Latest / Clydesdale Media Podcast / Hayley Murillo - The Athletes of the 2024 Legends Masters CrossFit Games
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- 0:10I was born to kill it I was meant to win
- 0:35what's going on everybody
- 0:36welcome to the cladstone
- 0:37media podcast where we are
- 0:39currently highlighting the
- 0:40athletes of the 2024
- 0:43legends masters crossfit
- 0:44games and I have none other
- 0:48than hayley mario what's
- 0:49going on hayley oh you know
- 0:51just uh got some training
- 0:53in and here I am just ready
- 0:55to ready to talk and have
- 0:57some good conversations
- 0:59So I've been a fan of yours for a while.
- 1:03I don't know if many people know this,
- 1:05but when I first got a job
- 1:07with Morning Chalk Up,
- 1:08the first story I worked on was you.
- 1:12Oh, really?
- 1:12That's so cool.
- 1:14That's super cool.
- 1:16I'm curious what story it was.
- 1:18So it was, I got,
- 1:19I started working for
- 1:20morning Chuck up in 2021.
- 1:23You were at the West coast
- 1:24classic and you had to
- 1:26repeat the snatch ladder done in 2016.
- 1:31And you had made such an
- 1:32incredible improvement from 2016 to 2021.
- 1:37We wanted to highlight you.
- 1:38And, um,
- 1:39I put together some video showing
- 1:41you side by side from 2016 to 2021.
- 1:46Oh yeah.
- 1:46That was, um, being able to like,
- 1:50first of all,
- 1:50having just like a career as
- 1:52long as I've had is just like,
- 1:55I think just like super cool in itself.
- 1:57And it really goes to show
- 1:59if you just kind of like
- 2:00keep showing up and keep
- 2:01your head down and you
- 2:03really learn to like, love the process.
- 2:05Like you just, you keep getting better.
- 2:07Um, and so like,
- 2:10being able to repeat that
- 2:11probably at the peak of my
- 2:14career when I felt the most
- 2:16fit was so exciting because
- 2:19I also had my husband at
- 2:22the end of the lane at West
- 2:24Coast Classic.
- 2:25And like,
- 2:26back to the first time I did that,
- 2:28like I couldn't get out of the first bar.
- 2:30Like you had to hit like,
- 2:32I think a minimum of one or
- 2:34four snatches.
- 2:35I can't remember, but I hit the minimum.
- 2:37And then the next event I
- 2:38actually got DQ'd because I
- 2:40couldn't do a strict muscle up.
- 2:41So that year was, it sucked.
- 2:45But I think that year was like,
- 2:47there was so much,
- 2:49like there were two ways to go, right?
- 2:51Like I could have just been like,
- 2:52you know what?
- 2:52Like this just isn't for me
- 2:54and I could have quit.
- 2:55Um,
- 2:56or I could have just gone back and try
- 2:59it again.
- 3:00And I chose that route and like,
- 3:03it was so special to finish
- 3:06that snatch ladder.
- 3:08Like, and sometimes too,
- 3:09like I knew I could finish it.
- 3:11Um, because in training, I mean,
- 3:13my numbers have gone up so
- 3:14so much since 2016.
- 3:18And it's also just like when
- 3:19you're under pressure and
- 3:20you have like time gates and stuff,
- 3:22like you don't know what's
- 3:23going to happen, right?
- 3:24Like you don't know if like
- 3:25it's going to be an off day or whatever.
- 3:26So when I finished that,
- 3:28like just the celebration and the joy,
- 3:32like I didn't even care what place I got.
- 3:35It was just like, dude, I just did that.
- 3:37And I couldn't even do that like, you know,
- 3:39years ago.
- 3:40So that was like one of
- 3:42those moments like,
- 3:44Like I'll never forget
- 3:46either of them because one
- 3:47of them lit a fire and the
- 3:49other one just made me like,
- 3:52like I was just like, I can do this,
- 3:55you know,
- 3:55like I can do this and I did do this,
- 3:58you know,
- 3:58and being able to just share
- 4:00that with people I think is really cool.
- 4:03Yeah,
- 4:03to go from not even making it out of
- 4:04the first bar of 10 at, what, 125?
- 4:08135, I think.
- 4:09135.
- 4:10Yeah.
- 4:12To completing the entire snatch ladder.
- 4:14And you had time to spare, too.
- 4:16It wasn't like you were cutting it closed.
- 4:18Yeah.
- 4:19Yeah, I think I had one miss.
- 4:21I had a few probably
- 4:23incredible saves since I'm
- 4:24pretty good in the bottom
- 4:26of the squat overhead
- 4:27position where people were like,
- 4:29is she going to stand that
- 4:30up or just sit there?
- 4:33But yeah, I did.
- 4:34I had some time to spare.
- 4:36And I think, too,
- 4:37I had done like I usually
- 4:39don't run through like events in training,
- 4:42especially for like the
- 4:43regional semifinal sanctional route.
- 4:46Um, but that one specifically we did,
- 4:48cause I needed to know,
- 4:49can I even get out of these?
- 4:51Like,
- 4:51am I able to cycle these quick enough
- 4:54to get to the next bar?
- 4:56Um, and I must, I think I PR by like.
- 4:59anywhere from like a minute
- 5:00to two minutes from training.
- 5:02So it was just like, holy crap, I did that,
- 5:06you know?
- 5:07Um, but yeah, dude,
- 5:08and I got to do it in Las Vegas, which I,
- 5:11you know, I went to UNLV,
- 5:12I was a cheerleader there.
- 5:13Um, so like I got to share, like,
- 5:16it's just like, it was so cool.
- 5:17Like, you know,
- 5:18I'm from California and
- 5:19then I did it in Vegas where I, you know,
- 5:21also like spent a lot of time,
- 5:24like it was just super cool.
- 5:25So,
- 5:26Yeah,
- 5:26I just like I'm so like I was kind of
- 5:29bummed, too,
- 5:29that I didn't get to do it
- 5:30again at like in Carson at
- 5:34my finals this last year
- 5:35because I've been in Virginia.
- 5:36But yeah, I was kind of like, oh, dang it.
- 5:39I could have been one of the
- 5:40ones that did it three times.
- 5:41So.
- 5:44The coolest thing about
- 5:45Vegas was the way they had
- 5:47it set up is media, family,
- 5:50and coaches could all hang
- 5:52out at the end of the lanes.
- 5:54Yes.
- 5:55So you could have your loved
- 5:56ones and coach,
- 5:58they're waiting for you to finish.
- 5:59And you said that made it
- 6:01even more special.
- 6:02Oh, dude.
- 6:02Yeah, because I think...
- 6:04Like, here's the thing,
- 6:05the sport is pretty lonely,
- 6:06especially if you choose
- 6:07the individual route.
- 6:08Like you,
- 6:10like sure you have training
- 6:10partners or you have people
- 6:11that come and hop into your workouts,
- 6:13but like you really have to
- 6:15love being in the gym and
- 6:17you have to love hurting by yourself.
- 6:20And so when you get to share
- 6:21it with the people that have stuck by you,
- 6:23especially your entire
- 6:24career from when you
- 6:25couldn't do anything and
- 6:26they're the ones that believed in you,
- 6:28to share that with them, I mean,
- 6:31there's nothing better.
- 6:32Right.
- 6:33Like and I think that's a
- 6:34really important message, I think,
- 6:36to like just like the
- 6:37younger athletes is just
- 6:38like remember who's with
- 6:40you when you're at the bottom.
- 6:43Like, you know, and when you get better,
- 6:45like you bring those people up with you.
- 6:48And I mean, you know,
- 6:49my husband and I work in
- 6:50film and TV as well.
- 6:51And the same thing goes for that.
- 6:53Like, you know, before you get better.
- 6:55you get famous and you grow
- 6:57this huge following.
- 6:57It's like, bring,
- 6:59bring the people up that
- 7:00did good by you when you were down,
- 7:04down here and nobody knew
- 7:05who you were and you
- 7:05couldn't do anything because that journey,
- 7:08like it,
- 7:10it sucks if nobody's there with you.
- 7:14Yeah.
- 7:15Those are wise words.
- 7:16And Vegas will always
- 7:18probably be my favorite
- 7:19venue for that level of competition.
- 7:22Yeah, it was cool.
- 7:23Like it just had such a,
- 7:24like it had like that old
- 7:25school regional feel, but like,
- 7:28like almost like bedazzled,
- 7:29like a little bit.
- 7:31The stands were elevated so
- 7:33everybody could see the way
- 7:35they had it set up where
- 7:36the family could be there
- 7:37to greet you at the end.
- 7:39Like it just was,
- 7:39it was the coolest vibe of
- 7:42anything I've ever seen in
- 7:43the sport before.
- 7:44Yeah, it was super special.
- 7:46So a couple people are commenting,
- 7:48and Denise Moore,
- 7:50who will be competing in Alabama as well,
- 7:52it's going to be so fun to
- 7:53watch this fit lady compete
- 7:54in Birmingham.
- 7:56Thank you.
- 7:57Thank you, Denise.
- 8:00So then the following year,
- 8:02you come back to semifinals,
- 8:05and we learn immediately
- 8:07after you take a picture on
- 8:09the floor with a sonogram.
- 8:12Yep.
- 8:14So you had competed the
- 8:15entire semifinal pregnant.
- 8:18I sure did.
- 8:21We had gone back and forth.
- 8:22I knew I was pregnant.
- 8:24My husband knew.
- 8:25My doctor knew.
- 8:28I hope the doctor knew.
- 8:30Yes.
- 8:31That's pretty much it.
- 8:33And obviously, I had...
- 8:35to choose like whether I was
- 8:37going to compete or not compete.
- 8:39And actually I had gotten to
- 8:40that next stage for masters
- 8:42as well that year.
- 8:42And that was the year I had
- 8:44to choose between the two,
- 8:46but the timeline of
- 8:47competing as a masters did not line up.
- 8:51So I could get through semi-finals safely,
- 8:54but if I had said no
- 8:57semi-finals and gone to the masters,
- 8:59I mean, you could have,
- 9:00I don't know if that would
- 9:01have looked great.
- 9:02for CrossFit.
- 9:03I probably would have been like eight,
- 9:04nine months pregnant at that point.
- 9:07Or I don't know.
- 9:09I don't really know the timeline.
- 9:10So don't get mad at me for saying that,
- 9:12anyone.
- 9:14But yeah,
- 9:15so I had to choose between the two.
- 9:16I chose to compete at semifinals.
- 9:19And obviously I could have
- 9:21announced it and I could
- 9:22have shared that news with
- 9:23everyone before going into the weekend.
- 9:26And I kept going back and
- 9:27forth because I knew like,
- 9:30I knew I wasn't going to do
- 9:32great at specific events
- 9:33after being pregnant for a
- 9:35while and just kind of like
- 9:36feeling like kind of how my body felt.
- 9:40So I just, I don't know, I decided,
- 9:42you know what,
- 9:43I'm just not going to tell anyone.
- 9:44I'm just going to kind of
- 9:45get through the weekend.
- 9:49then we'll announce it after.
- 9:51So and I just like for me,
- 9:53like the competitor in me,
- 9:55like I didn't want people
- 9:56to know that I was someone
- 9:59that they could just be.
- 10:01Like I think that was kind
- 10:02of my mentality.
- 10:04Maybe not everybody operates like that.
- 10:06But for me,
- 10:06like I just didn't want to use
- 10:08it as this excuse.
- 10:09I didn't want them to think like, oh,
- 10:12don't got to worry about her.
- 10:13I kind of wanted them to
- 10:14still worry a little bit, you know,
- 10:16because like there's going
- 10:17to be specific events that
- 10:19I can do well on.
- 10:21So, yeah, I just did it.
- 10:23I had some fun.
- 10:23I didn't feel awesome.
- 10:25There were moments during
- 10:27the like certain workouts
- 10:28where I'd look down at my
- 10:29husband in my lane.
- 10:31And I'd be like, nope.
- 10:34You know, I was just like, man,
- 10:35I'm already redlining.
- 10:38You know,
- 10:38I think there was a 400 meter run,
- 10:40sled push, chest to bar wall ball workout,
- 10:42which normally would be
- 10:43something I'm just like, oh, I love this.
- 10:47And two minutes into that, I was like,
- 10:50well, this isn't going to go well,
- 10:52but I'm just going to keep
- 10:53working through it.
- 10:53So
- 10:55It's one of those things where it's like,
- 10:56I knew it wasn't going to
- 10:57be this insane performance,
- 10:59but I wanted to do it anyways.
- 11:02It was my spot and I wanted
- 11:05to use it because I think a
- 11:07lot of times you don't know
- 11:09if you're going to be able
- 11:10to make it back.
- 11:12You don't know if that year
- 11:13is your last year.
- 11:14You don't know, you know, life happens.
- 11:16And so for me,
- 11:18like just enjoying every
- 11:20moment and every
- 11:21opportunity I'm given to be on the floor,
- 11:23I think is something I've
- 11:25always been willing to do,
- 11:28regardless on how I'm
- 11:30feeling going into it.
- 11:32You know,
- 11:32and I think that just comes from
- 11:34a lot of like experience.
- 11:36And, you know,
- 11:37just kind of how the
- 11:38CrossFit season operates, right?
- 11:40Like you just kind of like
- 11:42it's all the time, you know,
- 11:45and you can you can sit back and say like,
- 11:48oh, I'm going to wait.
- 11:48I'm going to peak in two years.
- 11:50I'm going to train and do this.
- 11:52And I'm like, yeah,
- 11:53but those moments start to pass by.
- 11:55And then like maybe you
- 11:57don't get out there again, you know.
- 11:59So for me,
- 11:59like just taking opportunity
- 12:01that I'm given when I have
- 12:03it is super important to me.
- 12:07So the funny way I found out
- 12:08was I'm really,
- 12:10really good friends with Dex Hopkins.
- 12:13And he came up to me and he said,
- 12:15I know something you don't know.
- 12:17I was like, what?
- 12:20And he took his camera and
- 12:22he flipped it to me.
- 12:24And I was like, what?
- 12:26Yeah.
- 12:27And then it became a secret.
- 12:29Yeah,
- 12:30that sounds exactly like something
- 12:32Dex would do.
- 12:34Yeah, no, he's great.
- 12:35He took our photo for us.
- 12:37And it was funny too because
- 12:38there were lots of people around,
- 12:39but I don't think anyone
- 12:40caught on to what was
- 12:41happening because the
- 12:43competition had just ended.
- 12:44So everyone was kind of like
- 12:46taking their own photos and
- 12:47doing their own thing.
- 12:48And yeah, I was kind of like, Josh,
- 12:51I don't want to take this
- 12:52photo right here.
- 12:53This is weird.
- 12:54People are going to know and
- 12:55we didn't even announce it.
- 12:56But I rolled with it, and it worked out.
- 12:59Yeah.
- 13:01So I want to touch on a
- 13:02couple things that have
- 13:03changed in your life kind of privately,
- 13:06and then we'll get back to the games.
- 13:09So I've always known you as
- 13:10a California girl.
- 13:11Mm-hmm.
- 13:12Right?
- 13:12And you have moved across
- 13:14the country to Virginia.
- 13:16Yep.
- 13:17You work in film and television.
- 13:19How does that work from Virginia?
- 13:22So...
- 13:25So basically,
- 13:25I'm trying to think how to
- 13:27put it all in a nutshell.
- 13:29So I am born and raised in Los Angeles.
- 13:31That is my hometown.
- 13:33That is home, home for me.
- 13:35That's all I really know,
- 13:38minus the traveling here and there.
- 13:41So my husband and I,
- 13:42we relocated to Virginia to
- 13:44train Haley Adams this last year.
- 13:46I worked out with her and
- 13:48trained her and coached her.
- 13:51every day leading up to July, June, July,
- 13:56I think,
- 13:57about five weeks before the games,
- 14:00she headed back to Mayhem.
- 14:02So we relocated.
- 14:03And if anybody knows my husband and I,
- 14:05like we're very much like,
- 14:08all in.
- 14:09So if we're going to do something,
- 14:11we're going to go all in
- 14:13and we're just going to, on our end,
- 14:16do everything we can to crush it.
- 14:19So that's kind of what happened.
- 14:21We saw an opportunity where
- 14:24we could really help someone come back
- 14:27And Josh and I, as a team,
- 14:30I feel like it was a great fit,
- 14:34given as much experience as
- 14:36we have had in CrossFit over the last 12,
- 14:4013, 14 years.
- 14:42And so that's kind of what happened.
- 14:46But yeah, so anyways, we made that move.
- 14:53And Josh actually,
- 14:54he still is working for
- 14:57like a company based out in California.
- 15:00So we're still very connected.
- 15:01We're still part of the union.
- 15:06And for us, it's like,
- 15:08it's okay to put things on
- 15:09hold and come back to them.
- 15:12So that's kind of what we did.
- 15:15And, you know,
- 15:17obviously like the game season didn't,
- 15:20pan out like the way
- 15:21everybody wanted it to, right?
- 15:24But what I can say is like Josh and I,
- 15:26like we put everything we
- 15:27had into the season and it was awesome,
- 15:32you know?
- 15:32And I think sometimes like a
- 15:35lot of athletes,
- 15:36like you have to remember
- 15:37that like you cannot be an athlete
- 15:40at this level forever.
- 15:41And there is other
- 15:44opportunity in the space
- 15:45for you to grow and to
- 15:47still be part of it and to
- 15:49still be able to give back
- 15:52in really special ways
- 15:53because it's something that
- 15:56I feel like if you don't
- 15:57walk the talk sometimes,
- 15:59you don't understand the whole thing.
- 16:01And so I just felt like
- 16:03after having a baby, I'm 37 now.
- 16:08life uh priorities are a lot
- 16:10different um and so yeah I
- 16:13think just I'm gonna cry
- 16:14yeah it just always happens
- 16:17but like being able to just
- 16:18like give back um to a
- 16:20sport that I love I think
- 16:23that it kind of like just
- 16:24this last year like was set
- 16:25up perfectly um and I
- 16:26really think that more
- 16:28athletes should really look
- 16:29at that especially like
- 16:30when you're trans
- 16:31transitioning into the
- 16:32masters divisions and stuff
- 16:34like there's still room for
- 16:35you to be like super connected because
- 16:37Like,
- 16:38whether you've gone to the games or not,
- 16:39like,
- 16:40you have so much wisdom that you can
- 16:42pass down to younger
- 16:44athletes and help guide them.
- 16:46And they need people.
- 16:48Like, I just – I wish everybody had, like,
- 16:51a Josh or, like, you know, like,
- 16:54just somebody, like,
- 16:55with them all the time as
- 16:56they were going through this, like,
- 16:59alone.
- 16:59You know, because, like I said earlier,
- 17:01it's a very lonely –
- 17:03endeavor.
- 17:04Um,
- 17:05and you give literally everything you
- 17:08have to this sport and
- 17:09sometimes it gives you like
- 17:11maybe a fraction back.
- 17:12So, um, yeah, I just think that there's,
- 17:17you know, I, I wish, like,
- 17:18I hope that like people
- 17:19that are in the space, like,
- 17:20don't just like want to like
- 17:23just compete forever.
- 17:24Right.
- 17:24Like I want them to like
- 17:25compete and maybe like do a
- 17:26podcast or do like, you know,
- 17:29just like coach or anything
- 17:31really like help on the
- 17:32mental side of things.
- 17:33Like,
- 17:33I think that that is something that
- 17:35like holds a lot of people back, um,
- 17:38is not having the right, like mind,
- 17:41you know, um,
- 17:42or training environment or
- 17:43whatever it is.
- 17:44So yeah,
- 17:45that's kind of like what's happened.
- 17:47We just like went all in on something and,
- 17:50and, um, we're still connected and, um,
- 17:53Still doing film and TV.
- 17:54Um, you know, it's like those two things,
- 17:56those like film and TV and like CrossFit,
- 17:58like those are just two
- 18:00things that I believe that
- 18:03my husband and I will be
- 18:04connected to forever.
- 18:07Like, and we got really,
- 18:08I wouldn't say just lucky
- 18:11because we worked hard.
- 18:12Um, but like that, um,
- 18:15you know,
- 18:15doing CrossFit and then doing stunts,
- 18:18like kind of merged it for us.
- 18:20And so now we get to train
- 18:22and coach actors and
- 18:24singers and all sorts of
- 18:26people in the entertainment
- 18:27world and help them with
- 18:30their fitness journey.
- 18:31Or maybe it's to get ready
- 18:33for like a specific movie
- 18:35or a specific event.
- 18:37So that's been really cool.
- 18:38It's just like, you know, being from like
- 18:41Los Angeles, like, honestly,
- 18:43I didn't really think I was
- 18:44ever gonna be connected to film and TV,
- 18:46even though it was like right there.
- 18:47I was always like, I'm good.
- 18:49Like, it's just here.
- 18:51So am I,
- 18:52but it didn't really spark an
- 18:54interest until after I had
- 18:56a pretty solid career in like CrossFit,
- 18:59which is weird.
- 19:00You know,
- 19:00I think a lot of people think it happened
- 19:03on like the flip side you
- 19:05know but it was actually
- 19:06crossfit that gave me a lot
- 19:08of confidence to even try
- 19:11doing stunts and stuff in
- 19:13that world so so I i want
- 19:16to follow it up and I could
- 19:18dive into the haley haley
- 19:20thing for a while but this
- 19:21is not about her this is about you and
- 19:25People may forget that the year before,
- 19:27you helped Bethany come back too.
- 19:29Yeah.
- 19:31You weren't like her coach,
- 19:32but you were like a
- 19:32training partner and a
- 19:33friend when she needed that so much.
- 19:36Yeah.
- 19:38Bethany Flores is just one
- 19:41of the best people I've ever known.
- 19:45I have just...
- 19:48nothing but amazing things
- 19:50to say about her and her husband.
- 19:52And, you know,
- 19:54it was one of those things
- 19:55where it's like, sure, she needed me,
- 19:57but I think I needed her as well,
- 19:59especially coming back after, well,
- 20:02I was actually still pregnant, I think,
- 20:05and then I came back.
- 20:05So it was like,
- 20:07she had like both sides of it, but like,
- 20:10She was coming back and I
- 20:12reached out to her.
- 20:13I was like, oh, hey,
- 20:13I just saw you moved to LA.
- 20:14Let me know if you want to work out.
- 20:16Because LA is a pretty big place.
- 20:20I'm pretty connected to LA
- 20:21just because I grew up there.
- 20:22So I have lots of different
- 20:23little groups that have
- 20:24nothing to do with CrossFit.
- 20:27And she responded and we got
- 20:29together and she'd come and
- 20:30train in my tiny little garage out there.
- 20:34Um, we do a bunch of, uh,
- 20:36cardio pieces and then I'd
- 20:37go over there for her and
- 20:38then the open happened and
- 20:39then we just kind of like
- 20:40stuck together throughout the,
- 20:42the entire season.
- 20:44Um, and it was like a really,
- 20:47it was a really special time because like,
- 20:50I think too, people forget that like,
- 20:54there's a lot of people
- 20:55that are more like you, you know,
- 20:57when you're competitors than you think.
- 21:00And I think that everyone
- 21:01puts up like this, like,
- 21:03you know, just this like wall.
- 21:05And so they never really get
- 21:07to know their competitors
- 21:10and they don't build these
- 21:11friendships that can last a
- 21:13lot longer than your career
- 21:15as a CrossFit athlete.
- 21:17Um,
- 21:18and I just really encourage people to
- 21:20like find people like that
- 21:23in this space because they exist.
- 21:27Um, because like, I don't know, like,
- 21:29like I said, like Bethany,
- 21:30like she showed up for me,
- 21:32like not just for like CrossFit events,
- 21:35but for just life events.
- 21:37Um,
- 21:39and yeah and watching her
- 21:40you know the last couple
- 21:43years we went to rogue and
- 21:44helped her with like her
- 21:45media and everything um and
- 21:47then her performance this
- 21:48last week you know like it
- 21:50was really cool because
- 21:51she's made some really big
- 21:52improvements and she looks
- 21:54great she looks healthy
- 21:55she's happy um so yeah I
- 21:59just I like I just have
- 22:00nothing but good things to
- 22:01say about that one so how
- 22:04would you answer this question
- 22:06Haley is A, an athlete, or B, a coach?
- 22:11Myself?
- 22:12Like me, Haley?
- 22:13Yes, you, Haley.
- 22:15I mean, it really, I think,
- 22:17depends on the time of year.
- 22:20I would say the last year I was a coach.
- 22:26Then I was a training partner.
- 22:28And then I was an athlete.
- 22:30Um, and then I would, I mean,
- 22:32if there was like one before that,
- 22:33I would say I was a mom, um, you know,
- 22:36like, and juggling all that,
- 22:38but I would put that in that order.
- 22:40I would say these last two, uh, last, uh,
- 22:42like week right now,
- 22:43like gearing into the masters,
- 22:45I would say I'm an athlete
- 22:47all of a sudden that I'm trying to like,
- 22:49get everything in order and
- 22:51get ready to compete.
- 22:52But there has to be like a
- 22:55mind shift because when you
- 22:57are coaching someone else,
- 22:58especially at a high level
- 23:01or helping others,
- 23:02it's not about you anymore.
- 23:04And you have to be okay with
- 23:08putting yourself second, right?
- 23:11And like,
- 23:12Um, like with Bethany, like I knew like,
- 23:16okay,
- 23:16we got to get this girl to semifinals.
- 23:17I'm not going.
- 23:18And then with Haley,
- 23:19we had to get her to
- 23:20semifinals and then to the games.
- 23:23Um, and so there was a lot of, okay,
- 23:26what do they need?
- 23:28How can I help?
- 23:29and then I'll go and do it.
- 23:31Like,
- 23:32is my position to watch and help
- 23:36calculate and count things
- 23:38and set everything up?
- 23:39Or is today the time where, you know,
- 23:42I can actually help pace them?
- 23:45Because luckily, like I'm, you know,
- 23:47like I do have like a skill
- 23:49set where I can kind of
- 23:51come in and like help push
- 23:52the pace on certain things,
- 23:53not on everything.
- 23:55But there are certain events
- 23:57where I can like be like, okay,
- 23:59I can be like the pusher.
- 24:01you know so yeah I think
- 24:02that that's a great
- 24:03question um I do feel like
- 24:05it has like kind of like
- 24:07waves to it right like
- 24:08because I don't know if
- 24:10everybody knows this but I
- 24:12literally I got backfilled
- 24:13into masters this year um I
- 24:17did really well in quarterfinals
- 24:19And then the master
- 24:21qualifiers came out and I
- 24:23think I got like 41st or I mean,
- 24:26I was like right outside of the line.
- 24:27But anyways, I got that last ticket.
- 24:30So I'll still be there, guys.
- 24:32But like it like it wasn't my priority.
- 24:36you know, um,
- 24:37going to semifinals wasn't
- 24:39even in the cards this year.
- 24:40And the fact that I was
- 24:41pretty dang close getting
- 24:43in on the East side, um, was like, wait,
- 24:47what, where am I?
- 24:48You know?
- 24:48So a lot of that like kind
- 24:50of just happened.
- 24:51Um,
- 24:52and I think that just had a lot to do
- 24:53with the people I surround myself with.
- 24:56Um, like Jim, I'm sitting in,
- 24:58this is four 60.
- 24:58It is
- 25:00an amazing community and
- 25:02it's beautiful and the
- 25:04owner like she velvet um
- 25:06she's awesome in one of my
- 25:08favorite training partners
- 25:09but I do think a lot of
- 25:11this is all happening
- 25:12because of the people I'm
- 25:15placing around me daily so
- 25:18yeah so now that it's it's
- 25:22your time you have a month
- 25:25now down to what two weeks yes
- 25:30How long have you been able
- 25:31to give yourself priority?
- 25:33Um, not, not a lot, you know, like, uh,
- 25:37I'm not going to sit here
- 25:38and say like my lead up has been perfect.
- 25:42Um,
- 25:42I think a lot of that has to do with like,
- 25:44we have a baby, she's now sleeping.
- 25:46Um, she's 20 months.
- 25:48And if anyone's seen her on Instagram,
- 25:50she's wild, man.
- 25:52She, she can jump over boxes.
- 25:54She's doing burpees, squats,
- 25:56like hanging on to bars.
- 25:58Um,
- 25:59And so I've been juggling a
- 26:02lot of that and like, you know,
- 26:04being okay with like shifting, um,
- 26:07kind of like when I train
- 26:09or like my pieces or, you know,
- 26:12just stuff like that.
- 26:13Or maybe I have to take an extra rest day,
- 26:15you know,
- 26:15or like when we were at the games,
- 26:16like I didn't train very much.
- 26:19Um, we were just in Nashville.
- 26:21I got to do some workouts with, um,
- 26:23Will Murad and, uh,
- 26:26So I think like, you know,
- 26:28I'm just going to put this out there.
- 26:29I've been, you know,
- 26:30since I did a couple with him, I mean,
- 26:32I might as well just be
- 26:33like super fit now.
- 26:34Right.
- 26:35But so there's been like
- 26:36great moments and there's
- 26:38been moments of like, dude,
- 26:39am I putting in enough time?
- 26:42Because in the past.
- 26:44I was putting, like, my whole life was,
- 26:46you know, training.
- 26:48That's a great question, right?
- 26:51When you're competing in the
- 26:52elite division,
- 26:53it's about getting volume in.
- 26:55It's about, you know,
- 26:56and I'm talking to Masters
- 26:57athletes who are saying, like,
- 26:59it's different now.
- 27:00It has to be different.
- 27:02I have a life.
- 27:03I have a full-time job.
- 27:04I have kids.
- 27:05It has to be different.
- 27:07Are you struggling moving
- 27:09from what used to be to what is okay now?
- 27:13Yeah, oh, 100%, every single day.
- 27:16I'm like, is this enough?
- 27:18Am I strong enough?
- 27:21There's a lot of questions like that.
- 27:22And I'm curious if that,
- 27:25happens with people that
- 27:27have been in the elite
- 27:28division for so long and
- 27:30does it happen to other
- 27:31athletes that maybe started
- 27:32their CrossFit journey like
- 27:34in the Masters division and
- 27:35they've gone like I'm
- 27:36curious like what the
- 27:37difference is there but as
- 27:39someone that's been in the
- 27:41elite division for my
- 27:45the bulk of my career that
- 27:47transitions hard like it's
- 27:50um yeah like I said I
- 27:52question myself every
- 27:53single day I'm I'm actually
- 27:55um kind of testing out some
- 27:58of crash crucible's
- 27:59qualifiers right now just
- 28:00kind of like see um
- 28:04like where I stack up.
- 28:05Cause sometimes I'm like, Oh,
- 28:07maybe I still got it.
- 28:08You know?
- 28:08Like, and then other times I'm like, man,
- 28:10maybe I don't, you know?
- 28:12So there is a lot of that.
- 28:14And here's the thing.
- 28:15I'm still having fun.
- 28:16I'm still going to work out.
- 28:18I'm still going to train.
- 28:19So why not put myself out there?
- 28:22You know?
- 28:22And I feel like, I don't know, like,
- 28:25like I said earlier,
- 28:26I think when you're given
- 28:28an opportunity or you've
- 28:29earned an opportunity to go
- 28:32out on the floor,
- 28:33like pressure is a privilege, right?
- 28:35Like it is a privilege to
- 28:37step out on the floor with
- 28:39these other athletes and to throw down,
- 28:42you know, like,
- 28:43so I'm regardless of my training,
- 28:48not being perfect.
- 28:50Um,
- 28:52I'm excited to go out there
- 28:54and give it everything I got.
- 28:56I'm excited that there's 10 events.
- 28:59From what I know,
- 29:00I'm excited that I have an
- 29:03opportunity to get out there 10 times.
- 29:08And yeah,
- 29:09I just think it's okay at this
- 29:11point in my life to be a
- 29:13little more flexible.
- 29:15Because also, luckily for me,
- 29:19I've also done a lot of
- 29:20stunt work during my CrossFit career.
- 29:23I was doing both.
- 29:27But sometimes I want other
- 29:30athletes to know that there
- 29:31is more to life than CrossFit.
- 29:33And you can do both.
- 29:35other things as well.
- 29:36And they can be like still
- 29:37under the CrossFit umbrella, you know,
- 29:40but it,
- 29:41you don't know if your career is
- 29:42going to end tomorrow, you know,
- 29:45or in 10 years.
- 29:47So it's like,
- 29:48I do really encourage
- 29:49athletes to really like
- 29:52find something else as well.
- 29:54You know,
- 29:54like it doesn't have to be a
- 29:56perfect balance, but that way,
- 29:58like if the season doesn't go well,
- 30:00like you got something else too.
- 30:04For sure.
- 30:05Jeffrey Birchfield says,
- 30:06you did awesome at Crash last year.
- 30:09Thank you very much.
- 30:11That's another thing.
- 30:12Crash Crucible,
- 30:13if you guys are looking for
- 30:15an event that is just awesome,
- 30:18Freaking awesome.
- 30:21Crash Crucible.
- 30:21And the qualifiers are going on right now.
- 30:24And they extended the date
- 30:26till Monday at 5.
- 30:27And JR is not playing around
- 30:31with those qualifiers, man.
- 30:33Like...
- 30:34he's not playing around but
- 30:35like there are some
- 30:36athletes that I do know
- 30:38that maybe can't crack the
- 30:40egg into semi-finals
- 30:41because maybe like it's
- 30:42more of like an engine pain
- 30:44cave um issue um these are
- 30:47a little more high skill um
- 30:49it's obviously not
- 30:50semi-finals it's not rogue
- 30:51invitational so not as many
- 30:53people are doing it but the
- 30:55caliber of athlete that
- 30:57goes to this event is stacked
- 31:00you know there's a lot of
- 31:01athletes that can get
- 31:02through these qualifiers
- 31:03because they're higher
- 31:04skill heavier um and
- 31:08there's also some pain cave
- 31:09in there too um but they
- 31:11get an opportunity to do
- 31:12this event and he programs
- 31:13some like pegboards yolks I
- 31:16mean it's the the um flip
- 31:19sled like so I'm serious like
- 31:22do them,
- 31:23do them and show up to this and
- 31:25have a good time.
- 31:26Meet some people like it's,
- 31:27it's a good event.
- 31:28And I wouldn't say that if it wasn't.
- 31:31So my cohost,
- 31:32Jamie Latimer competed against you there.
- 31:36And we got to see the live stream too.
- 31:40It's a chance to get some exposure,
- 31:42get out there in front of a crowd.
- 31:44And I think like the first
- 31:46four events where she did
- 31:48something she'd never done
- 31:49before because of the way
- 31:51it's programmed.
- 31:52Yeah.
- 31:52It's so good.
- 31:54It's so good.
- 31:55So I've already kept you
- 31:58past the 30 minutes.
- 31:59I'm just going to ask you real quick.
- 32:00What are your expectations for this?
- 32:03It's your first time to the
- 32:04games since 2012.
- 32:06And you're going to get the kit.
- 32:09You're going to get everything like,
- 32:16yeah I mean I'm like I'm
- 32:17super excited um I have a
- 32:20bunch of people coming I'm
- 32:22excited you know like I
- 32:24said earlier that there's
- 32:2510 events and it's not just
- 32:27your traditional like six
- 32:29um I have no idea what to
- 32:33expect with the programming
- 32:34I i like I have no clue um
- 32:38so here's the thing
- 32:40No matter what the workouts are,
- 32:42I'm going to have a great time.
- 32:43And I'm really hoping that
- 32:45there's going to be some
- 32:46events where I can just like send it.
- 32:49But like I said, I don't know.
- 32:51I don't know because I've
- 32:53never done legends before.
- 32:56I don't know the guys
- 32:58putting it on very well.
- 32:59Like, I just don't know.
- 33:01And I think there's a lot of
- 33:02unknown going into this, but I'm excited.
- 33:05I'm excited that I get to be
- 33:07like a games athlete, you know,
- 33:10because for so long I was chasing that.
- 33:15And I think most people know,
- 33:18like I've done pretty much every game,
- 33:21large competition at the elite division,
- 33:24except for the games and
- 33:26Rogue Invitational.
- 33:29And it just so happens I
- 33:31have a couple weaknesses
- 33:32that I haven't been able to
- 33:34fill based on just time and
- 33:39what I prioritize.
- 33:42But I'm excited.
- 33:44I'm just excited.
- 33:45I don't know.
- 33:46I hope it feels good.
- 33:48But for me,
- 33:48I'm just someone that's just loved
- 33:51the process.
- 33:53So it didn't, the end result has,
- 33:57it matters, but it didn't like,
- 34:00I don't know, you know, like,
- 34:02I don't know because yes,
- 34:05I like chasing something and yes,
- 34:08I like qualifying, but
- 34:13it didn't stop me like, you know,
- 34:15like for the last 10 years of trying.
- 34:18So I don't know.
- 34:20Like I actually went to high
- 34:21school with Alison Felix,
- 34:23who's a very decorated track star,
- 34:27Olympic gold medalist.
- 34:28I don't even know how many she has.
- 34:30And there was one year she
- 34:32got silver and then her next Olympics,
- 34:34she gets a gold medal and she's, you know,
- 34:37she stands on top of the
- 34:38podium and gets the whole celebration.
- 34:40And she's like,
- 34:41I didn't really feel much different.
- 34:43But she thought it would
- 34:44feel so much different.
- 34:47But really, it's the pursuit.
- 34:48It's just you showing up every day.
- 34:50It's you doing something
- 34:51hard and just accomplishing
- 34:53the little things.
- 34:55So I'm excited.
- 34:57I love a live event.
- 35:00I like being on the floor.
- 35:01I like pressure because I
- 35:04think that's when you do
- 35:06things you didn't think you could do.
- 35:08I just love sports.
- 35:10I love being part of it.
- 35:12um but yeah I don't know if
- 35:16yeah I'm not sure so the
- 35:18one thing I am sure of from
- 35:20getting to know you behind
- 35:22the scenes a little bit is
- 35:23that you're going to soak
- 35:24in the whole experience
- 35:26yeah you are not going to
- 35:28let the nerves take away
- 35:30your enjoyment because I'm
- 35:31assuming your husband's
- 35:32going to be there oh yeah
- 35:34and you're going to share
- 35:35that experience with him
- 35:36are you bringing your
- 35:37daughter yep she's coming
- 35:40hopefully we can keep her off the floor
- 35:42Yeah, that would probably be true.
- 35:45Right.
- 35:46Could you imagine?
- 35:47Yeah,
- 35:48I'm excited to share this weekend
- 35:52with people that I'm close with.
- 35:55Because like I said earlier,
- 35:57if you chase this pursuit
- 36:00and you have nobody
- 36:01standing next to you at the end of it,
- 36:03it wasn't worth it.
- 36:06Said very beautifully.
- 36:07I want to thank you so much
- 36:10for being here.
- 36:11Me and my team are going to be there.
- 36:14We got permission to do behind the scenes.
- 36:16We're doing a behind the
- 36:17scenes documentary just
- 36:19like the Elite Games gets.
- 36:21We're doing for the Masters
- 36:22CrossFit Games.
- 36:23That's awesome.
- 36:25So Ellie Hiller and myself
- 36:26will be backstage chatting with you guys.
- 36:30We'll have a couple
- 36:30videographers out on the
- 36:31floor and we'll hopefully
- 36:33put together something
- 36:33really cool for you guys to
- 36:35look at when you're done.
- 36:36awesome I'm excited for you
- 36:37guys that's really cool um
- 36:39I think there's a lot of
- 36:40like I'm sure there's so
- 36:41many cool stories like with
- 36:43the masters and everything
- 36:44you know like because like
- 36:46they've been through so
- 36:47much more life um so yeah I
- 36:50think you guys will have a
- 36:51lot of fun I think chatting
- 36:53with a lot of people you
- 36:54know that what has been
- 36:56incredible doing these
- 36:57highlights these profiles
- 36:59yeah everybody has a story
- 37:01there's a guy in the 45 to
- 37:0249 year old division who won fear factor
- 37:07There is,
- 37:08we had to talk about the effects
- 37:11of menopause on training
- 37:12and how you have to get through that.
- 37:14Like, yeah.
- 37:14Yeah.
- 37:15Yeah.
- 37:19you know?
- 37:19It's crazy.
- 37:20Yeah.
- 37:21And there's even more crazy stories like,
- 37:23I'm sure.
- 37:24And,
- 37:24and so we've been capturing them
- 37:26through these profiles and
- 37:27now I want to highlight
- 37:28them when we get there.
- 37:29Oh yeah.
- 37:29Oh dude, that's going to be awesome.
- 37:31That's going to be so cool.
- 37:34Well, I'm looking forward to seeing you.
- 37:36Yeah, you too.
- 37:38And I,
- 37:38I really hope that you guys are the
- 37:41first step to move forward
- 37:43in the CrossFit space because I,
- 37:46You're what CrossFit's all about,
- 37:48being healthy, living longer,
- 37:50being more active longer in life,
- 37:52and that's what it's about.
- 37:53For sure, yeah.
- 37:55I think that's why it's
- 37:57important for a lot of us
- 37:59to show up for this, right?
- 38:01I think this is a step forward,
- 38:05and I think that if we can just be there,
- 38:09regardless of the outcomes
- 38:10or where anyone places this
- 38:12year especially,
- 38:13I think that will say a lot.
- 38:17yeah it'll do a lot more
- 38:18than we think well thank
- 38:20you to everybody in the
- 38:21chat we will see you
- 38:23actually in just about 20
- 38:24minutes with kelly friel um
- 38:27five six time crossfit
- 38:29games athlete um and with
- 38:31that we'll see you then on
- 38:33the Clydesdale media podcast bye guys