Latest / Unshakeable with Human Design - A Human Design For Business Podcast / 350: Gate 6, Rising Consciousness, and How to Be a Force for Good in a Volatile World
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- 0:01Welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, the show dedicated to
- 0:05helping entrepreneurs use human design to shift from hustle to
- 0:09flow without sacrificing results.
- 0:11Come here to become an unshakeable human and build an unshakeable business
- 0:15according to your human design.
- 0:17I'm your host, Nicole Laino.
- 0:22Hello, and welcome to Unshakeable with Human Design, everybody.
- 0:26I'm your host, Nicole Lano.
- 0:28And today I want to have a kind of a free flowing conversation in here.
- 0:32So this was a conversation.
- 0:34This is all the inspiration for this.
- 0:36Came from a conversation that actually started inside my business by design
- 0:40mentorship, inside our telegram chat, actually, all of our clients in there
- 0:45are contemplating their designs and we're working together for them to embody it
- 0:49and understand what these things mean and really understand it on a soul level.
- 0:53So there's always a conversation going on in there about.
- 0:56What people are reflecting on about their specific gates, the different
- 1:00things that are coming up for them.
- 1:02And this conversation started around Gate 6, and there are a lot of people
- 1:07in our program who have Gate 6.
- 1:10Now, that's also my personality North Node, so I have that.
- 1:14I also have the 59.
- 1:166 channel.
- 1:17We had a pretty lengthy, in depth, and really beautiful conversation about this.
- 1:21And given the state of the world, I think we're seeing gate
- 1:24six play out in front of us.
- 1:26And it's also right now our south node, what the south node
- 1:30is in at this current moment.
- 1:32Then in March, on March 12th, I believe, That will actually be the
- 1:37earth gate because the sun will be in gate 36, which is gate 6 is polarity.
- 1:41So this energy is going to be around us.
- 1:44It's going to be in the south node for until June.
- 1:47So we've got this energy around us and I wanted to talk about how you can see that.
- 1:53Whenever we have nodes, this is the stuff that we see kicking up.
- 1:56This is the stuff that we see out in the world.
- 1:58The nodes are our world and how we view it and what we see happening and the
- 2:04things that are playing out for us.
- 2:06It's what collectively we're all going through.
- 2:10So, I wanted to have this discussion here.
- 2:12I kind of wanted to bring it up here and put this out because, while I
- 2:17don't get political on this show, I've really tried to stay away from having
- 2:23political discussions or sharing my political views because I believe that
- 2:27we all have a right to our own views.
- 2:29And I don't want to be part of the negativity that I see, which is telling
- 2:35people that they are wrong, fighting over this stuff, which I actually think is
- 2:39at the heart of what Gate 6 teaches us.
- 2:41Gate 6 is the diplomat.
- 2:43And because this is a strong energy in my chart, I'm going to go through
- 2:47some of my reflections on this gate.
- 2:49And how I see it playing out in the world, because like I said, while
- 2:53I don't want to be political, that doesn't mean that we are blind or
- 2:57indifferent to the things going on in the world right now and always.
- 3:02I don't believe in toxic positivity.
- 3:04I don't believe in spiritual greenwashing.
- 3:07I don't believe, you know, I don't believe in any of that stuff, and I
- 3:10don't want to be a part of it either by staying silent when I see things.
- 3:14Out in this world, and we are facing things energetically, so there's stuff
- 3:19that `plays`` out in the world, but then the part that I feel I can chime
- 3:22in on is my own reflections on human behavior, which I have been deeply
- 3:27ingrained in and working with for over a decade now, my acting career very
- 3:33much about human behavior, but what I've been doing now inside my business
- 3:37has been nine years of working in that field and then also just being
- 3:42obsessed with it for most of my life.
- 3:44I also want to recognize that my conscious sun and my incarnation cross definitely
- 3:51have a lot to do with illuminating a path for what is good for all people.
- 3:57It has to do with saying what you believe.
- 4:00And not being afraid to educate, to say the things that you think people need
- 4:04to hear and saying it with conviction, but doing it from a clean place of
- 4:09integrity, not to sway people just to your way of thinking, but to put
- 4:14good things out in the world and hope.
- 4:16That whatever is meant to be received from that is received.
- 4:20So that's the inspiration for this episode.
- 4:22It's a little bit different than what we normally do.
- 4:24I don't have like a big script or anything.
- 4:26I'm not, like, I don't have an agenda.
- 4:28I really just want to talk about what this gate means.
- 4:30And I want you, as you're listening to this, what are your reflections on this?
- 4:34How are you seeing this?
- 4:35Out in your world, in the world, and I am going to give some opinions on
- 4:40what I think because I'll do my best to not make that again to come at it
- 4:45from the place that gate six calls us to come from, which is a place of not
- 4:50malice, not my own emotional needs or triggering, but from a place of truth.
- 4:57in the hopes that we can all have a better future as a species.
- 5:02That's really what it's about.
- 5:03Before I get going, I do want to say we are running my Authority
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- 6:07Okay, so without further ado, let's talk about Gate 6.
- 6:10Gate 6 is need for understanding things through that path.
- 6:14You might be looking at things through this relationship
- 6:18standpoint that I learned a lot through romantic relationships.
- 6:23And close relationships that were most of my life lessons and trauma came from that.
- 6:29Now, one of the lessons, if you have the 59.
- 6:306 channel that people like me would preach to you is that the only way
- 6:35you'll get the right lesson or the right thing for what's right for your next
- 6:40level is if you wait and you make the decision to go into the next level with
- 6:45somebody, engage with them in that way.
- 6:48If you wait out your emotional wave, if you don't make an
- 6:51emotional decision right there.
- 6:53And think about how hard that is to do.
- 6:55You get emotions all cranked up and then you say, I gotta wait.
- 6:59It's a lesson to be learned.
- 7:01Now I want you to think about that beyond the sexual and just think about who you
- 7:04allow into your world, what you allow into your world, who's communicating to you.
- 7:11And what energy are you taking in?
- 7:14And is it good for the future of the species?
- 7:18Is it good for the future of us, you, me, everybody around you?
- 7:24Are you making that decision from unemotional or emotionally
- 7:28clean place is another question.
- 7:31So think about.
- 7:32The information that you receive, the transmissions you're receiving right
- 7:36now through the news, through social media, through all of the ways that
- 7:39we are inundated with information.
- 7:41Think about the messengers who are delivering this message to you.
- 7:47Now I will say this, I'm going to get political for one second, and I will
- 7:50say Donald Trump has this channel.
- 7:53He also has another master channel for speaking to the world, he has the 4521.
- 7:59These are two very, very strong energies.
- 8:03He has amazingly strong chart when it comes to speaking to groups.
- 8:11It isn't about the words.
- 8:12It's about the emotional current that he conveys when he is speaking.
- 8:19And what he's able to do is be heard on another level.
- 8:24He has a lot of sway emotionally and energetically with people.
- 8:28Now, I am not going to talk about my own personal views.
- 8:33On Donald Trump, because I don't want this episode to turn into this, but I will also
- 8:37say this is his unconscious earth gate.
- 8:42So he's energetically very equipped to deliver things strongly to
- 8:49a large group of people, to control a large group of people.
- 8:55Now, I'm going to go back to some of the conversations we've had here on this show
- 9:00about the cross of the sleeping phoenix and the change that's coming in 2027 and
- 9:06the changes that are coming to this world.
- 9:08And we've talked about this, that the energetic shifts and how we're
- 9:11feeling them right now, how we are starting to feel these shifts.
- 9:15And we all know that Pluto has shifted into Aquarius as of the end of last year.
- 9:19And so we have these world changes coming on.
- 9:23Energetic world changes.
- 9:25Where we're being called to a higher different frequency.
- 9:29Now we've talked about how the cross of the sleeping phoenix will
- 9:32break the bonds that we have been so used to unconsciously receiving.
- 9:38When the 3740 channel goes away from the background frequency that we're
- 9:43all under, when we're not under its influence energetically anymore,
- 9:48we're not going to feel like bargains maybe necessarily can be trusted.
- 9:54The relationships between companies, governments, and us as individuals
- 10:00is necessarily being held up or that we trust that these relationships
- 10:06are beneficial or beneficial for us.
- 10:08And when 3740 goes away, I'm not a doomsday er about this stuff, but I
- 10:13think that we are starting to see what these changes are taking shape as.
- 10:18And I want to be.
- 10:19Very clear that it is so important right now with that background frequency
- 10:25going away that we're suddenly going to be Making decisions that are right for
- 10:29us and not necessarily right for all of us and we're starting to see that
- 10:33now I want this thing and I don't care about their thing and Maybe there's
- 10:41nothing that we can do about that.
- 10:43Maybe that's just the time that we're coming into the rise of the individual
- 10:48That says, I want my freedom, I want my power, I want it all for myself.
- 10:53And maybe stepping up into that.
- 10:55But how important it is for us to make decisions that are true
- 10:59to us and not get caught up.
- 11:03In the hijacking of this new energy, that when people say bad things, when people
- 11:09say things that emotionally trigger you, that you wait, that you process those
- 11:16emotions, and that you don't have them hijacked for somebody else's agenda.
- 11:20When Ra talked about how important it was going to be after 2027 for you to
- 11:24make decisions for yourself, what I'm coming to believe and what I'm coming
- 11:28to understand is that what he meant by that and whether he knew he meant
- 11:32this or not, I don't know, but the way that I am processing that right now
- 11:36is the reason it's so important for you to make decisions for yourself.
- 11:41It's because we're not going to be making decisions based
- 11:44on the good for all anymore.
- 11:47And what happens when somebody comes in with strong energy and
- 11:51starts to deliver a message?
- 11:53That triggers you on purpose and pushes you into your not self, because Ra
- 12:01always said, you sell to the not self.
- 12:04You sell to the anger.
- 12:05You sell to the unprocessed emotions.
- 12:08You sell to the person who feels like they have been forgotten.
- 12:12You sell to the person who feels like they are invisible and you sell
- 12:16them who to blame and you sell them the solution that you can fix that.
- 12:21It's so important to make decisions that are in alignment with who you are and your
- 12:27values and what you truly want and not to allow somebody to ride this new energy.
- 12:35In the direction of their choosing that you really don't have any part of.
- 12:39He did it and he said it.
- 12:40Ra said this.
- 12:41To get everybody following their strategy and authority.
- 12:43To get them deconditioning so they weren't so triggered and
- 12:47so they weren't so not self that they didn't know it was happening.
- 12:50He said all of this stuff.
- 12:52So that you could.
- 12:57So that we could feel empowered to make our own decisions and we weren't
- 13:02being led unknowingly anywhere.
- 13:05So let me come back to Gate 6.
- 13:06Gate 6 is the gate of conflict.
- 13:09And the gift, so the shadow frequency is conflict.
- 13:12The gift is diplomacy.
- 13:15And the city is peace.
- 13:18So what it says is that conflict to peace follows through the path of diplomacy.
- 13:24How do we get from conflict to peace, and how do we do that?
- 13:29We go through the path of diplomacy.
- 13:31So what does diplomacy mean to you?
- 13:33This is how I start to work through this stuff with my clients.
- 13:36What does diplomacy mean to you?
- 13:37How do you see it in your life?
- 13:39What's been your experience with it?
- 13:43Now, to me, when I look at Gate 6, and I look at diplomacy, and I look
- 13:46at conflict, the shadow of this is conflict for conflict's sake.
- 13:50Sowing conflict through emotional triggering to control things,
- 13:56to control people, or to win on your own emotional level.
- 14:01It's to hurt without thinking.
- 14:03It's to hurt maybe for fun.
- 14:04The low frequency to the gate of conflict.
- 14:08Now, I have my own experience with conflict.
- 14:10There were lots of conflicts in my life growing up, and I mean, thankfully
- 14:14don't have lots of them now, but can't ever say that we don't have conflict.
- 14:18I see it a lot more out in the world now, and I am proud to say that
- 14:22I can hold the diplomatic space.
- 14:25A lot better.
- 14:26But it was always an exercise for me.
- 14:27It is funny.
- 14:28That is something that you notice when you start to do this work.
- 14:30You start to notice, oh yeah, I've seen how I've been working
- 14:34with this energy my whole life.
- 14:36And when we master it, that is when we can start to really use it in a way that
- 14:39draws good things to us instead of bad things to us, instead of lessons to us.
- 14:44I had a lot of lessons to learn with this one.
- 14:46So if you have Gate 6 in your chart, then this is a lesson for you too.
- 14:49So Gate 6, in the Shadow Frequency, sows conflict.
- 14:54It relishes in it.
- 14:56It benefits from it.
- 14:57And it has no interest in resolving it in any way other than to say, I win.
- 15:03I win all the time.
- 15:04And if I don't win, I'm going to start more conflict until I do win.
- 15:09And I don't care who gets hurt.
- 15:10That's the shadow of Gate 6.
- 15:12I want you to look around in the world and see if you see that anywhere.
- 15:14I want you to look around the world.
- 15:15I want you to look at yourself and say, am I sowing that somewhere?
- 15:19And that's not to be critical of yourself and beat yourself up.
- 15:22It's to be curious about it.
- 15:24Because I know everybody who listens to this show, you are trying to lift yourself
- 15:28into a new level of consciousness.
- 15:30You are trying to step into a new level of self.
- 15:34So we have to be able to look critically at ourselves with curiosity.
- 15:38And when I say critically, I mean with a discerning eye, an open heart.
- 15:42But without criticism of ourselves, but we cannot fix a problem.
- 15:47We cannot rise until we recognize that there is a problem.
- 15:52Then and only then can the problem be solved.
- 15:54So where have you contributed to conflict?
- 15:57And then here's how you start to work with this diplomacy.
- 16:00Diplomacy to me is no one can win 100 percent in an argument.
- 16:05There's no 100 percent winner.
- 16:07And if you are trying to be the 100 percent winner, then you
- 16:10are in the shadow of conflict.
- 16:12If you just think everybody is wrong, it's the ability to be able to hold
- 16:16both spaces, to be able to hold, as one of my clients was saying in our
- 16:20discussion, all of the emotions that are involved and not entwine your
- 16:25own emotions with it, to be neutral.
- 16:28This is the work we do in my program with EFT.
- 16:31It's about deactivating the triggers so you are emotionally clean and
- 16:35processing your emotions separately.
- 16:37This, for everybody who has an open emotional center.
- 16:40This is work you will most likely need to do, is cleaning out your emotional center.
- 16:46Because most people who have an open solar plexus are storing old emotions because
- 16:51they haven't wanted to deal with them.
- 16:53And then you are easily triggered and sensitive.
- 16:56So the emotional work is so important to you for that reason.
- 17:00My emotional authorities, it is important for you because you're
- 17:04riding that wave all the time.
- 17:07If you have circumstantial emotions.
- 17:09That are piling up that you are not dealing with and then the waves come
- 17:14and you're at a really difficult point of your wave, that's when it
- 17:18just all pours over and it feels so overwhelming that you can't handle it.
- 17:21And it's just so much, and the anxiety and the overwhelm and everything just
- 17:25sends you in all sorts of directions.
- 17:28So that's why this work is important for you.
- 17:30'cause we don't wanna be part of the shadow frequency, contributing that
- 17:35to the field, contributing that to the collective and to the people around us.
- 17:39We don't want to do that.
- 17:41We want to be part of the solution.
- 17:43And I think right now we can feel pretty helpless.
- 17:46Like we can't do anything.
- 17:48There are actions that you can take.
- 17:49There's strategy and energy to everything.
- 17:51There's actions you can take and you can ask yourself What can
- 17:54I do to make this better today?
- 17:55What action can I take to make this just a little bit better today and do my part?
- 17:59But then energetically, the part that we can all do is
- 18:03don't contribute to the garbage.
- 18:05Be a force for good.
- 18:06And in the space of diplomacy, in the space of Gate 6, in conflict, if
- 18:11you want peace, diplomacy is the way.
- 18:14It is to say that harm to you is harm to me.
- 18:18That when you lose, I lose.
- 18:20I lose too, that we cannot all win all the time, that there has to
- 18:25be compromise and sometimes hard conversations, emotional conversations,
- 18:31not sometimes all the time are necessary in order for peace to be achieved.
- 18:37So we have to be willing to put our own personal emotions aside and
- 18:40not stuffing them away in a closet.
- 18:42We'll deal with them later because that often never happens.
- 18:46But to process our emotions, and if you're interested in how we process emotions with
- 18:51EFT, we have a mini deconditioning bundle, just DM me the word tapping on Instagram.
- 18:57And I'll send you the link for that.
- 18:59This is how we deactivate triggers.
- 19:02If you want to be emotionally clean, if you want to change your
- 19:04life, truly, tapping is the way.
- 19:06It is the thing that everybody comes to me for human design.
- 19:09They come to me for business strategy.
- 19:10They come to me for the podcasting and all of that stuff.
- 19:13But the thing that moves the needle the most is because I force them
- 19:16to do the tapping and I make them do that and it changes their lives.
- 19:20Literally, it is the secret.
- 19:21If you've been deconditioning for a long time, you don't have to do it with me.
- 19:25But please do it.
- 19:26Although I do it differently.
- 19:28I think I do it better.
- 19:29So many people say, I've done tapping before, but it never really worked for me.
- 19:32And then, your tappings are completely different.
- 19:36Please do it.
- 19:37Because if you've been deconditioning for a while, if you've been stuck in
- 19:39your head trying to figure things out, but you haven't started to see the
- 19:43results and how you actually change, it's because you haven't really
- 19:47deconditioned on a deep enough level.
- 19:49And that's what tools like Breathwork and EFT do.
- 19:53They help you get to that deeper level that pretty much
- 19:57most of us who have lived.
- 19:59Imperfect lives have to get to that deeper level because we've stored so
- 20:04much of it in our bodies and in our nervous system, but you have to be
- 20:08willing to come to the argument with clean, unemotional and good for all
- 20:16energy that we want everybody to win.
- 20:18I think where we're going with the cross of the sleeping phoenix.
- 20:21Cross of the Sleeping Phoenix has gate 55 in this.
- 20:25Gate 59 and gate polarity.
- 20:27They are two of the gates that make up the four gates of the Cross of
- 20:30the Sleeping Phoenix that we are going to be moving into in 2027.
- 20:33This is going to be our frequency.
- 20:35And gate 55 calls us to a higher level of spirit.
- 20:39It says that abundance is possible for all of us, but only if an
- 20:44abundance is an emotional thing and only through, what's Gate 59?
- 20:48Intimacy.
- 20:49What does it mean to be intimate?
- 20:51What does it mean to have connection?
- 20:52Connection with self, connection with others.
- 20:55These themes can really teach us about how we are being called to grow.
- 20:59And what is going to be asked of us in this next incarnation of this
- 21:04life, in this next level, this new place of consciousness that we are
- 21:10being, that we are stewards of.
- 21:12And that does not mean that everybody who acts in this place, Most of the
- 21:17world is not self and I encourage you to decondition yourself, make decisions
- 21:23as yourself, follow your strategy and authority, be grounded in your
- 21:28own power and notice who is trying to guide you from their not self and do
- 21:35everything that you can to diffuse that.
- 21:38And how can you do that?
- 21:39You can speak from a place of diplomacy with the people who disagree with you.
- 21:43And I know that's hard, but if you want to be a force for good, I believe that
- 21:48this is going to be at the heart of it.
- 21:50Because like I said, Gate 59 in The Cross of the Sleeping Phoenix,
- 21:54this is its harmonic partner.
- 21:56This is Gate 6, is the other end of the channel of 59.
- 22:01It's playing a role.
- 22:03Gate 55 is under the mutation.
- 22:04It's, and we're getting into some really deep things about human design here.
- 22:08But there's a change for humanity.
- 22:10And not only do we want to be on the right side of history, but if
- 22:14we care about this world and we care about where we're going, and if it
- 22:18hurts right now, don't feel helpless.
- 22:21It starts with clean conversations that don't allow your emotions to
- 22:27get entangled, where it seems like it's coming from a selfish place.
- 22:31Do your best.
- 22:32We're not perfect and we're working toward it.
- 22:34But I do think that we have to have better conversations right now.
- 22:38And this is my start of trying to do my part to open you up to this different way.
- 22:43Because I know that maybe you disagree with some things
- 22:47that are happening right now.
- 22:48Or you agree with some things and you disagree with others.
- 22:51We get to hold space for both of those things.
- 22:54And just because you want one thing doesn't mean you don't speak up for the
- 22:56things that are horribly wrong right now.
- 22:59There is space for both.
- 23:00There is space to feel that Jewish people have a right to
- 23:07exist and to protect themselves.
- 23:10But there's also space for having, for feeling like what is happening in
- 23:16Palestine and the Gaza Strip is terrible.
- 23:19And it cannot go on like this.
- 23:20These things both exist.
- 23:23And I think that most people, if you detach your own personal trauma
- 23:28from the argument, can see that.
- 23:30Harm to one is harm to all.
- 23:32And if we can come from that place, then maybe individuals can change things.
- 23:37Maybe that's where we're going.
- 23:39Isn't these big institutions that run everything and the
- 23:43individuals are powerless?
- 23:45We're about to take over again, maybe.
- 23:48Maybe it is the rise of the individual where our voices are stronger.
- 23:52Make sure your voice is really yours.
- 23:55Because what conditioning is, is pulling in someone else's stuff and
- 24:00parroting it back as if it's your own, but completely unconscious to yourself.
- 24:05Make sure your words are yours.
- 24:07Make sure your emotions are yours.
- 24:10Make sure your actions are yours.
- 24:13And lead yourself from a place of integrity.
- 24:16And I hope this show helps you do that.
- 24:18I hope you enjoyed this episode.
- 24:20I'd love to know what you thought about it, because it's something
- 24:22different that we've done here.
- 24:23So, curious what your thoughts are.
- 24:25What are your thoughts on Gate 6?
- 24:27On the 59.
- 24:286 channel?
- 24:29I'd love to hear all of it.
- 24:30Please feel free to DM me on Instagram.
- 24:32Again, I will hold space for whatever you have to share.
- 24:34Thank you for being here.
- 24:35If you want to get involved in the Authority Accelerator Masterclass that
- 24:38I'll be starting on March 3rd, please DM me the word Masterclass on Instagram.
- 24:42I'm at NicoleLanoOfficial or go to NicoleLano.
- 24:45com forward slash Masterclass, and you can register right there on the website.
- 24:49I appreciate you.
- 24:51So, so much.
- 24:52Thank you for listening to the show.
- 24:53Thank you for making it to the end of this episode with me.
- 24:56And I just want to say, as I always do, in order to have an unshakable business,
- 25:00you must first become an unshakable human.
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