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INTERVIEW: Pour Minds Podcast Talk ‘Travel Queens,' Learning Transparency, Friendship, Relationships + More · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: Wake that ass up in the morning.
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  Speaker 2: The Breakfast Club. Morning Everybody.
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  Speaker 1: It's DJ n v J.
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  Speaker 3: Just hilarious.
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  Speaker 4: Chelamine the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got
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  Speaker 4: some special guests in.
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  Speaker 1: The building, my girls, Lex p Andre and the Cole.
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  Speaker 3: Again.
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  Speaker 1: Great, really good. Happy to be here.
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  Speaker 2: Happy to see y'all. You'll got the new show Travel Queen.
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  Speaker 2: I'm happy to see y'all. Just evolving. Poor Minds podcast
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  Speaker 2: is a hit. Poor Minds podcast Evolving. Now y'all got
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  Speaker 2: the Travel Queen's TV show on BT. It's a docu series.
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  Speaker 2: How'd that come about?
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  Speaker 5: Also, the production company Cocoa Butter, they actually reached out
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  Speaker 5: to us because they wanted us to audition for it
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  Speaker 5: because they had us and like I think some other
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  Speaker 5: maybe like two or three other friend groups in mind.
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  Speaker 1: So we auditioned for it.
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  Speaker 5: They loved us, and then we got it and we
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  Speaker 5: started filming maybe like a month after.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and then really filmed the whole show in two weeks.
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  Speaker 2: Coc but I, No, it's actually not.
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  Speaker 5: It's a white guy.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, So what a travel Queen's about?
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  Speaker 4: Where y'all going with what y'all doing?
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  Speaker 1: So we went to four different cities.
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  Speaker 5: We went to Cardahena, Mexico City, and Key West Charleston.
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  Speaker 5: So it's basically really showing, like young black millennials gen zers,
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  Speaker 5: especially women, how to travel, where to go eat, where
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  Speaker 5: to find other black people when you travel, just how
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  Speaker 5: to be safe and.
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  Speaker 1: Have a good time.
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  Speaker 5: I think right now, and media I won't say right now,
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  Speaker 5: but I feel like a lot of stuff that we're
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  Speaker 5: seeing in the media with black women it's like who fighting,
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  Speaker 5: throwing drinks in people's face. So I really think it's
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  Speaker 5: refreshing to see two black women who are really friends
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  Speaker 5: just having good innocent fun.
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  Speaker 1: We're not talking.
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  Speaker 5: About men and dating and gender wars and all this stuff.
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  Speaker 1: It's just good fun.
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  Speaker 2: What about the ladies that are watching it, like, well,
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  Speaker 2: how am I going to be able to fly myself.
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  Speaker 5: Out grad from there?
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  Speaker 1: Actually?
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  Speaker 5: But I will say so a lot of the stuff too,
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  Speaker 5: is like it's budget friendly. I mean, we went to Charleston,
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  Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying, But you can do it
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  Speaker 5: aur on trip. We went to key West, so you
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  Speaker 5: can drive to key West, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 5: You don't have to necessarily fly. It's not like we're
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  Speaker 5: doing extremely expensive things to be honest.
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  Speaker 1: So I think if you.
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  Speaker 5: Budget you know, it's not like we're doing luxurious things
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  Speaker 5: and going to the Maldives and you know, staying at
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  Speaker 5: the Four Seasons. It's very budget friendly stuff. Yeah, and
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  Speaker 5: I think that was the point of the show. They
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  Speaker 5: wanted to make everybody feel like, Okay, I can come
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  Speaker 5: here and I don't have to.
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  Speaker 1: Spend a lot of money to have a good time.
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  Speaker 2: So for God was flying.
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  Speaker 5: I still want to go to those destinations, yeah, but
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  Speaker 5: I probably would have some different.
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  Speaker 1: Beautiful West is one of them.
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  Speaker 5: A little ducked up, I remember it is.
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  Speaker 1: That's before I wasn't through out by cocoa butter, but
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  Speaker 1: that that's usually the older gentleman. Yes, it's a very
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  Speaker 1: like quiet town. You can definitely sneak off there with
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  Speaker 1: the old I haven't never been the key waste before.
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  Speaker 1: That was my first time it was you know, it
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  Speaker 1: was water blue. The water was blue.
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  Speaker 2: That's a fact took you be confused.
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  Speaker 6: So I just told them that when the older guys
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  Speaker 6: performed filatio, they don't.
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  Speaker 1: Really know.
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  Speaker 6: What the congo lings kind of when when they're doing
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  Speaker 6: that they say leal lit.
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  Speaker 1: I guess they they don't have teef anymore.
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  Speaker 6: You know, they're trying to figure out where it is,
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  Speaker 6: especially the ones with glasses, you know when they slip
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  Speaker 6: down on the nose and they say, legally they be
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  Speaker 6: doing as a glass because a lot of it's gonna
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  Speaker 6: get a little nobody.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, the Four Cities y'all went to?
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  Speaker 2: Which one did you like the best? And why?
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  Speaker 1: Mexico CD because it was just so nice.
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  Speaker 5: I feel like, it's so many black expats that are
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  Speaker 5: moving there from the United States, so it's a lot
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  Speaker 5: of black people out there. We went to a R
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  Speaker 5: and B night while we were out there, we went
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  Speaker 5: to a black vegan restaurant. It's just it reminded me
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  Speaker 5: a lot of the United States, but just in Mexico C.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like, out of everywhere that we win, that
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  Speaker 1: was my favorite place.
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  Speaker 5: I'm not gonna lie. I keep saying that Charleston surprised
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  Speaker 5: me too, like that I've never been to Charleston, and
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  Speaker 5: I have a really close friend of mine that lives
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  Speaker 5: out there and he's been trying to get me to
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  Speaker 5: come out there forever.
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  Speaker 1: And I was like, what is in Charleston? Like, isn't
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  Speaker 1: that a dance?
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  Speaker 5: Like? I was like, I'm not trying, but I was
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  Speaker 5: so surprised, like people be taking the nice boats out.
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  Speaker 1: The food is good.
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  Speaker 5: I had a ball in Charleston, like I'm actually playing
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  Speaker 5: a trip to go back.
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  Speaker 1: Like beautiful.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, Mexico City is nice to Yeah, it's a lot
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  Speaker 5: of people moving there. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: My husband's family is from there. Really that's why period. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: y'all both like to travel already.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, and we already traveled together a lot anyway,
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  Speaker 5: so we felt like that's why it was the perfect
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  Speaker 5: show for it.
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  Speaker 4: Y'all get tired of each other at all, Like, you
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  Speaker 4: know what, you go your way, I'll go walk my way.
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  Speaker 1: Absolutely.
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  Speaker 3: Wow, we're neighbors.
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  Speaker 1: We literally live in Atlanta.
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  Speaker 5: I live in a building right here, and her building
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  Speaker 5: is right here, and the unit that I used to
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  Speaker 5: live in. She could see my apartment from so she
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  Speaker 5: would be like waving me from the pool. No, she
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  Speaker 5: I followed her because I started building a building ourself
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  Speaker 5: in the move, right next door to my sweetie pool.
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  Speaker 1: I love that I would. Y'all get tired, sugar. You
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  Speaker 1: know what's crazy.
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  Speaker 5: I think when we were younger and the show first started,
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  Speaker 5: we didn't have any direction. We didn't know what we
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  Speaker 5: wanted to do. We're going through growing pains, but now
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  Speaker 5: it's like she's thirty four, I'm thirty five. We've grown women. Yeah,
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  Speaker 5: we don't have anything to fight about. And honestly, I
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  Speaker 5: think it's so crazy when people have podcasts and they
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  Speaker 5: make so much money and they be arguing. You know what,
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  Speaker 5: we have so much fun, like to be able to
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  Speaker 5: travel the world with your best friend and have a business.
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  Speaker 1: It's great, it's fun. How was it when y'all get
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  Speaker 1: in relationships?
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  Speaker 3: Though?
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  Speaker 1: Ooh?
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  Speaker 5: I feel like we do a really good job of
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  Speaker 5: still keeping the balance of our friendship and still being
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  Speaker 5: in a relationship, Like we always find the time to
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  Speaker 5: hang with each other, to go to dinner, to talk
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  Speaker 5: on the phone. As crazy as it is because the
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  Speaker 5: podcast we do talk about dating a lot, we are
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  Speaker 5: really not male centered women and a lot of people
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  Speaker 5: think that because we talk about dating so much on
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  Speaker 5: the show, But we really not like.
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  Speaker 1: We like to be.
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  Speaker 5: Like last year we went to Turks for her birthday.
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  Speaker 5: We wasn't inviting them. We went to Miami one year
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  Speaker 5: for my birthday. Like, we just go on trips by ourself.
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  Speaker 5: We're not like, oh, our boyfriends have to come or
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  Speaker 5: if we go to dinner. It's not like, oh, bring
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  Speaker 5: your man, it's none of that.
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  Speaker 1: We none of yah.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all still bowed up.
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  Speaker 3: You know.
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  Speaker 1: You know now you're not in a rocky place. We
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  Speaker 1: gonna see what happens.
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  Speaker 5: It's complicated, yeah, which is crazy, right because I feel
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  Speaker 5: like it happened simultaneously, like at the same time for
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  Speaker 5: both of us. We started kind of going through a
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  Speaker 5: transition and a break up at the same time.
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  Speaker 1: But it's not like in the bad space. No, yeesh,
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  Speaker 1: it's not like we're cool. It's cool.
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  Speaker 5: We're figuring it out type sua suck each other up
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  Speaker 5: like girl leaving, I'm gonna leavehim if you leave him,
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  Speaker 5: or if.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. You know what's crazy.
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  Speaker 5: No, I'm really like that friend where when she calls
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  Speaker 5: me and she talks to me about what's going on
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  Speaker 5: in her relationship and stuff, I'm just always.
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  Speaker 1: Like, okay, girl, well you know, do what you want
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  Speaker 1: to do.
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  Speaker 5: I try to be supporting of what she want to
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  Speaker 5: do as long as it's not a fly violent situation
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  Speaker 5: or something that you need to leave the abusive or
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  Speaker 5: anything like that.
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  Speaker 1: I try to be supportive of my friends. And I
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  Speaker 1: get it. When you love somebody, you want to stay
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  Speaker 1: with your man. It's hard all here, y'all.
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  Speaker 5: All men, y'all all married, y'all got y'all.
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  Speaker 3: No, And I don't know why.
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  Speaker 2: He was just in love last year.
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  Speaker 1: I still ever loved. I'm very much in love. Like
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  Speaker 1: I said, it's just a situation. We're figuring it out.
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  Speaker 5: I don't, you know, but I think we're both so
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  Speaker 5: focused on our careers right now. And I know it
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  Speaker 5: sounds so cliche, but I'm just a person. He's an
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  Speaker 5: amazing guy. If we're meant to be together, we're gonna
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  Speaker 5: be together. So I'm just not putting pressure on it,
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  Speaker 5: you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 1: So it's cool. We're gonna figure it out.
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  Speaker 2: You know what have y'all learned about y'allselves from doing
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  Speaker 2: the podcasting? The podcast first of one, No longer than that.
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  Speaker 1: We started doing Poor Minds when I was like twenty seven,
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  Speaker 1: so yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Seven years yeah, seven years now, Okay, So y'all at that,
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  Speaker 2: See is people don't realize this is at the point,
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  Speaker 2: this is the time when podcasts really start to take off.
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  Speaker 2: Round your seventh fifure everybody think it's just instant success. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: round your seven fifth years. So what have y'all learned
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  Speaker 2: about yourselves?
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  Speaker 1: For me?
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  Speaker 5: I would say transparency and vulnerability is healing. When I
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  Speaker 5: first started doing the show, I think that I always
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  Speaker 5: have kind of had more of a closed off personality.
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  Speaker 5: I've always been a little bit more private than like
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  Speaker 5: She's always been like an open book on the show.
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  Speaker 5: And I never used to want to talk about things
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  Speaker 5: that I was going through because I felt like it
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  Speaker 5: was a sign of weakness.
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  Speaker 1: And I've just always had this thing where.
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  Speaker 5: I don't want people to look at me like, you know,
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  Speaker 5: I'm weak or whatever. So I think that now I'm
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  Speaker 5: in a space where I enjoy telling my story. I
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  Speaker 5: enjoy telling people the things that I'm going through because
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  Speaker 5: I feel like it can help other people get through
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  Speaker 5: this through similar things or you know, just being transparent
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  Speaker 5: to me is just very important at this point in
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  Speaker 5: my life life because I don't know, I just I
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  Speaker 5: don't want to get emotional.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to get emotional a little bit.
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  Speaker 5: But like I lost my dad and it was something
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  Speaker 5: that was thank you, It was something that was really
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  Speaker 5: really hard for me to talk about on the show,
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  Speaker 5: But I wish that back then I had the same
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  Speaker 5: mindset because I feel like I was dealing with so
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  Speaker 5: much by myself, and when I started talking about it
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  Speaker 5: on the show, it was just so many people in
• 10:24
  Speaker 5: such an outpouring of love, people saying I've been through
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  Speaker 5: the same thing. I can understand where you're coming from.
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  Speaker 5: So that's what I've learned over the years about myself.
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  Speaker 5: I think that I really enjoy now telling people what
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  Speaker 5: I'm going through instead of just feeling like I have
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  Speaker 5: to go through everything by myself. I think with me,
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  Speaker 5: I'm such like a loud personality, and I think a
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  Speaker 5: lot of times I would try to hide that from people,
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  Speaker 5: and I just embrace who I am, Like I'm not
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  Speaker 5: the sexy girl that's doing all this, Like I'm a tomboy.
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  Speaker 5: I like to be loud, have fun. So I really
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  Speaker 5: got confidence about myself because I'm.
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  Speaker 1: Like, this is who I am.
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  Speaker 5: I think for when I first started, like being on
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  Speaker 5: social media, I was like doing the bikini pigs and
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  Speaker 5: poles and bottle pull I'm like, girl, this is not
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  Speaker 5: you at all. So I've really been able to embrace
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  Speaker 5: myself and be like, you know what you'd allow homegirl,
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  Speaker 5: and that's okay, Like you don't have to fit into.
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  Speaker 1: This box of what you think that a woman is.
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  Speaker 5: Supposed to because people always love to say, because I
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  Speaker 5: know you hear this a lot, they'd be like, oh,
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  Speaker 5: funny women aren't pretty, or you have to either you
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  Speaker 5: funny or you're pretty.
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  Speaker 1: You can't be both, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 5: So I feel like I used to try to lean
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  Speaker 5: into being the pretty girl, and then I would try
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  Speaker 5: to lean.
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  Speaker 1: To be the funny girl. And I'm like, you know what,
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  Speaker 1: I don't have to be in anybody's box. Yeah, you
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  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 6: So you've always been sexy, you just don't give off
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  Speaker 6: sex like you said, like you're just not prissy, You're
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  Speaker 6: just yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Well, we talked about this on the show.
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  Speaker 5: There's a difference between like having sex appeal and like
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  Speaker 5: being attracted.
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  Speaker 1: Like Drea just is like sexy, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: She's walking around she's like, hey, oh you know yeah,
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  Speaker 1: Like I said, I just think, like being said.
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  Speaker 5: Really much, sex appeal is something that's just inside yes,
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  Speaker 5: and I just think like that's not a part of
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  Speaker 5: my personality.
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  Speaker 1: But that's okay. It's not. I'm not saying I'm unattractive.
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  Speaker 1: I'm a patty uncle. You feel me, you know what
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  Speaker 1: I'm saying.
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  Speaker 5: So I just think that I've been more comfortable, like
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  Speaker 5: being in my skin and who I am.
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  Speaker 1: For sure, growing out loud is hard yees, you know.
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  Speaker 2: And that's what you'll been doing the last seven years
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  Speaker 2: on that podcast.
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  Speaker 5: Like going through everything like she said we she lost
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  Speaker 5: her dad, I lost my mom, going through breakups and
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  Speaker 5: then it's like, you know, we'd be like, oh, we
• 12:35
  Speaker 5: in love and then the next month were talking about
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  Speaker 5: a different doing and every like oh my dad doing
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  Speaker 5: the same thing about you, you know, and people not
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  Speaker 5: in your business. So I think, yeah, going through relationships
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  Speaker 5: and growing pains. And I've always been honest about my
• 12:57
  Speaker 5: financial status too, because I always said when I'm it
• 13:00
  Speaker 5: was Atlanta, i had three dollars because I did like
• 13:02
  Speaker 5: I wasn't lying. So I think it's important to be transparent,
• 13:06
  Speaker 5: especially as a black woman in this industry. I feel
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  Speaker 5: like we always try to hide what we're making because
• 13:10
  Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, this company signed up for your ass.
• 13:12
  Speaker 5: How much they paying you? Because it's how much they
• 13:14
  Speaker 5: paying us. Let's make sure that they not, you know
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  Speaker 5: what I'm saying. So I think that with the platform
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  Speaker 5: that we have, it's like, yeah, we've grown in front
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  Speaker 5: of the camera. But like she said, being open and
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  Speaker 5: vulnerable has helped us one thousand percent.
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  Speaker 2: So what have y'all learned about y'allself from doing the
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  Speaker 2: TV show?
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  Speaker 1: Mmm?
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  Speaker 5: Honestly, I feel like everybody always asked that because they're like,
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  Speaker 5: oh my gosh, how was it?
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  Speaker 1: It was two weeks, But I'm like, I don't know nothing.
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  Speaker 1: I guess to.
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  Speaker 5: Be honest, Well, I mean because it's crazy because I
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  Speaker 5: thought it was gonna feel so different, but it felt
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  Speaker 5: so natural, Like I feel like we made for TV
• 13:49
  Speaker 5: because it felt so natural. It kind of felt like
• 13:51
  Speaker 5: and maybe because we did it together and we're best
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  Speaker 5: friends and we already have that chemistry and the camaraderie
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  Speaker 5: and stuff, it just felt thank you camaraderie.
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  Speaker 1: So it just felt.
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  Speaker 5: Like I'm doing this show with my homegirl, and the
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  Speaker 5: cameras just happened to be here.
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  Speaker 2: How many bags did y'all pack?
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  Speaker 1: We too?
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  Speaker 5: Right, No, we had that when we had one big
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  Speaker 5: suitcase and like our totes and stuff and then a
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  Speaker 5: carry on.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: So what we did though, is so we had the
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  Speaker 5: the bags from Amazon that you vacuum. So what we
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  Speaker 5: did is we had each bag for each city. So
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  Speaker 5: I had like my three outfits for Columbia and my vacuum.
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  Speaker 5: Back then I didn't have to open that bag no more.
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  Speaker 5: Then when we went to Charleton, I had my bag
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  Speaker 5: for Charuton. So it wasn't that bad. But I will
• 14:35
  Speaker 5: say shout out to the producers at BT, James Knox
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  Speaker 5: and the Cocoa Butter family, because they.
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  Speaker 1: Really let us be ourselves.
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  Speaker 5: Like they were literally like press record, y'all, just do y'all.
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  Speaker 5: And that's another thing I was worried about. I was like,
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  Speaker 5: how are they going to edit this and make us
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  Speaker 5: look But it's definitely given lex p Andre and the call.
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  Speaker 1: You know what's really fun time.
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  Speaker 5: So that was my second time going to Columbia, my
• 15:00
  Speaker 5: first time going to card Diana because.
• 15:02
  Speaker 2: The first Columbia country you said, I was in Combia.
• 15:12
  Speaker 5: You are.
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: Sure white. I am weak, so yeah, but I mean
• 15:19
  Speaker 1: funny enough.
• 15:19
  Speaker 5: I think that's what people think of though when you
• 15:21
  Speaker 5: think to Columbia, you think of the cartel and stuff,
• 15:24
  Speaker 5: because like I said, I went to Medayane a few
• 15:27
  Speaker 5: years ago to get my teeth done. And I was
• 15:29
  Speaker 5: scared to leave from the area where my hotel.
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: Was and where my doctor.
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: Crazy.
• 15:34
  Speaker 5: I mean, I was just nervous to travel around because
• 15:36
  Speaker 5: that's what you hear about Columbia. So when we went
• 15:38
  Speaker 5: to Cardina, I had a really really good time. And
• 15:41
  Speaker 5: then especially with us going to Polink, which is the
• 15:43
  Speaker 5: first free black city in the Americas, it was just
• 15:46
  Speaker 5: so you know that it's Afro Latinos in a lot
• 15:49
  Speaker 5: of these countries. But when I say when we were
• 15:51
  Speaker 5: in Polenk, we felt like we were somewhere in Ghana
• 15:53
  Speaker 5: and Nigeria, like these people look like our cousins, our
• 15:56
  Speaker 5: family members. It was just amazing being there and being
• 15:59
  Speaker 5: submerged in the culture.
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: Do you go away to Columbia get your tees.
• 16:02
  Speaker 5: Then, because it was shaper, I think here was like
• 16:06
  Speaker 5: thirty thousand. You know, I'm getting a little miney.
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: But to say get him done here.
• 16:11
  Speaker 6: They're just all the same size, like the extra largest
• 16:15
  Speaker 6: for the mediums or they.
• 16:18
  Speaker 5: Got the front, they get front teeth for the whole.
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: When they get the top done and don't get the
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: bottom of the and it's like.
• 16:28
  Speaker 5: You to get the texture, like I think that's why
• 16:30
  Speaker 5: my teeth looks so natural because he made like the texture.
• 16:34
  Speaker 4: And how the men treat you when they see y'all
• 16:36
  Speaker 4: from outside of which we are usually outside of Atlanta.
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: What do you mean? What do you mean?
• 16:42
  Speaker 4: Because Atlanta, you know, they see beautiful women. Sometimes they
• 16:45
  Speaker 4: might not see that in Colombia, like like.
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: DJ he said, Columbia got ugly women. If you said,
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: you know, like usually.
• 16:55
  Speaker 4: When you go out the country and they see American women,
• 16:57
  Speaker 4: they treat American women differently because they don't usually see
• 17:00
  Speaker 4: American women like that.
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, I'm not gonna lie.
• 17:03
  Speaker 5: I feel like whenever we go anywhere, I really can't
• 17:07
  Speaker 5: tell the difference because I feel like everywhere we go
• 17:09
  Speaker 5: we kind of draw Attenson. I know that sounds bad,
• 17:12
  Speaker 5: but it's like everywhere we go we're used to people
• 17:14
  Speaker 5: like we're like, oh my god, I know y'all from
• 17:16
  Speaker 5: the pod saying hey. And then when we were in Colombia,
• 17:19
  Speaker 5: it's a little different because we had cameras around us,
• 17:22
  Speaker 5: so of course people are like looking and saying stuff
• 17:24
  Speaker 5: and being so it's kind of hard to tell the
• 17:28
  Speaker 5: difference between, you know, people how they treat us outside
• 17:30
  Speaker 5: of Atlanta versus anywhere, because I feel like everywhere we
• 17:32
  Speaker 5: go now people kind of recognize us. So it's not
• 17:35
  Speaker 5: really like we're getting treated differently per se, if that
• 17:37
  Speaker 5: makes sense.
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: When you said.
• 17:38
  Speaker 6: They you were scared of how they were gonna edit
• 17:41
  Speaker 6: y'all and make y'all look.
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: Were y'all allowed to be in the room.
• 17:45
  Speaker 6: During the enterprocess, So you just like the y'all trusted them,
• 17:47
  Speaker 6: and you just like the way they ended up editing
• 17:49
  Speaker 6: the episode.
• 17:50
  Speaker 5: Yeah, we didn't know anything, girl, We've seen everything. When
• 17:53
  Speaker 5: everybody else seen, you didn't know how they were were
• 17:55
  Speaker 5: still watching. We was on the plane last night watching
• 17:58
  Speaker 5: the episode the first time.
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: So are y'all nervous for every episode that? You know what? Well,
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: I'm not nervous now. I was nervous of.
• 18:05
  Speaker 5: How my body was gonna look because I just lost
• 18:08
  Speaker 5: thirty pounds okay, thank you, Okay, So I when we shot,
• 18:14
  Speaker 5: I weighed like two o five.
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: So I was so nervous.
• 18:17
  Speaker 5: I kept saying, oh my gosh, I hope cause I
• 18:19
  Speaker 5: have like a little belly on me.
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: So whenever I gave weight.
• 18:21
  Speaker 5: Like people always tend to think I'm pregnant, they be like,
• 18:24
  Speaker 5: let's pregnant, I'm like, oh my god, can I just
• 18:26
  Speaker 5: have a little shot at tequila?
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah? I had a little you know.
• 18:31
  Speaker 5: So I was really more so nervous about my body
• 18:34
  Speaker 5: after I saw the first episode.
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: But I was like, okay, body team.
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: Columbia pure coke.
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: You say what? Oh no, Honestly, I used to be
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: a girl. I used to do everything under the sun.
• 18:47
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 18:47
  Speaker 5: The first time I went to Columbia for my bbah.
• 18:49
  Speaker 5: So y'all talking about y'all know Columbia for the coke.
• 18:52
  Speaker 5: I know, Colombia for them good doctors. But I just
• 18:56
  Speaker 5: did a natural this time. I was doing a lot
• 18:57
  Speaker 5: of cardio, eating healthy. You know, I feel like and
• 19:01
  Speaker 5: I feel better now. I think I'm getting older and
• 19:03
  Speaker 5: I'm just all the I'm not dissing people who do
• 19:06
  Speaker 5: take other routes, but I just had to do it
• 19:08
  Speaker 5: for it wasn't the ompic. I don't like needles.
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: I couldn't do that to myself. But no, no ospic.
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: I do want to say to you, talk about walking
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: in the room, There's something different about Houston women. Houston
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: women have a presence about them that stands out a
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: lot more than a lot of other women.
• 19:25
  Speaker 5: I think it's the side, really the side usually taller
• 19:30
  Speaker 5: tall were not originally from Houston.
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: I'm from Orange, Texas.
• 19:37
  Speaker 5: Yes, yes, I agree with that. I think we do
• 19:40
  Speaker 5: have a certain or we kind of command the room.
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: You know, we walk in. We're very friendly.
• 19:45
  Speaker 5: So it's especially when we walk in some rooms with
• 19:47
  Speaker 5: people like from New York, they're not used to people speaking.
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: We like hospitality. It's very huge.
• 19:56
  Speaker 5: As far as some hours, yeah, it's like two hours.
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: What's something about your friendship that y'all think the TV
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: show made stronger? If anything, I.
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: Think that we realized how strong we are together and.
• 20:12
  Speaker 5: How many I feel like, how many doors that we're opening,
• 20:15
  Speaker 5: even though I think and I know people.
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: Gonna be like, what doors you open?
• 20:18
  Speaker 5: Honestly, podcasting, especially in the South, it's not a lot
• 20:21
  Speaker 5: of podcasts in the South really, right, And the fact
• 20:25
  Speaker 5: that there has been podcasters out there that have gotten
• 20:28
  Speaker 5: TV shows, but it's mostly TV shows that are based
• 20:30
  Speaker 5: on their podcast. The fact that Travel Queens has nothing
• 20:33
  Speaker 5: to do with poor minds, and we're showing our talents,
• 20:36
  Speaker 5: like we have communication degrees, like we went to school
• 20:39
  Speaker 5: for this. So I think a lot of times people
• 20:41
  Speaker 5: don't take influencers or people who started on the internet.
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: Seriously, you started on the internet as well.
• 20:46
  Speaker 5: So a lot of times we get so much backlash
• 20:48
  Speaker 5: because they're like, uh, y'all just the girls who grabbed
• 20:51
  Speaker 5: the mic and start a YouTube channel. But I think
• 20:53
  Speaker 5: being on this show it shows like, no, we we
• 20:56
  Speaker 5: got some tricks up our sleeve, you know what I'm saying.
• 20:58
  Speaker 5: So I think that it made our friendship stronger because
• 21:00
  Speaker 5: I'm like, bro, look at what we have done, you.
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: Know what I'm saying.
• 21:03
  Speaker 5: Even from the first time when we came on Breakfast Club,
• 21:05
  Speaker 5: I was like, oh my gosh, like this is huge,
• 21:07
  Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying. So I think this is
• 21:10
  Speaker 5: just like we realized how strong we are together and
• 21:12
  Speaker 5: how much more that we have to do.
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: And don't speak past the fact y'all got communications degree.
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I know.
• 21:17
  Speaker 5: I think people always forget that because we never highlighted
• 21:20
  Speaker 5: that much. But yeah, graduated from Texas Southern and I
• 21:23
  Speaker 5: graduated from Stephen F.
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: Austin.
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: What y'all want to do?
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: Y'all?
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: In college, I just wanted to be like on TV
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: news anchors.
• 21:29
  Speaker 5: Or you know, I didn't really know what I wanted
• 21:31
  Speaker 5: to do to be honest, I knew I wanted to
• 21:33
  Speaker 5: do something in media, and then when I graduated, I
• 21:36
  Speaker 5: had a little fake internship at ninety seven nine buck
• 21:38
  Speaker 5: shout out to Kiyati.
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: He's still.
• 21:42
  Speaker 5: Yatis, still on the radio in Houston right now, and
• 21:45
  Speaker 5: I had a little fake internship with him. I shadowed
• 21:47
  Speaker 5: him for maybe like two months, and then I realized
• 21:50
  Speaker 5: I didn't really like radio. So then I didn't know
• 21:53
  Speaker 5: what I wanted to do, and so I moved to Atlanta.
• 21:55
  Speaker 5: Of course, y'all know, Lex ended up moving out here.
• 21:58
  Speaker 5: One of her friends who was also already into podcast
• 22:01
  Speaker 5: and was like, y'all need to turn y'all YouTube channel
• 22:02
  Speaker 5: into a podcast. And I feel like that's when I
• 22:06
  Speaker 5: found my niche. I was like, okay, I'm supposed to
• 22:07
  Speaker 5: be podcasting, but prior to that, I didn't know.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: I thought I was gonna do like hard news.
• 22:12
  Speaker 5: I was like, I'm gonna be out roke up, I'm
• 22:15
  Speaker 5: gonna be reporting everything.
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: It's gonna great. I'm doing everything, like y'all don't understand.
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be on America bitch.
• 22:32
  Speaker 5: I was trying to do everything, but like I took
• 22:34
  Speaker 5: an internship in my uh my school radio station and
• 22:38
  Speaker 5: we were just reporting on hard news every morning.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: It was so sad, and I was like, I cannot do.
• 22:43
  Speaker 5: This, Like we're having to interview people who just lost
• 22:46
  Speaker 5: their house and a fire like all this stuff.
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: And I was like, Okay, maybe I need to redirect.
• 22:50
  Speaker 5: And so I've always been into entertainment news Like I
• 22:53
  Speaker 5: grew up, you know, watching news.
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. The kids was watching Coco,
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: Mela and Rugrass. I was watching news.
• 22:59
  Speaker 5: So I was like, okay, let me do something in
• 23:01
  Speaker 5: the entertainment world like that might be, you know, more
• 23:04
  Speaker 5: of my speed. So I knew I want to do
• 23:05
  Speaker 5: something on TV and media, but I just wasn't sure.
• 23:08
  Speaker 5: So podcasting kind of made it easy because I was
• 23:10
  Speaker 5: applying for all the jobs in Houston and I just
• 23:12
  Speaker 5: couldn't get my foot in the door.
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: So I was like, well, let me just create our
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: own lane and do our thing.
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: How'd yall connect with eighty five South?
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: It was because of Carlos.
• 23:21
  Speaker 5: So Carlos always followed us on Twitter and we were
• 23:24
  Speaker 5: cool with him on Twitter, and I think I shot
• 23:28
  Speaker 5: my shot and I was just like, oh, can you
• 23:29
  Speaker 5: come record Poor Minds with us? And At this time,
• 23:32
  Speaker 5: we weren't even recording in the studio yet. We were
• 23:34
  Speaker 5: still recording in the living room at my house, and
• 23:37
  Speaker 5: he pulled up on us, sat on the floor in
• 23:39
  Speaker 5: my living room and recorded Poor Minds with us, and
• 23:42
  Speaker 5: then I think ever since then he was just kind
• 23:44
  Speaker 5: of watching us, and then he saw how the show
• 23:46
  Speaker 5: kept growing and elevating, and then a few years later
• 23:49
  Speaker 5: he ended up asking us to come on eighty five South.
• 23:52
  Speaker 5: We went on eighty five South. I think that episode
• 23:54
  Speaker 5: did a million views in like five days or something.
• 23:59
  Speaker 5: So we ended up the episode like a million views
• 24:04
  Speaker 5: in five days. And then he introduced us to Chad
• 24:07
  Speaker 5: and he was like, I think you know we want.
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: To sign y'all.
• 24:11
  Speaker 4: I still have a question, Uh some advice. I have
• 24:15
  Speaker 4: a single friend. Uh she has a closet full of wigs, curly.
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: Terrible wigs.
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: Oh you know who the friend is?
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: I do sadly.
• 24:26
  Speaker 4: She has a bunch of wigs curly, one day is straight,
• 24:31
  Speaker 4: different colors. She's she's funny, she's smart, she switches up
• 24:35
  Speaker 4: her wigs like like a Netflix series. But when it
• 24:38
  Speaker 4: comes to dating, she doesn't seem like she can.
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: Find the right guy.
• 24:42
  Speaker 4: She doesn't know, if guys get intimidated or if they
• 24:44
  Speaker 4: just confused, how would you suggest she meets somebody to
• 24:48
  Speaker 4: secure a relationship because time is running out?
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: And saw her wigs? But why did you include the
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: stuff about the wigs? You think the wig might be
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: the reason why she can't find the men.
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: I mean, think about it, just thinks that. I'm sure
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: that y'all felt like y'all had to change about yourselves
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: a little bit and it probably made them, you know,
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: debate a little stronger for the fist.
• 25:08
  Speaker 5: Okay, well, you know what kind of men are she
• 25:10
  Speaker 5: is she trying to date? Because you know they say
• 25:12
  Speaker 5: they like bad weeds, the white They love a crunching,
• 25:23
  Speaker 5: a crunches steal. I could not keep the Brett's off
• 25:29
  Speaker 5: of me. They do. But I will say this, we
• 25:33
  Speaker 5: were actually just having this conversation.
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: We was literally just talking about this.
• 25:37
  Speaker 5: They do. They have that same hardwig soft life.
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: Maybe a different pool.
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: She's in the wrong pool.
• 25:54
  Speaker 5: She might be in the wrong pool one, But I
• 25:55
  Speaker 5: will say we were just telling our producer this, and
• 25:58
  Speaker 5: I was saying, like, when you get your look together
• 26:01
  Speaker 5: and you feel confident in yourself, it doesn't even matter,
• 26:04
  Speaker 5: Like whatever makes you feel good, You're gonna attract the
• 26:06
  Speaker 5: right person. I enjoy being polished. I used to have
• 26:09
  Speaker 5: a stiff wig or two.
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: You got one of them? She does, she does, but
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: I called her.
• 26:15
  Speaker 5: I said, well, she wins her first EM. I'm gonna
• 26:17
  Speaker 5: put it on eBay and you don't got the pony
• 26:22
  Speaker 5: Collectors item and it still has the scruencheet on.
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: It and everything. It's in a ponytail.
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: Who do you think lies? More women with bad wigs
• 26:28
  Speaker 2: are men with podcasts.
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: Me and with with podcasts hands down. Oh my god.
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: The girl with a stiff wig a bad week? You
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: living in your truth?
• 26:37
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: Agree for the two weeks that we we didn't.
• 26:57
  Speaker 5: Me and Lex honestly really get along most of the time.
• 27:00
  Speaker 5: We never really argue again if we do, because I
• 27:03
  Speaker 5: feel like we can. We're at a point now in
• 27:04
  Speaker 5: our relationship where we can since when the other person
• 27:07
  Speaker 5: low key's hired to like, but it be over silly
• 27:10
  Speaker 5: stuff like drag be running late sometimes and like she'll
• 27:12
  Speaker 5: getting the ober and I'll just be on my phone, like.
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: You don't even speak girl, you are late, bring your ass.
• 27:19
  Speaker 5: So it'd be silly stuff like that, but we just
• 27:22
  Speaker 5: don't it don't be nothing like that serious.
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: Like I said, life is good. What do we have
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: to be mad about?
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: Its great to go back to this wakship for one,
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: I won't have to over the phones at some point.
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: But I don't believe that I've never heard the white
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: men like you.
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: And you said hard Yeah, who told you this? I
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: lived it lived. I'm serious.
• 27:45
  Speaker 5: If you go look on TikTok right now and type
• 27:47
  Speaker 5: Hardwig soft life, you're gonna see nothing but interracial couples.
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: So why didn't you stick with the white man?
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: Because I wanted a man. I wanted a hard life
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: with a hard man.
• 28:03
  Speaker 5: With my.
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: Struggle. She wanted to struggle with the raw.
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: The doctor Lamar influenced you. The dump that white man.
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: You know what people hate when I say this, I
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: love doctor. It's no funny.
• 28:25
  Speaker 5: First of all, exciting me. They're talking about me, talking
• 28:30
  Speaker 5: about I got a bad we can't find a man
• 28:32
  Speaker 5: talking about it's brooch.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: He's so nice to meet you.
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: He looks beautiful boy, hard Wig Will Halloween, what what
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: did you talking about?
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: Talking about you? Hear talking about her in that sac.
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: First of all, the sad thing that will normally comes
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: from over here.
• 28:51
  Speaker 5: But you were your sad song all over there, spinning
• 28:54
  Speaker 5: around looking at me.
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: Nobody was talking about come in here and let you know.
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: So it's somebody. We walk.
• 29:09
  Speaker 5: Right nice and I love the show. I think y'all
• 29:14
  Speaker 5: look so pretty on the show. I've watched all three episodes.
• 29:19
  Speaker 5: Why you kept turning around to me? We got cameras
• 29:20
  Speaker 5: all in the studio. We're gonna run the tad. Oh
• 29:22
  Speaker 5: my god, that's stiff.
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: Next talk my heart. We din't talking about that hard
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: die that's dried over there? All right, get I'll talk
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: to you all ladies show. Okay, Yeah, I think your
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: wig is beautiful to I like it. I love the ball.
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: So many.
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: Listen, how do you'll protect y'all mental health? While still?
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: How do y'all protection my heart, my head and other people?
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: And we keeping my hard wigs to protect me? No
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: ct over here, I was Protectingsparens and on TV?
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: How do y'all protect y'all at though?
• 30:11
  Speaker 5: I praize, I have a great relationship with God. I prayalize,
• 30:15
  Speaker 5: I also go to therapy. I think it's so important
• 30:18
  Speaker 5: to go to therapy, and I don't know why in
• 30:19
  Speaker 5: the black community so many people don't want to try
• 30:22
  Speaker 5: it out, are afraid to.
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: Try it out?
• 30:24
  Speaker 5: Like it has completely changed my life, especially when I
• 30:27
  Speaker 5: was grieving when I lost my dad. That's when I
• 30:29
  Speaker 5: started therapy and I've been going ever since. It's been
• 30:31
  Speaker 5: about five years now.
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's the same. I go to therapy. I recently
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: started going. I go to church every Sunday. I do
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: not play.
• 30:40
  Speaker 5: I've worked on my relationship with God, and honestly, I
• 30:43
  Speaker 5: really have a tight, close knit circle, like my friends
• 30:47
  Speaker 5: and my family, like me and my sister are extremely close,
• 30:50
  Speaker 5: and I feel like that's important. Like when I have
• 30:52
  Speaker 5: my bad days and I'm just like, my best friend
• 30:54
  Speaker 5: is here with me, killer, I'm like, you need to
• 30:56
  Speaker 5: come to Atlanta, like I'm not doing too well, and
• 30:58
  Speaker 5: she will literally hop on a plane and come see me.
• 31:01
  Speaker 5: And you know, because we all have our moments, even
• 31:03
  Speaker 5: with Drave me and my neighbor, I'm like, I had
• 31:04
  Speaker 5: a breakdown last week and I called her.
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: I was like, bro, I'm finna lose my mind.
• 31:08
  Speaker 5: So I think it's very important to have people around
• 31:11
  Speaker 5: you that you know, when I'm down, they can pick
• 31:14
  Speaker 5: me up.
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: And vice versa.
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: So you had a grief counselor or you're just just
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: a therapy.
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: But I mean she did specialize in grief, so yeah,
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: and that helped.
• 31:24
  Speaker 5: It helps me a lot for sure, because I mean,
• 31:27
  Speaker 5: I will talk to my mom about it, but it
• 31:29
  Speaker 5: was hard talking to my mom about.
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: It because she was also grieving as well.
• 31:33
  Speaker 5: And it was just nice to have somebody who was unbiased,
• 31:36
  Speaker 5: who I could let all my feelings out and let
• 31:38
  Speaker 5: them know how I was feeling. Because at the time,
• 31:40
  Speaker 5: you know, Lex hadn't lost her mom yet, so I
• 31:42
  Speaker 5: didn't have any friends that had lost the parents, so
• 31:44
  Speaker 5: it wasn't anybody that I could talk to that I
• 31:46
  Speaker 5: felt like could relate to what I.
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: Was going through.
• 31:49
  Speaker 5: Man.
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, condolences man. And when you are going through those breakdowns,
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: like you said, you hit dred, what you pull over
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: the bottle or something, some smoke, what you'll do?
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: I always got about it, not some smoke, And I
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: think either about to go out to make yourself feel better.
• 32:09
  Speaker 5: No, But honestly, you know what, I don't even think
• 32:11
  Speaker 5: we do that anymore. We used to, but now we
• 32:13
  Speaker 5: really just talk like we drink through our problems.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: But we really don't do that anymore.
• 32:21
  Speaker 5: We really just talk it out and you know, just
• 32:24
  Speaker 5: give each other time and just be there for each other,
• 32:26
  Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying. Yeah, Yeah, And one thing
• 32:30
  Speaker 5: I've learned is just like I've learned so much patience.
• 32:33
  Speaker 5: I have so much peace in that because it doesn't
• 32:36
  Speaker 5: rain forever. So every time I'm going through something, I'm
• 32:38
  Speaker 5: just like, just let it pass, and it always always passes.
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: So I think we we we we still get turned
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: on the wine though.
• 32:46
  Speaker 5: Yeah we don't drink now, but we don't use it
• 32:48
  Speaker 5: as a crutch anymore.
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 32:50
  Speaker 2: I was gonna ask you how do y'all balance like
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: turning up for the show because you still got to perform,
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: right because it's a TV show, but then being present
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: for the moments that you're experiencing, like those cultural you
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: know what's crazy.
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: We didn't really drink that much the whole time that
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: we were filming.
• 33:05
  Speaker 5: Like, we had a few scenes, like we had a
• 33:06
  Speaker 5: mexcal scene, so of course we were drinking during that scene.
• 33:10
  Speaker 5: I think the Drag show, Yeah, we were drinking a
• 33:12
  Speaker 5: little bit, and then we had some mohitos, But honestly,
• 33:16
  Speaker 5: those were the only three times throughout the whole time
• 33:17
  Speaker 5: we were filming that we were drinking because we really
• 33:20
  Speaker 5: wanted to stay present in the moment because one thing
• 33:22
  Speaker 5: about this we're gonna take it to the moon, We're
• 33:23
  Speaker 5: gonna take it too far.
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: So it's missed to just not have no drinks.
• 33:27
  Speaker 5: Yeah, And it's crazy because the mescal scene that we
• 33:29
  Speaker 5: did that showed in Mexico City last night. That was
• 33:33
  Speaker 5: actually the last scene that we did for the entire show,
• 33:35
  Speaker 5: and that was probably the most like lit that we
• 33:37
  Speaker 5: got because we were drinking so much. But I think
• 33:40
  Speaker 5: it's very different from Poor Minds. But honestly, we stopped
• 33:43
  Speaker 5: drinking a lot on Poor Minds, Yeah, because it was
• 33:46
  Speaker 5: like some cringy episodes and we just like, oh my god,
• 33:50
  Speaker 5: it was the Houston Live showed. It was so embarrassing
• 33:55
  Speaker 5: because we recorded the show and then we went back
• 33:58
  Speaker 5: and watched it when we got back to Atlanta, and
• 34:00
  Speaker 5: it was just so cringey. We was on stage like yeah, Lex,
• 34:04
  Speaker 5: let's turn up, and were bringing our friends on stage
• 34:08
  Speaker 5: and just drunk, taking shots, twerking.
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: It was.
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: It was a miss one of my favorite shows. Y'all
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: came out and y'all was just dancing and was in
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: the zone.
• 34:18
  Speaker 5: Not that one you're that was Houston. But that was
• 34:20
  Speaker 5: like our second Houston show. You we have the freaking
• 34:24
  Speaker 5: outfits on.
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that was a good show. We have put ourselves
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: on a drink minimum. We have a two shot.
• 34:33
  Speaker 5: Minimum before we go on stage, and then we'll have
• 34:36
  Speaker 5: like a drink on stage, but we have one drink
• 34:38
  Speaker 5: go on stage and that's it. Once we're done with
• 34:39
  Speaker 5: that drink, you're done. Yeah that first Houston show, we
• 34:42
  Speaker 5: drunk that whole bottle.
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we was.
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: We was turning. I'm always not always a little nervous,
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: always trying to turn up. I didn't realize I was
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: getting so drunk.
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: With the long term vision for the show, more.
• 34:58
  Speaker 5: Seasons, Yeah, if we're hoping it's gonna get picked up
• 35:01
  Speaker 5: for a second season, I think we should probably know
• 35:04
  Speaker 5: that within like the next two weeks or so. So
• 35:06
  Speaker 5: obviously we wanted to get picked up. And as far
• 35:09
  Speaker 5: as Poor Minds, we want Poor Minds to get picked
• 35:12
  Speaker 5: up as a TV show as well.
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's on our bucket least.
• 35:15
  Speaker 5: Yeah, for sure, I think, like with Travel Queens, I
• 35:18
  Speaker 5: definitely wanted to be a lot more seasons. I feel
• 35:19
  Speaker 5: like we should do like a whole season, like in Africa,
• 35:22
  Speaker 5: A whole season in Europe. So that's what we're holding
• 35:25
  Speaker 5: that'll that it'll grow to. And you know, same thing
• 35:27
  Speaker 5: with Poor Minds. I can see Poor Minds living on
• 35:29
  Speaker 5: like you know, maybe like a streaming app or something
• 35:31
  Speaker 5: that you know, outside of YouTube. I think we're ready
• 35:34
  Speaker 5: to make that transition with Poor Minds as well. And yeah,
• 35:38
  Speaker 5: yeah for sure, and more hosting opportunities for the both
• 35:41
  Speaker 5: of us and individually. She still has her cosmetics line
• 35:44
  Speaker 5: that's doing really well, so her just growing in the
• 35:48
  Speaker 5: beauty industry. I have started my YouTube channel love Lexp,
• 35:52
  Speaker 5: so I'm just doing like hot topics show reviews because
• 35:54
  Speaker 5: that's the line.
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: I want to get into more hosting as well. So yeah,
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: we just have so much stuff to do.
• 35:59
  Speaker 5: And I feel like now that we've that step into TV,
• 36:01
  Speaker 5: it's like, you know, people can actually see what we
• 36:04
  Speaker 5: can do now, you know.
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: I was already on the shop Music Beauty Collection dot com.
• 36:11
  Speaker 5: Make sure you get your lip glosses, Matt Liqui lipsticks,
• 36:14
  Speaker 5: lip liners. I also just branched into other cosmetics products,
• 36:18
  Speaker 5: so now I have some jelly blushes, I have Mescira
• 36:22
  Speaker 5: and eyeliner.
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: Us Beauty Collection dot Com.
• 36:26
  Speaker 4: We'll check out Travel Queens on b E T Y.
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: Thank you for joining us, Subscribe to the Poor podcast,
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: Big love for Lex p Andre and the.
• 36:36
  Speaker 4: It's the Breakfast Club, Good morning, wake that ass up
• 36:40
  Speaker 4: in the morning.
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: The Breakfast Club