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Anita Okoye Gets Nothing After Divorce! As Paul Starts All Over with Woman Half His Age · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to my channel.
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  My name is Lawrence, Yahoo defect and this is burnt with
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  Lawrence here. How are you all doing?
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  I hope you're doing great for today's episode.
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  We're going to be talking about to order Goose Paul.
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  Rude Boy, Oakley. And his wife, his extranged wife
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  and it's a joke we now. Now they are divorce has been.
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  Granted, Poland. Anita are officially divorced.
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  Now, according to the divorce document, she approached her
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  husband and said, let us have like a mole.
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  That was beautiful more ways to be easier for me to have like a
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  branch in Nigeria. Paulo, Coelho was like, okay,
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  that is a very good idea and these are allegedly gave him 10
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  million naira towards the purchase of the land and
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  everything. Now, Pollock, we built one of
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  the big Small in Lakey obviously it is not the 10 million.
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  Naira that's a nice Arc. We give folder, he used in
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  building them all. But however after the mall was
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  built and it's our way or Paulo Coelho did not give fulfill
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  their agreements of giving aneesa, let's say a shop or a
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  flow for her business and it's okay was not happy about it
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  before you could say Jack and it's a two-car kids to America
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  and then file for divorce. Now, allegedly Pollock way has
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  been cheating from the adults. When you go together, showing
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  you that he's a philanderer and she has tolerated who thing.
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  But I think she was fed up when she realized that.
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  Okay, I am trying to do something.
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  I haven't brought the mole idea to you and you're not even
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  trying to help she filed for divorce.
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  After they celebrated. Now, these people, they've been
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  together. They detail.
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  For almost nine years. And before when he filed for
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  divorce, they were married for seven years.
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  So I mean they've been together for almost 17 years together and
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  the marriage has crushed now and it's okay according to divorce
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  documents was asking for twenty thousand dollars monthly child
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  support and some properties. The Apollo quickly has bought
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  But according to the court documents and it was granted
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  nothing and Deport, the decor is only granted the both of them
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  joint custody of the children. This has been shocking.
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  Like a lot of people felt that Anita was asking for ridiculous
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  amounts of money. How can you be asking for twenty
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  thousand dollars monthly as a child support from your husband?
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  That is I mean Nigeria if you just hear the life Be panicking.
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  So they felt that Anita was being unreasonable asking for
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  that amount of money. But if you go back to this whole
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  scenario, these two people have been together for almost 17
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  years. They've been together before.
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  Even Paul became Paul P-Square. She was there from day dot.
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  She was there when he builds that brand, she was there.
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  She had their children. She was there, helping out.
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  But then again you now start Thinking.
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  OK, your husband was just hustling doing all these things
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  and you're just being a wife, you're just sitting down.
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  These are what people are saying that.
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  Okay. Yes, we are.
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  Acknowledged the fact that you were there from the beginning
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  but now you're just trying to repay you did know, Sue
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  according to court documents and it's okay.
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  He is saying that all she contributed financially to even
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  the the land she gave Paulo Qui 10 million naira towards the
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  purchase of the land Bosh. According to court documents,
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  she didn't have any proof to back any of those things up.
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  I mean, she was just a housewife trying to survive.
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  So that was why the case was thrown out.
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  And she did not get anything legally from Paul Qui, not even
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  houses. Not like I know, Saddam was
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  thinking, was it that you were married to this die.
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  And you don't even have any jointly owned properties that
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  for me. Me.
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  It's is worrying because I always felt a need to do is just
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  kind of smart woman. I mean, you can't you can't
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  tell, but she's left with nothing.
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  She is left with nothing. I mean, I don't think Paulo
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  Coelho not take care of his children.
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  He would definitely take care of his kids Bots.
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  This is official document officially and legally.
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  He's not obligated. Give her anything.
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  Now, looking at me, it was she and you leadership on the other
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  hand, you know, the changes coming out to shout all his and
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  we do he's a proud polygamist. His this is that and you could
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  not see the reason why me and the trees refusing to divorce
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  you later Chi because Paul is now busy feel.
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  And really you know moving around with his 22-year old
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  girlfriend, he's just starting life all over again and this
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  guy's just be suspended. Money that I need her was then
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  when they when they practically built this this brand together.
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  Yes she may not have contributed financially but she was there,
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  when this whole thing started she must have contributed
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  emotionally physically. Like she must have helped in so
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  many ways. Not talking about the three
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  children that she didn't they have together.
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  So she was there taking care of these kids while Paul was busy.
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  He was able to All these things that he was doing, but we could
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  see how that goes. You Let The Church.
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  On the other hand is shouting that he is a powerful gamma
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  speakers. Me has refused to divorce him.
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  If she had divorced him, he would have moved on with Judy
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  Austin and then she'll be left hanging left with nothing.
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  I don't think May Mays not going anywhere because we can now see
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  the reasons why me decided to stay with her husband.
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  And that has given, In new leadership, a, the audacity to
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  come online and be shouting. God told me to be a polygamist.
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  I am a proud polygamous, like you will not, if you were
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  polygamists. Who would have married her?
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  You would have called your wife and said, listen, I am getting
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  married. This is my wife.
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  This is what I want to do. But you went behind your wife's
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  back, gossip pregnant, married, her and then you just came out
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  online. She was I don't even want to go.
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  To you love me, the chance issue, but the reason why I'm
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  talking about this is, we can now see the reasons why women in
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  Nigeria, find it difficult to leave marriages.
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  They find it difficult to leave, toxic relationship because they
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  know that there is a possibility that once they decide that this
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  is no longer working or serving me, there is a 99% chance that
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  the husband is going to get away with everything.
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  The I might even take the children away from the wife so
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  it is, it is just starts level of, I don't even know what to
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  call it. That we have enabled in Africa.
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  It is a man's world and the women are just there to serve to
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  knowledge that it would basically.
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  So there is another case of digital, copy the GOP, met her
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  boyfriend. 24 days later, he proposed to her Nigeria, Lost
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  their marbles. They were just, you know,
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  bashing I refuse to make a video about that because I was just
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  like there is no manual to these things.
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  You can meet somebody, two weeks.
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  Like I am from the East, I am Evil by tribe.
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  And there are lots of men or guys who combat during the
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  festivities and within two weeks, they meet somebody might
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  Brazil, and they are off. So it It's it's not it's not
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  news, it's literally not news but I think because of her high
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  profile, they felt. Oh my God.
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  This is this is just ridiculous for you to meet somebody.
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  You don't even know what they like or what they don't like.
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  Now looking at our initial query and Paul Qui they dated for nine
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  whole years before they got married.
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  And even at that, they could not even keep it together.
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  Looking at you, let the chair and Maybe she be detailed when
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  they were teenagers. They knew each other that they
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  they've been together for almost two decades and you leather
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  chair got somebody pregnant, Judy, Austin married her before
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  even telling his wife. So there is a manual to these
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  things. I think one thing I realized is
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  that love is not just enough you have to decide on a daily.
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  Basis that you're going to stay by this person, you're going to
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  love this person, you're going to stay with them regardless,
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  and you're going to behave yourself because most times you
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  see that in Africa, the burden of marriage, the burdens and
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  make a marriage work, lies on the woman.
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  And mariam's most times, the women don't even cheats 99% of
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  the time. It is the men that go out and
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  cheat and it is now on the way. Woman to make that marriage
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  work, like maybe the channel is making her marriage work.
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  She's not filing for divorce because She wants to be married,
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  she doesn't want you. The Austin to come in and take
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  everything that she and you need the chair has labeled for.
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  She just like, I need to work. We cannot prove that she
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  contributed financially, so that marriage.
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  So even if they go to court, now you led the chase going to take
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  everything because he can provide like he has been acting.
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  So it's very easy for the Nigerian calls to say, oh Oh,
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  yes. We know you've been making
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  movies, all your life. So you are the one that built
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  all these things and made the chip.
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  What would you provide us evidence?
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  What would you provide us proof of your source of income?
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  They, are you able to support your husband.
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  So, 99% of the time, you need to change.
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  Going to get everything. Just the way.
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  Polo cui has gotten away with everything.
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  Now, talking about, DJ copy, whatever, we just wish them love
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  and light. Well, if you I need somebody in
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  the next 24 hours and you decide to marry them.
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  It is a decision to stay together.
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  It has nothing to do with you've met this person.
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  You did this person for nine years or you met this person you
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  dated for two decades before he decided to get married.
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  You can decide to get married. And the next day you realize
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  that this decision is wrong one and I am not doing it again so
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  it's a decision. I wish a nice walkway all the
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  best. I mean Polo.
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  Okay. Is now currently dating somebody
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  have his age. He is literally flaunting this
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  girl open down. I think that you guys are just
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  triggered. This will allow your own women.
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  They are triggered. They're like why?
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  And it's okay is beautiful. She's even more beautiful than
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  this person that you are currently flaunting.
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  Men on, the other hands are saying that o is the person.
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  I give him peace. He is getting piece from a
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  former and that Little crow is no, giving in peace.
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  It is what it is. It's a man's world, especially
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  in Africa. I would say that women
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  regardless of how successful your husband is gets properties.
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  In your name. You, I cannot even believe that
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  I need to work. We I thought she was a lawyer.
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  Fictional study. I don't even know what she
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  studied for the facts that she does not have any no joints
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  properties. That is that is Allah mean, I
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  can't even, I can't even believe it.
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  All these years. All these years, you just start
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  any brand in 2019, she was just comfortable sitting down to be
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  taken care of, and she thought filing for a divorce move.
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  Into America that she'll be getting child support alimony in
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  dollars or more. Her eyes don't clay.
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  I don't play. This is a Nigerian system.
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  You do not marry in America, you married in Nigeria.
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  So it's anything that he out of his good, will that you're going
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  to get is just, it's just sad. So anybody that is getting
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  married. Even if you're marrying.
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  Bill Gates, stop buying properties in you and me.
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  Stop getting things in your name, even if he's not your old
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  man's money, make your own money and buy your own things.
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  It will not die. Honestly, you do you know
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  there's nothing wrong and you be your own self having properties
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  in your name, having things to fall back how we invest money.
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  So that when you thanks, what do you say your number in again?
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  You, you were, you're not bothered, you're not bothered
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  whether he brings what he gives you.
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  How It's because you already have a house to move into like
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  what? Oblivion and it's okay.
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  We're just talking about this so that people can learn lessons.
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  You can be married to a millionaire in dollars and you
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  end up having nothing. It's just what it is.
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  And he might be angry that she took the kids to America and
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  decide not to even 90 Romina crazy.
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  German are crazy because Stop process is going to be all you
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  want me to give you 20,000 US dollar last monthly.
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  So like one use will start chasing.
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  All that money is my money and take care of another man.
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  That is the thought process, but now you're busy.
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  Chasing somebody, half your age and you're using the money to
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  take care. They don't even think about
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  these things because they are the ones making the money.
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  We make your money Nigerian women.
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  Make your own money, make your own money.
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  I want properties. By own properties toolbar.
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  But what is your husband's name? And these are used allegedly
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  give us 110 billion. Naira for the purchase of the
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  land was according to court documents.
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  She doesn't have any proof to like I don't know, I don't know.
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  So please leave me a comment in the comment section.
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  What do you think? Do you think is easier or is
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  better to date somebody for almost a decade and they're
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  married the person thinking? Okay.
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  Moon. This person I know everything
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  about this person and I can manage this, or you going to go
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  the route of. Did you copy that?
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  Miss somebody. 24 days later. They are engaged and ready to
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  marry. Like, what would you take or on
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  the other hand? Are you going to be like, Medici
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  those who say no leave. No transfer, we die here.
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  If you like modified wives, I am the eye.
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  I am number one. No money is going to come and
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  enjoy my sweat. These are the reasons why some
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  women stay in marriages, what will be your choice at the end
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  of the day. Staying together is a decision
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  whether in a relationship. When I marriage, no decision is
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  easy, none of them. If you're going to stay with a
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  philandering husband just because you don't want your
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  children to be stranded. That is a decision.
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  If You're going to decide to leave your philandering husband
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  because you want to protect your sanity.
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  That is a decision. And if you decide to meet
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  somebody after 24 days and accept their proposal, that is a
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  decision, the bottom line is, let us all be happy with the
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  choices that we make. And with the decision that we've
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  made. Thank you very much for watching
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  today's episode, please like like, like and share.
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  Thank you very much. Bye.
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  Bye.