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Emeka Ike Calls Out Jaruma Over Explicit Video With His Son Sean Ike · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to the episode of Bansett Lorenzi.
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  How are you all doing if you're doing great?
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  For today's episode, I want to talk about Nollywood actor Emeki
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  and his son Sean Michael Iki. Now we're just sitting on
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  minding our business, Jaruma. Jaruma posted a video on her
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  page where she, she and Emeki's son were frolicking on a bed.
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  Now let me just play that video for you.
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  Cool. So he just gets up and then he
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  goes and makes love to the side chick to get like to me.
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  Who's in that? The The.
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  Actor. Who?
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  The model. You don't know him.
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  Who's actor? The model?
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  No, no, no. No, no.
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  Who? Who?
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  He's just a guy. It's not like making making love
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  to me, but like in the video, he will Make Love to me.
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  He's making love with you. Yes, to me, he's making love.
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  And your breasts, yes. It's just a video, no?
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  No, no. It's just.
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  I'm making love. No.
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  No. It's just a music video.
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  We're not like really making love, love, love like in the
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  video, but he but it's just a music.
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  Are you going to Make Love to me in all my music videos?
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  All all my music videos are you? Hearing.
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  Me are you? Hearing me.
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  No, thank you. So but what if you're not
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  around? Yeah.
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  And someone has to do it now. What if you're not around?
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  Maybe you're travelling. Maybe you're in Germany.
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  I'll wait for you. I'll wait for you.
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  It's not like making love, making love.
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  It's just but like you'll touch my bum, bum and touch my boobs.
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  See, you will not make me angry. That's what you make me do.
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  That's what you make me angry. It's just.
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  I said no. So you you'll never let me go
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  into the acting in the movie industry.
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  So you'll. Not.
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  Now this video sends a Mickey K rolling.
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  MEK was mad. MEK was angry.
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  MEK posted a longer pistol. You can imagine your father who
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  has worked hard all his life trying to give the best to his
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  child and Sure and Ek chose differently.
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  I think I've learned to support people at their own level.
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  You know, is it that you support them at their level or you leave
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  them where they are? I think parents have this, you
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  know, ideal life that they want their children to live.
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  They have planned, you know, you have this child.
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  You planned for this child. The child is growing up.
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  You want them to be the best version of you.
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  But this child, you know, has a different mind of his own.
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  They have what they want to do with their lives.
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  I think a Miki is still trying to wrap his head around the fact
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  that his son Sean has chosen the entertainment route.
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  I don't even know why he's surprised because the Miki is an
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  entertainer, though the son chose differently.
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  The son chose to be a musician. He chose to be.
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  I don't even know what he's doing with Jaruma, which I think
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  was why the father was angry. According to the dad, he sends
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  Sean Michaels to school. He decided to drop out to be a
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  musician. I think that was one of the
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  reasons why the marriage with his mother not ended but had a
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  very They had a very big fight because according to MKK his
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  wife or his ex-wife decided to pack out.
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  He travelled for a movie production or something.
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  He came back and she has sold everything and moved out of the
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  house according to MKK. So after she left, and she left
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  with the help of a pastor, I think Pastor Chris, no, Pastor
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  Chris, Pastor Chris, one of those, Pastor Chris.
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  So she left with the pastor. She sold everything and she
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  left. So the marriage at that point
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  ended. I think Emeki said he was trying
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  to get custody of the children or he had custody of the
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  children, but for whatever reason, because of the elder
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  ones, when he put them in school, they decided to move
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  with their mother or the mother influenced them.
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  According to Emeki K, depending on who you're listening to, if
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  you listen to the wife or the ex-wife, she will tell you that
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  Emeki K is abusive. He's this, he's that.
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  And then when you listen to Emeki K, she will he will tell
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  you that the wife is a Jezebel. Basically normal divorce drama.
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  Now the kids cut in between this whole thing and you know,
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  teenagers growing up, they are always going to test boundaries.
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  Young adults, not because these are not teenagers.
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  I think Shawn Michael, he's about 25 years old or 26, I
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  don't know. They are going to test
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  boundaries and depending on who is allowing them to do whatever
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  they want to do, those are the kind of people that they will
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  lean towards. So it happened that his ex-wife
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  was accommodating to his choices, his life choices.
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  He wanted to leave school to pursue his music career.
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  He wanted to leave school to just to listen.
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  Gen Z's these days, they don't. And I don't blame them honestly,
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  because we, the millennials, we went to school, we studied all
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  these things that they told us to study and our life will be
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  better. But you come out and a Gen Z who
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  is streaming on TikTok is making money that you probably never
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  made you make in your life. So I understand why maybe Gen
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  Z's are realising that not that education is a scam, but that
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  long part of going to school, graduating, looking for a job,
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  building a career, I think they've realised that that in
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  itself is a scam, not the education.
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  So what they're doing right now is to not just work because most
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  times when you see people who are the employees, they would
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  they, they, they have very big of mental health.
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  If you stress them too much to quit the job because they know
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  they can come on TikTok, they can make money they can go on
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  YouTube, they can make money, they can go on Twitch, they can
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  make money. So they have all these tools at
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  their disposal, which yes, we millennials had, but then it
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  wasn't, I mean, YouTube was not that big.
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  Yes, very few people could make money from YouTube.
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  But now there are so many platforms you can make money
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  from, which is why MKK being an older generation is not
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  understanding his son. So that is where the clash is
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  coming. And because the mom is
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  supporting the son, they have better relationship.
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  Emeki said he wanted him to go to school, graduate before he
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  could do his pursue his music career, which made sense because
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  at I think at some point in life people are going to get to
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  realise that you're going to need some level of education to
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  move to the next level. Yes, you can be a streamer.
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  Kai Senat right now is sitting down on YouTube reading every
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  for 15 minutes to, you know, after making money on Twitch,
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  after he's a millionaire. But he has realised that that is
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  not what all like. He's 25.
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  So what are you going to do for the rest of your life?
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  You still have to find purpose. You still have to find something
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  to do, which I think millennials have a balance to this whole
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  thing because they've gone to school, they've had their
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  careers, then they can pursue whatever they want to pursue.
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  If that is not working, they can then lean back to their career,
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  which is a balance which I think MKK maybe wants for his son
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  because he's saying, listen, I studied engineering, I can do
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  this, I can do that. Why are you with Jeruma?
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  Let's say OK, you want to. According to MKK, he said, let's
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  say you want to even go into entertainment industry, is it
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  Jeruma? Now people may not understand
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  why he's particular about Jeruma.
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  Jeruma was the Kayamata ambassador like she Jeruma is
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  APR guru and I think she knows exactly what she's doing.
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  From 2015 up until this point, Jerome is going viral almost
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  every quarter. She is anytime you don't see
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  Jerome is because she doesn't want to be seen or because she's
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  busy. A couple of months ago, people
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  said that Jerome was addicted to, you know, substances.
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  She she's nowhere to be seen. She's homeless.
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  They said a whole lot of things about Jaruma, but one thing with
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  her is if she's coming back, she's coming back.
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  How she's going to make a big, big announcement.
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  How is she doing it? Now?
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  She is using Shern Michael Ike and then Michael is not liking
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  it. Just look at the wish of Michael
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  is is is, you know, hitting her Bumble.
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  I, I can't even imagine a very, I can't even imagine, you know,
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  as a parent, you're looking at your sword, you're looking at
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  somebody you have high hopes for.
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  Emiki said he bought a house in Germany for him thinking this
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  boy is going to get his life together and relocate and enjoy
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  all these things, only for this boy to be hitting Jaruma's Bom
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  Bom. Emiki is not, is not happy.
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  And Jaruma is coming out to say, listen, she is one of the most
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  you know, he's your uncle. Uncle are making K.
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  Or is it that they're making Ki don't even know what to say.
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  I think sometimes you have to let people make their own
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  mistakes. Regardless of how you want to
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  help people, whether it's your child, whether it's your
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  sibling, whether it's a cousin, whether it's a relation or
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  somebody you know or a friend, if you, you, you think, OK, I
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  can help you, This is the best way to do things.
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  Do this, do this this way or do that this way, or I've
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  experienced it. I don't want you to experience
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  the same thing that I experienced.
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  Sometimes they wouldn't get it because everybody have a set of
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  goals that they want to achieve and most times it is best to
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  allow them go through the process and if you want to
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  interfere in that process, it's they would not like it.
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  Some people become successful following their own process.
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  Some people will not be successful following following a
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  parents process or something that somebody has suggested for
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  them and they are going to resent you.
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  And then if they follow their own process and it happens that
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  they're not successful, you are going to say I told you so.
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  But at the end of the day, I think everybody should be
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  allowed to live the life that they want to live.
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  I think the only thing is not to sponsor or support them the way
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  you can, but not to carry the load.
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  I am very begone if I tell you this is fire.
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  You decided to jump into it and you get burnt.
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  Don't expect me to to rush you to the hospital.
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  No, you're going to bear that pain.
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  You are going to bear that pain. Listen, you're going to bear the
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  pain. I can buy you.
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  What's this GV? You know this old in days fire.
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  They will. Let's if I burn you, you just
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  use this blue substance. I can buy that one for you and
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  you put it on your body and hopefully you get healed.
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  But because I've told you this is fire and you decide to jump
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  into it, it becomes your problem.
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  It is no longer my problem. So sometimes we have to let
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  people experience certain things and only within that experience
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  or within that process, they're going to gain their own
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  experience and then they're going to pick and choose what
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  they do. If MK is trying to control his
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  son right now, and then the son leave everything that he's doing
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  and goes to Germany. And if Germany doesn't work out,
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  he's always going to blame his father.
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  But let's say he goes through everything that he's going
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  through right now, this particular phase that he's going
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  through. And if he doesn't work out, he's
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  always going to have a father who he can turn back to become
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  the prodigal son. Go back to your father, ask for
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  forgiveness. And I mean, that's his son.
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  He's always going to be there to help.
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  So I think I make a case you just stay out of it.
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  That's the only thing he can do. Stay out of it.
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  Allow him to make his own mistakes.
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  Allow him to learn from his mistakes.
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  Allow him to hit Jaruma's bom Bom if that's what he wants to
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  do. And when the chips fall and
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  Jaruma starts dragging him online, if he wants to support,
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  he can support. If he also wants to stay out of
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  it at that point, he can also stay out of it.
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  But at the end of the day, I think we should let people make
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  mistakes, learn from their mistakes, and keep him moving.
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  Let me know what you think. Do you think that MKK crying out
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  online, calling out his son and Jaruma was the right thing to do
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  even though the son is an adult? The son is over 25 years old.
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  Or do you think that the son, Shawn Michael, is being
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  insensitive by not graduating and then choosing to become an
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  entertainer just like the father, although not an actor
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  but a musician? Let me know what you think.
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