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What If Success Changes My Relationships? · Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio

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  Speaker 1: Hi and see me with intuitive coaching with Amy Radio,
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  Speaker 1: and this is your sacred space for spirituality, intuition, manifestation
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  Speaker 1: and metaphysical wisdom. All right, So the question what if
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  Speaker 1: success changes my relationships? Well, if you've been listening to
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  Speaker 1: my show for a long time, you know what I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna say. Get new friends, build new relationships. Nothing should
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  Speaker 1: keep you from fulfilling the desire of your heart. And
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  Speaker 1: if it's a relationship you feel like you don't want
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  Speaker 1: to let go of, then start praying about it. That
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  Speaker 1: is the best thing that you could do, is just
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  Speaker 1: start praying about it. I had a relationship like that
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  Speaker 1: in my life, and it was one that I just
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  Speaker 1: didn't feel I could truly let go of, and so
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  Speaker 1: took care of it for me. Spirit took care of
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  Speaker 1: it for me. And what I found is as I
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  Speaker 1: started to let go of relationships, I didn't even have
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  Speaker 1: to go and seek new relationships. They came to me.
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  Speaker 1: Relationships that support me being the best version of myself.
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  Speaker 1: Relationships that support my success or just new to relationships
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  Speaker 1: that don't get in the way are just as good.
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  Speaker 1: It's way better than being around someone that you feel
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  Speaker 1: would feel uncomfortable about you being successful. There are billions
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  Speaker 1: of people on this planet, billions of people on this planet.
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  Speaker 1: Relationships are about heart and being available and open and communication,
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  Speaker 1: and you can have that with a lot of different people.
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  Speaker 1: So don't feel like you have to stick with a
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  Speaker 1: certain group of people or a certain friend or even
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  Speaker 1: a family member if you feel like, truly feel like
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  Speaker 1: their energy their perspective is going to get in the
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  Speaker 1: way of your success. That's my thought there. Now there's
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  Speaker 1: another thought. I don't necessarily hold this one, but I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to offer it where you're so clear and devoted
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  Speaker 1: to what you're up to and so confident in what
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  Speaker 1: you're up to that you don't really care what they think,
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  Speaker 1: and so they can be in your life and not
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  Speaker 1: impact you. I don't often recommend that path because I
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  Speaker 1: tend to attract highly sensitive people and people with very
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  Speaker 1: poorest boundaries, the impasse, the clearsensians, the codependence. I think
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  Speaker 1: the worst thing you can do is be around someone
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  Speaker 1: whose energy is working against the desire of your heart,
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  Speaker 1: especially when you are just coming into that desire and
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  Speaker 1: you're giving your self permission to have it. You don't
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  Speaker 1: need to be around that. You need to be around
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  Speaker 1: people who lift you up, who support you one hundred percent,
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  Speaker 1: who think well of you, or who are just pleasant
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  Speaker 1: people to be around. You can do your thing and
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  Speaker 1: not give it a second thought, and they're not questioning you.
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  Speaker 1: They don't have to necessarily be cheerleading you, but they're
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  Speaker 1: definitely not running interference. So I do think it's your
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  Speaker 1: responsibility to clear out any energies that are keeping you
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  Speaker 1: from what you want. So what if success changes your relationships,
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  Speaker 1: get new relationships. If you're thinking that thought about somebody,
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  Speaker 1: they're probably not for your highest and greatest good. And
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  Speaker 1: I know conventional maybe even psychological wisdom would say talk
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  Speaker 1: to them, have a conversation. But you know, you know,
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  Speaker 1: if you can actually talk to them, and if you
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  Speaker 1: really are thinking that, it's probably true. So you'd have
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  Speaker 1: to try to get them to change. And why are
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  Speaker 1: we trying to get anybody to change? No, that's such
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  Speaker 1: a waste of energy, and it's pretty codependent. We're trying
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  Speaker 1: to control an energy outside of us so that we
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  Speaker 1: can feel a sense of peace or we can feel
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  Speaker 1: good about ourselves. And so then let's go there. What
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  Speaker 1: part of you is uncomfortable with your success or the
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  Speaker 1: thought of being successful and spend time looking at that,
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  Speaker 1: because then that circles back to the person, to the
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  Speaker 1: school of thought that you know, I'm so confident in
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  Speaker 1: what I'm up to and I'm so devoted to what
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  Speaker 1: I'm up to that I don't think about what other
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  Speaker 1: people might be thinking. But that's a hard place to hold.
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  Speaker 1: I will be really on that's hard, especially if you're
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  Speaker 1: a loving person. You know you want even if you're
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  Speaker 1: not codependent, or maybe you're walking the line of codependency,
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  Speaker 1: you still want to be around people who support you,
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  Speaker 1: and so don't try to get them to change. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: what keeps coming forward. And I'm clear that this is
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  Speaker 1: the message, Go get new friends, go build new relationships.
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  Speaker 1: But I know there's somebody listening to this show saying, Amy,
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  Speaker 1: I kind of like go and I've been there too.
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  Speaker 1: But one thing I did do was I acknowledged it.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, this is a person who is who
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  Speaker 1: is in my life, and yeah, their energy runs interference
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  Speaker 1: with me being fully self expressed. And I am clear
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  Speaker 1: about that, and so I have to be very mindful
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  Speaker 1: of what I share with them. I have to engage
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  Speaker 1: them to the degree to which does not influence what
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  Speaker 1: I'm up to and my well being. And that took practice,
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  Speaker 1: and it took a lot of work, and I had
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  Speaker 1: to really pray about it, and then eventually spirit moved
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  Speaker 1: them out of my life for me, and it didn't
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  Speaker 1: feel overwhelming and crazy and oh my god, I can't
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  Speaker 1: live without you. But I think it's because I did
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  Speaker 1: the work to clean up that energy first, and I
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  Speaker 1: stopped trying to ask them to change. In my mind,
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  Speaker 1: that's the key. But now we're moving into dealing with codependency.
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  Speaker 1: And so going back to the question, the intuitive answer
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  Speaker 1: that came forward is just get new friends, new relationships.
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  Speaker 1: Surround yourself with people who lift you up, or people
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  Speaker 1: who are neutral, who don't get in the way, who
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  Speaker 1: don't run interference. It's too much work, my stert guys
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  Speaker 1: are like, it's too much work. You need all your
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  Speaker 1: bandwidth to do the thing that leads to your success.
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  Speaker 1: So I pray that was helpful. Listen. I know spiritual
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  Speaker 1: principles make sense as you've been listening to this show,
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