Latest / The D.L. Hughley Show / DLHS Hour 2 | He is Perfect Except He’s a Coward
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- 0:00Speaker 1: There is a viral video of a woman's being attacked
- 0:02Speaker 1: on the street. Their boyfriend ran and he this is
- 0:05Speaker 1: that's not funny, do you think? But he's he's exit
- 0:09Speaker 1: all other all things considered, except for that one thing.
- 0:14Speaker 2: That one thing, Jason, what do you think.
- 0:19Speaker 3: Well, a couple of things. I do not like the
- 0:23Speaker 3: fact that he left me in danger and ran.
- 0:26Speaker 2: I don't like that.
- 0:28Speaker 3: Now, you know, I'm not gonna lie. Depending on how
- 0:31Speaker 3: good of a job he has got money, you know,
- 0:35Speaker 3: to get me mended up, you.
- 0:38Speaker 2: Know what I mean, it's your bodyguard.
- 0:39Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, give me a bodyguard or you know,
- 0:42Speaker 3: make sure you know I'm in an A one hospital
- 0:45Speaker 3: or something that something that goes left. But I am
- 0:47Speaker 3: gonna look at him sideways all the time. I'm not
- 0:49Speaker 3: gonna lie. I'm gonna I'm really it's gonna be an
- 0:52Speaker 3: issue with us every time. It's gonna be stuff like
- 0:59Speaker 3: that Tom Now. So I don't know what kind of
- 1:02Speaker 3: relationship we're going to have afterwards. But if he got
- 1:04Speaker 3: a lot of money and he can get us, you know,
- 1:06Speaker 3: some bodyguards and security, I might hang with him. But
- 1:08Speaker 3: I'm telling you it's gonna be a problem. And he
- 1:10Speaker 3: better agree with everything I say.
- 1:13Speaker 2: You whoop his ass ass and catch him if he runs,
- 1:19Speaker 2: cut him up. The question we're asking, ladies and gentlemen.
- 1:23Speaker 2: Here's the scenario. Here's the audio.
- 1:25Speaker 4: Surveillance video card. We can pull it up and we'll
- 1:27Speaker 4: talk over it. Surveillance video card. I blurred the guy's
- 1:30Speaker 4: face because he's getting slammed on social media. A robber
- 1:33Speaker 4: comes up with a knife and attacks the woman.
- 1:38Speaker 2: The guy runs away and hides and.
- 1:42Speaker 4: Allows it to continue to happen. Multiple other people who
- 1:46Speaker 4: were just around. This guy on a moped comes in,
- 1:48Speaker 4: hits the attacker and the helmet.
- 1:50Speaker 2: You know. Other people start to see it and come
- 1:53Speaker 2: to the defense. She's fighting.
- 1:55Speaker 4: The guy is still around the corner, has still not
- 1:59Speaker 4: gotten involved. She's now talking to authorities or whomever. More
- 2:03Speaker 4: people come in. It is not until this person has
- 2:06Speaker 4: taken a beat down and gone away that the guy
- 2:09Speaker 4: now comes around the corner by favor you good good.
- 2:14Speaker 1: So he left He left his woman there with a knife,
- 2:17Speaker 1: well thing felon a knife welling brute? Uh and he
- 2:21Speaker 1: left skip what you think you see? Well you think
- 2:24Speaker 1: she would with timmy timmany would have been had left him.
- 2:26Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and I would advise my daughter's Hey, no,
- 2:30Speaker 1: you got to find your not and I don't care
- 2:31Speaker 1: about all that other stuff.
- 2:32Speaker 5: Yeah, I was.
- 2:34Speaker 6: That's interesting.
- 2:34Speaker 3: You keep saying he was a Christian and church going guy.
- 2:36Speaker 3: But I thought you always say, no greater love than
- 2:39Speaker 3: a man have that he laid down his.
- 2:41Speaker 1: Life his brother, not his wife. I mean, if you're
- 2:50Speaker 1: gonna quote me telling the truth the word so he left,
- 2:57Speaker 1: do you think? But he's good and all the aspects
- 3:00Speaker 1: of great dude, good job, loving, family man, Christian, you know,
- 3:05Speaker 1: all that type stuff. Could you stay with him blunt
- 3:07Speaker 1: the phones?
- 3:08Speaker 5: No, absolutely not. He needs to be let go a
- 3:13Speaker 5: sat and then she's thinking about getting back with home.
- 3:16Speaker 5: She needs her head examined. And that's all he let that.
- 3:19Speaker 5: I won't say what I really really, absolutely not.
- 3:24Speaker 7: Oh he goes out to the point of the guard
- 3:25Speaker 7: because he gonna need a new woman.
- 3:27Speaker 8: Because I'm not playing with him because.
- 3:28Speaker 5: He's in the meat, not if I'm getting my buddy.
- 3:31Speaker 8: No, I won't stay with him.
- 3:32Speaker 5: No, I'm sorry, I don't care what I'm putting to
- 3:34Speaker 5: do it y'all have to go. But what we need
- 3:37Speaker 5: a man from the man's supposed to be the man
- 3:39Speaker 5: not to tell, and he's showing it there if I
- 3:41Speaker 5: write it.
- 3:43Speaker 8: If a man, we're supposed to be a provider and
- 3:46Speaker 8: a protector for our woman. Man, I'm gonna put I'm
- 3:49Speaker 8: I'm gonna protect mine to the better end. I don't
- 3:52Speaker 8: care if I get my tail beat. I'm I'm I'm
- 3:54Speaker 8: gonna die trying.
- 3:56Speaker 9: I'm sorry, but if you get that to me, if
- 3:59Speaker 9: you ran off and left me in Han's way, I
- 4:02Speaker 9: think I'd have to rename you Mitch. You will be
- 4:05Speaker 9: ever be mitched in my eyes, because a real man
- 4:09Speaker 9: does not do that. I'm sorry. That is beyond cowardly.
- 4:13Speaker 9: That's mitchly. Okay, let's keep it real.
- 4:17Speaker 10: So I know it sounds it's hilarious. If a woman's
- 4:20Speaker 10: with a man and she getting jumped on, he take off,
- 4:22Speaker 10: run off. I know everybody want to laugh. But now
- 4:25Speaker 10: she did not stay with the name because if he
- 4:27Speaker 10: runs from that, ain't no way he had to let
- 4:30Speaker 10: any situation within the within a relationship. I mean, if
- 4:33Speaker 10: he coward and can't stand up for you or protect
- 4:35Speaker 10: and cover you the way he's supposed to be, because
- 4:38Speaker 10: as a man, you are her covering and if her
- 4:40Speaker 10: cover and take off running hid the hell You expect
- 4:42Speaker 10: to be able to have a situation in the house,
- 4:45Speaker 10: in the home, and she actually expects for you to
- 4:47Speaker 10: fight for the situation or loud talk her. Once again,
- 4:51Speaker 10: if you look at him the way I tell people,
- 4:53Speaker 10: he just it's the same thing Adam did to eat,
- 4:56Speaker 10: the same thing. He decided he had a chance to speak,
- 4:58Speaker 10: he chose not to. We got to know when the
- 5:01Speaker 10: bark is men. We don't know when to bark and
- 5:03Speaker 10: when not the bark. You're supposed to say something at
- 5:04Speaker 10: the moment when something going on, but when it don't
- 5:06Speaker 10: happen and you're sitting at the house and the privacy
- 5:08Speaker 10: that she want to get loud, that's when people say
- 5:10Speaker 10: they real men. That's not how a real man is
- 5:12Speaker 10: supposed to ask the question.
- 5:14Speaker 1: We're asking a man this woman after she's attacked. He
- 5:19Speaker 1: runs away, but he's good. Let me let you hear it.
- 5:24Speaker 4: Surveillance video card. We can pull it up and we'll
- 5:26Speaker 4: talk over it. Surveillance video card. I blurred the guy's
- 5:29Speaker 4: face because he's getting slammed on social media. A robber
- 5:32Speaker 4: comes up with a knife and attacks the woman. The
- 5:37Speaker 4: guy runs away and hides and allows it to continue
- 5:42Speaker 4: to happen.
- 5:43Speaker 2: Multiple other people who were just around.
- 5:46Speaker 4: This guy on a moped comes in, hits the attacker
- 5:48Speaker 4: and the helmet.
- 5:49Speaker 2: You know.
- 5:50Speaker 4: Other people start to.
- 5:51Speaker 2: See it and come to the defense. She's fighting.
- 5:54Speaker 4: The guy is still around the corner, has still not
- 5:58Speaker 4: gotten involved. She's now talking to authorities or whomever. More
- 6:01Speaker 4: people come in. It is not until this person has
- 6:05Speaker 4: taken a beat down and gone away that the guy
- 6:08Speaker 4: now comes around the corner, like, baby, you'll get favor.
- 6:10Speaker 7: You're good.
- 6:11Speaker 2: You do you think you could say? That's the question.
- 6:15Speaker 2: We're gonna post you. We're going right to the foss.
- 6:17Speaker 9: Baby, he can stay wherever he ran up to.
- 6:20Speaker 5: When I was in distry, good man and all, no
- 6:23Speaker 5: thank you.
- 6:23Speaker 10: But when he ran down the street, the respect ran
- 6:25Speaker 10: right behind him.
- 6:26Speaker 2: Well respect ran right behind him.
- 6:28Speaker 5: Nothing I can do for you, is I know that
- 6:30Speaker 5: if you know which comes to shove. If I'm in
- 6:33Speaker 5: a situation where I need some help and you're gonna run,
- 6:35Speaker 5: then what do I have you there for?
- 6:38Speaker 8: Hell no, I wouldn't stay with his dad, you know.
- 6:42Speaker 4: And while you're running, you haven't been prepared to run again,
- 6:45Speaker 4: because once.
- 6:46Speaker 8: I'm the crap out of my attacker.
- 6:48Speaker 9: I'm coming.
- 6:49Speaker 10: I can use too, because I ain't no easy again.
- 6:53Speaker 11: The person I can't call him a man is a
- 6:56Speaker 11: power a woman. First we need to be loved and secondly,
- 7:02Speaker 11: and probably on the same line, we need to steel safe.
- 7:06Speaker 11: He needs to keep warming.
- 7:09Speaker 5: Absolutely not. You're supposed to be a protector. Bible says
- 7:13Speaker 5: one alone can be overpowered, but two together can take
- 7:15Speaker 5: a stand. And you're not gonna leave me there and
- 7:16Speaker 5: think that I'm gonna keep you around. I don't care
- 7:18Speaker 5: how much money you have. That's that's not where it's at. No, No, sir,
- 7:22Speaker 5: keep on running, don't come back. That's crazy. I can't
- 7:25Speaker 5: do it. Here's your job is to protect your woman,
- 7:28Speaker 5: especially if she's being physically attacked. No, that's your partner.
- 7:31Speaker 5: You're supposed to look out to them, even if you
- 7:33Speaker 5: might get beatup. We're gonna get beat up together.
- 7:35Speaker 8: When a man run like that, it's already over.
- 7:38Speaker 5: Either she's a woman that they run her mouth.
- 7:40Speaker 8: Or so long and he tied over and wanton to leave,
- 7:43Speaker 8: and now give him a good is us to leave? No,
- 7:45Speaker 8: a man is not gonna run a legal woman.
- 7:47Speaker 5: Like that if he's two didn't love her nah even
- 7:50Speaker 5: the weekends of the week.
- 7:51Speaker 8: Well, no, it's already over.
- 7:55Speaker 7: IF's me growing up in the streets of Cleveland, Ohio. Uh,
- 8:01Speaker 7: you know the Hard Knocks life or was it the
- 8:04Speaker 7: United States Marine Corps. But it's been embedded to me
- 8:07Speaker 7: that no man can do nothing to me that I
- 8:09Speaker 7: can't do to him. So I can't respect the dude
- 8:13Speaker 7: the scare of another man. I don't care how big,
- 8:15Speaker 7: I don't care how bad he. He can't do nothing
- 8:18Speaker 7: to you that you can't do to him.
- 8:22Speaker 11: I am Janelle from Charleston, South Carolina.
- 8:25Speaker 3: My ex husband used to say, he who runs lives
- 8:29Speaker 3: to tell the story, and therefore you heard he's my
- 8:32Speaker 3: ex husband.
- 8:34Speaker 8: I'm not having it.
- 8:35Speaker 2: I'm not having it.
- 8:36Speaker 11: If you're running, you might as well keep running right
- 8:38Speaker 11: on up oide of my life.
- 8:44Speaker 1: Here he is that boy trades that let us know
- 8:46Speaker 1: what life is like in accu after y'all, what's good, y'all?
- 9:08Speaker 12: This is that boys tray back game when another episode
- 9:10Speaker 12: of my life after the yard and so I look
- 9:13Speaker 12: at an HBCU graduates like, man, it is really all
- 9:17Speaker 12: hitting me now like it should have hit me after
- 9:19Speaker 12: I walked that stage.
- 9:20Speaker 6: But it really didn't hit me until I packed up
- 9:24Speaker 6: my senior year apartment, cleaned that John out, loaded up
- 9:29Speaker 6: my car, and I'm getting ready to hit that road
- 9:32Speaker 6: and head back to Dallas for quick little second. But yeah, man,
- 9:37Speaker 6: it's kind of stupid how the emotions saved me. I
- 9:40Speaker 6: didn't expect them to hit me like that. And I
- 9:42Speaker 6: was like, Bawn, you know an rn NO registered nurse,
- 9:45Speaker 6: Like I didn't shed no tears or nothing, but damn,
- 9:49Speaker 6: I was thinking.
- 9:49Speaker 2: I was like, a whole lot.
- 9:50Speaker 6: Of great things happened to me in this apartment.
- 9:53Speaker 2: I've had some of.
- 9:54Speaker 6: The happiest feelings in my life in this apartment, and
- 9:58Speaker 6: on the flip side, some of them you know, the
- 10:01Speaker 6: BS times, but dude, you need that duality of life.
- 10:06Speaker 2: And I had that here.
- 10:07Speaker 6: Overall, it was an experience and it's gonna stick with
- 10:11Speaker 6: me for the rest of my life no matter what.
- 10:14Speaker 6: I'm connected to this little area we have in midtown
- 10:18Speaker 6: at Land off the North Side Drive.
- 10:20Speaker 2: I had some amazing memories here, Like.
- 10:24Speaker 6: Shoot, I can pinpoint some of the most monumental events
- 10:29Speaker 6: of my life in that apartment, from you know, even
- 10:34Speaker 6: getting ready for like homecoming and like turning up on
- 10:37Speaker 6: some call stuff like that to the night leading up
- 10:41Speaker 6: to my graduation, That right there, that was a feeling
- 10:45Speaker 6: that I don't think I can replicate with anything else.
- 10:48Speaker 6: I mean, outside of these way bigger and better things
- 10:51Speaker 6: I'm about to achieve. But that feeling I felt in
- 10:55Speaker 6: that apartment leading up to.
- 10:56Speaker 2: My grad after all the work.
- 10:58Speaker 6: I put in, Man, that's something that's gonna have me
- 11:01Speaker 6: connected to this place forever.
- 11:04Speaker 2: Man.
- 11:05Speaker 6: But packing that John up damn near by myself.
- 11:08Speaker 2: Man, that was Tiger ring.
- 11:10Speaker 6: Had suitcases on suitcases and bags on bags I had
- 11:14Speaker 6: to drag down to my two door car. There is
- 11:18Speaker 6: no room in my car to be doing all this.
- 11:20Speaker 6: My car is filled to the brim right now and
- 11:22Speaker 6: I have to hit them thirteen hour drive in these
- 11:25Speaker 6: next few days. And I'm getting my mind right for that.
- 11:29Speaker 6: But yeah, got my stuff packed up, got to head
- 11:32Speaker 6: to the crib, get on with the rest of my life.
- 11:36Speaker 6: It's real life now, this big boy time, trying to
- 11:39Speaker 6: buckle down and do something, and that's exactly what I'm
- 11:41Speaker 6: gonna do. Anyways, That's all I got for you all today.
- 11:44Speaker 6: So next time, there's been that voy tray and this
- 11:47Speaker 6: has been my life after the yard, and so I
- 11:50Speaker 6: look at HBCU graduates life.
- 11:51Speaker 2: Thank you very much, Yong Man