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- 0:00Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio
- 0:04Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network.
- 0:08Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks.
- 0:16Speaker 3: What's up y'all? Issh girl, a j holiday? What's up
- 0:19Speaker 3: tam Vam?
- 0:20Speaker 4: Hey y'all, it's tam Vam.
- 0:21Speaker 3: I love y'all so much.
- 0:23Speaker 2: Thank y'all for tuning in another week.
- 0:26Speaker 3: What's up girl? How you doing? I am well, feeling good.
- 0:33Speaker 3: What'd you do this weekend? My friend got married. I
- 0:40Speaker 3: love weddings, man, me too.
- 0:43Speaker 2: I was supposed to go to Coco Jones wedding last
- 0:45Speaker 2: weekend and I did not go.
- 0:47Speaker 3: She got married.
- 0:48Speaker 2: Yes, hold on?
- 0:50Speaker 3: What the fuck? Anyway? Hold on we come back to
- 0:52Speaker 3: that in a.
- 0:53Speaker 2: Say, because go ahead.
- 0:55Speaker 1: So Dolly Bishop, who is now a Dolly litterquer okay,
- 0:59Speaker 1: she is the president of Black Effect, got married this
- 1:03Speaker 1: past weekend and it was so beautiful and we ended
- 1:06Speaker 1: up partying.
- 1:09Speaker 3: In the rain basically, but it was a good time.
- 1:14Speaker 1: No for real, It's just like the rain held off
- 1:17Speaker 1: enough for their vows and stuff and then yeah, but
- 1:20Speaker 1: it was a good time. Man talking loud, I'm still
- 1:24Speaker 1: recovering because you know, I just be feeling like people, uh,
- 1:28Speaker 1: they look at me for entertainment, even if it's in
- 1:31Speaker 1: my head. I just feel like I always gott to entertain, bitch,
- 1:36Speaker 1: Because if I'm in the like if I fuck trant
- 1:38Speaker 1: to get on the shroom or something, I'm in the
- 1:39Speaker 1: corner being quiet, people think something wrong and I'm really
- 1:43Speaker 1: just fucking thinking. And but my natural shiit I be
- 1:47Speaker 1: hype man.
- 1:49Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm glad that.
- 1:50Speaker 2: I'm glad a beautiful wedding, and I'm glad it was fun.
- 1:55Speaker 2: Weddings are always a good time.
- 1:57Speaker 3: Yeah. Man, It's just like.
- 2:00Speaker 1: It was so like emotional, you know, because of all
- 2:03Speaker 1: the stuff she went through last year, like you actually
- 2:05Speaker 1: made it through and now you're getting married and ship.
- 2:09Speaker 3: Yeah, your fiance was.
- 2:10Speaker 1: There the entire time, like battling cancer and all that stuff.
- 2:14Speaker 3: It's fucking nuts, man.
- 2:15Speaker 1: Now here you are on the other side looking beautiful
- 2:18Speaker 1: on your big day. She was so excited, yes, bitch,
- 2:24Speaker 1: And I love that that look on that.
- 2:26Speaker 2: When I saw her at jay Z, I was like,
- 2:28Speaker 2: this is.
- 2:29Speaker 3: Your look yestre.
- 2:32Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, And the face was eating all day every time.
- 2:35Speaker 1: I'm like, bitch, you had you practice these looks because
- 2:38Speaker 1: like the face was eating the whole night, every single
- 2:42Speaker 1: fucking picture, like period.
- 2:48Speaker 2: Good time. That was my weekend.
- 2:51Speaker 1: And I made Dosha one more time since I was
- 2:53Speaker 1: up there. Real if not, YouTube's tied. Not you getting
- 3:01Speaker 1: the cat too, so we can both relax.
- 3:05Speaker 3: What you had going on? Boat? Yeah, tell me that
- 3:07Speaker 3: and then tell me the other stuff.
- 3:09Speaker 2: Okay, So this weekend, what did I do?
- 3:12Speaker 3: Oh?
- 3:12Speaker 2: It was Janee's birthday, my best friend, Happy birthday, bestie.
- 3:17Speaker 2: We got her. Man was like, just be at the
- 3:20Speaker 2: house at one forty five. He ain't give me no
- 3:21Speaker 2: details because he know I'm gonna tell it. So, uh,
- 3:25Speaker 2: we met and he had rented a boat and we
- 3:27Speaker 2: went out on the lake. Me heard him and the kids.
- 3:30Speaker 2: It was hot as fuck. If I would have known
- 3:32Speaker 2: I was going out there and that.
- 3:33Speaker 3: Heat, I probably lived in Like I'm sick.
- 3:36Speaker 2: It was so it was so hot. But we had
- 3:39Speaker 2: a good time, went on the boat and drank and
- 3:42Speaker 2: then we went and had food with the kids. So
- 3:44Speaker 2: it was kind of like, that's really all I did
- 3:47Speaker 2: this weekend. It wasn't anything else because the weather was
- 3:50Speaker 2: kind of sucky on and off.
- 3:53Speaker 3: Yeah, but I wasn't.
- 3:55Speaker 2: I was supposed to go to Coco Jones's wedding, which
- 3:58Speaker 2: was last weekend, but my date was on bullshit, so
- 4:05Speaker 2: I ended up not going because it was in Connecticut.
- 4:08Speaker 2: But I saw the pictures in the videos and it
- 4:09Speaker 2: looked like such a good time. I hate I missed it.
- 4:13Speaker 3: Who the hell she got married to? And how come
- 4:15Speaker 3: I know she married? The world?
- 4:18Speaker 5: No?
- 4:18Speaker 2: Yes, the world knew, like the videos of people dancing
- 4:22Speaker 2: in the reception sierra.
- 4:24Speaker 3: But did people know she was engaged? Yeah? Really?
- 4:30Speaker 5: Oh she's a young girl, right, Yeah, she had her
- 4:34Speaker 5: mid twenties, mid twenties, uh, and got married mm hmm
- 4:40Speaker 5: to her boyfriend football player or basketball boy?
- 4:44Speaker 3: He is an athlete.
- 4:45Speaker 2: I don't know what sport. But I was trying to
- 4:47Speaker 2: be open there and I missed it.
- 4:53Speaker 3: Your husband might have been in there.
- 4:56Speaker 2: You know, God's perfect timing. Let's get in the sin.
- 5:00Speaker 2: I think we should do for a Love of Tampa
- 5:02Speaker 2: again this year.
- 5:05Speaker 1: That's right.
- 5:05Speaker 2: We need to like really really like dive in.
- 5:09Speaker 3: Girl by like really happened to the winner? The last
- 5:13Speaker 3: contestant where he at.
- 5:15Speaker 2: He got a girlfriend? Now what you got a girlfriend?
- 5:20Speaker 5: No?
- 5:20Speaker 3: Got a girlfriend?
- 5:23Speaker 1: I was like, cool, graduate, Pick one, bitch, pick one
- 5:30Speaker 1: of these niggas to just be done with it already.
- 5:32Speaker 2: No, I said, I'm not good at picking my picker, broke.
- 5:37Speaker 2: I need to have to pick for me my picker broke.
- 5:41Speaker 1: You been getting one of them them little Dayton coaches
- 5:46Speaker 1: or not not a dating coach, but like a matchmaker.
- 5:49Speaker 3: What's a couple in Charlotte?
- 5:52Speaker 2: What's gonna I'm gonna push out to a matchmaker this week,
- 5:55Speaker 2: and let's say we can get them all go back? Yeah?
- 6:02Speaker 3: Man, Okay, so stupid in that news, y'all.
- 6:08Speaker 1: It's all type of like tragic ass things. I found
- 6:12Speaker 1: a couple of things.
- 6:14Speaker 3: For this week.
- 6:15Speaker 1: So there's a video this is actually posting on Neighborhood Talk,
- 6:24Speaker 1: and it's a guy you know, talking about how male
- 6:30Speaker 1: teachers and administration for high school and middle school need
- 6:35Speaker 1: to be Basically, they need to get coaching on how
- 6:38Speaker 1: to deal with young girls and they're raging hormones.
- 6:42Speaker 3: So I don't know if it's the girls hormones that
- 6:44Speaker 3: need to be dealt with or the men.
- 6:47Speaker 1: So it says a man named flock flock a Trent.
- 6:52Speaker 3: I guess that's his Instagram our is his real name?
- 6:54Speaker 3: I don't know.
- 6:56Speaker 1: It's going viral after offering some disturbing advice to male
- 6:59Speaker 1: educated about being around young female students and the video,
- 7:03Speaker 1: the man says, we have eyes while discussing how teachers
- 7:06Speaker 1: can see when female students are developing. He also points
- 7:10Speaker 1: to educators working in middle and high schools around students
- 7:14Speaker 1: with raging hormones and argues that male teachers need briefings
- 7:19Speaker 1: and seminars teaching them not to indulge with students. But
- 7:23Speaker 1: his reasoning is what has many people disturbed. Instead of
- 7:26Speaker 1: emphasizing that these are children who should never be viewed
- 7:29Speaker 1: as potential sexual partners by the adults entrusted with educating
- 7:33Speaker 1: and protecting them, his warnings largely focus on the consequences
- 7:37Speaker 1: for men. He warns that teachers could lose their jobs,
- 7:40Speaker 1: lose their families, and get arrested. That framing puts a
- 7:44Speaker 1: focus on the wrong place. A young girl going through
- 7:46Speaker 1: puberty is not an invitation. Developing breasts, hips and curves
- 7:51Speaker 1: does not make a child grown promiscuous or available to
- 7:54Speaker 1: an adult. Even if a teenager has a crush on
- 7:58Speaker 1: a teacher, flirts or tests a boundary. Maintaining that boundaries
- 8:02Speaker 1: entirely the adults responsibility. Absolutely it goes on to say
- 8:06Speaker 1: male educators shouldn't need to be taught not to engage
- 8:09Speaker 1: with children because they could get caught.
- 8:12Speaker 3: That should be.
- 8:13Speaker 1: Taught, that they should be taught that students are children
- 8:16Speaker 1: placing their care and they're developing bodies, clothing or homes.
- 8:20Speaker 3: Never changed that.
- 8:23Speaker 1: And somebody commented and said, ain't no underage girl fast
- 8:28Speaker 1: enough to catch the attention of a grown man that
- 8:30Speaker 1: ain't already looking facts.
- 8:34Speaker 3: That's true.
- 8:35Speaker 2: But listen, I agree, like when he was saying, like, oh,
- 8:40Speaker 2: this is why that was cringe, and maybe we need
- 8:42Speaker 2: to hear the whole conversation. But I remember being in
- 8:46Speaker 2: high school, and I remember them grown men in high school,
- 8:49Speaker 2: and I remember like what was going on, and I'm
- 8:51Speaker 2: sure things have not changed. So a part of what
- 8:55Speaker 2: he's saying is true. You know, like these and be
- 9:00Speaker 2: looking at them girls they do, I.
- 9:03Speaker 3: Mean, and the young girls.
- 9:05Speaker 1: The young girls are also sometimes going at the older
- 9:08Speaker 1: men of this facts right, But as the adult party,
- 9:13Speaker 1: it is your responsibility to not engage with underage children.
- 9:19Speaker 1: That's the that's the bottom line. So it's not about
- 9:22Speaker 1: their hormones, right, and their bodies developing, because even like
- 9:26Speaker 1: some little girls like, yeah, they might their body might
- 9:28Speaker 1: be developing, but they look and act like a child
- 9:31Speaker 1: they are, right, So all you're seeing is a body.
- 9:35Speaker 1: You're not even listening to the child behind the body
- 9:39Speaker 1: who's not even developed enough mentally to be engaging in
- 9:43Speaker 1: some shit with a grown ass man. And that's the problem.
- 9:47Speaker 1: You're not talking about the men having self control. You're
- 9:51Speaker 1: talking about the children or them getting them.
- 9:55Speaker 3: Being able to deal.
- 9:57Speaker 1: Yes, you should not even be in the schools if
- 10:00Speaker 1: you don't have no control over wanting to deal with kids.
- 10:02Speaker 1: And like Nigga, he probably should just go ahead and
- 10:04Speaker 1: get locked up already, because I feel like you're done
- 10:06Speaker 1: fucked on some younger girls. I feel like you've done
- 10:10Speaker 1: some shit already, just in case.
- 10:14Speaker 2: I understand the message a little bit, but a little bit, yeah, yeah.
- 10:20Speaker 3: A little bit. I mean, because.
- 10:24Speaker 1: We had a whole episode because I wanted to talk about,
- 10:27Speaker 1: like the the psychology of getting a train ran on you.
- 10:32Speaker 1: I know, girls we were in high school with who
- 10:35Speaker 1: was doing this type of shit mm hmm, engaging in
- 10:39Speaker 1: with teenage boys, boys out of school, all that shit.
- 10:43Speaker 3: So we know it happens, but as the adult in
- 10:45Speaker 3: a school setting or on the streets. It's your responsibility.
- 10:51Speaker 1: She's not fast and none of that shit because she's
- 10:53Speaker 1: still not going to have that same brain at thirty, right,
- 10:56Speaker 1: So she might think she knows what she's doing until
- 10:59Speaker 1: years line you realize you were actually fucking groomed.
- 11:04Speaker 3: For real.
- 11:06Speaker 1: So and a lot of men get foxed up like this,
- 11:08Speaker 1: And it's not just men, it's women. A lot of
- 11:10Speaker 1: women be getting messed up with the kids.
- 11:12Speaker 3: Too, with you.
- 11:14Speaker 2: Yeah, you're seeing female teachers in trouble kids walking on them.
- 11:17Speaker 3: Boys.
- 11:18Speaker 1: Yeah, it's definitely not just the boys. And it's been
- 11:20Speaker 1: taboo for a very long time that men are just no.
- 11:23Speaker 1: Women are highly women are definitely predators. Most of the
- 11:28Speaker 1: most of the girls are kids that end up in
- 11:31Speaker 1: sex trafficking.
- 11:33Speaker 3: They were picked up by.
- 11:34Speaker 1: And there was a woman involved with getting them in
- 11:37Speaker 1: that situation. Also, like the women are the bait. They
- 11:40Speaker 1: they bait the kids, They bait the little girls for sure.
- 11:44Speaker 1: I remember I think it was in Texas. Maybe it
- 11:46Speaker 1: was a fucking social worker suggesting to a teenage girl
- 11:50Speaker 1: to basically get into the lifestyle. A social worker, the
- 11:53Speaker 1: person who was supposed to be protecting her and making
- 11:56Speaker 1: sure she's okay.
- 11:57Speaker 2: Most sick man.
- 12:00Speaker 3: That's the bottom line.
- 12:01Speaker 1: And if you take away laws, religion and just you know,
- 12:04Speaker 1: take away all that shit. If there was no age limit,
- 12:07Speaker 1: the men would be going after children like they used
- 12:09Speaker 1: to be.
- 12:10Speaker 2: Because how about to say, there was a time when
- 12:12Speaker 2: sixty years the legal age to way and marry a child.
- 12:16Speaker 1: So yes, in some other countries it's not any different.
- 12:20Speaker 1: So you have nine year old little girls having to
- 12:22Speaker 1: marry grown ass men. So thank god in America there
- 12:27Speaker 1: are you know, guidelines, there are things put in place.
- 12:31Speaker 1: You're ask going to jail. But if there wasn't, it
- 12:34Speaker 1: would just be you know, free reign on women and
- 12:37Speaker 1: young girls.
- 12:39Speaker 3: Yeah, it's.
- 12:43Speaker 1: Beat the ass, hold on, hold on, Oh sorry, go ahead,
- 12:49Speaker 1: all right.
- 12:49Speaker 2: So here's another disturbing topic for sins this week. This
- 12:54Speaker 2: is the very disturbing week of sins. So this officer
- 12:59Speaker 2: played guilty to sexually abusing eighteen men that were detained.
- 13:04Speaker 2: He would cut off his body cam and record the
- 13:07Speaker 2: sexual acts on his own phone while they were handcuffed.
- 13:11Speaker 2: So these guys would be getting only men too, would
- 13:16Speaker 2: be getting in trouble for something and they'd be handcuffed
- 13:19Speaker 2: and he takes the turned the camera off and I'm
- 13:22Speaker 2: assuming fuck them or fondle them with his own n
- 13:27Speaker 2: then recorded for himself. Oh, they about to put you
- 13:31Speaker 2: under the You're about to get exactly what.
- 13:32Speaker 1: You want, exactly all the dick you can eat, right,
- 13:38Speaker 1: you dick buffet nigga. Yeah, like I don't like to
- 13:46Speaker 1: me like, yes, any type of sexual assault is horrible,
- 13:51Speaker 1: but I think it's even worse. And I mean, I
- 13:55Speaker 1: don't know, maybe so maybe some of these men were
- 13:58Speaker 1: maybe already like homosex. I don't know, right, but if
- 14:02Speaker 1: they were straight heterosexual men and you took their manhood
- 14:06Speaker 1: in that way, I don't know why. I just feel
- 14:07Speaker 1: like all sexual sid is bad, but it just seems
- 14:10Speaker 1: like it's.
- 14:11Speaker 3: Worst man on man. Yeah, that shit is. That's deplorable.
- 14:16Speaker 1: That is That's just I don't know, like what's up
- 14:21Speaker 1: with this world. It's just so much debauchery.
- 14:23Speaker 2: It's like what do you get out of Some people
- 14:26Speaker 2: just want to take it, you know, like they don't
- 14:29Speaker 2: want to give it to them. It's just better for
- 14:32Speaker 2: them when they take somebody's body. That shit is crazy.
- 14:38Speaker 2: And then you as the police, like how you thought
- 14:40Speaker 2: you was just gonna keep getting away.
- 14:41Speaker 1: With that exactly exactly. Yeah, you know black China mama.
- 14:48Speaker 1: I remember she was saying how she she even represented
- 14:50Speaker 1: herself in court. Like she was telling this story on
- 14:52Speaker 1: YouTube about how this police officer had already I think
- 14:57Speaker 1: maybe rape and killed someone else, but she ran to
- 15:00Speaker 1: the same person or she ran into them before the
- 15:03Speaker 1: next situation where he actually harmed somebody, and she was
- 15:08Speaker 1: like talking about how she got out of it, how
- 15:09Speaker 1: she you know, represented herself in court against him. It
- 15:15Speaker 1: was something I can't remember the full story, but actually
- 15:17Speaker 1: went and looked it up. She wasn't lion, so somebody
- 15:21Speaker 1: like essentially did this same thing to her, like tried
- 15:25Speaker 1: to handcuff and sexually assault her.
- 15:27Speaker 2: That's wow, that's so sad.
- 15:31Speaker 1: Mm hmm people crazy man. So In other stupid ass
- 15:38Speaker 1: internet news, there's a viral TikTok that has sparked confusion
- 15:44Speaker 1: after claim circulated suggesting women can scoop out their period
- 15:49Speaker 1: to avoid bleeding throughout the month. Obg Yans are now
- 15:54Speaker 1: stepping in to shut the idea all the way down.
- 15:57Speaker 1: Medical experts say menstruation doesn't work like that. A period
- 16:01Speaker 1: isn't stored blood that can be removed all at once.
- 16:05Speaker 1: It's the uterus shedding, it's lining over several days. If
- 16:07Speaker 1: you're a woman and don't know that, I just why
- 16:10Speaker 1: are you better not be?
- 16:11Speaker 3: You got to be?
- 16:11Speaker 2: I mean, all right, so it's on teaktok, and I
- 16:14Speaker 2: just feel like it's very young girls who's stupid and
- 16:17Speaker 2: don't really know about their body yet and they're still
- 16:19Speaker 2: understanding their body because it ain't no way, no grown
- 16:22Speaker 2: ass woman is sitting in the bedroom trying to.
- 16:23Speaker 3: Scoop out no period.
- 16:25Speaker 2: First of all, it says, I just feel like survival
- 16:29Speaker 2: of the fit is like, you know, so we gotta
- 16:31Speaker 2: start letting some people do natural selection.
- 16:34Speaker 3: They gonna take theyself out. Fuck them right?
- 16:38Speaker 1: You at home doing a random ass self inflicted DNC. Well, so,
- 16:43Speaker 1: it says attempting to manually remove blood or tissue can
- 16:47Speaker 1: lead to infection, injuries, serious complications, especially when people try
- 16:50Speaker 1: to experiment at home without medical supervision. Absolutely says doctors
- 16:54Speaker 1: are stressing that there is no safe or medically approved
- 16:56Speaker 1: procedure that allows someone to scoop out in quotation a period,
- 17:02Speaker 1: and misinformation like this can be dangerous when it spreads
- 17:06Speaker 1: without contexts. The take the takeaway If a trend sounds
- 17:10Speaker 1: too good to be true. Ain't no, I don't even
- 17:12Speaker 1: read the rest of that. Ain't not too good to
- 17:13Speaker 1: be true?
- 17:13Speaker 3: Because right.
- 17:16Speaker 2: In the bath, sitting at the tug, trying to scoop
- 17:18Speaker 2: your period out. God damn, take of Jesus, go take
- 17:22Speaker 2: this one back. Don't take them back, like what, don't
- 17:30Speaker 2: do that for listening and you was thinking about doing that.
- 17:33Speaker 2: Don't do that. I don't even like birth control that
- 17:36Speaker 2: at your period. They'll come on, I don't mean nothing.
- 17:39Speaker 2: Your body is supposed to do it. Let it happen.
- 17:43Speaker 2: Now that I rebleeding ship, Now that's where I drawed
- 17:46Speaker 2: a line. I ain't that. I ain't that natural.
- 17:49Speaker 3: I mean I kind of want I kind of want, uh.
- 17:54Speaker 2: You want a free bleed all over there?
- 17:56Speaker 5: No?
- 17:56Speaker 1: How no, but I do want free tampons and free
- 17:59Speaker 1: uh feminine us. Oh no, why do we have to
- 18:02Speaker 1: pay this type of money every month? You know forsccon
- 18:05Speaker 1: We can't help you. Obviously want us to free bleed,
- 18:08Speaker 1: because I think if women just started free bleeding, all
- 18:10Speaker 1: this shit would be free, free bleed for the free right.
- 18:15Speaker 2: But I ain't trying to be part of the movement, y'all.
- 18:18Speaker 2: I'll make Instagram posts.
- 18:22Speaker 3: On the board of it's some bitches who have actually
- 18:27Speaker 3: done that protest for sure.
- 18:29Speaker 2: And they freak free blood all over the place.
- 18:32Speaker 1: Yes, just walk around with a big red spot in
- 18:34Speaker 1: the back of your pants.
- 18:38Speaker 2: Now, what I could do is like paint something on
- 18:40Speaker 2: my pants and like, yes, we're free bleeding, and really
- 18:43Speaker 2: have a pan on and just have it looking like
- 18:46Speaker 2: I'm participating. But I can't walk around like that. That
- 18:48Speaker 2: is miserable.
- 18:49Speaker 3: Gonna be pink, pink blood, that's what I do.
- 18:55Speaker 1: Look yellow blood. That's like like sick do That's what
- 19:03Speaker 1: the lettuce girl I threw up for the first time
- 19:06Speaker 1: in a huh, you ain't let us again, That's what
- 19:09Speaker 1: I was just about to say. So when I was
- 19:13Speaker 1: heading back home the other day, I stopped at this
- 19:17Speaker 1: vegan restaurant in North Carolina and I've been meaning to
- 19:21Speaker 1: try and I walked in there. First of all was Mexicans.
- 19:23Speaker 1: I'm like, I was expecting some niggas in there. It's
- 19:26Speaker 1: called Mike's Vegan Grill. Some Mexicans in there, Like not,
- 19:31Speaker 1: excuse me, they weren't Mexican.
- 19:32Speaker 3: They were Hispanic. I'm not sure what ethnicity they were, but.
- 19:36Speaker 1: Girl, yeah, I got a veggie burger from there, and
- 19:38Speaker 1: I ate it up. It was so good, and then
- 19:40Speaker 1: all of a sudden.
- 19:41Speaker 3: I had to throw up.
- 19:43Speaker 2: Damn.
- 19:44Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 19:44Speaker 1: So I'm like, I don't know, I haven't had any
- 19:46Speaker 1: other symptoms of anything else, because you know, they said that, however,
- 19:50Speaker 1: you pronounced that that parasite, that illness that lettuce is causing.
- 19:56Speaker 3: I didn't.
- 19:56Speaker 1: I didn't get that, but it was something My stomach
- 19:59Speaker 1: was like, nah, bitch, I'm dripping with one hand, throwing.
- 20:02Speaker 3: Up in the bag. Damn mm hmm. That's thrown up
- 20:06Speaker 3: in years.
- 20:07Speaker 2: I mislett us though, I'm ready to just let us,
- 20:10Speaker 2: let us pray over. That stopped, never stopped, you kept
- 20:14Speaker 2: eating it.
- 20:15Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 20:15Speaker 1: I got lettuce in my refrigerator right now. And it
- 20:17Speaker 1: wasn't just a lettuce, you know, you know, it was
- 20:19Speaker 1: different fruits also.
- 20:21Speaker 2: And yeah, but like everything I've ate, all the vegetables
- 20:25Speaker 2: I've eaten, seeds has been like cooked.
- 20:28Speaker 3: Yeah, all the whole foods was fucked up, basically.
- 20:31Speaker 1: And see that's that now, need to try to capture everybody,
- 20:33Speaker 1: people who don't eat meat. Now, y'all fucking with the
- 20:35Speaker 1: whole foods.
- 20:38Speaker 2: I just saw something real quick before we get into
- 20:41Speaker 2: the episode Eat bowlavirus is ramping back up around the
- 20:47Speaker 2: world and people.
- 20:48Speaker 1: Every couple of years, they say that every couple of years. Remember,
- 20:52Speaker 1: there was like an African guy here in America who
- 20:56Speaker 1: had gotten a bowler, and I guess he didn't die.
- 20:59Speaker 1: He was kind of zombieish for those images that they
- 21:02Speaker 1: had in him.
- 21:04Speaker 2: Well, that one thing that was going around right after COVID,
- 21:08Speaker 2: and I was like, I rather have COVID than that.
- 21:10Speaker 3: What the monkey? The monkey, that ship, that's the scary box.
- 21:14Speaker 1: Is the reason why I unfollowed the Shade Room and
- 21:17Speaker 1: ball Alert because why the fuck is this on my
- 21:20Speaker 1: timeline every time I open the app. I unfollowed them
- 21:23Speaker 1: because they was just posting it too much. I don't
- 21:26Speaker 1: want that ship in my psyche. Get that narrative.
- 21:29Speaker 3: Ship right there. God damn, I don't want to. You
- 21:34Speaker 3: can't hide it. I don't want that's scary that ship.
- 21:42Speaker 3: In the name of Jesus, what were talking about? This biohazard?
- 21:47Speaker 1: We're talking about the perfect segue right.
- 21:53Speaker 3: This week's episode is called bio Hazard.
- 21:56Speaker 1: We are going through some of the lydias and not
- 21:59Speaker 1: so lit uh uh dating website bios out there.
- 22:05Speaker 2: Yeah, let's talk about it. So I got get this year.
- 22:10Speaker 2: I really like, if I don't have matching pajamas this year,
- 22:12Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm just doing ruined. I'm gonna turn into
- 22:16Speaker 2: the bitch who ruined Christmas. And I'm just gonna be
- 22:18Speaker 2: like mean to motherfuckers around Christmas this year. I ain't
- 22:21Speaker 2: gonna hold you.
- 22:22Speaker 3: This is the year that shit gonna get different.
- 22:25Speaker 2: I'm you just.
- 22:27Speaker 1: Saying you ain't doing no more nigga knocking at Valentine's
- 22:29Speaker 1: Now it's like you knocking Christmas trees and and gets
- 22:32Speaker 1: over trees.
- 22:33Speaker 2: Over but like snowman, fuck her, snow man, little nigga knock.
- 22:37Speaker 1: A messager and random women and be like, you know
- 22:39Speaker 1: your baby daddy got a baby on the wing.
- 22:42Speaker 3: On Christmas Day.
- 22:43Speaker 2: Merry Christmas, bitch, you got a merry Christmas, bitch, selp Mama.
- 22:50Speaker 3: Your relationship.
- 22:52Speaker 2: All right, we're gonna get into it right after this break,
- 23:00Speaker 2: So let me talk about I know, yeah, because I
- 23:04Speaker 2: felt like you with this topic today, we're all in
- 23:07Speaker 2: my business. I hate that for me.
- 23:09Speaker 3: Let I want to talk about modern day dating. Okay.
- 23:14Speaker 1: I consider Instagram a dating app because it's like a
- 23:18Speaker 1: hoo dex you got access to hell of people the dms, yes,
- 23:23Speaker 1: but the actual dating apps. I'm not like on the
- 23:27Speaker 1: dating apps for real. I got on plenty of Fish
- 23:30Speaker 1: when I first moved to Saint Louis and twenty twelve,
- 23:33Speaker 1: I got on there one day, met my friend who
- 23:36Speaker 1: stole my friend to this day, and.
- 23:39Speaker 3: Got the fuck uba for there just one guy, one guy.
- 23:42Speaker 3: That shit is like a feeding frenzy.
- 23:44Speaker 2: It's just like plenty of Fish is like, first of all,
- 23:47Speaker 2: that's one of the older ones. Yeah, yeah, yeah, And
- 23:49Speaker 2: it was just like a hookup app.
- 23:51Speaker 3: Piece was the fish what of course not?
- 23:58Speaker 1: No, he was my like my first boy like a boyfriend,
- 24:01Speaker 1: kind of your first boyfriend in Saint Louis, like in
- 24:06Speaker 1: the new zip code because you know, you can't like
- 24:09Speaker 1: erase your whole shit. It's just like if you move
- 24:11Speaker 1: to different area codes and zip codes that yes, born again,
- 24:17Speaker 1: so first boyfriend in that particular zip code then ever
- 24:21Speaker 1: since no, hell no, that shit is it's like a
- 24:24Speaker 1: feed of friends. I just feel like the women on
- 24:25Speaker 1: there being heavy rotation, like my, uh, one of my
- 24:29Speaker 1: good friends, he's gonna be okay, and he let me
- 24:32Speaker 1: see his profile and he let me see like all
- 24:35Speaker 1: the messages that he gets that he doesn't even answer.
- 24:38Speaker 1: Nice looking man, and I'm like, damn these bitches is
- 24:41Speaker 1: I don't want to say the women are lonely, but
- 24:43Speaker 1: women lonely. Yeah, women be wanting to want to partner up,
- 24:47Speaker 1: so they take to these these these apps. But a
- 24:50Speaker 1: lot of the men are in relationships. You know what
- 24:52Speaker 1: I'm saying.
- 24:53Speaker 3: It's way more of us than them, right.
- 24:55Speaker 4: But they're single men. No, I mean there's plenty of
- 24:57Speaker 4: single men.
- 24:58Speaker 2: Are there?
- 24:58Speaker 3: Men on those apps looking for marriage? You think?
- 25:00Speaker 2: Sometimes they say that I can't. I can't say that
- 25:04Speaker 2: that's true because I'm still unmarried. But I like, I
- 25:09Speaker 2: enjoy like, so I go through a stage where like
- 25:12Speaker 2: I'd be like, let me swipe another city and I
- 25:15Speaker 2: just put Houston as my area code and then just
- 25:18Speaker 2: swipe guys in Houston. But I suck at dating online
- 25:24Speaker 2: because I just feel like every guy. First of all,
- 25:27Speaker 2: I feel like every guy's gonna swipe yes for every woman.
- 25:30Speaker 2: That's what I feel like, and see who swipes them back,
- 25:33Speaker 2: so it doesn't feel like so.
- 25:36Speaker 3: That's how it works. So you can't talk to the
- 25:38Speaker 3: person until they swipe you yes.
- 25:41Speaker 2: Y'all have to swipe each other, got it?
- 25:42Speaker 3: Okay?
- 25:43Speaker 4: I mean there are like if you're.
- 25:44Speaker 2: Paying for it, you can like have like extra features
- 25:47Speaker 2: where you might be able to talk to someone.
- 25:49Speaker 3: At So there's different tear subscriptions.
- 25:51Speaker 2: Interesting. I always get the free one.
- 25:58Speaker 1: I did get on I was a little younger, obviously
- 26:01Speaker 1: because we're not sugar babies anymore. But I did get
- 26:03Speaker 1: on Sugar Daddies sugar Baby what.
- 26:05Speaker 2: Is it, sugar Daddy, sugar daddy dot com.
- 26:08Speaker 1: Yes, I did get on there a long time ago,
- 26:10Speaker 1: like in my twenties. There was a lot of AI
- 26:12Speaker 1: shit going on. Then it was no Sugar Daddies Africa.
- 26:19Speaker 3: But Africas and Indians on there.
- 26:22Speaker 2: They had enough sugar for me, sweet little daddy.
- 26:26Speaker 1: So yeah, something I was about to say, I just
- 26:28Speaker 1: it just slept my mind though. But yeah, I think
- 26:33Speaker 1: a lot of men in relationships already are also on
- 26:37Speaker 1: the dating apps. Oh sure, So how do you like
- 26:39Speaker 1: even decipher through who's act?
- 26:41Speaker 4: Like there's the same sit as real life.
- 26:45Speaker 2: You know, you go out and you meet a guy,
- 26:46Speaker 2: you don't know if he's really single or not. It's
- 26:49Speaker 2: no different. It just gives you access to more people
- 26:52Speaker 2: at once than if you were in a bar.
- 26:54Speaker 3: You know, it's just too much access.
- 26:56Speaker 1: I think that's why people think in relationships your partner
- 26:59Speaker 1: are so replaceable. Like people probably don't stick it out
- 27:01Speaker 1: as long as anymore because they can just go on
- 27:04Speaker 1: the internet or even just get somebody to you know,
- 27:09Speaker 1: if they don't even want to get out that relationship,
- 27:11Speaker 1: they'll just hey, I'm in a relationship, but I'm just
- 27:13Speaker 1: looking for somebody to hang out with.
- 27:15Speaker 3: What the fuck is that?
- 27:16Speaker 2: That's in a bio too, Yeah, people put that in
- 27:18Speaker 2: the bio at West. You're upfront about your intentions. Some
- 27:21Speaker 2: people are in their bio with their partner, like we're
- 27:24Speaker 2: looking for a.
- 27:25Speaker 3: Third Oh, they looking what is it called unicorn?
- 27:28Speaker 2: Oh?
- 27:28Speaker 4: I don't know what the fuck is called?
- 27:29Speaker 3: Looking for a unicorn at a third party?
- 27:33Speaker 2: Yes? Interesting, I'm never interested in that being nobody's third
- 27:37Speaker 2: m hmm. But I just appreciate that you're upfront about
- 27:42Speaker 2: your intentions, you know, Like, don't like I told you
- 27:45Speaker 2: about that guy went to I met a PF chains
- 27:49Speaker 2: a long time ago.
- 27:50Speaker 3: You hop off the barstool.
- 27:52Speaker 1: Yeah, so he was real little can't even get you
- 27:55Speaker 1: a low king.
- 27:56Speaker 2: I feel like my short guys, because I'm sure I'm
- 27:59Speaker 2: not fun times too.
- 28:01Speaker 4: But come on now, if you like like under four feet,
- 28:05Speaker 4: I feel like you.
- 28:06Speaker 3: Should tell people you legit.
- 28:09Speaker 2: Yeah, I put it four eighty.
- 28:13Speaker 3: I saw while I was googling China.
- 28:15Speaker 1: I was actually like trying to find some profiles and
- 28:17Speaker 1: I did, like find like some of the best and
- 28:19Speaker 1: some of the worst profiles on social media, I mean
- 28:22Speaker 1: on the dating websites, just going through Google and read
- 28:25Speaker 1: it and Ship and one guy's profile is like, I'm
- 28:29Speaker 1: six four Those are two different numbers, like six foot tall,
- 28:34Speaker 1: orange dick.
- 28:35Speaker 3: That's what I assumed. I don't know, maybe maybe nothing,
- 28:40Speaker 3: but that's so.
- 28:41Speaker 4: Sarah, you six foot tall and you're a dick for
- 28:43Speaker 4: it is.
- 28:43Speaker 3: Right, that's what they said you kill on Neil.
- 28:47Speaker 1: Pad, Yeah, exactly.
- 28:52Speaker 3: Ship can't have it all.
- 28:57Speaker 2: So the last earlier this year, I hopped on Hinge
- 29:01Speaker 2: the beginning of the year and I met a guy
- 29:03Speaker 2: and I thought I liked him.
- 29:06Speaker 4: He he loved by me from the.
- 29:08Speaker 2: Beginning, like buying me not very expensive nice things, giving me,
- 29:14Speaker 2: gave me a whole business, like just he was doing
- 29:18Speaker 2: a lot fast and I was loving it. And then
- 29:23Speaker 2: it turned out to be like an atheist who he
- 29:27Speaker 2: never mentioned that he was an atheist.
- 29:30Speaker 3: Is that something that should be in a bio?
- 29:32Speaker 2: I think so interesting. I mean, so my religion in
- 29:39Speaker 2: the bio now that I think about it. But I
- 29:41Speaker 2: just feel like, if you don't believe in anything, I don't.
- 29:45Speaker 1: Think that when you know people, I don't think that
- 29:48Speaker 1: just because you're an atheist that you don't believe in anything.
- 29:53Speaker 3: You know, sometimes people believe in themselves, you know what
- 29:55Speaker 3: I'm saying.
- 29:56Speaker 2: But I thought, right, but I thought that was damn.
- 30:02Speaker 4: I mean, they don't believe in anything.
- 30:05Speaker 1: So agnostic means, you know, you question rather not like
- 30:08Speaker 1: God is real and things like that. I think more
- 30:10Speaker 1: people teeter, you know, they're looking for the truth.
- 30:15Speaker 3: Atheism.
- 30:15Speaker 1: They probably just don't subscribe to any of that, which
- 30:19Speaker 1: to me is like really not a bad thing as
- 30:21Speaker 1: long as you're doing like self work.
- 30:22Speaker 4: He is checking on me.
- 30:23Speaker 2: So heavy that I was like, well, maybe, I mean,
- 30:26Speaker 2: if he acts good he's operating with Y, then he's
- 30:30Speaker 2: already act.
- 30:33Speaker 3: Did he act bad?
- 30:34Speaker 2: No, he always you know, he was always a good
- 30:37Speaker 2: guy essentially, But it.
- 30:39Speaker 3: Was you can get a Christian on that terrible.
- 30:42Speaker 2: But it was a little shit exactly, But it was
- 30:44Speaker 2: shipped that he would do that just kind of like
- 30:47Speaker 2: when I'm like praying over my meal, I look at him,
- 30:50Speaker 2: he like.
- 30:51Speaker 1: Until he gets some type of what's the disease that's
- 30:54Speaker 1: I mean, the bacteria, the parasite that's out here now
- 30:56Speaker 1: until you get that ship.
- 30:58Speaker 2: He's probably shipping up somewhere right now. But like rolling
- 31:03Speaker 2: your eyes when I pray, yeah, like you know, or
- 31:05Speaker 2: calling like, oh here you go with your sky daddy.
- 31:09Speaker 1: I got my beliefs too, but I never try to
- 31:11Speaker 1: take away somebody else like you.
- 31:13Speaker 2: Being condescending and making it seem like I'm stupid for
- 31:16Speaker 2: believing in God.
- 31:17Speaker 4: And that was like the deal breaker.
- 31:19Speaker 1: Maybe he might have some some experience that he might
- 31:22Speaker 1: experience one day that might bring him back to God.
- 31:25Speaker 1: Maybe some people have to go through shit.
- 31:29Speaker 2: And then I get I have fear about these dating
- 31:31Speaker 2: apps because, you know, always hear about somebody getting killed
- 31:34Speaker 2: off of them, like some girl getting murdered by some man.
- 31:37Speaker 2: Young black women, especially young black women, by some man
- 31:40Speaker 2: that they met on the app. But I also feel
- 31:43Speaker 2: like it's when they're dating outside their race that they
- 31:46Speaker 2: get murdered.
- 31:47Speaker 3: Because they're being targeted yeah, you know what I'm saying. So, yeah,
- 31:50Speaker 3: you got to be careful, man, especially as young girls.
- 31:52Speaker 1: I remember thinking I knew every fucking thing until you didn't,
- 31:55Speaker 1: you know, so you're grown. You had to learn hard
- 31:58Speaker 1: way ready to pop that pussy and then you know,
- 32:01Speaker 1: somebody just want to.
- 32:04Speaker 3: Un alive it.
- 32:05Speaker 4: I guess, yeah, I listened.
- 32:06Speaker 2: I had to fight for my virginity in Vegas one time,
- 32:09Speaker 2: not really my virginity, but I'm.
- 32:11Speaker 3: Gonna say, like, how long ago was that? Out of
- 32:15Speaker 3: here with a guy.
- 32:19Speaker 2: I met him? Shut your up. So this guy I
- 32:25Speaker 2: met in New York. I was in New York. Charlemagne
- 32:31Speaker 2: had just started working with Wendy Williams, and I was
- 32:34Speaker 2: up in New York hanging out and I met a
- 32:37Speaker 2: guy at a party and he asked me to go
- 32:40Speaker 2: with him to Floyd Mayweather's fight in Vegas, fighting Oscar
- 32:45Speaker 2: de la Joya.
- 32:45Speaker 4: So that's how old I am.
- 32:48Speaker 2: But I was a young girl at the time, you know,
- 32:51Speaker 2: and I was like, I don't know him, I shouldn't
- 32:54Speaker 2: probably go with him, and just young and dumb. And
- 32:57Speaker 2: then my homegirls like, bitch, you like gry for sex
- 33:00Speaker 2: in the city.
- 33:01Speaker 3: Bitch, you need to go, go go.
- 33:03Speaker 4: So I.
- 33:05Speaker 2: Friends, but in my mind, I was like, I shouldn't
- 33:08Speaker 2: have to. I'm not prepared to have sex with this stranger.
- 33:11Speaker 2: And he was like, bitch, I had you wrink side
- 33:14Speaker 2: at the Mayweather.
- 33:14Speaker 3: Fight your second dick, didn't.
- 33:17Speaker 2: I you're doing something. Believe it was something. That's how
- 33:20Speaker 2: that nigga was. And I had to literally like fight
- 33:23Speaker 2: him off. Yeah, like fight him off and then like leave.
- 33:27Speaker 2: But I mean it was not even me to assume
- 33:29Speaker 2: that that was not an expectation of me, right.
- 33:34Speaker 1: I mean, it shouldn't be an expectation. Shouldn't be we
- 33:37Speaker 1: know now we ain't getting on the plane if we
- 33:38Speaker 1: ain't bring no pussy, like just stay home.
- 33:40Speaker 2: Right, But as a young girl, I just didn't. I
- 33:42Speaker 2: was not and I was like, he's such a nice guy,
- 33:45Speaker 2: he's not gonna care jokes on you, right.
- 33:53Speaker 3: So this episode is called biohazard.
- 33:57Speaker 1: I actually want to go through a few bios online
- 34:03Speaker 1: because I mean, maybe people think that you should put
- 34:05Speaker 1: in your bio that you're a Christian, you know what
- 34:07Speaker 1: I'm saying, or or an atheist. Maybe that should be
- 34:12Speaker 1: in your bible so people don't get shipped.
- 34:14Speaker 3: I mean in your bio.
- 34:16Speaker 1: People don't get miss anything misconscrewed, Like you could just
- 34:19Speaker 1: go ahead and swipe.
- 34:20Speaker 3: Is it left or right?
- 34:22Speaker 2: If you don't want the person right, it's left if
- 34:24Speaker 2: you like them, right if you okay, so you can
- 34:26Speaker 2: just left if you don't. If you don't right, yeah.
- 34:28Speaker 1: So whatever, you could swipe the proper direction if you're
- 34:33Speaker 1: not fucking with that person's bio.
- 34:34Speaker 3: Right.
- 34:36Speaker 2: Something shits be hilarious, like did you really say this?
- 34:39Speaker 5: Shit?
- 34:39Speaker 3: How many characters you get in the bio? You know?
- 34:42Speaker 2: Girl?
- 34:43Speaker 4: No, I don't.
- 34:43Speaker 2: I don't need my bio, don't have nothing in it.
- 34:47Speaker 3: I haven't like I bet I'm on in bios bitch,
- 34:51Speaker 3: bio bitch, I'm on.
- 34:53Speaker 2: Okay, I don't really because I guess I just don't
- 34:58Speaker 2: take it serious. People, Like, some people are really out there,
- 35:01Speaker 2: like presenting themselves for significant others. And I've seen people
- 35:06Speaker 2: get married and start fishes and.
- 35:07Speaker 3: Be very happy. I had a homeworn who got married
- 35:09Speaker 3: and divorced off a bumble.
- 35:11Speaker 1: Yeah, so she got married within a couple of months,
- 35:13Speaker 1: and it took a couple of years to get out
- 35:15Speaker 1: of there, but she finally did.
- 35:17Speaker 2: Yeah, But I'm seeing people get married and be very happy. So,
- 35:21Speaker 2: I mean, it just depends, but I don't I haven't
- 35:23Speaker 2: taken it serious. I've never taken it really serious honestly.
- 35:28Speaker 2: So I don't even like fill out the bio. I
- 35:30Speaker 2: just throw some pictures up there.
- 35:32Speaker 3: Are you in there for free food? I'm hunger, Let
- 35:38Speaker 3: me get a date.
- 35:39Speaker 1: I have a home girl that she would do that,
- 35:42Speaker 1: she would get dates like if she just to eat.
- 35:44Speaker 1: I mean, you want to eat out, but you don't
- 35:46Speaker 1: want to eat up by yourself, you know what I'm saying.
- 35:48Speaker 2: And then she can't afford food, right, don't want to
- 35:51Speaker 2: sit alone?
- 35:52Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, and then the other persson could possibly
- 35:54Speaker 3: pay for.
- 35:54Speaker 2: It, possibly pay for it.
- 35:56Speaker 4: They're coming. But so no, I ain't never been like
- 36:00Speaker 4: I mean, when I.
- 36:01Speaker 2: Was younger, I used to go on food dates, especially
- 36:03Speaker 2: in college. You know, you ain't got no money, but
- 36:06Speaker 2: this big is big age. I can afford my own food.
- 36:11Speaker 3: As you're coming and going.
- 36:13Speaker 2: But I never get on there like today, I'm gonna
- 36:15Speaker 2: find my husband. Except for earlier this year and I
- 36:18Speaker 2: found an atheist. God got so.
- 36:22Speaker 1: Maybe you need to have more Maybe God sent him
- 36:24Speaker 1: so you can have more understanding about God.
- 36:28Speaker 4: Because he was so nice to me, like he was
- 36:30Speaker 4: really really nice.
- 36:31Speaker 1: Yes, self proclaimed Christians be all that in their Bible
- 36:35Speaker 1: and may be narcissists. It be hell is shit going
- 36:37Speaker 1: on with them, but they, you know, hiding behind religion.
- 36:39Speaker 1: So I would prefer a good person, you know. That's
- 36:43Speaker 1: why I battle with you going hell just because I
- 36:46Speaker 1: don't repent. I'm gonna just always be a gentile then,
- 36:50Speaker 1: because in that way, I don't know nothing but nothing,
- 36:52Speaker 1: and I'm gonna just be a good person.
- 36:54Speaker 3: And I shouldn't go to hell.
- 36:55Speaker 2: Right as long as you, I feel like you shouldn't
- 36:57Speaker 2: go to hell if you're being a good person. What
- 37:00Speaker 2: is that in six shit?
- 37:03Speaker 1: All right, let's look get in something, Get into some
- 37:04Speaker 1: of these bios. Lord, what you be coming across?
- 37:10Speaker 4: You want me to go?
- 37:11Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 37:11Speaker 3: Yeah, all right.
- 37:12Speaker 2: So here's this one. It says no single moms, so
- 37:17Speaker 2: if you got kids, you out. No obese women overweight
- 37:22Speaker 2: is okay? So he said you could be fat, but
- 37:25Speaker 2: not too fat. That's mean I respect that. No women
- 37:29Speaker 2: with mental disorders. Oh there, I'm out. I don't beg
- 37:35Speaker 2: for sex. I don't go on dates until we hook up. Additionally,
- 37:40Speaker 2: we can get to know each other during this time,
- 37:43Speaker 2: five times at my or your place.
- 37:47Speaker 4: I won't spend money on.
- 37:48Speaker 2: You or pay for food or drink. I won't try
- 37:51Speaker 2: to impress you. God damn, what is the point of
- 37:55Speaker 2: going out with you? You ain't buying no food, right,
- 37:57Speaker 2: you're just dog better than that. You're not trying to
- 37:58Speaker 2: impress me. You're not gonna take me on a date
- 38:01Speaker 2: until we have sex.
- 38:03Speaker 1: So basically you're trying to fuck yeah and around it,
- 38:06Speaker 1: and if the sex is good enough, you might get
- 38:08Speaker 1: a date.
- 38:09Speaker 3: El yuck, yuck.
- 38:12Speaker 2: And if someone's like who reads this, and like, I'm
- 38:15Speaker 2: gonna give him a shot?
- 38:16Speaker 3: You know. I saw this, this profile.
- 38:21Speaker 1: This is on Reddit because I don't have a dating app,
- 38:25Speaker 1: but I thought it was cool.
- 38:26Speaker 3: It's not a horrible one. It says about me.
- 38:29Speaker 1: Before you go out in public, ask yourself, ask yourself,
- 38:33Speaker 1: is it worth it?
- 38:34Speaker 3: Can you work it? Can you put that thing down?
- 38:37Speaker 3: Flip it and reverse it?
- 38:39Speaker 2: Like?
- 38:40Speaker 3: He can't pussy off this bio?
- 38:41Speaker 1: Okay, since I'm not really good at starting conversations, so
- 38:46Speaker 1: here are some icebreakers. Wish your mother's maiden name on
- 38:50Speaker 1: what street did you grow up? What was the name
- 38:53Speaker 1: of your first grade teacher?
- 38:55Speaker 3: I am not looking for a partner in crime.
- 38:58Speaker 1: Partner in crime, I am perfectly capable of breaking the
- 39:01Speaker 1: law on my own double micro chip.
- 39:04Speaker 3: Oh shit, now that would have been a red.
- 39:06Speaker 1: Flag, okay, because he got basically saying he's vaccinated twice.
- 39:11Speaker 3: And I want to meet somebody fun.
- 39:14Speaker 2: He gave scammer.
- 39:16Speaker 3: Scammer.
- 39:17Speaker 2: Those icebreakers are how to get into somebody credit, like
- 39:20Speaker 2: to break into somebody.
- 39:21Speaker 1: No, absolutely, I think this bio probably was written during COVID, Yeah,
- 39:25Speaker 1: because that was like the whole thing. Now, I was
- 39:26Speaker 1: always asking you're not vaccinated? Right, Oh, I'll ask are
- 39:30Speaker 1: you vaccinated, so they can tell me no, hopefully, because
- 39:33Speaker 1: I'm not.
- 39:34Speaker 3: Fucking with you if you were vaccinated.
- 39:37Speaker 1: But in this case, he wants people to know that
- 39:40Speaker 1: he's vaccinated because during that time.
- 39:42Speaker 2: Right, people were scared to be around you if.
- 39:44Speaker 1: You weren't vaccinated. This is just a couple of years ago, people,
- 39:49Speaker 1: that's like a forgotten time.
- 39:50Speaker 2: I missed COVID a little bit. Why because now I
- 39:53Speaker 2: got locked out of my shop. I started getting money
- 39:56Speaker 2: from the government so.
- 39:58Speaker 3: I didn't have to go to work, so everybody was
- 40:00Speaker 3: date nap.
- 40:00Speaker 4: Uh yeah, well it wasn't.
- 40:02Speaker 2: I wasn't even like the only person I hooked up
- 40:04Speaker 2: with during that time was that guy you sent over there,
- 40:08Speaker 2: So I didn't have like, I wasn't like doing nothing,
- 40:12Speaker 2: but just not saying.
- 40:13Speaker 3: Oh my god, I forgot about that.
- 40:16Speaker 4: Yeah, that was it.
- 40:18Speaker 2: Meets Yep, I was not on I wasn't on the
- 40:21Speaker 2: date in that, but just not that one. All right,
- 40:25Speaker 2: look at it. Listen to this one. This person is well,
- 40:27Speaker 2: he's young, twenty eight. Oh, this is the one you
- 40:30Speaker 2: said six foot four inches. Those are two measurements, right, Okay,
- 40:36Speaker 2: I'm gonna go to another one. Hey, this one is
- 40:39Speaker 2: a technician. Technician, excuse me. He's thirty three and he's
- 40:42Speaker 2: a straight man, he says, pure blood and taller than
- 40:48Speaker 2: Tom Hardy.
- 40:49Speaker 3: I don't know who the hell that is.
- 40:50Speaker 2: Maybe that's Brady.
- 40:53Speaker 3: Maybe Tom Hardy is just Tom Hardy.
- 40:55Speaker 2: Yeah, we just who's Tom Hardy? Y'all?
- 40:58Speaker 4: You must be younger.
- 41:00Speaker 2: No addictions, including to food, Damn, I haven't met on
- 41:07Speaker 2: Bible yet. Tattoo free, yep. No piercings of social hell, yeah,
- 41:13Speaker 2: it's real strict over here. Well I'm out again.
- 41:16Speaker 4: No dogs, low, low body count, that's all of us.
- 41:19Speaker 2: What does that mean low, low body count.
- 41:22Speaker 3: Why is it tulos? I can give you one load.
- 41:29Speaker 2: We're all going to pass that one because thirty three
- 41:32Speaker 2: prove it unvaxxed, no exceptions. Even if you're an eleven. Sorry,
- 41:39Speaker 2: but you're dumb and now worthless to me.
- 41:42Speaker 3: You have taken it.
- 41:43Speaker 2: I made a dy k last year. If you're smart
- 41:46Speaker 2: enough to figure out what I do, well, you will
- 41:49Speaker 2: know I'm telling the truth. Extremely ambitious with warlord potential.
- 41:55Speaker 2: Oh shit, if you have kids, that's really great, but
- 41:58Speaker 2: you should have kept your man. Yikes.
- 42:03Speaker 3: So you think eighty k is a lot? First of all,
- 42:05Speaker 3: because why are you even putting that in your bio?
- 42:07Speaker 3: How much money you make?
- 42:08Speaker 2: Right?
- 42:08Speaker 1: And you know I think a lot of this even
- 42:10Speaker 1: in person. Men leave with money sometimes and then be
- 42:12Speaker 1: mad when you want it.
- 42:15Speaker 2: We've only talked about how much money you got, the fuck.
- 42:21Speaker 2: We've only talked about how much money you got any
- 42:23Speaker 2: and you mad that I'm asking for something?
- 42:25Speaker 3: Right?
- 42:26Speaker 2: So your problem? Do you have anything other hobby?
- 42:30Speaker 3: Sir?
- 42:37Speaker 4: Reade?
- 42:38Speaker 1: Uh, here's the basics. I don't sell shit, don't ask
- 42:41Speaker 1: I'm four eleven. I think this is actually a woman's bio.
- 42:44Speaker 1: I'm mean in the morning. I know how to roll
- 42:46Speaker 1: a blunt, but expect my man not to let my
- 42:50Speaker 1: natural nails get dirty. I can provide for myself. I
- 42:53Speaker 1: do not need none of my bills paid. If you
- 42:56Speaker 1: offer to feed me and I'm so hungry after, I'm never.
- 43:00Speaker 3: Speaking to you again.
- 43:01Speaker 1: I like to be in the woods because honestly, I
- 43:04Speaker 1: hate people. If you can handle being abused while treating
- 43:07Speaker 1: me like a queen, then I'm the girl for you.
- 43:10Speaker 3: If not by loser, no, I don't think so.
- 43:14Speaker 1: A lot of men like to be dominated, they just
- 43:16Speaker 1: may not say them. And okay, a lot of men
- 43:19Speaker 1: are sons of bitches, so that's who she's attracted.
- 43:22Speaker 2: I remember after I did Brilliant Idiots at time, it
- 43:25Speaker 2: was all kind of white guys in my inbox because
- 43:28Speaker 2: of what's the thing, damn Andrew Schultz saying all that
- 43:33Speaker 2: little fresh stuff. So there's this one guy who came in.
- 43:37Speaker 2: He was just in my DMS like he just wanted me,
- 43:40Speaker 2: he wanted to pay me just to insult him, like
- 43:43Speaker 2: I just want you to send me messages every day
- 43:46Speaker 2: and just be as mean as possible.
- 43:48Speaker 3: What's it called. It's called like he said.
- 43:50Speaker 4: I want to be your pay pig or something like that.
- 43:54Speaker 3: Did you do it?
- 43:54Speaker 4: And I was I thought he was calling me fat.
- 43:56Speaker 2: I was like, who the fuck are you talking to?
- 43:58Speaker 2: He was like, exactly that's what I want.
- 44:02Speaker 3: Did you do it? Though?
- 44:03Speaker 2: No, I didn't do it. I was scared. I'm scared
- 44:06Speaker 2: because I'm not into that freaking shit. So he show
- 44:10Speaker 2: up at my house like I always walk you home, diamond,
- 44:13Speaker 2: every you know, like you gotta turn for that. All right,
- 44:18Speaker 2: let me read this. I'm an anomaly. I am a
- 44:22Speaker 2: highly intelligent and successful single man. I'm a gentleman that
- 44:27Speaker 2: actually wants to date you out on a proper date
- 44:30Speaker 2: and have a good time. Okay, oh here and then
- 44:33Speaker 2: here we go. Your pushy your pussy should be a reward. Ladies,
- 44:37Speaker 2: if I treat you to forun night, maybe you allow
- 44:39Speaker 2: me to taste that young young I don't know what
- 44:42Speaker 2: is wrong with people anymore. Just let down your guard
- 44:44Speaker 2: and let's have a genuine experience together my treat. I
- 44:48Speaker 2: may be a lab geek, but I'm also a bad boy.
- 44:52Speaker 2: I go hard, have fun, trying to keep up much love? Yeap,
- 44:56Speaker 2: how you went off saying that you want to take
- 44:58Speaker 2: your gentleman and and start talking about pussy.
- 45:04Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like he's being honest.
- 45:06Speaker 4: Yeah, but he's not a gentleman.
- 45:08Speaker 2: A gentleman would not mention your pussy right away at all.
- 45:12Speaker 1: Zero's the honest gentleman. I mean, you have the opportunity
- 45:15Speaker 1: to swipe on the let taste it.
- 45:18Speaker 2: I'm a gentleman.
- 45:19Speaker 3: Some people might want that after dinner, So now I know.
- 45:23Speaker 4: I mean, I think that's what you should.
- 45:24Speaker 2: Maybe if the vibes are vibing, you could mention it then,
- 45:28Speaker 2: but I don't think you should put that. That's crazy.
- 45:32Speaker 3: Uh, let me see.
- 45:36Speaker 1: Okay, here's this one says I've been rejected five hundred
- 45:39Speaker 1: and thirty six times by women because I'm ugly, and
- 45:42Speaker 1: I accept it. And if you don't message me back,
- 45:45Speaker 1: then I was right all along. All the women care
- 45:48Speaker 1: about is lug style type accents that that selfish, picky,
- 45:54Speaker 1: cole hearted thing to do.
- 45:55Speaker 3: Person personality what the fuck.
- 45:59Speaker 2: The key?
- 46:00Speaker 3: And personality the key?
- 46:02Speaker 1: And I'm an enigmatic enigmatic Okay maybe in my bib
- 46:08Speaker 1: be like I can't read sometimes charismatic, truthful, modest, honest, caring, obsolete, enigma, unorthodox, unorthodox,
- 46:21Speaker 1: risk taker, daredevil and I've been training in MMA and
- 46:26Speaker 1: wrestling for fifteen years. He might have got hit in
- 46:28Speaker 1: his head too many fucking times fifteen years and completed
- 46:31Speaker 1: fourteen years. I was born with a rare cancer. I
- 46:34Speaker 1: refuse to treat. I refuse treatment. I choose to suffer
- 46:37Speaker 1: and man, this dude is unbearable. I choose a sufferer
- 46:41Speaker 1: and be in pain. Been single thirteen years and three months.
- 46:45Speaker 1: No women will give me a chance. I'm a guy
- 46:48Speaker 1: that doesn't cheat on women. I never hit a woman
- 46:51Speaker 1: in my life. I don't lie, I don't use women.
- 46:54Speaker 3: I'm different.
- 46:55Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right, you might be a little Ausye, I'm
- 46:59Speaker 1: different for either. I'm different from other men. If you
- 47:03Speaker 1: like to know more, just message me. And I did
- 47:06Speaker 1: have a son, but he passed away. Man, he got
- 47:08Speaker 1: too much in going on. Get off the apps.
- 47:11Speaker 2: The first thing you said, trauma do I'm and I
- 47:15Speaker 2: accept it. And I've been single and I ain't had
- 47:19Speaker 2: no pussy in thirteen years or three months.
- 47:21Speaker 3: He is angry.
- 47:23Speaker 2: Yeah, he is.
- 47:23Speaker 4: Definitely gonna beat a bitch of.
- 47:26Speaker 2: And you do mma, I ain't playing with you because
- 47:29Speaker 2: you're definitely gonna full a bitch up.
- 47:32Speaker 3: Yeah, no, you swipe and left and right or that
- 47:35Speaker 3: or whatever.
- 47:36Speaker 2: What is exit? Yikes, that's so scary. I don't think
- 47:42Speaker 2: like all right, so I don't think men are because women.
- 47:47Speaker 4: Know how to do it.
- 47:47Speaker 2: Like if you ever saying I ever did this, but
- 47:51Speaker 2: if you swipe women you look at I've never shut
- 47:54Speaker 2: up the pictures, Shut up, bitch. The pictures are better.
- 48:01Speaker 4: Like women know how to take pictures.
- 48:02Speaker 2: They know how to write bios either use check GPT
- 48:05Speaker 2: to you know, make their just like their resumes. They
- 48:07Speaker 2: make it look better. Men just this one run on sentence.
- 48:11Speaker 2: It's a picture of them from underhere. They knows, you know,
- 48:14Speaker 2: Like it's just not appealing.
- 48:17Speaker 1: So apparently there's this website called side match where you
- 48:20Speaker 1: can actually generate bios using using AIM. Is that somebody
- 48:27Speaker 1: being true and authentic? If you're using AI to generate
- 48:30Speaker 1: your biography.
- 48:31Speaker 2: Well it just depends, I mean, because and.
- 48:34Speaker 3: You got to input some of the data.
- 48:36Speaker 2: To say, yeah, the data is about you. Then I
- 48:38Speaker 2: don't see what's wrong with it. But as long as
- 48:41Speaker 2: it's not like this is one runound sentence that you
- 48:45Speaker 2: just it's one long sentence.
- 48:47Speaker 1: But you can actually articulate without technology. Because I don't
- 48:51Speaker 1: really speak to AI like that. So if I'm talking
- 48:54Speaker 1: to somebody and they all use AI for everything, I'm like,
- 48:57Speaker 1: you might be you might be losing some brain cells.
- 49:00Speaker 1: They may not even be so, but they're gonna they're basically.
- 49:03Speaker 2: But I just feel like that's where the works agres
- 49:07Speaker 2: AI will be used for most, particularly people. I always
- 49:10Speaker 2: hear people I don't work in corporate environments, but I'm
- 49:13Speaker 2: hearing about, you know, people who are being trained on
- 49:16Speaker 2: how to you know, incorporate AI in everyday work, you know.
- 49:19Speaker 1: So it's like, I guess it depends on what you're
- 49:21Speaker 1: doing a lot of things. Yeah, again, AI is still
- 49:25Speaker 1: operated by a person, right, But there are some things
- 49:29Speaker 1: that robots just can't do, you know what I'm saying.
- 49:32Speaker 1: And I think, shit, even something not even as simple,
- 49:35Speaker 1: but driving fucking eighteen wheelers and shit like that. That
- 49:38Speaker 1: is weird to tell they want robots doing that.
- 49:40Speaker 2: Every time I think about you see that video where
- 49:44Speaker 2: the robot was doing karate and kick them.
- 49:51Speaker 3: So fucked up. But that's yeah, AI can't do it.
- 49:57Speaker 2: But there will be a time, you know, if we don't,
- 50:00Speaker 2: you get a whole lot of AI gonna be doing everything.
- 50:03Speaker 4: We're gonna here have AI podcasts. They already have them.
- 50:07Speaker 2: You get on and it'll be like some woman that's
- 50:09Speaker 2: not a real person with an opinion and all the men.
- 50:13Speaker 1: I might, I might create a low size something for real,
- 50:17Speaker 1: have a whole AI person out there talking say all
- 50:19Speaker 1: the good ship yea thatad people want to hear.
- 50:23Speaker 2: All right, listen to this. I'm looking for someone who's loyal.
- 50:26Speaker 2: I check phones, locations, and receipts because I believe transparency
- 50:31Speaker 2: is important in a relationship. If you got nothing to hide,
- 50:34Speaker 2: then it shouldn't be a problem. I've been burned before,
- 50:36Speaker 2: so I just don't do surprises or secrets anymore.
- 50:42Speaker 3: He said he want location, He.
- 50:44Speaker 4: Said, I checked phones, locations.
- 50:46Speaker 2: And receipts.
- 50:47Speaker 1: No you too, you're a detective? Yeah, Like no, if
- 50:51Speaker 1: you you? I mean, it's just scary, right because you
- 50:54Speaker 1: just have to trust to you with I even I
- 50:57Speaker 1: don't really be having shit to fucking hide, but it's
- 50:59Speaker 1: still I want to maintain a certain level of independence
- 51:03Speaker 1: outside of some exactly like why that location?
- 51:07Speaker 3: She don't give a fuck?
- 51:07Speaker 1: Hog grown, I get you can't have my location in
- 51:10Speaker 1: a relationship. The only time I send my boyfriend my
- 51:12Speaker 1: location as if like I'm traveling, you know what I'm saying.
- 51:15Speaker 1: If I'm driving somewhere out of town or if I'm flying,
- 51:19Speaker 1: that's the only time I turn my location on unless
- 51:22Speaker 1: somebody else have My best friend has my location.
- 51:25Speaker 3: But other than that, like what you need my location for?
- 51:27Speaker 3: And I feel like people might start getting obsessive.
- 51:30Speaker 1: Just looking at it, like social media can't maybe stared
- 51:32Speaker 1: at your location, like, yes, give you a I get
- 51:34Speaker 1: a message?
- 51:35Speaker 2: Who house you hit? Bitch about it?
- 51:39Speaker 3: Your friends do that?
- 51:40Speaker 1: Yeah, listen the place I love at now I forgot
- 51:44Speaker 1: Me and my best friends share locations. And the day
- 51:46Speaker 1: before she told me she was coming to my house
- 51:48Speaker 1: and the next day she's like, I'm outside, Excuse me,
- 51:52Speaker 1: how the fuck you know where I live at? She's like,
- 51:54Speaker 1: don't worry about that. Which apartment you in?
- 51:56Speaker 3: What I forgot? And she's I got your location, girl, right?
- 52:00Speaker 2: But still that's scary.
- 52:01Speaker 3: Yes, Like so I don't know that I want to.
- 52:05Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't.
- 52:07Speaker 1: I guess I'm not an adult in that way because
- 52:09Speaker 1: I got some friends who you know, boyfriend, girlfriend, like
- 52:12Speaker 1: they answer each other's cell phone.
- 52:14Speaker 4: I mean I want to be like that though, Yeah, eventually. Yeah.
- 52:18Speaker 1: And I guess when you get a family, like you
- 52:20Speaker 1: become boring. Ain't got nothing popping it. I feel like
- 52:22Speaker 1: that is for married people. Until we married, we kind
- 52:25Speaker 1: of single, you are until we live in it like
- 52:29Speaker 1: and then you know, not even cohabitating together, like why
- 52:33Speaker 1: you need all that?
- 52:34Speaker 2: Put a ring on it.
- 52:35Speaker 3: Yeah, and then you can have access to my entire life.
- 52:39Speaker 2: Like that's a line that's like right by Johnson C.
- 52:41Speaker 4: Smith.
- 52:41Speaker 2: Shout out to Johnson C. Smith. And you know that's
- 52:44Speaker 2: considered very urban.
- 52:47Speaker 4: And I was like doing a girl's hair.
- 52:49Speaker 2: And listen, listen, if you looking at your phone while
- 52:53Speaker 2: I'm doing your hair, I'm reading your shit. I'm reading it.
- 52:58Speaker 2: All of us are. So if you don't want us to,
- 53:00Speaker 2: don't open it, because what else I'm doing it's right
- 53:04Speaker 2: in my face, I'm gonna read it. I look at
- 53:05Speaker 2: this bitch fold. Somebody said, what are you doing.
- 53:07Speaker 3: Over there for three hours?
- 53:11Speaker 2: Why are you in the hood?
- 53:17Speaker 3: Styles?
- 53:18Speaker 2: That not too much on my shop? And I let
- 53:20Speaker 2: her and I said that this bitch, tell your friend,
- 53:24Speaker 2: don't do that.
- 53:26Speaker 3: Shame let me see. So this profile says my excess.
- 53:32Speaker 3: I'm a narcissist.
- 53:33Speaker 1: I don't know why the fuck you would start with that,
- 53:35Speaker 1: But I mean, let's say, be honest.
- 53:36Speaker 2: What my excess should not be in your bio.
- 53:39Speaker 1: Right, But she's literally crazy is what the narcissist says.
- 53:43Speaker 2: Listen, That is classic narcissist ship. They will drive you
- 53:49Speaker 2: crazy then call you crazy.
- 53:51Speaker 1: To God, my excess, I'm a narcissist, but she's literally crazy.
- 53:54Speaker 1: She always twists things and can never admit when she's wrong.
- 53:58Speaker 1: If you believe her, man, what the hell if? If
- 54:00Speaker 1: you believe her version of events, you're probably just as manipulated.
- 54:04Speaker 1: Manipulate manipulative is what he meant as she is. I'm
- 54:07Speaker 1: just being honest and real, and not everyone can handle
- 54:11Speaker 1: that level of truth. Like, so you start your your
- 54:13Speaker 1: whole biot is talk about your ex and what she
- 54:15Speaker 1: thought about you. I think version of events like this. Yeah,
- 54:20Speaker 1: if you're not a narcissist, why you even mentioning it
- 54:22Speaker 1: like you? I really don't give a damn when anybody
- 54:24Speaker 1: says about me because I know exactly who I am,
- 54:27Speaker 1: So how you how you perceive me is none of
- 54:30Speaker 1: my business and they don't have nothing to do with me, right,
- 54:32Speaker 1: So I would never put that in my bio.
- 54:34Speaker 4: I had to learn that.
- 54:35Speaker 2: It took a long time for me to not give
- 54:37Speaker 2: a fuck what other opinion of other's opinion of me was,
- 54:42Speaker 2: especially like women that I were trying to make for
- 54:46Speaker 2: college age, Like why do you your whole? Why do
- 54:50Speaker 2: you think that's.
- 54:59Speaker 3: Come ya?
- 55:01Speaker 2: All right, listen, I like my women natural, no wigs,
- 55:05Speaker 2: no makeup, no lash. There I go, no lashes, but
- 55:09Speaker 2: you better still, but you better still look good when
- 55:13Speaker 2: we go out. I just prefer authenticity over all that
- 55:17Speaker 2: extra stuff. At the same time, I expect you to
- 55:20Speaker 2: be put together, im presentable, because first impressions matter.
- 55:24Speaker 4: Now what is that?
- 55:25Speaker 2: How's that you're about me?
- 55:27Speaker 1: And whole time he probably in all the baddies because
- 55:30Speaker 1: we know that's the baddy aesthetic.
- 55:32Speaker 3: Okay.
- 55:33Speaker 1: The thing is men want the simple. This is what
- 55:36Speaker 1: they're gonna settle down with. But then they're gonna cheat
- 55:38Speaker 1: on you with the wig wearing lash, wearing batty make up,
- 55:43Speaker 1: wearing batty exactly. Okay, just just know that basic bitch
- 55:48Speaker 1: No that.
- 55:49Speaker 3: Yeah, Like men are.
- 55:54Speaker 1: We know, no, not stupid, No, not stupid men. They're simple,
- 55:58Speaker 1: like they say right that they're and I believe like
- 56:04Speaker 1: the whole thing like women with the weave and all
- 56:06Speaker 1: this stuff. There's Black women in particular, We come in
- 56:08Speaker 1: so many shape, sizes, colors, You get your you get
- 56:12Speaker 1: your picket litter when it comes to Black women. But
- 56:15Speaker 1: they will act like this is the majority and no
- 56:17Speaker 1: other type of Black women exists.
- 56:19Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. You have.
- 56:20Speaker 1: There's plenty of women out here who wear their natural hair.
- 56:23Speaker 1: But why are why aren't you dating the woman with
- 56:25Speaker 1: the natural hair? Why are you dating the woman with
- 56:28Speaker 1: the weave and then trying to alter what you were
- 56:30Speaker 1: initially attracted to. I experience that in a relationship. I'm
- 56:34Speaker 1: a nigga called his mom on the phone to convince
- 56:37Speaker 1: me about wearing wigs and.
- 56:38Speaker 3: Shit, and she's like, I wear wigs.
- 56:42Speaker 1: Are you talking about like me, wearing this wig does
- 56:45Speaker 1: not alter how I treat you in this relationship. Like
- 56:50Speaker 1: he thought, like the wig was like a part of
- 56:52Speaker 1: my like my swag. Like if you get the wig,
- 56:55Speaker 1: like yeah, they want to they want to try and
- 56:57Speaker 1: like break you down something. And that's some narcissistic shit.
- 57:03Speaker 1: So you gotta be careful, man, wholeheartedly. Fuck that nigga,
- 57:11Speaker 1: Look at that.
- 57:12Speaker 2: This is you. I think this might be as by what.
- 57:14Speaker 3: I don't got no byo nowhere.
- 57:16Speaker 4: I'm not really into condoms.
- 57:19Speaker 3: Read a bitch.
- 57:21Speaker 2: About me.
- 57:22Speaker 3: It might be my diabolical twin.
- 57:24Speaker 2: I'm not really in. Uh. They kill the vibe and
- 57:29Speaker 2: make things feel disconnected. If the chemistry is right, we've
- 57:33Speaker 2: grown in up, we grown adults. It should be able
- 57:36Speaker 2: to trust each other. I think protection is overrated when
- 57:40Speaker 2: there is a real connection and understanding between two people.
- 57:43Speaker 1: I don't see nowhere what he says. The date is
- 57:45Speaker 1: at the damn doctor's office first. Then if you just
- 57:47Speaker 1: want to be out here raw and everybody, raw dog
- 57:50Speaker 1: and everybody, y'all gonna.
- 57:51Speaker 3: Go to the doctor at least.
- 57:55Speaker 2: About me?
- 57:58Speaker 3: That is about him.
- 57:59Speaker 2: He liked this.
- 58:00Speaker 3: That's wraw swipe left.
- 58:08Speaker 1: Here goes another. I'm separated, not divorced. It's just paperwork
- 58:11Speaker 1: and timing, nothing more. Blah blah blah blah blah. People
- 58:16Speaker 1: always make it a bigger deal than it is.
- 58:20Speaker 3: Why he laughed like that, He's so stupid. I'm basically single.
- 58:23Speaker 3: I'm basically single in every way that matters.
- 58:28Speaker 1: Really, So if you die today, who getting your social Security?
- 58:31Speaker 3: And shit? Not the girl off a tender that you
- 58:35Speaker 3: just met.
- 58:36Speaker 1: I'm basically single in every way that matters, So I
- 58:38Speaker 1: don't see why it should be an issue or why
- 58:42Speaker 1: anyone would question it.
- 58:45Speaker 3: Get the divorce.
- 58:46Speaker 4: Yeah, it's wrong.
- 58:47Speaker 2: Get the divorce. Get the divorce, sir.
- 58:51Speaker 1: I have a friend who has a relationship. I want
- 58:56Speaker 1: to try to get him on the show to talk
- 58:57Speaker 1: about it too. So his ex girl friend, they haven't
- 59:00Speaker 1: been together for years, she's had two she has had
- 59:03Speaker 1: two kids and small kids, and she's with the kids father.
- 59:06Speaker 1: She doesn't want that relationship anymore though, right, So they
- 59:09Speaker 1: have since like started chopping it up, and you know
- 59:14Speaker 1: she I believe like their conversations are more so like
- 59:18Speaker 1: if should have whatd have cut is between them, right.
- 59:21Speaker 1: My thing to him is that she needs to end
- 59:23Speaker 1: that relationship first, if that's really what she really wants,
- 59:26Speaker 1: instead of trying to use you as a rebound already
- 59:29Speaker 1: exactly a buffer, exactly, make the conscious decision and get
- 59:34Speaker 1: out that situation first, so I know you serious, and
- 59:36Speaker 1: then come over here and hopefully I'm available when you
- 59:38Speaker 1: do like this, just don't stick around to that makes
- 59:42Speaker 1: me think of losing Isaiah.
- 59:44Speaker 2: Remember Cooba Gooding Junior was trying to date her when
- 59:48Speaker 2: he was still married, and she was basically like, come
- 59:52Speaker 2: back when you get that shit correct.
- 59:53Speaker 3: I don't remember that, and I'm also.
- 59:59Speaker 2: You talk about I'll do nothing messed up to get
- 1:00:03Speaker 2: my chat back.
- 1:00:04Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, let that girl figure that out first and
- 1:00:07Speaker 1: then come over here. Like I used to talk to
- 1:00:10Speaker 1: this guy and like he would, I don't know, what
- 1:00:14Speaker 1: do you, I'll take care of y'all.
- 1:00:15Speaker 3: Do this and do that.
- 1:00:16Speaker 1: If you're not happy in that relationship, get out of
- 1:00:18Speaker 1: that first. Don't be trying to come over here and
- 1:00:20Speaker 1: use me to complete your happiness. Get out of that
- 1:00:23Speaker 1: situation first, and then come see about me, right if
- 1:00:27Speaker 1: you go end up a sideach?
- 1:00:33Speaker 2: Okay, two more, I got one. My baby mama is
- 1:00:36Speaker 2: my best friend. We talk every day because we're mature
- 1:00:40Speaker 2: and we prioritize our child above everything else. There's nothing
- 1:00:44Speaker 2: romantic there anymore. It's just respect and co parenting. If
- 1:00:47Speaker 2: that bothers you, then you probably just don't understand grown communication.
- 1:00:52Speaker 3: That's what app was that on.
- 1:00:54Speaker 2: I don't know. I just catch off between hinge tender
- 1:01:00Speaker 2: and Facebook dating.
- 1:01:03Speaker 3: Did you did you? Uh? Okay, you're just like none
- 1:01:06Speaker 3: of these people.
- 1:01:09Speaker 2: What?
- 1:01:09Speaker 1: So basically is that your bio, like maybe that is
- 1:01:13Speaker 1: like to me, what it oh my errand to me
- 1:01:16Speaker 1: what it sounds like is like that is a major
- 1:01:17Speaker 1: part of that person's life and.
- 1:01:19Speaker 3: They wan't want you to know right now that my
- 1:01:22Speaker 3: baby mama ain't going.
- 1:01:23Speaker 1: Nowhere, which I mean if you pick somebody with kids, yeah, but.
- 1:01:29Speaker 2: I mean obviously you're going to hope that they're communicating
- 1:01:32Speaker 2: excuse me, with their baby mama right because y'all have
- 1:01:35Speaker 2: kids and you'll have to co parents. I just hate
- 1:01:37Speaker 2: the best friend bitch.
- 1:01:39Speaker 4: If you I'm your best friend, motherfucker what you're talking about?
- 1:01:41Speaker 4: You know, so move over?
- 1:01:44Speaker 2: That would be so uncomfortable for me. I wouldn't want
- 1:01:48Speaker 2: my man. His baby mama is his best friend.
- 1:01:52Speaker 3: I don't think I would have a problem with it.
- 1:01:54Speaker 4: But my dad and my mom are best friend.
- 1:01:56Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.
- 1:01:56Speaker 1: Like, and I mean maybe people have to get sixty
- 1:02:00Speaker 1: and so I'm pretty sure your daddy's so fucking Your
- 1:02:03Speaker 1: MoMA might not be, but your daddy yeah, not fucking
- 1:02:06Speaker 1: each other, but your second period, you know. So I
- 1:02:09Speaker 1: don't know I am mature in that way because I
- 1:02:13Speaker 1: want everybody to be one big If I pick somebody
- 1:02:16Speaker 1: with kids, or if I choose to be with someone
- 1:02:17Speaker 1: with kids, I don't want any like tension.
- 1:02:20Speaker 2: Yeah, best friend is crazy, Like we get along, we
- 1:02:24Speaker 2: coparing well, the kids are well.
- 1:02:26Speaker 3: He might be his emergency contact.
- 1:02:28Speaker 2: No, you put your mother down, bitch?
- 1:02:29Speaker 3: Yeah, why all ain't together? Yeah?
- 1:02:31Speaker 2: Might as well be together.
- 1:02:32Speaker 1: If you're best friends, I guess sometimes you are better
- 1:02:35Speaker 1: than Yeah, partners.
- 1:02:39Speaker 3: What's the last with you?
- 1:02:41Speaker 2: Okay? Last one? Listen, if I pay for dinner, I
- 1:02:47Speaker 2: expect the energy to match my investment.
- 1:02:50Speaker 3: How much is dinner?
- 1:02:51Speaker 2: Yeah, daddy's not looking for a free meal situation. I
- 1:02:55Speaker 2: believe effort should be mutual, and I pay attention to
- 1:02:59Speaker 2: how people reciprocate. It's not about money, it's about respect
- 1:03:02Speaker 2: and appreciation.
- 1:03:04Speaker 3: That's okay, biome.
- 1:03:05Speaker 4: But what you mean though?
- 1:03:07Speaker 1: I mean, so some women are going dates and be
- 1:03:10Speaker 1: on their phone the entire time. You know, if you
- 1:03:13Speaker 1: don't want to talk to the person you with, maybe
- 1:03:14Speaker 1: I'll should just sc go to the movies. But if
- 1:03:16Speaker 1: a man takes you to dinner, you need to be attentive,
- 1:03:19Speaker 1: you know.
- 1:03:20Speaker 2: Be engaging, not on your phone.
- 1:03:22Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm saying, so that's probably what
- 1:03:23Speaker 1: he's saying he's probably taking women out who probably just
- 1:03:26Speaker 1: went out for a free meal. And he's like, shit,
- 1:03:28Speaker 1: if I'm spending three hundred dollars, bit, you better laugh
- 1:03:31Speaker 1: and you better make me laugh.
- 1:03:32Speaker 3: And I agree with that. That's not a bad bio
- 1:03:35Speaker 3: to me.
- 1:03:37Speaker 4: I understand it. But I just feel like in.
- 1:03:39Speaker 1: Most most relationships start with a date, right, So that's
- 1:03:42Speaker 1: a very important.
- 1:03:45Speaker 2: I don't think this should be in your about me.
- 1:03:48Speaker 2: I don't know nothing about you except for you been
- 1:03:50Speaker 2: burnt at dinner.
- 1:03:54Speaker 1: I mean, you're gonna learn about me at dinner.
- 1:03:57Speaker 2: So available sound scorned.
- 1:04:01Speaker 4: This sounds like a person scoring.
- 1:04:02Speaker 3: A lot of men are scoring. They talk about it
- 1:04:05Speaker 3: all the time. It's just honest for me.
- 1:04:08Speaker 2: And it makes me feel like this. I read this
- 1:04:11Speaker 2: and it's like I want a pussy for that steak.
- 1:04:14Speaker 2: That's what I here.
- 1:04:17Speaker 3: So I don't know if I have ever felt like that.
- 1:04:20Speaker 3: I'll pay for my.
- 1:04:21Speaker 1: Bill, nigga, I don't owe you shit. I'm not about
- 1:04:25Speaker 1: to pay for dinner and pussy.
- 1:04:27Speaker 2: Yeah, that's ridiculous. There's not enough food out here that
- 1:04:30Speaker 2: would match the value of what I would have to
- 1:04:32Speaker 2: give you, you know.
- 1:04:34Speaker 3: Yeah, men just show up basic.
- 1:04:35Speaker 1: We show up with ass to these thighs back, we
- 1:04:39Speaker 1: show with all types of shit mouth lips, and they
- 1:04:42Speaker 1: just show up with what they might have, a nice
- 1:04:44Speaker 1: chest exactly some money for this fucking steak.
- 1:04:47Speaker 3: That's it. So yeah, I don't know.
- 1:04:52Speaker 1: I don't have no advice for people in the dating
- 1:04:55Speaker 1: world with the dating nows, and.
- 1:04:57Speaker 3: I don't know.
- 1:04:58Speaker 1: I guess I'm at the point in life where I'm
- 1:04:59Speaker 1: okay being by myself. So if I run into somebody,
- 1:05:03Speaker 1: I running to somebody, and that's how I ended up
- 1:05:05Speaker 1: in my current relationship.
- 1:05:07Speaker 2: I'm done with dating apps. I just think I'm just
- 1:05:09Speaker 2: gonna meet people organically.
- 1:05:10Speaker 3: Yeah, you know.
- 1:05:11Speaker 1: You know Shira Sprinkle Sprinkle and sheen like she's a
- 1:05:18Speaker 1: veteran on social media, okay, because people really only know
- 1:05:20Speaker 1: her from Instagram, but she has been on YouTube for
- 1:05:22Speaker 1: twenty years.
- 1:05:23Speaker 3: Damn man.
- 1:05:24Speaker 1: Okay, her husband died recently too, so she got two
- 1:05:26Speaker 1: teenage girls.
- 1:05:28Speaker 3: But I remember a post.
- 1:05:29Speaker 1: She did on Instagram. She was talking about the dating apps,
- 1:05:33Speaker 1: and I was like, you know what, that is a
- 1:05:34Speaker 1: good ass analogy. So she said, people who meet people
- 1:05:39Speaker 1: who are actively on dating apps are employees. They're liking
- 1:05:42Speaker 1: to employees. Right, you're interviewing, like what make this person?
- 1:05:46Speaker 1: Just did ten interviews today? Basically swipe and left and
- 1:05:49Speaker 1: right and giving a phone number, you know, so you're
- 1:05:52Speaker 1: interviewing for the job. For the relationship first, it's somebody
- 1:05:56Speaker 1: who actually goes out into the world and meets people organically.
- 1:06:00Speaker 3: Those are the entrepreneurs. I'm more of an entrepreneur, Yeah, but.
- 1:06:06Speaker 1: Not as many, Like you're on the Internet's too much
- 1:06:11Speaker 1: accessibility to all.
- 1:06:12Speaker 2: These lif you know, like cold calling, Like, you know,
- 1:06:16Speaker 2: if you get you're gonna get more nose than yes.
- 1:06:19Speaker 2: But eventually you're gonna get a yes if you're doing more,
- 1:06:21Speaker 2: you know.
- 1:06:22Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just too much though.
- 1:06:24Speaker 1: So you you're at I don't know, a cheesecake factory
- 1:06:26Speaker 1: bar and you meet somebody there and y'all organically spark
- 1:06:30Speaker 1: up a conversation on a plane, y'all talking and exchange
- 1:06:32Speaker 1: phone numbers.
- 1:06:33Speaker 3: That is different.
- 1:06:34Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. Immediately you get a person's bio, not in
- 1:06:39Speaker 1: what one hundred.
- 1:06:39Speaker 3: And fifty characters of bullshit.
- 1:06:41Speaker 1: You actually get to converse and have conversation and and
- 1:06:44Speaker 1: and figure out who exactly this person is, a small
- 1:06:46Speaker 1: little piece. Yeah, I'm more of an entrepreneur. I'm not
- 1:06:50Speaker 1: a employee. I'm not interviewing for no goddamn relationship.
- 1:06:55Speaker 2: Both and they were both shit don't matter.
- 1:07:00Speaker 1: I think people have lost the like people don't know
- 1:07:03Speaker 1: really how to talk anymore, especially like the gen zs
- 1:07:05Speaker 1: and shit like that, like everything is text.
- 1:07:09Speaker 2: They don't. Yeah, I'm at this guy in New York
- 1:07:12Speaker 2: jay Z concert and he texts me all.
- 1:07:15Speaker 4: Week, every day.
- 1:07:17Speaker 1: No, I'm here, call me one time. I've lost interest
- 1:07:21Speaker 1: after one day of texting. Promise you it's not that fast.
- 1:07:24Speaker 1: But god damn, are you gonna pick up the phone
- 1:07:26Speaker 1: call me one day?
- 1:07:27Speaker 2: He's like, Oh, would you like that?
- 1:07:31Speaker 3: That's what he's saying.
- 1:07:32Speaker 1: I mean because maybe he might be talking to younger
- 1:07:34Speaker 1: women who will text your ass to death. They okay
- 1:07:36Speaker 1: with like texting, and then some people will start sending
- 1:07:39Speaker 1: you long ass voicemails.
- 1:07:40Speaker 3: Pick up the fucking phone and talk. How do you
- 1:07:42Speaker 3: get to know somebody via text? You can't to me?
- 1:07:45Speaker 1: And texting is Texting is for cheaters? Because why you
- 1:07:48Speaker 1: can't call, why you can't FaceTime? What the fuck are
- 1:07:51Speaker 1: you doing over there?
- 1:07:52Speaker 2: Don't just randomly I'm a facetimer?
- 1:07:55Speaker 3: Oh no, you gonta have set an appointment.
- 1:07:58Speaker 1: And if we're on the phone, don't just randomly hit
- 1:08:00Speaker 1: FaceTime A you Okay.
- 1:08:02Speaker 4: Yeah, did you said an APO answer?
- 1:08:03Speaker 2: But I said approval process.
- 1:08:05Speaker 4: You're looking at your mother.
- 1:08:06Speaker 2: You clearly wanted me to see you. I never said
- 1:08:08Speaker 2: I wanted you to see me mother.
- 1:08:13Speaker 3: Everything is so intrusive, man.
- 1:08:15Speaker 4: All right, last last, Oh that was your last?
- 1:08:17Speaker 2: Last?
- 1:08:18Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 1:08:18Speaker 1: I guess yeah, mine too. Shit made the best bitch one.
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