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Ep 55. Manifesting Starts Here (Not Where You Think) · The Manifestation Station

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You're listening to the Manifestation Station podcast.
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I'm your host, Holly Edwards, and together we can help create your magic.
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Hello, you gorgeous manifestors. Welcome back to another episode of the Manifestation
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Station, where we are talking everything, life hacks, positivity.
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Things that are going to make your life feel easier, more content.
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And just, do you know what I would love for everybody listening to this podcast?
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To just find their flow in life.
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When you hit your manifesting sweet spot,
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it feels so good and it doesn't mean that you know we're not dealing with life's
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struggles or things that go wrong but you know what when you find your sweet spot.
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You can deal with those things so much easier. You know, once you realize how
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powerful manifesting is, you really realize.
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It's like you get given a gift.
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Once you get this, once you realize how to manifest, you are armed with a gift.
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It is that simple. And I guarantee you that it can make your life feel happier.
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And actually guys you're
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going to be living your dream life and it gives you the
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hope to know that if you are
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in a spot of bother or you're feeling stuck or
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you're in a situation at the moment where you want more you
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want better this gives you hope knowing that actually you can use manifestation
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to really help build the life of your dreams so there we go guys welcome back
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and to all of our newbies as well. Hello and welcome. It's 2026.
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We are glad to have you here. Now, when I was thinking about what should I do
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our episode on today, we've done some goal setting in January.
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Everybody's finding the flow of kind of their feet and what they kind of want
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to do in January and this year and who they want to be.
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I don't want to overwhelm you.
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Everyone I speak to at the moment. I get flooded with DMs and friends of mine
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and clients of my one-to-one manifesting clients.
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Everybody feels like they have to find their feet again is what I'm feeling in January.
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They're kind of like, oh, where do I start? Or I feel like I've lost my way
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or I need to do some manifesting work. And I hear you.
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I hear you guys. Now, I put out a story on my Instagram the other day and I
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said, guys, I'm going to do some questions. I'm going to answer your questions.
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Now, I am going to do a whole episode soon on your manifesting questions.
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So if you do have any specifically, please do send them to me.
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You can get in touch via my Instagram. I'm at the hollyedwards and at the dot
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manifestation station.
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Please feel free to slide into my DMs. Even if it's specific to you,
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that's cool because I'm going to do an episode coming up answering all of your
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manifesting questions.
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However, today, I have had a lot of questions recently saying, where do I start?
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I want to manifest, but where do I start? Now, sometimes on social media or,
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you know, there are so many self-help books or things online that are kind of going, do this,
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you know, wake up at 5am, start doing your visualizing, do your gratitude,
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make sure you journal, drink water.
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And sometimes we go, oh my goodness, there is so much to do.
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And it can feel actually a little bit overwhelming.
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And I believe that we, I'm going to call it something like, I believe we can
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kind of do, kind of, we can get self-help burnout.
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And this is me included. Listen, guys, I'm a manifesting coach.
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I'm writing a manifesting book and I host a manifestation podcast, right?
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I live, breathe, eat, and talk about manifestation to anybody who will listen.
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I coach people to manifest.
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I live it. I love it. I believe in it. It works.
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But there are times when I have to strip everything back and take it back to
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basics because life gets involved.
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Life happens to us all. And doesn't it? Sometimes we are overwhelmed.
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Sometimes things happen in life we can't control, we can't stop, we can't micromanage.
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So sometimes I have to strip it all back even though I know all of the steps
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and I have to start back to the basics.
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So whether you are new to manifesting or you're feeling a little overwhelmed
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or you feel like you need to just drop a few steps back and start at the basics.
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Because let me tell you guys, if you can master the foundations,
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the key steps of manifesting or even just the bare basics, your life will improve tenfold.
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You will already start manifesting with ease.
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And also, if you are new, by the way, welcome.
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And this is also going to be very much for
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you if you're going where do I start with this manifesting malarkey
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you know I'm telling you guys things that you can do
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every week and I hope they inspire you I never want
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to overwhelm you and actually that is what this podcast about is about the manifestation
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station is all about simple steps that you can do simple kind of inspirations
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that I want to give you every week that you go, oh,
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and maybe you just pick out one thing that I say.
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And that's good enough to kind of carry you through that week,
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that month, maybe just the day.
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And that's why I keep it really, really simple. And that's why I want to take it back to basics today.
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So some of you might be thinking, where do I actually start with manifesting?
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I've got this specific thing I want to manifest. Where do I even start? Am I doing it right?
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Why does it feel so confusing? Am I following the rules? Have I made a mistake
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because it hasn't happened yet? And I get it.
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And like I say, sometimes we can feel overwhelmed. I hope I'm not doing that to you. I really do.
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And like I say, a lot of my tips and tricks and life hacks are.
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You don't have to be doing all of them every day. We also have to live.
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We also have to get by. We're doing school runs. We're keeping up a home.
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We're trying to get our dream bodies for summer.
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We're taking the kids to school. We're trying to show up as the best wifey.
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Maybe we're dating. Whatever we're doing, don't worry.
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I'm going to ground you today and I'm going to get you to a starting point.
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And if you also are a really good manifester, I'm here to strip it back today.
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Like I said, if I feel that overwhelming burnout or if I just want to start
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again, you're in the right place today.
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And what I want to tell you, first of all, what I tell all of my one-to-one
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manifesting clients is manifesting starts with awareness. It's not about doing more.
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And that's the thing. Sometimes it feels like you're kind of,
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you know, at the start line, say like the horses and they're released out of
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the gate and you've got to go trampling over the ground, running as fast as
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you can to get to the finish line. And that's not the case.
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Sometimes just the awareness of our thoughts and the way that we are living
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more intentionally, sometimes that is all we need to do.
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And if that is one place to start with manifesting, that is it,
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guys. It is awareness. This is not...
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Forcing positivity. It's not pretending that everything is fine and that we're
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going to put our blinkers on and go, it's fine.
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I can't see that I'm struggling to pay the bills or that I'm single.
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I'm going to be single forever.
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And it's not manifesting harder. This is simply just noticing.
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That is it because most people don't realize that they are manifesting all day long.
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You are manifesting without even realizing
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it through your thoughts through your
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reactions during the day through your assumptions and
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here is your key thing you don't attract what you want this is the big eye-opener
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guys you don't attract what you want wouldn't that be easy wouldn't that be
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blooming lovely universe if there is something we wouldn't want wouldn't it
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be lovely if they just went, here we go. Here we go, Holly.
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I have delivered your 1 million pounds, your best-selling manifesting book.
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Here you go. It's all on a plate.
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What you actually attract is what you focus on. So it's not what we want.
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We're not just wishing and hoping.
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It is attracting what we focus on.
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So if, this is the big one, guys, this is where the awareness comes in.
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If you're thinking, oh I don't
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want to be poor I don't be struggling to pay the
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bills I don't want to be single forever I don't want to feel like this anymore
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here is the key your brain doesn't hear the don't it doesn't hear the don't
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all your brain hears is it hears bro lonely stuck.
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And it goes, it's not trying to interfere. It's not trying to,
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the universe isn't punishing you.
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But actually, your brain is just listening to what you're telling it.
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So I always think of the example that if you are constantly going,
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I don't want to be late. I don't want to be late. I don't want to be late.
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Your brain just is late. The universe is late.
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And you attract what you focus on. So all you're going to get is to be late.
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It is that simple. So your brain goes, well, so whatever you're telling it,
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yes, I'm broke. I'm lonely. I'm stuck.
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Your brain goes, okay, no worries. I'm going to give you a little bit more of that. Here we go.
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I'm going to give you more reasons to be broke, more reasons to feel lonely
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and more reasons to feel stuck.
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Isn't that mind blowing when you think about it? And that is why awareness is everything.
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It's not to be judging yourself, to beat yourself up.
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It's just noticing. I don't want you to go, oh my gosh, I've been doing it all wrong.
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I've been, I don't know, attracting all the things that I'm focusing on,
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all my bills that I can't pay, my bad, you know, my bad relationship.
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I don't want you to beat yourself up just to notice.
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That's it. That's all you need to do right now. Think about it and think,
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what am I repeatedly thinking about?
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Because the moment you become aware, you are being granted this gift,
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this secret gift that I'm letting you in on today. You're already changing things.
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So if you get nothing more out of this podcast today and you simply go,
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ah, actually, this is quite interesting. I am always moaning and thinking about
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how much money I don't have in my bank.
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I am scared when I open my bank account. I do wish I always had more money these
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are the things where you become aware you are already changing things.
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So the big thing is, now that you're sort of aware and you're going to be paying
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a little bit more attention, you need to think about, it's not about wanting more.
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And this is the key. Now, we're starting at the basics and you're saying,
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Holly, help me. How do I manifest?
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The first thing we are doing is becoming aware.
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Okay, we've figured that out now. It's also not about wanting more.
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It's about enjoying more now. so you
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will find your manifesting sweet spot you will
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manifest with ease without even trying if
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you start living your life
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now if you start appreciating your day-to-day life now now how do you do that
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guys it's really simple start factoring in and making it a priority that you
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are putting things in your diary,
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in your day-to-day routine that make you smile, that make you feel happy.
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And this doesn't mean that you go and have to book a £10,000 trip to Dubai.
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Don't let me stop you if that's what you want to do. But what I mean is it is simple.
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If you start enjoying your day-to-day, enjoying the moment now,
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romanticizing your life now, it doesn't have to cost money.
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That's my big kind of thing I want to put in there, the big clause.
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It doesn't have to cost money.
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You start enjoying those things now. What happens?
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That awareness is coming away from what we don't have.
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We're starting to appreciate and show gratitude for our everyday life now.
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But we're also prioritizing ourselves. What can I do today that is going to
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make me feel a little bit happier?
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Now, I've been having like a right old time at the moment. I've got many,
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many things going on and I'm juggling.
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And I thought at the weekend, I thought, what can I do? what can I do at the
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weekend that is going to fill my cup I need to fill my cup with kind of lots of wholesomeness.
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I thought about who fills my cup.
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I'm going to spend some time with my sister and my mum.
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We fill each other's cup and we
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talk to each other and we laugh with each other. I thought I'll do that.
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I'm going to get outside and I'm going to move and I'm going to appreciate my
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lovely walk with the sun on my face. It wasn't raining.
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I'm going to appreciate going outside, appreciate my surroundings.
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I'm going to take myself off for a coffee and sit in the sun.
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Yes, it's cold in the UK but I thought I'll sit
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in the sun and I'm planning this weekend already and I thought
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I found a lovely yoga class in a
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big manor house near me and I'm like do you know what that is
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going to fill my cup I'm going to book that yoga class and I'm actually guys
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I'm not going to make excuses and go oh I shouldn't do this or shouldn't say
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this but do you know what I've also done I've booked myself a massage because
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do you know what January is always about squeezing the purse strings and oh, I've got, you know,
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just lots of, I've got lots of things to do.
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I've got lots of admin things to do. I've got lots of house things to do.
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And I thought, no, I need to fill my cup.
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I am doing everything I can to get lots more kind of rewarding experiences out of my days.
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And yes, I'm going to put myself a massage. I'm going to spend the day at this manor house.
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I'm going to have lunch there and I'm going to do yoga in the morning.
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I'll get my other bits done at home as and when. But also, like I say,
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it's about the small things. What can you do today?
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Maybe you're on your way to work and you're thinking, well, I can't do anything great today.
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What can you do to make yourself smile today?
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Is it going and getting yourself your favourite lunch? Is it going and intentionally walking into work?
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Now, I do this sometimes. I intentionally go into work and I go.
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I'm going to be magic today. I'm going to be the magic today.
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I'm going to make someone's day amazing today.
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Maybe you're going to give someone a compliment. Maybe you're going to manifest
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something really amazing into your day-to-day.
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Maybe you're going to make your work experience fun. Maybe you think I'm going
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to really connect with that colleague today.
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Whatever it is, just think, what can I do and how can I enjoy my life now?
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Now, I've done an episode in the past about romanticizing your life.
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That's about elevating and making the ordinary extraordinary.
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So that means that sometimes I come in and I'll cook a really nice dinner and
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I light my favorite candles and I get out the lovely cutlery and I lay the table
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and I feel like I'm in a five-star restaurant, guys.
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And that's just simply my dinner, you know?
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So it's about what can we do to romanticize? Draw yourself a bath,
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have a lovely evening where you put on a face mask and put your favorite body
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oils on, like whatever that means for you.
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The big one is that manifestation is not about desperately needing change in
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your life because that can feel so huge and overwhelming.
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And in fact, it's that energy is often, it does the opposite.
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When you're constantly thinking, I will be happy when?
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I will be happy when I meet my dream partner. I will be happy when I get my
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dream job with my dream bank balance.
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I will relax when I've done this. My life will start when dot, dot, dot.
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You're telling yourself that this moment is not good enough,
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that you are not finding the happiness, the contentment, the peace in your every day right now.
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And the universe kind of goes, whoa, whoa, whoa.
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Look in front of you, give the gratitude and make the most of your life.
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Guys, we have one chance. We have one life.
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And there is someone on this earth taking
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their last breath at this very moment wishing
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they had another day wishing they had
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another day where they could go and walk and run in the rain and get muddy and
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filthy rather than us staying indoors go I hate the weather and it's so cold
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in the UK there is someone else wishing wishing they could go to their coffee
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shop and get one more coffee and sit outside in the sun.
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There was someone wishing that they could go and sit and watch Netflix and read
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a book or whatever it is that you want to do.
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And the truth is, the more that you resist where you are now,
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the more you focus on everything you haven't got, the more you focus on desperation
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of needing change, the harder it feels to move forward.
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It's like you're pulling yourself forward, carrying these huge heavy weights,
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when actually if you release them and you cut those ties, you're your own boss.
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You find your flow, you find your contentment, you find your happiness,
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you find your manifesting sweet spot.
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And you know what happens when you find your manifesting sweet spot?
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You start attracting everything that you want to attract into your life.
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And that's the thing. That is the key.
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Manifestation actually starts when you ask,
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How can I enjoy my life a little more right now?
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So for all of those saying to you, where do I start? How do I strip it back
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and go back to the start? Okay, so we're becoming aware.
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We're aware of our thoughts. And then you're asking the question,
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how can I enjoy my life a little more right now?
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Now, I'm sorry, guys, but if you're going, I don't have time to manifest.
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I know a lot of people and a lot of clients who say, oh, I don't have the time
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to start yet. I'll start soon.
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I'll start when I've got that project out the way. I'll start once my house renovation is done.
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Guys, you don't need a time to start.
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You can start this very, very moment. How can you enjoy your life a little more right now?
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Not in a fake way, just in a gentle, real, honest way.
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So some examples, I've told you maybe this is romanticizing your morning coffee.
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It's going for a walk without your phone or
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maybe it's listening to your favorite podcast aka the
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manifestation station perhaps it's making
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your space feel nicer it's decluttering maybe
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it's making yourself a lovely corner in your home for a home office maybe it's
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saying no to something that you don't want to do and I often think this this
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is another good place to start is that dream have a think about your dream life?
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What does it look like? How do you feel?
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You know, what is it that you want to attract? Think about yourself in that
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life and then start saying no to things that don't align with it.
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That's a really simple step that you can start today.
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It's also letting yourself rest without guilt.
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If I could tell you how much, when I've been on my manifesting journey,
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I've been doing it for 20 years, but I'd say in the last 10 years,
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it has just surcharged to another level.
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When I tell you that I realized that rest, resting without guilt is a priority.
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It's a form of self-care. It's a way to surcharge your manifestation.
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And this isn't resting in your dirty PJs, scrolling on your phone,
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not feeling very good and feeling anxious.
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This is kind of allowing yourself to rest.
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It's yes, you've got some things done, you've gone out, maybe you've worked,
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maybe you haven't, but you are allowing yourself, you're giving yourself the day and saying,
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you know what, rest is really important and
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we are in January at the moment we are still in a
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time for hibernation I can't say that enough but
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it's also allowing yourself to rest showing the universe
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that you allow yourself to rest without guilt shows the
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universe you take yourself seriously that you prioritize yourself
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and the universe will bring you more things that align
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with that gentle energy more reasons to make
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you feel peaceful and calm and content and enjoying your life now it sends a
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powerful message it says i'm safe i'm okay i don't need to chase i don't need
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to chase i attract isn't that lovely now that energy guys is magnetic.
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Now, the next thing you can do if you want to start afresh and you're starting
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out with your manifesting is to clean up your inner dialogue.
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I kind of feel like this slightly goes hand in hand with your awareness,
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but this is a huge part of manifesting.
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So it's probably the most important part of manifesting.
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And it's like, again, in my one-to-one sessions, this is what I normally do
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in our first session. and it comes before affirmations, before vision boards,
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before anything else and it's about your inner voice.
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What are you telling yourself on a constant day-to-day basis?
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Like most people don't realize like how harsh they speak to themselves, their inner dialogue.
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It's constant and it's like a quiet ongoing commentary and it is kind of like
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our subconscious has these thoughts,
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these feelings, these kind of, these commentaries that just go silently in the back of the head.
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And maybe you're kind of saying, oh, I always mess things up.
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Nothing ever works out for me. I feel like I'm behind.
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I should be further along. We're comparing our journeys with everyone else.
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And the thing is, you don't even notice it anymore. This just feels normal.
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And a lot of people, I speak to so many people, they're like,
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oh, God, yeah, you know, I love this manifesting, but it just doesn't work for me.
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You know, I don't believe I'm ever going to find anyone or meet my soulmate.
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It just doesn't work out for me.
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Or I don't believe that I can leave my nine till five and bring a load of money in with my own business.
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It just doesn't work for me. now if you
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think about it you probably know by now
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with the law of attraction that you are attracting what you
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think what you feel and what you
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talk about if you're in a dialogue your subconscious
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is churning out these thoughts on a day-to-day basis and the universe is just
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picking up on the nothing works out for me the universe goes okay no worries
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nothing works out for you I'll bring you more people and experience to prove
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to you that nothing works out for you.
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So the first step isn't changing. Again, it ties in with our awareness. It's just noticing.
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Start catching your thoughts. That's it. That's all I'm asking you to do.
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And when you notice one that feels heavy or unkind, don't fight it.
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Just soften it. That's it. Notice it.
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Notice how many times they are creeping into that lovely little subconscious
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of yours. and when you notice one that feels heavy turn it into something soft.
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For example if you're the person that is constantly saying nothing ever works
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out for me just soften it and say things are starting to work out in ways I can't see yet.
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I'm not even asking you to turn around and go everything works out for me.
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Now that's an affirmation.
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I love that affirmation. We love the affirmation everything
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is working out for me but at this point where we
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are stripping it right back to the start if you
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feel like that's really forced to say everything is
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working out for me then just turn it
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into that nothing ever works out for me turns into
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things are starting to work out in
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ways I can't see yet kind of
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tunes into our subconscious our inner dialogue just
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saying no no no we're not going down
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that route I might not be able to
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see the end goal yet but I'm going to trust that things
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are working out in ways that I can't even see yet
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or maybe if you're saying I'm so behind
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in life you're thinking that you're behind on your timeline just say to yourself
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I'm on my own timeline and you trust that own timeline I'm on my own timeline
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how much nicer is that i feel calm i feel soft i feel gentle just saying it out loud.
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And if you constantly say, I'll never get what I want, just turn that into,
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I'm learning how to create the life that I want.
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It's that simple. You're not there yet. We're not fully fledged manifestors
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of saying, you know, I create the life I want every day.
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Yes, you will get to that. I promise you, you will. But I'm learning.
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We're being easy. We're being kind to ourselves.
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We are tuning in, we are becoming aware, we are noticing and we are softening.
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We are softening that inner commentary that is kind of damaging our manifestations.
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You're not lying to yourself, you're just gently redirecting and over time,
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my goodness, over time that changes everything.
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And I want you to also think about how you want to feel.
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Here's like a really grounding question. I say this to everybody I meet.
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How do you actually want to feel? Not what you want to have.
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What's your wish list? It's not like giving your Christmas list and saying all
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the things that you want for presents.
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It's not even saying what do you want to achieve.
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All I want you to do is ask yourself, how do you want to feel day to day?
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Because it's not just about the big things. It's not about the end goal of getting
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the soulmate. It's not the end goal of having a million pounds in your bank.
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How would you like to feel on a day-to-day basis?
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Calm, confident, secure, excited, free?
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How do you want to feel? Because once you know that, trust me,
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all of a sudden, your decisions become so much clearer.
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And if you want to feel calm, then think about, what is it that's stealing my peace right now?
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What can you say no to that is kind of disaligning yourself from feeling calm?
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Or if you want to feel confident, like where are you dimming yourself?
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Where are you keeping yourself small? What would confidence look like you today?
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And that's all I want you to do. How do you want to feel? And then maybe start
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unraveling by thinking, what is it that's disrupting my peace?
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What is it that's holding me back financially? And then you can start to kind
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of figure out maybe little tweaks that might help you to kind of just maneuver
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out of that current space of feeling stuck.
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Manifestation becomes so much simpler when you stop chasing outcomes and you
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start choosing feelings.
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Because sometimes we can't even
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work out what the end goal is sometimes we can't work
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out what it is that we actually want but if
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we start with how we want to feel all of
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a sudden it makes so much more sense if you want to feel calm every day okay
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well what can I do to increase my calm on a day-to-day basis it is that simple
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and then it's the case of your awareness of what trains you and it's another
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huge part of manifesting.
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It's this realization of now that you know what you want to feel,
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like what's draining me?
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What is the energy that is pulling me down?
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And that sometimes it's certain people around you.
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Maybe it's certain habits that are holding you back. Maybe it's comparing yourself
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to other people and their timelines.
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I always say comparison is the thief of joy.
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Maybe it's saying yes to situations you know
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that you don't want to be in and maybe it's
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constantly living in survival mode all of the
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time and you don't have to cut everything
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out overnight remember this is us going back to basics these are really basic
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steps that any of you can do at the moment you can strip this all right back
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go back to basics or if you're new to it these are really simple you don't have
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to cut everything out just notice what is making me feel heavy.
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What drains me? Maybe grab a notepad and think, what drains me?
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What makes me feel smaller? Is it people? Is it experiences?
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Is it day-to-day habits in your life? Your awareness will create choice and
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choice will create your change.
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It is that simple.
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And the other thing that you can do if you're starting out or you're stripping
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it back, and it is so simple, is small daily habits.
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I am going to write a book about small daily habits because this is the key to change.
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This is the key to manifesting. It's not huge overwhelm.
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And the way what happens is a lot of people, they say to me, well, how do I start?
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How do I start manifesting? But also, how do I stay consistent?
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Because some people, they get released out of the gate and they're like,
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right, go, go, go. And I'm journaling. I'm doing my gratitude.
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And I'm getting up at four in the morning. I'm doing all of this exercise.
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But actually, we reach that burnout.
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We reach self-care burnout. And it's actually small daily habits,
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simple daily habits that you can stay consistent with.
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And this is where we go wrong. We're trying to do too much and we're keeping it simple.
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And that's what we do here at the manifestation station we keep
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it simple and here's a realistic no
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pressure starting point for you in the
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morning just ask yourself how do I want to
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feel today and that's what I do quite often I
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get up very early for work when I'm filming I also I design the hair and makeup
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in film and tv I have very early mornings and sometimes you feel tired or you
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feel overwhelmed and I say to myself I give myself a good talking to in the
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morning maybe it's in the shower or while I'm brushing my teeth and I'm like,
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how do I want to feel today?
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Sometimes I go, you know what? I want to feel energized today or I want to feel
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sociable today. I want to feel like magic today. I want to feel magnetic.
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And you tell yourself, you set that intention in the morning,
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how do I want to feel today?
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And during the day, you can notice your thoughts. It's that simple.
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These are the steps that you can do to follow what we've just spoken about today.
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During the day, just notice and tap into your thoughts.
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And remember to gently direct them when needed.
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And maybe in the evening, you could just ask yourself, think of one thing that went well today.
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That's all you need to do. what was one thing that really went well today?
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Did you perform well in a meeting? Did you have a really good conversation with
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someone today? Did you do something good at work today?
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Did you have a great moment with your kids today? Did you do some great parenting today?
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What did you do that you think went really well today?
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And that is it. We've not got like a 20 step routine for you to follow.
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You don't have to fill up your journal.
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There's no burnout. There's no pressure.
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Consistency beats intensity every single time. And that is what I want you to remember.
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There is no burnout here. Don't allow yourself to overwhelm yourself.
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Remember, what can you do today that makes your life more enjoyable on a day-to-day basis?
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Small moments to romanticize your day. if
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you get to the evening and you haven't done anything for you
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you haven't romanticized your day you haven't enjoyed your
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day do one thing before you go to bed what is it is it writing something in
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your journal is it giving yourself a little foot spa is it putting a face mask
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on is it listening to a podcast is it meditating for 10 minutes is it having
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a bath is it having a walk going around the block and having a walk whatever you do you.
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Just enjoy something in your day-to-day basis you're
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going to raise your vibrations and you will naturally attract things
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without even trying so if you
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take anything from this today let it
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be this you don't need to manifest harder
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we don't need to hustle and manifest you don't
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need to fix yourself you're not doing anything wrong you
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don't need to compare you don't need to rush it's
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that simple it's January we're not rushing anywhere guys
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you just need to become more aware
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start enjoying where you are now and make small intentional shifts wherever
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you can now I hope that doesn't burden you if anything I'm kind of hoping you're
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like oh my gosh I can get away all the baggage and all of the things I feel
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like I should be doing we're dropping the comparison you don't need to do it guys.
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Now, if this has resonated with you, if you feel like someone needs a little
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boost, please share the podcast, please share the episode with someone.
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That will be your thing. You spread the kindness today and I would really appreciate it.
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If you please get time, please rate, review or download the podcast so that
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I know you're subscribed and it means I can get more content out for you.
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And that is my biggest thing to get free manifesting content out to you guys. It is that simple.
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I'm so glad you're here. Thank you for joining me again.
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We've got a couple of weeks left of January. If you're listening in real time,
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if you're not, then maybe who knows what's going on where you are right now.
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But I just want to thank you for joining me today and remember to not manifest harder.
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We're going to find that manifest in sweet spots, guys. And it starts by doing
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something that makes you smile today. That's it. Goodbye.