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2nd DATE UPDATE: Ralph & Mariah · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: The next segment we're going to do is called second
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  Speaker 1: Date Update, because that's what we're going to try and
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  Speaker 1: get and that's what the bit is called.
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  Speaker 2: Second Date Update starts right now on John Jay and Ridge.
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  Speaker 3: One of four to seven Kiss Fab, John Jay and
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  Speaker 3: Rich have for second aight update. You meet somebody who
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  Speaker 3: got a date, you have a great time, You expect
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  Speaker 3: her to be your second date. It doesn't happen. You
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  Speaker 3: come to us like Ralph, Ralph, what's up?
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  Speaker 2: Man?
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  Speaker 4: You're on the air.
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  Speaker 5: Hey, Hey, hey guys, how you doing.
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  Speaker 4: What's your story? So I'm calling.
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  Speaker 6: Because man, I'm genuinely confused and uh, honestly feeling a
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  Speaker 6: little hard because I've been talking to this girl for
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  Speaker 6: a couple of weeks and it was great. We were
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  Speaker 6: vibing when we were texting each other, like jumping around
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  Speaker 6: and being like, you know, really vulnerable and open. And
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  Speaker 6: then we finally went out and I thought it was
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  Speaker 6: like an amazing date. And earlier that day I'd want
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  Speaker 6: a decent amount of money at the casino, so I figured,
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  Speaker 6: you know, why not spoil her a little, right, So
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  Speaker 6: I took her out to a really nice time or
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  Speaker 6: we last the whole night and we had a conversation, flowed,
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  Speaker 6: we had some like good drinks, and she even told
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  Speaker 6: me she wanted to do it again. But then since then,
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  Speaker 6: like she's barely answering my texts like nothing, and she
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  Speaker 6: leaves me on red and now she's completely ghosted me,
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  Speaker 6: and I can't I'm I'm wondering if it's because, you know, uh,
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  Speaker 6: she was only interested because I picked up the tab
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  Speaker 6: and treated her to a nice night. I don't know
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  Speaker 6: if I did something wrong, if I completely misread the vibe,
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  Speaker 6: or I just got played, you know, So what do
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  Speaker 6: you guys think? Can you just call her and help
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  Speaker 6: me figure out what actually happened.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, we'll call her for sure.
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  Speaker 7: Did you meet her at the casino and like, oh,
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  Speaker 7: let me take you out? Because I'm confused, Like, I'm not.
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  Speaker 7: I don't think that she would just like ghost you
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  Speaker 7: because you took her out on a date. If you
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  Speaker 7: guys were had a relationship beforehand.
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  Speaker 6: You know, we were talking on a we were talking
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  Speaker 6: on a dating app.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, all right, so you at the casino, you win
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  Speaker 3: a bunch of money, So like, what do you what
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  Speaker 3: do you call a bunch of money?
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  Speaker 6: I've won a couple of thousands.
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  Speaker 4: Oh damn, okay, a bunch of money, all right.
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  Speaker 3: So then you took her to dinner and did all
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  Speaker 3: that stuff at the casino or did you go to
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  Speaker 3: another restaurant?
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  Speaker 5: We want to another restaurant?
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  Speaker 4: Okay? Wow?
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  Speaker 3: And so she was with you, like was she with you?
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  Speaker 3: Like you had her blow in the dice? You know
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  Speaker 3: you do that in the movie?
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  Speaker 6: Cool?
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  Speaker 4: But no?
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  Speaker 8: Okay, Well, I mean if that happened that night, it's
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  Speaker 8: not like she was playing you because she didn't know
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  Speaker 8: you were going to win.
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  Speaker 7: That's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 4: Like, maybe she wanted more, Maybe she wanted to buy
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  Speaker 4: her dress.
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  Speaker 7: Right, She's like, you want all this money and this.
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  Speaker 8: Is jeep skate.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 8: Well she's like I was the one that hit.
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  Speaker 2: Me or whatever.
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  Speaker 4: All right.
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  Speaker 5: I told her.
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  Speaker 6: I was like, hey, I had a pretty lucky night
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  Speaker 6: and like I think we should celebrate together. And she
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  Speaker 6: would seem really excited.
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  Speaker 4: Hmmm.
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  Speaker 2: Well, maybe you gave better phone than you do in person,
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  Speaker 2: Like maybe the texting before from the app was more
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  Speaker 2: exciting than the date.
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  Speaker 7: Or maybe he just maybe just wasn't a good date.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but she was with you when you won the money.
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  Speaker 3: She was with you in the casino.
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  Speaker 6: No, no, no, she was not with.
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  Speaker 2: She said he won a bunch of money, so he
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  Speaker 2: figured he'd splurge.
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  Speaker 4: On the date.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so she knows you want a bunch of money. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: so I'm assuming the date wasn't at the level that
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  Speaker 3: she expected, knowing that you want.
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  Speaker 4: A bunch of money.
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  Speaker 3: Where's my helicopter's where's where is that?
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  Speaker 4: Maybe something like that? All right, all right, let's call her. Okay,
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  Speaker 4: what's her name? Ralph?
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  Speaker 6: Maria?
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  Speaker 4: Mariah?
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  Speaker 3: All right, we're gonna get Mariah on the phone and
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  Speaker 3: go over this story. Find out why she's now blowing
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  Speaker 3: you off. He has anything to do with the money
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  Speaker 3: you want, all.
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  Speaker 4: Right, So hang tig. Second update continues next with John
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  Speaker 4: Jay and Rich. John Jay and Rich, we are like
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  Speaker 4: a whole lot John Jay and Rich. We're in the
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  Speaker 4: middle of second date update. Ralph and Mariah.
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  Speaker 2: Well, Ralph is generally confused. He talked a lot to
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  Speaker 2: Mariah on a dating app that got along so great
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  Speaker 2: that when he won a bunch of money in the casino,
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  Speaker 2: he thought he would whine and dine in urge on Mariah.
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  Speaker 2: He treated her to a night of spending his jackpot,
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  Speaker 2: but then the communication has gone bust. She is shutting
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  Speaker 2: him down like Ocean's eleven, and he can't figure out
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  Speaker 2: why he went bust. Let's find out, all.
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  Speaker 4: Right, Ralth, that was a good recap, would you say, Ralph,
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  Speaker 4: that's what happened.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, we're gonna call Mariah right now and
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  Speaker 3: we're gonna find out why she's blowing you off.
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  Speaker 4: How long ago was this date, money bags?
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  Speaker 6: This was like about ten days ago?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, hie, hold on, Hi is this Mariah? Hi?
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  Speaker 7: My name is Peyton. I'm with John Jay and Rich
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  Speaker 7: and we just wanted to talk to you on the
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  Speaker 7: radio about a few things this morning, if you're free,
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  Speaker 7: of course, Hey, okay, sure.
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  Speaker 3: So well, we were on vacation last week, and like
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  Speaker 3: Kyle was telling us her, she was in Vegas for vacation,
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  Speaker 3: and we were talking about gambling and winning money and
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  Speaker 3: how she was able to have just family time in
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  Speaker 3: Vegas because Vegas is very family driven. Then we got
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  Speaker 3: a call from a guy telling us the story about
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  Speaker 3: how he won some money in a casino and he
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  Speaker 3: was on a date with you.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, oh my god, you follow where I'm going?
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  Speaker 9: You guys, I thought you were going to tell me
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  Speaker 9: that I literally like want a trip to Vegas.
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  Speaker 3: No, well, you know we will be giving away trips
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  Speaker 3: to Vegas to the iHeartRadio Music Festival.
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  Speaker 4: If you keep listening, we will we will be doing that.
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  Speaker 9: Okay, Wait, is this about Ralph?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, Ralph called us and said that he went on
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  Speaker 3: a date with you and you guys were texting before
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  Speaker 3: and then you went on the date.
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  Speaker 4: Now he doesn't hear from you anymore.
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  Speaker 3: You leave him on red And it's one of the
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  Speaker 3: details he brought up was how he won money in
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  Speaker 3: a casino, So we thought maybe that had something to
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  Speaker 3: do with it. So we thought we'd just call you
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  Speaker 3: and get your whole point of view.
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  Speaker 9: Mariah, Oh my gosh, Okay, I feel like if I
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  Speaker 9: tell you what actually turned me off, that it's gonna
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  Speaker 9: make me sound really shallow.
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  Speaker 4: Na.
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  Speaker 2: Not in a first date. Anything's fine in a first date.
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  Speaker 9: Okay, Well, all right, I mean everything was great, honestly, Like,
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  Speaker 9: it started off great. I thought that Ralph was funny
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  Speaker 9: and sweet, and then I noticed that he was carrying
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  Speaker 9: a purse, like like a man purse, which is okay.
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  Speaker 9: I mean, it's not not a deal breaker, obviously, but
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  Speaker 9: then he unzipped the purse and pulled out an entire
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  Speaker 9: bottle of tequila, not kidding. Instead of ordering cocktails, he
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  Speaker 9: ordered mocktails like Virgin Margarita's, and then when no one
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  Speaker 9: was looking, he topped them off with the tequila that
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  Speaker 9: he brought from his man purse.
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  Speaker 2: Different.
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  Speaker 9: Okay, have you ever heard of that? I mean, that's
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  Speaker 9: am I I was mortified. Am I wrong to be
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  Speaker 9: so mortified?
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  Speaker 5: Like it was?
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  Speaker 9: We were at a nice restaurant and I was literally
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  Speaker 9: screaming and tied and panicking and you know, praying that
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  Speaker 9: we weren't going to get kicked out. I don't know,
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  Speaker 9: it just it just completely changed like how I saw him.
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  Speaker 9: And then yeah, he brought up the whole casino thing.
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  Speaker 9: He kept talking about how he just won all this
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  Speaker 9: money at a casino, and it's like, if that's true,
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  Speaker 9: why are you sneaking liquor into a nice restaurant. I
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  Speaker 9: don't know, it just I don't know. It came off
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  Speaker 9: very cheap, not smart, and not resourceful like he maybe
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  Speaker 9: saw it. It was came off cheap.
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  Speaker 1: And and.
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  Speaker 9: I'm sorry that I ghosted him. I just I didn't
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  Speaker 9: I don't know. I didn't want to tell him because
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  Speaker 9: I thought that I would sound rude if I told him.
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  Speaker 9: So I just responding and that's really.
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  Speaker 5: You're ghosting me over Sequila. Wel yeah, Hey, the whole point.
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  Speaker 9: Was that they didn't want to hurt your feelings.
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  Speaker 6: It's not rude.
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  Speaker 9: I don't know you were on the phone.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, so you ghost me.
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  Speaker 6: So I called John, Jay and Rich to figure out
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  Speaker 6: what happened. Okay, well, so I'm sitting here thinking I
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  Speaker 6: said something wrong or maybe like you met somebody else.
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  Speaker 6: But it's because I had tequila.
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  Speaker 9: I mean, it wasn't just the tequila, like obviously you
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  Speaker 9: catch where I like, it wasn't you have tequila?
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  Speaker 6: What was it?
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  Speaker 9: The old thing Ralph like the man the ordering virgin
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  Speaker 9: like virgin Margarita's just so you could spike them your else,
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  Speaker 9: Like you don't think that that's embarrassing.
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  Speaker 5: I was, hold on, it's not a man.
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  Speaker 6: Hold on, it's not a man person. I'll say, that's
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  Speaker 6: embarrassing me, Like it's a crossbody watched.
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  Speaker 9: You unhipp it like Mary Poppins. Okay, I had no
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  Speaker 9: idea what was coming out next series.
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  Speaker 2: Mary Poppins isn't pulling out the bag, at least not
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  Speaker 2: the version.
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  Speaker 8: I saw, like a flask or something, and they get
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  Speaker 8: So if you're splurgeon on the dinner, then why b.
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  Speaker 6: Yob Well, I was saving money.
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  Speaker 9: And giving money like you literally just told me that
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  Speaker 9: you won over three thousand dollars at a casino. That's
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  Speaker 9: a ton of.
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  Speaker 6: Money exactly, And that's how you like keep your winnings.
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  Speaker 9: No, that is how you get banned from restaurants and
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  Speaker 9: not make a good impression on a first date like
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  Speaker 9: this is a first date, this is your firstbody.
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  Speaker 5: Notice, look nobody even noticed and.
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  Speaker 9: Okay, but that way missed. I notice I noticed Ralph
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  Speaker 9: and that should be the only person whose opinion that
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  Speaker 9: should have mattered to you on that day.
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  Speaker 5: Like a genuine thought. I genuinely thought you thought it
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  Speaker 5: would be.
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  Speaker 9: Funny, I mean, and wanted to crawl under the table.
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  Speaker 5: So instead of telling me, you just.
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  Speaker 6: Ghost me.
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  Speaker 9: Like I'm sorry, I yeah, I go see you. I
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  Speaker 9: don't know, like, how do you text someone hey, I
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  Speaker 9: don't want to see you again because you turned a
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  Speaker 9: nice restaurant into a be wyody. I don't know how you.
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  Speaker 9: I just thought it was better to just let it
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  Speaker 9: go and make it clear that I wasn't interested anymore.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, Like, listen, I don't think.
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  Speaker 9: You're I had fun talking to you, but I just
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  Speaker 9: after that, I just don't think we're compaued. And I
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  Speaker 9: would suggest that you don't do that on a first state.
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  Speaker 5: Well, again, I thought it was fun, to be honest.
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  Speaker 6: Still, I still think it's fun, whether you're going to
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  Speaker 6: high end restaurant or I don't know.
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  Speaker 5: And he's like, I.
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  Speaker 6: Like, I think breaking the rules is fun and cute,
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  Speaker 6: but you know, next time maybe for you. Sure, well
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  Speaker 6: the next time, like like where you just told me
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  Speaker 6: right now, you know, like I was stressing out for
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  Speaker 6: a couple of days, and maybe next time, just be upfront.
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  Speaker 5: So I'm not like playing back other things and.
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  Speaker 6: Thinking it was me now like hearing it out louder,
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  Speaker 6: like if it's tequila, it sounds so stupid. So just
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  Speaker 6: so you know, like, just get fun.
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  Speaker 3: I get her point of view, I get your point
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  Speaker 3: of view, right, I also get his point of view too.
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  Speaker 3: He's a vibe, he's fun, he's you know, he's like
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  Speaker 3: I could see people doing that.
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  Speaker 8: He said he was doing it to save money, right,
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  Speaker 8: And then she was like, it seems a little cheap,
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  Speaker 8: and then he was like, but do you need to
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  Speaker 8: be fun and you.
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  Speaker 3: Know, risky and save my All three of those could
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  Speaker 3: be true. I mean, you know it's like with somebody
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  Speaker 3: brings alcohol into a concert.
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  Speaker 7: Right, I mean, I've definitely brought in like a water
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  Speaker 7: bottle filled with vodka spiked my drinks before, Like that's
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  Speaker 7: a thing. But I would never do that on a date.
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  Speaker 7: I'm doing that with my girlfriends on a Friday night.
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  Speaker 3: I would think for the first date, you wouldn't do that.
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  Speaker 3: But I can also understand him feeling comfortable. Ye, too
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  Speaker 3: bad didn't work out. I mean, I guess you kind
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  Speaker 3: of be funny. You're at a very fancy restaurant. You
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  Speaker 3: bust out a bottle tequila, and you'd be like, you're
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  Speaker 3: saving eight bucks.
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  Speaker 2: But that just lets you know that she doesn't like
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  Speaker 2: them that much. But that was cute to her, supposed
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  Speaker 2: to do that.
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  Speaker 8: Right, Well, she's also probably sitting there like, if we
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  Speaker 8: get caught or it's going to be so embarrassing, right,
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  Speaker 8: And she's like.
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  Speaker 9: It's yeah, yeah, I shouldn't have ghosted you. I'm sorry. Yeah,
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  Speaker 9: that's the honest truth. And I just don't think we're compatible,
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  Speaker 9: but you are a great guy, and I'm wishing you
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  Speaker 9: the best. And I didn't know what else.
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  Speaker 3: You know, It's like, it's like my wife sometimes will
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  Speaker 3: go to a restaurant if we've been there before she
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  Speaker 3: has she likes fresh avocado, and sometimes she'll bring an
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  Speaker 3: avocado to the restaurant when we ordered. It's kind of embarrassing,
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  Speaker 3: but she's my wife and I've been with her for
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  Speaker 3: a long time. If I was on the first date
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  Speaker 3: she busted on avocado out of her purse, I'd be like,
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  Speaker 3: what the heck? You know they charged a dollar for this,
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  Speaker 3: So I'm like, yeah, well, okay, she brought her own avocado.
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  Speaker 3: But we're also married. We've been together a long time.
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  Speaker 3: But anyway, all right, I get it, Ralph, I get it. Mariah,
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  Speaker 3: thank you both for jumping on the.
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  Speaker 4: Air with us. Yeah, guy it thanks for listening. Mariah.
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  Speaker 4: All right, that second d update you guys with John
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  Speaker 4: Jane Rich