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Narcissists Can Be Identified By Their Eyebrows? · The Mental Healness Podcast

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  So apparently you can identify a narcissist by the eyebrows.
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  I know that I look. I know that look you just made.
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  I made the same look. When I looked it up, I was like
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  wait, what the hell? What is this pseudo?
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  Who? Who said this?
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  Who? Who would talk about this?
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  And I Googled it and guess what? Doctor Romney talked about it.
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  There's a few other people that talked about this.
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  The eyebrows. I was like, what?
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  So, yeah, you can identify narcissist by the eyebrows
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  sometimes, right? Sometimes that's it's not, it's
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  not a foolproof science. That's what we talk about today.
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  Y'all identify narcissistic people by their eyebrows.
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  If you hear my name is Lee Hammock, I'm a diagnosed
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  narcissist. And welcome to another episode
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  of The Narcissist Go. Made me want to shape mine up,
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  right. So yeah, I honestly that I was
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  looking up Google Trends, right? And sometimes that's why I
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  figure out what to talk about in a day.
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  I was looking up Google Trends and one of the top rising, top
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  rising concepts or topics topics was you can identify narcissists
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  by their eyebrows. I was like, what the hell is
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  this? And you know, being someone is
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  diagnosed with narcissists to personality disorder.
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  I'm always just like, I don't like, I don't like the, the
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  stigma and all the other stuff that's that's associated with
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  narcissists and whatnot. I was like, this has got to be
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  some BS. This has got to be some BS.
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  So of course I'm like, I'm gonna do a little research.
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  I'm gonna get on YouTube or whatever, see who else is
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  talking about this. Probably some of the creators
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  who just so I I was thinking like this has got to be some
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  creators who are trying to get some click bait, like click bait
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  creators who exist, right? This is the narcissist and how
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  they fart the narcissist and how they burp the narcissist and the
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  eye wink or whatever it is, right?
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  Narcissist and they're weird and walking habits or weird
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  narcissist run like having a run like avatar, right?
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  Naruto, Naruto run. That's just wild though.
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  But I get on YouTube and the top top search video is doctor
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  Romney. I was like, whoa, this is my,
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  you know, doctor Romney. She I don't think she's talking
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  about no BS. I was like, this must have some
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  relevance to it, right? And so I watched her video and
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  she was citing I'm going to I'll link her video in my in my
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  description, see how I can go check it out.
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  But she was citing a bunch of studies that people have done
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  and research that people have done about narcissists in their
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  eyebrows or people who are high, who would score higher on the
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  NPI, the narcissistic personality inventory, right?
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  And they would just like they cut people's faces off, right?
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  And just had people had eyebrows, just showed people
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  pictures of people just showed people pictures of eyebrows and
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  had they ranked the eyebrows like, is this how high
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  narcissistic do you think this person is?
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  And the test results showed that like people who are getting it
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  right for the most part, based on the eyebrows, the shape, the
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  density, like the the, the upkeep of the eyebrows.
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  Now she did Doctor Romney did say that more women showed up
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  for this test. So women are just in general, I
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  think going to take care of the eyebrows better.
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  But some men showed up as well. And they they was tagging them
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  too. So I was just like my eyebrows,
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  my eyebrows and identify. I don't really, I've never
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  plucked my eyebrows. I even got a like a a childhood
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  scar on my eyebrow right here. You sometimes I don't know my
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  you can't, you might not can't identify me.
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  Make me want to shave mine off. Now they're like you would never
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  you're not going to be identify me.
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  But my eyebrows. I'm here with these two crazy
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  ass spots on here now and now look, because my eyebrows are
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  gone, I'm more identifiable, right, my lady, you, you're more
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  identifiable now because you're missing your eyebrows.
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  You look stupid. You did it on purpose.
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  People who miss an eyebrows don't look stupid.
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  Yeah, but if I did it on purpose just for TikTok or YouTube or
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  whatever, then yeah, I'm probably going to look stupid.
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  I'm probably going to look idiotic.
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  Right. But that's the mentality that so
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  many people are going to go against.
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  Like I yeah, I did. What do you think?
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  What do y'all think? Y'all think there's any kind of
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  relevancy behind identifying A narcissist through the eyebrows?
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  Because if I were to ask you what would be the most
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  identifying quality of a narcissist's face, what would
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  you say? Like, what would you say?
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  What would your answer be? Typically, what I hear is eyes,
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  right? The narcissist have a certain
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  type of eyes. You can, you can see the soul.
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  You can see the lack of soul in a narcissist's eyes.
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  You can see the narcissist doesn't.
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  There's nothing behind the eyes. Lee, I can tell that you're a
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  narcissist because you don't have a soul.
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  You soulless narcissistic beep. Like, whoa, you guys are being
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  mean to me today. But no, seriously, this is what
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  this is what people experience and what people go through.
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  Yeah, we are dealing with a narcissistic personality type.
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  They're going to do this type of stuff like the eyebrow stuff.
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  I thought it was pseudoscience. And it still very well may be
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  right. It still might be just like, I
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  feel like they need to do a lot more research on it and whatnot.
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  But I don't think you could fully identify people that are
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  have narcissistic personality disorder, maybe hire
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  narcissistic traits, right? Because eyebrows is not going to
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  be one of the the, the traits of narcissistic personality
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  disorder. Grandiose, grandiose sense of
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  self? Check.
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  Thick, luscious eyebrows. Double check.
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  Who, who, Who's your esthetician?
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  But this. This.
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  Yeah. I thought it.
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  Yeah, I promise you. I thought it was silly too, but
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  Doctor Romney has a pretty good video on it.
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  I'm just like, damn, that's crazy of how this works.
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  So like I said, most people would say their eyes.
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  Most people say like looking through their eyes, you can see
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  the soul. There's no soul there, Lee.
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  You can tell there's no soul behind those peepers.
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  Like looking through their eyes. You you'll be able to figure out
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  who's the narcissist, who's not the narcissist.
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  I'm like, OK, so I don't necessarily like his eyes,
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  right? I mean, I don't think his eyes.
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  I don't think his eyebrows. Again, you are allowed your own
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  opinion. You are.
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  You are more than welcome to have your own thoughts and
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  opinion. Just keep it respectful.
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  For me, it'd be the smirk, the little narcissistic contempt
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  smirk. That's for me is the most
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  identifying feature of a narcissistic person.
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  But you have to, you have to get them, you know, you kind of have
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  to give them a reason to smirk. You know what I mean?
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  It can't just be a random. Just like on the first date,
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  they're smirking. On the first day, they're
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  smirking. They have to see like if you're
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  dating this person or dealing with this person or this person
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  is involved in your life in some way, shape or form.
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  I feel like personally, there has to be some type of
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  identifying, like some type of mitigating circumstances.
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  Like why are they smirking? Like did they push you down or
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  did something bad happen to you and they know they're guilty?
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  They're trying to gaslight you, they're trying to manipulate
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  you, and now they're smirking. You went through their phone and
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  some you found out that they were cheating on you and somehow
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  they ended up getting you to apologize to them for going
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  through their phone and now they're smirking because you
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  went through because you apologized to them.
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  Y'all do know that there's actually some science behind
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  this smirk? The behind like smiling with one
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  side of your face. There's a it means contempt.
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  That person has contempt towards you or the situation they this
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  contempt. That means this person got this
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  person feel a certain type of way about you, right?
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  That means this was going on right there.
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  This person has certain this person has certain feelings
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  towards you and it might not be the best of feelings, right?
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  But this is what you have to deal with.
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  So like I said, eyebrows is crazy.
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  I like eyebrows. I don't I don't take care of
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  mine per SE. So that might be like, say, if I
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  were to guess, like I need to watch look at the whole study.
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  So I mean, she said more women participated in this.
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  So just like I would say that there is probably some
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  narcissist, some truths today, because narcissistic people care
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  about their appearance so much that it would make sense that
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  their their upkeep of their eyebrows, which is a highly
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  identifying feature because, you know, eyebrows are typically
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  associated with attractiveness. So just like if I don't have
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  eyebrows, it's going to affect my, the, the symmetry of my
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  face, it's going to affect my overall aesthetic.
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  So of course, if I'm narcissistic and I'm worried
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  about my looks, I'm going to make sure my eyebrows are good.
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  Like again, I'm a man. I've never thought about my
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  eyebrows twice. You know, my wife comments on my
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  eyebrows like you always my wife does.
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  I honestly, I just thought about this.
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  My wife does say she's like, what?
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  I wish I could take your eyebrows.
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  You have some great. My wife had said that before.
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  Now I think about it, she had to say you have some great
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  eyebrows. There might be yeah, there might
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  be the truth behind that. I'm just like, I wish I had your
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  eyebrows or whatever. And because she, you know, she
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  has to do a little work for her eyebrows would not.
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  Mine is just like naturally like this.
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  I haven't shaved them. I haven't done anything.
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  Like I said, if anything, this identifying like Mark right
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  here, I probably can see it. Like I don't even know how this
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  happened. It happened when I was a kid.
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  So it's been, it's, I've had it for decades.
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  I'm 39 years old now. So I've probably had it for at
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  least 30 years. I have no idea what happened to
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  the point where I got a scar on my eyebrow that doesn't like the
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  hair just has not grown back, which is some type of like, you
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  know, if you have a place in your body where hair normally
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  grows and then you get injured like your head or something like
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  that and the hair doesn't grow back, that's traumatic to your
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  face, right? I've had somebody in here with a
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  baseball or something. I don't know.
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  It might be why I became a narcissist.
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  No, I'm joking, but that's something I really do not
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  remember. I mean, I need to ask my mom to
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  just remember what happened to me.
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  I think. Did I get hit in the face of the
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  ball? I do remember.
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  I get stitches. I do remember it's coming back
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  to me. I might have got hit in the face
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  of the ball now thinking about it, because why would I say
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  that? I got hit in the face of the
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  ball and I lost my tooth when I was younger.
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  But I do feel like narcissistic people.
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  Enough about me, I know I'm a narcissist, but enough about me,
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  we've talked enough about me now.
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  So I feel like a lot of narcissistic people are worried
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  about how they look and how they present themselves and no word,
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  let me say this, y'all, worrying about how you look and how you
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  present yourself does not make you a narcissist, y'all.
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  You, of course you want to look a certain type of way you want
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  to. Your upkeep is important, your
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  aesthetic is important. The way you smell is important,
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  right? And a lot of people, Speaking of
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  smells, a lot of people's like, well, you can identify a
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  narcissist because they stink. I've seen that comment so many
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  times. I'm like, yeah, I got Cologne.
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  I shot like, yeah, could they be some stinking ass narcissists
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  out there? Yes.
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  But they say, and this is another scientific thing, if you
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  are not attracted to your persons, like the person in your
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  life, if you're not attracted to their natural Musk, their
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  natural scent, then you probably shouldn't be together, right,
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  'cause that's like an animalistic thing, like the
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  pheromones that we, we all release.
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  If that repels you, if that repulses you, their natural
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  smell or their natural Musk repulses you, then it's like
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  some type of animalistic thing that said this person is not
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  good, This person is not bad. Your body, your mind is
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  rejecting this person, but your heart is still in it.
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  So that smell thing does have some something behind it as
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  well. What's the Yeah, Let me ask you
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  out a question. Let me ask the audience a
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  question. What's the weirdest thing that
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  you've noticed about narcissistic people?
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  Their face, smell, touch, anything about them that's
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  identifying? Because again, I would just say
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  the smirk. You mean the smirk when they do
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  something horrible to you or they get it something away.
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  But again, Doctor Romney said about the eyebrows that was I
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  was like, wow, Doctor Romney talked about it.
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  I was like, so it must be legit if some other people talked
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  about it and Doctor Romney would never made a video.
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  I was like, they lying they they, they, this is click bait.
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