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- 0:05Speaker 1: Hey, this is Anny and Samantha and Welcome to Stuff
- 0:07Speaker 1: I Never Told You Protection by Heart Radio. I don't
- 0:19Speaker 1: know if you feel this way, Samantha, And maybe I'm
- 0:21Speaker 1: just I don't know, I'm getting older, but I feel
- 0:26Speaker 1: like we lost a lot of people in two, like
- 0:30Speaker 1: especially towards the end of Yeah, at the end of
- 0:34Speaker 1: the beginning, I feel like a lot of death for
- 0:37Speaker 1: being announced and I was like, oh no, yeah, yeah,
- 0:41Speaker 1: like big iconic figures. So unfortunately, we have a couple
- 0:46Speaker 1: of classics coming up about some of those people. But
- 0:49Speaker 1: we're going to start with Barbara Walters, who died at
- 0:51Speaker 1: the end of two and just like with most people
- 0:56Speaker 1: we talked about, that's sort of a you know, looking back,
- 0:59Speaker 1: some things we can talk about that we're problematic for sure,
- 1:02Speaker 1: but was an icon and was a trailblazer in terms
- 1:07Speaker 1: of journalism. Uh, kind of that soft focus journalism is
- 1:12Speaker 1: still a thing that people reference. But yeah, we wanted
- 1:15Speaker 1: to bring back this classic episode about Barbara Walters and
- 1:19Speaker 1: and all the things that she did, so please enjoy.
- 1:25Speaker 1: Welcome to Stuff Mom Never Told You. From House toff
- 1:28Speaker 1: Works dot Com. Hello, and welcome to the podcast. I'm
- 1:36Speaker 1: Kristen and I'm Caroline, and today we are devoting our
- 1:39Speaker 1: episode to Barbara Walters, legendary news anchor and soft news personality.
- 1:49Speaker 1: How do you describe Barbara Walters, host, current host of
- 1:53Speaker 1: The View. I guess she's a personality journalism extraordinaire. That
- 1:58Speaker 1: is a great title for her. I will I will
- 2:01Speaker 1: air brush her a T shirt that on it if
- 2:04Speaker 1: you want nice and I hope that her face on
- 2:06Speaker 1: it would have that air brushed soft look as it
- 2:09Speaker 1: does now. Yes. Um, yeah, Barbara Walters recently announced that
- 2:15Speaker 1: she is retiring, not just from the View but from journalism,
- 2:21Speaker 1: from TV, etcetera. And she's eighty three years old, which
- 2:25Speaker 1: makes it even more awesome that she initially made the
- 2:28Speaker 1: announcement via Twitter, right yeah. And and she's no dummy,
- 2:32Speaker 1: that Barbara Walters. She's she's pretty media savvy, as one
- 2:35Speaker 1: would expect from somebody who's been in the industry for
- 2:38Speaker 1: as long as she has. But she made this Twitter
- 2:40Speaker 1: announcement uh the night before her a big official announcement
- 2:44Speaker 1: on the View on May thirteen, and coincidentally or not,
- 2:50Speaker 1: it's during sweeps week, right, And so she says she's
- 2:54Speaker 1: gonna retire in and she's been on television continuously for
- 3:00Speaker 1: over fifty years in different capacities, mostly on ABC and NBC,
- 3:07Speaker 1: and we wanted to take an episode to talk about
- 3:10Speaker 1: her because she was such a groundbreaking woman in broadcast
- 3:16Speaker 1: television and now with her legacy, there's there's a little
- 3:20Speaker 1: bit of controversy, but we wanted to take a take
- 3:22Speaker 1: a moment to talk about her highlights and why Barbara
- 3:26Speaker 1: Walters really does matter. Yeah, she's had some pretty significant firsts,
- 3:30Speaker 1: and two that go hand in hand are the fact
- 3:32Speaker 1: that she was the first female co host over on
- 3:36Speaker 1: ABC News. She co hosted with Harry Reasoner, who really
- 3:41Speaker 1: sounds like a jerk. And when she was offered this
- 3:44Speaker 1: co hosting position, she became the first female anchor to
- 3:47Speaker 1: make a million bucks. Yeah, and before that, she had
- 3:50Speaker 1: become the first female co host of The Today Show
- 3:53Speaker 1: as well, which was where she really got her start. Um.
- 3:57Speaker 1: And before that, when she went to work for in
- 4:00Speaker 1: BC in the early sixties, she started out as a
- 4:03Speaker 1: secretary and then quickly worked her way up the ranks,
- 4:06Speaker 1: and from nineteen sixty one to nineteen seventy four she
- 4:10Speaker 1: was a reporter, a writer, and a panel member for
- 4:13Speaker 1: The Today Show and at that time that when she
- 4:17Speaker 1: was on the show, they had a token female on
- 4:20Speaker 1: there called the Today Girl, who was usually a model
- 4:24Speaker 1: or an actress. So when Walters was tapped to become
- 4:29Speaker 1: a new Today Girl, it was a big deal because
- 4:32Speaker 1: she said, I wasn't beautiful, and I had trouble pronouncing
- 4:35Speaker 1: my rs, and I had no idea that they would
- 4:39Speaker 1: want me for this, but of course she jumped on it, right,
- 4:42Speaker 1: And the Today Girl slot was usually filled by models,
- 4:45Speaker 1: her actresses, women who basically covered light, fluffy lifestyle pieces
- 4:50Speaker 1: because at the time, she said, you know, nobody was
- 4:52Speaker 1: going to take a woman seriously reading the news, and
- 4:55Speaker 1: so they kind of were relegated to the background doing
- 4:58Speaker 1: fluffier pieces. Didn't you call it something like the tea
- 5:01Speaker 1: pouring stories? Right? Yeah? And this maker's video that that
- 5:06Speaker 1: was produced by PBS and a O L. She she
- 5:08Speaker 1: did call them tea pouring interviews. She said that for years,
- 5:12Speaker 1: but Today show had one female writer out of something
- 5:14Speaker 1: like seven and the only way basically that you could
- 5:16Speaker 1: get the job is off another female writer got married
- 5:19Speaker 1: or died, and then they would hire literally one other
- 5:23Speaker 1: female writer to do the quote unquote female pieces, which
- 5:26Speaker 1: she called you know, the fashion shows, the celebrity interviews.
- 5:30Speaker 1: Uh So she ended up doing that because it was
- 5:32Speaker 1: all she could do. And I didn't realize this, but
- 5:35Speaker 1: in nineteen seventy Barbara Walters published her first book, which
- 5:38Speaker 1: was called How To Talk with Practically Anybody About Practically Anything.
- 5:41Speaker 1: Because she made a name for herself pretty much off
- 5:44Speaker 1: the bat with her interviewing style. She was always able
- 5:48Speaker 1: to get notable interviews as well talk about a little
- 5:52Speaker 1: bit more and kind of developed a signature style. And
- 5:57Speaker 1: in nineteen seventy two, as sings, NBC are really starting
- 6:01Speaker 1: to pick up for her. Just to give you a snapshot,
- 6:04Speaker 1: Barbara Walters told Time Magazine in nineteen quote, the only
- 6:08Speaker 1: woman with a daily network show is Dinah Shore, and
- 6:10Speaker 1: she sings, I'd like to do evening news specials like
- 6:14Speaker 1: the men do. A female anchor woman on the nightly
- 6:17Speaker 1: news hasn't happened yet either. It's like she knew what
- 6:22Speaker 1: was going to happen. And that proved to be a
- 6:25Speaker 1: very preseent quote, because she broke those barriers. She did
- 6:30Speaker 1: that stuff. But first, in nineteen seventy four to nineteen
- 6:34Speaker 1: seventy six, she became the co host on the Today Show.
- 6:38Speaker 1: But it took the death of this guy named Frank
- 6:42Speaker 1: McGhee who was one of the host for her to
- 6:44Speaker 1: actually be named co host because when she was on
- 6:48Speaker 1: the Today Show, Frank McGee was so opposed to a
- 6:52Speaker 1: woman being at an equal level of him because it
- 6:56Speaker 1: just was unheard of at the time that it wasn't
- 6:59Speaker 1: into he died that she was able to step in
- 7:02Speaker 1: and tell her bosses, hey, you know what, according to
- 7:04Speaker 1: my contract, I am a co host and you need
- 7:07Speaker 1: to call me a co host. And then in nineteen
- 7:10Speaker 1: seventy five, she snagged her first Daytime Emmy, which was
- 7:13Speaker 1: not for the Today Show, but for this show called
- 7:17Speaker 1: Not for Women Only that she hosted that I believe
- 7:20Speaker 1: was based in New York. It might have just been
- 7:23Speaker 1: on New York channels, but it was kind of thing
- 7:27Speaker 1: where she would invite women on to talk about what
- 7:30Speaker 1: they were doing. It was a little bit feminist, um,
- 7:33Speaker 1: and that's where she kind of first semi well, you know,
- 7:36Speaker 1: she has known for her interviewing style and she developed
- 7:40Speaker 1: it out of sheer scrappiness. This woman was pushed aside
- 7:44Speaker 1: so often that she often had to go outside of
- 7:47Speaker 1: normal methods of interviewing people. If she wanted an interview
- 7:51Speaker 1: in those days that she was co hosting and kind
- 7:53Speaker 1: of relegated to just the woman's stories, if she wanted
- 7:57Speaker 1: one that was totally her, she had to literally go
- 7:59Speaker 1: outside of the studios so that she wouldn't have to
- 8:01Speaker 1: wait for the men to ask the interview questions. Because
- 8:05Speaker 1: when after she had become a staple on the Today
- 8:08Speaker 1: Show alongside people like Hugh Downs and Frank McGee, uh,
- 8:12Speaker 1: she was restricted from asking questions of the show's quote
- 8:15Speaker 1: unquote serious guests until the male co host had had
- 8:19Speaker 1: asked his. That was an actual role that the dude
- 8:21Speaker 1: had come up with, and so she had to clear
- 8:24Speaker 1: her own paths. She said, Uh, they became mine, the
- 8:28Speaker 1: interviews that she did outside of the studio, which she said,
- 8:31Speaker 1: is how she got her reputation as an interviewer and
- 8:33Speaker 1: a pushy cookie. A pushy cookie indeed, But in April twenty,
- 8:39Speaker 1: nineteen seventy six, not only was she a pushy cookie,
- 8:42Speaker 1: but Barbara Walters was a self described lonely cookie. Because
- 8:45Speaker 1: when that was when she got that groundbreaking co anchor
- 8:49Speaker 1: job on ABC World News Tonight, and she was at
- 8:56Speaker 1: the top of her game at the time, but also
- 8:59Speaker 1: comple lately despairing and almost depressed about it because whenever
- 9:03Speaker 1: she would walk into the studio and this was from
- 9:05Speaker 1: that maker's interview on PBS, she talks about how no
- 9:09Speaker 1: one wanted to talk to her. The mostly male staff
- 9:14Speaker 1: and Harry reason and her co host, wanted absolutely nothing
- 9:17Speaker 1: to do with her. They would make jokes about her
- 9:18Speaker 1: because they thought it was ludicrous that a woman was
- 9:21Speaker 1: co anchoring, can you believe it? But the funny thing
- 9:25Speaker 1: is though she was making more than Harry Reasoner when
- 9:27Speaker 1: she first got in there. She snagged that record one
- 9:30Speaker 1: million dollar contract, and half a million was for the
- 9:33Speaker 1: co anchoring job, and half a million was for her
- 9:36Speaker 1: interview specials, which was really more so than that job
- 9:40Speaker 1: at ABC World News Tonight. It was her interview specials
- 9:45Speaker 1: that became her hallmark. Right. But you know what, just
- 9:50Speaker 1: like Harry Reasoner didn't accept her, viewers didn't either, and
- 9:52Speaker 1: journalists called her a flop. And she even says that,
- 9:55Speaker 1: you know, she was so hurt, and she actually asked
- 9:59Speaker 1: the journalist who write the story, you know you called
- 10:00Speaker 1: me a flop? What why why did you do that?
- 10:02Speaker 1: And he said, well, you are and within two years
- 10:06Speaker 1: of becoming the co anchor with Harry Reasoner, she was
- 10:08Speaker 1: reassigned to do specials and Reasoner was actually let out
- 10:12Speaker 1: of his contract to go to another network. And Barbara said,
- 10:14Speaker 1: you know, they could have kept him, but they bet
- 10:16Speaker 1: on me. And she said it was during this time
- 10:18Speaker 1: that she worked the hardest and did probably the best
- 10:21Speaker 1: interviews of her life, which included people like Fidel Castro
- 10:25Speaker 1: in the very famous joint interview with Manacum Bagan and
- 10:28Speaker 1: and Arsadat. And quickly going back to that short stint
- 10:32Speaker 1: that she had at ABC World News tonight, when I
- 10:34Speaker 1: was reading about her struggle managing all of the criticism,
- 10:40Speaker 1: it gave me a little bit of perspective for if
- 10:43Speaker 1: I have a bad day, if someone sends us Carolina
- 10:47Speaker 1: maybe not so nice email, I need to remember Barbara
- 10:51Speaker 1: Walters and all of the flak that she was getting
- 10:54Speaker 1: at the time. For instance, Larry Flint offered her a
- 10:57Speaker 1: million dollars to pose for Hustler whatever. But then in
- 11:02Speaker 1: nineteen seventies six Time magazine called her the quote unquote
- 11:05Speaker 1: most appalling argument for feminism. Uh, there was Guilder Radner's
- 11:10Speaker 1: famous Saturday Night Live impression of her baba wah wah,
- 11:14Speaker 1: which she was. She knew that it was a joke,
- 11:18Speaker 1: but it was also offensive because everyone was making fun
- 11:21Speaker 1: of how she spoke, right. She really did not like it.
- 11:24Speaker 1: And she even said in that video that she caught
- 11:26Speaker 1: her daughter watching the Impression on TV and said, what
- 11:30Speaker 1: are you doing? Why are you watching that stuff? And
- 11:32Speaker 1: her ten year old turns around and says, home, mom,
- 11:34Speaker 1: have a sense of humor. And she said, Okay, I
- 11:36Speaker 1: get it. But even then it was still so hard
- 11:38Speaker 1: to accept, right. And and even later on Barbara Walters
- 11:42Speaker 1: ended up meeting Gilda Radner and she was very friendly
- 11:45Speaker 1: and all of that, but can you imagine being a
- 11:48Speaker 1: national punch line when at the same time you're at
- 11:52Speaker 1: the top of your game? Right? Well, what she said
- 11:56Speaker 1: saved her during that really dark time was letters from
- 11:59Speaker 1: women that came pouring in, things like if you can
- 12:03Speaker 1: do it, we can do it. Hang in there, We're
- 12:05Speaker 1: having the same problems. And she said, I really realized
- 12:08Speaker 1: that women from all walks of life understood what I
- 12:11Speaker 1: was going through and they were with me. Yeah. And
- 12:14Speaker 1: so even though today when we think about Barbara Walters
- 12:18Speaker 1: and we think about the view and it isn't exactly
- 12:22Speaker 1: hard hitting news. It might not have the brainiest reputation,
- 12:27Speaker 1: but looking at this snapshot of her early career, and
- 12:31Speaker 1: not even that early. She was forty five years old
- 12:33Speaker 1: when she got that job at ABC World News Tonight, Um,
- 12:36Speaker 1: it still speaks so much to the ambition and tenacity
- 12:39Speaker 1: that she had, and when she was struggling with these
- 12:42Speaker 1: these networks, she said that a lot of times she
- 12:45Speaker 1: wasn't one to elbow her way into a vice president's
- 12:49Speaker 1: office and demand things. She said that I just wanted
- 12:53Speaker 1: to do the work. And that was the way that
- 12:55Speaker 1: she snagged all of those interviews, those famous interviews like
- 12:58Speaker 1: the ones that you mentioned, and also the that she
- 13:00Speaker 1: interviewed in Richard Nixon and has interviewed every single sitting
- 13:04Speaker 1: president since then. She had that famous interview with Monica Lewinsky,
- 13:10Speaker 1: which is still the most watched interview in television history.
- 13:14Speaker 1: And it's incredible to think that she was still able
- 13:17Speaker 1: to do all this stuff, still able to keep all
- 13:19Speaker 1: this momentum, even when you know, major media outlets are
- 13:23Speaker 1: basically telling her to go home already. Yeah, well, so
- 13:35Speaker 1: what sparked this drive? I mean, obviously she has incredible drive,
- 13:38Speaker 1: and like you said, this tenacity to keep pressing on
- 13:41Speaker 1: in the face of oh everyone, And she credits not
- 13:45Speaker 1: necessarily her parents supporting her, but her parents not directly
- 13:49Speaker 1: supporting her. She said, you know, I didn't have parents
- 13:52Speaker 1: who said you can do everything you want. What I
- 13:55Speaker 1: did have was a father who was in show business
- 13:57Speaker 1: and my fear that it could all be gone tomorrow.
- 13:59Speaker 1: And then I had to work. If the job was grubby.
- 14:02Speaker 1: I could not say I'm going to leave it and
- 14:03Speaker 1: get married because I wasn't very good at that and
- 14:06Speaker 1: I didn't want to have that as my safety net.
- 14:08Speaker 1: I had to work. And Barbara Walters was married three times,
- 14:12Speaker 1: four times if you count the second time she remarried
- 14:16Speaker 1: her third husband and carry the one. But um, you know,
- 14:20Speaker 1: as far as like that tenacity and that that not
- 14:23Speaker 1: giving up and having to work being a woman in
- 14:26Speaker 1: that era who is like, no, I'm gonna work, Screw you,
- 14:28Speaker 1: I'm not going to fall back on marriage. I mean,
- 14:30Speaker 1: it's interesting in the perspective of is she a feminist?
- 14:33Speaker 1: What did she do for the women's movement? Because she
- 14:36Speaker 1: did want to help other women, and she did want
- 14:39Speaker 1: to put a focus in the news on the women's movement,
- 14:42Speaker 1: but there was a bit of a pushback she had
- 14:45Speaker 1: sent when she worked very early in her career at NBC.
- 14:47Speaker 1: She had sent a memo to the NBC president asking
- 14:50Speaker 1: shouldn't we do something on this whole this whole little
- 14:53Speaker 1: trend going on right now, the women's movement, and his
- 14:55Speaker 1: response scrawled on the top of the memo, was not
- 14:58Speaker 1: enough in tryst. And nevertheless, so she you know, she
- 15:04Speaker 1: still made such a big impact. There was a blog
- 15:06Speaker 1: post over at A A r P by Laurie Lynch
- 15:09Speaker 1: and she said it was her ceiling shattering move to
- 15:13Speaker 1: ABC in nineteen seventies six to co host and nightly
- 15:16Speaker 1: news that really made young women sit up and take notice.
- 15:19Speaker 1: Those of us aspiring to big careers in journalism were
- 15:22Speaker 1: being told by mentors and mothers that we two could
- 15:25Speaker 1: be another Barbara Walters. And I mean, from that perspective,
- 15:30Speaker 1: that's pretty incredible. I think probably for you and I.
- 15:33Speaker 1: We both went to journalism school, and I don't think
- 15:37Speaker 1: that Barbara Walters was ever mentioned really in any of
- 15:41Speaker 1: the classes we took, because by that time, you know,
- 15:44Speaker 1: maybe we just sort of take her for granted, as
- 15:46Speaker 1: you know, popping up on and having the view. I
- 15:49Speaker 1: mean she start I didn't realize this, but she launched
- 15:52Speaker 1: her famous ten Most Fascinating People special in n and
- 15:57Speaker 1: the view launched when she was V and D. Yeah,
- 16:02Speaker 1: I just like that kind of blew my mind because
- 16:04Speaker 1: I guess I just think of the view as having
- 16:06Speaker 1: started when I was much older. Apparently not. But I mean,
- 16:10Speaker 1: as far as you know, the women's movement, she might
- 16:13Speaker 1: not have directly associated with it or with feminism, but
- 16:18Speaker 1: she certainly didn't turn her back on it, which you know,
- 16:20Speaker 1: is what Patricia Bradley said in her book Mass Media
- 16:24Speaker 1: and the Shaping of American Feminism, where she actually talked
- 16:27Speaker 1: to a lot of other female journalists from this era
- 16:29Speaker 1: who said, you know, I remember Barbara being like so
- 16:31Speaker 1: friendly and always offering a hand and wanting to help,
- 16:34Speaker 1: which is something that Barbara herself confirmed in that maker's video.
- 16:38Speaker 1: You know, she said, I tried to be very supportive
- 16:40Speaker 1: of women because I know what I went through and
- 16:43Speaker 1: women do need that help. And it is still a
- 16:45Speaker 1: little difficult for men to understand it. The fact that
- 16:49Speaker 1: we still have the same poll between the career and
- 16:52Speaker 1: the child and the marriage. Yes, she said, men do
- 16:55Speaker 1: to a degree, but not the same way that women do. Yeah.
- 16:59Speaker 1: And in two thousand twelve, she definitely raised some hackles
- 17:03Speaker 1: among feminists and just viewers in general who were kind
- 17:07Speaker 1: of confused when she, on the View publicly sided with
- 17:12Speaker 1: conservative Rick Santorum's comment that quote unquote, radical feminism was
- 17:17Speaker 1: ruining the traditional family. And let's not even waste the
- 17:21Speaker 1: time like diving into that assertion. Um. But on the view,
- 17:27Speaker 1: she I mean, she really made people a bit angry
- 17:31Speaker 1: because she said, quote, there was a time when feminists
- 17:33Speaker 1: made the woman who stayed home and had children feel inferior.
- 17:36Speaker 1: I think we are finally changing so that we realized
- 17:40Speaker 1: younger ones you can make a choice. So I don't
- 17:42Speaker 1: think that what he said is so terribly off the point.
- 17:46Speaker 1: And that's a strong move to say, hey, you know
- 17:49Speaker 1: what I'm gonna I'm gonna side with you, Rick santorm
- 17:52Speaker 1: especially if you might be more associated with slightly more
- 17:57Speaker 1: liberal politics. But that really isn't different from what she
- 18:03Speaker 1: was saying during the height of second wave feminism. Um.
- 18:06Speaker 1: For instance, in there's a nineteen four book, I Found
- 18:10Speaker 1: the New Feminist Movement, and she was quoted as saying
- 18:13Speaker 1: that second wave feminist quote have given women who want
- 18:16Speaker 1: to stay home a national inferiority complex, And thinking about that,
- 18:21Speaker 1: I understand what she's saying in terms of it shouldn't
- 18:24Speaker 1: be demonizing women who want to stay home. It should
- 18:27Speaker 1: be more about the choice. Perhaps in two thousand twelve
- 18:30Speaker 1: of the way that she said it and the person
- 18:32Speaker 1: that she was supporting as she was saying that was
- 18:36Speaker 1: really more of the problem for people, right. But I mean,
- 18:41Speaker 1: I think it's interesting and I think it's I don't know,
- 18:44Speaker 1: just coming that statement coming from a woman who obviously
- 18:48Speaker 1: did make the choice and felt like she had to
- 18:50Speaker 1: make the choice, Like she said, I had to work.
- 18:53Speaker 1: I didn't want to fall back on marriage or any
- 18:55Speaker 1: kind of safety net, you know, because her father had
- 18:57Speaker 1: been in show business, he was a nightclub owner. It
- 18:59Speaker 1: all it be gone in a second, and she knew that,
- 19:01Speaker 1: and so she wanted to keep working, you know, keep
- 19:04Speaker 1: being as successful as possible, make her contribution. And so
- 19:08Speaker 1: the fact that she's the one coming forward and saying,
- 19:10Speaker 1: you feminists are giving women who want to stay at
- 19:13Speaker 1: home and raise babies and inferiority complex, I mean, I
- 19:15Speaker 1: think that gives it maybe some extra weight. Yeah, And
- 19:18Speaker 1: I wonder if that speaks to pressure that she had
- 19:22Speaker 1: felt it points during her career that maybe she should
- 19:24Speaker 1: stay home with her adoptive daughter at least stepped back
- 19:27Speaker 1: a little bit. How um, you could keep Barbara walters
- 19:31Speaker 1: intense schedule and also, uh, you know, be a full
- 19:35Speaker 1: time mom, but that just seems pretty impossible. Um. But
- 19:39Speaker 1: you know, Barbara certainly has not been without her controversy.
- 19:45Speaker 1: Once she announced her retirement in May, everybody came out with,
- 19:52Speaker 1: you know, a blog post or an article or something
- 19:55Speaker 1: on Barbara saying good riddance or oh Barbara well ms
- 20:00Speaker 1: and Alex s Perrine, for instance, over at Salon was
- 20:03Speaker 1: one of the people who said good riddance because he
- 20:06Speaker 1: said she's fine for infotainment, but she has no journalistic
- 20:10Speaker 1: scruples whatsoever because of her very close he thinks, two
- 20:15Speaker 1: close relationships over the years with sources, some of whom
- 20:19Speaker 1: were just a tad corrupt, such as most recently Syrian
- 20:23Speaker 1: President Bashar al Assa, who um she had on I
- 20:28Speaker 1: had I can't remember if it was on twenty, but
- 20:30Speaker 1: she had one of the first interviews with him, and
- 20:33Speaker 1: Marene was talking about how well, of course you got
- 20:36Speaker 1: the interview because she's actually good friends with him and
- 20:38Speaker 1: his wife, and and talking about other um usually actually
- 20:42Speaker 1: men for the most part, that she had been friends
- 20:44Speaker 1: with but also would interview or use as as sources. Yeah,
- 20:50Speaker 1: and one thing I read was talking about how maybe
- 20:53Speaker 1: that that comfort with extremely famous or infamous people, that
- 20:58Speaker 1: that ease of interviewing all sorts of people from all
- 21:01Speaker 1: different walks of life comes from her upbringing because her
- 21:04Speaker 1: father was in show business, and because she had been
- 21:07Speaker 1: in some form of journalism for so long. And Yeah,
- 21:09Speaker 1: she has walked that infotainment tightrope for decades. You know,
- 21:13Speaker 1: she's able to jump between interviews with heads of state
- 21:16Speaker 1: and celebrities like the you know, the Kardashians, or that
- 21:19Speaker 1: infamous Ricky Martin interview where she was basically like demanding
- 21:23Speaker 1: that he come out of the closet on her show
- 21:25Speaker 1: and he's like, look, I don't want to talk about it.
- 21:27Speaker 1: I mean, she was pretty vilified for for that at
- 21:31Speaker 1: the time. Yeah, And also on Salon she just kind
- 21:35Speaker 1: of on the flip side of the controversy. TV critic
- 21:39Speaker 1: Mary Elizabeth Williams said, you know what I am all
- 21:42Speaker 1: about some Barbara Walters. She says that, yeah, Okay, she's
- 21:46Speaker 1: got the soft focus, she's got the entottainment spin and
- 21:48Speaker 1: all of that quote, but what she leaves behind is
- 21:51Speaker 1: a ferociously powerful, maddening, lee unduplicated example. She's a woman
- 21:56Speaker 1: who out earned many of her male counterparts and has
- 21:59Speaker 1: been ashamed and unapologetic about her aspirations. Yeah and uh
- 22:05Speaker 1: over at the Cut from New York Magazine, they wrote
- 22:08Speaker 1: that Barbara has served as a bridge between an era
- 22:10Speaker 1: when the news was defined by a small, homogeneous group
- 22:13Speaker 1: of experts to a time when discussion and conversation rain.
- 22:17Speaker 1: And I think her career has totally mirrored that trajectory
- 22:20Speaker 1: as far as like starting out wanting to be in
- 22:23Speaker 1: hard news talking to heads of state, whereas now she's
- 22:26Speaker 1: hosting a talk show basically right. And that's not to
- 22:30Speaker 1: say that the View never touches on political stories, harder news,
- 22:36Speaker 1: bigger societal issues. Um, but you know it's still it's
- 22:42Speaker 1: definitely it's not c SPAN. Yeah sure, I mean yeah,
- 22:45Speaker 1: I mean she's not just sitting there talking like Brian
- 22:49Speaker 1: Williams delivering the news at night. You know, it's it's
- 22:51Speaker 1: four four or five or however many people are on
- 22:53Speaker 1: the View sitting around on a couch talking versus the
- 22:57Speaker 1: more serious like Walter Cronkite. Who do you think will
- 23:00Speaker 1: replace her? Anybody? Do you think they'll do? You think
- 23:04Speaker 1: they'll pull in a replacement. Who's somebody with some gravitas?
- 23:07Speaker 1: Martha Stewart. She's looking for a new gig right All
- 23:10Speaker 1: she's doing is dating on match dot com right now.
- 23:13Speaker 1: And yeah, I'm getting into trouble for selling her spatchel
- 23:16Speaker 1: as at different stories Martha, No spatialists now. Maybe, um,
- 23:22Speaker 1: let's make our prediction. The person who will take over
- 23:26Speaker 1: for Barbara Walters in two thousand fourteen won't be Katie
- 23:30Speaker 1: Currect because after she got the shaft, she she has
- 23:34Speaker 1: her own talk show now and it's successful. And I
- 23:36Speaker 1: don't think that it would be Diane Sawyer maybe and Curry.
- 23:40Speaker 1: I don't think it would be and Curry. I don't
- 23:43Speaker 1: think it would be and Curry. But you know what
- 23:44Speaker 1: if it were and Curry, I might watch the view
- 23:48Speaker 1: because of her unceremonious exit from the Today Show. Uh So.
- 23:53Speaker 1: But just to sign off, though, should we toss out
- 23:55Speaker 1: some final accolades that Barbara Walters has received over the years.
- 24:00Speaker 1: Listen to this nominated for seven Daytime Emmy Awards, she's
- 24:05Speaker 1: won four times, nominated for twenty News and Documentary Emmy
- 24:08Speaker 1: Awards and won eight times, and then nominated for twelve
- 24:12Speaker 1: Prime Time Emmy's and one one time. So let me
- 24:16Speaker 1: look at this maths on everything thirteen Emmy's not bad,
- 24:20Speaker 1: not bad, not bad, Babs. I wonder if she has
- 24:23Speaker 1: a cabinet, an Emmy cabinet, or maybe she just sprinkles
- 24:27Speaker 1: them around. You know, she puts one in each of
- 24:30Speaker 1: her thirteen bathrooms in her home. Yeah, one in each shower. Yes,
- 24:35Speaker 1: So that's it, Barbara Walters. Hats off for you too,
- 24:40Speaker 1: um really never giving up and also still though I
- 24:44Speaker 1: want to say that lover her hater. What a great example, though,
- 24:49Speaker 1: of a woman who is well beyond retirement age, who
- 24:54Speaker 1: never stopped working now and and I do like what
- 24:58Speaker 1: she said when she retired. You know, I just I
- 24:59Speaker 1: just want to it on a hill and watch everything happen,
- 25:02Speaker 1: you know, just watch it go by. I mean, after
- 25:05Speaker 1: after being on television for over fifty years, I think
- 25:09Speaker 1: she deserves a vacation. Yeah, you wonder if her attitude
- 25:12Speaker 1: is still the same today as it was then. As
- 25:14Speaker 1: far as I have to work because obviously, I mean,
- 25:17Speaker 1: she's been pretty consistently successful for decades now, like I
- 25:21Speaker 1: think she's set. Yeah, I mean, Barbara Walters is as
- 25:23Speaker 1: much of a celebrity and an a lister as most
- 25:29Speaker 1: of the people that she talks to at this point.
- 25:32Speaker 1: So let's hear from folks, Barbara Walters, what do you
- 25:36Speaker 1: think any predictions for who will take over at the View?
- 25:40Speaker 1: I know it's kind of a silly question, but it's
- 25:42Speaker 1: a fun one. So right to us mom Stuff at
- 25:45Speaker 1: Discovery dot com, or you can tweet us set mom
- 25:48Speaker 1: Stuff podcasts, or send us a little message on Facebook
- 25:53Speaker 1: and like us while you're at it. And we are
- 25:56Speaker 1: going to read a couple of letters that we have
- 25:59Speaker 1: from past episode. But before we do, let's take a
- 26:01Speaker 1: quick break and then we'll get right back. And now
- 26:08Speaker 1: that to our letters, and we've got a couple here
- 26:11Speaker 1: about our episode on Glass of Stereotypes, which we got
- 26:14Speaker 1: a ton of letters from. And this one to kick
- 26:19Speaker 1: off from Carmen is a little bit sad. Her subject
- 26:22Speaker 1: line is how I learned glasses are bad? She says,
- 26:25Speaker 1: when I was in elementary school, I wore glasses because
- 26:28Speaker 1: I was scared of putting things in my eyes. But
- 26:30Speaker 1: in the sixth grade, I was at school one day
- 26:32Speaker 1: and two girls on the other side of the classroom
- 26:34Speaker 1: we're talking about me. One of them said, that's Carmen
- 26:37Speaker 1: over there, the ugly one with the glasses. I found
- 26:40Speaker 1: out about this conversation because the girl who said that
- 26:43Speaker 1: was one of my closest friends, and she simply told
- 26:46Speaker 1: me what she had said, as if she saw no
- 26:48Speaker 1: problem with calling me ugly. I told my mom I
- 26:50Speaker 1: wanted context as soon as I got home that day.
- 26:53Speaker 1: At the end of that school year, at my middle school,
- 26:55Speaker 1: boyfriend saw my yearbook picture, which had been taken before
- 26:58Speaker 1: I got context, and he immediately told me, I like
- 27:01Speaker 1: you better with contacts. Middle school's worse. I'm probably old
- 27:06Speaker 1: enough now that no one would ever call me ugly
- 27:08Speaker 1: to my face, but I still hate the idea of
- 27:10Speaker 1: wearing glasses. I'll soon be leaving to work in a
- 27:13Speaker 1: developing country for two years, and did not want to
- 27:15Speaker 1: deal with the hassle bringing eight parents of daily contacts
- 27:18Speaker 1: with me, or being in a situation where I'm spending
- 27:20Speaker 1: a night in a village without a sink for me
- 27:21Speaker 1: to change my contacts. So in two days, I'll beating
- 27:24Speaker 1: lay six surgery after four years of wearing glasses and
- 27:27Speaker 1: eleven years were in contacts. It's possible that I would
- 27:30Speaker 1: have gotten the surgery anyway, because both glasses and contacts
- 27:33Speaker 1: can be incredibly inconvenient times. But certainly the negative stereotypes
- 27:37Speaker 1: contributed a great deal to my enthusiasm for having lasers
- 27:41Speaker 1: shot into my eyes and the name of eliminating my
- 27:43Speaker 1: need for corrective lenses. Yeah. I have friends have done
- 27:47Speaker 1: life second, they love it. I'm I'm too scared. I'm
- 27:51Speaker 1: too scared period. Okay, Well, I have a letter here
- 27:54Speaker 1: from Chelsea. She says, I've been wearing glasses for twenty
- 27:57Speaker 1: one years since I was six, and you. I wear
- 28:00Speaker 1: my contact of the time. I have exceptionally awful vision,
- 28:04Speaker 1: and I've been legally blind since an early age. I
- 28:07Speaker 1: definitely played into the stereotype of the dorky girl in school,
- 28:10Speaker 1: which was reflected in my lack of a dating life
- 28:12Speaker 1: until college. So I was not surprised to hear your
- 28:15Speaker 1: findings in the podcast. I was surprised, however, that nothing
- 28:18Speaker 1: was mentioned about being genetically inferior. I always assumed that
- 28:22Speaker 1: people with glasses were subconsciously found less attractive because of
- 28:25Speaker 1: some primeval knowledge that poor eyesight equates death. I always
- 28:29Speaker 1: assumed I would have died early on if I was
- 28:31Speaker 1: born before eyeglasses were invented, Much like with my lack
- 28:36Speaker 1: of child bearing hips and bountiful breasts. I would also
- 28:38Speaker 1: assume that people would not want to breed with someone
- 28:40Speaker 1: who is likely to pass on their poor eyesight to
- 28:43Speaker 1: their offspring. Did you find anything relating to that in
- 28:46Speaker 1: your research? We did not uncover anything like that, But
- 28:52Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, I on a slightly related note
- 28:58Speaker 1: that doesn't answer your question at all. So I recently
- 29:01Speaker 1: found this book, uh, that was a compilation of my
- 29:05Speaker 1: great great great great great great uncle's letters to his family,
- 29:09Speaker 1: because he went went to Dartmouth, went to law school,
- 29:12Speaker 1: and ended up dying in the Civil War. Like at
- 29:13Speaker 1: the very end in anyway, his beloved sister compiled all
- 29:16Speaker 1: his letters, and in so many of his letters when
- 29:17Speaker 1: he's off at college, he's writing home and he's like
- 29:20Speaker 1: mother and father. I can barely see as I write
- 29:22Speaker 1: you this letter, my eyes. And he's always concerned about
- 29:25Speaker 1: his eyes. And he's always looking forward to Christmas break
- 29:28Speaker 1: and summer breaks off, so that he can rest his
- 29:30Speaker 1: eyes because he's like, I'm afraid I will need glasses
- 29:33Speaker 1: oh mine. And he was also very skinny, so that
- 29:38Speaker 1: means nothing. But it's very interesting to read a firsthand
- 29:42Speaker 1: account of someone in the eighteen when was that college.
- 29:46Speaker 1: I don't know for him, but who was scared of
- 29:49Speaker 1: getting glasses? And if only if only Warby Parker existed
- 29:53Speaker 1: back then, he'd be the most stylish chap at dot
- 29:56Speaker 1: I mean he had to killer mustache. There you go, Wow,
- 29:59Speaker 1: he's he had everything he needed just right there. He
- 30:03Speaker 1: just needed some some thick frames. Well. Thanks to everyone
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