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- 0:00What is the biggest lie in the food, diet, health industry?
- 0:04People still feel there's like a magic thing, a magic pill.
- 0:07So it used to be diet pills, now it's GLP-1.
- 0:10Just take it and everything will go away.
- 0:12What about the disadvantages?
- 0:13Does anyone talks about it?
- 0:14There's no shortcuts, no free meals in the world.
- 0:17Everything comes with a price.
- 0:18Today's guest is Karen Adoni, founder of Clean Diet by Karen, and a specialist in healthy lifestyles, emotional eating, and sugar detox.
- 0:26After overcoming her own struggles with eating disorders, Karen developed a practical approach centered around nutrition, behavior change, and real whole foods.
- 0:35In this conversation, we're diving into the truth about nutrition, weight loss, cravings, and what it really takes to build a healthier lifestyle.
- 0:42What does health mean to you?
- 0:44I think it's feeling good.
- 0:45Wake up in the morning with energy without needing another cup of coffee just to wake up.
- 0:50Being active, having good mood.
- 0:52All of those things like matter.
- 0:54Do you feel like the industry is getting more or less honest?
- 0:58I think it's just that truth is not as important anymore.
- 1:02It's more the narrative.
- 1:03You're like dictating.
- 1:04And I think it's so hard to find the truth today.
- 1:07And I think we came so far from it.
- 1:08So it's almost impossible to know what the truth is now.
- 1:13My fitness pal is a success story partner.
- 1:15Now, there's this thing that happens when you start paying attention to what you eat.
- 1:19And I think we can all agree that we wanna care about our health and our wellness and our nutrition, but more often than not, we just kind of think we eat clean, we think we eat healthy, but we're not really, really paying attention to every single meal and what makes up every single meal.
- 1:33But just by paying attention and starting to log and track what you eat, you start making better choices without really trying.
- 1:41And that surprised me because when I first started using the MyFitnessPal app, and I've been using it for a while now, it's a nutrition tracking app.
- 1:47And I started logging what I was eating.
- 1:49It started showing me my macros, which means how much protein, carbs and fats I was getting.
- 1:54And then I started to understand why some days I felt good, high energy.
- 1:58Some days I felt like garbage because those three things, proteins, carbs, fats, that's what your food is made out of.
- 2:04and the balance between them affects everything.
- 2:08So MyFitnessPal app truly changed my life when it came to managing my food, which managed and helped everything else.
- 2:15Now, on the premium version of the app, it breaks down those numbers by meal.
- 2:20So I'm not just seeing one calorie number for the day, I can see what's happening at breakfast, versus lunch, versus dinner, where my protein actually lands, whether I'm eating enough earlier in the day or piling everything on at night.
- 2:31And all of a sudden,
- 2:33When I'm crashing at 3, 4 p.m., well, I can take a look and see it's not so surprising anymore based on what I ate or what I didn't eat.
- 2:40So that's what I mean when I say that MyFitnessPal is a great app for awareness.
- 2:45It's not obsessive.
- 2:46It's not stressful.
- 2:47It's not time-consuming.
- 2:48It's actually the opposite.
- 2:49Guessing is stressful.
- 2:50When you have all the information, the food you eat, your nutrition...
- 2:55becomes way easier to keep up with.
- 2:57Also, a lot of people stress out that logging food is gonna be very time consuming.
- 3:01It's not.
- 3:02And if it was annoying, I'd stop.
- 3:03But what I love about the app is that they've made it super, super simple.
- 3:07They've removed all friction in food logging, right?
- 3:10They have the largest food database out there.
- 3:12So whatever I'm eating is already in it.
- 3:14I can voice logs, so I can just say what I'm eating.
- 3:17They have a barcode scanner that handles all the package stuff.
- 3:20They have a tool called MealScan, which lets me point my camera at my plate and it breaks down all the macros and then logs it for breakfast, lunch, dinner, whatever.
- 3:28And the app remembers my regular meals.
- 3:30And I'm really just in and out of the app in seconds.
- 3:33And on top of that, it connects with over 40 fitness apps and wearables.
- 3:37So my workouts, my nutrition, they're all in one place.
- 3:40See, food is the foundation of everything.
- 3:42your energy, your sleep, your weight, your recovery, your performance at work, at home.
- 3:47And I really believe that when you start to pay attention to what you eat, every single part of your life improves.
- 3:52And to be honest, for me, it's the most useful tool because when I see the information, when I see what I'm eating and I feel the effects of having good nutrition and good food at the right time, the decisions on what to eat become obvious.
- 4:06Not because someone told me to eat better.
- 4:08It's because I have the data.
- 4:10And the data makes it super, super easy to stay on track.
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- 4:34Corinne, what is your most controversial take on food?
- 4:39I think one of the things that people like things have changed with the years, you know, ultra processed food became our biggest problem.
- 4:47And I think, first of all, the majority of the people maybe don't want to realize that the big food companies and the industries are not looking at our health and our benefit.
- 4:58They're looking at how much money they make.
- 5:00So a lot of times they don't realize how damaging things are or artificial or how much
- 5:08additives they put in it.
- 5:10And those things had a side effect.
- 5:12Now, in moderation, okay, but it accumulates because we're exposed to so many microplastics, additive, food coloring, air pollution, stress all day long.
- 5:25So the fact that you just keep on adding it and adding it and adding it to your system has a load.
- 5:30And now we're talking that one out of three Americans are
- 5:33will get cancer.
- 5:34We're talking about autism numbers that are rising.
- 5:37We're talking about autoimmune diseases.
- 5:39We're talking about Hashimoto's.
- 5:40We're talking about hormonal disruptors.
- 5:42We're talking about obesity or type 2 diabetes that became a pandemic almost.
- 5:47Like we're talking about almost 30% of the population will have type 2 diabetes by 2050.
- 5:54Kids that are 14 years old with type 2 diabetes, our pancreas is supposed to last.
- 6:00We've never seen that before.
- 6:02The food has an impact.
- 6:04The fact that we try to say, oh, it's not true, or the science doesn't show, or it's conspiracy, it's not.
- 6:12We see the numbers.
- 6:14We see what's going on.
- 6:15We see where we've been 20 years ago, 30 years ago, 50 years ago, and where we're at today.
- 6:20We've seen places that didn't have so much industrial and ultra processed food.
- 6:26And we've seen their longevity and we've seen their lifespan.
- 6:29And then all of a sudden the Western food diet is being introduced and you see obesity rises, heart attack rises, cholesterol rises, everything spikes and lifespan gets shorter.
- 6:41So it's not a coincidence that this is where we're heading and it just gets worse with the time and the fact that we're normalizing it.
- 6:48So...
- 6:49A lot of the population woke up.
- 6:52They see it clearly.
- 6:54They understand that.
- 6:55But a lot of people, they don't.
- 6:58And they don't understand that also there's a lot of money and lobbyists involved.
- 7:02The U.S. is the only place in the world where you have food and pharmaceutical lobbyists in the government lobbying for that.
- 7:11What do you think they want to get out of it?
- 7:13Money.
- 7:14They don't care about your health.
- 7:16They want you to put on a pill for the rest of your life.
- 7:18They control even the food cafeterias in schools where they made ketchup as a vegetable.
- 7:25It's ridiculous.
- 7:26And we're not even going now into the hardcore of like microplastics and seeds.
- 7:31I'm not even going on that level.
- 7:32I'm talking on the very base level.
- 7:35Like, yes, sometimes it's like...
- 7:37became more, you know, extreme with social media.
- 7:40Like people pretend to have this perfect life that they have the EMF and the red light and this and this and ta-da-da-da.
- 7:47And yes, it's great.
- 7:48And I love it.
- 7:50But we need to go back to basics.
- 7:52And that's why we forgot.
- 7:53We made health so expensive and something that people cannot attain versus, no, just go get back to basics.
- 8:02Buy the chicken, buy the rice, buy the tomatoes, buy the real food, buy the frozen vegetables if you can.
- 8:07You can buy organic, great.
- 8:08You cannot buy organic.
- 8:10Okay, it's fine.
- 8:11You're not going to die tomorrow from pesticides.
- 8:14you know?
- 8:14And that's what made it also worse.
- 8:16Like we went from one extreme to the other.
- 8:18So now people just feel that it's just, it's too much.
- 8:21It's unreachable.
- 8:23It's overwhelming.
- 8:24It's, I think it's, I think it's way too much information.
- 8:27I think that also the average health influencer on Instagram, whatever you want to, whatever you want to call them, they do make it seem like you have to be part of this exclusive club to be healthy.
- 8:39Exactly.
- 8:40And I think that alienates a lot of
- 8:43You know, some people that have been on this show that are well-meaning people, but they look at how they live their life and they realize that they barely can pay rent at the end of the month and they don't have four hour morning routines.
- 8:54And they just sort of throw, what is it, the baby out with the bathwater.
- 8:58They just don't do anything anymore.
- 9:01And they just hope that, well, you know, I think a lot of people can't understand.
- 9:07Incentives.
- 9:08Yes.
- 9:09And they they cannot understand how the government could let companies poison them.
- 9:14They truly, truly poison them.
- 9:17And even the companies probably don't look at it as poison in.
- 9:22How do I say it?
- 9:23Like they don't they don't think that the the amounts of a thing in their food.
- 9:28It's like the dose makes the poison.
- 9:30Exactly.
- 9:30But in aggregate.
- 9:32Over all the things that we do, like you just mentioned, all these different things that affect our lifestyle.
- 9:37In aggregate, it compounds.
- 9:42But I don't think that people either believe it, understand it, or have like a way to deal with it.
- 9:50So they just give up.
- 9:51They just give up.
- 9:52And then what happens is like I see this now, like we're living longer, but like our lives are not great.
- 9:57Our health is horrible, especially, you know, after 80, 90 years old, if you make it that far.
- 10:03So.
- 10:04This is like a very negative way to start a podcast about what is the... You mentioned things like, you know, buy chicken, you know, buy tomatoes, buy rice, don't eat overly processed foods.
- 10:16But is that enough?
- 10:18So I'll tell you what.
- 10:19One of the studies that I love and I refer still to that was done years ago, it's called the Blue Zones.
- 10:25So Blue Zones is like specific area...
- 10:28and the entire world that they have the highest and longest longevity, but they also live a very good health.
- 10:35So like in their 90s, they go out to the garden and they pick their tomatoes and whatever it is.
- 10:40So they found a lot of common things.
- 10:42So it's like one in Japan, one in Loma Linda in California, one in Sardinia, one in Greece.
- 10:46It's like different areas.
- 10:49And one of the things, so every area had is like staff that are particular.
- 10:56Surprisingly enough, some of them are even lower protein diet, but I don't want to even talk about the diet per se.
- 11:03Just talk about that.
- 11:04So first of all, the common theory, not processed food, eating real food, being active, meaning not necessarily go to the gym and just pump like, you know, your weight all day long, which I do as well.
- 11:16Don't get me wrong.
- 11:17But it's like just moving, getting out, being in the center and having a sense of community.
- 11:22having a sense of faith, having a sense of like very family oriented, walking into whatever the supermarket, walking to your friend's house, walking with your kids.
- 11:32So they actually found that if you do all of those habits, that really expands and extends your lifespan.
- 11:40And not just life, but quality of life too.
- 11:41Exactly.
- 11:43So, and you've seen, and they even tried, they mimicked it and they took people.
- 11:48And I don't remember exactly the numbers, but they took people and they like checked their biological age.
- 11:54And then basically biological age is like, I'm like 40 and then my biological age can be 35 or it can be 50.
- 12:01It depends how healthy I am and what's like my inside says.
- 12:05And then they checked their biological age.
- 12:06They put them in a year in this blue zone study that they created everything.
- 12:12It's walkable.
- 12:13The food was real, a sense of community, sense of faith, you know, being together.
- 12:17And they really saw their biological age drops.
- 12:21Significantly.
- 12:23But it was basics.
- 12:24Walking, moving, faith, sense of family, eating real food.
- 12:30Nothing crazy.
- 12:31Because we go into that like crazy extent, you know, like dim off the light at 6 p.m., put on the glasses, put on this, do like a cold plunge, then go to the sauna, then go and go into the grass and grounders.
- 12:45Okay, I get it.
- 12:46But just...
- 12:47If you walk, if you move, if you remove some of the stress, if you do some habits, if you have a sense of community, those things really matter.
- 12:55Also, we don't talk enough about people that are lonely, people that just sit, you know, behind the screens without having that sense of, like, belongings.
- 13:03That matters a lot.
- 13:04Yeah.
- 13:05having that social communication, social relationships, not only with your other significant, but also with other people.
- 13:12So those things also matter.
- 13:14So sometimes just going back to basics without being overwhelmed.
- 13:17And I think that's what we lost because every person just now tries to reinvent because they want to go viral.
- 13:23Oh, I see what he does.
- 13:25Now I'm going to do that.
- 13:25And if I'm not going to do that, then I can be healthy.
- 13:28Just go back to basics.
- 13:29It's simple, but I think that last time I really looked into blue zones, from what I understand, I think that there's not many left.
- 13:37No, there are not many left.
- 13:39But the reason why is?
- 13:40Because industrial and Western-like food took over.
- 13:43So even like the blue zones, like the people that know how to live the best, it's like it's so easy to be influenced.
- 13:50So I think Akinoha, I don't know if I'm saying it correctly, in Japan was one of those places.
- 13:55And then once they introduced the McDonald's and the fast food, they're no longer a blue zone.
- 14:01There's another place in Costa Rica that was actually there.
- 14:05And then I think they also discovered new blue zones as well.
- 14:09But basically they said every blue zone that was introduced into the Western diet and habits is no longer a blue zone, which is kind of...
- 14:18Exactly says what we're saying is that go back to basics.
- 14:20The more we go with the Western diet, the sicker we get.
- 14:24You go back to basics.
- 14:25Cool.
- 14:25But like these companies will not go away ever.
- 14:29So what is the answer?
- 14:31How does somebody manage to...
- 14:35by the organic, or you said not even organic, but when they feel like just eating healthier is more expensive.
- 14:40And they're like, because they're managing all these different things in their life as well.
- 14:43Like real life is difficult and fast food is easy.
- 14:46And they, you know, maybe, I don't know what's healthy.
- 14:49I don't know what's healthy fast food, but they just don't know how to...
- 14:53I think, first of all, they made like fast food and junk food, you know, very cheap, but it's not necessarily as cheap as much.
- 15:00It's just very easy.
- 15:02I think there's something that is missing in the American culture of like not cooking enough at home.
- 15:08You notice what's crazy?
- 15:10Even some of the, now I have a house, so it's a little bit different.
- 15:14And Gina is, I don't think a lot of people know this, but her background is actually as a chef.
- 15:20So she's a great cook.
- 15:22And whenever we look at like a place to live, a home or whatever.
- 15:25She looks at the kitchen and what's the appliance.
- 15:27She's like, I need a gas range.
- 15:28And she's looking for like the red knobs on the stove.
- 15:31I'm with her.
- 15:32I hate, I have an induction now in the house that we're here in Miami.
- 15:35And it's like, I can't stand it.
- 15:37But I don't think that's the norm because when I look at a condo to buy, now they don't even put in full-size stoves because so many people are ordering food.
- 15:47This was happening in Toronto in new condo builds.
- 15:50So they weren't putting full-size stoves in because they realized that nobody was cooking at home.
- 15:54I think it's also got to do with that, like in California, in LA, everyone has gas, the red knobs, everyone has a full on like stove.
- 16:02I think it's also something cultural.
- 16:04I think something with like apartment or city like New York or Toronto, those kind of areas.
- 16:09But overall, I think the concept of like cooking from scratch or actually cooking at home, it's something that is missing, I think, in here.
- 16:18So it can be like a chicken breast and rice and frozen green beans and some broccoli or whatever it is can be more economical than going to the next McDonald's or Taco Bell or whatever it is and buying that.
- 16:30It's just, yes, maybe it needs more effort or whatever it is, but...
- 16:34Short term, maybe it will take you more time, but long term, it will save you more money.
- 16:39You'll feel better.
- 16:39You'll look better.
- 16:40You'll have more energy.
- 16:41You'll feel less bloated, less tired, less fatigue after the food.
- 16:45So it's not necessarily true.
- 16:46Is it more expensive to buy that manuka honey with the active ingredients that organic that was sourced from New Zealand?
- 16:52Yes.
- 16:53But you don't need to have it.
- 16:55It's fine.
- 16:56You don't need to get it.
- 16:57So what you're saying is there has to be a cultural shift in how we look at food.
- 17:01Yeah.
- 17:01But also, listen, the health companies, they also make money.
- 17:07Let's not get confused.
- 17:09There's some brands that are amazing, and their goal is truly amazing.
- 17:15to change and to create something different.
- 17:18Like there's this great guy, his name is Parker.
- 17:21He created a brand for cereal called Lovebird.
- 17:24And he used to work in a big cereal brand company and he resigned to create like this amazing brand that actually cares.
- 17:32So he will never sell out.
- 17:34He makes the highest quality because that's what he wanted to give to his kids and that's what he thinks everyone should give to their kids.
- 17:40But the majority of the people, and it's okay, I get it.
- 17:42It's business.
- 17:43They want the money.
- 17:45So also those health brands at some point, they also give you that mindset and they pay a lot for like influencer and social media that you have to have this in order to be healthy.
- 17:55And if you won't have it, you won't be healthy.
- 17:57I'm now like burning all the ridges.
- 18:00There go all the sponsors.
- 18:01Maybe we should cut this off.
- 18:03Oh my God, it was so funny.
- 18:04The other day, I'm never going to get Dasani as a sponsor ever.
- 18:09That's like Coke's product because we're just talking so much shit about how bad they taste.
- 18:13Yeah, maybe we were like, okay, no, no, you have to have that product.
- 18:17I think also when it comes to health brands, there's a difference between truly healthy, however you define that, and things that just market themselves as healthy.
- 18:30I just discovered the other day that there's protein Doritos.
- 18:35Oh.
- 18:39This is the reaction I expect.
- 18:41But my point is, my point is, it's a wild concept.
- 18:47And this is an extreme, and I don't think that anybody looks at protein Doritos.
- 18:50It's just whey with a traditional Dorito.
- 18:54But my point is, like, there's a lot of, this is like an extreme.
- 18:57There's a lot of brands that market themselves as healthy alternatives that are not actually healthy alternatives.
- 19:04Yes.
- 19:04So I think that that's another thing that people have no idea how to navigate.
- 19:08The average person barely knows what a macroneutrient is.
- 19:11Of course.
- 19:11So then how do you navigate like a trillion dollar company, not trillion, but a very big company's marketing strategy where they have the smartest people on earth making you think that something's healthy when it isn't?
- 19:24I think people also need to do their own research.
- 19:27There's great apps also today that help you like scan and understand.
- 19:31And I think bottom line, if you want to learn something, you have to do your homework.
- 19:36There's no other way around that.
- 19:37We became in a world that we just listen to like a, you know, a video on TikTok and we just say, okay, this is the authority and whatever it is.
- 19:45Great.
- 19:46Let's go see what other people say.
- 19:49Let's look at the numbers.
- 19:50Let's look at the data.
- 19:51Let's look at the facts.
- 19:52Truth doesn't matter as much as it anymore.
- 19:56Like, sadly.
- 19:57What does health mean to you?
- 19:59I think health means to you, it's not the lack of having diseases, of like people saying, oh, I went to do my blood work and I'm healthy, or I don't have anything.
- 20:09I think it's feeling good, having high energy, wake up in the morning with energy without needing another cup of coffee just to wake up, you know, being active,
- 20:19Having good mood, not having those mood swings all the time, not feeling bloated after each meal, having a good healthy weight, your skin and hair looks good.
- 20:27All of those things matter.
- 20:29It's not just I don't have high cholesterol.
- 20:33It's the fact that you feel good.
- 20:35I don't think a lot of people understand how it means to actually feel good, to have that high energy energy.
- 20:40to have that motivation, to have all of those things also impact our brain, impact our gut microbiome, impact our motivation, impact a lot of things.
- 20:48So it's all like combined together.
- 20:51So I think health has got to do with feeling at your very best, not all the time, but the majority of the time you're on a good energy, you're feeling good, you're overall in a good mindset.
- 21:02And what percentage of that is dictated by what we eat?
- 21:06I want to say 60, 70% could be of that because I think mindset, stress is also got to do with that.
- 21:16Self-work, you know, working on yourself, whether it's traumas in the past, whether it's like not being a victim of situation, whether it's like we all have a complicated past.
- 21:27how we get, you know, pass along that and just saying, okay, you know, that's who we are.
- 21:33And I choose to live my own destiny and to say no and to let go of toxic relationships and, you know, to form the future how you want to form it.
- 21:43So that's also got to do with that.
- 21:44Like, you know, just being very positive, being very, you know, good mindset and doesn't mean happy, happy all the time.
- 21:52Just means like more chill, less stress,
- 21:56having a better emotional regulation.
- 21:59So everything ties up together.
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- 22:58Now, a quick story.
- 22:59A few weeks ago, I was in the middle of a very heavy recording week.
- 23:02So five episodes back to back.
- 23:04By Wednesday, I could feel it.
- 23:06I felt tired.
- 23:07And I pulled up my food log in the MyFitnessPal app.
- 23:11And I could see why I felt tired.
- 23:13I was heavily under eating.
- 23:15I was not keeping up with my meals.
- 23:17My macros were all off.
- 23:19On weeks like that, staying on top of your fuel and your food and what you eat is the difference between being sharp on episode five and being flat.
- 23:27And that's the kind of thing you only catch when you're paying attention.
- 23:30And that's why I keep logging every single meal I eat in the MyFitnessPal app.
- 23:34It's not because I'm obsessing over numbers.
- 23:36It's not because I'm trying to diet, because I'm trying to have an awareness about what I eat in the day.
- 23:41And the app makes it so easy to maintain that awareness.
- 23:44I can point my camera at a plate with meal scan,
- 23:48It'll tell me exactly what I'm eating, all my macronutrients, proteins, fats, carbs.
- 23:52There's an intermittent fasting tracker.
- 23:54If I want an intermittent fast, it keeps my eating window honest.
- 23:57And it all syncs with my watch and all of my fitness apps.
- 24:00And it just runs in the background.
- 24:02See, food is a foundation for energy, sleep, recovery, performance.
- 24:06It is the one input that you cannot skip.
- 24:09So do yourself a favor, track what you're eating.
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- 24:26So tell me a little bit about how you got involved in health and wellness.
- 24:29You've made this your entire brand.
- 24:31Your content is great.
- 24:33I think that...
- 24:34The fact that all this content goes viral shows how confused people are about what to buy, what not to buy, what's good for you, what's not good for you.
- 24:44But where did you start to get involved in health and wellness?
- 24:47So for me, it started from a very personal place.
- 24:50I suffered from severe eating disorders growing up.
- 24:54Like, I think I remember it at the age of 11 where I can actually understand, like, realize that I have a problem.
- 25:02I don't know how many years prior, you know, that problem had developed.
- 25:08So I was borderline anorexic most of my teen life.
- 25:11I would try any diet on the book.
- 25:14The cabbage diet, the apple diet, no eating, no drinking, no this, nothing.
- 25:18Like, I was...
- 25:20skinny, like probably 30, 40 pounds less than what I am today.
- 25:25I would work out like crazy.
- 25:29I would take, you know, fat burners, legal, illegal, whatever you can think of, I've done.
- 25:35But this was at 11?
- 25:36This started at 11 until 21.
- 25:40So 10 years, 10 solid years.
- 25:45and I tried to hide it, you know, for a very long time, because a part of that type A personality, which is very correlated with anorexia, is also that control.
- 25:54So you control, and you hide, and you don't want to show people that you're weak, and you struggle.
- 25:59So I was hiding a lot.
- 26:02But then...
- 26:04You know, that was like a constant struggle.
- 26:06And I don't think, I think that people that go through eating disorders all have, and eating disorders for me doesn't need to be anorexic.
- 26:14It can be also overweight.
- 26:16It can have emotional eating.
- 26:17It can have like, I want to say an unhealthy relationship with their food and their body, which the majority of the population has.
- 26:25It's just sometimes you go to the extreme.
- 26:27I went to the extreme because I'm an extreme person.
- 26:29So everything that I've done in my life, I've done extreme.
- 26:33And that was also another part of it.
- 26:37And I suffered.
- 26:38You know, I suffered.
- 26:39I abused myself.
- 26:41I didn't drink.
- 26:41I didn't eat.
- 26:42I would step on the scale 20 times a day.
- 26:45I would take the scale with me in the car.
- 26:46I would have it anywhere that I would go.
- 26:48I would spend four hours every day at the gym.
- 26:51I would wake up in the morning.
- 26:52I run 10K and then just, you know, give myself a glass of water.
- 26:55Like anything you can imagine I've done.
- 26:59Then later on also came bulimia and throwing out.
- 27:03It all got mixed up together.
- 27:05Where did this all come from, though?
- 27:06Listen, I'm guessing part of my childhood and part of the fact that I always, as a kid, felt very strong emotions and a lot of things that were overwhelming.
- 27:18And there's another part in anorexia and emotional eating that's saying that,
- 27:25Sometimes something overwhelming.
- 27:26Okay, let's put it in something that will be easier.
- 27:29You know how sometimes people go through trauma?
- 27:32Let's say a sexual trauma.
- 27:33I didn't go through that.
- 27:35And then a lot of times they turn into either addictions or eating disorders, which is also some sort of an addiction, I want to say.
- 27:42Then one of the reasons is because it's too much for them to deal with that trauma.
- 27:46So they turn into that.
- 27:47It's easier to deal with what did I eat?
- 27:49What did I do?
- 27:50How do I look?
- 27:52Because it's an easier...
- 27:54emotional burden, I want to say, versus dealing with actually what you're feeling.
- 27:58So I probably was born with like oversensitivity.
- 28:02I was overwhelmed with a lot of things.
- 28:05I was also very stubborn and independent.
- 28:07So I've done everything my way.
- 28:08It was my way or the highway.
- 28:11So I never asked for help.
- 28:12I never reached out.
- 28:13I was always doing things myself.
- 28:15And most likely, I went through a lot of emotional stuff.
- 28:17And maybe it was too much for me to handle.
- 28:19And...
- 28:20And the eating disorder just started slowly and gradually, you know, develop.
- 28:27And it's also something with my personality because you need to have that personality as well.
- 28:32And environment.
- 28:33Environment always like effects, but I think that...
- 28:36When you have that, you also, you're looking to find that environment to help it grow and develop.
- 28:41You know, it's like you're looking for that fashion world for those girlfriends that are also obsessed with eating disorders for those magazines, because we're talking about 30 years ago.
- 28:50I remember the internet just started.
- 28:52So we had like ProAnna website.
- 28:55Anna is anorexia.
- 28:56That's the name of like anorexia for those websites.
- 29:00It was like dark webs that you used to talk about.
- 29:02Like, what do you do?
- 29:04Yeah.
- 29:05So it's different.
- 29:05It's not like today.
- 29:07It was completely different.
- 29:10So that was like my entire teen life.
- 29:12But I still graduated from high school.
- 29:14I still had friends, whatever it is.
- 29:15I always wanted to stay somewhere.
- 29:18And I don't want to say in the middle, but not to go to that extreme to now be hospitalized and to give up on my life.
- 29:24They took me for like day hospitalization very quickly.
- 29:28I realized that I'm not going to do that, that it's not for me.
- 29:32You weren't going to go to... That I'm going to do whatever it takes because I don't want to get there.
- 29:36Because I've seen the girls there and they were...
- 29:38It was traumatizing for me to see that.
- 29:41How far were you from being one of those girls?
- 29:44Probably 10, 20% from getting there.
- 29:47So I wasn't far.
- 29:49I needed that push.
- 29:51But I always loved life more than I loved the disease.
- 29:56There's a very thin line.
- 29:57Would you love more?
- 29:58Does that take over your life or you take over?
- 30:00Like, does the disease take over your life or you take over control of your life?
- 30:04And I always was more in control over my life than the disease.
- 30:08There was always a very thin line that I didn't want to cross.
- 30:12And I remember before I started like school, like university, college, I went to like travel the world and I went to the Far East with Thailand with one of my good friends back then.
- 30:25And, you know, it was the first time as an adult that I could enjoy life because all of a sudden there wasn't the scale, there wasn't the fat burners because I went to Thailand.
- 30:36I'm not going to bring them with me and get arrested for the rest of my life and be thrown into jail.
- 30:40So this forced you.
- 30:42So that kind of forced me.
- 30:45And all of a sudden, I was present.
- 30:48Now we talk a lot about being present over the phone.
- 30:51But I was never present because I was always in the gel inside my head.
- 30:56And it's constant.
- 30:57And you can't escape.
- 30:58You can't turn off the phone.
- 31:00There's no rehab from your own mindset.
- 31:04So all of a sudden I go to like whatever, a party, I go to the beach, I meet people from all over the world.
- 31:11It's really nice.
- 31:12I'm like, you know, having fun and I'm actually present.
- 31:15I'm enjoying it.
- 31:16Yes, of course, I was still obsessed, but I didn't.
- 31:19I was I was taken out of the environment that was really fertilizing that extremeness.
- 31:25And then when I came back, it all came back.
- 31:28And that in a day.
- 31:30The obsession, the scale, the getting on the scale, the going to the gym, the popping up all the pills for fat burners.
- 31:36And then I said, okay, if this is the life I need to live, then I'm out.
- 31:42I don't want to live this life.
- 31:43I remember I said, where will I be a year from today if I continue in this path?
- 31:49And where will I be 10 years from today continuing this path?
- 31:53And it was terrifying for me to think, where will I be 10 years from today?
- 31:58Because it would take me to my 30s.
- 32:01So then I started healing therapy journey, six, seven long years of like extensive therapy.
- 32:07And then also I chose to go and to learn the world of nutrition and health and wellness because I felt like it was, I was healing myself first before I was able to help any other person.
- 32:19I believe you need to go through that yourself in order to help other people.
- 32:23I think that what you described is extreme, but that, how do I say it, this mental prison of food.
- 32:34Yeah.
- 32:38is something that I think a lot of people experience to a degree.
- 32:42It just manifests in different ways.
- 32:44But I think about somebody who's always on a diet, always trying to lose some weight, and then they'll be so strict and so stressed about food.
- 32:52And then finally, they'll be less stressed about food and they'll eat whatever they want, but then they'll look at themselves in the mirror on the scale and they'll hate themselves and they'll go back on this diet.
- 33:00This is why gyms are busy in January.
- 33:03I mean, so not at this level, but I experienced this when I was really into bodybuilding.
- 33:07Okay, yes, I can see that.
- 33:09Body dysmorphia, you're counting every single macro, you're looking at every single menu before you go out to eat to figure out what you can actually do.
- 33:19It's so bad.
- 33:20And it's like it's all-consuming.
- 33:22Like your whole life is centered around food and what you eat.
- 33:26And you weigh the food.
- 33:28Can I do that?
- 33:29And if you prepare and if you go on competitions, like you need to cut and then you need to build and you have off-season, on-season, cut the water, the cucumbers, the spinach, like I know the world.
- 33:37I know I never got to this level, but I know bodybuilders that were scared about brushing their teeth because there was too much sodium in the toothpaste so they won't hold extra water when they jump on stage.
- 33:50It's crazy what food can do to you.
- 33:52It's absolutely crazy what food can do to you.
- 33:55Wow.
- 33:56I didn't know to that extreme what they'll brush their teeth with.
- 34:00Yeah, but bodybuilding is the very, it's extreme and it's very.
- 34:04But it's a different manifestation of what you went through.
- 34:06Yeah, it's different.
- 34:08Also, it's more defined as healthy, but it's obsession full on.
- 34:11How do, so this is really the question.
- 34:14So after going through what you've gone through and healing yourself.
- 34:17Yeah.
- 34:18And by the way, still caring about what you eat.
- 34:22You didn't just not care about what you eat.
- 34:25How do people, how do people heal like their relationship with food?
- 34:32I think the first, listen, I'm big on therapy.
- 34:35Whatever therapy.
- 34:36A lot of the stuff keeps going back to therapy.
- 34:39Like the therapy can be, you know, a conventional therapist.
- 34:43It can be someone more spiritual.
- 34:46It can be probably a combination of all because you also go through phases and stages where you need different steps to where you're at.
- 34:54But it's doing a deep dive to deal with your darkest demons.
- 34:59And it's hard.
- 35:01Because you discover a lot of things about yourself, how you behaved, what you've done.
- 35:10You are living in a place where you are unaware of what you're doing.
- 35:15And I think it's scary.
- 35:19And not a lot of people are willing to go through that hard work.
- 35:22I feel like long term, it's the best thing you can do.
- 35:25Short term, it's a sacrifice.
- 35:28And for that sacrifice, you need to be willing to do that.
- 35:31And for me, there was no other way, because I needed to heal myself from within.
- 35:37And healing, by the way, is always occurring.
- 35:41It's just, it's not acute anymore.
- 35:42It's like it's always somewhere, because you always go through a journey of healing and process, we always process stuff.
- 35:48But to process that eating disorder, I was really, was going to therapy two to three times a week.
- 35:53So you mentioned before some of the girls from the hospital, they didn't make it.
- 35:59Have you thought about what was the thing that allowed you to make it when so many people didn't in that same situation?
- 36:11I always loved life more.
- 36:13I always had high goals and expectations for myself.
- 36:17I was raised in a ways of also like self-love and self-appreciation and self-worth.
- 36:21Funny enough, even though I went through all of this eating disorders.
- 36:24So I was always, it never crossed my mind.
- 36:27Like the disease never looked more appealing to me than life.
- 36:32Like they're willing, sometimes in their mindset, which I understand, you're willing to die.
- 36:39And not to go through the healing process and to become healthy.
- 36:44And for me, it was never that.
- 36:46I never wanted to go there.
- 36:47For me, that was a complete failure.
- 36:49And for them, maybe it was a success.
- 36:51Like, does that make sense?
- 36:53Like, for me, a failure would be to get hospitalized, to be in the point where I can take control over my life.
- 37:00And I lost it.
- 37:00Like, the disease won.
- 37:02Right.
- 37:03And I lost.
- 37:05And I never want to lose in that situation.
- 37:06And for them, it was the other way around.
- 37:08They look at it in a way of like, the disease won, but in their mind, they won.
- 37:14I ask this because...
- 37:18You're a very ambitious type A person.
- 37:20A lot of people listen to this podcast are type A.
- 37:23And they don't all have the same disease that you had to overcome, but they all have an unhealthy obsession with something.
- 37:30And I guess the question is, how do you let that something not become all-consuming?
- 37:35I think today I look at it as my superpower.
- 37:40For me, what I went through and the healing process that I went through is what made me who I am today.
- 37:47I wouldn't change anything.
- 37:50Because that's what made me who I am today.
- 37:52So the struggles that I went through is what made me so strong, more resilient, and also understanding to a lot of life situations.
- 38:03Because I think if you don't go through struggles, there's a lot of things you miss along the road.
- 38:09So whether I was treating people, healing people, creating books, writing books, talking, doing lectures, conversation, podcasts, being on social media.
- 38:19Like I understand what a different person goes through.
- 38:22I can see that even without them talking.
- 38:24I can see in their body language how they behave, how they do so.
- 38:28I think one of the things that once you embrace...
- 38:31your past, your weaknesses, the struggles that you went through, and you're not trying to hide it.
- 38:37And to say, no, everything is perfect.
- 38:38No, it's not.
- 38:39That's what makes you who you are.
- 38:41And once you embrace it, and also go to therapy or dig a deeper dive into that and understand where it came from, that can be your biggest, you know, strength afterwards.
- 38:50I think that I've seen this as a pattern that keeps repeating.
- 38:54Some of the most successful people I know, they take the darkest part of their life and they turn it into what they do for a living.
- 39:00Exactly.
- 39:01That's very interesting.
- 39:04Again, I don't ever want to draw a comparison to what you went through, but I'll tell a little bit of my story because you'll understand how I look at what you've done and how you've turned into.
- 39:13You know, this disease that really had a hold on you into your career.
- 39:17But ironically, on a much lighter scale, like public speaking and presently presenting in front of the clock, that to me was the scariest thing I could ever do.
- 39:30And this is what I do for a living now.
- 39:32But it's just so funny how that weakness, if you lean into it and you overcome it.
- 39:37The act of overcoming that weakness actually makes you like highly qualified for you to do that as your job.
- 39:44Exactly.
- 39:45When you were going through this, at what point did you heal?
- 39:48At what point did you turn it into an actual career?
- 39:51So my healing process was gradually.
- 39:53It's not like one day.
- 39:55It's important for people to listen to that.
- 39:57It doesn't go away overnight.
- 39:59You go through steps and stages.
- 40:00And every stage you go through, you can go back.
- 40:03Because if you really went through the process, you can go back being blind.
- 40:06Because now you see things differently.
- 40:09So I think like the first two years were the hardest for me.
- 40:13The first two to three years were the hardest for me.
- 40:16And then I was still in school.
- 40:18So a lot of those downs and those harsh moments came through when I was still in school.
- 40:23And I think around 24, it really started to open up and I really started to see things differently.
- 40:31And then slowly and gradually in every step of my life, another breakthrough happened.
- 40:37Mentally, emotionally, and then I was also able to treat and heal people on a different level.
- 40:45Because for me, just telling you what to eat...
- 40:48was never the hard part.
- 40:49That's the easy part, is how do I make you commit to yourself?
- 40:53How do I make you go through that mindset that you understand what are the limiting beliefs that are stopping you to reach to your actual goals and your best self?
- 41:04And a lot of people, by the way, are very successful in many aspects in their life and food is their weakest spot.
- 41:12Because it's so hard because you need to say no and you need to be disciplined all the time.
- 41:16They're like, I'm successful in my career.
- 41:18I'm successful with my family.
- 41:20I can't overtake the food.
- 41:23And we see that's why GLP now is also so on the rise because it's easier to like hold those, you know, I want to say cravings or whatever it is.
- 41:33For me, it was once I learned enough about myself, I went through all of those struggles.
- 41:39I was in every point, the low, the high, the middle, the overweight, the underweight, the eating, not eating, the overeating, the everything that I can actually understand where you're at.
- 41:50Because I didn't only study it.
- 41:52I also went through it.
- 41:53So I come from the educational part of it, but I come from the experience part of it.
- 41:57So I understand myself.
- 41:58what you're going through, and I need to find those pain points, what is holding you back to create that mind shift to start doing that change.
- 42:09And slowly and gradually, I would touch in those places until we get you to the point where you own it.
- 42:15Because for me, I don't want to own it because then you'll be dependent on me for the rest of your life.
- 42:20I want to teach you how to own it yourself so you'll become your own nutritionist, your own health, you know, whatever, you know, I want to say professional because also you know your body best.
- 42:35So I need to teach you how to be attentive to your body, how to break those automatic habits that you have.
- 42:42What are the things that you tell to yourself?
- 42:44What are the no's?
- 42:44What are the negativity?
- 42:46What is the mindset you give to yourself every single morning and how do we break those?
- 42:51And then we understand where the food comes from.
- 42:54Food is 20% of the situation.
- 42:56It's the easy part.
- 42:57To teach you what to eat, I can do in a few sessions.
- 43:00To make you actually do it, that's the hard part.
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- 46:20Why do people have such a hard time understanding how not...
- 46:27what to eat, but how to have self-control, how to focus on your health and wellness goals.
- 46:34Why, when somebody is successful in all these other hard things they do in their life, this is the one thing that they just can't get a handle on?
- 46:44First of all, we live in a world that really doesn't encourage it.
- 46:51You know, it's like even to the fact that it's like, oh, you're not eating gluten.
- 46:55Oh, you're not eating out.
- 46:56Oh, you're not eating sweets.
- 46:57It's like it's a conversation versus like good for you that you take really good care of your health.
- 47:02You know, it's like we're on the other way.
- 47:03Yes, there's a trend now, but we're still in the minority of the trend.
- 47:07We're like the little part of it.
- 47:09We're like the 10%.
- 47:11And I think, first of all, from the moment we were born, we're being fed with like ultra processed food, pharmaceutical, a lot of things that really change, you know, our epigenetics.
- 47:22Basically we have our genetics and epigenetics is that basically how our genes are being expressed.
- 47:27It changes our hormones.
- 47:30It changes our gut microbiome.
- 47:31So all of a sudden, it's harder.
- 47:33Our body is not balanced.
- 47:35So first of all, physically, we're not balanced.
- 47:37We're not consuming enough protein.
- 47:38We're not eating enough food.
- 47:39We go into all kinds of different diets.
- 47:41Do the intermediate fasting, do the carnivore, do the fan.
- 47:44There were so many diets along the way.
- 47:47Like now we're living in the era of like, you know, the carnivore or the meat diet or whatever it is.
- 47:52But those eras have been here since I can remember myself.
- 47:57It's just it changes the name and the format of the diet.
- 48:01So I think for a lot of people, it's like all of a sudden you need to be disciplined 24-7.
- 48:05And they're like, I'm disciplined in this and I'm disciplined in this and I'm disciplined in this.
- 48:08And this is how they treat themselves with self-love, with emotional eating, with dealing with a lot of situation.
- 48:16And it's hard because it's next to you 24-7 and you go to the market and it's next to you and you go to somewhere and you're sad.
- 48:22You eat, you're happy, you eat, you celebrate, you eat, you're depressed, you eat.
- 48:25Everything you do, you eat.
- 48:26And and like so what people celebrate all the career achievement or the family achievement.
- 48:34Like nobody's celebrating when you go on a diet.
- 48:37No.
- 48:38No.
- 48:39In fact, in fact, you're now boring and you know, they're not.
- 48:42Oh, you're not out.
- 48:43We can go out with you.
- 48:44It's not fun anymore.
- 48:46Right.
- 48:47So everything else.
- 48:47I'm fine.
- 48:48You can still go out with me and I'll say no to some things.
- 48:50But that's not what people think.
- 48:52They think, oh, I'm going to be like a bummer.
- 48:53But my friends don't support it.
- 48:55Like if you make a million dollars, everyone's like, oh, or, you know, you get that promotion at work or you sell your business.
- 49:01Everyone's like cheering.
- 49:01Congratulations.
- 49:03You tell people I'm not drinking anymore.
- 49:05And now there's like judgment.
- 49:06Oh, yeah.
- 49:06There's judgment.
- 49:07So funny because last week.
- 49:10we hosted some friends over for like a brunch and a play date.
- 49:14And it's new friends because we just moved to Miami.
- 49:17And I made like a brunch, but there was a lot of food I love to cook.
- 49:22And he was saying like, come hungry, Corinne made a lot of food.
- 49:25And then he was telling them that at the beginning, when we started hosting a lot in LA, people would eat before they come over because they think they're just going to eat some lettuce.
- 49:34Yeah.
- 49:35And then all of a sudden they go in.
- 49:36See, there's a stigma about you as a person.
- 49:38A stigma.
- 49:39And then all of a sudden they walk inside and there's so much food and so much options.
- 49:43It's like a huge spread.
- 49:45It's just healthy.
- 49:46But it's not boring health.
- 49:48It's just made from real food, made from scratch.
- 49:50High quality ingredients can be a pasta just with high quality ingredients.
- 49:53It can be meat.
- 49:54It can be whatever it is, just real food.
- 49:57So it's a lot of misconceptions that we have towards that.
- 50:00And also goes back to the people that are on constant diet.
- 50:03Because they're on a constant diet.
- 50:04They don't live a lifestyle.
- 50:06So it's like, I had a friend who was like, yeah, I'm doing now the unshowy diet.
- 50:08I'm like, what?
- 50:11She's like, yes, I'm eating unshowies and sardines.
- 50:13Like, what do you mean?
- 50:15Three times a day?
- 50:16She's like, yeah, breakfast, lunch, and dinner.
- 50:18For how long?
- 50:18She's like, 10 days.
- 50:19I'm like,
- 50:20So people think that because they limit themselves, they just can't make any other choices.
- 50:23It's going to default to them losing weight or whatever.
- 50:26I'm also curious, do you believe that people have a true addiction?
- 50:31Like a mental... Of course.
- 50:33So if people have an addiction to food, then your body naturally isn't trying to solve that problem.
- 50:43If you're dependent on smoking cigarettes, for example,
- 50:47Every day your body's not waking up thinking, how do I stop smoking?
- 50:51True.
- 50:51I'm just curious if, like, we're talking about why successful people have a problem, and even on whatever, any version of people have a problem, not just successful people, sorry.
- 51:00We were talking about, like, how somebody's successful in one version, area of their life, and they're not so great at figuring out their diet.
- 51:06Is it because, like, they don't even realize, but they're addicted to the food that they're eating, so there's, like, it takes that much more willpower
- 51:15So we blamed willpower in a lot of places where it's not just willpower.
- 51:19Listen, the world of nutrition doesn't recognize...
- 51:25Sugar is an addiction.
- 51:26It doesn't.
- 51:28Like if you do a deep dive into the science, sugar is not an addiction for them.
- 51:33But you get people off sugar and they go through withdrawal from sugar.
- 51:38So this is a classic sign of addiction.
- 51:39It's a classic sign of addiction, but it's not documented in science.
- 51:43And also food is not documented, DSM, as...
- 51:47as an addiction because you need food to live, to sustain yourself, to survive.
- 51:53You don't need alcohol, cigarettes, or drugs in order to survive and sustain.
- 51:58So it's very problematic, that thin line.
- 52:00And of course, there's also got to do, money got to do with it, you know?
- 52:04So there's always the sugar addiction, whatever it is, but you see kids, like when you introduce kids into sugar, you all of a sudden see that the only thing they want to consume is sugar.
- 52:13You're going to give a two-year-old just like,
- 52:15a Coke and a candy and sugar and chocolate, he wouldn't want to eat food anymore.
- 52:19He just wants that like sweet cravings all the time.
- 52:22Their taste buds change.
- 52:24Their chemical, the chemistry in the brain change and all of a sudden they just crave that.
- 52:28But no, we don't talk about that.
- 52:30Or we just do the replacement.
- 52:31We use the Splenda, we use the Aspartame, which is even worse because it makes you even crave more and more and more.
- 52:38I think once people...
- 52:40get off ultra processed food completely as a cold turkey.
- 52:44The first 72 hours are really hard.
- 52:46But after that, you pass that, you realize it's not so hard.
- 52:49And all of a sudden you start feeling good, start having energy.
- 52:53All of a sudden a banana tastes really sweet.
- 52:56And food has a different flavor, but it's not the MSG and the tons of sodium and the tons of all of those, you know, natural flavors and everything.
- 53:05They're just enhancing into our food to make it like an addictions.
- 53:08Like you open a bag of Pringles, you don't eat one.
- 53:11No, of course not.
- 53:12So this is what I mean.
- 53:13So if you've been eating ultra processed food since you were a kid, then there is a little bit of a withdrawal effect.
- 53:20Oh, of course.
- 53:21And also there's another thing is that if you were as a teen growing up being overweight, so there's a few times in your life where your fat cells...
- 53:35increase so when you're a baby until the end of your teen life and also for women that are pregnant so basically let's say you're now 18 you have whatever a million fat cells those are not going to change they can expand they can get smaller get bigger they cannot duplicate themselves but when you're growing up in your teen life they do
- 53:56So if you are raised and in your teen life you became obese or very overweight, you have more fat cells in your body.
- 54:06So it's also harder for you as an adult to lose that weight because your body always thrives to go back to that.
- 54:15So we know that I think the number is about 50% of people that were overweight, obese as teens have most likelihood to also be as an adult.
- 54:25So it starts very early.
- 54:27It also starts when the women are pregnant, but that's not talked about at all.
- 54:32There's like the first two years of a baby's life, which is...
- 54:36the three months before a woman conceived pregnancy and the first year of a baby's life.
- 54:41That changes their gut microbiome, their immunity.
- 54:45There's a lot of things that got to do with that, but it's not talked about.
- 54:47Like women pregnancy and what they eat is what, eat whatever you want, like eat da da da.
- 54:52It's not talked enough.
- 54:53They just give you prenatal and that you feel that that's it.
- 54:57That's what you need to do.
- 54:57And I get it.
- 54:58I was pregnant three times.
- 55:00I went through, you know, throwing up.
- 55:03not wanting to eat anything, can't smell eggs, can't see chicken.
- 55:07Everything makes me nausea.
- 55:08Like, I get it.
- 55:09Like, my pregnancies were not easy.
- 55:12So I understand the hustle, but I also think that you can choose better.
- 55:16Not perfect.
- 55:17Just better.
- 55:18I'm just curious, because a lot of what we're talking about, like food almost programs us a certain way if you keep eating it again and again and again.
- 55:29So for somebody, for example, who's pregnant,
- 55:34If you kind of switch to healthier food before you get pregnant, does it make the pregnancy easier?
- 55:39If you've already gone through this withdrawal process?
- 55:42It should, because also when you're healthier and you're lower weight, not like a healthy weight, yeah, then your pregnancy is easier.
- 55:49You have less likelihood of like gestational diabetes or to be heavier in the pregnancy, which is hard as is.
- 55:55So, of course, there's a lot of things.
- 55:57The age also plays a big role in pregnancies.
- 56:00The older you're at, the harder it is.
- 56:02I can say it on myself.
- 56:03When I was 32, my pregnancy was much easier versus when I was 37.
- 56:07Do people get this advice when they're trying to get pregnant?
- 56:10Like, oh, also focus on your health and wellness for the six months?
- 56:13Not at all.
- 56:14Not at all.
- 56:15Like my OB, who I love in LA, was always like preaching for that.
- 56:21But I don't feel it's talked enough at all.
- 56:25But that's for all medicine.
- 56:26Like you go to the doctor and there's something.
- 56:29No one asks you, so how's your lifestyle?
- 56:31What are you eating?
- 56:31Are you working out?
- 56:32Are you sleeping well?
- 56:33Are you stressed?
- 56:34Are you taking care of yourself?
- 56:35It's like, oh, okay.
- 56:37Your cholesterol is high.
- 56:37You have high blood pressure.
- 56:38Let me prescribe you with one, two, three.
- 56:40Give you some statins and call it a day.
- 56:42Go home and go home for the rest of your life.
- 56:44That's it.
- 56:45No one asks you, so let alone in pregnancy.
- 56:47Pregnancy is more of like the baby's healthy?
- 56:49Yeah.
- 56:49Great.
- 56:50There's no problems?
- 56:51Great.
- 56:51Which is important, but there's more.
- 56:54Every conversation I have on this show about health and wellness, it really just comes back to self-advocacy and self-education.
- 57:00Yes.
- 57:02And, you know, it's tough, but nobody's coming to save you and nobody has their interests in mind better than you.
- 57:09No one.
- 57:09And if that can be like the main message, I think that's fine.
- 57:13I think that's like just focus on learning this shit yourself.
- 57:18Focus on advocating for yourself.
- 57:20And doctors can be great, but there's also the white rope syndrome where you just see the doctor and you're all of a sudden, okay, whatever he says is like, that's it.
- 57:30It's sacred.
- 57:31But also doctors don't know everything about nutrition at all.
- 57:35And they make mistakes and they're human and they work a lot of hours a day and they have 30 more patients that they've seen today and you're one of them and you live your life.
- 57:44So I think that, I don't want to say challenging, but asking questions, researching yourself, coming with that database, like self-advocating.
- 57:52I also think there needs to be a new job of like a doctor that like oversees people's
- 57:59you know, medical records and actually understand, oh, this doesn't, you're feeling, okay, let's give you another medications, but do the medication have a problem interacting?
- 58:08So they have like a holistic view of everything.
- 58:09A holistic view of everything because doctors specialize in a specific field.
- 58:13I do kidneys, I do this, I do this.
- 58:15Okay, but we are whole, we're not a kidney.
- 58:18A high stress lifestyle.
- 58:19A lot of people who are listening to this are entrepreneurs, they're founders, they're building.
- 58:23You are as well.
- 58:25What does a high stress lifestyle do to your health?
- 58:28So cortisol is like the stress is like your silent killer.
- 58:31Listen, we can be unstressed.
- 58:33Like our body can handle stress.
- 58:35Like I always said to people that come to me, I said, listen, I can pull you out of the situation.
- 58:40I'll put you in this village in Costa Rica and let you surf all day long.
- 58:43Even though it's great, it's not reality.
- 58:47So I always say, look at it.
- 58:49It's like your body is like a bank account.
- 58:50And if you just debit money out of it at some point, no money would be left.
- 58:55You also have to make deposits.
- 58:58So deposits, work out, eat well.
- 59:01If you like to meditate, if you like to do yoga, I cannot stand yoga for me.
- 59:05This is me off, but I work out and that's my mindset.
- 59:07You know, I go lift weights.
- 59:09And for me, I come back super calm.
- 59:11You put me in yoga.
- 59:11I come back super stressed.
- 59:15And it's fine.
- 59:15No one size fits all.
- 59:17But you have to make those deposits.
- 59:19You have to take that time off.
- 59:21You have to plan vacations.
- 59:22You need to take the rights up.
- 59:23Like you have to make sure you're giving your body something in return.
- 59:26Otherwise, you're just taking, taking, taking, taking.
- 59:29At some point, it will be empty.
- 59:31So we can eliminate the high stress.
- 59:34But we can give extra to your body knowing that's the certain lifestyle you live.
- 59:39You have to give it more.
- 59:40I think that with this audience in particular, the biggest issue is they keep, they know that health and wellness is important.
- 59:48Yeah.
- 59:49They see enough podcasts and they see it on.
- 59:50They see it connect, the ties, everyone talks about it now.
- 59:53Yeah.
- 59:53Like in this like entrepreneur circle, enough people talk about how important health and wellness is.
- 59:58Like nobody wants to be rich, successful and, you know, be dying.
- 1:00:03But a lot of them, they keep putting it off.
- 1:00:06They put off for later and they'll do it.
- 1:00:08I don't have time right now.
- 1:00:09I'm building my business.
- 1:00:11I'll take care of it when I exit or when I'm on to the next thing.
- 1:00:15I feel like people don't realize how important it is to maintain.
- 1:00:21Maybe not be perfect about it.
- 1:00:24Yeah, but just do something.
- 1:00:25Just do something.
- 1:00:26And I'm curious if...
- 1:00:28If somebody is of the mindset of I'll do it later, what's outside of, you know, slapping them and telling them like, no, that's a stupid way to look at your health.
- 1:00:37What is a sign that something's off in their life?
- 1:00:40Like what is, is it, is it you're getting tired in the afternoon?
- 1:00:45Is it like your grain fog?
- 1:00:49What is it?
- 1:00:50I think it's like problem with sleep.
- 1:00:55They're stressed.
- 1:00:55They wake up a lot during the night or they can't fall asleep.
- 1:00:58Waking up feeling fatigue.
- 1:01:00Brain fog.
- 1:01:00Feeling tired.
- 1:01:01The need for like caffeine all the time.
- 1:01:04Being very edgy.
- 1:01:06Bowel movement that isn't working properly.
- 1:01:08Feeling bloated after each meal.
- 1:01:10Like there's a lot of signs along the way.
- 1:01:12Like your skin is not healing properly.
- 1:01:14You catch every virus that anyone comes close to you or you don't.
- 1:01:19But when you do, it takes you...
- 1:01:21three weeks to heal from it.
- 1:01:22Every cold takes you two weeks to recover.
- 1:01:24So your body gives you the sign.
- 1:01:26It's just, I don't know if you're listening.
- 1:01:29If somebody is getting some of these symptoms, the one thing that I've always noticed for me is whenever I'm overworking, because I've always cared about my health.
- 1:01:39I've been playing sports and working until I was 10 years old.
- 1:01:43But when I really, really, really- Which has got to do with it because it was-
- 1:01:47a part of your DNA and how you were raised.
- 1:01:51And that's why it's so important.
- 1:01:52I always say to my kids, it doesn't matter which sports you choose.
- 1:01:55Each and every one of you needs to do sports constantly.
- 1:01:59I don't mind soccer, football, dancing, gymnastics.
- 1:02:02You do sports.
- 1:02:02In this house, everyone needs to be in some sort of activity.
- 1:02:05It gives you dedication, sacrifice, discipline, everything.
- 1:02:10Like it changes who you are to learn how to, you know,
- 1:02:13Lose, win, sacrifice, work harder, and understand that hard work gets you anywhere you want to be.
- 1:02:19Yes, to all of it.
- 1:02:20I've played sports my whole life.
- 1:02:22And forget the fact that it just keeps you healthy.
- 1:02:25It is like the mindset change, the doing hard shit, the working with the team, the leader.
- 1:02:31Like there's so many...
- 1:02:32things that cross over from sports to help you with the rest of your life.
- 1:02:36But when I am really run down, even though I still work out, still eat healthy, I get the worst colds.
- 1:02:46My body is like, Scott, you need to chill the fuck out.
- 1:02:50We're shutting this down right now.
- 1:02:51And then I'm like, okay, I need to not travel.
- 1:02:54I need to not do anything.
- 1:02:56I need to not go to the gym.
- 1:02:58I think a lot of people, unfortunately, especially this audience, they wait until it's
- 1:03:03Too late?
- 1:03:04Too late.
- 1:03:04Like they burn out?
- 1:03:05Yeah.
- 1:03:06Yeah, then you pay a price.
- 1:03:07I used to do it.
- 1:03:08I get it.
- 1:03:09I would go in like such a high mode, high mode, high mode, then you burn out.
- 1:03:12And then today, I don't get there anymore.
- 1:03:14Like I understand that the price you pay is too high.
- 1:03:17So you reach this peak.
- 1:03:18Yeah.
- 1:03:19And it's really high.
- 1:03:20But then the downtime is also really long.
- 1:03:22So it's not worth it.
- 1:03:23It's like better being here all the time versus here and there.
- 1:03:26You mentioned this at the beginning of the podcast, and I want to just highlight this for people.
- 1:03:30What does feeling good actually feel like?
- 1:03:34What does being healthy actually feel like?
- 1:03:37You mentioned like lack of brain fog, maybe better skin, getting sick less.
- 1:03:42You said also at the beginning, not many people know what it like.
- 1:03:47Not many people experience feeling good.
- 1:03:50What is that?
- 1:03:51Like what is feeling good?
- 1:03:53It's a good question because it's hard to accumulate into a few things.
- 1:03:57But for me, it's like waking up in the morning, feeling energized, feeling motivated, like pushing.
- 1:04:03Like, I want to say not feeling that I'm dragging myself all day long, feeling lethargic, not feeling good.
- 1:04:10My hair is shedding all the time.
- 1:04:12My skin is bad all the time.
- 1:04:14I'm not getting sick.
- 1:04:15Like very rarely I get sick.
- 1:04:16And if I get sick, it's fine.
- 1:04:18But like you actually feel that your body operates in a good level.
- 1:04:22I don't get tired after each meal.
- 1:04:24I don't need to lay down to rest after each meal.
- 1:04:27I can just go.
- 1:04:27I can be on caffeine and I can be not and I love coffee.
- 1:04:31But like now I felt like in the past week, the coffee didn't do justice with me.
- 1:04:35So today I had my first coffee after a week because I felt like my body needs a break.
- 1:04:39You also need to be attentive to your body.
- 1:04:43One day you need this.
- 1:04:44The other day you need other things.
- 1:04:45You need to be receptive.
- 1:04:47We're not like a linear, you know, line that is just like that all the time.
- 1:04:51So for me, if I feel tired in the middle of the day, I don't have energy.
- 1:04:55I don't feel like going to the gym.
- 1:04:58I don't feel like I'm sharp enough.
- 1:04:59I have something in my, I stop, I pause.
- 1:05:03What's going on?
- 1:05:04What do you need?
- 1:05:06I traveled a lot.
- 1:05:07I had some family issues.
- 1:05:09I had some stuff.
- 1:05:10Do I need to change my supplement routine?
- 1:05:11Do I need to go more on a walk?
- 1:05:13Do I need some time off?
- 1:05:14Do I need some quality time?
- 1:05:16What do I need?
- 1:05:16Like I stop and ask myself because I feel something changes.
- 1:05:21Is it my age?
- 1:05:21Is it my hormones?
- 1:05:22I don't just go, go, go, go, go.
- 1:05:23But you are super aware of your body, your mood, your energy.
- 1:05:27But I got there because I actually give my body what it needs.
- 1:05:31So I now know how am I supposed to feel.
- 1:05:33If you never know how you're supposed to feel good, then you always feel bad.
- 1:05:36So you've like established your own baseline.
- 1:05:38You need to establish the baseline.
- 1:05:39That's a good thing to say.
- 1:05:41I like that a lot.
- 1:05:42You need to establish the baseline.
- 1:05:43Because I think a lot of people, they just kind of wake up and they go through their day.
- 1:05:47And some days they feel good.
- 1:05:48Some days they feel bad.
- 1:05:48They have no idea why.
- 1:05:50No, and there's always a connection, a correlation.
- 1:05:52It can be even for women, your cycle, before your cycle, this.
- 1:05:55Like, there's changes.
- 1:05:56Like, we're not the same every time.
- 1:05:58And there's also stuff you go through.
- 1:06:00Do you give it the time to process?
- 1:06:02You don't have the time to process.
- 1:06:03Like, for me, we move from whatever.
- 1:06:06This is something, you know, small.
- 1:06:08Not small, but whatever.
- 1:06:09We move from L.A. to Miami.
- 1:06:10Yeah.
- 1:06:11I was really debating whether I want to move or not.
- 1:06:13For six months, I processed the situation.
- 1:06:15For six months, I cried.
- 1:06:17I talked.
- 1:06:17I went to say goodbye to every person in LA that I know from my pediatrician, my OB, the teachers of my kid.
- 1:06:24Every person.
- 1:06:25I went to say goodbye, gave a hug, gave a gift.
- 1:06:29shed some tears, I processed.
- 1:06:31When I got here, I felt like I'm ready to do, by the way, last week I went to LA, it was sad for me to leave, but it's like, you need to give room to those things you go through, we're not a machine.
- 1:06:43A lot of people treat themselves like a machine.
- 1:06:45And I'm a resilient, strong person.
- 1:06:48I'm not a machine.
- 1:06:49I pause.
- 1:06:50I let myself process.
- 1:06:51And I feel that if I went through a week that my body needs more TLC, then I'll give them more TLC.
- 1:06:56And I can work 24-7.
- 1:06:59But where will it lead me?
- 1:07:01I love this.
- 1:07:02I think that so many people, if they just gave themselves a little bit more space.
- 1:07:09Yeah.
- 1:07:11then they would actually achieve what they're trying to actually achieve in a much more efficient way.
- 1:07:16But instead of giving themselves space, this is something that I've dealt with my whole life.
- 1:07:20I just work, don't give myself time to process, jump into the next thing.
- 1:07:25You're talking about what did you do on Labor Day?
- 1:07:27I was playing around with all these different AI tools and shit like that.
- 1:07:32I've gotten better at it, but it's hard for me.
- 1:07:35It's very hard for me.
- 1:07:36I get it.
- 1:07:37I think...
- 1:07:38If you want to become a dad, I think one day when you will become a dad, I think that will give you a different perspective.
- 1:07:45It happened to me.
- 1:07:46So I'm saying from my experience that I was always go, go, go, go, go, go, go.
- 1:07:50And then when Gabriel, my first, was born, after I stayed at home with him as a baby and whatever it is, once he went into preschool, I think he was like 20 months or whatever it is, at 2 p.m., my day stopped.
- 1:08:06It's mommy time, whatever it is.
- 1:08:08And it's just the world stopped.
- 1:08:10And I think that when you don't have those commitments, then you actually are not as effective as a person because then you have endless amounts of time to just do anything with.
- 1:08:23You know, one of my really good friends, you may meet him.
- 1:08:26His name's Leo Pereja.
- 1:08:27He's the CEO of EXP.
- 1:08:29So big real estate company.
- 1:08:31But he lives down here.
- 1:08:32Yeah.
- 1:08:32We met him and his wife when we moved down.
- 1:08:34And we always have this conversation because, you know, I'm working nonstop and I'm like, you know, I want to have kids.
- 1:08:40and the classic thing is, well, I don't know if I'm going to have time for kids.
- 1:08:43You will.
- 1:08:44And he said the same thing.
- 1:08:45He said, Scott, you don't get it.
- 1:08:46Like when you have kids, you become better at everything else.
- 1:08:48At everything else because you don't have time to waste.
- 1:08:50No, you don't have any time.
- 1:08:51You're like efficient.
- 1:08:52You know, like most of us waste time on bullshit that we don't need to be spending time on.
- 1:08:57But when you have kids, you don't have time for bullshit.
- 1:09:00No, because you also want to spend time with them.
- 1:09:02Of course.
- 1:09:03So you just focus on the stuff that moves the needle in your life.
- 1:09:06So it's almost like a forcing function to only do the things that matter.
- 1:09:10Exactly.
- 1:09:13I don't know how we got here from health.
- 1:09:15Because I think health is an overall mindset and I think raising healthy kids.
- 1:09:19I remember.
- 1:09:20It was the fact that we don't pay attention to ourselves, don't give us time to think about.
- 1:09:25And kids stop you whether you want it or not.
- 1:09:27They stop you.
- 1:09:29And they give you that time because you also realize that time passes by so fast and it's so precious when they're small.
- 1:09:36Like I look at my seven and a half year old and I'm like, I can't believe it.
- 1:09:39You were a baby a minute ago.
- 1:09:41The time just flies by.
- 1:09:43And you realize that that's the most important task in your life.
- 1:09:47Because this will be your continuous, this is what, this is your legacy, this is what you're living in the world.
- 1:09:53And you really want to give them a day all between, you know, that balance of like giving them a great life, but also teaching them the values, the discipline, you know, the hard work that they need to do because they are raised differently than how I was raised.
- 1:10:06And bringing it full circle to your own health.
- 1:10:11Like now you have someone else to live for.
- 1:10:13Oh, 100%.
- 1:10:14You know that word, I would die for my kids.
- 1:10:16And then they ask, but would you live for them?
- 1:10:19I love that.
- 1:10:20Yeah.
- 1:10:21So would you do anything that needs to do in order to live a healthy, good life for your kids?
- 1:10:27Because all you want to be is be healthy, running around with them.
- 1:10:31Exactly.
- 1:10:31The scariest thought is that they'll be left alone without you in this world.
- 1:10:35So would you do anything to make sure you'll be here?
- 1:10:39And this is where you start to care about your health, not from like a, you know, selfish perspective from how can I be on this earth as long as possible, living in the best quality of life, not just living and existing and having, God forbid, dementia or depression.
- 1:10:55which started now being in an earlier age, which is so sad.
- 1:10:57Horrible.
- 1:10:59But you see people, again, that are, you know, 85, 90, 95, and their quality of life is horrible.
- 1:11:05And it's gotten to the point where some people are now, you know, I don't know a better word, but like, like don't judge me for using this word, but like a burden on their family.
- 1:11:15Yeah, but 95, I feel like you lived a full life and a full circle.
- 1:11:19You know who's 95?
- 1:11:20William Shatner.
- 1:11:23Really?
- 1:11:23Oh, I wouldn't think so.
- 1:11:26He's very, very, very healthy.
- 1:11:28He has a podcast.
- 1:11:30No, he's so sharp.
- 1:11:31But that's rare.
- 1:11:32That's like the normality.
- 1:11:34But that should be what we're going towards.
- 1:11:36And that's what we should be aiming for.
- 1:11:37Everyone's talking about biohacking and longevity and living longer.
- 1:11:41But if you're living from 90 to 100 and...
- 1:11:45you're in like a home and you have dementia, Alzheimer's, and your health is not good.
- 1:11:51That's not what people want.
- 1:11:52Yeah, that's not what people want.
- 1:11:53But I think that's also you're now going into the 90 and 100.
- 1:11:56Now we're talking about people in their 40s and 50s that they look like in their 70s, and they can walk, run, chase after their kids.
- 1:12:05And so I think it starts.
- 1:12:07And also, by the way,
- 1:12:09What you do in your 30s, 40s, 50s has a direct correlation to how you're going to age in your 70s.
- 1:12:15And this is why you can't push it off.
- 1:12:16Exactly.
- 1:12:17Because what you do now will impact me at 70 and 80.
- 1:12:22Not what I'll do at 65.
- 1:12:23Because the muscle mass, I won't be able to build at 65.
- 1:12:27The brain cells won't be the same at 65 as they are today.
- 1:12:31Everything, it's like maintenance starts like, you know, we deteriorate after the age of 25.
- 1:12:36So you need to start building it up.
- 1:12:38Like there's a constant point.
- 1:12:39It's never too late, but there's comes a point where it's not as productive.
- 1:12:44It's not as efficient.
- 1:12:44It's easier to maintain than to start building.
- 1:12:47It's easier to maintain than start, but there's no too late.
- 1:12:51You know, it's always better to start than not to start, just to say that.
- 1:12:55But then on the other hand, you know, just to do those things like socially, mentally, everything, just to do it together, to do it in a place where you want to be in your 70s and 80s and be with your kids and grandkids and feel great.
- 1:13:06Yeah.
- 1:13:07Well, there's so many different pieces to health, wellness, food, nutrition.
- 1:13:11Do you feel like the industry is getting more or less honest?
- 1:13:16Less.
- 1:13:16Less still.
- 1:13:17Even with, you know, Bobby Kennedy trying to make America healthy again and like, is it?
- 1:13:25I think it's just that truth is not as important anymore.
- 1:13:28It's more the narrative you're predict you're like dictating.
- 1:13:32And I think it's just it's so hard to find the truth today.
- 1:13:35And I think we came so far from it.
- 1:13:37So it's almost impossible to know what the truth is now.
- 1:13:40What is the biggest lie in the food diet health industry?
- 1:13:46I think, first of all, people still feel there's like a magic thing, a magic pill, a magic shot that will make you feel great.
- 1:13:53So it used to be diet pills.
- 1:13:54Now it's GLP-1.
- 1:13:55Just take it and everything will go away.
- 1:13:57You're going to feel amazing.
- 1:13:59No side effects.
- 1:14:00No nothing.
- 1:14:00Okay.
- 1:14:01They had some great advantages.
- 1:14:03What about the disadvantages?
- 1:14:04Does anyone talks about it?
- 1:14:06There's no shortcuts, no free meals in the world.
- 1:14:09Everything comes with a price.
- 1:14:10So, I mean, to your point, you don't think GLP-1s are good for people?
- 1:14:14I think peptides in general, I think there's a lot of advantages.
- 1:14:18I think there's a lot of problems.
- 1:14:19It's not regulated.
- 1:14:21I'm not specifically talking about GLP-1.
- 1:14:22I'm talking about peptides in general.
- 1:14:23It's not regulated enough.
- 1:14:25So you don't know exactly what you're putting into your body because there's not enough regulation.
- 1:14:30People that don't understand what it does enough go ahead and sell it.
- 1:14:34And for GLP-1, I think it depends on generation.
- 1:14:37And I think it also, the question is like, are we talking about people that need seriously to lose weight?
- 1:14:42Yes.
- 1:14:42And they have tried every other option.
- 1:14:44Yes.
- 1:14:44You need to lose 10 pounds.
- 1:14:45I'm not sure GLP-1 is for you.
- 1:14:47No, I think people are using it as a substitute for self-control.
- 1:14:49Exactly.
- 1:14:50Which I don't know if is healthy.
- 1:14:51It's not because then you need to take it for the rest of your life and they have some side effects and you still need to do the work of healthy eating, working out, getting your protein, being active.
- 1:15:00And if you don't do that, you're not going to be healthy.
- 1:15:03The biggest sort of debates right now in health and wellness, it could be about seed oils, about alcohol, about sugar.
- 1:15:12Are these things that you should just completely remove from your diet or some of this a little bit like people are a little bit too aggressive about how bad these things are for you?
- 1:15:23Listen, I think seed oils are bad for you.
- 1:15:25I have been recommending to people to get off seed oil for 15 years now, so I'm not new.
- 1:15:30Yes.
- 1:15:30Do I think you're going to get inflammation in a second the minute you're going to eat seed oil?
- 1:15:35No.
- 1:15:36I think it's also a matter of like how much, what are you eating, what is your day-to-day.
- 1:15:39But it doesn't help.
- 1:15:41No.
- 1:15:41There's nothing good about it.
- 1:15:43Sugar, I think we do need to cut off.
- 1:15:47Again, if you're consuming sugar here and there, again, if you're living on sugar, no.
- 1:15:50And then alcohol.
- 1:15:51Listen, I drink alcohol, but I drink like a glass of wine once a month.
- 1:15:56So I don't know how to consider that.
- 1:15:57I just feel like, again, it's a matter of self-control.
- 1:15:59I don't feel the need to completely cut it off from my life completely.
- 1:16:02But again, I have a glass of wine every now and then.
- 1:16:06I think it's great.
- 1:16:07For people who drink daily, I would cut it off.
- 1:16:10What was the best diet advice you've ever received or given?
- 1:16:15Yeah.
- 1:16:16Wow, that's a good question.
- 1:16:21Listen, it sounds corny, but I think the mindset is what matters the most out of everything.
- 1:16:26And I think like eating real whole foods and your mindset, that that's what matters.
- 1:16:29Like if you live, if you like the self-love and self, you know, appreciation, that's what really starts it off.
- 1:16:35So I don't have one answer for that.
- 1:16:38No, but I think that that's a refrain from what most people would expect you to say.
- 1:16:42So it's not about carnivore, intermittent fasting, or pick.
- 1:16:48No.
- 1:16:50It's everything.
- 1:16:50It's your mindset and your habits.
- 1:16:52It's almost like a first principles approach.
- 1:16:54It's like you figure out the mindset.
- 1:16:56And then you go to everything else.
- 1:16:57And then everything else is downstream from that.
- 1:16:59Exactly.
- 1:17:00We can do carnivore.
- 1:17:01We can do this.
- 1:17:01We can do that.
- 1:17:02We can do vegetarian.
- 1:17:03We can do vegan.
- 1:17:04We can frame it in so many ways.
- 1:17:06It's just that it just needs to start with like the basics.
- 1:17:10Where can people find all your work, connect with you?
- 1:17:14So they can find me on Instagram, which is Corinna Doni Nutrition, on TikTok as well, my website, CorinnaDoni.com.
- 1:17:20So I'm always there and available.
- 1:17:22And we've gone through all these different pieces of sort of mindset, mental health, diet advice.
- 1:17:28If you could pass on just one lesson, the most important lesson to your kids, what would it be and why?
- 1:17:34I think it would be like advocate for yourself and self-appreciation would be the number one, like that learn your self-value, have the confidence.
- 1:17:42Like I think everything surrounding with that, that's the basics for everything.
- 1:17:47Once that's set in mind, I feel that's the growth for everything.
- 1:17:51And for me...
- 1:17:53I worked really hard to get there because I didn't feel like that.
- 1:17:57So it's very important for me to give my kids that.
- 1:18:00But then on the other hand, and again, that's why I don't have a straight answer.
- 1:18:03That's also what made me figure out so many things myself because I struggled.
- 1:18:09So there's no one answer.