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- 0:00Welcome to the PauseBetweeners podcast, co-hosted by best friends Natalie and Sasha.
- 0:06We're lifelong animal lovers and proud pet parents. Between us, we share our lives with
- 0:13cats Murray and Weaver and Betty the pug.
- 0:17So welcome to a new episode. This was an exciting one. We've got a great guest coming up, Rachel
- 0:21from Nose to Trail. So listen up. But before we introduce her, say hello to Sash. Hey,
- 0:28hi, how's everyone doing? Or how are you Nat?
- 0:32Yeah, not too bad. I'm all right. Well, I hurt my, I told you earlier, I hurt my ankle
- 0:36because I fell over on Saturday. So I've got bruised and swollen ankle.
- 0:40Bless you. I hope you're not in too much pain.
- 0:42Yeah, so it's fine. Yeah, that's fine. Although we did have a little vet visit just to check on
- 0:48Weaver's back and the medication, which I mentioned last week, but nothing really,
- 0:52no news there. It's, she's doing well. They said that actually she seems fit and healthy otherwise.
- 0:58She is still twinging on her back when they press it. So there's something still there that she needs
- 1:03the gabapentin for. So that's the path going forward for the short term. Well, long term,
- 1:09we don't know. We'll keep an eye on it and see, keep going back for some checkups and stuff. But
- 1:12yeah, but she's well, she's good. So that's all right. How's things with you?
- 1:16Yeah, not bad. We've had a long weekend for Easter. So that always helps. I took a couple
- 1:25of days off either side of the long weekend to make it even longer. So yeah, that was good. I
- 1:33needed that. I needed some time out. Yeah, I mean, Betty is well, she is currently sleeping alongside
- 1:41me. So no surprises there. Betty's always asleep, less so now she's older. But we went out to the
- 1:46park today and got some sunshine. So she enjoyed that. We were very, very slowly. And in a way,
- 1:53it's good because it's slowing me down on walks as well. And because it's been so lovely,
- 1:57just an opportunity to take in the sights and sounds of North London and not be in too much
- 2:03of a hurry. So stop and chat to a few neighbours, which is nice. See a few other dogs living in our
- 2:09community. So stopping and having a little stroke with them, giving them a treat or two. And yeah,
- 2:15just getting to the park and taking it all in, feeling like sort of sunny days are really with
- 2:22us now, which is good. I bumped into a dog walker in the park and he said, oh, gosh, I've been
- 2:29waiting six months for this sunshine. Of course, he's out all day, every day. He said, you know,
- 2:34I've been in the wind and the rain the past few months and it's been awful. But then we both
- 2:40agreed that before too long, we'd be complaining that it's too hot. So we all love complaining
- 2:46about the weather. No, but we're like making the most of this beautiful sunshine. So yeah,
- 2:52all good. Still progressing with Betty's physio, trying to do that. Although,
- 2:57yeah, I may be not doing it at home as often as I should be. We're supposed to be doing it three
- 3:02days a week at home, but life's just been so busy. So I'm actually going to do a little bit
- 3:07of physio after this with her. Yeah. Yeah, it's tough, isn't it, when you've got a whole other
- 3:13thing going on and lots of stuff in your life, it's hard to kind of even do that for yourself,
- 3:17isn't it? Like do your own physio or do your own health and well-being. Yeah. Yeah. I'm trying not
- 3:22to beat myself up because I'm saying, you know, I'm doing the best I can. Yeah. If it's not three
- 3:28times a week, so be it. But at least I'm trying. Yeah. But yeah, really looking forward to speaking
- 3:34to Rachel shortly just because I know she's going to touch on separation anxiety and that's something
- 3:39that Betty's experienced or does experience and that I've talked about on the other podcast. So
- 3:44it'll be good to get her advice on that to see how she tackles it. But just to hear from her
- 3:50generally in her role, I think it's really fascinating what she does. Yeah, it'll be
- 3:55interesting because it'll be something for me, new for me to learn because not having a dog.
- 3:59And I've always thought animal behaviourists were for dogs more so than cats. And, you know,
- 4:05so I've not really kind of looked into thinking more about my cat in that way. So I'd be interested
- 4:11to hear more about like how they work and what they focus on. So, yeah, Rachel's it's been
- 4:16brilliant that Rachel's agreed to come on. Indeed. Indeed. So, yeah, I mean, shall we
- 4:23shall we get cracking speaking to Rachel? Yeah, because I know that she's got lots to share and
- 4:28be good to dedicate this podcast really to hearing from Rachel and getting a glimpse into her role
- 4:35and also the experience that she has. So, yeah, should we should we do it? Let's do it. Let's do it.
- 4:49Hello, everybody. We're here. Another edition of Pause Between Us and we've got a very special
- 4:54guest today. It's very exciting. This is Rachel Rogers. She's a clinical animal behaviourist based
- 4:59in, well, Cheshire, but you can tell exactly if that's right, Rachel. She helps people with
- 5:03difficult behaviours from doggies, such as separation and anxiety and reactivity, won lots
- 5:09of awards in animal behaviouring and dog training, which is excellent. Well done, Rachel. And we
- 5:14connected through TikTok social media and I just loved your approach, thought you were really
- 5:19interesting. You had lots of great ideas. The trails thing was something new to me because
- 5:23I'm not a dog owner. So that was what really drew me in. I was like, what is this about? I've not
- 5:27heard this before as an approach to help with behaviour, but it's amazing. So, yeah, we invited
- 5:32you in and thanks for coming along. It's so exciting to have you. So welcome, Rachel.
- 5:36Thank you. And it's really nice to reach out to people on TikTok as well because it's not
- 5:40always that social media is the nicest place to be. So it's nice to get some friendly messages
- 5:45rather than the more usual grumpy ones. Everyone has an opinion, don't they?
- 5:51Yeah. No, I mean, I found it like I've been on a little while just testing the waters and I
- 5:55found it such a lovely community of people if you join together over a common interest. But
- 6:00yeah, there are some darker sides to social media, but we've found a good one.
- 6:07We have. We're all about positivity here or positivity, aren't we? And you're in a
- 6:13kind, welcoming, supportive space here. So yeah, we can leave the negativity at the door on TikTok.
- 6:22So yeah, Rachel, thank you so much. So I've done a little intro, but it'd be great to hear
- 6:26about you from you. So tell us a little bit about yourself and your little fur family.
- 6:30Yeah. So I am the crazy dog lady now. I have three.
- 6:34So I do meet that stereotype. So I have two dogs who are kind of working slash retired and then one
- 6:41who is very much just a pet dog. So the oldest one is Maisie. She's a Jack Russell cross pug.
- 6:47And she is 15. She's not been very well recently. She is actually in here with me. So she may make
- 6:53an appearance at some point, but she's my little old girl. She's pretty much blind, got no teeth.
- 6:59All of the issues you have with older dogs. And we just thought every day that we have her as a
- 7:03blessing really now. But she's a little cutie. But we joke that she's the freeloader because Maisie
- 7:09has never done any work and never been paid for any work, unlike the other two. Then we have Rico
- 7:15and Rico is my 11 year old rescue. We think he's a Cacone. They're a breed not everybody has come
- 7:21across because they are a Greek breed. They don't exist in the kennel club in the UK. But he's a
- 7:28little black and tan thing with fluffy ears. And he came from Portugal where he was found under a
- 7:33caravan. So he had a couple of days he was going to be put to sleep. So I originally paid to rescue
- 7:40him and get him in the donkey sanctuary to stop him being put to sleep. And then they couldn't
- 7:44find him a home. So he came to me to be rehabbed and never left. I had a foster failed and he has
- 7:52been with me 10 and a bit years now. And he was the reason I got into trailing. And he was the
- 7:57reason I set up Nose to Tilt. So he was really scared of men when I got him. And so we started
- 8:02doing what they call man trailing. So like hide and seek, find a man, get loads of rewards. And
- 8:09he was just really, really good at it. And then we moved on to pet trailing and lost dog search,
- 8:14which he has actually won all sorts of awards in including one last year from the BBC for his work
- 8:20reuniting lost dogs with their owners. So he's a very, very special boy. But we'll try not to only
- 8:26talk about him. That's amazing. Congratulations. I know I like very proud dog mum when it comes
- 8:34to Rico because he is just, he's so special. And when you think about where he came from to what
- 8:39he went on to do, it's just amazing. Absolutely amazing. He's currently in the conservatory
- 8:44sunbathing. Otherwise, I'm sure he'd join us. Better things to do. Loves his Portugal roots
- 8:50and going back to the sunshine. He hates the cold. He loves to be out in the warm.
- 8:54And then I've got Pebbles and she is a one year old Border Terrier. And she is currently having
- 9:01her second season and is feeling very sorry for herself, spending most of her time in a dog bed.
- 9:06We keep trying to get her to come and be with us. She doesn't want to be.
- 9:10Pulling the saddest faces and breaking everybody's hearts. The hormones have hit
- 9:14her really hard this time around. She has already, at just over a year old at the weekend,
- 9:20she passed her proficient pet trail assessment. So she is one level away from being a qualified
- 9:26lost dog search dog already. Not that I'm a pushing mum at all. Border Terrier, not the
- 9:33breed people expect, I don't think, to be going out doing scent work. But her other job, because
- 9:38I like to keep her busy, is she is training to be my gluten detection dog. So I can't eat gluten
- 9:44for health reasons. And so it's very difficult to get gluten free food. I am very prone to being
- 9:51very sick from even the slightest bit of cross-contamination. So she is being trained
- 9:57and working with the gluten detection trainer, who's a dog trainer over in America, who's amazing.
- 10:03Gluten free dog training. And we do training and Pebbles is learning to identify different forms
- 10:09of gluten in food and indicate to say if it does have gluten or it doesn't have gluten.
- 10:14And she is doing really quite well, which I think she's surprised both me and the trainer with how
- 10:20quickly she's progressing. But we normally train on a Thursday and she's being allowed the week
- 10:25off because it is not fair to expect her to work at present when she seems to think the world is
- 10:30ending. So we're letting her rest, bless her. But yeah, they're my three. So they're all very
- 10:36different. They're all very small. Some people seem to think you can't be a dog trainer if you
- 10:39don't have a German Shepherd or a Mally. But I have all the small dogs and I'm fighting that.
- 10:45Doing for the small dogs. That's astonishing. I mean, this is what I love. I mean, as people know
- 10:50on the, who've been listening, hopefully, that I'm more of a cat person. I've had dogs through my
- 10:55grandma and my nana, don't say grandma, my nana and my grandad. But yeah, not really kind of lived
- 11:00or been brought up with dogs. But I love the fact that they can do and support us with so much in
- 11:04our lives, you know, doing rescues. I mean, I've been around guide dogs as part of one of my jobs
- 11:09before, hearing dogs, just all the lovely things and all this sort of medical scientific stuff
- 11:14that can help us with. It's just amazing. It's just gorgeous to know that we can work together
- 11:20in such a positive way. Yeah. And it's fascinating. She's got a little don't feed me jacket
- 11:26because as part of her kind of working, she can't eat gluten either. So she's got like a little
- 11:32jacket because people always try and feed them treats, don't they, when they're out and about.
- 11:35And unless it's gluten free, she can't have it. So she's got like a little don't pet me,
- 11:39don't distract me, like little jacket that she wears. And she looks so cute. But I think everyone
- 11:44expects Labrador, big dog to be like a proper assistance dog. And so when she's, she's dinky,
- 11:50she is dinky peps. People kind of go, what? She comes in, but I mean, she fits nice under tables
- 11:56and they eat their food, they eat their ham strips. So they're, they're really, they're quite a good
- 12:00choice, I think, albeit I'm biased, for being an assistance dog because she is small. She,
- 12:05she keeps out the way and she isn't messy. Yeah. And I suppose if you're taking them to like public
- 12:10spaces, with food, it's going to be restaurants, isn't it, particularly. So if she's small and can
- 12:15kind of not be a distraction to the public, then that's going to be a bonus, isn't it, really?
- 12:20Yeah. And I don't want like a drooling Newfoundland or something, do I? Like if I'm
- 12:24putting up like a peanut bread to go, can you sniff this and check for gluten? No.
- 12:29Yummy, yummy. You don't want sliver on top, thank you.
- 12:34So you mentioned actually that they, well, it was Rico, wasn't it, the reason that you got into this.
- 12:40I mean, tell us a little bit more what, what clinical animal behaviourist means.
- 12:43Yeah. So we're at a really interesting time to be having this conversation, actually. So a clinical
- 12:49animal behaviourist at the minute is not what we class as a protected title. So doctor, dentist,
- 12:55lawyer, if someone pretends they are a doctor, that is an actual crime. You can't just claim
- 13:01you're a doctor. However, anybody can claim they are a behaviourist. And that is where I think as
- 13:07a pet owner, there are a lot of problems because people go to Facebook, we go to Google, we put
- 13:13dog behaviourist, dog trainer near me, and you get the good, but you get the bad and the outright
- 13:19ugly as well, because there is no kind of regulation within the industry at the minute.
- 13:25So I actually was sent last week, the government are doing a petition on trying, like it's a
- 13:31consultation period, I guess, on whether we should become part of the actual kind of vet group
- 13:37or as paraprofessionals where it does become a protected title. And it's a really interesting
- 13:43time. I would love to see regulation in our industry, because you've got quote unquote
- 13:49behaviourists at the minute, who they are very prevalent on social media with no qualification,
- 13:56no kind of formal training in working with animals, whereas a registered clinical animal behaviourist
- 14:02like myself, who sits under what's called the ABTC, because the animal world loves an acronym,
- 14:08the Animal Behaviour Training Council, which is where people should go if they want help with
- 14:13their cat, with their dog, whatever, those professionals on there are properly rigorously
- 14:18assessed and have to have a minimum level of knowledge as well as experience to be on there.
- 14:24So you know you're getting a safe, ethical professional if you go there. And they do dog
- 14:29trainers as well as clinical animal behaviourists. But from the clinical animal behaviour viewpoint,
- 14:33we work only on vet referral, because we know that up to 82% of behaviour problems are caused by,
- 14:42or at least partly caused by, health issues. So some of those are often kind of undiagnosed at
- 14:47the point the dog comes to me, but the vet has to agree to working with me, and I have to get the
- 14:53full medical history of the dog before I can start working with them. And that's really, really
- 14:57important. So if we look at a case that I've got at the minute, he's a lovely dog, golden retriever
- 15:02that I'm working with, but he had bitten a person. What we found when he had his full health check
- 15:07before they came to work with me, is he had a broken tooth. It was actually cracked, all the
- 15:12nerve endings were out, he needed surgery to remove that tooth. He was in excruciating pain,
- 15:16someone went to stroke him, and we all stroke dogs where they actually don't want to be stroked,
- 15:21we stroke them all over the head. And so he bit the hand, because he was thinking, do not touch me,
- 15:25that's going to really hurt me. But they had no idea, because we don't open our dog's mouths and
- 15:30poke around and have a look, do we? So we had no idea. So once that was treated, you know,
- 15:35he was feeling much better, the chances of him biting again significantly decreased.
- 15:40But we've continued to work together for many months to make sure that we build up that
- 15:45relationship and that trust with him again, so that he feels safe around people and he doesn't
- 15:49want to grumble and tell them to leave him alone. So behaviour slightly different to training,
- 15:54training typically teaching the dog new things, behaviour dealing with problem issues and finding
- 15:59the cause to the problem. That's my oversimplified way of dealing with it.
- 16:04Of course, no, I mean, that is so useful and really insightful to kind of hopefully lots of people who are
- 16:09listening, because having that regulated role, I think will help a lot of people. And you're right,
- 16:14because I, as an inexperienced person in this kind of world, would have Googled animal behaviourist
- 16:20local to me and then maybe just picked anybody. I probably would have gone a little bit into sort of
- 16:24seeing what they'd written about their qualifications, but I wouldn't have known
- 16:27whether somebody was regulated or not. And I probably agree with you that I think that's a
- 16:31really good step forward to make sure that people are getting the right service. And the fact that
- 16:35I didn't know that as well, that it was linked to vet referrals, because like you say,
- 16:39if there is an underlying health condition that that needs to be dealt with first and that it
- 16:43gets picked up is brilliant as well. And interestingly, Sash, we had a friend who had
- 16:48an incident with a dog and she got bitten. And we actually, we don't know whether that was something
- 16:53that was a behavioural kind of reaction to something or whether, like you say, whether
- 16:57there was actually an underlying illness problem with the dog. That's really insightful for me. It's
- 17:02really new information, which I'm sort of learning already, which is just great, Rachel. Thank you.
- 17:08I think for me, it's a big red flag when I see these kind of TikTok videos and things where
- 17:13people are saying, I will quote unquote fix your dog. And when you have a look into that process,
- 17:18at no point does it mention that they will require a vet referral and they will look at the dog's
- 17:23medical history. I work hand in hand with the vet. So any report I write on the dog goes to the vet.
- 17:29If I have any concerns, they go to the vet. I saw even a puppy yesterday. So normal puppy training,
- 17:34because I do training as well, but just went to see a puppy and noticed that his like outer toe
- 17:39doesn't ever touch the floor. It like hovers up. So the paw pad doesn't touch the floor,
- 17:44the nails up in the air. And I thought, oh, that's interesting. Now, there's no obvious sign that
- 17:49it's causing the pain at the minute. But my thoughts are that's going to impact the dog's
- 17:54balance. It's going to impact the way they put their foot down. So over time, are they going to
- 17:58have injuries from overcompensating in how they move? So I just said, look, you're there for
- 18:04further vaccinations in a couple of weeks. Just ask. Just mention it. Show them the pictures.
- 18:08Ask them. And then at least we know with that. But yeah, the ones who don't ever mention it,
- 18:13that's a big red flag for me, particularly if they use the kind of aversive methods like
- 18:19prong collars and e collars. Because if a dog is barking, lunging, snarling, because actually
- 18:24they've got arthritis and they're in pain every single day. To me, it's completely unethical
- 18:30to put an aversive tool on that dog to stop it when all it's trying to do is communicate and
- 18:36protect itself. So to me, we do need that regulation for the dogs, for all the animals,
- 18:41really, for their safety. And also as a pet owner, as a guardian, you're looking for help.
- 18:48You're trying to do right by your dog. But if you chose someone who made it worse, you'd feel
- 18:53terrible, wouldn't you? You'd feel awful. Yeah. I was just thinking that because as pet owners,
- 18:58we want to do the right thing. But actually, you could cause so much damage without realising
- 19:04because you're choosing the wrong person with the lack of experience, people that don't really know
- 19:12what they're doing. And then you just make matters so much worse. And I don't know if you see pets
- 19:18where that's happened. So a dog that's come to you that's been to a different trainer
- 19:22and actually that other trainer has caused so many more problems and you've got to then try and work
- 19:28with that and unravel that. Do you see that quite a bit where people come to you and quite exasperated
- 19:33feeling that they're really desperate to get some help? Yeah. And it's really, people have
- 19:39limited funds, don't they? And I think we're at a time now where more than ever, people are feeling the pinch.
- 19:45And so I really feel for people and people reach out to me on social media all the time.
- 19:49I've spent thousands of pounds with X trainer. You're my last hope. Can you help for free? And I
- 19:56really struggle with that because I want to help the dogs, but equally is my paid job. But it's
- 20:02really hard because I want to help the dog. So we made the decision a few years ago, actually,
- 20:06myself and the girls who work for me as a team that rather than doing pro bono work for general
- 20:13public, our free work we do for our local kennels. So we have a Romanian rescue kennels that is
- 20:21a stone's throw from where we are and we go there. So we do free sessions for the staff.
- 20:27They're part of our membership. We support them. And then any work that we do with them,
- 20:32any additional work, we offer exceptionally discounted for them. We basically cover the
- 20:37staff's travel costs. And that's how we do it because it's so hard. And it's also unfair on
- 20:42our paid clients if we then do free behavior consults for someone because they've reached out
- 20:47in desperation on social media. But we need to prevent us getting to that stage in the first
- 20:52place and people able to be signposted to appropriate support. In my membership, we do
- 20:57have that because a lot of people are local. So I am kind of Cheshire, Shropshire area, and they
- 21:02kind of chat amongst themselves. And I think it is actually quite nice for them to have the peer
- 21:07support. But actually, if you've got a dog with a health issue, you need a proper behaviorist who
- 21:12is going to work alongside your vet because a sausage dog with a spinal issue being put on a
- 21:18prom collar and paraded around the local park is not the right approach for a dog. And then they
- 21:23end up not leaving the house, being shut down and really struggling. So it's horrible. And I do get
- 21:30frustrated and you have to keep it in and not have keyboard wars with other local trainers because
- 21:35that then doesn't look professional. But yeah, it's hard. It's hard at times.
- 21:40Because for me, there's so much emotion attached with animals. It's so extremely upset and also
- 21:47extremely angry. And I really struggle to manage that sometimes. And I have to kind of put my
- 21:52fingers in the ears. I'm so kind of affected by the good and the bad of animals. It's so extreme.
- 21:59And if I was in your profession, it would be really difficult for me to ignore so much. But you've got
- 22:05to for your own sake, haven't you? Your own sanity. Yeah, I think compassion fatigue is huge
- 22:10in our industry. My way of dealing with it is I wild swim. I do long open water swims because
- 22:17if I know I've got a five or a 10k swim to do, I can't be thinking about the dogs. Whereas at home,
- 22:23I can't sit and watch TV. My other half thinks I'm crackers, but I can't. There's always something
- 22:29more I can be doing, another bit of work I can be doing. And I think if you're not self-employed
- 22:34and you've got a normal nine to five job where nothing catastrophic is going to happen overnight,
- 22:39you can switch off from it. But there are cases, I have a case at the minute where I'm genuinely
- 22:45really worried about the welfare of the dog. And we were out for dinner, like Easter holidays,
- 22:50got my stepson, my partner, you know, we'll go out for a nice pub meal. And I could not switch
- 22:55off from it. All I can think about is like that dog is in pain, that dog needs to see the vet,
- 23:00that dog, we need to get this sorted. And there's nothing I can do at eight o'clock on a Tuesday
- 23:04night. There is nothing, but it's all I can think about. And so I do, like I lose sleep over people's
- 23:11dogs. Some dogs I've never even met. I mean, Sash, you've got this same thing, haven't you? You just,
- 23:18you're always on the go and always thinking about your pets and what you can do more as well,
- 23:22aren't you? I am. Yeah. So what you're describing sounds very similar to me. I struggle to sit still
- 23:29and I do a lot of work with animal charities. So do some volunteering with dogs on the streets
- 23:36and the Cinnamon Trust, so some volunteer dog walking. And yeah, I also want to help every
- 23:43single dog I meet, but I know that that's not possible. If I had a bigger place or I lived in
- 23:48the countryside and had a big cottage or a farm, I'm sure I would be adopting many more dogs. But
- 23:54in the city, it's quite tricky, but yeah, it is hard, isn't it? And I struggle to switch off
- 24:00sometimes, but I think it's also about some of the small steps that you can take. And I
- 24:05think what you talked about around raising awareness of how to find a well-trained,
- 24:12well-informed clinical animal behaviourist or a trainer that has the right qualifications is
- 24:18a good step because not everyone knows what to look for. So I think just educating people,
- 24:23raising awareness is also helping in other ways, even though you can't help that pet directly,
- 24:29maybe you could through your TikTok account or whatever you're doing, help others learn a bit
- 24:33more about what to look for, who to find, the skills and the qualifications. And I suppose
- 24:38that's one small way of contributing, if that makes sense. But yeah, I feel you, definitely.
- 24:46I'm someone who puts the TV on to try and switch off and I usually fall asleep, but then I'm always
- 24:50checking my phone thinking, I wonder how so-and-so is, or what are they up to, or are they okay?
- 24:55Since we started this, I can't stop. I'm just on it, on it, on it, wanting to try and find
- 24:59great guests and get loads more information out there to more people.
- 25:02My whole life has ramped up since doing this. It's great. It's great. I love it.
- 25:16Rachel, you talked about, obviously, some of the little things you do. It'd be great to
- 25:19learn a little bit more about some of the behaviours you come across. Like,
- 25:23what are some of the common things you're working on most days?
- 25:27Yeah, so they're pretty much a 50-50 split at the minute. Because I spend a lot of time focused on
- 25:35what people tend to call separation anxiety, I see a lot of separation-related cases. But the
- 25:40other half in our local area tend to be what people deem as reactivity, so barking, lunging,
- 25:45snarling at the end of the lead, whether that's towards dogs or whether it's towards people.
- 25:51They tend to be the most common things that people come to me with. We do get others. I
- 25:56do see dogs for repetitive behaviours, so tail-chasing and light-chasing and stuff like
- 26:01that. But they tend to, fortunately, be kind of few and far in between getting cases like that.
- 26:08And we do get quite a lot of resource-guarding issues, so dogs protecting things in the house.
- 26:13But again, that quite often is tied to a dog who's then also unhappy outside of the house.
- 26:19So then they're reactive as well, so they tend to go with those. So I spend a lot of time doing
- 26:24the trailing, hence it's nose to trail. Because it's scent work that really helps the behavioural
- 26:29recovery of dogs, regardless of what their behaviour issue is. But then when I am on a
- 26:35computer, not normally doing this, I am normally doing separation cases because I tend to do those
- 26:40virtually. So I have clients all across the UK and abroad when we look at separation cases.
- 26:45It's so interesting. So what does that usually tell you about the dogs then?
- 26:50Is it like a learned behaviour? I mean, I suppose it could be many things you talked about. It could
- 26:54be health issues. So is it a case of trying to just sort of work out what's going on deep down
- 26:59before putting in place any kind of mechanism or sort of retraining?
- 27:04Yeah, absolutely that. And I think that's what sometimes surprises people,
- 27:09because what you see on the TV programmes with dog trainers is someone turns up and they are
- 27:14proactively doing training with treats or whatever instantly. Where from a behaviourist viewpoint,
- 27:22most of my initial consults are done virtually. And that is irrelevant as to the client's location,
- 27:29you know, they could literally be around the corner from me, I will still do it online.
- 27:32So the first session tends to be an hour and a half, two hours of really deep diving into the
- 27:38dog's history, both medical and behavioural, to find out exactly like you said, what has caused
- 27:44this? Why is the dog doing it? And we need to know that to make sure that the actual training that we
- 27:49put in place is appropriate. So if we look at the reactive dogs, so the barking, lunging, snarling
- 27:55ones, they may be dogs that are in pain. So they're doing distance increasing behaviours to
- 28:00say leave me alone, because your interaction with me could hurt. But it could be that that is learnt
- 28:05because they've had a bad experience. It could be that they never had an experience. So, you know,
- 28:11as a puppy, they just weren't appropriate or wrongly socialised. And so now they don't behave
- 28:17in the right way out and about. But it can also be the opposite, they've been over socialised,
- 28:23sent to doggy daycare and their expectation in life is I run around awfully playing with other
- 28:28dogs. So it can look very similar to the lay person, you know, and I mean that with the greatest
- 28:34respect. I don't mean that in like a how can you not tell the difference. To most people, it's a
- 28:39barking, lunging dog at the end of the lead. It looks nasty. But actually, if we look at the fact
- 28:44some of those are fear or anxiety driven, and some of those are frustration driven, how I then implement
- 28:50the training is going to be totally different. Because if a dog's frustration is I want to go
- 28:54and play with the other dogs, me telling it dog equals nice thing and have cheese isn't going to
- 28:59help because they already know dogs are nice things. That's why they want to get it and they
- 29:02want to go and play. So what training we then do is very different. And it's the same with the
- 29:07separation side as well. Everyone Googles separation anxiety, when they mean my dog
- 29:12can't be left home alone. But we have loads of different types of reasons dogs can't be left
- 29:17home alone. And a lot of those at the minute are frustration based, because COVID hit, we all
- 29:22worked from home, the dog's expectation is someone's always there. And so when someone's not,
- 29:27I'm annoyed by that. They're not actually fearful or anxious, they can be frustrated. So then it's
- 29:32a different way again, in terms of what training we do. So that initial session, while some people
- 29:37don't really understand or they call us an armchair behaviorist, because we're not proactively
- 29:43doing something with the dog. To me, it is really important, because it means that I do the right
- 29:47training from the beginning. I understand what's going on with the pet. I love all this, because
- 29:52I've got a psychology degree. I mean, it could have been years ago, but that human behavior
- 29:58and just understanding why people do something, why people feel the way they feel. And it's just
- 30:03so fascinating to me. And like you're saying, distance learning, counseling can happen at a
- 30:08distance. It's the same with humans, you can still gleam and learn and build a relationship with
- 30:13somebody from a distance. We're doing this now. And I feel like I know you really well. And we've
- 30:17been, so I can understand why you can get a lot from just talking to somebody from,
- 30:22you know, through a Zoom call or whatever and learn more about their animal. I think that's just so
- 30:26far. I love that approach. This is also new to me is, you know, coming kind of to this
- 30:32clinical animal behaviorist world, actually. And I'm just loving what you're telling me. It's
- 30:37sort of lighting up all these things inside that I just think it's just perfect. And you're
- 30:41approaching it in such a gorgeous way that's sort of really kind of, I don't know, I'm just
- 30:47finding it really interesting. It's just so approachable and so warm and you kind of,
- 30:51you can tell you really care. And I just think that's great. And you're obviously very knowledgeable.
- 30:56So I'm loving this. I mean, Sasha, you wanted to speak about Betty's separation because that
- 31:01was something that you were experiencing. Do you want to come in on that? Yeah. And just to say,
- 31:06though, I agree with everything you've just said. I've learned a lot just in this short conversation.
- 31:11And I think what's interesting is the point you made around with separation anxiety when dogs get
- 31:16used to you being around. Actually, they're not feeling sadness when you're no longer around.
- 31:21They're feeling frustration. That's new to me because I have this fear that if I leave Betty,
- 31:27she's going to be really unhappy because I know that she barks at the door and she howls.
- 31:32And the howling always sounds a little bit like, I don't know, just really sad. So with my case,
- 31:38I've had Betty for 10 years. We've spent a lot of time together anyway. But during the pandemic,
- 31:44we spent every day, every hour together. And things did change after that because we could
- 31:50leave her before. Now we can't leave her at all. And I also recognize that there's part of me that
- 31:56doesn't want to leave her because I feel this sense of guilt or this fear in myself that if
- 32:02I leave her, something bad's going to happen. So I've been trying to work on me as well as her.
- 32:07But she's nearly 12. Her physical health isn't too good, which I've talked about on another
- 32:12podcast. So there are other things at play as well. But it's got to a point now where we can't
- 32:17really go anywhere. We've adapted our lives so that if we do go somewhere, Betty comes with us.
- 32:22Even if we have family or friends around to sit with her, she doesn't like that either. She still
- 32:28goes to the door and barks and howls. And so I've developed this deep attachment with Betty. And I
- 32:33know that part of it is me and how I feel rather than how she's feeling. But yeah, that is just
- 32:38interesting to say you've got a pug crossed with a Jack Russell. So I don't know whether it's a
- 32:43pug thing that I'm describing and you've seen it with yours or, you know, pugs love to be with you.
- 32:49Yeah, it is really interesting because there are breeds that are predisposed, definitely,
- 32:55from a genetics viewpoint. It's fascinating. You know, if we look like I see primarily cockapoos,
- 33:01poodle crossers and sausage dogs for separation cases. But if we look at kind of actual scientific
- 33:09research that's been done on it, the one study that I always remember is it was golden retrievers
- 33:14were their most common breed for separation issues. And I thought that's so weird because
- 33:19in 12 years, I've never, touch wood, never had a golden retriever for a separation case. So I
- 33:24thought, well, that's really odd. But then when you look at what breeds they included, they only
- 33:27actually had about seven breeds in the study. Cockapoos were not a massive popular breed back
- 33:33then. Pugs were not included. Dachshunds were not included in the study. So what we see in practice
- 33:39versus what we have actual scientific literature on are not always the same, sadly. But it's
- 33:45interesting, Sasha, a few of the things you said, kind of age does play a role. You do then dogs who
- 33:50start to show perhaps early signs of cognitive decline, they can also have separation issues.
- 33:56So when I get an old client coming for a separation case, that's one of the variables that
- 34:01I want to rule out is are there any other issues going on? And you said there's health issues, so
- 34:06that may well play into it. But then also the learning history and the lifestyle of you were
- 34:12there. So we do have that potential aspect of my expectation is you should be around. And when I
- 34:17want you around, I need you. But we do one of the classes of kind of separation issues that we see,
- 34:24and yours might fall into this based on what you said, Sasha, is hyperattachment. So when a dog
- 34:29is really strongly bonded to one individual, and that is, I hate to break it to you, one of the
- 34:35hardest from a separation view. Because if you have a dog who's actually got what I would call
- 34:40fear of isolation, so just absolutely petrified if they are on their own, that is easier to work
- 34:46through. Because while we do the training, if you need to leave the dog, so long as you leave them
- 34:50with someone, they're fine. So like, if we look at my dogs, actually they don't, but you know,
- 34:56Maisie, the pug cross that you mentioned, Maisie loves anyone. She will sit on any stranger's knee.
- 35:02She will find you with anyone, be it a dog, be it a pet. You know, like she's not picky. She's like,
- 35:09oh, you're here to love me. Fantastic. So if I went out and my other half and his son are here,
- 35:14Maisie doesn't even notice. She doesn't bat an eyelid. She does not care. There's still people
- 35:18in the house. It's great. So very different, Sasha, to what you're saying about your girl who
- 35:23barks even if there are friends in the house. And that's where the difference in terms of training
- 35:28approach and the difficulty in getting a dog over that separation issue varies. Because you have
- 35:33less dog mum guilt if you can send your dog to daycare, have a dog sit, or have a family member
- 35:39around while you go off and have date night. If you go out and have date night and you know your
- 35:44dog is barking and is not happy the whole time you're out, you can't enjoy going out on date
- 35:49night because you feel guilty about what's going on at home. And then that's where there is, you
- 35:54know, no separation cases are the same. No behavior problems are ever the same. But it is harder if
- 35:59you know that your dog isn't happy regardless. So, yeah, I really feel for you. It's not easy.
- 36:03And I think that is in part why I like separation cases, because when we work through them and the
- 36:10dog gets happier at being left, it isn't just the dog's welfare that improves. There's a huge
- 36:14human benefit as well. And with some of my clients, it's almost like they've got their
- 36:18life back. You know, they can go and do things. They're able to go to the gym, go and go out to
- 36:23work and not feel guilty. And so it does for me, I love it. But not all behaviorists and not all
- 36:28trainers will touch separation issues because they are very different to the vast majority of
- 36:33dog training problems. Interesting. Yeah, thank you. I think you're right. It's part dog, part
- 36:38human. And it must be so rewarding when you see a case that is quite complex, but you're able to
- 36:43kind of make a difference to the pet and the owner's lives. It's also a little bit awkward
- 36:47when someone comes to me adamant that their dog does have true hyperattachment issues.
- 36:52And then I do a video of the dog and send it round the house. The dog doesn't give two hoots.
- 36:57And I have a really awkward conversation with the person that is the person with the attachment
- 37:01issue and the dog's fine. He doesn't love you that much. Your dog is fine, I promise you. No,
- 37:09he's not. He's constricted. I mean, no. Brilliant.
- 37:15Counseling skills as well. So, so helpful. It's so clear. So, yeah, I mean, I suppose to end it
- 37:22on, Rachel, I mean, there's such insightful, so clear, knowledgeable information. They're really
- 37:27helpful. Hopefully lots of people have been learning a little bit here. I totally have
- 37:31changed my whole view of all of this. And I think the one thing for me was just like
- 37:35thinking about the underlying health condition and maybe saying to people like,
- 37:39make sure your animal's health is tip top and you go and see a vet if you're ever concerned
- 37:44about anything. But, and I suppose you would echo that, but Rachel, is there any, you know,
- 37:48if anyone wanted any more advice, be it small, be it kind of through your services, where would
- 37:53you suggest people go? What should they do if they are having any problems? Yeah, I think the key
- 37:57thing is if you notice a change in an animal's behaviour. So we're not talking like a young
- 38:02puppy that just needs to learn something new or a new baby kitten. You know, we're talking an adult
- 38:06dog that suddenly there's a behaviour change. The very first question is why and go to your vet
- 38:14because behaviour doesn't just change out of nowhere. Something has happened. So vet first,
- 38:19check that they're okay. And I know people don't want to hear that at the minute with costs,
- 38:22but if you've got like a vet phone line with your pet insurance, like there's First Vet,
- 38:28I think is linked with a lot of them, use it. Like a lot of us don't realise it's in your policy,
- 38:32just ring them. Use your free 15 minute consultation, get peace of mind and check on
- 38:38your pet's health. And then I would strongly recommend just use the ABTC. So if you've got a
- 38:43dog training or a pet training question or a behaviour question, don't use Google, go to the
- 38:49ABTC. You can put in your postcode, you can find someone who's local to you. It doesn't have to be
- 38:54me. I'm always happy to work with people virtually. But so long as you're going and getting a safe,
- 38:59local professional, that is the most important thing. And most of us do, you know, free 15
- 39:04minute discovery calls. So you can have a chat, see if you want to work with us. And also just
- 39:09on their social media accounts, then you know you're following the right people and getting
- 39:13the right advice. So yeah, just use the ABTC. Definitely.
- 39:17Brilliant. Rachel, one quick question, actually. The ABTC, does that cover cats as well?
- 39:22Yes. Yes. Some people are only cats. Some people do dogs and cats. It just varies. You can search
- 39:28by a species as well. Some people do parrots. Some people do rabbits. You name it. I typically
- 39:35see dogs. I've only had one cat case. I tend to find people don't want to pay for cats.
- 39:43They don't insure them as often as dogs either. I do on the whole just find people don't want to
- 39:49pay for cat stuff. I want to change that. Most of the cat stuff I get is inter-household cats
- 39:54fighting or house-soiling issues and litter trays and positions of litter trays and making sure
- 40:01there's enough litter trays and ruling out whether they've got cystitis and things like that.
- 40:05Yeah. Yeah. You do get people who want cats, definitely. But it'd be interesting to know,
- 40:11like, yeah, how far people would go to look after their cat's health. It does seem that that
- 40:16cat support, cat health is behind dogs. I really want to know why but also push it because I
- 40:23want to get way more support and diagnosis and health care for my cat. I really think it's
- 40:29lacking at the moment. I want to do so much more. I want to understand why people don't do that as
- 40:34much. I wonder if it'll change. That's what I'm... Certainly, if we look at arthritis and
- 40:39musculoskeletal issues, cats are so much more agile and do so much more than dogs, but yet
- 40:44we're so behind in terms of identifying lameness in cats. Right, yeah. It's sad. It's really sad.
- 40:55Lesser. That's how I perceive it anyway when I look at clients and stuff. Because on my forms,
- 41:01I always ask, do you have other pets? And sometimes they won't even mention the cat.
- 41:05And then I go around and I'm like, you've got a cat? And they're like, yeah. And I'm like,
- 41:09well, that impacts the dog. There's a relationship there. You will get dogs that resource guard
- 41:15things from cats. You'll get cats that attack the dogs. There's all sorts. And people just say,
- 41:20I've got a cat. It goes and goes. And I'm like... So incidental. I wonder whether,
- 41:24because it feels to me, I don't know if I'm correct on this, but more and more people are
- 41:28getting indoor cats now. And whether that relationship will start to shift because
- 41:32there's an outdoor cat. I had outdoor cats as a kid. Yeah, they were there. They weren't there.
- 41:36They came and go. I loved it to pieces, but it was way more independent. My current cats are
- 41:42indoor cats. They go out in the garden, but they're with me all the time. And they were
- 41:45a constant reminder of that. They love me. They need me. They want things. And I feel like there's
- 41:49a much more of an attachment. We've had separation issues with cats, but then people will go on
- 41:55holiday and just pay someone to come in once a day to feed them. And it's like, hang on,
- 41:59your cat probably likes companionship. They probably want someone to spend a few hours
- 42:03sat on the sofa with them. The cats of old, yes, probably didn't care. Roaming around the
- 42:08local estate, popping in and out of ten houses as families. But like now, it's very different.
- 42:13And the other thing I see is if they're not out and they're probably not hunting and doing things
- 42:18that they used to do, from an enrichment viewpoint, a lot of the cats are bored.
- 42:23I wouldn't be at all surprised in the next kind of five, ten years if we get more cat aggression
- 42:28cases. Yeah, that's so interesting. Oh, that's so good. Thank you so much, Rachel. That has just
- 42:33been so lovely and so useful. Hopefully a lot of other people will think the same. Yeah, thanks for
- 42:39coming along. It's been great to connect. If you want to come back, you're welcome.
- 42:43Yeah, no, thank you, Rachel. I agree. It's been really insightful. It's given me lots to think
- 42:47about. I'm going to have a little poke around on the ABTC website, familiarise myself with that.
- 42:52And yeah, just sending your three wonderful doggies some love their way.
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