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The World_s Greatest Mom · THINK BEFORE YOU SLEEP

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  Speaker 1: I'm Laura. If I had to pick a yes or
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  Speaker 1: no for whether or not I'm a hoarder, I would
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  Speaker 1: say no.
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  Speaker 2: I'm John. I'm Laura's boyfriend.
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  Speaker 1: I would be more than happy to give him the queen,
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  Speaker 1: the perfect life he wants, but he doesn't compromise. I
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  Speaker 1: feel like he doesn't love me and wants to control me.
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  Speaker 3: Five plates here and only three of us usually eat here.
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  Speaker 4: You're missing my point.
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  Speaker 2: You're missing my point. Do you even remember what I said? Yes,
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  Speaker 2: and I know that a.
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  Speaker 3: Lot of it is bulls * * t. It could
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  Speaker 3: be anybody.
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  Speaker 1: But nobody, not one person who bitches and complains about
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  Speaker 1: the kitchen.
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  Speaker 3: Being a mess cleans it ever.
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  Speaker 2: Insist on yelling louder than the other person and that
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  Speaker 2: makes you right. And guess what?
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  Speaker 4: It doesn't. This episode of Hoarders is a great example
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  Speaker 4: of of why you do not listen to what people say,
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  Speaker 4: but instead you watch what they do. Actions speak far
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  Speaker 4: louder than words. That being said, there are certain actions
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  Speaker 4: you should look for, and then there are certain actions
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  Speaker 4: that people do externally that reveal who they are on
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  Speaker 4: the inside. One of the major things to look for
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  Speaker 4: is how clean a person is and how well they
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  Speaker 4: maintain their personal items. People who are not willing to
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  Speaker 4: maintain their stuff are telling you that they aren't willing
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  Speaker 4: to maintain themselves. So for example, if you date a
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  Speaker 4: girl who treats her car like crap, then she is
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  Speaker 4: telling you how poorly she's going to treat you as
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  Speaker 4: soon as she gets comfortable. In the case of our
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  Speaker 4: hoarder Laura, she is tapping into something even greater when
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  Speaker 4: she says things like this.
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  Speaker 3: I'm tired of getting rid of stuff that means something
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  Speaker 3: to me just because I live in his house.
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  Speaker 5: I'm so done.
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  Speaker 4: What is she saying here? She is saying that the
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  Speaker 4: junk is more important than the guy who she lives
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  Speaker 4: with for free. Junk is more important than the father
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  Speaker 4: of her daughter. Junk is more important than her children.
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  Speaker 4: This may sound terrible, but yes, quite a number of
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  Speaker 4: people value their crap more than they do their own family.
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  Speaker 4: Yet they wonder why all of their relationships are terrible.
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  Speaker 4: What this also says, and this is the case with
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  Speaker 4: all hoarders, is that Laura doesn't have a sense of
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  Speaker 4: what's valuable and what's not. The fact is that the
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  Speaker 4: more stuff you buy, the less valuable your other stuff becomes.
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  Speaker 4: If she can't prioritize what's important with physical objects, then
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  Speaker 4: she won't be able to do it with anything else.
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  Speaker 4: None of this stuff is valuable. She is literally collecting junk.
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  Speaker 3: I'm Angelina, and Laura is my mom. In the house,
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  Speaker 3: there's Tupperware, there's paperwork, there's clothes. It's like a giant mess.
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  Speaker 4: I'm Jessie, and I'm Laura's stepdaughter.
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  Speaker 2: Like there's clothes everywhere. The dining room, clothes, the kitchen,
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  Speaker 2: even more clothes.
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  Speaker 4: And you can barely walk through the hallway because there's
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  Speaker 4: so much random stuff. This is why cleaning is one
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  Speaker 4: of the first recommended steps to self-recovery. It teaches you
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  Speaker 4: complex lessons by doing something simple. When you clean, you
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  Speaker 4: learn self-maintenance and how to prioritize items that are important.
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  Speaker 4: That is absolutely key if you want to be happy.
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  Speaker 4: A few high-value items are worth way more than a
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  Speaker 4: bunch of low-value junk. However, Laura doesn't want to deal
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  Speaker 4: with any of that, but she still wants to look
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  Speaker 4: like a good person. So the way she solves that
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  Speaker 4: problem is to take the focus off of herself by
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  Speaker 4: convincing outsiders that she isn't the evil one. Her boyfriend is.
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  Speaker 1: I kind of covered the living room to keep people out.
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  Speaker 3: Drunk people?
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  Speaker 2: Keeping them out.
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  Speaker 1: John, whoever was.
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  Speaker 3: Here to drink with him. and then I put this
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  Speaker 3: here because I got tired of people going through.
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  Speaker 1: The stuff that's in there.
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  Speaker 3: So I just put stuff in front of it because
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  Speaker 3: then they can't.
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  Speaker 4: Get to it.
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  Speaker 1: And so who are you concerned is going through your stuff?
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  Speaker 3: John's daughter goes through Angelina's stuff, and he goes through mine.
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  Speaker 3: The steak was here when I got up in the morning,
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  Speaker 3: and the sink is full again. I just think any
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  Speaker 3: adult can just wash their own stuff and put it away.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like he doesn't love me and wants to
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  Speaker 1: control me.
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  Speaker 3: Do you not see the horns holding up his halo?
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  Speaker 3: Because they're there.
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  Speaker 4: Look at how bad John is. He's controlling, he doesn't
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  Speaker 4: clean his dishes, he drinks with his friends, and he
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  Speaker 4: touches my stuff. Don't you see how terrible he is?
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  Speaker 4: I'm not the one who has to change. He is.
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  Speaker 3: If he doesn't change the behaviors that got us here
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  Speaker 3: dealing with me, we're.
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  Speaker 5: Not going to get anywhere.
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  Speaker 1: He doesn't think that they're... Laura. John is not your problem.
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  Speaker 4: Laura. Understand that this is a really effective strategy of abusers.
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  Speaker 4: They will throw you off their trail by accusing other
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  Speaker 4: people of wrongdoing. However, if you know the trick, then
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  Speaker 4: it doesn't work. All you have to do is look
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  Speaker 4: at how Laura behaves.
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  Speaker 1: Laura has been a hoarder since childhood. Growing up, Laura's
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  Speaker 1: room was a mess. Always.
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  Speaker 3: Always.
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  Speaker 4: So she has had this problem for a good 40
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  Speaker 4: years and has never worked on it. What does that
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  Speaker 4: say about her personality and how she handles problems?
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  Speaker 1: I'm like a frustrated perfectionist. I can't clean until I
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  Speaker 1: can do it right or do it all in my
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  Speaker 1: time frame.
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  Speaker 4: This right here is prime behavior of someone who is
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  Speaker 4: not going to change. She is waiting for the perfect situation.
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  Speaker 4: I'm a frustrated perfectionist. I will only clean if I
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  Speaker 4: have the exact circumstances that I want. This is an
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  Speaker 4: excuse that a lot of people will use to not
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  Speaker 4: do something, but make it look like they're going to
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  Speaker 4: do something. I'm too fat. I'll apply for a job
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  Speaker 4: when I lose 40 pounds. Or they'll say things like,
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  Speaker 4: I'll do that after this thing happens. Well, the thing
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  Speaker 4: never happens, so they never end up doing what they
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  Speaker 4: said they were going to do. When people use this excuse,
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  Speaker 4: what it really amounts to is a fear of looking
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  Speaker 4: bad so they are trying to rationalize the situation where
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  Speaker 4: they don't look like a fool. That's not how the
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  Speaker 4: world works. You don't get to escape sucking at new
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  Speaker 4: things or things that are difficult. If you aren't willing
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  Speaker 4: to look bad, then you will never be good at
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  Speaker 4: anything or have anything substantial. Clearly, Laura has this fear
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  Speaker 4: because every time someone makes her look bad by pointing
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  Speaker 4: out her evil, she deflects the blame. That action has
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  Speaker 4: destroyed her relationship with her family.
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  Speaker 2: I used to get upset on a daily basis about
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  Speaker 2: the house, and it always resulted in a screaming match,
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  Speaker 2: which wasn't doing anybody any good.
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  Speaker 4: Listen up, women. Men hate it when they work all
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  Speaker 4: day while you have been at home, and they come
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  Speaker 4: home to a dirty house. Laura is a stay-at-home mom,
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  Speaker 4: and she has trashed her boyfriend's house where she lives
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  Speaker 4: for free. When he brings up the fact that she
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  Speaker 4: is a leech, she starts yelling.
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  Speaker 3: Spoken just like a teenage girl talking to her stepfather,
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  Speaker 3: Laura clearly does not think of herself.
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  Speaker 4: As an adult.
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  Speaker 2: She has destroyed her relationship.
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  Speaker 1: With her boyfriend John, her stepdaughter Jessie hates her, and.
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  Speaker 4: She has taken over her daughter Angelina's room because she
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  Speaker 4: has filled her own bedroom with crap. Imagine being 14
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  Speaker 4: and having to sleep with your crazy mom instead of
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  Speaker 4: having your own room. Yeah, Laura wants everyone to believe
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  Speaker 4: that she is mother of the year.
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  Speaker 3: Anybody that I know that has a perfectly clean house,
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  Speaker 3: I don't think their children are half as happy as mine.
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  Speaker 4: No one has ever questioned how much you love your kids.
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  Speaker 5: I love you.
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  Speaker 3: I love you too.
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  Speaker 4: Uh, I'll question it. Good parents who love their children
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  Speaker 4: don't destabilize their family by yelling all the time and
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  Speaker 4: not contributing to the team. Actually, that's me being too nice.
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  Speaker 4: Not only is Laura not contributing to the team, she
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  Speaker 4: is bringing the team down. How are your daughter and
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  Speaker 4: your stepdaughter supposed to bring friends over to the house?
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  Speaker 4: If I was in high school and I brought my
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  Speaker 4: friends over to see this filth, I would be embarrassed
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  Speaker 4: out of my mind. She is putting all of that
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  Speaker 4: onto the children that she says she loves. The problems
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  Speaker 4: with Laura don't end there. They get even worse. But first,
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  Speaker 4: Alright, check this out.
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  Speaker 1: About 16 years ago, there was a change of custody
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  Speaker 1: of my three older children. When both fathers inspired with
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  Speaker 1: CPS to get custody away from me by using my
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  Speaker 1: home environment to....
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  Speaker 4: Pay attention to the way she worded that. Both fathers,
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  Speaker 4: three older children. So wait, she has four kids by
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  Speaker 4: three different fathers, and she is the responsible one in
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  Speaker 4: the house? Her boyfriend John must have some real demons then.
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  Speaker 4: Angelina is her daughter with John, but she had three
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  Speaker 4: kids before him that were taken away by CPS. And again...
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  Speaker 4: pay attention to how she worded it. They conspired to
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  Speaker 4: get custody away from me by using my home environment.
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  Speaker 4: So she is saying that hoarding fucked up two relationships
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  Speaker 4: in the past, and now she's going for a third.
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  Speaker 4: Just like her previous relationships, her current boyfriend wants to
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  Speaker 4: break up with her and get full custody of their daughter.
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  Speaker 2: I always intended on getting custody of Angelina. I don't
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  Speaker 2: think that being around her mom is going to be helpful.
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  Speaker 4: Keep in mind, guys, this is what Laura used to
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  Speaker 4: look like. A fate that happens to many hot women
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  Speaker 4: who are crazy as soon as they get what they want.
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  Speaker 4: Laura is not an outlier. Such a remarkable woman, though.
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  Speaker 4: Someone you can really look up to. Now, I don't
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  Speaker 4: know how her other three kids turned out, but we
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  Speaker 4: can see who her fourth child, Angelina, is becoming.
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  Speaker 2: I don't like that Laura and Angelina have to share
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  Speaker 2: a room.
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  Speaker 4: Angelina should have her own room.
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  Speaker 1: I like her in there.
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  Speaker 3: I like her sleeping in the bed because I like
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  Speaker 3: to know she's there. I love my mom.
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  Speaker 2: I guess I'm a mommy's girl.
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  Speaker 4: During the entire episode, this was the most devastating thing
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  Speaker 4: to hear. Laura is a disaster, and her daughter looks
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  Speaker 4: up to her. When people have role models, they mimic
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  Speaker 4: their behavior. so it comes as no surprise that 14-year-old
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  Speaker 4: Angelina's room is a complete mess. I originally thought it
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  Speaker 4: was her mother's trash, but they state in the show
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  Speaker 4: that almost all of it is Angelina's. Angelina is going
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  Speaker 4: to repeat the mistakes of her mother. It's not just that.
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  Speaker 4: It also seems that Laura's goal is to infantilize her
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  Speaker 4: daughter so that she doesn't become independent.
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  Speaker 3: Is this 100% all your stuff in here?
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  Speaker 1: I'd say 97 to 98% of it is probably hers.
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  Speaker 1: Just want to make sure that you speak, Angelina.
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: You know, Dorothy asked you the question and your mom
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  Speaker 1: answered it.
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  Speaker 4: What just happened here is that Angelina was given an
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  Speaker 4: opportunity to articulate her position and her mom stole that
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  Speaker 4: from her. That's a telling sign of a controlling parent.
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  Speaker 4: Laura does this multiple times during the episode, and probably
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  Speaker 4: more when the cameras are off. Kids need the opportunity
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  Speaker 4: to fumble with their words, otherwise they won't learn how
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  Speaker 4: to speak for themselves. You can see that in the
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  Speaker 4: way that Angelina speaks. She is 14, but she articulates
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  Speaker 4: like she is 7 or 8.
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  Speaker 3: I think the dresser would be more useful for her.
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  Speaker 2: It's kind of falling apart, and my clothes always get
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  Speaker 2: stuck on it.
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  Speaker 1: No, thank you.
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  Speaker 3: You can take it.
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  Speaker 4: Laura is so selfish and cares so little about her
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  Speaker 4: daughter that she even manipulates her daughter into hating her father.
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  Speaker 4: This all comes from a person who thinks that she
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  Speaker 4: can do no wrong. Everybody sins and everybody makes mistakes.
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  Speaker 4: You should be really suspicious about the people who try
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  Speaker 4: to hide that in themselves. But despite Laura's cancerous behavior,
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  Speaker 4: John actually appears to be saying the right things.
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  Speaker 1: Talk to me. I'm tired of listening to everybody talk
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  Speaker 1: bad about Mom.
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  Speaker 2: I know that's really hard, and you know what? It's
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  Speaker 2: very hard for all of us because we do care
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  Speaker 2: about Mom, but she needs to get better, you know?
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  Speaker 5: I understand that, but I just don't understand why you
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  Speaker 5: guys have to talk bad to her.
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  Speaker 4: Give me a hug. Yes, a father apologizing to his
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  Speaker 4: daughter for his mistakes. None of that, I did the
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  Speaker 4: best that I could, or you survived, it couldn't have
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  Speaker 4: been that bad. These are bullshit excuses that bad parents make,
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  Speaker 4: and they don't work in the real world. Imagine that
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  Speaker 4: you pay $ 20 to go see a two-hour movie, and
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  Speaker 4: it's terrible. Does the director get a pass for making
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  Speaker 4: a shitty movie because he did the best that he could?
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  Speaker 1: No.
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  Speaker 4: He wasted your money and your time. The least he
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  Speaker 4: could do is apologize for his failure and try to
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  Speaker 4: do better the next time. But you have so many
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  Speaker 4: bad parents out there who just make excuses instead of
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  Speaker 4: making changes. All that does is ensure that the parents
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  Speaker 4: are going to repeat the bad behavior and the kids
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  Speaker 4: are going to repeat their parents' mistakes. Nobody makes changes
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  Speaker 4: when they make excuses or feel that nothing is wrong. Well,
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  Speaker 4: that's how my parents parented me, so it must be
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  Speaker 4: okay for my kids. How about instead read a book?
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  Speaker 4: There are shitloads of them on how to parent. At
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  Speaker 4: least John here is starting to make the right decisions.
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  Speaker 4: Through his apology, he is showing that he actually cares
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  Speaker 4: about his daughter.
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  Speaker 3: I just felt that he understood how I was feeling
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  Speaker 3: this entire time a little bit better, and it made
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  Speaker 3: me feel better that he understood.
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  Speaker 4: He apologizes to his daughter for screwing up as a parent,
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  Speaker 4: and later makes a commitment to set healthier boundaries with Laura.
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  Speaker 4: Seeing this and the rest of the episode, it sounds
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  Speaker 4: to me like John was trying to play Captain Sabaho
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  Speaker 4: with his girlfriend of 16 years when he first met her.
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  Speaker 4: You have this miserable, attractive woman who just got her
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  Speaker 4: kids taken away, and she has no place to live.
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  Speaker 4: Don't worry, you can just live with John. Then it
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  Speaker 4: blew up in his face like these things always do.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe this metaphor will help you understand why you shouldn't
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  Speaker 4: try to save crazy women by dating them. Back in
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  Speaker 4: the day, until germ theory was popularized in 1880, people
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  Speaker 4: used to believe that diseases were spread by miasma, a
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  Speaker 4: toxic gas, from being in a bad area. In this situation,
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  Speaker 4: the obvious solution is to remove that person from the
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  Speaker 4: bad air and they will become better. How do you
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  Speaker 4: find out where the good air is? Well, you go
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  Speaker 4: where people aren't sick. So you would take a sick
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  Speaker 4: person and put him in the clean air where people
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  Speaker 4: are healthy. What happens then? The sick person gets all
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  Speaker 4: the healthy people sick. You don't make sick people healthy
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  Speaker 4: by putting them around healthy people. It is far more
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  Speaker 4: likely that the sick person will make all of the
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  Speaker 4: healthy people sick. And that is exactly what Laura did
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  Speaker 4: with John. Their family is in complete disarray because of
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  Speaker 4: her lack of cleanliness. The only places in the house
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  Speaker 4: that were clean were places that she couldn't go. Cleaning
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  Speaker 4: anywhere else would be pointless. So how did this all
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  Speaker 4: turn out? They cleaned the house, and John and Laura
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  Speaker 4: decided that they were going to break up. John said
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  Speaker 4: that he would pay for two months of storage for
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  Speaker 4: her belongings and allow her one month to find a
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  Speaker 4: place to live. Happy ending, right? No. Changes for people
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  Speaker 4: like Laura are extremely difficult. My guess is that most
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  Speaker 4: of the hoarders on this show don't change once the
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  Speaker 4: filming is over. At the end of the episode, the
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  Speaker 4: month had passed and Laura had made no effort to move.
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  Speaker 4: I did some Google searching and I found them on
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  Speaker 4: an episode of Dr. Phil two years after the 2015
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  Speaker 4: episode of Hoarders. Their situation is even worse. Jessie became
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  Speaker 4: a teen mom slash future single mother at 18 and
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  Speaker 4: Laura still lives in the house with no job and
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  Speaker 4: now her hoarding is worse. Not only is she hoarding junk,
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  Speaker 4: she is also hoarding animals. I guess child abuse wasn't enough,
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  Speaker 4: so she had to throw in animal abuse as well.
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  Speaker 4: Laura was also caught abusing Jesse's child by force-feeding her
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  Speaker 4: when the child refused to eat. Seeing that Laura has
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  Speaker 4: no money of her own, John is also partially responsible
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  Speaker 4: because he won't say no and kick her out of
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  Speaker 4: the house. She probably guilted him into letting her stay.
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  Speaker 4: If you have invited a person like Laura into your house,
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  Speaker 4: then you can't be a spineless wimp when it comes
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  Speaker 4: time to kick them out. This entire episode of Hoarders
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  Speaker 4: is why you don't play Captain Sabaho. You will not
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  Speaker 4: make these women better. They will make you worse. The
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  Speaker 4: reality is that it takes an entire team of people
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  Speaker 4: to cure an addict like Laura. For example, if someone
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  Speaker 4: is a severe alcoholic, it takes a medical team in
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  Speaker 4: a hospital to make sure they don't die from the detox,
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  Speaker 4: a rehab team, a 12-step program with a sponsor, a psychologist,
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  Speaker 4: and maybe a psychiatrist just to give them the chance
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  Speaker 4: of getting better. And then those problems become even more
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  Speaker 4: difficult if they have multiple addictions. You as Captain Sabaho
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  Speaker 4: are not going to be able to fix that. You
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  Speaker 4: don't have the experience to help her. Attempting to do
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  Speaker 4: that will only end up making both of you worse.
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  Speaker 4: The best thing you can do for an addict is
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  Speaker 4: to not put up with their shit and point them
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  Speaker 4: to professionals if they want help. That is all you
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