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IS HE FLIRTING OR BEING FRIENDLY?! · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables.
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  Speaker 2: Friendly Yeah yeah, friendly, I think friendly. I hope he's
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  Speaker 2: doing it. Everyone that changed it? Yeah, fuck, you know what?
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  Speaker 2: These are actually hard? You know what?
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  Speaker 1: I see why people are single fact.
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  Speaker 2: Relatable. The Relatables podcast is hosted by myself.
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  Speaker 1: Jake Craig aka Daddy.
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  Speaker 2: With my partner in crime Addie Clark aka Mummy.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome back, everybody and today Jake. I wanted to start
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  Speaker 1: things off to help the listeners out. When I was
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  Speaker 1: a bit younger, a bit of a young women stapp
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  Speaker 1: or some would say, right, I had more, I had
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  Speaker 1: more pepper, your step, my step. I don't know if
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  Speaker 1: I know. I might say I struggled with the opposite
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  Speaker 1: sex to know if they were really into me or not.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe I was on a night out a girl looked
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  Speaker 2: at me. I wouldn't think anything of it. Maybe maybe
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  Speaker 2: I was at the gym.
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  Speaker 1: Girl might have come over and asked if she could
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  Speaker 1: use like that weight equipment after me or something. Didn't
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  Speaker 1: think anything of it.
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  Speaker 2: Just like yeah, yeah, oh yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So today I thought we could help some listeners out
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  Speaker 1: with flirting or friendly situations in real life, and we'll
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  Speaker 1: give an indication whether or not it's flirting or friendly.
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  Speaker 2: I like it. I like it a lot.
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  Speaker 1: So this is from the I G guys, So do
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  Speaker 1: you want me to go first or you you go first?
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  Speaker 2: Okay? Flirting or friendly? Privately messages me about my run
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  Speaker 2: on Strava. Whoa flirting? That is kudos? Friendly? All right?
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  Speaker 2: Kudos is friendly? You've done well? Privately messaging me, Oh,
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  Speaker 2: how was that run?
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  Speaker 1: The only reason why I agree with you? Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: didn't know Strava had a messaging thing you.
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  Speaker 2: Strava's the next dating it. Let me tell you. I
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  Speaker 2: knew it was there. Extra Yah, I do he is flirting.
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  Speaker 2: I think he's working as well. When I first found
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  Speaker 2: out there was a thing on Strama, the first thing
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  Speaker 2: I said to my girlfriend was like, want to have sex?
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to use that flirting or friendly? Giving you
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  Speaker 2: free drinks at the place they work at. Well, that's
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  Speaker 2: tough because so I used to work at a bar.
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  Speaker 2: I'm thinking about it, and I was single when I
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  Speaker 2: was working there, though, so giving a friend a free
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  Speaker 2: drink on my part, I didn't. I didn't even think
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  Speaker 2: anything of it. If it was even a female, like
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  Speaker 2: I was gonna say friendly, friendly, like I think it's
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  Speaker 2: just friendly.
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  Speaker 1: I think this is friendly and buying a drink for
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  Speaker 1: someone else on a night out. Flirting, blirting if you're
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  Speaker 1: the one working.
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  Speaker 2: Hold up, if you're in line with you and another
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  Speaker 2: friend and you're just as good a friends with this
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  Speaker 2: dude and behind the bar. Okay, that's dude, and he
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  Speaker 2: gives you a free drink, but the friend pays.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, that's flirting.
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  Speaker 2: But if you give you guys both a free drink,
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  Speaker 2: he's just being friendly. He's just using his power appropriately. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: yeah he is.
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  Speaker 1: He's using his power appropriately flirting or friendly.
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  Speaker 2: I asked how my day was, out of the blue, Hey,
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  Speaker 2: how's your day? Flirting?
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  Speaker 1: I think so too.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. I feel like I don't care. I don't,
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  Speaker 2: I don't. I think dudes are trash enough to be like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck. How a day was?
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  Speaker 1: I just yeah, I don't see any other approach like, nah,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, not be friendly?
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  Speaker 2: No, no, no, guys have intentions. Yeah s thinking about
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  Speaker 2: it right now? Okay, I because guys actually do kind
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  Speaker 2: of like we're not bad at texting, but I think
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  Speaker 2: a lot of guys don't really like texting. Okay, So
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  Speaker 2: if I'm going through the effort of texting you, I'm
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  Speaker 2: not doing it just to be friendly.
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  Speaker 1: I agree, even even growing up in school thinking about it,
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  Speaker 1: like I was only messaging girls to be like yeah, because.
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  Speaker 2: I liked them. Yeah. Yeah, Like in a couple of messages,
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to be hitting you with So you're busy
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  Speaker 2: this week, you want to catch up.
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  Speaker 1: This one?
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  Speaker 2: Now, I think this was said by a dude flirting
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  Speaker 2: or friendly. My pete smacks my bum if I overtrain
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  Speaker 2: or don't eat enough. He is older and married.
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  Speaker 1: That's not okay. Yeah, what's that thing?
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  Speaker 2: I can't remember?
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  Speaker 1: Maybe was the office or something and that No, it's friends.
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  Speaker 1: Chandler hates his bum beings slapped by his boss. Ye
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  Speaker 1: and yes, yes, and you just know what to do yo.
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  Speaker 2: Firstly, this one sucks because it's a that was mail
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  Speaker 2: to mal This is oh, no, you think this is
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  Speaker 2: mail to male? Oh? I remember playing soccer. Some dudes
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  Speaker 2: love a bum slab. Yeah. Also, in some sports it's
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  Speaker 2: like you've got to buy the team a case of
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  Speaker 2: beer or something if you don't get fully naked in
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  Speaker 2: the showers. Yeah, what weird to get naked? It's supposed
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  Speaker 2: to be like peak male like manliness, testosterone, testosterone, testosterone,
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  Speaker 2: primative state, mate, primitive stage. You guys are crossing sword
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  Speaker 2: tie them together, called.
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  Speaker 1: Docking, docking.
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  Speaker 2: I don't even know that is.
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  Speaker 1: I think that would be I'm going to say friendly.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, guy to guy friendly And if it was guy
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  Speaker 2: a girl your pens report it? Are you doing like
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  Speaker 2: a yeah? If it's got yeah, true.
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  Speaker 1: Flirting or friendly? Giving you a water bottle at the
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  Speaker 1: beginning of every one of your shifts here you need
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  Speaker 1: this today? Friendly, you reckon?
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  Speaker 2: Friendly? Yeah? Yeah, friendly?
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  Speaker 1: I think friendly.
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  Speaker 2: I hope he's doing it every run that changes. Yeah. Fuck,
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  Speaker 2: you know what? These are actually hard? You know what?
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  Speaker 2: I see why people are single fact because because if
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  Speaker 2: he is flirting, he doesn't know how to do it.
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  Speaker 2: If he's flirting, he doesn't know what the fuck he's doing. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: But if he's only doing it to you, whoever sidcely said,
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  Speaker 2: If he's only doing it to you, it's flirting.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Otherwise he's a good boss. Yeah, otherwise he's a
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  Speaker 1: good manager.
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  Speaker 2: Flirting or friendly. He has a girlfriend flirting? Sorry I
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  Speaker 2: was waiting for you to say it. Okay, he has
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  Speaker 2: a girlfriend. But when we're both home from UNI. He
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  Speaker 2: asks me to go for dog walks, just me and him. Flirting,
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  Speaker 2: flirting dog walking. Yeah, it doesn't get that he's about to.
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  Speaker 2: He's about to what's it called concide or confide in
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  Speaker 2: your Yeah, thinking about it. I hated walking my dog.
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  Speaker 2: Hate walking my dog in fact, yeah, like no one
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  Speaker 2: wants to. I like, actually I like taking Henry out
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  Speaker 2: with that. He still give it ten years mate, It's like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I've done this enough. How much do you walk around
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  Speaker 2: the house all day? You have four legs? Very is
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  Speaker 2: too ULTI walk now, So it's going to be loving that, okay,
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  Speaker 2: flirting or friendly sending you a happy New Year's message?
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  Speaker 1: Flirting?
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  Speaker 2: Rec Are you kidding? I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to disagree.
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  Speaker 2: I reckon.
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  Speaker 1: Back in the day, when I was younger, I would
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  Speaker 1: have just sat like on Snapchat happy Happy New Years
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  Speaker 1: and send it to the heaps of people.
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  Speaker 2: And I bear. I guarantee you you were waiting to
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  Speaker 2: see who replied to be like, hey, yeah you too,
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  Speaker 2: Like what's doing I bet yeah, it just never happened.
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  Speaker 2: I don't kiss and tell the mate, I don't kiss
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  Speaker 2: and tell it did not happen, or you miss one. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: I think this is hard. Okay, flirting or friendly always
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  Speaker 2: sitting next to me in a group situation when there
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  Speaker 2: are few options, so there's more than one option. There's
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  Speaker 2: more than one option depends where context I'm going to.
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  Speaker 1: That's tough. Yeah, flirting, I agree. Oh, but then if
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  Speaker 1: you've done it once, it'd be like weird to sit
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  Speaker 1: somewhere else. Like say you go to UNI and there's
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  Speaker 1: heaps his chairs in the hall and he sat next
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  Speaker 1: to you once just because I don't know, we wanted
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  Speaker 1: to say higher. Yeah, and then if he doesn't go
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  Speaker 1: back there, it's kind of like, fuck, do you hate me?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? Like is he overthinking it? And now you're thinking
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  Speaker 2: and he's like, I don't want it to think I'm
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  Speaker 2: flirting because I'm not. But she thinks that I am.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to be rude, and he's like, I
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  Speaker 2: don't want to just that one's I say friendly, I
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  Speaker 2: say we shouldn't. Really, I think I'm going to leave
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  Speaker 2: towards friendly too. This one was a good one. Flirting
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  Speaker 2: or friendly? Asking tips or what closed the buy? And
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  Speaker 2: we're flirting? You reckon if a dude is asking you
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  Speaker 2: what I should.
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  Speaker 1: But sometimes we just need help, like sty wise.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but because I'm flirting, because he's flirting with you,
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  Speaker 2: he wants to talk to you. He's looking for reasons
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  Speaker 2: to talk to you. He probably has enough clothes in
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  Speaker 2: his clothes it and he needs a reason to talk
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  Speaker 2: to you because you're being a dry ass bitch in
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  Speaker 2: the fucking d MS all right.
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  Speaker 1: And he wants to talk to you and takes anything
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  Speaker 1: you can get.
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  Speaker 2: It takes anything he can get. Good point flirting or friendly,
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  Speaker 2: shoulder squeeze at work drinks m I don't know why
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna safe shoulders friendly, So yeah, I think it's
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  Speaker 2: if you did like a lower back or like, you know,
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  Speaker 2: what I think is flirting is like it's so close
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  Speaker 2: to the shoulder, but it's different, So shoulder squeeze friendly.
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  Speaker 2: But if he did like a an upper arm rub,
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, flirt, that's flirt. Yeah, it's different, but it's
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  Speaker 2: so close. Yeah, shoulders not very intimate, that's like what
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  Speaker 2: do you Yeah there, unless you care, unless you're like
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  Speaker 2: keep going and he's like, yeah, I'll give you a
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  Speaker 2: massive obs.
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  Speaker 1: Flirting or friendly tells me to drive home safe after
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  Speaker 1: a party. Friendly, I'm gonna be with you on that one.
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  Speaker 2: Friendly. I think friendly I would say that about I
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  Speaker 2: wouldn't know what to say. D She's like hinting that
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  Speaker 2: you can go with her, and you're just like, she's like,
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  Speaker 2: I'm going home, like I gotta spare seating. You're just like,
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  Speaker 2: get home safe and you go back and you tell
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  Speaker 2: your mates or whatever, and they're just like, you're idiot.
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  Speaker 2: She wanted you to go in the car with that.
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  Speaker 2: She's like she's about to drive home and she's just like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: sometimes my lights don't work, like sometimes my car breaks down.
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  Speaker 2: You're just like, well, fingers crossed, get on safe. That's like,
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  Speaker 2: we're joker. That's something I do it. It's like literally
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  Speaker 2: same okay floating or friendly fake flirting at work?
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  Speaker 1: Oh, that's a thing that you do. Get bored on workshifts.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to say, that's so hard to know. Friendly though, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I reckon it comes under banter.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I think it is is I'm going
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  Speaker 2: to say it's flirting practice. True, it's flirting practice when
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  Speaker 2: you actually want to use it on some of you exactly,
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  Speaker 2: and then the person you're doing it to seize you
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  Speaker 2: use it on the person you're actually like they're like, ah,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not I'm not special at all. I was just
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  Speaker 2: training it. Yeah you don you got more?
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  Speaker 1: I got my last one? Flirting or friendly? He lets
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  Speaker 1: you put mascara or any makeup on him?
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  Speaker 2: Why don't know? Shut up? I don't know. What don't
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  Speaker 2: you talk? Why you're trying to tell me you'd be somewhere.
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  Speaker 2: And let's say you're at like someone's you're at a party.
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  Speaker 2: I'm thinking I'm younger, not as I'm saying you're younger.
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  Speaker 2: You're at a party. How old? Let's say, ad, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you're at a party. Okay, it's a chill party, just
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  Speaker 2: at a friend's house. Like it's not really a party,
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  Speaker 2: just like get together girls there. One of them is like,
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  Speaker 2: oh my god, let me make up on you.
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  Speaker 1: I'll let you finish, but I want to smash.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly. Okay. Last one flirting or friendly? A bop on
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  Speaker 2: the no like friendly, I don't know, touching of the face.
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  Speaker 2: It depends how she did it. If it was like
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  Speaker 2: and like, oh you're cute, aren't you, Well, that's I
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  Speaker 2: don't know flirting. I don't think we helped. Look out.
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  Speaker 2: What about if she's saying to a guy, okay, or like, okay,
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  Speaker 2: what about if I'm saying to a girl I'm single,
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  Speaker 2: I'm saying to a girl, I'm trying to get it.
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  Speaker 2: I'm getting advice on how to talk to a girl
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  Speaker 2: that I want to talk to. Okay, the girl i'm
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  Speaker 2: asking the advice of is like, oh, you'll be fine.
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  Speaker 2: You're cute, she'll love you. Look at you. You cute
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  Speaker 2: as a button box au on the nose friendly. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I was gonna say. I was gonna say, like, could
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  Speaker 2: be it could be flirting.
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  Speaker 1: I would actually take it as an insult because she'd
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  Speaker 1: be like, you touch my nose because it's big, isn't it?
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  Speaker 2: Is that why you did it? Yeah? I'm insecure, right,
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  Speaker 2: I'm insecure.
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  Speaker 1: I had you used to flirt?
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  Speaker 2: When do we ogre? How did I flirt?
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  Speaker 1: But a few girlfriends?
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  Speaker 2: How do you get that? Okay? First of a girlfriend
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  Speaker 2: I had was like, we had known you. We went
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  Speaker 2: to school from year six together, and so in year
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  Speaker 2: six I remember I was walking home from school one
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  Speaker 2: of my friends chasing me, all right, and he's like
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  Speaker 2: yo yo, yo yo yo, like blah blah blah. He's
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  Speaker 2: like I just found out that bleep likes you and bleep,
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  Speaker 2: I had two girls that liked me, all right, it
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  Speaker 2: must be nice. And then he goes He's basically like
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  Speaker 2: telling me which one to choose, all right, And so
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  Speaker 2: then I go the next day. First thing I do
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  Speaker 2: is just ask out the one that he told me
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  Speaker 2: to choose, and it's the you must have really liked it.
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  Speaker 2: And then and then we dated in year six, broke
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  Speaker 2: up and then went to different high schools, ended up
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  Speaker 2: at the same high school. And then I had the
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  Speaker 2: biggest crush on her and we would like FaceTime. Oh no,
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  Speaker 2: we would skype. We would skype every night, and neither
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  Speaker 2: one of us would admit having feelings for the other.
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  Speaker 2: And then went apart. She like kind of broke my
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  Speaker 2: heart because she like got with the dude or something,
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  Speaker 2: went apart, came back again in like year ten, and
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  Speaker 2: this is now, this is when we got together for
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  Speaker 2: the first time, like my you know, you know who
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  Speaker 2: it is. Yeah, And so then we dated for a
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  Speaker 2: couple of years. That's how I got that one second girlfriend,
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  Speaker 2: JJ hooked me up. So AJ just goes, JJ goes on,
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  Speaker 2: she like she used to have a crush on you
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  Speaker 2: or something. Let's go to the movies because he had
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  Speaker 2: a girlfriend at the time and he was friends with her.
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  Speaker 2: So we went to the movies and just what did
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  Speaker 2: I do to flirt with her that night? This is
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  Speaker 2: what I did, Okay. I we went watch a scary
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  Speaker 2: movie that was a double date that he took me on.
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  Speaker 2: I hate scary movies. Sat next to her, ship my
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  Speaker 2: pants the whole time, just like held her hand, fucking
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  Speaker 2: like oh like, I was like this the whole time,
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  Speaker 2: like into her shoulder, and I think it just must
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  Speaker 2: have worked.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, she was like, I like this, little baby boy.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna say it it. I think you had pretty privilege.
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  Speaker 1: That fucking sucks. That's not good.
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  Speaker 2: And then and then with current we went and I
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  Speaker 2: am going to put it down to them. I'm just
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  Speaker 2: a nice guy, man, I took her on a date.
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to say we've uncovered something here. All of
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  Speaker 2: your girlfriends, Beth too, has come because you're initially very
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  Speaker 2: good looking. Yeah, that's actually I don't know. I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: Obviously the substance comes out after a while, and you're
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  Speaker 1: a nice guy.
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  Speaker 2: But I think the flirting I'm giving the initial chance
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: because I'm not the worst thing to look at. Well,
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  Speaker 2: what's your game like?
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  Speaker 1: Uh, checks to the trade mate.
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  Speaker 2: I had to work hard, man, I had to work hard.
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  Speaker 2: I reckon, I'm ugly ugly hot, so I had to
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  Speaker 2: work hard for my fucking hell man, some good chat
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  Speaker 2: you know what you do have is good chat via online? Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: body is like the king of dming in terms of
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  Speaker 2: like not starting it, but just like he's just good
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  Speaker 2: at keeping it going. I suck at it. I gotta
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  Speaker 2: go to voice messages.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm actually all right, but I don't know if
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  Speaker 1: we helped anyone there. But that was flirting off friendly.
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  Speaker 2: Dilemmas. Guys. Jim crushed dilemma but with a twist. Oh sorry,
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: this may be a tad long, but I need mummy
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  Speaker 2: and Daddy's help. So a bit of backstory. I'm a
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  Speaker 2: frequent gym goer, but usually go pretty late at night
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  Speaker 2: because I'm a nurse. Thank you for your service, so
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  Speaker 2: I don't have a normal night to five. That being said,
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  Speaker 2: the gym is usually quiet this time of night, so
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  Speaker 2: I always see the same people there. Well, there's this
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  Speaker 2: one boy man, I suppose, and he's so fine, but
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  Speaker 2: I've never had the balls to approach him. Even though
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  Speaker 2: I see him there multiple times a week, I always
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  Speaker 2: figured he was way out of my league or probably
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  Speaker 2: had a girlfriend, until the other day when I saw
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  Speaker 2: him on Bumble. Oh dear, I'm not sure if you
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: have this in Australia with blah blah blah. So naturally
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: I swipe right and I'm shocked when it's a match.
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: Like I said, the girl has to make the first move,
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: so I have to message him. Sorry. That's in Bumble
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: girl makes first move and then he has twenty four
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: hours to respond or else it expires and we disappear
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: off each other's phone forever. What this is where the
• 17:34
  Speaker 2: dilemma comes in. I messaged him, but he didn't reply
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: within twenty four hours, so it expired and vanished. He
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: obviously liked my profile since we matched, but since he
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: didn't answer my message, I don't know if it was
• 17:44
  Speaker 2: just because he didn't see it in time or because
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: he decided I'm ugly and he's not interested. I can
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: one hundred percent guarantee I'm gonna see him at the
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: gym again in the near future. So this is the
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: pickle I'm in. Should I say something the next time
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: I see him and try to get his number or
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: take the and just pretend it never happened. And if
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: you if you think I should say something, how do
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: I go about it without being weird and saying, oh,
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: remember me that girl you mashed with on Bumble but
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: never messaged? Ah, please help me, guys. I absolutely it's
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: all the Ponty and the two of you, so any
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks. Fuck, this is spiraling.
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: It's like a tornado, mate, It's a fucking tornado. Firstly,
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: I didn't realize it is Bumble owned by like some
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: weird man. Bumble's clearly owned by a dude that didn't
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: get girls, what like girls have the message first, and
• 18:35
  Speaker 2: then there's twenty four hours like who's on the dating apps?
• 18:38
  Speaker 2: Like I've got a message quick? Bumble is owned or
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: created by a marketing genius male that didn't get girls
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: growing up, so he so he made it so they've
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: got a message you first, and he marketed it like
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: a fucking genius.
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: It's crazy that whoa Okay, But to the dilemma, I
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: think it's quite the easy conundrum if you ask me,
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: so you know she's at the gym. I also thought
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: it was funny, Like you know how everyone goes to
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: the gym at like pretty much the same time every day.
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: I'm like a routine two o'clock guide. But in my
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: world at the gym, like it's only the same people
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: every single time. But this gym could have hundreds of
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: other people I've never seen before.
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like this nurse. You ever go to the gym
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: and you think like, oh, you know this is my gym? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: But but there's people that go at a different time
• 19:25
  Speaker 2: do you every day that you've never seen where they
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: like they probably think like, oh, this is my and
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: you're like, no, no, that's not. Like I own the
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: gym from like one thirty to three and then and
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: then and then like one day you both got mid
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: day and you're probably just thinking to him like that
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: guy's like really thinks He's like.
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: The yeah, it's like fuck off.
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: See we're smiling it out and yeah, this is funny.
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: This is what girls do.
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: So girls think, does he like me, how do I
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: mentione where like I own this gym? But I think
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: for this girl's easy conunder him. Don't do whatever she
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: said at the end, she's like, hey, you remember me,
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: don't say that. Don't say that we've we've had this before.
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: You're in the gym, you're working out. Wait, I think
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: near the end of his session. You're obviously planning it
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: the whole time. Who cares about your session? That's this
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: sessions are right, all right, you're in your own head.
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: You see him next time you see me, like, okay,
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: we're on. You start building your confidence up for at
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: least like the next half. Now you need to do that.
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: It's hype up music you know able to do, and
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: then you want to do it either time it between
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: his sets. You don't want to get him when he's
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: like puffed and fucked or at the end of his
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: session when he's like winding down and can see him
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: doing a bit of core. He's just chilling out, so
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: you want to go up to him. And it's more
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: it's better when he's leaving or like see him. You
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: don't want to see him after him be like, oh,
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: I agree, see when he's like leaving and you just
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: want to go up to him. And this is where
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: I need you to help. Okay, what do we say?
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: I thought you find this whole game plan. I thought
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: you were going to tell me. I thought we're going
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: to come up with a good x OKA. Basically. First off,
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: first started game plan is we're saying yes, you have
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: to do it, saying yes you have to do it okay,
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: And secondly, timing wise, if you're at the gym together,
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: wait until yeah, he is he's leaving.
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: I remember I've done I've talked to a girl before
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: at the gym like egees ago. I used to see
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: there all the time and I'd say heart at the start,
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: and then you just walk past each other all the time.
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: It's so awkward, like you like catch each other looking
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: at him like yuh, do you wonder when he's leaving?
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: Definitely? Because also if you did it at the start
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: and he says no to works out in the gym together, what.
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: About this could be too bold just being like I've
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: seen you been working hard, how's your session?
• 21:35
  Speaker 2: Oh what do you will? Okay? Well, genuinely, what would
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: you do if a girl came up to you. You're
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: single and you're leaving the gym and a girls came
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: up to him, She's like and she's like kind of
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: just up front, like especially the same situation, Yeah, swiped
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: on bumble, but you didn't messag your in time.
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't read into that at all. When I I've
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: been on Tinder before, I've never used bumble, but like,
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't go on there for weeks?
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: No, yeah exactly what for hours? He probably just hasn't
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: been Yeah, yeah, yeah, ah. I would say, well would
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: you ca What would you do if they just came
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: up and they were like kind of just super upfront,
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: I like I.
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: Would have swept off my feet.
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: I would like, when are you gonna Can you just
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: hurry up and ask me.
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: For my number?
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: Ooh that's very bold.
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: But the thing, oh, the thing is the fact that
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: he liked her on bumble means he's probably attracted to her.
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: Well yeah, surely.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: If I'm attracted to her and she says that to me,
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: I'll be like, right now, that's.
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: So yeah true. I think you've kind of you know,
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: he thinks you're attractive. Yeah, you could go straight up
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: to him and just be like, hey, hey, when are
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: you gonna ask me for my number? Already?
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: You could do the classic. It's kind is this still cringe?
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: I remember this just to be a thing back in
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: the day, just be like, oh, you go up. This
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: is kind of funny. Actually, here we go. So you
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: go up and be like, oh, I've I see you
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: in the gym, fair bit, do you mind like checking
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: out my session and making sure it's good? I see
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: you know what you're doing and handing your phone and
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: it's got contacts in it.
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: Shit, that's good too. That's going to get confident. Last,
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: but not least all, Right, go to the gym thirty
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: minutes earlier than normal and leave thirty minutes before him.
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, here's in her court.
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: Here, here's what you're gonna do. I know for a
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: fact you know what car he tries. I know you
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: don't even have to figure this out. I know you
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: know on the car. Leave a note in the car
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: your number, your number, okay, and then right you know
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: who it is. We've given her three very good tips. Yeah,
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: surely one of these ways your number, and then you
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: know who it is.
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: See the confidence wise, I would only have the balls
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: to do the note. In fact, the fact she's on
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: bumbledo and likeing men, I reckon she's going to go
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: throughout one or two? Well she's got three off yeah,
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: and the third one is just like the safest. Yeah,
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: send this a message how goes ickon? I reckon like
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: kind of like fucking bold.
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: For yours is bold? Yeah? Do you mind? Like yeah,
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: just like checking out my sessions seems good, blah blah.
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: It just says contact, that's fucking imagine. He's like, oh,
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: it's not the right thing. And then even if it's
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: especially on your notes, because it's not the right thing,
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: you go one further step and then on the contact
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: you'll be like a new boyfriend. Bro, that's crazy. I
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: actually think we've helped out girl. I think we've helped
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: her out too. We're telling you from a guy's mind.
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah, what would work? Understand all of that would.
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And like seriously, the worse thing that's going to
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: happen is it just doesn't fucking work out, and then
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: you're now this boss ass bitch And it's better knowing,
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: Like it's better to know that you tried and then
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: you could fall in love. Then you go to the
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: gym for months and months more being like, fuck, what
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: if we did have a thing together.
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: It's better to know, and then you change gyms when
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: he says.
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: No, definitely you have to. You have to guys, it
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: is time to play make them says it's his turn o.
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: Jake did very well last time.
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: It's and now we had someone. We had a lovely
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: listener named Anna. Yeah, send us the words she wanted
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: us to say. Platypus. He's odd. This his level impossible,
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: his level impossible. All right, oh man, So we're recording
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: this on a Saturday. We're calling one of our friends, Finn.
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: I think I have an inn. The only reason this
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: is okay, because Finn calls about anything. He asked me
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: to come watch the Foot today. Okay, so that's that's
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: my inn.
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: That's good.
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: So I'm going to say, pretend.
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: I want to go. I don't want to go.
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: Okay, I don't even know my approach plus okay it
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: Hello a man, what's going on?
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: Hello?
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: No call oh ship, Sorry man, I've left my thing
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: on from the potty.
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: It's oddie.
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: What are you doing?
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: We called someone earlier today in the party. That's what
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: it's on.
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: No caller, I wait, Kamy man, that's what that's why
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: you answered so professionally. Yeah, I was freaking out.
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: What are you doing?
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: I'm just driving and just try Yeah, I'm aloud to
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: go with tourist play.
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: Oh yes, I was gonna ask about what time is
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: he playing Redies the first first right first grade?
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: What time is that? Three? Very? Oh?
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: Interesting, interesting, I'm like, meet you love your Yeah, man,
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: Craigs might come j J was just over before we
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: might come down.
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: Now.
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: I wanted to ask you, actually, I think you might
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: be the right person, because you got a missus. Cassie
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: really wants to go to the zoo and.
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: I can't do it. Sorry, Fin, you know what I
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: was gonna say. I'm gonna say, you just have to
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: look at you. I didn't call someone else.
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: That's who I could have to bring up the platypus.
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: Well, we'll call someone else. Is Ben playing or is he?
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: What's been doing?
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Benny's playing?
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: Now who else could we call?
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: I say, it fails, fails, funny? That was so good?
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: How do you bring up the suit man? Good? How's uh?
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: At what point did you think this guy's sucking with me?
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: I actually had no idea what that's all? He was
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: going so good? I say we leave this. He we
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: can't make a fail. It is what it is. He
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: He just fucking goes on for like, I don't know
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: what he was talking about. I was trying to think
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: him away.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: I had to make you say the word platypus, and
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: I was trying to think of a way to like
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: ask if you've been to the zoo with your girlfriend
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: and if they had platypus.
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: Asked man, I would have said it. I would have
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: gone the new dude, we have a shoestore called platyfors here.
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: Damn, mat fuck damn, that's a foul, that's a fail.
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: That was just the way to get you talking, mate,
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: I'm not coming.
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: That was That was hard. That was hard.
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: That has to that's level of impossible. We need like
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: a medium word.
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think planet was is hard, bro, not really. Actually,
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: if you went the shoe route, was my if I
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: just started talking about the zoo, like what the fuck? Yeah,
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: well okay, that was gonna work. And it's hard to
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: randomly bring up the zoo. That's the thing that's hard.
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: It's like, if you could get onto the zoo topic,
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: like and he's not like, funk, what are you talking about?
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: That means that you could be like do they have
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: the fucking have they got what are they called it?
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: And then he's like what he's like because you want
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: to make sure, but how do you get on the
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: zoo topic.
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: I expected better from myself.
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: You did good when we did it with Ben. Yeah,
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: I know that's unfortunate, but well send in your words.
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: Guys.
• 29:07
  Speaker 2: We need to get a win mate.
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: You know, we need a level with possible. We need
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: like from you or something.
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: Thanks for listening, everybody, don't forget to go start up
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: to Patreon if you guys want some more. You know
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: what to do and what to do.
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: If you're listening during your hot girl walk or maybe
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: you're at the gym, tag us in your stories let
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: us know you're listening. Yep, we're starting a community. Thanks
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: to everyone who does that. But otherwise we will see
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: you on Wednesday.
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: B