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- 0:00This is white coat black sheep, where science gets curious
- 0:03and dogma gets uncomfortable.
- 0:10I'm Dr. Selli and we talk physiology, evidence,
- 0:13and real world medicine.
- 0:14Plus the questions you are not supposed to ask,
- 0:17but probably should if you care about health
- 0:20and think there's a better way.
- 0:21Welcome to our show. Hey Justin. How's it going?
- 0:25Good, how are you? Good.
- 0:28I'm sorry I forced you to just, um,
- 0:30be on this side of the camera.
- 0:31I know it's not the usual preference.
- 0:34Nope. It's not usual, but yes, I will do it for you.
- 0:37It was really funny. I watched the control need
- 0:42to control kind of kick it.
- 0:44He tried to run away. Yeah. That's what happened.
- 0:46This is not my comfort zone Yeah. At all.
- 0:49But, you know, my personality profile, I mean,
- 0:52I am the one that breaks the stagnation
- 0:55or like a resistant,
- 0:57like I'm gonna push it in that other direction.
- 0:59Mm-hmm. You did force me to take a test to see
- 1:03American compatible, even though
- 1:04we've been friends for a long time.
- 1:05Yeah. You did make me take a test
- 1:07to see if we are, and we have worked together.
- 1:09So I thought it was a little weird that I was demanded.
- 1:12I was, I was demanded, yeah.
- 1:14Demanded to take a test
- 1:15and it took me, that test took me a good 45 minutes while I
- 1:20was watching Titanic with my son and,
- 1:22and my wife was like, what are you doing?
- 1:23I can pull it up. What
- 1:24are, what are you, what are you doing?
- 1:26I love that. I'm taking, I am taking, I am taking a test.
- 1:28I'm taking a personality test for Valerie.
- 1:31You and I did it. And the, those are,
- 1:34Did you learn anything about yourself?
- 1:36Um, yeah, I think so.
- 1:37But I do also feel like those, those tests are a little,
- 1:40like, I can go either kind of which way.
- 1:42And I always feel like I try to sp find a, a certain moment
- 1:45where I did go one way or the other.
- 1:47Mm-hmm. But there's moments where I feel both ways. So, so
- 1:49You felt like there was maybe a fork in the road
- 1:51that you skewed your results where you would
- 1:53otherwise land in a different personality box?
- 1:56I felt like a lot of the,
- 1:57my answers were going towards one direction
- 1:59and I just felt like I had to kind of mix it up
- 2:01because there were times where based off the question,
- 2:04I was like, no, I did sometimes feel like that.
- 2:06So, and a lot of those questions
- 2:07and then I didn't realize the slider was it,
- 2:11it basically had steps, uhhuh basically some steps.
- 2:14So I was like, oh crap.
- 2:16I went back and I started after about five questions.
- 2:18I was like, oh, you can actually tap a section on that.
- 2:20So it kind of leads. Yes.
- 2:22So the scale, the slight and scale. So, um,
- 2:25So you came out as number one being,
- 2:29oh, that's mine actually.
- 2:32I'm gonna pull your results up.
- 2:34And I'm like, I'm proud of you for doing it. Me too. Okay.
- 2:37So number one was empathizer. Number two was coach.
- 2:41And number three, which is super fun to know about you,
- 2:45is Catalyst, because that's me.
- 2:47You also break stagnation.
- 2:48You also push people into action where they would
- 2:52otherwise just kind of like, well,
- 2:54I'm thinking about this now I'm gonna do that.
- 2:57You push them into the doing, that's a skill.
- 3:00And that also, this really helps with learning how
- 3:04to better communicate with people
- 3:05that you already work with.
- 3:07Yeah. So the top one was empathy,
- 3:09Empathizer, Empathizer.
- 3:11I feel like that one's an obvious one.
- 3:12'cause I always, I feel like I, I not self loath.
- 3:16I do feel like I, I have empathy
- 3:18for other people more than myself usually.
- 3:20Yeah. I'm that person that we gotta hurry up
- 3:22and go, we gotta go 'cause we're making somebody wait
- 3:23or, you know, and it's, it's been a crux.
- 3:25It's been a, an issue with, you know, with
- 3:27Us. So me
- 3:28knowing that to be true about you means that I would
- 3:33better know how to identify that
- 3:36and then recognize when you're doing that to like,
- 3:41I don't know, it's almost like, I mean, I,
- 3:43I have a very similar thing to you,
- 3:45but it'd be like not in your best
- 3:48interest every time. Mm-hmm.
- 3:50Yeah. It's, it's definitely a detriment.
- 3:51It's, it's, sometimes it's, I put others
- 3:54before myself and then realize I have
- 3:56To have some it osteo. Yeah.
- 3:57It does cost me. Yeah. So that brings us here.
- 4:01Let's see mine. Okay, so yours, empathizer, coach Catalyst.
- 4:05And then mine was,
- 4:07let's see, what was the name of the website?
- 4:09This is high five. That's where we did it. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.
- 4:11Which was a, it was a good website. Yeah.
- 4:14Right. So mine is strategist, catalyst believer.
- 4:19So yeah. Anyway, fun to know. Mm-hmm.
- 4:24So we were just kind of going back over the last
- 4:27conversation because,
- 4:29and I'll let you share this part about the questions
- 4:31that you've received since you're a dad, you have kids, uh,
- 4:35you have teens, well, really all different ages. Yeah,
- 4:39Yeah, for sure. Um,
- 4:40yeah, I think the, you're, you're, you're speaking
- 4:42of the, my 15-year-old son brought up the,
- 4:46he brought up the b what is the, the,
- 4:49the correct term for the peptide?
- 4:51Oh, BPC 1 57. Yeah. So he, I picked him
- 4:54Body protection complex.
- 4:55Is it? Okay. So I, I picked him up from, from wrestling
- 4:58and he basically hits me with the dad.
- 5:00Do you know what that is? And I right when he said it, I, I,
- 5:04well, I believe that it was a peptide.
- 5:06Yeah. And I said, yeah, I believe I do.
- 5:08Why He's like a kid from wrestling once says
- 5:12that he can get it for me because of my knees.
- 5:14He's been, he has been injured in his knees.
- 5:17And as some, as dad, I,
- 5:19my knee jerk reaction was like, no, absolutely not.
- 5:21That's not gonna happen. Yeah.
- 5:23And then, and then I did because, just
- 5:25because I not knowing, I just didn't know. And I
- 5:28Just so unfamiliar with the product.
- 5:30Yes. And he's a, a
- 5:31Kid, he's, he's 15. Yeah.
- 5:32Thinking like, if, are you injured or are you hurt?
- 5:35Yeah. If you're injured, there's a problem.
- 5:37If you're hurt, I feel like I'm, you know,
- 5:39I was born in the eighties, I feel like you kind of put,
- 5:41put some dirt on and walk it off.
- 5:42But yeah. Hi, his, he, hi. He has injured his knees.
- 5:45His knees are a problem. Okay.
- 5:47Um, because he is doing wrestling now,
- 5:49so he's never done wrestling.
- 5:50So I felt like, well, maybe you just don't because you're 15
- 5:53and you're jumping into it and you don't know how
- 5:54to actually wrestle correctly.
- 5:56My, yeah. So I'm just giving him, giving a bunch
- 5:58of excuses on why you don't need to add that.
- 6:00Yeah. And then I, I basically told him, I was like, well,
- 6:03actually I do take some peptides
- 6:04and I believe I, I don't even,
- 6:05But you told him in that moment.
- 6:07Yeah. I said, and we never really talked about that. Wow.
- 6:09We never talked about it. He is all, and then he said,
- 6:11are those those things that are in the fridge?
- 6:12I said, yes, they are. And I basically, my excuse was,
- 6:16I am two and a half times older than you
- 6:18and I'm dad. That's what you
- 6:19Told him? Yes.
- 6:20That's what I told him. I was like, I'm old, I'm pain.
- 6:22You know, and I've, you know, spoken to, you know, spoken
- 6:25to a, to a doctor about it.
- 6:27And then, you know, after your, our conversation, I
- 6:30feel like maybe I was a little abrupt
- 6:33and, you know, should have
- 6:34maybe thought about it a little bit more.
- 6:35And now after having more conversations, I feel like,
- 6:38you know, it is something to talk about.
- 6:39Yeah. Yeah.
- 6:41And, and definitely like, knowing how to talk about it.
- 6:43And like I was telling you off camera,
- 6:46I get these questions from parents a little bit
- 6:49for education, but also outta fear.
- 6:52And, uh,
- 6:53and then some of them in the category of, um,
- 6:56make my kid a superhuman.
- 6:58So, um, there's definitely a space in between
- 7:01to navigate it.
- 7:02I, I don't have kids,
- 7:04but definitely for safety profile, these are not an FDA,
- 7:08which, what does that mean?
- 7:10There's a lot to say about it, except
- 7:12that FDA is the language that doctors are trained to speak
- 7:15and, and treat within, you know,
- 7:18there's certain definition definitions
- 7:20and guidelines that we're supposed to abide by.
- 7:22But, so within like the, the realm of
- 7:26off-label is, as we call it, so sort of going rogue,
- 7:30but it's also in the supplement category.
- 7:33Um, this is something that is relatively safe.
- 7:38Now, the reason that you take it, there's different reasons.
- 7:42It's supposed to have really good healing quality.
- 7:44So if you have an acute injury, doesn't, you know,
- 7:48it doesn't really so much matter, like where's the injury,
- 7:50like your gut would benefit from it.
- 7:52There's nasal spray options, there's oral options,
- 7:55there's injectable options.
- 7:57You can inject intramuscular for that.
- 7:59You can also, um, just do into the joint.
- 8:03Um, I do that, uh, if somebody has, like,
- 8:06say they sprained their knee playing soccer. Is that what?
- 8:11Wrestling? Wrestling?
- 8:13Well for you, I think you're taking
- 8:15Something. Oh, for me. Oh yeah. I,
- 8:16yes, I,
- 8:17and I'm telling him to suck it up.
- 8:19And I am trying to do anything to fix my calf.
- 8:21I was doing, uh, parents versus kids' soccer. That's
- 8:25What it was. Yeah. And
- 8:26I, I believe the first time I did it,
- 8:29about a month ago, I tore the bottom part
- 8:31of my calf, like below my calf.
- 8:33Mm-hmm. And, you know, spoke to a friend of ours
- 8:35that we know, and a pa and said, Hey, I, I, I hurt myself.
- 8:39He's, he said, can you point your toe?
- 8:40He's, and, and I said, yes I can.
- 8:42The issue is when I lift my toe up, he said, okay, well,
- 8:45better than my, my understanding is it's, I hurt something,
- 8:49but I hurt the better of the two. Yeah. Um, kind
- 8:51Of He's checking you for Achilles rupture.
- 8:53Yes. I thought, holy s**t. I broke my Achilles.
- 8:56I went and I was like, oh, is my achilles still there?
- 8:58I've never hurt my achilles. And I was like, crap.
- 9:00It was cold. Yeah. It was all that.
- 9:02Uh, the next time, which happened, you know, four days ago,
- 9:05the wife said, you make sure you stretch.
- 9:06And I stretched and do the whole routine
- 9:09and went twice as long playing soccer.
- 9:11But I am 43 years old trying to run around
- 9:13with these little 12 year olds and did it again.
- 9:15I felt it. I was like, holy crap.
- 9:17Is that, was it my right calf?
- 9:19The, I, I don't remember,
- 9:20but I felt like I was the right calf
- 9:22because I do have some, like,
- 9:23some little soreness in the back of my calf.
- 9:25I still have it from a month ago. Yeah.
- 9:27I did the same damn injury. Did both legs. Oh, I
- 9:29Hate that. For you
- 9:30Doing, doing the same thing.
- 9:31So do I need peptides? Do I stick stuff
- 9:33Here? I would without
- 9:34even like hesitation give you the peptides.
- 9:38I would do the BPC 1, 5 7 Wolverine stack.
- 9:42I would, you know, I would, I wouldn't even think twice.
- 9:44Right. The difference really with kids, I mean,
- 9:47you just don't wanna do anything to interfere
- 9:50with their development.
- 9:52If you think about how much you change from like, day zero
- 9:55to two years old, you know, you see a rapid change,
- 9:58or like when you shift into, um, your hormones
- 10:01and you become a teenager, your voice deepens.
- 10:04If you're a male, like there's rapid change that happens.
- 10:07And so anything
- 10:09that you're giving would theoretically intercept
- 10:12those natural processes.
- 10:14So what are we doing? Not sure.
- 10:17Um, you know, the way I really like, I,
- 10:22like I said, just check more data.
- 10:24So you could just check labs more often.
- 10:27Like how are the kidneys doing? Are they impacted?
- 10:29Like, you could do that. The body's pretty, pretty able
- 10:34to heal itself, I believe.
- 10:35You know, sometimes it needs a little bit of replacement
- 10:38of something, uh, whether it's PPC,
- 10:41which is a healing compound or, um, rest or whatever.
- 10:45Like it needs a little bit goes a long way,
- 10:48especially when you're at that age. Yeah.
- 10:50And I am taking testosterone.
- 10:52I don't know if we have public knowledge,
- 10:53but I'm not just built like this naturally, but
- 10:56Oh, okay. Okay.
- 10:57I'm just, you know, you might think, might think he's
- 10:59a, he's a stud you
- 11:00Teenager is what I was thinking. Yeah,
- 11:01Yeah. Like, oh, he's got a teen
- 11:02body.
- 11:03No, but, um, the, the testosterone obviously based off
- 11:07of the doctor who educated
- 11:09and knowing that I could take the Wolverine
- 11:11stack and, you know, I
- 11:12Totally fine together.
- 11:13Yeah. So yeah. That, that feels, that feels well.
- 11:16And then the, the, the kid situation is just, if it's,
- 11:19I think the natural progression of, you know, be
- 11:22as you know, was a teen
- 11:23and knowing that there's still a lot for
- 11:25Developmental Yeah.
- 11:26More development. I didn't want to hinder that.
- 11:28I didn't want anything to be an
- 11:29issue, you know, do it today.
- 11:31And then there's an issue in 10 years. Yeah.
- 11:32I didn't wanna be a part of that,
- 11:33but knowing that it's okay, it's, you know,
- 11:36not everything to excess. Correct.
- 11:37Right. And theoretically, peptides are short acting.
- 11:42They're short term.
- 11:43How much can they really,
- 11:45how much harm could you do in a long term platform?
- 11:50So if you are comparing hormone replacement, which hormones
- 11:54cross into a cell, they control the DNA.
- 11:56Like if you're playing a video game, I don't know
- 11:58how to you play like this.
- 11:59I don't even, I had like a, I don't know,
- 12:01I was imagining like joysticks or so
- 12:03Yeah. Or a we
- 12:04this
- 12:04Or Right. So,
- 12:05so if you have a substance that has access to the DNA,
- 12:09that's more permit, that's more indefinite, that's more
- 12:13concerning and dangerous, theoretically,
- 12:15and more likely to like intercept in a very long-term way.
- 12:19Some process of development.
- 12:20But if you're thinking peptides, they don't go into the DNA,
- 12:25they don't modify that level.
- 12:28Yeah. Hormones like testosterone or estrogen
- 12:31or growth hormone, which I mean, I take all of those, but,
- 12:36but, um, you know,
- 12:38those are supposed to be cycled.
- 12:41So, so if I don't want to, as an adult, if I don't wanna,
- 12:45I shut down my body's ability to make those things.
- 12:48Mm-hmm. Then in my case, I cycle.
- 12:51So you can really get away with hormones.
- 12:53Things that can access the DNA of a cell,
- 12:58say six weeks, eight weeks at a time
- 13:00before you should break,
- 13:03or, uh, sometimes I'll do like a five days, a Monday
- 13:05through Friday and then off Saturday, sunday.
- 13:07So that's still that drop in the, the substance
- 13:10signals the body to step up and make. Mm-hmm.
- 13:13So, yeah. So you just don't do it for a long time.
- 13:16You just give it a little jolt and then take it away?
- 13:17Take it away, and let the body Yes. Kind
- 13:19Of ramp it out. So the cells
- 13:20stay alive, they keep the signal,
- 13:22the sensors are still there.
- 13:24The production system is still there
- 13:25because essentially it's like a factory.
- 13:28And so if you don't keep up the maintenance,
- 13:31you don't keep the cells going.
- 13:32The mitochondria, which produce your energy, they will,
- 13:37they'll, they'll shut down production.
- 13:39Yeah. They'll go to sleep. It's called autophagy. Okay.
- 13:41The clearance of those sleeping ones is autophagy,
- 13:44but if they're just sleeping, they're senescent.
- 13:47So senescent sleeping cells are useless.
- 13:50They're just taking up real estate. Mm-hmm.
- 13:52There is no point.
- 13:53And that's like a guy standing in the way of a hallway.
- 13:56Like, move, move dude. Yeah. Walk through.
- 13:59So that's kind of a good way to think about it.
- 14:01And then if you're like, okay,
- 14:03well I'm taking all these supplements
- 14:05and I don't care if I have to make it myself.
- 14:08So, all right, great.
- 14:09So then those mitochondria kind of, they go
- 14:11to sleep now you wanna clear them,
- 14:13you wanna push the sky outta the way.
- 14:15So that's where things like, uh,
- 14:18exercise is super important.
- 14:19That is good for turning, like moving debris
- 14:21and turning over cells, especially if they're useless
- 14:24and not, not working or needed, um,
- 14:28the sauna, you know?
- 14:29Mm-hmm. Just like ex red light. Yeah.
- 14:31Red light exposure to, to extreme heat or cold plunges.
- 14:35Um, and then you also get the feel good Yeah.
- 14:38Experience with those. But the dopamine,
- 14:40But is, are peptides, you know, guy talk, you know,
- 14:43when somebody, when somebody talks about peptides, you hear
- 14:46that I don't go to the gym like I should,
- 14:48but when people start to know, oh, well Justin did,
- 14:51does this, or even testosterone.
- 14:53I, my understanding as somebody who's not a doctor was the,
- 14:56the bro talk was your base, your testosterone's going lower
- 14:59and lower, the older we get. Is that correct?
- 15:02There's a natural drop after the age of 35. Yes.
- 15:05Like significant, like a, a water slide.
- 15:07Yeah. So I, my understanding with the, the people
- 15:10who I talked about, you know, you didn't gimme my first dose
- 15:13of testosterone, but was your body's basically
- 15:16quote unquote dying.
- 15:17It's going down. Mm-hmm.
- 15:18And, you know, as a a 15-year-old, it's going up. Yeah.
- 15:22I'm going down and I'm trying to just keep it at that level.
- 15:24That's a great thing that you just said. Yeah.
- 15:27Because if you can imagine like, when, if I were
- 15:30to give a 15-year-old testosterone, then the signal
- 15:34to keep making more, it would cap it.
- 15:36Mm-hmm. So what he has is what he has,
- 15:38his development is what he is.
- 15:41And you know, what would really, so the main thing
- 15:45after you stop growing,
- 15:47'cause like, say you reach like 15, 17,
- 15:49your growth plate fuses mm-hmm.
- 15:52The frontal lobe where your decision making is,
- 15:54where your higher exec executive functioning exists.
- 15:58That is dull. You're kind of like, I, I think about that
- 16:02and I'm like, I don't wanna, I don't know.
- 16:04It seems super important. Yeah.
- 16:07Yeah. And for this kid in question, I'm, yeah,
- 16:09I'm not gonna do that because he needs
- 16:11that lobe because Yeah.
- 16:12He, he definitely needs that.
- 16:14Uh, can I spitball a couple, a couple, like non non,
- 16:18like frequently asked questions or Bro, talk about, yeah.
- 16:20Testosterone. Yeah. If I take testosterone,
- 16:24my body stops producing testosterone, is
- 16:26that based off of how much I take? Or am i
- 16:29It greatly reduces the amount that you make.
- 16:32Okay. And is that a, if I'm not making any,
- 16:35I think when I first, when I got tested, what is the scale?
- 16:38I guess, what is the scale for testosterone?
- 16:40I know the, the women's, the,
- 16:41the women's scale is, is is lower.
- 16:44Correct? Like high testosterone,
- 16:46normal testosterone, whatever. Where is that supposed
- 16:47To be? Yeah. So I,
- 16:48for, for men by reference range,
- 16:52normal medicine, boring lab, uh,
- 16:56norms would be like 600 to 900. And
- 16:59That's normal. That's
- 17:00normal. Doesn't mean that people feel good mm-hmm.
- 17:04At that range or that it's like perfect for customized care.
- 17:08Yeah. But if you're seeing a regular doctor,
- 17:11and this is what your results come back as,
- 17:13then they'll say, oh, you're good.
- 17:15And then there's probably no more conversation from there.
- 17:17So whether you feel good or you don't feel good,
- 17:19that's what it's normal.
- 17:20Yeah. What, what is your magic number?
- 17:23Or, I know I'm, I assume you can't box it all there,
- 17:26but is if you saw, that's a good question.
- 17:27If you saw a 900, are you still thinking,
- 17:29Hey, it could probably be better?
- 17:30Or how do you feel? Because the nu like you're saying,
- 17:33my number could have been eight 50, but I feel like s**t,
- 17:37The number one thing that I always, always try to
- 17:42lead with is I'm treating the person, not the paper.
- 17:46So the labs are insightful, they're helpful, um,
- 17:51but they don't really give me the full decision.
- 17:55The full decision comes from the person conversation.
- 17:57How do you feel? Yeah. Do you,
- 17:59do you feel like you have mental clarity?
- 18:02Do you feel, uh, like your libido is good?
- 18:05Do you feel like you're working out?
- 18:07Are you lifting heavier? I lift heavier with testosterone.
- 18:11How do you feel when somebody comes in, like a person
- 18:13who doesn't like, there is those people that lift
- 18:16and work out and eat well,
- 18:18and then there's us, us the others who are busy dads,
- 18:23you know, can't do, you know, maybe it might be golf.
- 18:26Golf is, you know, is my new thing,
- 18:28and I'm trying to make that health, my health,
- 18:30my healthy, um, activity.
- 18:31But when somebody comes in there, then they say,
- 18:34Hey, I want testosterone.
- 18:35And you look at 'em and you, you obviously can tell
- 18:37that they're not at the gym regularly.
- 18:39It's just not in the carts for everybody.
- 18:40Not everybody's gonna be at the gym.
- 18:42Do you, do you put them in a different box
- 18:44and try to help them get to a point?
- 18:46I'm a little aggressive. Okay. I'll tell you.
- 18:48Can you tell 'em, you gotta get in the gym,
- 18:50or you're not gonna get any of this, or,
- 18:51It depends on the person.
- 18:52Okay. So I'm not gonna go into you as the
- 18:57specimen at this moment, but I do have another client.
- 19:03Okay. We're not talking about me. I'm asking for a friend.
- 19:07So, uh, you know,
- 19:09sometimes it means I do send people from my team out to
- 19:12that person, whether they're not getting their shots.
- 19:15'cause they're like, oh, I forgot, like,
- 19:16so inconsistent testosterone use is a problem.
- 19:19Oh yeah. Um, you have like other issues that come up
- 19:22with like estrogen, you know, rebound.
- 19:25But if it's failure to load your muscles, then
- 19:29I will, it'll just be a very annoying,
- 19:33like, I won't go away.
- 19:34Like, we have to, we have to like load your muscles.
- 19:36So sometimes sending a trainer to somebody is my next move.
- 19:41And it doesn't take long. It does not.
- 19:43I mean, just say you did like 10, 15 minutes Exactly.
- 19:46Something if you did that,
- 19:49it is tremendously more beneficial.
- 19:52Even like your, your lifespan is gonna be more,
- 19:55so it's worth your time.
- 19:57So if you're like, oh, if I, the act of going to the gym,
- 20:01I mean, there's prem anxiety,
- 20:02there's like procrastination that happens.
- 20:05Like there's just so many things.
- 20:06But even just the thought of you about to work out
- 20:08and then say you did work out for 15 minutes,
- 20:10you just did like low reps, so you did, you know, six
- 20:13to eight curls
- 20:17and, uh, you did that three times
- 20:20and you did maybe some, some air squats.
- 20:22I mean, it does not take much. It
- 20:24Can be calisthenic though, right?
- 20:25It doesn't absolutely be body weight. Yes.
- 20:26You can literally do it at home.
- 20:28Literally do it at home.
- 20:29Don't make it a big deal, but you've got to do it.
- 20:32And so the, I can't do it. I'm busy. All these things.
- 20:34I'm like, I, here's what I hear. Wah wah wah.
- 20:37W wah wa wa wa waah wa wa
- 20:39We're not talking about me, right?
- 20:40No, your friends. No. Yeah, my friend.
- 20:42Yes. Yeah. But there's lots of people like your friends.
- 20:46Yeah. Lot of friends. Yeah. Yeah.
- 20:47And so, and so I really, it, it's part of I guess what I do
- 20:51to navigate that.
- 20:52And like, as I hear in conversation things that keep kind
- 20:55of coming back up and I'm like,
- 20:57okay, so this is the barrier.
- 20:58I, I try to identify the barriers.
- 21:00So if you're saying, well, I'm just busy da, and,
- 21:03and your schedule's erratic.
- 21:05Mm-hmm. Your friend's schedule's erratic. Right? Exactly.
- 21:07Yep. So in that scenario, um, so what could I,
- 21:13what space could I find that's consistent for you?
- 21:15I mean, just walking down the hallway,
- 21:17It feels like you don't want, you're not gonna find,
- 21:18you're gonna find a place where you're,
- 21:20there's not a No, you're
- 21:21Not, I'm not gonna let you fail. Yeah, yeah,
- 21:22Yeah. You're gonna find
- 21:23your Yes. Lay, lay out your schedule.
- 21:25Let me hear all the sh all the stuff you have to do. Yes.
- 21:28And let's find a time where you can take 10 minutes
- 21:30to do some body lunges.
- 21:31Exactly. I mean, that's nothing. Yeah, that's nothing.
- 21:33I've wasted way more time Yeah. Doing
- 21:35That thing. And I, and I, and I
- 21:36feel like as far as I've known you,
- 21:37and I've never been, you know, you know, I,
- 21:39I'm not this person, but I assume that you're taking, that
- 21:42you want this person to genuinely feel better
- 21:44and you know that Absolutely.
- 21:46A magic peptide or a pill. There's not a magic pill.
- 21:48Nothing. Yeah. So like the peptides will help
- 21:50and the, they, the testosterone will help.
- 21:52All these things will help. And you still,
- 21:53you need to put a little effort in.
- 21:55Yeah. You gotta what you put in you get back. Yeah.
- 21:57Is what I, yeah. Because I mean, honestly,
- 21:59your success is my success.
- 22:01If you fail, then like, we failed. Mm-hmm.
- 22:03And I'm like, what? Okay, we're gonna get an A plus. Yeah.
- 22:06And even if, even if we make like a B,
- 22:08that's better than the f you're trying to give yourself.
- 22:12So just Yeah.
- 22:13Identifying those barriers and,
- 22:14and people aren't, you're not going, you're not going to get
- 22:17where you're trying to go or really make any traction just
- 22:21with one thing, one supplement, one injection, one product.
- 22:24It's going to be probably with a team, you know,
- 22:27surrounding yourself with the right recipe for success
- 22:30and giving your body the right tools for success.
- 22:33One thing is not it. Yeah.
- 22:35Well, you definitely can't do 20 bad habits in a day.
- 22:40Right. Or a week in a month
- 22:41and fix it with one little thing.
- 22:42Right. You have to kill some of those things off.
- 22:45It's, I think it's impossible to do. It's insanity.
- 22:47You can't do the same thing and expect a different result.
- 22:49So you have to change a little bit.
- 22:51And maybe not for some of my, like my friend,
- 22:53the weak-minded friends, you know, you cut out, you know,
- 22:56maybe cut out eating late or Yeah.
- 22:58Eating before a bad thing that I, a habit
- 23:00that I have is eating late.
- 23:02Yeah. I love to eat late.
- 23:03And I, and now I know that that is bad for me.
- 23:06My sleep has been bad for years, you know,
- 23:08from back and neck problems.
- 23:09But just, why is my sleep so bad?
- 23:11Oh, well, I ate at nine mm-hmm.
- 23:13And I'm going to bed at 9 30, 9 45,
- 23:15and my body is correct mm-hmm.
- 23:18Processing that food. So I, when I'm supposed
- 23:20to be sleeping, it's digesting food.
- 23:23Is that right? Or is that a myth? Or am I,
- 23:25There's a lot to
- 23:26that and I, that's pretty different topic.
- 23:28You know, I think we, it is worthwhile
- 23:30to give it energy in a whole space,
- 23:33but the short version is, it depends on the person.
- 23:37The major conversation is really asking what happens
- 23:42after I eat and if I go to sleep,
- 23:45what happens when I go to sleep?
- 23:46And it can, these two things coexist together.
- 23:50So for some people it might be helpful for them to sleep
- 23:54because you get insulin that goes up, uh,
- 23:58it's called splenic dilation.
- 23:59You get your blood vessels that dilate, they give more blood
- 24:03to the stomach and digestion, rest and digest.
- 24:06Some people like a bowl of cereal
- 24:08or eating late makes them go to sleep.
- 24:11And it's that spl splenic dilation
- 24:13and the insulin that makes them feel sleepy.
- 24:16Oh, for sure. I feel sleepy.
- 24:17But yeah, I, you know, I eat some food. I eat a sandwich.
- 24:20I feel sleepy. But is that helping my sleep?
- 24:23Is the sleep better because of
- 24:25That? It's not a ideal. Well, okay.
- 24:26So your sleep might be good.
- 24:27Okay. So say it helps in the sleep performance category.
- 24:30Like your, you feel like that helps me go to sleep
- 24:32and stay asleep, but in the space of longevity
- 24:35and efficiency and performance
- 24:37and, uh, your next day.
- 24:41So, so it, it takes away from that. Yeah.
- 24:44Just like, I mean, I think of it, there is a really good,
- 24:47uh, podcast I listened to by, um, this,
- 24:50he's a neuroscientist.
- 24:52But essentially you're always kind of balancing like, okay,
- 24:56I have this long, this many years
- 24:59that I'm genetically predisposed to live.
- 25:02And my lifestyle counts for, you know, the range of like,
- 25:07say five to 20 years that you could add on or take away.
- 25:10Mm-hmm. 'cause you can live hard, die young.
- 25:14You can, you know, live slower, live longer,
- 25:18but you're always kind of thinking like against that insulin
- 25:22that is spiked.
- 25:23And, and that remains higher.
- 25:25You live shorter, a lower insulin.
- 25:29You live longer, lower glucose, you live longer,
- 25:32you sleep more deeply.
- 25:34You live longer. If you clear out your cells more
- 25:38and have a healthier mitochondria with, uh,
- 25:41more autophagy, you live longer.
- 25:43I think sleep's a whole different topic.
- 25:45'cause there's a lot, like Totally is the, the, the,
- 25:47the getting up and going pee as a 40-year-old and like
- 25:50Prostate. Prostate. That friend.
- 25:52Yeah. My friend says he wakes up
- 25:54and goes to the bathroom a lot, so, okay.
- 25:57And I, I know that's not regular, you know. Yeah.
- 25:59Then some people, like, let's just say it's me.
- 26:01Let's just say like, like I wake up, I,
- 26:03I drink a big glass of water to go to bed.
- 26:05'cause I feel like, oh, that's when I really take my water
- 26:07in is right before I go to bed.
- 26:09Why? I don't know.
- 26:10'cause I don't drink water during the day.
- 26:11Like, my business partner literally has to give me,
- 26:13brings me water while we're on set, because I don't drink
- 26:15Water. I used to be me. Yeah.
- 26:17And I just don't, I'm like, I don't need water.
- 26:18And then like, yes, I know that's bad. I understand.
- 26:21That's bad. And you know,
- 26:22my daughter bought me a nice little, uh, aala.
- 26:25Yeah. That, that I can carry. I carry around, but I Sounds
- 26:27Cute. A koala. What is it?
- 26:29It's an aala. It's like the drink.
- 26:31I'm gonna look that Up right now. Yeah.
- 26:32It's like everybody has 'em.
- 26:33Like, they're like, I definitely have a, like a and they're,
- 26:36and they're, and they're great because they're, you can,
- 26:38you can, it's a straw,
- 26:39but also you can drink out of like a normal,
- 26:41Like a sippy cup.
- 26:43Yeah. It's basically a like an adult sippy cup.
- 26:45But it also, you can drink out
- 26:46of it this way, but then if you don't
- 26:48Want, oh, it comes up as a baby something.
- 26:51Okay. I must be listening. A wallow.
- 26:52Uh, how do you spell it a s**t?
- 26:55I think if you just look, uh, yeah,
- 26:57I think there's a w Oh Walla. Oh,
- 26:58Walla. Oh w yeah.
- 27:00But you know, she bought me one of those
- 27:02and I've had it for two years
- 27:03and I usually will have it with me.
- 27:04That that's nice. But I think carrying it with you isn't
- 27:07as good as drinking out of it.
- 27:09Like, just carrying around with me, you know? So,
- 27:11Um, my partner has an awa.
- 27:13I didn't know that that's what mm-hmm.
- 27:14An AWA was or that it's a thing.
- 27:16The colors are great on it. The colors
- 27:17Are great. Yeah. You,
- 27:18It doesn't fit into any couple or heat drops
- 27:20It constantly.
- 27:21Well they're, they're, they, they do make, if you like,
- 27:24shop on Amazon or, you know, they,
- 27:26they do make like adapters for that,
- 27:28which is a big o pain in the ass, but an adapter for that.
- 27:31But any, any water can,
- 27:33canteen doesn't fit in anything normal.
- 27:34Like Yeah. Some And your a wall is not gonna fit in
- 27:37something that can fit into, yeah.
- 27:39So, yeah, I think the water and intake,
- 27:40but yes, drinking water before bed.
- 27:42'cause I just feel like I want to, it's right by the bed.
- 27:44The bed, and I drink it and I wake up three times. And then
- 27:47Do you have your phone on you?
- 27:49No. Oh. What time do you wake up?
- 27:52I wake up at, I wake, I wake up multiple times a night,
- 27:56but when I wake up it's five 30.
- 27:59Okay. But I wake up constantly to wake up, you know?
- 28:01Yeah. The pillow between the legs.
- 28:03If we're gonna talking about sleep, the pillow
- 28:04between the legs, sleep back, the back and then here.
- 28:06Yeah. Wake up, touch my phone. Crap.
- 28:08It's a, I go to bed at nine to 10 mm-hmm. 11 ish. Mm-hmm.
- 28:13Sometimes I know that I have other questions,
- 28:15but go to try to go to bed at the same time.
- 28:18Mm-hmm. Like a routine. Yeah.
- 28:19And I, I read that and I
- 28:20was like, Ooh, that's, that makes sense.
- 28:21Yeah. Go to bed at the same time all the time if you can.
- 28:24Yeah. Go to bed. Call it 10 o'clock.
- 28:28It's better for your, a circadian rhythm. Mm-hmm.
- 28:30Rhythm. Rhythm. Yeah. So go to bed at 10. Yeah.
- 28:32I'm up at, I wake up.
- 28:34I feel like I got a, I I feel like
- 28:35it's, I've been asleep for hours.
- 28:36Mm-hmm. I roll over, I test my phone. It's two hours.
- 28:39That's right. Okay.
- 28:41So, yeah. But just, yeah.
- 28:42But it's like, what time is it because is it, is it right
- 28:44before I have to wake up or what?
- 28:45Yeah. What effing time is it?
- 28:47So I go and click and then I'm back and forth
- 28:48and I'm grabbing my pillow.
- 28:50That's long pillow that's right on the side of the bed.
- 28:51Put it in between the legs, roll over, toss and turn.
- 28:54Um, and maybe possibly go to the bathroom.
- 28:56The bathroom, the bathroom trips have been less than mm-hmm.
- 28:59But they definitely are still there. Mm-hmm.
- 29:01You know, and it's just one of those things where I'm like,
- 29:02I think I can hold it, but I have two more hours of sleep.
- 29:05I'd rather just get this outta me and then try to relax.
- 29:08It's such a habit to grab the phone and check.
- 29:11It is such a habit. It's such a bad one. Yeah.
- 29:14I mean, every time that happens, I would think,
- 29:18think of that as toxic.
- 29:20It, it literally is toxic
- 29:21because you ruin your melatonin search
- 29:24and then it just, in, in every loop of
- 29:26that circadian pattern is just like, you,
- 29:29you've just murdered it.
- 29:31Yeah. And start all, you have to start again.
- 29:33Yeah. So, um, I mean, to think of it in
- 29:36that extreme is like, it seems crazy.
- 29:38But now that we're here
- 29:39and like, there's such a problem, I, I have trouble too,
- 29:42just like resting, chilling.
- 29:45Mm-hmm. Uh, sitting,
- 29:46Being bored. Being
- 29:47Bored. Just being bored. I don't even
- 29:48know what, what is this?
- 29:50Yeah. So, so I mean, just the, the touching
- 29:52of the phone, looking at the time.
- 29:53And then, you know, say, say you just stopped doing
- 29:56that part and you just like slept through the whole night.
- 29:59Well, what would that look like?
- 30:00Well, drinking water in the morning.
- 30:02So what would that look like? Mm-hmm.
- 30:04Because you can't think about it. Well just wake up
- 30:07and that's the first thing that you do.
- 30:09So, set an alarm on your phone
- 30:10that you have your wake up alarm.
- 30:11Then you have your water alarm.
- 30:13How, how is your sleep? How do you, oh, okay.
- 30:16Well, last thing before, because
- 30:17I'd like to hear your opinion.
- 30:18Dreaming. I used to dream a lot as a child. Yeah.
- 30:21And twenties, like vivid dreams. Mm-hmm.
- 30:24You know, not a lot of weird dreams, but dreams. Yeah.
- 30:26And my son will wake up and
- 30:27he's like, dad, I had this dream.
- 30:28I'm like, mother, I don't, I haven't dreamt ever.
- 30:31And the only time I actually remember dreaming is yeah.
- 30:34Waking up, checking my phone
- 30:36and going back to bed for 45 minutes
- 30:38and then boom, I remember my dream.
- 30:39I feel like that's when I remember my dream. Yeah.
- 30:41I re I will remember a dream maybe
- 30:44two or three times a year now.
- 30:45And I feel like I don't even dream anymore.
- 30:47I don't feel like I get to that point
- 30:48where my body even starts to dream.
- 30:50Yeah. And then I'm waking up constantly.
- 30:51I'm waking up two to five times a night. Yeah.
- 30:54Going to the bathroom maybe once or twice and not dreaming.
- 30:57I like, what is your sleep like? I know how my wife sleeps.
- 31:00She sleeps like a damn rock. How do you sleep? Yeah.
- 31:03I don't. Well, okay, so you don't sleep at all?
- 31:07No, I, I do no sleep. No sleep.
- 31:09I sleep eight hours, seven to eight hours.
- 31:12I am a tyrant on myself now about sleep.
- 31:15And if I break my own rules with myself
- 31:20of going to bed, say it's nine 30
- 31:22and I'm not in bed, I hate myself.
- 31:25And I'm like, I failed.
- 31:26And so that is, that is like my new protected space.
- 31:29Because that's your longevity.
- 31:30That's when you, that's, that's your, your
- 31:32Brain body fix. I feel
- 31:33like your body fixes yourself. Yes.
- 31:34That's where like all that happens. Yeah.
- 31:37Do you, do you put your phone away?
- 31:38The I I read you put your phone away
- 31:40an hour before or four, five?
- 31:41Uh, at at, yeah. At length. Before you go to bed.
- 31:43Not here, here, here. I'm on the phone.
- 31:45I drop it on my head. Oh crap. Now I have to go to bed.
- 31:46I put it down and go straight to bed. Yeah. I,
- 31:48No, my, my phone is down. I
- 31:49don't look at it past nine usually maybe nine 30 if I'm
- 31:52really like, slacking on my own rule.
- 31:54But, um, you know, to answer that question, I have had to
- 32:00look at this ring to,
- 32:04to better answer for myself because
- 32:06What is that called? I, this
- 32:07Is a ring con.
- 32:08Okay. Alright. And GC C kind
- 32:11Of like a, kinda like the whoop strap, but it a ring. I
- 32:13Like the whoop, I think the whoop is more like stylish.
- 32:15But this is, this is good.
- 32:16If I'm working out, I don't like
- 32:17how it feels with weights in my hands.
- 32:19But, um, yeah.
- 32:21I, I think I would've said subjectively
- 32:23that I sleep great prior
- 32:25to me getting like a tyrant on myself.
- 32:27But I feel great and I sleep well. It's not a problem.
- 32:29It's something else is wrong. Yeah. Right.
- 32:31So, but then after I got this
- 32:32and I actually looked at the real dad of my sleep,
- 32:36it was atrocities.
- 32:37I was like, I had, I don't know, maybe six to seven hours
- 32:41or often even four to five hours of light sleep.
- 32:45That's like, that's a sham. That's a joke.
- 32:47I was just like, that is not, no one's healing.
- 32:49No one's getting brain health in that. Yeah.
- 32:51That's, you wanna get to rem is that
- 32:53Want ideally four hours.
- 32:56First four hours are gonna be your deep restorative sleep
- 32:59and you wouldn't dream in that.
- 33:01And then the second four hours is really where you rem.
- 33:04And if you're depleted on sleep
- 33:06or if you're depleted in really like your prior rems,
- 33:09you didn't have enough REM sleep
- 33:11or you didn't have enough deep restorative,
- 33:12then you won't make it all the way to the REM sleep.
- 33:14This is a space where you really see dreams
- 33:17and you have like longer like pulses of rem
- 33:20and then they shorten the next cycle is a little shorter.
- 33:23The next one's a little shorter. And this is a shorter,
- 33:25and this is the one that usually like, wake up from.
- 33:28And it's really weird because in sleep, your,
- 33:30your body is really like releasing these
- 33:32chemicals that paralyze you.
- 33:34And then they un paralyze you paralyze, you un paralyze you.
- 33:38And some people with a disorder,
- 33:40they get paralyzed and they wake up
- 33:43And they Can't move. And they
- 33:44can't move. That's a hypnagogic state.
- 33:47It looks awful. I don't have it, but that would would suck.
- 33:52Mm-hmm. But anyway, so I was not having that,
- 33:56um, you know, proper sleep.
- 33:57I was just all in like the light sleep zone. That's garbage.
- 34:00Yeah. It's like a little cat nap. Mm-hmm. My cat, no.
- 34:03So I just, I had to really like work on it.
- 34:06And certain things like, uh,
- 34:08melatonin can make you dream more.
- 34:10Mm-hmm. Uh, they don't do that for everybody.
- 34:13But I would say it probably does that for me. Yeah.
- 34:16I did Ambien a long time ago. And
- 34:17Did you like it?
- 34:19Um, I, I was asleep. Yeah. For the whole night.
- 34:22I didn't feel rested. Yeah.
- 34:23I felt like it just put me to bed. Yeah.
- 34:25And just kept me there. And then I woke up.
- 34:27The, the issue for me is waking up tired.
- 34:29Yeah. That's the worst, like
- 34:30Hangover.
- 34:32Nope. It What? Or really probably just like,
- 34:34you didn't have the,
- 34:36the deep restorative. You probably Okay.
- 34:38Not, probably not, not drinking. I'm tired.
- 34:39I'm, I'm going to bed Tired, exhausted waking up. Yeah.
- 34:42And still feeling tired. Not
- 34:43Feeling. So you stayed at, you stayed
- 34:44essentially in the light sleep zone?
- 34:46The one that I was in. I
- 34:47Feel like that's where I live.
- 34:48I don't feel I'm, I don't feel like I'm in rem. Yeah.
- 34:51Is that like a co is that a common thing
- 34:53for people nowadays?
- 34:54Or is it just, is it just based off of just,
- 34:57I think it's, it's easier to achieve light sleep.
- 34:59If we're saying like, what is more challenging?
- 35:02What do people struggle with the most?
- 35:03They're going to struggle more
- 35:04with the deep restorative sleep to like drop in.
- 35:08'cause like, if you close your eyes, like
- 35:09that's like alpha sleep.
- 35:11And if you drop into your first layer of sleep, be sleep,
- 35:14you want delta sleep, that's like,
- 35:17it's a different wavelength.
- 35:18If neurology has got like little stickers on your head.
- 35:20Yeah. Delta, you can track it. It's deep sleep.
- 35:23The waves of your brain are different.
- 35:25Your mitochondria respond different.
- 35:27Your energy shifts differently.
- 35:30Is it all? So I'm a a are you a deep sleeper
- 35:33or are you are like, do you catnap do you are do you wake up
- 35:36At I never nap. Oh,
- 35:37Well, like when you sleep, you know,
- 35:39one little cricket at the door, you wake.
- 35:40Oh yeah. Could something like pull me out of deep sleep?
- 35:43Um, I, if I am,
- 35:47if I'm like in my usual like
- 35:49proper like Yeah, proper normal.
- 35:50Yeah. Then, then if it's like probably like early,
- 35:53early in the morning, then I might hear it.
- 35:55But otherwise I would probably like
- 35:57be more in the deep sleep. Yeah.
- 35:59I, so I'm weird. I, I feel like I'm weird.
- 36:02A weird case because I don't feel rested.
- 36:04But I am a deep sleeper and I'm that person.
- 36:06Like, I know there's some people that take a while
- 36:08to kind of get in sleep.
- 36:10I'm a put my head down. Like my wife is
- 36:11like, brush your teeth babe.
- 36:12Let's you know, wait up for me. I literally close my eyes.
- 36:15I'm, I'm out. I am out.
- 36:17That's such a life skill.
- 36:18Oh yeah. I'm, I can sleep anywhere. Yeah. If I had to.
- 36:21Um, but I also, like,
- 36:23I've been notoriously bad at falling asleep at parties,
- 36:26like full blown house parties.
- 36:27And I'm just done. I'm tired. I I used to do that. Yeah.
- 36:30I'm tired. I literally, there was a house party
- 36:31and that I'm thinking about, we were at a party.
- 36:34There was 40 people there.
- 36:35I think it was like New Year's Eve.
- 36:36And I literally went to the living room, laid on the couch,
- 36:39I slept all the way through it.
- 36:40And people came up, took photos of me. I I was out.
- 36:43I would not wake up for that.
- 36:44But when it's time to actually sleep
- 36:46and get really good sleep, I just can't.
- 36:47I, yeah. My kids are yelling,
- 36:49screaming, did you hear the bang?
- 36:51I don't, I don't wake up. I do not wake up.
- 36:53I'm probably not a good, you know, home invasion.
- 36:54We're, we're screwed. But I don't feel, I don't feel like,
- 36:58I don't feel like I get that rest.
- 37:00So Yeah. I, I get, I get to sleep fast. I sleep deep.
- 37:03I feel like it's a deep sleep,
- 37:04but I don't feel like it's restorative. Like you,
- 37:06Yeah. So if,
- 37:07if a patient like you came in,
- 37:11I would just have to get more data.
- 37:12So I would, um, say sleep
- 37:14Study. Do you do a sleep study?
- 37:15Do you send 'em?
- 37:16So you can, you can, but do you
- 37:17Like sleep studies As doctor?
- 37:18I do. Yeah. Yeah. And we actually do them at phase one.
- 37:20Really? So I know if you saw the rooms with the beds,
- 37:23I saw the beds. We have all
- 37:24The equipment. I asked
- 37:25Her about that because I'm, you know,
- 37:27I had some we can talk off 'cause Yeah.
- 37:31I want somebody to poke and prod and figure out what real,
- 37:33because you know, I feel like you, I can tell you how I feel
- 37:37or like the things that I'm doing,
- 37:38but I could be even just making, not making that up
- 37:40and not giving you exactly the right info. But yeah,
- 37:43That's in the subjective category. Yes. Yes.
- 37:45Yeah. It could be subjective. So Yeah.
- 37:47I didn't know they did that at phase. What is phase one?
- 37:49Yep. Yep. It's clinical trials.
- 37:50So we do pharmaceutical clinical trials.
- 37:53We have different durations in different
- 37:55pharmas that we work with.
- 37:57The, the premise basically kind
- 38:00of changes slightly based on which
- 38:01company we're working with.
- 38:03Uh, they could run anywhere from five weeks to 20 weeks.
- 38:07It just depends which one. And
- 38:08So clinical you're doing, you're testing meds
- 38:11and seeing how they actually work.
- 38:12Sometimes it's medication. Okay.
- 38:13Sometimes it's just monitoring, uh,
- 38:16looking at everybody's waves or their oxygen.
- 38:19Okay. Uh, snoring, just, uh,
- 38:21sometimes their behavioral studies, it just depends. Oh,
- 38:24We could talk about snoring Second.
- 38:25So, yeah. Oh my god. Well, snoring is a major part
- 38:27of poor sleep. So,
- 38:29And sleep apnea. And
- 38:30All sleep apnea. So
- 38:31it's very relevant too, when the conversation of
- 38:36how am I sleeping, why don't I feel great?
- 38:38So just everything that you told me now
- 38:41that I would look at your, um, I would ask
- 38:43to see your data from your, I'd be like, okay,
- 38:45I hear you subjectively.
- 38:46Mm-hmm. This is how you feel and
- 38:48this is what your behaviors are.
- 38:49But when you come back in one week,
- 38:51let me see your watch data
- 38:53or your, your, whatever your device is.
- 38:55Yeah. So we look at that
- 38:58Before you go on the, the, the ring, the watt,
- 39:00the watch, the band.
- 39:02Mm-hmm. There are, I do have an app.
- 39:04I don't use it much anymore, but I do have an app
- 39:05where you lay by you and it's not connected to you,
- 39:07but it can, it can hear me grinding my
- 39:09teeth. It can hear me
- 39:11Snoring. You're a key snoring, key grinder.
- 39:12Oh yeah. Hmm. Yeah. There's a lot, there's a lot to it.
- 39:15We can unpack all that later.
- 39:17But do you, like, is there one that it to me as,
- 39:20as a non-doctor or a non-clinician, it would be nice
- 39:23to be able to say, here, take the ring.
- 39:24Take the whoop, I'm gonna send it home with you.
- 39:26I want you to track yourself
- 39:27for 30 days and come back to me.
- 39:29Yeah. I'm sure that is not as good
- 39:31as sending 'em to phase one.
- 39:33And they do the, the, the sleep study, which is, you know,
- 39:36Is that one. I think it's
- 39:37for different purposes.
- 39:38So I think, you know, you can still get really good
- 39:41data just from a device.
- 39:43And in fact, I have affiliate links.
- 39:44I mean, I, I like the ring con.
- 39:46I have, I like the whoop I have.
- 39:48So you can make money when I buy this.
- 39:50I would, I would make, yeah.
- 39:54Sometimes I just give, I get discounts Right.
- 39:57For people that I send. But, but you should,
- 39:59But you believe in it though.
- 40:00I believe in it. Yeah. I obviously,
- 40:01But you're using it. Yeah. If you're using it. Yeah.
- 40:03It changed my life.
- 40:04So the fact that I just was, I'm a doctor
- 40:07and I'm in this field
- 40:08and I was the one telling my doctor I sleep great.
- 40:11And then I was just like, grossed out
- 40:13with the results of light sleep.
- 40:15Yeah. Like, I'm a hypocrite.
- 40:18So no, I felt, I felt like a total hypocrite.
- 40:20But anyway, I changed it.
- 40:21And in my case, I don't have structural issues of my,
- 40:24my breathing airway so that I, and I don't snore.
- 40:28Okay. I've asked, I've asked, I don't
- 40:31Snore. I'm gonna ask Chris.
- 40:32I have some videos like,
- 40:36But I did evaluate, you know, myself for that.
- 40:39And even like with your device, like my ring,
- 40:42it'll show my oxygen levels.
- 40:43So, um, if I have moments where I'm not breathing,
- 40:47that'd be sleep apnea.
- 40:49And so really less than 88% for a period
- 40:52of time, that's a problem.
- 40:54You know, you're, you're losing brain cells,
- 40:56your sleep quality is terrible.
- 40:58And, uh, obesity's a major side effect of
- 41:01that high blood pressure.
- 41:03Really, you can trace back a lot of comorbidities to that.
- 41:07So, uh, diabetes, metabolic issues, PCOS, infertility,
- 41:11there's so much.
- 41:13So really like, I would say that'd be square one.
- 41:16Like optimize your sleep. Are sleeping. Yeah.
- 41:18How do you know, check your data.
- 41:19I think the next time we do this, I think
- 41:21because we're gonna, I think we're gonna glaze
- 41:23over a lot of topics.
- 41:24Yeah. And not, I, I think, I think most people want,
- 41:26at least in my circles, the sleep,
- 41:29I think really talking about sleep.
- 41:30But in the snoring, there's so many different,
- 41:32and then the devices, the, the tape, the tapes,
- 41:35the apnea machines Yeah.
- 41:36Devices that you kinda get sucked into. Yeah.
- 41:38The straps, which I've done 'em all.
- 41:40I've done 'em all as a self-diagnosed. I I've done it.
- 41:45I I've done 'em, I've done the tape, I've done the thing.
- 41:47Yeah. So those, those are nice.
- 41:48And then like, I think a lot with where we're at in society
- 41:52and in the world now, you know, stress.
- 41:54Yeah. Stress is, I feel like stress kill. Oh, huge.
- 41:57Yeah. And cortisol is
- 41:58Business owner, Kids, you know, father, you know.
- 42:01So I feel like, yeah. You know, cortisol is a thing
- 42:03that I've been kind of looking
- 42:05into, which I don't know enough.
- 42:06Yeah. I don't, I don't know enough
- 42:07to talk about it, but yeah.
- 42:08I feel like I have a lot of
- 42:10that, whatever that is, is, yeah.
- 42:11You know, so, you know, I think that would be a topic for
- 42:14I think the shortest version.
- 42:16Just since you said cortisol, I mean, cortisol is good.
- 42:18I feel like so far the conversation has been how bad it is.
- 42:22Mm-hmm. We need it. I mean, what is it?
- 42:24What, so cortisol is a hormone.
- 42:25It's considered a stress hormone.
- 42:27Uh, but really it's, if you think about it, it's like
- 42:31that is the, it should be high in the morning
- 42:34and low, like a kind of an s mm-hmm.
- 42:36And then low at night when you go to bed,
- 42:39when you rise up from, from sleep, uh,
- 42:42you have like a energy boost
- 42:43and then it, you know, it tells your body to wake up
- 42:46and that makes you feel alert. And, and
- 42:49It's not like adrenaline or is it like adrenaline?
- 42:51It can't, it does act on adrenaline.
- 42:53So, um, and you know, it's just one of those things,
- 42:56like you don't want high levels of
- 42:57that when you're sleeping.
- 42:58Yeah. If you had a sustained cortisol,
- 43:01then you would be looking into like
- 43:03burning out your adrenals.
- 43:04Like, then you're always like stimulating the,
- 43:07the energy like fight or flight signal.
- 43:10And then you get more fat oxidation.
- 43:12And fat oxidation really just means like,
- 43:16you're sending like all of these energy particles
- 43:18to just trash randomly your, your mitochondria.
- 43:21Yeah. So, so it's like the, it's not good.
- 43:24It's good until it's bad.
- 43:26Um, so if you have all of these like signals to, to fight
- 43:30or flight and to go into like just push through this moment,
- 43:34um, you're, you're not gonna just like rest and sleep.
- 43:38What, what is if, if somebody has high cortisol?
- 43:41Is it high body fat?
- 43:42'cause I feel like the cortisol belly, like, it's like I,
- 43:46I don't have a beer belly,
- 43:47but I'm definitely not as fit as I was.
- 43:48Yeah. Sorry. Funny nose. I de I'm definitely not as fit
- 43:51as I was back then, but it's like, oh, my,
- 43:53my stomach's not soft.
- 43:54I've like, it's just hard.
- 43:56But then I'm like, oh, it's
- 43:57not hard because it's a six pack.
- 43:58Yeah. It might be like a lot of cortisol. Is that, is that,
- 44:01So there's kind of, there's a lot
- 44:02of mixing of things there.
- 44:04But is, so if you think of everything
- 44:07as a signal, cortisol is a signal.
- 44:08Mm-hmm. It's a hormone signal
- 44:10and it does direct fat to certain parts of the body.
- 44:14So if you see somebody who has a chronic state
- 44:16of high cortisol, you will see fat directed to the belly
- 44:21and to this little hump.
- 44:22You ever Oh yeah. I seen it smell like a little low hump.
- 44:24Yeah. So they have sustained high levels of cortisol.
- 44:28So that means it breaks down fat here
- 44:30and sends it here, sends it there,
- 44:32it makes it central, central obesity.
- 44:34I know some people that are like that.
- 44:35And is that a, is that you have it or can that be her?
- 44:38Can you it be passed down
- 44:39or is it like, my family has like high blood pressure?
- 44:42Is that, or is it just, is it case
- 44:44by case? Person by person?
- 44:46I would say most times it's really lifestyle. Okay.
- 44:49And, and in general, you can think of it too, like this,
- 44:51like there's 90 10, so 10% is your genetics.
- 44:5490% is epigenetics. Okay.
- 44:56So outside of what your family gives you. Okay.
- 44:59Does that help? Yeah. Yeah.
- 45:00Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
- 45:01And um, so for cortisol, like if you,
- 45:04if you have a spike in your cortisol, like,
- 45:06and you can get that just from like sprinting,
- 45:08like that gives you a spike.
- 45:09But if you have that, I mean that does,
- 45:12that tells your immune system to, um, to boost up.
- 45:16So you do temporarily boost your immune system.
- 45:18So it does help you.
- 45:20But if you don't, if you, if you just sustain in that,
- 45:24that region, then you burn out.
- 45:26Right? Yeah. Then it's like now you're in a chronic
- 45:28inflammatory state, you no longer have the helper cells
- 45:32that were now helping, uh, because they're, they've died.
- 45:36Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. And now you just have chronic inflammation.
- 45:38Yeah. So it's like the aftermath of sustained cortisol
- 45:41that is problematic.
- 45:43And it also also intercepts with all
- 45:46of your normal circuits.
- 45:47So like your circadian pattern, um,
- 45:50histamine can be also a trigger for cortisol.
- 45:53Mm-hmm. So it becomes bad very quickly when it's not spiking
- 45:57at the right time and stopping at the right time.
- 45:59I can't remember who told somebody when,
- 46:02within the last like month
- 46:03or six weeks, basically told me
- 46:05that they do not like stress.
- 46:07They don't talk about anything stressful or important
- 46:09after five o'clock in the afternoon or or six.
- 46:11I agree that I do that.
- 46:12It's like, Hey, we're not gonna talk about life changes.
- 46:14We're like, we'll talk about that. No decisions.
- 46:16Yeah, no decisions. Or life threatening
- 46:17because like, I I, this is not the right time.
- 46:20I'm either tired. Yeah.
- 46:21And I cannot, not further life
- 46:22and remember who told me this, but I
- 46:24was like, that makes a lot of sense.
- 46:25Maybe me, it might have been you. S**t,
- 46:26it could have been you.
- 46:27It makes a lot of sense. Like,
- 46:28I'm not gonna do anything like at this time
- 46:30because it will jeopardize, you know, maybe I'm tired,
- 46:32I had a long day and I I not make a really sound decision.
- 46:35Yeah. But then also like, I gotta go to bed in four hours.
- 46:38Yeah. And we're gonna, you're, we're gonna have a stressful
- 46:39conversation about life and kids and marriages
- 46:41and blah and blah and blah.
- 46:43And then all of a sudden then I have to go to bed
- 46:44and then that's gonna screw up my, my sleep.
- 46:46Yeah. Which my, my sleep has already screwed. Yeah.
- 46:48But I've kind of defaulted
- 46:49to like, let's talk about tomorrow.
- 46:50Yeah. Let's talk about tomorrow.
- 46:52No, totally. I think timing is everything. So, so no.
- 46:55Can you tell my wife, can you tell
- 46:56my wife to not I will. I
- 46:57Know her. She's my friend. I'll
- 46:58tell her, tell
- 46:58Her. Do not bring up
- 46:59anything important after five o'clock. You
- 47:01Didn't tell her yet? I would. I
- 47:02Tried. I tried because
- 47:04I tell that I genuinely, like, that's one of my rules
- 47:06for like behavioral modifications.
- 47:08So don't look at your phone.
- 47:10Even, even if like, I get it, I'm a doctor.
- 47:12I know maybe this is like the most important
- 47:14text or call it might be.
- 47:15Mm-hmm. But they need to call 9 1 1. Yeah. Really?
- 47:19Because you have to worry about yourself too. I
- 47:21Can't just, yeah. I
- 47:22tell other people drop dad's
- 47:24Too early. Yeah. You can't tell
- 47:25me to do it. Yes.
- 47:26And then not do you, you have to do it also
- 47:28I have, have to practice what I preach.
- 47:30And I'm really working to be diligent with that
- 47:32because I want to walk the walk, talk the talk,
- 47:35and teach people that they can do it.
- 47:37You can be an entrepreneur, you can,
- 47:39you can have all these other categories that you perform in,
- 47:42but you can't sustain your performance in these categories
- 47:45and keep, you know, borrowing energy over here.
- 47:49Mm-hmm. Like the Red Bulls are gonna stop working. Mm.
- 47:51Like the classic, oh, I could have coffee at midnight.
- 47:54That doesn't do anything to me.
- 47:55You know how many times I hear that, I'm like, you know
- 47:58what, you have a problem.
- 47:59Yeah. I've, I am, I'm definitely that person.
- 48:01I, I always say that I don't even,
- 48:03I don't need the energy drink.
- 48:05Yeah. I just like the taste.
- 48:07Well, that was me too. Yeah. Taste. So
- 48:10I love the taste too. Yeah.
- 48:11But now I don't touch 'em. I see that as poison.
- 48:14Like as poison. I like the poison. It's so good.
- 48:16The fruity, it's so fruity and good. And coffee.
- 48:19I love coffee, but I feel like it's habitual now. Yeah.
- 48:21I just do it just for,
- 48:22and I don't feel like it gives me a pick me up.
- 48:25I had a cup today. Mm-hmm. But I think it's just a routine.
- 48:27It's that thing that I do. Yeah. It reminds me of my dad.
- 48:29The smell of the coffee. I do it with my wife.
- 48:31We drink a, a CAA cup of coffee, maybe two. Yeah.
- 48:34But then it's onto, I don't,
- 48:35I've been getting better about the Red Bulls and the drinks.
- 48:37I don't do Red Bulls, but Yeah.
- 48:38Um, I just love the taste
- 48:40and I just like, if I can find something that I can do
- 48:42and just, I don't know.
- 48:43It's, it's habit. It's habit forming
- 48:45and it's gross that
- 48:46I know I shouldn't be doing it. And then
- 48:47It was not gross. No. Uh,
- 48:48so ca Okay. Caffeine is not gross. Caffeine is
- 48:52Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. Right.
- 48:53Yeah. Coffee is not gross.
- 48:55But what's interesting is I did a gut health test.
- 49:00I used volume and I feel like of all of them
- 49:03so far, that one's my favorite.
- 49:04It kind of makes it very clear, like, eat this,
- 49:07eat never eat this, eat a lot of this.
- 49:09Mm-hmm. Um, and so, yeah, so coffee was on my list of never.
- 49:13And I was like, oh my God, that's so rude.
- 49:16I mean, in my case, I actually don't mind now learning that
- 49:20because I use a substitute.
- 49:22I don't know where you put those bags. Yeah.
- 49:25I use a, that's like mushrooms ground
- 49:28Up. Oh, okay. Yeah.
- 49:29So not the weird ones, but like coffee.
- 49:31So that's my coffee substitute. Is
- 49:33That what's in that? Yes.
- 49:34Ashwagandha lion's mane.
- 49:36Uh, and then the creamer is collagen powder protein.
- 49:40So altogether it's like 10 grams of protein
- 49:42and, uh, no sugar.
- 49:44That's a little funky. I think it's
- 49:46Maybe 'cause it's cold now, maybe 'cause Yeah. But
- 49:49You know what's funny? I, I don't
- 49:50Know. I don't want to say what
- 49:51it smells like, but
- 49:52It's better than all of the other options.
- 49:54Most of them do taste like dirt.
- 49:56But for me this was a good substitute. You can try it.
- 50:00It's like a cold coffee.
- 50:04Tastes like water down coffee. Okay. Yeah.
- 50:07It smells worse than it tastes. Okay. Yeah.
- 50:09It's got a little peepee smell to it. It's gotta smell it.
- 50:12It's got a, it's got smell if you be
- 50:15subjective and just smell it.
- 50:16It's got a little urine smell to it.
- 50:19And is that the creamer that you're putting in it
- 50:21or is it the, the mushrooms. It's got a little
- 50:23Peachy. So I, I don't
- 50:24touch creamer.
- 50:25This there's no cream is a collagen powder when
- 50:28Maybe it is collagen.
- 50:29I don't know. It it smells symiotic. Yeah.
- 50:31We're not gonna talk about the brand, but it smells a little
- 50:32N BCAAs.
- 50:34That could be it. But maybe it's
- 50:35'cause it's cold and I just, I don't know. But that's
- 50:37Hilarious. Yeah. Well,
- 50:38okay, well God,
- 50:39we're going over so many topics. Um, we can
- 50:42Always like, sort 'em out and you know, it episodes, but
- 50:45The, the coffee's great.
- 50:47I know coffee black is the way you're supposed to take it.
- 50:50I can't do that, my daughter. And
- 50:51Sometimes that's, that, that's harmful too.
- 50:53Is it? It's too acidic.
- 50:54Or if you have, uh, reflux
- 50:56or if you have uh, like a gastritis.
- 50:58Mm-hmm. Or you take too much ibuprofen.
- 51:00Like it can be bad too.
- 51:01What about the synthetic creamers?
- 51:03The fat, like I do the sugar tandem.
- 51:05I sugar, poison, sugar-free French vanilla, the big jug.
- 51:09That's this big. Yeah. I love that.
- 51:11It's poison ed.
- 51:13I feel like you're, you're feeding your, um,
- 51:15your microbiome.
- 51:16Like little, the bad ones that are
- 51:18Still, I substituted with
- 51:19kimchi though. I eat kimchi after though.
- 51:21Kimchi is good for some but not all.
- 51:24And I, I used to really think it was good for all.
- 51:27What would you replace? Because so yes, the wife
- 51:29and I do the sugar free 'cause we feel like it's better.
- 51:32It's not. So should we just do the, the standard stuff?
- 51:35If you have to pick Standard. Standard not sugar free. Yeah.
- 51:38I love Diet Coke. If you say I can't have my diet
- 51:40Coke, you're gonna get punched.
- 51:42I would later remove that from you so I don't get punched.
- 51:46And maybe you just are, it's a better time. Ugh.
- 51:49Yeah. The sugar free thing is weird
- 51:50because you feel better about it but you drink more of it.
- 51:52And I know the aspartame
- 51:53and all, I know that those things aren't great for us.
- 51:55It's really not even that. It's more just feeding the bad
- 51:59flo at the bad bacteria that exists in your stomach.
- 52:01You cannot have sugar free Diet Coke or anything sugar free
- 52:05and still feel like not bloated.
- 52:07You will have bloat period loads.
- 52:11So this does not have a, a sugar free component to it.
- 52:14Um, I just wanted to add, this is just not sweet. So is
- 52:17There calories in that? Is
- 52:18there like normal calories
- 52:20Or, uh, low. Low calories. Low
- 52:21cal. Yeah.
- 52:22But, but really like you're adjusting your cravings,
- 52:26you're adjusting your sugar tolerance
- 52:28or intolerance that, that thing
- 52:30that like makes you feel a little bit of dopamine.
- 52:33Like oh this is a reward. It tastes good like carb craving.
- 52:36You adjust that sensor so that if you have something that
- 52:40say is the same level of sweetness that you have now,
- 52:43you'll think it's gross later.
- 52:45You do like go through like a detox process essentially.
- 52:48That's okay. You know, you're always choosing your poison.
- 52:50There's like a little bit of
- 52:51Yeah, life is short. It is yolo.
- 52:53You can make it longer. But who wants to be 85?
- 52:57I would rather have a really good 65
- 53:01than like the last 15.
- 53:03My grandpa, I don't know if I ever told you
- 53:04that my grandpa lived to 101.
- 53:07It was 101, but
- 53:08You better clean it up 'cause
- 53:09that's gonna be a long stretch between, what was the age?
- 53:1265. 65
- 53:14And a hundred. Yeah.
- 53:15Like that's gonna suck right here. Yeah.
- 53:16This, this is the space I'm talking about.
- 53:18Grandpa Bob did do really well
- 53:19with like riding his bike and exercising.
- 53:21He actually got hit by a car on his bike at like 85
- 53:25and still rode his bike,
- 53:26got his license taken away like in his nineties.
- 53:28'cause he kept hitting s**t. But you know, he was a,
- 53:31and he was a Marine,
- 53:32you know, and you know, he was in the Navy.
- 53:33He was like a solid, a solid guy. And my dad's still around.
- 53:36He's kicking, he's, you know, in sixties and doing well
- 53:38but was a smoker forever.
- 53:40So we'll see how that goes. Yeah.
- 53:41Um, but yeah, I think, I think uh, having some um,
- 53:47remnants of, you know, a nice life.
- 53:50Okay. So let me add to that. We're adding vitality.
- 53:52Mm-hmm. That's the whole point of me.
- 53:54I feel like vitality
- 53:55because I'm working with all these old people
- 53:57who they live past that age of as you said,
- 53:59I just wanna live a good life at 6 65.
- 54:02Okay. Well after that, what's your plan? Yeah, lot.
- 54:05So that's where I'm kind of targeting is that, that your,
- 54:08the future you so that your last one to three decades
- 54:12are comfortable and you feel good
- 54:14and you can, you can have your bike
- 54:17accident 'cause you're riding a bike.
- 54:18Mm-hmm. For sure.
- 54:19Because other grandpas can't even ride their bike. Yep.
- 54:21So That's what I want it to look like.
- 54:24Gonna die. I think we should wrap well.
- 54:26'cause that was only supposed to be meant
- 54:27for like an hour or so. Oh
- 54:28Wow. Well, it
- 54:29was a great chat
- 54:30and we have a lot more to touch on.
- 54:32So thank you for being a sport
- 54:34and sitting in the chair and thanks for having me.
- 54:37More to come. Awesome. Thanks. All right.