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Fight Through the Pain: Overcome Any Obstacle in Your Path · Motivation Mindset Podcast

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  Speaker 1: You can find yourself stressed out, you can find yourself depressed,
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  Speaker 1: mentally flatulal because of the experiences, the turbulus. But you
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  Speaker 1: have gone through.
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  Speaker 2: There's always good reasons for not doing what you should,
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  Speaker 2: that's for sure. The reasons pile up day after day
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  Speaker 2: to not do what you should, especially because you're aiming
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  Speaker 2: at things in the future. You can put them off
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  Speaker 2: indefinitely right because of the demands of the day. But
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  Speaker 2: these stories, they say a variety of things saying oh,
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  Speaker 2: especially in combination, they say, when you leave somewhere terribly, do.
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  Speaker 3: Not look back.
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  Speaker 2: There's no nostalgia. That's the letting the dead parts of
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  Speaker 2: yourself go. And then if you're going to follow the good,
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  Speaker 2: there's no excuse not to do. It does and it
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  Speaker 2: means no excuse whatsoever under any circumstances. There is no
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  Speaker 2: excuse whatsoever for not getting at what it is that
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  Speaker 2: you should be doing now. It's not necessarily that easy
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  Speaker 2: to turn and face something. But you do detail out
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  Speaker 2: a variety of strategies in your books, and one of
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  Speaker 2: the ways of read calibrating that is to break down
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  Speaker 2: the problem into small and manageable step.
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  Speaker 4: How did you do it? You created it three ways.
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  Speaker 4: Number One, you decided there's something you wanted so bad
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  Speaker 4: that you unleashed all your desire. You became obsessed with it.
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  Speaker 4: If it was a business or a car, or a relationship,
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  Speaker 4: or a transformation in your body. If there's something you
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  Speaker 4: once envisioned and now it's real, it's because you didn't
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  Speaker 4: just envision it, you brought so much emotion to it
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  Speaker 4: that now it's in your life. I want this. You
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  Speaker 4: may dream you about, have thought about it, talked about it.
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  Speaker 4: But when you focus on something continuously, something magical happens.
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  Speaker 4: You envisioned something, you got clear about it, and then
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  Speaker 4: you start thinking about all the reasons why you wanted it.
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  Speaker 4: You got excited about it. So this is what's next
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  Speaker 4: for me?
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  Speaker 5: Now, little or change something.
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  Speaker 6: It's choice time. You can do whatever you want. But
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  Speaker 6: it's nice to know any day you wish you can
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  Speaker 6: change your whole life. What can you do starting tomorrow
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  Speaker 6: it'll make a difference. What are you going to do
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  Speaker 6: that'll make a change in your life's direction? Now, see
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  Speaker 6: if you don't do something starting tomorrow that'll make a difference.
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  Speaker 5: Guess what it's gonna be the.
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  Speaker 6: Same and see that way you can guess what the
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  Speaker 6: next five years are going to be like. Look at
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  Speaker 6: the last five, because the next five are going to
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  Speaker 6: be like the last five unless you major key tomorrow
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  Speaker 6: change it all.
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  Speaker 1: Spend all your time lamenting and complaining about how bad
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  Speaker 1: things are, using your energy negatively rather than positively, complaining
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  Speaker 1: rather than producing.
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  Speaker 4: That's what we do when we're afraid of really making it.
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  Speaker 7: Because when you raise your hands in victory, I want
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  Speaker 7: you to own that too. But right now, we gotta
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  Speaker 7: make this move. What happened to you just now? I
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  Speaker 7: don't want to hear about your chaf we all got them.
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  Speaker 7: I don't want to hear about your limitations, what we
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  Speaker 7: all got them.
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  Speaker 1: You can experience enough pain in life that you can
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  Speaker 1: clover you to the ground, and you believe you can't
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  Speaker 1: do it. You believe that this is it for you.
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  Speaker 5: No, it's not. I don't know what you've been through,
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  Speaker 5: I don't know how bad it hurts you, but I
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  Speaker 5: came to tell you what you are going through right
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  Speaker 5: now is not how your story is supposed to end.
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  Speaker 5: We let the conditions around us convince us that we
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  Speaker 5: can't reach what we're trying to reach because of circumstances
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  Speaker 5: beyond our control.
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  Speaker 7: It's time to put your pieces together.
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  Speaker 4: Of your funzle we turn tragedy into triumph and fallly us.
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  Speaker 7: You gotta want to succeed as fair as you want
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  Speaker 7: to free.
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  Speaker 3: The thing that we have to continue to passionately, uncompromisably,
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  Speaker 3: not give in on It's the fact that I'm not
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  Speaker 3: staying stagnant.
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  Speaker 5: I'm moving forward.
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  Speaker 3: It won't last forever. Means the ultimate challenge he is
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  Speaker 3: ahead of you. It means you can only go up.
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  Speaker 3: And it also means that things are going to be tough.
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  Speaker 3: Things are going to be tougher than anything you can imagine.
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  Speaker 3: But well, right now you're being tried, you're being forged,
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  Speaker 3: You're being tested by fire and by the pain.
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  Speaker 5: That's the dustin don't fail, the destin.
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  Speaker 8: Being capable and open to controlling yourself and taking personal
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  Speaker 8: accountability for your life is a crucial factor in achieving happiness,
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  Speaker 8: well being, success, accomplishments, and personal leadership.
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  Speaker 4: The act of.
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  Speaker 8: Embracing responsibility is among the most challenging disciplines, yet it's
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  Speaker 8: pivotal because success hinges on it. When you evade accepting
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  Speaker 8: responsibility and instead try to shift the blame for the
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  Speaker 8: aspects of your life, causing happiness on to others, institutions,
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  Speaker 8: or circumstances. It distorts the relationship between actions and outcomes.
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  Speaker 8: This weakens your character, diminishes your determination, and dilutes your
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  Speaker 8: essence as a human being. This pattern paves the way
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  Speaker 8: for offering endless excuses. In the fast paced world we
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  Speaker 8: live in, keeping our focus can be a challenge. We're
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  Speaker 8: surrounded by many things that want our attention. Think about
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  Speaker 8: all the information, messages, and tasks that come our way
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  Speaker 8: every day. They can easily take us away from what
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  Speaker 8: truly matters. But here's a secret. When we take responsibility
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  Speaker 8: for our act, it helps us have more control over
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  Speaker 8: our lives. It's like a cycle. The more responsibility we accept,
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  Speaker 8: the more in control we feel. And when we feel
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  Speaker 8: in control, we also feel happier and more positive about things.
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  Speaker 8: Imagine you're juggling lots of tasks, like keeping plates spinning
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  Speaker 8: in the air and this fast world, staying focused is
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  Speaker 8: like holding onto those spinning plates. Now here's the interesting part.
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  Speaker 8: The more we say I am responsible, the better we
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  Speaker 8: become at handling these tasks. It's all most like a superpower.
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  Speaker 8: When we say these words, we're actually saying that we
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  Speaker 8: have a role in what's happening. This helps us feel
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  Speaker 8: strong and capable. Plus it stops negative feelings from stealing
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  Speaker 8: our happiness. Whenever we're upset, we can just remind ourselves
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  Speaker 8: that we are responsible for our reactions. Now, let's think
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  Speaker 8: about intelligence. It's like a tool that can cut in
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  Speaker 8: two directions. We can use it to come up with
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  Speaker 8: reasons why things aren't our fault or why others are
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  Speaker 8: to blame. But we can also use it to find
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  Speaker 8: out why we are responsible for what's happening and take
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  Speaker 8: action to fix it. It's like choosing between making excuses
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  Speaker 8: and making progress. Even in situations like accidents where we
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  Speaker 8: might not be at fault, we're still responsible for how
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  Speaker 8: we react. Leaders, those people who guide and inspire others,
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  Speaker 8: show us something important. They always take responsibility for what's
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  Speaker 8: going on. They don't complain or get upset when problems
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  Speaker 8: show up. Instead, they act quickly to solve issues. Being
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  Speaker 8: a leader means having a response ability. It's like a
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  Speaker 8: super skill that helps us stay calm when things go wrong.
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  Speaker 8: Just as we don't get mad at the weather, we
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  Speaker 8: don't let things we can't control bother us, and we
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  Speaker 8: don't let past events steal our happiness either. It's like
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  Speaker 8: saying what can't be changed, I will accept This way,
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  Speaker 8: we don't let old memories make us sad. Now, let's
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  Speaker 8: talk about controlling our emotions. Imagine you're the boss of
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  Speaker 8: your feelings. Taking charge of your emotions starts with saying
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  Speaker 8: I am responsible for how I feel. This means we
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  Speaker 8: don't blame others or make excuses for our feelings. Instead,
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  Speaker 8: we take control by deciding how we'll react to what happens,
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  Speaker 8: even when we're angry or worried. The best way to
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  Speaker 8: feel better is to take action towards our goals. But
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  Speaker 8: before we dive into action, we need to decide that
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  Speaker 8: we'll be the boss of our thoughts, feelings, and actions.
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  Speaker 8: We stay busy with important things so we don't have
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  Speaker 8: time for negative feelings. By being in control of ourselves,
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  Speaker 8: we become more powerful, happier, and positive in everything we do.
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  Speaker 8: The key to focus thinking isn't just about dealing with distractions.
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  Speaker 8: It's about creating a world where we're in charge of
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  Speaker 8: our thoughts, where we can be more creative, get things done,
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  Speaker 8: and become better versions of ourselves. It's like a special ability.
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  Speaker 8: We have to choose what we focus on in a
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  Speaker 8: world full of things trying to get our attention. So remember,
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  Speaker 8: by taking responsibility and staying in control, we can lead
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  Speaker 8: a happier and more successful life.
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  Speaker 9: Succeeding in life has always been a matter of doing
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  Speaker 9: that which the great majority does not do. Now let's
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  Speaker 9: keep this in mind as we get into this business
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  Speaker 9: of goals. It isn't that I want to make an
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  Speaker 9: invidious comparison between the five percent and the ninety five percent.
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  Speaker 9: Not at all. That's just the way it is, and
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  Speaker 9: if we don't recognize it, it would be to our cost.
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  Speaker 9: If you can tell me what you want, I can
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  Speaker 9: tell you how to get it. You see, the trick
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  Speaker 9: is not in achieving our goals, it is in establishing them.
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  Speaker 9: A ship would never leave a harbor if it did
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  Speaker 9: not have a destination. An industrial plant would never open
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  Speaker 9: its gates if it did not have a product or
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  Speaker 9: a purpose. Football would not be played without gold posts,
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  Speaker 9: nor would baseball without a home plate. Every business operates
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  Speaker 9: for a purpose, Every game has a reason. Getting back
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  Speaker 9: to the analogy of our ship, if you were to
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  Speaker 9: climb to the navigation bridge, and ask the captain the
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  Speaker 9: name and location of his next port of call. He
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  Speaker 9: would tell you immediately, There's not the slightest doubt in
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  Speaker 9: his mind. Can you tell anyone your destination just as
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  Speaker 9: quickly and in one sentence. The captain of the ship
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  Speaker 9: knows that he can arrive at only one port at
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  Speaker 9: a time. He knows that it's impossible to arrive at too.
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  Speaker 5: Do you know that?
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  Speaker 9: He also knows that his destination will be invisible for
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  Speaker 9: fully ninety nine percent of his book. But he knows
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  Speaker 9: it's there and that he'll reach it barring an unforeseen catastrophe.
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  Speaker 9: If he will just keep doing certain things a certain
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  Speaker 9: way every day. One fine morning, his destination will appear
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  Speaker 9: on the horizon. He'll sail into port, his voyage successfully completed.
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  Speaker 9: When his business has been accomplished, he'll then sail to
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  Speaker 9: another predetermined port of call, and this will take him
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  Speaker 9: and his ship from one success to another for the
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  Speaker 9: rest of both of their lives. By understanding that he
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  Speaker 9: can reach only one port at a time, the owner
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  Speaker 9: of ship can in the short space of a very
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  Speaker 9: few years, reach hundreds of ports successfully. There'll be problems,
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  Speaker 9: lots of them, but they'll be solved, and the ship
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  Speaker 9: will steam its solitary course over the deep oceans of
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  Speaker 9: the world, devoting its life to accomplishing its mission and
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  Speaker 9: contributing its share to the welfare and economy of the world.
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  Speaker 9: Men and women who follow this sensible, obvious, and meaningful
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  Speaker 9: way of life will do the same. But the paradox
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  Speaker 9: is that most are like ships without rudders. They're subject
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  Speaker 9: to the whims of wind and tide. And while they
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  Speaker 9: hope they'll one day arrive in a rich and bustling port,
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  Speaker 9: you and I know that for every narrow harbor entrance,
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  Speaker 9: there's a thousand miles of treacherous and rocky coast line.
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  Speaker 9: The chances of their just drifting into porter a thousand
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  Speaker 9: to one against them. These are the unfortunate people who,
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  Speaker 9: not knowing the rules, believe that circumstance controls our lives.
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  Speaker 9: They believe in luck and superstition, fate the breaks. They
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  Speaker 9: believe that success comes as a result of who you know,
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  Speaker 9: not what you know. And while they cling to their
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  Speaker 9: false alibis, life passes them by. For the rules of
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  Speaker 9: life are just, and they are checkmated without haste, but
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  Speaker 9: without remorse. Now, what about you, remembering that the definition
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  Speaker 9: of success is the progressive realization of a worthy ideal.
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  Speaker 9: What's the ideal toward which you are working now to day, yesterday,
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  Speaker 9: and tomorrow? Can you write it in one sentence? Is
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  Speaker 9: your goal sharply and clearly defined? I could tell you
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  Speaker 9: how you could be and have anything you set your
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  Speaker 9: mind on in five years. To better understand this, you
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  Speaker 9: must examine one of the most overlooked facts in the world.
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  Speaker 9: It is that every job, no matter what it may be,
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  Speaker 9: hold somewhere within itself the key to everything we want
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  Speaker 9: in life, the key to greatness. But we must look
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  Speaker 9: for it, and we must think decide to become a
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  Speaker 9: professional at your business. You see, we can either compete
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  Speaker 9: or create. If we compete with all the other people
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  Speaker 9: in our line of work, we must be willing to
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  Speaker 9: accept the same rewards. If that's what we want, fine,
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  Speaker 9: But if we want to become professionals at what we do,
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  Speaker 9: then we must create. And when we begin to do this,
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  Speaker 9: there's no limit to that which we can achieve.