Latest / Motivational Podcast / Why Not You 4.0 – It's Your Time to Lead and Achieve the Impossible
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Let me tell you about a voice, not this voice,
- 0:05Speaker 1: but the one inside, the one that whispers. It tells
- 0:10Speaker 1: me what's right and what's not, when to leave and
- 0:14Speaker 1: where to go. It's not Shakespeare. It does not speak
- 0:19Speaker 1: in memorable lines. My inner voice always gives it to
- 0:23Speaker 1: me straight, tells me who my real friends are, when
- 0:27Speaker 1: to say yes, when to say no, whether the person
- 0:31Speaker 1: sitting next to me is the one I'll be spending
- 0:33Speaker 1: the rest of my life with.
- 0:36Speaker 2: Or not.
- 0:39Speaker 1: Sometimes that voice is crystal clear, go, stay right wrong.
- 0:46Speaker 1: Sometimes it merely whispers. Don't let it drown in a
- 0:51Speaker 1: noisy world, because in the end, no man, woman, or
- 0:55Speaker 1: hands orhithm knows what's right for you. Always trust me
- 1:00Speaker 1: your Anna voice. Everybody has one. Feel distn't do it.
- 1:09Speaker 3: When you create yourself to make it, you're going to
- 1:13Speaker 3: have to either let that creation go and take a
- 1:19Speaker 3: chance on being loved or hated for who you really are,
- 1:25Speaker 3: or you're going to have to kill who you really
- 1:27Speaker 3: are and fall into your grave grasping onto a character
- 1:34Speaker 3: that you never were.
- 1:37Speaker 4: I saw this psychic.
- 1:39Speaker 5: Palm reader sign and she gave me a reading, and
- 1:45Speaker 5: she said, you're about to do three things. Three movies
- 1:54Speaker 5: that will be very, very very big and very important,
- 2:00Speaker 5: and after that it will be impossible for anyone to
- 2:07Speaker 5: knock you down from that place.
- 2:11Speaker 4: I worked in factories.
- 2:12Speaker 5: I had a ninth grade education, and it's a series
- 2:16Speaker 5: of like crushing disappointments, and I just go into a
- 2:19Speaker 5: different gear. I go into I don't know how it's
- 2:21Speaker 5: going to right itself, but it will.
- 2:23Speaker 2: No, I don't know how.
- 2:26Speaker 6: Be the guy who embraces the ugly, the miserable. Be
- 2:34Speaker 6: the guy who embraces hard work, the grind. Don't be
- 2:38Speaker 6: afraid of being hurt, Don't be afraid of a sacrifice
- 2:41Speaker 6: of some blood.
- 2:42Speaker 7: It's the moments in life, the decisions you make on
- 2:45Speaker 7: a moment to moment basis that add up.
- 2:47Speaker 8: To be the guy or not the guy. Tonight I
- 2:51Speaker 8: did something, you know, I feel more of a guy
- 2:56Speaker 8: for me. Who I am my guy.
- 2:58Speaker 9: One hundred men that go into war. Ten shouldn't even
- 3:01Speaker 9: fucking be there. Eighty of them are just targets.
- 3:05Speaker 10: Ten do most of or nine do most of fighting.
- 3:09Speaker 8: One is a warrior.
- 3:10Speaker 10: There's so many people who just show up to life.
- 3:14Speaker 8: They shouldn't even.
- 3:14Speaker 4: Fucking be around.
- 3:16Speaker 10: And there's few people do all the work I wanted
- 3:18Speaker 10: to be part of that nine. I'm working towards.
- 3:22Speaker 4: Being that one. See that look like then I don't
- 3:26Speaker 4: ever let a man see you like that?
- 3:30Speaker 11: Did you give them the power over you?
- 3:33Speaker 12: If you got a ticket o your taking with your
- 3:35Speaker 12: head up chutt out.
- 3:38Speaker 9: Like the man, make the.
- 3:40Speaker 13: Sacrifices, make the unpopular decisions, and become comfortable in your
- 3:46Speaker 13: own skin. And if you are not a person that
- 3:50Speaker 13: you are comfortable being alone with, that is the one
- 3:54Speaker 13: person in this universe that you have full power, full right,
- 3:59Speaker 13: and full responsibility could change.
- 4:01Speaker 14: If you had to create a human, what would you
- 4:03Speaker 14: put them through to make them tough? It probably wouldn't
- 4:06Speaker 14: be a really chill life. What would you put them
- 4:09Speaker 14: through to make them patient? We probably wouldn't give them
- 4:11Speaker 14: things immediately. And so it's like we want these trades,
- 4:15Speaker 14: but each of the trades has a price tag attached
- 4:17Speaker 14: to it, and it's just like do you want to
- 4:19Speaker 14: pay the price tag to get the thing? And so
- 4:21Speaker 14: I think if people reframe the period of life that
- 4:24Speaker 14: they're going through as the price that they're paying out
- 4:26Speaker 14: of their wallet, but the wallet is their time, it's
- 4:28Speaker 14: the seconds of life that they're trading for it. Then
- 4:30Speaker 14: I think more people be willing to make the trade,
- 4:31Speaker 14: because at least when I look at myself, like when
- 4:34Speaker 14: I'm eighty something years old and I'm looking back in
- 4:35Speaker 14: my life, I want to have these traits. But in
- 4:37Speaker 14: order to have this traits, I know I have to
- 4:38Speaker 14: go through these things. And I think for me that's
- 4:40Speaker 14: given me a lot of comfort in hard times.
- 4:44Speaker 4: You're up too old. What's the story?
- 4:47Speaker 8: Are you not happy or you're only half happy.
- 4:49Speaker 1: Or still to be happy about You're up too old?
- 4:53Speaker 15: Job's not finish, job finish, I don't think so.
- 4:58Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 5:00Speaker 16: Admits that he gave Muhammad Ali everything he had, and
- 5:04Speaker 16: Muhammad Ali grabbed him and pulled into him. Old man
- 5:07Speaker 16: hadn't fought in years, hurt it, and Muhammad Ali.
- 5:10Speaker 17: Pulled into him and said, is that all you gots?
- 5:13Speaker 16: And George Foreman said, when he heard the words, said
- 5:16Speaker 16: all you got? It penetrated the spirits, They said, I
- 5:19Speaker 16: didne gave my man everything I got.
- 5:21Speaker 4: I can't see him and knock him don.
- 5:24Speaker 16: Muhammad Ali said, when he said that to him, he
- 5:26Speaker 16: looked into the pupils of his eyes and he said.
- 5:29Speaker 4: At that point he and George Thoman the Boss.
- 5:31Speaker 18: You love this game, I mean love it with your
- 5:35Speaker 18: whole heart, because if you don't, let's not even bother,
- 5:42Speaker 18: let's not open that door.
- 5:43Speaker 4: They're just gonna slam it right in our face.
- 5:46Speaker 11: I love this game.
- 5:47Speaker 12: I live this game.
- 5:50Speaker 18: And there's a thousand other guys waiting in the wings
- 5:53Speaker 18: who were obsessed with this game. Obsession is gonna be
- 5:58Speaker 18: talent every time. You got all the talent in the world.
- 6:02Speaker 4: But are you obsessed?
- 6:04Speaker 10: Is it all you ever think about?
- 6:06Speaker 4: Let's face it, it's you against you out there.
- 6:10Speaker 18: When you walk on that court, you have to think
- 6:13Speaker 18: I am the best guy out there.
- 6:15Speaker 19: Whatever you do, you've got to be a little bit
- 6:17Speaker 19: gone to it. You're not all there. You've got to
- 6:20Speaker 19: be almost insane to your craft. Not a lot of
- 6:24Speaker 19: people can understand that. That's why I don't know about
- 6:27Speaker 19: nothing else. I do not pay attention to nothing else.
- 6:29Speaker 19: There was games of football on yesterday. It was rugby.
- 6:32Speaker 19: Does this was that an like normal society is?
- 6:35Speaker 7: Like the fear is never reaching your potential.
- 6:38Speaker 8: That's it that.
- 6:39Speaker 7: Always fallen short, always quitting before you're done, always procrastinating,
- 6:44Speaker 7: always not doing the right thing. And then one day
- 6:47Speaker 7: you're an old man, yep, and you look back and go, God, I.
- 6:51Speaker 4: Could have been great.
- 6:51Speaker 20: Where do you go to you wake up on the morning,
- 6:53Speaker 20: it's cold, it's wet, it's dark, You've got no cottilage
- 6:57Speaker 20: in your knave, you've got shitty short whatever it is,
- 7:00Speaker 20: that's the issue today.
- 7:01Speaker 16: Keep talking.
- 7:02Speaker 9: I need you to keep talking about what you were
- 7:04Speaker 9: just saying.
- 7:05Speaker 20: It's warm on the couch, your missus say staying, but
- 7:08Speaker 20: it's comfy.
- 7:08Speaker 2: It's cozy.
- 7:10Speaker 20: You've got work later on. You had an argument last night,
- 7:12Speaker 20: you're slightly hungover.
- 7:13Speaker 9: I know every motherfucker ain't gonna do what I'm gonna do.
- 7:17Speaker 11: And my personal question to you is why not you.
- 7:22Speaker 11: You've got the brains.
- 7:24Speaker 21: You can make decisions, you can study the plan. You
- 7:29Speaker 21: can change your life. You can grow immensely in the
- 7:32Speaker 21: next few years. You can make your dreams come true.
- 7:36Speaker 21: You can build a financial wall around your family nothing
- 7:38Speaker 21: can get through. You can become healthy, you can become powerful.
- 7:43Speaker 11: Why not you?
- 7:45Speaker 2: People don't see that, and people would never understand that
- 7:48Speaker 2: to be success, you know, all they think about, well,
- 7:51Speaker 2: you bet at two o two, you know, and you
- 7:54Speaker 2: struck out a certain number of times. Yeah, okay, you know,
- 7:57Speaker 2: but the effort was there, and learning curve and the
- 8:01Speaker 2: passion is there. That has transcended not just to me,
- 8:08Speaker 2: but to other people who are afraid to do things
- 8:11Speaker 2: because they're worried about the deception that may come from
- 8:14Speaker 2: other places. To me, that's more gratifying than anything, you know.
- 8:20Speaker 2: So that's the things that my father and my mother
- 8:22Speaker 2: instilled in me. Take a negative and turn into a positive,
- 8:25Speaker 2: don't be afraid to fail.
- 8:27Speaker 22: It's time to stay focused. It's time to decide. Fuck
- 8:31Speaker 22: clubs and fuck partying. Fuck trying to fit in and socialize.
- 8:37Speaker 22: Rub elbows with everybody so people can stop calling you weird.
- 8:41Speaker 4: Why are you so antisocial because I'm trying to get it?
- 8:45Speaker 22: Why are you staying on the basketball court so much
- 8:49Speaker 22: because I'm trying to get it? Why are you out
- 8:51Speaker 22: there practicing in the hot sun when ain't nobody else
- 8:54Speaker 22: out there because I'm trying to get it?
- 8:56Speaker 4: Why are you not clubbing?
- 8:57Speaker 22: Like every time I text you and invite you to
- 8:59Speaker 22: go do something fun and cool, you always studying because
- 9:03Speaker 22: I'm trying to get it. Let me tell you something, homey,
- 9:07Speaker 22: these women ain't going nowhere, these clubs, these parties. All
- 9:11Speaker 22: this shit ain't going nowhere. The more weird you are.
- 9:17Speaker 4: Is a reflection of how.
- 9:18Speaker 22: Committed you are to focusing on your shit, molding and
- 9:23Speaker 22: shaping and developing your ideas and your craft so that
- 9:26Speaker 22: when it's time for you to make your rounds, you
- 9:29Speaker 22: gonna fly.
- 9:30Speaker 23: Take yourself out your comfort zone. Do not live in
- 9:34Speaker 23: your bubble. Put some more air in your bubble. If
- 9:37Speaker 23: you stay in your comfort zone, that's why you will fail.
- 9:41Speaker 23: You will fail in your comfort zone. Success is not
- 9:44Speaker 23: a comfortable procedure. It is a very uncomfortable thing to
- 9:49Speaker 23: it till so you gotta get comfortable being uncomfortable if you.
- 9:53Speaker 8: Ever want to be successful that you want to do
- 9:56Speaker 8: with life.
- 9:57Speaker 24: I'm sure people have told you to make sure you
- 9:59Speaker 24: have some to fall back on, make sure you got
- 10:02Speaker 24: something to fall back on.
- 10:03Speaker 25: Honey, But I never understood that concept having something to
- 10:08Speaker 25: fall back on. If I'm going to fall I don't
- 10:13Speaker 25: want to fall back on anything.
- 10:15Speaker 11: I want to fall forward.
- 10:18Speaker 8: I figure, at least this way i'll see what I'm
- 10:20Speaker 8: going to hit.
- 10:21Speaker 26: What if we have that kind of attitude of the
- 10:23Speaker 26: cars repossessed, nobody believes in you. You've lost again and
- 10:27Speaker 26: again and again. The lights are cut off, but you're
- 10:29Speaker 26: still looking at your dream, reviewing it every day and
- 10:33Speaker 26: say to yourself, it's not over until I win.
- 10:39Speaker 9: People want to know where I find my strength, at
- 10:41Speaker 9: where I get my strength. I get it from a
- 10:42Speaker 9: lot of places, but right now, this morning, I'm getting
- 10:45Speaker 9: it from.
- 10:46Speaker 1: There's not a.
- 10:47Speaker 4: Motherfucker that's up.
- 10:48Speaker 9: There's not a car, there's not a person.
- 10:51Speaker 10: Everybody's in their bed sleep dreading that.
- 10:53Speaker 9: It's a Monday, hate It's a Monday.
- 10:55Speaker 4: And I'm loving it.
- 10:57Speaker 9: I'm loving that where everybody's getting weaker, I'm getting It's
- 11:01Speaker 9: not about to running to swim and to push up
- 11:03Speaker 9: to sit ups.
- 11:04Speaker 10: It's about what those things do for your mentality.
- 11:07Speaker 9: You don't get better on the dag on couch. You
- 11:10Speaker 9: get better by coming out here and getting the fuck
- 11:12Speaker 9: after every dagone day.
- 11:15Speaker 27: The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very
- 11:19Speaker 27: mean and nasty place, and I don't care how tough
- 11:21Speaker 27: you are. It will beat you to your knees and
- 11:24Speaker 27: keep you there permanently if you let it. You me
- 11:27Speaker 27: or nobody who's gonna hit as hard as life. But
- 11:30Speaker 27: it ain't about how hard you hit it's about how
- 11:33Speaker 27: hard you cant get hit, they keep moving forward. How
- 11:36Speaker 27: much you can take, they keep moving forward.
- 11:39Speaker 4: That's how win it has done.
- 11:42Speaker 27: Now, if you know what's you're worth, go out and
- 11:44Speaker 27: tell what's you're worth.
- 11:45Speaker 28: But you gotta be willing to take their heads and not.
- 11:48Speaker 27: Pointing fingers saying you ain't where you want to be
- 11:50Speaker 27: because of him or her or anybody.
- 11:53Speaker 4: Cowers do that, and that ain't you.
- 11:55Speaker 27: You're better than that.
- 11:57Speaker 8: If you don't fail, you're not even trying.
- 12:03Speaker 24: I'll say it again. If you don't fail, you're not
- 12:06Speaker 24: even trying. My wife told me this great expression. To
- 12:09Speaker 24: get something you never had, you have to do something
- 12:12Speaker 24: you never did. Left Brown's a motivational speaker. You made
- 12:16Speaker 24: an analogy about this, he says. Imagine you're on your deathbed,
- 12:20Speaker 24: and standing around your deathbed are the ghosts representing your
- 12:24Speaker 24: unfulfilled potential, the ghost of the ideas you never acted on,
- 12:29Speaker 24: the ghost of the talents you didn't use. And they're
- 12:32Speaker 24: standing around your bed, angry, disappointed, and upset.
- 12:37Speaker 8: They say, we came to you because you could have
- 12:40Speaker 8: brought us to.
- 12:41Speaker 24: Life, they say, and now we have to go to
- 12:43Speaker 24: the grave together. So I ask you today.
- 12:48Speaker 8: How many ghosts are going to be around your bed
- 12:50Speaker 8: when your time comes.
- 12:52Speaker 28: I'm gonna have setbacks.
- 12:54Speaker 16: I know, all right.
- 12:56Speaker 28: If I'm feeling bad, that doesn't mean I'm doing bad.
- 12:59Speaker 28: That doesn't mean I am bad. That doesn't mean that
- 13:01Speaker 28: I can't still take some action because yeah, nothing changes
- 13:07Speaker 28: and nothing changes man.
- 13:09Speaker 11: And my personal question to you is why not you?
- 13:15Speaker 29: Your biggest enemy is you. My whole book is about you,
- 13:19Speaker 29: battling yourself. People don't understand as you against you. The
- 13:24Speaker 29: only person that gets in your way is you. Nobody else.
- 13:27Speaker 19: It's you.
- 13:29Speaker 12: You cannot change your life unless you change something. If
- 13:34Speaker 12: you always do what you always did, you'll always get
- 13:37Speaker 12: what you always got.
- 13:38Speaker 20: It's more socially acceptable to be our own biggest critic
- 13:41Speaker 20: than it is to be our own biggest cheerleader.
- 13:44Speaker 4: Listen to the pain. It's both history teacher watune. Telling
- 13:49Speaker 4: pain teaches.
- 13:50Speaker 9: Us who we are.
- 13:51Speaker 4: We sometimes it's.
- 13:53Speaker 8: So bad and we feel like we're dying, but we
- 13:57Speaker 8: can't really live till we die with him.
- 14:01Speaker 11: You've got the brains.
- 14:03Speaker 21: You can make decisions, you can study the plan, you
- 14:08Speaker 21: can change your life. You can grow immensely in the
- 14:11Speaker 21: next few years. You can make your dreams come true.
- 14:15Speaker 21: You can build a financial wall around your family nothing
- 14:17Speaker 21: can get through.
- 14:19Speaker 11: You can become healthy, you can become powerful. Why not
- 14:22Speaker 11: you it.
- 14:23Speaker 4: Feels scary to jump in.
- 14:26Speaker 15: That is exactly when you jump, Otherwise you end up
- 14:30Speaker 15: staying in the same place your whole life.
- 14:32Speaker 30: And then I can do You're always afraid detect the
- 14:35Speaker 30: first step, because all you see is every negative thing.
- 14:38Speaker 4: Ten miles down the road, you are bound by nothing.
- 14:42Speaker 30: Rice sun goes downe there is up.
- 14:44Speaker 8: There is a down.
- 14:45Speaker 30: Since we are born, we have inhaled fifty percent of
- 14:49Speaker 30: our times. We have exhaled fifty percent of our times.
- 14:53Speaker 30: Our heart the same, sucking the blood, pumping the blood
- 14:56Speaker 30: also the same, always.
- 14:58Speaker 4: Fifty to fifty.
- 15:00Speaker 30: The exchange between left and right, up and down, bright
- 15:05Speaker 30: and dark, in and out, success and failure. This world
- 15:10Speaker 30: is not propagating failure to you. It is propagating success
- 15:14Speaker 30: to you. So our mind is looking for success, starting
- 15:18Speaker 30: to believe. There's only one way, there's only one direction
- 15:22Speaker 30: in this life that we live.
- 15:25Speaker 14: All are you watching here?
- 15:26Speaker 8: Come close to the screen and listen.
- 15:30Speaker 19: People don't have to like you, people don't have to
- 15:34Speaker 19: love you.
- 15:35Speaker 8: They don't even have to respect. When you look in
- 15:40Speaker 8: the mirror, you better love with you see.
- 15:43Speaker 18: You better love what you see.
- 15:46Speaker 26: Thank you to the credits.
- 15:50Speaker 9: Sometimes I have to really hide. Jack your fucking mind.
- 15:53Speaker 9: When that happens to you, you are fucked up. Your goals,
- 15:56Speaker 9: you're ambitions, everything is out the fucking window. All go
- 16:00Speaker 9: through different things. Sometimes your girlfriend, your boyfriend breaks up
- 16:03Speaker 9: with you. Guess what, Get the fuck over it. It
- 16:05Speaker 9: no longer wants you. Maybe you fell a test in school.
- 16:08Speaker 9: You work your ass off. Guess what you fill out
- 16:10Speaker 9: the fucking test. Get over it, move past it.
- 16:13Speaker 8: Learn to not let life hijack your brain. At work.
- 16:16Speaker 9: You can work in your ass off of that new
- 16:18Speaker 9: promotion you don't fucking get. If someone else does, maybe
- 16:20Speaker 9: it gets better ask.
- 16:21Speaker 17: Than you do.
- 16:22Speaker 4: Guess what.
- 16:23Speaker 1: Get over it.
- 16:24Speaker 8: Life will hijack your mind if you let it.
- 16:27Speaker 4: Don't allow all.
- 16:27Speaker 9: These things to make you a lesser person.
- 16:30Speaker 11: You must own your mind.
- 16:32Speaker 8: Don't let life own yours.
- 16:34Speaker 31: I don't think that we should be doing it, and
- 16:36Speaker 31: I've thought about it a lot, and this is what's
- 16:38Speaker 31: gonna happen. Okay, I'm gonna keep presuming what I'm pursuing
- 16:42Speaker 31: and because I'm doing that, it's gonna take a more
- 16:44Speaker 31: and more of my.
- 16:44Speaker 4: Time and I'm not gonna be able to spend as
- 16:46Speaker 4: much time to do that. And even when I do
- 16:47Speaker 4: spend time with you, I'm gonna be thinking about trumpeting.
- 16:49Speaker 4: I'm gonna think about jazzmink at my charts and all that.
- 16:52Speaker 31: And because of that, you're gonna start to present me
- 16:54Speaker 31: and you're gonna tell me to ease up on the
- 16:56Speaker 31: trumping and spend more time with you because you're not
- 16:57Speaker 31: feeling for and I'm not gonna be able to do that.
- 17:00Speaker 31: And really, I'm just going to start to present you
- 17:01Speaker 31: for even asking me to stop trumping, and we're just
- 17:04Speaker 31: gonna start to hate each other and it's gonna get
- 17:06Speaker 31: very it's gonna be ugly. And so for those reasons,
- 17:09Speaker 31: i'd rather.
- 17:09Speaker 32: Just, you know, break it off clear that I was
- 17:12Speaker 32: gonna work that hard every single day so that when
- 17:15Speaker 32: I do retire, I have no regrets. And that was
- 17:18Speaker 32: the most important thing for me to say, move with
- 17:20Speaker 32: no stone unturned, get better every single day.
- 17:24Speaker 15: And if I live that way, then over time, you know,
- 17:28Speaker 15: i'd have something that was beautiful. That was my philosophy.
- 17:31Speaker 32: It seems like a.
- 17:31Speaker 15: Pretty simple one. But if you live your life to
- 17:35Speaker 15: just get better every single day, do that for twenty years.
- 17:38Speaker 4: Man, what do you have?
- 17:41Speaker 17: So if you're sitting down with me, I'm somebody you
- 17:43Speaker 17: really want, you really want me on the team.
- 17:45Speaker 33: What's your approach to recruiting? If you want first place,
- 17:47Speaker 33: come play with me. You want a second place, go
- 17:49Speaker 33: somewhere else. The challenge like I would watch Magic play,
- 17:52Speaker 33: I'd watch Michael play, and i would see them do
- 17:55Speaker 33: these unbelievable things, and I'd say, you know, can I
- 17:58Speaker 33: get to that level?
- 18:00Speaker 15: I don't know, but let's find out.
- 18:03Speaker 4: Let's find out.
- 18:04Speaker 33: Everything was done to try to learn how to become
- 18:07Speaker 33: a better basketball.
- 18:08Speaker 2: Player, every everything.
- 18:10Speaker 33: And so when you have that point of view, that
- 18:12Speaker 33: literally the world becomes your library to help you to
- 18:16Speaker 33: become better at your craft.
- 18:18Speaker 17: The world becomes your library to help you improve your
- 18:21Speaker 17: craft better craft ess. Indeed, so because you know what
- 18:25Speaker 17: she wanted the world to giving you executive information, one
- 18:27Speaker 17: hundred better out because you know what you're looking for.
- 18:30Speaker 33: It was an everyday process and trying to figure out
- 18:33Speaker 33: strengths and weaknesses. For example, jumping ability. Now, my vertical
- 18:37Speaker 33: was a forty wasn't a forty six or forty five.
- 18:41Speaker 33: My hands are big, but they're not massive, right, so
- 18:44Speaker 33: you got to figure out ways to strengthen though, so
- 18:46Speaker 33: your hands are strong enough to be able to pom
- 18:48Speaker 33: the ball and do the things that you need to do.
- 18:50Speaker 4: Quickness. I was quick, but not insanely quick. I was fast,
- 18:54Speaker 4: but not ridiculously fast, right, so I had to rely
- 18:59Speaker 4: on skill.
- 19:01Speaker 33: I had to rely on angles a lot more, had
- 19:02Speaker 33: to study the game a lot more, and but I
- 19:06Speaker 33: enjoyed it though, so like from the time I was
- 19:08Speaker 33: I can't remember when I started watching the games.
- 19:11Speaker 17: I studied the game and it just never changed.
- 19:14Speaker 34: I want to thank them, and I want to think
- 19:16Speaker 34: what they taught me, which is that you have to
- 19:17Speaker 34: work harder than you then you think you possibly can
- 19:20Speaker 34: can't hold grudges. It's hard. She can't hold grudges. And
- 19:27Speaker 34: it doesn't matter how you get knocked down in life,
- 19:30Speaker 34: because that's gonna happen. All that matters is that you
- 19:34Speaker 34: gotta get up. Violet, Sam and Sarah, I love.
- 19:36Speaker 2: You, Sea Mouse.
- 19:42Speaker 4: There is one thing I learned while I was locked up.
- 19:46Speaker 22: When you down bed, you really find out who in
- 19:48Speaker 22: your corner see everybody talk that lowy you shit.
- 19:53Speaker 4: When it's trying to be loyal. Heybody, this a.
- 19:56Speaker 35: Big didn't have the luxury of knowing what it was.
- 20:00Speaker 35: But I knew I had something. And let me tell
- 20:03Speaker 35: you this.
- 20:05Speaker 8: If you've made it through addiction or.
- 20:07Speaker 35: Mental illness, you have something, because a lot of people don't.
- 20:13Speaker 35: If you are still kicking today, battling those demons, you
- 20:17Speaker 35: have something because a lot of people didn't wake up
- 20:20Speaker 35: today because they couldn't make it, they couldn't cut it,
- 20:22Speaker 35: and you fuck it did.
- 20:24Speaker 8: I don't know what that dream is that you have.
- 20:27Speaker 36: I don't care how disappointing it might have been.
- 20:30Speaker 26: As you've been working toward that dream, that that dream
- 20:34Speaker 26: that you're holding in your mind, that it's possible that
- 20:39Speaker 26: some of you already know that it's hard, it's not easy,
- 20:45Speaker 26: it's hard changing your life. That in the process of
- 20:49Speaker 26: working on your dreams, you are going to incur a
- 20:54Speaker 26: lot of disappointment, a lot of failure, a lot of pain.
- 21:00Speaker 36: There are moments when you're going to doubt yourself. I say, God, by,
- 21:03Speaker 36: why is this happening to me? I'm just trying to
- 21:06Speaker 36: take care of my children and my mother I'm not
- 21:09Speaker 36: trying to steal a rod from anybody. Why did this
- 21:12Speaker 36: have to happen to me?
- 21:15Speaker 8: For those of you that have experienced some hardships, don't
- 21:19Speaker 8: give up on your dream.
- 21:22Speaker 26: They are rough time for going to come, but they
- 21:24Speaker 26: have not come to stay.
- 21:25Speaker 11: They have come to pass. It's very important for you.
- 21:29Speaker 34: To know that bother when your dreams is a lonely, solitary, scary,
- 21:35Speaker 34: dangerous pursuit.
- 21:37Speaker 4: You can't wait for somebody to think you can do it.
- 21:41Speaker 32: All my young kings and queens that are chasing their dreams,
- 21:44Speaker 32: I'm no different from you.
- 21:46Speaker 11: I'm just a guy.
- 21:47Speaker 4: I sweat to God do you can do anything that
- 21:50Speaker 4: you put your mind to. I say, chase your dreams.
- 21:53Speaker 23: Man. Do that thing, man that keeps you up at night,
- 21:57Speaker 23: that thing that bothers you, man that makes you you
- 22:00Speaker 23: can't quit thinking about it. You wake up in the
- 22:02Speaker 23: middle of the night, you got a new idea. Ask
- 22:05Speaker 23: what you got to chase because anything else it's gonna
- 22:09Speaker 23: disappoint you. You're gonna forever be said man. If you
- 22:12Speaker 23: don't chase that dream, it's gonna forever be miserable.
- 22:16Speaker 17: Man.
- 22:17Speaker 26: What if we have that kind of attitude the cause, repossessed,
- 22:20Speaker 26: nobody believes in you.
- 22:22Speaker 8: You've lost to get it again and again.
- 22:24Speaker 26: The lights are cut off, but you're still looking at
- 22:26Speaker 26: your dream, reviewing it every day and say to yourself,
- 22:29Speaker 26: it's not over until I win.
- 22:35Speaker 27: Is I hope you chase those dreams with a burning
- 22:37Speaker 27: desire through all the pain, the hope that you find
- 22:41Speaker 27: happiness deep in your heart.
- 22:43Speaker 33: Those times when you get up early and you work hard,
- 22:46Speaker 33: those times when you stay up late and you work hard,
- 22:49Speaker 33: those times when you don't feel like working, you're too tired,
- 22:51Speaker 33: you don't want to push yourself, but you do it anyway.
- 22:55Speaker 11: That is actually the dream. That's the dream.
- 22:58Speaker 4: Don't ever let somebody tell you you can't do something,
- 23:04Speaker 4: not even me. You got a dream. You got to
- 23:10Speaker 4: protect it. People can't do something themselves.
- 23:14Speaker 2: They want to tell you you can't do it.
- 23:16Speaker 8: You want something, go get it period.
- 23:20Speaker 4: I should have this over your brother. I'm stopping this
- 23:22Speaker 4: one now, don't okay, let me finish. I got to
- 23:26Speaker 4: prove it, prove what I'm not a mistake.
- 23:33Speaker 11: And my personal question to you is why not you.
- 23:38Speaker 21: You've got the brains, you can make decisions, you can study.
- 23:43Speaker 11: The plan, you can change your life. You can grow
- 23:47Speaker 11: immensely in the next few years. You can make your
- 23:50Speaker 11: dreams come true.
- 23:52Speaker 21: You can build a financial wall around your family nothing
- 23:54Speaker 21: can get through. You can become healthy, you can become powerful.
- 23:58Speaker 11: Why not you?
- 24:00Speaker 19: Whatever you do, you've gotta be a little bit gone
- 24:03Speaker 19: to it, and I'm all there. You've got to be
- 24:06Speaker 19: almost insane to your craft.
- 24:08Speaker 4: A lot a lot of people can understand that it's
- 24:12Speaker 4: time to stay focused. It's time to decide.
- 24:15Speaker 22: Fuck clubs, fuck partying, Fuck trying to fit in and socialize.
- 24:21Speaker 22: Rub elbows with everybody so people can stop calling you weird.
- 24:25Speaker 22: Why are you so antisocial because I'm trying to get it?
- 24:30Speaker 22: Why are you staying on the basketball court so much
- 24:33Speaker 22: because I'm trying to get it? Why are you out
- 24:35Speaker 22: there practicing in the hot sun when ain't nobody else
- 24:38Speaker 22: out there because I'm trying to get it?
- 24:40Speaker 4: Why are you not clubbing? Like every time I text
- 24:43Speaker 4: you and invite you.
- 24:44Speaker 22: To go do something fun and cool, you always study
- 24:47Speaker 22: it because I'm trying to get it.
- 24:50Speaker 11: My journey started on a boat.
- 24:52Speaker 37: I've spent a year in a refugee camera and somehow
- 24:57Speaker 37: I ended up here. They say voys like this only
- 25:01Speaker 37: happened in the movies. Mom, I just wanted an oscar.
- 25:08Speaker 38: Remember your dream. All of us have things that we're
- 25:11Speaker 38: believing for, something that we want to accomplish. Deep down
- 25:16Speaker 38: we know it's a part of our destiny.
- 25:18Speaker 8: We can feel it so strongly. But then we hit
- 25:21Speaker 8: some setbacks.
- 25:22Speaker 38: We didn't get the promotion, the medical report wasn't good,
- 25:26Speaker 38: or a relationship didn't work out. Life has a way
- 25:30Speaker 38: of pushing our dreams down. They can become buried under discouragement,
- 25:36Speaker 38: buried under past mistakes.
- 25:38Speaker 29: Your biggest enemy is you. My whole book is about you,
- 25:43Speaker 29: battling yourself. People don't understand as you, against you. The
- 25:47Speaker 29: only person that gets in your way is you, nobody
- 25:50Speaker 29: else as you.
- 25:52Speaker 12: You cannot change your life unless you change something. If
- 25:57Speaker 12: you always do what you always did, always get what
- 26:01Speaker 12: you always got.
- 26:02Speaker 7: And the fear is never reaching your potential. That's it
- 26:05Speaker 7: that always fallen short, always quitting before you're done, always procrastinating,
- 26:10Speaker 7: always not doing the right thing. And then one day
- 26:14Speaker 7: you're an old man, yep, and you look back and go, God,
- 26:17Speaker 7: I could have been great.
- 26:18Speaker 19: Yep, it could have been great.
- 26:20Speaker 23: Take yourself out your comfort zone, do not live in
- 26:23Speaker 23: your bubble. If you stay in your comfort zone, that's
- 26:26Speaker 23: why you will fail.
- 26:27Speaker 7: The unfulfilled potential is the story in most people's lives.
- 26:31Speaker 10: It is, it is, and it could have been the
- 26:34Speaker 10: story of mind. And I tell a lot of people,
- 26:36Speaker 10: people go, what's your biggest fear in life? And my
- 26:40Speaker 10: biggest fear, honestly was Let's say this. Let's say I
- 26:44Speaker 10: don't care if you believe in God or not.
- 26:46Speaker 4: I don't care.
- 26:46Speaker 10: So this this is play game with me. Let's say
- 26:48Speaker 10: let's say you're God. And we have a big fucking
- 26:51Speaker 10: long line of people. And I made the heaven seventy
- 26:54Speaker 10: five years old, them three hundred pounds. I made the heaven.
- 26:56Speaker 10: I worked for equal ab my entire life, praying for cockroaches,
- 26:59Speaker 10: That's what I did. But I'm dead. I'm in heaven now,
- 27:02Speaker 10: and you are at you're judging us all now. So
- 27:06Speaker 10: we're in line. We're all sitting there in lying. You
- 27:09Speaker 10: have Adam Brown.
- 27:11Speaker 17: He has a big board up and.
- 27:13Speaker 10: You're talking to Adam Brown about his life and you
- 27:16Speaker 10: rip it down. And I'm next to line, David Goggins,
- 27:19Speaker 10: I see my name, I see all this shit in
- 27:21Speaker 10: God goes Hey, you say.
- 27:23Speaker 4: Read this man.
- 27:24Speaker 10: Now I'm reading this lesson, I'm seeing one hundred.
- 27:27Speaker 9: And eighty two pounds.
- 27:29Speaker 10: Davy Seal, Range of School, motivational speaker, changing lives. Okay, man,
- 27:36Speaker 10: pull up.
- 27:37Speaker 4: Record all this shit.
- 27:39Speaker 10: I'm like, that's not me, man, and God looks at
- 27:42Speaker 10: me and says, that's who you were supposed to be.
- 27:45Speaker 28: I'm gonna have setbacks, I know. But if I'm feeling bad,
- 27:49Speaker 28: that doesn't mean I'm doing bad. That doesn't mean I
- 27:51Speaker 28: am bad. That doesn't mean that I can't still take
- 27:54Speaker 28: some action, because yeah, nothing changes and nothing changes, man,
- 27:58Speaker 28: And if.
- 27:58Speaker 19: You can see it here and you have the courage
- 28:01Speaker 19: enough to speak it, it will happen.
- 28:04Speaker 2: Everybody thinks they're a loser.
- 28:06Speaker 7: Every young person thinks they're a loser, at least a
- 28:08Speaker 7: young person in the situation I was at like, I
- 28:11Speaker 7: didn't know I wasn't a loser until I started winning, until.
- 28:14Speaker 33: I started doing martial arts.
- 28:15Speaker 7: Martial arts taught me that like I could get better
- 28:18Speaker 7: at stuff, that I wasn't really a loser.
- 28:23Speaker 8: You will fail at some point in your life.
- 28:25Speaker 24: Accepted you will lose, you will embarrass yourself, you will
- 28:29Speaker 24: suck at something you.
- 28:31Speaker 28: Can't wait for everything to be perfect to start living
- 28:36Speaker 28: your life, because I bet that's what I've done. My
- 28:40Speaker 28: whole life has been like that inside of me. It
- 28:42Speaker 28: has been as soon as it's all lined up, I'm
- 28:45Speaker 28: gonna show you myself. As soon as I've got it
- 28:49Speaker 28: all looking the way I want, I'm gonna show up
- 28:53Speaker 28: for you. I'm never gonna get to that where everything's okay,
- 28:57Speaker 28: where everything looks a certain way. And in the meantime,
- 29:00Speaker 28: I'm burning the best time I do have available. I'm
- 29:04Speaker 28: burning that candle up, I'm burning this candle down, and
- 29:08Speaker 28: I'm saying, as soon as it gets bright enough, are
- 29:12Speaker 28: warm enough in here, I'm gonna show up.
- 29:14Speaker 4: But the candle's getting smaller.
- 29:16Speaker 20: It's more socially acceptable to be our own biggest critic
- 29:19Speaker 20: than it is to be our own biggest cheerleader.
- 29:22Speaker 14: When I wake up every day, there's only one voice
- 29:24Speaker 14: I have to listen to. It doesn't matter whether I
- 29:26Speaker 14: achieve all of my goals or I don't achieve all
- 29:28Speaker 14: of the goals. In three generations, I'll be forgotten and
- 29:31Speaker 14: the only people who were nacaying against me will also
- 29:34Speaker 14: be dead.
- 29:35Speaker 2: And so then it's like, just do it for me.
- 29:38Speaker 20: There's a quote that I've fallen in love with. The
- 29:41Speaker 20: magic you're looking for is in the work you're avoiding. Fucked,
- 29:46Speaker 20: the magic you're looking for is in the work you're avoiding.
- 29:48Speaker 11: Then you had that third failure in a row.
- 29:52Speaker 2: Did you think I need to pack this in ever?
- 29:57Speaker 9: Why not?
- 29:58Speaker 10: I don't ever give about I mean, i'd.
- 30:01Speaker 4: Have to be dead or clearly in fascinated.
- 30:05Speaker 7: And the fear is never reaching your potential. That's it
- 30:07Speaker 7: that always fallen short, always quitting before you're done, always procrastinating,
- 30:13Speaker 7: always not doing the right thing. And then one day
- 30:16Speaker 7: you're an old man, yep, and you look.
- 30:18Speaker 19: Back and go, God, I could have been great.
- 30:20Speaker 1: Yep, it could have been great.
- 30:22Speaker 23: Take yourself out your comfort zone. Do not live in
- 30:25Speaker 23: your bubble. If you stay in your comfort zone, that's
- 30:29Speaker 23: why you will fail.
- 30:30Speaker 7: The unfulfilled potential is the story of most people's lives.
- 30:34Speaker 10: It is, it is, and it could have been the
- 30:36Speaker 10: story of mine. And I tell a lot of people,
- 30:39Speaker 10: people go, what's your biggest.
- 30:40Speaker 1: Fear in life?
- 30:42Speaker 10: And my biggest fear, honestly was, let's say this. Let's
- 30:46Speaker 10: say I don't care if you believe in God or not.
- 30:48Speaker 4: I don't care.
- 30:49Speaker 10: So this this is play game with me. Let's say,
- 30:50Speaker 10: let's say you're God and we have a big fucking
- 30:54Speaker 10: long line of people. And I made the heaven seventy
- 30:56Speaker 10: five years old, them three hundred pounds. I made the heaven.
- 30:58Speaker 10: I worked for Equal lab my entire life, spraying for cockroaches.
- 31:02Speaker 4: That's right there.
- 31:03Speaker 10: But I'm dead. I'm in heaven now, and you are
- 31:06Speaker 10: at You're judging us all now.
- 31:08Speaker 11: So we're in line.
- 31:09Speaker 9: We're all sitting there in lying. You have Adam Brown.
- 31:14Speaker 9: He has a big board up and you're talking to
- 31:16Speaker 9: Adam Brown about.
- 31:17Speaker 4: His life and you rip it down.
- 31:19Speaker 10: And I'm next in line, David Gottins. I see my name.
- 31:22Speaker 4: I see all this shit in God.
- 31:24Speaker 10: Goes hey, you say, read this man, Now, I'm reading
- 31:27Speaker 10: this list and I'm seeing one hundred and eighty two
- 31:30Speaker 10: pounds Avy CeAl and your school motivational speaker changing lives. Okay, man,
- 31:39Speaker 10: pull up record all this shit and I'm like, that's
- 31:42Speaker 10: not me, man, And God looks at me and says,
- 31:45Speaker 10: that's who you were supposed to be.
- 31:48Speaker 39: So I want to ask you, can you admit something
- 31:54Speaker 39: in your life that you don't feel like you deserve
- 32:01Speaker 39: or have earned. Can you admit a.
- 32:06Speaker 40: Goal or a dream that you want to chase, but
- 32:09Speaker 40: if you're feeling like, nah, I can't fly that high,
- 32:12Speaker 40: I'm not a quit I don't know, I don't really
- 32:15Speaker 40: have the ability.
- 32:16Speaker 8: I'm not qualified.
- 32:18Speaker 40: Can you admit something of your life that guilt is
- 32:23Speaker 40: keeping you from getting. Can you admit something that you
- 32:31Speaker 40: don't want to start, continue.
- 32:34Speaker 11: Or finish.
- 32:37Speaker 19: Because you're afraid to.
- 32:43Speaker 8: Say it aloud to yourself? Write it down, confess.
- 32:53Speaker 19: You know what a loser is.
- 32:56Speaker 4: A real loser is somebody that's so afraid of not winning.
- 33:00Speaker 4: Don't even try.
- 33:02Speaker 26: If you have an idea that you genuinely think is
- 33:07Speaker 26: really don't let some idiot talk you around me.
- 33:15Speaker 4: If you think the price of winning is too high,
- 33:21Speaker 4: wait till you get the bill from regret. And that
- 33:24Speaker 4: bill from regret is generational.
- 33:27Speaker 23: Why would you not go for it? Why would you
- 33:31Speaker 23: not take a chairs? At one point in time, you
- 33:35Speaker 23: got to take a chairs on you.
- 33:38Speaker 24: To get something you never had. You have to do
- 33:41Speaker 24: something you never did. Less Brown's a motivational speaker. You
- 33:45Speaker 24: made an analogy about this, he says, Imagine you're on
- 33:48Speaker 24: your debtbed and standing around your deathbed are the ghosts
- 33:52Speaker 24: representing your unfulfilled potential, the ghost of the ideas you
- 33:57Speaker 24: never acted on, the ghost of the talents you didn't use.
- 34:00Speaker 24: And they're standing around your bed, angry, disappointed, and upset.
- 34:06Speaker 24: They say, we came to you because you could have
- 34:09Speaker 24: brought us to life, they say.
- 34:12Speaker 8: And now we have to go to the grave together.
- 34:14Speaker 8: So I ask you today how many ghosts are going
- 34:18Speaker 8: to be around your bed when your time comes.