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Joy and Panic Attacks Hit the Same Weekend—Here's What Happened | Episode 504 · Voices for Voices®

• 0:01
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Hi everyone, it's Justin here, Voices for Voices.
• 0:04
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• 0:27
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We would greatly appreciate that.
• 0:29
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We're well on our way to helping the uh reaching and helping at least three billion people over the course of my lifetime and beyond.
• 0:40
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And it's because of you.
• 0:41
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So we just want to say thank you for all that you do and have done uh for Voices for Voices and for helping people across the world.
• 0:52
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh some you may know and some you might not.
• 0:55
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh that's how it is for us too.
• 0:58
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Some uh we we get direct feedback and and we know we're helping others as well.
• 1:04
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh so thank you for that.
• 1:06
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We're gonna hop into uh this episode.
• 1:10
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh our most recent uh show that we did uh was uh for those that watched it, and if you haven't, I recommend uh watching and listening to the previous episode.
• 1:25
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh we were able to join a party for one of our past guests, Don Mattis Jr., who to the day uh usually you can't get it everything to line up directly, but to the day of him deciding that he wanted to be sober and drug free, so we were at his uh at his celebration helping him celebrate and wanting to continue to get his message of hope and healing and that you can live a productive life and still have fun and you don't need substances or alcohol to do so.
• 2:21
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Again, that's his story, that's my story.
• 2:25
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I'm nine years, so I got a long time to go uh to to uh get the 40 years.
• 2:33
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I'm closer to 40 with my age of being 44 than I am uh for my sobriety and drug free uh being nine years coming up in November.
• 2:47
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh so it was a great, great time.
• 2:50
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: The the weather was just absolutely gorgeous.
• 2:54
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh blue sky.
• 2:57
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Um it was not just blue sky, but temperature-wise, it was pretty hot.
• 3:06
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh, but it was good.
• 3:08
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I I had a good time, was able to bring my mom.
• 3:13
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: She was able to be a part of it as well.
• 3:16
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And uh Don's really good friend, Monica.
• 3:21
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh it was good to see both of them, uh Don and Monica.
• 3:27
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh they've uh they've been pretty instrumental in what we're doing and in the fact that we're not giving up, that there's gonna be obstacles and hurdles all along the way, and to see a person go 40 years without something.
• 3:59
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I mean, it's it's hard to go 40 years with or without one thing or another.
• 4:05
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh so for 40 years, that's just it's just remarkable.
• 4:10
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And again, please check out that episode, it's the one right before this one.
• 4:16
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh it was just again, it was a great time.
• 4:21
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Um, and just to be around positivity, that you don't have to be doped up or or anything.
• 4:31
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Um so that was that was a lot of fun.
• 4:36
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Um it was a packed day.
• 4:39
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh our our child had had her uh had her recital.
• 4:46
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Um, so that was fun.
• 4:48
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So it was it was just a busy day, uh busy day driving, busy day uh getting to where I needed to get, and uh I was able to do that.
• 5:02
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So that made me at the end of the day feel good that I was able to do to do both uh in the in the same day and in the vicinity of where the celebration and party uh at the park was versus where the the recital was.
• 5:23
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It was very manageable to get there well in advance of the actual recital uh commencing.
• 5:34
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So it's it's we've we've kind of gone here with our weather from uh winter one week and spring another uh to I think we're you know we're middle to towards the end of uh uh May.
• 6:01
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And I think that the weather, I mean, yeah, we'll we'll get rain and thunderstorms and that.
• 6:09
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I mean, just just the nature of weather.
• 6:14
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh so that's that's always a good good thing, especially for me, my mental health, uh getting that vitamin D is is is helpful, uh not just for me, but for you, for any any anybody.
• 6:31
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Um I obviously unless you know if you have a condition where you're not able to, I'm not able to be out for too long a period uh at a time.
• 6:46
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh, and that's that's due to you know medications and things like that.
• 6:53
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh so it just wanna make sure everybody's being safe and and as healthy as can can be uh while uh you know the weather turns one way or or the other because just as you know, you know, some medications they drop your sodium levels, and so you have to make sure that you stay hydrated.
• 7:26
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You need to stay hydrated.
• 7:28
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I need to stay hydrated all the time, if I can, right?
• 7:33
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: As long as I'm able to, and so that's a blessing, and uh to have access to clean drinking water and and and that, and if we need you know a uh an electrolyte uh drink beverage um to to help you know get get those electrolytes into your system.
• 7:57
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh so that that's something that uh yeah, I'm sitting here early in the morning, it's already 75 degrees.
• 8:05
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And uh yeah, I'd I'd rather have it this way than with with the the the snow.
• 8:12
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And with the snow, I I I don't mind it.
• 8:16
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I I just don't like driving in it.
• 8:19
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So if I was able to be, I don't know, like teleported so you know from location one to location two and that uh because there's just a greater chance in uh accidents driving and and that um but that's just that's just a personal preference and that uh so all in all mental health-wise uh with the weather turning positive uh being able to to get out and and do things.
• 9:05
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So ten years ago, I would I don't know if I would have been able to go to two events in the same day because I would I just I dunno didn't have my uh psychiatrist and therapists and medication.
• 9:27
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I I just didn't have what I needed to kind of help get through like coping mechanisms and and and and things like that that I've learned over the the years.
• 9:41
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh so for an average person, regular person, it's like, oh, big deal.
• 9:49
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So you want the two things.
• 9:51
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Well, it kind of is because both of them were social-like events.
• 9:58
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh obviously the recital, like when once you get there, you're sitting there, and I've had panic attacks, and and people go, Oh, how could you have a panic attack?
• 10:13
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: All you're doing is sitting there and watching, and it's like I don't know.
• 10:19
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I if I knew the answer to that, I wouldn't have panic attacks.
• 10:23
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so that's what I had to say to that.
• 10:27
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Um, and just to show that like I'm an average, normal person, uh, you know, the the autism part of me with the the lights and sounds and all those things, that's all that was going on in the recital.
• 10:42
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So every every class that uh you know went through their their performance, lights go on, then they get dim, and then there's music, and the music's played loud.
• 10:58
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh and so I've had I had a panic attack again years ago watching my favorite band.
• 11:09
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We left after I think like one song or two songs, and I had if you were to ask me when I was growing up or what if that how I would be, I'd say, well, I'd be fine because I'd seen them in concert and met them, granted, like for a short period of time, you know, getting a picture, pictures with the members of the band, and that uh and and I had to leave uh because the the lights and the sounds, and I wasn't eating very much.
• 11:51
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I was feeling like I was allergic to everything.
• 11:54
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: My mind was racing uh all over the place, anxiety, panic, and that still happens time at you know at different times.
• 12:07
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So I look at it as I'm happy that I was able at the core level to go to two events because there's a lot of people uh you go you go to a recital or a concert, there's just by its nature, there's gonna be a lot of people.
• 12:28
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Um and it's not that I have to go meet all the people and go shake their hands, or I don't have to do that, but it's one of those things where um people are mowing grass, so that you might be might be hearing that as well as obviously, you know, our pet.
• 12:54
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Um so panic attacks, I could have easily had panic attacks uh at the recital, I could have had them at even though the event was outside and the weather was gorgeous, and uh it was for a positive they're they're both for positive reasons.
• 13:20
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh and so even nine years removed from starting to get the help that I needed and I still need it's a big deal uh now that I'm able to reflect on on that on that you know on that day uh with that being yesterday.
• 13:49
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh and so that's why I wanted to do this particular show as soon as I could after yesterday, because there there wasn't and we uh and then we had you know relatives and and that over over to the house afterwards, and uh I uh I I was able to make it through, I guess is the the way to say it.
• 14:18
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And and and so just let me be an example that no matter how long or how less of time you've had starting to heal and healing internally, it's probably gonna take the rest of my life and you know to go through therapy and there's medications or what have you.
• 14:51
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Just something that I'm gonna uh that I made the decision that I was gonna have to potentially work with and deal with the rest of my life.
• 15:03
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And and so right there showed that like I I wanted to live, I didn't want to lose my life.
• 15:12
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh and the same thing happened, you know, now it's I want to be able to go to my child's recital and all all the different events, and I want to be able to go and you know celebrate a person or a group of people, uh especially when we talk about being you know, substance and and drug-free.
• 15:44
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Again, we're just talking about our experiences.
• 15:49
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So Don, uh, you know, as we uh as we film that as we always do with with with Don and say, hey, this is my story, as he says and I say, uh doesn't mean that you have to do exactly like us.
• 16:07
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Not at all.
• 16:09
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh like like Don mentioned, he said you can handle you know having a you know a glass of wine or you know, you you can do that.
• 16:24
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Like we're not trying to tell people how to live.
• 16:28
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We're just given hope where there's not a lot of hope.
• 16:34
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Let me rephrase that.
• 16:37
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: There's not a lot of hope that gets promoted and that people can have a a role model or you know, a person that you can look to and say, well, they did it, so why can't I at least try?
• 16:57
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Whether it's substances, drugs, or whether it's learning a new language, whether it is uh starting your own podcast, whatever that it may be, it's just saying, you know what, like give it a give it a try.
• 17:16
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I mean why not?
• 17:21
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: What's the worst that's gonna happen?
• 17:24
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's not gonna work out?
• 17:26
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Okay.
• 17:27
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Ask me how many times things that I thought were gonna work out worked out.
• 17:35
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I don't have an exact number, but I'll tell you this.
• 17:40
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It feels like there's been many, many, many, many, many many more times where things haven't worked out.
• 17:54
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh you know, a job interview, uh wanting viewership or and listenership to the show at the very beginning, just as we were, you know, starting, you know, episode one, episode two, and I wanted, you know, huge numbers.
• 18:20
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Who doesn't?
• 18:21
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so if I can do it and and persevere, it's huge.
• 18:34
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Perseverance, impatience, I'm not very good at either.
• 18:42
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Especially patience.
• 18:44
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I'm very, very impatient.
• 18:47
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: If I hear an idea and I go, okay, well, I can try that.
• 18:52
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You know, if it seems reasonable and it's not against the law, uh you know, those types of things, I'd be like, okay, maybe I'll I'll do a show and we'll talk about this topic or that topic.
• 19:09
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And that's what we we've done, and that's how we've distinguished ourselves from I'd say over 90% of shows, 90 or 99% of shows out there.
• 19:28
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: As we talk about easy subjects, we talk about tough subjects.
• 19:33
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You know, and Don's sitting there talking about you know heroin addictions and and all those things.
• 19:39
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That's pretty serious.
• 19:41
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That's pretty deep.
• 19:42
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh it's not for children, um, you know, to watch, you know, as as parents, and and that.
• 19:52
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh but you just have to know that, and people that have been following us from episode one to over 500 episodes.
• 20:03
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I mean, let that sink in.
• 20:05
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I mean, I'm trying to let it sink in, and and I'm having a hard time because I've been told no so many times.
• 20:14
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I've had a studio, TV studio that's been taken away.
• 20:18
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I've had so many opportunities, and those have been taken away, and some have worked out, and I could have just stopped after like 150 episodes or a hundred, right?
• 20:36
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: The easiest thing to do, the laziest thing to do, which for someone like me, having major depression, no matter, you know, I get outside or I don't or what have you.
• 20:50
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I mean, I got lazy written all over me.
• 20:56
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Like, I'm so lazy that I'm on the couch all the time, or I'm on the chair, or it's like, but hello, over 500 episodes.
• 21:10
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: This isn't like I said at the very beginning of the organization uh at our first event, and going forward, we're not a fly by night organization, and you might say, Oh, it's easy to do a podcast.
• 21:25
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Okay, well then do one.
• 21:27
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Go ahead.
• 21:29
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Everybody, say everybody, the m majority, I would think, will have the ways and means to do a podcast.
• 21:39
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So if you say, Oh, well, that's all you do, is only do more than that.
• 21:45
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh we're just not gonna share a lot of things that are in motion because guess what?
• 21:54
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: There's people that like to steal things and stealing information, stealing ideas.
• 21:59
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Again, makes it it's lazy for them because if they're already given these ideas and thoughts and contacts, well we've had board members and then they decide to take ideas, and we're a small, small, small, as small can be organization, and we have had board members that take our ideas that take us a lot longer to implement because we have a smaller number of people on our board and volunteers, and they pass board members, uh would you know, work at larger organizations.
• 22:55
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So idea one comes up, it might take us a month to do, while board members says, Oh, that's a good idea.
• 23:06
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I'm gonna bring that up in a meeting, and then they work and they they take that idea, and they can get it done in a matter of days or hours less than what we can do.
• 23:21
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And the next thing I know, I mean, I can't tell you how many guests that we've we've had on, and we have had to just expedite things because people find out that oh, you were able to reach out to this person and this is how you did it, and you're able to get them booked, and you're able to get a show, and it's gonna you're gonna film it in a month.
• 23:47
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Well, once again, if they're able to, if somebody else is able to film it earlier, then they're gonna get looked at as like, wow.
• 23:57
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And that there was one particular guest, and let's put it like this all of our guests are are are equal.
• 24:08
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Some do fancy things, some have a lot of money, some have things, some don't.
• 24:19
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Like we're we're here for everyone.
• 24:22
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And I remember we were gonna be interviewing one of our bigger guests, and I saw, and so I think so we had we had already we'd already filmed it, but we didn't we didn't put it out and we didn't do you know the the proper social media announcements we like we did like we do, and we're behind on that, but we're closing the gap pretty quickly.
• 24:58
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh this week we should be able to get that so we're not you know eight episodes behind on on the social media announcement doesn't mean that the episodes aren't available.
• 25:14
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: They are all the episodes all the way up to this, all episodes are are uh are available first, but to get all the links to all the platforms like Apple Podcasts, Spotify, you know, all uh iHeart.
• 25:32
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It it just takes a minute to to do that.
• 25:38
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And my impatient mind wants to be putting content out, it wants to be sharing, it wants to help, and wants to help, and wants to help.
• 25:48
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So then I I get ahead of myself.
• 25:52
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so then we sit here over 500 episodes.
• 25:58
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh so does guest, so you're getting back to us or so it is guest.
• 26:02
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We'd already filmed it, we were gonna be releasing it on the following Wednesday.
• 26:08
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Well, I saw a social media post from another organization said, Oh, we're gonna we interviewed this person, and we're we're gonna we're gonna release it or drop it on Monday.
• 26:27
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And I'm like, we're gonna drop it on Wednesday.
• 26:30
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But once I saw that, once I saw that organization was gonna put it out before, and I know they they stole the idea from somebody on our board andor past board members.
• 26:54
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And let me tell you, I it takes a lot for me to get upset.
• 27:00
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I was very upset.
• 27:02
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I've put my blood, sweat, tears, uh everything.
• 27:07
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I've put so much on the line uh with this organization, with this show, with what we're what we're gonna be able to put together here.
• 27:25
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That you'll you'll find out when you find out.
• 27:30
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh and so it made me so upset.
• 27:36
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So then I fast tracked it and then I now I dropped it on that Friday instead of waiting until Wednesday, and then did the social media post.
• 27:46
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So, right there's an example.
• 27:48
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I could have again, I could have just waited until Wednesday, but that competitive spirit was actually helping me go, okay, Justin, you can wait.
• 28:04
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Yeah, you can wait.
• 28:10
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Or you can get ahead of the curve, and that's what we did, and so that's why we're when we that's why we drop episodes so they're available before they're out on social media, because I want things to get into the algorithm and continuously, and so when there are topics, events, experiences, I want to make sure that as soon as possible, so almost like before very many people know that we've done a particular show with a particular guest, or we've talked about a particular topic.
• 29:03
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: What else I wanted to share uh uh and we talk about you know tough topics and uh and so I wanna I want to share and give a I want to give a big uh big thank you to the state of Texas.
• 29:38
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And I'll just read it verbatim.
• 29:44
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So this is a social media post from the office of the governor Greg Abbott in the great state of Texas, uh, which as you also know we we were able to interview and present Senator Ted Cruz from the great state of Texas uh with an award uh and and so this this message that they posted, what I'm gonna what I'm gonna quote uh is about one of those tough topics, one of those hard topics.
• 30:27
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So social media post, it probably yeah.
• 30:33
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh still a little I got the privacy case or privacy screen protector, so that's why it looks like that.
• 30:47
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So from the office of the governor of the great state of Texas, Greg Abbott, thanks to Governor Greg Abbott, human trafficking is now an automatic first degree felony in the state of Texas with even more penalties for traffickers of children and disabled people.
• 31:12
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Texas is a law and order state.
• 31:16
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so you might say, oh, well, why do you bring it up?
• 31:19
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Why you got to talk about that?
• 31:20
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Well, because it's happening.
• 31:22
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: People are taken, children are taken, children are abused, the disabled more than any are abused, trafficked, uh, abused, and I say abused a lot of time, because they are.
• 31:35
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Um and so for Texas to stand up and not stand down is huge.
• 31:48
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So thank you, Governor Greg Abbott.
• 31:51
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Now we need all the states in the United States of America to have that same that that that same uh those same penalties.
• 32:11
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Trust me folks, this stuff's happening.
• 32:15
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: If you've been following their show, following our organization, you'll know what I'm talking about.
• 32:25
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I'm not gonna get in specific into specifics.
• 32:28
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh it's all public information, so uh I'm not gonna give any press to people that are uh that are directly involved with with with the things uh like that.
• 32:49
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So bravo.
• 32:52
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Thank you, Governor Greg Abbott.
• 32:54
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh, we'd love to have you on the show.
• 32:56
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh we've reached out, and I know you're you're you're a busy man.
• 33:03
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh but that's what I'm talking about.
• 33:08
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Like we believe everybody should have, you know, kind of that equal opportunity, uh, you know, best person for the job.
• 33:18
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And just because we want the best for everybody doesn't mean that we'll we want we want to let things slide.
• 33:30
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We don't.
• 33:32
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: If you've done the crime, you need to do the time.
• 33:36
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And that right there, folks, I'm gonna read it again because I wanted to get into the algorithm.
• 33:45
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Thanks to Governor Greg Abbott.
• 33:56
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Human trafficking is now an automatic first-degree felony in the state of Texas with even more penalties for traffickers of children and disabled people.
• 34:12
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And if you're a person that's trafficking, you're the one that's doing the things.
• 34:21
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So you can get upset all you want.
• 34:25
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But if you do things that are harming people, especially like the that I just stated that the governor of the state of Texas, Craig Abbott, did, then you should be locked up.
• 34:49
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You should have to do the time.
• 34:51
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And that's just the way it should be.
• 34:58
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So I don't I don't know why there is such laxadaisical approach to this.
• 35:11
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I don't know.
• 35:16
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: For the other for other states, including the state that I live in friends live in.
• 35:26
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Because as we know, you're either if you're not if you're not for something, then you're against it.
• 35:40
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It's there that's how it is.
• 35:43
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So if you're not for Well Governor Greg Abbott from Texas has taken action on, then that means you're against it.
• 36:00
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Full stop.
• 36:03
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: As Tyra says, enough said, and so we are helping people, and we're helping people all across the world, and that's not me being egotistical or that, but we are we are helping people all across the world, and we're gonna continue to do that, and we're gonna continue to call out when people do things that they're not supposed to do, and when states, cities, townships, whatever, countries, when when people are doing what they should be doing, we're gonna talk about it.
• 37:02
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And you can expect that, and that's part of how we've got over 500 episodes of our Voices for Voices TV show and podcast.
• 37:16
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So again, if you're not for it, you're against it.
• 37:21
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And especially when you're talking about, you know, people being abused, think about your own family.
• 37:35
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You cool with that?
• 37:36
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You cool having your family members abused?
• 37:40
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I'd say probably not so why doesn't the the kid down the street that's disabled who's being abused, why shouldn't the p people abusing that child be hauled in and have justice served to them?
• 38:10
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So we started out the show with with uh a lot of positivity, yeah.
• 38:24
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But again, we bring up hard topics, and that just was posted I think it was last night or this morning.
• 38:33
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So I want to share it because I know we're reaching a lot of people in a lot of states and a lot of higher up positions that can maybe do something or can at least bring ideas up to people that can do something.
• 38:55
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So I wanted to make sure I I I talked about that because it's important.
• 39:02
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: There's a lot of things that are important.
• 39:06
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: No child is for sale, no adult, no human being is for sale.
• 39:16
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And nobody should be abused ever.
• 39:22
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And I don't know, I'll close on this.
• 39:33
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Get a lot of heat for for for things.
• 39:40
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So there's uh there's a there's a child in the neighborhood who's over at the house.
• 39:48
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We have our pet Lucy, right?
• 39:52
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And she she was barking.
• 39:56
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: She's a dog.
• 39:58
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: That's what dogs do.
• 39:59
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: They bark, they they whine, they want food, they want the water, yeah, they want to go for a walk.
• 40:07
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I mean, it's like we're learning.
• 40:09
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We're first-time pet owners.
• 40:11
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So this child's over here at our house.
• 40:15
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: At our house.
• 40:17
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Not their house, our house.
• 40:20
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And Lucy was barking up a storm for something, who knows?
• 40:28
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Uh so she was barking, and this child had a nerve to say, well, fake kick her.
• 40:35
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And it was like you didn't you didn't just say that.
• 40:46
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I get it, she's a dog.
• 40:51
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But the abuse can be for anybody or anything.
• 40:59
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Like if you're with if you have a pet and you're not feeding it and providing clean water if you're able to, like, if you can't do that, then you shouldn't have a pet.
• 41:11
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So if you have a pet and you're taking care of it, nobody's gonna come into my house that I own with with my wife.
• 41:23
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Nobody's gonna come in to our house with that nonsense.
• 41:31
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And that child needed to be reprimanded, and it needed something to be said.
• 41:36
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Apparently, it hasn't been said enough to this child.
• 41:41
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so I said it.
• 41:46
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Said the quiet part out loud.
• 41:52
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: They were also playing a game in the garage.
• 42:02
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Throwing towels, standing on sitting on cart.
• 42:08
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And then I was walking out the door at the start of the beautiful day of Don's celebration and our child's recital.
• 42:26
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Just like I always have since we've lived here or lived anyway, right?
• 42:34
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Press the button for the garage door to go up.
• 42:38
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So press the button, snap.
• 42:44
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Automatic garage door is now busted.
• 42:48
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so I had to say something.
• 42:56
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I've been one of the things about my depression, and and that is I have like it takes certain situations and certain things for me to say something.
• 43:14
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Like I I don't want to be confrontational and I get it, but when things get too far, and that was one of the things that got too far, you're gonna fake kick or even think about kicking my child's pet, our family pet.
• 43:37
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Get your ass out of my fucking house.
• 43:43
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I don't care if person six, eight, ten, ninety-nine, a thousand years old, whatever.
• 43:53
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And I know nobody loves to be a thousand.
• 43:57
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I get that.
• 43:58
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Using it for effect.
• 44:01
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so I've started to stand up instead of s sit down.
• 44:12
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so if something like that's happening in your house.
• 44:24
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And it takes a it's taken a lot.
• 44:28
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And there are a lot of family members over there that haven't heard me stand up and and what they say grow a spine or I I don't I don't want to use the terminology.
• 44:48
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But you know, kind of like stand up for like thing.
• 44:52
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Like don't let people come over, take advantage, and and then go home and then because I said, Oh, do you I said, oh, you think that's funny?
• 45:03
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: You know, the garage situation.
• 45:05
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I said, Do you do that at your house?
• 45:07
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Do you do you climb on top of your car in the garage?
• 45:11
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And then do you throw towels on top of the part of the of the garage door that just happened to snap?
• 45:19
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And that child said, Oh no, no.
• 45:23
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So why the fuck are you doing it in my house?
• 45:28
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I didn't say that.
• 45:30
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I don't.
• 45:31
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I don't.
• 45:33
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: It takes a lot for me to even swear anymore.
• 45:36
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I used to swear, it used to be like a very bad habit.
• 45:41
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And I've I apologize for the language.
• 45:46
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But you you I think you can get the the gist of what I'm talking about here.
• 45:53
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And so again, with the for me having the depression and all that, I'm risk averse.
• 46:01
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Where I'm just like, I'm just not gonna say anything.
• 46:05
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Because if I say something, then people are gonna get upset or go, oh my gosh, did you hear Justin?
• 46:13
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: What he said to that child.
• 46:16
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I didn't say anything.
• 46:17
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I'm allowed to police my own house.
• 46:20
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I have a child.
• 46:24
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: They're hearing this.
• 46:25
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: They're gonna think this is okay.
• 46:28
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: And it's not.
• 46:29
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So parents.
• 46:33
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: If you see something, say something.
• 46:41
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So I'll leave it right there.
• 46:51
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Cause my blood's boiling at the current time.
• 46:57
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So thank you for joining us on this episode of the show.
• 47:01
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: We're so grateful uh to have you with us.
• 47:05
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• 47:23
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• 47:26
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: I mean there's so there there's things where I can stop dreaming the posit, you know, different projects go a certain way, and that I can dream on the positive, or I can have the nightmare and as much as I can that I'm able to, and I can't because I believe in God, and so it's it's really his call, what what goes on.
• 48:09
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: But I'm I'm picking dreaming over the nightmares, and you can too.
• 48:18
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: So this has been Justin Alan Hayes, Voices for Voices.
• 48:22
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Thank you so much.
• 48:23
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• 48:30
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Truly remarkable, and the main reason we do it is because of you, our viewers, our listeners here in the United States and across the world.
• 48:40
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Thank you so much for making Voices for Voices a part of your life.
• 48:46
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Thank you, and we'll see you on the next show.
• 48:51
  Voices for Voices, Justin Alan Hayes: Bye bye for now.