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I Chose The Bear · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 2: What's up, y'all? It's your girl age a holiday? How
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  Speaker 2: y'all doing?
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  Speaker 3: Hey girl, Hey y'all, it's tm me. I love y'all
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  Speaker 3: so very much. Thank y'all for coming back again this week.
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  Speaker 3: It's been like five five plus years of y'all coming
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  Speaker 3: back every week, So y'all really fuck with us sometimes
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  Speaker 3: I don't even be willing to fuck with y'all. Hold
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  Speaker 3: you commit it. How's your weekend?
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  Speaker 2: Thank you? My weekend was you know, see regular shiit?
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  Speaker 2: I went to Costco.
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  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I went to Coschoo this weekend just for
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  Speaker 4: some little shit. But I didn't do my job and fastened,
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  Speaker 4: so my energy is low as fuck. So I just
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  Speaker 4: been what's your fastest laying laying low water water?
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  Speaker 3: That's all you have in is water? For how many days?
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  Speaker 4: I'm gonna try to go till Thursday, y'all when it's
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  Speaker 4: five days probably over way over seventy two hours. Like,
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  Speaker 4: but last night I didn't go to sleep so fucking late.
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  Speaker 4: So now I'm like, might murder somebody, you know when
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  Speaker 4: you fast, and like you gotta go to sleep at
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  Speaker 4: eight nine o'clock some hours out the way, bitchall was
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  Speaker 4: up till two o'clock doing fucking nothing like I needed
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  Speaker 4: to be sleeping, trying to around with taxes, y'all, did
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  Speaker 4: y'all taxes.
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  Speaker 3: Somebody to do a few minutes after we finished this
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  Speaker 3: girl business taxes was doing March for real? Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: yikes on bike.
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  Speaker 4: Filing extension on every damn thing I should. I might
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  Speaker 4: have to fill an extension tonight on my personal taxes
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  Speaker 4: because like I think Americas may be the only country
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  Speaker 4: that does taxes in this way, Like just just just
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  Speaker 4: already know and just take what y'all need, and like
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  Speaker 4: why we gotta why we gotta do go through all
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  Speaker 4: of this?
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  Speaker 2: Well, they can't get punished.
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  Speaker 3: Can take ship from me? How they gonna do it?
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  Speaker 2: You can't?
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  Speaker 4: I mean you you get punished for not having children,
• 3:34
  Speaker 4: get punished for being single.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying like you have to.
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  Speaker 3: That's that's stupid too, Like you, why pay taxes when
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  Speaker 3: y'all in the country in bigger debt than I ever be, or.
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  Speaker 2: Well ever about debt. You know what I'm saying. I
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  Speaker 2: always wiggle my way out of debt.
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  Speaker 3: But taxes, that's one thing you you might not be
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  Speaker 3: able to wiggle out of.
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  Speaker 2: But my thing is this.
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  Speaker 4: If everybody collective, he said, fuck that, when you're paying taxes,
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  Speaker 4: they cannot lock all us up.
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  Speaker 3: Right, where are you gonna put all of us? Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: what y'all gonna do? Stop paving the rolls. Y'all already
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  Speaker 3: don't do that, right, but we all gonna do it.
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  Speaker 4: All the inmates out because y'alln't got tax money to
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  Speaker 4: uh to house them anymore?
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  Speaker 3: Good?
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  Speaker 2: Right anyway?
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  Speaker 4: Freedom niggas like that, the prison industrial complex. They make
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  Speaker 4: too much fucking money.
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  Speaker 3: That ship we just be sustainable extortion, right, Yeah, this
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  Speaker 3: ship is extortion, man.
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  Speaker 2: I'm sick of it.
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  Speaker 4: I've never hardly ever gotten I haven't gotten a refund
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  Speaker 4: check in years.
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  Speaker 3: You gotta have a baby.
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  Speaker 2: I always got to pay some money. You gotta finesse
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  Speaker 2: some ship. Listen, if anybody's listening and like, you're a
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  Speaker 2: super good accountant. Please call me, d m me please,
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  Speaker 2: I need somebody like a little gray every area lose
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  Speaker 2: for real. So that that was my weekend chat. What
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  Speaker 2: you had going on?
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  Speaker 3: I went to see Cardi b.
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  Speaker 4: Oh ship, I want to go see carry my niece.
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  Speaker 4: Then went my niece and my stepsister went.
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  Speaker 2: It was so raunchy, girl like. First of all, was there.
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  Speaker 3: Was there a group chat about the dress code because
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  Speaker 3: everybody was a naughty school girl.
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  Speaker 2: I mean my niece and my steps into that. They
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  Speaker 2: looked so cute. They dressed girl out. Everybody was a
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  Speaker 2: naughty school What is that about?
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  Speaker 3: Though?
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  Speaker 2: What is that? How is that? I don't know?
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  Speaker 3: Not added to the group chat. I don't know. I
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  Speaker 3: didn't get the memo. I didn't get them and the
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  Speaker 3: T shirt. So yeah, that was everybody's look. And then
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  Speaker 3: there was something that was cute, you know some you know,
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  Speaker 3: so I'm not so cute, but it was a good
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  Speaker 3: time and it was so raunchy. Oh my gosh. Like
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  Speaker 3: I knew it was gonna be raunchy because it's Cardi B. Right,
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  Speaker 3: but it was like next level. This is how I
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  Speaker 3: know I'm an auntie now because I was in there
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  Speaker 3: clutching my pearls, like, oh yeah. I always felt sad
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  Speaker 3: for the girls I seen walking through with hells on.
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  Speaker 3: And then they had they had a wet ass pussy contest,
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  Speaker 3: but it was just like.
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  Speaker 2: They just danced. It wasn't really.
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  Speaker 3: No nobody was touching it. Pussy up there. I would
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  Speaker 3: have left if I did happened, but but I just
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  Speaker 3: admired the confidence of these women to go up there
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  Speaker 3: and throw their ass like that. But it's for five
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  Speaker 3: thousand dollars, so everybody was trying to, you know, get
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  Speaker 3: a piece of that money. But it was a good time.
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  Speaker 3: She put on a good show, and I'm so proud
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  Speaker 3: of her because she said.
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  Speaker 5: Last time I was here, I was at ONYX stripping
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  Speaker 5: and I was fourteen and now selling out the arena.
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  Speaker 2: So I was like, yeah, girl, oh this this show
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  Speaker 2: wasn't Atlanta Charlotte, Oh Onyx m right.
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  Speaker 3: Yep, Charlotte. It was a good time. That's all I
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  Speaker 3: did this weekend. And then my mama had Oh my
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  Speaker 3: mama had jokes speaking to my mama because something else
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  Speaker 3: happened this weekend. My mom had jokes because she's like, so,
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  Speaker 3: how was it at the party? I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 3: I went home. She said, you ain't going to know
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  Speaker 3: after parties. After the concert, I said no, I went
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  Speaker 3: home and went to bed. She said, you're really an
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  Speaker 3: auntie now.
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  Speaker 2: Growing up.
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  Speaker 3: But y'all looking at my mom, me tell y'all this happened.
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  Speaker 3: So I lost y'all know, I had my chin done
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  Speaker 3: and I had the chin strap. I lost my chin strap,
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  Speaker 3: so I had to order one, right. I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: It fell out my car somewhere. I don't know what
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  Speaker 3: happened to it, but it went missing. So I ordered
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  Speaker 3: one and Amazon had the option to pick for the
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  Speaker 3: eight am delivery, so I had to go back to Charlotte.
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  Speaker 3: So I was like, let me just pick that, and
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  Speaker 3: then I totally forgot about it. So I'm packing all
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  Speaker 3: the stuff at my mom's house. My bed is covered
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  Speaker 3: with clothes and stuff that I'm packing, and so I
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  Speaker 3: slept on the couch. Bella slept in her bed right
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  Speaker 3: below me. Around four point forty five a m I
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  Speaker 3: hear someone walking toward the door and I forgot that
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  Speaker 3: I that she was coming, and Bella jumped up and
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  Speaker 3: she barking, So baby, I just I don't know instincts,
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  Speaker 3: jumped in. I ran to the other room. I started
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  Speaker 3: like military crawling with the floor. I had my gun
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  Speaker 3: and I went to the window, military crawling, and I
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  Speaker 3: was people out the window looking out the window. And
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  Speaker 3: my mama got up cause she heard bella barking and
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  Speaker 3: she saw me laying by the window. God damn, so
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  Speaker 3: she wouldn't.
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  Speaker 2: They just can't wait to shoot a nigga. Okay, I
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  Speaker 2: can't wait to use their gun. Your neck, brace your strapped. Man.
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  Speaker 3: She saw the truck like the person walking back to
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  Speaker 3: the truck. She said, girl, I had to pray for
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  Speaker 3: the Amazon man. Please get in your truck. She's about to.
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  Speaker 2: About to kill you.
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  Speaker 3: Four forty five in the morning. Though I've never seen
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  Speaker 3: a delivery at that hour.
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  Speaker 2: Man, they delivered on Christmas early in the morning.
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  Speaker 3: Amazon.
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  Speaker 2: Amazon be getting.
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  Speaker 3: To it, man, like these other companies like really don't
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  Speaker 3: have a chance at this point. Yeah, they don't how.
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  Speaker 4: The game, absolutely, because I mean different companies can sell
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  Speaker 4: via Amazon and they'll store your your stuff, you know,
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  Speaker 4: so like mm hmm, I want to get into some
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  Speaker 4: Amazon shit girls selling some damn products.
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  Speaker 3: Well, he was about to have He was about to
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  Speaker 3: have a bad day.
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  Speaker 4: You was going to jail, bitch, you shoot somebody through
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  Speaker 4: the window, you want to jail. Speaking of shooting, let's
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  Speaker 4: get in a stupid internet news shot.
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  Speaker 2: I saw. I think this might have happened in Maybe Charlotte.
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  Speaker 2: Might have happened in Charlotte. I'm not sure. Yes, yes, Charlotte,
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  Speaker 2: so accu to an Affidavid.
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  Speaker 4: On April fourth, a woman was out getting food with
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  Speaker 4: her friends in Charlotte, North Carolina. During the outing, the
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  Speaker 4: woman and one of her friends decided to play a
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  Speaker 4: prank on her boyfriend, uh Shaid Ivy, who she had
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  Speaker 4: been dating for about five months. The prank involved a
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  Speaker 4: woman's male friend paulin Ivy and pretending to be cheating
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  Speaker 4: with her. After the call, the woman and her friends
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  Speaker 4: were still out driving when Ivy began following and tailgating them.
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  Speaker 2: Authority say he was able to track her location through
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  Speaker 2: his phone.
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  Speaker 3: Uh.
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  Speaker 4: You know, people be sharing a lot too grown, y'all.
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  Speaker 4: Motherfuckers who share locations, y'all are too grown for me.
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  Speaker 4: Like I've never like, I will share my location if
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  Speaker 4: I'm going out of town or something like that, but
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  Speaker 4: I'm not. Just every day you know where I'm at
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  Speaker 4: a land.
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  Speaker 3: But my I got life three sixty with my my family.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah that makes sense. But like with a man, if
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  Speaker 4: it's not your husband, what do y'all do in five months?
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  Speaker 2: So he says.
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  Speaker 4: During the chase, Ivy called his girlfriend angry and was
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  Speaker 4: driving recklessly, attempting to get them to pull over. At
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  Speaker 4: one point, the woman reported seeing him fire what appeared
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  Speaker 4: to be a handgun in the air. Later, when both
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  Speaker 4: vehicles stopped at an intersection, Ivy pulled alongside their car
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  Speaker 4: and fired three shots into their driving fired three shots
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  Speaker 4: into it before driving off.
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  Speaker 2: No injuries were reported.
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  Speaker 4: So the male friend involved in the prank also received
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  Speaker 4: a text from Ivy about one point thirty two am
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  Speaker 4: the following day that read, stop playing when we bro.
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  Speaker 4: Wommy wimm, stop playing when we bro? So he's been charged.
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  Speaker 4: So Ivy's been charged with five counts of assault with
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  Speaker 4: a deadly weapon with intent to kill, discharging a weapon
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  Speaker 4: into an occupied.
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  Speaker 2: Convenience and I can occupied whatever car, domestic.
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  Speaker 4: Violence, and possession of a firearm by convicted felon crash
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  Speaker 4: dummy crash.
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  Speaker 3: Like you know what, that prank pretty much saved her
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  Speaker 3: life in the long run, because you don't know who
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  Speaker 3: the fuck you dealing with.
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  Speaker 4: Absolutely not that Nigga is not to be played with,
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  Speaker 4: like he don't play the radio for real. And you know,
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  Speaker 4: this kind of makes me think about I've seen recently
• 12:30
  Speaker 4: online where this girl called her mom, was like prank
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  Speaker 4: calling her mom and she told her mom how she
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  Speaker 4: got into she's in jail. She had like the little
• 12:40
  Speaker 4: automated recorded thing calling her mom like she and her
• 12:42
  Speaker 4: mom immediately like was in duress, okay, like, oh my god,
• 12:45
  Speaker 4: what what was happening? And she told her mom that
• 12:49
  Speaker 4: she got into a fight with some girls and she
• 12:51
  Speaker 4: stayed one of the girls and the girl died. The
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  Speaker 4: mama was so hysterical, like she was just bawling, Like
• 12:57
  Speaker 4: that's a that's a charge in itself. I don't know
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  Speaker 4: if people realize that when you print called somebody and
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  Speaker 4: you cause them like the rest.
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  Speaker 2: So what if her mom would have had.
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  Speaker 3: A heart playing like that?
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  Speaker 4: Yes, like that shit has happened and people have been
• 13:12
  Speaker 4: charged with crimes because of it.
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  Speaker 2: So yeah, like and it's just me like devastating shit too.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah not that I like, I love a print call,
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  Speaker 3: but not that deep. Don't go as far as you're
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  Speaker 3: in jail calling you kill myself? Yes, suicide ship like that,
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  Speaker 3: don't play like that. I remember my homeboy his daughter
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  Speaker 3: called him on some ship like she accidentally killed her
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  Speaker 3: boyfriend and uh, you know, fight and she was like
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  Speaker 3: fake crying and he was. I heard the audio. He
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  Speaker 3: was far too calm. Scared me. I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 3: this nigga different. He was like, where are you at
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  Speaker 3: right now? Where the body at?
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  Speaker 2: All?
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  Speaker 3: Right? Stay put, I'm about to be on my way.
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  Speaker 3: Don't call nobody else. Oh hell, no, nigga, I much
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  Speaker 3: can lie. I'm probably gonna be the same way my baby.
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  Speaker 2: My child calls me and says that, yeah, like there's
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  Speaker 2: movies like that. You and your baby going to jail.
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  Speaker 3: Don't call nobody else where.
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  Speaker 2: He said, where where is Michael at?
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  Speaker 3: He said, where the body?
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  Speaker 5: Dan?
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  Speaker 3: Oh?
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  Speaker 2: Hell kill him exactly.
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  Speaker 4: You know, more people are killing I was having a
• 14:39
  Speaker 4: conversation with a friend of mine one day and he
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  Speaker 4: just was like, you know, like, people be murderers, people
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  Speaker 4: be killers, like and don't think nothing about it.
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  Speaker 3: To sleep peacefully.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, He was like, I don't been in plenty of
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  Speaker 4: situations like you know, I'm like, did you ever kill somebody?
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  Speaker 4: Of course he's not going to say he killed somebody,
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  Speaker 4: but he just was saying like he'd been in some situations.
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  Speaker 4: He didn't think he was going to make it out
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  Speaker 4: of like people be looking for a reason to get
• 15:07
  Speaker 4: one off on you right quick.
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  Speaker 3: You see how I was doing by sniper move and
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  Speaker 3: that just felt like instinctual though I don't know. Somebody
• 15:17
  Speaker 3: at the door four forty five am and the dog working.
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  Speaker 3: You woken up out of.
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  Speaker 4: Your sleep, right, yeah, somebody come to my door four
• 15:24
  Speaker 4: o'clock in the morning. I'm definitely like assuming if somebody
• 15:27
  Speaker 4: took me. Yeah, yes, because I live on the third
• 15:30
  Speaker 4: floor of my building. Like what you're doing up here?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah? Right, so.
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  Speaker 2: Myself my move. She's funny.
• 15:41
  Speaker 3: Goddamn get in the trucks. So did you see this
• 15:47
  Speaker 3: the Instagram influencer what is TikToker kbby Lame So. In
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  Speaker 3: November twenty twenty three, Cobby Lame married Wendy Jewel, a
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  Speaker 3: model of Danish and sold African descent. A few months later,
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  Speaker 3: Kylere reportedly sold his image rights to Iron Sores for
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  Speaker 3: nine hondres seventy five ms y'all to create an AI
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  Speaker 3: digital twin that would represent him in TikTok sales videos.
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  Speaker 3: Damn he saw his likeness.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it. That shit is weird to me, but
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  Speaker 2: a lot of people are doing that.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, no, you don't own your own your likeness.
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  Speaker 2: But for not seventy five million, y'all could do whatever
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  Speaker 2: y'all want.
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  Speaker 3: My likeness. Nah, hell no, I don't care. Go ahead.
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  Speaker 4: No, that was like in pernity, like forever, Alex Jaggie.
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  Speaker 3: It wasn't me, So you're hitting know nothing. It wasn't.
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  Speaker 2: Oh shit, Alexa.
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  Speaker 3: I was just joking, Alexi, big nosey ass. We were
• 16:57
  Speaker 3: talking about you, not to you did. I don't know
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  Speaker 3: why y'all hooked them ships up in your house. I
• 17:06
  Speaker 3: do not do the robo vacuum shit.
• 17:08
  Speaker 4: I don't do Alexa like I feel like the robo
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  Speaker 4: is the camera to look around your ship and Alexa
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  Speaker 4: is the ears.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah no, I'm not doing it.
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  Speaker 4: And all the shit connected to what you be buying
• 17:19
  Speaker 4: on Amazon. You trying to buy some rope and somebody
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  Speaker 4: suspected of killing somebody the fucker and Zoomba little thing
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  Speaker 4: saw you, right, and Alexa done called the police on
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  Speaker 4: your ass. Zoomba the Zooma, sr Ass and Alexa call
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  Speaker 4: the police.
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: Zooma is the gym? So looking at it? So.
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  Speaker 3: By May twenty twenty four, or Wendy filed for divorce
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  Speaker 3: and demanded half of Cabby's assets. However, to her shock,
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: she discovered that Camby did legally own the thing. Everything
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: had been registered under his father's name long before the marriage.
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  Speaker 3: The bigger surprise the court later found out that Wendy
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: Jewel actually had till million in her own private account
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: and she would have to split that money with Cabby
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: after the divorce. The story reminds us of how Kimny remember,
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: the wife of the PSG star how for divorce as
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: the three years of marriage and requested half of his essys.
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: Everything is well to find out there was nothing to
• 18:18
  Speaker 3: dispute legally, How can we owned nothing? The courtl of
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: reveal that the player's entire fortune and property were registered
• 18:24
  Speaker 3: under her his mother's name, despite earning a monthly salary
• 18:29
  Speaker 3: of one million pounds at PSG. How can we transfer
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: his entire income to his mother's account? Everything he purchased
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: from house and cars and jewelry were in her name.
• 18:39
  Speaker 3: So not only half?
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: Yesterday and you got half of hers exactly.
• 18:44
  Speaker 4: So I'm like, maybe she probably finests ten million out
• 18:46
  Speaker 4: of the out of the last marriage, probably because what
• 18:48
  Speaker 4: do you do that you got ten million dollars in
• 18:50
  Speaker 4: the bank.
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: I'd like to know where family she comes from, right? Yeah?
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: Did you acquire that from the last nigga you finessed?
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: Or did she take it from him over time? Nine
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: hundred and seventy five million, little in the bracket, little
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: in the purse.
• 19:08
  Speaker 4: Like my thing is is why not just stay You
• 19:11
  Speaker 4: can have access to all the things and just be
• 19:13
  Speaker 4: a cat sneak around.
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: Like you still got access to all the resources.
• 19:18
  Speaker 3: Like why you want to divorce?
• 19:20
  Speaker 4: Take it and run. I'm gonna stay around a little
• 19:23
  Speaker 4: bit too fun over here. It's free unless you know
• 19:28
  Speaker 4: what I'm saying.
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: Maybe he an asshole, I don't know.
• 19:30
  Speaker 4: But you you filed for divorce right after he gets
• 19:34
  Speaker 4: this nine hundred and seventy five million dollar deal.
• 19:36
  Speaker 3: Did you ever really like him? Because they don't look,
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: they don't look.
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: She definitely was doing it for the bag.
• 19:45
  Speaker 4: And that is why I always say that men deserve
• 19:48
  Speaker 4: the women that they had access to prior to the money. Okay,
• 19:52
  Speaker 4: then you don't have to worry about this type of
• 19:54
  Speaker 4: shit you are with your kind, so you get the
• 19:57
  Speaker 4: bag and then you go buy the bitch you always wanted.
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: This is the type of ship that happens.
• 20:01
  Speaker 4: They don't like you, they don't like you for real,
• 20:06
  Speaker 4: and they finessing you, and you know that maybe it's
• 20:09
  Speaker 4: subconscious consciously you know that this You would not have
• 20:14
  Speaker 4: this woman, you didn't have the money.
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: That's what I always say. But always Kevin Hart and
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: his wife they look like, you know, to heart they match, yes,
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: Tory heart. And then the new wife it's thee for sure.
• 20:33
  Speaker 4: Yes, absolutely, and she's just as basic regular. Yes, they're
• 20:42
  Speaker 4: definitely both beautiful women. But she's not like she's not
• 20:46
  Speaker 4: like how these guys go and get. She's still like
• 20:49
  Speaker 4: a to me, like a mom a wife type image, right,
• 20:53
  Speaker 4: She's not like the super batty bitch. Like when I
• 20:55
  Speaker 4: think about like the bitches who be finessing, I think
• 20:58
  Speaker 4: about like that okay baby mama, the one who basically
• 21:04
  Speaker 4: did he probably sticked her ass on fifty cent and
• 21:06
  Speaker 4: he ended up with a kid with her, Like That's
• 21:09
  Speaker 4: who I think about, those like super bombshell looking women
• 21:12
  Speaker 4: who be for messing finessing men for money, Like obviously
• 21:16
  Speaker 4: I think Kevin Harr wife probably loves him eating with
• 21:19
  Speaker 4: his ass. H No you didn't, Okay. So I remember
• 21:26
  Speaker 4: one time Tory Hart what is his wife name? I
• 21:28
  Speaker 4: don't even know her name, but she posted basically like
• 21:32
  Speaker 4: this is after divorce and all that stuff and they
• 21:34
  Speaker 4: were now like she posted, yes, she posted how.
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: Long they were together?
• 21:38
  Speaker 4: And Tory Hart like, that's interesting because that definitely overlaps
• 21:41
  Speaker 4: my marriage. Yeah, so he married the sivage.
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: That happens.
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: It happens sometimes, you know, it may not always.
• 21:51
  Speaker 4: I mean, you see what she has to has had
• 21:54
  Speaker 4: to go through to remain in that marriage.
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: It's not like she just got an easy life over there.
• 22:03
  Speaker 4: Alexi Dunio asked the fucking number, Like she just getting
• 22:06
  Speaker 4: better treats than Tori got. Yeah, you still got cheated
• 22:11
  Speaker 4: on and humiliated publicly, like he mins is still going
• 22:15
  Speaker 4: to do the Dougie to you of it's in him.
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: This is what it is.
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: A yeah, yeah, are we going to talk about goomoor Lee?
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: Do you want to?
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: And Russell Simmons I think, just just right quick.
• 22:28
  Speaker 4: So komor Ley Simmons was recently on Aspire with the
• 22:34
  Speaker 4: what aspire.
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: With the MMM grade whatever.
• 22:40
  Speaker 4: Uh, she was doing a podcast interview and you know,
• 22:44
  Speaker 4: she was talking about baby fat and all that. And
• 22:46
  Speaker 4: so the headline says, Russell Simmons takes credit for making
• 22:49
  Speaker 4: Kimora Lee famous after she spoke about the selle of
• 22:52
  Speaker 4: baby fat, because I saw another post where she was
• 22:54
  Speaker 4: saying how baby fat sold for like one hundred million
• 22:57
  Speaker 4: dollars and she only got like ten or something like that. Right,
• 23:02
  Speaker 4: So here comes uncle Rush. He says, I gave her
• 23:05
  Speaker 4: the brand, which already existed. I put her in baby
• 23:08
  Speaker 4: fat leather shorts. Today we met, I found designers, made
• 23:12
  Speaker 4: her famous and marketed the brand with her face. Eventually
• 23:15
  Speaker 4: she learned and blossomed. She did a good job, but
• 23:19
  Speaker 4: not very generous of me, excuse me, but noe very
• 23:24
  Speaker 4: generous of me.
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: Excuse me? Yeah, boy, get first of.
• 23:28
  Speaker 4: All, Yeah, when you put those leather hot pants on her,
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: she was a fucking kid. Must be clear, grow very clear,
• 23:40
  Speaker 4: one oh one. Yes, stop trying to remind us that you.
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: Were fucking creepy.
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: That's what it's given.
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: Kid.
• 23:50
  Speaker 3: Come home, stay out of American business. Please?
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: Are you even a citizen over here? No more is
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: no way here he got here like yesterday.
• 24:06
  Speaker 4: Yeah, like, no nigga gets Okay, let that girl flex,
• 24:09
  Speaker 4: you know on her interview.
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: Why are you trying to embarrass her in the comments
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: like that?
• 24:14
  Speaker 4: Like I understand why he's bitter because we can't come home.
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: But create a new one. You know what I'm saying.
• 24:21
  Speaker 4: You made make another one. That's all you gotta do.
• 24:26
  Speaker 5: You.
• 24:27
  Speaker 3: I'm sure somebody over there, Kamora looking out there, right.
• 24:37
  Speaker 3: So I wanted to talk about this for this episode today,
• 24:40
  Speaker 3: about our safety. I don't know if y'all saw, but
• 24:46
  Speaker 3: a young influencer by the name of Ashley Janey passed
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: away and Zanzibar and they're ruling it a suicide. And
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: she was out there with this white man that she
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: he was engaged too. I'm not gonna say his name
• 25:03
  Speaker 3: because he ain't getting no light on this show. But
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: I don't believe it was a suicide. I believe that
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: man harmed her. So I want us to have a
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: conversation about that and then talk about our safety and
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: things that we can do to be more self aware
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: and take care of ourself. So we'll get into that
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: right after this commercial break, all right, So let's be
• 25:30
  Speaker 3: real y'all, nobody teaches women how to protect themselves for real.
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: They teach us how to be pretty, they teach us
• 25:37
  Speaker 3: how to be nice, they teach us how to be agreeable,
• 25:41
  Speaker 3: but not what to do when something feels off. So
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: today we're gonna talk about real safety, not fear, not paranoia,
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: just how to move smarter, trust yourself faster, and get
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: out when you need to because motherfuckers is trying. It's
• 25:57
  Speaker 3: taking us up out of here, especially Carolina. Yeah, I'd
• 26:02
  Speaker 3: be having like these intrusive thoughts sometimes, and I've had
• 26:07
  Speaker 3: it like after sex before, because I remember telling somebody
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: one time, this guy's a date, Like after we finish
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: having sex, I'm like, you know, there's a woman right
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: now who just finished having sex and the man killed her.
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: But I literally like, that's how my mind works, because
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: somewhere that thing is happening, Like you were just intimate
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: this person. It was great, Like you were intimate with him,
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: you wanted to be of that shit. Yeah, and then
• 26:32
  Speaker 3: they just kill you. It's just like, what the fuck happened?
• 26:36
  Speaker 3: Very animalistic. So this man got this woman out the country,
• 26:39
  Speaker 3: away from her family, asked her to marry him, and
• 26:43
  Speaker 3: then somehow she ends up hung. I guess wherever they
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: were staying at. And first of all, black people don't
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: even if we do commit suicide, we don't hang ourselves.
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: That is not Black women don't, especially especially especially.
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: M hm. So it just and all right, So her
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: mother came out and said that she got a call
• 27:07
  Speaker 3: from her daughter saying that they had gotten in a
• 27:09
  Speaker 3: big fight and that the staff at the hotel put
• 27:14
  Speaker 3: them in separate rooms. So that's how, you know, it
• 27:17
  Speaker 3: was really probably like that, Like for y'all to be
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: in separate rooms, it had to be really vicious what
• 27:24
  Speaker 3: was going on, and then all of a sudden you
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: end up dead and you she said, he called her
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: and said that she's gonna receive medical care, that something
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: had happened. That's the guy called the mom and said
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: that's what she said he called. The next call was
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: from him after the daughter. It said that they had
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: gotten a big fight. So I'm thinking this woman said
• 27:46
  Speaker 3: I am not marrying you, motherfucker.
• 27:49
  Speaker 4: And he would have happened though, you think maybe he
• 27:51
  Speaker 4: might have went in her cell phone advice because she
• 27:53
  Speaker 4: was a young, beautiful black woman, young girl.
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: Guy was an old white.
• 27:57
  Speaker 4: Farm right all had it fart, and you know, the
• 28:01
  Speaker 4: black men are having such a day with this, you know,
• 28:04
  Speaker 4: because we have had a plenty of situations where you know,
• 28:07
  Speaker 4: white women have have killed black men that they were
• 28:11
  Speaker 4: in relationships with and they actually got off same situations.
• 28:15
  Speaker 4: But then you know, you go through their social media
• 28:18
  Speaker 4: and you might see like some disparaging things that those
• 28:21
  Speaker 4: men said about women in the past. So black men
• 28:24
  Speaker 4: have found a few little Twitter little tweets that she
• 28:27
  Speaker 4: you know, when she was talking about wanting to have
• 28:30
  Speaker 4: a biracial child and just the whole what's it called?
• 28:35
  Speaker 4: I can never remember this word when I want to
• 28:38
  Speaker 4: use it, but it's essentially like leaving your culture, leaving
• 28:41
  Speaker 4: your community like this divesting There you go, what the fuck?
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: Yes? Divesting? Yes, So you know she was a divestor.
• 28:50
  Speaker 4: Because this is just like a group of people supposedly,
• 28:53
  Speaker 4: I guess, I don't know, you're supposed to get this
• 28:54
  Speaker 4: this better life. And we have had multiple episodes. Is
• 28:58
  Speaker 4: white Grass Greener Young? Go check out our earlier episodes,
• 29:02
  Speaker 4: But no white women deal with things from their men.
• 29:05
  Speaker 4: You may not know because that may not you're not
• 29:08
  Speaker 4: in that.
• 29:08
  Speaker 3: Community, you're not subscribed to it, right.
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so when you get in there, you men are men.
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: Men are men.
• 29:16
  Speaker 4: But I can only imagine, like I'm creating like a
• 29:19
  Speaker 4: scenario that probably didn't even happen. But young beautiful black women,
• 29:23
  Speaker 4: you ask her to marry you.
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: You know you have no.
• 29:25
  Speaker 4: Business with this woman, right, Okay, you're not really her type.
• 29:29
  Speaker 4: I think he might have went through a phone, saw
• 29:32
  Speaker 4: some shit she was keeping it. I think he might
• 29:35
  Speaker 4: have had It's like like just flipped out, just slipped
• 29:39
  Speaker 4: out and murdered her. Because do you plan to take
• 29:42
  Speaker 4: somebody to an expensive vacation? Zanzibar asked them to marry
• 29:45
  Speaker 4: you and then murder them. I don't know how you
• 29:48
  Speaker 4: do that, right.
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: I think he found something. They got into a fight
• 29:54
  Speaker 3: about it, and then she, you know, said I'm not
• 29:57
  Speaker 3: marrying I don't want to marry you, and he couldn't
• 30:00
  Speaker 3: and he strangled her.
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's how been.
• 30:03
  Speaker 4: On Thursday, April ninth, it says when the woman allegedly
• 30:06
  Speaker 4: hung herself using a piece of clothing from her outfit
• 30:11
  Speaker 4: inside of bedroom closet, how.
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: How did she get herself out there to hang herself
• 30:16
  Speaker 3: on vacation? Yeah, child, that's a fucking lie And we
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: all know it. That's not what happened to that beautiful
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: black girl.
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: This is this is is nuts.
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: It's terrible.
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: I mean, you gotta be careful.
• 30:33
  Speaker 4: You have black women who have been like who have
• 30:36
  Speaker 4: met white men on dating websites, and this episode is
• 30:38
  Speaker 4: not about like that in particular.
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: Right, it's just this one story, right that you.
• 30:44
  Speaker 3: Want to get into it. You know, Yeah, you.
• 30:47
  Speaker 4: Meet these guys, not even white, meeting people on dating
• 30:52
  Speaker 4: apps who you don't know prior to right and have
• 30:56
  Speaker 4: ended up in bad situations because there are real predators
• 31:00
  Speaker 4: out there, not just predators who want to rape. There
• 31:02
  Speaker 4: are people who enjoy killing.
• 31:04
  Speaker 3: But we just told a story about a man shot
• 31:06
  Speaker 3: into his girlfriend's girlfriend of five months car. Were rounds
• 31:11
  Speaker 3: like one for each girl in the car, and the nigga,
• 31:17
  Speaker 3: the homeboy he was he in the car.
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: That's what it sounded like whenever no.
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: I thought it was just the three homegirls in the car.
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but probably maybe so.
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: Do you feel like black women were taught to be
• 31:33
  Speaker 3: polite and not safe? Because I feel like is that
• 31:38
  Speaker 3: an all women thing or is that more of a
• 31:40
  Speaker 3: white woman thing. I feel like we be ready to
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: voice our opinion. Quicker than other racists. But I might
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: be wrong.
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: No, we do.
• 31:49
  Speaker 4: But then also I think we have also been trained
• 31:52
  Speaker 4: because you know, taking our safety and consideration. You ever
• 31:55
  Speaker 4: had a guide haul at you, you just got like
• 31:57
  Speaker 4: a bad.
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: Feeling about him.
• 31:58
  Speaker 4: You might give him a fake number because you don't
• 32:00
  Speaker 4: want to have to explain why he can't have your number, right,
• 32:03
  Speaker 4: They just come off kind of aggressive. So yeah, like,
• 32:06
  Speaker 4: you know, you act nice in the moment right to
• 32:09
  Speaker 4: get out the situation. There are even women who you know,
• 32:12
  Speaker 4: who are put into That's why I say to young girls,
• 32:15
  Speaker 4: don't get in a close setting with a man unless
• 32:17
  Speaker 4: you want to have sex right right, because you might
• 32:21
  Speaker 4: engage in the thing just to get out safe.
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: Because you felt like if I don't. Yeah, yes, So
• 32:29
  Speaker 3: I don't know that we are rare. I think it's
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: just you know, it's just situational awareness. Black women, we
• 32:34
  Speaker 3: are raised with attitudes, okay, you the fun Like, I
• 32:41
  Speaker 3: think things are less likely to happen to us versus
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: other groups of women, like from strangers. From strangers usually
• 32:49
  Speaker 3: usually when things happen to Black women, it's definitely somebody
• 32:52
  Speaker 3: we know who's familiar with us.
• 32:55
  Speaker 4: I think for other groups of people, white women in particular.
• 32:58
  Speaker 4: Maybe in America. This is when I'm basing this off
• 33:01
  Speaker 4: of they are probably victimized more because they seem they are.
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: They appeared to be an easier target.
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: And their situational awareness isn't as advanced as ours.
• 33:13
  Speaker 4: I think, Yeah, because why you don't got curtains on
• 33:15
  Speaker 4: your house? Like, why can't I see you through your
• 33:17
  Speaker 4: entire house?
• 33:18
  Speaker 2: It's just a worry about all right.
• 33:21
  Speaker 3: I just you know what when I see women, and
• 33:23
  Speaker 3: it's typically white women, no shadey y'all, but y'all be
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: walking at night with both air posing Girl, you have
• 33:33
  Speaker 3: no equational awareness right now? How are you gonna see
• 33:36
  Speaker 3: what's going on around you if you got both air
• 33:38
  Speaker 3: pods and listening to paramour? Whoever the fuck I'm gonna
• 33:42
  Speaker 3: do your ear? Yeah, you can't possibly, Like I really
• 33:46
  Speaker 3: lived my life like a scary movie. I am prepared
• 33:52
  Speaker 3: for situations just.
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: Because I don't know.
• 33:54
  Speaker 4: I just I just don't think the world is safe.
• 33:57
  Speaker 4: I remember when I went to China, my mom was like,
• 33:59
  Speaker 4: you just walking around by yourself? Like, yes, I actually
• 34:02
  Speaker 4: feel more safe here than in America. Like America is
• 34:05
  Speaker 4: very dangerous. This shit is not like it. It's not
• 34:10
  Speaker 4: a third world country, but this shit is. We have
• 34:12
  Speaker 4: killers here.
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: We have murderers. We probably have more serial killers than
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: any other.
• 34:16
  Speaker 3: Fucking country, right, So that's why our situational awareness is
• 34:22
  Speaker 3: your first weapon. Y'all be aware of your surroundings. Don't
• 34:27
  Speaker 3: just be walking around with That's the first thing that
• 34:28
  Speaker 3: says daily habits. Know both AirPods walking. Put one in
• 34:35
  Speaker 3: so you can hear what the fuck going on around you.
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: Put your keys in hand before you reach your car.
• 34:43
  Speaker 3: Don't put the one key in between you and between
• 34:45
  Speaker 3: your knuckles, right just in case, you know, stab the
• 34:47
  Speaker 3: motherfucking with quick little weapon. Scared surroundings before stepping out,
• 34:53
  Speaker 3: and park in your lights. I know. I used to
• 34:55
  Speaker 3: do this thing where I'd be like, I'm gonna park,
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: and then back of the parking lot so I can
• 34:59
  Speaker 3: get my steps in. No bitch, to the front. Park
• 35:10
  Speaker 3: Closer to the front is dangerous, It's not safe. Yeah,
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: advanced awareness walk with confidence.
• 35:20
  Speaker 4: I think this is me, right, because I don't really
• 35:22
  Speaker 4: present as somebody you can play with, right, And people
• 35:26
  Speaker 4: have told me that I don't look approachable. I don't
• 35:30
  Speaker 4: want to be approachable by anybody, and anybody that I
• 35:33
  Speaker 4: intimidate is not even somebody I want.
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: Okay, So yeah, I'm not.
• 35:38
  Speaker 4: Just alone on this rolling around the world. It's not
• 35:41
  Speaker 4: safe for women like men. You really want to steal
• 35:43
  Speaker 4: your cookies.
• 35:45
  Speaker 3: Listen, I go as far as scratching my pussy walking
• 35:48
  Speaker 3: down the street, Like, yeah, yo, what none of this nigga.
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: Just patted a few times. You try to, he might
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: kill your ass anyway, bit you bad for the ecosystem.
• 36:05
  Speaker 3: I would look real crazy looking food as hell.
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: It says if.
• 36:17
  Speaker 3: Something feels off, don't go straight home. Yeah, Like, if
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: you feel like someone following you, don't lead them to
• 36:24
  Speaker 3: your house. It says go somewhere in public. Absolutely, And
• 36:29
  Speaker 3: it says your first line of defense isn't a weapon,
• 36:32
  Speaker 3: it's awareness, So be aware.
• 36:35
  Speaker 4: I agree, Yeah, I think I think black women have
• 36:39
  Speaker 4: a little bit more situational awareness, yeah, and just overall
• 36:42
  Speaker 4: awareness than other groups of people. Now, they might be
• 36:48
  Speaker 4: some of them bitches do CrossFit, you know, the white
• 36:50
  Speaker 4: girls being shaped jih. Yeah, they can run. They might
• 36:52
  Speaker 4: outrun a nigga. Right, we've got the air prog.
• 36:55
  Speaker 3: But what you realize they're gonna be ahead of your end, right, Right?
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: We might We're gonna have to fight.
• 37:03
  Speaker 4: But I'm not gonna be an easy kill though, Like
• 37:05
  Speaker 4: I'm funking around, Like if you kill me, like my
• 37:07
  Speaker 4: whole name probably gonna be carved inside of your face.
• 37:09
  Speaker 4: They gonna know you did it, did it? I guess
• 37:12
  Speaker 4: I am going to fight, and I think with black
• 37:14
  Speaker 4: women are not an easy.
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: Target at all.
• 37:17
  Speaker 3: We're gonna fight back. So tools don't save you. Skill
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: does mm hm. It's just a breakdown. Pepper spray ain't
• 37:26
  Speaker 3: for eyes. Spray quick, spurt and run. Don't just stay
• 37:30
  Speaker 3: there holding the butt as long as you can spray
• 37:33
  Speaker 3: that shit. Fuck around and spray yourself right, because you
• 37:35
  Speaker 3: end up getting some of it on you. You high yourself. Now,
• 37:39
  Speaker 3: both of y'all laying on the ground choking, Get us
• 37:42
  Speaker 3: a milk, No bitch run. Personal alarm draws attention. You
• 37:48
  Speaker 3: have one of those sometimes those pepper sprays have one
• 37:51
  Speaker 3: of those loud alarms on it. You know that you
• 37:54
  Speaker 3: can activate. Uh, it's his taser only if you're fore
• 38:00
  Speaker 3: using it because you can suck around and get taste,
• 38:03
  Speaker 3: so they take it from you and tase you. So
• 38:06
  Speaker 3: you just have to be careful with that taser. I
• 38:09
  Speaker 3: have one, but it does make. It does make I'm
• 38:11
  Speaker 3: more scared of the taser than I am my.
• 38:13
  Speaker 2: Gun me too, Isn't that weird? Yeah, yeah, me too.
• 38:18
  Speaker 3: Because I just don't like, ain't no like I'm shot.
• 38:22
  Speaker 3: I go out in the back. You know, we're in
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: the country. We go out back and put some old
• 38:26
  Speaker 3: refrigerators back there and shoot them bitches up. But I
• 38:29
  Speaker 3: ain't have no taser like you know, I've never been
• 38:32
  Speaker 3: tasted and I haven't been out here tasing, So I
• 38:36
  Speaker 3: don't have a lot of part.
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: She got tas A few niggas.
• 38:43
  Speaker 3: I just gotta break someone of you.
• 38:45
  Speaker 4: No, I'm just always scared of like mechanical stuff like
• 38:48
  Speaker 4: that malfunctioning. Yeah, I just stick my hand in my
• 38:52
  Speaker 4: pocketbook or stick my keys in there, and something right
• 38:57
  Speaker 4: all of a sudden.
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: So yeah, I do trust.
• 38:59
  Speaker 4: And I know point now, if you got a high
• 39:01
  Speaker 4: point nine millimeteril I throw that shit in the trash,
• 39:03
  Speaker 4: that that thing be shooting by itself.
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: My first gun was a high point in girl.
• 39:09
  Speaker 4: I was so afraid of that gun once I bought it,
• 39:11
  Speaker 4: and then I researched and I realized it is like
• 39:14
  Speaker 4: the worst pistol handgun to have because it has a trigger. Yeah,
• 39:20
  Speaker 4: it has like a it malfunctions. So I was always afraid.
• 39:24
  Speaker 4: I would never keep a bullet in the chamber. I
• 39:27
  Speaker 4: was always afraid of it just randomly going off when
• 39:29
  Speaker 4: I hit a bump too hard or some shit like that.
• 39:31
  Speaker 3: So get you.
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: I mean, if you're not a gun girl, you gotta
• 39:35
  Speaker 2: have some type of weapons. A nice friends.
• 39:38
  Speaker 4: Yeah, my friends in the military, these pitches don't have guns.
• 39:41
  Speaker 4: I'm like, how are you around guns for a living
• 39:44
  Speaker 4: and don't own.
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: And don't own one at home?
• 39:48
  Speaker 4: And one of my friends, you know, you get tired
• 39:50
  Speaker 4: of carrying the shit around Like I'm not telling you'll
• 39:52
  Speaker 4: get an AR fifteen some big stupid shit.
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: But how are you just out in the world. I
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: guess I don't.
• 39:58
  Speaker 4: I guess people think like might invite that, might invite
• 40:02
  Speaker 4: that energy, like just even thinking about it. But it's
• 40:04
  Speaker 4: not about you know, living Like I said, I live
• 40:07
  Speaker 4: my life like a Scaring Me movie. I really don't though,
• 40:09
  Speaker 4: I'm not just out in the world just thinking like
• 40:12
  Speaker 4: inviting like that manifestent harm to myself right, absolutely not
• 40:17
  Speaker 4: like on a daily basis.
• 40:18
  Speaker 2: I'm just aware all the time that.
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: Something can fucking pop off, and usually shit pop off
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: when you're having a great day, something just fucking happens,
• 40:27
  Speaker 3: like when you're not expecting it.
• 40:29
  Speaker 4: So I feel like you guys just have to always
• 40:32
  Speaker 4: expect the unexpected. Like in my mind, like when I
• 40:35
  Speaker 4: go to Costco, Tammy, I might be a little crazy.
• 40:38
  Speaker 2: When I go to Costco. I always have a pistol
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: in my I always have a pistol. So I always
• 40:43
  Speaker 2: feel like, what if somebody comes in here.
• 40:45
  Speaker 4: No matter of fact it's Saturday. I was at the
• 40:47
  Speaker 4: outlet and I walked past this guy. He had a
• 40:50
  Speaker 4: big ass book bag sitting in the middle like the
• 40:53
  Speaker 4: you know, like the middle seating area like and the
• 40:55
  Speaker 4: outlets and stuff like that. Like everybody's sitting down, maybe
• 40:58
  Speaker 4: eating some food, drinking or whatever, but he has this
• 41:01
  Speaker 4: oversized fucking book bag and he's like fiddling around with us.
• 41:04
  Speaker 2: I walked past him.
• 41:05
  Speaker 3: Nobody else is looking because I'm looking at everybody, but
• 41:07
  Speaker 3: I'm looking at him. It's one of the things they
• 41:10
  Speaker 3: said online, like during wartime and stuff like that, you
• 41:12
  Speaker 3: have to be more alert, right because you do have
• 41:16
  Speaker 3: people who are willing to sacrifice themselves for their greater cause,
• 41:20
  Speaker 3: right right, so mall shootings, random acts of terrorism and
• 41:24
  Speaker 3: attacks could possibly happen. But why the fuck y'all just
• 41:27
  Speaker 3: think it's a regular Saturday and this man got this
• 41:28
  Speaker 3: big ass book back. I could not I wasn't comfortable
• 41:32
  Speaker 3: until I got into the store I was walking to.
• 41:34
  Speaker 3: I kept looking back, kept looking back to see like
• 41:37
  Speaker 3: what the fucking if he was.
• 41:39
  Speaker 2: Gonna pull a pistol out or not.
• 41:40
  Speaker 4: But I always envision myself creeping up behind the shooter
• 41:44
  Speaker 4: and shooting them in the back of the head, like
• 41:46
  Speaker 4: I already got the plan.
• 41:49
  Speaker 3: That's not word at all.
• 41:52
  Speaker 4: I always envision like, yeah, and if I just got
• 41:55
  Speaker 4: a little knife, they get stabbed in their neck. I
• 41:57
  Speaker 4: just gotta make sure I do it with precision to
• 42:00
  Speaker 4: like they don't like turn around and can turn around
• 42:02
  Speaker 4: and shoot me right.
• 42:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh, you're the.
• 42:05
  Speaker 3: Perfect person to strap this bomb too, bitch, you gotta
• 42:11
  Speaker 3: be careful and shit like that. And then another thing
• 42:15
  Speaker 3: says like, heaven if you do have a weapon, because
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: it ends up we don't obviously we're not using them.
• 42:23
  Speaker 3: Thank God that we're not always using these things, so
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: they end up buried at the bottom of your purse.
• 42:28
  Speaker 3: So in the moment that you need it, you can't
• 42:30
  Speaker 3: even fucking get to it because it's under diapers, wipes,
• 42:34
  Speaker 3: hand sanitizer, old plans, dirty. You see all type of
• 42:39
  Speaker 3: crumbs in it, got chewing gum stuck in the taser like.
• 42:44
  Speaker 3: So you just have to make sure that you keep
• 42:46
  Speaker 3: that stuff readily available to you in the event of,
• 42:50
  Speaker 3: you know, someone causing you harm. I know, I'm I
• 42:54
  Speaker 3: do that. I shit be way at the bottom. I
• 42:56
  Speaker 3: can't even get to it, so I definitely need to
• 42:59
  Speaker 3: work on that. I'm not the pistol, but the other
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: stuff that pistol be easy to get to, that big
• 43:07
  Speaker 3: metal feel that real quick. So then it says, use
• 43:16
  Speaker 3: your voice before it gets physical, say no, back the
• 43:22
  Speaker 3: fuck up. It's ain't just back up, but I put
• 43:24
  Speaker 3: the If you're a black girl, yeah I'm not interested.
• 43:30
  Speaker 3: You're making me uncomfortable, but it's not. You also have
• 43:33
  Speaker 3: to be firm and loud and don't smile, because I
• 43:38
  Speaker 3: know people who smile when they're scared or intimidated or
• 43:43
  Speaker 3: like that's just their natural instinct that just like Becca,
• 43:47
  Speaker 3: you know, or I'm not interested, and they're saying that
• 43:50
  Speaker 3: in a way that doesn't sound like they serious. You know,
• 43:53
  Speaker 3: And I've known people who's like ended up in sexual
• 43:57
  Speaker 3: situations with people when they really didn't want to be
• 44:00
  Speaker 3: because they didn't know how to assert themselves in that way.
• 44:04
  Speaker 3: Like you done gave a nigga some pussy that you
• 44:06
  Speaker 3: didn't want to give up, but you and you were
• 44:09
  Speaker 3: saying no, but not in a way that made a
• 44:12
  Speaker 3: nigga realize.
• 44:13
  Speaker 4: Some men think no means yes, so right, they just
• 44:16
  Speaker 4: keep being like overly aggressive or keep pushing the issue.
• 44:21
  Speaker 4: You got to just get up out of there if
• 44:22
  Speaker 4: that's ever the situation, like you know, because sometimes no
• 44:26
  Speaker 4: don't mean no to all people, right. They think if
• 44:29
  Speaker 4: they keep they can finish you off, right.
• 44:31
  Speaker 3: They think that's what they're doing. And they are kind
• 44:34
  Speaker 3: of because if you're.
• 44:35
  Speaker 6: Like no, no, stop no, and you mean to be
• 44:43
  Speaker 6: like stop move, nigga, know me, get the fuck off me.
• 44:47
  Speaker 3: I said no, yes, you know you gotta have some
• 44:49
  Speaker 3: type of energy like that. You can't be like no,
• 44:51
  Speaker 3: because I mean I have I have been like that
• 44:53
  Speaker 3: with a nigga. I really wanted to give some pussy
• 44:55
  Speaker 3: to no. Stop, So you.
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: Just gotta be for real so right.
• 45:09
  Speaker 4: And I think people do, like I've seen like situations
• 45:12
  Speaker 4: online where you know people are in the comments like,
• 45:15
  Speaker 4: oh she was smiling, she was laughing.
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: Sometimes that's like a nervous smile. It's a nervous laugh.
• 45:21
  Speaker 4: And it's also a defense mechanism, right, You're trying to
• 45:25
  Speaker 4: you're laughing, giggling, trying to disarm this other person who's
• 45:30
  Speaker 4: very serious with you right now, because you.
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: You when you don't know your personnel.
• 45:34
  Speaker 4: I think that is that's probably women's like a woman's
• 45:37
  Speaker 4: like go to setting, right, it's just to appear and
• 45:41
  Speaker 4: appear nice. But you don't want to be nice to
• 45:44
  Speaker 4: these niggas. Okay, I'm not saying niggas as in black men.
• 45:47
  Speaker 4: I mean like just men period, right right, or yeah,
• 45:50
  Speaker 4: I'm a little person.
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: I'm not nice though.
• 45:53
  Speaker 3: It's just right exactly because women will fight your ass
• 45:57
  Speaker 3: to like and take it. I don't know if women
• 46:01
  Speaker 3: is taking pussy from other women, but I imagine it has happened.
• 46:06
  Speaker 4: I imagine him. Did you imagine men have been raed?
• 46:09
  Speaker 4: You can't tell my ex that he was not raped by.
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: His mama so so and her friend.
• 46:18
  Speaker 3: That's crazy, that's right level.
• 46:21
  Speaker 2: So you just you just never know.
• 46:23
  Speaker 4: Like many men, men are victims as well, okay, I'm
• 46:26
  Speaker 4: not you know, trying to put out put out that
• 46:28
  Speaker 4: just women are the ones that are victimized. But for Capita,
• 46:32
  Speaker 4: it's usually a woman. It's not all men, but it's
• 46:35
  Speaker 4: always a man.
• 46:37
  Speaker 3: Is that so I have? This is a situation like
• 46:42
  Speaker 3: you're at a guy's house, you don't know him well,
• 46:46
  Speaker 3: and your phone is dying, and you don't feel comfortable
• 46:50
  Speaker 3: what you're gonna do. So it says, by time your
• 46:56
  Speaker 3: phone is about to die, let me plug it up. No,
• 46:59
  Speaker 3: my phone is a to die.
• 47:00
  Speaker 2: Let me plug it up till you ask him to
• 47:02
  Speaker 2: plug it up.
• 47:02
  Speaker 3: Yeah, then drop your location fast, send address pen take
• 47:07
  Speaker 3: a pic for location.
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: Dad.
• 47:09
  Speaker 3: I feel like somebody that you love should have your
• 47:12
  Speaker 3: location at all times. That's somebody that love you. Let
• 47:16
  Speaker 3: me say that, because it could be somebody who you
• 47:18
  Speaker 3: love who don't give a fuck. So you just need
• 47:21
  Speaker 3: to sure that it's somebody who love you and care
• 47:23
  Speaker 3: about your whereabouts.
• 47:25
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 47:26
  Speaker 4: The only person I share locations with like and definitely
• 47:29
  Speaker 4: is my best friend Priscilla, because I know she comeing
• 47:32
  Speaker 4: to kill somebody about me, I swear to God. So
• 47:35
  Speaker 4: we share locations and one day I don't even I
• 47:38
  Speaker 4: don't even remember satting that shit up. She might have
• 47:40
  Speaker 4: put that shit on my damn phone, because I don't
• 47:42
  Speaker 4: remember ever setting it up. And then when I moved
• 47:44
  Speaker 4: into the place I'm at and she came by here,
• 47:47
  Speaker 4: well we talked about her coming by here, and I'm
• 47:50
  Speaker 4: at home and she called me like, hey, what's your
• 47:52
  Speaker 4: partner you live? And I'm like, how the fuck you
• 47:54
  Speaker 4: know where I live at? I forgot she got my location?
• 48:00
  Speaker 4: Which door right?
• 48:01
  Speaker 2: Right?
• 48:03
  Speaker 4: Yeah, So somebody you have to share locations with somebody.
• 48:07
  Speaker 3: Right, I agree, somebody need to know where you're at
• 48:10
  Speaker 3: at all times. Or then it says start exit early,
• 48:14
  Speaker 3: so start talking about like I gotta be up early. Lord,
• 48:19
  Speaker 3: I got a busy day at work.
• 48:21
  Speaker 2: In the morning.
• 48:21
  Speaker 3: I gotta get up or somebody's waiting on me. I
• 48:26
  Speaker 3: love to get in then, uber and act like somebody
• 48:28
  Speaker 3: waiting for me at my house, you know. I just
• 48:31
  Speaker 3: get on the phone be like yeah, I'm on my
• 48:33
  Speaker 3: way there, and I be there in a few minutes,
• 48:37
  Speaker 3: yeah baby, yeah, Like so just making it seem like, yeah,
• 48:44
  Speaker 3: it's a nigga waiting on me, So come over here
• 48:48
  Speaker 3: if you want to, all right, So then it says
• 48:51
  Speaker 3: reposition yourself sitting next to it. Exit, keep belongings closed.
• 48:56
  Speaker 4: And this is if you're feeling uncomfortable, right, if you're
• 48:59
  Speaker 4: in a situation at day just feels kind of airy
• 49:01
  Speaker 4: and like, yeah, I gotta get up out of here.
• 49:03
  Speaker 3: I got to get up out of here and use
• 49:06
  Speaker 3: your casual excit. Let me grab something from my car,
• 49:11
  Speaker 3: act like you're coming back in and don't I need
• 49:16
  Speaker 3: some fresh air right out of there. I remember I
• 49:20
  Speaker 3: said I need to grab something from my car and
• 49:22
  Speaker 3: left a nigga. But that's because our douchy in his
• 49:24
  Speaker 3: toilet and it would't flush. So embarrassed, I just like
• 49:32
  Speaker 3: I was getting something left, you know. So this is
• 49:36
  Speaker 3: for the fly it flew out.
• 49:37
  Speaker 2: Girls.
• 49:38
  Speaker 4: Did you see recently how somebody, some dude was trying
• 49:40
  Speaker 4: to say Lex be a liar because he flew her
• 49:42
  Speaker 4: out and she told him her period was on. So
• 49:46
  Speaker 4: all the women in the comments was like, yeah, she
• 49:48
  Speaker 4: told you that, right, She probably like at some point
• 49:52
  Speaker 4: she probably flew out with all intentions, but at some point. Yeah,
• 49:55
  Speaker 4: So even in situations like that like that, she's lucky
• 49:59
  Speaker 4: at work and he was in a creep right, you
• 50:01
  Speaker 4: know what I'm saying Because somebody else would take that period.
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: Pussy, they would take it m m.
• 50:07
  Speaker 3: And when you have to.
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: Be careful when going.
• 50:09
  Speaker 4: I feel like, if a guy's flying you out, I
• 50:11
  Speaker 4: did my own hotel room that I got the key to,
• 50:15
  Speaker 4: like y'all really and if he wants to if he's
• 50:18
  Speaker 4: flying you out to come to his house, no, you
• 50:20
  Speaker 4: need a hotel.
• 50:21
  Speaker 3: Room, yeah, Like, because why are you staying with a stranger?
• 50:24
  Speaker 3: I mean, you don't know this nigga like that. I
• 50:26
  Speaker 3: mean unless you know him like that. But if nine
• 50:28
  Speaker 3: times out of ten getting fluid out, you might not
• 50:32
  Speaker 3: know that man as well, why are you staying in
• 50:34
  Speaker 3: the house?
• 50:35
  Speaker 4: And I think before a situation awareness, it's kind of
• 50:38
  Speaker 4: like just discernment also comes into play, right, what's your discernment? Like, like,
• 50:43
  Speaker 4: you know, you can talk to somebody, you get this
• 50:45
  Speaker 4: little ick about them, like uh, some women will get
• 50:49
  Speaker 4: the ick and so proceed right, And it could be
• 50:52
  Speaker 4: you know, motivated by money, by what this what they
• 50:55
  Speaker 4: think this man can do for them, things like that.
• 50:57
  Speaker 2: But just know that the more reces some men have,
• 51:01
  Speaker 2: the more of a.
• 51:01
  Speaker 4: Creep they are because they just have this expectation that
• 51:04
  Speaker 4: all bitch is gonna go right, Yeah, So I mean
• 51:08
  Speaker 4: have some discernment about the people y'all engaging with, especially
• 51:11
  Speaker 4: off these dating apps and stuff like that. Predators, Like
• 51:14
  Speaker 4: there's been a lot of serial killers that you know,
• 51:16
  Speaker 4: killed people off of dating apps using the app. That
• 51:20
  Speaker 4: girl in Milwaukee, a young girl like her, she met
• 51:22
  Speaker 4: this white guy and he basically cut her body. Yeah,
• 51:26
  Speaker 4: spread her body parts across the fucking city.
• 51:30
  Speaker 3: That's wow.
• 51:32
  Speaker 4: You gotta be careful man, these like just I don't know,
• 51:36
  Speaker 4: because I think I think back to like our childhood,
• 51:39
  Speaker 4: like teenagers and shit like that, Like we had some
• 51:42
  Speaker 4: situational awareness, but we thought we was bigger than a program.
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: Right. You think you've grown, you think you know, you
• 51:49
  Speaker 2: think you know people. You just don't. Don't.
• 51:51
  Speaker 4: Even as a grown woman. You get shit wrong sometimes
• 51:57
  Speaker 4: you can.
• 51:58
  Speaker 3: Some of the choices I made now just say thank
• 52:00
  Speaker 3: you God.
• 52:00
  Speaker 2: We made it.
• 52:02
  Speaker 3: We need it could have been acessory to merger all
• 52:07
  Speaker 3: types of shit, all kind of shit. I remember going
• 52:13
  Speaker 3: to Kingston, Jamaica and leaving the club with some strangers
• 52:16
  Speaker 3: to go somewhere else, and I was myself. I let
• 52:20
  Speaker 3: my homegirls stay in the room. I was like, I'm
• 52:22
  Speaker 3: going outside, and I was out in Kingston by myself
• 52:25
  Speaker 3: with some strangers, club popping girl, what the fuck round
• 52:29
  Speaker 3: with you? It was cool though we're still Instagram friends.
• 52:36
  Speaker 4: And then you know that that also can happen, right,
• 52:38
  Speaker 4: So that's where discernment comes. Obviously your discernment was on
• 52:41
  Speaker 4: point for that group of people. But there are people
• 52:45
  Speaker 4: who thought they could trust who they were with.
• 52:47
  Speaker 3: And could not. And saw that man who worked for
• 52:50
  Speaker 3: American I think it's American Airlines, and he was a
• 52:53
  Speaker 3: flight attendant and they had like a stay in Columbia.
• 52:57
  Speaker 3: This happened like two weeks ago. They had an overnight
• 53:00
  Speaker 3: Saint Columbia. Him and the other flight attendant went out.
• 53:03
  Speaker 3: He they went back to the hotel, but he went
• 53:05
  Speaker 3: back out to hang out with somebody he met and
• 53:09
  Speaker 3: they ain't seen him since. Never return the next day
• 53:13
  Speaker 3: to work.
• 53:15
  Speaker 2: The pilot.
• 53:16
  Speaker 3: No, he wasn't. He was a flight attendant, flight attendant
• 53:20
  Speaker 3: and medie. They don't know what happened to this man.
• 53:24
  Speaker 2: Mm hmmm mm hmmmm.
• 53:27
  Speaker 3: So careful, So let's talk about if it gets physical.
• 53:34
  Speaker 3: So ship done popped off, y'all, It done got real.
• 53:40
  Speaker 3: So it's not about fighting, which I know we'd be
• 53:43
  Speaker 3: ready to like square up, but it's really about getting.
• 53:46
  Speaker 2: The fuck away, like sticking stick and move, stick and move.
• 53:50
  Speaker 3: That's it for real. So target weak spots, the eyes,
• 53:56
  Speaker 3: the nose with a palm, strike up with the bottom
• 53:59
  Speaker 3: of your palm, that ship up into their nose. That
• 54:02
  Speaker 3: will back anybody up. The throat niggas Adam's apple. You
• 54:08
  Speaker 3: slapped that with the side of your head. Man growing
• 54:14
  Speaker 3: Anie to the growing and shin her footstump. So this
• 54:19
  Speaker 3: makes me think about the movie with Sandra Bullock where
• 54:22
  Speaker 3: she was teaching.
• 54:23
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, like self defense thoff.
• 54:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, what movie was that? You don't know the movie?
• 54:28
  Speaker 3: I don't, I do know, I don't know. I keep
• 54:31
  Speaker 3: wanting to say legally blond, but that's not it. That's
• 54:33
  Speaker 3: what Reese Witherspoon. It was where she was in the
• 54:37
  Speaker 3: Mexican America pageant and they.
• 54:40
  Speaker 2: Had to like mister America. Who that?
• 54:45
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know y'all reference, but yeah, so she
• 54:50
  Speaker 3: was in that movie. So those are the eyes, nosed, throat,
• 54:53
  Speaker 3: growing sin remember that. So here's simple moves that work.
• 54:58
  Speaker 3: If you're grabbed, Twist the thumb back, no, twist towards
• 55:04
  Speaker 3: the thumb and break grip. So what does that mean
• 55:07
  Speaker 3: twist towards.
• 55:08
  Speaker 2: I don't know if somebody grabbed me and their thumb,
• 55:14
  Speaker 2: So if somebody grabbed me, would be like this, so
• 55:17
  Speaker 2: twist inwards.
• 55:18
  Speaker 3: I guess yeah, I guess you had to twist inward.
• 55:20
  Speaker 2: And break their hand to hurt their hand.
• 55:24
  Speaker 3: I don't know about that one, y'all. But so if
• 55:27
  Speaker 3: close need to growing palm to those, we just said
• 55:30
  Speaker 3: that those are your two best defenses. I feel like
• 55:33
  Speaker 3: Nigga Dick is very fragile. We learned that little when
• 55:36
  Speaker 3: they would ride riding their bikes. The pole them balls. Boy,
• 55:43
  Speaker 3: we learned that young. If grab from behind, drop your weight,
• 55:49
  Speaker 3: stomp the foot and elbow back, so elbow back into
• 55:54
  Speaker 3: like the stomach or chest stump.
• 55:57
  Speaker 4: And yeah, that's just just the closed settings.
• 56:06
  Speaker 2: Man. You just gotta be real careful. You just started
• 56:07
  Speaker 2: dating somebody, meet.
• 56:08
  Speaker 4: Them out, you know, don't don't and even don't even drive,
• 56:12
  Speaker 4: I mean, don't have them pick you up either uber
• 56:15
  Speaker 4: or drive your own car, because once you're in somebody's
• 56:18
  Speaker 4: like domain.
• 56:20
  Speaker 3: You're at their mercy.
• 56:22
  Speaker 4: Yes, it's tough, and then you don't you anytime I
• 56:25
  Speaker 4: go into anything, I remember when I went out to
• 56:26
  Speaker 4: this club with some friends, and I don't be at
• 56:28
  Speaker 4: in the hood spots for real, right because I don't
• 56:30
  Speaker 4: feel comfortable. So we went to like they had like
• 56:33
  Speaker 4: this back patio area and I'm like, where the fuck
• 56:35
  Speaker 4: is the exit door? Like I immediately started looking for
• 56:38
  Speaker 4: exit doors or whatever. And the dude who I was with,
• 56:40
  Speaker 4: he saw me, like, I'm like, man, what the fuck
• 56:42
  Speaker 4: the exit? He was like, don't worry about you and
• 56:43
  Speaker 4: got his whole pistol in the glove.
• 56:45
  Speaker 3: I'm like, good, straight, but I but still I need
• 56:50
  Speaker 3: to know where, Like, bitch, can I scale this wall? Like?
• 56:53
  Speaker 2: Can I get the fuck up out of here? If
• 56:56
  Speaker 2: need be?
• 56:56
  Speaker 4: So, always look for exits, even when going to someone house.
• 57:00
  Speaker 4: If it's an apartment, you know you only got one exit,
• 57:03
  Speaker 4: Stay closest to it, right, Stay closest to the exit.
• 57:07
  Speaker 3: And don't be afraid to be loud. M motherfuckers need
• 57:12
  Speaker 3: to hear you. You need to know you're not playing
• 57:14
  Speaker 3: with their ass. So scary man, it is.
• 57:20
  Speaker 4: So it's not about like, it's not about like staying
• 57:23
  Speaker 4: there and fighting the person. The moment you can get
• 57:27
  Speaker 4: away from them, Get the hell up, motherfucker.
• 57:32
  Speaker 3: I told you not to fuck with me, I either
• 57:34
  Speaker 3: want to fuck with No, get out of there.
• 57:41
  Speaker 2: You want to tell it how you ain't? You ain't her?
• 57:45
  Speaker 3: Get out of there and save yourself. You know this
• 57:50
  Speaker 3: is this is go ahead, I'm sorry.
• 57:52
  Speaker 2: Go ahead.
• 57:53
  Speaker 3: And another thing, don't because I've seen on social media
• 57:56
  Speaker 3: and I've seen women actually die because they thought a
• 57:59
  Speaker 3: nigga wouldn't go that far. If a man is showing
• 58:02
  Speaker 3: you signs that he will harm you, believe that shit.
• 58:07
  Speaker 3: He wouldn't do that. He just crazy about me, No, bitch,
• 58:11
  Speaker 3: he is just crazy. Get the fuck out of there.
• 58:13
  Speaker 3: It was a young lady on Facebook. The nigga set
• 58:17
  Speaker 3: her wig on fire while it was on her head,
• 58:22
  Speaker 3: and she thought.
• 58:22
  Speaker 4: That nigga did me worse by cutting my shit after
• 58:26
  Speaker 4: he snatched it, but damn while the wig is on
• 58:28
  Speaker 4: the head.
• 58:29
  Speaker 3: He said it on filing and she was like making
• 58:33
  Speaker 3: jokes about it on social media like he's so crazy,
• 58:37
  Speaker 3: like my nigga's so crazy, and then like literally two
• 58:41
  Speaker 3: months later, he killed her. He was dead. You know,
• 58:45
  Speaker 3: So will someone show you who that old Let me
• 58:48
  Speaker 3: put my mind. When someone shows you who they are,
• 58:51
  Speaker 3: believe them. Believe that motherfucker because.
• 58:54
  Speaker 2: They who was that? Maya Angela.
• 58:55
  Speaker 3: It was I was trying to do that.
• 58:58
  Speaker 2: Are you okay? What's that about? You're nuts?
• 59:08
  Speaker 3: But the best.
• 59:11
  Speaker 2: Y'all. Remember that group. You remember that group Brownstone. You
• 59:16
  Speaker 2: know that.
• 59:16
  Speaker 4: I just I had to look this up because I
• 59:18
  Speaker 4: was thinking about it earlier when we were talking about
• 59:21
  Speaker 4: the girl who got murdered in Africa, Charmaine Maxwell.
• 59:24
  Speaker 2: So if you're a millennial, you remember Brownstone. He group Brownstone.
• 59:28
  Speaker 2: She was, Her husband murdered her white man.
• 59:31
  Speaker 4: Okay, suppose it like a freak accident where she fell
• 59:35
  Speaker 4: on a broken piece of wine glass.
• 59:38
  Speaker 2: She was found with her neck slashed.
• 59:41
  Speaker 3: She felt she was.
• 59:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, she was Charmaine Maxwell.
• 59:45
  Speaker 4: She was a part of the group Brownstone in the
• 59:47
  Speaker 4: nineties and she died aged forty six. This happened in
• 59:50
  Speaker 4: twenty fifteen, it says, and she did have a child
• 59:54
  Speaker 4: with this man. Also, forty six year old member of
• 59:58
  Speaker 4: the Grammy nominated Brownstone was found bleeding to death by
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 4: her husband Carston Soul Shock sounds kind of on Friday
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 4: night at their home in Los Angeles, California. According to TMZ,
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 4: evidence suggests the music star fell backwards while holding a
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 4: holding a wineglass as two fatal puncture wounds were discovered
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 4: at the back of her neck. Wow, like how authorities
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 4: sold the news sources after interviewing Maxwell's family members that
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 4: they do not suspect foul play and there is no
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 4: history of domestic violence. One theory is that she could
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 4: have been intoxicated before falling to her death. Autoxy and
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 4: toxicology tests will help set the rec astray the mother okay, yeah, yeah.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 4: And he the husband, he rushed her to the hospital allegedly,
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 4: and she died on the way there.
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 3: He did that shit hmm.
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 2: Absolutely had a ten year old son with her. He
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 2: absolutely killed her.
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 4: And you know this girl, Ashley Renee, her friend you know,
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 4: posted on Jane Skis her friend posted on Twitter. And
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 4: that's how the story got out as big as it
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 4: has been, right, I mean, it did just happen on
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 4: the ninth, but I just heard about it the day
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 4: before yesterday when everybody started talking about it.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 3: Right, And just think about all the countless women whose
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 3: story you never heard, you.
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 4: Know, yes, yes, because I don't even think people remember
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 4: her dying from Brownstone.
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 3: No, I did not know. I did not even know that.
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 2: Mm hmm. Yeah.
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 4: So and then she probably didn't have the online support
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 4: like they need to. They needed to look into her husband,
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 4: but we already know we don't get the same type
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 4: of treatment. Should not medical feel with first responders police,
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 4: we don't. They don't think that anything we're going through
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 4: is an emergency oftentimes.
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 3: So well, I hope, I hope Ashley Janey is the
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 3: justice that she deserves.
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 4: Yeah, he was very calculated if he planned to kill her,
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 4: which I don't think was planned. I think something happened,
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 4: but getting her out the country because extraditing him, uh,
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 4: that's probably not gonna happen. What's the what's the girl
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 4: that was murdered in Mexico and they finally extradited some
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 4: of her friends back down there? Oh did they remember
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 4: from from Yeah? Yeah from I didn't know that. Yeah,
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 4: I believe one of the girls was extradited. The main
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 4: suspect was extradited back Kamika, her name is Kika.
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 3: They murdered her in a hotel room or their condo
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 3: whatever when they went on.
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 2: A trip to Mexico. Just just teamed up and killed
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 2: a girl.
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 4: You know, So even situations like that with your energy, Yeah,
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 4: but you could tell by videos that they posted after
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 4: the fact. She had no friends there. I remember I
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 4: saw a video where I think she posted it. They
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 4: were all like cuddled and huddled up in the back room,
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 4: and she was the only one like walking around naked,
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 4: Like come on, I thought we was getting like you know,
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 4: she's like, I thought we was doing such and such.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 4: But they like all huddled up in the back room
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 4: without her, and she just thinks everybody's there to have
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 4: a good time.
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 3: That's so sad.
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 4: I just don't know how you go from never killing
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 4: anybody to actually killing something like what happened. I just
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 4: always think is demons hopping right quick, and it just
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 4: takes one right right. It takes one person to be infested,
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 4: and then they influenced the rest of the.
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 3: Group or like that black lady because these older women
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 3: with all the white people and they had a slumber
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 3: party and the black girl ended up dead. M h
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 3: and nothing ever happened, nothing ever happened. I know them
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 3: white people did something to that black lady. Absolutely.
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 4: First of all, while you're not having an adult slumber party,
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 4: they hunt us. I will never forget this story. I
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 4: think I've mentioned it a couple of times. It's Jamaican
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 4: American guy he went on a hunting trip with his
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 4: ex coworker and some of his friends, white men, and
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 4: he was actually what they were hunting. His wife dropped
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 4: them off, and she said she immediately called him and
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 4: he was never answering the phone from the time she
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 4: dropped them off, so she knew something that happened double back,
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 4: like immediately they were hunting him, like he came to
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 4: be the game.
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 3: Wow.
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 4: Yeah, these movies they created, ain't they that should did
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 4: not come out out of thin air?
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 2: The sh there.
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 4: We're all human, right, but I believe that there's different
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 4: breeds of human and some people have a little bit
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 4: more of that that animalistic nature about themselves just and
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 4: I don't I don't even think in the animal kingdom
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 4: do animals if they're full and they're good.
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 2: They don't just be hunting just to just to kill. Yeah,
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 2: for no reason.
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 4: They when they're hungry, that's when they hunt the most. Otherwise,
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 4: you know, they might let game walk past them.
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 3: Humans are supposed to be a more sophisticated animal, right basically, right,
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 3: But man and some people just don't have the human filter, right,
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 3: they have empathy for somebody else, so they just really
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 3: I know, girl, a woman, excuse me, her daughter was
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 3: her herself was a clinical sociopath and he did not
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 3: have the capacity for empathy at all. He did not
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 3: know love. He only said I love you as a
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 3: tool to manipulate you. Know. So it's people out there
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 3: that like could kill you and go to sleep and
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 3: not lose any sleep because they feel nothing. So just
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 3: keep your head on swivels. Bitch, You're not safe. You
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 3: are not safe. Just know that you are never safe.
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 2: Something. There are women who I saw this on YouTube
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 2: the other day.
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 4: It was a woman who basically sold her own murder
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 4: from the grave. Her husband orchestrated.
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 3: This whole thing where he first gave them they gave
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 3: He gave them the defendant, I don't know, not the defendant,
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 3: but the suspect basically, So he orchestrated this whole thing
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 3: about how his girlfriend, his wife's ex boyfriend was stalking
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 3: the both of them, but really he was stalking himself
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 3: and he was stalking his wife, and she started to
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 3: kind of feel like it wasn't the ex boyfriend.
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 2: She started to feel like it was her husband doing
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 2: a thing.
• 1:06:26
  Speaker 4: So she was having like these secret meetings with the police,
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 4: like and She was like documenting times when whenever this
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 4: person would email her or whatever this person would call.
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 4: She was documenting all the shit, and he was emailing
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 4: her from work. So they tracked like his emails from
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 4: his work server from the de ip address on his
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 4: work computer.
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he killed his wife. He killed her.
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 3: He stabbed her inside their garage. But he had already
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 3: like tried to orchestrate the whole scenario so where he
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 3: would get off and he would blame this other man
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 3: or some strange for the murder. But he just randomly
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 3: just decided he didn't he wanted to kill her. What
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 3: about that white man recently went hiking with his wife
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 3: and tried to push her off the He pushed her
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 3: off the cliff. I didn't see that he survived.
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 2: I didn't see that that just.
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 3: Happened like maybe a week and a half ago, two
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 3: weeks ago, they went on the hike together and he
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 3: pushed her off. But that bitch did not die.
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 2: Okay, so now he's going to jail. Yep, that's like
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 2: that is it? This is a movie right now? I
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 2: think I mentioned it to you.
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 4: On Netflix, called my husband the gas Lighter or my
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 4: husband gaslights here or something like that.
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 2: You watch that.
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 3: I haven't seen it, but I saw all it out there.
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that imagine.
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 4: I imagine being married to somebody you're supposed to be
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 4: safe with, and that was based on a true story.
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 4: The actual situation happened in twenty twenty one and her
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 4: husband is in prison.
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 3: I could imagine me imagining me push somebody off a cliff, but.
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 2: I would never do it some thoughts.
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 3: But what if you are in trusive thoughts somehow, like
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 3: manifested your hands very quick and you didn't even.
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 2: Know, you just thought it and then you just pushed.
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 3: I would never. I would never push the body off
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 3: a cliff, but I would have been That could be
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 3: somebody's defense I did. I don't know why I did it.
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 2: I just did it.
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 3: Tell it to the judge. Bitch, you go to jail.
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 3: I didn't. I just don't know why I did it.
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 3: I think that is I believe in demons. You can't
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 3: believe in God and not believe in demons. Yeah, I'm
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 3: trying to figure out how people go to church and
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 3: be catching the Holy ghost.
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 2: But y'all don't believe in spirits and ghosts for real?
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 4: Like I do, feel like things you leave your body
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 4: open and susceptible to outside entities. When you're on drugs,
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 4: when you're under the influence of alcohol and shit like that.
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 4: Make up in jail, that part okay and you.
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 2: You wake up.
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 4: And just even also when you're just an angry person
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 4: also just super mad people, that is like a nice
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 4: environment for a demon.
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 2: They like when you're angry already shitt.
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 3: Let's let's crank this ship up a bit, you know,
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 3: make her a murderer right quick.
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 4: So if you're ever in any situations and you just
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 4: feel like something is off, it is. You're not feeling
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 4: like that for no reason.
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 3: Always trusted, always, and you.
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 4: Just I really, I don't even subscribe to giving a
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 4: motherfucking excuse to get out the house.
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 3: I am going to stand up and walk to the
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 3: door and leave. I'm not saying shit.
• 1:09:46
  Speaker 4: I even learned that in a relationship, like when you're
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 4: about to leave a guy, don't tell them you're leaving.
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 4: Just just leave when they're not there, because if you
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 4: tell me you leave and they're gonna come, they're gonna
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 4: try to stop you.
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 2: It could be a fight, it could be a death.
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 2: You don't know what.
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 4: Just just just plan the lead, plan to leave, don't
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 4: announce it. So I don't even agree with announcing here,
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 4: I gotta go to my car, like that is still
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 4: somebody who you're trying to be nice. No, I'm not
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 4: giving you a reason why I'm standing up and getting
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 4: my person walking out the door.
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 3: If that works, you know, if you feel like you
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 3: can just get out that way, but sometimes you might
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 3: have to lead a nigga astray, like I'll be right back.
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 2: I gotta go get I'm gonna just stab you.
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 4: Then if I feel like I can't get out of here,
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 4: I'm just gonna initiate the punishment.
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 2: Listen, you ain't even did nothing. He stabbed in the
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 2: neck on the couch, telling just get out of it,
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 2: I'd be knowing.
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 4: I know what I know, and what I do know
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 4: is that I am going to always live to tell
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 4: the story, period.
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 2: Even if it's from a prison.
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 3: But I'm gonna be your life.
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  Speaker 2: Okay you should.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I had twelve judgement for nine, however six carry me.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, that's what that's really what I live by.
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  Speaker 4: And I think that's why, you know, black women aren't
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  Speaker 4: victimized as much by strangers because we just we don't.
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  Speaker 2: We're not nice at all.
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  Speaker 3: Ain't all right? Girl, let's wrap this thing also that
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  Speaker 3: the people that was it, you know what, Just be
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  Speaker 3: safe out hear y'all and protect yourself because your very
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  Speaker 3: first line of defense is you. Sometimes it ain't nobody
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  Speaker 3: to save you but yourself. I love y'all. Be careful
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  Speaker 3: out there, man, Be careful.
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  Speaker 4: And white grass is not greener, okay, beyond divestors, it's
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 4: just not it's not greener, like, man, are people I
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  Speaker 4: don't know?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, that's it. That's it.
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  Speaker 4: And you know, also, be a better person yourself so
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  Speaker 4: you can attract better people.
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  Speaker 2: Start there.
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  Speaker 4: It always starts with us, right. I do a lot
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  Speaker 4: of introspective work. And I think I said this before.
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  Speaker 4: I just I've just started blaming myself for everything. Everything
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  Speaker 4: is my fault because I can forgive myself before I
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  Speaker 4: can forgive somebody else.
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  Speaker 2: I hold grudges.
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  Speaker 4: So if I just say, you know what, you're right,
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  Speaker 4: it was my fault, I'm just going to forgive myself
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  Speaker 4: and move on.
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  Speaker 3: Mmm. That's why I'm.
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  Speaker 4: Man, man, Because bitch I spent a lot of time
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  Speaker 4: festering about bullshit.
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  Speaker 2: Get out of there anyway, This is great hope, y'all.
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