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- Sue: Yeah. For me, one of the easiest ways to keep the bubble of spiritual positivity enabled in my life is laughter. The ability to accept myself for what I am when I do stupid things during a mundane task, like one morning I put the coffee beans where the water reservoir is. I had to laugh. There's no point getting angry, and not berating myself or getting down on myself for something so stupid. And when I think back to the early days of me being a widow, I always made certain that I was listening to or watching comedies or even things that are maybe not intended to be comedies, but do end up being funny. And you know, when you have genuine laughter, your whole body experiences it, and I'm sure there's some physiological explanation about all the good things 'cause you know, isn't there an adage that states laughter is the best medicine? I do believe that. And of course, with the haters in my life, that's the one thing they hate most. Someone experiencing happiness and joy when they express it with their laughter. 'Cause they figure that since they are prosperity gospelers, as I like to call them, they think that being miserable makes them more profitable. They're all about looking at Matloth's hierarchy of needs and projecting casting spells towards a general group of people whom they have judged to be lacking and to accentuate the lack with more misery by depriving those souls of experiencing laughter or humor. I've also been a person my entire life where when I encounter somebody I try to express something that makes them giggle a bit, or at least elicit a smile. Because that energy gets reflected back and it all makes our days a little better. That's been my experience. And the way the haters slash prosperity gospelers work Is that they can only feel happiness and joy when those that they're projecting negative energy towards feel horrible about themselves. After when somebody else starts laughing, you kinda join in. I don't know if it's the same response as yawning, but as a solo inhabitant of my home, besides my dog, I'm quite comfortable laughing out loud. Doesn't make me a great joke teller. ⁓ you'll have to ask my friends. I don't have ⁓ The ability to figure that one out as to whether I'm genuinely funny. What I know is based on what I feel, and that said, is Yeah, I'm in a happy, joyful place. Confirmation with that hawk, Cole. I think everybody should experience the joy of laughter, including the haters. After all, we're all passing through phases in our lives. Haters aren't always haters. And you may know some people personally that you consider to be a hater that one time early in their life, may have just been a nice jovial chap. But what I notice about experiencing laughter on my own is like expressing gratitude. It helps rid you and your spirit of all the anxiety that you're feeling. I don't make a concerted effort to watch or listen to comedies all the time, nor do I plan my laughing. The spontaneity is what sends it into the universe with the beautiful energy 'cause that's the other thing. You know, you laugh. And you're sending your energy out into the universe. Those small syllables, ha ha ha ha, are words, aren't they? And they're attached to your emotion. So you're sending out love with your laughter. Such a simple thing to do. And because it's spontaneous and genuine, it's gonna help everybody. Confirmation with my watch. And it's not that you're intending to send it out in the universe. It's a consequence of who we are as souls. We're in the universe. We are the universe. Sending out your good vibe with a Chuckle or a giggle, making it better for all of us in some subtle way. And knowing that it is a fortification of my positivity. It's bonus. Creating Dharma. It's not merit making, thankfully. It is genuine dharma. And boy do the haters hate that. You know, the haters believe that laughter is very powerful energy. So if they can prevent those that they are targeting to feel miserable and without laughter, that's a success for them they feel. That's why I advocate laughter. Nor do I make a point when I'm feeling down to inject myself with things that are meant to make me laugh. I process those emotions in their original form, and then that generally ends up with me laughing, usually at myself, for recognizing that I allowed myself to wallow in something that was an illusion, that it was contrary to my normal state of being, which was joyful and happy. The prosperity gospelers, the haters, are all about making every opportunity for their targeted souls to not enjoy life, to feel that they have no business laughing because their life is in such a horrible state. What are you laughing at? Right? Confirmation with my watch. When you look back on your life and at all those people that might have s asked the same question of you, how do you view them? Do you see them for what they were at that moment? Because people change. All you need to do is look at somebody with a diabolic possession amongst them and an entity and you can see change. And like loving yourself and forgiving yourself, the ability to make yourself laugh, whether it be because of your own actions, thoughts, that's self-preservation. That's building up your positivity for spiritual protection. Anyone that tells you that that's nonsense, it's not seeing the truth. And then that goes back to the larger question of when people are telling you that there's nothing to laugh at, that's another clue that those people shouldn't be in your life. Or at least for you to take the opportunity to step back, maybe not see them as frequently. Because after all, when somebody is asking you what are you laughing at? Or what do you think is so funny? Well that's hate, isn't it? That's an intentional negative projection made to humiliate you, to make you feel less than because you are, to their eyes, being judged for acting inappropriately. No one gets to do that to you. You shouldn't even judge yourself, let alone let loved ones or friends think that they have the right to do that. I'd probably recommend a laugh in their face. Genuine, of course, recognizing that you control you. You have all the power to love yourself, to forgive yourself, trust yourself, have faith in yourself. All of that is yours. Letting others take that away from you because they feel that they have the right to judge you and feel as though they are above you. No way. But it can be difficult sometimes to get ourselves to that place because The person that is approaching you with an attempt to humiliate you may be somebody that you thought held your best interests. No, that's the more apparent reality is that they clearly are only concerned about their interests. Laugh it off. Because when you do that with genuine laughter and recognizing the situation for the truth that it is, you're creating dharma. You're sending out all of that good happy vibe out into the universe just by sending the hater packing, putting them in their Place, perhaps? I mean the universe is a huge place that is forever expanding, so there's probably plenty of room for them to coexist at a greater distance from you. It's not what the haters want to do. The haters want to take it to the point where they physically destroy you. And that's not about being paranoid or suspicious or wary. It's simply the understanding that the balance on life sometimes people feel that they have to go externally to balance their lives instead of going within. Haters attack me as if I'm not balanced, and they're only finding out now that they're wrong about that, that none of their routine spell work won't work. They didn't know that of course at the onset. And I think a greater part of it is understanding that when you take the time to laugh, you're rebalancing yourself. That's not what the haters want at all. They want a perpetual, chaotic, unsettled energy, 'cause that makes it easier for them to project on you without detection. But when you laugh You are actually taking note of yourself, seeing yourself as the outside world sees you, and recognizing that ⁓ no, everything's cool. I'm calm and peaceful, enjoying a very humorous day. I don't need anybody else to do that, nor am I reliant on having somebody around me giggle with. To be sure, having a social laugh is a lot of fun, but laughing is a part of who I am regardless of whether I'm solo or in a group. When I became aware that the haters were targeting me, It was because they saw me as a widow, alone, recently destitute. They figured it would be an easy task to get me to a place where I would eliminate myself. And when I didn't do that, they started projecting these false energies of feeling like I was being eviscerated. ⁓ yes. And having a heart problem, figuring that I could induce a situation in myself. But you see now, none of that works. It had never has. So when you're feeling off You don't know how to get yourself out other than diving into something that gives you passion and joy, well, put something on that lightens your mood with a giggle. It works. I can speak from experience. And not only that, does it help to make you better, you're benefiting the universe, the greater good. That kind of dharma is important for all of us because it also reflects back on you. So when you laugh to feel better, you actually feel better. And if anyone ever tells you They're laughing at you, they're not with you. Well flip that script then. Don't laugh at them like they did to you. Find something within yourself that gives you a little giggle. When you do that, you're creating Dharma. The haters just don't want people to stay balanced because they can't do the energy grift. They may all have had very difficult lives prior to becoming prosperity gospels. That may have led them into that. And in my case, the particular group that's doing it, was hoping that they would get themselves inducted to a high honor in their secret friendship group. Like a rite of passage. Getting someone to eliminate themselves would gain them entry into the elite club that they're seeking. Well that's not gonna happen. The ringleader of the group engaged their colleagues without giving them all the facts, and they probably paid them to entice them to do this spell work as a group. None of that's worked. Well, it hasn't worked against me. It's going back to them. Confirmation with the bird. Going back in the form of humiliation, it's going back in the form of financial insolvency. Because they were betting. They were betting money that they didn't have. They were betting that they would win this bet and get inducted into this secret society at a high level, thinking they'd have more than enough money to pay everybody off after the fact. So they've done nothing but bring heartache, humiliation, financial insolvency into their own lives by projecting that outward to begin with. And of course that makes them angrier. 'Cause the other aspect is, when they're watching me, they can see that I'm not laughing at them. I'm not adding fuel to their fire. But I am deflating their very existence by not giving them the energies that they so easily would steal previously. What I do wish is for everyone to enjoy their lives with as much happiness Coping with being a widow peace, serenity, and lots of laughs. So if you've had a giggle while listening to this, I'm grateful. I'm grateful you got my message. Send it on back. Send it on out into the universe. You're gonna make somebody's day a lot happier. And you didn't have to do anything but just have a little laugh. Thanks for your giggles. I appreciate you.