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Why Hilary Duff's Reoccurring Cheating Dream Isn't Necessarily a Bad Thing · On Air with Ryan Seacrest

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  Speaker 1: All right, but first let's get to a trending report.
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  Speaker 1: This one has to do with Hillary Duff. And I
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  Speaker 1: love that Hillary Duff is back and people are loving it.
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  Speaker 2: Loving it. Okay. So she dropped her album Luck or
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  Speaker 2: Something last weekend, and she is very raw and open
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  Speaker 2: about many insecurities that she has faced over the years.
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  Speaker 2: And as you know, she's happily married to singer songwriter
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  Speaker 2: Matthew Koma for nearly seven years. But she has a
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  Speaker 2: reoccurring dream that he is cheating on her, and she
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  Speaker 2: sings about it in the song Holiday Party. She says,
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  Speaker 2: in my head, you got touchy at the holiday party
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  Speaker 2: in the charcool suit that I like on you, And
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  Speaker 2: basically in the whole song is like talking about him
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  Speaker 2: cheating on her at this holiday party. And then she
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  Speaker 2: admitted in an interview that these dreams are so insane
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  Speaker 2: but also very real. Those are real things to get
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  Speaker 2: hung up on emotionally, and I just like, I love
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  Speaker 2: it because I think that she's talking about things that
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  Speaker 2: I think people would be embarrassed or maybe like a
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  Speaker 2: shame to admit so public, and she's just like laying
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  Speaker 2: it all out there that like she's had these dreams
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  Speaker 2: and that they've actually like affected her relationship. She's like
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  Speaker 2: brought them into their real life.
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  Speaker 1: She's going to be with us on Tuesday next week.
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  Speaker 1: And I want to remember to say this because I
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  Speaker 1: think I know about this. I think the dream of
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  Speaker 1: her husband and cheating is not about the cheating. It
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  Speaker 1: is about like, when you really cherish something and love something,
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  Speaker 1: sometimes your brain plays out these worst case scenarios.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, like waiting for.
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  Speaker 1: The Well, it doesn't necessarily mean that any of that
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  Speaker 1: is going to happen, but our brains does this thing
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  Speaker 1: where we worst case scenarios stuff, and it's actually okay,
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  Speaker 1: Like it's actually okay, it's actually good. It's good that
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  Speaker 1: she's having these dreams because it's so important to her
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  Speaker 1: to have this great relationship with him, because she loves
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  Speaker 1: him so much, So this is good news. Yeah. Yeah, Honestly,
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  Speaker 1: because we value something, we worst case scenario it in
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  Speaker 1: our brains.
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  Speaker 2: It's so true. But why do we do that. It's
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  Speaker 2: definitely something psychological.
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  Speaker 1: That I cannot answer. Yeah, but I can tell you
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  Speaker 1: that when I cherish something, my brain takes it out
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  Speaker 1: to play out the worst things, and then you wake
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  Speaker 1: up and your heart is pounding and it's all good. Right.
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  Speaker 1: She'll be here Tuesday for this so exciting,