246. How To Tell Your Spouse You Want a Divorce

Your Extraordinary Life & Dating After Divorce · Jan 15, 2026 · 16m

Thinking about divorce? The way you approach telling your spouse can determine your safety, your financial future, and your children's wellbeing. This isn't about whether you should leave—it's about understanding what happens when you do.

Most women walk into this conversation with the same mindset that kept them stuck in the relationship. You've minimized problems for years. You've told yourself "I can handle this" or "It's not that bad." That thinking protects you while you're staying. It harms you when you're leaving.

Here's the truth: You cannot approach a difficult spouse with an…