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Dirty Rush: Living in the House · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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Speaker 1: Welcome to Dirty Rush, The Truth about Sorority Life with
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Speaker 1: your hosts me Gia, Judice.
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Speaker 2: Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Kessler.
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Speaker 1: And we're back with my sisters for another episode of
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Speaker 1: Dirty Rush. Gabrielle, are any of your sorority sisters abroad
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Speaker 1: with you?
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Speaker 2: Yeah, my best friend Ella's abroad with me.
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Speaker 3: She's my roommate in my apartment, so that's really nice.
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Speaker 3: And then I also have my freshman year roommate who's
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Speaker 3: abroad and with her is also another friend. So I
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Speaker 3: have the Laura Dylon, but because I did my program
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Speaker 3: through Michigan, I couldn't live with them. They didn't program
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Speaker 3: like outside of Michigan, otherwise we would have all lived together.
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Speaker 3: And then I have all my first semester friends here,
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Speaker 3: so there's three of them that I'm really close with,
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Speaker 3: but we all ended up in different sororities.
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Speaker 2: It's so nice.
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Speaker 1: I know, you guys look like you're having the best
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Speaker 1: time ever.
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Speaker 3: It's the best time. I'm getting emotional. I'm leaving soon.
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Speaker 4: I know it went so fast.
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Speaker 3: It always goes by fast. Time flies, like that's what
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Speaker 3: you used to enjoy. Every minute it went by, so
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Speaker 3: faz I can't leave. My sophomore year's ending.
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Speaker 2: I'm gonna be a senior, Melamia, that's second night.
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Speaker 4: That's crazy that you went my so fast. That's like
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Speaker 4: so so crazy.
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Speaker 5: Time flies, And next semester, I'm going abroad Guy's Barcelona's.
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Speaker 4: Don't worry to be so careful. I'm gonna learn my
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Speaker 4: way around. I'm gonna do great.
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Speaker 1: How has sorority life changed since being a freshman and
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Speaker 1: what has been your favorite year of you guys being
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Speaker 1: in a sorority so far?
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Speaker 5: I would say what has changed from this year last
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Speaker 5: year is I definitely found my group of people that like, like,
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Speaker 5: obviously there's like.
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Speaker 4: Two hundred and fifty girls in the sorority.
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Speaker 5: Obviously you might have some drama with some girls or whatever,
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Speaker 5: but or you just might not even know them because
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Speaker 5: it's like a lot of girls. So you definitely, I've
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Speaker 5: just definitely found my friend group that like I hang
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Speaker 5: out with and I know like a lot of girls,
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Speaker 5: but like it's still just a lot of girls in
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Speaker 5: a sorority. And I Gabrielle probably has like four hundred
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Speaker 5: girls in her sorority.
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Speaker 4: How many girls good do you have?
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Speaker 2: How many girls are on your PC?
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Speaker 4: I know everyone in my PC, and.
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Speaker 2: That's the most important part.
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Speaker 1: I mean, you're you're technically supposed to know every single
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Speaker 1: girl's name in your sorority. That was like a really
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Speaker 1: big thing when I rushed. If you like didn't know
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Speaker 1: somebody's name, it was a really big thing, and you
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Speaker 1: would get in trouble and it was very serious.
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Speaker 5: No, that's actually insane because I'm literally so bad with names.
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Speaker 5: Either way, I could meet you ten times, know your face,
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Speaker 5: say how do you every time?
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Speaker 4: Still do not know your name? I'm so bad with names.
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Speaker 2: I mean it's hard.
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Speaker 1: I think it's a little unrealistic to know every single
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Speaker 1: person in your sorority. But I mean I didn't, and
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Speaker 1: I would just, you know, pretend like you know, just
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Speaker 1: I would just pretend like I knew everybody so that
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Speaker 1: I would never get in trouble. But yeah, I mean
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Speaker 1: there were some girls who really did know every single
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Speaker 1: person's name, but that definitely was a big thing.
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Speaker 3: I know every person's name in my PC. Yeah, I
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Speaker 3: have like sixty girls on my PC. You know everyone's
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Speaker 3: name your PC, Well, it's sixty girls.
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Speaker 2: And also my experience is different from yours. I'm sixty
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Speaker 2: two you're sixty two.
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Speaker 3: I lived in my sorority house, so like I lived
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Speaker 3: with these girls for an entire year.
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Speaker 4: Oh well, then obviously you know them.
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Speaker 3: No, for me, it was easier, like that's why my
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Speaker 3: PC I know well, but like obviously other grades not
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Speaker 3: as well.
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Speaker 5: Yeah, this year has been my favorite year, my surety,
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Speaker 5: because like I said, I found my group of girls,
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Speaker 5: and I just feel like I'm I'm.
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Speaker 4: Good, I'm in it, I know what I'm doing, like
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Speaker 4: I'm good.
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Speaker 2: Yeah.
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Speaker 3: For me, my favorite year was definitely sophomore year living
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Speaker 3: in the house.
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Speaker 2: Like Malania said, like, really you enjoyed living in this
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Speaker 2: I loved it. I did well. She racked up those
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Speaker 2: points to get a single, so oh yeah I did.
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Speaker 3: Yeah well, Like Gia said, there was this housing system
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Speaker 3: for points, because there was a dormer, which is basically
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Speaker 3: like ten bunk beds in one room and you sleep
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Speaker 3: in there and have your stuff in either a triple
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Speaker 3: or a quad with either obviously two or three roommates,
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Speaker 3: and then there's doubles and singles.
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Speaker 2: So I knew immediately that I.
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Speaker 3: Wanted a single, just because you know, living with sixty
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Speaker 3: yearls probably can be a lot.
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Speaker 2: So I just wanted my alone time when I was
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Speaker 2: in my room.
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Speaker 3: So first semester, I would say, is just like adjusting
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Speaker 3: to the sorority, finding your friends. That's why sophomore year
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Speaker 3: I loved because living in the house, like all my
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Speaker 3: best friends were on my floor and we got so close,
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Speaker 3: and like, I guess, like now it's different because junior year,
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Speaker 3: I lived with my first semester friends, and I guess
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Speaker 3: just like being able to pop in.
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Speaker 2: And out of their rooms whenever you want is like
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Speaker 2: so fun.
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Speaker 1: I would say my favorite was my freshman year because
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Speaker 1: it was just exciting running home, meeting people, going to mixers,
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Speaker 1: the whole first experience of everything. And then we got
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Speaker 1: sent home for COVID, So I would say I enjoyed
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Speaker 1: my freshman year the most.
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Speaker 5: Well, Gabriel, did you guys have rules, Like like what
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Speaker 5: if you guys like woke each other up?
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Speaker 2: Yeah?
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Speaker 3: I mean there was like obviously quiet hours, we got
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Speaker 3: loud at some times for the dorm or at least
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Speaker 3: like girls to sleep in there, they like, you can't
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Speaker 3: talk in there, you can't put the lights on. But
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Speaker 3: I was in my single so like I could kind
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Speaker 3: of talk whenever I wanted. Rules like obviously you're not
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Speaker 3: supposed to drink in the house or anything. No boys upstairs,
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Speaker 3: but like.
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Speaker 5: Stuff happens, so like did you guys like like did
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Speaker 5: you guys like ever like get into like really bad
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Speaker 5: fights in the group?
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Speaker 4: Chad to who did this? Oh my god?
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Speaker 3: Honestly, no, we were lucky because we had a cleaningly
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Speaker 3: come every day except for Saturdays. For the bathrooms though, yeah,
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Speaker 3: like sorority houses typically do have a cleaning service, like
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Speaker 3: also after Saturdays when we had game days, like, the
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Speaker 3: bathroom was discusting. That was the only day that like,
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Speaker 3: I did not want to be in that bathroom.
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Speaker 2: It was disgusting.
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Speaker 4: That's nice.
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Speaker 1: Do you guys feel like you found your people through
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Speaker 1: rushing a sorority?
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm really close to my friends. I'm living with
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Speaker 3: all my sorority friends senior year in the house.
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Speaker 2: Super fun.
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Speaker 1: Malania, have you done anything crazy in the sorority house?
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Speaker 1: I know you don't have a house, but let's say
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Speaker 1: a party or a formal and what is your craziest
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Speaker 1: sorority story.
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Speaker 4: Oh, I'll tell you my craziest storty story. I have
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Speaker 4: a good one.
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Speaker 5: So I was talking to this guy last semester of
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Speaker 5: my freshman year of college, and we went to each
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Speaker 5: other's formals.
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Speaker 4: I went to his, he went to mine. And when
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Speaker 4: it's time for my.
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Speaker 5: Formal, and like the awards were going around to like
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Speaker 5: most sister likely to doade, the most likely sistered it up.
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Speaker 5: It was like the award was most likely to ghost
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Speaker 5: your day after formal, and it was awarded to.
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Speaker 4: Me, and he looked at me.
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Speaker 5: It was like, and then I just walked up, got
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Speaker 5: my awards, smiled with it, and then walked back to him.
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Speaker 4: And I was like, that's not gonna happen.
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Speaker 2: That's so funny. That is funny that what happened to you.
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Speaker 6: That's so embarrassing.
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Speaker 5: Everybody was like deep, I'm not saying his name, but
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Speaker 5: everyone was like, poor bleep, poor bleep.
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Speaker 4: I was like, don't feel bad for him, who cares?
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Speaker 6: Oh my god, that's so funny.
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Speaker 1: Have you guys held or ever wanted to hold a
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Speaker 1: position on exac No?
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Speaker 4: Maybe one.
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Speaker 2: No, not exact, that's too intense for me.
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Speaker 3: But like I was a part of like the Philanthropy Committee,
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Speaker 3: and I also was on different things for like the
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Speaker 3: Pantalantic community. I was a junior delegate. There's like two
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Speaker 3: from each PC. And then I was also something called
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Speaker 3: ppe s VEE.
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Speaker 2: It's like a sexual assault educator.
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Speaker 4: Well, you'd actually be really good at any spot.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, but she has, like she deals with so much
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Speaker 1: with school. It really is a lot to take on
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Speaker 1: and a big responsibility. But that's sweet that you were
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Speaker 1: involved in those committees.
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Speaker 2: No, yeah, I was still like involved.
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Speaker 3: I guess like I was, I guess a part of
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Speaker 3: two things outside of my sorty but like that are
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Speaker 3: a part of Greek life. And then in my sorority,
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Speaker 3: it was just part of the philanthropy committee. Is there
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Speaker 3: a specific event our tradition? Your sorority does that? Everyone
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Speaker 3: looks forward to winter Fest?
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Speaker 4: What is Winterfest?
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Speaker 2: It's a philanthropy event.
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Speaker 3: But besides that, like every sorority plays hockey against each other,
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Speaker 3: but everybody wears these sweat sets, so all six.
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Speaker 2: Is so cute. Yeah, so there's sixteen sororities.
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Speaker 3: I don't know how many frats there are, but all
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Speaker 3: the sororities wear a sweat set and it's probably the
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Speaker 3: only event where every single frat and every single sorority
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Speaker 3: is at.
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Speaker 2: That's super fun. What about you, Malania?
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Speaker 5: My favorite event is probably either semi or formal. The
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Speaker 5: other day I went to an event on campus. It
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Speaker 5: was like our mandatory sister heard event and it was
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Speaker 5: on the river walk.
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Speaker 4: There was a bowl.
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Speaker 5: I rode the bowl in my boot my foot's broken,
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Speaker 5: and I got a snow cone.
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Speaker 4: There was Colin candy.
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Speaker 5: There was a dunk machine and they're playing the sack
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Speaker 5: Potatoes where you jump it.
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Speaker 3: Actually here, that's fun. We don't have formals. Why only
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Speaker 3: the frats have formals? We had one, like set we don't.
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Speaker 3: We had one formal. It was like on a boat
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Speaker 3: that sucks. You should have a formal. They're pretty fun.
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Speaker 2: We had one.
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Speaker 1: But okay, is there anything you would do differently if
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Speaker 1: you were to start over?
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Speaker 4: No, never regret anything good.
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Speaker 1: Do you think being in a sorority will have an
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Speaker 1: impact on what you do after college? Have you made
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Speaker 1: any connections through it that feel meaningful beyond school?
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Speaker 3: Sororities are a good network to have, like, at least
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Speaker 3: for my sorority.
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Speaker 2: Everybody is so willing to help, Like if you want to.
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Speaker 3: Meet them for a coffee chat to talk about what
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Speaker 3: they're pursuing, or like a past internship they had. I know,
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Speaker 3: I did that with a current senior and my sorority.
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Speaker 3: She did this like externship abroad, and she met with me,
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Speaker 3: told me all about it. I didn't end up finding
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Speaker 3: what I'm doing postgrad through my sorority. I found that
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Speaker 3: through like a finance organization. But I would say post grad,
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Speaker 3: if you ever need help with anything, they're a good
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Speaker 3: network to have because they'll be all over the place
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Speaker 3: in all different industries as well.
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Speaker 5: Yes.
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Speaker 4: No, yeah, my stories are great help too.
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Speaker 5: We have like obviously group me like every other sutthority,
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Speaker 5: and everyone's always texting in it.
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Speaker 4: Guy, should I take this teacher? Guys?
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Speaker 5: Should I take that teacher? What class should I take
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Speaker 5: for this? I texted, yes, should I work? And I
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Speaker 5: get my dress tailored?
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Speaker 4: I tell them.
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Speaker 5: Where to get there, told them where to get a
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Speaker 5: good Russian manicure, you like put recommendations in there.
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Speaker 4: We just help each other wait out whatever.
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Speaker 5: There's like one group chat that's called dance party, and
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Speaker 5: that like you send like a bunch of stuff, you
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Speaker 5: ask a bunch of questions people ask for them to
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Speaker 5: tutor each other in different things. And the other group
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Speaker 5: chat is the exact announcements that like it's like important stuff.
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Speaker 2: That's good.
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Speaker 1: So will you use any of this beyond college? Are
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Speaker 1: they gonna recommend you to get a Russian man the
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Speaker 1: care of I am?
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Speaker 5: I am going to do this beyond college. I'm going
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Speaker 5: to join your Dirty Rush podcast.
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Speaker 2: Okay, that's not what that met, Malania.
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Speaker 5: What do you think I'm going to do with the
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Speaker 5: sorority beyond college? I want to I want to do
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Speaker 5: what she was doing after college? What is what do
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Speaker 5: you think I'm gonna do with?
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Speaker 2: Do you know what networking is?
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Speaker 1: Yes?
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Speaker 2: Network?
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Speaker 4: I know with everybody, I make friends. I make friends
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Speaker 4: and then I go on the boats on the weekends.
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Speaker 1: That's networking, all right, So Mlania social networking.
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Speaker 4: I social network and I network.
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Speaker 5: I network they I do post for things on network
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Speaker 5: networker way better than you.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, so Malania is probably gonna follow in my footsteps
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Speaker 1: after college. I don't think she's getting much networking skills
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Speaker 1: through her sorority at the moment.
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Speaker 4: Just asked me what network? If I knew what networking was,
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Speaker 4: that was insulting.
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Speaker 2: Because you only used it in a context of like social.
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Speaker 1: Recommending to get Russian manicures.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, you were, That's what you were saying like, for me,
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Speaker 3: I have coffee chats with so many different people to
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Speaker 3: talk about like investment, banking, accounting.
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Speaker 4: I'm not having coffee chats about economics.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll get.
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Speaker 1: I was having coffee chats about Morgan Stanley, and you're
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Speaker 1: having coffee chats about Russian manicures.
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Speaker 4: This is the only Stanley I know.
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Speaker 6: Oh my god, oh god.
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Speaker 1: Okay, what do you guys think Dad would think of
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Speaker 1: our college experiences if he saw everything?
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Speaker 5: He does see a lot FaceTime him, like every single day,
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Speaker 5: tony times day.
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Speaker 4: And he goes, oh god, would you Oh what are
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Speaker 4: we gonna do? What are we gonna do? My? Oh
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Speaker 4: my god, Mona, your life is so hard. Looking you
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Speaker 4: in the sun on the beach. Yeah, that's pretty much him.
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Speaker 1: I think I think you share it too much, Lania, Yeah,
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Speaker 1: I think you share too much.
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Speaker 4: How is that sharing too much?
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Speaker 1: Oh?
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Speaker 5: Share too much to my parents. I do not share
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Speaker 5: too much. For there's my parents is the reason why
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Speaker 5: I'm here. I'm allowed to tell my parents everything. Everyone
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Speaker 5: agrees with that.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, what about you? I think he would be proud
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Speaker 2: of me and very happy.
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Speaker 3: I work hard and play hard, living our best life.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, I'm productive during the week.
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Speaker 3: I get my work done, and then on the weekends, like, wow,
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Speaker 3: it's a good back me too.
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Speaker 4: That's our schedule. That's our schedule.
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Speaker 2: What day of the week do you out?
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Speaker 5: Thursday, Friday, Saturday? Sometimes they beat Tuesdays. I'm kidding. I
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Speaker 5: don't go out that much at all.
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Speaker 3: I do like Thursday, Friday, Saturday. But if it's sort
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Speaker 3: of the fall, Thursday and Saturdays because of game day, No,
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Speaker 3: sometimes we'll go out on Tuesdays.
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Speaker 1: But like that's like then, as long as you guys
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Speaker 1: do well in school, you enjoy going out. That's all
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Speaker 1: I think our parents can ask for exactly, ya know,
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Speaker 1: they would be super pard of us. All right, guys, well,
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Speaker 1: this was such a fun episode. Thank you so much
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Speaker 1: for coming on to Dirty Rush. I love you both,
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Speaker 1: and I'm so happy you are living an amazing college
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Speaker 1: experience and love your sorority life.
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Speaker 4: We love you, Morgie, I'm.
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Speaker 2: So proud of the both of you. Love you. Thanks
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Speaker 2: for having us.
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Speaker 4: We are so proud of you. Thank you for having
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Speaker 4: us on here, and come visit Tampa soon. I love you.
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Speaker 2: I will if we have a chill weekend.
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Speaker 5: Chill weekend, Yeah, there's never chow with me. We're having
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Speaker 5: a chill weekend. I promise Beech laying out dinner, I
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Speaker 5: go to.
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Speaker 1: Sleep perfect and I'll see you soon abroad, Gabriella.
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Speaker 2: I'm so excited.
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Speaker 2: Love you guys.
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Speaker 6: Bye,