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- 0:02Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod which Teddy Mellencamp and Cambridge Edge.
- 0:15Speaker 2: Hi guys, welcome to another episode of Two Teas and
- 0:19Speaker 2: a Pod with Tamay. Okay, I'm good. I have a
- 0:26Speaker 2: lot of questions about Watch What Happens Live. Oh my god,
- 0:30Speaker 2: it was so much fun. It really was. I haven't
- 0:33Speaker 2: watched it.
- 0:33Speaker 3: I don't watch myself, so I don't know how it
- 0:35Speaker 3: came out, but I.
- 0:38Speaker 2: Thought it came out great. But my first question is,
- 0:41Speaker 2: at what point did you realize that you were wearing
- 0:45Speaker 2: the same outfit that Teresa wore.
- 0:47Speaker 3: Somebody actually sent me a message. I had it all
- 0:51Speaker 3: packed in my suitcase. I have my subscribers, you know,
- 0:55Speaker 3: account on Instagram. Yeah, so I showed them what I
- 0:58Speaker 3: was going to be wearing and the somebody goes, oh
- 1:00Speaker 3: my god, that's great.
- 1:00Speaker 2: It's great. And then one person goes.
- 1:02Speaker 3: I think Teresa wore that recently, and I went, oh shit.
- 1:06Speaker 2: So they sent me a picture. I go, yep, that's
- 1:08Speaker 2: the same one, and I'm like, oh, well, what can
- 1:10Speaker 2: you do? Right? And so it is what it is.
- 1:13Speaker 3: But I had a gene on gene on gene outfit
- 1:17Speaker 3: that was gonna wear. Sorry, Jean you know, Gene on
- 1:22Speaker 3: Gene and Jean's very very in style right now. So
- 1:24Speaker 3: I had a Gene dress with Jean boots and all
- 1:27Speaker 3: this to wear and Revolve lost my order the first
- 1:31Speaker 3: time ever in ten years or however long they've been around.
- 1:34Speaker 3: They lost my order. And I was on the phone
- 1:35Speaker 3: with them on Sunday. They're like, oh my god, I
- 1:38Speaker 3: got lost in transit.
- 1:39Speaker 2: So I, oh, yeah.
- 1:42Speaker 3: So I was kind of bummed about that because I
- 1:44Speaker 3: thought it was a really cute, kind of funky.
- 1:45Speaker 2: I wanted to be more casual, So I what did
- 1:48Speaker 2: Teresa wear that too? I have no idea.
- 1:50Speaker 3: And the reason why I pink is because I thought, oh,
- 1:54Speaker 3: it's Barbie Week.
- 1:55Speaker 2: I thought, you know, this is kind of a Barbie
- 1:57Speaker 2: pink outfit. Why not? But anyway, it was. It was
- 2:01Speaker 2: a lot of fun. So I had fun with Emily.
- 2:03Speaker 3: I didn't really get to spend much time with her,
- 2:05Speaker 3: only at the clubhouse because I got in at ten.
- 2:08Speaker 3: We stayed at the Royal ten, which is beautiful. Oh
- 2:11Speaker 3: my god, the room was huge. I think I showed
- 2:14Speaker 3: you a little video of it. Went to bed, got
- 2:17Speaker 3: up in the morning at six, had breakfast, went to
- 2:20Speaker 3: the studio, got glammed and then on stage, and then
- 2:23Speaker 3: I left.
- 2:24Speaker 2: To go to the airport.
- 2:25Speaker 3: Had I left just a little bit or later, I
- 2:28Speaker 3: would have found out that my flight was canceled. As
- 2:30Speaker 3: I'm getting driven to the airport, thunderstorms, thunder and I'm
- 2:35Speaker 3: looking on the weather map and it says it's gonna
- 2:37Speaker 3: stop at six and my flight was at like six
- 2:39Speaker 3: forty five, and I thought, oh, I'm gonna make it. It's
- 2:42Speaker 3: gonna be fine. Nope, every flight at Newark Airport was canceled.
- 2:48Speaker 3: I never fly into that airport ever, so I'm not
- 2:50Speaker 3: familiar with it. I was literally like looking at my
- 2:52Speaker 3: phone in tears, going I wasn't gonna go because I'm
- 2:56Speaker 3: so busy right now. So I was just, you know,
- 2:58Speaker 3: I thought, I'm just gonna do a twenty four our trip. Well,
- 3:01Speaker 3: I ended up having to stay another day. They're gonna
- 3:03Speaker 3: put me back up in the hotel. And I thought,
- 3:05Speaker 3: you know what, I mightna go to Julius's house because
- 3:08Speaker 3: I haven't been there yet.
- 3:09Speaker 2: Well, I saw that you were at dinner with Margaret.
- 3:12Speaker 3: Yeah, so we went to his house and then I'm like,
- 3:15Speaker 3: let's go to dinner. So Margaret lives like fifteen minutes away,
- 3:18Speaker 3: and we went to this cute little restaurant in this
- 3:20Speaker 3: cutest little town. I can't remember the name of it,
- 3:22Speaker 3: but just had dinner and then I mean we didn't
- 3:24Speaker 3: even take pictures. I think Julius videoed us walking in
- 3:28Speaker 3: or something like that.
- 3:28Speaker 2: But yeah, it was fun. They're getting they're getting ready soon.
- 3:34Speaker 2: I liked some of the questions. I okay, we're gonna
- 3:38Speaker 2: start out. We'll start out with yours, your watch what
- 3:42Speaker 2: Happens Live, and then let's go go to Jin's watch
- 3:44Speaker 2: what happens on. Oh I never saw hers, but okay, okay.
- 3:48Speaker 2: So first question was uh Andy essentially said I loved
- 3:54Speaker 2: the old Emily YadA, YadA, YadA. Emily was then asked
- 3:59Speaker 2: about the Zimpic craze. She says she was on it
- 4:03Speaker 2: for five to six weeks and it helped quick start
- 4:06Speaker 2: her weight loss. What I loved about what Emily said
- 4:09Speaker 2: was she did change other things about her life. Now,
- 4:12Speaker 2: my issue with Ozimpic is always that people don't change.
- 4:16Speaker 3: Right and then they're going to gain it all back,
- 4:18Speaker 3: if not more. And that's one thing, Like you know,
- 4:21Speaker 3: everybody knows, we're both of a stand on the whole
- 4:23Speaker 3: ozimpic craze. But here's the thing. Here's a girl that
- 4:27Speaker 3: struggled with her weight for many, many years. She used
- 4:30Speaker 3: it as a crutch to kickstart her weight loss. Then
- 4:34Speaker 3: she continued to work. She works out seven days a week.
- 4:37Speaker 3: She is really strict with her food. And I'm not
- 4:41Speaker 3: saying like she's starving herself by any means. She's just
- 4:43Speaker 3: she's doing a bodybuilder's diet. She's doing lots of protein,
- 4:47Speaker 3: complex carbs, vegetables. She has cut out alcohol. She actually
- 4:51Speaker 3: at Watcher Happens Lives she had her first couple classes
- 4:54Speaker 3: of champagne.
- 4:55Speaker 2: So she's doing it right and it's working.
- 4:58Speaker 3: And now she said she's realized, like oh my, oh god,
- 5:00Speaker 3: this is not rocket science.
- 5:02Speaker 2: Like you change your diet, you move your body and
- 5:05Speaker 2: yell lose weight. Yeah. She did say that Shane was
- 5:09Speaker 2: a little worried about there being like an obsessive like
- 5:14Speaker 2: portion to it. And I think that I remember at
- 5:17Speaker 2: the beginning when I changed my life, I was more
- 5:20Speaker 2: obsessive about it than I am now Like now I've
- 5:24Speaker 2: learned a healthy balance.
- 5:25Speaker 3: Like I'm like, okay, but you're also going to maintain
- 5:28Speaker 3: set right.
- 5:29Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm also in maintenance. So I think that that
- 5:31Speaker 2: really is for the people that come out and they're like,
- 5:34Speaker 2: it sounds so extreme, that sounds so crazy. It actually,
- 5:38Speaker 2: if you're wanting to shed, it does take that kind
- 5:41Speaker 2: of intensity for a little bit of time. But then
- 5:43Speaker 2: once you get to the place where you want to be,
- 5:46Speaker 2: no matter what that is it looks different for everybody,
- 5:49Speaker 2: then you can be a little bit freer. But either way,
- 5:53Speaker 2: she is what is great. She's doing what she feels
- 5:57Speaker 2: is best for her. And what I love the most
- 5:59Speaker 2: is she said, and I loved myself before as well,
- 6:03Speaker 2: and I love myself now, And I think that's what's
- 6:06Speaker 2: more important. She's very She's always been very body positive.
- 6:09Speaker 3: She would wear clothes and show her body off and
- 6:11Speaker 3: she wasn't one that was hiding or embarrassed or anything
- 6:14Speaker 3: like that.
- 6:14Speaker 2: So yeah, it's about how you feel. It's about how
- 6:16Speaker 2: you feel.
- 6:17Speaker 3: And I think when somebody has confidence like that they
- 6:19Speaker 3: can rock whatever size they are.
- 6:32Speaker 2: Then the next thing is Heather Aman comes up about
- 6:36Speaker 2: this Ryan on. Ryan is not Heather's type and he's
- 6:41Speaker 2: usually an NBA or an NFL player. Yeah, but I
- 6:46Speaker 2: do have to tell you this, I am slightly confused
- 6:50Speaker 2: because I don't full.
- 6:52Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, I hear you've been talking a lot
- 6:54Speaker 3: of shit about her.
- 6:55Speaker 2: I haven't been talking a lot of shit about her.
- 6:57Speaker 2: I just said, I don't think she did. I don't
- 7:00Speaker 2: think she did your case any favors. I think what
- 7:03Speaker 2: I saw just made it seem like she was coming
- 7:06Speaker 2: into hammer down on Jen.
- 7:08Speaker 3: But she didn't hammer, she didn't raise her voice, she
- 7:09Speaker 3: didn't say anything an I told her she cared about.
- 7:11Speaker 2: I think it's Tamra saying, so you left your family
- 7:16Speaker 2: and kids for this man, blah blah blah. We don't
- 7:18Speaker 2: know whether at this point you saw.
- 7:22Speaker 3: Thirty seconds of a twenty minute conversation, right, I saw.
- 7:26Speaker 2: In my opinion, that conversation would better be had, would
- 7:31Speaker 2: have been better had at a dinner between the three
- 7:34Speaker 2: of you where we understood the deal. And I agree.
- 7:36Speaker 2: But do you know why she was there? Why?
- 7:39Speaker 3: Because Ryan and Jen were calling and threatening her after
- 7:44Speaker 3: Noboo repeatedly she would not pick up their calls, would
- 7:48Speaker 3: not return their text messages. So I said, Heather, if
- 7:52Speaker 3: she wants to talk to you, then go to the
- 7:54Speaker 3: pool party with me and you can talk to her
- 7:56Speaker 3: face to face.
- 7:57Speaker 2: And she goes okay. But the point that I don't
- 8:00Speaker 2: understand what does she care if Ryan is a cheater?
- 8:04Speaker 2: What does she care?
- 8:05Speaker 3: None of us care that Ryan is a cheater. That's
- 8:09Speaker 3: not the point. Do I think he's a douchebag? Does
- 8:12Speaker 3: Heather think he's a douchebag? Does the world think as
- 8:13Speaker 3: a douchebag? Absolutely? It's Jen and our history with her
- 8:18Speaker 3: and how we helped her and protected her and tried
- 8:21Speaker 3: to guide her, and now she's on the show acting
- 8:24Speaker 3: like it's all a lie. Could you imagine doing that
- 8:28Speaker 3: for one of your friends, being there for them.
- 8:30Speaker 2: I have a text message from Heather to Jen. I
- 8:35Speaker 2: love that she got a readers out. I don't she's
- 8:38Speaker 2: getting real cham got a readers out.
- 8:40Speaker 3: Because when she found out that Ryan cheated on her
- 8:43Speaker 3: during casting, Heather was the one there for her. Heather
- 8:47Speaker 3: was the one feeling sorry for her, and she said,
- 8:51Speaker 3: you still have shame for what you did, but you
- 8:53Speaker 3: actually have a lot of real awareness and this isn't
- 8:56Speaker 3: going to break you, meaning her and Ryan breaking up right.
- 8:59Speaker 3: I'm very impress on how you were handling all this.
- 9:01Speaker 3: I don't think I would handle it this way with
- 9:04Speaker 3: any grace whatsoever, what's important. You always should remember you
- 9:08Speaker 3: are enough. You showed up with true authenticity and gave
- 9:13Speaker 3: everything and even put him before your kids and your family.
- 9:17Speaker 3: You don't you didn't deserve this, You were tricked. Just
- 9:20Speaker 3: be strong, stay in your power, and you don't let
- 9:23Speaker 3: anybody take your power away from you.
- 9:24Speaker 2: Again.
- 9:26Speaker 3: Heather was there like that kind of friend, non stop
- 9:29Speaker 3: with her, and I get that.
- 9:31Speaker 2: But the point is that we didn't see that so
- 9:33Speaker 2: all it looked like it was like another person.
- 9:36Speaker 3: Because they're saying so they are thinking that Heather's telling
- 9:39Speaker 3: me everything bad.
- 9:41Speaker 2: Heather's not.
- 9:42Speaker 3: Heather's from Chicago. She's an Italian from Chicago. She is
- 9:45Speaker 3: closed lips. She didn't say anything. It took her two
- 9:49Speaker 3: years to tell me that he walked in that gym
- 9:51Speaker 3: with her and said he wanted to f me. And
- 9:53Speaker 3: she's like, no, no, no, no, Ryan not You're not
- 9:54Speaker 3: doing You're not effing this one.
- 9:56Speaker 2: Can you explain to me bringing up the casting process
- 10:03Speaker 2: when you on the watch what happens live.
- 10:05Speaker 3: Because people think like, oh my god, this poor girl.
- 10:08Speaker 3: She had no idea, No, she knew she chose to
- 10:13Speaker 3: stay with him, and so when she comes on the show,
- 10:15Speaker 3: and I'm sitting back now. Keep in mind, the first
- 10:17Speaker 3: four episodes, it was Emily and Gina that brought up
- 10:20Speaker 3: the cheating. I had no intentions of it.
- 10:22Speaker 1: Know.
- 10:22Speaker 2: I brought that up on the last Yeah, and.
- 10:24Speaker 3: When she got on the show, I told her, I said, listen,
- 10:29Speaker 3: you be honest.
- 10:30Speaker 2: A lot of the girls know what went down. If
- 10:33Speaker 2: you're not going to.
- 10:33Speaker 3: Be honest, my suggestion to you is to tell them
- 10:36Speaker 3: none of your business. It's none of your business. That way,
- 10:39Speaker 3: you're not lying. I go, but do not lie. So
- 10:42Speaker 3: the first four episodes I had to sit there and
- 10:44Speaker 3: watch her lie through her teeth.
- 10:46Speaker 2: That's when I lean in. I cut this and go,
- 10:48Speaker 2: just be honest, be honest. But I have another question
- 10:52Speaker 2: for you. Do you have any male friends that are
- 10:57Speaker 2: your best friends that are straight? I did when I
- 11:00Speaker 2: was single.
- 11:02Speaker 3: Heather's Heather's single mom, her, their kids go to school together.
- 11:06Speaker 3: They have a mutual group of friends that would hang
- 11:09Speaker 3: out all the time and travel together. So they were friends.
- 11:12Speaker 3: She has zero interest. She knows what kind of boyfriend
- 11:15Speaker 3: Ryan is.
- 11:16Speaker 2: She knew that right.
- 11:18Speaker 3: So when Jen, when she got close with Jen, because
- 11:20Speaker 3: she met Jen through me at the gym, she got
- 11:23Speaker 3: close to Jen. She had to step away from Jen
- 11:25Speaker 3: because she knew what a bad boyfriend this guy.
- 11:28Speaker 2: Is, and then they became close. It was just it
- 11:31Speaker 2: was a lot of drama, a lot. Okay, So there's
- 11:33Speaker 2: a lot we haven't seen and that's where it just
- 11:39Speaker 2: it's getting lost in translation.
- 11:41Speaker 3: But for sure, I don't think that you guys know
- 11:43Speaker 3: enough about what went down and how we were there
- 11:45Speaker 3: for her.
- 11:46Speaker 2: People still think you brought her on.
- 11:48Speaker 3: I didn't bring her on, Guys. I did not bring
- 11:50Speaker 3: her on. I didn't know I was coming back.
- 11:52Speaker 2: How can I bring someone on?
- 11:53Speaker 3: But I don't even know why I'm coming back?
- 11:56Speaker 2: You know, wasn't she brought on before you knew you
- 11:58Speaker 2: were coming back? Yes? And if it wasn't, if Tamra
- 12:03Speaker 2: hadn't come back, she would have been brought on as
- 12:05Speaker 2: somebody else.
- 12:05Speaker 3: That yeah, kind of like Crystal correct, right, Okay, well
- 12:11Speaker 3: let's get into something else, tom.
- 12:13Speaker 2: Okay. So then when we played Tamra Makes Trace game,
- 12:18Speaker 2: Tamera's after asked if she would be Trace amigas and
- 12:22Speaker 2: with Kyle and Ed and then you said Teddy would
- 12:24Speaker 2: be mad. Well, I would not be mad.
- 12:28Speaker 3: Well, I would be mad if you came in and
- 12:31Speaker 3: took my spot with Vicky and Shannon. I just thought like, oh,
- 12:34Speaker 3: I'm gonna start elbowing with a jurid and and Kyle.
- 12:37Speaker 2: Yeah, that ain't gonna work out. Sorry. Oh like like
- 12:40Speaker 2: I wouldn't be able to be friends with you guys,
- 12:42Speaker 2: like just the three of you. Okay, okay, Well.
- 12:44Speaker 3: There's a difference between friends and being the trace a Megas.
- 12:46Speaker 3: I mean, you know, the trace Avegas are on tour now,
- 12:48Speaker 3: so they're pretty famous.
- 12:51Speaker 2: What I also found quite interesting was that asking if
- 12:55Speaker 2: Vicky was coming back, when you guys both answered one
- 12:59Speaker 2: hundred percent, and I saw Andy's face smile, She's coming back.
- 13:04Speaker 2: I feel like she's coming back, right.
- 13:06Speaker 3: I did well that question just totally because they started
- 13:09Speaker 3: doing that about me the prior year.
- 13:12Speaker 2: And I think her scene was so good in this
- 13:14Speaker 2: last episode. Wow really Oh yeah, I mean I was like, listen,
- 13:21Speaker 2: I think I thought she was funny. I saw a
- 13:23Speaker 2: different side to her. See, every time I've been around
- 13:26Speaker 2: great TV, she has been so MOPy. That's why I've
- 13:31Speaker 2: been likeugh, like, you have to understand, I haven't seen
- 13:34Speaker 2: that side, so watching that side, like listen, I can
- 13:36Speaker 2: pivot if I see a fun side to somebody, I'm
- 13:39Speaker 2: happy to go with it. And what I saw there,
- 13:42Speaker 2: but what I have seen in the past was always
- 13:44Speaker 2: her kind of being negative down, putting you down, not
- 13:48Speaker 2: lifting you up. And so that's kind of where I was, like,
- 13:51Speaker 2: go kick rocks, Vicky, but seeing that fun and like
- 13:55Speaker 2: she she made me laugh when she made the point
- 13:57Speaker 2: of like what's in the vall, it's in the ball,
- 13:59Speaker 2: it's in the vault, but tell us. I know she's funny.
- 14:03Speaker 2: So I liked it. And then what else happened? Emily
- 14:09Speaker 2: says that she spent a lot of time with Heather
- 14:11Speaker 2: before filming, and she bashed Tamra. Then she acted like
- 14:16Speaker 2: BFFs with Tamra, so it made her look fake. Yeah.
- 14:19Speaker 3: I actually heard that from a few different people on
- 14:21Speaker 3: the cast that she would say a lot of things
- 14:24Speaker 3: behind my back and we thought we.
- 14:26Speaker 2: Were on good terms. I mean, same Heather, same, just kidding.
- 14:32Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's that's the thing, Like I would hear
- 14:34Speaker 3: things like that, So I came back not knowing, you know,
- 14:37Speaker 3: is she my friend or not my friend? So that's
- 14:38Speaker 3: where I was kind of like, you'll see I start
- 14:42Speaker 3: to get a little stand off fish.
- 14:43Speaker 2: With her in the upcoming shows.
- 14:48Speaker 3: But you know, I was friends with Jen for a
- 14:50Speaker 3: few years and I witnessed her change herself for a
- 14:54Speaker 3: man and she it's almost like and it's a man
- 14:56Speaker 3: that she's not worth that it's not worthy of her.
- 14:59Speaker 3: And it's hard for me as a friend to watch
- 15:02Speaker 3: somebody date someone and morph into them.
- 15:04Speaker 2: I mean, she talks like them him, she acts like him.
- 15:07Speaker 3: I mean her her verbiage of I ride with you,
- 15:11Speaker 3: I vibrate at the same level as you.
- 15:13Speaker 2: It's just that's her, that's him, that's not her.
- 15:15Speaker 3: I mean, I don't always deliver my message in the
- 15:17Speaker 3: best package, but it's you.
- 15:20Speaker 2: Know, it is what it is. I don't know what
- 15:22Speaker 2: to say, but I don't know.
- 15:24Speaker 3: I just feel like she deserves better than him. And
- 15:27Speaker 3: I went through a bad marriage, and I think that's
- 15:30Speaker 3: why it's such a tough spot for me, Like when
- 15:33Speaker 3: Vicky was going through it with Brooks, and I could
- 15:36Speaker 3: spot it and trust me at the end of the day,
- 15:39Speaker 3: I'm not going to be wrong about this.
- 15:42Speaker 2: But do you think there's anything like when you were
- 15:46Speaker 2: first in your bad marriage. Do you think there's anything
- 15:49Speaker 2: your friends could have said to you to change what
- 15:52Speaker 2: you were in or you have to learn it for yourself.
- 15:54Speaker 3: Now, well, I had kids with him, so it was
- 15:56Speaker 3: in the easiest for me to get out, but I
- 15:58Speaker 3: knew that I need it out and I'm my friend.
- 16:00Speaker 3: Were honest with me, and I was honest with them,
- 16:02Speaker 3: even my family was I didn't try to hide and
- 16:04Speaker 3: protect him and oh it's okay, but he also didn't
- 16:08Speaker 3: cheat on me.
- 16:09Speaker 2: Yeah, well, then we need to go over to her
- 16:12Speaker 2: watch What Happens Live because listen.
- 16:14Speaker 3: She got the batteries in her backpack because she she
- 16:18Speaker 3: did more in this and she did the entire season.
- 16:21Speaker 2: Well, here's the thing I from watching jin from what
- 16:25Speaker 2: I have never met her, but watching her, she's the
- 16:27Speaker 2: likable person to watch. Yeah. That being said, when they
- 16:32Speaker 2: panned to Ryan in the audience with his dick pit hat,
- 16:37Speaker 2: with his dick pit big hat and Andy's face, it's
- 16:42Speaker 2: just I recognize that Andy's face when he is so
- 16:45Speaker 2: just like, oh turned off his cringe at that. Him
- 16:51Speaker 2: trying to promote the hat in that moment made me
- 16:55Speaker 2: so uncomfortable. I was like, oh, no, Ryan.
- 16:58Speaker 3: Like Mike, the collar popped up and the hat, it's like, oh,
- 17:05Speaker 3: it was so cringey. Like So when Tamburn gives you
- 17:10Speaker 3: limons they make lemonade, and he holds up the dick
- 17:13Speaker 3: pic hat I have heard. She's humiliated by this. This
- 17:17Speaker 3: was not her idea. It is his idea, and he's
- 17:20Speaker 3: pushing it on her.
- 17:21Speaker 2: Well, you could tell almost when he held up the
- 17:25Speaker 2: dig pic thing like she holds herself back, like, oh shit,
- 17:29Speaker 2: what she would.
- 17:31Speaker 3: Be a better housewife without him because what she holds back.
- 17:35Speaker 2: Hopefully watching this back, you know she's going to realize
- 17:39Speaker 2: some things that he isn't you know that? It looks
- 17:43Speaker 2: to me like, and I don't know him, but from
- 17:46Speaker 2: what I am seeing, he looks like he's trying to
- 17:49Speaker 2: be an opportunist. I think you said it. Oh my god.
- 17:52Speaker 3: For sure, he's been trying to get a hat business
- 17:54Speaker 3: off the ground since he started to come to cut Fitness.
- 17:56Speaker 2: So but also if you have a therapist that goes
- 17:59Speaker 2: hold on, what is the noise? I journal about that? Wait?
- 18:07Speaker 3: You journaled about what? How many noises in your head?
- 18:10Speaker 3: What did you journal about? Is this what they always
- 18:13Speaker 3: do when they go in there?
- 18:14Speaker 2: Apparently? Then Andy plays a game called Let's Get Judgie,
- 18:19Speaker 2: and he said, what is one way Tamara can approve
- 18:23Speaker 2: improve as a friend, and Jen says, to be a friend.
- 18:27Speaker 2: I was a friend to her, like I was such
- 18:29Speaker 2: a good friend to her.
- 18:30Speaker 3: That's why I'm so turned off when she started lying
- 18:33Speaker 3: and saying all these things that were not true.
- 18:35Speaker 2: And then she said, do you think I do like that?
- 18:38Speaker 2: She said, what do you think Tamara and Eddie could
- 18:40Speaker 2: have done it anything better or different to have kept
- 18:42Speaker 2: cut fitness open? She says, no, Okay, so she didn't
- 18:46Speaker 2: shade your business, which I appreciate. Then what is something
- 18:50Speaker 2: about Tamor's marriage to Eddie that doesn't sit right with her?
- 18:54Speaker 2: Jen says she should schedule more sex. I think she
- 18:58Speaker 2: was just trying to be funny. I don't know. I
- 19:00Speaker 2: don't understand that.
- 19:00Speaker 3: I don't remember ever having I might have had a
- 19:03Speaker 3: sex talk with her on the show. I did because
- 19:06Speaker 3: I remember saying, you know, thirteen years into it, we're
- 19:09Speaker 3: not banging like teenagers anymore, but we're good, We're good
- 19:13Speaker 3: about us.
- 19:14Speaker 2: Well, I this is one part. I appreciate sex scheduling,
- 19:19Speaker 2: as you guys know. Well, yeah, I said.
- 19:22Speaker 3: I've said that on camera, not on camera on the podcast.
- 19:25Speaker 2: I think about scheduling sex.
- 19:26Speaker 3: So I feel like she hears soundbites and she tries
- 19:28Speaker 3: to use them.
- 19:29Speaker 2: And then who is more fit? I don't necessarily love
- 19:33Speaker 2: this question in general. I probably I probably what I answered.
- 19:37Speaker 2: We're both fit in different ways. We both look great,
- 19:41Speaker 2: we both look hard. And then how is camera different
- 19:45Speaker 2: on camera than she is off? Jen says, drastically different.
- 19:49Speaker 2: She said when she is on camera she drinks, and
- 19:51Speaker 2: when she drinks she turns it up. This I can say,
- 19:54Speaker 2: I don't think that you're drastically different on camera versus
- 19:57Speaker 2: off camera like Potter, but I think you and me
- 20:00Speaker 2: both are very different when we're drunk. We're all different
- 20:03Speaker 2: when we're drunk, like, we're all different. I don't have
- 20:08Speaker 2: But when she did drink, she had like a like
- 20:11Speaker 2: a diet coke and malib That's yeah, Now she even
- 20:17Speaker 2: drinks what he drinks. I'm telling you Apple and Malibu,
- 20:22Speaker 2: Like that's what I drank when I love that. I
- 20:24Speaker 2: was about to say, that's what I drank when I
- 20:25Speaker 2: was a teenager. I thought you said when I was pregnant.
- 20:29Speaker 2: But I have never had a diet coke and Malibu,
- 20:33Speaker 2: and that actually sounds disgusting to me. I've had Malibu
- 20:36Speaker 2: my life. Malibu pineapple. Is it sounds like a lot
- 20:40Speaker 2: of sugar. Of course it is. Well, diet coke is
- 20:43Speaker 2: a lot of preservatives. But you know how I feel
- 20:46Speaker 2: about when I'm at horse shows. I can't help myself.
- 20:48Speaker 2: I love a diet. Doctor Pepper, you know you get upset?
- 20:53Speaker 2: Do you just did the VICKI gag?
- 20:54Speaker 3: Because Doctor Pepper is like disgusting? Well, you know what
- 20:58Speaker 3: I could do before doctor pepp her.
- 21:11Speaker 2: Then she says, what's the shadiest thing Tamera said to
- 21:13Speaker 2: Jen about Shannon? And Jen says that Shannon is an alcoholic?
- 21:17Speaker 3: Okay, first of all, I've never had this conversation with her.
- 21:19Speaker 3: She took this off the boat. Remember on the boat
- 21:22Speaker 3: when I called her a drunk or something like that, That's.
- 21:24Speaker 2: What she did. So that was a that was a
- 21:26Speaker 2: low blow right there.
- 21:27Speaker 3: And even for Shannon, like why bring that up after
- 21:29Speaker 3: she already knows it's a touchy subject and it has
- 21:32Speaker 3: already been played on air. So I was like that,
- 21:34Speaker 3: that's that's a dick move right there.
- 21:37Speaker 2: What do you have to say about saying that now
- 21:40Speaker 2: in hindsight, about Shannon drinking too much? Yeah, that I
- 21:45Speaker 2: shouldn't have said it all right, you You just made
- 21:50Speaker 2: the same face that you made in the scene with
- 21:54Speaker 2: Vicky and Shannon when you were alluding to the fact
- 21:57Speaker 2: that I ever had brought Shannon. Oh my gosh. Okay.
- 22:03Speaker 2: Then the last thing is Jen is asked what her
- 22:08Speaker 2: reaction was to Shannon, saying, you may be an idiot,
- 22:10Speaker 2: but you have to figure it out on your own.
- 22:12Speaker 2: In regards to her relationship with Ryan, and Jen says
- 22:15Speaker 2: Shannon was surprising for her since she has been warned
- 22:18Speaker 2: about Shannon from Tamra for so long. Okay, so this
- 22:22Speaker 2: is where I'm confused.
- 22:24Speaker 3: Okay, I did not warn Jen about one person on
- 22:28Speaker 3: the show. This has even come out of Jen's mouth,
- 22:31Speaker 3: and this is another way that I can prove to
- 22:34Speaker 3: you that she has a weird relationship with the truth
- 22:37Speaker 3: aka liar. When she got cassed on the show, she
- 22:41Speaker 3: asked me about everybody. Shannon had never even heard Jen's name.
- 22:45Speaker 3: Jen had never even heard Shannon's name.
- 22:47Speaker 2: I didn't.
- 22:48Speaker 3: There wasn't a conversation. That wasn't the kind of friend
- 22:50Speaker 3: I was with Jen. She came in, she worked out
- 22:52Speaker 3: on my gym, not set. When she got cast, she
- 22:54Speaker 3: asked me and I said, you know what I'm not
- 22:56Speaker 3: going to say anything. I want you to make your
- 22:58Speaker 3: own decision based on your time with that person into story.
- 23:03Speaker 3: Jenna even publicly said that recently.
- 23:05Speaker 2: Well, I can say something exciting that I learned is
- 23:10Speaker 2: that Andy's favorite number one second hand items in the
- 23:14Speaker 2: clubhouse are you're used implants two sets. But then he's
- 23:20Speaker 2: this actually worried me. I started like checking my own tits.
- 23:23Speaker 2: He said that one of them dried out. Oh oh,
- 23:28Speaker 2: it did that? Oh you know what?
- 23:31Speaker 3: I think it was the saline one one the first ones.
- 23:33Speaker 3: They're bigger silicons, the second or saline, because when I
- 23:35Speaker 3: gave him to him, I had had him out for
- 23:36Speaker 3: I don't know, four months or so, and I was
- 23:39Speaker 3: looking at it. I'm like, the water's evaporating, but it was.
- 23:42Speaker 3: It was blowing up like a balloon, like.
- 23:44Speaker 2: A canal action really small. Oh it is small. Yeah,
- 23:47Speaker 2: Like it looks like it's like soon it's just gonna
- 23:50Speaker 2: be plastic, isn't that? Isn't that scary? That well? That
- 23:53Speaker 2: that's why I was like, good thing, I've got my
- 23:56Speaker 2: natrel implants that are might I.
- 23:58Speaker 3: Don't know if that was some see weird that was
- 24:00Speaker 3: giving me like autoimmune issues because the other implant that
- 24:05Speaker 3: was removed state intact. This one, the sailine inside of
- 24:09Speaker 3: it was evaporating, but the but it was ballooning out
- 24:12Speaker 3: getting hard.
- 24:13Speaker 2: So it's a chemical reaction. Oh my gosh. Okay. So
- 24:15Speaker 2: then the last thing that we need to talk about,
- 24:18Speaker 2: which is actually something that was happening to me while
- 24:22Speaker 2: you were gone, was these leaked. So there was somebody
- 24:27Speaker 2: on Twitter that leaked the text messages that were shown
- 24:32Speaker 2: at the Real Housewives of New Jersey that reunion that
- 24:37Speaker 2: Jacqueline wrote to Jackie about Teresa, and it was shared
- 24:41Speaker 2: on the reunion and then by the way, they deleted
- 24:44Speaker 2: the tweet finally after I but like there was you know,
- 24:47Speaker 2: something like one hundred thousand views, which meant I got
- 24:50Speaker 2: one hundred thousand dms of people not getting that they
- 24:54Speaker 2: were trying to make a joke about it and saying
- 24:57Speaker 2: that I said these terrible things about Sutton, and you know,
- 25:01Speaker 2: I can be an asshole, but I don't talk like that.
- 25:05Speaker 2: You don't talk like that. That's why I don't talk
- 25:07Speaker 2: like that. And I'm not somebody that would say those things.
- 25:10Speaker 2: And the part that I love the most is that
- 25:13Speaker 2: even though Sutton and I are not. You know, we're
- 25:16Speaker 2: not the best of pals. I put something on my
- 25:19Speaker 2: Instagram that just said, you know, it was the tweet,
- 25:23Speaker 2: and I just said, clearly, I never said this about
- 25:26Speaker 2: Sutton Strack. Twitter do better. This was a text stone
- 25:29Speaker 2: in the Real Housewives New Jersey reunion. I get that
- 25:34Speaker 2: whoever posted thought they were being funny, but fifty percent
- 25:36Speaker 2: of the people didn't realize it was a joke. And
- 25:39Speaker 2: once again people came for me for something I didn't do.
- 25:43Speaker 2: And I tagged Sutton and I didn't assume for her
- 25:45Speaker 2: to write back, but this is this made me appreciate Sutton.
- 25:48Speaker 2: She wrote back the little kiddy face, laughing, and then
- 25:51Speaker 2: she wrote me in a boob job question mark, haha,
- 25:56Speaker 2: how funny.
- 25:57Speaker 3: Within the account, then tweeted for the who can't tell
- 26:01Speaker 3: it's a joke, it's a joke.
- 26:03Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, well Candace Dillard even no, Well, she
- 26:08Speaker 2: sent me a text and she's like, girl, Sutton's my girl.
- 26:13Speaker 2: But I'm ready for you to get back on the
- 26:15Speaker 2: show and give some reads and like my reads would
- 26:17Speaker 2: be better than that, and we shall see.
- 26:21Speaker 3: But yeah, friend, Whitfield was almost on vander Pump Rules
- 26:26Speaker 3: it was a massive fan. I was a massive fan
- 26:28Speaker 3: of Beverly Hills because my best friend's mom was on it,
- 26:31Speaker 3: and that would be your friend, Lisa vander Pump. I'm
- 26:34Speaker 3: friends with Pandora and actually, back in the day when
- 26:37Speaker 3: they were starting vander Pump Rules, they were like, we
- 26:39Speaker 3: are starting the show, would you maybe want to think
- 26:42Speaker 3: about being on it? I was like, well, I do
- 26:45Speaker 3: have to quit my job at the PR firm and
- 26:47Speaker 3: work to work out a restaurant.
- 26:49Speaker 2: I think I made out with that manager Peter once.
- 26:53Speaker 2: Make out with Peter, I don't know.
- 26:55Speaker 3: He must have some kind of magic power and gettings. Yeah,
- 27:00Speaker 3: but once at Halloween party in two thousand and six,
- 27:02Speaker 3: when I read that, I thought, I feel like Brenn
- 27:04Speaker 3: was born in.
- 27:05Speaker 2: Two thousand and six. She's not that old.
- 27:08Speaker 3: I told Lisa and Pandy I would never do a reality.
- 27:12Speaker 2: TV like that is so trashy.
- 27:15Speaker 3: The second I got it, Pandy screenshot at it and
- 27:18Speaker 3: was like, really, bitch.
- 27:20Speaker 2: I was like, I'm poor, so she never really want
- 27:23Speaker 2: to be on really TV. But hey, she's honest. I
- 27:26Speaker 2: need the money. I need the money, honey.
- 27:29Speaker 3: You know what, well, I know you uplifting your life
- 27:32Speaker 3: from New York, to move to la to quit a
- 27:34Speaker 3: PR job, to work at a rest, work at a restaurant.
- 27:37Speaker 2: It's a lot, It's a lot. Well. I also saw
- 27:40Speaker 2: today that Arianna is refusing to film with Tom Sandoval,
- 27:46Speaker 2: and I feel like this is not going to ultimately
- 27:50Speaker 2: end well for her. I also saw a bunch of things, Oh,
- 27:54Speaker 2: I like try you dodged one of the questions also,
- 27:56Speaker 2: and watch What Happens Live when you said you'd be
- 27:59Speaker 2: too old to be friends with. But either way, Kristen duty,
- 28:03Speaker 2: I think it's duty, dowdy, Christian duty. Her nails says
- 28:06Speaker 2: on dooty Kristin dowdy, fine, fine dody, it's dooty, doody,
- 28:12Speaker 2: Dooty's like poop dooty. I don't know. I don't like
- 28:17Speaker 2: Kristen from that Green Dress from Sandoval has a lot
- 28:21Speaker 2: to say about James Kennedy and how everybody has come
- 28:27Speaker 2: to support him and to so that they can all
- 28:29Speaker 2: attack Sandoval, and I just feel like this season is
- 28:32Speaker 2: going to get a little dicey, especially when cast members
- 28:36Speaker 2: refuse to film. Yeah, that never works out either. I'm
- 28:39Speaker 2: worried it's going to backfire.
- 28:42Speaker 3: But the thing is even if you refuse to film, like,
- 28:45Speaker 3: don't say it, don't don't put it out there that
- 28:47Speaker 3: I'm refuse, like be in the room and don't engage
- 28:49Speaker 3: if anything. But by the way, I will say, I
- 28:52Speaker 3: would love to be BFFs with Lalla because I love her,
- 28:55Speaker 3: But to be Terracey Vegas with her and James Kennedy, Yeah,
- 29:01Speaker 3: I don't think that gonna work out.
- 29:04Speaker 2: Yeah we anyways, Okay. The only thing I can think
- 29:07Speaker 2: of was I'm too old for that. Yeah, I know.
- 29:10Speaker 2: That's why I was like, you gave it a good
- 29:12Speaker 2: dodge and we yeah. Yeah, because I want that to
- 29:14Speaker 2: be their mothers. Yeah. We do have another headline, which
- 29:18Speaker 2: is people curious about the thousand dollars lawsuit against Drew
- 29:21Speaker 2: Sidora that keeps coming up on Real Housewife of Atlanta. Monique,
- 29:25Speaker 2: the person filing the claim against Drew was a pro say,
- 29:29Speaker 2: which is acting as her own attorney, which is likely
- 29:32Speaker 2: due to the small amount of money involved. And then
- 29:36Speaker 2: essentially both Drew and Monique are representing themselves. They've written,
- 29:40Speaker 2: they're both written their statements.
- 29:42Speaker 3: This is comic hold to me, because it costs more
- 29:44Speaker 3: money to file than to get the money. I mean
- 29:48Speaker 3: I'm sure they're in a small claims court because it's
- 29:49Speaker 3: undred three thousand dollars, but oh my god, just but.
- 29:53Speaker 2: I mean, also, I really feel like if we're talking
- 29:55Speaker 2: about one thousand dollars and if Monique what we're learning,
- 29:59Speaker 2: what we learned is Monique is best friends with Drew's
- 30:02Speaker 2: assistant of like eighteen years. It seems like to me
- 30:06Speaker 2: she came over to shadow. First, she tried to come
- 30:08Speaker 2: over as a chef Drew's saying that there was a
- 30:11Speaker 2: hair in it. Monique then said she still wanted another
- 30:14Speaker 2: job and another capacity, so she came to Shadow Danielle.
- 30:19Speaker 2: She helped nanny for the kids. Blah blah blah. She
- 30:21Speaker 2: reached out to Ralph allegedly asked for money. Ralph paid
- 30:24Speaker 2: her one hundred and fifty bucks for the day. Then
- 30:28Speaker 2: she said owed a thousand. But I'm going to read
- 30:31Speaker 2: the whole thing because it's so so stupid.
- 30:33Speaker 3: But there is a moral thing about lawsuits, and our
- 30:35Speaker 3: legal system just sucks so bad here in California. I
- 30:38Speaker 3: don't know about other states, but people can see you
- 30:40Speaker 3: for whatever reason, and then you have to hire an attorney,
- 30:43Speaker 3: and you have to pay the bills, and you have
- 30:45Speaker 3: to go to court and take time off, and it
- 30:47Speaker 3: is stressful.
- 30:48Speaker 2: You put your hands in front of a judge and
- 30:51Speaker 2: if you.
- 30:51Speaker 3: Lose, you might have to pay their legal Like it's
- 30:54Speaker 3: ridiculous the way it works, and she probably is just
- 30:59Speaker 3: I'd be stressed too. It's a thousand I mean I
- 31:00Speaker 3: was in a million dollar lawsuit. Can imagine my legal
- 31:03Speaker 3: fees for five hundred thousand.
- 31:04Speaker 2: Dollars and neither of them hired lawyers. That's to the
- 31:08Speaker 2: level it was. And then in the end of the day,
- 31:11Speaker 2: it looks like with the judgment it takes nothing from
- 31:15Speaker 2: both sides, so it's like just a wat waste of time.
- 31:18Speaker 2: It's over. I like you would be the least one
- 31:23Speaker 2: to actually be able to graduate from law school or
- 31:26Speaker 2: pass the bar as well. I mean I learned at
- 31:30Speaker 2: what this means.
- 31:30Speaker 3: Yeah, I learned a lot just going through a lawsuit.
- 31:33Speaker 3: And you know, a lot of people go after people
- 31:37Speaker 3: legally because they know it's such a process and it's
- 31:40Speaker 3: so draining mentally, physically, emotionally and financially that people pay
- 31:47Speaker 3: them off. And people do this for a living. They
- 31:50Speaker 3: will go after you and try to find a reason
- 31:52Speaker 3: to sue you and then they are expecting you to
- 31:54Speaker 3: pay them off. Well, I'll take you know, fifty thousand.
- 31:58Speaker 2: But also here's the thing. This is if you pre
- 32:02Speaker 2: negotiate an amount, this kind of thing doesn't happen. So
- 32:06Speaker 2: for anybody that's going to go work for anybody. So
- 32:09Speaker 2: like before I hire a babysitter, a nanny, somebody to
- 32:14Speaker 2: give me a massage, whatever the situation is, I ask,
- 32:17Speaker 2: what is your rate? Right right? Because that like for example,
- 32:21Speaker 2: you know, like with glam, would some glam will charge
- 32:24Speaker 2: you five hundred dollars fifty yeah, and I have Then
- 32:29Speaker 2: if I wait and have somebody just do my glam
- 32:32Speaker 2: and then I get an invoice for fifteen hundred dollars,
- 32:34Speaker 2: I'm gonna be pissed, right if I dolt. Yeah, it's
- 32:38Speaker 2: my unfault. It's all advance. It's like me accidentally buying
- 32:42Speaker 2: the sweatshirt yesterday. That's not even that cute because I
- 32:45Speaker 2: was freezing at this meeting I was at and it
- 32:47Speaker 2: was two hundred dollars too. Oh my god, I was freezing.
- 32:52Speaker 2: I was by so I was in a white dress
- 32:56Speaker 2: and I was like tantage freezing, Okay, So I just
- 32:58Speaker 2: ran and grabbed it and then I got signed the
- 33:01Speaker 2: thing and it said two hundred and forty eight dollars.
- 33:02Speaker 2: I almost had a mental break.
- 33:04Speaker 3: This is a airport sweatshirt because I went to New
- 33:10Speaker 3: York in my skims long dress and a jean jacket. Right,
- 33:16Speaker 3: I brought a pair of sweats to sleep. It just
- 33:20Speaker 3: sweat sweatpants and a tiny little tank top.
- 33:23Speaker 2: So that's what I slept in.
- 33:25Speaker 3: Well, after two days in the skims dress, going on
- 33:28Speaker 3: the airplane yesterday, I thought, I'm just wearing my sweats literally,
- 33:31Speaker 3: a tiny tank top and sweats, and I have my
- 33:33Speaker 3: jean jacket on and it wasn't very warm and it
- 33:35Speaker 3: was uncomfortable.
- 33:36Speaker 2: So I went to the airport what do you call
- 33:39Speaker 2: it store and.
- 33:40Speaker 3: Got a twenty five dollars hoodie, which I thought was
- 33:43Speaker 3: quite a steal.
- 33:45Speaker 2: That is yours?
- 33:47Speaker 3: What five dollars in mine? Yeah, and this is what
- 33:49Speaker 3: I wore on the flight. How my black sweats and
- 33:51Speaker 3: this black sweatshirt.
- 33:53Speaker 2: Well, I love it. Thank you guys for tuning in today.
- 33:56Speaker 2: We will be back tomorrow with another episode of two
- 33:58Speaker 2: Teas and a Pod to recap all the things I
- 34:00Speaker 2: talk to. Then Tam mhm