty.
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: Petty as hell. She done tell a bitch to fuck
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: your daddy, okay?
• 34:37
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: And post it. And post it on Instagram.
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: Look at me with your daddy, bitch. He about to
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: eat my pussy, bitch. But girl, like, do, like, we don't,
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: do we care?
• 34:47
  Speaker 5: No.
• 34:49
  Speaker 3: Well, I'm sure Tamar was spitting bullets when she seen his,
• 34:53
  Speaker 3: and listen, is he a cloud chaser or what? Because
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: I know you knew that this was going on and you,
• 34:59
  Speaker 3: you out there with Tommy.
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: Come on now. Right, so Jeremy Robinson, Tamar's ex-fiancee, because
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: they were allegedly engaged, after last week's whole little, I
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: don't know what the hell they had going on with
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: Chris Sean Rock at the Tamar concert, Tommy chimed in, right?
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: So they jumped on Tommy's ass, and now this weekend,
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: Tommy was sitting pretty with Mr. Jeremy Robinson's At a
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: basketball game.
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: That bitch Betty.
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: And didn't say nothing. She basically tapped Tamar in. Tamar,
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: can you fight?
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 35:42
  Speaker 3: Because that's what happened. That was like, do you want
• 35:45
  Speaker 3: to fight? That picture was like, do you want to fight?
• 35:47
  Speaker 3: Because I want to fight.
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: Can you fight? But Tamar ain't about to fight with
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: no Tommy.
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: Imagine that.
• 35:56
  Speaker 2: Absolutely not.
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: But Tabar got lost. But that's what it was, though.
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: Tabar got lost. Sisters, Tommy.
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: How many sisters Tommy got? It's a lot of them.
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: Tommy got kids. She got teenage daughters and shit.
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: Oh, she got, yeah, she got grown kids. Oh, I
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: don't know, Tabar.
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: They make it happen.
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: Y'all might need to just have a conversation.
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: Shame. Because what is it really even about? It's stupid
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: if you think about it.
• 36:21
  Speaker 3: The only person I feel like who should be really
• 36:23
  Speaker 3: upset is the Patty Pie nigga.
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: Man, you lost a tooth.
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: The patty pie, nigga. I don't understand none of that beef, man.
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: I really don't care. We got this segment. That's why
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: we talking about it.
• 36:39
  Speaker 5: I don't know what the fuck going on with them people,
• 36:43
  Speaker 5: all right?
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: And the last thing I wanted to talk about was
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: this Nick Cannon baby mama. Her name is Brie Tessie.
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: She is on one of the Real Housewives shows, I believe.
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: But she blurted out how she done smashed on Michael B.
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: Jordan, child. And she said that dick was trash. I
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: can see that.
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: I can see that.
• 37:07
  Speaker 3: No, don't ruin Killmonger for me because Killmonger means something
• 37:10
  Speaker 3: different for me.
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: That is a character, okay?
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: That means something different for me. So you think Michael B.
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: Jordan got a good dick when you look at him?
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: Killmonger killed a pussy in my imagination.
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: When you look at Michael B.
• 37:24
  Speaker 5: Jordan.
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: Did you hear what I just said?
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: She said they asked him how was the sex was
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: it good she said no.
• 37:35
  Speaker 3: She hating she hating on him she hating on my
• 37:38
  Speaker 3: boy because he ain't wipe her up girl I'm trying
• 37:44
  Speaker 3: to if he wanted to really be with her if
• 37:47
  Speaker 3: he really wanted to be her.
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: She be like he's the best I ever had in
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: my life I love.
• 37:50
  Speaker 3: Him okay he didn't wipe her and now she saying
• 37:54
  Speaker 3: the dick is trash I do that all the time.
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: Yo yo that's a joke y'all I.
• 38:10
  Speaker 5: Ain't mad I ain't mad his dick was trash I
• 38:18
  Speaker 5: ain't mad his dick was trash oh god.
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: Forgive me. That was a joke, y'all. I don't do
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: that all the time. Hold on. Did I say she
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: was on The Housewives? I'm so sorry, y'all. She was
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: on a TV show called Selling Sunset.
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: She's a realtor.
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: It was a Selling Sunset reunion and she was asked
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: about having had sex with indie celebrities and Michael B.
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: Jordan came up.
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: On the list on the agenda and he did not
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: deliver the dick. I would never, ever.
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: kiss and tell like that would.
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: You me either that is so whack yeah bitch that
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: is so whack i'm trying to like if i was
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: him i'd smack her in public.
• 39:05
  Speaker 3: Like why would you do that about now who's gonna
• 39:09
  Speaker 3: want to smash you you tell you talk too much.
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: Right bitch is she married she has a baby for
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: nick cannon oh no she just wanted nick cannon she's
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: in Nick Cannon's harem of baby mamas. Damn.
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she a chatty patty. Michael B. Jordan must not
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: be paying for amenity.
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: That's what happened you gotta pay bitches to shut the
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: fuck up nowadays okay 30 million he didn't know she
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: was gonna say that 30 million is the going rate
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: apparently period so what we talk about this week child
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: for thanksgiving We're going to.
• 39:46
  Speaker 3: Talk about black family traditions, your family traditions, is it
• 39:51
  Speaker 3: anything that y'all do, and the do's and don'ts at
• 39:54
  Speaker 3: the black household when it's turkey day.
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: Do not eat the middle of the mac. Don't.
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: That's fighting.
• 40:01
  Speaker 3: We're going to fight if you dig a spoon right
• 40:04
  Speaker 3: down in the middle of the macaroni and cheese.
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: You're going to get your ass whipped. You start from
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: the corner and work in until it's over.
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: If you don't want no edges, wait till it's way
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: into the middle. You just don't come with a spoon
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: and get the middle of the Mac. Yes.
• 40:20
  Speaker 3: I feel like only children, a child making their own
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: plate would do that. No adult, no black adult knows to,
• 40:26
  Speaker 3: they know not to do that shit.
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: Right? No, I don't think so.
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: Y'all, we'll get into it. Y'all, we'll be right back.
• 40:38
  Speaker 2: So y'all, it's turkey day.
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: And I wanted to have a discussion about the seven
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: unwritten rules of black family Thanksgiving. And then we can
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: get into like some black family traditions, like some that
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: your family might have in mind.
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: Sorry, let me let me start with the first unwritten
• 40:55
  Speaker 2: rule of black families. All right.
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: Bring a goddamn plate. don't be showing up to people's
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: house with nothing that's my unwritten rule what bring it
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: bring it something yeah everybody gotta bring something even if
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: you just bring it some styrofoam cups or some goddamn
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: place of bring the weed at least bring the hose.
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: Don't bring the hose to my family because.
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: No eating all day until dinner time no that's a
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: real thing Because I already know I'm about to eat
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: about 3,000 calories for Thanksgiving.
• 41:28
  Speaker 2: I'm saving all my calories for dinner.
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: Saving it all. I'm not eating nothing that day until
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: it's time for dinner. My mom's ordered some new shit
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: the last few years. She be cooking breakfast, too. That
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: is too much food. No, I don't want no breakfast.
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: I just want champagne and orange juice with just a
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: little orange juice. And that's it. Till I'm drinking. Mimosas. Mimosas.
• 41:47
  Speaker 2: That's it. Till time to eat. What time your family
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: usually eat?
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: We usually eat. My mom probably serves food around 2
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: to 3 o'clock, honestly.
• 41:56
  Speaker 2: Girl, it be 8 o'clock by the time we eat.
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: It be late as fuck.
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: You know, it's already getting dark early.
• 42:02
  Speaker 2: It definitely be nighttime by the time we eat. Every
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: year is late. Really? Yeah.
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: I don't start cooking until the day. No, she cooks
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: the night, but she start cooking the night before. But
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: somehow we still end up eating late as hell. Well,
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: I would have to eat breakfast. Because we start eating
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: at 2, but we eat throughout the night, though. It'd
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: be late as fuck before we start eating. You know,
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: you'd have to shit people cooking no more anyway. So
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: I'm having to cook my own pot of collard greens. Usually,
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: this is my Thanksgiving for the last few years. I've
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: had collard greens, macaroni and cheese, and salmon.
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: That's it. That's what I've been eating.
• 42:43
  Speaker 1: That's your Thanksgiving meal?
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because I don't eat all the neck bones and
• 42:46
  Speaker 2: all this shit.
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: Why don't you get one of those fucking vegan turkeys
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: with a piece of wood in it? No, okay, so
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: last year I did do, I did try to make
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: me a meatloaf, and I overcooked it. I used, and
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: I've done this before, like, using, like, the Boca or
• 42:59
  Speaker 1: the Beyond Meat to make a meatloaf, but I overcooked it,
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: so that shit was hard to sell.
• 43:04
  Speaker 2: It was not good. It tastes like cardboard.
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I could imagine.
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: But I don't really look forward to, like, the holiday
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: food no more. Yeah, because you can't eat none of it, right?
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you can eat the sides, some of them that
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: don't include, like... Most of that stuff be having meat
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: floors in it. And it's like, if I even wanted
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: to pick out some shit I couldn't, it's like she
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: put extra neck bones in it. Yes, the woman put
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: the extra neck bones on big pigtails looking like penises.
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: Oh, girl. All right.
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: Let me tell you one thing I do. I definitely
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: drink a smooth move about 11 at night. That's an
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: unwritten rule for me. Because I'm getting all of this
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: out of me in the morning. I had to eat
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: 17,000 calories, and I'm getting them all out in the morning.
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: Don't play with me. That might be some type of, like,
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: you know.
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: Tradition, bitch. Don't call it nothing else. All right, the
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: next one. Not anorexia.
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: What's this? Bulimia?
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: It's only on Thanksgiving. If I did it every Friday,
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: it would be bulimia. Bitch, I'd be taking, not like
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: real accidents, but I'd definitely do a smooth move, a
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: ballerina tee.
• 44:09
  Speaker 2: I be doing like the little tree buck, the Casa Sagrada.
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: I will be having that day before Thanksgiving, the night before,
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: around 6 p.m. the night before. No, I do it
• 44:17
  Speaker 2: on the night of Thanksgiving because that's when I.
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: Ate all the food.
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: Well, I might need to do it twice because I
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: already don't be regular. Sorry, y'all.
• 44:25
  Speaker 1: All right. The next one, embrace yourself for your nosy
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: relatives trying to get all up in your business.
• 44:32
  Speaker 2: Yes. Them aunts asking you.
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: When you're not married.
• 44:36
  Speaker 2: Why are you not married? Why are you rushing me
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: to be a single mom like your ass? Where is
• 44:39
  Speaker 2: your baby daddy?
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: When you going to give your mama a grandbaby? All right, well,
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: we ain't got no more hope.
• 44:44
  Speaker 2: My mama already got grandkids. She ain't care. Why you care?
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: Right. You don't want no kids?
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: I don't like that shit, and I think it's very
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: disrespectful to.
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: Act like that.
• 44:53
  Speaker 2: You don't never bring no man with you. Now if
• 44:58
  Speaker 2: I bring a different man every year, now I'm a hoe.
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: Right. Can't win.
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: Can't win.
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: Can't win.
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: Paying different nigga every year to Thanksgiving. I mean.
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: All right, so the next one. Even though you're only
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: going from the living room to the dining room all day,
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: you must look cute.
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: You got to put that shit on. You definitely got
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: to have a Thanksgiving outfit.
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 45:20
  Speaker 2: And a Christmas outfit.
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: You got to put that shit on. You got to
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: look like somebody. Now, last year, I think I did
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: stay in PJs all day long at my mom's. I
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: just did.
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: I was like, I don't give a fuck this year.
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: I've cooked. It was just me, my mom, my baby sister,
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: my nieces, and my other sister.
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: So it was just an immediate family. So y'all ain't
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: went nowhere.
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: No, we was at the house.
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: But I mean, most people still get dressed up even
• 45:47
  Speaker 2: to go in their living room.
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: So I dressed up because my dad, his birthday, so
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: it's every 10 years his birthday is on Thanksgiving. This year,
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: I think his birthday might be like the day after Thanksgiving.
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: He's the 25th of November. So we always end up
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: going from my mom's house.
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: To my dad's.
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: So this year, his birthday is actually on Saturday. So
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: I'll probably, you know, go to his house after we
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: eat at my mom's house, go to his house and
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: hang out over there.
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: That's where the liquor and the weed be at. That's
• 46:18
  Speaker 2: the after hours spot.
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah. You're lucky that your peers live that close near
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: each other where you can visit with both of them.
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: You know, I typically will have to choose one or
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: the other because my dad is in Chicago. But normally
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: I'm with my mother's side and not my father's side
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: for holidays.
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: That's just how it is.
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: You know, so one of my cousins, last week was
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: my cousin, one of my other family members' wedding. And
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: so a cousin who I hadn't seen since we were kids, basically,
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: she came into town.
• 46:49
  Speaker 2: She just retired from the military.
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: And, you know, she was questioning, like, why the family never, like,
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: she's my uncle's My first cousin, but, you know, usually.
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: When the mom and the dad split, the kids go
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: with the mom. You know what I'm saying?
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: So, like, you don't really see that other immediate family anymore.
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: And I guess she was feeling some type of way
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: about that. Like, we didn't do enough to see them.
• 47:14
  Speaker 2: But, I mean, I can say the same thing about
• 47:17
  Speaker 2: my dad's side of the family. You know what I'm saying?
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: They didn't come to make sure we was good at
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: any point, whether we was breathing or not. If we
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: see them, we saw them. Yeah.
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: It's usually like that.
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: It is.
• 47:28
  Speaker 2: Once the family breaks up, the kids usually be with
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: the mama side. And that's just how it goes.
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: It really do go like that. But the only way
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: is if, like, the mama on drugs or she with
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: the daddy side. That's typically how it goes. And I
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: guess both sides have to do a good job of
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: making sure the family, because you're still family.
• 47:46
  Speaker 2: Ready all together and not.
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: But they don't. You barely be even knowing your aunties
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: because of your daddy.
• 47:53
  Speaker 2: It be weird. All right. Sneak a bite of food
• 47:56
  Speaker 2: if grandma's prayer is going on too long.
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: You ever do that? I always pray with my eyes
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: open anyways. I'm looking at everybody else with their eyes closed.
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: I should start hitting people. I don't do that.
• 48:06
  Speaker 2: I don't do that.
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: You know, if people point while they're praying, it's too
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: long where I got to eat before. Typically, because oftentimes
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: I'll be doing a good portion of cooking. So, you know,
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: you don't even really be like wanting to eat right
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: then right. I don't be wanting to eat right away.
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: Once you done cooked all day long, like, I really
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: don't want to eat. That's even cooked in a regular
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: fucking meal. So Thanksgiving, like, I'm waiting.
• 48:32
  Speaker 3: I just be sitting there like a proud mama. You
• 48:34
  Speaker 3: know how a mama be when she watching her kids
• 48:36
  Speaker 3: open up Christmas presents? That's how I be when people
• 48:38
  Speaker 3: be eating the food. They be like, ooh, who made
• 48:40
  Speaker 3: the macaroni?
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: Like, last year, so my mama be cooking with stress.
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: And last year, I was like, let me make the macaroni.
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: She couldn't just let me make the macaroni. She still
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: went ahead and made her macaroni. And then it fell
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: some type of way when my pan was gone. And
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: her pan was still standing there stiff as ever. Hey, mama.
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: Standing there stiff and getting cold.
• 49:05
  Speaker 2: That macaroni be stressful.
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: Listen, that macaroni is important. That's one of the most
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: important dishes. You got to make it right. And you
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: fuck it up.
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: Everybody is going to be mad at you.
• 49:15
  Speaker 5: Yes.
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: Thanksgiving is not the time. And this is another unwritten
• 49:19
  Speaker 1: rule that probably not on this list you got don't
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: fuck with the rest new recipes on uh thanksgiving don't this.
• 49:26
  Speaker 2: Is not the time to be trying no new yes.
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: Do the shit how it's supposed to be done stop
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: putting all this heavy cream and everything tammy I.
• 49:36
  Speaker 2: Love heavy cream. Everything do not call for heavy cream.
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: It does. Y'all look at the calories in heavy cream.
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: I watch these videos on TikTok, on Instagram. It's like
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: heavy cream is going in every meal now.
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: And I love it. Oxtails and heavy cream. Like, what
• 49:51
  Speaker 2: are we doing?
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: Oh, no, that's wild. But I better make the gravy
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: nice and thick. What are y'all doing with the heavy cream?
• 49:58
  Speaker 2: Oh, goodness. I put it in a lot of things.
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: My grits, I put it in.
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: I use coconut cream in my grits. And it's so good.
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: I've never tried it like that. But the heavy cream
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: just make them like, hmm. And some sour cream, a
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: little bit.
• 50:13
  Speaker 2: No, that's too much. And my macaroni and cheese, too.
• 50:15
  Speaker 1: I put them both in there. Yeah.
• 50:18
  Speaker 2: You running out. I'm running in to the house to
• 50:22
  Speaker 2: eat another bite.
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 50:23
  Speaker 2: Stomach running off. All that goddamn cheese and heavy cream.
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: What's the next one? Stay out of grown folks' business
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: unless they ask for your opinion. I am a grown folk.
• 50:32
  Speaker 2: I don't like that. And I don't like doing that
• 50:34
  Speaker 2: to kids, either. Stay in the kid's place.
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: I feel like our kids are the most overly sexualized.
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: But then at the same time, you want them to
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: be stay in the kid's place.
• 50:46
  Speaker 2: But everything else is a fucking goal. Kids have a mind.
• 50:50
  Speaker 2: They should be able to engage in conversations with adults.
• 50:53
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? At what point?
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: I could not wait to get grown to cuss adults out. OK,
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: it's a lot of shit been on my mind since
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: I heard him conversation since we was kids.
• 51:02
  Speaker 2: I've been wanting to tell you about. Your goddamn self.
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: No, mind your business.
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: I believe in a child should stay in their place.
• 51:08
  Speaker 2: What is a child's place, though?
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: A child's place is to just absorb and learn from
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: the environment around you.
• 51:14
  Speaker 2: So just shut the fuck up and learn?
• 51:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 51:16
  Speaker 2: A lot of times they be learning a lot of
• 51:17
  Speaker 2: bad habits that adults do, and they think just because
• 51:20
  Speaker 2: they adults, they can do it. Y'all doing childish shit.
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: But you know what? You can also learn the things
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: not to do by the adults around you. You can
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: look at it and be like, okay, I know I
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: don't want to be like Uncle Gertie, Because he drunk,
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: he got to eat his plate outside because he don't
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: know how to act. Grandma won't let him in the house.
• 51:36
  Speaker 2: Which is childish.
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: What?
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: Which is childish. And you telling a child to stay
• 51:40
  Speaker 2: in a child's place while adults doing childish shit. What, drinking?
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: Getting too drunk?
• 51:44
  Speaker 2: All the things. Grandma make you sit outside and eat
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: your plate. We, all of us are big kids. That's
• 51:51
  Speaker 2: all we are.
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 51:54
  Speaker 2: I mean, I think we mature and grow still more
• 51:56
  Speaker 2: than the child. Staying in a child's place. I think
• 51:59
  Speaker 2: that we can learn a lot from kids. Kids are
• 52:01
  Speaker 2: very honest.
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah. You know, we can learn a lot. We can
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: learn how to love better from children, that's for sure.
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: But I do think there's some lessons that come along
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: with life that children just don't have.
• 52:13
  Speaker 2: And tell them about it early. And stop telling them
• 52:15
  Speaker 2: to mind their business. Some things ain't just for a
• 52:19
  Speaker 2: child's mind. Give me an example of some shit kids
• 52:21
  Speaker 2: should not be around to hear about.
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: Your sex life.
• 52:26
  Speaker 2: Oh, absolutely.
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: Why y'all talk about sex on Thanksgiving and the kids
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: can't be around for it?
• 52:32
  Speaker 2: Why y'all talk about anything? Hello now.
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: You know how it go with a family getting together.
• 52:39
  Speaker 2: You fucking on that full stomach.
• 52:41
  Speaker 1: Right. That's something that a child should not just be
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: privy to. And you should stay out of the conversation.
• 52:48
  Speaker 1: You should not be out of the conversation. On social media,
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: it's a birthday party and there's these kids with guns
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: and money and there's three.
• 52:54
  Speaker 2: Grown, four grown men behind them. No, I did not.
• 52:58
  Speaker 2: The internet is an uproar about it.
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: You know, because they always like to point to women
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: and show how we feel in the community. You know,
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: but women aren't out here killing.
• 53:09
  Speaker 2: No, we're not killing each other. We're not having, but
• 53:12
  Speaker 2: like the men are. It's terrible. Like, what are y'all doing?
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: It's the kids' birthday party and they up there with
• 53:18
  Speaker 2: the guns and the money. Eight, seven, six-year-olds, kids, babies.
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: Now, here's the thing. I don't think there's anything wrong
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: with teaching your kids how to use guns, but you
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: have to teach them responsibility with guns.
• 53:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like doing all this.
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: That's not right. But if you want to teach your
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: child how to properly use a firearm, I don't see
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: nothing wrong with that.
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: Absolutely not. That's not what they was doing. They were
• 53:44
  Speaker 2: being niggas.
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 53:46
  Speaker 2: No, I'm not here for that.
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: There's a difference between black people and niggas, and those
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: were some niggas in that video. Doing some nigga shit.
• 53:55
  Speaker 2: With them nigga kids. That's mean? Yeah.
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: It is not mean.
• 54:03
  Speaker 2: Them kids is being raised by niggas. Niggas be procreating
• 54:07
  Speaker 2: way faster than black people, dog. We got to get
• 54:09
  Speaker 2: ahead of this shit.
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: Goodness.
• 54:13
  Speaker 2: And then the last one, your leftovers are good until Christmas. What? What?
• 54:19
  Speaker 2: That's what that list said.
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: That's what the list said. Now, if you freeze them
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: greens and freeze a piece of that turkey... Now, I
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: remember turkey sandwiches and ham sandwiches. I mean, we was
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: eating that shit for seven days after Thanksgiving, for real, honestly.
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: My mom beat down and boiled a whole turkey caucus
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: and made gravy and rice. Okay, yeah, but, like, I
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: have this client, Crystal. I love her to death. That's
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: one of my oldest clients.
• 54:42
  Speaker 2: I love her. I came to do her hair. I
• 54:46
  Speaker 2: came to her house.
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: It was, like, at least.
• 54:49
  Speaker 2: Eight days after Thanksgiving, and she was offering me stuff
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: and candy and turkey.
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: I was like, bitch, you are going to be poisoned
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: by this shit. You're going to die. Throw that shit out.
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: She's like, mm, it's still good. You cannot eat it.
• 55:03
  Speaker 2: I say after four days. Not in the refrigerator.
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: I say after four days, you need to throw that
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: shit away.
• 55:08
  Speaker 2: Meat, poultry. And you're dripping if you still got a
• 55:11
  Speaker 2: turkey after four or five days.
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: Right. That turkey wouldn't be probably that good. Or, you know,
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: it could be big. Y'all could have different types. Because
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: I know people who have different, like, oh, it's a
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: fried turkey. It's a smoked turkey, you know. Throw that
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: shit away after four days. If it's not frozen, throw
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: it out. So you would take some thawed out Thanksgiving?
• 55:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: I will. I will. I will eat some thawed out Thanksgiving.
• 55:34
  Speaker 2: Y'all nasty. I will.
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: If it's frozen, it's good. But if you just had
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: it in the refrigerator talking about eat this mac and cheese,
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: first of all, if your mac and cheese lasted that long,
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: it wasn't good. That pan should be empty.
• 55:48
  Speaker 2: Exactly.
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: It wasn't good. All right.
• 55:52
  Speaker 2: That's the list of unwritten rules. Now let's just get
• 55:55
  Speaker 2: into our family tradition.
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: What's my family traditions for Thanksgiving? Like I said, we
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: take all day long to eat. Usually my mom starts
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: cooking all the food the day before. Mm-hmm. The pies first, probably.
• 56:09
  Speaker 2: And we still don't eat until 8 o'clock on Thanksgiving.
• 56:13
  Speaker 2: No matter what. We still don't eat. And it's always
• 56:18
  Speaker 2: just our little immediate family.
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah. My sisters, they kids, husband, whatever nigga I might
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: bring for the year.
• 56:24
  Speaker 2: That's usually what it is. Are you going to bring
• 56:30
  Speaker 2: a nigga this year? You know I keep a nigga
• 56:32
  Speaker 2: with me. You got a nigga to bring this year?
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: Yes. Yes.
• 56:36
  Speaker 2: I knew an old nigga. Oh, I know.
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: Bitch, I always got a nigga to bring. I cannot
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: keep up. I cannot keep up.
• 56:44
  Speaker 2: Good grief. Last year, my niece said something to me
• 56:47
  Speaker 2: last year.
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: If y'all were tuning in, and I brought it up,
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: and it really hurt my feelings because I was trying
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: to encourage her to come in the kitchen and learn
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: how to cook, and.
• 56:54
  Speaker 2: I was like, how you going to have a man
• 56:56
  Speaker 2: if you can't learn how to cook nothing to eat?
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: You ain't going to know how to make him no
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: Thanksgiving meal.
• 56:59
  Speaker 2: She was like, you know how to make a Thanksgiving meal,
• 57:02
  Speaker 2: and you ain't got no man still.
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: Y'all, I had to grab my little glass of champagne
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: and take a walk down the street when she said that.
• 57:09
  Speaker 2: Hey, call me.
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: Call me from down the street while she's sipping her mimosa. Right.
• 57:15
  Speaker 2: Sounded stressed on the phone because.
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: Her niece, who's supposed to stay in a child place,
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: gave your ass some fucking mirror right quick. And I
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: did not like it. I wouldn't double backslap her ass.
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: I really did.
• 57:28
  Speaker 2: Told your ass the truth.
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: Girl, cooking for these niggas don't keep them, but you
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: still need to know. You need to know how to
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: cook for your damn self.
• 57:36
  Speaker 2: And your partner. Nourishment is the woman's job, I feel like. Absolutely, always.
• 57:41
  Speaker 2: You are responsible for the nourishment of your family, women.
• 57:44
  Speaker 1: Your family fat is your fault, bitch.
• 57:51
  Speaker 2: She was right, but she was also wrong. No, she
• 57:54
  Speaker 2: was not wrong. She was right.
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: She was wrong as fuck, and we're going to move on.
• 57:59
  Speaker 2: Okay. All right.
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: I didn't say, I didn't say, I didn't say how
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: you're going to keep a man and you don't know
• 58:08
  Speaker 1: how to cook. So, okay. She's writing that, that knowing
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: how to cook does not keep a man.
• 58:14
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: But it's important to know how to cook if you
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: have a family.
• 58:19
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: So that's where I'm writing it. And we ain't going
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: to say a motherfucking thing else about it now. So
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: when I was a kid, We don't do it as
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: much anymore, but when I was little, we would always
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: get up and watch the Macy's Day Parade on television.
• 58:33
  Speaker 2: Never.
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: You never did that?
• 58:35
  Speaker 2: I watched it, but it wasn't like a thing. It
• 58:37
  Speaker 2: wasn't like a thing.
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: I always did that. But you see, my mama grew
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: up in New Jersey, and as a child, she would
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: actually go to it. So it was a thing for
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: us to just get up and watch it, watch all
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: the big-ass floats and things like that. I think last year,
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: Benedict College was actually in the Macy's Day Parade. Oh, yeah,
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: they were. I heard about that.
• 58:55
  Speaker 2: I watched it last year.
• 58:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah. So shout out to Benedict, BC, BC, you know,
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: you know. This one says break out the family photos
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: and go through like a memorabilia of the family. I
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: just occasionally do that annually because, you know, when you...
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: trying to you know figure yourself out it's good to
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: look at old memories you know old pictures of yourself
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: old pictures of your family i don't even think people
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: create photo albums anymore like we're real photos in it
• 59:22
  Speaker 1: like my grandmother just.
• 59:25
  Speaker 2: God rest her soul she just kept all that we
• 59:27
  Speaker 2: got Pictures from the.
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: 1800s, you know, like really, really old.
• 59:30
  Speaker 2: For real?
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Wow. I got a deed from like the early
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: 1800s from the land that belongs to my mom.
• 59:37
  Speaker 2: And it has like the lineage.
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 59:41
  Speaker 2: Owner's name to my great, great, great grandfather, you know,
• 59:44
  Speaker 2: passing it on. I have that.
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: Really? Yeah.
• 59:47
  Speaker 3: Wow.
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: So, yeah.
• 59:48
  Speaker 2: That's a blessing, y'all, because I feel like black people,
• 59:50
  Speaker 2: they don't give a damn about lineage.
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: I remember telling my mom I was going down to
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: the State Archives. So I can look up our family.
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? Like, because you have some
• 59:59
  Speaker 1: of that stuff you can get off of Ancestry.com or
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: I think it's families, family.org or something like that. They
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: have some things, but some things they intentionally keep from you.
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: So you got to actually go to deeds and records
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 1: and look.
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 2: Your family up. And she was like, why? You don't
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 2: understand how important family is.
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: Right. Very, very, very important.
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 2: And knowing where you come from.
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: That might be something people need to start doing on
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: Thanksgiving week.
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 2: Go figure out who the fuck y'all are. Right.
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: So you can know a little bit about why you
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: are that way. And you might realize you shouldn't be
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: celebrating Thanksgiving, God damn it.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: Because he was who they was putting on the fucking tape.
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: Another one that I think a lot of black families,
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: I think most families, not just black families, do this is,
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: go around the table and say what they're thankful for
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: before the meal.
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 2: Do y'all do that? No, but that should be a
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 2: good practice. Maybe I'll implement that this year.
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: When you go to Thanksgiving, definitely do it. I make
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: sure my family does it every time we talk about
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: what we're thankful for. And some people say funny shit,
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: and then some people get real thoughtful. And sometimes it
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: even gets emotional. So it's a good practice for y'all,
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 1: if y'all listening to this on Thanksgiving, you know, to
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 1: have your family do it together today.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: Celebrate Friendsgiving.
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 2: I think that's a new tradition that's come along in
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 2: the past, what, decade?
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: I've attended one Friendsgiving, and it was my friend, my
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: only white friend. You know, everybody, I got a black friend,
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: my one white friend. I attended Friendsgiving with a bunch
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: of other white people.
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 2: I was only a black girl. Actually, it was one
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 2: other black girl.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: Y'all, you want to tell you what these bitches did
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: to me on Friendsgiving? They ate my fucking food.
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 2: I brought food.
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: Down with me to Friendsgiving weekend. We all stayed at
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: my homegirl's house and she had this whole thing. It
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: was really nice because, you know, Charleston is one of
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 1: the most historic cities in America. Right.
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 2: And it's a big tourist place.
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: The people who live there, oftentimes we.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 2: Don't appreciate like Charleston.
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 1: Right. So we actually toured Charleston as tourists, as opposed
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: to residents. And the people she had came out from
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: out of town. Somebody came from Vegas. So she wanted
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: to show them around. So that's what we did. Anyway,
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: it was these fucking bitches. One of them drove a
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: pickup truck. She ate my goddamn Chinese food. I put
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: my food in the oven and went and took a shower.
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: When I came downstairs out to shower, my food was
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: on the counter, picked over, pieces.
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 2: Of shrimp ate. I spent $ 30 on this Chinese. I
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 2: don't eat cheap Chinese food.
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: So your Friendsgiving meal was?
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 2: No, no, no.
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: This was the weekend of. This was the Friendsgiving weekend.
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: So this was like the first night. I'm just meeting
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: y'all bitches.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 2: Night one.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah. I told my friend, I said, listen, we
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: on a boat ride the next day. I'm pissed the
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: whole day about my food from the night before. I said, listen,
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 1: when we get back to the house, can you run
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 1: back the cameras in your house so we can see
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  Speaker 1: who ate my food?
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  Speaker 2: And he'll go to bitch next to me. I think
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 2: I might have.
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  Speaker 1: You go take food that's warming up in the oven
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 1: out the oven and eat somebody's shit? That's wild. You
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: didn't put that there. You didn't purchase that. I couldn't
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: believe it happened. And then the same bitch planted a
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: shirt of hers in my luggage and then asked my
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: friend to ask me about the shirt. What was her deal?
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  Speaker 2: Girl, they didn't fucking like me.
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  Speaker 5: Why? Why?
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  Speaker 1: Because you was black?
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 2: That's how I feel. Because what the fuck? Yeah. Because
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 2: I don't want your funky ass shirt, bitch. Exactly.
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  Speaker 1: And listen, at the dinner after, you know, she admitted
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 1: to eating my food, right, without the cameras having to
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: be ran back. But at Friendsgiving dinner, I said, listen,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know how y'all do, but black people do
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  Speaker 1: not like people touching their food.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 1: Period.
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  Speaker 2: Add fucking Friendsgiving.
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 1: People will die by eating somebody else's food.
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 2: Why do people like to put their hands in food? Like,
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 2: if you have a buffet of food set out, they'll.
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: Instead of using the tongs or whatever to pick shit up,
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 1: they putting their hands in it.
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's weird.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I know some white people who don't do that,
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  Speaker 1: but I know some white people who do.
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  Speaker 2: Yes.
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  Speaker 1: I also know some that eat boogers.
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 2: Like, stop touching the food.
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: That's so funny you mention boogers, y'all. Today, I left
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: my house, and I was like, I fell half asleep.
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 3: You know how sometimes your face, even though you wash
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 3: your face, it still look like you just woke up.
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: I went down to Starbucks that's below my building, and
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: this white man said, you have a beautiful smile. Because
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: I was looking at it scrolling on my phone.
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 2: I was like, thank you.
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: Go into Starbucks. This black man comes up and asks
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: me for my phone number. And then the barista gave
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: me a free dessert. I paid for my drink, but
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: he gave me like a free little. He was like, oh,
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 1: this is about to be over.
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 2: You got to try it.
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: Like just being so nice to me. I was like, damn,
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: I feel like men are so nice when I feel ugly.
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: And I made a post about it, like for my
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 1: close friends. And I had a whole booger in my nose.
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: I was like, I got a whole booger hanging out
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 1: my nose. And I'm getting all this attention when I'm
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 1: glabbed up. It's quiet. That's crazy.
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 2: This goes to the thing where I say men like
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 2: safe women.
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah. You know what I'm saying? They like to dress
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: down because it's less of a threat. Nobody else wants
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: you but me, girl.
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: That's what they like. Whole booger hanging out. Can I
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: get your number? It was like one of those breathing ones.
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: We should have that out.
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 2: Sure. You can get my number. Booger blowing in and out.
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: We should go outside.
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 2: Looking real homely with boogers and see how many niggas
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 2: we get. Right.
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: And they go out and get dressed up. It's just crazy.
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 2: Quiet.
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: Okay. Back to the topic.
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 5: Um.
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 2: So this one is like Ready to Rumble is calling
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 2: it Ready to Rumble.
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: Like having a football game, like where families play, the
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: guys go out and play football before Thanksgiving dinner.
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 2: Oh, the races.
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: You see these grown-ass men running down the street pulling
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: hamstrings and shit.
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 2: Oh, I race. I race every year. Every single year
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 2: I'm smoking somebody.
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 1: Who want it?
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 2: Why you so excited?
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: Because that shit have me lit. Because everybody think I'm
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: slow because I got these big old buns. Them buns
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: be moving down the street. And I be barefoot.
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 2: I'm country.
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 1: I'm taking my shoes off and I'm smoking everybody. Who won?
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 2: I feel like you cheated.
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: I feel like your ass be inflated and be like air,
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: like a hot air balloon be pushing you down the street.
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 2: Because, bitch, I seen that video. Them legs be going.
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: I be gone. Everybody, you cheated.
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 2: Let's go again.
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: No, the fuck.
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 2: I ain't.
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: That's the word.
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 2: Goddamn Chucky doll running down the street. Girl, beat it. Oh, goodness.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 2: And I like, I 10 on the list. Giving back.
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: Like black people, we do participate in like food drives,
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 1: canned goods. You always hear about our giveaways, turkey giveaways,
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: even the neighborhood drug dealer giving out turkeys.
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 2: Oh, community.
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: I think that's a huge thing we do. I don't
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: know if that goes on in other communities as much.
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 1: I can't speak to that. Oh, back to Friendsgiving though.
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: Last year I got invited to a Friendsgiving hosted by
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: a white girl, honestly. And This year, they had it
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: this other day, and I didn't get an invitation. I'm
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: just wondering why. So if you listen to the show,
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: wonder why I wasn't invited, because y'all sure toured my
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: macaroni and cheese the last year. I felt a way.
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 2: Oh, so they didn't invite you to Friendsgiving this year?
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: Mm-mm.
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 2: You saw the invitations go out?
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: I didn't see none. I saw everybody having fun at
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 1: the Friendsgiving on my storage. Right. Why was I excluded? Yeah. Shame.
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 2: Was there other black people there last year?
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah. It's a very diverse group. Hispanic, Asian, black, white.
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: It's a very diverse group that I was just excluded from.
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 2: So there's that.
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: It's okay because I'm going to have a Division 4
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 1: party in January and I don't know who's.
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 2: Making the cut. Bitch, you didn't make the list.
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: No, it's cool. You know, you don't have to be
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: invited to everything, right?
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm okay with that.
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 2: Shit, Vision board party, that's good. You going to do
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 2: that in January?
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm. You going to come? Yeah, it's going to be fun.
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: I'm going to get some drinks, cocktails. I'm going to
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: curate some cute cocktails to go with Vision. And I'm
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: going to buy a bunch of cardboard. I'm going to
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: ask everybody to bring one magazine. That way we can
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 1: have a lot to cut from. And I'm going to
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: do it upstairs in the clubhouse.
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 2: Nice. I'm here. All right. This year I'm actually going
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 2: to execute. Bitch, I'm still executing on it.
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 1: Look, I've been walking around with this same vision board
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: on my goddamn cell phone since two years ago now.
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: Do you feel like you've knocked some things off of it?
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: You still got Jonathan Majors up in it?
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 2: No, I replaced that nigga. Yeah, you got him. I
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 2: replaced that guy. I think I just got a black
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 2: man on it now. Actually, I replaced him with a kid.
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 2: He was right there.
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: I want like a- black ass little click kid with
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: blonde hair is like, like what I'm trying to manifest.
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 2: That's not weird at all. Y'all happy Thanksgiving to y'all.
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 2: Let's just share what we're grateful for before we go.
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 4: Ooh, It is 2023, and I am grateful for my health,
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 4: my edges, my family.
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: I am grateful for a sound mind still. I'm grateful
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: for Tamela Bowen, my co-host in drama.
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: Man, I'm just grateful to still be breathing shit. You
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying? Every day you can get up
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: and make a difference. Even if you have those goals
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: you want to meet or that vision board, you have
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 1: a new start every day.
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 2: Absolutely.
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: You don't have to wait till the new year. You
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: don't have to wait till Thanksgiving. Every single day you
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: can make a difference, and that's what I'm grateful for. Man,
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: that was good. You stole all of mine. Let me think.
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: What am I grateful for? I'm grateful for the breath
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: in my lungs every day. I'm grateful that my MS
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: is in remission. I'm grateful to still have my mom
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: and dad healthy and thriving and my sisters. I'm grateful
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: for this podcast, my co-host. I'm grateful that I have
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 1: a skill that sustains my livelihood and I don't have
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: to answer to nobody.
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 2: Or suck dick about it.
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't have to suck dick. Thank you. Even
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 1: though I enjoy that at times, but you don't got.
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 2: To do it.
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: I don't have to do it for a living.
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 2: Amen.
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 1: Somebody say amen if you're listening. And I'm also grateful
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: for the growth that I've experienced over this past year
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: as a woman. There's a lot of things that I
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: just wouldn't acknowledge in 2022 that I was forced to acknowledge,
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: I was forced to look at myself in a real
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: way this year, and I'm grateful for that growth. So
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: I think that's about it. Yeah, I want to add,
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: I'm also definitely grateful for my parents. A lot of
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 1: people didn't make it the last few years, especially with
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: COVID and all that. A lot of people's parents didn't
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 1: make it. I'm so grateful to still have my two
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: parents around there being just as kooky as they fucking
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: want to be. Even my stepdad, you know what I'm saying?
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: He has a lot of health issues, and he's still
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: kicking it. Still kicking it. Grateful for that.
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 5: Mm-hmm.
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: So y'all pray this gratitude today and share with your.
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 2: Family what you're grateful for around the table. We love y'all. Yeah, man.
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 2: Thank you guys for coming out. God bless you. Good night.
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: Eat that motherfucking turkey. Dry-ass turkey. I might eat some
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: turkey in another country, not the United States, though. Anyway, y'all,
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: if you enjoyed.
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 2: This episode, this Turkey Day episode. Tune in every Thursday on.
• 1:12:10
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• 1:12:14
  Speaker 2: This is your co-host AJ Holiday 2.0 on Instagram. Kick it, Tam.
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: Y'all, it's official Tam Bam. I really do love y'all.
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 2: Remember, speak now and never hold your meat. Deuces. Bye. Bye.