Being a "Good Guy" Isn't Enough for a Safe Marriage (And It's Affecting Your Marriage)

Go Have Good Sex featuring The Christian Sexpert · Apr 16, 2026 · 35m

A lot of men think their marriage is safe because they’re a “good guy.”

They don’t cheat. They don’t yell. They don’t hit her.

So why doesn’t she want sex?

In this episode, we’re breaking down what a safe marriage actually means—and why the absence of harm is not the same thing as the presence of safety.

Because if a woman doesn’t feel emotionally, relationally, and sexually safe, her desire isn’t going to show up… no matter how “good” her husband is.

We’ll talk about:

Why safety directly impacts desire

Signs a marriage might not feel as safe as it looks

And how to start creating an…