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Ep #67 - Will Saved His Daughters Lives! + We Have BEEF With The DMV | For The Dads · Bussin' With The Boys

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  Speaker 1: Team Six, welcome to another episode of For the Dads.
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  Speaker 1: Before we get rolling, I hope your trash is taken out.
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  Speaker 1: Before we get rolling, it is Child Cancer Awareness Month.
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  Speaker 1: And as you guys know, Evie the Brave, a legend
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  Speaker 1: on the show, her father, Dylan Payne, he's reached out
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  Speaker 1: to us because we are partnering with Evie the Brave
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  Speaker 1: because what their family did is help stand up a
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  Speaker 1: foundation called Alex's Lemonade Stand to help raise money to
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  Speaker 1: support fighting childhood cancer. And one thing that we're doing
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  Speaker 1: for the dads here is we made shirts. Gong rips
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  Speaker 1: for Evie the Brave. We will have the link down
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  Speaker 1: in the description in case you want to donate to
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  Speaker 1: the foundation. We will have the, you can go to
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  Speaker 1: BWTB.com and buy these shirts for gone rips. 100% of
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  Speaker 1: net proceeds will be going to Alex's lemonade stand. So again,
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  Speaker 1: that is partnering in support in the fight against childhood cancer.
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  Speaker 1: It is childhood cancer awareness month. If you are a
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  Speaker 1: new listener to for the dads right now, Evie, the brave,
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  Speaker 1: she was two. She was going into a routine doctor's appointment,
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  Speaker 1: a doctor's visit. And it quickly turned into emergency surgery
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  Speaker 1: like the next week because they found a rare cancer,
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  Speaker 1: a tumor right next to her spine that they had
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  Speaker 1: to get it removed immediately. Mom's a badass. Dad's a badass.
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  Speaker 1: They were poised in the A-gap. They fly out to
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  Speaker 1: New York. They get it removed.
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  Speaker 2: Surgery went well. Evie the Brave's hitting the gong. She's
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  Speaker 2: hitting the bong. So she's good.
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  Speaker 1: But what they did from that, again, is stand up
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  Speaker 1: this foundation, Alex's Lemonade Stand, to help fight against childhood cancer.
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  Speaker 3: So.
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  Speaker 1: Again, we're doing a big partnership. It is Childhood Cancer
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  Speaker 1: Awareness Month. Go hit the link.
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  Speaker 2: Go donate. You can buy a shirt.
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  Speaker 1: Again, 100% of net proceeds is going to the foundation
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  Speaker 1: of Alex's Lemonade Stand.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning, fellas. Good morning.
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  Speaker 4: And a big shout-out to Deke working alongside Evie's family.
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  Speaker 4: Evie's family reaching out to Deke, allowing us to come
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  Speaker 4: alongside them. Getting with our merch team. Shout out Alex
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  Speaker 4: and our merch team getting that shirt up on the site.
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  Speaker 4: And shout out to, Deke told me, the 11 Sickos.
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  Speaker 4: They've already bought a shirt.
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  Speaker 2: That's awesome. Already diving in. Yeah. Supporting the cause. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I love it, dude. We got a great sewed upon us.
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  Speaker 2: We do. We got some storytelling.
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  Speaker 1: I am going to get back into the choking hazard
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  Speaker 1: because I'm sure my wife's like, hang on a second.
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  Speaker 1: You didn't tell me nothing. You told me about Rue.
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  Speaker 1: maybe drowning, but you didn't even mention Scotty choking on
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  Speaker 1: a meat stick.
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  Speaker 4: There's probably no better way as a mother to find
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  Speaker 4: out about this stuff via a podcast. That might be
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  Speaker 4: the best way to hear about it.
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  Speaker 2: Debatably, yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, because now we can laugh.
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  Speaker 2: We can sweat it out. We can giggle a little bit.
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  Speaker 2: We can have a good time. She knows that Scotty's
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  Speaker 2: good because she's at home. She's right next to you.
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  Speaker 2: She's great, honey. She's crushing it right now.
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  Speaker 1: But again, if you are new to For the Dad's Pod,
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  Speaker 1: our community, Papa Team 6, it's an awesome community. We
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  Speaker 1: feature a PT Sixers throughout the episode and empty six
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  Speaker 3: Yep.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 1: And emails for the dad's pod at gmail.com. We do voicemails.
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  Speaker 1: We do with, we love to feature the community on
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  Speaker 1: you get the pod. We love to feature everybody on
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  Speaker 1: the show. We get to that here in a little bit.
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  Speaker 1: We talk wins, losses, dad hacks. We talk about just fatherhood,
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  Speaker 1: being a dad, the highs and lows of it all.
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  Speaker 1: This is the show we do it on. We had
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  Speaker 1: some follow-ups from last week's episode. A couple that gave
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  Speaker 1: me a little chuckle. And this is, dude, this is
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  Speaker 1: shout-out chef because people showed out breakfast burritos happened last weekend.
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  Speaker 2: It was a big fight. It was a long fight.
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  Speaker 1: We got it done. You got it done. And this
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  Speaker 1: one comes from Koda Key. Glad the burritos were delivered.
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  Speaker 1: Great work, chef. Was that the closest.
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  Speaker 2: We've actually kept it under an hour? Laughing emoji. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it was a shorter one last week. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: It's a speed tour.
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  Speaker 4: Unfortunately, Nachito28 came with some fire towards chef.
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  Speaker 2: I want you to know I do not approve of
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  Speaker 2: this comment. I might approve of it. I have it.
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  Speaker 4: He's strong feeling Will's going to approve of it. Green chili, brother.
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  Speaker 4: You can't have a breakfast burrito without green chili.
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  Speaker 2: Amen, bro. Some type of salsa. An aioli, a salsa,
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  Speaker 2: a hot sauce. Give me something with the burrito. Burritos
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  Speaker 2: were good. No, I agree with that. If I were
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  Speaker 2: going to do it again, I would have two changes.
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  Speaker 2: That's one.
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  Speaker 3: Have sauce in it. I got some kind of sauce.
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  Speaker 3: I wouldn't do an aioli. I'm not a huge mayo guy.
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  Speaker 3: I'll do it with like seafood. But maybe a good salsa.
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  Speaker 3: A good liquid. The pico wasn't enough.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Shout out the comment.
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  Speaker 4: Shout out the comment from Nachito.
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  Speaker 2: From Nachito.
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  Speaker 1: This is from Brett Benoit, five. My wonderful wife is
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  Speaker 1: about to pop out our second girl. So we have,
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  Speaker 1: so we have, we will have two angels under two,
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  Speaker 1: which qualifies me to be employed at Bussin. Anyway, she
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  Speaker 1: said after nine months, we should try for another girl.
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  Speaker 2: I said, they don't make those anymore.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, good.
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  Speaker 2: They don't make those anymore. Good.
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  Speaker 1: Dude, I had some of the Trader Joe's dark chocolate almonds.
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  Speaker 1: I was ripping them around in my hand yesterday when
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  Speaker 1: I got home from the shop. I had about four
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  Speaker 1: in my hand and I ate a couple because I
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  Speaker 1: knew once Rue saw me and Scotty saw me, they'd
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  Speaker 1: want one. I popped in the extra two because they
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  Speaker 1: were the last ones through the little container away.
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  Speaker 2: They're like, I want some. I want some. I ate
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  Speaker 2: the last one. She's like, oh, there's more. There's more.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, They don't make any more, sweetheart. That was it.
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  Speaker 2: How did it work? It worked brilliantly. She stopped talking
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  Speaker 2: and kept doing whatever she was doing. That's exactly what
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  Speaker 2: we're looking for.
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  Speaker 1: That offensive execution from the dad hack last week of
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  Speaker 1: just telling them they don't make them anymore.
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to try this on my wife this week.
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  Speaker 2: I can't wait to try it on my wife. And
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  Speaker 2: clean the garage, honey.
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  Speaker 4: They don't make them anymore. They don't do that. We
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  Speaker 4: have a write-in from Chase. It is a bit longer,
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  Speaker 4: but Chase had some really kind words. works at a
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  Speaker 4: insurance agency that his clients are farmers. So he ensures crops, uh,
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  Speaker 4: worked at that agency with his mom for 18 years.
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  Speaker 4: His mom, unfortunately recently just passed. Uh, but he had
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  Speaker 4: some really kind words about the lesson of the week, uh,
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  Speaker 4: from last week. Uh, he says, sometimes it feels impossible
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  Speaker 4: running the insurance agency, doing lots of manual labor on
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  Speaker 4: my in-laws ranch, where, where we live, had kids at
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  Speaker 4: home with me all summer. no nanny willy one shelf
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  Speaker 4: but i'm jealous and thank god school started again and
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  Speaker 4: now coaching my son's flag football team and i feel
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  Speaker 4: like i'm constantly trying to earn the life that i
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  Speaker 4: have but never feel like i do i'm not sure
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  Speaker 4: if i took uh if i took your message the
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  Speaker 4: intended way but what i took from it is to
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  Speaker 4: stop trying so hard to earn it and being so
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  Speaker 4: hard on myself I need to turn around and appreciate
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  Speaker 4: the family behind me and realize that I have earned it,
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  Speaker 4: which I think is a great, I think that's a
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  Speaker 4: great interpretation. Sorry for the rambling message, but I've been
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  Speaker 4: staring at an Excel spreadsheet for the last eight hours
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  Speaker 4: and I'm delirious. Keep up the great work, boys. Chase
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  Speaker 4: Cunningham from Montana. Side note, I've seen my son's team,
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  Speaker 4: the Pink Mustangs. One boy refused to be the Pink Ponies,
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  Speaker 4: so we compromised. Crushed their first game last week and
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  Speaker 4: can't wait to see how the season goes.
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  Speaker 2: There's the Pink Mustangs. Let's go Pink Mustangs. Shout out Chase, man.
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  Speaker 4: Pink Ponies would have gone great because you already have
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  Speaker 4: your walkouts on.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Pink Pony Club. Thank you for that. Thank you for
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  Speaker 1: that write-in. Thank you for that comment.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, thank you, Chase. Dude, it's always like, what a
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  Speaker 2: shift in perspective. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Will ultimately do because... You sit there and you do
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  Speaker 1: feel like the world's on top of you all the
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  Speaker 1: time and you're constantly going, you're constantly grinding, you're constantly
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  Speaker 1: asking yourself, am I doing enough? Am I being better?
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  Speaker 1: I need to just have a better attitude about this more.
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  Speaker 1: And what a good night of sleep when you actually
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  Speaker 1: do lay your head on the pillow between 9 and
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  Speaker 1: 9.30 and think like, all right, I'm not bullshitting. I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to get some good sleep and I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: wake up tomorrow and I'm going to just have a
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  Speaker 1: completely different perspective. for how I go about the day,
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  Speaker 1: how I think about everything, how I think about when
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  Speaker 1: my wife asks for the extra thing or when my
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  Speaker 1: kids are nagging me, how I'm mentally just going to
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  Speaker 1: shift my mind. Dude, we were watching, first time turning on,
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  Speaker 1: it's on Apple TV. Char wanted Rue to watch something
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  Speaker 1: different because she loves Tumble Leaf. She loves Daniel Tiger.
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  Speaker 1: She loves Little Bear. Shout out Little Bear. Shout out
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  Speaker 1: Little Bear. Little Bear fan back in the day. But
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  Speaker 1: we threw on this show called Stillwater. It's a very
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  Speaker 1: slow show. And basically the sensei, the big dog, the
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  Speaker 1: wisdom of the character is this big panda. And it's
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  Speaker 1: all the kids going through something. And he goes and
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  Speaker 1: seeks out the panda, like out in the yard, doing
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  Speaker 1: whatever the panda's doing. And he's wise. And he's very kind.
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  Speaker 1: And he's usually meditating. And the little boy comes over.
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  Speaker 1: And then the panda just tells him a story. And
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  Speaker 1: it's all like perspective-based stuff. So him writing that in,
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  Speaker 1: it just made me think of Stillwater. Great TV show
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  Speaker 1: on Apple TV. Great TV show for kids on Apple
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  Speaker 1: TV because it's slow. It's not all the, you know,
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  Speaker 1: jumping around, doing all the different scenes.
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  Speaker 3: Music, dance.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, music. Good show. It's all about shifting perspective. And
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  Speaker 2: you sit there, I'm like in captivated. I just need
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  Speaker 2: that show. Scarlett doesn't even need that show. I could
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  Speaker 2: use that. The other day, Jill, go ahead, Chef. No, no,
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to interrupt. Oh, no.
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  Speaker 4: The other day I was in the kitchen and I
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  Speaker 4: was telling Jill a story about tossing Scarlett up in
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  Speaker 4: the air. which is something I've started doing whenever I
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  Speaker 4: drop her off at daycare and pick her up. And
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  Speaker 4: now it's gotten to the point that when I get
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  Speaker 4: outside of daycare, she's expecting it.
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  Speaker 2: And so she starts.
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  Speaker 4: Like smiling and putting her hands up like that because
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  Speaker 4: she's like, dad's about to toss me. And so I'm
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  Speaker 4: very excited to tell Jill about this little tradition I've started.
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  Speaker 4: And Jill just hits me with a very like, you know,
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  Speaker 4: don't toss her, you know, too high. Like you're being
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  Speaker 4: careful about it. Said it was zero tone. And dude,
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  Speaker 4: I got so defensive in that moment. Like complete shutdown
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  Speaker 4: of the like cutesy moment of me telling this story.
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  Speaker 4: I was like, I never throw her. What are you
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  Speaker 4: talking about? You throw her all the time. You always
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  Speaker 4: throw her up in the air. And she was like, whoa, whoa. Like,
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  Speaker 4: And it really is like just looking back on that
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  Speaker 4: moment and like slowing down my thought process and just
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  Speaker 4: being like, dude, why did you get so defensive there?
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  Speaker 2: Like, geez, Louise. Like your wife is just saying like, hey,
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  Speaker 2: you're being careful though, right? Honey, always. It's our daughter. Hey,
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  Speaker 2: no doubt. Yeah, no doubt. You know we have some fun, sweetheart.
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  Speaker 2: Water off the back. Yes, dude. I just... But it's
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  Speaker 2: a perfect example of just- Need to watch some Stillwater.
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  Speaker 2: I do.
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  Speaker 1: And it's one of the, it's like the character, he's
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  Speaker 1: always got like a metaphor, a metaphor, a parable, a story.
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  Speaker 1: He's like, have I ever told you about the story
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  Speaker 1: of so-and-so and so-and-so?
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  Speaker 2: And the kid's like, oh, no.
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  Speaker 1: Or he's like, oh, this is my favorite story. And
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  Speaker 1: then it like, you know, Doug Funny goes into this
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  Speaker 1: narration of another story. I will 1 million percent rip
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  Speaker 1: some Stillwater.
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  Speaker 2: It's a good show. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: It's a good show. But shout out Chase for the write-in.
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  Speaker 1: Now I know my wife's ready to hear about Scottie.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, what's going on? What happened? Over the weekend.
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  Speaker 1: We went to the Luan's birthday party. They had a
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  Speaker 1: little birthday party for their kids. It was a Pokemon
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  Speaker 1: splash party. She had water slides. You had foam pits.
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  Speaker 1: You had Italian soda machine station. You had photo ops.
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  Speaker 1: She had the, I did this all yesterday on bussing.
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  Speaker 2: What was it? The claw. Yeah. Yeah, the claw.
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  Speaker 1: The little claw thing where you move it around. A
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  Speaker 1: little claw machine. They had puppies there, I guess, in
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  Speaker 1: case you wanted to take one home. Could you take
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  Speaker 1: one home?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: There's about six puppies in this pen. And we were
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  Speaker 1: playing with puppies. You could play with puppies. That's so sick.
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  Speaker 1: Like a little petting zoo.
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  Speaker 2: Throwback to bridesmaids, man. That's awesome. The Luan parties get down, bro.
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  Speaker 2: I remember back in the day, whether it's Easter, any
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  Speaker 2: party that they have, you go there. It was like
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  Speaker 2: an Elsa Frozen thing. Disney princesses. This is back in
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  Speaker 2: the day. And there's a horse they're taking in. They
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  Speaker 2: put a little unicorn in. They put a little horn
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  Speaker 2: on it to have a unicorn. Like, they get down.
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  Speaker 2: They get down against parties, bro. Oh, my gosh. But
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  Speaker 2: I'm rocking solo over there. Charles, she hasn't been feeling well.
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  Speaker 2: I'll get into that. We'll get into that. Trust me. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: we'll get into that. But anyway, I'm seeing my wife.
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  Speaker 1: She's, like, down on Saturday, Wednesday. Michigan just beats Oklahoma.
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  Speaker 1: And I just look over at Charles and I'm like, Hey,
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  Speaker 1: you want me to rip the kid? I'll take the kids.
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  Speaker 1: I'll go to the birthday party. Like you just stay
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  Speaker 1: home and you rest and do your thing. Then I'm
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  Speaker 1: busting her balls. I'm like, yo, I'm jealous of you, bro.
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  Speaker 1: You just, you get to be on the couch while
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  Speaker 1: I'm taking the kids. You get to watch ball. You
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  Speaker 1: get to watch football.
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  Speaker 2: Cause I had all, you know, all the games on
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  Speaker 2: and everything else. Like, I'm going to go and take
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  Speaker 2: care of the kids. You enjoy your time here. And
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  Speaker 2: she's like laughing and like, God, sweet. I'm going to
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  Speaker 2: take a nap.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, you get to watch football. I know what
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  Speaker 1: you're going to do, bro. But I go over to
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  Speaker 1: the birthday party, and so it's just me, Rue, and Scotty.
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  Speaker 1: And Taylor shot me the invite like a month ago,
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  Speaker 1: a few weeks ago. I didn't read the fine print,
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  Speaker 1: so I got the girls. They're in a dress and
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  Speaker 1: stuff like that. They look sharp. They look good. They
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  Speaker 1: look adorable. And then I get out of the truck,
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  Speaker 1: and I see the water slides up and everything else.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, shit. I pull out my phone and
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  Speaker 1: check the graphic again for the little digital invite, and
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, it's a splash party. I didn't even
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  Speaker 1: bring their suits. So I go up to Taylan. I'm like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: you guys happen to have like a four-year-old swimsuit. And Taylan,
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  Speaker 1: I hate to ask this, too. Do you happen to
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  Speaker 1: have one for Scotty? Scotty's around 21 months, 22 months.
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  Speaker 1: They rocked him.
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  Speaker 2: They had him. Good.
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  Speaker 1: So I go into the bathroom. I'm changing him up,
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  Speaker 1: getting him ready because, you know, you see the water.
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  Speaker 1: So you see everything going on. They want to be
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  Speaker 1: in the action.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Shout out, Taylan. Shout out, Taylan.
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  Speaker 1: Shout out to LeJuan's for hooking it up, hooking the
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  Speaker 1: boy up. Quick little dad loss just to start.
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  Speaker 3: I get out.
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  Speaker 2: My brain goes, of course it's a fucking water party, dude.
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  Speaker 2: And then I'm like, this is on them. They sent
• 15:13
  Speaker 2: me the invite. You can't send me the invite. You
• 15:15
  Speaker 2: got to send my wife the invite.
• 15:16
  Speaker 4: How much water was on that invitation?
• 15:18
  Speaker 2: I need visuals. Just going in, squinting at it. Splash party.
• 15:21
  Speaker 2: Damn it. I saw Pokemon, so I knew Scotty was
• 15:24
  Speaker 2: going to be ready to go. She loves Pikachu. Yeah, yeah.
• 15:27
  Speaker 2: But anyway, quick little dad loss. We get rolling.
• 15:30
  Speaker 1: Rory's a little timid to go up the water slide.
• 15:32
  Speaker 1: So I'm talking to her. Scotty's trying to run around.
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: Scotty wants to go on the water slide. Water slide's
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: too big, sweetheart. You can't go on the water slide.
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: But anyway, kids are having fun. Kids are playing. I
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: go in and sneak a little ball time. In Taylor's
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: man cave.
• 15:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah.
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: Little man caver. He had the multi-view going on YouTube TV.
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: We got all the games. Kentucky, Alabama's going at it.
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: And we're taking a quick break. Rue is playing on
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: the water slide. She's good to go. I got people
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: over there like, hey, she's got the friends. There's some
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: adults over there. So it's all good. I'm going to
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: go sneak me a little peek at the game.
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. Because Kentucky Bama's in a barn burn. In
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: case Charles listened and going, hey, Willie, see what we're
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: talking about? There's a supervision going on. A lot of
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: supervision over there. We were all good.
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: And Scotty wanted to go on the water slide so much.
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to get her in the foam and everything else,
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: but she wants to do what Rue's doing. So I'm like, okay,
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: let's separate her from this area. Let's take her in.
• 16:22
  Speaker 1: Let's go get her a snack. Let's just get her
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: locked in while I can sneak some ball.
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: A little bit. Yeah, yeah. She's eating a meat stick.
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: I'm feeding her this meat stick. She's got, like, she's good.
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: Like, I just want people to know, like, she'll have
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: the meat stick in her hand and she can eat
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: the meat stick on her own.
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: She's good at biting and chewing. We've done it plenty
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: of times. This is routine.
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: Give her an applesauce first. Now she's got the meat stick.
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: I'm watching the game. And then all of a sudden
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: I hear, I hear Scotty start. I'm like, immediately my
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: eyes get wide enough. Cause I've had PTSD.
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: If you've listened to four of the dads before, like
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: Rue had a quarter go down. Yeah. Had a quarter
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: go down her throat. So the fear, my man, that.
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: Came into my body, and it wasn't, I do want
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: my wife to know and I want everybody to know,
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: I'm exaggerating this story a little bit. Like I'm not
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: just sitting on the couch watching the game, not caring
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: what's going on. I'm dialed in with Scotty. Chef was there.
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: Hopefully he saw some good examples. But I'm not like
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: taking my eyes off of Scotty. It's just this one
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: fleeting moment where she takes a bite, she starts, and
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: I immediately go over her. She was good. She was okay.
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: She coughs a couple of times. It comes up, she
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: chews it. I'm like, sweetheart, you have to chew. You cannot.
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: Taylor saw me.
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: He's leaned up.
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: Because once I heard the first cough, I'm like, I
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: just fly up out of my seat and I'll go
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: over to her and I'm just kind of looking at
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: her at first. Like, am I going to need to
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: give her the Heimlich? Am I going to need to
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: lay her over the knee and get the pads going?
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: I saw like my eyes go straight to the meat sick.
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: I saw she just had a little bite off the
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: meat sick.
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: Okay. So it's not a big one.
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: Everything was all good. She hit a couple coughs. I
• 17:59
  Speaker 2: see it come back in her mouth. She chews it.
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, Scotty Jolie, sweetheart, you have got to chew.
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: You cannot. That is solo. You get that, right? Mom's
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: at home. If we die, we truly die. Yeah.
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: Dad, dad, dad.
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. Dad, dad, dad. I ain't tell Charo that one.
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: She's hearing that right now for the first time.
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: Oh, no.
• 18:22
  Speaker 2: And sweetheart, as you're listening. Oh, no.
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: As you're listening, it was truly, it was all good.
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: Sometimes when you storytell, you got to exaggerate a little bit.
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: I was kind of on the money with the whole story,
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: but it was all good. Just a couple coughs.
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: Can I quickly just lay a blanket on this situation
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: to also throw my hat in the ring? Charo.
• 18:45
  Speaker 4: Hope this story makes you feel uh remotely better because
• 18:49
  Speaker 4: i was handed my daughter um first thing in the
• 18:53
  Speaker 4: morning i'm still in bed jill has handed uh scarlet
• 18:57
  Speaker 4: to me jill is then going to the the bathroom
• 19:01
  Speaker 4: to freshen up i'm fully on scarlet duty i am
• 19:05
  Speaker 4: fully in charge of scarlet's safety While Jill is in
• 19:08
  Speaker 4: the bathroom and I start playing peekaboo by throwing my
• 19:13
  Speaker 4: head into my pillow and then popping it back up.
• 19:17
  Speaker 4: And Scarlett thinks it's hilarious. And she starts mimicking it.
• 19:22
  Speaker 4: She's in a big mimicking stage right now. And she's
• 19:26
  Speaker 4: just fully throwing her body, fully throwing her body, fully
• 19:29
  Speaker 4: throwing her body into the pillow over and over again.
• 19:32
  Speaker 4: I go down and dude, as I come back up,
• 19:35
  Speaker 4: her feet are in the air. and she is flipping
• 19:39
  Speaker 4: off the side of the bed, hits the side table.
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: I'm talking oh brother I'm talking full zoom noise and
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: to where like the lamp kind of shakes and it
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: kind of flickers like the light flickers you.
• 19:54
  Speaker 4: Know dramatic I'm then just like fully going to her
• 20:01
  Speaker 4: to go pick her up. I'm like trying to get
• 20:03
  Speaker 4: off the bed as well to do it. Bed is
• 20:05
  Speaker 4: not that high for people listening at home. But like,
• 20:08
  Speaker 4: I mean, we're talking a good amount of height. So
• 20:13
  Speaker 4: Jill just comes in to lose her dad standing over
• 20:17
  Speaker 4: daughter who's now fully just on the ground like this
• 20:21
  Speaker 4: and is loading up the biggest scream I've ever heard
• 20:24
  Speaker 4: her do.
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: Brother, I was.
• 20:28
  Speaker 4: Jill did not hold it over me like too hard,
• 20:31
  Speaker 4: but oh man, did I put myself like in a
• 20:34
  Speaker 4: doghouse in my mind for like the next probably four
• 20:38
  Speaker 4: to five hours. I've just never like seen her. take
• 20:43
  Speaker 4: a spill like that. And it was, it was a
• 20:46
  Speaker 4: see the pain, witness the pain on him. Dude, you
• 20:49
  Speaker 4: feel so bad. So bad. I, I immediately went outside
• 20:55
  Speaker 4: to go, Hey, what does Sherman do when he's really
• 20:57
  Speaker 4: pissed off at himself? He goes and does yard work.
• 21:00
  Speaker 4: He goes and does yard work. Did it way too.
• 21:04
  Speaker 4: That's your, that's your way of taking a lap. That's
• 21:06
  Speaker 4: my way of taking a lap. I didn't do it
• 21:07
  Speaker 4: until later in the day. Decide to do it way
• 21:11
  Speaker 4: too late in the day. So then I hit the
• 21:14
  Speaker 4: cutoff of when you should stop mowing when I'd only
• 21:19
  Speaker 4: got my backyard done. So my house currently has a
• 21:24
  Speaker 4: reverse mullet right now. We got a party in the
• 21:27
  Speaker 4: front and trim in the back, which is maybe the
• 21:29
  Speaker 4: worst case scenario because the front's what everybody sees.
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: It's a bad beat, man. It was like a triple
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: dad loss in one. Yeah, I know.
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: I'm sure a lot of people know that feeling. Like
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: when Rue was around Scotty's age and we were down
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: in Florida and it was just me, Charo, and Rue.
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: Rue's got her bottle and she's on like the edge
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: of the couch.
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: She's about to have a bottle before we put her
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: down for a nap. And she wanted a Bluey book.
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: That was kind of like a distance where lean and grab.
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: And bro, she took a tumble. lean over, over leverage herself,
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: got over the skis, falls, smacks her head on the
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: edge of the coffee table. Cuts are open blood everywhere.
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: I'm in the car driving to a Walgreens or CVS
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: looking for a first aid kit.
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: Well, in both of us.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: It wasn't like one of us was on watch. Like
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: we were getting either lunch or something ready. Like let's
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: put Scottie.
• 22:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Give her a bottle.
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: She saw the bluey book. She wanted the bluey book.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: Her legs obviously can't touch the ground. She leans, boom,
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: smacks it. Cut her open, blood everywhere. And we felt
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: like shit, dude.
• 22:41
  Speaker 4: Yeah, what did those next, like, couple hours look like
• 22:45
  Speaker 4: as far as, like, did y'all have to take her to.
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: No, we didn't take her anywhere. It's like, we're sitting
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: there doing, like, research on, like, you know, she was
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: cut and she was bleeding, but it wasn't like a
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: stitches moment or anything like that. You talk about, should
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: we take her in, blah, blah, blah, and both of
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: us are kind of the same in that regard on
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: being overreactive and like, Hey, at the end of the day,
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: like you're going to have to put a couple of butterfly,
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: butterfly bandages on it.
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: Yes. That's what I was thinking of. Yeah. Something to
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: like help close it. Yeah.
• 23:15
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: And then you just feel shitty because they're cut. You've
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: witnessed how bad that they were screaming. They were hurt.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: You just feel like a dog shit parent.
• 23:26
  Speaker 2: It's brutal. It's brutal.
• 23:28
  Speaker 4: You feel like such a loser for the next couple
• 23:30
  Speaker 4: of hours. I was just sitting there like, how? I
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: was just like, oh, poor girl, man. And I was
• 23:37
  Speaker 4: inches from her. It wasn't like I was on the
• 23:39
  Speaker 4: other side of the bed.
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's tough.
• 23:41
  Speaker 4: I was literally within this ruler of how close I
• 23:46
  Speaker 4: was to my daughter.
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: And I throw myself into the pillow to then come
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: out and just see her feet pointing towards the sky
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: as her body's flipping off the bed. I don't even
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: know what happened. You know what I'm saying?
• 24:00
  Speaker 4: Like it's like times stopped, but it also like fast
• 24:03
  Speaker 4: forwarded at the same moment.
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: A couple of weeks ago, Scotty was like jumping on
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: her little cushion chair and we were telling her it
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: was during pizza Friday and movie night. And we were
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: telling her, stop jumping. Like you were going to fall.
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: and hit this, what is it called? Like the little
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: wall things that got like a lot of creative stuff
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: on them that you can play with.
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: Busy board. Oh yeah.
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: Busy board leaning against like our coffee table.
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: She was kind of bouncing close to it near and she,
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: you know, Scottzilla, she's Scottzilla. You can't contain her.
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah. And we're just telling her, yo, you're going to
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: hurt yourself. Stop.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: And sitting her down, doing all the things like, hey,
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: be over here, go lay with dad ass. She wanted to,
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: she just knew that she was being annoying, being an
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: annoying little prick.
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah. And sure enough, she falls and boom.
• 24:50
  Speaker 5: Hard.
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: Hard. Like a lump. You know, you get the... You
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: get like the... Big old raised lump. Yeah.
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah.
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: Where the blood is... Oh, oh. Blood wasn't coming out.
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: I know what you mean. But going to where it
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: was like a little goose egg. Yeah.
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: We felt bad, but I know a part of me
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: is like, you have to learn a natural consequence, bro.
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I felt bad. I was giving her kisses like, hey,
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: let's put the.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: Let's put boo-boo bunny on it where you got a
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: little icing boo-boo bunny wrapped around it.
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: Gotta put boo-boo bunny on it. Felt terrible for. And.
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: But part of me was like, yeah. You had to
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: taste that.
• 25:26
  Speaker 4: There's a part of me that's glad that it happened too.
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: That is a weird feeling of like... Fuck the kids, man. Yeah,
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: a little bit that too. A little bit. Scarlett's kind
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: of been looking at me funny. Like, what's going on
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: with that? Scarlett's balance isn't fully there. Like, Rue, like, she....
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: All right this is gonna happen you better learn your
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: lesson yeah then it happened it yourself up.
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: Man what what are you doing she hit hard oh
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: she's fine honey she's fine honey she's walking out of
• 25:58
  Speaker 2: the room holding yeah yeah i was like oh shit
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: just showing our both kind of like annoyed by he's
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: like bro just watch the movie relax yeah our bed
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: height she ate that shit.
• 26:09
  Speaker 4: Perfect description of our bed height it's couch height Yeah.
• 26:13
  Speaker 4: Like a sofa height bed. So like that honestly happening
• 26:19
  Speaker 4: in where our bedroom is carpet. And then we also
• 26:22
  Speaker 4: have a rug in our bedroom. So she fell on
• 26:27
  Speaker 4: rug and carpet instead of what is our living room
• 26:32
  Speaker 4: is just hardwood floor. And so she just last week,
• 26:36
  Speaker 4: actually I'm cooking by myself.
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to grill and do like crazy dinner.
• 26:43
  Speaker 4: To kind of treat Jill as she's coming back from,
• 26:45
  Speaker 4: she started doing yoga, which is super exciting. And she's
• 26:49
  Speaker 4: been doing these yoga classes in the evenings. And so
• 26:52
  Speaker 4: I was like, I'm going to have dinner ready. I'm
• 26:55
  Speaker 4: going to, you know, crush it. Scarlett's like truly walking
• 26:58
  Speaker 4: around the house now, which that's crazy.
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: Crazy, man. Crazy.
• 27:02
  Speaker 4: And I'm doing dinner with my back to the living room,
• 27:06
  Speaker 4: but I have Bluey on and some of her favorite
• 27:08
  Speaker 4: toys are down there.
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: And she entertains herself. all the time with their toys.
• 27:13
  Speaker 4: But I just hear da, da, da, like really excited da,
• 27:18
  Speaker 4: da yelling. And I turn around with all these frying
• 27:21
  Speaker 4: pans going on. Scarlet's just on our couch, standing up
• 27:25
  Speaker 4: like towards the back end of the couch. And it's like, I, I,
• 27:29
  Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, so we learned how to climb the couch.
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: Perfect. Yeah. Great. Good.
• 27:35
  Speaker 4: And that was before the bed tumble. And so now
• 27:38
  Speaker 4: I'm kind of like weirdly happy that the bed tumble
• 27:41
  Speaker 4: happened because I've now seen her on the couch, like
• 27:47
  Speaker 4: swing her legs out and make sure her legs come down.
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: And then she like starts moving around. I'm like, okay.
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: So she's. She'll eat that shit one day. Oh, for sure.
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: They love jumping on the couch when they get going.
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah. Yeah. Big time.
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: I had to get loud with Scottie the other day
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: because she started to jump on the couch.
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: I was like, hey, stop jumping. Get down right now.
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: What's her face? Does she just get the, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Dude,
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: she's got the.
• 28:15
  Speaker 4: She don't take it too personal. She don't take it
• 28:17
  Speaker 4: too personal yet. She's got the best locked-in face. Sometimes
• 28:21
  Speaker 4: like a stank face almost that she'll give you.
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. And she just wants to do what Rue's doing.
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: And then I got to tell Rue, hey, Rue, it's
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: monkey see, monkey do, but she wants to do what
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: you are doing. I know you can jump on the couch,
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: but the moment Scotty gets up, it's not like playtime
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: with Scotty.
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: She'll fall off. She doesn't have your balance. Easy. But anyway,
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: at the.
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: At the party too, a second scare I talked about
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: alluded to the rude drowning one. I told this one
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: on Bustin' with the Boys. But as I sit there
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: and stuff with Scott, he'd say, hey, you want to
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: go play? Like, I'm trying to be... It's like Rue
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: wants to play on the water slide. Scotty can't play
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: on the water slide. I also got to keep Scotty busy.
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: I don't want to leave Rue by her, you know,
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: operating by herself for too long, making sure it's happening. Hey,
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: you having fun over here? You going up the slide?
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: And she's having fun with her friends and climbing up.
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: Oh, daddy, watch this. I'm watching her trying to get
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: a video.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: Scotty, let's go keep Scotty busy because right now she's
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: just walking around in the kind of the mud surrounding
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: the water slide. She's just wanting to go up. And
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I got to go keep her busy doing
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: something with other like Pokemon stuff or whatever it is.
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: Hey, there's Pikachu. Keep her busy.
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: Scotty's so about it, dude. So she's like, hey, can
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: I go swim in the pool? Got to find her goggles. Hey,
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: I found you some goggles. Put them together.
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: Here's the goggles. Go rip in the pool. Clumps in
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: the pool. There's supervision.
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: I'm standing outside of the pool, so I'm watching. watching
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: scotty watching rue back and forth back and forth and
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: then there was a moment to where basically everybody was
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: kind of out of the pool like clumps sitting at
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: the edge of the pool or like standing at the
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: edge of the pool and i see rue she's making
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: her way toward the middle of the the water and
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: rue's a pretty good swimmer for four And she, you know,
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: in our pool, she'll dive down to the bottom. She
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: can go dive for whatever it is. But our pool
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: only goes down six feet. Taylor's is nine. She's making
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: her way out to the middle of the water. And
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: I can just hear kind of being, it felt like she.
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: Was already a little exhausted.
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: So I was just going to tell her like, hey,
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: swim to the side, like get to the side.
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: And then she's like, the yellow shark, the yellow shark.
• 30:22
  Speaker 2: And I just hear her voice kind of like, you know,
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: she's she's breathing heavy. Yes.
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: She just goes underwater. And then I'm watching and she's
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: I see her swimming down to go get this yellow shark.
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: And again, this is nine feet. So I immediately like
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: I put the. I put a Scotty squirtle down that
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: she had just won. I put the Italian soda down.
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: I started emptying my pockets because I'm thinking she might
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: not know how deep that is. And even she goes
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: down to get it, like the urgency she's going to
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: need to come up to the water. Like she might
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: be out of breath.
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: Oh, for sure.
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: So I'm getting ready to jump in. I see he's
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: clump circling because he sees me. And I want to
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: say he was watching Rue too, because Rue is just
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: in the pool, like by herself. And, um, I'm getting
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: ready to dive in.
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, I'm watching Rue and I see her
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: coming up. And when she comes up, I'm like wanting
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: to see what her first reaction is. She's like, I
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: got the yellow shark data. I got the yellow shark.
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, kind of my shoulders drop. I'm like, bro,
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: swim to the side. And she's telling, I'm like, yo.
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: And she's so excited because she got the yellow shark.
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: And now I'm thinking in my head, like, yeah, that
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: is badass. You are a badass.
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: But, bro, like, come on.
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: I thought you were thinking about. You don't take years
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: off dad's life. Like, Scotty just almost choked on the
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: goddamn meat stick. I got almost a second L.
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: Taylor comes out. He sees it. He's like, you almost
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: caught two L's. And I'm like. You said that? Yeah.
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: And then I'm telling Taylor, I'm like, no, the low key,
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: she kind of bodied that diving down there. Like, it
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: was impressive.
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah.
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: But, yeah, dude.
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: Just operating solo, like around a water party for kids
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: and Scotty, they're just different levels going back and forth.
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: It was, uh, there was a couple of times where
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: I'm just, I'm walking chef into the equation. I'm like, chef,
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: we'll show you how to do this.
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: Chef, keep an eye on her. Chef, watch this. If
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: it makes you feel any better.
• 32:04
  Speaker 3: I thought you did a great job, but I didn't
• 32:06
  Speaker 3: see the, the choking part or, uh, or the diving in.
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: Diving in, you would have been impressed. I would have
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: been very impressed. It was just more of like what
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: was coming out of my head. I'm like, God damn, bro.
• 32:15
  Speaker 3: I have a quick funny story. When Will was talking
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: about sneaking away to watch ball, that was like my
• 32:20
  Speaker 3: home base. That was me, Matt, and Ryan. We're all 24.
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: No kids. We found quickly. We said hi, and then
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: we were like, we need to find a TV. The
• 32:29
  Speaker 3: ST Sickos were holding it down. ST Sickos were holding
• 32:33
  Speaker 3: it down.
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: We were.
• 32:33
  Speaker 6: We were.
• 32:33
  Speaker 3: We were breaking bread with Dave LeJuan talking hockey and stuff,
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: but You know, Oregon's about to lose to Oklahoma State
• 32:41
  Speaker 3: and they just turn the ball over and I go,
• 32:44
  Speaker 3: I kind of look up and I don't know why,
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: but there's a sense of like, I know Will is
• 32:48
  Speaker 3: taking care of two little girls. He needs to know
• 32:50
  Speaker 3: that Dan Lanning might get upset in Stillwater. So I
• 32:53
  Speaker 3: go to see Will and Will's out by the slide.
• 32:56
  Speaker 3: Rue is not going up the slide yet. And he's
• 32:59
  Speaker 3: kind of talking her up like, hey, you need to
• 33:01
  Speaker 3: go up the slide. Funny enough, Scotty is legitimately trying
• 33:03
  Speaker 3: to crawl out of Will's arms. Like, try to... Will goes,
• 33:07
  Speaker 3: I know, girl. I know you want to go up there.
• 33:09
  Speaker 3: You're too young. Like, whispered to her. The tale of
• 33:12
  Speaker 3: two daughters.
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Um... because rude's.
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: Wanting win to go up with her the second time
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: because rude went up there already and slid down and
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: she thought it was awesome she's like i need win
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: i'm like sweetheart you can do.
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: This there's another four-year-old who was going up and i'm
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: trying to like second slide yeah.
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: The second slide i'm just trying to talk to her
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: i'm like dad i cannot go up the slide i
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: can't go up that slide with.
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: You yeah the the best part is i guess this
• 33:35
  Speaker 3: is like good context i don't have any kids i'm
• 33:38
  Speaker 3: 24 my brain he goes to okay i mean well
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: will's going oh that's crazy you know and i go
• 33:42
  Speaker 3: you know, watch him get rid of the slide. And
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: I'm thinking, I need to get back and watch this
• 33:46
  Speaker 3: game for a second. And Will goes, I start kind
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: of walking, Will goes, no, no, no, no, no. You
• 33:51
  Speaker 3: need to watch, watch.
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: We're good. This is a big moment. Word for word.
• 33:58
  Speaker 3: And then I watched, and then it kind of hit me.
• 33:59
  Speaker 3: I was like, I should like, you know, like, it's okay.
• 34:02
  Speaker 3: The game's fine. The game's on. Like it's not the
• 34:03
  Speaker 3: end of the world.
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah. And then I saw that look in his eyes too.
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: And I did hit him with no, no, no, no, no.
• 34:10
  Speaker 2: I'm standing out in this 95 degree heat right now.
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: You're going to stay with me. They don't have Devo
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: for this kind of shit. All right.
• 34:16
  Speaker 4: You can rewind the organ game. You can watch that again.
• 34:19
  Speaker 4: this this only happens once right here that's hilarious.
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: The other thing was um at the end right as
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: we're about to leave will hands me a towel like
• 34:29
  Speaker 2: he's scrambling i think he's trying to get scotty he's
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: like hey can you give this to ru needs a
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: towel i go over to ru and ru reminds me
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: a lot of like she doesn't really know me she
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: reminds me of like you when i first started working
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: here as an intern like you you kind of have
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: a look on your face it's a little like who
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: is this person a little cagey i go up to
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: ru and i'm trying to be like really nice and
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: sweet i go hey ru you're your dad brought uh
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: wanted me to give you this towel you'll be right
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: back do you you want it she kind of goes
• 34:54
  Speaker 2: like that and then i go okay like and i'm
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: holding out she doesn't reach so she has her arms
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: like one hand on cake like a birthday cake and
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: so i kind of like put it right here on the.
• 35:05
  Speaker 3: Arm and she just kind of like stands it doesn't
• 35:07
  Speaker 3: move and then eventually i look and i go Yeah,
• 35:09
  Speaker 3: this is not going to work.
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: I grab the towel back. I go, I'm just going
• 35:13
  Speaker 2: to wait until your dad gets back. Good instincts. Will
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: comes back around. He goes, did you not give her
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: the towel? I'm like, I tried. I think she's too
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: focused on the cake. That was good instinct, though, because
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: that towel was going to have cake all over it. Yeah.
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: All over it.
• 35:30
  Speaker 3: So I felt pretty good about how I handled it,
• 35:32
  Speaker 3: but I was just sitting there.
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: I did come over to Chef, and Chef hands me
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: the towel. I was like, did you not give her
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: the towel? Dude, that's incredible. I fell in a weird
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: spot where I'm like, No, no, no. I tried, but
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: I didn't want to throw Rue under the bus. There
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: was a part of me that was like, she was
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: just focused on the cake. So I kind of like
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: tried to mediate and go, you know, I just figured
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: maybe I would wait a second. Also, I am chef.
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: I do a pod with your dad. Like I promise
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: I'm not a stranger danger. There's this big thing. There's
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: big things with burritos. I took care of the burrito.
• 36:02
  Speaker 2: I did the burritos. It's all good. So now we're good. Oh, okay. Dude,
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: you unlocked a memory, by the way, with.
• 36:10
  Speaker 4: Because my parents were, like, not weird about pools, but
• 36:13
  Speaker 4: they were, like, real strict about pool safety. My dad,
• 36:19
  Speaker 4: in high school, at a... It was, like, their fall camp.
• 36:24
  Speaker 4: They would bus them out to... God, I got to
• 36:28
  Speaker 4: remember in Texas. It was, like, middle of nowhere, burrs
• 36:31
  Speaker 4: in the grass to kind of, like, harden the boys up.
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: Mm-hmm.
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: And there was one swimming pool. They'd let all the
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: guys jump into the swimming pool after practice. It's a
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: shallow pool. And one of his teammates dove head first. Oh. Paralyzed.
• 36:48
  Speaker 5: What?
• 36:50
  Speaker 4: Instantly paralyzed. No one noticed except for my dad. Because
• 36:54
  Speaker 4: everybody's in the pool all at once. And my dad,
• 36:58
  Speaker 4: it was like a friend of his. He thought he
• 37:00
  Speaker 4: was kidding and pretending to drown. And then thankfully my
• 37:03
  Speaker 4: dad went underneath the water to like look at his
• 37:08
  Speaker 4: face and like blow bubbles at him. Like, dude, what
• 37:10
  Speaker 4: are you doing? And the guy's just like blankly staring
• 37:13
  Speaker 4: at my dad. My dad was like, oh my God.
• 37:16
  Speaker 4: And then just like grabbed him and pulled him out
• 37:19
  Speaker 4: of the pool and saved.
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: It was crazy. Crazy story. Guy's still alive today. Oh
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: my God, dude. Is that not insane? Yeah. Yeah.
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 37:29
  Speaker 4: So my parents were always like real strict about like
• 37:33
  Speaker 4: pool safety and stuff and like keep an eye on
• 37:36
  Speaker 4: and that unlocked it. I'm going to be a mess
• 37:39
  Speaker 4: when Scarlett starts swimming. I might be a mess the
• 37:41
  Speaker 4: rest of the fucking day.
• 37:43
  Speaker 2: After that story. Oh, dude, I know. Jesus. Dude, that's
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: a crazy.
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: I wasn't expecting that. Like, okay, yeah, I dove in
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: a shallow end. You hit your head. It's like, oh,
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: tough way to learn.
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, dude. Oh, yeah. Crazy short. And then I
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: almost drowned on a pool cover. It was a green
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: pool cover.
• 37:59
  Speaker 4: And I thought it was a putting green at a
• 38:02
  Speaker 4: house because you couldn't see the edges of the pool.
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: I was like five feet.
• 38:08
  Speaker 4: And I walked out onto the pool cover and it
• 38:11
  Speaker 4: just completely closed in on me. And like water was
• 38:14
  Speaker 4: starting to fill up and my cousin went and grabbed
• 38:17
  Speaker 4: my dad and he saved me. So two saves for
• 38:20
  Speaker 4: Papa Sherm on drowning, which is crazy.
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, the pool stuff is scary, bro. Scary, dude.
• 38:26
  Speaker 4: And Jill said that's like, I'm pretty sure in infants
• 38:30
  Speaker 4: or toddler stage, the leading cause of death is drowning,
• 38:35
  Speaker 4: which is nutso.
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, man. And she said some kids will just like
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: fall into a puddle, like face first in a puddle
• 38:42
  Speaker 2: and they get knocked out a little bit and it's crazy. Yeah,
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: the pool stuff is, it's a scary deal. It was tough.
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: I was actually kind of surprised Scotty not wanting to
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: go into the pool because I thought for sure once
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: Rue's in there, Scotty's going to want to go in. Oh,
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: she's still not crazy about the pool, you're saying?
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: No, she is. I'm surprised she didn't want to go
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: in the pool. That day.
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: Even when I had Scotty's swimsuit on, it was to
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: be in the foam area, like all the bubbles that
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: were coming, to play in the bubbles because I didn't
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: have a swim diaper for her. That was the one
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: thing I was like, do you happen to have a...
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: A 22-month, two-year-old swim diaper.
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: It's so clutch that they had it. They didn't have
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: a swim diaper. They had the swimsuit. Oh, the swimsuit,
• 39:23
  Speaker 2: not the swim diaper. But Taylor was like, this will
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: be fine because if she's just placing the bubbles, she
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: won't be getting wet. But when Rue got in the pool,
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: I'm like, surely. Scotty's going to be screaming to get
• 39:31
  Speaker 2: in the pool. Fortunately, she didn't. I kept her busy
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: with like Pokemon balls, like all the kids are playing
• 39:35
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• 41:51
  Speaker 2: But yeah, man. Good day. Good day at the birthday party. Overall,
• 41:54
  Speaker 2: it was a fun day at the birthday party. Dude,
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: the pokey party sounded legit. Yeah.
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: They have five points pizza coming in. So I'm like,
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: they want a pizza. So I'm giving Scotty a bite,
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: giving Rue a bite. Scotty a bite, Rue a bite.
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: They want the Italian. So there's a lemonade going on.
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: They're bickering about the lemonade. I'm like, Scotty, I got
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: a backpack full.
• 42:12
  Speaker 2: I'm equipped. Let's get some apple juice. Let's get some applesauce.
• 42:15
  Speaker 2: Here's a meat stick. I wish I'd been there, dude.
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: That would have been fun. There's two.
• 42:20
  Speaker 4: There's one reason why I'm glad that I wasn't there.
• 42:23
  Speaker 4: We had to sell Jill's car. So that's the second
• 42:27
  Speaker 4: reason is like it was that needed to happen. We
• 42:31
  Speaker 4: needed to sell Jill's car.
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: We got it done.
• 42:34
  Speaker 4: And that is like that's one of those things when
• 42:36
  Speaker 4: you check it off the list, it feels so big
• 42:39
  Speaker 4: in your head. But once we did it, we're like, oh,
• 42:41
  Speaker 4: my God, so glad I did that. And two, man,
• 42:43
  Speaker 4: if there were puppies that you could leave that party with,
• 42:47
  Speaker 4: you're looking at a proud owner of a brand new puppy.
• 42:52
  Speaker 4: And I know these puppies.
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: Were getting after it on each other.
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: Everyone listening.
• 42:58
  Speaker 3: They were going at it and they're such sweet looking
• 43:00
  Speaker 3: dogs too. And they were all of a sudden, because
• 43:03
  Speaker 3: there is right next to the ball watching cave, all
• 43:05
  Speaker 3: of a sudden you're like the whole time. And I
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: told Taylor, I'm like, hey, these dogs are kind of
• 43:09
  Speaker 3: getting after it.
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: What breed? There's some type of oodle, right?
• 43:14
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 43:16
  Speaker 2: Poodle-ish, not poodle, but they didn't have the hair for
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: a poodle. Some type of hypo. It seemed that way.
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: Maybe not, though. I have no clue.
• 43:23
  Speaker 3: They look like the Pokemon Eevee for anyone at home
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: that knows Pokemon.
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: That's kind of like... Did you happen to see some
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: of the kids, too, pick them up and just drop them?
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: I didn't pay that much attention. I just would hear
• 43:36
  Speaker 3: the audible barking. I'd see them just start going at
• 43:38
  Speaker 3: each other. And some kids are in there, like, starting
• 43:40
  Speaker 3: to cry and scream. I'm like, yo, is somebody going
• 43:42
  Speaker 3: to save that kid? Like, the dog's kind of attacking
• 43:44
  Speaker 3: the kid.
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: With your Italian soda and Scotty what's going.
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: On one of the boys like has it and then
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: just kind of drops it and I'm thinking this little
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: badass kid dude and the girl's like don't drop the
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: dog I'm like yeah tell his ass some of the
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: sights and sounds you just kind of like observe and witness.
• 44:08
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah dude especially at a something like that where
• 44:10
  Speaker 4: there's so much going on like so much fun stuff.
• 44:13
  Speaker 2: Dude, that's why I love the... I know we talked
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: about that at your dinner party. I love carnivals, amusement parks,
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: all types of stuff like that where there's just so
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: many sights and sounds and kids, dude. But to the point,
• 44:28
  Speaker 2: I think Jill would have actually... Since our dogs just.
• 44:32
  Speaker 4: Went to grandma's house, I know that the listeners would
• 44:37
  Speaker 4: just destroy me in the comments of, what do you mean, blah, blah, blah?
• 44:41
  Speaker 3: Guys.
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: I love my wife, but she loves rescuing animals so much.
• 44:48
  Speaker 4: It's kind of insane. We had two dogs. We would
• 44:52
  Speaker 4: have had five dogs if it had been Jill's way.
• 44:55
  Speaker 4: We just had two.
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: If you're married to one of those two, there's really
• 44:59
  Speaker 2: no choice. Oh, dude.
• 45:02
  Speaker 4: I've had to really fight to not bring a dog in.
• 45:08
  Speaker 4: Of like, honey, I love you so much, but we
• 45:11
  Speaker 4: ain't doing the dog thing. We already have two. We
• 45:13
  Speaker 4: live in an apartment. Now you want a lab. Sometimes
• 45:20
  Speaker 4: you got to be the voice of reason.
• 45:23
  Speaker 2: I love you, honey. We love you. We love you, Jill.
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: But sometimes you got to be the voice of reason.
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: My wife's not been feeling good. I love her. I
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: feel bad for her. But she's got to get better.
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: But the effort.
• 45:40
  Speaker 3: Low effort.
• 45:40
  Speaker 2: Low effort. He's going to start taking her medicine to
• 45:45
  Speaker 2: start feeling better. She has to, man. Because you can't
• 45:49
  Speaker 2: do it all by yourself. I can't be just Mr. Mom.
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: And I love my wife. A ton. Dude, I adore.
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: But your best ability is availability. You know what I mean?
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: I know exactly what you mean. And I feel bad.
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: I'm like, look, I look and I'm like, hey, let
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: me rip. I'll take the kids. You get some rest.
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: That did happen. And I came home and she had
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: spaghetti made. She was still, she was solid. But there's
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: moments where I'm just like.
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: Hey, let's check your temp. No fever. Okay, so you're
• 46:30
  Speaker 2: getting better. That's great. That's great. I would still take
• 46:34
  Speaker 2: things slow, but like you're getting better. Yeah. So you
• 46:37
  Speaker 2: get help more.
• 46:38
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: So you can clean this up over here. Well, I'm
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: getting the dinner ready. You can get the placemats and
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: everything else out. Yeah. Oh, my God. I'm joking, sweetheart.
• 46:51
  Speaker 2: We're kidding.
• 46:51
  Speaker 4: We love to have fun on the pod. And we
• 46:54
  Speaker 4: should have eight dogs. I should get eight dogs. I
• 46:57
  Speaker 4: think Jill does have a point there. Do we want
• 47:01
  Speaker 4: to do our crack of cold ones?
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 47:05
  Speaker 2: What would my crack? I feel like I have a
• 47:07
  Speaker 2: few floating through my head. We're in a phase. He's
• 47:12
  Speaker 2: got one. I don't want to be naked. Go in.
• 47:14
  Speaker 2: And I do want... We'll get you in the game.
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: We'll get you in the game. You can make a play.
• 47:17
  Speaker 2: I can make a sub. Before we fully... It doesn't
• 47:19
  Speaker 2: even need to be a sub. It can be an addition.
• 47:21
  Speaker 2: It'd be an addition. That would be awesome. Before we
• 47:23
  Speaker 2: fully get into it, though, we do have a brand
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: new flavor. Olipop, caramel apple. We did a little taste testing.
• 47:33
  Speaker 4: I think it was Deke that said it feels like
• 47:36
  Speaker 4: this would be a really good float.
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: Or was it you, Will? It was one who... I
• 47:41
  Speaker 2: know I was super into it. I was super into
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: the idea of the float.
• 47:43
  Speaker 3: It was Deke.
• 47:45
  Speaker 2: I just said super into the idea. So there you go.
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: I didn't have the idea, but I do think it
• 47:49
  Speaker 2: was me. That's incredible. And run that tape back, chef,
• 47:54
  Speaker 2: because Deke just mouthed out to me, it was me.
• 48:05
  Speaker 2: But we have our caramel apple, and we're going to
• 48:08
  Speaker 2: be making little floats today for our Crack a Cold
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: One segment. Deke's going to make those for us. Hey, listen.
• 48:15
  Speaker 2: Drink of the fall. Some are saying, dude. A lot
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: of people are saying. Caramel apple, drink of the fall.
• 48:21
  Speaker 2: A lot of people are saying. Spooktober. Drink of Spooktober.
• 48:25
  Speaker 2: The caramel apple's good.
• 48:26
  Speaker 4: And we've already proven on this show, we like it
• 48:29
  Speaker 4: by itself. It doesn't need the ice cream. We just said,
• 48:34
  Speaker 4: oh man, it's fall.
• 48:35
  Speaker 2: This would be incredible. This and ice cream float. We
• 48:37
  Speaker 2: have to do it. Yeah.
• 48:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: But Mike, crack a cold one. We're in just in
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: such a fun phase. Like my wife and I took
• 48:45
  Speaker 1: a pause this morning to watch Rue and Scotty on
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: the couch. Like they just play together. They play together
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: really well for 85% of the time. Like there's times
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: where obviously Rue's annoyed by her. Scotty's bullying her. Like
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: all this stuff happens. But I love that you're just
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: getting that out of the... out of the little bucket,
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: but watching them play together, it just warms your heart, man.
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: And they were having a moment together on the couch.
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: Like Rue's like reading her a book or saying whatever
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: Rue's saying about the book.
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Scotty's laughing. She's having fun, but just watching them
• 49:15
  Speaker 2: play together. It is, it is awesome. I would say
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: that's where my crack a cold one is. And also
• 49:20
  Speaker 2: Shockwave this morning. I didn't hear it. Shockwave this morning. Oh, okay.
• 49:32
  Speaker 4: I thought that's what you said. And I know we
• 49:33
  Speaker 4: were talking about amusement parks earlier. And so I didn't
• 49:36
  Speaker 4: know if you had made your way down to Dallas-Fort Worth.
• 49:39
  Speaker 4: six flags over texas or not but you were here
• 49:42
  Speaker 4: this weekend so i'm guessing yeah yeah crack a call
• 49:46
  Speaker 4: hey crack a call hey congratulations thank you congratulations golf
• 49:50
  Speaker 4: club um so she is feeling better hey.
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: You want to know what's funny dude and we're joking
• 50:01
  Speaker 1: we're joking we had a good laugh.
• 50:05
  Speaker 2: Cause I'm like, I'm like grinning. I'm like grinning to
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: myself before I even say this, but we're laying in
• 50:11
  Speaker 2: bed one morning. Do you need a fresh one? Yeah,
• 50:13
  Speaker 2: I'll take it. Oh yeah. I got one.
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: And, uh, she wasn't feeling well and I'm cuddling up
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: to her and I'm like, I just whispered here. I
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: was like, you thinking what I'm thinking? She just responded
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: face looking away from me. She's like, probably not.
• 50:39
  Speaker 2: We just start laughing.
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: I just roll over. I'm having a good chuckle. I'm like, oh,
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: you don't want some Dr. D? What are you talking about?
• 50:48
  Speaker 3: Dr.
• 50:48
  Speaker 2: D might help you out. Let's check that temperature. You
• 50:55
  Speaker 2: know what? I think I got a fever. I think
• 51:02
  Speaker 2: I got a fever over here. All right. Probably not. Man,
• 51:07
  Speaker 2: I still don't feel well. I'm like, no, you don't.
• 51:09
  Speaker 2: You think what I'm thinking? Aim for the bushes? Epic quote.
• 51:14
  Speaker 4: What's your crack of coal one, brother?
• 51:19
  Speaker 3: My crack of coal one is to my parents because
• 51:23
  Speaker 3: I just moved out. I did a full year at home.
• 51:26
  Speaker 3: Thank you, mom and dad, for housing me.
• 51:28
  Speaker 2: It's been awesome. It's been a really cool year. What?
• 51:31
  Speaker 3: Raising you, raising me, everything all above, but especially letting
• 51:35
  Speaker 3: me come back and stay with him for a year
• 51:36
  Speaker 3: in college.
• 51:37
  Speaker 2: It was like, awesome. They probably loved it, bro. They did.
• 51:40
  Speaker 3: It was like my dad and mom both were like
• 51:42
  Speaker 3: emotional when I was like, Hey, this is the last
• 51:44
  Speaker 3: week before I move out.
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: Cause it was, uh, such a stark contrast. Oh my God. Sorry. No,
• 51:51
  Speaker 2: it's good. This is awesome. Yeah, this is unbelievably good,
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: by the way. This is awesome.
• 51:57
  Speaker 4: Olipop caramel apple with just a little bit of vanilla
• 52:01
  Speaker 4: ice cream and oh my god.
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: Sorry, chef. Not to interrupt, chef. Holy shit. But yeah,
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: that was it. And then the new house. Living with Matt. Yeah.
• 52:13
  Speaker 2: How is it with the Goon Beret? It's actually been
• 52:17
  Speaker 2: really good. It's a nice home. It was just recently built.
• 52:21
  Speaker 3: Uh outside of nashville and i've been able to cook
• 52:24
  Speaker 3: get back into like the cooking groove making stuff for
• 52:27
  Speaker 3: the roommates so far so good like it's a nice
• 52:30
  Speaker 3: home everyone has space and.
• 52:32
  Speaker 2: Who do you think is going to be a problem.
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: Like the way you operate everybody it's like you know
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: your roommate your roommates you got a few of you
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: boys in the house you're how old are you 24
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: about to be 25 okay so you're not like that
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: at all yet if any if it's gonna be anyone
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: it's gonna be matt cause we work together, but we've
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: already put kind of parameters in of like, Hey, we
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: can't let that the usual, like we have to be
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: really honest with each other. And if it's like, Hey,
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: I need you to walk the fuck away, then that's
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: what it's gotta be. But if there's any chance that
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: we have a fourth roommate who doesn't has a girlfriend,
• 53:08
  Speaker 1: so we don't see him a lot. And then it's
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: Matt's best friend, Scott. Scott's a dog. I don't think,
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: I don't think it would be Scott. If anything, it
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: would be Matt, but I think it's going to work.
• 53:17
  Speaker 2: I really do. We'll see. He's one that strikes me
• 53:23
  Speaker 2: as like, you're wise beyond your years. I'll just leave
• 53:29
  Speaker 2: it at that. Chef's going to be holding it down
• 53:31
  Speaker 2: in your mind. I agree. I'm excited to hear about.
• 53:37
  Speaker 4: Any housewarming party, any first house party yet?
• 53:43
  Speaker 2: Possibly. Nothing yet.
• 53:46
  Speaker 3: We had a scott our other roommate had his girlfriend
• 53:49
  Speaker 3: in for a while and that she lives long distance so.
• 53:53
  Speaker 2: Kind of like uh how long was she in about
• 53:58
  Speaker 2: a week and a half okay and the boys were
• 54:02
  Speaker 2: cool with that boys were cool that yeah let's go
• 54:04
  Speaker 2: the boys gotta be yeah oh yeah yeah the boys
• 54:08
  Speaker 2: gotta be until you're kind of behind their back yeah
• 54:10
  Speaker 2: yeah yeah it's like how long she's staying I'm just
• 54:16
  Speaker 2: saying it's a lot of people in the house. It's
• 54:18
  Speaker 2: a lot of people.
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: Like, I kind of, like, I'm that way. Isn't she
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: going on? I can kind of be a Debbie Downer.
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: Not like, I'm not just talking couples and girlfriends.
• 54:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: Just like when somebody comes and they're staying a long time,
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: I'm just like, what are we doing? Did you know
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: she was going to be staying a week and a half?
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: Right before she landed.
• 54:37
  Speaker 2: Hey, there you go. Before she landed? That's perfect. I
• 54:41
  Speaker 2: just moved in. It was the day I moved in.
• 54:43
  Speaker 3: So it wasn't like a, I hadn't, me and matt
• 54:46
  Speaker 3: had no issue with it it was cool it's long
• 54:49
  Speaker 3: distance i get it i do the same thing yeah
• 54:51
  Speaker 3: i'm just.
• 54:51
  Speaker 2: A space guy i i'm a need space guy.
• 54:54
  Speaker 3: You would you would like this house there's a couple
• 54:56
  Speaker 3: places you can go so it's not like you're trapped
• 54:59
  Speaker 3: into it's not like an apartment where you're like but.
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: Also it's your house you don't like not you know
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: being able to navigate around your house i'm in the
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: boat of the way you want to navigate around it
• 55:08
  Speaker 1: you know what i mean.
• 55:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah it's like you can't walk around like shirt off
• 55:12
  Speaker 3: or anything like that sucks but other than that like
• 55:14
  Speaker 3: i'm a person to where i don't that stuff has
• 55:17
  Speaker 3: never bothered me much i've always been like hey i'm
• 55:20
  Speaker 3: cool with whatever i lived in a house with eight
• 55:21
  Speaker 3: guys in college yeah that's great that was and that
• 55:25
  Speaker 3: did suck but that was for different reasons we were
• 55:27
  Speaker 3: all idiots and it.
• 55:28
  Speaker 2: Was about to say we had a house of seven
• 55:31
  Speaker 2: uh my senior year so that's too many Way too
• 55:34
  Speaker 2: many when it gets that big. Oh, for sure. For sure.
• 55:36
  Speaker 4: And it was, I mean, sizable house, but like doubling
• 55:40
  Speaker 4: up on rooms and stuff. I was in a damn
• 55:43
  Speaker 4: near a closet. They called it the penalty box. It
• 55:47
  Speaker 4: was like basically an office had a baby with a closet.
• 55:51
  Speaker 4: And that was my bedroom my senior year. But to
• 55:56
  Speaker 4: that point, I don't want to push Chef in any
• 56:01
  Speaker 4: sort of direction. I'm not telling you what to do.
• 56:04
  Speaker 4: I'm just saying you can still walk around that house
• 56:07
  Speaker 4: with your shirt off.
• 56:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure. You can. Always could.
• 56:11
  Speaker 4: You can go into the kitchen just in your underwear,
• 56:14
  Speaker 4: stretch a little bit, get something out of the fridge,
• 56:18
  Speaker 4: drink right out of the gallon jug for milk.
• 56:23
  Speaker 2: You can do that if you want. The freedom of
• 56:26
  Speaker 2: choice is always there. Yes. I'm not telling you to
• 56:30
  Speaker 2: do that, but... Always can. That would be sick. Then
• 56:34
  Speaker 2: you're really pissing on the hydrant. This is my house.
• 56:38
  Speaker 2: Let everybody know. We're just true curiosity, having some fun.
• 56:44
  Speaker 2: He's sitting there trying to balance the dynamic. Boys, listen
• 56:48
  Speaker 2: to the show. Like, am I.
• 56:52
  Speaker 2: I know Matt's going to end up listening. It could
• 56:54
  Speaker 2: have been a house divided while the stay was happening.
• 56:57
  Speaker 2: You never know. You do never know.
• 56:59
  Speaker 4: But from behind the scenes stuff that I've talked with Chef,
• 57:03
  Speaker 4: if said friend with girlfriend that stayed for a week
• 57:06
  Speaker 4: and a half is listening, he was very cool with it.
• 57:09
  Speaker 2: And it sounded like everyone was. Yeah. Oh, yeah. You
• 57:13
  Speaker 2: already know. Matt's a crock. You get that girlfriend and.
• 57:20
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  Speaker 2: Let's get into some shout outs. I have a very
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  Speaker 2: quick Crack a Cold one. Oh, you still didn't say
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  Speaker 2: I know, I know. My Crack a Cold one, very quick.
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 4: Jill's birthday is on the 18th, which is one day
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 4: before your birthday, the 19th. Happy birthday, Jill. Happy birthday, Will.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 4: Big opportunity for me. Some listeners that were with us,
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 4: if you'd started before this first Mother's Day.
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 2: For Jill, I whiffed.
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 4: I blew it on Mother's Day. I could have done
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 4: way better. We took notes. And I'm not going to
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 4: spoil anything on the show in case Jill listens this
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 4: week before her birthday on Friday. But I got some plans.
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 4: Plans that are already in action. Things that are already
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 4: ordered and received at our house. We're dialed in.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 2: We're dialed. We're making up for Mother's Day.
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 4: And showing her, honey, this is how I want to
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 4: celebrate you for the rest of my life.
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 2: Because I love you. Yeah.
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 4: Every day's your birthday. Every day's your birthday, honey. But yeah,
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 4: that's my crackicle one. I am very excited. Happy birthday
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 4: to Jill.
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 2: Happy birthday. And happy birthday to Will. Thank you. Thank you, fellas.
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 2: Thank you, fellas.
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: Let's get into some shout outs, shall we? I got
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: one here from Ryan Zambrick. Wifey shout out.
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 2: Hey, gang.
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 1: Ryan from Nashville here, father of the artist behind the
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 1: sock puppet dance party. Drawing you guys featured in an
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 1: early Soda the Pod. Wanted to shout out my wife
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: because she's a rock star both at home and at work.
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: September is a hard month for her as it was
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: for her mother's birth month. We lost her mom February
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: of 2019, two days before we were going to announce
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 1: to the family that we were expecting our first child.
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 2: Oh, man.
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: Now, as a family, we are blessed with two kids,
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: both born in September, and I know it's painful for
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: my wife to show joy for our children and also
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: mourn her mom every year. Ashley, thank you so much
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: for being such a trooper and a motivator for our
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 1: children to always be kind and do their best. To
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: anyone hearing this, know that you're enough, so please stay.
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: September is also Suicide Prevention Month, and that hits home
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: with our family and many others around the world. Stay
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 1: blessed for the dad's gang. Take out the trash and
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: watch your mouth if you don't want your four-year-old son's
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: favorite word to be fucker.
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 2: Hey, great dad hack there at the end. Good dad hack.
• 1:02:48
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• 1:02:51
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• 1:02:56
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• 1:02:57
  Speaker 4: I'm writing to share the story of my husband, Matthew,
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 4: who's been a dedicated listener of For the Dad's podcast
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 4: since day one. With his birthday coming up on September.
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 2: 16th, More September birthdays? You're listening to this episode on
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 2: your birthday, Matthew.
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  Speaker 4: Happy birthday, Matt. Happy birthday. I wanted to reach out
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 4: and thank you for being such a huge part of
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 4: his fatherhood journey.
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 2: Thank you.
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 4: When we were expecting our first son, Matthew made a
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 4: massive sacrifice for our family and completely upended his routine
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 4: by switching to the overnight shift. It was a huge adjustment,
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 4: but it allowed him to be fully present during the day.
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 4: Our little boy just turned one on September 4th. To
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 4: top it all off, we are currently expecting our second son.
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 2: This coming spring. Hello, hello.
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 4: Because, sorry, because he has tuned in since your very
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 4: first episode. Your podcast has been his constant companion through
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 4: the overnight hours. He is truly inspiring. He is a
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 4: truly inspiring dad who always puts family first, navigating an
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 4: upside down sleep schedule and now prepping for two under two.
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 4: Thank you for creating such an incredible space for fathers.
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 4: Your show has truly made a difference in our lives
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 4: as Matthew navigates the wild world of modern dad life.
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 4: I've included some pictures of him with our son and
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 4: our family.
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  Speaker 2: Best regards. Look at Matthew, dude. Look at Matthew. Shout
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 2: out Matthew. Look at the camel ride. And shout out
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 2: Janae too for riding in and getting that birthday present.
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 2: literally perfect timing by her. Hell yeah. And if he's
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 2: listening to us right now overnight, dude, happy birthday, man.
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 2: Happy birthday. Happy birthday, man. Yeah. A couple of coupons.
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 2: A couple of coupons. Put a bow on it. Shockwave.
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 2: Because the one's coming in the spring.
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 4: Yes.
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 2: Aiden Rockne. What's up, boys?
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 1: Wanted to give two shout-outs. One to my brother for life, Josh,
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: and the other to my sweet, beautiful wife, Rachel. Josh
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: got me hooked on the pod in November, not long
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: after I found out my wife was pregnant.
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 2: Shout-out, Josh, bro. That's how you put PT Sickos on
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 2: the pod. Yes, dude.
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 1: Get them on the team. He is the father of
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: two-and-a-half-year-old Kyler, a beast of a father, husband, and friend,
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: and a longtime PT Sicko. He's been with me through
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: the whole process, giving advice and support. And I think
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: we need to hype up our boys more. Second shout
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: out to my amazing wife, Rachel. She absolutely crushed pregnancy
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: and delivery and has been putting on an absolute clinic
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 1: of what parenthood should look like ever since. She's the
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: example I constantly strive to emulate. And Bethany and I
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 1: are so unbelievably lucky to have her. Keep making us smile.
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 2: Aiden. Shout out, Aiden. Shout out, Rachel. Shout out, Josh.
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 4: And shout out the boys more. I thought that was
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 4: a good little lesson in there. We got to shout
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 4: our boys out more. Got to shout the boys out more.
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 4: Except for Nick. We don't shout out Nick.
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 2: Nick, I'll text you. I'll text you. We're good. We're good.
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 2: Tyler Campbell wrote in. This is a new dad alert.
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 2: He said, hey, boys. Also, I got to read this
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 2: subject line. This is a great subject line. All caps.
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 2: New dad alert. West Virginia. P.T. Sicko. Hey, boys. P.T.
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 2: Sicko here. And now a proud first time dad.
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 4: My wife and I welcomed our son Ford into the
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 4: world last Thursday for On the third, at eight pounds,
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 4: nine ounces, strong, healthy, and loud, and just a dream
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 4: come true, having a son keeps my last name carrying on.
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 4: Let's go. The last few days have been some of
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 4: the most overwhelmingly... joyful, and yet stressful of my life,
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 4: but my mom and baby are healthy and happy, and
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 4: I count my blessings for that. As a West Virginia fan,
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 4: on Ford's second day of life, we had him decked
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 4: out in his Mountaineer gear to kick off the college
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 4: football season and watched the game together from the hospital room,
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 4: our first and absolutely not our last, pick attached. And then,
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 4: take me home, took on a whole new meaning. The
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 4: next day, we got to bring Ford home. And of course,
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 4: I made sure to rock my no one is coming
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 4: to save you shirt from bustingwiththeboys.com, pick attached. That shirt
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 4: was the epitome of exactly what I was feeling as
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 4: we walked out of the hospital, no nurses, No on-call doctors,
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 4: no safety net, just me and my wife and this
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 4: brand new human that has forever changed our lives for
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 4: the better. Overwhelming joy, yet terrifying and exactly right all
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 4: at the same time. I just wanted to say thank you.
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 4: I started listening to the show the day my wife
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 4: told me that she was pregnant. And I've listened to
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 4: every episode and spread the good word to anyone who
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 4: will listen. The show genuinely helped me begin to wrap
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 4: my head around what being a dad actually looks like
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 4: day to day. Somewhere between the sleep deprivation and diaper blowouts, good.
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 4: Having your voices in my ear reminded me that everyone
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 4: feels overwhelmed at first, but we get to do this
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 4: has meant more than you probably realize. What you are
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 4: building with the platform is real, it's helpful, and it's appreciated.
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 4: So thank you for doing it. Proud new dad, Tyler Campbell.
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 2: From Connecticut.
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 1: Shout out Tyler, man. Nobody's coming to save you.
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 2: No directions. No nothing that he talked about. Truly. He
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 2: has a perfect shirt. BWTB.com. You can go and cop it.
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 1: Marshall Morin. It's with great honor that I write this email.
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: I've been a listener since day one. I have waited
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: nine long months to finally join Papa Team 6.
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 2: What?
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: Eleanor Morin joined the world September 7th on Labor Day.
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: Being a dad is better than I could have ever imagined.
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 1: Huge shout out to my wife, Claire, because labor is
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 1: no joke and she crushed it. Baby Eleanor's big first
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: week keeps getting bigger. Her first week of NFL football
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 1: is upon her. I have one right here, ripping a
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 1: Vikings jersey. Vikings, dad's favorite team versus Packers, mom's favorite team.
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: Playing week one to determine her fandom forever. Have a
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 1: great week, boys.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 2: Skol.
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 3: Skol.
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 2: Because dad won. Dad won. Vikings taking down the Packers, too.
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 2: I was like, oh, come on. Come on. Skol, Vikes.
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 2: Carson Wentz comes off the bench. Too easy. Takes down
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 2: the Pack, bro. And poor Kyler, dude. Hate that for
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 2: Kyler Murray. Yeah, I know. I know. Tough scene for
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 2: Kyler Murray. Yeah. Tough scene for Kyler Murray. We've got
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 2: the photo here.
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: This is from a PT6 community here.
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 2: Oh, let's go. Donnie Maz on YouTube. Stevie Mozzarella. Stevie
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 2: Mozzarella from Staten Island checking back in. Boys, before week one,
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 2: running a dad Olympics. Bunch of dads getting after it,
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 2: impressing their wives, and the crafts learned from the leaders
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 2: before entering the man cave. Events? Events?
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 1: Changing a doll's diaper with chocolate pudding on it. A
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: laundry basket themed beer pong shooting with clothes. Kids lawnmower
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 1: being put to use in an obstacle course. A 10
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: piece kids puzzle followed by a bottle of themed flip cup.
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 1: Was pondering if any of the troops had any more
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: events and ideas. Bro, Donnie Mozzarella.
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 4: Hey, I want to be at Donnie Mozzarella's man cave, man.
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 4: Lord knows what that man cave's like. That's got to
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 4: be where to watch the game.
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 2: You have any more ideas or events?
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 4: Well, I've been seeing the watermelon with the baby oil
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 4: on it. Catching a watermelon with baby oil has been
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 4: big on social media. Maybe even putting a diaper on
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 4: a watermelon that has baby oil on it. That sounds
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 4: like that could be kind of hard.
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I'm wondering, too, if there's something where you could...
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 1: Get the baby bag going like backpacks. You got to
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: stack it the right way. Transfer something over.
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 2: Ooh, that is good.
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: Or get like a relay going on, but it has
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: to be like things like the diapers got to be
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 1: in the right spot. The wipes got to be in
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: the right spot. You know, bottles or whatever on the
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: sides of the backpack. You got to stuff it.
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 2: The right way.
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 4: I don't know how you'd get the fake baby foot,
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 4: but dude, little kid boots, man. You want to talk
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 4: about something that's impossible, dude. Oh, I can't get a
• 1:11:26
  Speaker 4: boot on putting them on.
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 2: Oh my God. Some of that stuff pisses me off, dude.
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 4: And yeah, I got to put my hand on top
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 4: of the, the knee and then I'm pushing, but she's
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 4: straightening her leg. I mean, there's no right way to
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 4: do it. You'll just sit still.
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 2: Please. And once you sit still, then God knows where
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 2: I'm pulling on the boot to then make sure the
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 2: heel clicks. Yeah. Get excited.
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 1: Cause she's going to get a little older and she's
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 1: going to be like, no, I want to do it. Oh,
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: for the love of God. So you're telling them it's
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 1: okay to ask for help. It's okay to ask for help.
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: They want to put it on. It's wrong foot.
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 2: They get frustrated. Meltdowns happen. 15 minutes later. Honey, we're
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 2: going to be late to the blah.
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 5: Blah, blah.
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 2: Hey, sweetheart, just let dad do it. You want to
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 2: know why? Because dad loves you. I'm doing this because
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 2: I love you. Love you, dude. And your mom's up
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 2: my ass right now. We're going to be late, honey.
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 2: I know. I already know. AJ Mitchell. He writes in,
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 2: PT Sicko preseason All-American.
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 4: What's up, fellas? AJ from Michigan here. I'm a semen
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 4: team fucking sicko. Listening to your podcast makes me so
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 4: excited to be a dad and has me prepared to
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 4: be a PT Sicko preseason All-American.
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 2: Looking forward to all the dad dubs and dad Ls,
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 2: even though I know fatherhood is going to run me
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 2: over like one shelf trying to meet Blake Corum in
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 2: the A-gap. Go blue and keep it under an hour.
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 4: And I'll read that last part. Did you catch that
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 4: last part?
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 2: No, because I'm reading this one from Jordan Haag. And
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 2: he's taking a shot at me for mowing the lawn.
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 3: No!
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 2: A.J. Mitchell took a shot at you, too. What the
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 2: hell is A.J. saying?
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 4: He said that fatherhood's going to run over him like
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 4: one-shelf meat and Blake Corham and the A-Gap.
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 2: What is this guy saying? Target practice? Jordan Haag.
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: Boys wanted to warn the community about the PT6 merch.
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 1: The wifey and I had been trying for another trial
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: for over a year and a half.
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 2: It was very frustrating.
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: Mentally drained us. Month after month, high hopes, getting crushed
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 1: time and time again by negative results. Fast forward, a
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: couple months ago, I decided this day one listener finally
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 1: needed some PT6 gear, especially after getting my shout out
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 1: on the Sode. I got a PT6 hat along with
• 1:13:49
  Speaker 1: a We Ride It Dawn shirt because unlike Will, this
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: Missouri boy mows his lawn.
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 3: Ugh.
• 1:13:57
  Speaker 2: Which is so uncalled for. Like, I've mowed my lawn,
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 2: damn it. And when you do, you're using Gravely. Shout
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 2: out Gravely. Shout out Gravely, man. Get your lawnmower at Gravely.
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 2: What are they doing, Will? Dude, I don't know. But
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 2: guess what?
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 1: A couple weeks after receiving their merch and wearing the
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 1: hell out of it, woke up one morning, surprise, wifey pregnant.
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: Could not be more excited. First ultrasound comes in.
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 2: Twins.
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 3: Oh!
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 2: Twins.
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 4: Twins.
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 2: So if you're looking for a PT6 merchant, you're in
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 2: buds training.
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 1: That's breeding until dad status for new listeners. Maybe stick
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 1: with just a hat or get two hats and put
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 1: a few more bows on it. Pray for the wifey
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 1: and I as we get prepared to meet Aaron Donald
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: and Miles Garrett in the A-Gap in April.
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 2: As always, love the pod. You boys keep up the
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 2: good work. Jordan Hag. Oh, he has in parentheses. H-A-U-G-E
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 2: is the pronunciation? What's that? H-A-G-U-E? The pronunciation of that
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 2: didn't help differentiate from the spelling. That confuses me more.
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 2: The spelling's H-A-G, and the pronunciation is H-A-U-G-E. Hey, he's
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 2: a Missouri boy. Yeah. He's got to screw loose. He's
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 2: probably from Potosi. And then we're going to find out
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 2: that it's Haj. I spelled it out for you. It's Haj.
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 2: It's Haj. It's Haj. It's Haj. Jacob Clay wrote in,
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 2: North Carolina DMV hates PT6. This is breaking news. Wait.
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 4: Hates PT6? North Carolina DMV hates PT6. And he writes, well, boys,
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 4: I'm pissed. I recently moved from Washington to North Carolina.
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 4: That's a hell of a move. And realized I had
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 4: to get my car registered in North Carolina. And what
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 4: better time to rep for the dads than a PT6
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 4: license plate? I went in, spent half my life savings
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 4: on registering my car and custom plate, $ 600.
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 2: He put a throw up emoji.
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 4: And walked out with a huge smile knowing I'm repping
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 4: the PT sickos everywhere I went.
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 2: This is actually kind of sick. Until today, I get
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 2: this steaming pile of shit in the mail. What do
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 2: I even do with this? Do I try again and
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 2: attach a sticky note to my application for the same plate,
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 2: explaining that I'm just a proud motherfucking PT sicko that
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 2: wants to rep the community? Or do I let them win?
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 2: Serious conundrum here, boys. Now I have the official. You
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 2: need answers. You need it. You got to go. What
• 1:16:28
  Speaker 2: is the DMV?
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 4: So the DMV said the division has received your request
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 4: for personalized license plate text PT sicko. And he spelled
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 4: it with the six. The plate text is declined based
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 4: on the division's policy. Policy regarding that the Division of
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 4: Motor Vehicles must not issue a personalized plate that will
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 4: interfere with the law enforcement efforts or that a reasonable
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 4: person would, considering all reasonable contacts, find it to be
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 4: obscene or offensive.
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 2: You got to walk in the DMV.
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: You got to just hold your hand up until someone asks, like,
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 1: do you need something?
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 1: I need to talk to whoever's ready to enter the A-gap.
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 1: You go in the A-gap, and it sounds like we
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 1: have a good solve here.
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah. PT Sixer? PT Sixers? Is it the echo? Yeah,
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 2: is it the echo?
• 1:17:28
  Speaker 1: Is that what we're talking about? What's offensive about the
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 1: license plate?
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 2: Couldn't tell you. PT Sixer seems like a fix. Shockwave? Shockwave?
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 7: I had another theory in there. The end of that
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 7: Sherman says, considering all reasonable context, fine to be obscene.
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 7: This is for a reasonable person. Fine to be obscene, offensive, indecent,
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 7: or conflicting with a current plate series. My theory is
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 7: the DMV is putting out their own line of for
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 7: the dad's license plates, and that's why this guy's didn't
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 7: get approved, obviously.
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 2: Quite the conundrum. But there are solves. There are solves.
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 1: It feels like there are solves if it's the ICO.
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 1: I don't understand what's obscene.
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 2: What was it? Obscene, disgusted. Indecent. Indecent.
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 5: Indecent.
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 2: Obscure. What does obscure mean? Yeah.
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 4: PT Sitco seems so locked in. And I mean, one
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 4: thing that I have heard is that you need for
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 4: the license registration or.
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 4: Uh, plates, sometimes they want more numbers on there. So
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 4: then it's like, okay, PT six, I becomes a one.
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 4: And then the O in sicko becomes a zero. Like
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 4: maybe that's the solve. but even then i'm like because
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 4: then it's almost like that's not even a like if
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 4: a cop's reading that out they're saying pt61 uh yeah.
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 2: Pt61 ck0 What's wrong with that? That sounds like a
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 2: good solve. It seems like there are options on the table.
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 2: There are.
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 4: Jacob, you will get those plates, brother. And I hope
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 4: they refund them at least for the.
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 7: A refund for your personalized license plate has been issued,
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 7: but Chef had a better concept.
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 3: How sick would it be if he gets a PT6
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 3: license plate, gets pulled over for speeding, and the cop goes,
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 3: I was going to give you a ticket, but I
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 3: just saw something. Do you watch for the dad's podcast?
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 3: How insane? That's like a back to blue sticker. I mean,
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 3: basically same concept.
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 4: That would be, that would be the ultimate write-in email
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 4: call in of all time.
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 2: That would be peak. Oh yeah. Officers. I got one
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 2: for you out here in New Hampshire.
• 1:19:51
  Speaker 3: Uh-huh.
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 2: You going about 20 over. That's all the plates. You're
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 2: just getting a warning today. You ain't getting a ticket.
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 4: You tell a one-shelf, old fat staff, tell them I said, hey.
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 2: Be like, oh, my God. That's epic. Then you ask,
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 2: is it okay if I drop a comment talking about
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 2: this story? Yeah, just change my name or something. Yeah,
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 2: just don't put my name in there.
• 1:20:17
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you good, man. I'm going to write in, too,
• 1:20:20
  Speaker 4: so hopefully they read both of ours. Let me get
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 4: your number, man. Let's stay in touch.
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 2: We got that one. Yeah, I do have PT Fit
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 2: as well.
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 4: Go ahead, rip it, and we'll get into calls. This
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 4: one's actually very fun. This comes from Brad Tannis. Brad says,
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 4: I'm turning 40 on September 20th. 40 on 420.
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 2: Let's go. And my wife and I have our first
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 2: kid on the way.
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 4: I've been working on getting in better shape before the
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 4: little guy comes.
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 2: And have been struggling finding a good workout playlist. This
• 1:20:56
  Speaker 2: is where we come in, Will.
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 4: I think you guys should create an official PT Fit playlist.
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 4: Maybe you each pick a song to add to it
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 4: each week for a while, and then it builds the
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 4: playlist out.
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 2: I'm not against that. I'm not against that either. It's
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 2: so easy to do on Spotify. Number one, I'll just
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 2: get in on Spotify. I'll type in Till I Collapse
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 2: by Eminem.
• 1:21:21
  Speaker 1: And then I just let Spotify kind of do its
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 1: thing until I collapse.
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 2: What comes after that? I was about to say, this
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 2: might be a dream case scenario for Will Compton.
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I can add songs to the list. I've got
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 1: some bangers out there that I rip in the garage.
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 4: Will did the hype videos for Nebraska for the last
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 4: two years, like the pre-kickoff hype videos.
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 2: And, uh, chef has helped a ton with those.
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 4: Deke has helped, uh, do audio for those a couple
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 4: of times, but we filmed them right here in studio
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 4: and we'll sneak over to the side and we'll film
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 4: will where you basically just yell at a camera for
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 4: a solid, like 45, uh, second video, but it's probably
• 1:22:05
  Speaker 4: about an hour worth of filming and to get yourself hype.
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 4: Some of the songs that you play in here before
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 4: we ever start recording, you just start throwing on like
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 4: hair metal, heavy metal, 80s, 70s.
• 1:22:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you get the classic rock. You have this easy top. Yes.
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 2: You have a workout playlist in your bones, brother. Yeah, man.
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 2: The Huskers look good this year. I swear to God.
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 4: Hey, I'm only doing this because I know that your
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 4: other half, Taylor LeJuan, would want me to do this.
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 2: We got to wait. We got to wait. I can
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 2: still be excited. You like them. I like this team, yeah. Yeah,
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 2: I like this team. I know it's one game at
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 2: a time.
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 4: It's one game at a time. I just know how
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 4: I can get very excited for you. And I can
• 1:23:11
  Speaker 4: feed the fire. And I think out of respect for Taylor,
• 1:23:16
  Speaker 4: he would want me to not feed it too much.
• 1:23:19
  Speaker 2: I feel like everybody's trying to just suppress my fandom.
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 7: Is that the same Taylor LeJuan that said don't tread
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 7: on fandom? Same Taylor LeJuan that's spoken what? About 90
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 7: minutes over the last couple of weeks?
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 2: I just want to make sure it's the same guy.
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 2: I have no issue. I don't know, Sherm. I have
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 2: no issue with the fandom.
• 1:23:39
  Speaker 1: The stuff that's coming out of my mouth isn't, we're
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 1: going to the college football playoff.
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 2: It's what I've seen on film. Yes.
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 1: And who I think we could clip this year, potentially,
• 1:23:51
  Speaker 1: is what I'm talking about. I'm talking about just the
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 1: ball I've watched.
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 2: The finish from the offensive linemen. Because the Buckeyes are
• 1:23:59
  Speaker 2: going to Lincoln, Nebraska, I'm pretty sure.
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 1:24:02
  Speaker 1: I'm not here to talk about Ohio State coming to Lincoln, Nebraska.
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying what I've watched. Alex Calandria, decisive. Some fire.
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 2: Jamal Rule. Malachi. Not Malachi, Tony. What am I?
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 1: Mekhi Nelson. Mekhi Nelson in the backfield. We got some receivers, man.
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 1: We got a whole line that they are finishing people.
• 1:24:22
  Speaker 2: Luke Lindenmeyer. Indiana has to go to Lincoln, Nebraska? Indiana does.
• 1:24:27
  Speaker 2: Indiana's a very good football team. Indiana's tough.
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 1: You're not going to see me sit here and talk
• 1:24:32
  Speaker 1: shit about Cignetti or anything about that program. I'm just
• 1:24:35
  Speaker 1: saying I like the boys in red right now.
• 1:24:38
  Speaker 4: And all I'm saying is an undefeated season for Indiana, repeat,
• 1:24:43
  Speaker 4: you know, undefeated regular season.
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 2: That road leads... Right into Lincoln, Nebraska. You got to
• 1:24:50
  Speaker 2: go through. I'm just saying. And I do believe the
• 1:24:52
  Speaker 2: Huskies from Washington, they'll be in Lincoln, Nebraska. I've heard tell.
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 2: Huskies don't look that solid this year. Not as solid
• 1:25:03
  Speaker 2: as Nebraska. We just got to keep stacking weeks. Yes.
• 1:25:06
  Speaker 1: And what I feel like I need to do just
• 1:25:08
  Speaker 1: on my own when I'm watching film over there is
• 1:25:10
  Speaker 1: I just record my own videos about plays that I'm
• 1:25:11
  Speaker 1: seeing that I'm fired up about.
• 1:25:13
  Speaker 2: To give to the public, because right now it feels
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 2: like I'm getting suppressed. It feels like I'm getting Facebooked. Yes.
• 1:25:19
  Speaker 1: Or they're trying to, what's the word? They're trying to
• 1:25:22
  Speaker 1: put guardrails around me.
• 1:25:23
  Speaker 2: Well, and you tell me. Yeah, they're trying to muzzle me.
• 1:25:26
  Speaker 2: And I'm just thinking, what are we talking about? You
• 1:25:29
  Speaker 2: tell me right now. This is a little bit.
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 1: I've talked more Tennessee football with Chef than I ever
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 1: get words out with the Huskers.
• 1:25:36
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 1:25:36
  Speaker 4: And this is somewhat of a bit, but it's also real.
• 1:25:39
  Speaker 4: I want you to hear me right now. Do you
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 4: want me to feed the flame throughout the rest of
• 1:25:47
  Speaker 4: the season? Only if you're watching the games.
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 1:25:52
  Speaker 1: Like if you're actually watching the, or Anthony Calandra, Big
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 1: Ten Offensive Player of the Week over the weekend.
• 1:25:57
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 1:25:59
  Speaker 2: You saw that. I saw that. I did not watch
• 1:26:01
  Speaker 2: y'all's game. I didn't watch y'all's game.
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 1: Go to my, one of my last suites. I hit
• 1:26:06
  Speaker 1: it about 10.50 last night, 10.50 PM last night.
• 1:26:08
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 1: Just some of the highlights of the Huskers last week.
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 1: And I know it was Bowling Green. It's not even
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 1: fucking about that. I swear to God, it's not about that.
• 1:26:16
  Speaker 2: Shout out Bowling Green. Shout out Bowling Green. I'm supportive.
• 1:26:21
  Speaker 2: Thank you, Chef.
• 1:26:25
  Speaker 3: You are in a spot that I feel sometimes where
• 1:26:28
  Speaker 3: it's like our teams, we tend to get really excited
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 3: about them. And we're like, oh, maybe you start to
• 1:26:33
  Speaker 3: get some hope. And then in the past, we get
• 1:26:36
  Speaker 3: ripped down because of our teams. And it puts it
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 3: in a tough spot. And I think everyone knows how
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 3: excited you get. And they worry about Nebraska ripping you down. However,
• 1:26:49
  Speaker 3: as a Tennessee fan, I say, fuck them.
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 2: Go all in.
• 1:26:53
  Speaker 3: Because I was the same way going into Tennessee season.
• 1:26:55
  Speaker 3: I watched this play to nobody. I'm in Georgia Tech.
• 1:26:58
  Speaker 2: And I'm starting to get the itch that when Texas
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 2: comes into town in two weeks, we're going to beat
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 2: the shit out of them. There are times when our
• 1:27:08
  Speaker 2: Tennessee fans, I feel higher on Tennessee that they're allowing
• 1:27:10
  Speaker 2: themselves to be right now. And I'm like, bro.
• 1:27:13
  Speaker 1: You guys should be excited about this offense. I haven't
• 1:27:15
  Speaker 1: watched them much. I haven't broke down their defense that much.
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 1: I know we're getting completely off the rails before the
• 1:27:20
  Speaker 1: Nets podcast.
• 1:27:20
  Speaker 2: No, all good. Two picks against Georgia Tech. Mendoza.
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 4: Good Georgia Tech team, though. I watched that game. That's
• 1:27:27
  Speaker 4: a good Georgia Tech team. They're missing a few pieces
• 1:27:30
  Speaker 4: to be really good. That ain't a good.
• 1:27:32
  Speaker 1: Georgia Tech team. Brent Key's got to be so pissed off.
• 1:27:34
  Speaker 1: They're not physical. They're not playing.
• 1:27:38
  Speaker 2: Colorado? Yeah. Come on, man. Yeah. But we don't know
• 1:27:43
  Speaker 2: how good Colorado is. Not yet.
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 1: Deion was giving a hell of a post-game speech about
• 1:27:48
  Speaker 1: like that shit shouldn't be good enough.
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 2: Y'all aren't pros. Y'all aren't killers.
• 1:27:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah. They won like by 30 and Deion was ripping them.
• 1:27:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah. That's why I'm just saying it's not a bad
• 1:27:58
  Speaker 2: Georgia Tech game.
• 1:27:58
  Speaker 1: We got to hit, we have to hit voicemails because
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 1: I got to get into some film breakdown.
• 1:28:02
  Speaker 2: And do you know why we have to this week?
• 1:28:06
  Speaker 2: Tell me why.
• 1:28:06
  Speaker 4: Or sorry, why we get to. Dad Call-Ins, of course,
• 1:28:11
  Speaker 4: they're presented by our good friends at Gravely.
• 1:28:13
  Speaker 2: Shout out Gravely.
• 1:28:14
  Speaker 4: Shout out Gravely. This segment is brought to us by Gravely.
• 1:28:18
  Speaker 4: Let's get into our Dad Call-Ins this week. First one
• 1:28:21
  Speaker 4: is titled PT Sicko.
• 1:28:26
  Speaker 5: What up, boys? It's Willis from Nashville. Taking my son
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 5: to daycare right now. Last week of our mornings together
• 1:28:34
  Speaker 5: before we switch up the morning routine next week. um
• 1:28:37
  Speaker 5: and mommy starts taking him to daycare but we were
• 1:28:39
  Speaker 5: just uh starting our day with the podcast and buddy
• 1:28:42
  Speaker 5: what did you say a second ago can you say
• 1:28:46
  Speaker 5: a little bit.
• 1:28:46
  Speaker 2: Louder say it real loud.
• 1:28:51
  Speaker 6: Say it louder.
• 1:28:52
  Speaker 5: PT Sicko.
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 2: PT Sicko.
• 1:28:55
  Speaker 5: Rise and shine, boys.
• 1:28:56
  Speaker 2: Let's have a good one. Willis. Let's go, Willis. Let's go.
• 1:29:01
  Speaker 2: PT Sicko. That's awesome. That's a wholesome call in. That's
• 1:29:06
  Speaker 2: all time. Oh, man. And right here in our own backyard, man. Nashville, Tennessee.
• 1:29:11
  Speaker 1: I know.
• 1:29:12
  Speaker 4: God, what daycare are they going to? I want to
• 1:29:15
  Speaker 4: join in. Trash Day.
• 1:29:18
  Speaker 2: Dad hack.
• 1:29:19
  Speaker 6: Good morning, boys. Heather from Colorado, Legend Team 6, or
• 1:29:24
  Speaker 6: as Willie.
• 1:29:25
  Speaker 2: Went to say, Saggy. Call it in with the dad.
• 1:29:29
  Speaker 4: It's the grandma they called in. And you said the
• 1:29:31
  Speaker 4: team name for the grandparents was Saggy Team 6.
• 1:29:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, let's go, dude. My dad did.
• 1:29:39
  Speaker 6: And it worked. And I'm telling you, it worked to
• 1:29:42
  Speaker 6: this day. So Love and Logic, great, great book by
• 1:29:48
  Speaker 6: Jim Fay to read. great ideas, tips and tricks. However,
• 1:29:52
  Speaker 6: as a kid, premise to the lesson is you make
• 1:29:57
  Speaker 6: choices and there's consequences. Well, my sister and I would
• 1:30:00
  Speaker 6: be fighting and we'd run in our rooms and slam
• 1:30:03
  Speaker 6: our doors and slam our doors. And instead of yelling,
• 1:30:06
  Speaker 6: my dad simply got up, took the doors off the hinges,
• 1:30:09
  Speaker 6: took the doors to the basement. And you can imagine
• 1:30:12
  Speaker 6: not having a door in your room, not cool. But
• 1:30:15
  Speaker 6: in fitting with the show as well, One of the
• 1:30:19
  Speaker 6: jobs my sister and I had was to take out
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 6: the trash, take it to the curb on Mondays. Well,
• 1:30:26
  Speaker 6: we forgot and we forget and we keep forgetting. So
• 1:30:29
  Speaker 6: what did my dad do? Brought the trash cans into
• 1:30:32
  Speaker 6: our rooms, took off the lids, and throughout the week
• 1:30:35
  Speaker 6: he'd come empty the trash in our rooms. The rule
• 1:30:38
  Speaker 6: was if we took it out of our room or
• 1:30:40
  Speaker 6: put the lid on it, we would have to do
• 1:30:43
  Speaker 6: it again for another week. I'm telling you, I have
• 1:30:46
  Speaker 6: not forgotten the trash.
• 1:30:48
  Speaker 2: To this day.
• 1:30:50
  Speaker 6: Just a great dad hack for you guys. Appreciate what
• 1:30:53
  Speaker 6: you guys are doing. Willie One Shelf, Pat Stafford, Geek
• 1:30:57
  Speaker 6: and Chef, appreciate everything you do. Great, great show. Great pod, guys.
• 1:31:03
  Speaker 6: Legend Team 6 out.
• 1:31:06
  Speaker 1: Is she saying Legend Team 6?
• 1:31:08
  Speaker 2: Legend Team 6. Dude, that call-in is awesome. Great call-in.
• 1:31:13
  Speaker 2: That's a future dad hack. Because I can't have that
• 1:31:15
  Speaker 2: dad hack in my life now because it's just the wife.
• 1:31:18
  Speaker 2: It's my wife bringing the trash can in the room.
• 1:31:21
  Speaker 2: It's her punishing me, which I love, you know. I
• 1:31:24
  Speaker 2: got to get on my shit sometimes with the trash. Oh, man.
• 1:31:28
  Speaker 4: Thank God my trash day got moved to Monday. I
• 1:31:32
  Speaker 4: love a good Monday trash day. I've been doing pretty
• 1:31:36
  Speaker 4: well with this Monday trash day. What day is yours?
• 1:31:39
  Speaker 4: Mine's Wednesday morning. So as people listen to the show,
• 1:31:41
  Speaker 4: it's trash day on Wednesday mornings. I need to, I
• 1:31:46
  Speaker 4: need to go Tuesday nights.
• 1:31:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:31:49
  Speaker 1: And see Sunday. I'm always rushing on Wednesday morning. I'm
• 1:31:52
  Speaker 1: like sprinting down to the curb. Cause I'm like, Oh,
• 1:31:54
  Speaker 1: I'm running behind right now.
• 1:31:55
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 1:31:56
  Speaker 4: I just need to do, I need a, I need
• 1:31:58
  Speaker 4: to make a full transition. Sunday night's been the greatest
• 1:32:01
  Speaker 4: thing to ever happen to me. It's just such a
• 1:32:03
  Speaker 4: great reminder. I see all the other ones out on
• 1:32:06
  Speaker 4: Sunday night because it's just kind of an easier day
• 1:32:09
  Speaker 4: to remember. It's a slower day. It's a cleaning day.
• 1:32:12
  Speaker 4: It's like I kind of lucked into it.
• 1:32:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Love that hack, though. Love that hack from Saggy
• 1:32:18
  Speaker 2: Team 6, from Legend Team 6. From Legend Team 6.
• 1:32:21
  Speaker 2: And I love that she just enjoys it. That is
• 1:32:24
  Speaker 2: the Dodd hack. Carry an umbrella.
• 1:32:26
  Speaker 3: What up, boys?
• 1:32:32
  Speaker 5: I got a little dad act here.
• 1:32:35
  Speaker 2: Hey, man.
• 1:32:37
  Speaker 6: Carry an umbrella.
• 1:32:37
  Speaker 2: In the truck. All right? It's raining like a son
• 1:32:41
  Speaker 2: of a bitch out here.
• 1:32:43
  Speaker 5: And my daughter does not want to get out of
• 1:32:46
  Speaker 5: the truck.
• 1:32:47
  Speaker 3: She's like, Daddy, I'm going to get wet.
• 1:32:49
  Speaker 2: And I said, Baby, don't you worry.
• 1:32:53
  Speaker 5: I got an idea.
• 1:32:53
  Speaker 2: I got a little trick up my sleeve.
• 1:32:57
  Speaker 5: So I get out of the truck, pop open the umbrella.
• 1:33:01
  Speaker 2: And she's ear to ear grinning.
• 1:33:04
  Speaker 5: She knows she's not about to get wet. Hey, carry
• 1:33:09
  Speaker 5: an umbrella in the truck, boys.
• 1:33:11
  Speaker 3: I forgot, this is Jesse, by the way.
• 1:33:14
  Speaker 2: Check you later.
• 1:33:17
  Speaker 4: Now, Jesse, what kind of truck are you driving? Because
• 1:33:19
  Speaker 4: I can hear that truck in the background. It's got
• 1:33:22
  Speaker 4: a little, got a little, hopefully it's a Ford.
• 1:33:25
  Speaker 2: Come on. Come on. The way the blinker was blinking,
• 1:33:28
  Speaker 2: it sounded like a Ford. What kind of truck you driving?
• 1:33:32
  Speaker 2: What kind of little truck you got, boy? Pack an umbrella.
• 1:33:36
  Speaker 2: Pack an umbrella. Pack an umbrella. All right.
• 1:33:40
  Speaker 4: And that does it for our dad call-ins this week.
• 1:33:44
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• 1:33:47
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• 1:33:51
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• 1:33:54
  Speaker 2: You want to hit an email? Yeah.
• 1:34:00
  Speaker 1: I will rock this email from Rich Molinero. Boys, happy
• 1:34:05
  Speaker 1: football season. To all go birds. Dad too here in
• 1:34:09
  Speaker 1: the Philadelphia area. And I had to share my dad
• 1:34:12
  Speaker 1: loss turned win turned less another month. I sit here
• 1:34:16
  Speaker 1: on a Friday night silently in the trenches. Wife is
• 1:34:19
  Speaker 1: away at the girls weekend at a beach. Both boys,
• 1:34:23
  Speaker 1: four-year-old and nine-month-old, tucked in tight for the night, and
• 1:34:26
  Speaker 1: I have the quiet house to myself. This is typically
• 1:34:29
  Speaker 1: time I'd have some college football on and be in
• 1:34:31
  Speaker 1: my PT fit zone. However, about a month ago, I
• 1:34:35
  Speaker 1: suffered a concussion. It was a self-inflicted wound, which made
• 1:34:39
  Speaker 1: the pain emphasized even more, and it's really knocked me
• 1:34:42
  Speaker 1: off my game. I was at a 500 plus day
• 1:34:45
  Speaker 1: Peloton streak of either cycling, lifting, walking, or stretching every day.
• 1:34:50
  Speaker 1: And since then, it's been sporadic to say the least.
• 1:34:53
  Speaker 1: And as much as an injury pain remains, the ego
• 1:34:56
  Speaker 1: bruise was even more. Luckily, as I laid in my
• 1:34:59
  Speaker 1: dark basement off of work during my initial recovery, regretting
• 1:35:03
  Speaker 1: missing time with the wife and boys, I heard a
• 1:35:05
  Speaker 1: podcast clip with my favorite Peloton instructor and college game
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  Speaker 1: day reporter, Jess Sims, that truly spoke to me. I
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  Speaker 1: love an injury and I know that sounds crazy, but
• 1:35:16
  Speaker 1: it's information. It's part of the process. It's time for
• 1:35:19
  Speaker 1: you to learn something about your body and maybe your mind.
• 1:35:23
  Speaker 1: I get so many DMs. What do I do? And
• 1:35:24
  Speaker 1: I'm like, read a book, figure out why that happened.
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  Speaker 1: Let's figure out where the dysfunction is so you can
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  Speaker 1: be better for your body and learn from this. Try
• 1:35:33
  Speaker 1: to spend as little time in the suffering phase of
• 1:35:36
  Speaker 1: fighting what is and move more into the acceptance phase
• 1:35:40
  Speaker 1: because it's all happening to you. He drops the link
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  Speaker 1: here to click on on YouTube. This is exactly what
• 1:35:46
  Speaker 1: I needed to hear. I'm so worried about self-imposed streaks
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  Speaker 1: and deadlines getting down on myself when really I should
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  Speaker 1: just take this time to evaluate, assess the situation, and
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  Speaker 1: develop a plan of attack to come out of this
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  Speaker 1: a stronger man physically and more devoted man as both
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  Speaker 1: a husband and their dad. So to my fellow PT Sixers,
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  Speaker 1: let go of those self-imposed burdens. and attempt to be
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  Speaker 1: the version of yourself, whatever that looks like, every day.
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  Speaker 1: Appreciate you, Willie, Sherm, and especially the boys in the
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  Speaker 1: back for the weekly laughs, feedback sessions, and community you've built.
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  Speaker 3: Rich.
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  Speaker 2: That's a great email. That was a great email. That
• 1:36:23
  Speaker 2: was a good email. Do you have an email? Do
• 1:36:27
  Speaker 2: you have an email?
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  Speaker 4: Let's go through your mind. I do have an email.
• 1:36:30
  Speaker 4: I was thinking about my left quad. I honestly was
• 1:36:35
  Speaker 4: thinking about my left quad. Peter Tantillo. Peter says, to
• 1:36:42
  Speaker 4: the whole Ford the Dad team, both in front of
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  Speaker 4: the camera and behind it, my name is Peter from Pennsylvania.
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  Speaker 4: Relatively new PT6er, starting around episode 35, first time commenter,
• 1:36:53
  Speaker 4: and I am 100% battling in the trenches. This is
• 1:36:57
  Speaker 4: a sad alert, crack a cold one, lesson of the day,
• 1:37:01
  Speaker 4: and dad hack wrapped into one. You can call it
• 1:37:03
  Speaker 4: the whole package. I have two boys. One who's turning
• 1:37:07
  Speaker 4: one next week on 9-13. Happy belated birthday. My AGAP stud,
• 1:37:14
  Speaker 4: Theo Jude, weighing almost 27 pounds. And my oldest, Luca,
• 1:37:20
  Speaker 4: Luca Anthony, turning three in October. Just over a year ago,
• 1:37:24
  Speaker 4: I got blindsided and let go from my dream job
• 1:37:27
  Speaker 4: of teaching agriculture to students with no real reason provided.
• 1:37:32
  Speaker 4: My first words to my wife fighting through my tears
• 1:37:35
  Speaker 4: on my drive home were, I'm sorry I failed you
• 1:37:37
  Speaker 4: and the family. My world was turned upside down. I
• 1:37:41
  Speaker 4: was feeling down on myself and struggling to keep afloat.
• 1:37:44
  Speaker 4: I felt the shame and guilt of trying to balance work, family, hobbies, etc.,
• 1:37:49
  Speaker 4: My relationship with my wife was in turmoil. We were
• 1:37:53
  Speaker 4: at an all-time low questioning how to continue together and
• 1:37:56
  Speaker 4: contemplating divorce. My struggle was communicating and being there was
• 1:38:01
  Speaker 4: at an all-time low. We were hostile and resentful toward
• 1:38:05
  Speaker 4: one another for many other reasons and I was just
• 1:38:08
  Speaker 4: angry at the world and myself.
• 1:38:10
  Speaker 2: The issues are.
• 1:38:20
  Speaker 4: The unnecessary pressure to hold a divorced family together and
• 1:38:24
  Speaker 4: take care of my younger brother started to show in adulthood.
• 1:38:29
  Speaker 4: The issues that I saw growing up were starting to
• 1:38:31
  Speaker 4: have glimpses in my life now. Not knowing what to
• 1:38:34
  Speaker 4: do or how to open up and talk about my struggles,
• 1:38:37
  Speaker 4: I started to catch some of your clips on Facebook.
• 1:38:41
  Speaker 4: I was able to find a new job in the fall,
• 1:38:43
  Speaker 4: which requires longer drives throughout the week. It took only
• 1:38:47
  Speaker 4: one episode on Spotify to get hooked and buy into
• 1:38:50
  Speaker 4: the community. I have done my part to share with
• 1:38:53
  Speaker 4: my other dad friends, husbands, and friends who are just
• 1:38:57
  Speaker 4: in relationships with the community and inspiration. You all, they
• 1:39:04
  Speaker 4: are just as into the relationships in the community and
• 1:39:08
  Speaker 4: the inspiration that we provide. I have brought other dads
• 1:39:12
  Speaker 4: merch for holidays, shared clips, and helped grow the community.
• 1:39:17
  Speaker 4: I've lived my life as someone who goes with the
• 1:39:20
  Speaker 4: flow and doesn't overly care too much about things, but
• 1:39:22
  Speaker 4: the podcast put those actions into words with embracing the chaos.
• 1:39:27
  Speaker 4: I've used this often and keep it in the back
• 1:39:29
  Speaker 4: of my mind. Um, All the time to keep me grounded.
• 1:39:34
  Speaker 4: For example, it does not matter that my oldest was
• 1:39:36
  Speaker 4: so excited and wanted to ride all the carnival rides
• 1:39:39
  Speaker 4: at the fair. So we spent $ 45 on an all-you-can-ride
• 1:39:42
  Speaker 4: bracelet for him to ride $ 9 worth and then throw
• 1:39:46
  Speaker 4: a tantrum and want to go home.
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  Speaker 1: Good.
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  Speaker 4: Youngest gets an ear infection on our first family weekend vacation.
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  Speaker 2: Good.
• 1:39:55
  Speaker 4: Second family summer vacation weeks later gets another ear infection
• 1:40:00
  Speaker 4: with a maximum of three hours of sleep each night
• 1:40:03
  Speaker 4: for six days straight.
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  Speaker 2: Good.
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  Speaker 4: The words you say and culture you have all created
• 1:40:09
  Speaker 4: have changed me and saved my family. The crack of
• 1:40:12
  Speaker 4: cold one moment recently was when my oldest said, I
• 1:40:17
  Speaker 4: love my family. Growing up in a broken house with
• 1:40:20
  Speaker 4: separated parents and no true support system as a child,
• 1:40:23
  Speaker 4: all I want to do in life is give my
• 1:40:25
  Speaker 4: boys the things I didn't have. Those things are a uniform,
• 1:40:30
  Speaker 4: safe home where they feel loved every day. I question
• 1:40:35
  Speaker 4: myself daily, am I good enough? Am I being there
• 1:40:38
  Speaker 4: for them? Do they feel safe? My fear is that
• 1:40:41
  Speaker 4: I will repeat what has happened to me. I remember, Sherman,
• 1:40:45
  Speaker 4: when you got upset with yourself yesterday, When Evie the
• 1:40:48
  Speaker 4: Brave first appeared on the show, you cried saying your
• 1:40:51
  Speaker 4: hard times were nothing compared to those. Everyone has their
• 1:40:55
  Speaker 4: own battles, their own crises, and their own hardships. In
• 1:41:01
  Speaker 4: that moment, they have their own hardships that are difficult
• 1:41:07
  Speaker 4: in the moments that they happen. Each one of us
• 1:41:10
  Speaker 4: has things we are battling that no one else is
• 1:41:12
  Speaker 4: going through. which holds enough value to be hard. My
• 1:41:15
  Speaker 4: struggles of not having a great idol or father figure
• 1:41:19
  Speaker 4: growing up, being recently unemployed for eight months, and having
• 1:41:22
  Speaker 4: a marriage falling apart in my bubble are my low
• 1:41:26
  Speaker 4: and my struggle. I try to remind myself the things
• 1:41:30
  Speaker 4: you all share and preach. You are all great fathers
• 1:41:34
  Speaker 4: and supporters of one another and truly inspirational. There are
• 1:41:38
  Speaker 4: things as a father that are non-negotiable. Like locking in
• 1:41:43
  Speaker 4: when your family needs you and knowing that no one
• 1:41:45
  Speaker 4: is coming to save you in some moments. Lesson alert.
• 1:41:49
  Speaker 4: For fathers out there in trying and struggling moments, it
• 1:41:53
  Speaker 4: does not mean you are alone. This podcast helps shed
• 1:41:56
  Speaker 4: light on the struggles and highlights of fatherhood. Find another
• 1:42:00
  Speaker 4: dad close to you and say it out loud. You
• 1:42:02
  Speaker 4: are never alone. We are in it together. To wrap
• 1:42:05
  Speaker 4: it up and share the wealth of.
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  Speaker 3: My.
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  Speaker 2: Share the wealth, my....
• 1:42:13
  Speaker 4: To wrap it up in share the wealth, my dad
• 1:42:16
  Speaker 4: hack is for dads. I'm so sorry, guys. No, I'm
• 1:42:29
  Speaker 4: just trying to get the sentence structure of it. To
• 1:42:34
  Speaker 4: wrap it up and share the wealth... Thank you. My
• 1:42:36
  Speaker 4: dad hack is for dads of a single child or
• 1:42:40
  Speaker 4: dads of multiple kids.
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  Speaker 2: The hack that helped me.
• 1:42:42
  Speaker 4: Assess chaotic situations, triage cries between kids, and help the
• 1:42:48
  Speaker 4: wife out is popping the bottle up on top of
• 1:42:51
  Speaker 4: a blanket or pillow and the swing or car seat
• 1:42:54
  Speaker 4: for the baby to drink. This allows you to free
• 1:42:57
  Speaker 4: up your hands and clean the dishes, deal with other kids.
• 1:43:03
  Speaker 4: Deal with the other child, or just give you a
• 1:43:05
  Speaker 4: second to go to the bathroom. It is an honor
• 1:43:08
  Speaker 4: to be a part of this group, and thank you,
• 1:43:10
  Speaker 4: Will Sherman and everyone behind the scenes.
• 1:43:14
  Speaker 2: Peter Tadillo. Peter, thank you, man.
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  Speaker 4: And Peter, I'm so sorry I butchered the end of that.
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  Speaker 4: That was a fantastic email.
• 1:43:21
  Speaker 2: You're good, yeah. Just got to slip the comma in there.
• 1:43:25
  Speaker 2: Sometimes it can throw you off. Yeah.
• 1:43:27
  Speaker 4: And appreciate your words on the, like, everybody has their lows. Like,
• 1:43:34
  Speaker 4: I feel like he was saying, you know, don't compare
• 1:43:38
  Speaker 4: and despair, even with like the lows, like everybody faces
• 1:43:42
  Speaker 4: hardships and we're all in it together.
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  Speaker 2: No doubt.
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  Speaker 1: I thought it was a great message. I love the
• 1:43:47
  Speaker 1: vibe too, where he's. giving, giving everybody the experience of the,
• 1:43:52
  Speaker 1: some of the things he's going through. And you can
• 1:43:53
  Speaker 1: tell too, he's also like writing to himself a little bit.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. So I love that.
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  Speaker 1: I have a lesson to sign us off. And this
• 1:44:00
  Speaker 1: is just a fun one. This is just a fun tweet.
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  Speaker 2: From, from Jake. Cause Lowski cause Lowski on Twitter. I
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  Speaker 2: just thought this was a funny one.
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  Speaker 1: Marry someone you'd enjoy running a small, poorly funded summer
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  Speaker 1: camp with that's most of the job.
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  Speaker 2: That's that's fantastic. Yeah. I thought that was great. That's fantastic.
• 1:44:21
  Speaker 2: Caramel apple, lollipop, and ice cream. Absolutely incredible. Unreal. Don't
• 1:44:26
  Speaker 2: forget to take out your trash.
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  Speaker 1: We love you. We'll see you next week. Big hugs,
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  Speaker 1: tiny kisses. Papa Team 6 out.