Latest / Alignment With Jenn / (#37) 10 MICRO WAYS TO REWIRE YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS TODAY ✨
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- 0:00Hello and welcome to the Alignment with Gen. podcast.
- 0:03I'm your host, Jen Ditzy, and today we are going to be talking
- 0:07about 10 mini practices that you can use to rewire your
- 0:11subconscious mind throughout your day, throughout your week,
- 0:14throughout your month. So that way you can feel like
- 0:17your absolute best self. So Carl Jung said that until you
- 0:21make the unconscious conscious, it will run your life and you
- 0:24will call it fate. And that really is how our
- 0:27subconscious mind works. It is completely running the
- 0:31show behind the scenes. And oftentimes the areas in life
- 0:34where we feel the most stuck are the areas where our subconscious
- 0:38mind is out of alignment with what we want.
- 0:40If you've listened to any of my other podcast episodes, you know
- 0:43that I've talked a lot about the subconscious mind because I
- 0:46personally believe that it is essential to rewire your
- 0:50subconscious mind to align with the life that you want versus
- 0:54the life that you've been living.
- 0:55Because a lot of the time what happens is when people feel like
- 0:59they are hitting a wall, maybe it's an income ceiling.
- 1:02Maybe they're repeating the same pattern over and over and over
- 1:05again in their lives. Maybe it's in relationships,
- 1:08maybe it's in career, maybe it's in their self-confidence.
- 1:11It is often times, I would say probably 99.9% of the times,
- 1:16some unconscious, subconscious program that is running.
- 1:20And So what we want to do is we want to rewire those programs.
- 1:24So that way you are automatically running a success
- 1:27program. Successful people who are
- 1:30successful in each area of life, right?
- 1:33It could be someone with a successful relationship, someone
- 1:35with successful finances, a successful business.
- 1:38They are running different programs than people who are
- 1:42struggling in those areas of their life.
- 1:44And we know that success leaves clues.
- 1:47And So what we can do is we can understand what is that
- 1:50programming and we can program our minds in order to align with
- 1:55the success programming. And that really is how
- 1:58manifestation works on a subconscious level is we get our
- 2:01mind to be in alignment with the life that we want versus the
- 2:05life that we have been living. And often times people might say
- 2:08like, you know, I know about the subconscious mind, I've heard
- 2:11about the subconscious mind. But The thing is, if you are
- 2:13still hitting blocks, if you are still hitting these obstacles
- 2:16that feel difficult for you to overcome in your life, you don't
- 2:20know it because you're not embodying it.
- 2:22You're not embodying the level of change that you need to
- 2:24embody in order to create the life that you want today.
- 2:27What I want to do is I want to start off giving you some
- 2:29understanding of the subconscious mind.
- 2:31And then I'm going to go into these 10 practices and many of
- 2:35them you can start implementing literally today.
- 2:37To start, rewind in your mind towards that success
- 2:41programming. So that way you automatically,
- 2:44without even thinking about it, are operating off of these
- 2:47success metrics. So the first thing to recognize
- 2:52and to be aware of is that your subconscious mind is running
- 2:55automatically in the background and it is observing and noticing
- 2:59every single thing in your life and what it is doing.
- 3:02It is taking in millions and millions of pieces of
- 3:05information every single second. And if you were consciously made
- 3:10aware of all of that information, your brain would
- 3:13explode. You would go nuts if you are
- 3:15aware of all of it. So your subconscious mind
- 3:18lovingly takes all of this information and distills it down
- 3:22to less than 1% of that information that you are then
- 3:26made aware of. So you are essentially aware of
- 3:29less than 1% of what is actually going on in reality.
- 3:33And what does it filter that information by?
- 3:36It filters it based off of your beliefs, your memories, your
- 3:41mood at the time, the time of day, past experiences that
- 3:45you've had, right, things that happened to you as a child.
- 3:48It is filtering this all based off of your old identity.
- 3:52So This is why this is the roadblock that so many people
- 3:55hit because they're like, I know what I want.
- 3:57I know who I want to be, but it's so hard for me to get
- 4:00there. I keep hitting these roadblocks.
- 4:02I can't be consistent with what I want to be consistent with.
- 4:05I don't take the actions like I want to take the actions because
- 4:09there's this roadblock. Your mind is still filtering
- 4:11your reality based off of your old programming, the old version
- 4:15of you that created your current reality.
- 4:18So if you want to create a new reality, we need to update that
- 4:21information. I like to think of your
- 4:23subconscious mind as the Wizard of Oz.
- 4:25So, you know, in the movie The Wizard of Oz, he's like behind
- 4:28the curtain and he's pulling the strings and he's orchestrating
- 4:30everything that's happening. And most of the people are not
- 4:33aware of what he's doing and his power.
- 4:35That's how your subconscious mind is.
- 4:37Your subconscious mind is running every single aspect of
- 4:41your life without you even realizing it.
- 4:44And it is to such a micro level that it takes a it takes time to
- 4:50UN layer all of the ways that your subconscious mind can be
- 4:54limiting you and kind of keeping you in this glass house.
- 4:57So This is why you can say that you want something and not
- 5:01necessarily go after it, or it might be difficult for you to
- 5:05achieve it because maybe your actions are not producing the
- 5:08results that you want. Because our subconscious mind
- 5:11operates off of a certain set of programs and a certain set of
- 5:15rules. And I'm not going to get into
- 5:16all of these rules. That's something I go into
- 5:19deeper into my courses. But suffice it to say, one of
- 5:22the biggest rules is that your subconscious mind will always go
- 5:25towards what is familiar and safe.
- 5:28Its top priority, its biggest goal is to keep you safe.
- 5:32And so if what you want it associates with a lack of
- 5:35safety, then it will not go towards that.
- 5:38And a lot of that is programmed into our nervous system based
- 5:41off of our past experiences. So for example, let's say that
- 5:45growing up you always saw your parents fighting around money.
- 5:49They'd always have a conflict around money.
- 5:52And so you noticed that your nervous system got fearful
- 5:55whenever your parents would start to fight, and it was
- 5:58always around money. So there's now this link between
- 6:00lack of safety and money. This is a really common pattern
- 6:04I see with my clients who have a difficulty reaching that next
- 6:07level of their income. And what's interesting is they
- 6:10could be making really, really good money and they can still
- 6:13hit this block because it's not going to come up at the same
- 6:17level for every person, right? Our risk tolerance is different.
- 6:22Same is true for let's say that you want to manifest a
- 6:24relationship, but you find that it's been really difficult for
- 6:28you. You're not sure why you see
- 6:30patterns that you're doing in relationship but you just can't
- 6:33seem to rewire them. Often times there's because
- 6:36there's something underneath the surface that your subconscious
- 6:39mind is associating with relationship and not being safe.
- 6:43It could be that you saw your parents always fighting.
- 6:46Maybe you had experiences with a, an ex who made you feel
- 6:50terrible, who made you feel not enough.
- 6:52Whatever that might have been. Then that is going to inform
- 6:55what your mind moves toward. And that's really what your
- 6:59subconscious mind decides is what you move toward and what
- 7:02you move away from. Because we will always move
- 7:04towards pleasure and move away from pain.
- 7:07And so if we associate something we want with pleasure, it will
- 7:09be easy to move toward it, but if we associate it with pain, it
- 7:12will be difficult to to move toward it.
- 7:14Another important rule of the subconscious mind to know for
- 7:18the context of this episode is that your subconscious mind was
- 7:22largely programmed before the age of 7.
- 7:25The reason for that is because before the age of seven, your
- 7:28brain is largely in the Theta brain wave state.
- 7:30It's like imagine there's just this wide open door to your
- 7:34subconscious mind before the age of seven that just hasn't been
- 7:38closed. But you also don't have the same
- 7:40development of reasoning faculties.
- 7:43You're not using discernment to decide how you want to view
- 7:46reality. You're basically going off of
- 7:49your emotions, the emotions of what you see other people
- 7:51experiencing. So during that time period, your
- 7:56subconscious mind is developing and gaining all of this
- 7:58programming that is going to affect your relationships with
- 8:04money, with love, with career, with success, with being seen,
- 8:08with visibility, with your purpose for the rest of your
- 8:12life unless you go in and you rewire those.
- 8:16And that's what we're going to talk about those 10 practices to
- 8:18do because there's actually a ton we can do to rewire our
- 8:21subconscious minds. And we're literally always
- 8:25wiring it in some way, either wiring it for what we want or
- 8:28wiring it for what we don't want.
- 8:30And I want you to wire it for what you want.
- 8:32So this is the point that I really want you to understand is
- 8:35that typically you are not living the life that you want.
- 8:39You're living the life that your subconscious mind believes is
- 8:42safe for you to live. So This is why when we want to
- 8:46make a change, right? I was talking to someone
- 8:49yesterday who has listened to every single one of my podcast
- 8:52episodes. She's done all of the small
- 8:54programs that Ioffer and she wanted to sign up for my larger
- 8:58coaching program, which is multiple $1000.
- 9:01She got so much fear when she thought about signing up for it,
- 9:05right? Because her nervous system fears
- 9:08and her subconscious mind fears that larger investment, right?
- 9:11Even though she knows she wants it, even though she knows it
- 9:13would be valuable. And this is often times what
- 9:16happens is when we get to a point, it's like a threshold
- 9:19moment where we're going to make a change where something big
- 9:23could happen for us in our lives.
- 9:25That old programming is going to be extremely loud code.
- 9:28And This is why often times people will take 2 steps
- 9:31forward, 2 steps back, 2 steps forward, 2 steps back.
- 9:34So they'll stay in the same place for a year, multiple
- 9:36years, or a decade because they'll make a little progress,
- 9:40then they'll pull back. They'll make a little progress,
- 9:42then they'll pull back because they hit that threshold that
- 9:45doesn't feel safe any longer. But I will tell you your ability
- 9:49to feel safe taking risks is going to have a direct
- 9:52relationship to the level of success that you achieve.
- 9:55There is no creation of success without expanding your ability
- 9:59to take risks. It just doesn't it, you just
- 10:02can't it the two go together because that new level of
- 10:06success, no matter what it is, is going to feel unfamiliar.
- 10:09It's going to feel like a risk on some level to your
- 10:12subconscious mind. So let's talk about how we can
- 10:16rewire it so that way you're not fighting against these old
- 10:21programs that have been running your mind for a very long time.
- 10:24The first thing I want you to know is that it is actually not
- 10:28very difficult to rewire the subconscious mind.
- 10:31It takes precision, it takes certain tools, it takes an
- 10:34understanding, but it's not difficult and it doesn't have to
- 10:38take a really long time. But what I do know is that
- 10:41there's a layering that happens because your subconscious mind
- 10:45is not just going to give you everything upfront and be like,
- 10:48this is all that needs to be rewired.
- 10:50There's going to be layers that will be shown to you over time
- 10:54as you become ready to receive those layers.
- 10:57The first thing I want you to understand is that there's a
- 10:59certain language, I call it the love language of the
- 11:02subconscious mind that needs to be used in order to access that
- 11:06deeper level of the mind. And this is certain ways that
- 11:10you can use this to program the mind.
- 11:12So the first is that your subconscious mind is more
- 11:15accessible during specific brain wave states.
- 11:18So we have the beta brain wave state, which is what we're in
- 11:21most of the time or most people are in most of the time.
- 11:24It's that thinking, analyzing, doing brain wave state.
- 11:28Like when you're working, when you're exercising, you're
- 11:30typically in beta, right? Then we have alpha and Theta
- 11:34and, and those two are really where the subconscious mind is
- 11:37the most programmable, especially like that transition
- 11:41between alpha and Theta is really, really powerful and
- 11:43Theta as well. And those brain wave states are
- 11:46what happened when you start to feel more relaxed, when your
- 11:48nervous system kind of down regulates, you're not so much in
- 11:52survival, you're more in creation.
- 11:54And in those brain wave states, your subconscious mind, that
- 11:57door opens up and so you're able to imprint more of the things
- 12:02that you want to believe. OK, but one of the challenges
- 12:05that I often see is that people will try to do tools that
- 12:09imprint into the subconscious mind without clearing out the
- 12:13conflicting beliefs in the subconscious.
- 12:16So for example, let's say that you start to use nightly
- 12:19subliminals to rewire your subconscious mind.
- 12:22If you're listening to a subliminal about being lovable,
- 12:25right? You want to be lovable to be in
- 12:27a relationship, but you on a very deep level do not believe
- 12:30that you're lovable. It's going to be kind of like
- 12:33trying to drill into cement. It's going to be very, very
- 12:36difficult because you have this resistant belief.
- 12:40So my experience with working with my clients is that when you
- 12:43can clear out and neutralize those deeper held beliefs first,
- 12:47and then you layer on the affirmations, the subliminals,
- 12:52the audios, the rewiring audios, they're going to be so much more
- 12:55effective. OK, just as a note for you, so
- 12:58we have the first love languages, specific brain wave
- 13:01states. The second is visuals, symbols,
- 13:05metaphors, stories. Your subconscious mind does not
- 13:08speak in logic and numbers like we do when we're in
- 13:11conversation. Your subconscious mind speaks in
- 13:15the same language that you experience your dreams, right?
- 13:19That's why you can have these strange images pop up in your
- 13:22dreams and you're like, that doesn't mean anything to me.
- 13:25Because to your subconscious mind it does.
- 13:28So it is very metaphorical. It is very symbolic.
- 13:32This is why you have to be so careful with the media you
- 13:34consume, right? I just saw the new Withering
- 13:37Heights movie and I was like, I wish I had not seen it because
- 13:40it is not good for your subconscious mind.
- 13:42It's very graphic. The people are just terrible,
- 13:45terrible people. I didn't like any of the
- 13:46characters personally. Sorry if you guys liked it.
- 13:49I didn't like it, but it's not good for your subconscious mind.
- 13:52It is literally creating this film in your subconscious mind
- 13:55because your subconscious mind operates in stories, metaphors,
- 13:59visuals, emotion, and all of those are very strong in movies,
- 14:03in music. And so be very careful what
- 14:06you're consuming with your mind. Same on social media.
- 14:09Be careful what content you're consuming.
- 14:11It seems innocuous and it's not. It's not at all.
- 14:14So we have visuals, then we have repetition.
- 14:18So This is why people will say, say your affirmations every day
- 14:21or visualize every single day. Because repetition is, as Jim
- 14:26Rohn would say, the mother of skill.
- 14:28Because skill is built inside the subconscious.
- 14:30So when we really want to embody something, we need to have a
- 14:34repetition of it. Writing down your goals once and
- 14:37never looking at them again is not going to be nearly as
- 14:41effective as looking at them every single day, speaking them
- 14:44to yourself, right? Repeating them.
- 14:46Because the things that we repeat, our subconscious mind
- 14:48eventually will believe because all that our beliefs are and all
- 14:52that our subconscious blocks and limited beliefs are, are just
- 14:56thoughts that we've thought for a very, very, very long time.
- 14:59And so when we can replace them with these new ones through
- 15:01repetition, that's very powerful.
- 15:03Another one is emotion. So This is why when I say with
- 15:07the meditations that I have my clients do I want them to evoke
- 15:10emotion? Because without emotion, it is
- 15:13meaningless to your subconscious mind.
- 15:15Your subconscious won't tag it as important if there's no
- 15:18emotion associated with it, K. And then we have evidence and
- 15:22follow through. So this is your behavioral
- 15:24component. Your subconscious mind is always
- 15:27watching you. Your subconscious is obsessed
- 15:29with you. And so it is always looking for
- 15:32evidence to prove these beliefs true.
- 15:35So if you keep repeating to yourself, I'm so good with
- 15:37money, I'm such a money magnet, but then you just keep spending
- 15:41all of your money. There's a conflict there, right?
- 15:44There's not a congruency. So we want to do our best to
- 15:48create congruency between what we believe in our minds and what
- 15:52we're acting as in our reality, or else that conflict is going
- 15:57to make it very difficult for us to also rewire.
- 16:00We can instill beliefs much more strongly when we create a lot of
- 16:03evidence for them. So This is why the, I've done a
- 16:06few episodes recently all about habits, because the more that we
- 16:11can build powerful habits, the more that our mind is going to
- 16:14trust us and believe us. There's actually one other love
- 16:17language I want to add and that's precise language or
- 16:19hypnotic language. So this is language that is used
- 16:22in hypnosis sessions. It can also be used in media and
- 16:26music and songs. It can be used in meditations.
- 16:29And it's language that is phrased in a certain way in
- 16:32order to bypass your conscious mind and slip into your
- 16:35subconscious mind. And so this is really powerful,
- 16:38a really powerful tool that skilled practitioners can use in
- 16:42order to help you. There's something called the
- 16:44Milton language models, if you want to look at those.
- 16:46Those are certain ways to use language to bypass the
- 16:49subconscious mind. Let's talk about the practices
- 16:51to rewire the subconscious. So the first step that I want
- 16:56you to take is getting really honest with where you are and
- 17:00really honest with where you want to be.
- 17:03Because most people are very good at making things OK and
- 17:08being like, okay, yeah, this is okay.
- 17:10I'm okay with where I'm at right now, even though it's not really
- 17:12where I wanna be. And that's actually really
- 17:14detrimental because it keeps you in that same spot for a very
- 17:17long time because you'll be like, well, you know, it's okay.
- 17:20It's gotten a little bit better. You know, it's, it's okay, we
- 17:23can stay in OK for decades, but you have to be really honest.
- 17:27Are you actually where you want to be?
- 17:30And if not, then that should propel you that discomfort will
- 17:34propel you to create where you want to be.
- 17:36So first, identify where are you in all of the areas of your
- 17:40life, where do you actually truly want to be?
- 17:44Because I guarantee there's a gap.
- 17:46And in that gap is the rewiring work that you need to do because
- 17:50you need to get your mind in alignment with the version of
- 17:52you that you want to be. Because right now your minds in
- 17:55alignment with that version that you are.
- 17:57And I'm sure the version that you are is a wonderful and I
- 18:00know that there's more that you want.
- 18:02So that's the first thing. As you begin to write out what
- 18:06you want, you're going to notice what I call them whisper
- 18:09thoughts coming up. You're going to notice these
- 18:11thoughts of like, oh, that's not possible, or I could never do
- 18:14that or yeah, right. I want you to notice all of
- 18:17those and write them all down because those are all evidence
- 18:21and little strings that you can pull on to show you what beliefs
- 18:25need to be rewired, what needs to be shifted in your mind in
- 18:29order to close the gap between where you are and where you want
- 18:31to be. So that is the first little
- 18:34piece of this. So one practice that you can
- 18:37start literally today in order to start rewiring your mind is
- 18:41choose a better feeling thought. So if you've ever listened to
- 18:44Abraham Hicks, this is a tool that Abraham talks about a lot.
- 18:46And this is basically when you have a thought of I can't do it,
- 18:50or this isn't possible for me, or I could never make that much
- 18:53money. You slowly choose thoughts that
- 18:56feel a little better and a little better and a little
- 18:59better until you allow yourself to feel better.
- 19:03What you are doing is you are literally subtly retraining your
- 19:06mind to think in a different way because the way that you think
- 19:09now is the result of all the programming that you've had.
- 19:13So from your parents, your teachers, TV shows that you've
- 19:15watched, you've just learned a way of thinking.
- 19:18You want to teach yourself a new way of thinking that's more in
- 19:21alignment with what you want. It's like they say, it's
- 19:24delusional. It's not delusional.
- 19:26There's a thousand ways to view a situation.
- 19:28You're choosing a new way to view that situation.
- 19:31I'll give you an example of this.
- 19:32Let's say that you. I think this isn't possible for
- 19:34me, right? I could never start a business.
- 19:37Nobody in my family started a business.
- 19:39OK, a better feeling thought would be, well, maybe I could be
- 19:42the first one, right? I've been successful in my
- 19:44career so far. Maybe I could just try.
- 19:47Maybe there's something that I could start to just try out
- 19:49today that I might like to do. It's OK if it's not perfect.
- 19:52It doesn't have to be perfect, right?
- 19:54That feels a lot better than I could never do it.
- 19:57And what you do as you create that transition is you not only
- 20:00rewire your thinking patterns, but you also feel better.
- 20:04And when you feel better, you're more magnetic, you attract more
- 20:06things into your life, you're more creative, you have more
- 20:09access to solutions. You create a new reality for
- 20:13yourself in that simple, simple process.
- 20:15So that's the first thing that I highly recommend practicing
- 20:19starting today. And the second thing is modeling
- 20:23other people. And this is a really great way
- 20:25to learn how to think differently because The thing
- 20:29is, right now you're thinking at the level that's creating your
- 20:33current reality. And if you want a new level, you
- 20:35have to learn to think at a new level.
- 20:37Thought is the basis of our entire reality.
- 20:39You can do this in a number of ways.
- 20:41You can do it right now. You're learning to think in a
- 20:43new way by listening to this podcast, right?
- 20:45So the media that you consume books, I highly recommend
- 20:49reading actual physical books, not just listening to them.
- 20:53Especially the classic books because those are the key to
- 20:59understanding and learning thinking patterns of other
- 21:02people, especially really, really successful people.
- 21:06I will actually put a free download that you can have of a
- 21:08book list that I recommend of really great books that are
- 21:11going to teach you to think in a new way.
- 21:13And when you're actually reading it, your subconscious mind is
- 21:16absorbing all of that. It is learning those thinking
- 21:20patterns. It's learning how they're
- 21:21speaking. It's learning how they're
- 21:22talking to themselves. It's the most amazing way for
- 21:24you to model for your subconscious mind how you want
- 21:27to think and as a result, how you want to be.
- 21:31You can do it through coaching. You can do it through
- 21:33conversations. I highly recommend being around
- 21:36other people who are actually doing what you want to do right.
- 21:41People that maybe have the business you want or the
- 21:43relationship you want or the financial reality that you want
- 21:48and learning how they think. One of the best investments I
- 21:51ever made in myself was joining Tony Robbins Platinum Partners
- 21:54program because I was around so many people from so many
- 21:57different industries who all thought differently than me, but
- 22:00they were all very successful in their respective communities.
- 22:04And to this day, I've learned so much and I continue to learn so
- 22:08much from those people because of their thought patterns, the
- 22:11way they view reality. It's expanded my mind so much.
- 22:14So get yourself into a community like that.
- 22:17I recommend my community, The Infinite Experience, because
- 22:20this is what we're doing every single week is we're changing
- 22:23our thought patterns. We're learning to think like a
- 22:25successful person, to rewire our subconscious mind like a
- 22:29successful person. So modeling is so powerful for
- 22:33your subconscious. Think about the ages, zero to
- 22:35seven. That's all you did is modeled
- 22:37other people. That's how you became who you
- 22:39were by modeling what you saw. If you didn't see it, you
- 22:43couldn't model it. So that's what we want to do is
- 22:45we want to learn how to model other people that have what we
- 22:48want. Then another thing that we want
- 22:51to do is we want to make and what we want familiar because
- 22:55remember our subconscious mind views something that is
- 22:58unfamiliar as unsafe. And so we want to make this new
- 23:02reality that we want to create familiar.
- 23:05So if it's a level of wealth, a relationship, you want to
- 23:08familiarize yourself with it. So This is why vision boards are
- 23:11super, super powerful. Not just making them and putting
- 23:14them in a pile to gather dust, but making them your phone
- 23:17screen background, making them your computer background,
- 23:21looking at them everyday, maybe putting a mini version in your
- 23:24car, putting a mini version in your bathroom when you get ready
- 23:28in the morning. You want to familiarize yourself
- 23:31with those things. If there's a new car you want,
- 23:33go and practice driving it right.
- 23:36Get these things in your nervous system so your subconscious mind
- 23:39views them as safe. I highly recommend if you want
- 23:42to create more luxury in your life, looking at luxury
- 23:46magazines or maybe you want to start a podcast or gain a social
- 23:49media following right? Having those things in your
- 23:52reality, images of those things. So that way it creates this
- 23:56familiarity to where it becomes like, oh, of course I created
- 23:59that because it was so familiar to me.
- 24:02The kind of relationship that you want, making that familiar
- 24:05through imagery, through the movies and the TV shows that you
- 24:08watch. Don't watch movies and TV shows
- 24:10about people with terrible relationships, which is what
- 24:12most TV shows are about. Watch them about people with
- 24:15really healthy happy relationships.
- 24:17Familiarize yourself and your subconscious mind with what you
- 24:20want. There's thousands of ways to do
- 24:22this. Just tell ChatGPT I want to
- 24:24familiarize myself with XYZ. Give me 50 different ways I can
- 24:28do that. It's very very simple but so
- 24:31powerful because your subconscious mind will then
- 24:33begin to filter your reality to bring you that thing.
- 24:37Your conscious mind is the goal setter.
- 24:40Your subconscious mind is the goal getter.
- 24:43It will go get any goal that it believes is familiar and safe
- 24:46and possible for you. So you want to make it as
- 24:49familiar as possible. A daily practice that I highly
- 24:52recommend for this familiarization is visualization
- 24:56because what you're doing is when you close your eyes, your
- 24:59subconscious mind doesn't know the difference between what's
- 25:01real and imagined. So when you visualize it in your
- 25:04mind then, and I'll link down below a free visualization for
- 25:08you that you can begin with. When you visualize it in your
- 25:11mind, you're and you feel that emotion and you feel into that
- 25:14experience, your subconscious mind thinks it's actually
- 25:16happening. It doesn't know that it's not.
- 25:18You are familiarizing yourself and you're showing your
- 25:21subconscious mind, this is what we're creating.
- 25:23This is what we're creating. This is what we're creating and
- 25:25it will go get that goal. Another practice I highly
- 25:28recommend as well for your subconscious mind is
- 25:31appreciation. So I recommend each morning
- 25:36going on a walk first. A walk is going to open your
- 25:40brain. It's going to stimulate you,
- 25:42it's going to release endorphins, release dopamine.
- 25:45It's going to make you feel really, really good.
- 25:47It's going to get you out of that rut if you kind of have a
- 25:50slow start in the morning. And when you add an
- 25:54appreciation, just listing things that you're so grateful
- 25:57for. Thank you for the sun.
- 25:58Thank you for my dog. Thank you for these beautiful
- 26:01flowers. Thank you for the new client I
- 26:03got yesterday. Thank you for this podcast,
- 26:05right? Thank you for all of these
- 26:06things. You are priming your
- 26:09subconscious mind to find more things to be grateful for.
- 26:12And it will start to draw those into your mind and you will
- 26:15become one of those people who's just automatically happy and
- 26:19grateful because you're priming yourself.
- 26:21The things we do in the morning are the greatest things that we
- 26:25can do to set the foundation for our entire day.
- 26:28Maybe I'll do an episode on morning routines because it
- 26:31really is. It can change the entire
- 26:33trajectory of your life having a solid morning routine.
- 26:36And this is one that I believe is so, so, so important.
- 26:39And another reason I recommend walking is because if you don't
- 26:42want to like, let's say you're like, oh, it's cold outside.
- 26:45I can't go walking. You have to overcome yourself.
- 26:48And that small act of overcoming yourself in the morning sets you
- 26:52up so that throughout the day, it's much more easy for you to
- 26:55overcome yourself and do the things that you know that you
- 26:59want to do that align with your highest self.
- 27:01Oh, that was the fifth practice I had written down was walking.
- 27:04So walking is such a powerful way to shift your mood, to shift
- 27:08your energy. Whenever I want to improve my
- 27:12mood, I will just go on a walk. If I'm ever feeling stuck, I
- 27:16will always go on a walk. I'll just drop whatever I'm
- 27:18doing and I'll go walk. And it always resets me.
- 27:21It opens my mind up to solutions.
- 27:23I'm so much more creative. I go back, I'm so much more
- 27:26focused, so much more productive.
- 27:28And I know you're probably thinking, well, I thought you
- 27:31were going to give us like EFT tapping or hypnosis, and I'll
- 27:34talk about those in a minute. What I want you to realize is
- 27:38all of these small habits compound so that way you are
- 27:41constantly rewiring your mind throughout the day for what you
- 27:44want. And we don't oftentimes think of
- 27:47subconscious reprogramming as all of these micro habits, but
- 27:50it is because every single thing we do is programming our
- 27:53subconscious mind everything we do throughout the day.
- 27:56And so when you shift and intentionally choose positive
- 28:00behaviors, you shift yourself into alignment with that
- 28:02positive version of yourself. So another practice that I
- 28:06recommend is what I call flooding.
- 28:08And this is essentially flooding yourself with the type of
- 28:13thinking that you want to have. So if you want to be a more
- 28:15positive thinker, if you want to be more creative, if you want to
- 28:20think in a way that will expand your reality like successful
- 28:24people, you want to flood yourself with that information.
- 28:26So choosing specific books, listening to specific podcasts,
- 28:30having imagery in your reality, you want to basically flood your
- 28:34subconscious mind. Because The thing is, if you
- 28:37don't do it, the world will do it for you.
- 28:39Through advertisements, through social media, through
- 28:42television, through what you hear on the radio, through
- 28:45conversations that you overhear at restaurants.
- 28:47So you want to flood yourself with what you actually want.
- 28:52And I recommend flooding yourself with really positive
- 28:55things. So I'll give you that book list.
- 28:57That's a great place. Listen to any of my podcast
- 29:00episodes. Those are all going to be great
- 29:01things to flood yourself with. Tony Robbins is a great
- 29:04resource. If you look up Jim, Jim Rohn on
- 29:06YouTube, he's also another great resource.
- 29:08Abraham Hicks is another great resource to listen to, to flood
- 29:11yourself with these positive things.
- 29:13Because if we just leave it up to chance, that's gonna be
- 29:17something that you don't necessarily want it to be
- 29:19flooded with. And then another practice is
- 29:21creating evidence through your action.
- 29:24So when you assign and you create a new belief for
- 29:27yourself, like you're gonna say, OK, I am a money magnet.
- 29:33Let's say that that's a new belief that you want to
- 29:34cultivate and you do some rewiring work to create it.
- 29:38What I recommend is then following it up with a specific
- 29:41action that aligns with that. So maybe you haven't been super
- 29:45great at organizing your finances.
- 29:46So maybe with this new money magnet identity, you become more
- 29:50organized with your finances by spending 5 minutes a day
- 29:54organizing your bank accounts or your budget, whatever it might
- 29:57be. But align an action with your
- 30:01new belief in order to like lock it in and create that evidence
- 30:05for your subconscious. Because if your subconscious is
- 30:08like, oh, she now goes and like organizes her finances, like
- 30:11Ding, she can handle more money. That's awesome.
- 30:14It amplifies those beliefs. And then there's practices.
- 30:17So those are kind of daily practices that I recommend.
- 30:20I do also recommend scripting. I like scripting.
- 30:23When you're writing out the vision you have for your future,
- 30:26sure, you're writing out your new beliefs because the act of
- 30:29writing solidifies the energy and it creates this vessel for
- 30:33it. So it's a really, really
- 30:34powerful way to rewire your mind as well.
- 30:38Other practices that I recommend that are deeper rewiring, and
- 30:42these are the kinds of things that are going to clear out
- 30:44those deeper beliefs. Those things that you don't
- 30:46quite see. Things I recommend are hypnosis,
- 30:50although be careful because I've had a lot of hypnosis sessions.
- 30:53Some of them were great, some of them were terrible.
- 30:56So you just want to make sure if you do do hypnosis that it's
- 30:59actually effective because a lot of it cannot be.
- 31:02RRT is a tool that I love that stands for rapid resolution
- 31:05therapy. That's something that I do with
- 31:07my clients and I absolutely love it.
- 31:09It's a really deep way to rewire the subconscious mind.
- 31:12EFT tapping is a really powerful way as well.
- 31:16And IFS, that's internal family systems, I think that's a
- 31:19incredible, incredible therapy that can be really, really
- 31:23helpful for rewiring those deeper beliefs.
- 31:26Those tools that I've just listed are things that I
- 31:29recommend for really deep, deep rewiring.
- 31:33If there's something that you're like, man, I just don't know why
- 31:35I can't change this with all the work I've done, those are the
- 31:37tools I'd recommend. And I also recommend having a
- 31:41weekly practice where you're rewiring so that way you're
- 31:45clearing out more of those layers.
- 31:47And that's what we do in my Infinite Experience community.
- 31:49We use a method that I've created, it's called the
- 31:52elevated subconscious Rewiring method, where I blend together
- 31:56different tools to rewire certain beliefs.
- 31:59And this is so powerful because every single week you're going
- 32:03to clear out more and you will just start to automatically
- 32:06manifest more things. So you will start to see your
- 32:09relationship with money change, your relationship with other
- 32:11people change with confidence with the things that you want
- 32:14because you're clearing out those layers and that gunk that
- 32:18has been in there for a really, really long time.
- 32:21So I don't recommend to use these deeper tools unless you
- 32:25really, really need them. I recommend having something
- 32:27like a weekly practice. So that could be EFT tapping, if
- 32:31that's something that helps, that's helpful for you.
- 32:33That could be 1 of it, but I recommend having something on a
- 32:36weekly basis as well. Those are the big pieces.
- 32:40We have our daily practices. We have a weekly practice
- 32:43ideally, and then we have tools for those deeper times when we
- 32:48feel like we're hitting a really, really deep roadblock
- 32:51and we want some more personalized support on that.
- 32:54So I would love, love, love to invite you into my Infinite
- 32:58Experience program. If you want to learn more about
- 33:01that and how we do that rewiring work inside that program, send
- 33:05me a message on Instagram that just says podcast and I'll send
- 33:08you a 5 minute video about that program so you can learn a
- 33:11little bit more about how that works.
- 33:13It is amazing. It is the tools that I use on
- 33:16myself, that I've always used on myself that have changed my life
- 33:19and my clients lives. So I hope that you loved this
- 33:22episode and I'll see you next week.
- 33:24Bye.