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A Dad’s Worst Fear: Will Opens Up About Health Emergency & Daddy-Daughter Brunch | For The Dads · Bussin' With The Boys

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  Speaker 3: Yeah, this segment idea is just Dan Gable quotes segment
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  Speaker 1: The Dad's Podcast is dan ca dan Gable quote. Dan
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  Speaker 1: Gable quotes?
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  Speaker 2: Why not?
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  Speaker 3: And I will say when I was as a bit
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  Speaker 2: It's a great idea. There's nothing like a good dan
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  Speaker 2: Gable quote.
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  Speaker 1: Matter of fact, I'm gonna save a dan Gable quote
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  Speaker 1: for just a lesson quote topic at the end.
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  Speaker 2: Of the episode.
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  Speaker 3: Do you have a dan and so fourth, I have
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  Speaker 3: a great one. Okay, good, I have a great one.
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  Speaker 1: I also have one just to just to shout out
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  Speaker 1: off the top of the episode.
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  Speaker 2: Please the first period is one.
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  Speaker 1: Ay and guys, if you don't know who Dan Gable is,
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  Speaker 1: number one Q just kids show. Just bleep myself out.
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  Speaker 1: Get to know Dan Gable. This is a guy. This
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  Speaker 1: is a mindset of mentality, a discipline. That's a guy
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  Speaker 1: that you want to learn from.
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  Speaker 2: Can I shot?
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  Speaker 3: Can I shout out my friend Dustin McLoughlin that put
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  Speaker 3: me onto Dan Gable and said God to bring up
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  Speaker 3: Dan Gable to Will hill Nutt.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, believe me Dan Gables Like that's like, that's Lord.
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  Speaker 1: If you mentioned dan Gable to me, I'm thinking, oh,
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  Speaker 1: we just connected on a deeper level. Yeah, because I
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  Speaker 1: feel like I do walk amongst around people that have
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  Speaker 1: no clue who Dan Gable is, and that's sad to me. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: because we again the VHS tape cycle with this was
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  Speaker 1: a dan Gable family grow We were we were wrestling.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't like wrestling, but my dad made us wrestle.
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  Speaker 1: My brother was a stud at it. We were a
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  Speaker 1: wrestling family. You're a wrestling family. You know who Dan
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  Speaker 1: Gable is? Yeah, I got one off the top. This
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  Speaker 1: one's on uh, this one's on wrestling and effort. The
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  Speaker 1: first period is one by the technician. The second period
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  Speaker 1: is one by the kid in the best shape in
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  Speaker 1: the third period, the third period, the final period is
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  Speaker 1: one by the kid with the biggest heart.
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  Speaker 2: Three's up up, Get your threes up. Damn. This is like,
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  Speaker 2: this is fatherhood right here. That really is love.
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  Speaker 3: I love it because it's all facets of wrestling. He
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  Speaker 3: just covered all facets.
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  Speaker 1: All facets and encapsulated it inside of fatherhood. The first
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  Speaker 1: ten years is one by the best technician. We are teaching.
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  Speaker 1: We are teaching these young kids, Our young kids, our
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  Speaker 1: little our babies are toddlers? What do they call them
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  Speaker 1: once they get like out of the toddler face?
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  Speaker 2: Ankle biters?
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  Speaker 3: This is about are they called teaching them technique of
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  Speaker 3: how to operate in life?
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  Speaker 1: The second period, the second decade is one by the
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  Speaker 1: kid in the best shape who fundamentally and foundationally Is
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  Speaker 1: this kid gonna be ten through twenty and then beyond
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  Speaker 1: that once they graduate college, it's gonna be one by
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  Speaker 1: the kid with the biggest heart. Come on, all these
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  Speaker 1: values and all these principles that we teach them, that
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  Speaker 1: is what's going to carry them and make them the
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  Speaker 1: man or the woman that they're gonna be throughout the
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  Speaker 1: rest of life.
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  Speaker 3: Come on, man, hey, say something that really pisses me
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  Speaker 3: off that you just reminded me of with that whole
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  Speaker 3: dan Gable thing, the saying a jack of all trades
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  Speaker 3: is a master of none or whatever?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 3: What is up with that? Why can't you be good
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  Speaker 3: at a bunch of shit?
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  Speaker 2: You can? How would that not be helpful or beneficial? Oh?
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  Speaker 2: Super successful people are only good at one thing.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like jack of all trades, master of none
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  Speaker 1: is kind of like a there's a go go ahead,
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  Speaker 1: the Derek jump in here.
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  Speaker 4: There's just a common thing with that quote's not finished,
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  Speaker 4: and so it always says, but it's always better than
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  Speaker 4: a master of one. Okay, thanks, there is an ending.
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  Speaker 2: I'm glad.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, a jack of all trades is a master of none,
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  Speaker 4: but oftentimes better than a master of one is the
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  Speaker 4: full actual quote that people never finish.
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  Speaker 3: You can be great and more more than just that's
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  Speaker 3: been that's been grinding my gears toward literal years.
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  Speaker 2: Dude, I'm like, what the fuck does that mean?
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  Speaker 1: When I saw your piss hot about that, I'm thinking
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  Speaker 1: to myself, I think that that, you know, I usually
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  Speaker 1: think like the jack of all trades, master of notnehing
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  Speaker 1: Like that's like a nod of that's kind of where
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  Speaker 1: you want to be. You you can be better than
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  Speaker 1: just being a master of filling the bottle with milk.
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  Speaker 3: God, I'm one, I'm so glad that I misunderstood or
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  Speaker 3: didn't have the full quote, and two that I went
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  Speaker 3: against the grain. I really thought I was being rebellious
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  Speaker 3: by like, hey, maybe being good at a bunch of
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  Speaker 3: stuff is actually a really good thing.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe that's good.
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  Speaker 1: Read the headline didn't finish. It didn't finish the article.
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  Speaker 1: Read the headline didn't finish the article.
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  Speaker 2: What's this bull shit? This shows four jack of all
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  Speaker 2: trades fathers.
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  Speaker 1: This isn't just mastering taking out the trash, showing to
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  Speaker 1: work and be like I'm the bread winner when I
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  Speaker 1: get home. Yes, it's about being a jack of all trades.
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  Speaker 1: You do the dishes, you clean the kitchen, pick up
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  Speaker 1: the toys, you do bedtime, you make the beds, you
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  Speaker 1: do all the things.
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  Speaker 2: Along with your wife, along with your partner. Oh yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: This was for at Jared Beeman's comedy show, which I'm sure,
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  Speaker 3: well we might talk a little bit about that.
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  Speaker 2: Bring a Lee. Yes, did you meet Lee? Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Lee?
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  Speaker 2: God, dude, Lee's got to come on the show.
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  Speaker 3: Oh oh, you're talking about comedian Lee. Comedian Lee needs
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  Speaker 3: to come on the show. He's incredible. I'm talking about.
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  Speaker 3: This is also Lee, who is a PT Sixer's his
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  Speaker 3: daughter was born with a bunch of complications. There's a
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  Speaker 3: there's a lot in that that I'll just to keep
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  Speaker 3: it short. Finding a babysitters really hard for them. And
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  Speaker 3: they were gonna come to Jared's show, both of them
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  Speaker 3: because WiFi and husband, because they wanted to say what's
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  Speaker 3: up to us? Because they're big for the dad's fans.
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  Speaker 3: Babysitter canceled empty six Er says, you gotta go leave,
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  Speaker 3: like I'll hold down the fort. You gotta go say
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  Speaker 3: what up to the boys? Go enjoy the comedy night.
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  Speaker 3: So I got to meet Lee and he literally said,
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  Speaker 3: do not shout me out at all, which I'm breaking
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  Speaker 3: that rule. He was like, I really just wanted you
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  Speaker 3: to shout out my daughter. So shout out to Lee
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  Speaker 3: Lee Rose, who is his little girl and they have
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  Speaker 3: a precious little family.
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  Speaker 2: Pick Lee was the man. Dude.
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  Speaker 3: It made my night getting to meet Lee and shout
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  Speaker 3: out six or Lee's wife. You're such a stud break
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  Speaker 3: time play for going. Hey, you know what, baby Sarah
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  Speaker 3: canceled last second And.
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  Speaker 2: You said her canceled last second? Yes, And she literally said,
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  Speaker 2: go have fun, go have a night. That's tough, dude.
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  Speaker 2: The babysitter canceling a second.
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  Speaker 1: I know, and you said it's been hard for him
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  Speaker 1: to find a babysitter because of stuff with their.
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  Speaker 3: She has a several palsy, the daughter. I'll reach out
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  Speaker 3: to him and make sure that I can share all that.
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  Speaker 3: I would assume so because he had shared a bunch
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  Speaker 3: of pictures and their story. But yeah, dude, just very humbling.
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  Speaker 3: It was like what I talked with you at brunch
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  Speaker 3: about of just getting to meet some of these parents
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  Speaker 3: and hear their stories and like seeing pictures and videos
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  Speaker 3: from the hospital and like, I'm starting to tear up,
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  Speaker 3: so I'll keep it short, but like, there's really good
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  Speaker 3: people out there. There's some really good parents out there,
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  Speaker 3: and the fact that we even get to touch and
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  Speaker 3: meet some of these incredible parents is such a humbling,
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  Speaker 3: awesome experience.
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  Speaker 2: I love the show. Yeah, that's it. I'm with you.
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  Speaker 1: I see the tears. I appreciate the tears too, because
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  Speaker 1: you're you're just spot on. You hear so many stories
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  Speaker 1: and get to talk to so many different parents who
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  Speaker 1: have stories that are you know, almost feels like you
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  Speaker 1: feel undeserving at times. Two right now, we have like
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  Speaker 1: I have two kiddos that are both healthy and then sorry,
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  Speaker 1: I'm laughing because I'm feeling myself here up as well.
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  Speaker 2: But you just hear what parents go through.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, and dude, there are grinders out there, bro brinders
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  Speaker 1: that have just that go through things that are so
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  Speaker 1: different from like the majority of parents that hopefully everybody
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  Speaker 1: has healthy kids, but that's not the reality.
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  Speaker 2: And just to feel their energy.
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  Speaker 1: And personality, appreciation, their gratitude for everything, and just excitement
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  Speaker 1: when you're just like God, Lee, man, it seems like
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  Speaker 1: you go through the gutter, like you go through shit
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  Speaker 1: to where I can't I can only imagine like being
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  Speaker 1: in your shoes with some of these stories that I hear. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: just makes us.
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  Speaker 2: I know.
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  Speaker 1: So Sherman and I we had our first little brunch together,
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  Speaker 1: we had a little daddy daughter date. But we're kind
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  Speaker 1: of having the conversation on the stories and the comments
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  Speaker 1: and the stuff that the parents out there share with
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  Speaker 1: us that you just kind of it's it's like just
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  Speaker 1: one of those step back things of one gratitude and
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  Speaker 1: then it just again it feels like, uh.
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  Speaker 2: It makes us appreciate.
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  Speaker 1: What we have with our kiddo's And then also, I know,
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  Speaker 1: For me, it feels like you feel undeserving at times
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  Speaker 1: to be in a spot to where people are thinking
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  Speaker 1: you about stuff.
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  Speaker 2: And I know people are, oh, you're overthinking that, YadA YadA. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I understand that.
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  Speaker 1: It's just like the feeling that I have because you're
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  Speaker 1: just like your heart goes out to these fighters that
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  Speaker 1: are out there.
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  Speaker 3: It is raising kids the best way they can. They
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  Speaker 3: have to just have to they have to have these ego.
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  Speaker 1: Deaths with themselves because they just understand and accept, hey,
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  Speaker 1: we are in a different situation.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, dude, meeting such selfless people.
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  Speaker 3: Uh, And it is very grounding, like and not that
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  Speaker 3: I'm like lost in the sauce of all the world news,
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  Speaker 3: but like the world is so fast moving and there's
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  Speaker 3: always a different thing on social media and blah blah blah.
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  Speaker 3: Getting to like read some of these stories like we
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  Speaker 3: do on the show, or meet PT sixers out in
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  Speaker 3: the wild, hearing their stories, it's just so grounding and
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  Speaker 3: a reminder that like there are incredible humans out there
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  Speaker 3: and they do. Just seeing the picture of his family
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  Speaker 3: and uh, I just think to myself, I look at
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  Speaker 3: those kids, and I go, they're so lucky.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, they have such.
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  Speaker 3: Loving parents, and god, it just makes my very happy.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and because you know that there are also bad
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  Speaker 1: parents out there, yes, like kids that you know, kids
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  Speaker 1: from all different ranges can have bad parents, oh for sure.
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  Speaker 1: And you knowing that this kid is going through something
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  Speaker 1: what'd you say, ceubral palsy. Yes, like this kid has
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  Speaker 1: has something going on, and they have these incredible people
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  Speaker 1: looking after them.
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  Speaker 2: You're just you're thankful for the kid.
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  Speaker 1: You're you're appreciative that the kid has these parents because
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  Speaker 1: very easily, Like it's not it's it's not rare to
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  Speaker 1: have bad parents out there.
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  Speaker 2: It's around us all the time. That's that's more common. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: that's more common.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and so it is really cool and it's uh yeah, humbling,
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  Speaker 3: I keep on saying humbling, but it's just like such
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  Speaker 3: a cool reminder. I was telling Will, I was like,
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  Speaker 3: I feel like such a phony that.
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  Speaker 2: Uh.
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  Speaker 3: The only thing we got worried about was Scarlet is
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  Speaker 3: that she has a tear duct.
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  Speaker 1: That's crew had one of those tear ducks so where
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  Speaker 1: we'd have to massage your eye with like a like
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  Speaker 1: a warm rag.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, she had like a tear duck for like.
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  Speaker 1: I know, it was maybe going into two years old,
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  Speaker 1: but like a year and as long as a year
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  Speaker 1: and a half at least, I believe. I know, my
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  Speaker 1: wife might fact check me on that, but yeah.
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  Speaker 3: And I'm sitting there in the morning's going i gotta
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  Speaker 3: go get a hot rag. Oh my god, she's got
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  Speaker 3: so many iboggers. Oh my god, I'm gonna have to
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  Speaker 3: wipe all this down. There's another parent that's breaking out
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  Speaker 3: the wheelchair, breaking out the ramp to the you know,
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  Speaker 3: mini van, getting kiddo in there, getting them to pt,
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  Speaker 3: getting them to that. And guess what that parents still
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  Speaker 3: making it early to their job. They're kicking asset.
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  Speaker 2: It's just like.
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  Speaker 1: Handling all the nonsense that goes on at the workplace,
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  Speaker 1: coming home, checking out, making sure they turn that off
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  Speaker 1: while they get back to raising their kid.
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  Speaker 3: Dude, shout out those parents. Yeah, we are so blessed
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  Speaker 3: and lucky. If you listen to the show and you
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  Speaker 3: were in that boat, I just want to shout out,
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  Speaker 3: you are literally angels.
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  Speaker 2: Your angels. Yeah, yeah, I just wanted to.
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  Speaker 3: I want to get that off my chest right quick.
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  Speaker 3: Could be an emotional episode, Yeah what that could be
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  Speaker 3: an emotional episode'm I think I'm pass it, but shout
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  Speaker 3: out Lead the comedian too. He was great. We should
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  Speaker 3: have him on the show.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we need to get Lead the comedian on the show.
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  Speaker 1: Have I ever told the story about Rue having a
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  Speaker 1: a seizure?
• 15:53
  Speaker 2: Not on the show?
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: Have not told it on the show? No, Rue had
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: a seizure when she was about a year and a half.
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: Fold I think again.
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: I know my wife is listening, but Rue had a
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: seizure at the daycare she was at, and Buddy, the
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: scariest thing in my life. Yeah, the scary, the most
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: terrifying thing ever. Like I remember the daycare lady called
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: in an absolute panic. The firefighter had to end up
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: taking the phone from her and just let me know
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: what was going on with Rue, and so much emotion.
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: Is just I was standing right over there. This is
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: when we just had this side of the shop. We
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: didn't have the other side of the shop. Everything was
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: in house right here, and I remember standing up over
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: over the table like taking this phone call and just
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: a panic going because at first I'm wondering, I wonder
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: why the daycare lady is calling me right now because
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: I knew Charle was the one that was going to
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: be picking Ru up later that day. Yeah, yeah, and
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: they say, hey, Rue, Rue's awake right now, so everything
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: is okay. We believe that she had a caesar. She's
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: very she's very out of it right now. She's she's
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: not like responding verbally or anything else. She's kind of
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: just sitting there. We're going to rush her to the er,
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: to the hospital. And I called my wife. She's just
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: getting out of the shower because she had missed calls,
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: and she just missed the calls. And we are obviously
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: sprinting to the hospital. I'm coming from here, Charles, coming
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: from home. In the whole thought in my head again
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: I hate it could be an emotional episode, but the
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: whole thought in my head like as I'm driving, I
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: had just lost I had lost my mom the December before,
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: because this was my I lost my mom the December
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: before Rue was Rue was born. Ru was born in April.
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: Saw him driving over just thinking like, you know, they
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: had her plugged up to IVS and everything like this
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: in this ambulance. Bro one year old in an ambulance,
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: just envisioning that in your head and knowing that mom
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: and dad. Mom and dad aren't around her, and I'm
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: driving just thinking, Yo, if I were to lose.
• 18:02
  Speaker 2: If I were to lose my daughter with all that
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: going with.
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: You know, everything the year that we had had, yeah, yeah,
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: and everybody. You know, I've shared a lot of stuff
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: about my mom, but to go like I had no
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: clue what I was driving into. We run in the er,
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: we run in the hospital. Rue is just her little
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: body is plugged up. I'm talking IV's needles, everything to
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: try to get her vitals and everything else, and she's
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: just unresponsive. Bro Like, she's not crying. She's just like naked,
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: laying on the table. And dude, it was nuts. It
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: was nuts, man Like Charo was sitting there holding her
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: little hand and she's looking at us. But again, there's
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: nothing that's coming Like, you know, she's probably scared, she's not.
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: There's no emotion coming out of it. And I'm bawling
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: behind Charo. Oh dude, Like we're obviously both crying, but
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm like, basis side myself that you're just
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: seeing this happen. She had to stay overnight, she had
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: to sleep, she had to get all this stuff attached
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: to her brain, and uh, still over night to see
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: if this is something that's gonna be reoccurring, or if
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: it was a one off, like we don't know what
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: it was, or trying to check all the levels.
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: They believed that she had a seizure.
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: But they didn't know at the time, like when the
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: firefighter called, So you just don't know what's happening, like
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: she has a pulse, she's breathing, she's okay, yeah, and do.
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: That experience was.
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: To see your baby going through something like that, and
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: we went to the Vanderbilt Children's Hospital just to think
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: about parents that go through a situation like that daily
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: weekly or you never know what's gonna pop up the
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: next time, and you just hope that hey they're checked
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: out right now and we might need to look for this.
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: We'll have to bring them back to check blood levels.
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: Like you just see your kid go through this stuff. Man,
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: that that moment was uh yeah, that's uh. It brings
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: back a little like you just have PETA and if
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: something you feel like might happen to rue because you
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: just don't know.
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: They believe it was a one off. They're like, you know, we.
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: Talked to one doctor that said this kid, this happened
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: with their kid, like you know, if it happens before
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: certain age. I'm just throwing it out there. Again, we're
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: not experts on the show whatsoever, but if it's weird
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: or not, if it's before three, this could be something
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: that's one off. Like we'll just we'll continue to follow
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: up like every week or two and if if she
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: gets you know, a certain time without having another one,
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: then that tells them it's not gonna be some reoccurring
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: thing to where she might have to take meds or
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: something like that.
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, it was crazy. It was crazy.
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: I can't even imagine very funny too, because you've told
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: me that story before I died.
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: I mean, you didn't tear up the first time you
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: told it to me.
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: But walking through it and again, like in my head
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: as I'm walking through taking the phone call, I can
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: still visualize. I can visualize every detail that day, on
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: getting in the car, speeding to the hospital, walking in
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: those hallways. I see at the end of the hallway,
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: I'm like where she has She's like she's over here,
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: and we're just running in there. And then you just
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: see your little You just see your baby bro plugged
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: into absolutely everything, and it is uh yeah.
• 21:12
  Speaker 3: Hearing that that now with Scarlet. That's just a way
• 21:15
  Speaker 3: that's like a completely different story. Now that's crazy.
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah, man, I'm.
• 21:21
  Speaker 3: So sorry that y'all had to go through that, but
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: also just makes me so happy just thinking of like
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: our brunch and just like seeing room now.
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: Oh bro, she's so full of personality. And even the
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: next morning, it's like as a parent, you're stressed the
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: entire time. Like when she's kind of coming out of
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: whatever it is, she's not like fully there.
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: You know, I go and get us some because we
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: pulling over.
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: You know, we're like we're just like staying at the hospital,
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: and I go and pick us up some Chick fil
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: A and come back and try You're trying to get
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: her to eat a little bit of food, whether they
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: have apple sauce at the hospital or whatever it is, milk,
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: And then to wake up the next one and kind
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: of see her like crawling around having a smile on
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: her face even though she's connected to all of this
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: stuff with her brain, but just to feel a little
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: bit of that relief because they're smiling, because you wake
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: up and you're kind of just, hey, how she doing?
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: Do we have any checkups?
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: You're like wanting to ask the doctor so many chois
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: or get him to keep coming in every five minutes
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: and know if there's an update going on. Yeah, and
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: but just to see you're in like good spirits. It's
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: it was just such a weight feeling like it was
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: lifted off, like you started to have like optimism about
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: what could be. You know that we're just gonna have
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: good news. I guess when the doctor comes in. Yeah,
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: but that was such a relief. But dude, our brunch,
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: seeing the seeing rou operate, seeing rou operate with Uncle
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: Shrham was a fascinating sight to see. We went to
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: Stay Golden, no free shoutouts to Stay Golden here and
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: here in like West Nashville off off of fifty first
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: shout out to them. They have some good coffee.
• 22:52
  Speaker 2: They won me back.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: Man, I know you had a bad first experience. This
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: was your second time. I can only imagine when I said, hey,
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: stay gold and what was probably going through your body
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: based on what you based on your the first experience
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: that you had getting some cold food, getting some service,
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: that was a little yeah, that was a little sus
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: I've had nothing but good experiences with.
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: They blew me away on the second and not to
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: divert the story. I apologize, but they blew me away.
• 23:17
  Speaker 3: I am fully on board with Stay Golden. Yeah, but
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: Sherman and I we planned out a daddy daughter date
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: and daddy daughter lunch or brunch.
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: We go over to State Golden. Uncle Sheram's ripping around
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: with Scarlet. She's in the she's in the stroller. I
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: have Scott, Zilla, Scottie and Roue with me. Oh yeah,
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: there's a nice little line there. But we got seated
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: at this table and it was dude. Rue was on
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: one hunt r was on ten bro the entire time
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: with Uncle Sherham, the entire time with Uncle Sherman.
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: Scotty was on her best behavior.
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: She was eating, you know, she was trying to put
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: food in Scarlet's little cup that's attached to the stroller.
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: Scarlet was on her best behavior, dude, she was kind
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: of just chilling the entire time. Ru's playing with her,
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: Scotty's eating her food.
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: I was about to say that was my favorite part
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: is Rue was playing with me a bunch, But it
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: was I was not like the center of her attention.
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: It was really Scarlet. It was so cool to get
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: to watch Rue, who's three. Yeah, three, Just why does
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: she have two jackets on her? Because I forgot a blanket,
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: go dad, So I got Jill's jacket that she left
• 24:24
  Speaker 3: in my car in Scarlet's jacket and put it on
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: Scarlet like a blanket. I was like, well, this is
• 24:31
  Speaker 3: this is Scarlet's jacket, the fuzzy one, and this bigger
• 24:34
  Speaker 3: one is her mom's jacket. And I'm using it like
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: a blanket. And she goes, you need to put the
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: fuzzy jacket on her feet to make them warm. And
• 24:45
  Speaker 3: then Scarlett, your mama's jacket will go here, and she's
• 24:48
  Speaker 3: like going into full like maternal like the baby. And
• 24:53
  Speaker 3: I'm like, god, this is so cool watching her. And
• 24:55
  Speaker 3: she's like, Scarlett, can.
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: You blow kisses?
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: Can you blow kisses? And I'm just seeing like the
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: love and the playful stuff that you and Charro have
• 25:04
  Speaker 3: put into Rue and then seeing Rue then doing that
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: to Scarlet, yeah, like kind of mimicking that behavior. It's like, dude,
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: this is so sick just to like see play out.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: Right, just to like witness like development. And You're like, man,
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: I can't believe you're three, because again you got to
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: do all these you got to do all these things
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: to help Rue communicate with Scotty or be around Scotty
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: when Scotty's like pissing her off and doing stuff like, hey,
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: she doesn't mean this, like she just wants to play
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: with you. Yeah, you know, and she'll obviously sees us
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: communicate with both of them. But you got to be
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: on your p's and q's with Rue.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: Now.
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: Last night I was on Charlie was working until like
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: six thirty. This usually this happens every Monday, and I
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: forgot to wash Rue's hair on Sunday night when it
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: was bathtime, and I could tell Mama was not happy
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: about that. She's like, well, why didn't she? Oh, She's
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: like she came up when Charle got done. Charle did something,
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: whether it was with Scotty or was coming up to
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: say good night to Rue. You know, it was kind
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: of looking at Rue and I am warming Rue up
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: with the towel and everything else. She was like, oh,
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: your hair dry, drive pretty fast? Oh gosh, is your
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: hair dry already? Drive pretty fast? And she's talking to
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: she's talking to Rue, but I know that she's talking.
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: She's basically asking me, like why is her hair drying?
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: What's going on with that I didn't, Oh, I didn't
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: wash your hair her hair tonight, and she's like, well
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: why not.
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: I was like, she said she was tired and she
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: wanted to go lay down.
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: And I'm thinking in my head when she when Rue
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: gave me that, I was like, oh, let's do a
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: body We'll just wash your body bits and bits. You
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: can make it quick. You want to go lay down,
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: I'll get you to lay down because it's bedtime. Yeah,
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: And so she was on me about She's like, sweetheart,
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: you're you're in control.
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: Like she needed to wash her hair.
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: She hadn't washed her hair since like early last week,
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: and she's been telling me that their heads it, you know.
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I was just thinking, like it doesn't
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: look greasy or nothing like that, Like her hair looks fine.
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: This is one where I felt like I could have
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: just done a body a body shower, a body bath
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: with her. My sweeter, Is your head itchy? She's like, no,
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: her head's not itchy. She's telling me right now, heads not.
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: You heard her.
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: She's like she's been itching her head, Like these last
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: couple of days, have you been itching your head over
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: the weekend?
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: She's like no, she hadn't been itching her head moment.
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: It's all good and char was on that, you know,
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: residual effect from that. After Rue goes down, I'm talking
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: to me and I'm like, sweetheart, look, i'll give her
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: bath tomorrow.
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: It's all good.
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: You won't have to give her bath. I'll give her
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: a bath tomorrow. I'll wash your hair.
• 27:36
  Speaker 3: Well.
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: She's like, well, she also does bath.
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: She also does a bath, like after a swim lesson
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: on Tuesday, I'll give her a third bath. I'll give
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: her third bath where you don't have dude or Audi
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: will be able to give her a bath after swim lesson.
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Either way, sweetheart, you won't have to do it.
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: You won't have to do anything.
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll make sure that hair gets washed before swim
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: lesson on Tuesday.
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: I'll make sure of it.
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: So fast forward to Monday, when I got home and
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: I'm with the kiddles, I'm like, hey, Rue, She's like, daddad,
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: can I do a TV coupon? Like you can do
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: a TV coupon, but we have to listen to me.
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: We have to wash your hair before mama gets home.
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: Dinner's gonna be ready, everything's gonna you're gonna be in
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: your pj's, your pajamas, and you're gonna be ready to
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: go when Mama walks in that door, because she's gonna
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: know Daddad took care of it.
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: Hey, I heard you loud and clear you wanted her
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: hair washed.
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: Dad.
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: It's gonna get her hair washed.
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: And it's not gonna come after dinner time when we're
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: all at home and she's like, well, are you gonna
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: give bath? No, no, no, We're gonna have that knocked
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: out of the park by the time you walk in
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: that door, and food will be ready, and food will
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: be ready. Yeah, So I'm washing Rufe's hair. But as
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: I'm getting everything set up, you know, when you got
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: a couple of minions. There's some parents out there have
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: more than two kiddos, but when they're all like I
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: got ruined Scottie, Ru's three, Scotty's one. Scotty's all over
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: the place, like I have to move tables because Scotty
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: will climb couches and climb the armres and trying to
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: climb on tables, and she's just you can tell she's
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: confident because she flirts with the edge of everything that
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: she climbs.
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: On.
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, like you know how they kind of climb
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: up and then they'll kind of rock over to where
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: they'll be seated.
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: She'll sit right on the edge of the couch and
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: the whole time like, Scotty, you sweetheart, you have to
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: get on the couch here, because I'm telling you right now,
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: you're gonna tip and you're gonna fall. You're gonna hit
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: your head and you're just gonna you're gonna cry, and
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna console you, and we're just you're gonna have
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: to learn the hard way by you being next to
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: the edge. And she's always climbing on stuff to where
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: it's like a hard spot and a soft pillow. She
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: steps on both and gets tumbling down. And she's just
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: been lucky so far.
• 29:26
  Speaker 3: And she's not waddling when she's walking around. For your
• 29:29
  Speaker 3: parents at home to have a kid that's waddling. Right now,
• 29:33
  Speaker 3: Scotty is got the hand going and it is it
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: is truly like a very fast walk. Wherever she's going.
• 29:41
  Speaker 3: She's trying to learn to run.
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: She be lines.
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: But as I'm getting some set up in Rue's room,
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: as I'm getting this bath ready to wash Ru's hair,
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: Scotty goes and throws her lama. Throws her Lama in
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: the bath soaked good. So I walk in. I'm going
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: to put ruin. I see Lama just sitting there drowning. Sweetheart.
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: I know you love you your Lama.
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: Nah.
• 30:01
  Speaker 3: Nah, And now and now we're gonna have to We're
• 30:03
  Speaker 3: gonna have to air dry.
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: We're gonna have to dry Lama now. And you're not
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: gonna get Lama in your hands, and all to circle
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: back to you gotta be on your p's and q's
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: with Rue. Ruth's walking me through how to wash your
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: hair or how she wants it done, and which I
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: already know. I'm like, sweetheart, I got She's like, we're
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: not gonna wash my body. Sweet we washed your body
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: last night. We don't have to wash your body today.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: We can just get it wet.
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, So you don't have to do my armpits, No, sweetheart,
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: you'll do my private parts? No, sweetheart, No, we're just
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: washing your hair.
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: This is a hair night.
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: But why well you get in to explain why big
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: WiFi is right now, But get Rue all done. As
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to corral Scotty Scott, he's mad, at me.
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: I'm pouring the water on Rue's head. She's screaming because
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: she wants watered. She wants to be in the bath
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: water port on her head. Scotty just back up, give
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: Dad has some space. I'm gonna make this quick. Get
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: them all corral dry. You know, not not bult right off.
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: But you know, Scotty, you just always gotta wash because
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: she's just walking everywhere, getting into everything. Yeah, as I'm
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: trying to bathe Rue. So we get downstairs, we go,
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: I'm like, we gotta dry Scottish. We gotta dry Scotty's Lama.
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: So I haven't given Lama and Tigy baths before the
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: bath being the washer and the dryer.
• 31:08
  Speaker 2: So I'm going down there. I'm like, all right, we
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: got to dry them off.
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: And I throw a Lama in there, and I'm like,
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: I hope nothing happens to Lama. Like as I'm trying
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: to dry Lama, so I turned, She's like I pushed
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: the button on.
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: Hey, yeah, you can push the butt. So we turned
• 31:19
  Speaker 3: on her roofs stands there and she's looking at Lama
• 31:21
  Speaker 3: in there and.
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: She goes.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: Dead dead, Ad, you gotta get Lama out. I'm like,
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: why do I gotta get Lama out? She's like, you
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: got to get the bag. You got to get a bag.
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: I'm like, Lama goes in a bag. She's like, Mama
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: always puts Lama in a bag. And I'm like, do
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: you know, I don't know where this is? What bags
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: she's talking about. I'm like, do you know where this
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: bag is? She's like yeah. So I pause and stop
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, can you show me where the bag is?
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: She like points up to a She points up to
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: a cabin and I'm like, hey, I'm gonna lift you
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: up and you find this bag for me.
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: I lift her up. She goes and finds this netted
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: bag in the cabin.
• 31:49
  Speaker 3: She's like, this is the bag you got to use
• 31:51
  Speaker 3: when you're giving Lama bath. Yeah, like, okay, I did
• 31:54
  Speaker 3: not know that. I thank you for three year old.
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: Three year old? Let me know.
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: Hey, there's a certain way we operat in this house.
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: We don't wear two jackets shirm, yeah, what are we doing?
• 32:04
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: Hey, the two jackets here? Where's a blanket? Yeah? I
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: forgot the blanket. Oh why did you forget the blanket?
• 32:08
  Speaker 6: Yeah?
• 32:09
  Speaker 3: No, She truly is like, hey, she wanted to be like, hey, idiot,
• 32:12
  Speaker 3: where's the blanket. But she was very sweet and just said, well,
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: maybe put the warmer jacket on the feet. You kind
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: of have this lighter one on the feet.
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: Let's switch that. Yeah.
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: Ru got pissed at me this morning, and I was
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: starting to get a little I had to let Rue
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: know that, Hey, when you feel big emotions and they
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: kind of coming out of nowhere and they don't make
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: sense and you're not calming down, Dad add starts to
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: feel big emotions too, oh yeah, yeah yeah, and dad
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: ass starts saying things that he doesn't mean. Yeah, so
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: we just we gotta start the day off on the
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: right foot. Like I go and wake Scotty up, I
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: bring her in there, Rue starts whining.
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: I opened the curtains and I'm trying to just be
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: in a great mood. I'm like Scotty, say hi to
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: the world. Oh, there's your big CC, there's our big
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: chipmunk uh huh, and going over there, and I can
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: just feel Rue wining already.
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: I hate that. I know.
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: Parents, it's like you never know what you're walking into
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: in the morning time with your toddler. You're hoping they're
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: just in a good moods. Sometimes they're just in great moods,
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: and sometimes they're in piss poor moods, and you don't
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: know why.
• 33:05
  Speaker 3: It's like, bro, we do the same routine every day. Yeah,
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: why are we just not in a good mood? She's like, oh,
• 33:10
  Speaker 3: it's too light in here. I'm like, sweet I haven't
• 33:12
  Speaker 3: even turned a light on. I'm just opening the windows
• 33:14
  Speaker 3: and I go and sit. I'm like trying to rub
• 33:16
  Speaker 3: her back. She starts crying. I'm like, well, sweeterar, what's
• 33:18
  Speaker 3: going on. She's like, you gotta sit down here, you
• 33:21
  Speaker 3: gotta sit on this side.
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: Mom always sits on this side of the bed when
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: she tells me good morning, and she's sitting in broken
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: language the word I'm not understanding it. At first, I'm
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: just like, sweetheart, you got to communicate clear with me.
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: I don't know what you're saying. You're crying right now.
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: I don't know why you're crying.
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, what's going on?
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: Then I realize like I'm sitting on the wrong part
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: of the bed to sell her good morning and wake
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: her up.
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: And I'm just like I can't with these women. Did
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: what's going on? What's going on?
• 33:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that was my very first thought when you were
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: talking about the washing the hair and Ruth's telling one
• 33:52
  Speaker 3: story and Charo's telling another, like, we are going to
• 33:56
  Speaker 3: have to keep all these women in our lives happy.
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: It's not just one anymore.
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and when they're little like that, and you're like,
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: oh man, I'm so sorry, I said on the wrong
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: part of the bed. If I sit on this part
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: of the bed, can we kind of reset and redo
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: the morning to the point to where I'll walk out
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: of the room with Scotti, shut the door, close the
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: curtains and just pretend, Hey, we're restarting. Yeah, we're restarting
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: the period. Warm up wasn't good enough on the football field.
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: We're going to restart the entire practice over. So I'll
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: close the curtains, I'll leave the room, and then I'll
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: come in. Good morning, Let's open the curtains, Hey, Scotty,
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: wave to the world, Wave to the world. And then
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: I'll sit down on the right part of the bed
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: and be like, good morning, how did you.
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: Sleep good to where it kind of like catches her
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: off guard.
• 34:44
  Speaker 3: Uh huh.
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: And she's not like acting with me, She's just like,
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: I forget what she said, but I will completely restart
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: the practice if need be. If I'm starting to feel
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: so much frustration boil inside me and I can control
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: it to where I just don't project and like, yo,
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: stop crying. We're not doing this shit this morning, because
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: those times happen.
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: You just start saying mom, mom, Mom's not here, Moms
• 35:07
  Speaker 3: at work. Right now, you're with you with dad, right now,
• 35:09
  Speaker 3: Dad has the cap.
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: What may go throw on a wig in the dress?
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: Make you happy? Can you stop crying? Yeah?
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: You do the rewind noises when you reset having that.
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: That could be a good fun one.
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: That could be anytime, anytime there's an opportunity to just
• 35:24
  Speaker 3: go full dad mode and act the noxious they should
• 35:29
  Speaker 3: rewinde really Dad, to go backwards. Just anything for a smile, anything,
• 35:34
  Speaker 3: just to switch the mood up a little bit. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 35:39
  Speaker 3: oh dude, we're in it. Just wait till she's like, Dad,
• 35:41
  Speaker 3: can I wear this jacket? Absolutely comes down the stairs,
• 35:45
  Speaker 3: Charro Caesar. You're not supposed to wear that jacket till
• 35:48
  Speaker 3: your birthday? Bah bah, Dad said, I could wear the jacket.
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: You're just sitting.
• 35:52
  Speaker 3: There the thousand yards stare or whatever. That painting is yeah, yeah, honey,
• 35:58
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I don't know.
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: Or you just take the kiddos to meet up with
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: your wife and she's like, why why does she get
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: the rain boots on? And I just look, look, she
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: told me she wanted the rain boots.
• 36:09
  Speaker 3: That's a battle I don't care to participate in outain
• 36:11
  Speaker 3: of tears or rain boots. I went, so, now we're here,
• 36:17
  Speaker 3: it we're on time, and everyone's happy.
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah, why she.
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: Wearing jeans, rain boots, a dress or a two to
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: two over top? Listen, I said, he rue gets to
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: dress yourself today.
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 36:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah, some comments, let's get into some comments.
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: Got to keep it under now, you got to keep
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: it under an hour.
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: I got a couple of new dad comments here, one
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: from Johnny Nord on Spotify. Hey, fellas love the pot
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: and been listening to you boys since the first few episodes.
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: I myself was in Budge training at the time, but
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: officially getting a promotion to PET six in June, as
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: my wife and I are expecting a baby boy. Hey,
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: damn it, Johnny, let's go. Congratulations to you guys. I
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: remember one of the earlier episodes you boys mentioned books
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: you'd recommend for raising and having kids. Would you share
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: those suggestions again, as I'm hoping to dive into the
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: playbook early, so I'm ready to attack in June. Ps
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: Ollipop up beer not talked about enough.
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: It's good.
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: I look, I stamped that I like rut beer. I'm
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: a rutber Allipop guy. I just have favorites that are
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: above that.
• 37:23
  Speaker 3: And we also so they sent us these Shirley temples
• 37:26
  Speaker 3: that we'll talk about later, but they send us some
• 37:28
  Speaker 3: rut beers, correct Rutier cream soda, and then this wonderful
• 37:33
  Speaker 3: temple yep.
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: And cream soda. I haven't had the Shirley temple yet.
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna try it here on the episode. I was
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: gonna stay live, but obviously this is recorded. Yeah, cream
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: soda is a banger as well. Ruth's cream soda is
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: a banger. I just think there are better options out
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: there in the Allipop universe. That's okay, that's just my yeah, Yeah,
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: that's just my subjective opinion. Ollipop's okay with with hearing
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: that too.
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: Books.
• 37:55
  Speaker 3: Yes, really, Strong Father, Strong Daughters is the only parenting
• 38:00
  Speaker 3: book that I have jumped into since before the birth
• 38:04
  Speaker 3: of Scarlett. Slash. Since she's been born, I need to
• 38:07
  Speaker 3: dive back into it. I think I'm only like forty pages.
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: D Yeah, fifty pages for girl.
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: Dad's out there. Strong daughters. Strong daughters is a should
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: be a state before you. If you just finished. You
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: just graduated BUDGS training. Good, you graduated BUDG training. But
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: job's not finished. There are still missions to be had.
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: Sleep training. There's a couple options we have out there
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: for you. I'll let sure them say his mind was
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: a twelve hours by twelve weeks or twelve hours and
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: twelve weeks. Oh, got great sea training book just to
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: kind of learn what goes on in those first eight
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: weeks and each kind of each kind of pocket of
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: every four weeks to kind of look to or learn
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: about and understand what your kid's going through. It's a
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: book to where you're the kid is adapting to your
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: world and you're not adapting to everything around their world.
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: So you're just not like a prisoner in your household
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: and a prisoner to the routine instructure.
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: Those things are very much needed.
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: But a lot of good insight, a lot of good direction,
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: and practical stuff to get ready to prepare for when
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: you are sleep training and try to get your kidd
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: to sleep within twelve weeks. Give her take like Rude
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: took sixteen weeks, Scott, he was down, was ready. It
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: was I got her train, We got her trained up.
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: Her technique was good by eleven weeks. Ruth took longer.
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: But it's just a great book to kind of to
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: kind of dive into what sleep training is because I'm
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: telling you, sleep training those those first twelve hours and
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: sleeping through the night is a goal and a light
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: that you and your wife both are gonna want to capture.
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: And you only wait till you're in it, and then
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: you're learning about it a week, nine, week, ten. Oh,
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: they're sleep training out there. Too late, too late? Yeah,
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: and it is too late. It's not too late, but
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: not too late. It is too late.
• 39:39
  Speaker 3: From the standpoint of I think that's the best advice
• 39:42
  Speaker 3: you could have given me as a new dat I
• 39:44
  Speaker 3: have a six month old. For any new listeners, you
• 39:48
  Speaker 3: were big on twelve hours by twelve weeks, And thankfully
• 39:52
  Speaker 3: I have a nurse as a wife, Jill, who also
• 39:55
  Speaker 3: is big on the sleep training stuff.
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: We went with.
• 40:00
  Speaker 3: Mom's on Call is the title of the book, and
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: It was written by nurses, and it's the same principle
• 40:06
  Speaker 3: as twelve hours by twelve weeks.
• 40:08
  Speaker 2: It's just a little bit of a different strategy and
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: different iterations. There's a lot of iterations out there.
• 40:13
  Speaker 3: And when I talk a little bit different, I am
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: talking about like six thirty and so of six forty five,
• 40:19
  Speaker 3: or you know, don't give them a passing until ten
• 40:23
  Speaker 3: minutes in the crib. Very minute, small difference.
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: It coops you with these toolbags, like while you're going
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: through sleep training.
• 40:30
  Speaker 3: Yes, dude, the overarching theme of allowing you to be
• 40:34
  Speaker 3: able to live your life, dude, like being able to
• 40:37
  Speaker 3: go to brunch. No sweat for me, because I know
• 40:40
  Speaker 3: that Scarlet slept almost you know, twelve ish hours. She's great,
• 40:46
  Speaker 3: she's in a happy mood. She took a little nap
• 40:50
  Speaker 3: like on the way to brunch, and then she made
• 40:53
  Speaker 3: like two noises at brunch and they were minor, little
• 40:57
  Speaker 3: like like.
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: She's not crying.
• 40:59
  Speaker 3: Yeah. It gets the baby on a schedule. It helps
• 41:04
  Speaker 3: you with maintain your schedule. It helps give you philosophies too,
• 41:09
  Speaker 3: to where.
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: You know, you learn about it and then you realize,
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: like if you're somebody's asking you out to whether it's
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: a breakfast or a lunch or dinner, whatever it is.
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: You more have like the mindset of we can figure
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: this out, like we can do this versus just a
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: quick response I kind of can't this time baby goes down.
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: Sometimes that is just gonna be what happens, especially if
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: they're new born and everything else. But it helps shift
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: your mindset to we can figure things out based on
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: the knowledge you're kind of teaching yourself. Because I think
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: the sleep training stuff is just a big win for
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: dads in general because a lot of times, like when
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: your wife's pregnant, baby's born, and everything else, Like, as men,
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: we really lean on our wives to have all the answers,
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: and sometimes our wives are like they're their whole thing
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: is like dude, we're learning it just like you are
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: and finding intention and learning learning some tricks or the
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: trade along the way. I feel like the sleep training
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: stuff is a good way for dads to kind of
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: dive in before the baby comes.
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because it also shows your partner that you're invested.
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: You're investing your time and energy to learn about something
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: to where you might have input as well to where
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: you're having a conversation with your wife, and I just
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: feel like it sets Dad's up for just a good.
• 42:14
  Speaker 2: Early win, and you just you're learning new information.
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: You're kind of educating on you yourself on what's happening,
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: so that way you're privy to it as the baby's there,
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: so you're just not sitting there, You're you're not sitting
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: there when the baby's worn, with your dick into your hand,
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: wondering like we hey, sweetheart, like, so what do we
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: do here? How do I how do I feed this?
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: Like? What time does the baby? What times a baby
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: go down?
• 42:33
  Speaker 3: It empowers the dads of a perfect example of my
• 42:36
  Speaker 3: solo saturdays. I usually just to keep Jill happy while
• 42:40
  Speaker 3: she's at work, and I know it gives her peace
• 42:42
  Speaker 3: of mind. I text her with updates of feeds, and
• 42:45
  Speaker 3: I text her at eight thirty I said, hey, let's
• 42:48
  Speaker 3: Scarlet sleep in this morning because she was out, you know,
• 42:51
  Speaker 3: passed out, and instead of seven thirty feed, I fed
• 42:55
  Speaker 3: her at eight thirty. And uh, I'm going to tear
• 42:59
  Speaker 3: out her three hour intervals of feeds to where I'm
• 43:03
  Speaker 3: doing fifteen minutes early on every single line, so I'll
• 43:05
  Speaker 3: get her back to the seven thirty schedule, so then
• 43:09
  Speaker 3: she'll be she'll be out tonight by seven thirty pm,
• 43:11
  Speaker 3: not even worried about it. Jill, Well, yeah, have a
• 43:13
  Speaker 3: good day. Yeah yeah, yeah, exactly.
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: And as far as books go, too, there's a lot
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: of oh sorry, you got a question show.
• 43:18
  Speaker 5: I'll say, do you want do we want to take
• 43:21
  Speaker 5: this time take a quick break while you go do
• 43:22
  Speaker 5: k oh shit?
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: Once we will knock out another We'll just knock out
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: another comment then we can because that's a ten ten correct.
• 43:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, ten ten.
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: I always going to say, as far as books go,
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: there's just a lot of good stuff out there wherever
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: you might have it interested. It's like how to raise
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: kids not to be assholes. The Daily Dad has been
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: a staple in our household for at dinner, we'll read
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: a day, you know, a day and daily Dads. I
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: honestly need to get on because I've been off that
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: for about a month. But the Daily Dad's ago, and
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: there's a lot of good stuff out there.
• 43:48
  Speaker 3: My dad got me Daily Dad. I've yet to I
• 43:51
  Speaker 3: need to start doing that too. Elijah dot W fourteen
• 43:56
  Speaker 3: on Instagram says what's up boys, huge Packers fan?
• 44:00
  Speaker 2: Here? Oh man?
• 44:01
  Speaker 3: Sorry, Elijah born in Wisconsin, moved to Canada because of
• 44:05
  Speaker 3: my dad's job. Obviously, never missed a game. Tonight had
• 44:09
  Speaker 3: me thinking about losses and man, we had a big
• 44:12
  Speaker 3: one crying emoji. However, because of the inspiring words of
• 44:15
  Speaker 3: Sherman Willie Spit week after week, I was able to
• 44:19
  Speaker 3: get out of my seat while Jordan Love was making
• 44:23
  Speaker 3: the drive of his life to change my beautiful baby
• 44:25
  Speaker 3: girl's dirty diaper. She's three months old now. Never thought
• 44:29
  Speaker 3: I'd love anything so much. You guys are the best
• 44:33
  Speaker 3: and have taught me more than I could know. And
• 44:35
  Speaker 3: keep doing your thing. PT six all day.
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: Let's go a lot, Let's go Elijah. Sorry for the L, dude, Yeah, sorry,
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: that's a tough l.
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: Being up twenty one to three, blowing that lead. Yeah,
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: still have an opportunity in the second half to miss
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: field goes a miss extra point.
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 44:49
  Speaker 3: Oh hey, what I would do is I would I
• 44:52
  Speaker 3: would hop on there would he obviously has an Instagram
• 44:55
  Speaker 3: If you have a Twitter as well, I would just
• 44:57
  Speaker 3: hop in Clay's Clay Matthew MS.
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, why not?
• 45:01
  Speaker 3: I would just DM Clay Matthews. Tell him how you're feeling.
• 45:05
  Speaker 3: Maybe send him a screenshot of the bikini pick that
• 45:08
  Speaker 3: will generated on Twitter and say what's this nonsense.
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: We'll just say, hey, I'm wearing a bikini with you
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: right now. Brothers join on them bring back bikini. I'm
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: right there with you, bro.
• 45:21
  Speaker 3: PT six Sicko. By the way, I love you, Clay Elijah.
• 45:26
  Speaker 3: Thank you for writing in shout out Elijah PT Sichos.
• 45:29
  Speaker 3: We come to you guys with just a special little
• 45:31
  Speaker 3: segment we wanted to do this week because we have
• 45:34
  Speaker 3: been backlogged on Thank yous. A lot of PT cicicos,
• 45:39
  Speaker 3: a lot of empty cichos will share some of their
• 45:44
  Speaker 3: entrepreneurial endeavors, some of their products with us, which we
• 45:48
  Speaker 3: are so appreciative of, and we'll reach back out on
• 45:52
  Speaker 3: social media and say thank you obviously, but we we
• 45:55
  Speaker 3: love to do it even bigger. Thank you, like our
• 45:58
  Speaker 3: friend at Arkansas that send us stuff the awesome PT
• 46:03
  Speaker 3: six signs that we got in the past. What else
• 46:07
  Speaker 3: USF's equipment manager sent us some stuff, So we just
• 46:12
  Speaker 3: wanted to take the time today to say thank you.
• 46:15
  Speaker 3: I am wearing a polo from American Waters. American Waters
• 46:20
  Speaker 3: is a apparel company that sells polos that are all
• 46:25
  Speaker 3: American made and they're incredibly comfortable, incredibly stylish. And McCrae Morehouse,
• 46:33
  Speaker 3: who's the owner and founder of American Waters, sent a
• 46:37
  Speaker 3: letter and like three polos, right, like two or three
• 46:41
  Speaker 3: polos each to every single member of for the dads.
• 46:45
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Chef is a sicko.
• 46:48
  Speaker 3: For American Waters, as we all are. But Chef has
• 46:51
  Speaker 3: worn these out two golf.
• 46:53
  Speaker 2: In I have.
• 46:54
  Speaker 5: I wore it to Christmas Mass got a lot of
• 46:57
  Speaker 5: compliments from the family that was really nice. And I
• 47:01
  Speaker 5: don't know if we have I'm wanting to start a
• 47:03
  Speaker 5: PT six golf division because I know there's some sick
• 47:06
  Speaker 5: oh dads out there that love to golf absolutely and
• 47:09
  Speaker 5: I'm sure that we can all talk about well I
• 47:11
  Speaker 5: can't because I don't have a kid, but you know,
• 47:13
  Speaker 5: trying to get out on the course and whatnot.
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: That's a conversation for a later day.
• 47:16
  Speaker 5: But yeah, However, these American Water polos, Sherman are some
• 47:21
  Speaker 5: of the comfiest polos I've ever worn, and they scream
• 47:25
  Speaker 5: to me. We live in Tennessee, gets really hot out.
• 47:27
  Speaker 5: It's a moisture wicking material. It's great for the summer,
• 47:31
  Speaker 5: but it screams to me spring golf right when it
• 47:35
  Speaker 5: starts to warm up. And it's a good look. It's classy,
• 47:40
  Speaker 5: good colors. And let me tell you, the fit on
• 47:42
  Speaker 5: them is unlike anything else. There's nothing like a shirt
• 47:44
  Speaker 5: that fits great. And just to reiterate, we are not
• 47:47
  Speaker 5: sponsored by American Waters at all. Yeah, he just sent
• 47:50
  Speaker 5: out clothes, you know, from the nicest of his heart,
• 47:53
  Speaker 5: and they're incredible. I cannot speak highly enough to these.
• 47:57
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and wrote an incredibly kind letter to each one
• 48:00
  Speaker 3: of us. And also the other thing that I'll point
• 48:03
  Speaker 3: out that I haven't brought up before on these polos
• 48:08
  Speaker 3: is with the dryfit material of other polos, you'll sometimes
• 48:13
  Speaker 3: like it'll be really cold outside and you wore the
• 48:16
  Speaker 3: pollo like underneath the jacket and you can feel the
• 48:18
  Speaker 3: coldness still, like the it almost sticks to you. This
• 48:22
  Speaker 3: is like that moisture wicking that also has like a
• 48:25
  Speaker 3: nice little cotton in it. Yeah, it's got a nice
• 48:27
  Speaker 3: little layer to it. So really love these and thank
• 48:31
  Speaker 3: you again McCray for sending them. You also might have
• 48:33
  Speaker 3: noticed Chef is wearing one currently.
• 48:36
  Speaker 2: We have these don't.
• 48:38
  Speaker 3: Have to you get to hats from the Get To
• 48:40
  Speaker 3: Foundation We also had a very kind note sent to
• 48:46
  Speaker 3: us from the founder, Nate Jones, And I know that, Derek,
• 48:51
  Speaker 3: you know a bunch of the backstory of the get
• 48:54
  Speaker 3: To Foundation. You want to let the pet Sikos know
• 48:56
  Speaker 3: a little about a little bit about that.
• 48:58
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I believe it's It was Nate's brother, Ben was
• 49:01
  Speaker 4: a football coach and preached the you'd get to, not
• 49:05
  Speaker 4: have to, get to, not have to is their foundation.
• 49:08
  Speaker 4: It's a mindset around the fact that everything in life,
• 49:10
  Speaker 4: people are like I have to do all these things,
• 49:11
  Speaker 4: you know, you get to, and how blessed we are
• 49:13
  Speaker 4: to have that mindset for it. But he had tragically
• 49:16
  Speaker 4: passed away, so they started the foundation and they get
• 49:19
  Speaker 4: to was kind of how he was remembered through it all.
• 49:21
  Speaker 4: And so obviously we love you know, the hat and
• 49:24
  Speaker 4: everything about it, but really it's it's the foundation. It's
• 49:26
  Speaker 4: donating to it and what they they kind of fight
• 49:28
  Speaker 4: for over there. So it's a beautiful foundation that just
• 49:30
  Speaker 4: saw our clip about saying get to instead of half to,
• 49:34
  Speaker 4: and so it's just a really really cool cause we
• 49:36
  Speaker 4: can get behind.
• 49:37
  Speaker 3: He also sent us these posters, he sent us these hats,
• 49:42
  Speaker 3: he sent us some bracelets.
• 49:44
  Speaker 2: That Derek's rocking one right now.
• 49:47
  Speaker 3: All that being said, thank you very very much for
• 49:51
  Speaker 3: sending that. We also have a book that was written
• 49:56
  Speaker 3: by J.
• 49:58
  Speaker 2: T Roy.
• 49:59
  Speaker 3: It was his first go at writing any book, and
• 50:03
  Speaker 3: it's a children's book called Milli Bananas Can't Sleep. I
• 50:09
  Speaker 3: have read Milli Bananas Can't Sleep. I've read it to Scarlet.
• 50:12
  Speaker 3: It is a fantastic book about Milli Bananas and her
• 50:16
  Speaker 3: parents going through the checklists of all the things that
• 50:20
  Speaker 3: need to be done in order for Milli Bananas to
• 50:22
  Speaker 3: be ready for bed. And guys, it is really fun
• 50:26
  Speaker 3: if you're looking to build a nighttime structure with your
• 50:29
  Speaker 3: kid of just all the little things, so brushing the teeth,
• 50:33
  Speaker 3: combing the hair, taking a bath. These Milli Bananas run
• 50:36
  Speaker 3: through like all this stuff with her parents. The illustrations
• 50:40
  Speaker 3: are extremely well done.
• 50:42
  Speaker 2: Those were done by Yanna Kozak.
• 50:46
  Speaker 6: But J.
• 50:46
  Speaker 3: T Roy, who is a pt SIKO, wanted to just
• 50:51
  Speaker 3: send this our way and we can't think of enough.
• 50:53
  Speaker 3: He also sent us a little care package which this
• 50:56
  Speaker 3: looks like a marketing care package that and maybe it
• 51:01
  Speaker 3: comes with the book. I don't know, but we got
• 51:04
  Speaker 3: this awesome care package that came with like a Milli
• 51:06
  Speaker 3: Banana's stuffed animal. It came with a toothbrush like a
• 51:09
  Speaker 3: toddler toothbrush. When I showed it to Jill she lost
• 51:13
  Speaker 3: her mind. Jillie Bean loved it and we love the book.
• 51:16
  Speaker 3: So JT thank you. Let's see what else? Oh, we
• 51:23
  Speaker 3: have not only a DM but a nice little treat
• 51:28
  Speaker 3: from Christy. This comes from Christy Schlessinger. She is a
• 51:33
  Speaker 3: speech pathologist. She is also a feeding specialist. Christy wrote
• 51:39
  Speaker 3: in to the for the Dad's Podcast instagram from her
• 51:43
  Speaker 3: Instagram feeding with confidence. So she said, Hey, I'm Christy.
• 51:49
  Speaker 3: I'm a speech slash feeding therapist and I run an
• 51:53
  Speaker 3: account helping moms and dads in parentheses because you know
• 51:57
  Speaker 3: Papa Team six feed their baby in toddlers and I
• 52:02
  Speaker 3: had to reach out after your podcast clip about feeding
• 52:05
  Speaker 3: your daughter. My husband is a Tier one fan of
• 52:08
  Speaker 3: for the Dad's in Busting with the Boys. So here's
• 52:11
  Speaker 3: the download for the guide I sell to parents. I
• 52:15
  Speaker 3: had to hook you up, but really, if you have
• 52:17
  Speaker 3: any specific questions, I'm also happy to help big hug
• 52:21
  Speaker 3: signy kisses. My husband told me to say that. Christy,
• 52:25
  Speaker 3: thank you so much for reaching out. I've already run through.
• 52:29
  Speaker 3: So Christy sent her thirty day solid feeding plan for
• 52:36
  Speaker 3: newborns for toddlers, which is titled the Milk to Meals Blueprint. Christy,
• 52:44
  Speaker 3: I've already run through some of it with Jill. Her
• 52:47
  Speaker 3: being a registered nurse, she is going into the solid
• 52:50
  Speaker 3: stuff with like a whole gang of stuff that she's
• 52:54
  Speaker 3: learned from the hospital, et cetera. A lot of stuff
• 52:57
  Speaker 3: that Christy talks about in this piece of literature. And
• 53:02
  Speaker 3: Jill was like, Chris, Chrissy knows what she's talking about.
• 53:06
  Speaker 3: She's on one, and so we're just kind of laughing
• 53:10
  Speaker 3: and going through some of the meal prep stuff and
• 53:13
  Speaker 3: some of the feeding techniques and how do you want
• 53:16
  Speaker 3: to have your baby set up in a high chair
• 53:18
  Speaker 3: and eliminate distractions. Christy touches on a lot of cool
• 53:22
  Speaker 3: stuff in this, so make sure to check her out
• 53:26
  Speaker 3: on feeding with confidence and Christy Celessinger, thank you for
• 53:31
  Speaker 3: sending that in.
• 53:33
  Speaker 2: Guys, we hope you enjoyed the rest of this episode.
• 53:35
  Speaker 2: The rest of this pod.
• 53:37
  Speaker 3: Put put a little emoji down at the bottom. What
• 53:41
  Speaker 3: emoji should we do? If you listen to this entire segment,
• 53:46
  Speaker 3: Thank you segment The little beach, the little Beach. Thank
• 53:50
  Speaker 3: you guys, enjoy the rest of the episode.
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: I got one to hear from Ashton car pri Oh Ashley,
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: Ashton Carper.
• 53:57
  Speaker 2: This one is This one is a new dat.
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: Shout out Willie one show Fat Stafford, Chef Bama owns
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: Tennessee Jack and Deep the Wise. The time has come.
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: It is two thirty am, currently sitting at the foot
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: of the bed of an absolute trooper. She is housing
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: a greater than ninety ninth percentile terrorist whom I thought
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: just pissed herself. Turns out her water broke. Good good.
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: I just want to reach out and thank you all
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: for the not professional advice and all of the under
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: an hour sodes. When that test showed positive, I was
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: completely filled with joy and fear. This podcast has taught
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: me that the suck will happen and then trenches are
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: dug deep. But when y'all have But what y'all have
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: also shown from your deeperot love and passion for your
• 54:43
  Speaker 1: girls is that it is all worth it. So hopefully
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: here in the next twenty four hours we will be
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: welcoming our first daughter, Maple Joe. Yeah, let's go shout
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: out Ashton shout out you guys man and good luck.
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: I hope everything went well. I love the name Maple
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: by the way out.
• 55:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, maple Joe.
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: Maple Joe makes you think of Scottie Joe and I
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: do you love maple Just a little syrup, a little something,
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: little Vermont maple syrup.
• 55:11
  Speaker 2: Maple Joe. Yeah, maple Joe. That's hout. Maple Joe.
• 55:14
  Speaker 3: Sounds like they could give you good advice at anytime. Yeah, yes,
• 55:18
  Speaker 3: mapel Joe. You run that by Maple Joe. Maple Joe
• 55:23
  Speaker 3: sounds kind of like an Auburn fan name. I think
• 55:25
  Speaker 3: she might make a great one.
• 55:29
  Speaker 2: He came with the boys show. Yes, she gets firing back.
• 55:33
  Speaker 2: Congratulates your four day old daughter. She's gonna make a
• 55:36
  Speaker 2: great Auburn fan. No, I didn't go for Tennessee. I
• 55:40
  Speaker 2: went for Auburn. I suped a little well.
• 55:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah, no, it don't wear her. Congratulations that's amazing or
• 55:47
  Speaker 3: eagle maple uh. Michael panel four three three five on
• 55:52
  Speaker 3: YouTube set joining pt six in May recently found this
• 55:55
  Speaker 3: podcast that I Am an episode I am on episode twelve,
• 55:59
  Speaker 3: already got the wife. He hooked on it as well,
• 56:02
  Speaker 3: and we hope to be all caught up by the
• 56:04
  Speaker 3: time baby boy comes. Congratulations Will, I'm a lot like
• 56:08
  Speaker 3: you when it comes to building things, embracing the suck
• 56:11
  Speaker 3: already in regards to the nursery, commenting on the most
• 56:15
  Speaker 3: recent episode and hopes to see uh it shared on
• 56:18
  Speaker 3: the show. Keep up the good work, boys, Michael, thank
• 56:21
  Speaker 3: you for speed touring.
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: Thank you, Michael, Michael one shelf, Mike Mikey one shelf,
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: Mikey one shelf, Mikey one shelf. If he has my mentality,
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: I know he's embracing the suck right now. If he
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: has if he has my mentality playing chess, you jump
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: on task, grab it or something else.
• 56:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Well get somebody over there with the
• 56:41
  Speaker 2: hours when mom's out.
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: Haven't put together that crib, haven't put together that shelf, cabinet,
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: whatever it is. And then when mom walks in the
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: doorbell you a lot of people Mikey one shelf, handled.
• 56:52
  Speaker 3: That, a lot of people sleeping on one shelf. This
• 56:54
  Speaker 3: is your cube that you used a power saw and
• 56:58
  Speaker 3: you're able to cut out a square where of wood.
• 57:01
  Speaker 3: I thought you operated quite nicely. Thank one shell, Thank you,
• 57:05
  Speaker 3: And yeah.
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: Look I'm not I'm not like a third grader out
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: there operating on somebody to struggle to read directions the
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: times they will remain unnamed, but we had some people
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: strip some screws.
• 57:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you did not strip your screw You did a
• 57:16
  Speaker 3: great job.
• 57:17
  Speaker 2: Thank you for Willy.
• 57:18
  Speaker 3: One shell from yeah yeah really one show from where
• 57:21
  Speaker 3: I'm at in the in the pecking order, Yes sir,
• 57:23
  Speaker 3: yes sir, very quickly. I wanted to kick it over
• 57:27
  Speaker 3: to crack a cold one.
• 57:29
  Speaker 2: Wull we crack a cold one.
• 57:30
  Speaker 1: Just you remind people please for chances to be featured
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: on the episode again you you you write in comments
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: and or comments sections on YouTube, Spotify, social media. The
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: boys find them. We feature a lot of stuff on
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: this on this show. Also, we'll get to the voicemails later,
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: but you can always write in uh six on one
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: of the dads, call in and leave a voicemail, or
• 57:50
  Speaker 1: write in if you're international, or would rather write in
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: an email six on one of the dads at gmail
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: dot com.
• 57:56
  Speaker 3: And as we discussed and kind of decided on last
• 57:59
  Speaker 3: week's episode, you.
• 58:00
  Speaker 2: Get a hat. You get a hat and get a
• 58:03
  Speaker 2: mail in So email is hat?
• 58:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, cap, you get a cap. It had to
• 58:13
  Speaker 3: be read on the show, and they have to be
• 58:17
  Speaker 3: an international ride in.
• 58:20
  Speaker 2: I believe they.
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: Just get get picked out because there's some people that
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: might not just just prefer to write in the email,
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: gather their gather their thoughts, put it down on put
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: it down on the computer.
• 58:32
  Speaker 3: They're in witness protection. They can have their voice on
• 58:34
  Speaker 3: a podcast. Yeah, you know, but they're pet sick.
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: It would be fun to get a voicemail where you
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: kind of got the automated.
• 58:41
  Speaker 2: Voice Willie won show. That would be fun. They have
• 58:46
  Speaker 2: to hide.
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: Behind that voice because they're going to continue to like
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: call out people in this family by name.
• 58:54
  Speaker 3: My daughter's starting to act more and more like my wife,
• 58:58
  Speaker 3: and it's driving like, what this guy do we have
• 59:03
  Speaker 3: his phone number? We need to locate this guy. Craig
• 59:07
  Speaker 3: A cold one, Crack A cold one brought to us
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• 59:19
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• 59:23
  Speaker 3: Cold One will be brought to you by Ollipop.
• 59:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: And there's a lot of conversation out there about Ollipop.
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: I feel like I put out stuff now and I
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: could just be I could be talking about just classic
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: grape and people are wondering why it's slid down in
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: the rankings. Hey, where's the love for Ridge Rush? Where's
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: the love for Ridge Rush? Where's the love for Vintage Colo?
• 59:45
  Speaker 1: Where's the love for root beer? Were somebody was talking
• 59:47
  Speaker 1: about root Pier. I think you're sleeping on I think
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: root beer is a quality Ollipop. But if there's one
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: thing I'm gonna be with you guys on this podcast,
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: it's honest. It's honest, and I think that's why Ollipop
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  Speaker 1: trusts for the dads. But this episode is brought to
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• 1:00:04
  Speaker 3: It sure is, it sure is. This episode is brought
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  Speaker 3: to us by Ollipop, and they sent us some Sureley temples.
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  Speaker 3: I can't wait to try I haven't tried it yet.
• 1:00:16
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  Speaker 2: That's it sounds good?
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 3: How's it taste?
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: That's quite lovely. That's quite lovely if I think about
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: where my rankings are with Ollipop. And by the way, guys,
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: we talked about it on every episode went into a
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  Speaker 1: big time last week. But nine grams of pre bodic fiber,
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: two to five grams of sugar per can and each
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 1: of these can. So if you're a big if you're
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: a soda drinker, and you're looking to find a good substitute,
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: a quality substitute that's good for your gut and good
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: fear taste buds, it's Ollipop. If you don't like drinking
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: water all the time, you like to switch it up
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: a little bit. Ollipop. They're everywhere. Go find Ollipop everywhere.
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: It's how I walk into a gas station. I had
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 1: to find the ollipops. Yeah, my local gas station, my
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 1: local spot that I go to three four times a week.
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: They have watermelon lime. Oh and watermelon lime is which
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: right now cemented, cemented, written in pencil, not pin, not sharpie.
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 2: Yep. But my number two slot is taken up by
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 2: watermelon lime. Really yeah.
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: Number one is chrisp Apple, okay. Number two is watermelon lime.
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: Number three is classic grape. These are all phenomenal jicks.
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: It's just you gotta you gotta rank them, you know.
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: My number four is cream soda. My number five might
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: be the Shirley Temple. Really yeah, I like it. I
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 1: think very pleasant, the Shirley Temples. This is the same
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: note that I give with almost every ollipop flavor. It's
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  Speaker 3: Crack a cold one goes to our brunch, which I
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 3: thought it would be, And dude, it was just so
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 3: much fun. I for so many reasons. We already talked
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 3: about Ru interacting with Scarlett. I got to play with
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 3: Rue a bunch. It was fun getting to see her
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 3: interaction with Scottie, her sister. It was fun getting to
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 3: see her interactions with you. She was really wanting to
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 3: pull me into pulling a prank on Willie one shelf.
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 3: She wanted to get you so bad with that. She
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 3: was invisible, Where Where's real? Where's real? And she's like
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 3: uncle sherm, you ask ask my dad does where is reu?
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 3: She's getting me in on it. She's hiding behind me.
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 3: Will walks out the damn restaurant. He walked out in
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 3: the room.
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 2: Because where's Rue?
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 1: And I just see like Ru's little head popping behind
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: his back like he's just sitting on a beach. He's
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: sitting on like the bench in the boot, like the
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: booth side, and 's just high mind. And he's like, Hey,
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: where's Rue? And I was like, oh, where's Rue?
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 3: Nobody Will? And I'm being serious, this isn't a game.
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 3: Where's your daughter?
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 2: Like I really?
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: I was, Yeah, he's playing to I was like, oh,
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: anybody seeing Rue? Hey, guys, is Rude back there? I'm like,
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: oh my gosh, I don't know where who is. I'm
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: gonna have to go check the car. I'm gonna have
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: to go outside. So I get up and start walking
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, where's Rue.
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 2: She is losing it.
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 3: I just feel this vibration on my back of her
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 3: losing it behind me thinking it's deep, funniest thing in
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 3: the word.
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: And I'm thinking in my head hopefully she says something,
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 1: so Dada, as I have to go outside and pretend
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: to walk to the car.
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 2: You could you hear me? Yeah? I get hear I
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 2: get here, sir.
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 3: I'm trying to get her to say, like, hey, tell him,
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 3: tell him, Like, and I walk outside and I'm like, well,
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 3: now I'm outside, and I got to walk around the
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 3: corner here.
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: Then I see the windows. I'm like, all right, maybe
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: I can look in the windows and so I don't
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 1: have to walk all the way to the carcause I'm
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: trying to think. Okay in her mind, and she knows
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: that Dad is leaving and leaving the building, maybe she'll
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: panic a little bit like Dad, I'm right here, I'm
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: right here. It's all good. Oh yeah, But no, she
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: kept the prank alive to where I'm in the window.
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: And then I look and I'm like, oh.
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 2: My god, there you are literally what he did. He
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 2: goes the window.
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 3: Another party sitting there like looking over at me, probably wondering,
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 3: like looking at them, They're like this, Psicho, what are
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 3: they like?
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 2: Oh my god? Walk inside. I'm like, dude, where were you?
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 2: She's just not even talking, she's laughing. So, yeah, what's
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 2: the story? I heard? You did not defend her from
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 2: a bear? There was a bear? Can we hear about
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 2: that one?
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 6: Sure?
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Wait did you post that the bathroom thing? The
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 2: bathroom thing? When when she went to the bathroom. Oh yeah,
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 2: my story, Oh my story. I storied it.
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I storied it. I mean I can give the
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 3: video for context. Okay, yeah, video for context. I want
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 3: to give my video too, because that was hilarious.
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 2: But you go, that's a matter of fact. There we go.
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: I can build on the crack of cold one. Yeah,
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: the moment that rus like, Dad, I need to go potty.
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: I want Uncle Sharm to take me potty. You know,
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: I'm being scotty And I'm already laughing in my.
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 2: Head because just as a new dad, like when your daughter.
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking more of girl dads, because boys, I don't
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: see it being it wouldn't feel this way, but having
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: your daughter and then she gets the to the point
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 1: where she can go potty on her own as long
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: as like somebody's there to you know, shaperone or like
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: take her. And I just remember the first feelings I
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 1: had when I was in public and She's like a
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: dead out, I need to go potty. I want you
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: to take me potty, and Mom's sitting right there, and
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: then I'm like do what do I Just take her
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: in the men's bathroom.
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 2: She's like, yeah, just take her into the cell of the.
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: Men's bathroom, like okay, but just feeling what I was
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: feeling with my own daughter, being like, oh, I guess
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 1: I just take her into a stall in the men's bathroom,
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: just knowing that she wanted Uncle Shrm to take her.
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: And I'm laughing to myself because I'm like, yeah, Uncle
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: Sherm can take you.
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 2: It can take you potty.
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, sure, you gotta go. She wants you
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 1: to take her potty, and I'm just assuming. Surem's like
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: is this really gonna happen? Are you kind of messing
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: with me right now? I'm like, dude, she wants you
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: to take her. Boy, you want Sherman to take your potty?
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 1: And she's like yeah, Like SUREM take her to the
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: bathroom man, And He's like, oh, do I just do?
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 1: I just I'm like, dude, she knows everything to do.
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: You're just she just wants you. She she just wants
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: you to take her.
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 3: I'm outside of the bathroom because this is my first
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 3: potty trip of all time. I look in the bathroom.
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 3: There's no stall, so I'm like I look at will
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 3: and I'm like.
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 2: It's just a like it's just a room. With one toilet.
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 2: I'm like, do I do I go in there? Or
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 2: am I right here?
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: And looking at me like with like panic in his
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: eyes and I'm looking at smiling. Yeah, I'm looking at
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: his smile. I'm like, She goes and sure he's gonna
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: go and he'll just wait outside, all right. I took
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 1: your body, like go in there and do.
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 3: Do you know what you do? She sits on the
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 3: toilet and I'm just looking at like toilets over here,
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 3: and there's like a mirror and uh hand dryer, paper
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 3: towel and soap thing, and I'm just like kind of
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 3: staring at I'm staring at the soap thing. I'm kind
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 3: of like eyes are like grass like over here, and
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 3: Ree's over here being and she goes, I'll go, Saram,
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 3: why why do you not watch? And I go, h,
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 3: that's a good question.
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 2: Real.
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 3: I was like, I am, you know, I'm just kind
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 3: of looking at the secret now.
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 2: I don't know.
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 3: I'm just because I'm thinking in my head to answer
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 3: why I'm not watching. It's just a whole other that's
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 3: a whole other avenue to go down. So I'm like,
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 3: that's a great question. And then she goes oh, the
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 3: toilet paper is far and it was really far from her,
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 3: and I was like, oh, to Will's exact point. Hey,
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 3: there's gonna be stuff out of reach for it. You
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 3: just like you put it in her vicinity, and so I.
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 2: Moved it over.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 3: And then there is a little thing to put your
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 3: phone on top of the toilet paper. And she was like,
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 3: I'll gole Seran, what's this And she's just sitting on
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 3: the toilet and I'm like, that is you know, probably
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 3: you put some soap there, you put some you put
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 3: your phone there. And as I'm talking to her, she's
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 3: getting bored and she just goes, there's a bear. There's
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 3: a bear. And she grabs the toilet paper and starts wiping,
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 3: gets off the toilet. She goes, I go, there's a bear.
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 2: We gotta go, We gotta go. And I'm like, you
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 2: gotta wash your hands. You gotta wash your hands.
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 3: She could reach the soap thing, and she couldn't get
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 3: her hand like high enough. So I just do the
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 3: soap thing and I scrape it on.
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 2: As you go like you can't reach it. Let me
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 2: just here you go. You rue turn on the sink.
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 3: Oh man, that was That was an experience, dude, that
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 3: was an experience.
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 2: Anytime, I don't want to be in a conversation with
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 2: someone from now and to.
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 3: Be like, there's a bear in this room. You get
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 3: out of here right now. There is a bear that
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 3: will attack us, and we need to go. It feels
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 3: like you didn't try and save it from the bear.
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 3: I said, no, we're out of there.
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 1: We're just like breaking it down. However, we didn't save
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: it from the bear. And I just look over for
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: sure in MyD how to go.
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 2: It's good. She's wondered why I wasn't looking at her?
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 3: Why do you not watch?
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 2: Why do you not watch me?
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 5: Oh?
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 2: No, real, it's a yeah, there's a good call. I
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 2: don't know why I don't watch, dude. She's so adorable.
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 1: She says, like, instead of like I really say, I
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 1: really want to do that, she says, I very want
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: to do that. Oh, it's it's just very she substitutes
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: very very really. It's adorable, bro.
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 3: Her forgetting to hug Scarlet and I they were like
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 3: ninety percent of the way to will Scarr and she
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 3: turns the well and goes, I I.
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 2: Didn't say by the uncle Sherman.
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 3: Scarlet and she just comes running down that little wind tunnel.
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 2: I'll go German, Uncle, German. She's sprinting at me.
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 3: I'm like, dude, this is unreal levels acute. It was
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 3: unreal levels acute.
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it would have went sideways quick as she not
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 1: said goodbye to you guys. Oh yeah, he'll go sideways
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: quick with us if she didn't tell us like goodbye, hugs,
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: GISs three squeezes, like three different times. Yeah, or because again,
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: her sign off is don't let the bed bugs by
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: go be great. Like, look, don't let the bed bugs
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: by in any situation. It could be eleven in the morning,
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: don't let the bed bugs by go be great. And
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: you got to see it back to her. Yeah, you're like,
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 1: don't let the bed bugs by go be gray. It's like,
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: oh you too, She's like, don't let the bed bugs
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 1: by go be g don't let the bed bugs by
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: go be great.
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 2: That's good game. That'll be in my repertoire for next time. Yeah.
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 3: So, man, dude, the little hug that she gave Scarlet too,
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 3: she and turned her around like the yeah, you know,
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 3: thing was facing that way and I turned the stroller
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 3: around and she put her whole body on top of
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 3: Scarlet in the stroller and put her cheek on Scarlet's
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 3: cheek and just pat it like this.
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, dude.
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: Every night, whenever I'm putting Scotty down, every night, Roue
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: has to go in, like when your lights can be off.
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: Lights can be on when you're getting ready, but uh,
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: like last night, lights are off.
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 2: She walks in. She just comes in quietly. She knows
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 2: the drill.
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 1: All she wants to do is give Scotty a hug,
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: kissing three squeezes. Oh yeah, she comes over. Scotty will
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: just be knocking the bottle out and she just lean
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: in and kind of do the hug, give her a
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 1: kiss on the head and then just grab like her
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 1: wrists her forearm that's on the because her hands attached
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: to the bottle, and she would be like one, two, three,
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: I love you.
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 2: As she shut the door.
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: Okay, don't de bedbugs by, Scottie, go be great every
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 1: night when she walks out. There was chaos happening the
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: other night because we were flying out to New York.
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: Charo had a workshop, and so we had the babysitter
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: over helping me out with bedtime because I had to
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: leave before like eight o'clock, and so I was.
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 3: Putting Scotty down. I'm like, hey, and she knows, like,
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 3: we will walk you through the whole routine.
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: But I hear Rue losing it because she's trying to
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 1: basically ask Ava if she can go in She's like,
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: I always go in there and give Scotty hugkis and
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: three squeezes.
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 2: But Ava doesn't know.
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 1: She hasn't been in this situation and where she's like, no,
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: you know that has putting down Scotty, you can't go
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: in there, and Rue's just losing her mind, going bad
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: shit outside the door.
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 3: And I can hear it really when you said mind
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 3: your pie's and cues with Rue, it will could not
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 3: be more correct.
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 2: Of like everything is like Defcon one and in Ree's life.
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, like if we aren't going by the books,
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 3: this is not good.
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, if you're not going by the structure, she knows
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: and understands thoroughly.
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, there will be problems, yes, And she's like, I
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 2: do it every night. I do it every night. Leave
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 2: me alone, Ava.
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 3: I'm just like I'm trying to text ay, but you
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 3: can let her in here and I'm like, ruh, come
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 3: up here.
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 2: And then she comes in. I'm like, what's wrong. She's like,
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 2: I just wanted to give Scottie hug kids. I'm like,
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 2: here you go. She gives her huggets three squeezes. Then
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 2: she's from there. She's just in the mood's fine, yeah,
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 2: then worried. Yeah, we're off to the races. She just
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 2: let her know I do this every night. I'm telling
• 1:14:17
  Speaker 2: you you were wrong in this situation. Remind reminds me
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 2: of some fun.
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 6: Dude.
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 2: I'd real I have some I have some dad hacks here,
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 2: some write ends. Yes, please want hit some dad hacks.
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 1: By the way, ordered the uh ordering that that's not
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 1: sucker system that operation?
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 2: Did you really? Yeah?
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 1: I still got to do it like like like seventy
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 1: five bucks. I'm like, what are we talking about here?
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: This could be a much easier experience for the kids,
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 1: Like we have a pretty good life. We can we
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 1: can get a seventy five dollars not sucker number one.
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: I want to play with that. I want to use
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 1: it for my notes.
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 2: I will say.
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 3: Hopefully Charlie uses it one time and says worth every penny,
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 3: because that's how that's how I felt in comparing it
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 3: to the manualsnot sucker.
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we got one here a dad hack from Ryan
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  Speaker 1: Ridley on Spotify. Ryan Ridley top three most inspiring people
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  Speaker 1: in my life other than my wife and mother. One
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  Speaker 1: Thomas Jefferson, two Kobe Bryant, three Will Compton. Thank you
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 1: for all you guys do makes the Daily Grind a
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 1: little bit more entertaining. Pa Sherman, you are my top
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 1: ten favorite people in the podcast world. Taylor Lawan is
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  Speaker 1: nineteen Okay who it was under the dad Hacks file?
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  Speaker 2: Anythink?
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 3: Who's that?
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 2: From Ryan Ridley?
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 3: Ryan, Thank you. That is extremely flattering. Thank you very much,
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 3: Ryan crack the top ten. I got one from Maryanna Graham.
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 3: She says, boys, my boy, this is a DM on Instagram. Boys,
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 3: my boyfriend Jay Hernandez and I love your podcast so much.
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 3: His birthday is Jane Uuary seventeenth, and I so badly
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 3: want to shout him out on the pod if possible,
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 3: even if it's not the same day. Just for him
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 3: to hear at any point would be crazy. Please tell
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 3: me anything I can do to make this happen. We
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 3: love the hearts that you have for your family and
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 3: one day when we're married. The way I want to
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 3: tell him he's a dad. The way I want to
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 3: tell him he's a dad is literally by putting out Pt.
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  Speaker 3: Six merch on the table. Thanks so much for the consideration,
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 3: and God bless y'all. He's a strong, compassionate and so
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 3: patient and just the funniest and most handsome guy. I
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 3: know the definition of nothing is not my job. Such
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 3: a hard worker, and I am so proud of the man,
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 3: the man of God that he is. If anyone deserves
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 3: a b day shout out, it's my man, Jay.
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 2: Dude. Happy birthday, Jay.
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 3: Jay, you already got the best gift of all time. Bro,
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 3: that's crazy. Sounds like Jay crushes it, dude, Jane crushes.
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 3: They're not even married yet, and She's like, this is
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 3: this is the guy I'm telling you. I can't wait
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 3: to have kids with him, can't wait for him to
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 3: be a father. Seemen Team six, Happy birthday, Happy birthday, Bro,
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 3: Jay Hernandez, Good lord.
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 2: What's the was it was that a dad hack pile
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 2: the dad hack steck. Yesterday was a tough day for me.
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 2: I need a little grace here, dad.
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 3: Hack finds you a woman that's going to write something
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 3: like that to be featured before the.
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 2: Day it was good dad hack.
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 3: My second dad hack is this one comes from Cheney
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 3: Got It PT six Siko on YouTube to all PT
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 3: six this Jilly Bean situation fellas is something we should
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 3: not take lightly.
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 2: Again.
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 1: If you listened to the episode last week, Jilly Bean
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 1: wrote a comment in on Facebook and somebody.
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 2: Said yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 1: What was the comment back is like, hey, how about
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 1: you stop asking for people to raise your kids and
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 1: you raise them, you raise them yourself. Yeah, you stripid
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  Speaker 1: B word. Yeah no, truly like you you F and
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 1: B and you're a piece of shit right Because Jilly
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 1: Bean was asking if there were any sitters in the area,
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 1: went to a Facebook group and was just trying to
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 1: vet like, Hey, any recommendations out there for babysitters me
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 1: and Hppy we're trying to go on a date night.
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 1: Can we set up a sting operation? These are the
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 1: pt Siccos I've been waiting this is Cheney Got It
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 1: PT six Siko. Can we create another profile and post
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 1: something similar to what Jill posted so we can lure
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 1: this jackass out again? Because you know this isn't the
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 1: first time he's had something on that Facebook group dot
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 1: just an idea.
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 2: Hey, those are people you go to war.
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 3: I'll tell you right now, Channing Channing, Channing Chane.
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 2: Cheney Cheney.
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 3: I will find this Facebook group and I will post
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 3: it in there, and i'll uh, you know, put the
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 3: babysitter thing out there, and we'll see if we can't
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 3: catch one.
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 2: We'll see if we can't catch one, because I would
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 2: love here we go again. There's another one that doesn't
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 2: want to raise their kid. They want the village to
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 2: raise it.
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's time to set up this sting operation. Shout
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 1: out Cheney for this. That's a bad hack. That's adad hack.
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 1: Lure him out, lure him out. That is a good dad,
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 1: a good dad hack. You thought dad's worked together, Yes,
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 1: this is our dad's worked together.
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 3: Our dot canner five seven one seven. On YouTube, he said,
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 3: I've recently graduated from buds to p PT six.
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 2: Congratulations wife.
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 3: He went into labor on New Year's Eve and after
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 3: a very few, very stressful moments in the hospital, our
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 3: firstborn boy h I was brought into the world on
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 3: January second.
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 2: Couldn't be happier.
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 3: And I have our very own bear cub to call
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 3: our own dude January second. That was literally last week. Congratulations,
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 3: a few dad hacks I was already able to pick
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 3: up even after only being a dad for less than
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 3: a week. I bought wife a pair of cheap walkie
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 3: talkies for Christmas for us to use while we're in
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 3: the newborn trenches. I can already tell you that saying
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 3: this is Papa Bear come in, Mama Bear over the
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 3: radio has already been useful and brought some fun into our.
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 2: New journey of perra. This is great. That was awesome.
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 3: I want Walkees immediately for expecting dads. Go ahead and
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 3: buy yourself some Halo brand baby swaddles. We couldn't for
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 3: the life of us get the traditional swaddle or even
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 3: velcro swaddle to work the first few days, but the
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 3: Halo has been a godsend. Do yourself a favor and
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 3: get on that. I have heard Jill bring up Halo before.
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 3: That's like a big brand. Biggest thing I was worried
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 3: about before becoming a father was whether or not I'd
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 3: be able to quote unquote lock in and think clearly
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 3: in terms of helping out mom, taking care of our
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 3: little man et cetera. However, if you just follow what
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 3: these guys say and embrace the suck, both in the
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 3: hospital and at home, you'll be hooked in terms of
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 3: being a father, which will in turn help wife you
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 3: get more sleep and get through this very difficult adjustment
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 3: period skin to skin. Decluttering the house and picking up
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 3: a lot of the late shifts might sound like more work,
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 3: but just embracing it all will actually one make it
• 1:21:32
  Speaker 3: easier to navigate.
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 2: Love what you guys do?
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 3: You guys truly help me prepare for this new journey.
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 3: Your boy Ryan aka Smalls Dude.
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 1: Shout out Ryan, that's good. That's a good right in.
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 1: That's a lot of good Dad hecks in there too,
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 1: fabulous right in. Ryan murdered it with the walkie talkies.
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 3: Murdered it with the walkie talkies coming in sneaky, Sneaky
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 3: is decluttering the house and picking up picking up late
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 3: night shifts. Yeah, just like viewing it that way is
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 3: he doesn't know how much of a w that is
• 1:22:03
  Speaker 3: extra miniature dad hack.
• 1:22:05
  Speaker 2: When they tell you that's okay, I can do it.
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 3: Go ahead and do it without telling them, do without
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 3: telling him doing it, bro, And then they'll go oh
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 3: did you move that blah blah blah. Oh yeah, yeah
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 3: I did that earlier.
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 2: No, you don't have to do that. It's fine, that's
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 2: an immediate go do it and know you and tell
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 2: him about it. Yeah.
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 1: And then when you see him going to come across
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 1: whatever it is, like, say, you cleaned off the island. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 1: She gets up from the couch, she goes over. She
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 1: might get herself an lollipop out of the fridge, of course,
• 1:22:37
  Speaker 1: and then she notices the island. You have to be
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 1: ready for when you were sitting back in the chair
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 1: and you're kind of watching like when she's gonna when
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 1: is she gonna pick this up? And then she sees
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 1: and she kind of like looks around and then like
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 1: like looks over at you, and you're just gonna be
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 1: sitting there like.
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 2: Ask who did that? Go ahead and ask I'm on
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 2: top of the world. I'm on top of the wood. Truly.
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 3: There is no better feeling, none, and that is the
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 3: best feeling to hit him, either with the handwipes or
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 3: the who loves you baby?
• 1:23:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:23:11
  Speaker 1: I was hoping to set something up like that last
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 1: night whenever I didn't wash Rue's hair on Sunday night
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 1: and got it washed last night. We're recording right now
• 1:23:19
  Speaker 1: on Tuesday. Yeah, but Mom calls to like check in,
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 1: let her know she's on her way, and you which dinner?
• 1:23:27
  Speaker 1: Which dinner we got rolling tonight?
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Something.
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 1: We were catching up on something, and Rude just leans
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 1: in because she's got her pjs on, fresh shed and
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 1: just braying new, clean hair. It's like, Mama washed my
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 1: hair and kind of blew the surprise before Mama came home,
• 1:23:42
  Speaker 1: because I was waiting for Mama to see Rue.
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 3: Oh.
• 1:23:44
  Speaker 1: Ruin gives her hug, like, oh, you're clean, and then
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 1: I was just gonna be standing there like you doubted me,
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 1: didn't You told you wasn't gonna have to do nothing,
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 1: told you I get her hair washed.
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 3: Rus spoils it before you, even after.
• 1:23:59
  Speaker 1: Your because I'm sitting there on speaker, and then you know,
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 1: Scotti hears Mom's voice.
• 1:24:04
  Speaker 2: She's by the chair, Usa like leaning over top of
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 2: the chair.
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 1: Oh this was over the phone, over the phone on speaker.
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 1: When you're gonna be home or Rue, she's fifteen minutes away.
• 1:24:13
  Speaker 1: She's like, Mama, I washed my hair, and I just
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 1: go damn it.
• 1:24:16
  Speaker 5: Rue.
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 2: She goes dang it, dang it, yeah, dang it, Roue.
• 1:24:21
  Speaker 3: Hey, I think Rue is very intelligent. I'm not just
• 1:24:26
  Speaker 3: saying that Real is very intelligent. She's at that that
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 3: phase that I think you could have the talk with
• 1:24:31
  Speaker 3: her of Ru. You you could really be uh, dad
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 3: Dad's number one girl if you. What I need you
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 3: to do is make Daddad look as good as possible
• 1:24:45
  Speaker 3: in front of Mama's This is what's gonna happen. These
• 1:24:48
  Speaker 3: are the steps that we're gonna take you. I am
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 3: fully bringing you to my side. These are the ways
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 3: that you can assist me. Yeah, I think she might
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 3: be ready.
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 2: For that talk. Framing a way to empower her. Opportunity
• 1:25:01
  Speaker 2: that she has.
• 1:25:01
  Speaker 3: This is a big opportunity for you, Rue.
• 1:25:04
  Speaker 2: Let her know it's not for me, Oh, no, for her,
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 2: for you.
• 1:25:08
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you could really do some damage here, real. Yeah.
• 1:25:14
  Speaker 3: Oh the kitchen smells so good. Oh really, Rue, Oh
• 1:25:18
  Speaker 3: my gosh. Oh yeah, the kitchen does smell good.
• 1:25:20
  Speaker 2: Honey.
• 1:25:20
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, well I cleaned it. I guess I don't
• 1:25:23
  Speaker 3: know what Roue's talking about.
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 1: Just ride when mom comes home. Dad did a really
• 1:25:26
  Speaker 1: good job playing in the entire kitchen. Sweetheart, you don't
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 1: have to say that a cookie on the side. Keep
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 1: it up, keep it up. Hey, there we go. Okay,
• 1:25:39
  Speaker 1: I have two voice smails, perfect, let's rip them. Uh,
• 1:25:43
  Speaker 1: just a reminder.
• 1:25:43
  Speaker 3: You call in, you get free merch six and one
• 1:25:46
  Speaker 3: the dad six on one of the dads that's the
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 3: call in number. You don't want to call in, you
• 1:25:50
  Speaker 3: ride in six. On one of the dad's at Gmail,
• 1:25:53
  Speaker 3: you get a hat boom. This one's titled don't eat
• 1:25:57
  Speaker 3: my Oreos?
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 7: What up?
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 6: Boys? On my emergency gas station?
• 1:26:04
  Speaker 8: Run?
• 1:26:05
  Speaker 6: My wife is thirty five weeks pregnant.
• 1:26:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he's in the turches. Baby here any day.
• 1:26:13
  Speaker 6: We kind of have an unwritten rule on our house,
• 1:26:17
  Speaker 6: but I'm not allowed to eat anything if it's the
• 1:26:22
  Speaker 6: last like thing of it, like last cookie in the jar.
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 6: So that ties into this story. We had some oreos
• 1:26:33
  Speaker 6: in the cabinet and there was like three left for
• 1:26:37
  Speaker 6: about a week, and I just followed that unwritten rule
• 1:26:41
  Speaker 6: and didn't need them. Well tonight comes along. It's been
• 1:26:45
  Speaker 6: about a week, like I said, and your.
• 1:26:48
  Speaker 8: Boy was hungry. Dad's hungry, So I snacked on three oreos.
• 1:26:53
  Speaker 8: It's currently eight point fifty. My wife's laying in bed.
• 1:26:59
  Speaker 8: Kind of some of those oreos that are left in
• 1:27:01
  Speaker 8: the cabinet.
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 2: God damn it.
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 6: Thank god the gas dish was open though, you boy
• 1:27:08
  Speaker 6: got some ordos.
• 1:27:13
  Speaker 2: This is a broken man. God damn.
• 1:27:15
  Speaker 1: Hey, that's a broken man right there. That's a man
• 1:27:19
  Speaker 1: who's just been overruled. You can't have the last of
• 1:27:22
  Speaker 1: whatever it is in the pantry that I might want.
• 1:27:25
  Speaker 1: He doesn't know what to do. He doesn't know how
• 1:27:26
  Speaker 1: to communicate. Right after life thirty five weeks breakant. He
• 1:27:28
  Speaker 1: can't really say a whole lot, you're you're not doing
• 1:27:31
  Speaker 1: anything wrong.
• 1:27:32
  Speaker 2: It's okay. You should be a broken man in thirty
• 1:27:35
  Speaker 2: five weeks. And can I say this, he made the
• 1:27:38
  Speaker 2: right call eating the last three. He did.
• 1:27:41
  Speaker 1: If they've been sitting there for a week, nobody only
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 1: psychos might eat one or two oreos at a time. God,
• 1:27:48
  Speaker 1: if there's a three piece in there that's like the
• 1:27:52
  Speaker 1: serving size.
• 1:27:53
  Speaker 3: And the and the little just glass of milk slides
• 1:27:56
  Speaker 3: and right next to those three oreos, Oh my god,
• 1:27:59
  Speaker 3: who leaves.
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 2: Three oreos in the pack? He goes, Yeah, we're gonna
• 1:28:02
  Speaker 2: leave three left to me. That's it.
• 1:28:05
  Speaker 1: I don't mind the thought of the three oreos. But
• 1:28:07
  Speaker 1: it gets confusing because there's three that's been sitting there
• 1:28:09
  Speaker 1: for a week. And when I go in and I'm
• 1:28:11
  Speaker 1: thinking I'm gonna get me some oreos, you're gonna eat
• 1:28:13
  Speaker 1: a few oreos at least if there's three left.
• 1:28:16
  Speaker 2: That's a fine serving right there. That's decent. It's not
• 1:28:18
  Speaker 2: gonna it's not you know, it's kind of.
• 1:28:20
  Speaker 1: Like a reminder. Okay, I don't need more than three,
• 1:28:21
  Speaker 1: but there's three here that's good enough to operate. Yeah,
• 1:28:24
  Speaker 1: Because when you're pouring a glass of milk, you're not
• 1:28:26
  Speaker 1: just pouring like an inch of milk. If it's one oreo,
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 1: like you're pouring yourself a glass of milk, you might
• 1:28:31
  Speaker 1: cut it in half, just do half the glass.
• 1:28:33
  Speaker 2: And that right there tells you I'll make those.
• 1:28:35
  Speaker 1: Three work with this milk that I have a hundred
• 1:28:38
  Speaker 1: per You sit there and four a quarter of milk
• 1:28:40
  Speaker 1: in the glass. You're not gonna pour anything in between that.
• 1:28:43
  Speaker 1: You want a glass of milk and you can't be
• 1:28:44
  Speaker 1: stuck there. You eat one or two oreos and then
• 1:28:47
  Speaker 1: you have a lot of milk left. It just doesn't
• 1:28:48
  Speaker 1: work like that.
• 1:28:49
  Speaker 3: It does not work like that, dude. I will say
• 1:28:52
  Speaker 3: this is only this is a special occasion. I hate
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 3: to put the pressure on Allipop here because I definitely am.
• 1:28:59
  Speaker 3: I think this guy needs more than just merch. He
• 1:29:02
  Speaker 3: needs something a little sweet. I think we I think
• 1:29:04
  Speaker 3: he needs a little lollipops in his way too. He
• 1:29:07
  Speaker 3: needs a little tree.
• 1:29:08
  Speaker 2: Oh do you think we can get the power to
• 1:29:10
  Speaker 2: send ollipop to people? I thought Surean was gonna pitch
• 1:29:12
  Speaker 2: Allipop milk. Oh for a solid lollipop milk could be
• 1:29:16
  Speaker 2: good too. I'm just gooda reach out to Allipop.
• 1:29:18
  Speaker 3: We could reach out to Ollipop, give the information and
• 1:29:21
  Speaker 3: say he listen, this this broken, broken man called in
• 1:29:25
  Speaker 3: and uh, I mean he's eating table scraps. He's eating
• 1:29:29
  Speaker 3: table scraps as he should be thirty five week you know,
• 1:29:32
  Speaker 3: pregnant mommy first time dad.
• 1:29:34
  Speaker 2: I believe.
• 1:29:36
  Speaker 3: I just think that could be a good opportunity of
• 1:29:38
  Speaker 3: just give them a little sweet tree. Get that a
• 1:29:41
  Speaker 3: little sweet tree.
• 1:29:42
  Speaker 1: We'll see if we could do it. We'll work the
• 1:29:43
  Speaker 1: back channel. We'll work the back get the power of
• 1:29:45
  Speaker 1: sending people from us, sending like call ins. Maybe right,
• 1:29:48
  Speaker 1: whatever it is, we will see if we have the
• 1:29:50
  Speaker 1: power to dish out ollipop.
• 1:29:52
  Speaker 2: That could be fun. They could be smart for Ollipop.
• 1:29:54
  Speaker 2: That could be smart for Allipop. Don't want to put
• 1:29:56
  Speaker 2: the pressure.
• 1:29:56
  Speaker 1: Don't want to put the pressure, but they need to Ollipop.
• 1:29:59
  Speaker 1: These understand that PT six is their strongest fan base.
• 1:30:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, and you're gonna have a customer for life
• 1:30:08
  Speaker 3: when that when that alley pop comes.
• 1:30:09
  Speaker 1: Come on, man, come on, think about the photo he's
• 1:30:12
  Speaker 1: gonna drop when he hits an Allipop at his front door.
• 1:30:15
  Speaker 3: That's gonna be the best gift that he's seen. And
• 1:30:17
  Speaker 3: this guy hasn't seen the light in weeks.
• 1:30:21
  Speaker 2: He needs a win, He needs a dub. He needs
• 1:30:23
  Speaker 2: a dub.
• 1:30:24
  Speaker 3: Quinton from Washington joining PT six today literally today.
• 1:30:31
  Speaker 7: Boy's name is Quintin from Washington. Pretty sure I'll be
• 1:30:38
  Speaker 7: joining the club today. Had to let's call Quinn life
• 1:30:42
  Speaker 7: flight My wife at thirty three weeks pregnant up to
• 1:30:47
  Speaker 7: a bigger hospital. So I am currently making the hour
• 1:30:51
  Speaker 7: drive to that hospital and just kind of going through
• 1:30:55
  Speaker 7: the thought of what that's gonna be like. Just wanted
• 1:30:59
  Speaker 7: to let you guys know it's great to be prepped,
• 1:31:02
  Speaker 7: and without this podcast, there's so much stuff that I
• 1:31:06
  Speaker 7: just wouldn't have ever thought about or crossing my mind.
• 1:31:10
  Speaker 7: You guys do great you know, getting all of us
• 1:31:13
  Speaker 7: prepped for that moment when it does come. So hopefully
• 1:31:18
  Speaker 7: expecting a.
• 1:31:19
  Speaker 2: Healthy little baby boy boom.
• 1:31:20
  Speaker 7: A little premature, but we'll get through that. Come on, man,
• 1:31:24
  Speaker 7: and uh yeah, appreciate you guys, love the brand, keep
• 1:31:28
  Speaker 7: doing it.
• 1:31:29
  Speaker 3: Quinn on the way, Win.
• 1:31:31
  Speaker 1: I hope everything goes well with baby and mom. Yep, premature,
• 1:31:35
  Speaker 1: maybe a couple of nick u knights, not sure either way,
• 1:31:38
  Speaker 1: handle it.
• 1:31:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, you'll have to do the billy lights, probably
• 1:31:42
  Speaker 3: the blue lights, and you'll just hold you know, little
• 1:31:44
  Speaker 3: baby's hands in there.
• 1:31:45
  Speaker 2: They're gonna be crying because they want skin to skin.
• 1:31:47
  Speaker 2: You'll be crying.
• 1:31:48
  Speaker 3: Who doesn't, but he's got Quentin is gonna be dialed. Yeah, wow,
• 1:31:52
  Speaker 3: thank you for the calling, bro, Yes, thank you, shout
• 1:31:55
  Speaker 3: out you.
• 1:31:55
  Speaker 1: Quinn new PT six full on PT six member, Yeah, welcome,
• 1:31:59
  Speaker 1: welcome them, left and right.
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  Speaker 3: Bro.
• 1:32:01
  Speaker 2: I had I had something.
• 1:32:03
  Speaker 1: I can't remember what it is. Maybe it'll drop my
• 1:32:05
  Speaker 1: memory as we get into it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I
• 1:32:07
  Speaker 1: got some emails. Yeah, a couple of email right ins here.
• 1:32:09
  Speaker 1: This one is from Colin Staff for neck godly boy.
• 1:32:13
  Speaker 1: These last some of these last names just sends me
• 1:32:15
  Speaker 1: in a frenzy and every time, I just got my
• 1:32:17
  Speaker 1: wife in my ear, like you always kind of mess
• 1:32:19
  Speaker 1: up the names and you kind of you need to
• 1:32:20
  Speaker 1: just say the name if it's right or wrong, and
• 1:32:22
  Speaker 1: just go with it. Like you keep trying to repeat it,
• 1:32:25
  Speaker 1: you just butcher it even more. Hey, boys, day one
• 1:32:33
  Speaker 1: sick Oh. Just wanting to thank you guys for what
• 1:32:35
  Speaker 1: you're doing in the content you put out. I'm a
• 1:32:36
  Speaker 1: proud dad boy, dad of a two year old with
• 1:32:38
  Speaker 1: another little man on the way in April. Congratulations to you.
• 1:32:41
  Speaker 1: I have a question for Will about potty training. My
• 1:32:44
  Speaker 1: son has shown some interest in the toilet and aware
• 1:32:47
  Speaker 1: when he has to go in the bathroom. Do we
• 1:32:49
  Speaker 1: start now or wait until after the new baby arrives.
• 1:32:52
  Speaker 1: I've been told of a regression may happen once the
• 1:32:55
  Speaker 1: newborn arrives. Just wondering if there was an issue during
• 1:32:58
  Speaker 1: that time with Rue when Scott Zilla came along. Appreciate
• 1:33:01
  Speaker 1: the PT six community. Shout out my brother in law,
• 1:33:04
  Speaker 1: wife and sister for my Christmas Dad merch always go
• 1:33:08
  Speaker 1: big Red.
• 1:33:09
  Speaker 2: Hey GBR and JBR, thank you for getting the Christmas March.
• 1:33:12
  Speaker 2: That's awesome. I know boys are there. It's a little
• 1:33:15
  Speaker 2: bit different with with girls as far as potty training goes.
• 1:33:19
  Speaker 1: I would say, if he's taking interest, like you take
• 1:33:21
  Speaker 1: any opportunity you can to like expand on that interest of.
• 1:33:25
  Speaker 2: Him going potty.
• 1:33:25
  Speaker 1: I know when Rue, when we potty trained Roue, we
• 1:33:28
  Speaker 1: just went no diaper, no nothing for like a good
• 1:33:30
  Speaker 1: two three days. Because they're they're becoming more conscious of
• 1:33:33
  Speaker 1: their body. It's just getting them to go to the toilet. Yeah,
• 1:33:36
  Speaker 1: Like we'd have a Daniel Tiger has this song like
• 1:33:41
  Speaker 1: would you like to go potty? Maybe yes, maybe no,
• 1:33:45
  Speaker 1: Let's let's try and see if you have to go.
• 1:33:49
  Speaker 2: It's something like that. It's something like that. He's not
• 1:33:51
  Speaker 2: a fact.
• 1:33:51
  Speaker 1: We got we got to print it out and put
• 1:33:53
  Speaker 1: it on the wall in the bathroom because he's a
• 1:33:55
  Speaker 1: big Daniel Tiger fan, a little baron Daniel Tiger, and
• 1:33:59
  Speaker 1: so we would just always have like those conversations with her. Again,
• 1:34:02
  Speaker 1: when when Ru went in and got into potty training mode,
• 1:34:05
  Speaker 1: like my wife Danny, everybody was on board. Because I
• 1:34:08
  Speaker 1: came home and r was just naked running around the
• 1:34:10
  Speaker 1: house one day, I'm like, what's going on there?
• 1:34:11
  Speaker 2: Like potty training.
• 1:34:12
  Speaker 1: I'm like, well, what if she piece on the floor.
• 1:34:13
  Speaker 1: It's like, this is how you gotta kind of throw
• 1:34:15
  Speaker 1: them into the fire. They got to learn because she
• 1:34:17
  Speaker 1: was like interested in she was starting to feel it
• 1:34:19
  Speaker 1: come along, or being like maybe I'll have to go
• 1:34:20
  Speaker 1: potty and then you go down the potty and kind
• 1:34:22
  Speaker 1: of sit there and nothing happens.
• 1:34:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but that is how we did it. I know.
• 1:34:26
  Speaker 2: Boys are a little bit different, like getting that getting that,
• 1:34:28
  Speaker 2: you know, getting that private part game correctly.
• 1:34:33
  Speaker 3: There's some there's some stuff that's got to happen. Yeah,
• 1:34:35
  Speaker 3: the for the stand up game, you feel it.
• 1:34:37
  Speaker 2: You just gotta let it go. Got let go.
• 1:34:39
  Speaker 3: You gotta let it go, man, let go, Man, not
• 1:34:41
  Speaker 3: right there, let's do it.
• 1:34:42
  Speaker 2: In the toilet.
• 1:34:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I guess from that, I know I didn't
• 1:34:45
  Speaker 1: really give you a full answer, but maybe coming up
• 1:34:49
  Speaker 1: with a jingle or a song something that when potty
• 1:34:52
  Speaker 1: time is upon us, you get something that like dives
• 1:34:55
  Speaker 1: into that answer.
• 1:34:56
  Speaker 2: So, oh, hey, you gotta go, Hey, this is awesome,
• 1:34:58
  Speaker 2: celebrate it.
• 1:35:00
  Speaker 3: Yeah, get your own little beat. Yeah, throw a little
• 1:35:02
  Speaker 3: freestyle beat on and you come up with your own song.
• 1:35:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Maybe that yeah, pee with him, pee with yeah.
• 1:35:10
  Speaker 1: Man, trying to put myself into the brain of a
• 1:35:13
  Speaker 1: boy that we're gonna figure this out.
• 1:35:15
  Speaker 2: What's dead?
• 1:35:15
  Speaker 3: I take a peek that you old man, does it
• 1:35:19
  Speaker 3: watch this shit? I love that I have an email.
• 1:35:24
  Speaker 3: This could be our last email and then lesson of
• 1:35:25
  Speaker 3: the week. Okay, we're pressed on.
• 1:35:27
  Speaker 2: Time, pressed on time. I gotta keys on the standard hour.
• 1:35:29
  Speaker 3: This is Michael Benino, he writes in and says Willie
• 1:35:32
  Speaker 3: one shelf and Fat Stafford been rocking with the boys
• 1:35:35
  Speaker 3: since the Busting with the Boys' days and haven't missed
• 1:35:37
  Speaker 3: an episode of for the Dad since you two are
• 1:35:40
  Speaker 3: dangerously good at making grown men feel seen. My wife
• 1:35:44
  Speaker 3: and I have been together since seventeen, married in twenty one,
• 1:35:48
  Speaker 3: and now we are officially expecting our first kid. Found
• 1:35:52
  Speaker 3: out it's a girl and her name is going to
• 1:35:54
  Speaker 3: be Vianna. Congratulations, Michael, fired up and terrified in all
• 1:35:59
  Speaker 3: the right way. Sure, hearing you talk about being a
• 1:36:02
  Speaker 3: new dad has been clutch. I know I'm about to
• 1:36:05
  Speaker 3: get humbled daily. I know I'm going to be running
• 1:36:07
  Speaker 3: on fumes, and I know that I'm going to have
• 1:36:10
  Speaker 3: to step up for my wife and my daughter like
• 1:36:13
  Speaker 3: never before.
• 1:36:14
  Speaker 2: I'm a plan.
• 1:36:15
  Speaker 3: I'm a plan everything, control everything, execute, everything type of dude,
• 1:36:20
  Speaker 3: and listening to you has helped me accept that I
• 1:36:23
  Speaker 3: am about to get blitzed from every direction and still
• 1:36:27
  Speaker 3: have to stand in the pocket and deliver.
• 1:36:29
  Speaker 2: William.
• 1:36:31
  Speaker 3: Your commitment to everything you touch is a big reason
• 1:36:34
  Speaker 3: why I'm a diehard. The grind, the passion, the way
• 1:36:37
  Speaker 3: you'd attack your day, I relate to that heavy. I've
• 1:36:40
  Speaker 3: been stressing about how I'm going to balance being that
• 1:36:43
  Speaker 3: dude at work while also being that dude at home.
• 1:36:46
  Speaker 2: Hearing you talk about.
• 1:36:47
  Speaker 3: It gives me the confidence I am that I am
• 1:36:50
  Speaker 3: built for it. I am ready to find out what
• 1:36:54
  Speaker 3: else I have in the tank and make sure I
• 1:36:56
  Speaker 3: do not fumble when it comes to showing up for
• 1:36:59
  Speaker 3: my family.
• 1:37:00
  Speaker 2: My wife is a legend.
• 1:37:01
  Speaker 3: She's slowly become a fan too, listens to the pod
• 1:37:04
  Speaker 3: with me on drives, and she even hooked me up
• 1:37:07
  Speaker 3: with your Christmas merch. Come on six, Come on MT six,
• 1:37:11
  Speaker 3: stay tuned for Valentine's State.
• 1:37:12
  Speaker 2: That's all I'm gonna say. MT six.
• 1:37:14
  Speaker 3: I'm pumped about that, but I'm even more pumped to
• 1:37:18
  Speaker 3: watch her crush this pregnancy and do all the things
• 1:37:20
  Speaker 3: that make moms absolute superheroes, just like Jilly bean in charo.
• 1:37:26
  Speaker 3: Keep it rolling, boys, we live for this shit. Keep
• 1:37:31
  Speaker 3: it rolling, boys, we live for this shit. Sleepless nights ahead.
• 1:37:35
  Speaker 2: Good.
• 1:37:36
  Speaker 3: He then followed up seventeen hours later. Oh dear god,
• 1:37:39
  Speaker 3: I almost forgot about chef the man dude. For those
• 1:37:45
  Speaker 3: emailing in, if you give out hats, can we get
• 1:37:48
  Speaker 3: a chef hat would be fire. It's been fun seeing
• 1:37:51
  Speaker 3: your career get off to a hot star. Bro, don't
• 1:37:53
  Speaker 3: forget to hit that record button and keep it under
• 1:37:56
  Speaker 3: an hour.
• 1:37:57
  Speaker 2: What a legend? What was his name?
• 1:37:58
  Speaker 3: Michael Benino? Michael, thank you for the right end.
• 1:38:01
  Speaker 5: Bro.
• 1:38:03
  Speaker 2: It's all about handling the pressure.
• 1:38:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it really is.
• 1:38:05
  Speaker 1: He is, he said, I'm Bill Fort. He is Bill Fort.
• 1:38:07
  Speaker 1: He's a Papa Team sixer. He's a bet sixer.
• 1:38:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:38:10
  Speaker 3: And he he brought up like all the great things
• 1:38:13
  Speaker 3: I think, like we bring up every single episode. The
• 1:38:16
  Speaker 3: part that I find so funny is that he's like, Man,
• 1:38:20
  Speaker 3: I'm a I'm a planet guy. I'm I'm an have
• 1:38:23
  Speaker 3: it all down to detail guy, Man Sherman. The way
• 1:38:26
  Speaker 3: that you're operating, I'm like the least planned out guy.
• 1:38:31
  Speaker 3: I'm the least dialed in guy. And so the fact
• 1:38:35
  Speaker 3: that he's giving me flowers for that, Michael. I'm not
• 1:38:37
  Speaker 3: deserving of that, but I do thank you for your
• 1:38:40
  Speaker 3: kind words. And if I'm able to trick you all
• 1:38:42
  Speaker 3: into believing that I'm even somewhat planned out, it's because
• 1:38:47
  Speaker 3: of the things that I've truly learned on the show
• 1:38:50
  Speaker 3: and from my wife.
• 1:38:51
  Speaker 2: But thank you, Michael.
• 1:38:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he's said he's thinking the right way, and you
• 1:38:55
  Speaker 1: just got to know that the plan is never going
• 1:38:57
  Speaker 1: to go according to plan. Oh, any structure, because I'm
• 1:39:00
  Speaker 1: big on prioritizing structure, like giving myself some control and
• 1:39:03
  Speaker 1: power over what the daily operation is going to look.
• 1:39:06
  Speaker 2: Like in my life.
• 1:39:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but just know whenever you structure out this plan
• 1:39:11
  Speaker 1: right in pencil, oh, because it's.
• 1:39:13
  Speaker 2: Not always change.
• 1:39:14
  Speaker 1: It can always change, and then when it does change,
• 1:39:16
  Speaker 1: it's all about handling the pressure. He's saying he's gonna
• 1:39:18
  Speaker 1: get blitz He's got to know he gets blitzed. Yeah,
• 1:39:19
  Speaker 1: but that QBR that passer rating can't drop below one hundred.
• 1:39:23
  Speaker 3: Yes, And if his empty six er is built like
• 1:39:26
  Speaker 3: me and he's more built like Jilly Bean personality wise,
• 1:39:30
  Speaker 3: it does balance out. Like there there are some pros
• 1:39:33
  Speaker 3: of like my I would say Laise Fair kind of
• 1:39:36
  Speaker 3: like roll with the punches where you can really help
• 1:39:39
  Speaker 3: bring your partner down of like, hey, it's not going
• 1:39:42
  Speaker 3: to plan, but okay, look at this boom new options.
• 1:39:44
  Speaker 2: Keeping that enthusiasm.
• 1:39:45
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we're good good, We're good good. Yes, dude, yes,
• 1:39:49
  Speaker 3: goes a shit good. Those are shit good.
• 1:39:52
  Speaker 1: The hardest thing I've been thinking about this question too, like,
• 1:39:57
  Speaker 1: what is the hardest thing about parenthood? Would you be
• 1:40:01
  Speaker 1: able to answer that right now?
• 1:40:05
  Speaker 2: Hardest thing about parenthood?
• 1:40:09
  Speaker 1: Because here, here's here's one of my thoughts. Okay, because
• 1:40:13
  Speaker 1: again it's like it's it's it's all hard, like it's
• 1:40:15
  Speaker 1: all difficult. Yeah, I feel like the hardest thing about
• 1:40:18
  Speaker 1: parenthood is knowing that life that you knew it to
• 1:40:26
  Speaker 1: be before parenthood is now gone, like killing your old self.
• 1:40:32
  Speaker 1: Not like the values and the foundational things that make
• 1:40:34
  Speaker 1: you who you are, but when you get in those
• 1:40:37
  Speaker 1: moments of chaos with kids, your wife, work, Like when
• 1:40:44
  Speaker 1: my man is driving to the gas station, he's having
• 1:40:46
  Speaker 1: his emergency gas station run, but there's no thought of
• 1:40:50
  Speaker 1: like it's the thought is this is every day, I
• 1:40:55
  Speaker 1: guess until they leave the nest, you know what I mean?
• 1:40:58
  Speaker 1: Like the responsibility of all of it is now all encompassing,
• 1:41:02
  Speaker 1: and it's on you and the family. Like there's no
• 1:41:05
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna take a week off. I'm gonna take the
• 1:41:06
  Speaker 1: weekend and go to my parents' house, you know what
• 1:41:09
  Speaker 1: I mean, Like some people might do that.
• 1:41:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but you need like no matter what.
• 1:41:12
  Speaker 1: Like, the hardest thing is knowing that all the not
• 1:41:17
  Speaker 1: like fun because there's a lot, there's all it's nothing
• 1:41:19
  Speaker 1: but new fun in parenthood and everything else. Yeah, but
• 1:41:21
  Speaker 1: you just have so many moments of being like, you know,
• 1:41:24
  Speaker 1: Charle might bring up remember when we got to.
• 1:41:26
  Speaker 2: Just do that.
• 1:41:27
  Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, you kind of miss it sometimes, but
• 1:41:30
  Speaker 1: you obviously love having the family and this new life
• 1:41:33
  Speaker 1: that you have.
• 1:41:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:41:34
  Speaker 1: The fact, the hardest thing is knowing that that those
• 1:41:36
  Speaker 1: chapters before parenthood, it's like those are things that you
• 1:41:39
  Speaker 1: just reflect on. That's not you don't have those freedoms
• 1:41:42
  Speaker 1: and everything anymore because you have to take on such
• 1:41:44
  Speaker 1: a massive responsibility, a great responsibility, almost fulfilling responsibility. But uh,
• 1:41:49
  Speaker 1: I think a question that I've kind of just been
• 1:41:51
  Speaker 1: wrestling with, I would love for everybody too that's listening
• 1:41:53
  Speaker 1: to this BT six milk team, Say, any parent out there. Yeah,
• 1:41:56
  Speaker 1: you know, drop some drop of comment or anything else.
• 1:41:59
  Speaker 3: I think the I think the in response to that too,
• 1:42:03
  Speaker 3: the kind of cool and beautiful thing of just like, uh,
• 1:42:07
  Speaker 3: there's like something built in us humans that maybe not
• 1:42:11
  Speaker 3: in everybody, but I feel like and parents like it's
• 1:42:15
  Speaker 3: a switch that just kind of turns on and you're
• 1:42:17
  Speaker 3: all of a sudden like so happy to be in
• 1:42:21
  Speaker 3: that new world too. Ye, Like, for sure, it is
• 1:42:25
  Speaker 3: so hard, Like I'm not I'm not saying that that
• 1:42:27
  Speaker 3: is I'm not going to again.
• 1:42:29
  Speaker 1: This was like a question that's come to my mind,
• 1:42:31
  Speaker 1: and I'm just kind of bouncing back and forth thinking
• 1:42:34
  Speaker 1: of ways where it's like if somebody asked me, what's
• 1:42:36
  Speaker 1: the hardest thing about parenthood? Like what would I What
• 1:42:38
  Speaker 1: would I say? How would I respond?
• 1:42:40
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's crazy, Like how stoked I am sometimes to
• 1:42:43
  Speaker 3: just have uh, Scarlet just like sitting on my lap
• 1:42:47
  Speaker 3: where I would have loved to have my favorite show
• 1:42:49
  Speaker 3: on and I'm decompressing after work and all that stuff.
• 1:42:52
  Speaker 2: But you're just like you're kind of playing with Scarlet.
• 1:42:55
  Speaker 3: She's not doing anything cool if a third party was watching,
• 1:42:59
  Speaker 3: But I'm every thirty seconds just like Jill.
• 1:43:04
  Speaker 2: She's doing that. Yes, sureman, she's been doing that for
• 1:43:06
  Speaker 2: like a week now. I haven't seen that. That's great.
• 1:43:08
  Speaker 3: Like just all the things said, like you weirdly become
• 1:43:12
  Speaker 3: obsessed with or we like three minutes, Yeah, we need
• 1:43:15
  Speaker 3: to wrap now. That could be our lesson of the week.
• 1:43:17
  Speaker 3: I had a I have a good just quote. This
• 1:43:20
  Speaker 3: is Dan Gable quote right here.
• 1:43:22
  Speaker 1: Let me google a dan Gable quote on mindset and sacrifice.
• 1:43:26
  Speaker 1: When I'd get tired and want to stop, I wonder
• 1:43:29
  Speaker 1: what my next opponent was doing, Think about what the
• 1:43:32
  Speaker 1: enemy's doing, Think about what the next dad is doing.
• 1:43:34
  Speaker 2: I try to visualize him.
• 1:43:36
  Speaker 1: When I could see him working, I'd start pushing myself
• 1:43:38
  Speaker 1: harder end quote, and.
• 1:43:42
  Speaker 3: Wanted to Dan Gable wanted to leave you, guys with
• 1:43:44
  Speaker 3: No one's ever drowned in sweat.
• 1:43:47
  Speaker 2: Someone dan Gable, Dan Gable, we love you, guys, We
• 1:43:50
  Speaker 2: appreciate you.
• 1:43:51
  Speaker 1: We will see you next week. Make sure you take
• 1:43:53
  Speaker 1: out the trash ride the shock wave of see you
• 1:43:56
  Speaker 1: next