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DLHS Hour 2 | Would you convert religions for your relationship · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: Of course.
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  Speaker 2: Uh.
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  Speaker 3: The question we're asking Leejum is that that a woman
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  Speaker 3: in order to have well, let me less you hit
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  Speaker 3: the audio.
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  Speaker 4: So what's the problem.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, in order for us to be together, this
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  Speaker 5: is what has to be done in order for you
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  Speaker 5: to meet my parents. This is what has to.
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  Speaker 6: Be done order me to meet your parents. Why are
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  Speaker 6: you number one? Why are you recording me? Because it
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  Speaker 6: recorded me.
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  Speaker 4: Because I'm trying to make it make sense.
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  Speaker 1: I don't.
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  Speaker 4: I don't get it.
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  Speaker 5: I don't understand the problem. So I want to get
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  Speaker 5: everybody's opinion.
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  Speaker 6: We've been dating six almost a year, and then you
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  Speaker 6: hit me with the only way I can meet your
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  Speaker 6: parents is I have to convert to Islam.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, that's the deal.
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  Speaker 3: I do you agree? Skip?
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  Speaker 7: What do you think?
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  Speaker 3: Do you agree?
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  Speaker 8: Uh?
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  Speaker 1: I mean that that should have been a conversation before
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  Speaker 1: they got to this point right now. But I'm not
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  Speaker 1: converting to nothing just to get no, I mean just
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  Speaker 1: to you know, knock somebody off, or even if I
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  Speaker 1: love you like that, if I don't, if I'm not
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  Speaker 1: believing a deal to you, I but I'm not gonna
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  Speaker 1: fake the doctor either. I'm like you know, I'm not
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  Speaker 1: fake it. Just you know, I might have to believe
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  Speaker 1: the doctor is horrible to.
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  Speaker 3: Faith or that would be the only thing you ever
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  Speaker 3: faked to get that.
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  Speaker 4: The only thing a job lord involved.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I draw the line.
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  Speaker 4: Which way is he? I gotta kind of kneel that.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I'm just trying to get through it.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: So here's the audio.
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  Speaker 4: That's something that I'm sorry. Maybe it's my fault.
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  Speaker 5: I should have talked to you about it a while ago,
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  Speaker 5: but that is one of the stipulations that my family have.
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  Speaker 9: Do you know how you sound?
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  Speaker 10: Do you know?
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  Speaker 4: Don't sound crazy?
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  Speaker 9: Sorrow? Do you know how that sounds?
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  Speaker 4: No, it sounds funny.
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  Speaker 10: I don't understand.
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  Speaker 6: It sounds me here I am a rge and character that. Hey,
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  Speaker 6: this is what you have to convert to. We've been
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  Speaker 6: dating a year. This was never told to me. You
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  Speaker 6: never bought this up.
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  Speaker 1: Do you agree?
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  Speaker 3: Could you convert another religion?
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  Speaker 11: Just no, Well, it depends on what religion it was
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  Speaker 11: and how much I had to change like to convert
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  Speaker 11: from to like to Muslim. I like bacon, and I
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  Speaker 11: don't know that I could give. That's just that's me
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  Speaker 11: being honest.
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  Speaker 3: Right, I'm just the glory of God because.
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  Speaker 10: I have to do it.
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  Speaker 11: Ye yep, you're gonna catch me slipping. I'll be in
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  Speaker 11: the back sneak and bacon and I don't want that,
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  Speaker 11: you know, a coach of pop chop, yeah, you know,
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  Speaker 11: or just depending on what it is, or you know,
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  Speaker 11: I I you know, I already have a lot of hair,
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  Speaker 11: so you know, wearing a lot of you know, the
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  Speaker 11: job and and covering up that would be a problem
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  Speaker 11: for me. I just couldn't do it. Well, depend on
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  Speaker 11: what kind, Depending on what kind un fortunately, Yeah, that
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  Speaker 11: I am aware of. I'm just saying specifically the one
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  Speaker 11: that requires that that would be problematic for me.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 11: Poor, So unless I really believed in it, I grew
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  Speaker 11: up in it. I'm not saying, yeah, I'm going to
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  Speaker 11: hang with Jesus to see what he's talking about.
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  Speaker 4: Pork and a bonnet might be too much for you.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, I have the oil the glory of God
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  Speaker 3: because I like pepperoni.
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  Speaker 11: Yeah, I want hang over here to the Hymn of
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  Speaker 11: Jesus Garden to see what happens.
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  Speaker 3: That's bacon, baby, So here's the ideo.
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  Speaker 4: So what's the problem.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, in order for us to be together This
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  Speaker 5: is what has to be done in order for you
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  Speaker 5: to meet my parents.
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  Speaker 4: This is what has to.
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  Speaker 6: Be done order me to meet your parents. Why are
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  Speaker 6: you number one? Why are you recording me? Because it
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  Speaker 6: recorded me?
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  Speaker 4: Because I'm trying to make it make sense.
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  Speaker 12: I don't.
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  Speaker 5: I don't get it. I don't understand the problem. So
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  Speaker 5: I want to get everybody's opinion.
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  Speaker 6: We've been dating six almost a year, and then you
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  Speaker 6: hit me with the only way I can meet your
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  Speaker 6: parents is I have to.
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  Speaker 9: Convert to Islam.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, that's the deal. That's something that I'm sorry. Maybe
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  Speaker 5: it's my fault. I should have talked to you about
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  Speaker 5: it a while I go, but that is.
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  Speaker 4: One of the stipulations that my family house.
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  Speaker 9: Do you know how you sound?
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  Speaker 4: Do you know how.
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  Speaker 9: Sorrow?
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  Speaker 6: Do you know how that sounds?
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  Speaker 4: No, it sounds fine. I don't understand it.
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  Speaker 9: Sounds me here.
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  Speaker 6: I am of my age and character that Hey, this
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  Speaker 6: is what you have to convert to. We've been dating
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  Speaker 6: a year. This was never told to me. You never
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  Speaker 6: bought this up.
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  Speaker 3: Do you agree? Would you give up your religion just
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  Speaker 3: to be with somebody? We're going to write to the phones.
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  Speaker 2: So I think that that is an absolute negative. I'm
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  Speaker 2: not trading Jesus for anybody. That's just the way I'm
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  Speaker 2: standing on that ten toes down. When you make a
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  Speaker 2: covenant of marriage, that covenant is three strands between you,
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  Speaker 2: your future spouse, and Jesus Christ.
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  Speaker 10: So I'm not trading them for nobody.
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  Speaker 13: Yes, my name is more worse. I'm from Ohio.
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  Speaker 9: That's not right.
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  Speaker 10: Man.
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  Speaker 13: If she really loved the guy and he loved her whatever,
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  Speaker 13: that wouldn't even been necessary. I don't think anyone gonna
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  Speaker 13: convert to another religion just to marry someone, especially when
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  Speaker 13: it happens so soon. Well, I think.
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  Speaker 14: That that's something that should have been discussed early on
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  Speaker 14: in the relationship when they were dating. If she felt
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  Speaker 14: like this is what she wanted and she needed to
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  Speaker 14: be in a long term relationship, she should have disclosed
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  Speaker 14: that to him in the beginning. And also, I think
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  Speaker 14: if you love a person, you don't love them for
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  Speaker 14: their religion.
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  Speaker 10: You love them for who they are.
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  Speaker 14: And I just don't agree with her saying that in
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  Speaker 14: order to meet his her parents she has to do this.
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  Speaker 14: Maybe she needs to fire someone her own religion, because
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  Speaker 14: I think is all religion is one we should all
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  Speaker 14: love each other and get along no matter what we believe.
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  Speaker 14: And there's only one God and that's that.
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  Speaker 10: Hey man, I just heard what the conversation was right
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  Speaker 10: when he talked to her. No, I'm not gonna change
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  Speaker 10: my religion and meet your parents, that's what she said.
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  Speaker 10: So no, we ain't gonna do her. We gonna keep
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  Speaker 10: being boyfriend and girlfriend because, like I heard somebody say earlier,
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  Speaker 10: that should have been discussed in the last I should
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  Speaker 10: have been talked about in the first two three months
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  Speaker 10: of the relationship. Now here we are almost a year
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  Speaker 10: in and I have to join your religion to meet
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  Speaker 10: your parents.
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  Speaker 7: Maybe be good.
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  Speaker 10: I don't even to meet your parents. They can come
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  Speaker 10: over mine how to meet me and change their religion
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  Speaker 10: to mine. But I'm not changing like just to meet
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  Speaker 10: your parents now. On the other on the other side
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  Speaker 10: of that coin, there was a time when I met
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  Speaker 10: a young lady. She was at Jehovah's Witness. I liked
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  Speaker 10: her so much that I was gonna go from Baptist
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  Speaker 10: to Jehovah Witness till I found out that all of
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  Speaker 10: them crazy the same. So how just left it along?
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  Speaker 10: But now I wouldn't change this to meet your parents no,
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  Speaker 10: absolutely not.
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  Speaker 3: So here's the idea.
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  Speaker 4: So what's the problem.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, in order for us to be together, this
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  Speaker 5: is what has to be done, in order for you
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  Speaker 5: to meet my parents. This is what has to.
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  Speaker 6: Be done ordered me to meet your parents. Why are
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  Speaker 6: you number one? Why are you recording me? Because he
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  Speaker 6: recorded me?
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  Speaker 5: Because I'm trying to make it make sense, don't I
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  Speaker 5: don't get it. I don't understand the problem. So I
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  Speaker 5: want to get everybody's vanion.
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  Speaker 6: We've been dating six almost a year, and then you
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  Speaker 6: hit me with the only way I can meet your
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  Speaker 6: parents is I have to convert to is law.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, that's the deal.
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  Speaker 3: Do you agree? Would you give up your religion just
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  Speaker 3: to be with somebody? We're going to write their phones?
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  Speaker 8: Well, actually I am one person who actually did that.
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  Speaker 8: I am. I was married for eighteen years.
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  Speaker 12: But prior to that, prior to being married for eighteen years,
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  Speaker 12: I had him out of a Christian He was kind
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  Speaker 12: of practicing being a Muslim, and I was more so
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  Speaker 12: more fervident within my faith.
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  Speaker 8: So I told him that I couldn't marry someone who
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  Speaker 8: was a Muslim, and he wanted to get married. So
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  Speaker 8: he actually converted over but once we were getting ready
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  Speaker 8: to get a divorce, he converted back over to being
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  Speaker 8: a Muslim. So yeah, I wouldn't even marry him without.
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  Speaker 8: You know, I'm converting over to.
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  Speaker 15: My belief because I wholeheartedly believe that you should be
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  Speaker 15: evinly OpEd and I whole hardly believe that you should
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  Speaker 15: have like kind of the same thoughts and your religion
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  Speaker 15: and your faith just so it won't be any issues
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  Speaker 15: and problems there.
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  Speaker 9: Hey, he should get his bag and keep moving. No,
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  Speaker 9: that is not a something that you can compromise on,
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  Speaker 9: especially when you were talking about religion and talking about God.
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  Speaker 9: If I believe in God, and I do, and I
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  Speaker 9: believe in the Bible and I believe everything in it,
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  Speaker 9: and I believe in Jesus Christ, I'm not going to
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  Speaker 9: compromise that. So your religion period. I mean, woman, people
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  Speaker 9: come and go in your life, and so she'd be
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  Speaker 9: one of those. But for us to compromise on what
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  Speaker 9: I believe. I tell my kids all the time, when
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  Speaker 9: you looking for a relationship, you make sure that person
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  Speaker 9: that you're dealing with has the same belief that you
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  Speaker 9: believe in nothing else, Because that's a deal breaker for me. No,
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  Speaker 9: I will power him I will keep it moving, to
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  Speaker 9: compromise on what I believe in. To meet your parents.
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  Speaker 10: You're bid?
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  Speaker 9: Yeah, now, he said, damn her, the mom and the
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  Speaker 9: whole family.
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  Speaker 13: She should have told him that from Jump Street when
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  Speaker 13: she first met him.
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  Speaker 10: I don't blame him.
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  Speaker 2: I throw her to the can't send a dog throw away.
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  Speaker 15: Tell no, I was kind of about being converted back
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  Speaker 15: over to Islam to beat the meat out tons.
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  Speaker 8: No, I couldn't do that either. It was the one
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  Speaker 8: that tried to come to me here in missis Tennessee.
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  Speaker 10: I told her about it.
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  Speaker 8: It's too hot to remember to be wrapped up with.
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  Speaker 4: She can't do it, won't do it period.
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  Speaker 2: No, Sorry, tell him, get rid of her, Get him
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  Speaker 2: another one.
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  Speaker 8: Hi, my name is not dear Rah, and I'm not
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  Speaker 8: assumed to say my name.
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  Speaker 10: I practiced o Islam.
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  Speaker 2: For many many years, and that was taught to us
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  Speaker 2: as women. But Muslim men they can have any kind
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  Speaker 2: of woman they want.
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  Speaker 10: So I considered that his Lam not is law.
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  Speaker 6: I just took my last unit exam in one of
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  Speaker 7: I'm done with going to class. That is so insane.
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  Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, it's like all hitting me now because
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna turn up. Oh my gosh, I deserve it.
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  Speaker 7: am so excited for these next stages in my life.
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  Speaker 7: There's so much to look forward to, bro, And now
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  Speaker 7: my god, I'm never gonna think about canvas or submitting
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  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 4: I can't wait to get the cap and down.
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  Speaker 11: And when it all happens, Man, when.
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  Speaker 7: I walk across the stage and really feel that.
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  Speaker 4: Deep breath, I am done. When that feeling happens. Oh,
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  Speaker 4: to it.
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