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How I Became A Confident Autistic Adult · Aspergers & Autism Podcast [The Aspie World] AuDHD

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  Hey, I'm Dan, also known as the Aspy world.
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  If you're an autistic adult who wants to become confident, lower
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  anxiety, and have more energy, there's one simple move that can
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  make all of that happen. And I'm going to show you
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  exactly what that is. I know you're probably feeling
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  like Dan. You know, this won't work.
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  And it's, you know, sounds too good to be true.
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  And I honestly, I felt the same way.
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  That was until I broke down a process of analyzing 3 major
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  autistic thought leaders in the world today making massive
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  changes, and I noticed that they all shared very similar
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  instances. Shockingly, autism therapists
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  and coaches have no idea what I'm about to share with you
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  because they believe that building confidence is banging
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  your chest and shouting in the mirror every morning, which in
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  actual fact it's nothing to do with that.
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  Autistic confidence is simply built by doing small changes
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  from yourself that ricochet to the bigger impact of the world
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  around you, which then give you reinforced confidence to then go
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  and do more of that. So this may sound a little bit
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  confusing or a bit difficult to grasp, but I actually broke it
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  down into a very simple formula that I call the bulletproof
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  Brain method. So first you have to pick a
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  routine that you stick to or something that you do.
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  Then you need to pick an ideal space change, then you action
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  the change, and then you repeat this process for another
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  routine. This is super easy, but I'm
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  actually going to show you an example right now.
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  What I mean. So we all have goals in life,
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  and autistic individuals are no different, right?
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  But most of us aren't even achieving even the smallest of
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  our goals because we lack the confidence to do so.
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  And it's a bad cycle of action. You see, if we stick to doing
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  the same thing over and over again and expect a different
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  outcome, we're 100% guaranteed that the outcome that we want is
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  never going to happen. We have to change something.
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  So I've actually given a real life example that I'm going to
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  show you right now. So back when I started YouTube,
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  I wanted to be a person who could help as many autistic
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  people as possible. My routine was just literally
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  making videos on my own. I was very quiet, introverted,
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  meek. The ideal space change was
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  changing the fact that my ideal space was my room.
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  That's where I felt safe to do what I wanted to do.
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  And then I decided to action the change.
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  And the change was go outside of my room, go and do talks
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  publicly, do them locally for charities.
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  And then that led me to do more talks all over the world.
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  And I've visited many countries and been blessed to actually
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  share the stage with some legends in the community.
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  But what this did was it reinforced me that I can and I
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  have the ability to go out and talk in front of people and
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  people really enjoyed that. Which means that they're now I'm
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  helping more people and I'm going towards my goal, which
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  means that I've changed the way in which I attain my goal and
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  push me closer towards that by rewarding myself with
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  confidence. It gave me a boost of confidence
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  that I can actually do something or change something.
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  Those things may sound really small and insignificant, but
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  what they did compounded the belief and the self knowing that
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  if I'm in control of the change, I can change anything I want, or
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  I can conduct my life right. And when you can conduct your
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  life, you then become confident because you determine the
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  outcome. And when you take action towards
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  actually trying to attain your goals, all the fear of rejection
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  and all the other bits and pieces, they diminish because
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  fear can't live in the same space as action.
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  And it's that easy. But if you'd like to be able to
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  become more confident, lower your anxiety and build energy
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