Latest / Gospel Talks Podcast / #73 - What If Your Church Had a New Year’s Resolution?
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- 0:00Welcome everybody to Gospel Talk Podcast where we help Christians all over the world become more effective in relational evangelism and discipleship.
- 0:08My name is George Binoka and with me today is Jeff Musgrave, the founder and author of The Exchange.
- 0:13And we're so excited to be with you guys.
- 0:15This is a little bit right after Christmas, just before New Year's.
- 0:18And uh we want you to think about New Year's resolutions real quick.
- 0:22I guess this whole episode is kind of about...
- 0:24a type of New Year resolution except one that we don't often think of.
- 0:27I I think of like, okay, I got to lose a little bit of weight.
- 0:29I want to do this.
- 0:30I want to do that.
- 0:31I want to clean this room up in my house, clean out the junk drawer.
- 0:34But those are very this earth kind of resolutions.
- 0:37I think a resolution that we're thinking about is what would be the resolution for your church, the church family that you're a part of, you as a member of the church, what would
- 0:47be the New Year's resolution for you?
- 0:49And we're all the church.
- 0:51The church is not just the pastors.
- 0:53It's not just the leadership.
- 0:54It's not just the deacons.
- 0:55It's not a building.
- 0:56It's the people.
- 0:57So all of you are the church.
- 0:59You're part of some local church family, I hope.
- 1:03And in being part of that, we ought to have a goal for this year for 2026.
- 1:09So
- 1:09I love I love goals.
- 1:10Don't you George?
- 1:11mean, go.
- 1:12Go.
- 1:13Goals are uh what drives my life.
- 1:16I got to have a new one.
- 1:17Yep, yep, they excite me.
- 1:19They are exciting.
- 1:20Yeah, so here I think we've been thinking a lot about goals and so what were you thinking to talk about today?
- 1:28mean, what kind of goals do you want to talk about?
- 1:30Well, I really felt since I think most of you know that George is just taking the pastorate of a of a church that really needs to be revitalized.
- 1:42And he's super excited about that.
- 1:44I'm super excited for him and for the church.
- 1:47And I thought, wow, this is fresh on his brain there.
- 1:51He's thinking in terms of how can we get this church
- 1:55up and healthy and running and you know what, what, what steps need to be done.
- 2:00And I think every single church needs new life.
- 2:03mean, every, if we could almost say George, that every church needs to be revitalized.
- 2:07we all need new life.
- 2:08And I thought if we could just listen, to what God's kind of put on your head and your heart, in terms of what you need to do, I think we can all learn from that.
- 2:17So I thought we'd just use that as a template if it's okay.
- 2:19Oh yeah, sure.
- 2:21You know, a lot of times when we think revitalization, we think like a complete restart.
- 2:26I'm actually, I think the Lord has been really gracious to me in the fact that I'm not really starting where some guys start in a church revitalization, which is like they have
- 2:36maybe three or four families left.
- 2:38We have much more than that.
- 2:40You know, we have 130 on a Sunday, but the church that I'm
- 2:45family that I'm a part of now has been through a lot of hurt, a lot of change, basically has been kind of on a downturn, steady downturn over the last couple years due to various
- 2:55reasons.
- 2:56And, and as I've come in, I've just thought, you know, we, have some goals we're trying to do here.
- 3:02And we were talking just before the podcast and basically the three areas I'm focused on is truth.
- 3:08administration and people.
- 3:09As I've looked across our church family, there are some people that I really want to disciple, get close to.
- 3:17There are people, not talking to other people, that are not, they are not reconciled, but they're not having the conversation to have reconciliation.
- 3:27And so there's a little bit of Matthew 18 going on.
- 3:29Our administrative
- 3:31where we are right now administratively.
- 3:33Yeah, go ahead.
- 3:35Yeah.
- 3:37Yeah, yeah.
- 3:38just a thought, just for our listeners in, in my mind, there's a major difference between a replant and a, kind of re strengthening, revitalizing what's here and, definitely see
- 3:52what you're doing as a revitalization.
- 3:54That's why I say every church,
- 3:56needs to be revitalized.
- 3:57Not every church needs to be replanted.
- 3:59You know, if if church is down to a couple of families, it needs to be replanted.
- 4:04If a church is got a hundred people in it and they're just tired and worn out and needing a shepherd, that that's, that's totally different.
- 4:14Now we just need to revitalize that.
- 4:16I would dare say George that nearly every church that
- 4:19the people that we're talking to are in, there are people there that are tired and worn out and the church needs number one, new workers, because that's every church needs more
- 4:31workers.
- 4:32Uh, even the early church, that was the biggest problem they have was more work to be done than people to do the work.
- 4:37Uh, that was the institutional lay leaders in, uh, um, acts chapter six.
- 4:43Uh, but when, when we see
- 4:46any church, it needs to be revitalized.
- 4:48And I think you're putting the emphasis right in that the very first thought about revitalizing is building up those people, finding the people problems.
- 4:59But but not just that taking the people who have been the backbone and holding it together and and giving them a break and giving them a lift up because they're tired.
- 5:09Mm-hmm, yep.
- 5:10No, I think you're exactly right.
- 5:12I think a lot of us Christians who are in a church, we struggle with the idea of, you know, it always seems there's some problem, there's something we're dealing with as a
- 5:21church.
- 5:21There's always, it's like you fix this thing and then this thing pops out.
- 5:25And then you fix that thing and then this thing comes undone.
- 5:28And there's an aspect of ministry, of just being part of a church where...
- 5:32you are always going to have to go through these cycles of revitalization and adjustment and a little bit of a pivot.
- 5:39you're going have to, you're going to be used to doing this thing that was so, so effective and all of a sudden it's not effective anymore in your neighborhood.
- 5:46And now you have to change how you approach something.
- 5:49And we just have to understand that that kind of...
- 5:53work and busyness and the stress that comes with all that is actually the privilege of being in a ministry that is growing, that God is doing something with.
- 6:01If you aren't facing any problems, either you're dead as a ministry, right?
- 6:07If you aren't facing any problems, either you're dead as a ministry or you're just ignorant of them.
- 6:13It's like any growing place faces growing.
- 6:16pains and if Satan is attacking you as a ministry, if the church has problems and people are having problems, is because you are at some level effective.
- 6:27If he leaves you alone, I don't know what that says about you.
- 6:30All that to say it's how we deal with the problems.
- 6:33It's not every ministry, I don't know of a single ministry that doesn't have some kind of problem.
- 6:38I don't know of a single church with some kind of problems.
- 6:40If you're looking for a perfect church, you're doomed.
- 6:42But, but
- 6:43in fact, if you're looking for a church, perfect church, don't join it because it won't be perfect anymore.
- 6:48Yeah, that's the brutal reality is we bring our problems with us as Christians.
- 6:53You know, I was just talking to Anna today about, one of the things that I know you're working on is helping your church to be safe.
- 7:01And I think you're working on some of the administrative issues of taking care of children and all of the pieces.
- 7:08But I think even just emotionally, spiritually, socially, I think every single person needs to be able to walk into church and feel safe.
- 7:17And what I mean by that is,
- 7:18If, if we think we have to be perfect to be able to serve in the church, we're never going to serve.
- 7:24And so if there are people serving me and serving the church and they make a mistake and maybe even a sinful one, you know, they got, they lost their temper.
- 7:33They, they did something selfish.
- 7:36we all have to let them make those kinds of mistakes because nobody doesn't make those kinds of mistakes.
- 7:42We all get selfish.
- 7:43Sometimes we all,
- 7:44say things we shouldn't have said and have to go back and repent.
- 7:46And I mean, that that's just part of life in a family.
- 7:50we safety says, I'm going to let you make those mistakes and let you correct them and still love you deeply.
- 7:58Yeah, and the book of Proverbs says if you don't like the benefits of having an ox, get rid of it.
- 8:04But part of having an ox is you have to clean up after the ox.
- 8:09But there's a benefit that comes with that.
- 8:12you know, it's like sometimes when the older people in our church feel like the kids are a nuisance.
- 8:19Well,
- 8:19A church with zero kids is a dying church.
- 8:23It's a doomed church.
- 8:24I've, I've, we've been a lot of churches that literally you walk in and you immediately recognize it's church.
- 8:30You're not going to make it because there's no kids and where there's kids, there's noisiness and they're going to bump you.
- 8:36Yep.
- 8:37right now my AV team is teenagers and we're starting to incorporate the teenagers into worship and the song portion of the worship service.
- 8:45And so people look at that and go, you know, how can you, how could you trust teenagers with that?
- 8:51Well, I mean, that's the future of your church.
- 8:53So you can't afford not to invest in them and give them opportunities.
- 8:57And if they
- 8:58one of the teenagers programmed the slides to auto-forward in our song service this last Sunday, or somebody did.
- 9:03I don't know if it was one of the teenagers, but anyway, it would jump ahead and he'd have to hit it back because we weren't done singing the slide.
- 9:12And so there was this boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom happening in every song.
- 9:16And at the end, I go up to him and go, so what happened to those slides?
- 9:19He's like, man, there was an auto-forward and we didn't catch it ahead of time and we should have deleted it in the transitions on the slide.
- 9:26And I just looked at him and I go, I'm so impressed that you understand what happened and what went wrong and you already have a plan to correct it.
- 9:32I'm really thankful for your ministry because
- 9:35that's letting him be safe to do stuff and not be perfect.
- 9:40Exactly.
- 9:41I mean, that's part of development is those are the risks we take to develop other people and invest in them and see God use them.
- 9:49And if everything, I was just preaching the Magnificat this Sunday and Mary's worship was not canned worship.
- 9:58It was not manufactured.
- 10:01It was not artificial.
- 10:02It was not perfect and prim and proper.
- 10:06and everything she said she said under inspiration, but she spoke totally from the heart.
- 10:10says her soul magnified the Lord.
- 10:12That's where our worship and service ought to come from, from our souls.
- 10:16If it's all scripted like a choreographed concert, I mean, is it really genuine local church worship?
- 10:24So it's okay to have mistakes.
- 10:26So I think one of the things that we want to be able to communicate to those who are just church members are two twofold.
- 10:34Number one, we need to give people room to make mistakes.
- 10:39But number two, we've got to be recognizing that the people around us need to be growing.
- 10:48And I think I
- 10:50our friend Brad Steely gets gets real excited about discipleship.
- 10:54And he says every single person in the church needs to be being discipled and needs to be discipling someone.
- 11:01And so I think in terms of how do we help people grow, every one of us ought to be looking around and saying who in this church could I get it come alongside of and help them grow.
- 11:13Yeah.
- 11:14I think, I think you're a hundred percent right.
- 11:17Instead of complaining about, you know, where they, where they fall short, we ought to come alongside and say, how can I help you?
- 11:25You know,
- 11:26instead of complaining, you know, our church doesn't do any discipling.
- 11:30Well, then start discipling, you know, find someone and disciple them.
- 11:34Yeah, I heard of a pastor who would tell people, you're not allowed to come to me with a problem until you have a solution for that problem.
- 11:43Come with both or don't come at all.
- 11:45you got, I got in mind for sure.
- 11:46Now I know that one of the things you're trying to do with people is kind of build a discipling group.
- 11:52You're you're working on training people in discipleship.
- 11:55Yeah, I mean, I was talking with one of the deacons here at the church and he's just like, you know, I'd love to know how to do discipleship.
- 12:03I'd love to know how to win somebody to Christ and then disciple them for a lifetime of ministry.
- 12:07And I said, why don't we just start a group that meets in my home of families in the church who are interested in this sort of thing.
- 12:13A lot of my younger families with kids are interested in, they have opportunities in their workplace and on the sidelines of games and things like that.
- 12:21And so they just don't
- 12:23they don't have the training, you the stuff we talk about on this podcast, uh what the exchange ministry does.
- 12:29So of course I work for the exchange.
- 12:31So one of the benefits is I have the online course and I can play it on the TV in my living room and we can create a class, we can create a fishing club.
- 12:40I think that's what I'm gonna call it.
- 12:41I'm gonna call it a fishing club.
- 12:42And so we're gonna go fishing for men.
- 12:44um so anyway, that's kind of a very small thing, but that makes a big impact.
- 12:51You know, it is the main thing.
- 12:53think it may be a small in terms of how many people, but it's the main thing in terms of what you're trying to accomplish.
- 13:00What are you working on administratively?
- 13:02So it's boring stuff, but I'm telling you, it's so important to a church.
- 13:05It's finances, how are deacons meetings streamlined, how are business meetings streamlined.
- 13:10You know, a church business meeting can be a real turnoff.
- 13:14It could be a turnoff to a visitor, it could be turnoff to your own people.
- 13:18I know of a church in another state that had a business meeting about a piano.
- 13:23where people were standing up and shouting at each other across the room.
- 13:27And some of the young people who grew up at that church have never gone back to that church because of that one business meeting.
- 13:34Generation Z you have a fight in the church and they're gone.
- 13:36Yep.
- 13:37Yeah.
- 13:37And that's that you're exactly right.
- 13:39You mean you want to kill a youth group.
- 13:41You want to kill the future.
- 13:43What would be your young, young adult group.
- 13:46Just go ahead and have a fight in your business meeting or have really long ones.
- 13:50Just unnecessary conversation.
- 13:52Let's all say the same thing 50 times in the meeting and let's all ask, you know, same version of the question.
- 13:57I'm not saying questions are wrong to ask and it's the prerogative of members to be able to have discussion and ask questions in a business meeting.
- 14:04But
- 14:05At some level, leaders have to be able to garner respect and support from their people enough to conduct a business meeting in a Christ-like, orderly manner that would glorify
- 14:15God.
- 14:16And then on another level, we all have to realize as the church that business meetings aren't the main thing of the church.
- 14:22Actually, we shouldn't even call them business meetings because we're not a business, we're a ministry.
- 14:26so we have to...
- 14:28Family, that's a great...
- 14:30That's a perfect name for what these are.
- 14:32Some people bring their Robert's Rules of Order to a church meeting and it's like, hold on, that's not the point.
- 14:39That's just not, wrong place.
- 14:43Yeah.
- 14:43And I think I used to have a, a finance guy in our church that would get so excited about rolling out the budget because he would say, this is helping us see what God's going to do
- 14:56in our church this, this year.
- 14:58And, you know, we are showing our priorities by our budget.
- 15:02And I think we can make everything ministry.
- 15:05That's really the issue is.
- 15:07It's all about ministry.
- 15:08The only reason we're doing administration is because we're going to do ministry efficiently.
- 15:15And that's why it's so important to explain to people why you're doing something.
- 15:18If there's not a good reason why, and you're just doing it and going through the motions, is people get frustrated.
- 15:23They think it's boring or pointless.
- 15:25Other thing with finances is that if you as a church are being supported by donors, supported by the tithes of Christians in your church, and if you're not transparent, if
- 15:35you don't have good accounting practices, if you don't keep track,
- 15:39of your budget if you don't have spending regulation on the staff and accountability via the deacons, I think that people lose trust in the financial process and the plate
- 15:49reflects that.
- 15:51And so when you can't tell people what you spent and you can't tell them your budget because nobody knows and everybody's looking at around at each other and going, I don't
- 15:58know what that money is for.
- 15:59There's a hundred thousand dollars in that account.
- 16:01What's it for?
- 16:01And everybody's scratching their head and you go, man, this is really bad.
- 16:05That's the thing that could kill a church too, because those are the churches that are easy to embezzle from.
- 16:09In fact, yeah, that's, that's terrifying.
- 16:11And I think one of the things we want to do in terms of accountability is not just keep people from embezzling, but, to protect the people who are doing it so that if, if there's
- 16:22ever an accusation, there's plenty of evidence because we have plenty of accountability to protect them.
- 16:28Yep, yeah, and that's exactly it.
- 16:30And you want that accountability and at the same time, you don't want the left hand knowing what the right hand is doing.
- 16:35So I'm not interested in 12 different people having access to the giving records.
- 16:40I think in a church, I think it's very important for everybody to know, and this is my personal opinion, but I as a pastor never want to know what anybody's giving.
- 16:46I just don't because I don't want it to ever change the way I treat anybody.
- 16:49I don't want our leadership, our staff to ever know who gives what because that could affect how they decide to use benevolence or anything like that.
- 16:57I just, want people to give to the Lord freely as the Lord leads them and then we ought to minister to them freely.
- 17:03But there needs to be one person so that giving records can go out for tax season.
- 17:08But that's kind of, that's another thing we're working on, you know.
- 17:11Yeah, those are all great things.
- 17:13And I think the key here for all of our church members who are listening is that in our church, we want to promote and respect administrative responsibilities.
- 17:26so where do I fit into this process to be able to help it?
- 17:31And that's really the issue with all of church life is I want my participation to always be
- 17:37help.
- 17:38Even if I have to ask questions about wait a minute, this doesn't seem quite right.
- 17:42I'm doing it with the intention of I want to make sure that our church is healthy.
- 17:48And I want to help that to be the case, however I possibly can.
- 17:52Yeah, and ask good questions and go to people and ask them about the process.
- 17:57And that's what the church does.
- 17:58It holds the pastors and deacons accountable.
- 18:01And so I think that those are really good things.
- 18:04um so, yeah.
- 18:05to make sure we have enough time to get down to this third uh aspect here.
- 18:09And the first two words that you wrote on the notes that you gave to me, I hope you have them in front of you because I want you to say them.
- 18:15Those those that number three, just read that first little sentence.
- 18:19Okay, the one where, application of the sermon round?
- 18:24No, not in the next one.
- 18:26Gather.
- 18:28You're good.
- 18:29and love are the main ingredients of human growth.
- 18:33By the way that I didn't come up with that George came up with that I just wanted to I wanted to hear that from him.
- 18:39But I love love love that statement, George.
- 18:43Yeah, it's really what I believe.
- 18:45Truth and love are the main ingredients because those are the two sides to God, right?
- 18:50Amet and Chased, those you look all throughout scripture, it's truth and love, truth and mercy, truth and mercy, truth and mercy.
- 18:58That's the loyal love of God.
- 18:59And so as I look around as a pastor, I'm asking myself, how do we more effectively unleash the truth of God on people's lives?
- 19:07um So that the Holy Spirit can minister through that word To change people because he's the one who really changes people I can't change people and then we have to love them too
- 19:17in the way we do it and before we do it and after we do it we just have to love them and have relationship and so I'm looking around and going.
- 19:25Okay.
- 19:26How do I help my peep my folks in their daily devotions?
- 19:28Maybe I need to start a podcast for our church and just
- 19:33do five minutes every morning of here's what I read in my daily devotions, here's the part of scripture we're in, do your best to read this today, pray, here's what I'm praying to
- 19:42the Lord today, you know, just simple things like that.
- 19:45How could we change Wednesday nights to be Bible courses to arm people for discipleship and in their own development as they walk with God to become, to go from just an attender
- 19:56and member to an administrator, to a minister, you know, um and so somebody who...
- 20:01into others and what we call the circle of ministry at the exchange.
- 20:05And so how do we make sure the preaching and the song part of the service, how do we make sure those are more effective with truth and love?
- 20:12You know, in-home discipleship groups, how do we make in-home small groups happen in our church?
- 20:18You know, where people are getting that community feel, you know, that love, you know, horizontally between people.
- 20:25but that they also are again having discussion and application.
- 20:29And so it's like you preach a sermon on Sunday morning, Sunday night's a great time to get into a home setting with families and sit around and say, okay, now how do we take that
- 20:37into our week and let people actually talk?
- 20:39They've listened already that morning for hours.
- 20:41Now we let them talk.
- 20:42And so...
- 20:43And I think most people learn better when they're when they're espousing, they're talking.
- 20:48I just have seen that over and over in seminars, we learn a lot more in the discussion times than any other times in the seminar.
- 20:55Yeah, yeah, I agree with you.
- 20:57People, when they have to verbalize something, when they have to speak, it sticks with them in a way that it doesn't if it's just internalized.
- 21:05Yeah, and sometimes hearing it from the guy you're sitting next to is really powerful, you know, and to recognize, hey, this guy's got a heart for God, listen to the way he's
- 21:16talking, there's something about talking about genuine truth in that loving environment that just really connects us with each other.
- 21:26Yep, no, I agree with you 100%.
- 21:29But yeah, those are the three areas, people, administration, truth that I've really trying to hone in on.
- 21:35I'm not gonna be perfect at it.
- 21:36I'm not speaking to you guys as a guru because I'm just getting started and we have no idea how it's even gonna go.
- 21:42know, God's gonna have to do it.
- 21:44to speak as the expert, I do.
- 21:46I, I, I love your heart, George.
- 21:48You always are humble and thinking down the road way down the road.
- 21:57And I just wanted to get a little bit of that for all of us today to kind of walk down and listen to a little bit of what's going on inside of your brain as, you're contemplating.
- 22:09these these new steps in your church.
- 22:12I think it's helpful to all of us.
- 22:13Let me play a little bit of a devil's advocate.
- 22:15That's really not a nice phrase.
- 22:18I don't know why I even use that phrase, but I don't want to be the devil's anything.
- 22:21um But, but, you know, all of these things are bringing your people up to healthiness and bringing the church as a whole the body.
- 22:33to healthiness, which is critical.
- 22:36mean, that's, that's your first job as your, as a shepherd.
- 22:39But what are, what are you thinking in regards to, getting new life into the church, reaching people and bringing them in from the outside?
- 22:49What, I know you're working on that as well.
- 22:51Yeah, so one of the first things we did is we upped our outreach budget.
- 22:55We have deferred savings in the bank account and I just kind of, you know, looked at our deacons and financial team and said, hey, let's put this to good use.
- 23:03uh It's great to have a cushion, but it'd be terrible if we died as a church with a cushion, you know, so let's start reaching out.
- 23:11So we just looked all across the ministry.
- 23:14and identified several areas where we could grow and things that would lead to growth.
- 23:18Everything from branding, you know, our church is Berean Baptist Church, which comes from Acts 17.
- 23:23But an unbeliever, an outsider, or somebody who may never have read, he's a believer, but has never read all the way through the book of Acts, might not even understand what that
- 23:33means.
- 23:33And so how do we identify ourselves as a church to the outside?
- 23:37Does the greeter visitor process of
- 23:40how somebody goes all the way from parking lot to pew, is that clear for them?
- 23:44Like when you go to an airport, is it universal?
- 23:47Is it really clear that it's a safe place?
- 23:49Is it clear where their children go?
- 23:50Is it clear where to pick them up?
- 23:51Those don't sound like things that lead to growth, but they are things that lead to growth because those are the things that detract from your ministry, from your growth.
- 23:58And then just being visible, your signage on the street, your signage.
- 24:02We are on the busiest street in this,
- 24:05the area.
- 24:06have road front property, but we're at the back end of the property and the front is a big, huge, empty lot.
- 24:12It's several acres of empty and it's, you know, but people don't know our
- 24:17in that, in that lot, don't you?
- 24:19We have a horse, donkeys, goats that are one of the farms next to us is running out.
- 24:24uh
- 24:25to make money, but it looks like a farm.
- 24:27It looks like a farm.
- 24:29so, you know, we have to invest big money in a big sign.
- 24:33But you have to have the branding, the website.
- 24:35Most people are going to hear about you on Google.
- 24:37And so we are recruiting Google reviews from our congregation because that's the bread and butter of a local church, like a local business is to kind of get to the top of a Google
- 24:47search is reviews, more and more reviews.
- 24:50So we're working on that working on a new website working on a social media team.
- 24:54We've already put together a media team Now we're gonna put together social media strategy and a calendar We're working on Blog articles written to reach we're in a very heavy LDS
- 25:04community and there's a guy I've talked about on the podcast before here Cody and Cody has been writing a lot of things aimed at those who come from a Mormon background
- 25:14and he does it in such a great way because he knows exactly how they think and that's how he grew up.
- 25:20to heart because he's coming from that because of his need in his heart.
- 25:24So I think that's really awesome.
- 25:25And he does it in a very loving way.
- 25:27He's not confrontational.
- 25:28He's not trying to be in a, you know, have an apologetic kind of approach where it's like, I'm debating you.
- 25:34He's very, very practical, loving, gets right to the heart of the matter and uses scripture.
- 25:38And so we're going to have probably a week of evangelistic training at some point.
- 25:42And so, you know, and also incorporate maybe some somebody like Cody into that so we could reach into our LDS community.
- 25:49But we'll have like an exchange seminar here.
- 25:52You know, and so that's one of the things on the bucket list for ah sex.
- 25:57two open in the fall if you're interested.
- 25:59Yes, we are interested.
- 26:00So we'll talk afterwards.
- 26:02I'm hoping to get a get a good deal from the exchange.
- 26:05I'm just kidding.
- 26:06But no, I think that that would be great.
- 26:08You and Anna could come and see it.
- 26:10You could stay with us and we'd have a lot of fun.
- 26:12But anyway, all that to say there's you do have to build this funnel and make sure people understand that you're there.
- 26:19You exist so that they know they could come visit you.
- 26:22But if the when when people get here and there's nowhere for them to go and it looks terrible.
- 26:26It becomes a dead end.
- 26:27you've those those.
- 26:29It's not what we want.
- 26:30But the reality is street appeal is pretty important.
- 26:34Yeah, curb appeal, I guess.
- 26:36So one of the things I know you're going to do I know, because I know you, but I really believe that all of us need to think about this is, and I would say this to every single
- 26:47pastor who's listening right now the very best way
- 26:51to get your people excited about outreach is to win someone yourself.
- 26:56And I would just suggest to every single pastor who's listening, we each one of us need to just get down on our knees and beg God, God give me a new soul that I can lead to the Lord
- 27:10and disciple in this next year.
- 27:13I there's, there's nothing that brings life into a church.
- 27:17like new converts.
- 27:19Yeah, I am.
- 27:20I agree with you.
- 27:21think, you know, I'm telling people in this vision Sunday on January 14th, I'm going to tell my church, these are my goals as your pastor and how I'm going to leverage the staff
- 27:31and the deacons and all the heads of ministry in our church.
- 27:34We're going to leverage them to make this plan come alive.
- 27:37But there's a vision for each and every one of you is that this year you would carry two kinds of relationships this year.
- 27:43One is that you would
- 27:45identify people in your life that don't know Jesus Christ as Savior and introduce them to Jesus Christ and not only introduce them to Jesus Christ, but that if they accept you,
- 27:53disciple them and you help them grow and get started in their Christian life and take them together until they become what we call at the exchange, you now they're a co-laborer with
- 28:03you.
- 28:04The other kind of relationship I think is really important is Timothy, Paul says this to Timothy, older men with younger men, older women with younger women, this
- 28:13Paul and Timothy kind of relationship.
- 28:15know, the church needs to be that family, but often in church we form cliques.
- 28:20And so one of the things that's really important is we all identify, here's one person in the church that I don't really know well, and I'm gonna get to know them well this year.
- 28:28I'm gonna do my best to build a friendship with them.
- 28:31Maybe it's the person that you see, it's unlikely to you that you're gonna build a friendship with them.
- 28:35Maybe it's the person that you don't kind of like on the outside.
- 28:38But if all a church is is little segments of people that like each other, and it's not a cohesive church family, we're not actually branching out to people that are not like us,
- 28:48then we're never gonna be the kind of church that's gonna be attractive to unbelievers.
- 28:53Yeah.
- 28:54I think it's interesting, George, that that's such a burden to you because that's what I saw you doing in Nairobi is, is building a church with, with people that would never be
- 29:06close to each other in any other setting than church.
- 29:09I, you're, I don't know if we've said this before, but you had three different Sudanese tribes represented in your church family and they don't, I mean, they fight each other in
- 29:20Sudan.
- 29:20And it's just really, really cool because that's what that's what God does in a church family.
- 29:25That's the gospel.
- 29:26That's the power of the gospel.
- 29:28If there's anything, these tribes were on different sides of the civil war before this country became a country.
- 29:33And then now they're a country.
- 29:35And then they had like this little civil war after they became a country of who gets to actually rule the country and who gets to have the control.
- 29:43And so, you you're looking at people that say, never go to the same church.
- 29:47And how on earth could they come to the same church?
- 29:49There's only one way they could come to the same church is that if they truly understand and get the gospel.
- 29:53Yeah.
- 29:54And to me, that's what we all want to get excited about in the church is what the gospel is doing in my life, what the gospel is doing in our church body and what the gospel would
- 30:04do in my neighbor's life, in my coworkers life, getting excited about the reality of the power of new life from Jesus.
- 30:14That's what everybody needs to get excited about.
- 30:16Yep, no, that's exactly right.
- 30:18So yeah, that's in a nutshell.
- 30:20Those are my thoughts thus far.
- 30:22And I do say, I love that you brought this up and I love that we have pointed this at, and this is not just for pastors, any Christian, any believer listening to this podcast.
- 30:33A pastor could never pull the things that we've talked about here off by himself.
- 30:37it has to be an entire church family buying into this kind of culture and buying into the mission and buying into the theology behind the mission.
- 30:44And if we don't buy into it as Christians in our churches sitting in the pew, then it's not gonna happen.
- 30:49I think we're all waiting for something magical to happen up front at the top.
- 30:52And we all think, know, well, everything rises and falls on leadership.
- 30:55And in a sense it does, but if people don't follow, it's not much leadership, you know?
- 31:00And so it's like.
- 31:01two thoughts about that.
- 31:03If there's something that we've talked about today, that's not going on in your church, then take it upon yourself to do it.
- 31:09But but number two, and I think this is critical, your pastor probably sees things in his church, that that is not what we talked about today.
- 31:19And when he gets burdened about it, and and in these
- 31:23next few weeks as he stands up and says, this is my vision for this next year, just determining your heart, I want to get behind that man.
- 31:30I want to follow the shepherd.
- 31:32I want to be close to the shepherd.
- 31:34I want to help the shepherd.
- 31:36And if if all of our churches were full of people who were living like that, our churches would thrive.
- 31:43Amen.
- 31:43Amen.
- 31:44And nothing would encourage your pastor more.
- 31:46Nothing.
- 31:47So it's, yeah, we have to be unified.
- 31:50Amen, amen.
- 31:51Well, thanks for sharing that with us, George.
- 31:53Yep, and thank you guys for listening.
- 31:55uh This podcast wouldn't happen without your love, support, and sharing it with others.
- 31:59And if you can think of somebody that this would be an encouragement to, if you think this might be encouraging to your pastor, please give it to him uh or share it with whoever.
- 32:08And we love you guys.
- 32:09Pray with us as we pray to the Lord of the harvest that he would send forth laborers.
- 32:13The harvest is plenious, but the laborers are few.
- 32:17That I can now attest to.
- 32:19from experience.
- 32:20The laborers are few.
- 32:22So pray the Lord would multiply us.
- 32:24We love you guys.
- 32:25We'll see you next week.