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Why Men Are Tired Of Dating Feat @TheKellyGshow and @LamaBean · So Shameless

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  Speaker 1: Yo, man.
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  Speaker 2: Yo, man. Come on. Get your ass.
• 0:05
  Speaker 3: Christine scheduled it.
• 0:06
  Speaker 2: Yo.
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  Speaker 4: I love Christine.
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  Speaker 2: She's so professional. She is actually one of the best
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  Speaker 2: things that's happened to me.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, she is.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. It's nuts in here today. I got two loud mouths.
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  Speaker 2: First of all, I didn't know Lama was a loud mouth.
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  Speaker 2: I am, man. All I know is that he do
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  Speaker 2: a lot of loud mouth shit on Instagram. I didn't
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  Speaker 2: know that he was a messy ass Bronx nigga. I thought.
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  Speaker 3: He was very tipsy. You a messy nigga.
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  Speaker 2: Now you want to be quiet.
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  Speaker 3: All that shit you was talking before the game. Well,
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  Speaker 3: I told you, as soon as it press record.
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  Speaker 2: Nah, I want to hear you.
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  Speaker 3: I want to hear you out first.
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  Speaker 2: Listen, we ain't going to do all that messy shit
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  Speaker 2: on here. I'm a controller messiness. Llama, what you doing?
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  Speaker 1: Why you nodding?
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I'm just listening.
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  Speaker 1: Why you nodding?
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  Speaker 3: Don't control the messiness. I'm ready to tell my story, yo.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not doing that.
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  Speaker 3: All right.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not doing that.
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  Speaker 4: You told it already in the stories.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, I know. Yeah, I did. I told the whole thing.
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  Speaker 2: And you keep going.
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  Speaker 3: I know.
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  Speaker 2: That's not you. The type of nigga to put I'm
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  Speaker 2: single up in your stories. You're the type of nigga
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  Speaker 2: to post I'm single.
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  Speaker 3: No, I can't do that.
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  Speaker 2: You're not single?
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  Speaker 3: I want everybody to still think I'm single, even though.
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to pop out like Coco Jones in a relationship.
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  Speaker 2: And then when y'all break up, you want to post
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  Speaker 2: a story about why y'all broke up.
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  Speaker 3: No, no.
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  Speaker 4: First of all, you would never know what I'm doing.
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  Speaker 4: But I knew he is so, so corny. Let me
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  Speaker 4: tell you what he did. He going to say, I
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  Speaker 4: don't care. I met Erykah Badu. Nothing else matters. Y'all,
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  Speaker 4: I peed on myself. I said, well, where did that
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  Speaker 4: come from?
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  Speaker 2: Trump, do you know who this is right here?
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  Speaker 1: I don't.
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  Speaker 2: This is Kelly G, a.k.a. the Drill Fairy. Kelly please
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  Speaker 2: tell these people who the hell you are I.
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  Speaker 4: Am Kelly G a media personality I'm the best dick
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  Speaker 4: sucker in America I'm still the champ the champ is
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  Speaker 4: back I never went nowhere Kelly when.
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  Speaker 2: Last time you sucked a dick exactly you can't you
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  Speaker 2: can't you can't fight you can't claim you the title
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  Speaker 2: holder and you ain't sucked dick in years.
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  Speaker 4: The good dick or the bad.
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  Speaker 3: Dick I think if you gotta tat it she gotta
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  Speaker 3: tat it.
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  Speaker 2: Yup he know You got a dick tatted on your hand?
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  Speaker 2: You know. I told it to you last show.
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  Speaker 1: You know what?
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  Speaker 2: This is not... Kelly will be on Hardest Off in
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  Speaker 2: a week or so. Two weeks or something like that.
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  Speaker 4: But I'm going to be honest. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: What about the other stuff you do?
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  Speaker 4: Okay. I am a media personality. I'm a podcaster. I do...
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  Speaker 4: What else do I do? I'm a shit talker.
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  Speaker 2: A ranter.
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  Speaker 4: I'm one of the most viral females, older females right
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  Speaker 4: now on social media.
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  Speaker 5: Mm-hmm.
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  Speaker 4: That's it, basically. Oh, I just tapped into comedy. I
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  Speaker 4: did my first stand-up show at Captain Kirk's.
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  Speaker 2: You looked very comfortable up there.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: You looked very comfortable up there.
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  Speaker 4: So I'm tapping into more things, acting, comedy. I'm a
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  Speaker 4: media personality.
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  Speaker 1: It's hard for me to focus on anything else other than...
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  Speaker 1: You said you're the best dick sucker in the world. Like, yo,
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  Speaker 1: we should have ended with that.
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  Speaker 4: No, I begin with it because I got to let
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  Speaker 4: them know.
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  Speaker 1: I couldn't even hear anything after that. That was a
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  Speaker 1: wild introduction.
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  Speaker 2: Nah, but who tats I'm the best dick sucker on them?
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  Speaker 3: Who tats that? No, no, it's just a.
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  Speaker 4: It's just a sign.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yo, I suck dick. She has an I suck dick.
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  Speaker 2: Sign on her hand.
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  Speaker 3: No, it's just... No, no, no, it's like a banana
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  Speaker 3: in her mouth, right?
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  Speaker 4: I think I'm going to start doing classes.
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  Speaker 3: I only seen it because I edited it.
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  Speaker 2: Yo, hard as soft on October 21st. Llama, stop. Yo.
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  Speaker 2: Are you advertising?
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  Speaker 1: No, I was shocked.
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  Speaker 3: I was just shocked by it.
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  Speaker 4: You grooming me?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: To the feds, I have nothing to do with none
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  Speaker 2: of this. We not trafficking. This is him and his operation.
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  Speaker 2: He's trying to pick up new bread because he just
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  Speaker 2: lost his partner. So now he's going to pimp it.
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  Speaker 4: You sad.
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  Speaker 2: No, hell no.
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  Speaker 3: I'm good. I'm free.
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  Speaker 1: I'm free.
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  Speaker 2: I just want to be free.
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  Speaker 3: You got to watch him, yo.
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  Speaker 2: Nah, you was trolling before the show. And I said
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  Speaker 2: you thought you was going to get the same nigga
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  Speaker 2: with the camera turned on?
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  Speaker 3: He called it.
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  Speaker 4: Kelly, did I not do this?
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  Speaker 2: He jinxed it. You really thought this was going to happen?
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  Speaker 3: You jinxed it. We had a talk like three weeks ago.
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  Speaker 3: And he said, yo, you know you're going to have
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  Speaker 3: to buy him out, right?
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  Speaker 4: He's still on this.
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  Speaker 3: He jinxed it.
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  Speaker 4: He's sneaking a story in. This is part one, y'all.
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  Speaker 4: I'm telling y'all.
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  Speaker 3: He acting like he don't know shit.
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  Speaker 4: We trying to stay neutral. And you dragging us in.
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  Speaker 3: Right?
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  Speaker 4: He doing it sneaky. You trying to tell that story.
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  Speaker 4: You like, I'm going to tell.
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  Speaker 2: The story in between.
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  Speaker 3: I'm going to tell the story.
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  Speaker 4: In between the other stories.
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  Speaker 2: I guarantee you, it keeps coming up through these episodes.
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  Speaker 4: He going to be on part four in ten minutes.
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  Speaker 2: Yo, yo, yo.
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  Speaker 3: And that's what happened, right?
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  Speaker 2: When he did that. Stop. All right. This ain't for that.
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  Speaker 2: I don't like getting in the middle of my mutual shit, man.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all niggas be going through too much shit with each other.
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  Speaker 2: That's why I stay by myself. I ain't going to
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  Speaker 2: hold you. Keep the same friends. Don't try to make
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  Speaker 2: new ones. Don't go too far. You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 3: Can we talk about that?
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  Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no.
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  Speaker 3: The friend word?
• 5:15
  Speaker 2: I did too much. My bad. I did too much.
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  Speaker 2: What do you want to talk about with friends? When
• 5:19
  Speaker 2: we had to talk? What's the definition of a friend? Tron.
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  Speaker 1: Yes.
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  Speaker 3: How do you consider a person your friend? What's your definition?
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  Speaker 3: Let me explain this.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like this is a setup for part two.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, no, no.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, it's something different. Because Tahoe was like, yo, we friends.
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  Speaker 3: I was like, no, we cool. No, that's not what
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  Speaker 3: you said. You said we are friends. We friends, but
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  Speaker 3: like cool.
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  Speaker 2: No, you didn't.
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  Speaker 3: You didn't do that. I believe a friend is a
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  Speaker 3: person you can come to with your problems. They know
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  Speaker 3: your ins and outs. They know everything about you. Tahoe
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  Speaker 3: don't know mad shit about me.
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  Speaker 1: We just.
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  Speaker 2: You from the Bronx. I don't really care.
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  Speaker 3: I'm from Harlem, see?
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  Speaker 2: That's why we have friends. But yeah, so I consider
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  Speaker 2: a friend like your deepest, darkest secrets. You can run
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  Speaker 2: to them with it. Like me and Kelly, we associate.
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  Speaker 2: You must got mad friends. She don't know my deepest,
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  Speaker 2: darkest secrets. We cool. So that's why I said we're cool.
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  Speaker 3: You ran to the internet with all your secrets.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, nah.
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  Speaker 4: So the internet is your friends.
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  Speaker 3: No, he gotta be exposed, yo.
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  Speaker 2: Why two?
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  Speaker 3: When you're doing bad stuff, you got to be exposed.
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  Speaker 2: I did realize that he's right. I thought we was friends.
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  Speaker 2: I thought there was levels of friendship. Right. I thought
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  Speaker 2: there was levels. Yeah, you're right.
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  Speaker 3: It could be levels.
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  Speaker 2: What he did, and once he mentioned where his friends are,
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  Speaker 2: he don't have no friends. He got five friends. I said, well,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not one of those five friends. We don't talk
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  Speaker 2: like that. So that means we're not friends. You don't
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  Speaker 2: consider me a friend. He's like, no, we're cool.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: That's cool.
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  Speaker 4: Y'all seem like.
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  Speaker 1: Friends, though.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Like you said, there's levels.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, there's levels.
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  Speaker 1: And then there's friends for different things. Not all the
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  Speaker 1: people I consider friends, I'm sharing my deepest, darkest secrets.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 2: There are some friends I'm not telling that shit to.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: There's some friends you can't lend money to.
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  Speaker 1: That too.
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  Speaker 2: That's part three. Are we in?
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  Speaker 1: Are we in?
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  Speaker 2: Kelly.
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  Speaker 4: Part three.
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  Speaker 2: What the fuck?
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  Speaker 4: Told you he's going to ease it in.
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  Speaker 2: What the fuck? Yo, yo. Kelly, this is hard as soft.
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  Speaker 4: October 21st.
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  Speaker 1: I'm excited.
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  Speaker 2: You easing shit in? Yeah. Kelly, what's going on, man?
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  Speaker 2: You got a platform. Your show is back. Llama's producing it,
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  Speaker 2: I believe.
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  Speaker 6: Yes.
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  Speaker 2: What the hell, man? You took off. You had me
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  Speaker 2: on the app. Put a ball gag in your mouth.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, and I got banned for that for a little while.
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  Speaker 2: You did?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I didn't win the appeal. I appealed it. I appealed it.
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  Speaker 4: You know, I got a lot of traction because of
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  Speaker 4: that ball. I still have it in my house. I
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  Speaker 4: use it every so often.
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  Speaker 1: No, you don't.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I should have brought it. Damn.
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  Speaker 2: Not on this show.
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  Speaker 5: Not on this show.
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  Speaker 2: You get banned.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: But what?
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  Speaker 2: All right, so what happened?
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  Speaker 4: I just use it. I've gotten a couple of dollars
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  Speaker 4: off of that. Guys like to see pictures of that.
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  Speaker 2: Your mouth? Yeah. In the ball?
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  Speaker 7: Mm-hmm.
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  Speaker 2: And you selling the pictures?
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  Speaker 4: Well, I deal with one guy.
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  Speaker 2: All right. All right.
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  Speaker 3: Hardest off is October 21st. Christine, help.
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  Speaker 5: Help.
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  Speaker 2: Your show is back. What is the premise of the
• 8:23
  Speaker 2: Kelly G show?
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  Speaker 4: More mature crowd. I'm trying to cater to the 90s
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  Speaker 4: and early 2000s. entrepreneurs, people that's been around. Everybody know
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  Speaker 4: me from dealing with the kids, but now I feel
• 8:37
  Speaker 4: like I went to an event with all the old
• 8:39
  Speaker 4: school around here. So Sparky D passed away and I
• 8:43
  Speaker 4: went to that event. And just to see like all
• 8:44
  Speaker 4: the old school pioneers of hip hop is just to
• 8:47
  Speaker 4: see that they don't have no support. They don't have
• 8:49
  Speaker 4: no help. They don't have no backup. So when I
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  Speaker 4: started bringing up older people, I feel like that becomes
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  Speaker 4: me more. So now I want to, Shifted a little.
• 8:58
  Speaker 2: You was big into drill rap and shit like that.
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  Speaker 2: That's where you got the name from, right?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, the kids. But it wasn't because I liked drill music.
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  Speaker 4: It was because I was trying to help the kids.
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  Speaker 4: You know, give them a safe space to come in.
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  Speaker 2: The ferry. Yeah. Like to hover over them, to bless them,
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  Speaker 2: because you see what they're going through.
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  Speaker 4: But a lot of them is dead and in jail.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, my godson got killed out in Coney Island a
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  Speaker 2: couple months ago.
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  Speaker 5: Briscoe.
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  Speaker 2: Briscoe. That was my godson.
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  Speaker 4: I grew up with his whole family. I was just
• 9:28
  Speaker 4: talking to his sister on the phone.
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  Speaker 2: She knows everybody.
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  Speaker 4: His mother is, she watched me grow up.
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  Speaker 2: She lives on the corner. Anyway, yeah. That's my gossip.
• 9:38
  Speaker 4: We can talk off camera.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 9:42
  Speaker 4: That's crazy.
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  Speaker 2: I'm excited for you.
• 9:44
  Speaker 4: I'm excited for you too.
• 9:44
  Speaker 2: I'm excited you're back.
• 9:46
  Speaker 4: My sister's obsessed with you.
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  Speaker 2: Hard or Soft is October 21st. Do we talk about
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  Speaker 2: that now or October 21st?
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  Speaker 4: It's not nothing sexual. It's just something about you that
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  Speaker 4: she's obsessed with. She was ready to bring her daughters here.
• 10:00
  Speaker 4: while we was recording.
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  Speaker 2: That's crazy. I got enough kids. That's not a way
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  Speaker 2: to get it, nigga. Sweetheart, don't bring no kids around me.
• 10:11
  Speaker 2: Why you bring kids around me?
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  Speaker 4: Because she don't have a babysitter.
• 10:15
  Speaker 2: What the fuck is she doing?
• 10:17
  Speaker 4: She loves you. I don't know what it is about you,
• 10:20
  Speaker 4: but she freaking loves you.
• 10:21
  Speaker 1: Oh, man.
• 10:24
  Speaker 2: Help. So much is going on. What do y'all want
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  Speaker 2: to do? Do y'all want to get serious? Can I
• 10:30
  Speaker 2: introduce myself? Yes, Llama. Yes, I'm Llama.
• 10:35
  Speaker 3: I used to do Views of a Next. I'm going
• 10:36
  Speaker 3: to bring it back soon. Shout out to Views of
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  Speaker 3: a Next. Great show. You had one of the best episodes.
• 10:40
  Speaker 2: Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I appreciate you.
• 10:42
  Speaker 3: It's like a movie.
• 10:43
  Speaker 2: Both of y'all said that. Ooh. She just said I
• 10:45
  Speaker 2: had a great episode.
• 10:46
  Speaker 3: Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. You're good at this stuff. I'm
• 10:50
  Speaker 3: a professional potter. Yeah, I do a lot of things. DJ, podcast,
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  Speaker 3: studio owner now. Yeah, a lot of things. The name
• 10:58
  Speaker 3: of your podcast, the name of your studio is what? Slight.
• 11:01
  Speaker 2: Why?
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  Speaker 3: Because somebody tried to slight me on some money.
• 11:04
  Speaker 2: Why did they?
• 11:05
  Speaker 3: I ain't going to name it. Why did you name
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  Speaker 3: it Slight? Because somebody tried to slight me on money.
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  Speaker 2: What do you mean?
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  Speaker 3: I was in a situation and a mistake happened.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, this is.
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  Speaker 1: A whole different story.
• 11:20
  Speaker 4: You was in another one?
• 11:21
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so the dude, the mistake I made, the dude
• 11:24
  Speaker 3: was like, I can't pay you for that. That's illegal.
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  Speaker 1: What do you mean?
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  Speaker 2: Damn.
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  Speaker 3: All right, so I was working at a studio. I
• 11:33
  Speaker 3: did some work. Damn, you were in another story. Yeah,
• 11:37
  Speaker 3: I did some work. The lady didn't like her lighting,
• 11:41
  Speaker 3: so the lighting was hitting her funny. And she didn't
• 11:42
  Speaker 3: like it. She wanted a full refund. So because she
• 11:45
  Speaker 3: wanted a full refund, he was going to take it
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  Speaker 3: out on me. Like, I can't pay you because she
• 11:48
  Speaker 3: wants a refund. But as an owner, you can't do that.
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  Speaker 3: You got to take that out. You're the one who
• 11:52
  Speaker 3: set up the lighting. Yeah. But they were trying to
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  Speaker 3: get over. So he did what he did. He held
• 12:00
  Speaker 3: my paycheck.
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  Speaker 2: And I left. And you left.
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  Speaker 3: And I named my studio Slight.
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  Speaker 2: Because you got slighted. Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Damn.
• 12:09
  Speaker 4: I need to change my shoulder to slight.
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  Speaker 1: Yo, bro.
• 12:16
  Speaker 3: It's all in the same year. All in the same year.
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  Speaker 2: I personally don't think that you should harp on negative moments. Nah, nah, nah.
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes you need a reminder. Things like that happen.
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  Speaker 3: You need a reminder to motivate you. That's the thing.
• 12:28
  Speaker 2: Okay. How's business going for you? Everything's going well?
• 12:30
  Speaker 3: It's booming, yeah, yeah.
• 12:31
  Speaker 2: Business is booming? Thanks to you.
• 12:34
  Speaker 3: You said... Nah, I ain't gonna say what you said.
• 12:37
  Speaker 4: Don't tell the podcast secrets.
• 12:39
  Speaker 3: But, yeah. It's booming. Why are you trying to pull
• 12:43
  Speaker 3: me into this? Why are you trying to make a
• 12:44
  Speaker 3: scene like that? You have a lot to do with
• 12:45
  Speaker 3: a lot of things in a short period of time, Tao.
• 12:48
  Speaker 3: Just so for one, like two phone calls. The business
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  Speaker 3: is booming because of Tao. He said....
• 12:56
  Speaker 4: Don't give your sauce out.
• 12:58
  Speaker 3: Basically, he said, F these N-words.
• 13:01
  Speaker 2: That's not what I said. What I said was... You
• 13:03
  Speaker 2: said don't focus on them. You have to market outside.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: That because the other people don't, less like if we
• 13:09
  Speaker 2: have a black restaurant, most times the white people not
• 13:12
  Speaker 2: going to come in. But they the ones that got
• 13:13
  Speaker 2: a lot of the bread that helps support your shit.
• 13:16
  Speaker 2: So you can't make it look like that. If you
• 13:18
  Speaker 2: want a successful business, especially where you're at in Soho,
• 13:21
  Speaker 2: you have to go outside of your, you know, you
• 13:24
  Speaker 2: have to. You have to. And there's other ways to
• 13:27
  Speaker 2: communicate with them versus like being on Instagram and shit
• 13:30
  Speaker 2: like that. They don't be doing that. They might respond
• 13:32
  Speaker 2: to a flyer. You could stick a flyer to the
• 13:34
  Speaker 2: fucking light pole. with the little cutouts, you know, the
• 13:37
  Speaker 2: little shit that you rip off, and they might respond
• 13:40
  Speaker 2: to that shit. You know what I'm saying? In your ads,
• 13:42
  Speaker 2: you might not want to be sitting there like 50
• 13:45
  Speaker 2: Cent on it. No, you might want to put fucking,
• 13:48
  Speaker 2: what's the name of the white girl? Travis Scott, Travis
• 13:51
  Speaker 2: Kelsey's ex. What's her name?
• 13:54
  Speaker 1: Kylie?
• 13:54
  Speaker 3: Taylor Swift.
• 13:54
  Speaker 2: Taylor Swift. You might want to put her recording in
• 13:57
  Speaker 2: your studio.
• 13:58
  Speaker 3: So basically, that's what I did. White person, famous white
• 14:01
  Speaker 3: person came in. I used those photos.
• 14:04
  Speaker 2: Booming. Booming.
• 14:05
  Speaker 3: And then they come in, the white people come in,
• 14:06
  Speaker 3: they be like, oh, black.
• 14:08
  Speaker 2: They be like, refund? Every time. I feel slighted.
• 14:15
  Speaker 3: They be like, yeah, yeah. Like, gotcha. I feel slighted.
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: It's too dark in here.
• 14:23
  Speaker 2: I do feel slighted by a lot of what's going
• 14:25
  Speaker 2: on right now. Da Vinci. This sucks. I hate it.
• 14:33
  Speaker 2: I kind of hate this. that he was on Cam
• 14:37
  Speaker 2: Newton's show. This is somewhat old, so by next week
• 14:40
  Speaker 2: nobody's gonna be talking about this shit. It's so funny
• 14:42
  Speaker 2: how fast news topics coming in and out. We focus
• 14:47
  Speaker 2: on it, we're so offended, and then we're off talking
• 14:49
  Speaker 2: about something else. But there is a, people are saying,
• 14:56
  Speaker 2: some people are saying that he wasn't even talking about
• 14:58
  Speaker 2: black Americans. Some people would say he was just talking
• 15:02
  Speaker 2: about Americans. The diaspora wars is now fueled again between
• 15:08
  Speaker 2: Haitians and the FBA and the black Americans. There's only
• 15:12
  Speaker 2: one first generation, second generation. There's so much going on.
• 15:16
  Speaker 2: Do y'all want to hear a clip of some of
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: what he was saying? Yeah, let me hear it. I
• 15:22
  Speaker 2: don't really like it. Me neither. I don't.
• 15:26
  Speaker 3: You got to catch me up. I just know he's
• 15:28
  Speaker 3: all over the place.
• 15:29
  Speaker 2: Oh, you didn't hear it?
• 15:30
  Speaker 3: I just see his name all over the place.
• 15:32
  Speaker 4: I never liked him anyway.
• 15:36
  Speaker 2: That can't see past that.
• 15:37
  Speaker 6: With everything that's going on, I can understand the emotions
• 15:42
  Speaker 6: that it conjure up because of what people of African
• 15:45
  Speaker 6: descent have gone through under the hands of Caucasians. But however,
• 15:50
  Speaker 6: the story is much bigger. Like, Caucasians have enslaved Caucasians.
• 15:54
  Speaker 6: Black people have enslaved black people. We're looking at history
• 15:57
  Speaker 6: from a point of view that is cutting our legs
• 16:01
  Speaker 6: off from under our feet to really be able to
• 16:03
  Speaker 6: move forward and be like smarter. I think just more awareness.
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: Now listen, I tell y'all every day, I'm not the
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: highest grade of weed in this country, nor am I
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: the strongest. All right, all right. Unk gave him dunk
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: of the day.
• 16:15
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying?
• 16:15
  Speaker 3: As he should.
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: He spoke on the fact that, you know, He said
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: that we Americans were incompetent. That's an interesting word to use, bro.
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: Incompetent is an interesting word to use. He said lazy.
• 16:30
  Speaker 4: Lazy.
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: Oh, all right.
• 16:31
  Speaker 4: That's what got me.
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: Gotcha. Go ahead, Kelly.
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: What do you think?
• 16:34
  Speaker 4: But it's always been a thing. I grew up in
• 16:37
  Speaker 4: a West Indian culture, in a West Indian area in Brooklyn.
• 16:42
  Speaker 4: I'm going to just cut it. A lot of West Indian,
• 16:43
  Speaker 4: majority of the West Indians feel Americans are lazy. They
• 16:47
  Speaker 4: feel because this is our country and we don't have
• 16:49
  Speaker 4: to do much. We don't push hard and we don't
• 16:53
  Speaker 4: work ourselves and we don't slave ourselves. That's how a
• 16:57
  Speaker 4: lot of West Indian people feel. Haitians especially. I've worked
• 17:01
  Speaker 4: with Haitians. Why do you think my hand is like this?
• 17:03
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 17:04
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 17:05
  Speaker 4: What you say? What you say? Where he at? Where
• 17:07
  Speaker 4: DaVinci at? Bring him now. My other hand need to
• 17:11
  Speaker 4: be like this too so it could be a matching pair.
• 17:14
  Speaker 4: I just don't, I feel like you're here in this
• 17:16
  Speaker 4: country too. We all have, once you get that citizenship,
• 17:20
  Speaker 4: we all have equal rights. We all could do the
• 17:22
  Speaker 4: same thing. Nobody's better than nobody. And you could tell
• 17:26
  Speaker 4: he was raised in a family where they thought they
• 17:29
  Speaker 4: were better than Americans. You can tell. You can tell.
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: He has made some comments. I've seen people that know
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: him basically saying that since they knew him, he didn't
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: want to connect himself to being black per se. Or
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: to just like localizing his experience to being black. Like
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: he wanted to be American or Haitian and he didn't
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: want his content. Like there was a kid that had
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: a shirt, somebody that he grew up with or started
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: his career with that had vegan as the new black.
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: And he was getting people that he knew To take
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: the shirt. Vegan is the new black. Vegan is the
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: new black. And he took the picture for his friend
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: and then called him and was like, yo, I don't
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: think we should post that. I don't want to post
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: that picture because I don't want to do the black thing.
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying?
• 18:18
  Speaker 4: So what else is he going to do? Because what
• 18:20
  Speaker 4: color is he? Where is he from?
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: When we get locked up, what?
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: What?
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: That's something I do want to say. But Lama, what
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: do you think about this?
• 18:28
  Speaker 3: I don't know the focus. Context to everything, but for
• 18:30
  Speaker 3: those people that are from outside of America, they do
• 18:36
  Speaker 3: look at us in a different landscape. So they'll see
• 18:40
  Speaker 3: us as rappers, us as basketball players, and think that's
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: the only thing we are striving for. And while the
• 18:46
  Speaker 3: Jamaicans and everybody else want to be doctors and everything
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: like that, times have changed. There's new ways to make money,
• 18:53
  Speaker 3: not just going to school and getting a doctor's degree
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: or being a lawyer and stuff like that. There's other
• 18:58
  Speaker 3: ways to make money. I don't think they look at
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: it that way, especially the older, not all Caribbean people, but,
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: you know, the older descent of, you know, people that's
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: outside of America.
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: Well, Trump is West Indian.
• 19:13
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 19:13
  Speaker 2: He's kind of West Indian.
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: Now, I had a question for you.
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: As a DJ, did they look at you funny? Your
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: parents or whoever's West Indian in your life?
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: No, they supported me.
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: All right, all right. Because they don't be looked at
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: as lazy, like, DJ?
• 19:28
  Speaker 4: DJ is a little different. I don't know.
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: No, but my parents were more progressive than a lot
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: of people.
• 19:33
  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay.
• 19:34
  Speaker 4: But you understand what I'm saying.
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: So my grandparents, my dad's mom and dad, they were...
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: So here's the thing. I got to start off by
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: saying this. I don't like the diaspora wars. I don't
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: like all the divide shit. Like we all black, we
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: all have different struggles, but similar struggles. And we're all
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: being oppressed by the same motherfuckers, right? So that's one thing.
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: I want to start off with that. I got nothing
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: but love for Haitians, especially like, I really revere and
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: respect Haitians because of what they went through. And they're
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: like the first Caribbean country to revolt and to gain
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: their independence. Haitians are the most resilient people and they're
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: the most oppressed people, which is why Haiti is in
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: the position that it's in right now.
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: Because of the revolt, by the way. Exactly. Because of
• 20:17
  Speaker 2: the revolt.
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: And then they had to pay reparations to France, right?
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean? So Haiti's in a bad
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: place by design. Let's start there, right? I will say this.
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: There is one thing that I learned just by observing family, friends,
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: and just being around, like, When you come from America,
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: it don't matter where you come from, Caribbean or wherever,
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: a lot of times they come from places where they
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: don't have certain opportunities. So they come to America struggling,
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: sleeping on couches, trying to figure this shit out, leaving
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: half their family behind. They got to send money back home.
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: They come here with a sense of urgency and like, yo,
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: we got to get to it. I didn't come all
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: the way over here for you to fuck around and
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: work on your mixtape. You know what I mean? You're
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: going to go to school. You're going to get your diploma.
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: You're going to be a doctor, a lawyer, something that
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: you can bank on. You're going to get your 401k.
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: So a lot of Caribbean parents and immigrant parents in
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: general are conservative somewhat, as far as that's concerned. And
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: I can't stress they have a sense of urgency. I
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: wouldn't word it like Americans are lazy or incompetent. But
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: there is a different mindset. But you got to be
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: careful with the way you word things. And Da Vinci
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: just didn't word it properly. And it's disrespectful to black Americans.
• 21:33
  Speaker 3: Different mindset.
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: I do want to say, you know, I was listening
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: to Charlamagne's Donkey today. This laziness thing, though. Lama has
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: a point. They do look at Americans a certain way.
• 21:49
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: But I also believe that we have to take into
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: account the propaganda that's being shown in other countries about Americans,
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: specifically black Americans. It's almost the same as I said
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: this on TikTok the other day. For a long time,
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: we didn't know what the fuck was going on in Africa.
• 22:05
  Speaker 3: I thought flies.
• 22:06
  Speaker 2: We was flies, Tarzan.
• 22:08
  Speaker 3: Empty stomachs.
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: Like we didn't know, right? Loaded, you know, baskets. You
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: know what I mean? That's all we knew. We didn't
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: know cities. We didn't understand that they had riches. They
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: didn't show us that shit.
• 22:21
  Speaker 4: They didn't show us South Africa.
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: They didn't show us.
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: None of that.
• 22:24
  Speaker 4: None of that.
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: When I grew up, everybody was getting downplayed. Haitians, Africans.
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: It was a downplay.
• 22:31
  Speaker 4: It was a downplay.
• 22:31
  Speaker 3: Today, they looked at totally different. Africans got money.
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: There's a lot of propaganda. And we need to, as
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: black people, understand that they're doing that on purpose. That
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: is by design. So it's disappointing to see us furthering
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: Willie Lynch's cause. Or the white MAGA cause. Fuck you,
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: FBA niggas. Not because you're from here, but because you
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: niggas is the new clan. You niggas, all y'all doing
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: is going after your own kind. And y'all act like
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: when they come, they not just looking at black people.
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: They don't give a fuck what accent you got. They
• 23:10
  Speaker 2: don't give a fuck where your family came from. They
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: are oppressing black people. That's the whole point of it.
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: Have your pride. But why are y'all niggas, niggas on
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: the internet going at each other, especially in front of Massa?
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: You niggas don't act like they not watching and clapping
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: that we doing the job that they set themselves.
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: Out to do.
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: And we doing it for them. When y'all call us lazy,
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: pardon me, I don't want to get on my shit
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: like I'm fucking, what's the dude's name? Dr. O'Neal.
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: When y'all call us lazy.
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: Charlamagne, and shout out to him for being so intelligent
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: in the way that he voices certain shit, whatever research
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: he does, because just from that little quip from Donkey today,
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: it made me realize some shit, right? I know Kelly's like, yo,
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: this nigga kind of, he talking about smart shit instead
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: of sex? No, but I'm... That, yo, 400 years of
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: some shit?
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: That's a small period. That's small.
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: No, that's fucking small. 400 years of chattel slavery? shadow slavery. Nigga,
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: that shit is in your genes. You hear certain shit,
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: it make you jump. Because your mom's jumped. Because her
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: mother jumped. And it goes back. Nigga, Charlamagne said the
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: Civil Rights Act was in 1964. That was right around
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: the corner. I was born in 75. That shit was
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: right there. There's people in our lives right now that
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: went through that shit actively and it was legal. They
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: went through this oppression legally in our lifetime right now.
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: They're hanging niggas. There are people who that directly triggers
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: some shit that they thought they left behind. Some shit
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: that their moms taught them, their grandmother taught them. It
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: really happened. That shit might happen to their uncle. Like
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: it's really like that close for when y'all talk about
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: shit and y'all don't understand what black Americans go through.
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: And this is not to discount what people went through
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: in their countries. But what Charm said is correct. Y'all
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: have a drive because of the trauma y'all went through. Shit,
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: the way we present is because of shit that we
• 25:25
  Speaker 2: went through. We didn't have the same motherfucking experience. So
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: for you to go on there, DaVinci, first of all,
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: you corny as shit. I want Kelly to slap you.
• 25:35
  Speaker 4: Yeah, because y'all built this country. The same... country that
• 25:41
  Speaker 4: you talking about you built it and we love y'all
• 25:44
  Speaker 4: for that i have majority of my friends are west
• 25:46
  Speaker 4: india and i am west india my mother is a
• 25:49
  Speaker 4: jamaican woman who came here with nothing yes so i
• 25:54
  Speaker 4: understand it and i get it i get it yes
• 25:57
  Speaker 4: but to say we lazy you don't know the traumas
• 25:59
  Speaker 4: that we've been through we've been through trauma too you
• 26:03
  Speaker 4: know a lot of our shit ain't televised either You know,
• 26:07
  Speaker 4: at the end of the day, them folks, them clear folks,
• 26:10
  Speaker 4: they looking at us all the same. They don't give
• 26:12
  Speaker 4: a fuck where we from. We all the same. So
• 26:16
  Speaker 4: why can't it just be that? You sound ignorant. You're
• 26:20
  Speaker 4: too lit to sound like this. You're too lit to
• 26:23
  Speaker 4: sound like this. I just, I unfollowed him. Because I
• 26:28
  Speaker 4: feel like better choice of words. Because I get it.
• 26:31
  Speaker 4: A lot of people that come to this country, they
• 26:34
  Speaker 4: got to really go crazy. They got to go crazy.
• 26:36
  Speaker 4: They got to prove to the government that they need
• 26:39
  Speaker 4: to be here. A lot of people are here illegally.
• 26:42
  Speaker 4: And they're doing the right thing. So I get it.
• 26:44
  Speaker 4: But better choice of words. You ain't have to say
• 26:46
  Speaker 4: it like that. American people do take offense to that.
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: I do have one comment, though. A lot of people
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: that follow him say they're not going to support him,
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: not going to watch his movies, his shows and stuff.
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: I do feel, as much as I disagree with what
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: he said, I do feel like there's a lot of
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: people that grow up with a certain level of ignorance.
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: And I don't think his intentions is bad.
• 27:11
  Speaker 4: No.
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: And I don't think, he probably grew up, from what
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: I heard, he grew up around white folks and stuff.
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: So he might have some type of complex. Before we
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: just throw people away, especially our talented people, like, what
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: about just bringing them into a room and having a conversation? Yeah, like,
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: maybe he just hasn't been around the right types of
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: minds to talk this out. And if he's still ignorant
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: after that, then throw him away. You know what I mean?
• 27:39
  Speaker 4: Well, I unfollowed him because I really, I'm not, I'm
• 27:42
  Speaker 4: not big on.
• 27:44
  Speaker 3: I even hate that we do that. Like, when somebody,
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: when somebody make a mistake, we cancel them, cancel.
• 27:47
  Speaker 4: No, because I still listen to R.
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: Kelly.
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, though.
• 27:51
  Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I do.
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Come on.
• 27:54
  Speaker 3: I mean, there's some parties I go to and they
• 27:56
  Speaker 3: playing that. I don't agree with it, but... What was that?
• 27:58
  Speaker 3: Some parties I go to and they DJing.
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: Oh, you said R. Kelly.
• 28:01
  Speaker 4: I still listen to R. Kelly. I still listen to
• 28:03
  Speaker 4: Puff Daddy. I still listen... I do.
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: Puff Daddy, yeah.
• 28:06
  Speaker 4: Because you would sound real crazy to say that you
• 28:09
  Speaker 4: don't listen to his music when he made... So much
• 28:12
  Speaker 4: music for other people.
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: For younger people.
• 28:16
  Speaker 4: For younger people.
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: Well.
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: No, for younger people. His music is good.
• 28:23
  Speaker 4: What you mean?
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: His music is good, but.
• 28:26
  Speaker 4: He was talking about little girls.
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: Psychologically, I can't... I'm talking about Diddy.
• 28:30
  Speaker 4: I'm not even talking about R. Kelly no more. But
• 28:32
  Speaker 4: for you to say you're not listening to him is
• 28:33
  Speaker 4: crazy because... You go to parties and the last song
• 28:37
  Speaker 4: to play is Celine Dion that he composed for her.
• 28:40
  Speaker 4: So you are still listening to R.
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: Kelly.
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's hard for me as a man, right,
• 28:49
  Speaker 2: with a daughter, with three daughters, as a matter of fact,
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: to listen to somebody that I know is musing those
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: type of girls to talk about sex. It's hard for
• 29:00
  Speaker 2: me to listen to that. And I love R.
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: Kelly.
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: Absolutely. Well, I loved his music, but I watched those
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: documentaries when it came out and it just broke my heart.
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: Not for how I felt about him, but for how
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: I felt about those black people that were, you know,
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: used and abused by him. And yo, that's some real shit. Like, yo,
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: he's literally like honey love. Think about that. Like honey love.
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: Like you're talking about a little girl. Age ain't nothing
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: but a number. Age ain't nothing but a number. And
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: I'm like, listen, you have your, have your thing.
• 29:28
  Speaker 4: No, I'm thinking it's something in your eyes, baby. But
• 29:31
  Speaker 4: if it, Yeah.
• 29:33
  Speaker 3: It seems like you're ready.
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: It seems like you're ready. It's like nuts.
• 29:38
  Speaker 3: Good music, but I just can't.
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: Me, personally, from where I stand, I'm either all in
• 29:45
  Speaker 2: with supporting black women and being a dad. I can't just,
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: I can't tote the line, me personally. You know what
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: I'm saying? But I'm past the point where I'm judging
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: people for doing what they choose to do. But me,
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: that's the stance I make. And more so because of
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: how it makes me feel. That music just makes me
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: feel that way. I can't do it. You heard?
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: So boom.
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: Okay, we got Da Vinci out the way. Damn, we
• 30:08
  Speaker 2: 30 minutes in already. Y'all here for the long haul.
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: Y'all know we go for a minute. Yeah. What y'all
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: want to do? Y'all want more serious? Or y'all want
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: to do a little, y'all want some gender war? What
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: do y'all want? Gender war?
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: Bring the gender war.
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: I want to hear this one.
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: Y'all want to do a gender?
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah.
• 30:22
  Speaker 4: I'm here for everything.
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: You with it?
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Let me go into up.
• 30:29
  Speaker 5: The problem is most niggas are never love bombing y'all girls.
• 30:33
  Speaker 5: Y'all just use that word because you're dumb. The real
• 30:36
  Speaker 5: thing is a nigga meets you. He's putting in a
• 30:38
  Speaker 5: bunch of effort to get you to like him. And
• 30:40
  Speaker 5: you're putting in zero effort to get him to like you.
• 30:44
  Speaker 5: You think because he asked for your number, he already
• 30:45
  Speaker 5: likes you. No, I see you. You might got good
• 30:48
  Speaker 5: coochie and your ass was fat. That's it. I was
• 30:51
  Speaker 5: attracted to you. I don't like you. I don't know you.
• 30:54
  Speaker 5: I got your number because I thought you were cute.
• 30:55
  Speaker 5: That's it. You were just attractive to me. You know, like,
• 30:59
  Speaker 5: my body likes you when it's seeing you. That's it.
• 31:01
  Speaker 5: My mind doesn't like you. I don't know you. And
• 31:03
  Speaker 5: y'all girls, take that as, okay, he has to impress me.
• 31:05
  Speaker 5: He has to do all these things, buy me flowers,
• 31:07
  Speaker 5: take me on dates, blah, blah, blah, do all these things.
• 31:09
  Speaker 5: It's like, okay, I'm going to do it. Now, what
• 31:13
  Speaker 5: are you going to do to convince me to like you?
• 31:16
  Speaker 5: And y'all don't do anything. Y'all sit there like, hmm.
• 31:20
  Speaker 5: what's going on why he ain't cuffed me yet gang
• 31:23
  Speaker 5: you've done nothing to make me want to make you
• 31:24
  Speaker 5: my girlfriend oh you're just wasting my time no I
• 31:28
  Speaker 5: didn't you've done nothing all you did was sit here
• 31:31
  Speaker 5: and open your legs you've done nothing you ain't even
• 31:33
  Speaker 5: cooked me a bitch you ain't made a sandwich I
• 31:35
  Speaker 5: don't even know if you can cook I don't know
• 31:37
  Speaker 5: if you can cook. I don't know if you're nurturing.
• 31:39
  Speaker 5: I don't know. What are you going to do when
• 31:40
  Speaker 5: I'm angry? Can you calm me down? I don't know.
• 31:43
  Speaker 5: What can you do for me? I don't know. Can
• 31:45
  Speaker 5: you boost my ego, my confidence? You don't do nothing.
• 31:48
  Speaker 5: And then y'all wonder why a nigga dip and say, oh,
• 31:50
  Speaker 5: he hit and dipped or he just used me because
• 31:52
  Speaker 5: he was bored. It's like, no, he tried to get
• 31:54
  Speaker 5: to know you and try to get to like you.
• 31:56
  Speaker 5: You were not trying to impress him to get him
• 31:57
  Speaker 5: to like you. He impressed you enough to get you
• 32:00
  Speaker 5: like him. And he did because he got nothing back
• 32:03
  Speaker 5: in return. That's your fault, not his. That wasn't love bombing, bitch.
• 32:06
  Speaker 5: He was interested. You had nothing interesting about you. So
• 32:08
  Speaker 5: now he's uninterested.
• 32:09
  Speaker 3: They're going to call him all types of sassy.
• 32:14
  Speaker 4: He ain't sassy. He's 100% correct.
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: You think so?
• 32:17
  Speaker 4: Yes. Bitch ain't even say thank you. I have sons
• 32:22
  Speaker 4: and I'm going to always ride with men. That's how
• 32:24
  Speaker 4: it is.
• 32:24
  Speaker 3: I go through that all the time.
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: Like.
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: What did you go through?
• 32:28
  Speaker 3: I missed the llama to these girls. Like, I got
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: to pay rent. I got to go over.
• 32:35
  Speaker 4: You pay women's rent?
• 32:37
  Speaker 3: No, they want me.
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: They expect them. Now, you just said you pay people rent.
• 32:41
  Speaker 3: I said they want me to pay their rent. They
• 32:43
  Speaker 3: want me to take them to expensive restaurants. All of
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: this stuff.
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: Do you lead with money, though?
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: No.
• 32:47
  Speaker 4: But they know you got it.
• 32:50
  Speaker 3: They assume I have it.
• 32:51
  Speaker 4: Then that means the female is corny because if they
• 32:54
  Speaker 4: expect you to take them a fancy restaurant, you still
• 32:57
  Speaker 4: could be a corny nigga. Restaurants mean nothing. You still
• 33:01
  Speaker 4: could be a corny guy.
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 33:03
  Speaker 4: But I understand what men are saying with that because
• 33:07
  Speaker 4: women always want, want, want. Nobody wants pussy. Pussy is
• 33:11
  Speaker 4: corny now. It's just there. It's available. It's too available
• 33:15
  Speaker 4: right now.
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: So much pussy.
• 33:17
  Speaker 4: So much pussy. Like, come on.
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: October 21st.
• 33:22
  Speaker 4: They sleeping with homeless women now.
• 33:25
  Speaker 3: I read that guys are choosing to buy pussy over relationships.
• 33:29
  Speaker 4: If I was a male, I would pay for pussy.
• 33:31
  Speaker 4: I would pay for it. Because there's less headaches.
• 33:34
  Speaker 3: Yo, I seen a chick out on Georgia Abt the
• 33:36
  Speaker 3: other day.
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: $ 140 was her price.
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: $ 140?
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: $ 140.
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 33:42
  Speaker 4: And that's a lot. That means she's probably not on drugs.
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: That's a lot.
• 33:46
  Speaker 4: For a buck forty? For Georgia and East New York,
• 33:50
  Speaker 4: that's a lot. For East New York, prostitute pussy, that's
• 33:53
  Speaker 4: a lot.
• 33:54
  Speaker 3: And guess how much these dicks.
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: Cost? $ 200 and up.
• 33:58
  Speaker 4: Because you want to take them to fancy restaurants. Like
• 34:00
  Speaker 4: I said, take their ass to Applebee's. Two for $ 25.
• 34:03
  Speaker 3: That's a hole in the wall restaurant.
• 34:04
  Speaker 5: $ 200.
• 34:04
  Speaker 3: How about they cook for you? these girls ain't cooking.
• 34:11
  Speaker 4: See, women don't understand that. If I was looking for
• 34:15
  Speaker 4: a guy and I'm going on a date and you're
• 34:17
  Speaker 4: going to spend $ 300, $ 400, $ 500 that night, we could
• 34:20
  Speaker 4: get an Airbnb and go get the food and bring
• 34:22
  Speaker 4: it to the crib and cook.
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: A lot of these girls, well, in my experience, they
• 34:25
  Speaker 3: bucket list dating. So they want to get taken to
• 34:27
  Speaker 3: the spots. They can Instagram and all this other stuff
• 34:30
  Speaker 3: and then be out after that.
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: Yo, there's a... Trump, go ahead.
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: I was just going to say, correct me if I'm wrong,
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: the women that think like this, they think that they're
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: the prize. So why would I need to do anything
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: to impress a nigga, right? If I'm in demand, he
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: coming and hollering at me and I got all these
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: niggas coming after me, why I gotta put any effort in?
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: I'm just assuming that's their mentality.
• 34:50
  Speaker 4: And those are the women that don't have nobody. Right.
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: They'll get some dates, but they won't get the long commitment.
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: The funny thing is those type of ladies age out. Like,
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: I seen, I remember four or five years ago, there
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: was this one Instagram influencer, she was fire. I seen
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: her the other day. Hmm. And I was like, damn,
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: it's over.
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: She fell off.
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: It's over. Whatever she's been doing for those last four
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: or five years, it's over. So she missed her peak.
• 35:20
  Speaker 4: She didn't miss her peak. There's a bunch of new
• 35:22
  Speaker 4: women that are not playing. They are savages. And it
• 35:26
  Speaker 4: is what it is with them. I don't knock them.
• 35:30
  Speaker 4: Everybody wants to be courted, but I feel like being
• 35:32
  Speaker 4: courted and all of that should be done by somebody special.
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: But I think we should all court each other. Right.
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: Court each other.
• 35:38
  Speaker 4: But it has to be looking for dates and doing
• 35:41
  Speaker 4: all that. A guy's putting all of that energy. They
• 35:44
  Speaker 4: don't care about vagina no more.
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: Nah, hold on. Christine. She says I laughed at her
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: for cooking.
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: No.
• 35:52
  Speaker 3: For her nigga.
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: She met the nigga.
• 35:53
  Speaker 3: With an S.
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: And the nigga, within, I think, a week, was like, yo,
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: I need you to go pick up my car for
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: me and take it somewhere.
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: And she was like, okay.
• 36:02
  Speaker 3: I need one of those.
• 36:04
  Speaker 2: I'm like, yo, what the fuck? You don't even know
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: this nigga.
• 36:06
  Speaker 4: Nah, we don't.
• 36:06
  Speaker 1: Why are you doing that?
• 36:07
  Speaker 3: You're running errands.
• 36:08
  Speaker 4: I'm not running errands.
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: You're running errands for a nigga? Like, nah, you got
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: to prove, my daughter, not my child, is not running
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: no errands for some nigga. No, you got to prove, like,
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: you know, your worth or some shit. But that is
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: part of it, proving your worth.
• 36:22
  Speaker 4: A lot of women don't.
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: Running an errand, you're not asking my daughter to run
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: no errands.
• 36:26
  Speaker 3: That's showing that you down.
• 36:27
  Speaker 4: No, but a lot of women don't even know their
• 36:29
  Speaker 4: worth as women. So how could they prove anything if
• 36:32
  Speaker 4: they don't know? A lot of women don't know their worth.
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: Like, hold on.
• 36:37
  Speaker 4: But I'm not running out.
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: Do women.
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: Should women... Okay. Let's be super honest and real. Do
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: y'all think men should be courting women or they should
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: be courting each other?
• 36:48
  Speaker 4: It should go both ways.
• 36:49
  Speaker 3: It's each other. My best relationship, we courted each other.
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: I said that at first, but I think I'm lying.
• 36:55
  Speaker 4: So you want to court?
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: I think men should court women. But then a lot
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: of people said I lead with patriarchy. Like, they said
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: I believe in that shit. But yeah, I think that...
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: Women should know that a man's going to take care
• 37:06
  Speaker 2: of her.
• 37:06
  Speaker 4: But they could know that. Yeah. And men need to
• 37:10
  Speaker 4: have that feeling too.
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: In what way? How do women court men? How do
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: women court men?
• 37:16
  Speaker 3: Well, in my relationship, we was doing it. We was
• 37:18
  Speaker 3: back and forth.
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: Relationship. I'm talking about when you meet them.
• 37:21
  Speaker 4: Oh, in the beginning?
• 37:22
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: Courting is- That's what I'm saying.
• 37:24
  Speaker 4: We was going back and forth.
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: Oh, no, no.
• 37:25
  Speaker 4: In the beginning?
• 37:25
  Speaker 3: In the beginning, I took her out to a restaurant.
• 37:27
  Speaker 3: I showed her my taste. And she was like, next
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: time I got you, I want to show you this restaurant.
• 37:31
  Speaker 3: And then she did it. I did it.
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: Who paid the second time?
• 37:34
  Speaker 3: She did.
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: She paid.
• 37:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 37:35
  Speaker 4: You didn't even say, nah, I got this. I did.
• 37:38
  Speaker 3: But she said, no, no. So we had, me and her,
• 37:41
  Speaker 3: it became my girlfriend because we had this rule. If
• 37:45
  Speaker 3: I invite you out, I pay. If you invite me out,
• 37:48
  Speaker 3: if it's mutual, we split.
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 37:50
  Speaker 3: And we had that rule. So she paid because she
• 37:52
  Speaker 3: invited me up.
• 37:53
  Speaker 4: And I get it because I had a really big
• 37:55
  Speaker 4: argument with a guy because he said, yo, let's go
• 37:57
  Speaker 4: hang out. When a male tell me let's go hang out,
• 37:59
  Speaker 4: that means we're going to split it.
• 38:01
  Speaker 3: No, no, no.
• 38:01
  Speaker 5: We should catch up.
• 38:02
  Speaker 3: We should catch up.
• 38:03
  Speaker 4: Hang out is hang out. Let me take you out
• 38:06
  Speaker 4: means you're going to pay.
• 38:08
  Speaker 3: Let's hang out. I'm paying.
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: I didn't know it was about the semantics.
• 38:11
  Speaker 4: It's different. It's a difference for a guy or a
• 38:16
  Speaker 4: female to say, yo, let's go hang out today. That's open.
• 38:19
  Speaker 4: It's open.
• 38:20
  Speaker 3: Oh, I never heard that one.
• 38:21
  Speaker 4: Anybody could pay for it. But when a male say,
• 38:23
  Speaker 4: let me take you out, it's different. You taking me
• 38:27
  Speaker 4: out so I know I could come to you broke.
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: I'm going to tell her, like, I think men should
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: court just in general. But then for how long?
• 38:32
  Speaker 3: Like, until you get to a point where you're like,
• 38:35
  Speaker 3: all right.
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: Recording don't mean that the woman doesn't have to put
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: effort in. A woman got to put effort in and
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: show me some sides of your personality, your integrity, your nurturing. Like,
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: you got to show some type of effort.
• 38:48
  Speaker 3: That you're going to be.
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: A plus in my life. And somehow, I don't know
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: if that means running an errand. Definitely not after one week. But, yeah,
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: show that you're going to be an addition to my
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: life somehow.
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: How does that look?
• 39:01
  Speaker 5: Let's be honest.
• 39:02
  Speaker 3: How does that look, though? How does that look?
• 39:04
  Speaker 4: Hold on.
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: Because, Lama, you full of shit.
• 39:07
  Speaker 5: What do.
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: You mean? I don't even know if you're full of shit. Yeah,
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: I'm about to say. But I will say this, Kelly.
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: The nigga makes the girls pay.
• 39:16
  Speaker 3: Who, not me?
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: He's argued.
• 39:18
  Speaker 3: He's bugging.
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: With the women.
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: He's bugging. Because the woman said, let's hang out or
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: something like that.
• 39:23
  Speaker 3: And he was like, well, you invited me, so you
• 39:25
  Speaker 3: got to pay.
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: No, no, no.
• 39:26
  Speaker 3: We got to go back to this story again. We
• 39:27
  Speaker 3: had a whole homie quote on it. They got to
• 39:29
  Speaker 3: go back and look at that.
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: But they know. Somebody text me like, ain't that the
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: nigga that made the girl pay? And it was a
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: whole thing.
• 39:35
  Speaker 3: Kelly, I don't eat seafood. She came on my plans.
• 39:40
  Speaker 3: I'm going to the museum. She was like, all right,
• 39:41
  Speaker 3: I'm going to join you, right? She was late for that.
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: And she was like, all right, we can still meet
• 39:44
  Speaker 3: each other at the boy. I'm allergic to seafood.
• 39:47
  Speaker 4: So why you even went?
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: Being nice.
• 39:50
  Speaker 3: Being nice.
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: People please.
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: They got chicken wings there.
• 39:52
  Speaker 3: So she said that. They got drinks and they got
• 39:54
  Speaker 3: stuff you can eat.
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. Right?
• 39:56
  Speaker 3: So I was like, you know what?
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: I'm being nice.
• 39:57
  Speaker 3: I'm going to go. She ain't seen me.
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: I ain't seen her.
• 39:59
  Speaker 3: I'm going to go. She ordered crab legs. The whole nine.
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: Bill came out to like $ 2.
• 40:04
  Speaker 6: 90.
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: Damn.
• 40:05
  Speaker 3: So I'm looking at her. She looking at me. You
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: know that diddy? So she did all the tricks. She
• 40:11
  Speaker 3: went to the bathroom. She took a phone call. She
• 40:13
  Speaker 3: did all the things. Bill was just sitting there. So
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: I was like.
• 40:16
  Speaker 2: You left it there.
• 40:16
  Speaker 3: I just asked her, you thought this was a date?
• 40:18
  Speaker 3: And she said, yeah. And I was like, oh, I
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: went and got the money, paid, and I left. And
• 40:25
  Speaker 3: she was like, where you going? Let's talk about it.
• 40:27
  Speaker 3: Because anybody I go out with, they pay. So you
• 40:29
  Speaker 3: left it right there at the table?
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: You walked away?
• 40:31
  Speaker 5: I walked out.
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: And left it there?
• 40:33
  Speaker 3: I paid, I put the money down, and I walked out.
• 40:36
  Speaker 3: The boy was cash only. I went to the thing,
• 40:38
  Speaker 3: put the money there, and I left. And she was
• 40:40
  Speaker 3: chasing behind me. No, let's talk about it. Why you
• 40:42
  Speaker 3: feel that way? When I go out with this person,
• 40:44
  Speaker 3: they pay. When I go out with this person, they pay.
• 40:46
  Speaker 3: That wasn't a date. You came in on my plans.
• 40:48
  Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
• 40:49
  Speaker 5: I pay.
• 40:50
  Speaker 3: Girls will tell you, I spend a lot of money on, like,
• 40:52
  Speaker 3: if I'm going somewhere and I invite a girl out,
• 40:55
  Speaker 3: we out.
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: But did y'all like each other, though?
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: No.
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: Oh.
• 40:59
  Speaker 3: So the thing was, she thought I was flirting with
• 41:01
  Speaker 3: her because I liked the picture or something like that.
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: I won the homie court.
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: You took my side, too, in the homie court. Oh, okay.
• 41:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so it was years back. I won the homie court.
• 41:11
  Speaker 3: I won. It was you and the girl. Oh, man.
• 41:14
  Speaker 3: It was you and the lady.
• 41:14
  Speaker 2: It was?
• 41:15
  Speaker 3: No, no, it was another lady.
• 41:17
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 41:17
  Speaker 3: You was on my side.
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: Me? Yeah, I won. I actually had this conversation with
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: a friend recently.
• 41:21
  Speaker 3: You said, she just paid me back. So yeah, I
• 41:25
  Speaker 3: remember that.
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: I had this conversation with a friend recently. And even
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: if I don't enjoy this particular experience, I'm still going
• 41:31
  Speaker 2: to make sure you get money. I'm still just going
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: to pay. I'll take you home. We just don't got
• 41:34
  Speaker 2: to talk no more.
• 41:35
  Speaker 3: I'm not going to go like that. That's what I did.
• 41:38
  Speaker 3: I'm not going to be all mad about it. I
• 41:40
  Speaker 3: wasn't mad. I was like, you got it.
• 41:41
  Speaker 4: But you were mad.
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: You stomped away.
• 41:43
  Speaker 3: I took the L.
• 41:45
  Speaker 2: You slammed the door. No, I didn't do that. I
• 41:48
  Speaker 2: still got in her car and we talked about it.
• 41:49
  Speaker 4: Well, if you was allergic to seafood, why you didn't
• 41:51
  Speaker 4: discuss with her to go somewhere else?
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: No, no, no.
• 41:54
  Speaker 3: She was like, nah, the boy with the boy up.
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: I'm already down the block.
• 41:57
  Speaker 4: But then that means she wasn't for you because right
• 42:00
  Speaker 4: then and there, she didn't respect the fact that you
• 42:02
  Speaker 4: was allergic to seafood. I would have left the date
• 42:05
  Speaker 4: before the date even started.
• 42:06
  Speaker 3: Her thing was, they got other stuff here.
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: Nah, I'm not going to bring you around, the whole
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: shit is seafood.
• 42:11
  Speaker 4: If I meet a guy and we going out and
• 42:14
  Speaker 4: I'm telling him I'm allergic to something and he still
• 42:17
  Speaker 4: brings me to the place that I could die in,
• 42:19
  Speaker 4: you could have died from the smell.
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: Exactly. For real. You could have died just being in that, motherfucker.
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: You could have had a guy like that.
• 42:27
  Speaker 4: So she wasn't good for you from the gate.
• 42:28
  Speaker 3: I wasn't even on it like that.
• 42:30
  Speaker 4: It's the little things like that that determines if someone
• 42:33
  Speaker 4: is good for you.
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: Those little things.
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: If you see my list of girls, you can't even
• 42:40
  Speaker 3: squeeze it in there.
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: He said list.
• 42:42
  Speaker 3: If you look at the history, you'll be like, nah,
• 42:44
  Speaker 3: she can't. That ain't a lot of my type. She
• 42:47
  Speaker 3: thought I liked her and thought it was a date.
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: That shit's rough. That's crazy.
• 42:50
  Speaker 7: Nah.
• 42:50
  Speaker 4: Okay. But I don't pay for dates.
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: I'm going to play another one before I get serious.
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: Because I don't go on them. You don't pay for dates?
• 42:57
  Speaker 4: Because I don't go on them.
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: Why not?
• 42:59
  Speaker 4: I'm not big on that. I don't care about going out.
• 43:02
  Speaker 4: I'm good. You want to do something nice for me,
• 43:04
  Speaker 4: pay my light bill.
• 43:06
  Speaker 3: Instead of taking you to get something to eat.
• 43:08
  Speaker 4: Because I can't talk to you if I can't charge
• 43:11
  Speaker 4: my phone. That's electricity.
• 43:15
  Speaker 5: I'm a mom.
• 43:16
  Speaker 4: I have kids.
• 43:17
  Speaker 3: You can't tell me when I meet you, pay your
• 43:19
  Speaker 3: light bill.
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to get to know you.
• 43:21
  Speaker 4: You're going to get to know me too. I'm going
• 43:23
  Speaker 4: to ease that on in there.
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: Where?
• 43:25
  Speaker 4: In the conversations as time goes on. Before the month
• 43:28
  Speaker 4: is out. Before the bill is due. So you'll dub
• 43:31
  Speaker 4: me for telling you... Because.
• 43:33
  Speaker 3: You're already coming in with problems.
• 43:35
  Speaker 4: No, that's not a problem. A bill has to be
• 43:37
  Speaker 4: paid every month. That's life.
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: All right.
• 43:39
  Speaker 2: Not yours.
• 43:40
  Speaker 4: So why would I want....
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: That's my life, not yours.
• 43:45
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: I got my own bills.
• 43:47
  Speaker 4: But I'm just saying, I'm not big on dates. Like,
• 43:50
  Speaker 4: if you want to take me out, fine, but... I
• 43:52
  Speaker 4: could cook.
• 43:52
  Speaker 3: Yo, what if she said, yo, pay my light bill,
• 43:54
  Speaker 3: come over. You know you get your dick sucked. And
• 43:57
  Speaker 3: she cooking?
• 43:58
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: She need lights in the kitchen. She say, yo, I
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: don't want nothing. Just pay this light bill, come over.
• 44:03
  Speaker 4: But I don't fuck for money up front.
• 44:04
  Speaker 3: I don't mean it that way.
• 44:05
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I like to ease it in. If I'm a
• 44:07
  Speaker 4: fuck for it, I don't want it to look like
• 44:11
  Speaker 4: I'm fucking for the light bill now.
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: But that's what's happening after the first date anyway. Right.
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: First date, most times I'm fucking. Or something.
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: So what's the date? What's the difference between the light
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: bill and the date?
• 44:21
  Speaker 4: So how am I going to do it? Hey, I
• 44:23
  Speaker 4: need my light bill paid. If you pay it, you
• 44:25
  Speaker 4: could come over. I know you could see it and
• 44:27
  Speaker 4: we could do it. How would I do that?
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: How would it work?
• 44:32
  Speaker 4: I'm just saying. It's a way you got to do
• 44:37
  Speaker 4: things with women. I draw a bank every day.
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: You do what?
• 44:42
  Speaker 4: I draw a bank.
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: How? How?
• 44:45
  Speaker 4: It's a certain way. I dry bag. I dry bag
• 44:48
  Speaker 4: every day. And by the end of the day.
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: Something's getting.
• 44:53
  Speaker 4: That cash, yeah. It's a certain way, so you got
• 44:55
  Speaker 4: to finesse it.
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: What's a finessing way to dry bag for the ladies
• 44:59
  Speaker 2: out there? We're tired of overly bagging. What's a good
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: dry bag?
• 45:03
  Speaker 4: You just got to talk about your situations, but you
• 45:05
  Speaker 4: can't talk about it like you're always going through the situations.
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: Just casually. With somebody like, hey, how was your day?
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 45:11
  Speaker 4: And I test guys, too. I test guys.
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: In what way?
• 45:14
  Speaker 4: Like, if I meet a guy and I know he
• 45:16
  Speaker 4: a money player or not, like, because I have, women
• 45:19
  Speaker 4: have men for different things. That little video that just
• 45:22
  Speaker 4: went viral, the Mr. Earl video, I really have a Mr.
• 45:24
  Speaker 4: James in my life.
• 45:27
  Speaker 3: He don't want pussy.
• 45:29
  Speaker 4: Show him little titties like this.
• 45:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah, my sister taught me about that.
• 45:31
  Speaker 4: Maybe he might kiss it a little bit.
• 45:33
  Speaker 2: Little nipple.
• 45:34
  Speaker 4: Just put a titty in his mouth.
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: That's it.
• 45:36
  Speaker 3: They trying to put me at Mr.
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: Llama.
• 45:37
  Speaker 5: All my bills.
• 45:37
  Speaker 3: That's what I said. I'm Mr.
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: Llama.
• 45:39
  Speaker 4: Llama.
• 45:40
  Speaker 3: I don't want to be that.
• 45:40
  Speaker 4: I don't want to be that.
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: Mr.
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: James.
• 45:42
  Speaker 3: That's crazy.
• 45:43
  Speaker 4: I could get a girl on you and you won't
• 45:45
  Speaker 4: even have that studio no more. That should have been
• 45:48
  Speaker 4: a hot name. That should have been her name by
• 45:51
  Speaker 4: the end of the night. Trust me. And you still
• 45:54
  Speaker 4: paying for her seafood.
• 45:56
  Speaker 2: It's some badass. It is some badass.
• 45:58
  Speaker 4: I be around women that they take, this is a,
• 46:01
  Speaker 4: they are organized. They do classes. They're in group chats.
• 46:05
  Speaker 4: They know. They know.
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: How to get niggas.
• 46:08
  Speaker 4: How to get men.
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: I just drive bagged earlier today. I just realized.
• 46:11
  Speaker 7: See?
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: But it didn't work though.
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: How did you drive bag?
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: I was talking to, so I'm engaged. I was talking
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: to my fiance. I was like, y'all woke up and
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: had back pains. I was like, yo, I tried the
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: foam roller. I tried the back massager. I'm like, damn,
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: nothing worked. You know, I'm waiting for her to walk
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: up and be like, oh, yeah. She's like, damn, that's
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: messed up.
• 46:30
  Speaker 4: It's a little thing. And it's cool. You don't have
• 46:33
  Speaker 4: to always dry bag for money. You could dry bag
• 46:36
  Speaker 4: for attention. You could dry bag for anything. Dry bagging
• 46:39
  Speaker 4: is just not based off of money because that shows
• 46:42
  Speaker 4: me what I'm getting myself into. You know, dry bagging.
• 46:47
  Speaker 2: So if a nigga responds to the dry bag, that's
• 46:51
  Speaker 2: a good look.
• 46:52
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 46:53
  Speaker 2: Now, have you ever looked at a guy like, you
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: corny for like falling for that? Because I feel like
• 47:00
  Speaker 2: that's what men's issue is.
• 47:03
  Speaker 3: The fact that we looked at as a.
• 47:05
  Speaker 2: Like, we not respectable niggas if we just doing that
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: type of shit.
• 47:08
  Speaker 4: Nah, because, and it's crazy because I like, I used
• 47:11
  Speaker 4: to be like that until I got older and I'm
• 47:14
  Speaker 4: by myself. And it's like, damn, where are those guys at?
• 47:18
  Speaker 4: All those guys that I thought were corny that wanted
• 47:20
  Speaker 4: to do nice things for me. And it's like, nigga, no,
• 47:22
  Speaker 4: I want to chase you to do it. Women want
• 47:25
  Speaker 4: to chase men for men to do nice things. The
• 47:28
  Speaker 4: women that I know, and I'm being honest, they want
• 47:31
  Speaker 4: to put up a fight for it. But the men
• 47:34
  Speaker 4: that's just genuinely loving and giving, women be like.
• 47:37
  Speaker 2: We want that corn ball.
• 47:38
  Speaker 3: Until you're like 50 and 200 pounds.
• 47:41
  Speaker 4: Until you be trying to see if that number still work.
• 47:44
  Speaker 4: I still be calling back good men and maybe I
• 47:47
  Speaker 4: blew my chance. It's crazy.
• 47:52
  Speaker 2: She said she dry big.
• 47:54
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you got a dry bag. Everybody in relationships dry bag.
• 47:59
  Speaker 4: Everybody dry bags is just how you do it.
• 48:03
  Speaker 3: Dry bag.
• 48:03
  Speaker 4: Because we want to know.
• 48:04
  Speaker 2: I don't like that. I'm going to tell you right now,
• 48:08
  Speaker 2: the minute you start talking about your woes, as Lama said. Yeah,
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: I'm out. Yo, bro, because I already feel. Listen, yo, yeah,
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: I moved. Yo, my light went out. It's just mad frustrating.
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: I just paid them the other day and the shit
• 48:25
  Speaker 2: just came. I'm just on the line.
• 48:27
  Speaker 4: They corny because they don't know how to finesse it,
• 48:30
  Speaker 4: but it doesn't always have to be like what he said.
• 48:32
  Speaker 4: It's not always about money. Sometimes you just say stuff
• 48:36
  Speaker 4: because you want to see what the person is going
• 48:37
  Speaker 4: to say, whether you're married or have a fiance or
• 48:40
  Speaker 4: in a relationship. You just want to see. So let
• 48:43
  Speaker 4: me see if they're going to even do it. Like
• 48:47
  Speaker 4: if you're with someone and you worked all day and
• 48:48
  Speaker 4: you're like, I'm tired, damn, but I took the food out.
• 48:51
  Speaker 4: I don't want to cook. And you're on the phone
• 48:52
  Speaker 4: and you're telling your man this.
• 48:54
  Speaker 3: Oh, your man. That's something different.
• 48:56
  Speaker 4: No, that's what I just said. It doesn't matter if
• 48:58
  Speaker 4: you're with someone or not. He's in a relationship and
• 49:00
  Speaker 4: he dry bagged for that back rub.
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 49:03
  Speaker 4: He didn't get it. She was with it. She knew.
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: When you single though, sometimes it'd be too soon. Like
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: you can't be dry bagging the first week.
• 49:09
  Speaker 4: No, I'm not doing that the first week.
• 49:11
  Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: It was like, especially cause I had a truck. They
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: were like, Oh, could you help me move and shit
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: like that? Or give me a ride to the airport.
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: Like those are the two things. It's like, it's like,
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: I want to be able to, you know, we having
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: sex and all that. I want to be able to
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: be able to do favors for you. But there's certain
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: things where I don't want to be that nigga to you.
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean? That you're going to call
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: to help move furniture and shit like that.
• 49:41
  Speaker 4: Because that's what she's going to keep calling you for.
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean? So it's going to set
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: a precedence. So at certain points in your relationship, you
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: got to have certain boundaries. You know what I mean?
• 49:51
  Speaker 2: Yo, there's a meme that I posted today and it said,
• 49:55
  Speaker 2: find a woman that don't need anything and do everything
• 49:58
  Speaker 2: for her. And that's the problem with this dry begging conversation.
• 50:02
  Speaker 2: I don't like depressing, like trauma saying of you thinking
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: that that's how I got to show up for you.
• 50:09
  Speaker 2: I don't like that handout shit.
• 50:10
  Speaker 4: But it also depends on the type of relationship that
• 50:13
  Speaker 4: you are looking for and that you have. If I
• 50:16
  Speaker 4: meet a guy and I know he got a situation
• 50:18
  Speaker 4: or I know he not looking for nothing, but one thing,
• 50:21
  Speaker 4: I don't care about sex no more. I'm at that
• 50:25
  Speaker 4: age where if I get it, I get it. If
• 50:26
  Speaker 4: I don't, I don't. I don't give a fuck about that.
• 50:29
  Speaker 4: What do you care about? I care about me furthering
• 50:33
  Speaker 4: my career. Right now, I'm in career mode. I don't care. Now,
• 50:36
  Speaker 4: if you got something that can help me with my career,
• 50:39
  Speaker 4: maybe something could work. But right now, I don't give
• 50:41
  Speaker 4: a fuck if I ever have sex again.
• 50:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 50:45
  Speaker 4: I'm at that point in my life. But what I'm
• 50:47
  Speaker 4: saying is, if you meet me and I meet you
• 50:49
  Speaker 4: and you're not looking for nothing and I'm not looking
• 50:51
  Speaker 4: for nothing, you can't possibly think you're going to fuck
• 50:53
  Speaker 4: me for free. It's just not going to work like that.
• 50:56
  Speaker 4: Especially when I really don't want to.
• 51:01
  Speaker 2: It's got to be worth your while.
• 51:02
  Speaker 4: It's got to be an exchange.
• 51:03
  Speaker 2: It's got to be worth your while.
• 51:05
  Speaker 4: Right. But if I meet somebody and it's something else,
• 51:09
  Speaker 4: I'm not going to be like, oh, can you do
• 51:10
  Speaker 4: this for me? I could do my own shit. You
• 51:13
  Speaker 4: helping me is a plus. I was messing with a
• 51:14
  Speaker 4: nigga with a Benz. This was recently. And still was
• 51:18
  Speaker 4: taking the train. Never asked him to take me nowhere.
• 51:20
  Speaker 4: And then I noticed, well, I live far. He lived
• 51:23
  Speaker 4: in Long Island. I live in Long Island, but you
• 51:25
  Speaker 4: know what? I'm going to put you in an Uber.
• 51:27
  Speaker 4: Stop taking the train.
• 51:28
  Speaker 3: Mm-hmm.
• 51:29
  Speaker 4: I didn't never ask him for nothing. And maybe that's
• 51:31
  Speaker 4: what he liked about me. Because he probably thought what
• 51:36
  Speaker 4: every other female, oh, he got a Benz? I'm telling him,
• 51:38
  Speaker 4: come pick me up from the club. Come do this.
• 51:40
  Speaker 4: Come drop me. I was still taking the train.
• 51:44
  Speaker 2: A lot of women will call you stupid for that.
• 51:46
  Speaker 4: I don't care, but guess what? My Uber, I never
• 51:49
  Speaker 4: have to ask him for Uber. It's just now I
• 51:50
  Speaker 4: know it's clockwork. He'll be like, where you at? Oh,
• 51:53
  Speaker 4: I'm shooting something. All right, you need an Uber? Because
• 51:55
  Speaker 4: I'm far. Never ask that man to take me nowhere.
• 51:58
  Speaker 4: Why would I be stupid? A lot of men with
• 52:00
  Speaker 4: those fancy cars be broke as hell, too.
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: Let's talk about that.
• 52:03
  Speaker 4: So I can't be stupid.
• 52:05
  Speaker 2: That $ 1, 300 note be kicking niggas' ass. Hello?
• 52:07
  Speaker 3: Insurance?
• 52:08
  Speaker 4: Niggas be like, let me get $ 3 on Pub 2.
• 52:13
  Speaker 4: Pushing a fucking 550. I see it with my own eyes.
• 52:18
  Speaker 3: I got a clip about a woman that says.
• 52:21
  Speaker 2: She don't like nice guys.
• 52:23
  Speaker 4: She crazy.
• 52:24
  Speaker 7: Demetrius is a... nice and good man and that's never
• 52:29
  Speaker 7: a good combination you want to be a good man
• 52:33
  Speaker 7: not a nice man the number one difference and how
• 52:37
  Speaker 7: you know you're bridging from nice to good is learning
• 52:40
  Speaker 7: how to set boundaries because.
• 52:42
  Speaker 8: You can't you said you said you shouldn't be nice
• 52:45
  Speaker 8: and good or you're saying so.
• 52:46
  Speaker 7: You shouldn't be both No, it's a dangerous place to be.
• 52:49
  Speaker 2: I feel like I'm a nice man and a good man.
• 52:52
  Speaker 2: You want to be a not nice person?
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: I don't understand that.
• 52:56
  Speaker 7: A nice man tries to satisfy everything and everyone because
• 53:01
  Speaker 7: they're nice. I want to make sure I'm there for
• 53:04
  Speaker 7: you because I care. Yeah, but then if you're being
• 53:07
  Speaker 7: there for that person, time is coming out of somewhere
• 53:11
  Speaker 7: and someone. So are you creating boundaries and in your boundaries, priorities?
• 53:18
  Speaker 7: Because when you're too nice of a man, you're so
• 53:20
  Speaker 7: spread out there that you don't have any time for
• 53:24
  Speaker 7: in here.
• 53:27
  Speaker 2: I was raised to be a nice person, to be considerate.
• 53:32
  Speaker 8: And I think it's almost selfish of someone to ask
• 53:37
  Speaker 8: only be nice to them when genuinely in your heart,
• 53:41
  Speaker 8: you are a nice person.
• 53:43
  Speaker 7: I can consider you and still have boundaries. If I'm nice,
• 53:47
  Speaker 7: I'm only considering you. I'm being nice because I know
• 53:50
  Speaker 7: that's what you need. And a lot of times the
• 53:53
  Speaker 7: niceness doesn't come because you're this great person. Niceness comes
• 53:56
  Speaker 7: because you like to be needed. The problem is that
• 53:59
  Speaker 7: when you're spread so thin, are you truly weighing in
• 54:02
  Speaker 7: on your priorities?
• 54:04
  Speaker 5: There's no way.
• 54:04
  Speaker 2: Hold on, I'm going to just say this.
• 54:06
  Speaker 3: I see how she's putting it.
• 54:08
  Speaker 2: No, I think women are selfish individuals when it comes
• 54:10
  Speaker 2: to their niggas. Period. They don't want you being nice
• 54:13
  Speaker 2: to other people.
• 54:14
  Speaker 4: That's what she told them out.
• 54:16
  Speaker 3: That's just like, yo, you're my nice. Fuck them bitches.
• 54:20
  Speaker 2: This is what I was talking about when we was
• 54:23
  Speaker 2: on the pod and homegirl was like, if you come
• 54:26
  Speaker 2: out with me and my girlfriends, you're paying. And I
• 54:28
  Speaker 2: was like, my girl's not going for that. My girl
• 54:31
  Speaker 2: is not letting me out this card for her homegirl.
• 54:34
  Speaker 3: These niggas like that. She's not going for it because
• 54:37
  Speaker 3: that's her money.
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: She's like.
• 54:40
  Speaker 2: Them niggas get paid. Fuck that. They ain't paying for me.
• 54:43
  Speaker 4: She right.
• 54:43
  Speaker 2: And you ain't fucking these bitches, so let them pay.
• 54:46
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 54:46
  Speaker 2: That's how she giving it up. Some bitches like when
• 54:49
  Speaker 2: they nigga is nice to them and a horrible nigga
• 54:52
  Speaker 2: to everybody else.
• 54:54
  Speaker 4: Because it opens the door for cheating, for being overly nice.
• 54:59
  Speaker 4: I get what she's saying, but I don't get it.
• 55:02
  Speaker 4: I get the nice part. Because if you nice to
• 55:05
  Speaker 4: me like this, someone else could come and just sweep
• 55:08
  Speaker 4: you off your feet and you going to be nice
• 55:09
  Speaker 4: to them? You going to be nice to this person?
• 55:11
  Speaker 2: You insecure. That's insecure.
• 55:13
  Speaker 3: Or you could be nice just off the rip to everybody.
• 55:17
  Speaker 3: And that's what she's saying. I don't get 100% of
• 55:19
  Speaker 3: your niceness. Now, you're giving it to everybody else.
• 55:22
  Speaker 2: Which is selfish.
• 55:23
  Speaker 4: I used to not like nice men until, like I said,
• 55:26
  Speaker 4: I realized, damn, I'm by myself.
• 55:28
  Speaker 7: Mm-hmm.
• 55:29
  Speaker 4: Like, I know I had good men in my life
• 55:31
  Speaker 4: that I treated like shit, and I'm paying for it,
• 55:34
  Speaker 4: and I'm okay with it.
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: She kind of, in the clip, she mentioned the one
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: thing that I would clap back with is that you
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: could be nice and have boundaries.
• 55:43
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you could be very nice.
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: Because that's definitely one thing I struggle with, just being
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: too nice. But you could say no and still be nice.
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: There's a way that you say, even when we had
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: the conversation before, you can help somebody out. That don't
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: mean you can stay in my crib. I can still
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: help you out. I can still be nice. I can
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: put you in touch with somebody. Your woman can see
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: you being.
• 56:02
  Speaker 2: A pushover because she got you that way. She knows
• 56:05
  Speaker 2: you a pushover. That's how she got you. So she
• 56:07
  Speaker 2: don't want you being a pushover to everybody else.
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: That's naive.
• 56:11
  Speaker 2: It's like people pleasing. It's not having boundaries and it's
• 56:14
  Speaker 2: taken away from her shit now. Yep.
• 56:16
  Speaker 3: Because, no, you can't just be.
• 56:17
  Speaker 2: Out there spreading your funds and your time and your
• 56:20
  Speaker 2: resources to everybody because they're not doing shit for you.
• 56:22
  Speaker 3: And I got to sacrifice.
• 56:23
  Speaker 2: You're the only nigga I'm fucking. That's how she's thinking.
• 56:26
  Speaker 2: You're the nigga that I got to cook for. And
• 56:28
  Speaker 2: I'm doing all this. What they doing to get the
• 56:29
  Speaker 2: same shit I'm getting?
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: I think she, you know, people be conflating words like
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: nice don't mean naive. Right.
• 56:36
  Speaker 2: The lack of boundaries does. Right.
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. You can have both. Like, you know,
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: my grandmother used to say before you go outside, she'd
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: be like, be kind. You know what I mean? Like,
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: so I consider kind and nice kind of a parallel.
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: You know, you can be kind to people. That don't
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: mean that you got to overly, you know, just.
• 56:57
  Speaker 2: Give yourself.
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: Exactly.
• 56:58
  Speaker 4: There are a lot of kind assholes.
• 57:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 57:02
  Speaker 4: There are a lot of kind assholes.
• 57:04
  Speaker 3: Women always think I'm mean.
• 57:05
  Speaker 4: So it's okay to be nice and kind.
• 57:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 57:08
  Speaker 4: They think you mean.
• 57:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 57:09
  Speaker 3: I think nice and kind are different though. Yeah, I'm nice,
• 57:12
  Speaker 3: but I learned how to say no. Once I learned
• 57:14
  Speaker 3: how to say no, it was over.
• 57:15
  Speaker 4: So you ever paid for a female and all their friends?
• 57:19
  Speaker 5: No.
• 57:20
  Speaker 3: I took this girl on a date, and it was
• 57:22
  Speaker 3: a first date.
• 57:22
  Speaker 4: Because you know they plot that. They be home plotting.
• 57:24
  Speaker 2: Hold on.
• 57:25
  Speaker 4: I got this guy. He going to pay for all
• 57:27
  Speaker 4: of us.
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: Don't worry.
• 57:28
  Speaker 3: I took this girl on a date, and she was like,
• 57:31
  Speaker 3: I don't fully trust the situation. I'm going to bring
• 57:33
  Speaker 3: my friend. And I had to pay for both of them.
• 57:36
  Speaker 3: So Kelly, they plotted that? No, I just thought the
• 57:41
  Speaker 3: man does. I was young. I thought the man does everything.
• 57:44
  Speaker 3: And I was like.
• 57:45
  Speaker 2: I feel like that's a... And this is not about you. Yeah.
• 57:49
  Speaker 3: But, all right, then maybe we shouldn't go out until
• 57:51
  Speaker 3: you feel comfortable.
• 57:52
  Speaker 2: I was young and dumb.
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I was young.
• 57:53
  Speaker 4: Why would she even want to go with you on
• 57:55
  Speaker 4: a date to bring her friend if she don't trust you?
• 57:59
  Speaker 3: I was young.
• 58:00
  Speaker 2: Young llama. Yeah.
• 58:01
  Speaker 4: No, and she was dumb for even going with you
• 58:04
  Speaker 4: somewhere feeling like that, even with a friend. You're a man,
• 58:07
  Speaker 4: so you're going to be strong no matter what. You
• 58:09
  Speaker 4: bringing a friend with you, what's that going to do?
• 58:11
  Speaker 2: Knock both of y'all bitches.
• 58:12
  Speaker 5: Hello?
• 58:13
  Speaker 4: I'm just saying, like, people don't think.
• 58:16
  Speaker 3: What that mean?
• 58:17
  Speaker 4: I'm putting both of y'all in the truck.
• 58:19
  Speaker 2: Nigga's like, thanks.
• 58:21
  Speaker 3: Two for one. Yeah, we ain't good, too. We got
• 58:23
  Speaker 3: oxtails and shit.
• 58:25
  Speaker 4: No, you right, though. I don't feel comfortable if I'm
• 58:28
  Speaker 4: bringing my friend. All right, now both of y'all going
• 58:30
  Speaker 4: to be on a strip.
• 58:32
  Speaker 3: But then when I learned how to say no, when
• 58:33
  Speaker 3: they did that friend thing, I was like, yeah, two checks, please.
• 58:37
  Speaker 3: They ain't like that. I was getting looked at like
• 58:38
  Speaker 3: sassy nigga.
• 58:40
  Speaker 2: You ain't do that. I did.
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: Two checks? Yes.
• 58:42
  Speaker 2: For the two girls?
• 58:43
  Speaker 3: Me and her, and she get her own. I'm not
• 58:45
  Speaker 3: paying for her. She wasn't even invited. She wasn't even invited.
• 58:49
  Speaker 4: What if she have no money?
• 58:51
  Speaker 3: Then she ain't got no money. Why you coming here?
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: This is.
• 58:55
  Speaker 2: See what I've told you?
• 58:57
  Speaker 3: You knew she was bringing her friend. If I'm out
• 59:00
  Speaker 3: with Kelly. That's a sign of how you're going to
• 59:02
  Speaker 3: treat her. And then Kelly's friend pops up. Why am
• 59:04
  Speaker 3: I paying for the friend.
• 59:05
  Speaker 2: That pops up? But she told you she don't feel
• 59:06
  Speaker 2: comfortable with you. No, no, this is a different situation.
• 59:08
  Speaker 2: This is a different situation.
• 59:08
  Speaker 3: Different situation, yeah. I learned how to say no. And
• 59:11
  Speaker 3: I was like, yeah.
• 59:11
  Speaker 4: Because she was like this. I'll be back. I got
• 59:13
  Speaker 4: to go to the bathroom. Girl, he got it. Come.
• 59:16
  Speaker 4: Just come. Just say. Act like you was in the area.
• 59:18
  Speaker 3: Because she was supposed to meet her.
• 59:19
  Speaker 2: That's what girls do.
• 59:19
  Speaker 3: She was supposed to meet her after the date. But
• 59:21
  Speaker 3: the friend was like, where you at? Came through. Ordered stuff.
• 59:23
  Speaker 3: And I was like, two checks?
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: And you know what's funny? I probably would have paid
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: for it, but never again. But then again, maybe I'm
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: too nice. So maybe back to the convo, like, that
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: might be too nice. But I'll do it at one time.
• 59:35
  Speaker 4: I'm not even bringing bitches with me. They're not even
• 59:38
  Speaker 4: coming with me. But you stay home. A date is
• 59:40
  Speaker 4: for two people. This is not no uno, dos, tres.
• 59:44
  Speaker 3: Yeah, nah.
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: Nah.
• 59:45
  Speaker 3: Kelly, should he have paid for the friend or no?
• 59:49
  Speaker 3: She just popped up on our.
• 59:53
  Speaker 4: Send that bitch walking. Don't pay for shit. Nobody told
• 59:56
  Speaker 4: her to come. Respectfully. I'm just saying.
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 3: So you wouldn't have looked at him bugged out if
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 3: your friend pulled up?
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 4: No, as a person on a date, I wouldn't have
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 4: looked at you no type of way. But if I
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 4: was a guy.
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 2: I think it depends on how much you like him.
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 2: I would have left.
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 4: Because first of all, why are you even bringing people
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 4: with you? We on a date. That's corny, number one.
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 2: But men got to do shit like that to get pussy.
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 4: And that's crazy.
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's crazy.
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 4: That's crazy, Lama.
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 2: That you paid for that.
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: Oh, no, you didn't.
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 3: The first one. No, I didn't pay for the second.
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: So you never got pussy? No.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 2: No, it was over. The way men and women got
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 2: to navigate in dating, completely different. And you're saying what
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 2: you would have did as a guy, you would have
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 2: had to have the experience as a guy first to
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 2: see why we do some of the shit we do.
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 3: Because as a woman, y'all don't got to do the
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 3: shit that men do. Like, it's like, y'all be appalled.
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 3: If you was a man for a week, you would
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 3: be appalled at the way the world treated you. My
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 3: middle name is sassy.
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 4: But I try to think, because I have four sons,
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 4: so I do try to, a lot of people feel
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 4: like I only side with men. It's not that I
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 4: only side with men. I have to teach my son
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 4: about women. I'm a female. I know how I can be.
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 4: So I keep it a buck with them. Look, this
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 4: is what women do. This is what they after. Yeah,
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 4: you're going to find love and nurturing women, but until then,
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 4: you're going to find a lot of fucked up women
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 4: in your life. You're going to find more fucked up
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 4: women than good women. I'm going to just be honest.
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 4: And this is just something that you're going to have
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 4: to accept and deal with. It's either you're going to
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 4: grow up and get married and have a family and
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 4: be faithful and do the right thing, or you're going
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 4: to be outside finding your way until you find the
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 4: right one. Neither one is right or wrong.
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 2: Most niggas are going to have to go through this.
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 3: Can I tell a quick story real quick, Tyler, before
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 3: you move on?
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 2: Go ahead.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 3: So I went back on Hinge, right, last month?
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 2: You've been on a date.
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 4: You on a date in Absalama?
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 3: Mama, I went on a date. I got somebody for you.
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 4: Mama, I ran out of there.
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 5: I got somebody for.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: You, Mama.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 3: Kelly was like, he going on a date. After recording,
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 3: I ran out of there.
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 4: Yo, he ran to that date. He was sweating. He
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 4: was trying to end the interview early for that coochie.
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 2: You was?
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Did you kill? I'm going to tell a story.
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 3: So I told it on my close friends. You know,
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 3: I tell everything on there. You got your friends. So
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 3: the girl, we go on a date, right? And then
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 3: we at a restaurant. The girl's like five foot 120,
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 3: like 110. She's skinny.
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 4: She's tiny.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 3: We sit in there. I order fish with, it was like,
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 3: it was fish with something in a biscuit, right? It
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 3: was like a soul food spot. The girl ordered wings.
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 3: She ordered the fish thing I had. She ordered French toast.
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 3: It was breakfast, French toast. She ordered pasta. More biscuits
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 3: and cornbread, right? So they bring in the food. I
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 3: think it's for me. So I'm like, you're not going
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 3: to eat all that. She was like, yes, I am.
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 3: You don't know me. So I'm like, all right, what
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 3: I do with my doggie bags, I give it to
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 3: the homeless. I was like, if you can't eat it,
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 3: I'm giving it to the homeless. She was like, I'm
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 3: going to eat it.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 2: Watch.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 3: So we made the bet. Halfway through, I could see
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 3: her just dying.
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 3: So I was like, oh, we got a lot of
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 3: food for the homeless. And she was like, no, it's not.
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 3: That's coming home with me. So in my head, I'm like, yeah,
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 3: she's done after that.
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 4: Why? Why she.
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 3: Because you ordered all of that being greedy.
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 3: You should have never did that.
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 2: So I paid it. Huh?
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 3: And you paid for it. I paid everything, but she
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 3: was done after that.
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 4: It was something... that you said or did that she probably.
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 3: Thought she could get over on you.
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 2: No, no, she hit me up.
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 3: No, the funny part, this is the funny part. She
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 3: hit me up the next day and was like, I
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 3: could go for some more of that cornbread. And I responded,
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 3: and I responded, I bet you could, Miss Piggy.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 1: Oh, shit. That was it.
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 3: Miss Piggy's great. And she put her face and that
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 3: was it. That was the last time you talked to her?
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 3: I called her Miss Piggy? Yeah, I screenshotted her and
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 3: my close friend was laughing.
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: I was like, why you doing that on my dime?
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 4: Let me tell you, I couldn't be no guy. I
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 4: give y'all that dub.
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like, why are you doing that on my dime?
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 2: But did you kill? No.
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 3: I did it after that.
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 4: That's why y'all have to have boundaries. Ask for the
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 4: kid menu.
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: You gave the food to the homeless?
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 2: No, she took it home.
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: Oh, dang.
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 3: That's why I was like, she was done after that.
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 3: She took it home. But the bet was if she
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 3: don't eat it, we give it to the homeless.
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 2: She was like, nah. She was like, nope. Yeah.
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 4: You better listen.
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 2: Yo, why chicks be so hungry, bro? Why do y'all
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 2: be so hungry? My girl do the same shit. She go.
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 2: She wait to see what I'm going to order. She
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 2: be like, all right, he spent a buck 40. That's crazy. Yo,
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 2: let me get the fish. Let me get some shrimp.
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 2: Give me the, yeah, she go through the whole shit.
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 2: And I just be sitting there like this, but this
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 2: is my wife.
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like, I don't care. I was on a
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 3: first date. Why you so hungry? I was on a
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 3: first date. I was just like, they bringing the food
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 3: out because I'm a bigger guy.
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 2: Watch it, watch it, look at this shit. Look, look, look.
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 2: I told you.
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: I didn't even see it.
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 2: But I know.
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 3: Add me a lobster tail. So they bringing the food
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 3: out and they think because I'm a bigger guy, they like,
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 3: I'm like, nah, that's her. Nah, that's her. They like,
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 3: what the fuck? People was looking like, this is crazy.
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 3: She had all the food around her. And I had
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 3: my little catfish.
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 4: I feel like if you want to date, not like
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 4: your wife, because she's allowed to do whatever she wants
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 4: to do. But women should have boundaries to be courteous.
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 4: I'm not ordering all that shit. I don't even want
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 4: an hors d'oeuvre or whatever that shit is called. Appetizers.
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 4: I don't want just give me the milk. Now, I
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 4: might get a couple of extra drinks, but you should
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 4: be happy because what do the drinks lead to?
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: Right, right.
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 4: You know?
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 3: We had a picture of mimosa or whatever. It was
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 3: a brunch spot.
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 4: And I teach my boys that. If women, you can
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 4: feel women being considerate. You can feel it. You can
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 4: see it. If you can't, she's not for you.
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: Show some restraint.
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 4: Show here.
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 3: It's a fact.
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 4: You can see it.
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 2: That is a fact.
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 4: It's an energy. Yeah.
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: I'll do the same thing. No matter if I'm not
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: paying the bill, even if I'm out with my mom
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: and dad and I know my pops is paying the bill,
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to order the same shit that I
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: would have ordered. I'm not going to order... The big
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: ribeye steak. I might just be like, you know, let
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: me get a chicken sandwich or some shit. Just because
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: I know somebody else is paying.
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 2: Exactly.
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 4: Maybe she don't have food in her house.
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 3: Maybe.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 2: I'm not doing that.
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: That's crazy.
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 3: That was the last meal on me.
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 2: If you say you're paying, I'm eating what I want
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 2: to eat.
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 2: Because I got money. So if you're making it a
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 2: thing that you're paying, I'm eating what I want to eat.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to go. get a bite size that's
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 2: not what I'm doing because if that's the case then
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 2: I'll be like yo I got it don't worry about
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 2: it because I'm going to eat the whole lobster and
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 2: I want a steak too so don't worry about it
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 2: I'll get my own shit but I'm not.
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 3: I'm not being cheap on food you can order one
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 3: big your big meal but she said the bet was
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 3: she could eat all of that she was like you
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 3: don't know me I can eat all of this I
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 3: was like alright Whatever left over, give it to the homeless.
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 3: I just don't understand why you cut her off once
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 3: you said she was doing all that. Because that was
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 3: the first date and you already showing this greed.
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 4: Nah.
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 2: Okay. But if she would have gave it to the homeless,
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 2: would you have still fucked with her?
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah, would have fucked with her.
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: All right then.
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 2: So what's the problem? Nah, nah.
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 3: She took it home.
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 2: What's the problem? I don't understand that.
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 3: She lied.
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: The problem is she was trying to take advantage of it.
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: She was just trying to get food to come home.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: She wasn't being considerate of him spending the bread.
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 2: If she liked the food, why she got to.
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 5: Give it away?
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 1: Because she ordered too much.
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: It was more than she could eat. And that's inconsiderate.
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 3: So I made the bet.
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 2: On my dime.
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 3: Whatever's left over, we give it to the homeless. She said.
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 3: Bug it.
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: How you going to over order when somebody else is done?
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 2: No, I get that part. But he didn't care about that.
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 2: It was the fact that she took it home.
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 2: No. It's not the ordering part.
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 3: It's the fact that she took it home and didn't
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 3: give it to the homeless. It was the fact that
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 3: she said, I can eat this. You don't know me.
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 4: First of all, why y'all making bets on a date anyway?
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 4: How old is she?
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 2: Like 30 something.
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 4: She should be ashamed of herself. She should be ashamed
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 4: making bets on, I can eat the food. I can
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 4: eat the food faster.
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm like, what are you like? That's a lot
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 3: of food.
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 4: Lama, we going to get somebody for you.
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 2: No, but you got to make sure he don't dime
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 2: her down. He's diming her down to the leftovers. He
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 2: was mad about the leftovers, not the meal.
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: I get it though, Lama.
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 3: We Gemini, so we get each other.
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 2: I get that, but I still don't understand. If she
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 2: would have walked you, gave you the homeless, you would
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 2: have still been hitting the next thing. Let's go get
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 2: another one. He would have gotten more cornbread.
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 3: But she honored the bet.
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 2: So it's the bet.
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: Yes.
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 2: You lying.
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 4: It's not the food.
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 3: It's because you lying out here on the first date.
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 2: She liked the food.
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 4: Maybe she thought she could eat it.
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 3: She thought. So now we got to give it to
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 3: the homeless. Because she thought she could eat it.
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: She was like, I'm going to get two meals out
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: of this nigga.
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 4: Maybe she was the homeless.
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 3: That's why she took it home. And she got kids.
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 3: So she might have just did that for her kids.
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 4: Yes, she has kids. No, but I have been out
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 4: with people, but these are the people that I go
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 4: on dates with regularly, like guys that I'm seeing. And
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 4: we might have extra food and he might be like, yo,
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 4: take it home to the boys.
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 4: I don't feel there's nothing wrong with that. You think
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 4: there's something wrong with that?
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 2: This thing is funny.
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 4: I'm sorry.
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 3: If she ate it all, she still would have been
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 3: like Miss Piggy.
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 4: So what if she would have said, you know what?
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 4: I'm going to take this home to my babies.
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 3: I would have honored that.
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 3: Be honest. Just be honest.
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: All right.
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 4: Because that's most likely what she did. Because as a mother,
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 4: when I go on dates, I feel so guilty. That's
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 4: why I don't have a life because I still feel guilt.
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 4: Like when I'm out enjoying myself, I'm like, damn. my
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 4: son is home.
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 2: The other one is, you know.
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 4: And I feel like I'm doing something wrong. Like I'm
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 4: not supposed to have fun because they home and they
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 4: grown ass fucking men. I just don't know why I
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 4: feel like that.
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 2: I had a chick order her food, her kids some
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 2: food on the day and that turned me on.
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 4: No, I'm not ordering further.
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 3: Oh, no, no, not that. Yeah, you out of here.
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 2: Remember this?
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 3: She ordered, but she told me. She was like, yo,
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 3: I'm going to order my son something.
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 2: Is that okay?
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 4: Nah, we ain't doing that.
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 3: But how do you say no? No, you just take
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 3: that L and then she out of here.
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: That was it.
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: But tell her that's the same shit as Lama's situation.
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 1: She ordered way too much with the intentions of taking
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 1: it home. She just didn't say it was for somebody. Right.
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 4: If she would have been honest about it. What you
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 4: say play a big part.
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 3: Here's part four. If the dude was just honest about
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 3: not having the money for the rent, we wouldn't be
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 3: in this situation. Just be honest.
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 4: Baby. Every time I see the green around his name
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 4: on the top, I'm scared to touch it.
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: You know.
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 4: I'm scared to tap it.
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 3: The minute you see the green on Lama's page.
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 4: Somebody getting dealt with. When he had a problem with
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 4: the Mexican.
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 3: Oh, all in the same year.
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 4: He got his wallet stolen. And I seen green.
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 2: You already knew.
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 4: He went crazy for the whole day. I think you
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 4: brought it into the second day.
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah, because I caught him. It took me less than
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 3: 25 hours to catch him.
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 2: You caught what?
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 3: My co-worker stole my wallet and tried to go to
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 3: a bar and order tacos and a Corona.
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 4: He said he was calling ice.
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so I locked my car and it showed me
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 3: the restaurant. So I went to the restaurant, got the
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 3: camera thing, and I went to him. Yo, look, where
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 3: my stuff? I don't know what you're talking about.
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: I don't know what you're talking about.
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 3: That's so stereotypical.
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 2: Tacos and a Corona.
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 3: It went straight to a Mexican. Once I know that
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 3: they know English, I was like, oh, I know who
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 3: it is. My Mexican co-worker. Because he don't know English.
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 2: And so what happened?
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 3: He got fired. Well, he got suspended first, and he
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 3: never came back. He went back to Mexico. So he
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 3: was stalling me.
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: He went back?
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 3: No, his cousin works with me. All right, so long
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 3: story short, his cousin got a cousin from Mexico, moved
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 3: him in, and then was like, you want to work?
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 3: And then your wife won't come from Mexico. You're going
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 3: to have a good family.
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 2: I can't believe it.
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 3: And then he stole my wallet and then tried to
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 3: stall me so I won't call the cops, and then
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 3: went back to Mexico. So his coworker I worked with
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 3: for 10 years, he told me he went back to Mexico.
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 3: He's like, I'm sorry about this. He gave me money.
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 3: His cousin gave me money. But he was like, I'm
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 3: sorry you went through this.
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 4: And all I seen was green for the whole night.
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 2: I cannot. Y'all, I'm just going to cut episode one
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 2: right here. I have nothing left for Llama.
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 3: Y'all, all in the same year.
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 4: Wait. Can I just bring this up? I just want
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 4: to get your opinion on something. Because we are content creators.
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 2: Let's go.
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 4: How you feel about Kai? Kai, Talil, the streaming kids.
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 3: Episode two?
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 2: Let's talk about that in episode two.
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 2: Is that something y'all really want to discuss?
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 2: All right. I'm cool with it. First, tell people where
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 2: to find you. We will talk about Kai, Sanat. I
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 2: have so many other topics. Literally, this is all for y'all.
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 2: We got a lot coming for us. Drill, Kelly, tell
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 2: these people where to find you.
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 4: In y'all man's DMs.
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 2: That's a damn lie.
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: Drive begging?
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 3: And cash out.
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 4: No, I'm begging up front. And cash out. No, y'all
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 4: can find me at the Kelly G Show on all platforms. YouTube,
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 4: Kelly G. Find me at Slate Studios.
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 3: Slate Studios.
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 4: Slate.
• 1:12:31
  Speaker 1: Slate.
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 2: Slated.
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 4: Just remember he got slated.
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 3: See, Kelly can't slight me.
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 4: I would never.
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah, because I reached out to Kelly. So she can't
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 3: really slight me.
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 2: That's dope.
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 3: She's got to put the work in.
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 4: I've been doing good. I've been doing my work. I've
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 4: been doing good with my episodes. But he be like, yo,
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 4: let's chill. You can't take no more interviews right now.
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 3: I'm a one man army.
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 4: I got like 10 in my home.
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 2: Like 10.
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 3: But you can find me, Llama Bean. You might not
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 3: get into close friends to see all the stuff. But
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 3: views of an ex, Slight Studios. That's it.
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 2: And how can people book sessions?
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 3: Slystudios.com. Yeah, Slystudios.com.
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 2: S-L-Y-T-E studios.com to book a session. It's a really great studio.
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 2: I love it. I want to pull up down there.
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 4: Because I want to bring you back on the show.
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 2: Excellent. I won't bring a ball gag this time.
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 4: Bring something else. Bring these pills. I'm still on all
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 4: my porn. I'm still on my porn shit.
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 4: But I've been doing good. I haven't been watching that
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 4: other stuff.
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 3: Oh, wow.
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: I've seen it.
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 4: I've seen it and I had to look at it
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 4: because I wanted to know.
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 3: If it was real. What did you say? Hardest off October?
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 2: 21st.
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 3: I want to talk about that thing. Ladies and gentlemen.
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 3: I did that one time.
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 2: Can I?
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah, go ahead.
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 2: Before, I mean, so shameless, we will be back in
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 2: two days or go on a Patreon.
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: Before, I'm going to start.
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 2: Let me do something to intro to the show real quick, y'all.
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 2: Before we start, I just want to let y'all know
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 2: the tickets to the live show are up. They are
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 2: available right now at citywinery.com. Search So Shameless. Go to
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 2: the So Shameless page. The ticket link is in our
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 2: link tree. Go on our Patreon. The ticket link is
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 2: on our Patreon. I might add this shit. Did you
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 2: know we had a website? You remember we got a website?
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 2: I forgot we had a website. We paid for it. Yo.
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 2: Let me see.
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 4: Go on that website. What is it?
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 2: I'm going to see right now. Hold on.
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 4: I want a website, Llama.
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 2: Shit.
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 4: Where's my website?
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 3: KellyG. They probably stole that already. If you ain't got
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 3: it now.
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: Oh, shit.
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 3: We can't even talk about it. SoShamelessPodcast.com.
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 2: Oh, shit. We have a whole website. Go into the
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 2: event section of the website and the ticket link will
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 2: be there as well. Kelly, what's up? You going to host?
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm here.
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 2: Let me know.
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 4: I'm outside now.
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 2: You lying.
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 4: I promise you.
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 2: I'll host. You going to do your little comedy spiel?
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 4: I'll do my comedy. I'm really good at it.
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 4: I'm really good.
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 2: And you fucking Brooklyn for real.
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 4: And it's like, I just go up there and I
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 4: just do my thing. I didn't practice nothing, right?
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 4: I interviewed a comedian and she took me to the
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 4: Essence the same night. I thought I was just going
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 4: there to get a drink. And she was like, oh,
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 4: you up next. They're giving you five minutes. They ended
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 4: up letting me do 10. Oh, that's funny.
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 2: She nice. Yeah.
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 3: Fire.
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 2: We getting into the episode right now. Peace. That was
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 2: the beginning. I forgot to do it. And now we're back.
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 2: Let me shut off this shit.
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 1: Oh, wait.
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 4: You're doing two episodes?
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 7: Yes.
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 3: He do part one, part two.
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 2: Oh.
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 3: That Kona Willie thing.
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 2: Yo.